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Speaker 1: if you want to hop.

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Speaker 2: On this round, I assume as I'm sending it, I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh you give up?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's just no right, yeah, exactly like.

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Speaker 4: An error going on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. Is different than one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: who says he didn't hear back for three weeks after

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Speaker 1: he sent his first message. But good things come to

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Speaker 1: those who wait. That's why I've been I've been keeping

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Speaker 1: Grant on hold for the last forty eight minutes. Talk

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Speaker 1: to us, Grant, it's finally time. Welcome to the showy.

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Speaker 3: That's it. Jeffrey's trick on how he gets people to

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Speaker 3: respect him.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, do you respect me? Grant?

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Speaker 5: Hey, I'm very vulnerable, so be careful.

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Speaker 1: Just how I like it.

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Speaker 3: He's sensitive right now?

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Speaker 1: All right, now, tell us about the woman that you

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Speaker 1: met up with recently. What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Her name is Shan and she's super cool. She's very sweet,

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so sweet. She left you waiting for three

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Speaker 3: What she say? After three weeks she.

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Speaker 5: Said that she had forgotten her account was even active.

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Speaker 1: So, oh, do you think that was truthful? Or was

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Speaker 1: that just something that women say to throw you off.

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Speaker 5: I didn't really think about it that much.

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Speaker 3: Is it today's version of I never do this? Right?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm on a dating app?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean she was really cool. So like, once

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Speaker 3: Who cares?

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Speaker 5: It was cool?

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Speaker 6: Who cares?

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Speaker 3: I don't care what happened?

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Speaker 1: Typical dude.

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Speaker 3: All right, so you guys connected, that's awesome. What'd you

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Speaker 5: Well? She loves animals, and so I said, so we

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Speaker 3: That's a great date.

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Speaker 1: How did that go?

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Speaker 5: Well? At first, I kind of like instantly regretted it

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Speaker 1: And like it's like being in a chucky cheese at

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Speaker 2: Well, I was about to ask that, did you guys

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Speaker 3: Sitting in the Otter exhibit just talking to him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's got a bar in her purse. I like her.

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Speaker 1: Is that is that cool? Or is that a red

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Speaker 5: Oh? I loved it?

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Speaker 4: The cans or the bottles.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like it was super chill and we

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Speaker 1: Was the big what's the biggest highlight from the Zoo?

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh, Well she's kind of short, so like she'd

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Speaker 3: You put her on your shoulders.

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Speaker 7: She wanted to go.

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Speaker 5: We didn't get kicked out.

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Speaker 4: We did good.

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Speaker 5: We weren't We weren't belligerent.

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Speaker 1: It's funny. We never asked you if she was a minor.

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Speaker 1: She's over eighteen, she's.

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Speaker 3: Just over twenty one. She's drinking over twenty.

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Speaker 5: One thirty something.

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Speaker 5: I mean, oh so she did a few times, so okay.

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Speaker 1: How did you guys leave the zoo? How did it end?

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Speaker 5: Well? She told me that her favorite animal was with

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Speaker 4: That's a great move.

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Speaker 5: She was super happy. She gave me a kiss like

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you guys had a penguin moment together. I

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Speaker 5: I mean, I feel great about the whole thing. And

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Speaker 4: Okay, just the story is not as dramatic as ye,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a good boy. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but she deleted them the next day. The stories

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Speaker 3: How many times did you check her out?

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Speaker 1: You don't have to answer that if it's going to

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Speaker 3: It sounds like the person she saw it.

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Speaker 1: Okay. How long has it been since the zoo date happened?

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Speaker 5: Like a week?

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Speaker 3: Okay? And nothing.

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Speaker 4: She's not hitting you up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's not responding to anything. So did you.

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Speaker 5: I liked like the emoji response or whatever? Which emoji

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Speaker 2: Oh no, these are good things. But I can see

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Speaker 3: It is a quick relationship.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like a little breakup.

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Speaker 1: The penguins made for life.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, that's only when they can't have that's only

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, you trust the penguin expert there. So we're

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Speaker 1: your second day.

