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Speaker 1: sugarl Dray and the cold and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Minds where speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: What's up, girl? You look very nice, You're glowing. He's

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Speaker 1: the tea because thank you. One thing you're gonna do

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Speaker 1: is cut a esophagus off because you're looking good. You're

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Speaker 1: looking blessed. Thanks for them. Checks is clearing hood and

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Speaker 1: I can see it. No, you start doing it for

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Speaker 1: no reason, no reason, because they look frabulous. Talkyo ship thanks,

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Speaker 1: tell yes because I already know you girl? What was doing? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: tokyo ship you too. Yeah. I went to Columbia and

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Speaker 1: I got my teeth thing. This past week, I got

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you know that was so good. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: So my goal was and I told my DNIS that

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Speaker 1: feel like, no matter how much I whitened them, they

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Speaker 1: gette your teeth whitened. I don't know if it's like

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Speaker 1: And so he didn't make them that much bigger, like

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Speaker 1: elongated my gums, like he come toward my gums, so

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Speaker 1: very happy with my results. I'm gonna tag my doctor.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna post a real body. Well I could just

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Speaker 1: say his name on the show. His name is doctor d.

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Speaker 1: He said top smiles in Meday in Columbia, Columbia. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and everything was just dope as fuck. Like my hotel

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Speaker 1: like a little mini blog for all of the Patreon listeners.

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Speaker 1: So if you're a Patreon listener, or if you not

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Speaker 1: want some barbecue? Want you want some bean? Now I

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Speaker 1: I asked for a cake last year. That's all I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't care how much I'm speaking. You just said yourself. Look,

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Speaker 1: Boy, it's my lunch break. Why when I used to

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Speaker 1: but everything is still in black and white. Yeah you

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Speaker 1: I don't know why we need to. Honestly, I think

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Speaker 1: it's so weird when people make a I watched Nanny

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Speaker 1: think it's weird when people don't want to sign prenups.

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Speaker 1: I think that's weird. So when you get married and

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Speaker 1: And if you don't sign it, you wouldn't marry him. No,

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Speaker 1: Because if he makes more money or I make more money,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I don't get anything, but we

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Speaker 1: now because shit happens. I agree. I just feel like

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425
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Speaker 1: but you can really negotiate a pre nube. But the

426
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Speaker 1: fact I don't really want to marry you be she

427
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Speaker 1: negotiates that, she negotiate, negotiate everything clear, negotiate but but

428
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Speaker 1: but yeah, like I feel like you can negotiate this.

429
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Speaker 1: She with with your man. If he really wants to

430
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Speaker 1: marry you, he should be open to that, and he

431
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Speaker 1: would be cool with that. I said I would sign

432
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433
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Speaker 1: have to be like percentage base. I agree, I agree,

434
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Speaker 1: like not know. Oh, if we get a divorce, you

435
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Speaker 1: get two million dollars? No, yeah, no, because you might

436
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Speaker 1: be worth it. I think I said this before on

437
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Speaker 1: another show. You might be worth a certain amount of

438
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Speaker 1: money right now, and then ten years from now, twenty

439
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Speaker 1: years from now, we get a divorce, you might be

440
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Speaker 1: worth way more than that. And you're still trying to

441
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Speaker 1: give me two meal, especially if I helped you get

442
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Speaker 1: on your feed and get all your freer Yeah, years

443
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Speaker 1: separate fight and I still get two millions and million.

444
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Hell, not only that to protect

445
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446
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Speaker 1: getting a poor minds zero And I needed a black

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Speaker 1: of poor minds. Now, if the business that we started

450
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Speaker 1: out there, if you want to give me a little

451
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Speaker 1: if you want to give me some tea and things

452
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Speaker 1: that you think I can do for my show. Cool,

453
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Speaker 1: if there's little things that you have going on, would

454
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Speaker 1: marry a nigga that's given you tea? Not tea? I

455
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Speaker 1: mean like, I'm not literally, bitch, I don't like you

456
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Speaker 1: well hold on before after we finish this, I got

457
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Speaker 1: a story to telling, okay, But anyways, No, not tea literally.

458
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Speaker 1: I mean like if you feel like, oh, I got

459
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Speaker 1: somebody that I fuck with you, like he can put

460
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Speaker 1: me on a guess on the show, like little things

461
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Speaker 1: like that, that's cool because I'll do the same for you.

462
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Speaker 1: This is stuff between us. But as far as a

463
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Speaker 1: percentage and you really bringing something in, no cause, if

464
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Speaker 1: I married somebody and I'm helping you like behind the

465
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467
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Speaker 1: that I'm not gonna ask for a percentage of that.

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Speaker 1: So yes, I do believe that we should go buy

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470
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Speaker 1: why I understood. I am a regular girl. Let's let

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Speaker 1: that be known. I'm very mean because I'm a very

497
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Speaker 1: I'm normal. I still live, I still drive a regular car,

498
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Speaker 1: still have a regular apartment. I'm just happen to be.

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Speaker 1: People just happen to find me funny and entertainment entertaining

500
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Speaker 1: for some reason. Yeah, you're regular. But when Drake said,

501
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Speaker 1: I wash my bag because I'm not just anybody. I

502
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Speaker 1: had a situation literally last night. Something happened to me

503
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Speaker 1: and I was shook. So I never get on Facebook, y'all.

504
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Speaker 1: I'm glad we twenty five minutes in because only the

505
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Speaker 1: real listeners getting to see now, the real listeners getting

506
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Speaker 1: to see now. So I had a situation happened last

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Speaker 1: night and I was actually shocked, so I got on Facebook.

508
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Speaker 1: I never get on Facebook right, and I had scrolled back,

509
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Speaker 1: like not even scroll back. I went to like the

510
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Speaker 1: messages request where it was new and I saw a

511
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Speaker 1: message and somebody was like calling me, calling me, and

512
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Speaker 1: then I looked at the message on Facebook on Facebook

513
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Speaker 1: call people on Facebook message. The only reason I went

514
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Speaker 1: on there and checked because somebody that I don't fuck with,

515
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Speaker 1: a family member that I don't fuck with. I don't

516
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Speaker 1: know why the person was calling me was just calling

517
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Speaker 1: me back to back to back to back to back.

518
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Speaker 1: So I was trying to get on Facebook to figure

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Speaker 1: out how to turn it off. I ended up been

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Speaker 1: leading the app. Anyways, So I go to this message

521
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Speaker 1: from this person. I've never seen this person and they

522
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Speaker 1: had called me and called me. I'm scrolling down and

523
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Speaker 1: I look at a message and they were like, hey,

524
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Speaker 1: I saw you and I'm not gonna say the name

525
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Speaker 1: because they actually said the person's government name. BE said

526
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Speaker 1: I saw you and blank booked a flight on my

527
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Speaker 1: you and using my United miles, like and like it

528
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Speaker 1: took all the miles from my account. Basically, long story short,

529
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Speaker 1: this nigga scammed had like some scamming that shit going

530
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Speaker 1: on to take me wherever he wanted to take me,

531
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Speaker 1: and I was so my way, I'm confused, I'm a

532
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Speaker 1: little slow. What's going on? The guy whoever? Okay, so

533
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Speaker 1: he's still a random person that messaged you, right, the

534
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Speaker 1: guy that I was dealing with that took me on

535
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Speaker 1: a trip. He scammed this part for you and him? Yes,

536
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: on this person's on that count. Okay. So I guess

537
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: when it showed up, it showed our names. Okay, so

538
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: that's how he found me. He like probably typed my

539
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: name in on Facebook. They this guy doesn't have a Facebook.

540
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Speaker 1: So he was like, how did you and such and such,

541
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Speaker 1: and he said his government name. I was like, this

542
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: is so embarrassing because you doing all this for this

543
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Speaker 1: fight to hear a girl girl exactly, dirty dirty, dirty dirty,

544
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Speaker 1: because I know nod who I think it is. First

545
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Speaker 1: of all, let me say because at the end of

546
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Speaker 1: the day, if this man would have decided to make

547
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Speaker 1: a big deal out of this and like at me

548
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Speaker 1: on Instagram and Twitter and make a bunch of like

549
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Speaker 1: a big deal, that would have been embarrassing for me.

550
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Speaker 1: That's why I say, Ladies, everything that glitters ain't fucking go.

551
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Speaker 1: A lot of these niggas out here capping, pretending, faking

552
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Speaker 1: and acting like they got it and they really don't.

553
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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying this man has it or not,

554
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Speaker 1: but why are you skimming flights? Bro? It was very embarrassing.

555
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Speaker 1: I was very fucking mad. So that's why I say

556
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Speaker 1: I don't trust these niggas. I don't want you to

557
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Speaker 1: have nothing to do with my career because every thing

558
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Speaker 1: legit over here, baby, right, I don't need your hands

559
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Speaker 1: over here. Right, we got this. We good. I was embarrassed.

560
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Speaker 1: Show you the message, girl. I just would have never

561
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Speaker 1: expected that from here because exactly because my man, my man,

562
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Speaker 1: and my man now he don't go baby, he sends

563
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Speaker 1: me that flight. So we be out fight and we

564
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Speaker 1: have a good son. Look you to relax. I'm long

565
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Speaker 1: down because what's wrong with you? I love him, my man.

