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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from doing

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Speaker 1: these second date updates over and over again is sometimes

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.

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Speaker 1: We hear stories about guys doing way too much and

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Speaker 1: to not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when

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Speaker 1: it comes to effort on a date. That's true. And

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Speaker 1: Adam is on the phone today to do a second

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Speaker 1: now he's not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything

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Speaker 1: thank you for your email. The girl that you want

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Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is

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Speaker 1: one quality you bring up about Stephanie when you that's

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Speaker 1: rooking Jubil in the morning update. If you're just joining

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Speaker 1: us for today's second date update, Adam is on the phone,

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Speaker 1: and his first date was action packed with muskets and cannons,

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Speaker 1: How did that happen? Well, he decided to invite a

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Speaker 1: civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever, That's

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie. This is she?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, watching How

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