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Speaker 3: He even thinks that's a little too intense. Let's just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one second date. We'll start with it. Then forever

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Speaker 1: an eternity when we do your second date. Update next now, Brook,

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Speaker 1: hop upon my shoulders, let's do this.

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Speaker 3: I would break.

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Speaker 5: Up.

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Speaker 1: Brook. When was the last time you were on a

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Speaker 1: it paints everybody in a bath. That's what they were

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Speaker 1: saying to you, But you wouldn't. It was definitely shoot okay, okay, yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 1: we take that last part out in the end. Yeahah,

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Speaker 1: but that light a good life though, was shining on

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Speaker 1: Grant during his zoo datecause him and Shannon enjoyed the

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Speaker 3: That's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: And you know that she liked it too, because she

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Speaker 1: why I need to ask, Grant. Do you think that

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Speaker 3: No, like talk crap about him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like delete that. That's not good. Is that possible?

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Speaker 5: oh maybe that was a little too much.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe that's why she felt that way. She's like,

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Speaker 3: Okay, So everybody's way too in their head about this

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Speaker 3: instant stories thing, is what we're hearing. Yeah, I am okay, alright.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well we're gonna get all the theories out

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Speaker 1: of the way and just get right to the truth

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Speaker 1: when we call here here in a minute, Okay, you

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Speaker 1: Okay hermo simple smile.

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Speaker 3: So maybe it was his fault.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Shannon? Yes, Hey, Shannon.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to interrupt your whatever you're doing today, but

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Speaker 4: She could be doing nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, off, what hi, Shannon? We're a radio show.

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Speaker 1: What we're a radio show? I don't think she asked,

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Speaker 3: Did you follow him, Shandon?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is called the second date update. And

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Speaker 1: we heard from one of our listeners, Grant, that you

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Speaker 1: tube met up at a zoo.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god. Yeah yeah, yeah, regretful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't it fun? I mean like his description

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we did, We really did. And so why

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Speaker 1: Well, Grant agrees that you guys had an amazing time

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Speaker 1: and is wondering why not responding to him, because he says,

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Speaker 1: it's been a week since you've last talked, right.

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Speaker 7: Okay, he's super cool and we had a great date.

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Speaker 7: I can't lie.

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Speaker 6: We had a really, really great that's good.

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Speaker 3: So are you planning on getting back in touch with him?

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Speaker 3: You just haven't had time?

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Speaker 7: No, I know, I mean probably not as it a whole.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just I would rather not talk about it,

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Speaker 7: you know, Okay, but we.

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Speaker 1: Rather would.

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Speaker 4: Grant.

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Speaker 1: I think Grant deserves to hear at least some sort

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Speaker 7: I mean, look, all I can say is that there's

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Speaker 3: Okay, like sometimes, as in like all the time.

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Speaker 7: No, no, no, but we have our own situation, like

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Speaker 1: And did you call it a mistake or does this

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean he saw it, and he was a

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Speaker 7: and normally, I mean, it's not a problem for me

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Speaker 3: Get well, I mean, was it gonna be that blunt

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, like, like, is this older person

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean that's my own situation. It's a good

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Speaker 3: And it doesn't sound like it though, because it sounds

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Speaker 1: Is that true? Is that true he controls who you date?

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Speaker 7: No, he's not controlling whatsoever. Wants to do this for

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Speaker 6: I don't want to feel it that way. So I'm

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Speaker 1: And you said that you've been seeing You've seen other

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And I have no idea. What it is?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what it is? It's probably that he

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Speaker 1: Or maybe he's maybe he's just jealous that Grant can

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Speaker 4: You can't do that anymore.

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Speaker 3: I got a locker you can sit on.

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Speaker 1: It's not as fun.

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Speaker 6: Listen, I've thought about this already. I've already done my

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Speaker 7: Said, even though I'd like to see Grant again, I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I know maybe you've had a lot of

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I wanted to avoid this. I didn't

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't know if his feelings are hurt, Grant,

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Speaker 3: Well, good guess Shannon, you read on that was right?

