Speaker 1: The second date of day, Jose, If you messaged a
Speaker 1: girl on a dating app, how long would you wait
Speaker 1: for them to respond back to you before you decide
Speaker 1: it's like time to move on? Two or three minutes
Speaker 1: and then it's like she blew, got to act fast
Speaker 1: if you want to hop.
Speaker 2: On this round, I assume as I'm sending it, I'm
Speaker 2: not going to get a response.
Speaker 1: Oh you give up?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's just no right, yeah, exactly like.
Speaker 4: An error going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. Is different than one of our listeners
Speaker 1: who says he didn't hear back for three weeks after
Speaker 1: he sent his first message. But good things come to
Speaker 1: those who wait. That's why I've been I've been keeping
Speaker 1: Grant on hold for the last forty eight minutes. Talk
Speaker 1: to us, Grant, it's finally time. Welcome to the showy.
Speaker 3: That's it. Jeffrey's trick on how he gets people to
Speaker 3: respect him.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, do you respect me? Grant?
Speaker 5: Hey, I'm very vulnerable, so be careful.
Speaker 1: Just how I like it.
Speaker 3: He's sensitive right now?
Speaker 1: All right, now, tell us about the woman that you
Speaker 1: met up with recently. What's her name?
Speaker 5: Her name is Shan and she's super cool. She's very sweet,
Speaker 5: she's very funny.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so sweet. She left you waiting for three
Speaker 1: weeks before she responded to your message.
Speaker 3: What she say? After three weeks she.
Speaker 5: Said that she had forgotten her account was even active.
Speaker 1: So, oh, do you think that was truthful? Or was
Speaker 1: that just something that women say to throw you off.
Speaker 5: I didn't really think about it that much.
Speaker 3: Is it today's version of I never do this? Right?
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm on a dating app?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean she was really cool. So like, once
Speaker 5: she was actually messaging me, I was like.
Speaker 3: Who cares?
Speaker 5: It was cool?
Speaker 6: Who cares?
Speaker 3: I don't care what happened?
Speaker 1: Typical dude.
Speaker 3: All right, so you guys connected, that's awesome. What'd you
Speaker 3: end up doing?
Speaker 5: Well? She loves animals, and so I said, so we
Speaker 5: go to a zoo.
Speaker 3: That's a great date.
Speaker 1: How did that go?
Speaker 5: Well? At first, I kind of like instantly regretted it
Speaker 5: because it was a little later in the day and
Speaker 5: there were so many people. There was super crowded. They're
Speaker 5: like kids screaming everywhere.
Speaker 1: And like it's like being in a chucky cheese at
Speaker 1: that point, there's no alcohol.
Speaker 2: Well, I was about to ask that, did you guys
Speaker 2: pre funk because I went to the Zoo drunk ones
Speaker 2: and it was awesome alone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, I was okay.
Speaker 4: Well I think I want don't remember now.
Speaker 3: Sitting in the Otter exhibit just talking to him.
Speaker 5: Strant was that you kind of we didn't drink before,
Speaker 5: but once we got there and realized it was like
Speaker 5: a zoo seeing funny too like that. I was like,
Speaker 5: why don't we just go to a bar? And she
Speaker 5: was like, well, it just so happens that I have
Speaker 5: like those little you know, those like little bottles of vodka.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's got a bar in her purse. I like her.
Speaker 1: Is that is that cool? Or is that a red
Speaker 1: flag to you?
Speaker 5: Oh? I loved it?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So we like just got some sodas at the
Speaker 5: Zoom and we made our own little like cocktails and.
Speaker 4: The cans or the bottles.
Speaker 3: Yeah help you and all the other moms there.
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, that helped things out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like it was super chill and we
Speaker 5: were like laughing and it was just fun.
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 1: Was the big what's the biggest highlight from the Zoo?
Speaker 5: Oh gosh, Well she's kind of short, so like she'd
Speaker 5: sit on my shoulders, like if the crowds were like
Speaker 5: too big in the way, which is kind of cute.
Speaker 3: You put her on your shoulders.
Speaker 7: She wanted to go.
Speaker 5: I mean, we were drunk, So.
Speaker 3: At what point did you get kicked out of the zoo.
Speaker 5: We didn't get kicked out.
Speaker 4: We did good.
Speaker 5: We weren't We weren't belligerent.
Speaker 1: It's funny. We never asked you if she was a minor.
Speaker 1: We usually don't have to, but maybe it's just safe.
Speaker 1: She's over eighteen, she's.
Speaker 3: Just over twenty one. She's drinking over twenty.
Speaker 5: One thirty something.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, it's interesting.
Speaker 1: And she liked being on the shoulders.
Speaker 5: I mean, oh so she did a few times, so okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the one suggested it.
Speaker 1: How did you guys leave the zoo? How did it end?
