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<v Speaker 1>Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from doing

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<v Speaker 1>these second date updates over and over again is sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>We hear stories about guys doing way too much and

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<v Speaker 1>then not getting a call back, but it's also possible

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<v Speaker 1>to not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to effort on a date. That's true. And

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<v Speaker 1>Adam is on the phone today to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. He thinks that he got the ladder. He

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<v Speaker 1>thinks he didn't do enough for his first date, and

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<v Speaker 1>now he's not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Not always the biggest on following through on stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's good. But by the way, if I could

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<v Speaker 1>just say I'm a huge fan of the show, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I really I like you quite a bit. Appreciate it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't enjoy that much. Yeah, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for your email. The girl that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today, what's her name? Stephanie? Stephanie? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is

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<v Speaker 1>just really cool. I met her. She's taller than me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that has a name. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>one quality you bring up about Stephanie when you that's

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<v Speaker 1>awesome though? Are you like me? I like dating tall girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a short guy and I love girls taller than me.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like taller girls? Yeah? Man, I'm a good climber. Awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>so am I? All right? So you met Stephanie, this

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<v Speaker 1>tall girl? Where? I met her at a bar? I

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<v Speaker 1>had gone out with some folks and basically she was

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<v Speaker 1>introduced to me by a mutual friend. Okay, and we

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<v Speaker 1>talked and it was really cool where I think we

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of hit it off in the bar, mainly

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<v Speaker 1>because it was just a terrible bar, Like we were

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laughing at how crappy the bar was. So

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<v Speaker 1>when you did you ask her out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>or was just hanging out at the bar that night?

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<v Speaker 1>Is what you're considering the first date? No, that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Eventually I asked her out, but it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like snuck up on me because we were talking.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a good dime and it was like time

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<v Speaker 1>to go, and so I just I did the last second. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>got to get your number. We exchanged numbers and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we texted. After that. Most of our conversations

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of kind of text and then eventually that's

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<v Speaker 1>when I asked her if she kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>come over to my place and maybe watch TV. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the date? Hey? Big first date plans? I want to

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<v Speaker 1>come watch TV. No, you don't do that with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if you're really excited about somebody you sat

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<v Speaker 1>and like you were into this chick, I want I

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<v Speaker 1>actually I wanted it. So. I love this TV show

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<v Speaker 1>on AMC called Turn. Have you gut seen that? No? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of geeky. It's like a revolutionary war shows.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you telling me that this girl that you met

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<v Speaker 1>that you thought was awesome you invited her over to

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<v Speaker 1>watch a little bit revolutionary war documentary? Wow? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm into it and then she's into it, that

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<v Speaker 1>seems like it would be a good fit. I guess yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think your problem is how old was she? How

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<v Speaker 1>old she? Yeah, I think she's like probably in her

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<v Speaker 1>like mid to late twenties. Yeah, you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>like sixty year olds. Sounds like I've definitely seen some candidates,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not there yet. So what was her response

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<v Speaker 1>when she figured out that you didn't have anything else

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<v Speaker 1>planned that night? Is what it sounds like to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like no dinner or no nothing. Well, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not entirely true. I made a bunch of snacks,

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<v Speaker 1>because how do you even make snacks? What you cut

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<v Speaker 1>cheese and put some crackers on the plate. Oh well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just stuff in a jar. I mean I I opened,

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<v Speaker 1>I opened, you know, I have a few dips, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had I get scoops because it was a date,

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<v Speaker 1>So I like, you know, he pulls out the scoops. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the evening go? Then? Once she got to

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<v Speaker 1>your place and you guys watched TV with all your

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<v Speaker 1>snack foods. Well, I'll be completely honest, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she was stoked when she walked in and she realized

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<v Speaker 1>that we weren't going out from there, but she settled in.

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<v Speaker 1>She ended up liking the TV show I think she

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<v Speaker 1>was asking me questions about it because we're like in

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<v Speaker 1>the second season now, and so the show itself is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of evolved the characters. There was basically these three

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<v Speaker 1>main characters the show started out with, and then are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about your date? Now? Are we just breaking

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<v Speaker 1>down the show? Oh? Sorry? Um, we just got so

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<v Speaker 1>into the show, like so quick, and we just binge

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<v Speaker 1>watching like all these episodes. And then next thing you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like one am and she's like, I gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>because I got work, and I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe we just watched so much of this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And which was great. Obviously at least she

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<v Speaker 1>was into the show, right, she liked it, yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we were kind of cuddled up on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch and she was asking questions and enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 1>But then, you know, she had to go pretty quick.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is actually the part that I'm concerned about

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<v Speaker 1>because it's weird. I didn't want to go in for

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss right there at the door because it was

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<v Speaker 1>like she was off the couch and she had to

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<v Speaker 1>get home so she gets some rest for work, and

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<v Speaker 1>now here we are like, I don't know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where to go from here. You're telling me hours

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<v Speaker 1>of television watching and you didn't even kiss her. What's well?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was a lot of stuff happening in