566
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Speaker 1: You know that Sony Wing song. I love him. I'm

567
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Speaker 1: just sing that to him next time I go home.

568
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Speaker 1: I love me So another man, period. Yeah that's my ship. Okay,

569
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Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead with the next one. So let

570
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Speaker 1: us know, would y'all let y'all spouse manage your career

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Speaker 1: or would you work with your spouse? Let us know.

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Speaker 1: I'm really interested. I do and I will work with

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Speaker 1: my spouse like we could start a busneys together. Like

574
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Speaker 1: you coming in on some already going it ain't happening,

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Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna try to come in. I don't

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Speaker 1: know shit you already got going on. Yeah, I'm not

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Speaker 1: because I don't won't. I don't want too unless you

578
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Speaker 1: give me a title right on paper. What's up y'all?

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Speaker 1: second topic, we want to talk about giving someone who

601
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Speaker 1: always wanted to like fuck with you or whatever, and

602
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Speaker 1: you know you used to probably turn them down, and

603
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Speaker 1: she giving them a chance of bad always a bad idea.

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Speaker 1: I agree. Okay, why do you agree with this segment?

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I agree because I feel like if

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Speaker 1: you were trying to talk to me for a long

607
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Speaker 1: gast time and I was ignoring you, and I wasn't

608
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Speaker 1: wanting to deal with you, and then I finally A'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, because nine times out of seen, if

610
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to deal with you and nothing interested

611
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Speaker 1: me about you already for so long, I'm probably only

612
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Speaker 1: giving you a chance. I'm bored, right right, okay, And

613
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Speaker 1: I'm just like you know what, I ain't talking about

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Speaker 1: nobody else, ain't nobody else, bettle, Let's see what you

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Speaker 1: talking about. I'm already bored, so that's already a bad idea.

616
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Speaker 1: But then on top of that, it's very not to

617
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Speaker 1: say what word am I trying to use? It's very

618
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Speaker 1: naive a beauty believe that that nigga don't know? That

619
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Speaker 1: too right for me? And I think sometimes men just

620
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Speaker 1: stick around or they just be waiting on they turn,

621
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Speaker 1: and then when they get they turn just because you

622
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Speaker 1: used to dub them, used to be trying to say,

623
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Speaker 1: trying to get they link back. I just don't think

624
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Speaker 1: it's a good idea or even to take it to

625
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: an like, let's take it from another perspective. This nigga

626
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: been wanting to fuck with you for so long you've

627
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Speaker 1: been turning him down. You like the woman in his dreams.

628
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Speaker 1: He might be obsessed with you. It might end up

629
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Speaker 1: being like a crazy stalker killer type of situation, like

630
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Speaker 1: if I can't be with you, you can't be with nobody.

631
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Speaker 1: If you don't want to fuck with that nigga. Because

632
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Speaker 1: this is a nigga who been one of even for

633
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Speaker 1: a long time, he might be a little upset. I

634
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: take it like this, I'm gonna take a little bit further.

635
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Speaker 1: I don't want somebody who's been obsessing with me for

636
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Speaker 1: a long time because your standards done got way too

637
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: high because you expecting like, because I'm not gonna lie

638
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: as I age and progress, I'm getting better. So if

639
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: you've been watching me for two three years and you

640
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,479
Speaker 1: and I finally decide to give you a chance, you like, oh,

641
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: she about to pull off the bells and whistles. No, nigga,

642
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm still me. So now you're coming into this situation

643
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: expecting this and this and that when I'm just the

644
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: regular ass girl and I like to chill. I like

645
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: to be at home. I like to watch Marvel movies.

646
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on some low key shit. But you expecting

647
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,479
Speaker 1: me to bring you around when you expected to come

648
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: up to the Edy five, I'm low key legs piece,

649
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: so you expected me to show you the bells and whistles.

650
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: It ain't no bells and whistles, bitch, you about to

651
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: get some chicken out freudo, some motherfuckers short nay, the

652
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: baby Trump with the baby Trump, the little pro cook

653
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: and the pre cook creek cook bit. I ain't there yet.

654
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: I just said I just started cooking. Bitch. I'm just

655
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: I'm just now getting the right. So I feel like

656
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: sometimes people expectation be too high when they're they've been

657
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: chasing somebody for so long and they finally got them,

658
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: and then they'd be like, oh, it's not what I

659
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: thought it was. It's not don't put me, put me

660
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: on the pestl that you put the mother bitches at

661
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't want nothing from now, and you

662
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: expect it to be down here, put me down there

663
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: to you. I don't want to have to meet your

664
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: expectations just because you've been chasing me for three four years.

665
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that. So I don't want

666
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: somebody who's been chasing me forever because you expect oh

667
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: she done this, Oh she's signed this now. Oh I

668
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: know by the time I get her, it's gonna be lit.

669
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: All right, you gonna because this is it's just too

670
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: much to live up to. I'm not trying to live

671
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 1: up to your standards because you've been watching me this long.

672
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: You know how many people are watching you right now? Drag?

673
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: I mean, just yeah, just the idea, all right, I

674
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: hate it. Just the idea of dating somebody who've been

675
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: watching me for a long time is wild. To me like,

676
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't want to date you for that reason anyway,

677
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: because that's weird. That's weird that you already knew who

678
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: I was all this time, but I had no idea

679
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: who you were. No, I don't do that. What you

680
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: mean because you got somebody, You've got your own cool

681
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: you know, bro, you boy, we all gotta out somebody,

682
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: but you'll watching. But exactly that's what I'm saying. I'm

683
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 1: talking about watching somebody like praying on them like I'm

684
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: a wait till I feel like, yeah, like that's scary.

685
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: But niggas do that. Niggas do that crazy, they feel

686
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: like they're on a certain level. And let's not just

687
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: say niggas. Women do that too. Women definitely do that.

688
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: Women definitely. I'll say this. I might be uh spilling

689
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: a lot of girls tea right now, but you girls,

690
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: you women that be watching these younger athletes or younger

691
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: rappers and y'all feel like y'all gonna groom them and

692
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 1: catch them while they're young, You're weird. Cause if you're

693
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: really that bitch like you talking about, and you really

694
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: got it like that, pull somebody your age or pull

695
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: somebody that's in that's already doing what you're doing. Stop

696
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: trying to pray on these young men. Okay, I'm not

697
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: blaming it solely on the women because a lot of

698
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,919
Speaker 1: these men, they be wanting the older girls and things

699
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: like that. Have to get both the cameras. Yeah, because

700
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lie. No, I'm not gonna lie. Not up

701
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: they spot because you know how many young niggas I

702
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,479
Speaker 1: have in my DMS and I could funk they world

703
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: up and get everything that I want from them. But

704
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,720
Speaker 1: I don't do it because I don't wanna groom nobody.

705
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,839
Speaker 1: I want a man. I don't want no little boys

706
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: who just signed the contract. You're a little boys to me,

707
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: I'm not And that's not being disrespectful, it's just real.

708
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: I can't do nothing with you. I can't do nothing

709
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: with you. Gotta focus on building yourself. Myself has already

710
00:36:56,200 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: been built. Remember when that boy got made? Oh that

711
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: sweet baby, he was ready? He was not ready? How

712
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 1: dared you get mad? So Ryan wanted me and Lex

713
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: to go to this event and we had to like,

714
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: what would you call it? What is it called MC?

715
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: It's not called MC? And when you do it at

716
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: a sports event Okay, what are the sports events called

717
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: when like commentators? Okay, yes, so Ryan wanted us to

718
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: be a commentator. You know my vocabulary this episode coming period.

719
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: So yeah, Ryan wanted us to be commentators at this

720
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 1: celebrity basketball game. And it was like this little young

721
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,399
Speaker 1: boy that played football. He was probably like twenty four

722
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: to twenty five, and he was trying to talk to me.

723
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: We exchanged numbers again because I was bored, so we

724
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: exchanged numbers. We was texting, and shit, y'all. He got

725
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: mad at me because I didn't respond back to him

726
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: in two hours and he followed me on Instagram and

727
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: he was almost like, oh, you don't realize who the

728
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: fuck I am? Type shit. No, it wasn't even like that.

729
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: I just feel like, because he didn't say anything like

730
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: that to me, I just think he thought that I

731
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: was playing with him, Like he was like, you playing

732
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: with me. I know you older than me, but I

733
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: don't care, like I could be what you want me

734
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: to be. No, you can't and it literally can't. And

735
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: literally you told me that when you unfollowed me because

736
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: I didn't take you back in two hours like that,

737
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, just kick back and be like all right,

738
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: yeah ready she ready right, So yeah, the young boys,

739
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: I can't do it and deal with you young boys.

740
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: Y'all just not my team. I can never see you

741
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 1: talking to a young guy. Really, I can't see myself.

742
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: But to me, like I think when I'm forty, like

743
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 1: when I'm like forty five, and like say, I done

744
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: got a divorce because like I always I'm gonna be

745
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: married twice. I believe that i'd probably be like post

746
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: first divorce, okay, And I definitely think I could get

747
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: me like you know, I was trying to get my

748
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: group back. Yeah, okay, I can maybe I can see that.

