1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of my Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to think about what you do with 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: an extra hour in the week, but then also be 5 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 1: realistic about the nature of time and our choices. In 6 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: much of the United States, we set our clocks back 7 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: an hour over the weekend. This means that Sunday actually 8 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: contained twenty five hours, and any week containing Sunday was 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: a one hundred sixty nine hour week instead of a 10 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: one sixty eight hour week. I find this concept fascinating, 11 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: not the whole daylight savings idea, which just tends to 12 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: mess up my kids sleep schedules. I am more fascinated 13 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: by the idea of actually making a week longer. Many 14 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: times people tell me, oh, if I only had an 15 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: extra hour in the day, I do X, Y or Z, 16 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: and then magically, one day a year we get just that. 17 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 1: On some level, this could lead to thought provoking questions 18 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: what would we do with an extra hour in the week. 19 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: As we discussed in an episode last week, some people 20 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: use the time change to rethink their habits. In the 21 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 1: group discussion questions section at the end of My Time 22 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 1: management fable Juliette School of Possibilities. I ask people to 23 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: think about the idea of adding an extra hour into 24 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: a schedule. If you are going to devote one extra 25 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: hour a week to a top professional priority, what would 26 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: that be. If you are going to devote one extra 27 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: hour a week to a top personal priority, what would 28 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: that be? This question tends to get quickly at those 29 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: handful of things that we know we should be doing 30 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: but aren't. Maybe it's reaching out to a mentor or 31 00:01:55,880 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: thinking about long term career development. Maybe it's exercising or 32 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: working on our novels. Maybe it's really connecting with our spouses. 33 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: In this extra hour, we know we'd finally put time 34 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: towards those things that are important but not urgent. We'd 35 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: put time towards those things we're not doing now, but 36 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: we truly believe our priorities. Except when people get a 37 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: twenty five hour day, do they do these things? In 38 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: a word, no, The vast majority of people who live 39 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: in places where the time falls back do not spend 40 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: the extra hour exercising or connecting with their spouses or 41 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: writing that novel. Many people don't rethink their habits or 42 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: anything else. Instead, the hour is just absorbed into the day. 43 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: We do the same things we always do, and that's 44 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: because time itself is not the issue. If we're not 45 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: making space for something in a twenty four hour day, 46 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: we aren't going to make space for it in a 47 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 1: twenty five hour day either. If we're not making something 48 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: a priority in a one hour week, it's unlikely that 49 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: a six nine hour week will do the trick. Time 50 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 1: will always be a matter of choices. Expectations are infinite, 51 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: and time is finite. Since we are always choosing, it's 52 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: not measurably easier to choose just because a little more 53 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: space opens up. So, by all means, ask yourself what 54 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: you would do with an extra hour in the day. 55 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: But then, and this is key, challenge yourself to figure 56 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: out a way to do this in your normal life. 57 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: People who exercise or read or write operas while reporting 58 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: today jobs don't have any more time than anyone else. 59 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: They've figured out ways to allocate time to what matters 60 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: to them. They make the logistics work, they ask for help, 61 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: they push back on things, They do meaningful things even 62 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: when they don't always feel like it. And that is 63 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: how stuff truly gets done. Whether that's in twenty four 64 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: hours or occasionally in the meantime. This is Laura. Thanks 65 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: for listening and here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody, 66 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. You can send me 67 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: your tips, your questions, or anything else. Just connect with 68 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: me on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at Before Breakfast Pod 69 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: that's b E the number four, then breakfast p o D. 70 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: You can also shoot me an email at Before Breakfast 71 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: podcast at i heeart media dot com that Before Breakfast 72 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: is spelled out with all the letters. 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