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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: This is a very special episode of the Almost Famous Podcast.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot to talk about today. We have love,

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Speaker 2: we have relationships, we have babies, we have future, we

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Speaker 2: have so much to cover. We have Blake and g

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Speaker 2: here obviously new parents. Before we dive into that though,

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Speaker 2: before we jump into that part, we do have to

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Speaker 2: talk about a friend of ours who had a big

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Speaker 2: announcement come out. I'll be honest, I didn't know it

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Speaker 2: wasn't public, so I'm glad they Jason and Kat team

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Speaker 2: just came out publicly with a hard launch. I'll be again,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know they weren't public, so I wasn't saying anymore.

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Speaker 3: Well, they've been pretty public.

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Speaker 1: They've been.

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Speaker 4: They've been like on vacation, They've been like just so

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Speaker 4: many places in public together. But I guess this is

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Speaker 4: their first time posting like any romantic y way like

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Speaker 4: on Instagram.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, obviously, I think it's not been really

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Speaker 5: a secret by any meaning.

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Speaker 6: Honestly, it's kind of like us. Everybody kind of knew

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Speaker 6: we were.

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Speaker 5: Together, you know, post show, but we can like post

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Speaker 5: or anything until we finally did and then but but

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I'm super happy for him, super happy

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Speaker 5: for her.

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Speaker 6: Obviously we've plung out with the two of them a

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Speaker 6: few times.

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Speaker 7: I love Venezuela.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, got that part. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they're a great match too.

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Speaker 6: She's high energy. She can match his energy for sure.

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Speaker 6: She's super high energy.

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Speaker 7: And she'll keep him on his toes. Yeah, not that

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Speaker 7: he needs it, but I just think that it'll be

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Speaker 7: They just like feed off of each other in a

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Speaker 7: really nice way. But they were just like in their bubble,

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Speaker 7: you know, they don't want their bubble to be popped.

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Speaker 7: And now I feel like they feel like I think

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Speaker 7: they feel like they're in a place now where it's

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Speaker 7: like you can say whatever you want, people can start,

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Speaker 7: you know, shooting off whatever speculations, et cetera, et cetera,

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Speaker 7: and it's not going to touch us because we've solidified

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Speaker 7: our relationships. So prosps for them to keep in that

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Speaker 7: little bubble. And they feel ready.

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Speaker 6: So they're gonna they're gonna crush the couple's content.

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Speaker 5: They're gonna crush Cat's super creative and Jason is so

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Speaker 5: be fun.

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Speaker 7: Funny, and she'll like take him out of his shell.

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Speaker 7: A little bit again, not that he needs a shell.

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Speaker 7: She's listen, it's different when.

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Speaker 6: You're tell you what.

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Speaker 7: We'll get a little bit of spice in his life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So do we time stamp this because you guys

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Speaker 4: are way closer to him than I.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I had dinner with him in like December, I think.

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Speaker 4: Right with not December. Ben loves like no, No, Ben

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Speaker 4: is like Jared. He has like no sense of time.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was December.

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Speaker 3: No, it was high. It was like March. Yeah, were

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Speaker 3: you guys there at the dinner with Ben?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, March actually because I played I played a

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Speaker 5: show in Nashville and it was.

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Speaker 6: Right after I found out, and they were like pretty

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Speaker 6: brand new. Yeah. I want to say maybe maybe.

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Speaker 7: It was like Blake's got the receipts.

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Speaker 5: No, No, I'm looking at the calendar February, but I

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Speaker 5: think they're probably obviously talking before them. But I don't

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Speaker 2: There should be careful saying dates because there's gonna be

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Speaker 2: like people are gonna be like they were hanging out

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Speaker 2: in December and there was crossover, and I'm like, no,

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Speaker 2: I just didn't know February.

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Speaker 6: We'll go with February.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always a big step outside of everything else. Excited,

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Speaker 2: happy for them, they seem great, that's awesome. I understand

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Speaker 2: and never have a problem at all with somebody not

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Speaker 2: know why it bothers people because you're dating, like what

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Speaker 2: are you gonna do? Going your first day? And they

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Speaker 2: make hey, we need we should share that we took

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Speaker 2: a date together. But I do feel like when you're

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Speaker 2: that is a sign that things are looking good, like

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Speaker 2: that you feel confident in what will become of your connection.