Speaker 5: Well? She told me that her favorite animal was with
Speaker 5: the penguins. Oh, she was in the bathroom, and I
Speaker 5: like snuck into the like the gift shop, and I
Speaker 5: bought her a stuffed penguin.
Speaker 4: That's a great move.
Speaker 5: She was super happy. She gave me a kiss like
Speaker 5: it was a whole moment.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you guys had a penguin moment together. I
Speaker 3: like it.
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel great about the whole thing. And
Speaker 5: then later that night she posted pictures of us ooh
Speaker 5: Instagram like on her story.
Speaker 4: Okay, just the story is not as dramatic as ye,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It sounds like she may be trying to make somebody jealous.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a good boy. I don't know.
Speaker 3: And you were okay at the Instagram stuff.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but she deleted them the next day. The stories
Speaker 5: they auto delete, she deleted them. She deleted them before
Speaker 5: like the twenty four hours, like the next morning.
Speaker 3: How many times did you check her out?
Speaker 1: You don't have to answer that if it's going to
Speaker 1: sound incriminated.
Speaker 3: It sounds like the person she saw it.
Speaker 1: Okay. How long has it been since the zoo date happened?
Speaker 5: Like a week?
Speaker 3: Okay? And nothing.
Speaker 4: She's not hitting you up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's not responding to anything. So did you.
Speaker 3: Reply to her stories when you saw the pictures of
Speaker 3: you and her up there?
Speaker 5: I liked like the emoji response or whatever? Which emoji
Speaker 5: like the heart eyes?
Speaker 2: Oh no, these are good things. But I can see
Speaker 2: how you go from an extreme high like wow, this
Speaker 2: girl kissed me she posts me on the story, to
Speaker 2: then immediately she's deleting you that.
Speaker 3: It is a quick relationship.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like a little breakup.
Speaker 1: The penguins made for life.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, that's only when they can't have that's only
Speaker 5: when they can't wait.
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, you trust the penguin expert there. So we're
Speaker 1: going to come back and we're going to try to
Speaker 1: have you and Shannon made for life. But we do
Speaker 1: your second day.
Speaker 3: He even thinks that's a little too intense. Let's just
Speaker 3: go with a second date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one second date. We'll start with it. Then forever
Speaker 1: an eternity when we do your second date. Update next now, Brook,
Speaker 1: hop upon my shoulders, let's do this.
Speaker 3: I would break.
Speaker 5: Up.
Speaker 1: Brook. When was the last time you were on a
Speaker 1: man's shoulders? Was it a Sultan Peppa reunion tour or
Speaker 1: when you were trying to scale the Capitol Building? I
Speaker 1: forgot The Radio Fation doesn't want us mentioning that because
Speaker 1: it paints everybody in a bath. That's what they were
Speaker 1: saying to you, But you wouldn't. It was definitely shoot okay, okay, yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: we take that last part out in the end. Yeahah,
Speaker 1: but that light a good life though, was shining on
Speaker 1: Grant during his zoo datecause him and Shannon enjoyed the
Speaker 1: animals together a couple of drinks, and she even got
Speaker 1: on his shoulders more than once throughout the day.
Speaker 3: That's so crazy.
Speaker 1: And you know that she liked it too, because she
Speaker 1: posted the photos on her Insta stories later that night
Speaker 1: before deleting it before the twenty four hour period. That's
Speaker 1: why I need to ask, Grant. Do you think that
Speaker 1: maybe one of her friends saw a picture of you
Speaker 1: on the Insta stories and could have been like, oh.
Speaker 3: No, like talk crap about him?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like delete that. That's not good. Is that possible?
Speaker 5: Uh No? I thought maybe like she posted it when
Speaker 5: she was tipsy, and then the next day it was like,
Speaker 5: oh maybe that was a little too much.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but but you replied with hard eyes, so she
Speaker 3: shouldn't have felt that way.
Speaker 2: Well maybe that's why she felt that way. She's like,
Speaker 2: oh god, he's already hard eyeing it. I'm already wait
Speaker 2: a minute, I was drunk.
Speaker 3: Okay, So everybody's way too in their head about this
Speaker 3: instant stories thing, is what we're hearing. Yeah, I am okay, alright.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we're gonna get all the theories out
Speaker 1: of the way and just get right to the truth
Speaker 1: when we call here here in a minute, Okay, you
Speaker 1: ready to do this?
Speaker 5: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: Okay hermo simple smile.
Speaker 3: So maybe it was his fault.
Speaker 1: Let's find out here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Shannon? Yes, Hey, Shannon.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to interrupt your whatever you're doing today, but
Speaker 1: I hope you have time to be on the radio
Speaker 1: with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: She could be doing nothing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, off, what hi, Shannon? We're a radio show.