749
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: But he got right now likely had thirty thirty one.

750
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: Now a y'all, nigga cannot hear you? What do you mean?

751
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: Like why would you say that? Because like you a

752
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: whole lot of them. But when you say that, what

753
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: exactly do you mean? I mean, like as far as

754
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: your mentality, the things that you like to do, Like

755
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: a young guy does not know how to really court

756
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: women like us, We are really complex creatures because the

757
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: thing that's gonna get you and I know this about

758
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: you because this is why we connected. If you don't

759
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: have a good conversation, and you don't stimulate us intellectually,

760
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: because there's things that sometimes men think that they're being

761
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: intellectually stimulating and they'se say things and they sound dumb,

762
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is really how you think. And

763
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: I'll never talk to that nigga again. Like I recently

764
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: had a situation, I was feeling myself. I was in

765
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: the club, I was literally pulling. I was pulling the

766
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: niggas like they were literally as I walked through the

767
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:04,959
Speaker 1: arena dead, they were dropping dead. They were literally dropping dead.

768
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: So the one that I chose, I knighted him, I

769
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: united him and granted him permission to text me. And

770
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: once I started talking to him, like I realized, Okay,

771
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 1: he cool, he got it a little bit, but it

772
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: was the conversation was underwhelming. So the girls that are

773
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: dropping dead for you, you want me to do that,

774
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: but I'm not doing that because I want more. I

775
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: need more than money. I need more than the flashy things,

776
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: and a lot of times that's all what people need.

777
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: I need some stimulation, I need passion, I need romance,

778
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 1: I need all of that. So I feel like we

779
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: demand so much, and honestly, young men and women don't

780
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: know how to do that. Even young women like y'all

781
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about no romance. Y'all know nothing about

782
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: no passion. Y'all don't know really how to make a

783
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: man really feel good. Lead up the big mama. If

784
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: you want to learn, I teach you how. Hey, I

785
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: know how to make a man feel good. Same I

786
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: do too. That's why he's I just feel like, yeah,

787
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: I can't. Young guys are just not my thing. They're

788
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: too immature. Yeah, that was a very immature situation. And

789
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 1: following me on Instagram like me, me and the niggas

790
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: that I be talking to, there's older than me. We

791
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: don't even follow each other again, Hey, hello, let me

792
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: tell you something. Y'all follow each other to beginning with.

793
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: So you aren't following me because you're mad at me.

794
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: I followed one of the niggas that I was dealing with,

795
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: but it was a younger nigga, and what happened We

796
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: ended up blocking and I'm following each other. Yeah, so honestly,

797
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: y'all got a girlfriend now? So the boy, the little boy, Oh,

798
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: I thought, my mom, I say, but you know, good

799
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: luck to you, my friend. Alright, are you a little

800
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: split like me. It's not of you, old love. I

801
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: literally was not expecting you to sing that. I thought

802
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: she was about to. Wasn't it like a song that

803
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: was like lock it up? That was lock it up,

804
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: Lock it up, lock it up, lock it up. But

805
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: I feel like somebody had a dance like this knock

806
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: is buried off having bring up that one. Okay, so

807
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: now you all get into the bab the big bow

808
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: about bo bow. So I know that we have talked

809
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: about this before, and a lot of the nasty talking

810
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: from a nasty from a nasty girl. I like a

811
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: nasty nasty. I like a nasty nasty. Okay. So I've

812
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: talked about this before. A lot of podcasts has talked

813
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: about this before. But we want to talk about it

814
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: from a different perspective because one thing we like to

815
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: do is bring different elements to the table. The Crimson everybody,

816
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: the Crimson Tide, it's the fabulary music. That's what the

817
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: article is. Oh, so everybody likes to talk about running

818
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: the red light period sex? Oh would you do it?

819
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 1: Would you not? We don't give a fuck. These niggas

820
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: is fucking on the period. But we want to talk

821
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: about and the benefits of having sex on your period,

822
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: because believe it or not, there are benefits their benefit. No,

823
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: they candles good it do? Okay? So yeah, so we're

824
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: gonna talk about the having sex on your period because

825
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times now I will

826
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: say I'm not having period sex anymore because I told you,

827
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: I feel like throwback Bay, like we did it so much.

828
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 1: I feel like he had like a hold on me

829
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: on some weird ship. And I finally, I finally saying,

830
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: that's like their voodoo shit, it really is. It's any

831
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: nigga I ever had sex week on my perio. They

832
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 1: just would not leave me the funck alone. And you

833
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: won't leave me alone. But I mean you leave him

834
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: alone either. No, I left him alone when since three

835
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: days ago? No, I am married woman. We're gonna talk

836
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: about this after the show, is okay? So read the

837
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: first benefit of having sex on your period. It might

838
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: ease period cramps. Okay, period cramps can be a wet

839
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: blanket for making whoopee. First of all, who the fuck

840
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: be calling sex making whoopee woofy sound like farting? No,

841
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: that's puff. No, that's not like I wish I had

842
00:44:50,960 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: the time you're ay, but if you power through a

843
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: big oh, you might find some relieve. Okay, there isn't

844
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: hard evidence saying orgasms fixed cramps per se, but orgasms

845
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: do flood your bod with endoor fins, which can act

846
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: as a natural pain reliever. Take that mite all. I

847
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: like that because honestly, I'm not gonna lie. My cramps

848
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: are so bad during my period. I used to be

849
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: the girl that could like function during my period. I

850
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: never understood why women would be like, oh, we need

851
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,879
Speaker 1: time off during Oh, I need to take off of school.

852
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: I was like, what, my peers be normal? But honestly,

853
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's with age or something, but

854
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: my peers have been really hard for me lately. They're

855
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: really heavy, They're really hard. So I found I don't

856
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 1: have sex on my period anymore because of other reasons.

857
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: Like I said, I don't want no soul voodoo sex.

858
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: But I will say I started masturbating during my period,

859
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: and I feel like it does ease my cramps little bit.

860
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 1: It definitely does. Masturbating, Yes, masturbating like period, Yes, yes,

861
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: how they work, well, I'll give you a little listen.

862
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to see it I'm not seeing it.

863
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: I'll tell you no. I thank you. So I agree

864
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: with that. They says that might east period cramps. It

865
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,879
Speaker 1: does for me. Okay, so too. This is another one.

866
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,800
Speaker 1: I believe it's true as well. It says it makes

867
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: periods shorter. Orgasms make your uterus and service contract. Since

868
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: your uterine lining is what sheds during menstruation, it's possible

869
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 1: that orgasms help empty it out more quickly shorter periods. Yes, please,

870
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: I agree with this. Say for me, I've even like

871
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: having sex start my period sometimes, like you make it earlier, right,

872
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: it probably does, but I'm saying having sex during your

873
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,919
Speaker 1: period I feel like it gets cleaning it out how

874
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: because it literally says it makes your uterus and certain

875
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: this contract. It's pumping that line and get that lining

876
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 1: out of here. Get it out, hey, get it out,

877
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: you get up, get it out. I do it all baby,

878
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: next time. But I believe that that's to be true.

879
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: So next week can increase your sex drive, which is

880
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: why she be so horny? Horny me?

881
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 2: So what am I say?

882
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: If I'm good? A song the song with Drake pea

883
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: power that is okay? So, first of all, that girl

884
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: was in the background, like, can y'all stop making songs

885
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,280
Speaker 1: with women moaning in the background that pussy got power.

886
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm in the car. You said you was in a

887
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: car with your mama line I was. I hadn't turn

888
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: it down. That girl saying.

889
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 2: Mama, my mama was like, okay, because why not do that?

890
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: Trying to have a cool little jam session, Gunner, Did

891
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 1: you hear this, bitch? Come on, my mama is a

892
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: senior citizen. Stop doing her Yes she is not. Really,

893
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: She's still a bad mean not really. She can still

894
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: be a baddie, but she's a senior citizen. She don't

895
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: want to hear that. She's trying to moaning. Oh I

896
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: hate that song, I really do.

897
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 3: I love.

898
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: You want to be in just as great without the

899
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: girl moaning, like why do we need to? That's why

900
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm doing it? Like then I don't purpose. My mom

901
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: was like like your strong, you know, oh no, But

902
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: she was like it was like quick free's like a quiffer.

903
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: She was nervous, like they told the push push out.

904
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: O God, So this creased your sex? Want to say,

905
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: sexual desire fluctuates during your cycle, and it just so

906
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: happens that some of us feel our hornies during administration.

907
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: Driver roll up the partition, please, drive, roll up the partition. Please.

908
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: What you say, oh honey, like.

909
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 2: You'll say, how damn you?

910
00:49:55,280 --> 00:50:21,760
Speaker 1: It was like she did. She said, period was honestly

911
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: all my period. I feel like that's when I do it,

912
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: like gets me ready, like I do be one of

913
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: the most of my period. I don't know if this

914
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: is an older woman thing or what you say older

915
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: because I'm getting older. I am, and I have in

916
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: your thirties. No, I remember thir thirties. I'm still young.

917
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I'm crossing that threshold of

918
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: when your body starts changing, when your feelings starts changing.

919
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm old. I'm not old. I'm just

920
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 1: saying I'm crushing. I'm crushing. I'm crossing that threshold. You're

921
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 1: talking about me what with my teeth? It's the one

922
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: is the wine? I said? All right? Okay, so oh okay,

923
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: I have a story about this too. Period blood is

924
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: like free loub This might get a little you know mentrol.

925
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: Blood is basically a natural lubricant. Okay, but isn't having

926
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: sex on your period going to be bloodier than fall

927
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: five well, the average person loses only one to six

928
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: tablespoons of mental fluid during a cycle. It's really not

929
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: a lot of blood. I disagree with that.

930
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 3: Like that.

931
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: She because number one, and that's fine. Free loub, but

932
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: freelub don't smell like pennies. It don't. It don't, but

933
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: that shit do. It definitely does. And honestly, like I've

934
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 1: had such an embarrassing moment like Taylor one time, y'all listen,

935
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: I was having to say something my period. One time.

936
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: We was like we was getting to the groom of it.

937
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, must be right, and it smelled it.

938
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: He was like, you wear That's what I said. I said,

939
00:51:55,120 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: Abraham Lincoln in the building. I said, hold on, because

940
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: hold then, why do its mel like that? It's blood?

941
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: Blood has a sin, it really does. It does. So

942
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: I will say, I don't like this. This is not

943
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: a benefit to me. Period. Blood is like lou, but

944
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like that portion of it.

945
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have the ex this one out for me,

946
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: all right, So oh we have more, Okay, let's choose more. Okay,

947
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, it is a lot, Okay, it's a lot. Okay,

948
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: so choose two more. Okay, Okay, let's do this one

949
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people don't believe this.

950
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: You can get pregnant on your period. Okay, you can

951
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: get pregnant while you're on your period. Wait, huh, every

952
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: everyone's miss Why can I say that everyone? It's yeah,

953
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: mistro cycle is a different length. Some women have short cycles,

954
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: and sperm can live inside the female body up to

955
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: five days, so it is possible to get prego if

956
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: ovulation occurs right before or right after sperm stops by

957
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: to say hello. Additionally, it's possible to mistake vaginal bleeding

958
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 1: while ovulating for a period, which again could lead to pregnancy.

959
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: The likelihood of getting pregnant on your period is low,

960
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: but it's still a risk. Wow. Yeah, I think that's

961
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: something that I used to definitely think. I don't think

962
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,760
Speaker 1: everybody assumes that you can't get pregnant unless you're actual

963
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: ovulating right on your calendar. So I feel like, do

964
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: what works for you. Honestly, I don't do it anymore,

965
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: not for anything medical or anything other than that, but

966
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 1: I just feel like period takes is something I don't

967
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: like to do because of the soul ties and things

968
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 1: like that, but there are benefits to at least masturbating.

969
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: I think you should read this one because we know

970
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: somebody liked these. Okay, okay, I'll readone the Dreaded Forgotten

971
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 1: Tampon repeat after us. I will remember to remove my tampon.

972
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: If you have penetrative sex while wearing a tampon, the

973
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: tampon will get pushed against your cervix and cause discomfort

974
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: or pain. It could also go in my a and

975
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: up your chances of TSS, which is toxic shock syndrome.

976
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: So please just take your tampon out. If you want

977
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: to keep your float and check during sex, try a

978
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 1: period disc that could be worn during sex. I don't

979
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 1: know what a period disk is. How is the little

980
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 1: disk that you could put in there and it like

981
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: holds all the blood in Okay, and you can have

982
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: sex with that on? Yeah, okay, So honestly, BO is like,

983
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,760
Speaker 1: right now, I'm sorry, but we got any had trusted.

984
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't like to wear tampons personally.

985
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: I like to let everything just flow out and come out.

986
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't personally wear tampons at all unless I absolutely

987
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: have to. But yes, ladies, if you are a tampon where,

988
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: please remember to take your shit out, because why are

989
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 1: you fucking want a tampon in that's just discussing why

990
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: are you forgetting this? Why that thing is super wide?

991
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 1: This is how you forget it's in there. It's getting

992
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: too loud. Imagine having a tampon in there for two

993
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: weeks too loud. It's getting too they'd be like, damn,

994
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: y'all wrote that, Reggie up, This just got on nags open.

995
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 1: Not this the sink on you babe. Okay, So let

996
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: me say this. We found all these facts on Greatest

997
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 1: dot Com. This was medically reviewed by Janet Brito, who

998
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:35,760
Speaker 1: is a doctor, and this article was written by Jessica Waitman.

999
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: So thank you for this article. It was very educational. Amen,

1000
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: brothers and sister us. So, now we're gonna break this

1001
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: movie down. Y'all know we love a good movie breakdown. Okay,

1002
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 1: So we watched the movie that everybody was requesting to us.

1003
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 1: She No, they were requesting to us. I'm saying more,

1004
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 1: so you watched she Okay, Yeah, I did watch the movie.

1005
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 1: So it's called deep Water. It's on Hulu and it's

1006
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: starring Ben Affleck, And honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I

1007
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 1: tried to watch the movie like twice and I kept

1008
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: falling asleep on it. But there's a reason I really

1009
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: want to talk about this movie. It's because they did

1010
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 1: something that a lot of people, I feel like in

1011
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: the movie industry do not pay attention to. And it

1012
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: was about character development and dialogue. So did you finish it? No,

1013
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: you didn't finish it. I'm sorry, sister. It's okay. It's

1014
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,919
Speaker 1: okay because I'm not gonna tell you know, I just y'all.

1015
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: I literally just got back. It's okay. So first of all,

1016
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: let me just say this as well. The movie is

1017
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: storring Ben Affleck and what's her name? Anna day armis beautiful,

1018
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 1: beautiful woman. Literally, I'm literally a fan of hers because

1019
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: she's so beautiful. I feel like that's what movies her,

1020
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: That's what I love about like movie stars, like you

1021
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: look at her and you be like, oh my god,

1022
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: I get it. I get why this character loves her.

1023
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,439
Speaker 1: But I want to talk about the dialogue of the movie.

1024
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: So the basis of the movie is basically, a married

1025
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: man he's married to this woman who is just a

1026
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,479
Speaker 1: firecracker she was giving me Draja vibs. Honestly, you're married

1027
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: to a girl and she's just never satisfied. She's happy,

1028
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: she wants more so, but honestly, she wasn't given. She

1029
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: can't be happy if she always wants more. Well, I'll

1030
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: say this, it's not that she necessarily wanted more. She

1031
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: just liked adventure. She liked to push her husbands. But

1032
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: so a lot of times she was on not a

1033
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: lot of times. The basis of the movies that she

1034
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: keeps flirting with these men in front of her husband's face,

1035
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: maybe messing around with these men in front of her

1036
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: husband's face. She's letting her husband know no, not the

1037
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: vibes of cheating, more so the vibes of She literally

1038
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: told him, this is why I want to talk about

1039
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: the dialogue of the movie, because it was real conversations.

1040
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: A lot of times when these writers get in these rooms,

1041
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: they write what they feel like should be said, versus

1042
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: listening to people who are actually having these conversations, and

1043
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: the character development like it was very real. It was

1044
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: very fucking real. And she told him, she was like,

1045
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: you're bored. You would be bored if you were married

1046
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: to anybody else other than me, Like, that's what she

1047
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: told him. So I'm not necessarily saying that I was

1048
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: tell that's the things that you would do what she

1049
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: was doing, because honestly, she was reckless. She was flirting

1050
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: in front of the men in front of her face,

1051
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: like drinking, being all like, I don't know, like she

1052
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: was doing a lot. She was doing a lot, I

1053
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: will say, But how they wrote it, it's to the

1054
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: fact that you're rooting for him, you want him to leave.

1055
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: So basically he starts killing everybody that she is flirting with,

1056
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: fucking with. If you looked at her, he's gonna kill you.

1057
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:49,919
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna give the story away like I said,

1058
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: but the ending is absolutely insane. This is a book

1059
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: and I'm actually gonna go back and read the book

1060
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: because the movie based off of a book. It was

1061
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 1: based off of a book, and it was just so

1062
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: good because it's one of those movies. I'm an action

1063
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: movie girl, so I need action. I need I need

1064
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: the first scene to be motherfucker's dropping in the bank,

1065
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: slicing off heads, cutting off you know what I said

1066
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: it all, yes, I remember the first scene. I need action,

1067
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: just like The Dark Knight action. I need action, but

1068
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: this movie is not that at all. But it's about

1069
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: the dialogue. So that's where a lot It really kind

1070
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: of stays the same the whole time, but you have

1071
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 1: to pay attention to the dialogue. Their first conversation he

1072
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: has they have together, she says she's picking out what

1073
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: she's trying to put on. She's like, what dress do

1074
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: you like the best? He's like, well, they both look

1075
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: good on you, but the one that you have on

1076
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: is beautiful. So you can see how obsessed he is

1077
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: with her, like he loved his wife and he wants

1078
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: her to want him so bad, and you you feel

1079
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: sorry for him because you feel like, oh man, he's

1080
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: trying so hard, he loves her so much. And then

1081
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: you get into what he does for a living. He

1082
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: makes drones for a living that kill people, so he

1083
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: don't have no fucking morals. He don't give a fuck

1084
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: about nobody. He gonna give what. He gives a fuck

1085
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: what he wants to give a fuck about. So I

1086
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 1: feel like the writing was so deep and you really

1087
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 1: gotta pay attention. And it was one of those movies

1088
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: that you're not gonna like it. If you're not, I

1089
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: don't want to say intellectual or big person, but if

1090
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: you're a person who likes to listen and really put

1091
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: things together. Because they they brought like snails into it girl,

1092
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: because he was obsessed with snails. And he told one

1093
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: of the characters in the movie, he was like, you know,

1094
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 1: a Snell will follow another Snell for like up up

1095
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 1: a wall for like twelve feet to trace its partner.

1096
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: So he was trying to let them know, stop fucking

1097
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 1: with me, because I'm gonna follow this bitch wherever she going.

1098
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do whatever she wants me to do. And

1099
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 1: if you want to talk to my wife, you're gonna die.

1100
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 1: And I it wasn't giving good good energy. But in

1101
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: the end, I will say she was so toxic she

1102
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: liked it too. Hmmm, yeah, I mean toxy. It was

1103
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: like you made it seem like she was toxic and

1104
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: she is. Because that's how they're making it seem like

1105
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: she's toxic and he's not. He's given it. They're like

1106
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: the perfect uni because they're both and that's what it

1107
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: gives in the ending, Like in the ending, you'll see that,

1108
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 1: but that's the character development. The movies don't do that

1109
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: no more. They just want to start because a lot

1110
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 1: of people they don't want to. They don't want to

1111
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 1: watch a two hour movie. They don't want to get

1112
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: into the characters. They developed his characters so good because

1113
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: you literally the start of the movie you feel sorry

1114
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: for him and you're like, oh my god. But then

1115
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: you realize, nigga, you a sick bitch. You're sick. You

1116
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: deserve it, you deserve everything, but you like it. You

1117
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: want her to fart with someone else because you want

1118
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: to kill that nigga. Want you to kill that nigga.

1119
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: Y'all are sick if I see that bitch, I swear

1120
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 1: to god, I don't care if she's star in the

1121
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 1: next fucking Snoopy movie. I ain't even gonna look at

1122
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: that beach Snoopy. Well you never know. I'm just saying,

1123
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: but she is a beautiful girl, and honestly with her,

1124
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: she's absolutely beautiful, beautiful girl. And I will say this.

1125
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: There was one part where like they were having sex

1126
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: and Ben Affleck's character was eating her ass, and I

1127
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: don't think he was acting. I said, you eating that ass, career,

1128
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 1: I would to take a little leg. She was fine.

1129
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: She yeah, Ben, you was not acting. Ben I see you,

1130
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: I see you. But I will say this, I'm not

1131
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 1: a big fan of Ben Affleck, but I feel like

1132
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 1: he does a very good job at playing that that

1133
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: boring guy but low ki he has a secret life.

1134
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: That's his roles that he needs to stick to. That.

1135
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: If y'all have ever seen The Accountant with Ben Affleck,

1136
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 1: it's the same type of role. He's a quiet guy,

1137
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: but on the side he's a killer. The Accountant is

1138
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: one of my favorite movies. You have to watch The Accountant.

1139
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: If y'all have never seen The account it's a good

1140
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's the kind of roles that

1141
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: Ben Affleck needs to stick to because when he tried

1142
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: to do The Batman, it wasn't the very well received

1143
01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: because it was very Batman requires too much action and

1144
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: too much interaction. Ben I Fleck is good with those

1145
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 1: characters that are like quiet and you're like, oh my god,

1146
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 1: he's very good at that. So honestly, Ben, you turned

1147
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:21,959
Speaker 1: the page for me. So I enjoyed the movie deep Water.

1148
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:25,439
Speaker 1: It's a book, it's a movie on Hulu I've given

1149
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 1: out of ten. I really enjoyed it. I really really

1150
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: enjoyed it. Not like I said, I tried. I fell

1151
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 1: asleep on it the first two times, but once I

1152
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 1: really paid attention, it was good.

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Speaker 3: It was good.

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Speaker 1: All right, So now we're gonna get into the bout

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01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: hey hey bow about bow bow. Okay, So my bop

1176
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 1: of the week. I told y'all, I'm outside with the frobats,

1177
01:04:55,480 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: with the vies, with the music. So shot out am all, y'all.

1178
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: There's a post that's going viral right now that we're like,

1179
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: you know, when an American babe, it's a Nigerian guy

1180
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: because all she posts on her story is Nigerian music.

1181
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 3: I see it's given me, but no, I just I

1182
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 3: really appreciate the culture and I love it, and I

1183
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 3: feel like we should all learn about other cultures.

1184
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: It's so much to learn and it's very interesting, like

1185
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 1: American culture to me, Like I know it, I'm from here.

1186
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm bored. I'm really bored with it. So this is

1187
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 1: a Nigerian artist. His name is Brema and he has

1188
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: a song with Black six Lack whatever y'all want to

1189
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: call that. Man, I know it's black, but you know,

1190
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: not six lack a six act. So he has a song.

1191
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: He has a song called hold Me and shout out

1192
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: to Shade the girl that always does my readings. I

1193
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: always tell y'all about her. I love her. I feel

1194
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:57,919
Speaker 1: like she really gets me because she knows the sound

1195
01:05:57,960 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: I listen to because a lot of people will be

1196
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,160
Speaker 1: sending me music and I'd be like, why would you

1197
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: think I would like this? Like, somebody send me some

1198
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: songs the other day and it literally sounded like some

1199
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: civil rights music and I was like, girl, I'm not

1200
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: trying to march to the king, Honey. It was very

1201
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 1: giving Kitten Hill marching two with MLK on your side,

1202
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: civil rights spray me down with it was giving back

1203
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: of the bus. I'm not I'm standing my ground. The

1204
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: song with me it was no, when you hear it,

1205
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna be like I said, baby girl changed. Yes,

1206
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: it was definitely. But I loved shot at everything that

1207
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: she sends me me fire and uh so Yeah. This

1208
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: song is by Rema and Black. It's called hold Me.

1209
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: It's just giving summer vibes. I told you all the

1210
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 1: Naja boys are coming for the summer. Song is fire.

1211
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: He actually has another song that I listened to off

1212
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: of that project with Chris Brown. It's called hold On.

1213
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: Let me look it up because he's good. I love

1214
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: his voice. Black came in there and killed his part,

1215
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 1: per because let's let's keep it real. We need to

1216
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 1: give Black his flowers because he always gets on the

1217
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: track and kills it. So he has a song called

1218
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 1: Time and Affection as well with Chris Brown. Chris Brown

1219
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: gets on these little island type of songs and snaps,

1220
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's so good because wasn't he on

1221
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 1: that song? Can I get you on the bug?

1222
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:32,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1223
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 1: Yeah he would. I know, well, I think about it.

1224
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: I love me some Chris Brown, yes, okay, so yeah,

1225
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: Redma Black hold me. It's a bob. I love it.

1226
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: It's definitely given a summer by vibes. So yeah, that's

1227
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 1: my bop of the week. Okay, my BP of the week.

1228
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 1: It's funny because we were just talking about these on

1229
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: the episode with Ronnie. But yeah, Brent Faz Mercedes okay

1230
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: fair love that man, know me too. I feel like

1231
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 1: he says some real ship, like when he says some

1232
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 1: crazy ship when people let it slide because he can sing. Yeah,

1233
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: that's how they do with me. Yeah okay, okay, bread

1234
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: bread in the building. So yeah, so I feel like

1235
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,559
Speaker 1: Brent Faz really says some wild she on the real

1236
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 1: you think about it. But people's litly slide because he

1237
01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 1: can sing. Yeah, but that nigga hardest I haven't I have, okay,

1238
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 1: But I'm saying like, it's not like a brand new song,

1239
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 1: Like I feel like it's kind of been out for

1240
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: like the past few ones, but that's still new. I

1241
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 1: hate when people I hate when I tweet a song,

1242
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, y'all heard this this ship. Oh

1243
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 1: for four months, it's still a new song. We need

1244
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: to stop doing that. That's what puts pressure on artists

1245
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: and that's why they be dropping bullshit. If a song

1246
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: is out for four months, it's still fucking new. But

1247
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 1: what makes a sound all to you? Like when do

1248
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 1: a song get off? To me, a song is all

1249
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: like once. I'll say, I give songs like two years.

1250
01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 1: Like if you dropped the project last year and I'm

1251
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:17,639
Speaker 1: just now hearing it, that's still a fucking new project.

1252
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry if you say, oh, oh, we had

1253
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: young Jock on the show, Damn he was on a

1254
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: long time ago. No, he fucking wasn't. That wasn't that

1255
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: long ago. That's still fucking new episode. Bitch. You got

1256
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: me fucked up, right, cause that's why people their expectations

1257
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 1: be too high. And that goes back to that's why

1258
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 1: niggas when they be watching that, stop doing that to people.

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Speaker 1: Give people time. Okay, So if a song dropped four

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Speaker 1: I say, once it's like two or three years, that's

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Speaker 1: when you can say it's old. I just got a sorry, y'all.