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Speaker 8: I agree, you don't go public unless you want to,

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Speaker 8: like intertwine a lot of your life, especially when your

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Speaker 8: life is on social like that, like their businesses aren't social.

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Speaker 7: So I just think that this is a very like

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Speaker 7: what you said, very big green flag that it could be,

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Speaker 7: could be, endgame.

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Speaker 1: Could be.

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Speaker 6: I always said, I remember because I.

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Speaker 5: Agree with you, and I remember saying after Paradise, I

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Speaker 5: was like, I am never going public with a woman

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Speaker 5: unless I intend to like marrying her.

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Speaker 7: I heard that I heard that podcast before yea before

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Speaker 7: we went public, and I was like, oh shit, oh no,

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Speaker 3: So when's the wedding, guys, I knew, I know.

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Speaker 6: I was like, this is.

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Speaker 7: You know, there's yeah, yeah, there's some Oh no, we

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Speaker 7: just had a baby, so we're worried.

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Speaker 6: About the baby, keeping the baby alive.

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Speaker 4: First from there, Okay, so the baby was born two

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Speaker 4: months ago, yeah, two months ago.

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Speaker 6: Ten weeks roughly, I think he's ten weeks.

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Speaker 3: His name is Heath.

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Speaker 4: And I said, like, Keith was kind of on our

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Speaker 4: list for our next baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we won't. We were not we're going to use it,

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Speaker 3: but because you guys.

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Speaker 4: Took it from her, I told I told Jared. I

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Speaker 4: was like, Heath is out because because Blake and g

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Speaker 4: already named their baby Keith. And he was like, we

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Speaker 4: could still do it because of them. I was like,

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Speaker 4: are you I don't know, Like I don't want to

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Speaker 4: be a name stealer. Plus, don't worry, it's not like

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Speaker 4: so high on the list that like I felt like

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Speaker 4: it was a steal.

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Speaker 3: It was not a steal.

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Speaker 6: Plus, Heath, you have the literation to the age eight Haben.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we've been thinking.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I like Hayden and I think Hayden Haven is

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Speaker 6: Right, A little it's really close that.

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Speaker 3: You cannot do. It's too bad.

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Speaker 1: I think it's got some flow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, really yeah.

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Speaker 5: The middle name would be big middle name would have

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Speaker 5: to be a big middle name. It'd have to be

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Speaker 5: in like a really good middle name.

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Speaker 3: To not to like break it up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just to break it up a little, a little

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Speaker 6: tongue nye.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, keep it on a list.

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Speaker 4: How do you feel, I'm I'm like, it's just like

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Speaker 4: that depends on the hour at this point. You know,

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Speaker 4: like sometimes it's just like I'm so heavy and I'm

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Speaker 4: so like defeated and just like it's heaviness. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: then there's sometimes where I am am pretty fine. But

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Speaker 4: I know that you enjoyed pregnancy, so good for you.

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Speaker 4: You and I had the absolute opposite pregnancies of all time,

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Speaker 4: because like you were one of the few people that

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Speaker 7: I didn't think I would really terrified.

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Speaker 5: I thought for sure she would hate being pregnant and

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Speaker 5: it would be so rough, and she just hated all

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Speaker 7: I was like waiting for the other shoot to drop.

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Speaker 3: And I I was so jealous.

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Speaker 7: Like it was I don't know then, it just it

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Speaker 3: And I just didn't have any symptoms that were overwhelming normal.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, tired, I just like a ton. I didn't get

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Speaker 7: morning sickness. I mean, I like you right like that.

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Speaker 7: I was waiting like I was waiting for it. I was,

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Speaker 7: you know, I would get dizzy, I would get like

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Speaker 7: a little bit of nauseous, but like I never like

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Speaker 7: And it's because I like a.

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Speaker 3: Tone traveling, you'll usually get a hit.

