1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Looking Jewels second date update, So the emailer for today's 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: second day update asked that I be gentle and nice 3 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: to her. Oh that's good, she knows you that. She 4 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: apparently hesitant to email us about a second day update 5 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: after hearing all the crazy ones. Her name's Diana. Diana. 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: How are you hi? I'm good. How are you good? 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: I promise to be nice to you. Okay, good. Don't 8 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: believe her email said that she's never had trouble getting 9 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: dates in the past, and that you've always dated meat heeads. 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: But you actually went out with a nice guy and 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: you really liked him, right, Yeah. My friends set me 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: up on a blind date with him, and they said 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: that we would have a lot in common. What were 14 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: you attracted to? I mean, because if this isn't your 15 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 1: like typical dude that you go after, did you feel 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: like there was a sparker? I was really comfortable around him, 17 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: and he made me laugh. It was just like an 18 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: instant connection. Okay. Was he hot? He wasn't like the 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: mu flee guys that I usually date. But he was cute, okay, 20 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: like scrawny and the nice. He had a way of 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: making me feel really comfortable and He was really funny, 22 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: which was nice. He was good at pool. He taught 23 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: me how to play pool. Oh did he do one 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: of those like reached behind you and show you how 25 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: to move the pool stick moves? No, kind of hoping 26 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: he would, but he didn't. So what did you do 27 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: on the date? We just leaned for a drink and 28 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: played pool for a couple hours. And then I felt 29 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: like he was That's another thing that I really liked 30 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: say he was a gentleman. He walked me to my 31 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: car afterwards and hugged me. And that was And what 32 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: was the last thing that happened at your car? He 33 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: hugged you? He made plans, he said he'd call you. 34 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: We didn't really make plans. I texted him after the 35 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: date saying like thanks for the date. I had a 36 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: great time. And I never heard back from him. And 37 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: it's been a week. Hm, that's weird. And didn't think 38 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: of anything that happened on the date that might have 39 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: caused him to not want to call you back. No, 40 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: not at all. You're not like a pool shark. And 41 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: he took him for all his money at any time? 42 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: Did you compare him to maybe an ex boyfriend or 43 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: describe that he was so different than the guys that 44 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: you were used to dating. No, not at all. You're 45 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: so whimpy. Usually the guys I didn't have muscle tone. 46 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: It's fird, it's crazy. I would understand why he wasn't 47 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 1: messaging me. What are your normal dates? Like when you 48 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: got the meat heads that you go out with. Usually 49 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: they usually call immediately, like the next day, or I 50 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: have some sort of contact. I've never just had somebody 51 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: not respond to a text message and then not hear 52 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: from them in an entire week, right, Yeah, that's a 53 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: long time of a week, right, Yeah, Well it's weirdly 54 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: he wouldn't text you back because I always think it's 55 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: a good move to send the text right after the 56 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: date takes for the night. I think I support that move. Yeah, 57 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: there's just something that sounds like he wasn't maybe that 58 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: into you. How could that be possible? That is a 59 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: good question, could be a good question. Maybe he's playing 60 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: hard to get. Maybe he wants you to wonder, so 61 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: he's like all art waited out for a week shirt 62 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: or I don't know, a week is kind of a 63 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: long time. Now. Yeah, I guess you're right. Maybe he's 64 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: like every other Seattle Man. Instead of being passive aggressive, 65 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: he's just passive. Yeah, all right, you ready to call him? Yeah, okay, 66 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song. Come back, call him. Get 67 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: your second day update, hang on from me. Okay, looking 68 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: jubile in the morning, seate, Okay, Deanna, you ready to go? Yeah, 69 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: if you're just tuning into the second day update, We're 70 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: about to call Nathan. He went out with Deanna. They 71 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: had a fun time, played pool, had a hug. At 72 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: the end of the night. She thought everything went well. 73 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Texted him at the end of the evening like, hey, 74 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: thanks for taking me out. I had so much fun 75 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: with you. And uh, that's exactly how that's how it sounded, 76 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: and again sounds like Mario and he never responded to 77 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: her at all. It has been a week and she 78 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: wants to figure out, why will you promise to be nice? Yes? 79 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: I will, I'd be perfectly nice. I for head to 80 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: ask you because you were set up by a mutual 81 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: friend and it was a blind date. Is there any 82 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: information coming in from her? No? No. I tried to 83 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: get all the best and they said they you haven't 84 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: said anything to them. Are you ready? Yeah? I'm ready. 85 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: All right, Helloa speak to Nathan please? Yeah, Nathan, how 86 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: are you? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil 87 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Boy, 88 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: it's the radio show here in Seattle on Moving ninety 89 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: two point five. Have you heard of us? Brook and 90 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. Yeah? Why are you calling me? 91 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: You went out on a date with a girl named 92 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: Deanna a little while ago, like a week ago. What's 93 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: going on? I'll explain. I'm a little confused. Sorry, I 94 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: don't mean to be paranoid. No, Deanna's a friend of mine, 95 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: and she told me about the date that you went 96 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: on and that you haven't gotten back to her. The 97 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: thing is, Deanna really liked you. Did you like going 98 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: on a date with her? Um? Did she do something wrong? 99 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: The short story of it is she has no business 100 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 1: going out with someone like me? What does what does 101 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: that mean? WHOA? I was set up with her on 102 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 1: a blind date? Okay, okay. I never met her before. 103 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: I met her through mutual friends. So when I saw her, 104 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: I was like knocked out. We're talking like at least 105 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 1: to nine out of ten. But in my book, there 106 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: are no tens, Like they don't exist. Except in like 107 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: Greek mythology, she was the she's gorgeous when we were 108 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: playing pool, like everybody in the bar was watching her play, right, 109 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: I mean, how could you not. I would have been 110 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: one of those guys with their head turns and I'm 111 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: just standing here going, okay, it's kind of cool. Then 112 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: I'm at with this girl. But people must have been wondering, 113 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: why the hell am I with her? So you think 114 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: that she's out of your league? Oh my god? Completely? 115 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this. Is it more 116 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: of a do you think she's out of your league issue? 117 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: Or a jealousy issue and you don't like other people 118 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: looking at you? Because I know, for me, if I 119 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: was dating a girl who's out of my league and 120 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 1: other guys are looking, I'm like, yeah, I'm that awesome. 121 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: I get I get to take that home. You know 122 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: which one was it? But it's not Chelsea at all. Man. 123 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: It's the fact that I'm a normal looking guy. She 124 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: could be going out with some big, you know, muscular 125 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: guy who's a hedge fund dude. You know what I mean? Nathan, 126 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: do you have do you have like some serious self 127 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: confidence issues? I mean, do you not believe that your 128 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: personality is that awesome? No, I just live in the 129 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: real world, all right, Nathan. I should let you know 130 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: that Deanna is actually on the line listening. She heard 131 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: everything I just said. Yeah, Deanna, Yeah, you have something 132 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: to say to Nathan. Yeah, I just I went out 133 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: with a lot of jerks and I just thought you 134 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: were such a gentleman. And I even texted you and 135 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: you never texted me back. Your responsively sucks me. I've 136 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 1: never had a guy say that to me before. Of course, 137 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: no one's ever done it before, because you're gorgeous, is yeah, Like, 138 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: why are you so insecure? I'm not insecure. I just 139 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: feel like I just don't think I'm your type, because 140 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: isn't that for me to decide and not you? Like, 141 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: it's just it's so weird that you just made that 142 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: decision for me. Nathan. Sounds to me like you need 143 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: to shower with what I shower with, old spice swagger. 144 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: You need a little more confidence there, buddy. I want 145 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: to Nathan right now. Nathan, Dude, you're blowing it. I agree. 146 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: Can you tell her, like, like, with some confidence, what 147 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: you like about her. I'm just I'm a normal looking guy, 148 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: of course. I really nice. I'm sorry, that's what I like. Really, 149 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: but look at us. We are so different, That's what 150 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Like you put us both in a 151 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: room together. It just doesn't It's not even about confidence. 152 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: It's like, come on, that's so crazy that you think that. 153 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: Did you make you laugh? Diana? Yeah? See, Nathan, I 154 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: found that if you can make a girl laugh, you 155 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: can look like a troll and still land hot chicks. Hello, 156 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: case in point. So that's all you really needed, a 157 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: good sense of humor, dude, don't worry about it. Yeah, 158 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,119 Speaker 1: like lightning up. So, Nathan, even when she was trying 159 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: to contact you and obviously was into you and interested 160 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: in you, you just thought, no, not gonna work. Yeah. 161 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: I thought it would just end badly. She would go 162 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: find some other guy that was much more of her 163 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: type or ridiculously better looking, and then I would be 164 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: just kicked to the curve. Oh my god, killed me. 165 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: At the end of these you always ask if you 166 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 1: guys go out on a second date, we will pay 167 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: for a second date. Nathan, did you want to try 168 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: to go out with Janna again? Please please pay for 169 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: a second day. Yes, we'll pay for it. Oh my god, 170 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: it's really nice, Nathan. Do you want to do me 171 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: a favor go out with an incredibly hot girl and 172 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 1: just enjoy yourself free and stop thinking about how different 173 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: you look than she does. Oh my gosh, Deanna, don't 174 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: take this the wrong way. I mean, I will go 175 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: out with you on a second day, but don't expect 176 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: anything great. You know, down the road, I'm Deanna. Do 177 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: you want Deanna? Do you want to gout with Nathan again? 178 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: This is just really unattractive. This Yeah, lack of confidence. 179 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: Well I kind of don't blame her, to be honest 180 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: with you, Deanna. Yeah, Well that you got your answer. 181 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: Thank you for a time, Nathan. Nathan, you're there. Yes, 182 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: I am. Wait that one up. That's all I could 183 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: say in the morning.