1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 2 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 2: So eight five, five, five, nine one one three five. 3 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 2: I met someone recently, twenty five year old female. I 4 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: hope she doesn't mind that I'm talking about this, but 5 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: I don't think it was a private conversation. But she 6 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: is seeing a man, okay, and they're thinking about moving 7 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 2: in together. It turns out, though, that twenty six to 8 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: twenty five year old female's mom doesn't would not be 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: okay with them moving in together, because apparently twenty five 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: year old female's mom thinks that maybe she's never done 11 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: anything with anybody under any circumstances, and that if they 12 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: were to move in together, it would only be under 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: the terms of an engagement, and I guess even then, 14 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: the expectation would be that they would live in two 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 2: separate bedrooms until they were married. And twenty five year 16 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 2: old female is saying, yo, mom, there's a lot about 17 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: my life that mom doesn't know, and I'm I'm probably 18 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: gonna do it anyway, And I don't know if the 19 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: resolution is to lie about it or just say, hey, mom, 20 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: this is what I'm doing with my life and I'm 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: sorry if you don't agree with that. You know, from 22 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: I guess a moral standpoint, or whatever. But it got 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 2: me thinking, what have you done in your life that 24 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 2: you either had to lie to your parents about or 25 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: that you just sort of defide them on. 26 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: Oh my god, let me count the right. 27 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 2: I mean fundamentally eight five, five, one one three five. 28 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: Have you ever fundamentally lied like like something like this 29 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 2: where it's like, uh, okay, we'll move in together in 30 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 2: separate bedrooms, or we're not going to move in together 31 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: at all, and then you move in together anyway and 32 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 2: you have to lie about it. 33 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a big lie. 34 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: That is, if you're living with a man or living 35 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: with a woman and you're telling your parents that you're not, that's. 36 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: A big lie that is. 37 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 2: Or do you just stand up to your parents and say, 38 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 2: I'm a grown up and I'm gonna do it my 39 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: way because I'm doing well, because I'm I'm growlering. You 40 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: don't get to tell me how to live my life anymore. 41 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 4: Facts. 42 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I mean, but at what point do you do that? 43 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: Is it? 44 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: Is it worth alienating your family, your parents, your mom 45 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 2: making her thing differently about you? 46 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, does think twenty five year old daughter is intimate 47 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 5: with her boyfriend? 48 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: I'm just curious intimate? 49 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 3: She thinks she's not intimate, right, she does. 50 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: Not think she's she doesn't think she's been intimate at all. 51 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 1: When I understand that needs to talk. 52 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 3: To somebody because that's that's not right. Yeah, she's in denial. 53 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's the. 54 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: Twenty five year old daughter with a boyfriend. She's definitely 55 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: some mad. I mean, I don't know, sister, get with it, like, hello, 56 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 3: I get it. 57 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that uncommon. 58 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 3: I don't think twenty five year old is not banging. 59 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: Oh. I think there are plenty of people that probably 60 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: think that their their sons and daughters are waiting until 61 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 2: they're married. Oh boy, oh, I think they probably use Yeah, 62 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: there's right there, Well there's another there's another angle then 63 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: eight five five? 64 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: Do your parents think you're a virgin and you're not. 65 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 3: Around Monday? 66 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: Hell? Well, I think because in certain situations, people they teach, 67 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: you know, morality, they teach with the religion, they spend 68 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: morals and values, and for them, that's the way that 69 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 2: they did it, and so they they they think that's 70 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 2: best for their kids and that's what God wants or 71 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just just saying this is what 72 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: some people. This is their justification. Oh my god, that 73 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: trustes me out. You like, not that you know, daughter 74 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 2: has to tell mom. 75 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 5: But I would assume my twenty five year old daughter, 76 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 5: who as a boyfriend is obviously active, Like don't we 77 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 5: have that talk when we're like sixteen fifteen ish around there? 78 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: I think you'd be surprised. 79 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: I don't think that every mom assumes that their daughter 80 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: or son is active at any particular age. 81 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: That's a them problem. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to 82 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 3: be mean about it at all, right, I just I 83 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: don't know. I'm just like stressed about his now more. 84 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: Girls, But none of you guys have ever like really 85 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: lied to your parents about something that was I mean, 86 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: I can't think of the life. I'm just so transparent 87 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: with them. I tell them everything. I can't think of 88 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: a time where I was like, yeah, I lived with somebody, 89 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: or I was engaged to somebody, or I yeah, or 90 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, some crazy thing and I just didn't 91 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: tell them. I did never, yeah, never. 