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Speaker 7: Yeah you got a hit out of it, but it

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Speaker 7: was you didn't have any like reat. I felt really

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you looked really feminine and beautiful, and I looked

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Speaker 7: I'm like, shit, I wish I was so pregnant right now.

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Speaker 7: I'm just like I'm trying to and to just you know,

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Speaker 6: Be back.

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Speaker 7: And I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Saying everybody has like their part.

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Speaker 6: Do you think I love her so much.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's it's been hard to watch her be

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Speaker 5: like Okay, the baby's out, like I want to be back,

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Speaker 5: you know. And then and like there's that fine line

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Speaker 7: It's also like to shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 5: You know. It's like, baby, you're you're breastfeeding like I'm trying.

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Speaker 5: You know, You're just a fine line to be like

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Speaker 6: Trusting the gym if you want to, you know what

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Speaker 5: There's like that fine line of being like okay, baby,

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Speaker 5: like do you want to come to the gym with

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Speaker 6: You're more than welcome like that.

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Speaker 7: So it's like my body feels good. I'm I'm emotionally healthy,

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Speaker 7: which I'm super super grateful for. Like again, I thought

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Speaker 7: I was going to be like PPD, Like I mean,

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Speaker 7: I could hit you like at any point, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 7: but I just feel pretty normal. So I want to

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Speaker 3: I got it. I got it for me with Dawson.

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Speaker 4: I thought that I thought that I bounced back super

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Speaker 4: quickly because the weight fell off really quickly. But then

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Speaker 4: I look back on pictures and I still wasn't myself

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Speaker 4: at all until like three or four months was part

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Speaker 4: of or like yeah, like I still had like serious

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Speaker 3: I was feeling like relieved.

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Speaker 7: So you got to take where they where they up.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, Yeah, it's been an insane obviously her experience. You know,

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Speaker 5: I can only speak to my experience, but like it's

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Speaker 5: been insane watching like what a woman's body can do.

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Speaker 3: It's so literally netty like it's.

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Speaker 5: The most itself. The birth itself was like the most

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Speaker 5: magical thing I've ever.

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Speaker 6: Been a part of.

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Speaker 7: I love giving birth.

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Speaker 5: It was so emotionally overwhelmed, like and I could see

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Speaker 6: Speak to myself. It's almost like addicting.

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Speaker 5: Like I could see maybe why people like have a

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Speaker 7: God, I need to get there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've heard that even about moms. Sometimes it takes

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Speaker 1: So it's, uh, how is your relationship changed?

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Speaker 6: No, no, No, it's a good question.

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Speaker 5: I think we weren't sure, like you kind of said then,

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Speaker 6: It's like all change a diaper, Like I saw how

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Speaker 6: It's like, oh my god, it's like the mother of

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Speaker 7: I am not a dirty, dirty girl anymore. You know, I'll

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Speaker 3: Days usually social media. They do usually on social media.

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Speaker 4: It looks nice, sure, but not you know, I make

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Speaker 7: It wasn't nice. I would have and you know all

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Speaker 3: I do not really never know what you're gonna get save.

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Speaker 4: You know, my first what like wrecked me, like you

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Speaker 6: It's like I'm sorry that she had a different experience

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Speaker 7: But also I've encouraged people because, like I was scared

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Speaker 7: and I do. I just didn't think that would happen

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Speaker 7: You can't you can't please.

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Speaker 4: Because when you hate it, then people are like, you're

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Speaker 7: No, And I still traveled the world with you, and

445
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 7: I still want to take your shows, and I still worked,

446
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 7: and I still renovated a house and I still did

447
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 7: a great dangle thing. It was it was creaty, like

448
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 7: women are lead.

449
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:23,119
Speaker 5: I.

450
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 4: Really you know, I know we say it all the time,

451
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 4: but it's like I really wondering what would have happened if,

452
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 4: like guys had you know, they carried the child.

453
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,480
Speaker 3: It's definitely designed.

454
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 7: And then like you're bleeding out of every single work,

455
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 7: you have to like literally put yourself back together again.

456
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,439
Speaker 7: It's why you, guys, the most interesting thing I've ever

457
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 7: seen ever. And then the baby is depending on you

458
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 7: and only you, and it's just for food and you know,

459
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,720
Speaker 7: and you're it's like the only thing it knows and

460
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 7: you're like I want to cry for thirty minutes.