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Speaker 1: so now we're gonna get into the question. So if

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Speaker 1: you want your question answered on the show, make sure

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Speaker 1: you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: put in the profile the subject whatever. That's you a

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Speaker 1: Patreon member. Okay, So question number one. If your girl

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Speaker 1: fumbles the BDB, is it your right to scoop him up?

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01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: Or y'all stick to the girl code and never dabble

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01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: in your friends leftovers. Bit y'all be the bitch up

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01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: here exactly, because girl, it's too many b if you

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01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 1: want to get your friend, oh BDB, you're that girl.

1299
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: Stop saying y'all is girl, y'all and I'm not talking

1300
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 1: to you personally now, we is talking to you, because

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01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:54,559
Speaker 1: why would you ask them? She like, babeach, we talking

1302
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 1: to me. Why the fuck would you want to fuck

1303
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: somebody that your friend used to fuck is? Let me

1304
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: tell you something, y'all is not different. A lot of

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01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, oh, well, I can get this out

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01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 1: of him. If your friend didn't get it out of him,

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01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:06,799
Speaker 1: most likely he gonna put y'all in the category already

1308
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna get no ship either, baby, Like,

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01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,640
Speaker 1: why would you do that? No? No, I'm saying. Over

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01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 1: over time, it's been situations where people have fucked with

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01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 1: they friends, nigga, or fucked with somebody and an even

1312
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 1: more for them than he did. I'm just saying, though,

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01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 1: it's been situations where that type of shit is happened.

1314
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 1: Somebody got more out of a nigga than you got

1315
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,439
Speaker 1: out of him. That wasn't my friend, even if it

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01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 1: was your it's been situations where I've that I've seen

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01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:39,280
Speaker 1: where it's been somebody friends I ain't never seen no

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01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 1: friend of mine, and I've had I've had two situations

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01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:49,479
Speaker 1: where my friends have I mean they have a little something,

1320
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 1: but no, I think that's stupid. Stop get there's too many.

1321
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 1: There's a lot, whether y'all like to believe it or not.

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01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 1: The bea, the bees is outside and it's gonna be

1323
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 1: a warm fucking summer beach. Yes, go get your own, nigga,

1324
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: it's giving me not girl, I would never And let

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01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 1: me tell you something, the man. I'm just saying the

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01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 1: man like you got a good roster who yo? But

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01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 1: that's not I know. There is nothing in me that

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01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: would ever want to talk to her niggas at all,

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01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: Like nothing anyways what she was gonna say? Because they

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01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: are nice rosta. If you talk about money with a yeah,

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01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 1: of course, I mean yeah, yeah, But your girl, like,

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01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: why are you even asking that? It's making me be

1333
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,880
Speaker 1: questionable about you. What beaches you? Because why are you

1334
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: asking something like that? Because I don't feel like that

1335
01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 1: was hypotheaty sp Question number two, Hedre and LyX, y'all

1336
01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:00,640
Speaker 1: are the mother fucking graties to ever do with them,

1337
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:05,639
Speaker 1: do it on them. What you ain't do is live whenever,

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01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 1: go ahead, man. Whenever I listen to y'all, I feel

1339
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 1: like I'm just kicking it with my homegirls, and y'all

1340
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 1: stay cracking me the fuck up. I have a topic suggestion,

1341
01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 1: breake control. I feel like there are so many women

1342
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:22,560
Speaker 1: lead podcasts, but no one ever talks about this or

1343
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:26,679
Speaker 1: their experiences with different birth controls. I'm currently using the Peel,

1344
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:28,640
Speaker 1: but sometimes I feel like it really fucks with my

1345
01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 1: mood and hormones, and I'm constantly second guessing if i

1346
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: should stop taking it and try another option, just stick

1347
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: with it, or give up on hormonal birth control completely

1348
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: and switch back to condoms. Definitely not in the market

1349
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 1: to be a mom anytime soon, but I also feel

1350
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:48,679
Speaker 1: like the birth control options available for women are so limited,

1351
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: especially if you want to be hormone free. Just curious

1352
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:55,680
Speaker 1: about your views on birth control overall, your experiences with

1353
01:14:55,840 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: it and what worked for you. Vote grow. So when

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01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:07,719
Speaker 1: I started taking birth control when I was fifteen, Yeah,

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01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:12,559
Speaker 1: I did because my mom was a nurse. I've talked

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01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: about myself, girl, So my mom was at nurse, My

1357
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:19,600
Speaker 1: whole life. I think I've talked about this on the show. So,

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01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 1: being that my mom was in the medical field, she

1359
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:26,800
Speaker 1: always looked at things from a medical perspective and not

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01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: a perspective of like, oh, I'm on, mama, I don't

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01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 1: want you bookies. So and I also had really bad

1362
01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: cramps too when I was younger. So my doctor basically

1363
01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:38,680
Speaker 1: told my mom like, since her cramps are so bad,

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01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: she can either get on iron pills, which the iron

1365
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:43,920
Speaker 1: pills were really really big, or she could start taking

1366
01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 1: birth control. So my mama was like, well, I'm cool

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01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: would have taken a birth control because if she's about

1368
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 1: to go to high school, she started having sex, whatever

1369
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 1: she's I would prefer for her to be safe. So

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01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 1: I started taking rek control when I was like fourteen fifteen.

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01:15:57,800 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 1: I took it up until I got to college, I

1372
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: want to say, when I was like twenty two to

1373
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 1: twenty three, So maybe right after I graduated from college,

1374
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 1: I stopped taking it because I felt like it used

1375
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:09,040
Speaker 1: to make me gain a lot of water, That's all

1376
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That was for me too. I gained a

1377
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 1: lot of way, I gained a lot of water weights,

1378
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:16,840
Speaker 1: and I did not like this sit I felt like

1379
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 1: I was always blown. I also didn't like the fact that, okay, bitch,

1380
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,599
Speaker 1: if I just forget to take these pills for two

1381
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 1: three days, I gotta start a whole new peg and

1382
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:27,799
Speaker 1: then throw my cycle off, and I'm starting my cycle

1383
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: at a whole different time. I just I didn't like it.

1384
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:34,560
Speaker 1: It just wasn't for me. I what I personally do

1385
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 1: right now. I stopped taking I stopped taking work control

1386
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: when I was like twenty three, twenty four, and I

1387
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:44,800
Speaker 1: haven't taken it since. And I just like to have

1388
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:49,599
Speaker 1: the period Trekker apps on my phone. So I tracked

1389
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: my ovulation. So when I'm ovulating, yeah, we're not having sex. No,

1390
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:59,680
Speaker 1: we can't have sex, but you can't hit me. All right, Well,

1391
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, honestly, my method has really I

1392
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 1: use condoms. I use condoms. I told you I'm late

1393
01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 1: text flex. I don't play that shit now. In my situation,

1394
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:16,000
Speaker 1: I thinking about to being a little more allnient. But

1395
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 1: we have talked about male birth control. He we have

1396
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: talked about that A little bit can take the people.

1397
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. We have to do our rey. He

1398
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 1: already is. He's not hippie he gonna have some nice

1399
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 1: but because why is it always on us to take

1400
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:36,320
Speaker 1: birth control? So but honestly, I asked him about it

1401
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 1: and he was like, you know, it's something that you

1402
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 1: know if because birth control really affects me really really

1403
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 1: a lot, not only with my moods but with my way.

1404
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 1: It's just really hard for me when I'm on birth control.

1405
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 1: So I asked him if that would be an option

1406
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 1: and he was like, yeah, like, you know, if we

1407
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 1: do some research, you know, we go to the doctor

1408
01:17:55,080 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: and we just figured out. So I feel like maybe

1409
01:17:57,520 --> 01:18:00,439
Speaker 1: those are the next steps for me. But personally, condoms

1410
01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:05,040
Speaker 1: have been working great for me right now. So yeah,

1411
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: that's what I've been doing because I feel like, why

1412
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:09,679
Speaker 1: is it always on the woman to take break control? Why?

1413
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, and don't be wrong, y'all, I use

1414
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 1: condoms soup, but girls, I did not say a word.

1415
01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 1: People start using condoms three months ago when they think

1416
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:29,679
Speaker 1: it is but no, yeah, so I do be using

1417
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,560
Speaker 1: condoms suit. But like my main breke control though, is

1418
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:34,800
Speaker 1: using the app and just making sure that I'm checking

1419
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: my ovulation because even we're using condoms, I mean, things

1420
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 1: happen sometimes the condom can break. Sometimes they can come off.

1421
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes it gets taken off. Sometimes get taken off. You like,

1422
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 1: you know what this shit? All right? So go ahead

1423
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 1: the question three? Oh I thought you got to read it.

1424
01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:01,799
Speaker 1: I just read that one, did not know. Okay, Hey ladies,

1425
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 1: I love y'all so much. I can't wait to turn

1426
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 1: up with y'all at one of the live shows. I've

1427
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 1: been down this man for a year and I think

1428
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: he's the one. Dick is bomb and he really loves me. However,

1429
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 1: every time he gives me head I have to think

1430
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: about other niggas giving me head to come? What should

1431
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: I do? Ps, he's great at it. If he's good

1432
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:20,800
Speaker 1: at why are you You need to control your mind?

1433
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:22,760
Speaker 1: You know how your mind got little thoughts when you

1434
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 1: be driving on bridge to be like jump off. That's

1435
01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 1: your mind cutting up during fucking. You know how your

1436
01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 1: mind is trash? Oh no, that's what I was thinking,

1437
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 1: Because girl, men are not good at giving head for

1438
01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:40,600
Speaker 1: the you find one, he grimly all right. So the

1439
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:43,240
Speaker 1: voice in your head that you need to control, you

1440
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 1: know that voice in your hand I'm talking about like

1441
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:48,840
Speaker 1: when you open the oven, touch it? Yeah yeah, mom,

1442
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 1: be saying some wild as I'll see like some bleach

1443
01:19:52,160 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: drink it.

1444
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 4: You know, the voice in your head cuts up. The

1445
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:02,720
Speaker 4: voice in your head cuts up. You be in church,

1446
01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 4: you'd be like scream, fuck you, the voice in your

1447
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 4: head be cutting up. So this I really feel like

1448
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 4: it's the voice in your head just being stupid, y'all

1449
01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 4: trying to act like I'm crazy.

1450
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 1: But y'all like talking to somebody punch them in the face.

1451
01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 1: You don't anything about me, yes right now, but you

1452
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:31,560
Speaker 1: don't act it's not that you've done anything. It's just

1453
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:33,720
Speaker 1: my voice telling you to do it and be like,

1454
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:37,879
Speaker 1: punch you in the face, just do it. Some people's

1455
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:42,760
Speaker 1: voice makes it too far they actually do it. So

1456
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 1: what I'm telling you is is really just the I

1457
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:51,080
Speaker 1: really feel like, yeah, like okay, my voice, don't take

1458
01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 1: it that not. But some people, I feel like it's

1459
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:57,240
Speaker 1: really the voice in your head. Like because if he's

1460
01:20:57,320 --> 01:21:00,680
Speaker 1: doing a good job the Diggers, Bob, he loves you

1461
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,600
Speaker 1: and you said he's great at it, it's really just

1462
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:07,720
Speaker 1: you need to control your thoughts and you need to

1463
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: focus on him, baby, look at him, focus on him,

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01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 1: say his name. You don't love you don't love him

1465
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 1: because this is what you said, you said, Dickon's woman.

1466
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 1: He really loves me. Maybe, she said, However, every time

1467
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 1: he gives me head, I have to think about other

1468
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 1: niggas giving me head to come, what should I do?

1469
01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: You don't love this nigga, that's all you think about

1470
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 1: other niggas. That's not necessarily true. That's true. Sometimes you

1471
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,040
Speaker 1: may love somebody, but you think about other niggas during

1472
01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:36,679
Speaker 1: sex because they're not doing a good Somebody ever loved somebody.

1473
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: I was not thinking about other niggas. And she didn't

1474
01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:40,720
Speaker 1: say hes not doing a good job. She said he's

1475
01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:45,880
Speaker 1: great at it. So your point is defeated. Well, no,

1476
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 1: I was saying in other people's situations, because sometimes when

1477
01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 1: women do think about other men during sex, they do

1478
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 1: love them, but it's not good. So in her she

1479
01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 1: said good. She did say it's good. So, sister, it's

1480
01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,960
Speaker 1: the voices in you and you don't love that niggas.

1481
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 1: We don't say that. We're not gonna say wow, people

1482
01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: know who she is. Don'tbody know who she is? Ryan? No,

1483
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: he doesn't, she said. From the email, he said, Okay, anyways,

1484
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 1: I what's your number? Four? Hey, y'all, I'm a Patreon

1485
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 1: member in a three year relationship with a woman who

1486
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 1: is literally the best thing that has ever happened to

1487
01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:28,439
Speaker 1: me after these bullshit ass niggas. I met her through

1488
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: my best friend of ten plus years. We are in

1489
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 1: a serious relationship. We have met each other's families, friends,

1490
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:37,599
Speaker 1: and we live together. I noticed that my best friend

1491
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:40,240
Speaker 1: always has some sweet ships to say regarding my relationship.

1492
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:42,640
Speaker 1: She even has mentioned to a mutual friend that she

1493
01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:46,040
Speaker 1: didn't think our relationship would last as long. She cringes

1494
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 1: every time we kiss, hug, bring up excuse me you

1495
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:56,559
Speaker 1: going in? What the bird? I know I'm trying to stop.

1496
01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 1: She kisses every time we kiss, hug from you persolutely,

1497
01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 1: I hear you. She courages every time we kids, hug,

1498
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 1: bring up a marriage, etc. When we bring up marriage,

1499
01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:16,400
Speaker 1: she shifts the conversation and starts talking about her wedding.

1500
01:23:16,479 --> 01:23:19,600
Speaker 1: But sis is single, I mean manifest, I guess, but

1501
01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 1: the compo wasn't the time. I know you're probably thinking

1502
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:25,760
Speaker 1: maybe she doesn't like the gay stuff, but she was

1503
01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:27,800
Speaker 1: literally the one cheering us on when we were just

1504
01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 1: sneaky links. She has another friend that is also in

1505
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 1: a relationship, but she brags by them and calls them

1506
01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 1: goals while she tells me all their business and they

1507
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 1: are definitely nice. It's now getting to the point where

1508
01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:42,720
Speaker 1: people are pulling me aside and asking if we are

1509
01:23:42,800 --> 01:23:45,639
Speaker 1: still friends because they can see she is not genuinely

1510
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 1: happy for me. Not that I need my best friends

1511
01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 1: approval or praise, but it's like, why isn't she happy

1512
01:23:51,560 --> 01:23:53,479
Speaker 1: for me? I think we've talked about this a lot

1513
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:56,600
Speaker 1: on the show. She was praising y'all. Y'all were sneakylings

1514
01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:58,080
Speaker 1: because a lot of times people want to see you

1515
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 1: doing well but not better than them. So before things

1516
01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:03,759
Speaker 1: get way too out of hand and y'all start hating

1517
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:08,360
Speaker 1: each other, we always talk about the value of communication.

1518
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:11,040
Speaker 1: Everything that you just said to us you need to

1519
01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:13,880
Speaker 1: tell to her. Hey, every time I talk about getting married,

1520
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 1: you start talking about this, I feel like you're not

1521
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,400
Speaker 1: happy for me. Why is that? Is this a one

1522
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:21,800
Speaker 1: sided thing? Maybe I'm tripping, maybe I'm not, But you

1523
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:23,960
Speaker 1: know what, don't even do that because that's gaslighting yourself.

1524
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,799
Speaker 1: What we talked about in the past, don't gaslight yourself.

1525
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 1: Standing in what you feel and talk to her about

1526
01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 1: it and try to get to the bottom of it.

1527
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:34,000
Speaker 1: And if this is your real friend, she's gonna express

1528
01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:36,439
Speaker 1: to you. Maybe why she feels that way because I

1529
01:24:36,520 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 1: don't know, but maybe on her side, she feels like

1530
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:40,800
Speaker 1: this woman took you away from her. She maybe feels

1531
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:43,760
Speaker 1: like she's coming in between y'alls friendship. You never know.

1532
01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:47,280
Speaker 1: So I feel like everything you just said to us, say, hey,

1533
01:24:47,400 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: you cringe every time we kiss, every time I talk

1534
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: about marriage. It's like, so I feel like you need

1535
01:24:52,120 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 1: to talk to her. You do, cause honestly, that's what

1536
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:59,040
Speaker 1: me and you went through this. Like you felt like

1537
01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 1: I was hating. You feel like I was like being

1538
01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:05,519
Speaker 1: jealous of a situation and we talked about and I

1539
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:09,960
Speaker 1: was like, you know, we figured it out, did we?

1540
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: But no, we did. But you weren't jealous, right, But

1541
01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:23,400
Speaker 1: you thought I was. But that's because we weren't getting

1542
01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 1: along on some other ship. Yeah, maybe underlying issues. That's

1543
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like I wasn't, I wasn't hating. I'm

1544
01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 1: just like, damn it. It was just like wait, damn it, bitch,

1545
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 1: we got ship to do. So maybe you have it.

1546
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:42,800
Speaker 1: That's different though, Like I'm not trying to get into

1547
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:49,040
Speaker 1: like the technicality, No, all of the specifics of our situation.

1548
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 1: But like me and you, it was underlying issues, is

1549
01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We also have a business together, it's

1550
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 1: a different situation. We didn't then. It was just we

1551
01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 1: did have a business, was just recorded, but we were

1552
01:26:01,240 --> 01:26:03,879
Speaker 1: trying to create a business that you saw the potential

1553
01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:09,880
Speaker 1: of the business. I deny it so so you didn't

1554
01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 1: want me to do certain things because it was like, bitch, no,

1555
01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,400
Speaker 1: we got to get this money. I gotta get I

1556
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 1: gotta find a way to get this money by tomorrow.

1557
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,880
Speaker 1: She wasn't changing no money, right, she wasn't changing one,

1558
01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:23,839
Speaker 1: but not. What I'm saying is there might be underlying issues.

1559
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,000
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like we had underlying issues. That's

1560
01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 1: why I thought I was jealous. There was underlying issues

1561
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:32,760
Speaker 1: going on between us. So that's what I'm saying for her,

1562
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 1: you need to talk to her and figure out the

1563
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:36,640
Speaker 1: underlying issues. Because it got to one point for me

1564
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:39,679
Speaker 1: and Dre were just like fuck this what is going

1565
01:26:39,760 --> 01:26:41,679
Speaker 1: on with us? And let's make it work. And I'm

1566
01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:44,559
Speaker 1: so glad we did that because look at us now

1567
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: we have the business. And I used to be looking

1568
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 1: at her like bye, and I used to be like bye.

1569
01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:53,840
Speaker 1: The fuck you would be. She would be there for

1570
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:56,680
Speaker 1: like ten more minutes to get water after refrigerator. Bitch,

1571
01:26:56,760 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: why are you still here? Go get water? I'm starting

1572
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:04,840
Speaker 1: drinking sink water. I was getting a couffeino over that, bitch.

1573
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 1: It was good. I don't drink well whatever you was

1574
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:15,360
Speaker 1: drinking the signing, I definitely don't drink then, mad damn bitch,

1575
01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 1: all I said. I just didn't want to drink sink water.

1576
01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 1: I just wanted to get along in other parts of

1577
01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:24,840
Speaker 1: the world that are happy with sink water. Above there,

1578
01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:28,680
Speaker 1: you ain't lifting my apartments I was living in. I

1579
01:27:28,880 --> 01:27:32,439
Speaker 1: was there, okay, I've lived there for a month. Girl.

1580
01:27:32,520 --> 01:27:38,200
Speaker 1: You left the Swiss did that ink dried? Police wasn't

1581
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:44,160
Speaker 1: even leaving the Mara my leases, Baddy, I said, Dad,

1582
01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 1: you just guy, Well, you can come see me dressing up.

1583
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:52,920
Speaker 1: Came back to my apartment of again, that's all right.

1584
01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:59,599
Speaker 1: You don't move. Place is beautiful, honey, period. All right,

1585
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,680
Speaker 1: So y'all know we dropping dates soon. Make sure y'all

1586
01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 1: stay tuned. If you are a Patreon remember make sure

1587
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:07,840
Speaker 1: you join Patreon. We have exclusive content that we dropped

1588
01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:10,160
Speaker 1: every week. You get to skip the line on the

1589
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:13,400
Speaker 1: letters and yeah, the tour days are drop it soon.

1590
01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 1: Were going everywhere. Trust me. I know we already said

1591
01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:18,479
Speaker 1: some cities, but it's more cities that's been added than

1592
01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 1: what we said. And we're about to get into this tune.

1593
01:28:23,080 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 1: You ready for the big chew? You ready for the

1594
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 1: big cheer? Why are you saying chuning? You are not Nigerian?

1595
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:35,040
Speaker 1: Says who me? And no? They said it? They said chee.

1596
01:28:37,120 --> 01:28:41,760
Speaker 1: She said you said that. He said che Ghana. No,

1597
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:44,840
Speaker 1: I said I would live in Ghana. No you No

1598
01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:49,120
Speaker 1: I did. I said I did my ancestry. No, your

1599
01:28:49,160 --> 01:28:51,920
Speaker 1: sister did, Yeah she did. We got the same DNA, right,

1600
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 1: So what was it? Cameron? Okay, but I'm still my

1601
01:28:55,960 --> 01:29:06,240
Speaker 1: Geran from trans Nigerian. Leave me alone because let me

1602
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 1: let me do what I want. Man, Leave me alone? Okay, Bro,

1603
01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:15,880
Speaker 1: thank you? You ready? I'm aa snap you snap? I

1604
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:19,120
Speaker 1: can hear it in my head. You ready? You want

1605
01:29:19,120 --> 01:29:21,760
Speaker 1: me to start or you want to start? Huh? Let

1606
01:29:21,840 --> 01:29:22,000
Speaker 1: me know.

1607
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 5: I would like to know if I could be yo,

1608
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:31,560
Speaker 5: oh kind of girl that you could be down for?

1609
01:29:32,240 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 5: Ohcause when I look at you, I feel something. Tell

1610
01:29:36,720 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 5: me yo, that you other kind of guy that I

1611
01:29:41,200 --> 01:29:42,920
Speaker 5: should make him more.

1612
01:29:44,560 --> 01:29:48,840
Speaker 1: And if I don't let you know, then I would before.

1613
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:53,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't be wrong, but I feel like something could

1614
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:57,400
Speaker 1: be going off. The more I see you, the more

1615
01:29:57,880 --> 01:30:05,040
Speaker 1: that it becomes so true. There ain't no men to

1616
01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:12,679
Speaker 1: be well watch your go when we do. I don't

1617
01:30:12,760 --> 01:30:15,840
Speaker 1: wanna be down with you. I don't want to be

1618
01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 1: down well watch your goat you want me, zam. I

1619
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:34,000
Speaker 1: know anybody's kind up without the reason they got someone

1620
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:40,760
Speaker 1: to care for. If there's affecting Ivy, wait, maybe you

1621
01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:43,000
Speaker 1: need to show up right.

1622
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:50,040
Speaker 5: If that's affecting Ivy more than you ever dream.

1623
01:30:51,360 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 1: As. All you need is my time that I got

1624
01:30:54,920 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 1: plenty out Dad again, my love, baby. I don't want

1625
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:06,080
Speaker 1: to stay by your side, be there to cool you

1626
01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:11,759
Speaker 1: out and let you know everything be all night? Wanna

1627
01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: be down? What should go in through? I want to

1628
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:21,760
Speaker 1: be down. I want to be down with you, no

1629
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:27,479
Speaker 1: matter this time, day, the night. In true, I want

1630
01:31:27,520 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 1: to be down. God to me, I'm to be. I

1631
01:31:37,120 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 1: got to be.

1632
01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 2: How to be?

1633
01:31:42,520 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 1: Brandy did that? First of all, Let's get Brandy her

1634
01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:49,879
Speaker 1: flowers because Brandy had them heat that stuff like grits.

1635
01:31:50,439 --> 01:31:53,799
Speaker 1: I don't care whether nobody say Brandy's harmonies are different,

1636
01:31:54,320 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 1: the runs be different because I cannot do it and

1637
01:31:58,360 --> 01:32:06,040
Speaker 1: King I can't either. So make sure y'all stay tuned.

1638
01:32:06,240 --> 01:32:08,280
Speaker 1: We got so much good stuff coming up to y'all.

1639
01:32:08,320 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 1: Wait till this merch drop. The merch drop gonna be fine.

1640
01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:13,799
Speaker 1: These next couple, guess y'all gonna see, gonna be fine.

1641
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,479
Speaker 1: If y'all want to be down, I don't wanna be

1642
01:32:16,720 --> 01:32:18,720
Speaker 1: down with you. You want to be down with the

1643
01:32:18,760 --> 01:32:23,080
Speaker 1: poor crew. Make sure you subscribe to the Channeler Theatre.

1644
01:32:24,360 --> 01:32:26,600
Speaker 1: They were supposed to say subscribe at the beginning. We

1645
01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:33,040
Speaker 1: know no real YouTubers were not the real steppers. I

1646
01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:35,680
Speaker 1: am if I any young lad? What do you call you?

1647
01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:38,720
Speaker 1: Not a young China? Because you forgot to say subscribed.

1648
01:32:39,240 --> 01:32:41,479
Speaker 1: You're supposed to say it at the beginning. That's what

1649
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:45,640
Speaker 1: the real YouTubers do. Make sure y'all subscribe to the YouTube.

1650
01:32:47,840 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 1: They're gonna pay attention because they thought you said it

1651
01:32:49,560 --> 01:32:54,120
Speaker 1: for everybody. I want nobody to left, because I want

1652
01:32:54,200 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 1: y'all to subscribe. So I'm doing this for the listeners,

1653
01:32:57,960 --> 01:33:00,640
Speaker 1: the people that have already. I don't want people to

1654
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:05,880
Speaker 1: lie that I want I want people nobody else laugh.

1655
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 1: I want people to listeners because they don't. They never

1656
01:33:08,880 --> 01:33:11,280
Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm the stupid one. They're gonna be like, oh,

1657
01:33:11,320 --> 01:33:13,840
Speaker 1: Drea said subscribe, and you didn't say it hard enough.

1658
01:33:15,120 --> 01:33:18,560
Speaker 1: So that's what I was doing. You want to be

1659
01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:25,840
Speaker 1: down with the poor corn you All you should want

1660
01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:29,600
Speaker 1: me to do is repeat that ship ship trying to

1661
01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:33,800
Speaker 1: I know nobody laugh, bitch, say jokes. Nigga, you want subscribers?

1662
01:33:33,840 --> 01:33:39,280
Speaker 1: A not old, isn't it all right? We'll see y'all

1663
01:33:39,320 --> 01:33:42,640
Speaker 1: next week. It's any young shadow of what do you

1664
01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:52,599
Speaker 1: call that? Now? He was like this by y'all, Ryan,

1665
01:33:52,800 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 1: ate that ship up for any young chi