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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from doing
Speaker 1: these second date updates over and over again is sometimes
Speaker 1: you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.
Speaker 1: We hear stories about guys doing way too much and
Speaker 1: then not getting a call back, but it's also possible
Speaker 1: to not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when
Speaker 1: it comes to effort on a date. That's true. And
Speaker 1: Adam is on the phone today to do a second
Speaker 1: date update. He thinks that he got the ladder. He
Speaker 1: thinks he didn't do enough for his first date, and
Speaker 1: now he's not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything
Speaker 1: at all. Not always the biggest on following through on stuff.
Speaker 1: But it's good. But by the way, if I could
Speaker 1: just say I'm a huge fan of the show, Um,
Speaker 1: I really I like you quite a bit. Appreciate it, man,
Speaker 1: I don't I don't enjoy that much. Yeah, okay, well,
Speaker 1: thank you for your email. The girl that you want
Speaker 1: to call today, what's her name? Stephanie? Stephanie? All right,
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is
Speaker 1: just really cool. I met her. She's taller than me.
Speaker 1: I don't know if that has a name. That's the
Speaker 1: one quality you bring up about Stephanie when you that's
Speaker 1: awesome though? Are you like me? I like dating tall girls.
Speaker 1: I'm a short guy and I love girls taller than me.
Speaker 1: Do you like taller girls? Yeah? Man, I'm a good climber. Awesome,
Speaker 1: so am I? All right? So you met Stephanie, this
Speaker 1: tall girl? Where? I met her at a bar? I
Speaker 1: had gone out with some folks and basically she was
Speaker 1: introduced to me by a mutual friend. Okay, and we
Speaker 1: talked and it was really cool where I think we
Speaker 1: really kind of hit it off in the bar, mainly
Speaker 1: because it was just a terrible bar, Like we were
Speaker 1: kind of laughing at how crappy the bar was. So
Speaker 1: when you did you ask her out on a date
Speaker 1: or was just hanging out at the bar that night?
Speaker 1: Is what you're considering the first date? No, that wasn't
Speaker 1: the date. Eventually I asked her out, but it kind
Speaker 1: of like snuck up on me because we were talking.
Speaker 1: It was a good dime and it was like time
Speaker 1: to go, and so I just I did the last second. Hey,
Speaker 1: got to get your number. We exchanged numbers and then
Speaker 1: you know, we texted. After that. Most of our conversations
Speaker 1: were kind of kind of text and then eventually that's
Speaker 1: when I asked her if she kind of wanted to
Speaker 1: come over to my place and maybe watch TV. What's
Speaker 1: the date? Hey? Big first date plans? I want to
Speaker 1: come watch TV. No, you don't do that with a girl.
Speaker 1: I'm like, if you're really excited about somebody you sat
Speaker 1: and like you were into this chick, I want I
Speaker 1: actually I wanted it. So. I love this TV show
Speaker 1: on AMC called Turn. Have you gut seen that? No? Okay,
Speaker 1: it's kind of geeky. It's like a revolutionary war shows.
Speaker 1: Are you telling me that this girl that you met
Speaker 1: that you thought was awesome you invited her over to
Speaker 1: watch a little bit revolutionary war documentary? Wow? I mean,
Speaker 1: if I'm into it and then she's into it, that
Speaker 1: seems like it would be a good fit. I guess yeah,
Speaker 1: I think your problem is how old was she? How
Speaker 1: old she? Yeah, I think she's like probably in her
Speaker 1: like mid to late twenties. Yeah, you need to be
Speaker 1: like sixty year olds. Sounds like I've definitely seen some candidates,
Speaker 1: but I'm not there yet. So what was her response
Speaker 1: when she figured out that you didn't have anything else
Speaker 1: planned that night? Is what it sounds like to me,
Speaker 1: like no dinner or no nothing. Well, first of all,
Speaker 1: that's not entirely true. I made a bunch of snacks,
Speaker 1: because how do you even make snacks? What you cut
Speaker 1: cheese and put some crackers on the plate. Oh well, no,
Speaker 1: it's just stuff in a jar. I mean I I opened,
Speaker 1: I opened, you know, I have a few dips, and
Speaker 1: I had I get scoops because it was a date,
Speaker 1: So I like, you know, he pulls out the scoops. Yeah.
Speaker 1: How did the evening go? Then? Once she got to
Speaker 1: your place and you guys watched TV with all your
Speaker 1: snack foods. Well, I'll be completely honest, I don't think
Speaker 1: she was stoked when she walked in and she realized
Speaker 1: that we weren't going out from there, but she settled in.
Speaker 1: She ended up liking the TV show I think she
Speaker 1: was asking me questions about it because we're like in
Speaker 1: the second season now, and so the show itself is
Speaker 1: kind of evolved the characters. There was basically these three
Speaker 1: main characters the show started out with, and then are
Speaker 1: we talking about your date? Now? Are we just breaking
Speaker 1: down the show? Oh? Sorry? Um, we just got so
Speaker 1: into the show, like so quick, and we just binge
Speaker 1: watching like all these episodes. And then next thing you know,
Speaker 1: it's like one am and she's like, I gotta go
Speaker 1: because I got work, and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I can't believe we just watched so much of this,
Speaker 1: you know, And which was great. Obviously at least she
Speaker 1: was into the show, right, she liked it, yeah, And
Speaker 1: I feel like we were kind of cuddled up on
Speaker 1: the couch and she was asking questions and enjoying it.
Speaker 1: But then, you know, she had to go pretty quick.
Speaker 1: And that is actually the part that I'm concerned about
Speaker 1: because it's weird. I didn't want to go in for
Speaker 1: a kiss right there at the door because it was
Speaker 1: like she was off the couch and she had to
Speaker 1: get home so she gets some rest for work, and
Speaker 1: now here we are like, I don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: know where to go from here. You're telling me hours
Speaker 1: of television watching and you didn't even kiss her. What's well?
Speaker 1: I mean, there was a lot of stuff happening in
Speaker 1: the story that had not been happening previously. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel you on that. Man. I'm the same way withouton. Nabby.
Speaker 1: Don't try to touch my fun stuff when I'm watching Downton, Nabby,
Speaker 1: hands off. How long has it been since you heard
Speaker 1: from her? Then? It's been like a week now, and
Speaker 1: I haven't. I haven't heard back from her. I mean,
Speaker 1: I you know, I texted some more and I mean, look,
Speaker 1: there's there's the new episodes that have come online, you know,
Speaker 1: so I was thinking you just can invite her back
Speaker 1: to watch more TV. Is that your plan? Well, she
Speaker 1: liked it. I mean, I guess that's kind of why
Speaker 1: we're here, because maybe she's not calling me back because
Speaker 1: it was like a boring date and I feel kind
Speaker 1: of like maybe I made a wrong choice with Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on
Speaker 1: rooking Jubil in the morning update. If you're just joining
Speaker 1: us for today's second date update, Adam is on the phone,
Speaker 1: and his first date was action packed with muskets and cannons,
Speaker 1: and over six hundred thousand people died on his first date.
Speaker 1: How did that happen? Well, he decided to invite a
Speaker 1: girl named Stephanie to his house and watch a civil
Speaker 1: war documentary. I believe it was revolutionary. So I need
Speaker 1: you to get that straight. Adam is a revolutionary or
Speaker 1: civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever, That's
Speaker 1: exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date.
Speaker 1: Now he thinks he's not getting a call back because
Speaker 1: it was a boring date and he should have maybe
Speaker 1: gone to dinner and just done the regular date thing
Speaker 1: instead of inviting her over to just watch TV for
Speaker 1: a little while. Yeah, that's that's pretty much shit. If
Speaker 1: she does actually want to go out with you again,
Speaker 1: do you have bigger plans or are you just planning
Speaker 1: on watching the next season of the show that you're
Speaker 1: so into with her? You know, I don't think I
Speaker 1: will make the same mistake twice. Okay, Okay, here you
Speaker 1: go through all this, you get a second day and
Speaker 1: then just do the same thing to go, Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna come over. I forgot I should mention you did
Speaker 1: have snacks. You made sure to point that out when
Speaker 1: I first talked to you. I mean, I'm no, I'm
Speaker 1: no flacker, but I think I could do better. All Right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dollar phone number right now and get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out if that is in
Speaker 1: fact the problem. Okay, thank you. He appreciate this guy. Yep,
Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie. This is she?
Speaker 1: Hey Stephanie, how are you. This is Jewil. I host
Speaker 1: a morning show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. I'm sorry, I'm a quiry pining.
