WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Nathan the Incredible

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jewels second date update, So the emailer for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second day update asked that I be gentle and nice

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<v Speaker 1>to her. Oh that's good, she knows you that. She

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<v Speaker 1>apparently hesitant to email us about a second day update

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<v Speaker 1>after hearing all the crazy ones. Her name's Diana. Diana.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you hi? I'm good. How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>I promise to be nice to you. Okay, good. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe her email said that she's never had trouble getting

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<v Speaker 1>dates in the past, and that you've always dated meat heeads.

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<v Speaker 1>But you actually went out with a nice guy and

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<v Speaker 1>you really liked him, right, Yeah. My friends set me

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<v Speaker 1>up on a blind date with him, and they said

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<v Speaker 1>that we would have a lot in common. What were

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<v Speaker 1>you attracted to? I mean, because if this isn't your

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<v Speaker 1>like typical dude that you go after, did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like there was a sparker? I was really comfortable around him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made me laugh. It was just like an

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<v Speaker 1>instant connection. Okay. Was he hot? He wasn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>mu flee guys that I usually date. But he was cute, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like scrawny and the nice. He had a way of

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<v Speaker 1>making me feel really comfortable and He was really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>which was nice. He was good at pool. He taught

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<v Speaker 1>me how to play pool. Oh did he do one

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<v Speaker 1>of those like reached behind you and show you how

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<v Speaker 1>to move the pool stick moves? No, kind of hoping

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<v Speaker 1>he would, but he didn't. So what did you do

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<v Speaker 1>on the date? We just leaned for a drink and

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<v Speaker 1>played pool for a couple hours. And then I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like he was That's another thing that I really liked

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<v Speaker 1>say he was a gentleman. He walked me to my

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<v Speaker 1>car afterwards and hugged me. And that was And what

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<v Speaker 1>was the last thing that happened at your car? He

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<v Speaker 1>hugged you? He made plans, he said he'd call you.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't really make plans. I texted him after the

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<v Speaker 1>date saying like thanks for the date. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. And I never heard back from him. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a week. Hm, that's weird. And didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>of anything that happened on the date that might have

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<v Speaker 1>caused him to not want to call you back. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. You're not like a pool shark. And

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<v Speaker 1>he took him for all his money at any time?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you compare him to maybe an ex boyfriend or

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<v Speaker 1>describe that he was so different than the guys that

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<v Speaker 1>you were used to dating. No, not at all. You're

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<v Speaker 1>so whimpy. Usually the guys I didn't have muscle tone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fird, it's crazy. I would understand why he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>messaging me. What are your normal dates? Like when you

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<v Speaker 1>got the meat heads that you go out with. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>they usually call immediately, like the next day, or I

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<v Speaker 1>have some sort of contact. I've never just had somebody

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<v Speaker 1>not respond to a text message and then not hear

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<v Speaker 1>from them in an entire week, right, Yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>long time of a week, right, Yeah, Well it's weirdly

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't text you back because I always think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good move to send the text right after the

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<v Speaker 1>date takes for the night. I think I support that move. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's just something that sounds like he wasn't maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>into you. How could that be possible? That is a

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<v Speaker 1>good question, could be a good question. Maybe he's playing

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get. Maybe he wants you to wonder, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's like all art waited out for a week shirt

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<v Speaker 1>or I don't know, a week is kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. Now. Yeah, I guess you're right. Maybe he's

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<v Speaker 1>like every other Seattle Man. Instead of being passive aggressive,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just passive. Yeah, all right, you ready to call him? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song. Come back, call him. Get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update, hang on from me. Okay, looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubile in the morning, seate, Okay, Deanna, you ready to go? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning into the second day update, We're

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<v Speaker 1>about to call Nathan. He went out with Deanna. They

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<v Speaker 1>had a fun time, played pool, had a hug. At

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night. She thought everything went well.

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<v Speaker 1>Texted him at the end of the evening like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for taking me out. I had so much fun

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<v Speaker 1>with you. And uh, that's exactly how that's how it sounded,

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<v Speaker 1>and again sounds like Mario and he never responded to

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<v Speaker 1>her at all. It has been a week and she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to figure out, why will you promise to be nice? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I will, I'd be perfectly nice. I for head to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you because you were set up by a mutual

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<v Speaker 1>friend and it was a blind date. Is there any

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<v Speaker 1>information coming in from her? No? No. I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>get all the best and they said they you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>said anything to them. Are you ready? Yeah? I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Helloa speak to Nathan please? Yeah, Nathan, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Boy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the radio show here in Seattle on Moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five. Have you heard of us? Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning. Yeah? Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>You went out on a date with a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Deanna a little while ago, like a week ago. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? I'll explain. I'm a little confused. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mean to be paranoid. No, Deanna's a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>and she told me about the date that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on and that you haven't gotten back to her. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, Deanna really liked you. Did you like going

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with her? Um? Did she do something wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>The short story of it is she has no business

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<v Speaker 1>going out with someone like me? What does what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? WHOA? I was set up with her on

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<v Speaker 1>a blind date? Okay, okay. I never met her before.