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<v Speaker 1>the story that had not been happening previously. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel you on that. Man. I'm the same way withouton. Nabby.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't try to touch my fun stuff when I'm watching Downton, Nabby,

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<v Speaker 1>hands off. How long has it been since you heard

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<v Speaker 1>from her? Then? It's been like a week now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. I haven't heard back from her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I texted some more and I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's the new episodes that have come online, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was thinking you just can invite her back

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<v Speaker 1>to watch more TV. Is that your plan? Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>liked it. I mean, I guess that's kind of why

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<v Speaker 1>we're here, because maybe she's not calling me back because

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a boring date and I feel kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like maybe I made a wrong choice with Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>rooking Jubil in the morning update. If you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for today's second date update, Adam is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and his first date was action packed with muskets and cannons,

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<v Speaker 1>and over six hundred thousand people died on his first date.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that happen? Well, he decided to invite a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Stephanie to his house and watch a civil

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<v Speaker 1>war documentary. I believe it was revolutionary. So I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to get that straight. Adam is a revolutionary or

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<v Speaker 1>civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever, That's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he thinks he's not getting a call back because

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<v Speaker 1>it was a boring date and he should have maybe

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<v Speaker 1>gone to dinner and just done the regular date thing

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<v Speaker 1>instead of inviting her over to just watch TV for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while. Yeah, that's that's pretty much shit. If

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<v Speaker 1>she does actually want to go out with you again,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have bigger plans or are you just planning

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<v Speaker 1>on watching the next season of the show that you're

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<v Speaker 1>so into with her? You know, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>will make the same mistake twice. Okay, Okay, here you

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<v Speaker 1>go through all this, you get a second day and

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<v Speaker 1>then just do the same thing to go, Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come over. I forgot I should mention you did

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<v Speaker 1>have snacks. You made sure to point that out when

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<v Speaker 1>I first talked to you. I mean, I'm no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>no flacker, but I think I could do better. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dollar phone number right now and get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out if that is in

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<v Speaker 1>fact the problem. Okay, thank you. He appreciate this guy. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie. This is she?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Stephanie, how are you. This is Jewil. I host

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<v Speaker 1>a morning show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>nice to meet you. I'm sorry, I'm a quiry pining.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling because I was wondering if I could talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about something real quick. One of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>sent an email about you and asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone. Okay, that sounds really weird. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually at work, So is this important for I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's important. If you have just like a few minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would appreciate it. Okay, let me just close me

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<v Speaker 1>to work for thanks. Okay, So what is it. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling you again? Well, we recently got an

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<v Speaker 1>email to the show about someone who you have gone

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with His name is Adam, and Adam

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<v Speaker 1>has been trying to get a hold of you because

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<v Speaker 1>he'd like to go on another date, but you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>returned to any of his phone calls. So he asked

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<v Speaker 1>us if we could get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if you didn't like your first date with him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, watching How

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<v Speaker 1>do you know about that? Because we talked to Adam

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<v Speaker 1>before we make these kind of phone calls, we always

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<v Speaker 1>talked to the person, and we asked him about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and he told us how he just sort of invite

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<v Speaker 1>did you over to watch some TV? Well, if you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him, you should know what happened. Was it not?

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<v Speaker 1>Infinitely can't think it was a good date. He did

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<v Speaker 1>tell us that he thinks he screwed up by planning

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<v Speaker 1>a date to do nothing but watched TV. But he

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<v Speaker 1>also said that he liked you a lot. That matters. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't even talk to me. Oh you mean he

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<v Speaker 1>like he was watching his show the whole time. He

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<v Speaker 1>did seem like he was super into that show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was all very confusing because he texts me,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to netflix and chill and have been

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<v Speaker 1>dating long enough to know what that means. And we'd

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off and he was really cute, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was down and it went over there. But maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know what it means. Think that means watching Netflix. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you were prepared to netflix and chill in the

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<v Speaker 1>traditional meaning of it. Yeah, and he actually just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to Netflix. Yeah. The whole thing was super, super weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it weird or was it just that he's like

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<v Speaker 1>a little naive and that's almost kind of cute, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been cute. But it went on for

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<v Speaker 1>like six hours. You were there for six hours. We

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<v Speaker 1>watched like six hours of this and we kept watching it,

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<v Speaker 1>kept thinking is he gonna make the move? Is you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make the moves? They were even far where characters

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<v Speaker 1>were kissing, and I thought, oh, you know, this is it.

