WEBVTT - Ep. 12 "Love and Hip Hop" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:15.000 talks back and We're back. It's me again. It's Tam Bam. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:20.079 Welcome to a new episode of We Talk Back and 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:24.520 This Girl, a J. How was your weekend? A J? 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.400 I didn't get to talk to you. I know, bit 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:33.280 your asses hiding somewhere never went. I caught a couple 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:37.360 of flights, girl. I guess I need to get some 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.040 more interesting ship happened in life, right, I think? So 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:43.160 let me lie make up, make up an interesting story 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.920 what you did this weekend? Let me see, girl, So 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:51.879 this nigga I knew flew me out where. I mean, 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:57.120 that's what I really did. No, y'all, I'm single. I 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:01.320 might to begin flowing the funk out girl. Summer hot, 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:04.040 Auntie summer hot, old as bitch. It's gonna be a 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:11.280 low lukewarm, yeah, lukewarm summer. It's a springish summer girl. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:17.320 Because around we had to catch menopause out here. It 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:22.240 ain't like COVID. I don't think hang around enough, old bitches, 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:27.120 you start catching like hot flashes and everything else. Pussy dry, 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:31.200 damn the share well. I went to d see this 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:36.400 weekend to a black tie birthday. It was very nice. 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:39.920 It was on this beautiful rooftop. We took pictures. I 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.840 didn't post any though, because all my pictures I look 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:45.760 cold because it was oldest. That's what you thought she 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:47.960 was going to somehere weather. No. I had on a 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.840 dress that was appropriate for the weather, but just up 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.120 there hind the sky and that cold just was not 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.200 It hit different. But it was a beautiful event. Now, 0:01:56.320 --> 0:02:01.200 I will say that the birthday boy did invite fourteen 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:05.160 thousand bitches and like twenty dudes to the party, and 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.639 no niggas is a house. It wasn't that many. It 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:12.959 wasn't that many at all, so that was disheartening. But 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:16.280 the orders were delicious and the drinks were free, so 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:20.120 it's a good niggers though. Yeah, you know, it was 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:23.160 a turning burn for me. I flew in Saturday, got 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:26.280 there at ten am, and I flew out Sunday morning 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:28.080 so I could spend Easter with my mama because she 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.320 was not having that. I'm about to be getting flewed out. 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:33.240 I'm jealous, Come on, get flew out. My life has 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:39.160 been very not interesting. Reactivate your whole horn. Oh, let 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.480 me get my whole sim cards so you can insert 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:47.880 it from me anyway. So this week, y'all, we're talking 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:51.360 about love and hip hop, and we're not talking about 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.400 like love and help hop. All right, what's your name, 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:57.600 Mona Scott? You're talking about them. We don't be knowing 0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.800 nobody fucking name. Bit. Yeah, we didn't talk about that 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:01.480 up for love and hip hop. We talked about the 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:11.639 actual love relationships and hip hop and the music. Yeah yeah, ladies, 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:15.799 we have got to stop and joined this bullshit. No, 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:19.280 because these niggas thinking is okay? Yeah, I mean because 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.560 we kind of make it. Oh, because I do believe 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:25.440 women said the standards, so we seem to be okay 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.400 with it. Were the number one consumers of music streaming 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:32.160 this ship. Niggas shouldn't be able to make bitch suck 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:36.520 my dick. Listen. I was nigga. I was right down 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.680 the street in d C this weekend and Masterpiece by 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.640 the Baby came on and he said, my bit of Masterpiece, 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:45.880 she sucked my dick even when she mad at me, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.840 And I was sitting there thinking like, who was sucking 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:52.160 a nigga dick when she mad on me? Neither, I'm 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.720 not sucking. I got to be happy to have sex. 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.360 So then these young men, I think mostly young men, 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.400 not older men, are thinking that the girls are supposed 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:04.240 to suck they dick. Why she's mad at them? Exactly? 