461
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 9: But it's just like it's really rough, but it was great.

462
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, let's talk about him now, like in the present,

463
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 4: because he's here, so like, tell us this funny story

464
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 4: about how like like getting used to parenthead like do

465
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 4: you have any funny stories about just you know, sleep

466
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 4: or eating or anything like that, like not knowing what

467
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 4: to do when you take a shower and you're alone.

468
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean all that. I especially in the beginning

469
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 7: my mom stayed with us for like two ish weeks.

470
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,119
Speaker 7: My dad also, he had no idea what he was doing.

471
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: He was just like my dad.

472
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 4: My dad literally he held Dawson for the first time like

473
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,120
Speaker 4: a week later, he was like, I'm gonna break him,

474
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 4: and now he's obsessed exactly.

475
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 7: He was like shaking, like and I'm like, I'm going

476
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 7: to take a shower for us. I'm like, great, I

477
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,479
Speaker 7: get clean. I don't know, but that was really funny.

478
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 6: I think I'll say one.

479
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 5: I think having a boy, which you knows, the pee,

480
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 5: the pee.

481
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 6: Is just everywhere.

482
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,640
Speaker 7: It's so cute. Yeah, I find everything he does.

483
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 6: Yes, I was just gonna say, like cries.

484
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 5: I wasn't huge, Like I didn't hate babies, but like

485
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 5: I wasn't like, oh like can I help baby, Like

486
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 5: I wasn't that guy.

487
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, I never held you born with my Everything.

488
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 5: He does is cute, like everything he cries, and I'm like,

489
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 5: this is accusing of nursing, you know, She's like everything

490
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 5: he does is cute.

491
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 6: It's such a weird feeling.

492
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 7: And we get like so excited when he's like holding

493
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:41,679
Speaker 7: his head up, We're like, did you see that?

494
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 6: I'm like, look at him.

495
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 7: Go he just like he just laughed, like he's learning

496
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 7: how to laugh right now. And I'm like, I'm so

497
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 7: proud of that. My baby is like using his voice.

498
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 7: Like then, It's just like little things like that, and

499
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 7: I mean funny stuff. He's my mom has this joke.

500
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 7: She's just like, where's the baby on Jeanina's boot? Where's

501
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 7: Janina like eating the baby? Like, my tits are constantly out.

502
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 6: So if you live in Denver, you've probably seen.

503
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,120
Speaker 7: My breath, that is for sure.

504
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 1: So can you believe that?

505
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 7: Huh?

506
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: Can you believe how big we get?

507
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 6: Massive?

508
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 7: My titties are massive. Everything is big.

509
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 6: I got a good one. I gotta go to one.

510
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 6: Some funny.

511
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,199
Speaker 5: The other day, we were at the gym and she

512
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 5: was like running on the treadmill and all. So she's

513
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,239
Speaker 5: like and I was like, what, Like my milk came in?

514
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 5: And she starts like yeah, She's like, my milk's coming

515
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 5: in as I'm running.

516
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 6: This is just crazy.

517
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 2: What the body does wait, explain elaborated a little bit.

518
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 2: What happens, Like all of a sudden you can feel milk.

519
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 7: So you feel like it's called the letdown. I think

520
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 7: this is what the letdown is for me. It's like

521
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 7: I just feel I don't know, imagine like the feeling

522
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 7: you get right like right after your foot falls asleep.

523
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 7: But it doesn't hurt. It's just like a little tingling

524
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 7: like it's just kind of something's moving. I don't know.

525
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 7: I don't know how to it. Yeah, it's like a flow.

526
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 7: You feel like a flow.

527
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 6: Whoa just get bigger and then just wild hurting her?

528
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 1: Where's that coming from?

529
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 7: I you know, I haven't really looked into it. I

530
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 7: don't know how I'm making milk, like from.

531
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 6: The brain ducks something.

532
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 2: And somebody who knows is listening to this, like you

533
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 2: guys are idiots.

534
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 3: So hormone release, Okay, I don't.

535
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 7: No idea how makeing milk? I know that I have

536
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 7: milk ducks, but that's it. I don't know how they

537
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 7: turned on, how they turn off.

538
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 5: Well, that's the other thing is like when you as

539
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 5: soon as she hears him crying, whatever, Yeah, you know

540
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 5: they'll fill up or another baby crying will.

541
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 6: Even do it.

542
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, yeah, it's just so cool. Human nature,

543
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,199
Speaker 5: you know, like the nature of everything is just so.

544
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 7: And now he's like doubled in weight and I'm like,

545
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 7: good boy, like my booby.

546
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 6: It's all chunky. He's got chunky legs.

547
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 7: And he looks just like Blake.

548
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 3: That's what we hear.

549
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 7: He looks just like but with like little little like

550
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 7: dashes of me. But I wanted him to like I

551
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 7: wanted to give birth to Blake.

552
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: That's so cute.

553
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 7: Well that's how I knew I wanted to be with you.

554
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, I was.

555
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 7: Actually Brittany Cartwright asked me on her podcast last year

556
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 7: before I got pregnant, and she was like, how do

557
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 7: She's like, how do you know? Like Blake was the

558
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 7: one or whatever? And I was like, when I realized

559
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 7: that I wanted my babies to look like him? And

560
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 7: then my baby looks like you.

561
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: Guys, he's going to be a stud.

562
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 2: Like there's no question in my mind, he's going to

563
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: be very handsome.

564
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,679
Speaker 7: CUTI I'm ecstatic.

565
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 6: Just I mean, it's fun. It's super fun.

566
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 5: I love doing like I know I'd like being a dad,

567
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 5: but like it's just so fun. Like every morning she

568
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 5: wakes up before me and he's like, roll over my.

569
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 7: Conversation.

570
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: That's so good.

571
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 4: I got one more last question for you guys personally,

572
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 4: how what advice do you give to parents that find

573
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 4: themselves in the similar situation that you guys did where

574
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 4: it was unplanned but you're like, all right, unplanned life change,

575
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 4: biggest life change, one of them.

576
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 3: Here we go.

577
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, I got I got I got one.

578
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 5: I think obviously like this is without you know, doesn't

579
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 5: need to be said, like make it a priority. I

580
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 5: think you know, read all the books, do all the classes.

581
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 5: We did the hypno birthing classes. We read books, and

582
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 5: don't don't put myself on more on your plate.

583
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 6: So I mean for us personally, that meant not like

584
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 6: running out and you.

585
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 7: Know, go to the courthouse and getting married.

586
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 6: No, no more of a planning a wedding.

587
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 5: It was like, let's not like put another thing on

588
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 5: our like, let's just do that on our own time

589
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 5: instead of all the millions of d ms calling me

590
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 5: a pos because I'm not married to her, you know,

591
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 5: like it was like whatever, like we're gonna do this

592
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 5: on our time. Because we felt like we want to

593
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 5: make heath a priority, not that they are aren't. People aren't,

594
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 5: but like, yeah, I was just like for us personally,

595
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 5: it was like we weren't gonna rush, like no, I'm

596
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 5: gonna run.

597
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 6: Out and get a ring and we're gonna plan a

598
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 6: wedding in the next five months.

599
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 7: Like it was like, well, no, that's like yeah, we

600
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 7: needed to like take one step at a time.

601
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

602
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, for me personally, I mean, I think you said

603
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 7: it really well, Like we got educated pretty quickly, and

604
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 7: it just felt I felt more in control even though

605
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 7: the situation was out of my control. I understood what

606
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 7: was going on with my body more. I understood like

607
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 7: how I could, you know, bring a baby into this

608
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 7: world and do it on my own terms at least,

609
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 7: Like there was a lot of education that happened. But

610
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 7: for me, I went out with a couple of my

611
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 7: girlfriends and she no one knew yet. It was like

612
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 7: still my little secret, and I chose to tell this

613
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 7: one mom and she told me like the simplest advice,

614
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 7: but for whatever reason, I just clicked like beautifully at

615
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 7: that moment. She was like, I did whatever made me happy,

616
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 7: and it's so simple. But when I was in it,

617
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 7: I felt so overwhelmed and I felt like I had

618
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 7: to do all these things and I had to buy

619
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 7: all this stuff and I had to get ready, and

620
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 7: so I was just like, wait, that's actually brilliant. So

621
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 7: I slowed down and I just focused on my happiness,

622
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 7: like I kept doing the things that I wanted to,

623
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 7: and we were just it was just like this really

624
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 7: beautiful cycle of like I knew my baby was happy

625
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 7: because I was so happy too. And yeah, like I

626
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 7: still traveled like I didn't really restrict what I was eating,

627
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 7: like I'm sorry, I ate sushi like I cold, like cold,

628
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 7: Like I'm.

629
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 4: Eating Delly sandwiches like crazy, Yeah.

630
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 7: We want to you know, so on so many trips,

631
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 7: like I just kept doing what made me happy, and

632
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 7: that made it such a great experience because I didn't

633
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 7: feel like I put myself lost, like it was me

634
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 7: and my baby. And then in turn, I didn't make

635
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 7: Blake's life help so.

636
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: Very important, yeah, very valuable.

637
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 6: Yeah it was.

638
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 7: It was hard, like you had to click to click

639
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 7: into it.

640
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: I like the one of the things Just and I

641
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 2: say right now often is take the next best step,

642
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: because we get very overwhelmed and we try to do

643
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 2: it all and we're trying to fit so much in.

644
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: And I think to hear you two say, in the

645
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: midst of what will be will be the biggest moment

646
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: of your life and probably could have been one of

647
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 2: the most difficult moments of your relationship, you guys decided

648
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 2: to take the next next best step and it led

649
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: you to today where you have a baby. You guys can

650
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: do it like I think it's very obvious where it's

651
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: all good.

652
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, exactly. That's the piece of advice. Everything will

653
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 5: be okay, everything will work out.

654
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 7: And also one more, there were times where we were

655
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 7: like tested, The universe was testing us in certain different

656
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 7: points of this pregnancy. And I always said, the universe

657
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 7: is testing me right now, because why are we gonna

658
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 7: cry too?

659
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 3: Like you cry for everything?

660
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, every single time without feeling because I'm

661
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 7: gonna have like the biggest reward, thanks reward. It's true. Okay,

662
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 7: I'm done by.

663
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 3: That's a great way to wrap.

664
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: No, I'm proud, I mean not proud of That makes

665
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: me sound like, uh, inspired by you guys, encouraged, excited

666
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: all the good stuff you're doing great. Cannot wait to

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Speaker 2: continue to see Heath grow, uh and your family grow

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Speaker 2: and all the good things in front of the two

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Speaker 2: of you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on. It means a lot. I know

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Speaker 1: it's a.

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Speaker 2: Busy time, and I know that there's a lot going.

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Speaker 4: On that totally fail you on the tears like and

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Speaker 4: now and the few weeks afterward. It's crazy a few

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Speaker 4: weeks afterward for me, or even crazy.

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Speaker 8: Oh.

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Speaker 3: She was way like I would cry because everything was

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Speaker 3: too good. I was like, my life can't get better.

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Speaker 3: So I'm really worried that everything is gonna be downhill

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Speaker 3: from here.

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Speaker 5: Then I'm we're running to go pick up my new

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Speaker 5: full bag p XGS right now.

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Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, of course, man, full bag. Like it's

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Speaker 6: all fucking everything is new and stuff.

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Speaker 1: How many days a week do you get to golf,

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Speaker 1: because let's go golf.

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Speaker 6: None now, so I mean, now now on, we're gonna

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Speaker 6: go more. We're gonna go more.

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Speaker 4: Now I gotta get like and r yeah no, I

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Speaker 4: was like, but you can, We'll get out in golf.

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Speaker 2: That's what a deal. Well, hey, it's been great to

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Speaker 2: have Blake and g here on the Almost Fess podcast.

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Speaker 1: Again.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations to the two of you. We're very appreciative for

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Speaker 2: your time. We know your time is very valuable always,

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Speaker 2: but especially right now. So until next time, I've been

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Speaker 2: Ben guys.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, actually yeah,