WEBVTT - A Little “Curry” In Your Life 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.040 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:16.040 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:20.400 of Reasonably Shady. My name is Gizelle Bryant. What's up? 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.000 What's up everyone, I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you, thank you, 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:25.440 thank you once again for joining us. We love you 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:29.080 so much for loving us. Yes we do. We're so 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:31.560 happy to be back once again. And just like usual, 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:35.479 we have our Reasonably Shady moment of the week. And guys, 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:45.080 it is a doozy for me. Okay, So, a couple 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:51.279 of weeks ago, we had a dietitian I believe that 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.320 was we were talking to. Her name was what's her 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:58.280 name to the trainer trainer, but yes, we're talking about 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:04.000 nutrition with yes, And she said, asparagus it's great to eat, okay, um, 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:07.080 it helps you lose weight, it tastes good. Just put 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.760 in an oven like for like fifteen twenty minutes and 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.280 roasted up and you're gonna be like feeling like a 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:13.760 million bucks. And I was like, you know what, I 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.600 was sick of kale because I've been a kale girl 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:18.360 for like ten years. Kale, I'm done with you. Broccoli, 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.880 I'm done with you. Two because Brocoli, you give me gas. Okay, 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:25.240 so um Carly our director of operations, she said, but 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:29.240 you know that asparagus makes your um piasting God, and 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:31.200 I can't believe you didn't know that. Well I did 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:34.000 know that, but to what degree I did not know. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.800 So I went out of town with my kids last 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.399 weekend and there was a whole lot that went down 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.560 with the with our room that I had. I had 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.120 booked a Sweet I'm in Tallahassee, by the way, I 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:47.600 had booked the Sweet, but this hotel I don't know 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:50.160 guests through that reservation in trash can. So we ended 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:52.920 up in like this little small room. But whatever, We're 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:57.520 only there for yeah, maybe maybe another episode. That would 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.240 be my shady moment. So I went to go eat 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:05.160 and my kids were like, Mom, you have funked up 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.040 the whole room. Were you farting? What did you doing there? 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.760 Oh my god? And I was like, oh my god. 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:15.640 My piece stinks. I mean like stink stinks, like horribly stinks. 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:20.720 So long story short, asparagus, you are shady. You are shady, 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.240 okay shady? So are you no longer eating it? Now? 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:25.919 So this is the deal, guys, I actually really love it, 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.560 So I'm gonna eat it, but not as much as before, okay, 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.560 or just eat it when you're like when you know 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:33.600 you're not going to be peeing around other people? Right, 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.720 when does that happen? Like you're at home, like eating 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.200 for dinner and you're using your own private that's true, 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:42.000 that's true, very true. So so if I'm if this, 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:45.239 but this would make any guy run away from me. 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:50.680 So if if there's any dayting going on, then asparagus, 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.160 I cannot eat asparacus. You're shady. I want everybody to 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.639 be clear on that. But I don't want anyone to 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.880 like not eat asparacus because it's really good for you. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:00.680 I know exactly. So you know, just if you're if 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:03.680 you're around a guy or whatever, just give them the disclaimer. Okay, 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.400 my piece stinks, yes, because I'm being healthy because I'm 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:09.639 being okay, Okay, I didn't fart, I didn't go number two, 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.799 it's just my pe Okay, got it because of its 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:17.079 serious right, Yes, that's it. Okay, that's it. Now do 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.480 you have a shady moment? I mean I just have 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.639 a frustrating moment. So you know, we moved in a 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:24.840 new house. The first thing my kids want is a 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.720 basketball court. Not just my kids, but my husband wanted 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.960 to So it's like, we have to have a basketball court. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.519 And I was ready to like put this basketball court 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:37.600 in and something told me this was literally yesterday something 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:40.480 and we're scheduled. Actually they're out there doing the court now. 