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Speaker 1: Come, you're talking about yourself again. The fireworks are like

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show Man. How you doing.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, thanks for taking my call. I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're putting a lot of pressure on this

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Speaker 3: No, I've been in a lot of dates in the

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Speaker 3: But this last girl, Kendra it was like the date

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Speaker 1: Okay, why are you saying that because of Kendra or

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Speaker 3: I think it was a combination of the entire The

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Speaker 2: Lives will look paltry in comparison.

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Speaker 3: Okay? So I bought her flowers? We went to a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: So excited about this story. Where where did you meet her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm he bought her flowers, okay, And.

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Speaker 3: I bought her flowers, which is an important part of

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Speaker 4: Oh, no guys buy flowers.

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Speaker 3: Well, that was part of the story. The server even

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Speaker 3: Well? She kissed me.

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Speaker 2: And God, I hope this works out for you. I mean,

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Speaker 3: That because I'm forty two. But that's all.

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Speaker 2: You are? Forty two? Chris, you told us that you

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Speaker 3: But age doesn't matter. It doesn't matter how old I am. Again,

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Speaker 6: Good fund lie about it, so it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Why do you lie?

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Speaker 3: That's only thirteen years different?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that is my so long And Chris, if

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Speaker 3: Because she wouldn't have woun out with me if I

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Speaker 2: When I was in my twenties. I wouldn't date somebody

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it happens in Hollywood all the time men and

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Speaker 2: Yaps, and it's people having the information to make that choice. Right,

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Speaker 2: So she you lied to her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Kendre, what are your thoughts on this?

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Speaker 6: I mean, here's the thing, Like, I'm not entirely truthful

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Speaker 1: What Wait, I.

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Speaker 5: Say that I'm twenty nine, but I'm actually thirty one.

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Speaker 6: But that's not like a wait.

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Speaker 3: That's dis shocking.

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Speaker 2: Wait okay, chancastic, you don't really have a leg to

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Speaker 3: It's the same. A lie is a lie, whether it's

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Speaker 2: So you're not upset that she lied about her age

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Speaker 3: I'm upset that she's upset about me lying about my

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Speaker 1: Somehow, you think, no matter what it is, the lies

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lie should cancel out a lie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I kind of messed up that you lied.

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Speaker 5: No, here's my thing, It's like when people are like

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Speaker 2: So you aged out of the age bracket you're interested in, is.

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Speaker 6: The problem, Yes, but not by sixteen years.

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Speaker 2: It's thirteen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's sixteen. He doesn't know how to do math.

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Speaker 6: It's literally sixteen.

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Speaker 1: But he's doing the same exact thing that you're doing.

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Speaker 1: He's lying about his age to open up his options

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Speaker 6: But he's opening it too far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean I don't think what she's doing

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Speaker 3: A gap billions of years old. What's the difference between

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Speaker 2: I can't tell who side him on him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and technically the age gap is just eleven years now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I just said.

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Speaker 1: But I wasn't listening to you Brook because you're older

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Speaker 1: I have my cutoff at age thirty five, So Alexis,

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Speaker 5: I'm so confused.

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Speaker 1: My question is when you kissed him, did you know

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Speaker 2: I had suspicions.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I knew he wasn't twenty six.

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Speaker 1: But that means you guys got along so well, even

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Speaker 1: No, you're right, you are right, But I'm just saying

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Speaker 2: You still I think Jose's onto something you both can

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Speaker 1: That age is just a number. It shouldn't matter if

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Speaker 1: Cheap, old man, I see waiting for that senior discount.

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Speaker 1: But Kendra, we will pay for it.

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Speaker 5: It's up to you look, if we would have met

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Speaker 1: Your lies don't bother. My life is fine, you know, Chris,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, it was the best state of his

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Speaker 3: Well, if that's it, guys, I'm gonna let him know

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Speaker 3: the truth that I'm not actually forty two, I'm forty six.

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Speaker 5: What is that why you wore the baseball hat backwards

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Speaker 6: Like you're literally adapt and that's.

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Speaker 5: Why you couldn't get over the fence.

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Speaker 1: No wonder he knows who Toby maguire is. Rook Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Man. I know this happens all the

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Speaker 1: time on the dating apps now, where people lie about

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean maybe it's like one of those things

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Speaker 2: then it won't matter. Yeah, that's what you hope, right.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that that's ever true. A lie always matters.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, because eventually you're gonna have to explain why

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Speaker 1: I'm Jesus, okay, I'm thirty two, or like, I'm a

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Speaker 2: All I need to know is what filter he's using

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Speaker 2: personal use, I swear. Yeah, it's just a curiosity got Okay.

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Speaker 1: So just to be clear, we're not saying don't lie.

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Speaker 1: We're just saying lie smarter. Yeah, okay, to do that, jeff.

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Speaker 2: We're saying, don't lie.

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Speaker 1: I'll make it believable, okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If you want some help with your dating life, lies

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Speaker 1: or not, email the show. We'll call that person who's

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Speaker 1: not calling you back and go find out all of

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Speaker 1: our second dates. They're up online wherever you get your podcasts,

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Speaker 1: yea to search Brook and Jeffrey