92 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 6: I mean it all started in high school when I 93 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 6: would say I was going to sleep at a friend's 94 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 6: house and I would go up to Michigan State to 95 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 6: party and we couldn't at the time, we didn't have 96 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 6: like you had to call from your friend's house phone. 97 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 6: So I had a little card that made it look 98 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 6: like I was calling from somewhere else, and so it 99 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 6: made it look like I was at my friend house. 100 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: So I don't know if this means that this person 101 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 2: did it, But getting a divorced twenty years ago, my 102 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: parents were of the era that you stick it out. 103 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 2: Divorce isn't part of the family moral code. So I'm 104 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: not sure if this person did get a divorce or 105 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 2: I don't know how you lie about that. 106 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 3: Oh, that's that's kind of one of my families. 107 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 5: So my mom is divorced, and she's also widowed, but 108 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 5: she's divorced from my stepfather. But my grandma she knows 109 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 5: the truth because she's grandma. But she tells the village 110 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,559 Speaker 5: at the old country back in Poland that my mom's 111 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 5: just widowed. 112 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 3: There's no divorce in that. So I can see that. 113 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: Oh, I gotcha. 114 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: I knew of a situation not that long ago where 115 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: a couple got married because they were maybe I think 116 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: I think one of them was being transferred to another 117 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 2: state for a job and it would be an automatic. 118 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: It was a government job, and I guess there's an 119 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 2: automatic transfer opportunity if you're married, so the other person 120 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: like automatically can go with you. And because they worked 121 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: in the same place, and so I guess they got 122 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: married even though their wedding was planned like eighteen months later. 123 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 2: They got married secretly legally so that they could take 124 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: the transfer together. But they didn't tell anybody in their 125 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: lives that the real wedding wasn't going to be the 126 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: real wedding, you know what I mean, Like they didn't 127 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: like nobody knew that it was essentially a formality. So 128 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 2: then like when their parents were there and whenever this 129 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: thing happened later, it was like, oh they got married. 130 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 2: They already were married, and they didn't tell anybody because 131 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: it would have disappointed them. It's like, oh, my gosh, 132 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 2: we're going to miss out on the actual thing. I 133 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 2: guess they just went to like the courthouse and got 134 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: it done so they could move together. 135 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: Aaron, Hi, Aaron, good. 136 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 7: Morning, Yes, good morning. 137 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 8: Hey? 138 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: What is it? 139 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 2: Is this a lie that you that you lived and 140 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: your parents never knew or how did this go down? 141 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 9: Oh? 142 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 10: Yeah, this was a long lie. So I had a 143 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 10: car at college and my parents, so they only could 144 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 10: take the car to college if I promised them that 145 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 10: I would not drive it after dark. 146 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Okay. 147 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 10: So I went on. 148 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 7: For probably about three years until one night I was 149 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:11,239 Speaker 7: driving to see my boyfriend and who's my husband at now, 150 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 7: and there was a huge snowstorm and I ran off 151 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 7: the road at two o'clock in the morning into snow dressed, 152 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 7: and I didn't have anybody to call. 153 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 10: Now, this is before cell phones. 154 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 7: I'm like fifty six years old. So I had to 155 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 7: walk across the street to a bar and call my parents. 156 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 7: And they were floored that. 157 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 10: I was driving the car after dark. 158 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 11: Okay, but that's your parents' fault that you crash, you 159 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 11: know that, right, because you never had the experience of 160 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 11: driving at night. 161 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: Oh God, you're qualty this man. 162 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 2: Well, the way I saw this story going was it 163 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: like you fixed it yourself and I never found out. 164 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: But you're saying you just defied them and then called 165 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: them and told them that you defied them. 166 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, I decided him for like almost three years. 167 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: Hold it. I mean, it's crazy talk Whate's city with 168 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 2: a car and you can only drive it in these hours? 169 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: Right? 170 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: And Okay, that's like that would be like if my 171 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: parents were like, Okay, now you go to school one 172 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 2: thousand miles away and I want you to, you know, 173 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: be sure you're in bed by midnight or whatever. It's like, oh, 174 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: graym you know, no, right, I mean, that was what 175 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: was funny. And by the way, Aaron, thank you for calling. 