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.920 Something told me, Um, why don't you talk to the 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.480 builder to make sure, like, you know, there's no issues 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:51.240 with putting this basketball court in long story short, I 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.960 mean it's actually like, you know, a little silver lining. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.680 Um if we if I had gone with my original plan, yeah, 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:00.800 I would have been in trouble with the county. I 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.920 would have been like building the court on on in 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:07.960 an area for like a utility easement, a ten foot 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:11.560 utility easement. So I had to reduce the size of 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.640 our basketball court by ten feet. So is it a 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.280 half court? It was always a half court, but it 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.920 was literally going to be like a court, a whole 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:24.040 half court that would allow them allow them to like 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:27.160 shoot three pointers from every spot on the court, from 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:30.080 the corners, from the top of the wings, whatever. Now 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.080 we have to reduce it by ten feet, so they 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.600 can't get their corner three point shots. So they just 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:37.320 they just have a file line. They shoot, come to 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.160 file so they're shooting from like what kind of corner, 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:42.760 talking about it's still in this this thing and I 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:45.080 have to care my son, Corey, well this why why 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:46.960 can't you do this? And why why why and just 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.120 do it and bub and I'm like no because if 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:50.960 some and I'm like want, I mean not want, Corey, 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.480 if someone from the county comes back here and sees 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.760 that this court is on top of this easement that's 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:00.480 supposed to be here, like they can literally find me 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:04.240 and tell us to dig it up. And he's like, well, 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:08.440 so what just paid a fine boy? Get little boys? Exactly? 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.880 He needs to get a little boys. So our dreams 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:19.880 of having this amazing full half court basketball have been shattered. Well, clearly, Robbing, 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:21.800 you're part of the wrong family, and we're going to 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:25.760 talk to the right family today as it relates to basketball. Okay, 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:29.440 we have a guest with us and her name is 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:33.440 we'll let you introduce her Robina. So our guest today 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:38.200 is none other than the beautiful Saddel Curry Lee. Um. 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.760 A lot of you might know Sadel because she belongs 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:48.200 to a very prestigious basketball family. Okay, Her father is 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.400 Dell Curry. He played sixteen years in the league. Her 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:55.960 brother is the amazing Stephen Curry UM. Her other brother 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:59.440 who plays for the Golden State Warriors. Her younger well, 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:02.200 I guess middle brother is Seth Curry, who plays for 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:06.160 the seventy sixers. She is also married to Damien Lee, 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.160 who plays for the Golden State Warriors. I mean, I 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:13.400 thought I thought I had basketball all around me. But 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.400 so anyway, but we're talking to Saddel not only because 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:19.720 she's you know, amazing and beautiful, um, because she's a 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:24.120 beautiful content creator. She also has a podcast but her 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:27.640 UM her focus is mental space mental health. So I'm 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:31.359 gonna read her bio and introduce her in the mental 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.320 health before I talk about Saddell. The mental health topic 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:39.200 UM that we recently discussed got such a positive response. 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:42.520 I mean I saw emails where people said, I just 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.560 made an appointment because of you all. So people are 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.680 making appointments to talk to mental health professionals because of 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:52.200 the of the episode that we did with Meriga UM 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:54.760 and you know, people who said thank you, I was 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.240 in a really dark place. Um. My cousin told me 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:01.200 it was the best one yet. So yes, you know 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:05.360 when your family has given out compliments because those don't 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:11.720 come very easily. So anyway, um but said Though Saddel 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:14.720 Curry Lee became known in the digital space for entrepreneurship, 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:18.280 athleticism and taste making in the beauty community, her mission 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.880 online has always been to surface the topic of mental 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:24.720 health to the forefront of conversation. Having struggled with her 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:28.360 own mental health