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Speaker 1: See This is from JJ on Steve Harvey FM. JJ says,

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Speaker 1: I've been best friends with this girl for years, and

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Speaker 1: the other night we sort of hooked up. Nothing wild,

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Speaker 1: just a long kiss that felt like a line being crossed.

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Speaker 1: But since then she's acted light it like it never happened.

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Speaker 1: No follow up conversation, no acknowledgment, just back to normal.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, I've got feelings. Now, I've got real feelings.

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Speaker 1: Now do I bring it up and risk the friendship

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Speaker 1: or let it go and wonder forever? If Howard does this?

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Speaker 1: Do her too? How does that?

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Speaker 2: Dude?

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Speaker 1: He doesn't say, boy?

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Speaker 2: You now? Yeah, that girl ain't kiss you for no reason. Now,

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Speaker 2: she ain't bought it up because she wait on you

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Speaker 2: to break it up. She thinking the same thing you

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Speaker 2: think I crossed the line?

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: We posted to just be friends. Told y'all about your friendship.

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Speaker 2: But okay, so anyway, what's you gonna do now? You

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Speaker 2: got feeling?

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Speaker 1: Boy, listen to me.

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Speaker 2: You've been having feelings. Stop talking about you these girls friends.

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Speaker 2: She don't play She don't play video games, she don't

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Speaker 2: play sports. Okay, y'all, don't talk trash, she don't smoke cigars.

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Speaker 2: He kissed them nog how y'all friends, So stop saying

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Speaker 2: that you've been liking the girls. Just go up to

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Speaker 2: it and say, Hey, look what happened the other night.

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Speaker 2: I just want to be real, honest with you. I

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Speaker 2: just felt like it's long overdue. I've been having these

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Speaker 2: feelings for so long, but I didn't want to cross

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Speaker 2: the mind because I didn't want to be running the

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Speaker 2: risk of losing you as a friend. But now that

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Speaker 2: we've done that, I just want to be honest with

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Speaker 2: you that it really meant something to me. I can't

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Speaker 2: get it out of my mind. I think about it

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Speaker 2: day and night. I've always felt this way about you.

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Speaker 2: My only hope is that you would return the favor

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Speaker 2: to me. God, I think we could have up just

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Speaker 2: so incredibly beautiful. We've been friends so long, we know

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Speaker 2: each other's secrets. I love to take this to the

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Speaker 2: next level. I think we could be a power couple. Wow,

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Speaker 2: I didn't got hot and bothered in.

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Speaker 1: That. It was.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm from an era where you had to have

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Speaker 2: a conversation with a woman because there weren't no cell phones.

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Speaker 2: You couldn't take had I had to put something on

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Speaker 2: your head. It's so good that you couldn't wait to

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Speaker 2: see me again. In case the other three dudes that

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Speaker 2: like you saw you till the next time I saw you,

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Speaker 2: my comments and statements had to withstand the pressure of

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Speaker 2: the mother dudes out here, so I had I came

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Speaker 2: with pressure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, JJ, hopefully you took.

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Speaker 2: Uncle Steven spot on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you are. We do have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This is from Tye on Facebook, who says what's the

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Speaker 1: downside of getting a tattoo on my ring finger in

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Speaker 1: place of a wedding ring? For me, the benefits are

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Speaker 1: that I'll never lose it, it's cheaper, and it looks

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Speaker 1: cooler than a corny piece of jewelry. Friends are telling

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Speaker 1: me not to do it, with their main reason reasoning

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Speaker 1: being what if it doesn't work out? I tell them

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Speaker 1: that I'm not getting married with the intention of getting divorced,

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Speaker 1: so that's not an issue for me. So beyond that,

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Speaker 1: is there really a downside?

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Speaker 2: Well, here's a deal, bro. You can't take it off

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Speaker 2: and put it nowhere, because it's going to come in time.

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Speaker 2: No matter who you are, you don't want to take

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Speaker 2: it off and put it down so much can you

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Speaker 2: don't meet somebody that you gonna try to tell you

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Speaker 2: not married. Naw, you got this tattoo.

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Speaker 1: On you on your ring finger, corny piece of jewelry.

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Speaker 1: Hot it advise you the wedding band.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get this corny piece of jewelry put it

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Speaker 2: off so you can take it off.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I've said three times I do for the rest of

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Speaker 2: my life, and I didn't. All right, I'm taking that

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Speaker 2: thing off.

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