176 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 2: I have a great day. Thanks for listening to true. 177 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: That was what was funny. When I was in college 178 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: and I would go home, and even early in my 179 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: adult life, I would go home to my parents' house 180 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: and there would be rules like it would be like 181 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: can you be home by midnight? 182 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Can you do this? 183 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 12: And that. 184 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm twenty two years old, like I'm about 185 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 2: to graduate from college, Like what do you think I'm 186 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: doing a thousand miles away in Dallas, Texas. 187 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 6: I get that, though, because when you're under their roof, 188 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 6: they'll wait up until you get home because they'll be worried. 189 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 13: I know. 190 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: But wouldn't you worry more when when they're when I'm 191 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: far away and you have, you know, zero ability to 192 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: monitor I no, Hey, Jory, hey, hey. 193 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. Okay you lied about being urgent. 194 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 14: Yes, well not exactly. I just didn't talk about it. 195 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: Okay and all right, So dare you tell the story, Jody, Well. 196 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 9: I would like to say that my son is now 197 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 9: seventeen years old. It's not my twins that had me 198 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 9: call in for the showdowns, but he just turned seventeen 199 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 9: and I went to the emergency room because we thought 200 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 9: I was I either had showy act disease or I 201 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 9: had a bottle obstruction. 202 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 14: And it turned out that I. 203 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 3: Was seven months pregnant. 204 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: Wo. 205 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 14: I took four home tests. They all came out negative 206 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 14: when I was five months along. Yeah, I had no idea, 207 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 14: Like I was a personal trainer at the time. I 208 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 14: tried on size six stresses the day before I found out. 209 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: Really, and so you were your parents with you for 210 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: this and then you had to explain to that I'm like, well, yeah, 211 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: it was my. 212 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 14: Mom was in the emergency room with me. She thought 213 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 14: that I was like really really sick because we couldn't 214 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 14: figure out what this lump was in my stomach. It 215 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 14: was my son. 216 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 10: Yeah, he was fully. 217 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 4: Wow. 218 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: So what Yeah, what was that conversation? 219 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: Like this is what is like a nurse or doctor 220 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: comes in and goes, hey, you're pregnant, and what's the reaction. 221 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 15: Well, actually, so all I was there for hours, hours 222 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 15: and hours, and I had texted my now husband then 223 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 15: boyfriend and I was like, I'll have done is peet 224 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 15: in a cup and I don't know what's going on. 225 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 9: And the doctor came in and said, well, the pregnancy 226 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 9: test came back. He asked if he could speak in 227 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 9: front of my mom and I said, yeah, she's my 228 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 9: mom and he said the pregnancy test came back costive. 229 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 9: And for a split second, I thought, my mom's having 230 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 9: a baby. 231 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:44,839 Speaker 14: That's weird. It's me. I'm like, oh, like that's not great. 232 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 14: And then when they took me for the ultrasound, they 233 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 14: thought I was lying about not knowing. And I still 234 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 14: have the discharge papers that they diagnosed this third trimester pregnancy. 235 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: Wow, and what does your mom do in this moment? 236 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 9: She freaked out a little, but it was more she 237 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 9: like she freaked out about the weirdest thing and ri 238 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 9: I T mom, I love her, she's not here anymore. 239 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:11,559 Speaker 14: But she was like, you're not going. 240 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 9: To be able to have a big wedding and I'm like, said, who, 241 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 9: I'm not getting married in eight weeks? 242 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 14: Like I was like, why is that the priority? 243 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 12: And then. 244 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: Out wow, yeah, I can't imagine. 245 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, he's uh like every like I said, everything's great, 246 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 9: my son, he's about to take the SAP and so, 247 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 9: I mean everything turned out for the best. And I 248 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 9: mean that I was on roller coasters, I was on 249 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 9: jetski's in the ocean. 250 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: I mean, imagine, imagine the stuff that you were doing. 251 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god, she was for seven months. 252 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't. 253 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 2: I don't know if you were drinking or if you 254 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 2: do drink or whatever else. You didn't even know. 255 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 9: The few times that I did drink, it tasted like pennies, 256 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 9: so I never finished a drink. 257 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 14: It was like my body was like, you can't have that. 258 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 2: Let's see how the kid does on the satri say 259 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: whether it had any effects on him. Okay, let's let's 260 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: make sure he does. All right, surey, thank you for calling. 261 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 2: You have a good day too. I'm glad you called. Yes, 262 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: look at this. A lot of people I got kicked 263 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: out of college. My parents still don't know I was 264 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 2: married a year old text. I was married for a 265 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 2: second time at thirty six. My parents never knew the 266 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 2: marriage didn't last. So I don't think I'll ever tell 267 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: them whoa I loped in Vegas, same place that Paulina 268 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 2: got married. We didn't tell our family for ten months 269 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 2: because we were still planning a wedding for the family. 270 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: Got married in the courthouse nine months before my wedding 271 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: for insurance. My parents didn't know. I'm going through all 272 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 2: these My god, I used to seek my boyfriend. I 273 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 2: used to sneak to my boyfriend's house after my mom 274 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 2: dropped me off at my friends. Sixteen years later, we're 275 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: still together. My mom hates him. 276 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 4: Oh wow, I'm. 277 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: Also twenty five who whose mom thinks she's a virgin? 278 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 2: Also didn't know how to break it to her that 279 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: I'm moving in with my boyfriend this summer. 280 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: See, this is what I'm saying. 281 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 11: That is wild man got blinders on, you know what 282 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 11: I'm saying honestly, Yeah, something I mean, I think you 283 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 11: just got to. 284 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 1: Do it right. 285 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 2: You got to do what's what's what's best for your life. 286 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 2: And but I don't know how long you keep it 287 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: a secret. Isn't that worse? Isn't keeping it a secret worse? 288 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: And it's just just coming clean and they can deal 289 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: with it because you're twenty five years. 290 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: Old, I know. 291 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 12: Just come out and tell them the parents just break 292 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 12: their hearts early. 293 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 3: They'll get over it. The real parents, the riders, they're 294 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 3: gonna be there when you fall. 295 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: Sor right, okayd all right, Kiki, wait there you go, 296 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 2: Wait a hand. We could have handled this, and I 297 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: mean that took nine minutes. You can way faster. 298 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: A Fred show next. 299 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 11: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me. 300 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 2: These are the radio blocks on the Sure he'll tell 301 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 2: the truth and it won't be manipulated by pr at all. 302 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: For ship baby, yeah, for ships. 303 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 3: For she is hopefully is the Africa chan? 304 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I have it now. I bought it for Yeah, 305 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: I wear it. 306 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 3: No, you've read that and stuff like that. 307 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: Our audio journal is like for writing in our diaries. 308 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: Ben Hamene is here, Ben Hamen. The intern people wanted 309 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 2: an update on your story from Friday where you were 310 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: merging families. 311 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 16: I don't know if I'm merging families is a pretty 312 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 16: strong phrase. 313 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 2: I mean, but it was it was like the first 314 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: time that everybody was kind of getting together, right, that's true. 315 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: Oh, let's hear all about it. It was good. It 316 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: was bog Oh. 317 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 16: Sorry, dear body, you really don't listen to this show. 318 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 16: Show you can go in there, right now it's on. 319 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 16: It was good. It was pretty chaotic. There's a lot 320 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 16: of people in her choir. There's like sixty or seventy 321 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 16: students in the choir, and so it was just kind 322 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 16: of being at the church all day, setting up like 323 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 16: a hunter chairs and for dinner. And I mean it 324 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 16: was a pretty quick interaction between our parents. But my 325 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 16: grandparents were there and they were talking Abby's parents ear off. 326 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: Okay, that was well received. 327 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 16: I mean they're pretty sweet people, so I'm I hope 328 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 16: that they were just okay with my grandparents. 329 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:00,200 Speaker 8: Know. 330 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 16: Yeah, so you know, my grandma was like the sweetest 331 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 16: woman on the planet. 332 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 1: I do know that. 333 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 16: Yeah, that is true. But yeah, she likes to talk 334 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 16: a lot. But it was good, you know. And my 335 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 16: grandma during the concerts like whispering to me, but she 336 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 16: can't hear that well, so she thinks she's West brank. 337 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 3: She's like, can I sing along? 338 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: I wish she was talking at a normal speaking level. Yeah, 339 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: I see. 340 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, all right, so you think it went well 341 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: because the people were very curious about it. 342 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it went well. 343 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: It was just a pretty long weekend. 344 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 16: We also moved my girlfriend down to Decatur this weekend. 345 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 16: So that was a lot of packing and unpacking and driving. 346 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: But well, a little bit of a look into what 347 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: the wedding will look like. 348 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 16: Maybe, yeah, maybe a good boyfriend, the moving chairs around 349 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 16: and stuff like that, setting things up, and then a 350 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 16: family used together. 351 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. My little boy is growing up, 352 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I just don't do anything 353 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: that uncle Fred did nothing. She love his love. Look 354 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: at this, he's in love. 355 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 3: Yes, Oh he's got it bad. Yeah, he's really in love. 356 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 3: That may rise for his girls. 357 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 2: Driven thousands of miles to see her. That might actually 358 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 2: not be super far off. Where was it was Wisconsin 359 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 2: or Milk. 360 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: Further. Yeah, so she lived there for a while. You 361 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: would drive up. 362 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 3: There and yeahs like five hundred miles. 363 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 2: Now she lives south. You drive down there setting up 364 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 2: chairs for this woman. Families are meeting. 365 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 4: How short does it com meet? 366 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 16: Now it's it's like three hours. I think it's like 367 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 16: one hundred and sixty miles or something like that. 368 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: Damn near a booty call. Yeah, twenty hours, that's enough. Well, 369 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: you know, cutting it in half is a lot. 370 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 3: But she got a car, she got a car. 371 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 16: Meet you have, yes, Yeah, she does have a car, 372 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 16: so she'll be coming home sometimes to. 373 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: Meet you halfway. What are you gonna meet like at 374 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 2: a roadside in even what's wrong with that? And a 375 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: lot's wrong with that spot? 376 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 3: Ye, parents know that they's getting it. 377 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 378 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 3: It's not the lady you talk to for it. 379 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 12: This is a child is not getting anything. 380 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, No, let's let's be clear about something. I 381 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: suspect you. Her parents don't doubt anything. But isn't her 382 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 2: father a preacher? Yes, he is a pasty so he 383 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 2: might have a different impression of what's going on. 384 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 385 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: He knows. 386 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 16: Pastor was not his original career path. He was an 387 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 16: accountant for a long time, so he's not. He's not 388 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 16: just like delusion. 389 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: Everybody needs to be. So he lived the life of 390 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: a heathen at he's been. 391 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna call her do a heathen on air? 392 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: No. 393 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 17: No. 394 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 8: But if. 395 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: Chris, I love you, you're great. 396 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 4: Firsday is over here. 397 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 2: Everyone's a virgin, every single verson everybody. They are going 398 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: after doseh Bred Show. 399 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 16: Now is your chance to win one thousand dollars. 400 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: You'll center this nationwide keyword on our website. 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Maybe not, but there is a 411 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 2: new are just hurting the tangent that's up on the 412 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 2: iHeart App. Search for the Friend Show on the Man? 413 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 2: Hi Kylin, Hi, Jason Brown, Roofieikey's here? Good Morning Show? 414 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 2: B is internvent I mean not Benjamin. Good news stories 415 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: in just a second waiting by the phone. After that, 416 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 2: why did somebody get ghosted? Would investigate? Trending story is 417 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 2: fun Fact and the Entertainment Report all on the way. 418 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: When are you working on? 419 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 3: K is justin Timberlake coming for revenge. I'll tell you 420 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 3: what's going on. 421 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. 422 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 2: It feels good, good news, sappy stories every day on 423 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 2: this show. 424 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: We share them with you. 425 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 6: K what you got so the power of women supporting 426 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 6: women played out on the college courts this weekend, and 427 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 6: that's exactly what happens at the ole Miss versus South 428 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 6: Carolina women's basketball game on February fourth, when the women 429 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 6: got a little physical on the court and one of 430 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 6: the ole Miss rebels found herself splayed out on the floor. 431 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 6: When she hit the floor, her wig flew off her head, 432 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 6: and the rest of the women on the court immediately 433 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 6: surrounded her so that she could fix it before continuing 434 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 6: on with the game. 435 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 3: So both teams did this. 436 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 6: The video was shared on Twitter or x right after 437 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 6: ole missus Markisha Davis hit the floor, and it has 438 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 6: over three million views of women championing the players for 439 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 6: setting aside the game to help out their fellow women 440 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 6: or woman. South Carolina's head coach Don Saley even called 441 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 6: out the moment after the game, replying to the viral 442 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 6: moment and praising both teams for how they acted. Jason, 443 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 6: please don't laugh, but she tweeted, this warms my heart. 444 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 3: My game Cock. 445 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 6: WBB babies met the moment with kindness and understanding. I 446 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 6: see every day Ole Miss or locked hands in a 447 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 6: united front. 448 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 3: This is WBB at its finest love this we are. 449 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 4: Wbb OH. 450 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: One of Jason's favorite college es. 451 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 4: Sir, it's my favorite at my top. 452 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 1: Yeah. 453 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 2: Took some Side Street Poorhouse and Grille in North Carolina 454 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 2: went viral on social media with the story of a 455 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: customer who went above and beyond to ensure that his server, Hope, 456 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 2: received the tip that he intended so. The letter written 457 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 2: by Ted details that he had come in the final 458 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 2: days of twenty twenty three to dine at the restaurant 459 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 2: with his wife, and that days later he realized that 460 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 2: he had made an error. When he was looking at 461 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: his bank statement, he noticed a total charge of his 462 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 2: visa card from the restaurant was lower than it should 463 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 2: have been. Going through his receipts, he found that instead 464 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 2: of the customer copy he had taken to sign, merchant's copy. 465 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 2: A merchant copy is a copy of the receipt that 466 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:36,959 Speaker 2: includes the area where would write down the tip amount 467 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 2: and sign off on it. Without that, the restaurant would 468 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,719 Speaker 2: have no way of knowing whether he intended to leave 469 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 2: a tip or not. So he wrote a letter saying 470 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 2: he was sorry, and he put a twenty dollars bill 471 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 2: in there, and he sent it to Hope's attention, and 472 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 2: she received it, and it's going viral and that's amazing. 473 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 2: It reminds me a lot of a time when old 474 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 2: Rufie and I, Oh, here we go, Ye Rufie and 475 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 2: I went to a club and the table was copped, 476 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 2: and so I got I went in there and I 477 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 2: had a drink and I left Roofie and a bunch 478 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 2: of other cheap skates in there that night at the table. 479 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 2: Though it was the same night he got a man 480 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: fired too, but from M's wedding, and so I got 481 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 2: the table. I got the table for you guys. I 482 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 2: had one drink. I left. The next day, I get 483 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: a call from a friend of mine who's also a 484 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 2: or who was a server at this club, and was like, 485 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: your guy, First of all, we had to drag your 486 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 2: guy out because he was drunk at the past that 487 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 2: at the table and none of the guys left the tip, 488 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 2: none of them. 489 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,479 Speaker 1: They were like five dudes. None of you tipped. So 490 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: I was I couldn't. I was scored it out. 491 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 3: I'm sure you were nights ober her. 492 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 2: I got this woman's phone number. This is before Venmo. 493 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 2: I got this woman's fun and I called her. I 494 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 2: got her a dress. You lived like in Milwaukee or something, 495 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 2: and I wrote a check and I said check for 496 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 2: the tip because I felt so bad. Idiots didn't tip. 497 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 2: That's all you had to do. It was like a 498 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: thousand dollars table. All you had to do was leave 499 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 2: a little dough No anyway, I had this woman's home 500 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 2: address that or in a check like show bus Shelley 501 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 2: with anyway, tip your people, and somehow you forget to 502 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 2: do something like that. Figure it out, set up a 503 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 2: you know, money in the mail, or send rufio. Send 504 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: that woman. I still have her address. I for sure 505 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: she still lives in the same place. This was like 506 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 2: twelve years ago. Your Fred show is on the back. 507 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they excited. These are the 508 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: radio blogs on the Fresh Show. Glad to teach. 509 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear what these thoughts are like 510 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 2: writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 511 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. JB. Yes, ready, yes, got some. 512 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: I got take it away. 513 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 4: Man, Thank you, dear blog. 514 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 8: So I want to know if anyone else that's in 515 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 8: a relationship ever does this. So I get home earlier 516 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 8: after the work day because I get up wait earlier 517 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 8: than Mike does, and he has his own business, so 518 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 8: he always works, like basically every single day. 519 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 4: So I get home and you know, I finish what 520 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 4: I gotta do. 521 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 8: And house chores and all that stuff, and I like 522 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 8: to just lay down. You're a little bit watch some TikTok. Yeah, 523 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 8: you know, TikTok, live battles whatever. 524 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 11: You don't know. 525 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 4: You don't know what you're missing. They're so entertaining anyway. 526 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 8: So I'll be laying there and then I'll hear him 527 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 8: get home, and then I'll feel like guilty for relaxing. 528 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 8: So then I like jump out of bed or off 529 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 8: the couch or whatever, and I'm like running around. 530 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:37,919 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, vacuum me. 531 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 8: Now we're like, oh, I'm folding laundry or oh, I'm 532 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 8: cleaning the child. 