for several years, Saddel aims to de 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:32.680 stigmatize the discussion around mental health and offer firsthand advice 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:35.400 on how we can all discuss the subject better as 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.640 well as things we can do to improve our mental 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:41.720 health Because life, that's the name of Her podcast centers 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.000 around an open and honest discussion amongst Saddel, a mental 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:49.320 health professional and listener input regarding topics ranging from confronting 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.440 anxieties to being a supportive ally when someone close to 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.800 you is struggling with their mental health. So um Saidel 0:07:55.880 --> 0:08:00.560 also recently shared her journey with IBM of her her 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:04.240 struggles um getting pregnant and she she is pregnant with 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:09.080 child about to burst. So we're gonna this podcast is 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:14.040 gonna be fast because she might burst and it um 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:21.440 with you know without further ado, welcome to reasonably Shady said, welcome, welcome, 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:25.520 We are so happy to her. Were cracking up. Oh 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:29.720 my god, I just want to say that just how 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.839 you already got the communication down to the relationship just 0:08:33.000 --> 0:08:34.800 off hand. And if you're gonna go into the relationship 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:39.000 talking about I had a fagus, I'm sorry. That's great communication, 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:42.920 is it? Or is a team too much? No, I've 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:47.760 never seen too much. You're like setting the standard, like, look, dude, 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:51.080 get real comfortable with me because I'm about to share 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:55.280 everything because and if you're not comfortable with that, then 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:57.800 you can go yes, yes, I love it. Now I 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.880 have a quick first top top of the episode questions, 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:06.000 So your your podcast because life one? How long have 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:09.920 you been doing it? And why the the title? I 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.880 love it? Thank you? So we just started in May. 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:16.320 Our first episode was May nineteen, two thousand twenty one. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.599 And when coming up when I'm sorry, that's around the 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:23.840 same time we started. So we are podcast movie? Yes? Yes? Um? 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.120 And when I was trying to figure out a name 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:29.280 or a title for it, because I wanted to health 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.880 to be just like a normal thing. And I think 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:36.440 because life just shows that should happen like stuff happens 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.079 in life, and it's it's gonna throw you curve balls, 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:43.120 and so it should not be a thing where everyone 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:47.120 should be isolated or just surprised by it because life 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.959 is hard and what that brings mental health challenges. I 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:51.880 feel like everyone has been to health challenges, whether or 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:54.040 on a high level or a low level. You're gonna 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.199 go through something in your life that's gonna bring you 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.240 anxiety or some sort of like tension that's hard to 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:02.040 deal with. So that's kind of where because life comes 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.800 from it, make it normal. Yes, yes, I love that. 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:06.719 And in the church world I used to be a 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:10.280 first lady, they would call that your test and then 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:15.480 it's so everybody has a test at some point in 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:16.800 time in their life. And then they got that a 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:23.080 good old testimony, my testimony. I got so many testimonies 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:28.040 you don't even want to get me started. So, siddel Um, 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:31.840 you have shared that like you recently had some mental 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:37.040 health struggles. Um, how was that? How was it to 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:40.280 be able to share that? Because I think sometimes when 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.280 you come from a family like yours, where everyone sees 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:46.160 the glitz and the glamour and the success and the accomplishments. 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.120 You know, sometimes you kind of feel like you don't 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:51.600 want to share that type of information because people assume 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:54.440 your life is perfect or you know, gosh, what could 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:57.439 be wrong with you? Or you know, why are you struggling? 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:00.120 So how did you get to the point where or 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:03.920 you felt like you could share your mental health struggles, 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:08.360 especially with you know, the spotlight on your whole family. Yeah, 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.240 So to give you just a quick background on how 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.480 my mental health challenges started. Um, I was in a 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:17.000 very abusive relationship from my the end of my college 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.520 I mean high school years to the first two years 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:24.080 of college. Um. And so that brought his own set 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.719 of like PHTSD. And then I also have five concussions 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:32.319 from playing volleyball. UM. So so that I talked about 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.320 that because a lot of people think that mental health 0:11:35.400 --> 0:11:39.280 challenges just come from life experiences, which they do, but 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.559 it also comes from chemical imbalances, getting hit in the 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.959 head five times, like so many other things than just 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.160 what's happening in your environment and how much money do 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.839 you have and how much UH do you have a 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:56.040 like all these kind of materialistic things that matter, but 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.439 you know, there are other things that play into the 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:00.280 mental health space. And so when I just I just 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:03.120 to talk about it, it was really because there was 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:06.719 a lack of people with the platform talking about it 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:10.360 at that time. UM and I was going through it 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.000 like I just was just really going through it as 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.400 in a transitional point in my life, going from UM 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:19.840 college into like the real world, career world and how 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:21.960 to do it earlier than I thought because I had 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.760 gotten my fifth concussion and my doctors were like, s up, 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.319 You're gonna be a vegetable if you keep playing like 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.840 you needs. Okay, So wait a minute, is that normal 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:34.120 in the volleyball world. No, And that's why I kept 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:37.480 playing because after my third one, my doctors were like, 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:41.040 what's the likelihood of you getting a fourth one? Usually, 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:43.280 like in football, they'll cut you off at well, they're 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:47.040 supposed to cut you off at three concussion. Um, So 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:48.599 after I got my third when they're like, what's the 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.640 likelihood of you getting a fourth one? And then my 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:52.599 fourth one came, what's the likelihood of you getting a 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:56.000 fifth one? So it was like the ball hitting you 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:59.360 in the head. Yeah. So I played against I played 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.240 D one college volleyball, So I was playing against like 0:13:02.360 --> 0:13:06.000 some big, like strong girls and if you don't get 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.640 your hands up fast enough, the ball is just the 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:10.640 ball has no forgiveness, is going to come right into 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:15.599 your face. So for four of the concussions were me 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:18.520 getting hit in the head um down the line, and 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:21.360 then one of them, I went to dig a ball 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.480 and my head hit the ground first before the rest 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:29.120 of my body did. I think that's just my reflexes. 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:31.120 With every hit in the head, my reflexus was just 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:35.199 getting worse and worse and worse. So I have like, 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.080 that's crazy. I've never really heard of concussions in volleyball, 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.200 but it makes sense. Like I was explained, it definitely 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.079 makes sense. Yeah, you know, so you need to bring 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:46.480 light to that topic exactly. I mean, it's become any 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.760 more of a topic now. I think my my niece 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:51.120 had a soccer game a couple weeks ago and she 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:52.719 had gotten hit in the head with the ball and 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.000 she got she got put on concussion protocol and I 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.160 was like, you know what, I'm not mad about that, Like, 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.400 she's nine. How hard are they kid in the ball 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.439 in soccer right now? And not at the nine year 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.360 old league? But they were taking it very seriously, which 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.760 I'm so happy to see um, because I wish that 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:11.000 I would have taking it seriously. But you know, soccer 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:13.480 is like the number one concussion. Like you know, people 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:16.200 think it's all football, football, football, but from what I've heard, 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.840 it's actually the doctor seymore concussions from soccer. Why because 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:22.520 you hit your head with the ball. I guess you 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:24.960 hit each other's head. I don't. I don't play that 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:32.000 for me. Okay, okay, okay. UM. So yeah, I mean 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.800 going into that season of life, that transitional phase of life, 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.200 I had had a platform. People were following me because 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.480 of my family, but I really wasn't doing anything with it. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.360 And so we live in we live in a digital age. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:46.680 I was on Instagram all the time, like for people 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.920 to relate to, and I couldn't find anyone with the 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.960 platform who was really talking about how life can really 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:56.480 be UM. And I was nervous because obviously you get 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:59.920 you get the push back like you're in this amazing family, 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:03.000 there should there should be nothing wrong with you. And 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:05.880 that was hard. But I think my purpose in life, 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:08.600 I've always had a passion for like mental health and psychology, 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:12.560 even before I started dealing with my own challenges. UM. 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.600 But I always my mom always said when you find 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.440 your purpose, you need to go for it and like 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:19.360 never lose sight of it. And I feel like my 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:23.560 purpose in life is to share my experiences, however uncomfortable 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:27.520 it may make other people feel. Um. So yeah, speaking 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:30.040 of your mom, I look at her and I'm like, 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:37.520 that's a bad one, right, yes, And look, let me 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.040 tell you I think did I share the story with you? 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:44.080 How this was? Like, Gosh, in two thousand probably three, 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.840 someone I was at a Pittsburgh Georgetown game because my 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:51.360 brother in LAWA played for Pittsburgh, and this young white 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:53.280 dude he was like, you know, a student at Georgetown 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:56.160 or something, was like, are you Steph Curry's mother? And 0:15:56.280 --> 0:16:00.840 I'm like, I can't see it. It I can see 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.360 I mean, but I was literally like twenty something at 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:06.840 that time, and so in a way I was like 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:10.120 super flatter because your mom is so gorgeous. But then 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.280 I was like, do I look old enough to be 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:18.000 stuff Curries mother? No? My mom literally is like Benjamin Button. 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:19.960 We call her Benjamin Button. The older she gets the 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.720 younger kid. I don't even know how she does that. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:28.800 I just hope that I have that geneous listen, right, Yes, 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.680 now I'm just gonna get right on to it. So 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:43.440 when the family goes to dinner at an expensive restaurant 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.840 and your brother Steph is there, I mean, is it 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:50.960 just assoomed he's playing the bill? No. So we've always 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:54.080 played a game in our family where I I always 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:56.120 take the bill at the end of at the end 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:57.600 of the day. No, no, no, I take the the 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.960 actual ill I take it. I said, give it to 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:04.080 me and we'll go around, Especially once Seth got into 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:08.000 the league and started making some money as well. They'll 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:15.720 whoever close the grand schemer thing right, Um, they between 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:18.840 my my dad, my brothers, whoever got the closest to 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.159 the bill didn't have to pay, but whoever was the 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:23.560 furthest away had to pay. So we would go around. 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:25.000 You have to go around, and we make your guests 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:26.600 on how much you have to guess on how much 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:28.920 the bill is. Okay, and I want to get the 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:33.639 closest okay, So okay, because I'm thinking, if if he's 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.119 not there, then we just order one meat. But if 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:38.800 he's there, we order like the damn it, we order 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:43.359 get the tasting menu when he When he's there, you 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:46.359 don't hear any lip from my dad, my dad, and 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:47.960 when it's just my dad and he has to pay, 0:17:48.280 --> 0:17:49.920 you're gonna you can get what you want. But just 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:55.240 know that you're gonna hear a little bit of that. Noted, noted, 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:59.760 that is funny. So speaking of your family, tell us 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:03.040 it was it like or it hasn't been like growing 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:05.520 up Curry. So growing up you know with your dad 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:08.840 as a NBA legend, I mean he played for sixteen years. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:12.000 Like that is sixteen years? Is that like a record? 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:17.600 Is that a record? No? I think Vince car I know, 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:20.600 but what about um, well ship Lebron right now is 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:28.600 about to bust a record. Lebron is about almost pace 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:31.520 fourteen Okay, okay unless the two thousand three he went 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:33.120 he was in the year after a while and start 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:34.680 did he a mellow go in at the same time, 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:37.040 I think, I don't know, he's up there, he's past fifteen. 