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<v Speaker 1>You were like definitely netflixing, but there was no chill part.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, it was also season two, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what was going on. And every time

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<v Speaker 1>like I would sort of ask, you know, to clarify

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<v Speaker 1>something that was happening, he would just shish me. So

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<v Speaker 1>you were there prepared to not watch TV at all

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<v Speaker 1>if it came down to it, and he was so

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<v Speaker 1>into the show and shishing you when you try to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him that it was a turn off. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried really hard to and I don't whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>was such a oh like it was. I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>understand what was happening. So, but you were attracted to

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<v Speaker 1>him going into this where I would have been almost

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<v Speaker 1>even more attracted to him because he was so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, innocent, he was an ignored or he just

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<v Speaker 1>maybe what it was he didn't have the same plans

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<v Speaker 1>as you. You know, I do get that. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not He's not like I'm disappointed you didn't hook

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<v Speaker 1>up and then not talked again. Like I do get that,

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't see Netflix and chill and then not

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<v Speaker 1>make a move. I agree with you on that. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you're gonna say Netflix and chill you should follow

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<v Speaker 1>through and try to make a move on somebody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I just figured it wasn't into me, and

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why I'm not really responding. But again, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like he called me, which would show me that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes me. Right, it just texts me. That was

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<v Speaker 1>really fun. You know, we should like watch the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the episode. Yeah, his definition of fun is definitely

0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:51.800
<v Speaker 1>different than yours. Well, he does want to talk to you. Well,

0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:54.640
<v Speaker 1>that's great. Then he can call me. He kind of

0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.959
<v Speaker 1>is because he's actually on the other line listening. Way

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<v Speaker 1>for what. Yeah, Adam, you there, he is on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line, like on holder. He heard our conversation. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was listening the whole time. Hey, seventy, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even well, I mean, I'm honestly, I'm embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what netflix and chill man. I thought, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. I don't know why they say that,

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<v Speaker 1>and they should call it next Netflix and like do stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But none of your guy friends have told you what

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<v Speaker 1>that means. Well, No, I've heard him the term like

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<v Speaker 1>a million times. I thought that it actually just watching

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and didn't chill out. It means much more than that, Adams. Adams,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even been in the dating world and forever

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm old, married lady, and I even know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is. Well, I'm sorry, I guess I guess you're

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<v Speaker 1>better than me. I don't. I just didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what it meant. Kind of sweet. I

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<v Speaker 1>st storry didn't just ask me out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. This is the type of thing I

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<v Speaker 1>just I've I wanted to ask you on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, I thought if I invited you to take

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<v Speaker 1>part in some them that I really knew a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about and liked that it would it would show you

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<v Speaker 1>more that I just have interest. I don't know. For

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<v Speaker 1>some reason, I just got in in front of myself

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<v Speaker 1>and I should have. I should have asked you to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about dinner. I just want to like

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<v Speaker 1>come over and hook up with you. That's what Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>and She's directs. Yeah, you missed out on a big opportunity, Adam. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, and next time if we, if we, if

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<v Speaker 1>you would want to go out with me again, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to netflix and chill, I promise no minute. Well, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to netflix and chill with Adam? Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the real way you're supposed to do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Will normally I always pay for people to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Update. I guess I'll pay for his

0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:55.319
<v Speaker 1>Netflix subscription for the months. That would be awesome. Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Adam again. Well, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>you missed your chance for Netflix and show. Also, if

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<v Speaker 1>you do want to go out again, you can take

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<v Speaker 1>me to dinner and you know, we can see how

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<v Speaker 1>it goes. It will probably be about, I don't know,

0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:12.000
<v Speaker 1>four months until we can Netflix and so on. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you have to work for it, Adam. I'm totally

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<v Speaker 1>okay with that, and I would love to buy you dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>And if for some reason you could ever find it

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<v Speaker 1>within your heart to once in Netflix and Chill again,

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<v Speaker 1>oh okay, well how about just call me and can

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<v Speaker 1>go out again. Well, hey, successful second date update. Congratulations Adam,

0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.800
<v Speaker 1>you got your second date. Thank you so much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and a little thing called urban dictionary before you use

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<v Speaker 1>any phrases with people, figure out what they are in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning text in at seven eighty five and nine

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<v Speaker 1>two that says, I like his version of Netflix and

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<v Speaker 1>Chill better, So I just want to watch movies and

0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.800
<v Speaker 1>hang out working Jim in the morning. And today's second

0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:53.800
<v Speaker 1>date update if you miss it, this dude Adam wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call Stephanie. He invited her over to watch Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>and Chill. Yeah, and that's exactly what he did. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. She was expecting a lot more, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make it through the entire six hours that they

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<v Speaker 1>were together, just watching movies, so she assumed he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>into her, but he was into her, and he just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know what Netflix and Chill means. Yeah. She is

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<v Speaker 1>so patient though, like if that's why she wanted, and

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<v Speaker 1>she would it six hours. Girl, make your own though,

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<v Speaker 1>I just imagine laundering. He's like, Wow, you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be cold a lot of movies. I got blankets, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool. He says that they should change the name

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<v Speaker 1>to Netflix and do stuff because he legitimately didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what Netflix and Chill was insinuating, and maybe they should

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<v Speaker 1>change it to that just for him. Well, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that second date was informational for a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably too. They agreed to go out one more time

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<v Speaker 1>and give it another shot. Maybe she just has to

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<v Speaker 1>explain things better to him now. I remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second day update, all you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back.