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<v Speaker 1>I met her through mutual friends. So when I saw her,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like knocked out. We're talking like at least

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<v Speaker 1>to nine out of ten. But in my book, there

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<v Speaker 1>are no tens, Like they don't exist. Except in like

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<v Speaker 1>Greek mythology, she was the she's gorgeous when we were

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<v Speaker 1>playing pool, like everybody in the bar was watching her play, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how could you not. I would have been

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<v Speaker 1>one of those guys with their head turns and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just standing here going, okay, it's kind of cool. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at with this girl. But people must have been wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>why the hell am I with her? So you think

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<v Speaker 1>that she's out of your league? Oh my god? Completely?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me ask you this. Is it more

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<v Speaker 1>of a do you think she's out of your league issue?

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<v Speaker 1>Or a jealousy issue and you don't like other people

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<v Speaker 1>looking at you? Because I know, for me, if I

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<v Speaker 1>was dating a girl who's out of my league and

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<v Speaker 1>other guys are looking, I'm like, yeah, I'm that awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I get I get to take that home. You know

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<v Speaker 1>which one was it? But it's not Chelsea at all. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the fact that I'm a normal looking guy. She

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<v Speaker 1>could be going out with some big, you know, muscular

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's a hedge fund dude. You know what I mean? Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have do you have like some serious self

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<v Speaker 1>confidence issues? I mean, do you not believe that your

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<v Speaker 1>personality is that awesome? No, I just live in the

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<v Speaker 1>real world, all right, Nathan. I should let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that Deanna is actually on the line listening. She heard

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<v Speaker 1>everything I just said. Yeah, Deanna, Yeah, you have something

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<v Speaker 1>to say to Nathan. Yeah, I just I went out

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot of jerks and I just thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were such a gentleman. And I even texted you and

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<v Speaker 1>you never texted me back. Your responsively sucks me. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never had a guy say that to me before. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>no one's ever done it before, because you're gorgeous, is yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you so insecure? I'm not insecure. I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I just don't think I'm your type, because

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that for me to decide and not you? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's so weird that you just made that

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<v Speaker 1>decision for me. Nathan. Sounds to me like you need

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<v Speaker 1>to shower with what I shower with, old spice swagger.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a little more confidence there, buddy. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to Nathan right now. Nathan, Dude, you're blowing it. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell her, like, like, with some confidence, what

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<v Speaker 1>you like about her. I'm just I'm a normal looking guy,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. I really nice. I'm sorry, that's what I like. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>but look at us. We are so different, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. Like you put us both in a

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<v Speaker 1>room together. It just doesn't It's not even about confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, come on, that's so crazy that you think that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you make you laugh? Diana? Yeah? See, Nathan, I

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<v Speaker 1>found that if you can make a girl laugh, you

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<v Speaker 1>can look like a troll and still land hot chicks. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>case in point. So that's all you really needed, a

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<v Speaker 1>good sense of humor, dude, don't worry about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like lightning up. So, Nathan, even when she was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to contact you and obviously was into you and interested

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<v Speaker 1>in you, you just thought, no, not gonna work. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it would just end badly. She would go

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<v Speaker 1>find some other guy that was much more of her

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<v Speaker 1>type or ridiculously better looking, and then I would be

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<v Speaker 1>just kicked to the curve. Oh my god, killed me.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of these you always ask if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go out on a second date, we will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. Nathan, did you want to try

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Janna again? Please please pay for

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<v Speaker 1>a second day. Yes, we'll pay for it. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really nice, Nathan. Do you want to do me

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<v Speaker 1>a favor go out with an incredibly hot girl and

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<v Speaker 1>just enjoy yourself free and stop thinking about how different

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<v Speaker 1>you look than she does. Oh my gosh, Deanna, don't

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<v Speaker 1>take this the wrong way. I mean, I will go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you on a second day, but don't expect

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<v Speaker 1>anything great. You know, down the road, I'm Deanna. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want Deanna? Do you want to gout with Nathan again?

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<v Speaker 1>This is just really unattractive. This Yeah, lack of confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I kind of don't blame her, to be honest

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<v Speaker 1>with you, Deanna. Yeah, Well that you got your answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for a time, Nathan. Nathan, you're there. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Wait that one up. That's all I could

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<v Speaker 1>say in the morning.