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:06.840 If I don't want to do it, it's rape. I 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:09.200 don't gonna be married. Then the nick in the car, 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.040 the nigger in the car was like, we started talking 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:13.920 about makeup six, and he was like, yeah, a lot 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.160 of girls don't know how to make up, have makeup 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.520 six good, they still be mad. I was like, if 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:21.600 they're still mad, it's not makeup sex, idiot and just 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:25.000 sucking sex. Yeah, you're probably just because you want to 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.920 do it, not because she wants to listen my pussy 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:31.320 Like if I'm my finances ain't in order, or if 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:34.680 I'm constantly arguing with a motherfucker, I just don't like 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.560 you and I don't want to do nothing. This pussy 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:44.200 is dry. So Herod Desert, A prairie dog just ran by, 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:54.360 came across the room. I feel like I know i'd 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:58.000 be talking about future. I don't dislike him now. After 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:02.800 the Derek flamm As niggas he was two weeks ago. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:05.200 Nobody knows his name anymore. I mean, I'm okay with 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:08.719 the future now because of the Derek Jackson ship, because 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.520 I would, I can appreciate it just so. That's kind 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:15.040 of like the old saying hose and flies. I desplies 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.080 the more I see holds, the more like flies never 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:23.760 heard that. You never heard it? What means like holes 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:26.440 ain't as bad because all these you know, because all 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:30.600 these flies, it's really niggas and flies. I think, honestly, 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:35.640 there's some white racist ship. I turned it into hose. Yeah. 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:39.000 I don't mind future no more. But we should not 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.440 allow nigga's like future to make music. We shouldn't be 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:46.800 allowing like the super negative ass music because it how 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.360 do you expect a young man to fall in love 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:52.880 when you got all the songs saying busted open for 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:57.040 a real nigga, right, and young girls busting it open 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.880 for a real nigga, and nigga's gonna gotta put in 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.800 no fucking work know nothing because the music essentially you 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.320 listen to that ship, it's like programming because listening to it, 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.760 you're gonna be doing whatever the says. Because when we 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.240 was young, people are eating asks like that. Now you 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:13.560 gotta eat the booty like groceries. No, niggas just be 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.400 eating my ass all the time. I look, I was 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:20.479 getting my ass as a teenager. As a teenager, who 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:27.080 are you sleeping? Oh ship? I definitely where you grown man. 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:30.919 No teenage boys was eating your ass. Girl. Some teenage 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.880 boys was definitely eating Ask them, how did y'all know 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:37.719 about that? It's right there? Why not? We're right where 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.760 this hole is right there? You might as well. I 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.280 didn't start getting my asslet till I was a grown up. 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.599 I didn't start looking at till last year. Because it's genie. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:52.680 I it's like I'm taking now. I like the gouch now, 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:55.200 but I'm not. I'm a girl. I'm not an ask 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.600 the only way I'm nigger. He's kind of trying to 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.200 put your head down, boy, if you'll get off my here, 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.239 and like only special men can even get the goods 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.080 like that. You know, niggers be having dingle berries and 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:12.840 that's like little balls and ship mixed it wither. I'm 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:17.160 not a dingle berry eater. Listen, I will look asked. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:20.040 When I'm like fifty five and me and my husband 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:22.240 have like run out of like sexual things to do 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:26.080 and it's getting bored, I might make his asking take 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:33.240 that out. I cut that out. Yes, I don't the 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:40.720 crickets and all bitch so we all know. Don't smoke 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:46.120 behind tam right now what it hit, you might not 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.760 want it hit before you get people like I eat 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:53.480 ask Now that's how you can keep your people all 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.280 the time. Like listen, now I start thinking a while. 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:59.320 You can you say, I ain't stuck dicking around and 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:07.480 being this backwah dick. Let's stay on topics. Bipolar. I 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:11.880 know it's a situation of does art reflect life or 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:16.120 life reflect art? So it's the music because it was 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.440 already existing in our relationships and the dynamics and our 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.280 relationships already. Or is the music creating the dynamics in 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:27.400 our relationship? I believe the music is creating the dynamics. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:30.480 You don't think so calling women bitches and holes? That 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:34.400 wasn't a thing it was you think so like before that, 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:37.520 you think niggas was out here really like that. It 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:40.600 wasn't more like you and I t why oh that was? 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:42.960 That was definitely a song you're in. I t y, 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:47.600 but because I ain't a bit our whole she said 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:50.319 it in the song. Now there's a song by Nat 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.520 King Cole. Dave Chappelle did a skid on it. I 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:56.040 don't know if you saw it, but he was like 0:08:56.880 --> 0:09:00.079 singing about something. It was very melodic and beautiful. On 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:03.840 he was like, I'm gonna pour champagne on you, you 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:14.160 dirty bitch, Nat King Cole. You just made that up. No, 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:19.000 Daschapelle didall did it. I was about to say, please 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.320 pull it up on my Apple music. He's in a 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:27.720 way girl. Yeah. Like so nobody wants to serenade us, 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:30.400 no more like they don't have to be nice and 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.959 talk nice to you know, there is there are some 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.520 artists out now that do make some beautiful love music. 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:41.400 We're just not listening to it because I like to 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.040 work out to that. I like to work out to 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:48.439 like the ratchet. I love because the beats, you know 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.520 what I'm saying, Like the beats, like that ship gets 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.760 you going the baseline, all that ship gets you going. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.560 But when are you listening to the lyrics like the 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.960 beat Box song. You listen to the lyrics of that song, 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:02.319 you know, talk about murdering their gets the whole time. Really, yes, 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:06.080 I never paid attention. I just talking about and that's 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:08.040 what the fun we dancing to. I saw a post 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.480 that said, we're dancing the slave music slave catching music. 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.760 It might be because listen, you think about a group 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:17.760 of impressionable teenage boys. Y'all got some beef with some niggas, right, 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.520 first thing you're doing, you're probaby on some drugs. Then 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:24.040 you're hopping in the car, and then y'all playing this 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:27.680 music loud as fun and it's programming your ask while 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:31.000 you're about to go commit a crime murder. Yes, yeah, 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:34.640 that's girl. What do you do? Though? I believe women like, 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.840 there's a lot of things that we have to do. 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.679 It starts with us. Also, men have to step up 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:42.120 because you know, you've got the older generation of men 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:43.959 who will be talking ship to these young boys. But 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:47.040 y'all were doing the same ship. Y'all were selling the drugs. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:49.600 They're doing the drugs now they're on all these white 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:53.439 boy drugs. Whose responsibility is it? Nobody could tell y'all 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.160 ship when y'all was eight teen either, And then these niggas, 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.240 a lot of them got stupid money. Now, So like 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.760 look at Cold I Black, I love Kodak Black, I 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.480 love Quote Black too. He can't stay out of prison 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:09.480 NBA now He's a demon, that guy. He needs help. 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.080 I just feel like he people don't have nobody around 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.000 so much trauma seems like that and it shows up 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:17.520 and how he represents himself to the world, and that's 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.120 why he's just so toxic. I feel sad for him. 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:23.040 He locked up now, I don't know, it's sad that 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.200 he's created all these children out here and then what 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:26.960 if you get time, are you gonna be out here 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.960 to to help raise these kids? That's what I'm concerned 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.439 about him committing stupid as counts. He's a grown man 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:36.439 at some point. Again, you have to have self responsive 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:40.960 account yes, and you have to break the cycles of 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.600 trauma within your life. And but here's the thing these 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:48.439 artists are. They're not responsible for children. Are grown people. 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.640 They're entertainers. Like Cardie B was like, don't let let 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:53.600 your child listen to Whap. It's not for your child. 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.720 You know. People are like, that's that's an awful song. Yeah, 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.840 kids need to be raised at home, But what happened 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:00.880 when your grandma is thirty five and she's listening to 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:03.400 the same ship? Right? So do the artist do you 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.640 feel like they have a responsibility? You do have a 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:08.520 when you have a platform and your voice gets big enough, 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:11.400 you do have a responsibility. You got people who like 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.199 but I want to talk about Dixon putsy on our show, 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.080 and I don't feel like I should be responsible for 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.680 anybody sixteen year old child listening to we talk back, 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:25.560 Oh you feel responsible for them? No? Hell no? I 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.880 mean it's a million podcasts out there. We're not on 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:32.240 the fucking national syndicated radio show. Yet. Any little sixty 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.040 year old with an iPhone king find us right now. 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:38.319 And then hear us talking about eating diggle berries out 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:45.360 of Nigga's blacks, And so I mean it kind of 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:49.480 hypocritical for us to like say that they have responsibilities 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.640 for these kids. You know, it's it's like a slip. 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.319 Like the record labels. They would not put this ship 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:57.480 out unless it was detrimental to the black community. If 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:59.920 you're putting out positive music, you probably won't get a deal, 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:02.000 you know what I'm saying. It's so easy for them 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.320 that why why would they put that type of stuff 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.120 out there? Why would they allow that to be put 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:08.360 out there? But why would we allow it? So who 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:11.240 are they? We love the ship, you know that? And 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.960 then we have white kids that live vicuriously through all music. 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:16.280 Oh yeah, they love it more than they ain't about 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:17.800 to go do all the ship that's in the song, 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.920 but they can kind of they can feel through it 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:24.840 a little bit. Whatever happened to remember when they used 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:27.320 to play slow songs in the club mixed in with 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.000 the fast songs. They don't do that no more. You 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:34.120 don't hear not one slow. The girls go out to 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.880 the dance floor and get your grind slow. I mean, 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:39.400 I wasn't allied for that, but I've seen it in movies. 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:42.880 I don't remember hearing those slow songs in the club. 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:49.839 Do you whispers? Maybe Solly a little R Kelly little whispers? Girl, 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:55.400 I'm not whispers. I remember you whispers at main event. 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:58.400 That's something about They definitely was not playing those slow 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.040 songs in between ship. I don't I did the sub start? 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.960 What happened right? What happened to? Why? Why is romance 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:08.440 and love not no longer required in the club? Because 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:13.360 of us women? We stopped at requesting you know, y well, 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.680 we had to stop requesting R. Kelly, but we came 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:19.520 Mark Kelly. We stopped requesting love music. When I go 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.200 to the club, I'm asking to play Lenny Willis. Oh 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.600 they do play at the end of the night. Yeah, everybody, 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.560 how you ain't got to get you got to go home. 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:28.440 You gotta get the funk up out of here. Damn 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.880 that suck. They can least play some Ronald Eisley something. 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.560 They do be playing like little, you know, little old 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:36.640 school things. But I did on New Year's they played 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.240 can We Talk? Tevin Campbell? So they might do mixing in. 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:43.400 We're maybe being too hard on the music industry right now. 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:48.400 Yeah that I feel so sorry for young, young girls. 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:50.200 These guys out here. First of all, they want to 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.760 be the bad bages, but they want to wear your 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:54.640 pocket book. They want to wear your heels, They want 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:58.440 to wear your skinny fans, right, and it's because of 0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:00.720 the music lott Wayne started that ship with them, Damn 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:02.960 skinny as fans. I'm gonna snatch one of these niggas 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.520 first because I know they'll be having money in there. 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:09.800 Fucking scammers. They y'all fucking scammers. Y'all gonna see how 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.640 I feel to get your purse Nash to the club. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:18.560 Nigga fucking with me? Sam, You robbing Niggasiggna come up short? 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:22.200 This summer. That's all I'm saying. You put your back down. 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:26.000 These niggas got the big bags too, big Chanelle bags, 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:28.600 big Gucci bags, big Louis bags. Like, where are y'all 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:33.280 going at right? A little satchel, excuse me all, I 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:36.200 do not have COVID what you got. My heart is 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:40.280 a little bit broken, that's it. But I'm a real nigga. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:42.040 You are a real nigga. You want to get through 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:45.120 this and it's gonna be okay, Okay, No, I'm not joking. 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:50.520 I'm serious. I'm a real nigger. My heart low key 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:52.960 little broken too, But I've just been taking it straight 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:58.800 because that wasn't my nigga. No ways, It's just like 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.000 he both bars had to give him back. You just 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:09.080 you just keep him at your house. My MoMA bought 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:12.600 me that nigga. Hold on, before we get into anything else, 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:20.320 let's pay some bills real quick. So I don't think 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:24.120 that the content of music is different. I just think 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:28.040 the way they say things have changed a lot, because 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:30.400 I don't know if y'all watched the verses the other 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.600 night where ron Osley and earth Wind and Fire, which 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:35.880 was so much fun. I watched it with my mother 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.080 and we enjoyed it. But I can't remember that. I 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:41.160 think it was Ron Osley. And there's a song where 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:44.600 he says, I love the way you received me. That 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.400 ain't not but a nice way to say. I like 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:51.200 how you take this? Did all right? We should have 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.840 break a song down right quick. Yeah, So here's a 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:58.920 little proof that perhaps music has not changed that much. 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.360 This song is called I Want to Do Something Freaky 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:06.760 to You. It's by Leon Hayward and it's um if 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:10.000 you know Snoop song? What is it? Uh? One two 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:14.480 three into for Snoop girl? Let me memory is getting 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.440 really bad. It's the weed man, it's the Zaza is 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:20.080 different man making a stupid I'm gonna stop smoking. I 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:24.840 want regular exactly? Can I have some Reggie Police anyway? 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:28.640 Whatever song? If you know that song, yeah, that Snoop song, 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:32.240 So it samples that, but it goes like this, I 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:35.639 want to do something freaky to you baby, Oh baby, 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:39.320 I wanna right now, Oh baby, your love is like 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.440 a mountain. I love to slide down into your canyon. 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:45.800 That means I want to stick my dick in your pussy. 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:48.560 That's how they would say it. Right now. Yeah, that 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:53.480 big pussy because it's a canyon um in the Valley 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.720 of love. In the Valley of love, I won't rest. 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:02.439 I'm gonna fuck you all night until I bring joint 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:09.240 happiness to my bust. But that's our nicer. But Nigga's 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:11.280 text me some nice little Sweetshe like that, like I 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:14.160 might busted wide open. Don't text me be like, hey man, 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:18.800 what's up with that head? What? What that mouth do? 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:21.240 You are asking a grown ask woman what that mouth do? 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:26.080 All prepositions of the zodiac signs. I won't quit until 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:28.359 I blow your mind. He's gonna come in your mouth, 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:34.000 compatible in my, compatible in my I'll hit the spot. 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:38.720 He's gonna hit that in the name of love. Oh 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:48.040 everything I've got? Oh, he just came. I wonder I 0:18:48.320 --> 0:18:51.800 want to play it? Damn yeah, we probably won't be 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:55.760 able to play the song no I want. Okay, So 0:18:55.880 --> 0:18:58.280 now there's that song, right, So then let's look up 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:02.120 a current Um, I'm just gonna do current love song. 0:19:02.640 --> 0:19:08.240 The song you need to do is the Baby. Now 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:10.480 check this out. Okay. That song says I want to 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.479 do something freaky to you. This is nasty. The baby 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:16.560 she know I'm nasty. Yeah, she liked it when I 0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:18.920 pull it out and I put it all over her 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:23.920 ass cheeks like out. She don't gotta ask me. Yeah, 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:27.159 I went here before we funk. I wanted nasty. She 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.560 liked how when I tell her to spit on it, 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:31.880 I get that mouth and I sit on the couch 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:38.080 and I make her sit on it like Yeah, I 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:40.280 was that little nigger that could take a bit from 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:43.600 his big homie, especially if she flexible. I flex her. 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:46.280 I take her both legs and I put them behind 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.919 her head like she a pressle. Then I pick her 0:19:49.000 --> 0:19:50.840 up and slam her down on her head like I'm 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.280 a wrestler. Don't slab me on my head now, I 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:59.560 need my head for work tomorrow. Like trying to kill 0:19:59.600 --> 0:20:02.400 the puss. He called an ambulance, get a stretcher. I'll 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:04.800 be sucking his bitch while he ain't at home. And 0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:06.600 she got in the picks of me and her phone. 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:09.080 You know that man of fool if he don't leave, 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:13.000 because bitch can't leave a nigga alone, She called me, man, Look, 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:16.440 so would you prefer Ronald Easley saying some nice? Look? 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:20.320 You saw how fine his ask was on stage? Bitch, Yeah, girl, 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:23.520 Ronald Easley is a whole fucking zaddy girl. I'll make 0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:27.360 sure he gets all his medication on that or make 0:20:27.400 --> 0:20:31.240 sure like he has a holistic target to where need 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:34.159 no medic medication. He is, he got his wife is 0:20:34.200 --> 0:20:37.280 like thirty two years younger than his ex wife. Is 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:40.080 fine as hell. He probably is not fucking no more though. 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:43.280 But anyway, back to the song we fell out? What 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.000 song do you like better? You know what? Here's the thing, 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:49.920 It just depends on the mood. I mean honestly, because 0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:53.680 some of this, uh, some of this baby stuff don't 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:56.200 sound I have that bad. But then it has a bitch. 0:20:56.280 --> 0:21:00.600 We're the problem, girl, We're the problem time for me, 0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:05.760 that's what this problem. Yeah, it's me. I'm the problem 0:21:06.160 --> 0:21:08.600 where women are the reason why there is no loving 0:21:08.680 --> 0:21:10.680 hip hop. I don't give a funk what y'all saying. 0:21:10.720 --> 0:21:12.920 We set the standards that we're okay with that ship, 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:15.240 then nigger's gonna keep telling us if this sun they dick. 0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:18.399 But you want a nigga, come and say let me 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:25.840 drop my my love muscle into your always Yeah yeah, 0:21:26.640 --> 0:21:28.720 say that talked to me nice. Don't be talking to 0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:30.600 me all fucking crazy. That don't turn me all that 0:21:30.680 --> 0:21:33.720 might turn you. Okay, So say, for instance, the guy 0:21:34.040 --> 0:21:36.760 is courting you. You may not know you want to 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:40.160 suck him, yet him saying the wrong bullshit that could 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:42.840 kill his whole ship. When the dude starts talking to 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:45.719 you like over aggressively about sex and does that not 0:21:45.880 --> 0:21:50.439 hate off? That turns you off already with him like 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:53.080 that on that level and like he came home on 0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:56.000 some of that the baby ship, I wouldn't mind every 0:21:56.000 --> 0:21:57.520 now and then. You know what I'm saying, like that's 0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:00.399 kind of sex. Yeah, but you but I how do 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:02.320 you even get to that point when all men just 0:22:02.400 --> 0:22:05.280 think that women just supposed to bust a wide open 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:10.199 because you bought a meal because the song said that, Like, 0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:12.600 how how are you? How are women supposed to operate? 0:22:12.680 --> 0:22:16.280 So we gotta change the tune? Literally, we really do. 0:22:16.440 --> 0:22:18.280 How do you do it though? When when they come 0:22:18.359 --> 0:22:21.080 on the club just stop moving? I remember I wasn't 0:22:21.800 --> 0:22:25.399 this was a long time agoing to challenge bid. I 0:22:25.440 --> 0:22:28.080 really did that before I was in This is when 0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:30.280 I lived in St. Louis and I was in a club. 0:22:30.320 --> 0:22:31.959 I was out one of one of my friends, a guy, 0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:35.919 and I had never seen two chains video All I 0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:37.840 want for my birthday is is a big booty hoo. 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.520 I had never seen the video. I'm in a white 0:22:40.520 --> 0:22:45.440 club with TVs around the ceiling of this club. This 0:22:45.480 --> 0:22:47.399 song and video comes on and I feel like I'm 0:22:47.440 --> 0:22:49.720 the only black girl there at this point, and that 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:52.560 video only had big booty bitches in that video, big 0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:55.879 booty black women. All I want for my birthday is 0:22:55.920 --> 0:22:58.920 a big booty hole. But you have your other song, 0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.639 I'm Gonna be freshest hair. When the fans watch it, it 0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:04.760 it was all model looking women in that song, nice 0:23:04.880 --> 0:23:07.880 sensual little groove. But when you're singing a song about 0:23:07.920 --> 0:23:10.679 big booty hose, you got sucking black women and here 0:23:10.760 --> 0:23:13.639 my big booty asks in the club, which is white people. 0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:16.760