Speaker 1: I'm calling because I was wondering if I could talk
Speaker 1: to you about something real quick. One of our listeners
Speaker 1: sent an email about you and asked if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone. Okay, that sounds really weird. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm actually at work, So is this important for I
Speaker 1: think it's important. If you have just like a few minutes,
Speaker 1: I would appreciate it. Okay, let me just close me
Speaker 1: to work for thanks. Okay, So what is it. Why
Speaker 1: are you calling you again? Well, we recently got an
Speaker 1: email to the show about someone who you have gone
Speaker 1: on a date with His name is Adam, and Adam
Speaker 1: has been trying to get a hold of you because
Speaker 1: he'd like to go on another date, but you haven't
Speaker 1: returned to any of his phone calls. So he asked
Speaker 1: us if we could get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if you didn't like your first date with him. Well,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, watching How
Speaker 1: do you know about that? Because we talked to Adam
Speaker 1: before we make these kind of phone calls, we always
Speaker 1: talked to the person, and we asked him about your date,
Speaker 1: and he told us how he just sort of invite
Speaker 1: did you over to watch some TV? Well, if you
Speaker 1: talk to him, you should know what happened. Was it not?
Speaker 1: Infinitely can't think it was a good date. He did
Speaker 1: tell us that he thinks he screwed up by planning
Speaker 1: a date to do nothing but watched TV. But he
Speaker 1: also said that he liked you a lot. That matters. Well,
Speaker 1: he didn't even talk to me. Oh you mean he
Speaker 1: like he was watching his show the whole time. He
Speaker 1: did seem like he was super into that show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was all very confusing because he texts me,
Speaker 1: do you want to netflix and chill and have been
Speaker 1: dating long enough to know what that means. And we'd
Speaker 1: hit it off and he was really cute, so I
Speaker 1: was down and it went over there. But maybe he
Speaker 1: doesn't know what it means. Think that means watching Netflix. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you were prepared to netflix and chill in the
Speaker 1: traditional meaning of it. Yeah, and he actually just wanted
Speaker 1: to Netflix. Yeah. The whole thing was super, super weird.
Speaker 1: Was it weird or was it just that he's like
Speaker 1: a little naive and that's almost kind of cute, right,
Speaker 1: It would have been cute. But it went on for
Speaker 1: like six hours. You were there for six hours. We
Speaker 1: watched like six hours of this and we kept watching it,
Speaker 1: kept thinking is he gonna make the move? Is you
Speaker 1: gonna make the moves? They were even far where characters
Speaker 1: were kissing, and I thought, oh, you know, this is it.
Speaker 1: You were like definitely netflixing, but there was no chill part.
Speaker 1: By the way, it was also season two, so I
Speaker 1: had no idea what was going on. And every time
Speaker 1: like I would sort of ask, you know, to clarify
Speaker 1: something that was happening, he would just shish me. So
Speaker 1: you were there prepared to not watch TV at all
Speaker 1: if it came down to it, and he was so
Speaker 1: into the show and shishing you when you try to
Speaker 1: talk to him that it was a turn off. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I tried really hard to and I don't whole thing
Speaker 1: was such a oh like it was. I just didn't
Speaker 1: understand what was happening. So, but you were attracted to
Speaker 1: him going into this where I would have been almost
Speaker 1: even more attracted to him because he was so I
Speaker 1: don't know, innocent, he was an ignored or he just
Speaker 1: maybe what it was he didn't have the same plans
Speaker 1: as you. You know, I do get that. I mean
Speaker 1: I'm not He's not like I'm disappointed you didn't hook
Speaker 1: up and then not talked again. Like I do get that,
Speaker 1: because you don't see Netflix and chill and then not
Speaker 1: make a move. I agree with you on that. I
Speaker 1: guess you're gonna say Netflix and chill you should follow
Speaker 1: through and try to make a move on somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I just figured it wasn't into me, and
Speaker 1: so that's why I'm not really responding. But again, it's
Speaker 1: not like he called me, which would show me that
Speaker 1: he likes me. Right, it just texts me. That was
Speaker 1: really fun. You know, we should like watch the rest
Speaker 1: of the episode. Yeah, his definition of fun is definitely
Speaker 1: different than yours. Well, he does want to talk to you. Well,
Speaker 1: that's great. Then he can call me. He kind of
Speaker 1: is because he's actually on the other line listening. Way
Speaker 1: for what. Yeah, Adam, you there, he is on the
Speaker 1: other line, like on holder. He heard our conversation. No,
Speaker 1: he was listening the whole time. Hey, seventy, how's it going.