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:39.280 He's a long time. There will be a lot of 0:18:39.320 --> 0:18:41.080 people passing my dad. But he did play for that 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:43.400 for his time, for his for that time in the league. 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:45.360 That was a long time. Yeah. And let me tell 0:18:45.359 --> 0:18:48.960 you so one had um like when he was thirty two, 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:51.200 his knees just went bad. I mean I think I 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:54.359 think they're like Arthritick, they're bone on bone and he 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:56.600 just couldn't play anymore. So for these guys to be 0:18:56.680 --> 0:18:59.760 able to continue to play, and you know, that pounding 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:02.280 every day, like people don't realize that. Yeah, it's not football, 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:05.720 but like that pounding on that court, that hard floor 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:09.040 every day like that is that's major. So for anyone 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:15.000 that is playing longer than ship seven seven years on 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:18.800 the body, yeah, it's amazing. So I'm like, okay, maybe 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:21.080 you know they said what tom Brady is vegan, like 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:24.600 maybe there's something behind that. Tom Brady is taking doing 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:30.040 something else, Okay, a regiment, that special special plan. Yeah, 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:34.240 something he's popping something. But back to your family, Um, 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:36.000 you know, your father playing in the league for a 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:38.200 long time, your brother we all, you know, both of 0:19:38.240 --> 0:19:40.600 your brothers are super successful. But Stuff is one of 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:42.320 the best players in the league. I mean my father, 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:45.200 like when Stuff was hurt last year, he was like 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:51.680 wanted to cry because he's like, yeah, thing to do, yeah, 0:19:51.840 --> 0:19:55.399 and and Stuff is like change the game totally. Um 0:19:56.800 --> 0:20:01.000 yeah yeah. So So what was it like being you know, 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:04.080 just the daughter in the family and then you have 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:07.160 a daughter and a sister, a super uber successful sister 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:12.040 in law. So would you when we get to and 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:14.159 you have and you have a husband that plays in 0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:16.520 the NBA, So what is it like for you as 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:18.320 you know, do you just feel like I'm just sell 0:20:18.600 --> 0:20:21.399 or do you feel do you get lost in it? 0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:25.040 Do you get lost in it? No, my parents did 0:20:25.119 --> 0:20:29.960 a really really good job at giving us a normal lifestyle. Obviously, 0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:33.399 growing up as a daughter, there wasn't social media. There 0:20:33.560 --> 0:20:35.639 wasn't like a lot of you know, the stuff that 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:39.280 they have now to make people even more famous. Quote unquote. 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:43.520 Um So, I never really felt different growing up as 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:47.240 as a daughter of someone of a guy the NBA. 0:20:47.480 --> 0:20:50.680 But when Stephan went to um well had that big 0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:54.400 breakout at Davidson, I started noticing like people were starting 0:20:54.440 --> 0:20:56.840 to treat me different, and that made me a little 0:20:56.840 --> 0:21:00.679 bit uncomfortable. I never really liked attention. I'm a very 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:03.560 independent person. Yeah, I just don't. I don't like it 0:21:03.720 --> 0:21:07.960 that much. Um and So when I went to college 0:21:08.040 --> 0:21:09.440 and people would be like, oh, you can come into 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.639 this party because you're sub Curry sister, I'd be a 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:16.600 little mad, like, no, I'm want to come to your 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:20.800 party anymore, or like stop telling people that you know, 0:21:20.920 --> 0:21:24.399 like you don't even want people to exactly, but you 0:21:24.480 --> 0:21:27.520 know what, more than anything, like I it's been a 0:21:27.680 --> 0:21:31.480 really really cool experience because I don't like the attention, 0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:33.440 but I love watching the people in my life like 0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:38.160 elevate and like just break break records and do things 0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:40.200 that people never thought that they would be able to do, 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.080 do things that I never thought that they would be 0:21:42.119 --> 0:21:44.679 able to do or could do. And I'm shocked all 0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:47.720 the time. Um, But I again, I feel like I 0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:51.600 live a very I always say I'm an ordinary girl 0:21:51.680 --> 0:21:56.359 who lives an extraordinary or who experiences extraordinary things. And 0:21:57.040 --> 0:21:59.800 I just feel really blessed because again, I could go 0:21:59.880 --> 0:22:02.320 to the store or I could just do normal things 0:22:02.400 --> 0:22:06.159 and not feel like I'm anything special quote unquote and 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.480 just living normal life, which would be a lot for me, 0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:10.560 like with my mental health and all that kinds of stuff, 0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:12.879 Like if I had the same kind of fame as 0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:15.480 stuff that, I think God really did his thing and 0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:19.200