WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Zoo Zaddy

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day, Jose, If you messaged a

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<v Speaker 1>girl on a dating app, how long would you wait

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<v Speaker 1>for them to respond back to you before you decide

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<v Speaker 1>it's like time to move on? Two or three minutes

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like she blew, got to act fast

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to hop.

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<v Speaker 2>On this round, I assume as I'm sending it, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to get a response.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you give up?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, there's just no right, yeah, exactly like.

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<v Speaker 4>An error going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's interesting. Is different than one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>who says he didn't hear back for three weeks after

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<v Speaker 1>he sent his first message. But good things come to

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<v Speaker 1>those who wait. That's why I've been I've been keeping

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<v Speaker 1>Grant on hold for the last forty eight minutes. Talk

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<v Speaker 1>to us, Grant, it's finally time. Welcome to the showy.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it. Jeffrey's trick on how he gets people to

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<v Speaker 3>respect him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, do you respect me? Grant?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I'm very vulnerable, so be careful.

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<v Speaker 1>Just how I like it.

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<v Speaker 3>He's sensitive right now?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, now, tell us about the woman that you

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<v Speaker 1>met up with recently. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Shan and she's super cool. She's very sweet,

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<v Speaker 5>she's very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so sweet. She left you waiting for three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks before she responded to your message.

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<v Speaker 3>What she say? After three weeks she.

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<v Speaker 5>Said that she had forgotten her account was even active.

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<v Speaker 1>So, oh, do you think that was truthful? Or was

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<v Speaker 1>that just something that women say to throw you off.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't really think about it that much.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it today's version of I never do this? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm on a dating app?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean she was really cool. So like, once

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<v Speaker 5>she was actually messaging me, I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Who cares?

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<v Speaker 5>It was cool?

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<v Speaker 6>Who cares?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Typical dude.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, so you guys connected, that's awesome. What'd you

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<v Speaker 3>end up doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? She loves animals, and so I said, so we

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<v Speaker 5>go to a zoo.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great date.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that go?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? At first, I kind of like instantly regretted it

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<v Speaker 5>because it was a little later in the day and

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<v Speaker 5>there were so many people. There was super crowded. They're

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<v Speaker 5>like kids screaming everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And like it's like being in a chucky cheese at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, there's no alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was about to ask that, did you guys

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<v Speaker 2>pre funk because I went to the Zoo drunk ones

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<v Speaker 2>and it was awesome alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well no, I was okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I think I want don't remember now.

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<v Speaker 3>Sitting in the Otter exhibit just talking to him.

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<v Speaker 5>Strant was that you kind of we didn't drink before,

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<v Speaker 5>but once we got there and realized it was like

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<v Speaker 5>a zoo seeing funny too like that. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>why don't we just go to a bar? And she

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<v Speaker 5>was like, well, it just so happens that I have

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<v Speaker 5>like those little you know, those like little bottles of vodka.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's got a bar in her purse. I like her.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that is that cool? Or is that a red

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<v Speaker 1>flag to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? I loved it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So we like just got some sodas at the

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<v Speaker 5>Zoom and we made our own little like cocktails and.

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<v Speaker 4>The cans or the bottles.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah help you and all the other moms there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah all right, that helped things out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, like it was super chill and we

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<v Speaker 5>were like laughing and it was just fun.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the big what's the biggest highlight from the Zoo?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh gosh, Well she's kind of short, so like she'd

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<v Speaker 5>sit on my shoulders, like if the crowds were like

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<v Speaker 5>too big in the way, which is kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 3>You put her on your shoulders.

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<v Speaker 7>She wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we were drunk, So.

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<v Speaker 3>At what point did you get kicked out of the zoo.

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't get kicked out.

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<v Speaker 4>We did good.

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<v Speaker 5>We weren't We weren't belligerent.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny. We never asked you if she was a minor.

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<v Speaker 1>We usually don't have to, but maybe it's just safe.

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<v Speaker 1>She's over eighteen, she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just over twenty one. She's drinking over twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>One thirty something.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>And she liked being on the shoulders.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, oh so she did a few times, so okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's the one suggested it.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys leave the zoo? How did it end?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? She told me that her favorite animal was with

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<v Speaker 5>the penguins. Oh, she was in the bathroom, and I

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<v Speaker 5>like snuck into the like the gift shop, and I

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<v Speaker 5>bought her a stuffed penguin.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a great move.