Speaker 1: I don't even well, I mean, I'm honestly, I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what netflix and chill man. I thought, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know why. I don't know why they say that,
Speaker 1: and they should call it next Netflix and like do stuff.
Speaker 1: But none of your guy friends have told you what
Speaker 1: that means. Well, No, I've heard him the term like
Speaker 1: a million times. I thought that it actually just watching
Speaker 1: Netflix and didn't chill out. It means much more than that, Adams. Adams,
Speaker 1: I haven't even been in the dating world and forever
Speaker 1: because I'm old, married lady, and I even know what
Speaker 1: that is. Well, I'm sorry, I guess I guess you're
Speaker 1: better than me. I don't. I just didn't know that.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what it meant. Kind of sweet. I
Speaker 1: st storry didn't just ask me out on a date.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. This is the type of thing I
Speaker 1: just I've I wanted to ask you on a date,
Speaker 1: and honestly, I thought if I invited you to take
Speaker 1: part in some them that I really knew a lot
Speaker 1: about and liked that it would it would show you
Speaker 1: more that I just have interest. I don't know. For
Speaker 1: some reason, I just got in in front of myself
Speaker 1: and I should have. I should have asked you to dinner.
Speaker 1: I don't care about dinner. I just want to like
Speaker 1: come over and hook up with you. That's what Netflix
Speaker 1: and She's directs. Yeah, you missed out on a big opportunity, Adam. No,
Speaker 1: I know, and next time if we, if we, if
Speaker 1: you would want to go out with me again, if
Speaker 1: you want to netflix and chill, I promise no minute. Well, Stephanie,
Speaker 1: would you like to netflix and chill with Adam? Oh god,
Speaker 1: this is the real way you're supposed to do it?
Speaker 1: Will normally I always pay for people to go on
Speaker 1: a second date. Update. I guess I'll pay for his
Speaker 1: Netflix subscription for the months. That would be awesome. Stephanie,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Adam again. Well, Adam,
Speaker 1: you missed your chance for Netflix and show. Also, if
Speaker 1: you do want to go out again, you can take
Speaker 1: me to dinner and you know, we can see how
Speaker 1: it goes. It will probably be about, I don't know,
Speaker 1: four months until we can Netflix and so on. So
Speaker 1: now you have to work for it, Adam. I'm totally
Speaker 1: okay with that, and I would love to buy you dinner.
Speaker 1: And if for some reason you could ever find it
Speaker 1: within your heart to once in Netflix and Chill again,
Speaker 1: oh okay, well how about just call me and can
Speaker 1: go out again. Well, hey, successful second date update. Congratulations Adam,
Speaker 1: you got your second date. Thank you so much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and a little thing called urban dictionary before you use
Speaker 1: any phrases with people, figure out what they are in
Speaker 1: the morning text in at seven eighty five and nine
Speaker 1: two that says, I like his version of Netflix and
Speaker 1: Chill better, So I just want to watch movies and
Speaker 1: hang out working Jim in the morning. And today's second
Speaker 1: date update if you miss it, this dude Adam wanted
Speaker 1: to call Stephanie. He invited her over to watch Netflix
Speaker 1: and Chill. Yeah, and that's exactly what he did. That's
Speaker 1: the problem. She was expecting a lot more, and she
Speaker 1: didn't make it through the entire six hours that they
Speaker 1: were together, just watching movies, so she assumed he wasn't
Speaker 1: into her, but he was into her, and he just
Speaker 1: doesn't know what Netflix and Chill means. Yeah. She is
Speaker 1: so patient though, like if that's why she wanted, and
Speaker 1: she would it six hours. Girl, make your own though,
Speaker 1: I just imagine laundering. He's like, Wow, you're going to
Speaker 1: be cold a lot of movies. I got blankets, so
Speaker 1: that's cool. He says that they should change the name
Speaker 1: to Netflix and do stuff because he legitimately didn't know
Speaker 1: what Netflix and Chill was insinuating, and maybe they should
Speaker 1: change it to that just for him. Well, I feel
Speaker 1: like that second date was informational for a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Probably too. They agreed to go out one more time
Speaker 1: and give it another shot. Maybe she just has to
Speaker 1: explain things better to him now. I remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day update, all you have
Speaker 1: to do is email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back.