Speaker 1: What we're a radio show? I don't think she asked,
Speaker 1: like she couldn't hear. Sorry, Shannon. Yeah, sounds like you're
Speaker 1: not on the radio much. But we do this all
Speaker 1: the time where we reach out to people trying to
Speaker 1: hook them up to go out on another date with
Speaker 1: our listeners after they've been out once before.
Speaker 3: Did you follow him, Shandon?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is called the second date update. And
Speaker 1: we heard from one of our listeners, Grant, that you
Speaker 1: tube met up at a zoo.
Speaker 6: Oh my god. Yeah yeah, yeah, regretful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't it fun? I mean like his description
Speaker 3: sounded like you guys had a great time.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we did, We really did. And so why
Speaker 7: are you calling you?
Speaker 1: Well, Grant agrees that you guys had an amazing time
Speaker 1: and is wondering why not responding to him, because he says,
Speaker 1: it's been a week since you've last talked, right.
Speaker 7: Okay, he's super cool and we had a great date.
Speaker 7: I can't lie.
Speaker 6: We had a really, really great that's good.
Speaker 3: So are you planning on getting back in touch with him?
Speaker 3: You just haven't had time?
Speaker 7: No, I know, I mean probably not as it a whole.
Speaker 3: It's not him, it's me saying.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just I would rather not talk about it,
Speaker 7: you know, Okay, but we.
Speaker 1: Rather would.
Speaker 4: Grant.
Speaker 1: I think Grant deserves to hear at least some sort
Speaker 1: of reason why you're saying yourself. He's amazing, he's a
Speaker 1: great time.
Speaker 7: I mean, look, all I can say is that there's
Speaker 7: another person that I go out with sometimes.
Speaker 3: Okay, like sometimes, as in like all the time.
Speaker 7: No, no, no, but we have our own situation, like
Speaker 7: he's a little bit of an older man and he
Speaker 7: looks out for me. And I made a mistake of
Speaker 7: posting a picture of Grant and I on my Instagram story.
Speaker 1: And did you call it a mistake or does this
Speaker 1: other person call it a mistake.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean he saw it, and he was a
Speaker 7: little little bit threatened by it, I guess, and and
Speaker 7: and normally, I mean, it's not a problem for me
Speaker 7: to date other people. But for some reason, there was
Speaker 7: something about Grant that so.
Speaker 3: Get well, I mean, was it gonna be that blunt
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, like, like, is this older person
Speaker 3: you're are you physically in a relationship with them or
Speaker 3: is it more of like a financial relationship.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean that's my own situation. It's a good
Speaker 7: I'll just say it's a good situation for me.
Speaker 3: And it doesn't sound like it though, because it sounds
Speaker 3: like you can't date who you want to everybody but him.
Speaker 1: Is that true? Is that true he controls who you date?
Speaker 7: No, he's not controlling whatsoever. Wants to do this for
Speaker 7: myself and what's right for me. And based off of
Speaker 7: the reaction that I got from this other guy, I
Speaker 7: don't want that.
Speaker 6: I don't want to feel it that way. So I'm
Speaker 6: making this decision.
Speaker 1: And you said that you've been seeing You've seen other
Speaker 1: guys before. He doesn't have a problem with it, it's
Speaker 1: just something about Grant.
Speaker 7: Yeah, And I have no idea. What it is?
Speaker 3: Do you know what it is? It's probably that he
Speaker 3: can tell that you really like Grant.
Speaker 1: Or maybe he's maybe he's just jealous that Grant can
Speaker 1: carry you on his shoulder itself. He's too old to
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 4: You can't do that anymore.
Speaker 3: I got a locker you can sit on.
Speaker 1: It's not as fun.
Speaker 6: Listen, I've thought about this already. I've already done my
Speaker 6: processing of it. And like I.
Speaker 7: Said, even though I'd like to see Grant again, I'm
Speaker 7: just not in the position right now to mess up
Speaker 7: something else that is great in my life.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I know maybe you've had a lot of
Speaker 1: time to process this, but someone who hasn't is Grant,
Speaker 1: who literally just heard about this the moment you said it,
Speaker 1: what a second ago. He's on the other line right now,
Speaker 1: wanting to talk to.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I wanted to avoid this. I didn't
Speaker 6: want to hurt his feeling.
Speaker 1: Well, we don't know if his feelings are hurt, Grant,
Speaker 1: they are hurt.
Speaker 3: Well, good guess Shannon, you read on that was right?
Speaker 5: Ours was wrong, Shannon. I'm just I'm so confused, Like
Speaker 5: I didn't expect something like this. You're just so like
Speaker 5: cool and pretty, like I never imagine something like this
Speaker 5: for you. I almost don't even believe you.
Speaker 4: Don't believe her, she didn't know you're on the phone, bro.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm sure she could have guessed. She's not dumb.
Speaker 6: Wait a minute, Yeah, it's nice of you to say.