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<v Speaker 5>She was super happy. She gave me a kiss like

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<v Speaker 5>it was a whole moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you guys had a penguin moment together. I

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<v Speaker 3>like it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I feel great about the whole thing. And

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<v Speaker 5>then later that night she posted pictures of us ooh

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<v Speaker 5>Instagram like on her story.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, just the story is not as dramatic as ye,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like she may be trying to make somebody jealous.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's a good boy. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>And you were okay at the Instagram stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but she deleted them the next day. The stories

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<v Speaker 5>they auto delete, she deleted them. She deleted them before

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<v Speaker 5>like the twenty four hours, like the next morning.

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<v Speaker 3>How many times did you check her out?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to answer that if it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>sound incriminated.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like the person she saw it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. How long has it been since the zoo date happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Like a week?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? And nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>She's not hitting you up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she's not responding to anything. So did you.

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<v Speaker 3>Reply to her stories when you saw the pictures of

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<v Speaker 3>you and her up there?

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<v Speaker 5>I liked like the emoji response or whatever? Which emoji

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<v Speaker 5>like the heart eyes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, these are good things. But I can see

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<v Speaker 2>how you go from an extreme high like wow, this

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<v Speaker 2>girl kissed me she posts me on the story, to

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<v Speaker 2>then immediately she's deleting you that.

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<v Speaker 3>It is a quick relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like a little breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>The penguins made for life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, that's only when they can't have that's only

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<v Speaker 5>when they can't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry, you trust the penguin expert there. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to come back and we're going to try to

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<v Speaker 1>have you and Shannon made for life. But we do

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<v Speaker 1>your second day.

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<v Speaker 3>He even thinks that's a little too intense. Let's just

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<v Speaker 3>go with a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, one second date. We'll start with it. Then forever

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<v Speaker 1>an eternity when we do your second date. Update next now, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>hop upon my shoulders, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 3>I would break.

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<v Speaker 5>Up.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook. When was the last time you were on a

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<v Speaker 1>man's shoulders? Was it a Sultan Peppa reunion tour or

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<v Speaker 1>when you were trying to scale the Capitol Building? I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot The Radio Fation doesn't want us mentioning that because

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<v Speaker 1>it paints everybody in a bath. That's what they were

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<v Speaker 1>saying to you, But you wouldn't. It was definitely shoot okay, okay, yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>we take that last part out in the end. Yeahah,

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<v Speaker 1>but that light a good life though, was shining on

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<v Speaker 1>Grant during his zoo datecause him and Shannon enjoyed the

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<v Speaker 1>animals together a couple of drinks, and she even got

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<v Speaker 1>on his shoulders more than once throughout the day.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know that she liked it too, because she

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<v Speaker 1>posted the photos on her Insta stories later that night

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<v Speaker 1>before deleting it before the twenty four hour period. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I need to ask, Grant. Do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe one of her friends saw a picture of you

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<v Speaker 1>on the Insta stories and could have been like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>No, like talk crap about him?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like delete that. That's not good. Is that possible?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh No? I thought maybe like she posted it when

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<v Speaker 5>she was tipsy, and then the next day it was like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh maybe that was a little too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but but you replied with hard eyes, so she

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't have felt that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe that's why she felt that way. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh god, he's already hard eyeing it. I'm already wait

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, I was drunk.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So everybody's way too in their head about this

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<v Speaker 3>instant stories thing, is what we're hearing. Yeah, I am okay, alright.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well we're gonna get all the theories out

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<v Speaker 1>of the way and just get right to the truth

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<v Speaker 1>when we call here here in a minute, Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to do this?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay hermo simple smile.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe it was his fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find out here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Shannon? Yes, Hey, Shannon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to interrupt your whatever you're doing today, but

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you have time to be on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>She could be doing nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, off, what hi, Shannon? We're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>What we're a radio show? I don't think she asked,

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<v Speaker 1>like she couldn't hear. Sorry, Shannon. Yeah, sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 1>not on the radio much. But we do this all

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<v Speaker 1>the time where we reach out to people trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hook them up to go out on another date with

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners after they've been out once before.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you follow him, Shandon?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, this is called the second date update. And

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<v Speaker 1>we heard from one of our listeners, Grant, that you

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<v Speaker 1>tube met up at a zoo.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god. Yeah yeah, yeah, regretful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it wasn't it fun? I mean like his description

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<v Speaker 3>sounded like you guys had a great time.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, we did, We really did. And so why

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<v Speaker 7>are you calling you?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Grant agrees that you guys had an amazing time

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<v Speaker 1>and is wondering why not responding to him, because he says,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a week since you've last talked, right.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, he's super cool and we had a great date.

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<v Speaker 7>I can't lie.

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<v Speaker 6>We had a really, really great that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>So are you planning on getting back in touch with him?

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<v Speaker 3>You just haven't had time?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I know, I mean probably not as it a whole.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not him, it's me saying.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's just I would rather not talk about it,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, Okay, but we.

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<v Speaker 1>Rather would.

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<v Speaker 4>Grant.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Grant deserves to hear at least some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of reason why you're saying yourself. He's amazing, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>great time.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, look, all I can say is that there's

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<v Speaker 7>another person that I go out with sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, like sometimes, as in like all the time.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, but we have our own situation, like

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<v Speaker 7>he's a little bit of an older man and he

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<v Speaker 7>looks out for me. And I made a mistake of

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<v Speaker 7>posting a picture of Grant and I on my Instagram story.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you call it a mistake or does this

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<v Speaker 1>other person call it a mistake.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean he saw it, and he was a

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<v Speaker 7>little little bit threatened by it, I guess, and and

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<v Speaker 7>and normally, I mean, it's not a problem for me

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<v Speaker 7>to date other people. But for some reason, there was

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<v Speaker 7>something about Grant that so.

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<v Speaker 3>Get well, I mean, was it gonna be that blunt

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, like, like, is this older person

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<v Speaker 3>you're are you physically in a relationship with them or

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<v Speaker 3>is it more of like a financial relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean that's my own situation. It's a good

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<v Speaker 7>I'll just say it's a good situation for me.

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<v Speaker 3>And it doesn't sound like it though, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like you can't date who you want to everybody but him.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that true? Is that true he controls who you date?

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<v Speaker 7>No, he's not controlling whatsoever. Wants to do this for

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<v Speaker 7>myself and what's right for me. And based off of

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<v Speaker 7>the reaction that I got from this other guy, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't want that.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to feel it that way. So I'm

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<v Speaker 6>making this decision.

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<v Speaker 1>And you said that you've been seeing You've seen other

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<v Speaker 1>guys before. He doesn't have a problem with it, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just something about Grant.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, And I have no idea. What it is?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what it is? It's probably that he

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<v Speaker 3>can tell that you really like Grant.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe he's maybe he's just jealous that Grant can

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<v Speaker 1>carry you on his shoulder itself. He's too old to

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<v Speaker 1>do it.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't do that anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a locker you can sit on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as fun.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen, I've thought about this already. I've already done my

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<v Speaker 6>processing of it. And like I.

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<v Speaker 7>Said, even though I'd like to see Grant again, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>just not in the position right now to mess up

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<v Speaker 7>something else that is great in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I know maybe you've had a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>time to process this, but someone who hasn't is Grant,

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<v Speaker 1>who literally just heard about this the moment you said it,

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<v Speaker 1>what a second ago. He's on the other line right now,

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to talk to.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, I wanted to avoid this. I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>want to hurt his feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we don't know if his feelings are hurt, Grant,

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<v Speaker 1>they are hurt.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, good guess Shannon, you read on that was right?

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<v Speaker 5>Ours was wrong, Shannon. I'm just I'm so confused, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't expect something like this. You're just so like

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<v Speaker 5>cool and pretty, like I never imagine something like this

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<v Speaker 5>for you. I almost don't even believe you.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't believe her, she didn't know you're on the phone, bro.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm sure she could have guessed. She's not dumb.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait a minute, Yeah, it's nice of you to say.

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<v Speaker 6>I just don't think it's the right time for us.

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<v Speaker 6>Just not the right time. And how many.

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<v Speaker 3>Years does this guy have left?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the expiration?

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<v Speaker 6>It has nothing to do with that. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 6>do what's best for me too.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you, okay, Grant?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah no, I mean I hear what she's saying, but

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<v Speaker 5>I just feel like, I don't know, we have a

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<v Speaker 5>really great connection. I don't even want to give this

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<v Speaker 5>like one more chance. Like does this old dude get

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<v Speaker 5>you a stuff penguins or.

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<v Speaker 1>Her a real penguin?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, yeah, he's got.

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<v Speaker 6>Me like three, but.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a lie. That is a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye oh my god, he forgot that he got her

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<v Speaker 1>the first two. So it keeps buying your mind.

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<v Speaker 7>It's my favorite animal, like that's why.

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<v Speaker 6>He does it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Look, you yourself said the connection between you and

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<v Speaker 1>Grant was very strong, so if this has anything to

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<v Speaker 1>do with money, I'm sure Grant is open to doubling

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<v Speaker 1>it right now, prove that you're the better man an auction.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I don't I talk to Shannon about how she's

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<v Speaker 3>an independent woman and.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't already told us that you don't have to put

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<v Speaker 1>the words in her mouth.

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<v Speaker 6>I'd like to hear what Grant has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, cracked up and you gotta slam it open? Go ahead?

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<v Speaker 3>Is ruin in it?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we're only on the first date, so let's not

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<v Speaker 5>get ahead of ourselves. I'm not paying for her yet.

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<v Speaker 5>But if she wants to go on a second date

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<v Speaker 5>to get to know me better without like jangling a

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<v Speaker 5>money carrot in front of her, bro I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like insinuity. He does have money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there might be a VERSACEI bag waiting for you

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<v Speaker 1>at the very end if you go out with him

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<v Speaker 1>one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>These are false promises.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's what she wants, that's not from us, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all out of grants checking account. We're just going to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a little tiny gift card to get the

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<v Speaker 1>date going. Yeah, it's like, so what do you think, Shannon?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I don't want to screw up some

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<v Speaker 6>the off.

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<v Speaker 4>You're really rich.

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<v Speaker 1>Her heart is saying yes. You can hear her heart

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<v Speaker 1>saying yes, But can hear your mind is saying no.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good way to put a jeb And you

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<v Speaker 3>could always go back to school, Shannon, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>get your own job. She didn't go to school's.

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<v Speaker 1>Really putting her down somehow, So depressing little mudience. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard from the yet, Grant. So are you giving

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<v Speaker 1>up here?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I'm not ready for a triangle at this point

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<v Speaker 5>in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for you, bro What if you could get on

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<v Speaker 3>the paycheck too.

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<v Speaker 5>Though, I would have to know what that would entail.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm sure they just say companionship. That's what they

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<v Speaker 3>always say.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Shannon. Does this other guy have openings for more

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<v Speaker 1>people like you? Oh? I was gonna put in my application.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's sad to me not that the world's

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<v Speaker 1>changed so much. It's that Brooke can't get on board

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm over here trying to broke her a financial

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<v Speaker 1>transaction between two soulmates and make everyone happy. And there's Natasha,

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<v Speaker 1>they say or in the background, like, what are we doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a woman listening to a man?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it is unhealthy relationship, Jeffrey. It is. She Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but she's telling herself that, oh, he lets me do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Accept whatever. There's an accept then you don't get to

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<v Speaker 3>apply anything to it anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You see what I'm saying. Right after we take that

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, Brook actually sent me an Excel spreadsheet

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<v Speaker 1>on what she thinks Grant could have paid, So technically

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<v Speaker 1>is totally on board. She's playing it up for the

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<v Speaker 1>audience that she's the boys.

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<v Speaker 3>Of Reason, but none of it qualifies as tax deductions, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not smart for him either way.

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<v Speaker 1>To make it fun. You know, Brooke is Brook. Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>is on eBay right now, not trying to buy anything.

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<v Speaker 1>She's offering herself to the highest bidder for like a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred thousands.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd buy it for her, but I also think that

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<v Speaker 3>that's wrong. You're someone else. You're going to keep working

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<v Speaker 3>here and earn an honest wage.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, if you ever want some help with

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<v Speaker 1>your dating life, you can email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person who isn't calling you back. It's Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning, Brook

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<v Speaker 3>And Jeffrey in the morning,