533 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: You don't feel like you're allowed to just be laying. 534 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 4: No, because I feel like it's gonna be mad. He's 535 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 4: gonna be like, I'm working and you're just lounging. 536 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 8: You don't pay no bills. 537 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: By the way, we recently discovered, you do pay bills. 538 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes you pay. 539 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 2: Some of the bills, and you do a lot around 540 00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 2: the house. You do a lot for him too, So 541 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 2: it's not like you just go home and look pretty. 542 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: You do look. 543 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,719 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know about that, but yeah, so I 544 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 8: feel guilty that he's going to be mad, like, you know, 545 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 8: you're just laid on the couch and I'm like, you know, 546 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 8: changing torqu converters and stuff, you know. 547 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,639 Speaker 12: But I also feel like it starts, honestly in childhood, 548 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 12: probably back in the day when our parents would be like, 549 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 12: take that chicken out when you get home from school, 550 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 12: get intake chicken out, I will say. 551 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 2: In our home, it's like to this day, if my 552 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 2: mom walks in and we're all sitting, we all stand 553 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 2: up when she walks in the room because there's a 554 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: chance that she might want us to do something like 555 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: usually if she's come home she has groceries or she 556 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 2: has like but we all it's just a learned behavior. Basically, 557 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 2: she wants it. But we can't just be sitting there 558 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,479 Speaker 2: watching football. If it turns out that she needs us 559 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 2: to do something, we're just supposed to know to do it. 560 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, no, it is. I agree with you. 561 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: As a kid, it was always that way. 562 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 2: It was like, we can't just be sitting there screwing 563 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: around if in fact, there's something needs to be done. 564 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: We need to stand on business, standing business. 565 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 8: She should at the point like, if I'm sitting down 566 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 8: he walks in, I'm gonna feel like awkward now, like 567 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,959 Speaker 8: because I conditioned myself to being like I'm up doing something. 568 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 4: You know, it's. 569 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: Like this your house. 570 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, Like Jess will text me because we work 571 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 11: different hours, so she she texts me like I'm on 572 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 11: my way home, and I'll be like, I see the text. 573 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 11: I'm like, okay, I got like twenty twenty minutes before 574 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 11: she's home. And then I have a notification that the 575 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 11: garage door opens, and that's when I get up and 576 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 11: I look like I'm parenting and stuff. 577 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:38,959 Speaker 18: Like that, like we're getting along. Tell him job when 578 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 18: when the garage door open. 579 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 13: If I'm doing that, if I'm if I'm at home 580 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 13: watching TV and just gets home, She's like, really, I'm 581 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 13: just do it right, You're on your phone all day 582 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 13: and so. 583 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 1: Wow, yes, okay, so this is not uncommon, not at all. 584 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 4: I feel seen. 585 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yes, I guess I would at least want 586 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 2: to be like acknowledged in some way, maybe like say 587 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 2: hi or give me a hug, or like if you're 588 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,719 Speaker 2: I don't know, but you don't have to be doing something. 589 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 19: I meant your drink, right, do you just want to 590 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 19: walk in the house and just like, let's slip, we'll 591 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 19: flip the script, like you're dating somebody and he's just 592 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 19: laying on the couch and you come back in the 593 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 19: house and he doesn't even get up from the didn't 594 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 19: even stop watching TV, like you wouldn't like some form 595 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,679 Speaker 19: of acknowledgement that you came home, like it's good to 596 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 19: see you or high. 597 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,199 Speaker 6: I mean, you could say yo, but I've been in 598 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 6: a long term relationship that the getting up and kissing. 599 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 3: And like, oh, I'm just so beautiful. How was your day? 600 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 11: That goes away it looks like I'm up to something. 601 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 11: You know, you at home and I'm like super nice, 602 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 11: Oh how was your shady? 603 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 10: Right? 604 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 8: I wonder what it looks like from his end too, 605 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 8: Like every time he wants to the door, I'm like 606 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 8: running into the kids. 607 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 4: I'm doing something every day. 608 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 2: One thing on one thing I know for sure is 609 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: that he does not listen to this because you you 610 00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 2: called yourself out for so much stuff. Mechanic does not 611 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 2: pay any attention to this because otherwise you'd go home 612 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 2: every day, and he'd. 613 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: Be like, I'm onto you. 614 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 2: You may as well just sit your ass there, because 615 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 2: I know what you're into. 616 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next friend Show.