Speaker 6: I just don't think it's the right time for us.
Speaker 6: Just not the right time. And how many.
Speaker 3: Years does this guy have left?
Speaker 1: What's the expiration?
Speaker 6: It has nothing to do with that. I'm trying to
Speaker 6: do what's best for me too.
Speaker 3: Are you, okay, Grant?
Speaker 5: Yeah no, I mean I hear what she's saying, but
Speaker 5: I just feel like, I don't know, we have a
Speaker 5: really great connection. I don't even want to give this
Speaker 5: like one more chance. Like does this old dude get
Speaker 5: you a stuff penguins or.
Speaker 1: Her a real penguin?
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, he's got.
Speaker 6: Me like three, but.
Speaker 3: That's a lie. That is a lie.
Speaker 1: Ye oh my god, he forgot that he got her
Speaker 1: the first two. So it keeps buying your mind.
Speaker 7: It's my favorite animal, like that's why.
Speaker 6: He does it.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Okay, Look, you yourself said the connection between you and
Speaker 1: Grant was very strong, so if this has anything to
Speaker 1: do with money, I'm sure Grant is open to doubling
Speaker 1: it right now, prove that you're the better man an auction.
Speaker 3: Now, I don't I talk to Shannon about how she's
Speaker 3: an independent woman and.
Speaker 1: Doesn't already told us that you don't have to put
Speaker 1: the words in her mouth.
Speaker 6: I'd like to hear what Grant has to say.
Speaker 1: Oh, cracked up and you gotta slam it open? Go ahead?
Speaker 3: Is ruin in it?
Speaker 5: Well, we're only on the first date, so let's not
Speaker 5: get ahead of ourselves. I'm not paying for her yet.
Speaker 5: But if she wants to go on a second date
Speaker 5: to get to know me better without like jangling a
Speaker 5: money carrot in front of her, bro I like that.
Speaker 4: So it's like insinuity. He does have money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there might be a VERSACEI bag waiting for you
Speaker 1: at the very end if you go out with him
Speaker 1: one more time.
Speaker 3: These are false promises.
Speaker 1: If that's what she wants, that's not from us, that's
Speaker 1: all out of grants checking account. We're just going to
Speaker 1: give you a little tiny gift card to get the
Speaker 1: date going. Yeah, it's like, so what do you think, Shannon?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't want to screw up some
Speaker 6: the off.
Speaker 4: You're really rich.
Speaker 1: Her heart is saying yes. You can hear her heart
Speaker 1: saying yes, But can hear your mind is saying no.
Speaker 3: That's a good way to put a jeb And you
Speaker 3: could always go back to school, Shannon, you know, and
Speaker 3: get your own job. She didn't go to school's.
Speaker 1: Really putting her down somehow, So depressing little mudience. I
Speaker 1: haven't heard from the yet, Grant. So are you giving
Speaker 1: up here?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I'm not ready for a triangle at this point
Speaker 5: in my life.
Speaker 3: Good for you, bro What if you could get on
Speaker 3: the paycheck too.
Speaker 5: Though, I would have to know what that would entail.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sure they just say companionship. That's what they
Speaker 3: always say.
Speaker 1: Right, Shannon. Does this other guy have openings for more
Speaker 1: people like you? Oh? I was gonna put in my application.
Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know what's sad to me not that the world's
Speaker 1: changed so much. It's that Brooke can't get on board
Speaker 1: because I'm over here trying to broke her a financial
Speaker 1: transaction between two soulmates and make everyone happy. And there's Natasha,
Speaker 1: they say or in the background, like, what are we doing.
Speaker 1: Is that a woman listening to a man?
Speaker 3: No, it is unhealthy relationship, Jeffrey. It is. She Yeah,
Speaker 3: but she's telling herself that, oh, he lets me do anything.
Speaker 3: Accept whatever. There's an accept then you don't get to
Speaker 3: apply anything to it anymore.
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Right after we take that
Speaker 1: second day update, Brook actually sent me an Excel spreadsheet
Speaker 1: on what she thinks Grant could have paid, So technically
Speaker 1: is totally on board. She's playing it up for the
Speaker 1: audience that she's the boys.
Speaker 3: Of Reason, but none of it qualifies as tax deductions, Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: So it's not smart for him either way.
Speaker 1: To make it fun. You know, Brooke is Brook. Alexis
Speaker 1: is on eBay right now, not trying to buy anything.
Speaker 1: She's offering herself to the highest bidder for like a
Speaker 1: hundred thousands.
Speaker 3: I'd buy it for her, but I also think that
Speaker 3: that's wrong. You're someone else. You're going to keep working
Speaker 3: here and earn an honest wage.
Speaker 1: In the meantime, if you ever want some help with
Speaker 1: your dating life, you can email the show. We'll call
Speaker 1: that person who isn't calling you back. It's Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning, Brook
Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning,