1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An I 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello, everybody, we're scrubbing in, scrubbing in 3 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: on a holiday weekend. That's right. Jim Oka Day, Happy 4 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: m ok Day. Martin Luther King Jr's right, you're here 5 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: a little frazzled today. Why are you frazzled? I'm frazzled 6 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: because I have a sick daddy and uh it's a holiday, 7 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: so kids are home from school and a puppy that 8 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 1: won't pee in the rain. No, Stundy's Stundy's daddy. Sorry, 9 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Sorry. Tony does not call her dad daddy 10 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: that I think calling her boyfriend daddy's worse than calling 11 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: her No, No, I think no, I think daddy is 12 00:00:55,400 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: like I don't like it period to be honest, uddie daddy. 13 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: But I've been calling him daddy because I'm like, I 14 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: don't know why. There's no reason, there's no good reason 15 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: of sleep. Perhaps um. But so I went and picked 16 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: up Sonny and my She hasn't been in my apartment, 17 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: so I wasn't equipped, like I'm not equipped, and then 18 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: I realized this room, our studio is filled with wires 19 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: and she's a chure. So I'm like, you know, we're 20 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: just gonna keep her in our laps. Hopefully she's chill. 21 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: I don't have a little carrying case, but you know, 22 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm currently holding a bully stick while she gnols on 23 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: it in my lap. I'm very happy. Okay, good, Yeah, 24 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: I'm very content. I'm a puppy in my lap. Then 25 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: all's well. I remember one time we were in the 26 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: studio and I had to bring Phoebe and I remember 27 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: Mark just been like, remember that my chair over her 28 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: so little. Yeah, yeah, it's okay. We're not gonna let 29 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: We're not gonna let it on the ground because the 30 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: hazard in this studio. But Stephanie Pratt, if you have 31 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: to bring her dog in here, yeah, yeah, it's Stephanie Pratt. Um. 32 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: You know recently, the thing's been plaguing me is um 33 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: a dog named Diamond Baby who is the pet of 34 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: a hotel heiress that I want to name, chewing on 35 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: cables that have electricity flowing through them and stop this 36 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: animal from killing it. Not to worry, I am not 37 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: allowing that behavior to happen over here. I'm just concerned 38 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: about the dog safety. So I appreciate that. Yeah, nothing 39 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: about the wire and something. Who cares about the wire studio? Yeah, 40 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: don't worry about the dog. But if I have a 41 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: drink in here, it's chaos. Wait. By the way, she 42 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: does have an open liquid container on the desk. But 43 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: you know what, I've had to just I have to 44 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: let my hair down today because I'm just the fuddled 45 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: the liquid the coffee. Oh okay, yeah, nothing could come 46 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: from that sugar. Are you be fuddled or disgrunt old? 47 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: I feel like those are different things. I'm unsure of 48 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: what I fled. Yeah, grassled might be the right word 49 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: I'm going for. Right. Well, you know, befuddled meats confused. 50 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: That are you confused today? Maybe a little bit? Yeah, 51 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: a little confused. How is the week of motherhood been 52 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: for you? K not gonna lie, it's bliss and tell 53 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: at the same time, like I love her so much 54 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: and I like miss her when she's sleeping, But at 55 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: the same time, like you don't think of I don't 56 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: think about things. And then I'm like, oh, yeah, I 57 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: have the dog. I can't do that. Like I haven't 58 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: worked out in a week, and you know me, I 59 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: have my hour of Tanya time every single day and 60 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: I have not worked out a week because if I'm 61 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: not working, I feel like I need to parent her 62 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: in a weird way. Yeah, it's like a guilt thing. 63 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: Mom guilt is what mom guilt feels like. I just think, well, 64 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: at first you were you were like, yeah, she's sleeping, 65 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: but it's fine, Like we both get up with her, 66 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, they're really crushing the new 67 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: parent thing without any like any of the things that 68 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: I remember having, and so this feels more familiar to know, 69 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: is the thing. It is really nice having him because 70 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: we switch off taking her potty in the middle of 71 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: the night, you know, so it's less disruptive to our sleep, 72 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: I guess. But I still wake up every time, but 73 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: you don't have to, you know, get up out of 74 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: bed and do it. So it is nice having him. 75 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: But uh, I think today is the first time where 76 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, what I had a note to do? You're 77 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: you're feeling like a single mom? Yeah, Tom telling you 78 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: the mom's out there are superheroes. Parents in general are superheroes, 79 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: like keeping children alive. Oh my god, I mean we 80 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: gave her bath yesterday. I cried. I cried giving her 81 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: a bath because she came out. She was shaking like 82 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: I've never felt like shaking, like a like a salt shaker. 83 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: And I started crying, and I'm like, this something wrong. 84 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: She got too much water somewhere like and he's like, 85 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 1: she's just cool. We will dry her and she'll be fine, 86 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: you know, like he can calm me down. And then 87 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: I stopped crying and she stopped shaking. But it was 88 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: like she was scared because you were crying. It's been 89 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: an emotional to my four hours, you know. But couldn't 90 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: you go for a run like today when you're done 91 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 1: with the podcast. Couldn't you go for a run at 92 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: that point and just leave her for an hour if 93 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: I had I don't have any of her stuff here, 94 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: So yes, I'm gonna start getting to the point where 95 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna leave her in her create because we can. 96 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: We've been leaving her for like fifteen minutes on time, 97 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: thirty minutes, so we're getting up to an hour. But 98 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: I think it's my own personal guilt because I leave 99 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 1: Sunny with Robbie seven when I come to work, so 100 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm not working, I need to 101 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: go help him, even though he doesn't make me feel 102 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: that way. That's just how I feel myself. I'm worried 103 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: about you creating um an issue. Where what's that called 104 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: embrace anxiety. That's what I'm worrying. You're creating We're leaving 105 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: her in the create, but we're doing it in fifteen 106 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 1: minute increments until like you just that's what they say 107 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: to like go fifteen minutes, build up, then do thirty 108 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: the new forty five. Then we're never like we left 109 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: the house to go get coffee, and I think that's 110 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: the longest we've left her alone for up till now. 111 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: She survived. She survived, We'll make it well, we'll keep 112 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: increasing the time. I will never forget. One time I 113 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: was getting this laser done um at this like it 114 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: was this like plastic surgeon's office, and I went in 115 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: because it was like a trade for to post for 116 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: him on Instagram, and I was supposed to go. I 117 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: strode up at my appointment time and I waited for 118 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 1: four hours to get it done. And I had just 119 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: gotten fee because in my mind, I was like, Okay, 120 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: this will be the first time I'll probably be gone 121 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: for like an hour. I lose it and I was 122 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: pacing the room and every time I'd asked me, like 123 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: he's about to come in, He's about to come in. 124 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 1: It was the most stressful time. So I get the 125 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: like anxiety of that. But Phoebe is also very independent 126 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: loves being alone, So I'm grateful for whatever I did alone. 127 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: Maybe it was that four hour day day. Yeah, well, 128 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: I know I don't hear the thing we are. I 129 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: am very cognizant of that because I don't want her 130 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: to have separation anxiety. But um, she's still just like 131 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: a little baby baby's baby baby. But you guys, have 132 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: you seen the video when Phoebe and Sonny met Our 133 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: dogs are our relationship. Yeah, that was so crazy to see. 134 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: She was like hurdling Phoebe and Phoebe because Phoebe is 135 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: so little, like she's always a smaller dog, and so 136 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: she always just kinda she has a kind of like attitude, 137 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: like she'll let them sniffer and stuff, but she kind 138 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: of like minds her own business, like she's pretty to herself. 139 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: And Sonny was like jumping over her, on top of her, 140 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: and Phoebe would like snap at her because you know, 141 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: I taught her to hold her own and but then 142 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: I had to be like Phoebe. She's just a puppy, 143 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: but yeah she was Sunny was just running circles and 144 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: then would like sit in front of her and look 145 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: at her, like give me attention. And I was like, 146 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: it's stills to familiar. It was dying because I've reposted 147 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: your video and so many scrubbers messaged me and we're like, 148 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: this is literally you, you and Becca in dog form. 149 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: I swear I probably got over a hundred messages and 150 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: almost all of them said this is you and Tanya 151 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: and dog and like some different even if it was 152 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: worded differently, was it made me feel like Sonny was 153 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: meant to be mine? Yeah? Yeah, like she's really my girl? 154 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: She is. Your Instagram is really funny her Instagram. Sorry, 155 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: I can I tell you something. I went on a 156 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: date with a guy. I'll never forget this. There were 157 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: other things that turned me off about him in general. 158 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: He was not my match, but then he told me 159 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: had an Instagram account for his dog, and I was like, 160 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: by Syanara, where's the check? And now I am the 161 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: girl that has an Instagram account for my dog and 162 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: I am loving it? What is it about him? I 163 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: know you had other issues too, but what does it 164 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: tell you about a person when you hear that they 165 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: have an Instagram account for their dog. What impression did 166 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: that give you that made you feel like this was over? 167 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: Mabe loser. I was like loser and now I'm that person. Peter, 168 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: you haven't changed your mind on the lizerness and you 169 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: just have joined the club. Yea. And I love it, 170 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: like I don't even care, like I am. I'm on 171 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: it more than I'm on my own right now. Yeah. 172 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: And she responds to every single one of my posts 173 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: from Sunny's Instagram and she'll every single one. At first 174 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: she signed it sunny Girl, and I'm like, Hi, Sunny, 175 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: you don't have to sign it sunny girl every time. 176 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 1: I know it's you. So now she just does a 177 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: sunshine emoji, but she still signs it every time. I'm like, yeah, 178 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: I taught her to be really proper. I want her 179 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: to be a really proper girl. Make her presence, know, 180 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: I know. So that's been that. That was a fun time. 181 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: I think they're gonna be great friends once Phoebe's like older, 182 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: and really when Sunny solder down. Yea. Yeah. Socialization to 183 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: like a whole another level we put um Halloween masks 184 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: on the other day, like we saw that in a 185 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: dog training video. Here's what I'm gonna tell you. It's 186 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: not just Tanya. Yeah, Red Star is also as neurotic 187 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: about this puppy parenting thing. I was like, wait a second, 188 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I felt Tanya was the ringleader here. It 189 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: might be him. Yeah, no, no, no, we're both we're 190 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: both very uh aggressive. And It's funny is when we 191 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: were him and high about the Instagram account, I asked 192 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 1: him about it and he was like, um, he goes, 193 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: you know, I'm really it's a good thing that we're this. 194 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: We're like, I already love you because if we were 195 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: dating and you told me you had an Instagram, you know, 196 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 1: show me Instagram for your dog, I would kind of 197 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: be like, and then he goes, I'm also embarrassed about 198 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: how much I've been posting on my Instagram of this dog, 199 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: So it might be kind of freeing for us to 200 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: just have this outlet. It's it's INTI. We went to 201 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: a movie premiere on Thursday night, Tanya and I and 202 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 1: so she left um Sunny with Start and the whole 203 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: movie she kept checking her phone and I kept getting 204 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: so nervous that the guy was going to come. I'm 205 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: just checking just make just checking up, just like frantic. 206 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, tonya, he knows what he is doing. Yeah, 207 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: they had a lovely night. They played brain games and 208 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: eight hot dogs And can you explain the Halloween masks 209 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: to me? I honestly thought it was a little weird myself. 210 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: But we are in this like puppy training course, and 211 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: so every week we get on for like an hour 212 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 1: and they do these trainings and one of them was 213 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: about socializing and they put masks on and it's it's 214 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: like it's I guess in this three month period that 215 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: the dog, like if the dog doesn't experience something early on, 216 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: when they experience it later, it's like traumatic. So it's 217 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: trying to get them like accustomed to the blow dryer 218 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: or going the hair salon or I guess in the 219 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 1: sense halloween masks because they might not go trigger treating 220 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: or something someday. I'm no freaking says monster shows up, 221 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: master comes in. Yeah, or is it just other faces? 222 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: Maybe it might just not Yeah, well they're like zombie. 223 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: It's not facings they're going to see Hopefully I can't 224 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: explain it to you, but we saw it in the video, 225 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,959 Speaker 1: so they did it. So we did it because it's 226 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: in the training video. We're doing it. They're doing it. 227 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Tiny sent me the link last night to 228 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: her instagram. Uh sunny, sunny girl, that Cavos Instagram, and 229 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: she kept asking me, do you hate it? I felt 230 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: Mark's judgment through the no, but I thought, you do. 231 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: It's not for me to say, you do what you 232 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: want to do. I just want to talk about it 233 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: on the radio. And we did and it was fun 234 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,199 Speaker 1: and it worked. But I don't, you know, do your thing. 235 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: It's not for me to judge. Well from now on 236 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: knowing if that how Tanya felt about me having an 237 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: Instagram and she put me in the loser club, I'm 238 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 1: gonna tell her when she's a loser, when she does 239 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: things that her losery, I don't care. I wear it 240 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: with pride. I'm happy to be on this loser train 241 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: with my dog. I thought you were going to change 242 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: your mind and say, oh, it's not so much of 243 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: a loser thing. It's fun. Oh yeah, it is fun. 244 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 1: It's fun being a loser. Maybe the scrubbers can weigh in. 245 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 1: Is having an Instagram for your dog loser? How about 246 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: this is having conversations between yourself and your dog and 247 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: doing both sides of the conversation. Is that loser because 248 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: I think it might be a step farther into a psychosis. 249 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: But I have certainly done that the same. Like, what 250 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: if it's an Instagram and it's just like about the dog, 251 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: it's not from the point of view of the dog. 252 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: I think that's like the most reasonable level. Yeah, yeah, 253 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: that's like so all their content just goes in one place. 254 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,559 Speaker 1: Fun and that exactly. You know, why can't you role 255 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: play as an animal? Yeah, it's like it's all the 256 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: thoughts I think that Sonny's having, do you know what 257 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: I mean? So, like I did a Q and A. 258 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: I gotta do a Q and A every day because 259 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: it was so freaking fun. But somebody was like, are 260 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: you a daddy's girl or a mommy's girl? And I 261 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,839 Speaker 1: was like, well, I love that my mom's gives me 262 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: affirmations in the morning, but I really think my dad's 263 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: a babe, So it's hard to say. Yea. Someone said, 264 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: can you let Tanya know that it's creepy for Sunny 265 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: to call her dad a babe. I'm scared of myself 266 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: when I have children, because this is really all consuming 267 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: in the best, in the best way, Like I'm having 268 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: so much fun with it. And I also think the 269 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: pandemic is a little bit because we're just not really 270 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything else, you know what I mean, 271 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: Like it's just like me and her and like, yeah, 272 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: it's a good time to have a puppy. Yeah, well good, 273 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: what an adventure we're all on. Oh yeah, Sunny Sunny Girl, 274 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: Sunny Girl the Cabit poo. If you're not following her. 275 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: She really loves her Auntie Scrub sisters. She loves them 276 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: so much. And all the d ms that they've been sending. 277 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: She wanted me to pass along the message that she 278 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: love the follow Me Everybody follow Me song, So all 279 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: the videos, yeah, they're going to be to this song 280 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: called Sunny Sunny Sonny. Yes, no, I don't know what 281 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: the song sunny. It's such a cute song. Well, in 282 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: the meantime, have we gotten any applications for our intro 283 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: song Eastern how's that coming? We actually we got one, 284 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: Actually we did well, you know, it just it just 285 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: takes one. That's what I always say. Uh, yeah, you know, 286 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: I just remember this. I got one last week and 287 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: I should have sent it over. Um, this woman a 288 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: scrubber sending her her son composed something and there's no lyrics, rainings, 289 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: just music. But it's very good and um, I will 290 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: get it to everybody shortly. It's yeah, so we have 291 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: one entry so far. If you have something you want 292 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: to hear as our theme song, hit me up. It's 293 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: Eastern E S T O N and I heart media 294 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: dot com. I don't mind, don't. I don't mind the 295 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: just the audio or the sound because we can sing 296 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: on top of it. But also, um, that's you know, 297 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: I know you are boo hooed on crime junkie. But 298 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: their intro is just music. It's a beat and it 299 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: is like every time I'm like in the cars Eastern. 300 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: Can we hear a little bit of the composure composition? 301 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: I'm looking for it. Um, I conted myself here we go, 302 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: here we go, okay in a place from my phone, 303 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: So excuse the low quality of this, but wow, what's good? Yeah? 304 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: Did her son is? She did not? Her name is 305 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: Becky Cooper and I assume a Max Cooper was copied 306 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,879 Speaker 1: on this email, so I assume he made it. And 307 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: uh yeah, I'm impressed here, I'll forward it to everybody. 308 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: That's so fun. It's really fun. I lost my Virginny 309 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 1: to a guy named Cooper, so this is really all 310 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: falling into place. What his name is Max? The last 311 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: names Cooper. I hope Max Cooper isn't nine Prodigy. Yeah, um, okay, 312 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: I feel like we should take a break and then 313 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm guessing that east and I will be able to 314 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: talk about and just like that, because there's no way 315 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 1: you're caught up and we need to talk about it. 316 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: And then we have listener questions, which is gonna be 317 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: so fun. She's doing so hamp She want this dog woman, 318 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: this modern woman, dog woman dog is going to be 319 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: an Olympic fleet one day. Yeah, she is, all right, 320 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 1: we're gonna take a break and we'll be right back. Alright, 321 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 1: we're back. So I just I have to talk about 322 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: this because I know there's some scrubbers who probably are 323 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: also watching in just like that, and Tanya has jumped ship. 324 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: Mark was never on the ship, and east and I 325 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 1: are dangling on the ship but we're still on Okay. 326 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: So first of all, Easton's wife sends me a photo 327 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: of Easton taking notes, so that you knew what he 328 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:52,479 Speaker 1: hated about the episode. Oh my god, but that is 329 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: so bad. If it's that bad that you're having to 330 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: take notes, I can't explain it, East, and maybe you 331 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: can explain it. It's something that, like, I can't stop watching, 332 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: but I'm disappointed. After every episode, I've heard some people 333 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: really enjoying this. It's not people. We need names I 334 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: don't remember, but some people say that's good. Okay. Now, 335 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: the the thing that offended me the most about this 336 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: episode is at the very beginning, they had the audacity 337 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: to ask the viewer to listen to a podcast called 338 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: The Writer's Room after the show for more insight about 339 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 1: how this atrocity was made. And I don't want to 340 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: listen to that podcast. Um, I mean, we don't. We 341 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: don't have to believe this too much. But I'm just 342 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: gonna run through my notes very quickly. Uh. There's a 343 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 1: bunch of offensive lines in this episode. Um. Interesting offensive 344 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 1: just because they're they're stupid in my opinion. Uh uh, 345 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: let's say wait. Miranda says something along the lines of 346 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: she sees a couple being cute, and she says, if 347 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: you were a show, I would stream you. And I 348 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 1: was like, what does that mean? I hate that? Um? 349 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: And then that's just desperately trying to be topical and program. Uh. 350 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: Then there's a line that if it had been in 351 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: the old Sex in the City, I would have been 352 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: fine with it, but because it's in the new one, 353 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: I hated Uh that Carry. Carry is writing a book 354 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: about her experience, and um, they are told and she 355 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: told it's too dark because it's like, I just I 356 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 1: just lost my husband, I'm I'm all alone, and she 357 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 1: says the line, Uh, if I can lighten my hair, 358 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: why can't I light in my book? And I was like, um, 359 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 1: And then I think the worst part about this episode 360 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: this episode, Carry goes on a date for the first time, 361 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 1: and again spoilers if you haven't watched, and just like that, Um, 362 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: Carry goes on a date and it's fine, but then 363 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: it ends with them both projectile vomiting for a very 364 00:20:53,800 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: long time, like why were they? Did they drinking? But 365 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: so gross? Okay, but I it just went on way 366 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: longer than it needed to. But the original thing, I 367 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: actually laughed out loud because I was so not expecting it. 368 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: But then it kept going and I was like, Okay, 369 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: we get it. We all lease all vomit. It's everywhere. 370 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: Got it was that? Do you have any comments about Oh? 371 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 1: I also I they used this in the They use 372 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: this in the promo on the on Instagram, and I 373 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: posted about it. But Charlotte gives probably the worst line 374 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: of the entire episode, which is she and Harry are 375 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 1: going through a problem where she won't apologize for knocking 376 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: him over during tennis. It's a it's an argument many 377 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: married couples have. It's a it's a very relatable thing 378 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: and actually a cute plotline. But then he's like, I 379 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 1: just wanted an apology because you knocked me over, and 380 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: Charlotte says, without a shred of irony, as Demi Lavato 381 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 1: would say, sorry, not sorry, oh, which couldn't be more 382 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 1: tanya to be on. I mean, I respect it, but 383 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 1: at the same time, it's like so cringing, like what 384 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: are we doing? Canna be honest? I think I'm gonna 385 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 1: like this kind of sounds right at my alley. I 386 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: love projectile vomiting. Well, I don't like projective vomiting, but 387 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: like I enjoy, like, uh, you know, a date getting 388 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: too hot and heavy over drinking. It's kind of fun. 389 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: I love a Demi Lavado reference. You know what, as 390 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: Bob is my witness, I'm going to catch up this 391 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: week as well. I just say that because I don't 392 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 1: say God. Yeah, we don't need to bring God into 393 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: this discussion, So Bob We're gonna do. As Bob is 394 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: my witness, I will catch up because this is all 395 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: sounding pretty nice to me. Here's the thing. The reason 396 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: why I continue to watch, I think, is because I 397 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,120 Speaker 1: have this hope because there's like these glimmers of moments 398 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,200 Speaker 1: where I'm like, this feels familiar and cozy to me, 399 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: Like watching there's something about Sara Joska Parker's outfits and Carrie, 400 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: but like Miranda is not even the same person. I 401 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: feel like that we've watched for Yeah, I mean that's 402 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: what people are upset about. It's like all of a sudden, shoes. 403 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, it just I don't like that storyline. 404 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: They made Steve seem like he was years old. And 405 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: I saw an article that said that they like apologize 406 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: for making him lose his hearing or something. No, no, 407 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,479 Speaker 1: he lost his hearing in real life, so that's the 408 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: hearing thing, which I was like, you know what, that's 409 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: fair but there's also something about like the way he 410 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,479 Speaker 1: talks and he's forgetting everything, and I'm like, why were 411 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: we doing this to this man and this character. It's 412 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 1: it's there's a lot of like a ha, jeez, Mirana, 413 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 1: where I put my where I put my pocketbook? He 414 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: was perfect, just like him. Actually, So yeah, there's an 415 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: example in case you don't want to sit through the 416 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: whole episode. But yeah, I mean I like the I 417 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: like the idea of Carrie dating because I think that's fun. 418 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: I think that's fun. I like think I liked that 419 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: guy too. I hated that they auctioned off a date 420 00:23:53,880 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: with her though. That felt so cruel, cruel and unusual punishment. Um, 421 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean I think there's like one or two. 422 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: I don't even know how many episodes are there in 423 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: the series. No, I think it's like a full season. 424 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: I think I read something maybe not something, but no, 425 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: please no, Uh let's see. I'm hoping it's ten. I 426 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 1: think we're on episode six now. Uh No, so I 427 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: think we seven was last week? Seven? Oh yeah, okay, um, 428 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,640 Speaker 1: it looks like ten. Ten Okay, so three more, three 429 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: more weeks of this? All right, Well, I'll be there 430 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 1: every Thursday, but grudgingly I do look forward to Thursday 431 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: or Thursday night Friday morning when I get just text 432 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: from Beckett going, oh god, I text Eason, I'm like you, 433 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to hear what you take us. And 434 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: then Allison sent a photo of him taking notes and 435 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, we're in the same going in 436 00:24:54,600 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: the same direction. It's okay, it's okay. Um, but we 437 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: actually total flip of something that we watched. Tommy and 438 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: I went to the premiere of Redeeming Love, which it 439 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 1: has been one of my favorite books since high school. 440 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 1: Like I have had very few books that have stayed 441 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: with me like this one. Yeah. Same, I read it, 442 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 1: but I didn't read it in high school. I read it. 443 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 1: I read it in my adult life, like I think 444 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: I read it when I was and loved it. It's 445 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 1: it's basically it's a story. It's based on a story 446 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: from the Bible, the story of Josea, and um, it 447 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,400 Speaker 1: is just like this beautifully written book and story and 448 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: it's really this like the most unconditional love story. Yeah, 449 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: and like it's really dark there, it's so heavy. Watched 450 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 1: the movie, I was like, why I forgot how heavy 451 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:53,719 Speaker 1: the movie is, and like just it's it's it's a lot, 452 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: but it's the underlying message is just so beautiful and 453 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 1: like I was just not prepared to cry like a 454 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: baby at the end. Well, it's really good. You know, 455 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 1: like when you find out that you're one of your 456 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 1: favorite books is being made into a movie or a 457 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: TV series, there's this like fear that they're going to 458 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: ruin it or something. You know, once you see it 459 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 1: come to life, I feel like, Mark, you can relate 460 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: to this because I feel like you've had a bunch 461 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: of books that you've loved that they like, um, Little 462 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: Fires Everywhere? Was it? Do we talk about that? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? 463 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: This one Um right now Station eleven HBO is a 464 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 1: book that I love that I've been watching that it's 465 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: been good. It's so far, it's been good. Well, I 466 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,439 Speaker 1: was really they've been working on this movie for a 467 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: long time, so like I knew that it was gonna 468 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: be a movie for like a year. They shot it 469 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: before the pandemic, so and I remember thinking like, oh 470 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm so excited about I'm so nervous they're 471 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: not going to do it justice. And I guess Francine 472 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: Rivers is the author, and I guess she wrote the 473 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 1: screenplay so she kept it as similar as she could 474 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 1: to the book, you know, but to make it condensed 475 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: enough to make a movie. It is so good, like 476 00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: I can I mean, if you love the book or 477 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: you've read the book, the movie is like does it justice? 478 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: So but we leave and I mean it's like it 479 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 1: is a really heavy storyline and mixed Steamy is the 480 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: bad guy and he's so scary in it. Well, can 481 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: we get him on our show to talk about it? 482 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: Because that would be Mark. That is an excellent idea. 483 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: Get Eric Dane on here. Because the movie comes out 484 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: end of January, so I mean he's one of the 485 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,479 Speaker 1: main people. I'm sure he's been promo for it. Yeah, 486 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: I would, I mean i'd be I would love that. 487 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: But we were hoping he would be at the premiere. 488 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: Buddy wasn't. Yeah, we had our eyes field. But the 489 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: mask situation also doesn't help because I couldn't write anybody. 490 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,199 Speaker 1: I would have if he was standing ten ft from 491 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 1: you at that premiere, you would not have known it 492 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: was there. I would have a chance. You didn't even 493 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: recognize one of my girlfriends when she got out of 494 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: the car who Courtney, I think you recognized his eyes 495 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: are unique eyes. Yes, yeah, he cap in a mask 496 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 1: that's different, but I think he would recognize him. I 497 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: do too, and I he was so scary and then 498 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: he's also like kind of creepy and euphoria. So I 499 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: don't like that they've taken mc steam on. Yeah, he's 500 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: really gone. Know, he's like a villain. His character in 501 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: this movie is a new way and he has like 502 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 1: an Irish or Scottish accent that makes him like way creepier. Yeah. 503 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: I was like, what are you get back in the old? 504 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was really good, but we get out 505 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:38,239 Speaker 1: of the movie and my interpretation of it even when 506 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: I read the book, Well, when I read the book, 507 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, that is the standard 508 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 1: of the type of man I wanted to be with, 509 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: which when you read it, yeah, um. But after watching it, 510 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: Tony was like, does that make you think about your 511 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: relationship and like intense? Like that that that intense love? 512 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, I think of it more as 513 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: like like God's love for us, and it's very unwavering 514 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: and consistent, and she was like, Okay, I think I 515 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: might like that better. I was like, yeah, please do 516 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: not compare Red Star tonight because you're not in a 517 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: brothel and he was not a farmer. Rescue a lot. 518 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: It was a lot there. But it was so cute 519 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: because we got home after the movie premiere and Becca 520 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: walked up to say goodbye to Sunny, but Red Star 521 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: had her give me a kiss first. He's like, you say, 522 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: how did mommy first give mommy a kiss? A lot? 523 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: And I was like, Oh, that's the kind of that's 524 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: the respect I need. That was the redeeming love. That 525 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: was Yeah, Oh did you see the Jake Gillan Hall thing? 526 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,479 Speaker 1: I did? Actually, I was gonna ask you that. I 527 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: just thought, well, we can talk about the Jake Jillan 528 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: Hall thing. But do you see Livia Coppo's Instagram over 529 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 1: the weekend about American Airlines? Yes? I was actually gonna 530 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: text Mark about it. I wanted to do a report 531 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: on it because what the frick? I I don't know, 532 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: Like I've seen people wear like leggings and get be 533 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: told they need to change, so I don't really understand. 534 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: But on a flight, so Livi Coppa was wearing like 535 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 1: a bra like a and biker shorts and then like 536 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 1: a long like sweater, so it covered her button stuff. 537 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if maybe she had that on or maybe 538 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: she threw that on, Like I don't maybe she wasn't 539 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: wearing that initially. No, but I feel like she may 540 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: have had that on and they just I'm telling it 541 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 1: makes no sense. I would be livid. Yeah, it was 542 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: really funny. I I mean people, I had not a 543 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: great experience with American airlines during the holidays, and everyone 544 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: was like, it's the pandemic, like people are working so hard. 545 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm this has been way before the 546 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: pandemic that I've like always had issues with them. But 547 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it kind of depends in my mind who 548 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: you get on that day, because like every airline people 549 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 1: are like because even when I posted that about American airlines, 550 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 1: like of people agreed, but then a lot of people like, oh, 551 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 1: I feel the same way about you know, another airline. 552 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: It just depends on the day. So but I just think, 553 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: it's who how is it an airline's job to tell 554 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: you to put on a blouse to get on a 555 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: flight Like that makes no sense. I guess it was. 556 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I I mess a turn 557 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: it was like the worst, the worst. It just makes 558 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: no sense, Like what what is that distraction of or 559 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: what is that? It just makes no sense. Well, and 560 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,840 Speaker 1: it also goes back to this the dress code thing 561 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: at schools. You know that they say to girls, you 562 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: got to cover up and all this stuff. And the 563 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: reason they say that is because boys can't control themselves. 564 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 1: And we should be teaching boys to control themselves, not 565 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: teaching girls where whatever they want, and boys should be 566 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: able to control themselves. That should be the perfect world sowards. 567 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: They just did this in our school district. They got 568 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: the whole One girl spearheaded a movement to get rid 569 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: of the dress code and she was successful. Wow. Yeah, 570 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: I mean I grew up in such a conservative like 571 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: I grew I went to Baptis school, Like boys can't 572 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: even have their hair a certain length girls like. It 573 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: was like very strict. So I have that like ingrained 574 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: in my mind, so I always have to like I 575 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 1: always I remember going through those things, and so in 576 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: my mind, I'm like, well, it's the rules. But now 577 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,959 Speaker 1: it's kind of like on an airplane, I don't know 578 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 1: that unless someone's literally in lingerie, it's like okay, maybe, 579 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 1: but then where do you draw that line? Because some 580 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: lingerie is more revealing than other lingerie, Like can you 581 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: be in? My line is is nipple pasties if you're 582 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: wearing nipple pasces in public. So if you're getting at 583 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: an airplane in a bikini, a thong bikini, that's okay. 584 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 1: Live your life, girl. I don't care. Like it sounds 585 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: super uncomfortable and also unsanitary to me to be in 586 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: a song. That's a bit of an issue. But like 587 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: I personally don't care what anyone's wearing next to me, right, 588 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: I just don't. But you know, there has to be rules, 589 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: there has to be boundaries in place. But it's like 590 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: where it's always women. It's like that man's not you 591 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: know what. That's like, we're back he pants. I can 592 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: see their cracks for days and you had no one's 593 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 1: calling them out. I think if a guy tried to 594 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 1: get on a speedo, I think they would turn him away. Yeah, 595 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: it's always women called called out. But I feel like 596 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: there is a line. Well, I mean a man in 597 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 1: a speedo is offensive to everybody, not to me. Bring 598 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: bringing the air marshal for that one. No, but like 599 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: as we speedos, I would beg him to wear speedos. 600 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 1: He does not, but maybe for my birthday. Well okay, 601 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 1: so that gets the other thing we talked about with 602 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: Ryan this morning, and we shouldn't talk about. Sorry, we 603 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: need to get to Jake l and hell. But Becca, 604 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: I thought it would be a good idea for the 605 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: two of you to drink you O, there's blood. Would 606 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: you do that? Um? No allah, Machine Gun Kelly and 607 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,320 Speaker 1: Megan Yeah, no, no, I want it. Well, Tanya was 608 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: fine with that. If Red Star would like to do that, 609 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:15,400 Speaker 1: she's fine with that. We're you all surprised by this. Really. 610 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing I don't That's not anything 611 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: he would ever want. He would he would never So 612 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: it's easy for me to say if he asked, I'd 613 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 1: say I'd be I'd be cool with it. But I 614 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: think it's more more of the thing of like to meet. 615 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: Every shoe has its foot. So it's like Megan Fox 616 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,839 Speaker 1: and Machine Gun Kelly found their way to each other, 617 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,439 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they both are down 618 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: with that, and like, you know, like if you were 619 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 1: out there and you're dating and you have weird quirks 620 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: or you have things that you like and you don't 621 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 1: think that that partners out there. They are out there. 622 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,279 Speaker 1: It's true. I mean, I think both of us would 623 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: equally say no to that, So it want to be 624 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 1: like one of us was looking to do that. But 625 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I agree. I think everyone has their own 626 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: little things that maybe already finds taboo or whatever. But yeah, 627 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: and apparently drinking your partner's blood is like a celebration 628 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: of your connection. So it's kind of beautiful, so beautiful. 629 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 1: I think there's otherwise drinking like a soda pop. It's 630 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: like they're just probably drinking a little shot glass or 631 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:21,879 Speaker 1: something like. It takes you back to Twilight when she's 632 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,840 Speaker 1: drinking the blood is Yeah, there's a Glamour magazine article 633 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: written about like Doctor's Way in is it safe to 634 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: drink so human blood? I was like, wow, yeah, this 635 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: is where we're at. I mean, I remember a simpler 636 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: time when Angel and Jolie was just wearing Billy Bob's 637 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,759 Speaker 1: blood and she wasn't slipping it down. It was cute, yeah, 638 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: not cute, not cute, not cute. Okay, baby, we're drinking 639 00:35:54,080 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: blood babe for you guys, do you have an email? 640 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 1: We do, but we never got to take well, I 641 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: don't have a ton to say. But so he did 642 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: a photo or like a magazine cover and spread, and 643 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,280 Speaker 1: he is suspiciously wearing a red button down with hearts 644 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 1: red heart sunglasses on his head which looked very similar 645 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,800 Speaker 1: to the ones tailor wears and on her too cover 646 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,919 Speaker 1: And so obviously people were speculating. And then I think 647 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:40,280 Speaker 1: the the photographer, who was it the editor and someone's 648 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 1: referred to it as Jake's version. Yeah, and it's on 649 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 1: W magazine and someone actually said that Carly Class owns 650 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,360 Speaker 1: W magazine. So there was all this on TikTok speculation. Yeah, 651 00:36:55,400 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 1: which that was interesting thing. I'm just um, I'm sorry, guys, 652 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: I had a bier. Those teeth are sharp. Um. I'm 653 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 1: gonna say. Jake Gillenhall wants nothing to do with this narrative, 654 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,280 Speaker 1: Like that guy when in Hiding when the Red rerelease 655 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,959 Speaker 1: came out. He wants like, if he wanted to play 656 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,919 Speaker 1: with us, he could have played with us a long 657 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 1: time ago. He would have done it. To me, this 658 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 1: just seems like a coincidence. He's not down to play. 659 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 1: He wants nothing to do with this. Okay, wait, so 660 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,720 Speaker 1: they put him in red sunglasses that look like hers 661 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: and they call it Jake's version and you don't think 662 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 1: it has anything to do But how much was he 663 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: involved in that that the magazine editor is that somebody else? Yeah, 664 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: I mean I definitely feel like that could be the case, 665 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,360 Speaker 1: because magazines do whatever they want, and they put the 666 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 1: title or headline for as whatever they want. But you 667 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: don't think when they handed him those sunglasses, he was like, 668 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: it's February issues on Time's Day. Yeah, I don't think 669 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, wait a second, I know, but 670 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 1: are you saying these feel like? Because to me, I 671 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 1: would be like hyper aware every if I was trying 672 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: to stay out of that narrative. I do everything to 673 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: stay out of that narrative. I think he's a Barry's 674 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: Head and the Sand kind of guy, and I think 675 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:27,240 Speaker 1: he's remaining blissfully unaware of anything related to this project. 676 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: I think y'all are giving him too much credit. Personally, 677 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: I don't even care, Like I don't even have a 678 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,719 Speaker 1: vendetta against Jake Jillenhall. I just appreciate your like your 679 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 1: wanting no of it. I really do wanting him to 680 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: like be giving that were that he knew what he 681 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 1: was doing exactly appreciate that the fan fiction. Even his 682 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,319 Speaker 1: publicist would be like stepping in at that point, even 683 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: if it wasn't him, should or he would be like, hey, 684 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 1: by the way, this could which maybe they wanted the 685 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 1: attention for it. I don't know. It worked. It works, 686 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Wish them all well. Machine Gun, 687 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:13,240 Speaker 1: Kelly and Megan Fox included, Um, okay, we have an email. 688 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 1: Should we take a break and then do an email. 689 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break and we'll be right back. 690 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: What's going on everyone? I'm Peter Webber. You may know 691 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,799 Speaker 1: me as the Bachelor, but I'm also a pilot and 692 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm super happy to be guest hosting How Men Think. 693 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to attempt to answer all your questions and 694 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:46,959 Speaker 1: solve the fascinating question of just how men think. Let's 695 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: get into it. This is how men Think? An I 696 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: Heart Radio London Audio Production listen each Thursday on the 697 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,439 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast or wherever you get 698 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 1: your podcast. All right, we're back, we have an email. 699 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 1: Mark take it away, alright, Becca, thank you very much. 700 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,879 Speaker 1: This is from uh doesn't say so? There you go, Hi, 701 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,720 Speaker 1: Beca Tanya Mark and Eastern. I'm engaged. I'm getting married 702 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: to the best guy in the world in April. We've 703 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: been together for seven years, so it's been a long 704 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: time coming. We are so excited and all the wedding 705 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: planning has been great. His family has been beyond helpful. 706 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,760 Speaker 1: My issue was with my family. My parents are divorced 707 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 1: and I'm really close to my dad. He's my actual 708 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 1: best friend. I was really really close to my step 709 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 1: mom and she was so helpful with planning for the 710 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: last year or so. Well. On Christmas, we got into 711 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: a huge fight, which led to her leaving my dad, 712 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: my fiance, and myself at home where she went to 713 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,799 Speaker 1: see her family for Christmas. This has never happened before. 714 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 1: It was beyond hurtful. Long story short. I've tried to 715 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 1: reach out to her to resolve it since that day, 716 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: but she won't reply to me, and it's hanging this 717 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,320 Speaker 1: over my dad's head every day. Last week, my sister 718 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 1: planned the bridle shower and sent the invites. She declined. 719 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 1: I was so hurt that I cried when I find out. 720 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 1: I reached out, I said how sad I was that 721 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: she would decline. She read my message and didn't respond, 722 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 1: how do I move forward without this being the memory 723 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: of my wedding planning side note, she's been a really 724 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: great second mom because my relationship with my mom is 725 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,359 Speaker 1: difficult sometimes, so I feel like I lost my mom 726 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: in a month. Oh my gosh, that's devastating. Yeah. I 727 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 1: mean I have a hard time with someone not um extending, 728 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 1: like if you've extended an olive branch and she can't 729 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: do the same, especially as a mother figure. I have 730 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: some issues with that because to me, it feels a 731 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,360 Speaker 1: little bit toxic. And I don't know if maybe the 732 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,320 Speaker 1: relationship has been more on like a friend level since 733 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 1: she's your step mom, and maybe it wasn't as like 734 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 1: motherly if that makes sense, Like it was more of 735 00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 1: like y'all were friends in that way. But I really 736 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 1: hurt for you and the fact that you've made an 737 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: effort and reached out and expressed your hurt and vulnerability 738 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,760 Speaker 1: during this time and what should be a very exciting 739 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 1: time for you, and that she won't do reach back out. Yeah, 740 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: and you know what, also, I have the same sort 741 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 1: of sentiment and the fact that like, this must have 742 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 1: been a really blow up fight between her and your 743 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 1: dad that CAUs caused her to really just completely disconnect 744 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,919 Speaker 1: like this, Like it obviously must have been something really 745 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: painful or hurtful or whatever it was. But I'm with 746 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: Becca if you are constantly like what was done was 747 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,640 Speaker 1: not intentionally done to hurt her, and even your relationship 748 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,800 Speaker 1: with her, the fact that you're reaching out and she 749 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: is ignoring you is a total, total crappy thing to do. Like, 750 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:53,839 Speaker 1: I just think that's so not cool. I'm honestly thinking, like, 751 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: is she you know, she said she read it, it it 752 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: didn't respond, Like maybe she's hurt or something, because it 753 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 1: just seems so weird, Like if somebody keeps reaching out 754 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 1: and you're not responding, that just seems so immature and 755 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 1: not right. Yeah, And I think moving forward, you almost 756 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 1: have to except that you've done everything you can and 757 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,880 Speaker 1: not not feel like you need to blame yourself for 758 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,680 Speaker 1: this because you've like taken the time to reach out 759 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,040 Speaker 1: and like express how you feel. And if she's not 760 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: going to meet you there, then she's not going to 761 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 1: meet ei there, And like, no matter what you do, 762 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 1: it sounds like she's gonna do act how she wants 763 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 1: to act, which hasn't been great. Yeah, But like I 764 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,640 Speaker 1: mean her. Her question is, how do I make that 765 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,280 Speaker 1: not be the memory from this, and it's like, you can't. 766 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: I mean, just keep doing fun things and like I 767 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 1: guess put this in the rear view mirror. I was 768 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: gonna say, celebrate the bridal shower with the people who 769 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 1: are there, and those are the people that you know 770 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: are like there to support you and be there for you, 771 00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 1: and maybe go on a really fun bachelorette party and 772 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,319 Speaker 1: just kind of like know that it hurts and be 773 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 1: able to let yourself feel that because it's really painful, 774 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: but also know that you have a lot of other 775 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,240 Speaker 1: people that love you and are so excited to celebrate. 776 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 1: You have a wonderful man and his family, and really 777 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 1: try to lean into that because, um, it just sucks. 778 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 1: There's no like sugarcoating. It's just like when you lose 779 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 1: someone close to you and you can't connect with them 780 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,400 Speaker 1: or communicate with them. It's it's hard and it almost 781 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: feels there's no closure there. So I'm really sorry, and 782 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 1: I hope that you feel surrounded by love and celebrated 783 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:40,239 Speaker 1: by everyone else in your life. Yeah. I don't have 784 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 1: great advice, just a theory. This has got to be 785 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 1: a vaccine thing, right, this is gotta be one of 786 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 1: those political holiday arguments that everybody was having. That's my 787 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 1: theory is that these things get so heated, really, that's 788 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 1: my guess. It's something that it does. It causes some 789 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,720 Speaker 1: very serious riffs, and unless both people can come together 790 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: and at least have a conversation, it's really hard to 791 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 1: to move on. I mean, we can't. We're just speculating. 792 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think the first for the first paragraph 793 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 1: of this email is so awesome, just trying to focus 794 00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 1: on all the good that's happening. And I think she'll 795 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: come around hopefully. Maybe can you go see her? Can 796 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: you talk to her face to face? She also just 797 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,040 Speaker 1: kind of like, I don't know, you get to a 798 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 1: point where it's like you can only reach out so 799 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,239 Speaker 1: much and do so much before it feels like I did. 800 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm not involved in this. I'm trying to conversation, 801 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 1: have a conversation with you and trying to like nip 802 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 1: this in the butt, and you just keep ignoring me, 803 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 1: like which is more hurtful. In fact, she doesn't want 804 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,800 Speaker 1: to talk to you and have a conversation. It's rude. 805 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 1: It's intentionally hurtful. Yeah, and sometimes it's like when you 806 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,279 Speaker 1: put in that much effort, like if you were to 807 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 1: show up and see her and she's still acted like that, 808 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: then there's just more resentment and hurt and it's like, 809 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:03,319 Speaker 1: why open yourself up to up But we support you 810 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: and are so happy and congratulations and sounds like an 811 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 1: exciting time. Seven years you deserve a great, wonderful wedding, 812 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 1: So just focus on that. Man. Life can be tough, 813 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 1: you know. You know what they say, Yeah, what when 814 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 1: the going gets tough, the tough get going? It's okay 815 00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:31,399 Speaker 1: going girl, you got this. That was one of your better, 816 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: better analogies or yea quotes right there? Thank you? Um 817 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,919 Speaker 1: all right, well not no, I wish we had talked. 818 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: Have you watched here? Do anyone watched here? I went 819 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:49,239 Speaker 1: alone in my cheer It's amazing. I'm so jealous that 820 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: y'all get to watch it with fresh eyes. It's amazing. 821 00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 1: We're in it, We're in it, We're in it. I know, 822 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 1: I thought it was a podcast. I kept getting d 823 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: MS from people that they're like, you're in the first 824 00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,879 Speaker 1: the second season of Cheer, and I was like, oh, 825 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 1: my Becca is gonna like it was a little salty 826 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: that my interview with Coach Monica to make it. I 827 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,240 Speaker 1: thought it was the podcast. Didn't interview her for the podcast. 828 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,799 Speaker 1: I did it solo. So that was I'm not gonna lie. 829 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: I was. I had some questions for the editors, but 830 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 1: maybe season three I can make it if we get 831 00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: to interview her. I begged Amy. I was like, please, 832 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: can we get coach Monica. I d M with her. 833 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,719 Speaker 1: We're like buds, and I swear like, one day I'm 834 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 1: just gonna like fly to well they live in I 835 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,520 Speaker 1: could fly to my hometown and then drive to Corsican 836 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 1: and maybe we can I can go to a cheer 837 00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 1: practice or something. Sounds like a dream, dreams come true. 838 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:45,920 Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll be back Thursday for a double episode. Ganza, 839 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: here we go. You can never have too much of 840 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,719 Speaker 1: a good thing. It's beautiful. We'll be back on Thursday 841 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: with questions from y'all, so it'll be a good time. 842 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go take Sunny potty because she's squealing a 843 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, we love you, but I love you, 844 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:13,880 Speaker 1: say love you. M