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Speaker 5: Ours was wrong, Shannon. I'm just I'm so confused, Like

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Speaker 5: I didn't expect something like this. You're just so like

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Speaker 4: Don't believe her, she didn't know you're on the phone, bro.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm sure she could have guessed. She's not dumb.

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Speaker 6: Wait a minute, Yeah, it's nice of you to say.

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Speaker 6: I just don't think it's the right time for us.

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Speaker 6: Just not the right time. And how many.

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Speaker 3: Years does this guy have left?

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Speaker 1: What's the expiration?

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Speaker 6: It has nothing to do with that. I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: Are you, okay, Grant?

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, I mean I hear what she's saying, but

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, I don't know, we have a

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Speaker 5: like one more chance. Like does this old dude get

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Speaker 5: you a stuff penguins or.

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Speaker 1: Her a real penguin?

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, he's got.

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Speaker 6: Me like three, but.

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Speaker 3: That's a lie. That is a lie.

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Speaker 1: Ye oh my god, he forgot that he got her

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Speaker 1: the first two. So it keeps buying your mind.

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Speaker 7: It's my favorite animal, like that's why.

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Speaker 6: He does it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Look, you yourself said the connection between you and

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Speaker 1: Grant was very strong, so if this has anything to

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Speaker 1: it right now, prove that you're the better man an auction.

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Speaker 3: Now, I don't I talk to Shannon about how she's

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Speaker 1: Doesn't already told us that you don't have to put

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Speaker 6: I'd like to hear what Grant has to say.

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Speaker 1: Oh, cracked up and you gotta slam it open? Go ahead?

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Speaker 3: Is ruin in it?

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Speaker 5: Well, we're only on the first date, so let's not

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Speaker 5: get ahead of ourselves. I'm not paying for her yet.

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Speaker 5: But if she wants to go on a second date

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Speaker 5: to get to know me better without like jangling a

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Speaker 5: money carrot in front of her, bro I like that.

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Speaker 4: So it's like insinuity. He does have money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there might be a VERSACEI bag waiting for you

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Speaker 3: These are false promises.

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Speaker 1: If that's what she wants, that's not from us, that's

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Speaker 1: all out of grants checking account. We're just going to

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't want to screw up some

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Speaker 4: You're really rich.

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Speaker 1: Her heart is saying yes. You can hear her heart

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Speaker 3: That's a good way to put a jeb And you

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Speaker 3: could always go back to school, Shannon, you know, and

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Speaker 3: get your own job. She didn't go to school's.

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Speaker 1: Really putting her down somehow, So depressing little mudience. I

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Speaker 1: haven't heard from the yet, Grant. So are you giving

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I'm not ready for a triangle at this point

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Speaker 3: Good for you, bro What if you could get on

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Speaker 5: Though, I would have to know what that would entail.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sure they just say companionship. That's what they

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Speaker 1: Right, Shannon. Does this other guy have openings for more

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Speaker 1: people like you? Oh? I was gonna put in my application.

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Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You know what's sad to me not that the world's

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Speaker 1: changed so much. It's that Brooke can't get on board

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Speaker 1: Is that a woman listening to a man?

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Speaker 3: No, it is unhealthy relationship, Jeffrey. It is. She Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but she's telling herself that, oh, he lets me do anything.

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Speaker 3: Accept whatever. There's an accept then you don't get to

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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Right after we take that

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Speaker 1: second day update, Brook actually sent me an Excel spreadsheet

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Speaker 1: on what she thinks Grant could have paid, So technically

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Speaker 1: is totally on board. She's playing it up for the

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Speaker 3: Of Reason, but none of it qualifies as tax deductions, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: So it's not smart for him either way.

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Speaker 1: To make it fun. You know, Brooke is Brook. Alexis

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Speaker 1: is on eBay right now, not trying to buy anything.

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Speaker 1: She's offering herself to the highest bidder for like a

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Speaker 3: I'd buy it for her, but I also think that

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Speaker 3: that's wrong. You're someone else. You're going to keep working

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, if you ever want some help with

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Speaker 1: your dating life, you can email the show. We'll call

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Speaker 1: that person who isn't calling you back. It's Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning, Brook

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Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning,