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Speaker 1: tha h I show will a good morning everybody, y'all

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Speaker 1: listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one

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Speaker 1: and only Steve Harley got a radio show today? Is it? Everybody?

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Speaker 1: On a real positive note? Today? Is it? Today? Is

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Speaker 1: day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and

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Speaker 1: you know that's registered more and more with me. Today

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Speaker 1: What better blessing will you get throughout the day than

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Speaker 1: See sometimes, man, when you're young, you don't pay no

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Speaker 1: immortality starts to matter a great deal to you. Some

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Speaker 1: of us learned this lesson sooner than others. But I know,

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Speaker 1: when you're young, man, you know you think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: but man, oh man, almost every full blown adult that

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Speaker 1: have said those words right there? Because in time, man,

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Speaker 1: Hey man, it's best to buckle down now, he said,

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Speaker 1: Hey man, you better quit wasting time. Hey, look, do

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Speaker 1: procrastinating today. How About if you make today to day

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the start of the Steve

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Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace sangs another hit, siscol Kid was a friend

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Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody. I will open up all my shows

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Speaker 1: all time Roscoe Wallace doing one of the hits that

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Speaker 1: the way Roscoe Wallace has it playing Roscold is old

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Speaker 1: Let's see if Roscoe with junior call it Shirley, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: Miss siem Monica morning, sir, good stop tom Man, Uncle,

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Speaker 1: Who hasn't we own this damn bus? Yeah, at ninety

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Speaker 1: They're gonna be all damn day. So yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: I loved people who would take empty bags of loafs

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Speaker 1: What you got, nef, Guess who is moving next door?

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Speaker 1: trying to reach uh mister Dolphin, Dolan, Dolan Dolan, mister Dolan, sir,

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Speaker 1: how you doing. My name is uh Clifford Cooper. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what can you do for you? Mister? Uh? You? You

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Speaker 1: Why do you want to know that? Well? Actually, I'm

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be living next

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Speaker 1: at the wrong map. No, no, the fifth that separates

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Speaker 1: That's impossible, you know, listen, and I know this is

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Speaker 1: not let me let me know. I'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: Look at you got a jacouzi in your backyard? Right,

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Speaker 1: so you've been even spine on me. No, I haven't

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Speaker 1: yo yo yo, jacuz, you'll hate to nacy. Okay, let

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Speaker 1: know what you're looking at, but my fence is not moving,

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Speaker 1: my Jacuzi's not moving, and there's there's no changing that. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna put a gate between uh I two yards,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be able to coming get in mis

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Speaker 1: listen to this on a future neighbor who's making weird

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Speaker 1: I hold the jacuz he. No, no, you did not

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Speaker 1: You just showed up making a He called me at work,

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Speaker 1: I've had ten other neighbors in that backyard. You don't

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Speaker 1: cycle through once a year, I swear, And I've never

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Speaker 1: you need to understand. You got a new black neighbor,

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Speaker 1: and you got a new black neighbor that own party

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Speaker 1: And as soon as I move in, I'm coming and

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Speaker 1: I'm getting in my jakouzi here with the man. You

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, Just no move into that. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna use the jakouzi on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. You

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Speaker 1: because Blady is damn jakouzi belongs to me. The jakouzi

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna get along. Bladam line. Look here, let

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Speaker 1: get to use my jakuzi because it's not coming over

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Speaker 1: I swear if I can jump through this phone. I'd

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Speaker 1: My co worker? Hey man, this is nephew. Tell me man,

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Speaker 1: you your boy cutting hal got me the plank phone?

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Speaker 1: Call you this, Oh pay back to We got you mad,

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Speaker 1: We got you you. Und I got one more thing

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Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land, the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey's Radio Shore. All right, nephew, thank you? Coming up next,

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Speaker 1: it is asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: the hour. And trending entertainment news, some very very sad news.

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Speaker 1: Ask the CLO. CLO standing for Chief Love Officer, Ready

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Speaker 1: for your love questions. This one is from Shara and Augusta.

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Speaker 1: Chara writes, I recently moved from my parents home to

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Speaker 1: My mother was cleaning out one of my dress drawers

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Speaker 1: I was ashamed but happy. My dad wasn't home. The

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Speaker 1: She said, it's no big deal, but it's very embarrassing

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Speaker 1: for me. Am I overreacting? Yeah, because there are people

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Speaker 1: You know what they laugh because they cut two three

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Speaker 1: of them? Oh rabbit lady book bullets. You know. You

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Speaker 1: But Nana Olah, you know what they got the cherry pickle.

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Speaker 1: You know they got some stuff in there. Man, you

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Speaker 1: But on the zoom it's a lot of people blushing.

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Speaker 1: So let's just move on, Okay, we will. Vicky and Hoover, Alabama,

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Speaker 1: says my husband and I got new phones, and he

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Speaker 1: He came in. It was acting all mad, saying a

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Speaker 1: I panicked because my male friends play a lot on

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Speaker 1: He accused me of having an affair, and my stomach

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Speaker 1: you threw up a sure sign of guilty. You vomited.

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Speaker 1: You know many lies out and told I've never vomited.

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Speaker 1: I've been the court line and never vomited. I've been

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Speaker 1: You guilty? She accused you and cheating. I got stomach,

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Speaker 1: guy queens out threw up? The hell you throwing a phone.

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Speaker 1: I wrote a check to the government one time for time.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, damn, they had to write another one. I

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Speaker 1: I had it and she hung up and I thank

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Speaker 1: All right? All right, Betty, well, I must have ate

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Speaker 1: Moving on Lewis and Detroit, Steve Lewis writes that I've

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Speaker 1: She said, I shouldn't sweat the small stuff, and how

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Speaker 1: It's the chump you seem to be falling into that bracket,

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Speaker 1: many people in y'all's damn marriage. Y'all's marriage ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: make it if you leave all these people in it.

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Speaker 1: The past is what it is. It's supposed to stay there.

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Speaker 1: If you keep bringing the past up, you're gonna mess

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Speaker 1: up your future. That's a fact. You Dog. What is

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Speaker 1: we talking about? What you keep talking about? The expo

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Speaker 1: and the house you used to have? Well, we ain't

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Speaker 1: got that house. And I might not be insecure, but

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Speaker 1: dog going, I'm not fitting sill and take all these

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Speaker 1: shots in the mouth next. Ye mash number three, I

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Speaker 1: love you too, says you say it twice before you're

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Speaker 1: good at it. Just say it a third time and

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Speaker 1: go on and get on here Mecy and Memphis says

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Speaker 1: Steve that I've got a five year old daughter that

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Speaker 1: has too grown for her age. She's always watching videos

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Speaker 1: on her phone and she's taken on the personality of

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Speaker 1: her fifteen year old sister. And I try to manage

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Speaker 1: it as best I can. She came home from hanging

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Speaker 1: out at the park with her older sister and she

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Speaker 1: told me that she saw two dogs doing it. I

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Speaker 1: asked her what they were doing, and she said it.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to beat the breaks off my fifteen year

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Speaker 1: old if she's taking like that, if she's talking like

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Speaker 1: that around my baby, And how do I address this

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Speaker 1: with my two girls? What you what? You're jumping on

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Speaker 1: a fifteen year old for you're the parent, you know

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Speaker 1: this started a long time ago. You your five year

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Speaker 1: old is out of control because you've allowed her to

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Speaker 1: get out of control. Now you're blaming it on a

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Speaker 1: fifteen year old. But fifteen year old is out of

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Speaker 1: control because boom yeah, And like Tommy say, she got

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Speaker 1: a phone and she looking at videos on the phone

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Speaker 1: at five years old? Why she got a phone. Why

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Speaker 1: she got access to a phone, Why she's talking back

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Speaker 1: to you? See, let me show you how you would

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Speaker 1: have went, Shirley, you my mother and asked me about that,

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Speaker 1: would asked me about that? So what did you say, baby?

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Speaker 1: What did you mean you saw two dogs doing it?

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Speaker 1: I saw two dogs doing it. Fuck exactly. That's how

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Speaker 1: that would have went at my house doing it. Fuck.

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Speaker 1: That was my mama's backhand, cross my mouth. But see,

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Speaker 1: y'all don't do that no more. So now you have

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Speaker 1: what you have now I went, we don't raise our

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Speaker 1: kids like that no more. Okay, cool, that's why your

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Speaker 1: kids is off the change. See five, ye don't need

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Speaker 1: the fifteen year old ass woman. That's all this shit,

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Speaker 1: old Steve huh m. She says she's gonna beat the

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Speaker 1: breaks off her fifteen year old, that's what she said.

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Speaker 1: But she not. And let me explain something. Beating is

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Speaker 1: not the answer to this right here. You really got

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Speaker 1: to sit your children down and get some order and

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Speaker 1: some rules in your house. That's just all what it is.

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Speaker 1: You've lost control of what you supposed to be in

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Speaker 1: control though to many people got phones. All right, good advice, cello,

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Speaker 1: Thank you coming up. I have your old in charge

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Speaker 1: of a damn thing up in Hire coming up. At

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour. We'll have some entertainment news

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Speaker 1: for you. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show, some sad news. One of the legendary founding

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Speaker 1: father founding members of the Gap band, Ronnie Wilson, has

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Speaker 1: passed away. This is according to his family. Ronnie suffered

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Speaker 1: stroke last week and within a semi coma and he

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Speaker 1: never recovered. We're offering, of course, our deepest, deepest condolences

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Speaker 1: to Ronnie Wilson's family. That's his wife, has children, and

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Speaker 1: of course his brother, Charlie Wilson. This was a good

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Speaker 1: dude right here. Man. Ronnie Wilson was a very very

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Speaker 1: good dude. I toured. I toured in a couple of

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Speaker 1: stage plays. He was a bad boy. Yeah. He moved

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Speaker 1: to Houston, stay here in Houston for a while, and

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Speaker 1: then later he moved to, uh to San Antonio. That's

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Speaker 1: probably where he last resided because uh, I think he

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Speaker 1: had even opened I mean, he started preaching down there

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Speaker 1: in San Antonio. Ronnie was a really really good good man. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's a lot musical genius. Yeah, yeah, he wrote a

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Speaker 1: lot for the Gap band. Yeah, producer, again, our condolence

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Speaker 1: is going out to the entire family. All right, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna switch gears. And on a lighter note, we got

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Speaker 1: to talk about Alicia Keys and Swiss Beats. Uh. They're

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Speaker 1: showing off their California home and Architectural Digest. It's eleven

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Speaker 1: thousand square foot home. It's in uh Lajoya Lajoia, California,

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Speaker 1: which is featured on the cover of Architectural Digest December issue.

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Speaker 1: It sits on a mountain side overlooking the Pacific Ocean.

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Speaker 1: It has Florida ceiling glass windows and a stunning infinity pool.

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Speaker 1: It's so fancy. They say that it served as the

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Speaker 1: inspiration for Tony Stark's futuristic home in Iron Man. So

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Speaker 1: there you go. No, it's dope. No, the crib is dope.

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Speaker 1: You've been there. I saw no comment it's dope. Didn't

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Speaker 1: drag that out of you. Yeah, well, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: and finally Carla is here with today's music news. But

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Speaker 1: you got Carla. Okay, Well, guys, congratulations are in order

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Speaker 1: for the artist her. She lands the lead in the

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty one Soul Train Award nominations. She has a song,

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Speaker 1: Album of the Year Video of the Year. Jasmine Sullivan

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Speaker 1: and Chris Brown followed. They got six nods each. Now,

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Speaker 1: the Soul Train Awards will be held at the legendary

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Speaker 1: Apollo Theater in Harlem this year, making it the first

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Speaker 1: time awards. Yes, Steve Yep at the Apollo Theater in Hallmane.

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Speaker 1: What they got the crew. They got the crew at

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Speaker 1: the Apollo Theater to pull it off and well deserved.

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Speaker 1: I've been knowing that crew for years. Every time I'm

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Speaker 1: going back. It's the same boys back there, Joe and

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Speaker 1: all in boys and boys know how to put on

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Speaker 1: the show. Well, that's good, that's good. Maxwell will receive

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Speaker 1: the legend Award a Shanty. She will receive the Lady

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Speaker 1: of Soul. She is the honoree twenty twenty one Soul

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Speaker 1: Train Awards. And now they're gonna tape it on November twentieth.

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Speaker 1: It will air on November twenty eighth, and it is

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Speaker 1: hosted by to Sheina Campbell and I'm sorry Titia Campbell

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Speaker 1: and to Sheina Arnold. You know this is the fourth

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Speaker 1: year in a row hosting the Soul Training Awards. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they do. They do. They have fun hosting, so we'll

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Speaker 1: be watching. I know they're gonna do a song, Yes,

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Speaker 1: they do. They always go crazy with the junior girl

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Speaker 1: because Harmodi is everything she got body aidi adi adi Adie.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonnahead that much old I'm same thing. That's

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Speaker 1: what we're wishing for, probably that girl shout out to

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Speaker 1: a shanty morning yep. And in other music news, it's

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Speaker 1: Award Music Season twenty twenty one American Music Awards will

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Speaker 1: be hosted by Cardie B. This is big and that's

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Speaker 1: going down on November twenty first, Cardi B hosting the AMAS.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be nice. God, So that is fine. That's

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Speaker 1: what it's gonna be. Just fine. That's music news. There,

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Speaker 1: you got, all right? Thank you? Carl. Hey, Tommy, huh

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Speaker 1: excuse me, hello, just talking to you. What show would

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Speaker 1: you be really good at hosting other than the one

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Speaker 1: you want? I'm talking about like Court Awards show. I

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Speaker 1: hadn't thought about that. Huh. He'll go forward, Academy Awards.

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Speaker 1: Why not? Yeah, go forward, go forward? No, you don't

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Speaker 1: see that. Huh you don't see that? Hell no? What

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Speaker 1: what he's an actor? What can I do that? I

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Speaker 1: can't host them. Come on, man, height you know tilling

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Speaker 1: like something that's really like, you know, People's choice or

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Speaker 1: something like that. You know something. They're not fitling it,

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Speaker 1: damn Oscars. How about lap Image Award work? I mean

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Speaker 1: not not because it's lesser, it's just that we not

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Speaker 1: fitling whole. Dain't they took Kevin off of it? You

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Speaker 1: talk about Academy Awards. Hey, everybody shouldn't be no, damn Austin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I'm worried about that Image Awards. That would be

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Speaker 1: nice to host, um brain all of them, any of them?

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Speaker 1: What about Nephew can be What about the immage? Yep,

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Speaker 1: I could do it. You can do it? Make you proud?

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Speaker 1: No no again, no no no, because I'd be up

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Speaker 1: for Emmies and then I don't get them, and you

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Speaker 1: know you be the one me and you're gonna have problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah here, yeah, you're gonna blame the host whatever. You know,

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Speaker 1: you said it, you see it. You know you open

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Speaker 1: the envelope. You know what we do to winner. Let

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Speaker 1: me call my author right quick, listen, you didn't live Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't even care, just say on Steve name anyway,

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Speaker 1: I don't give that. I can't do that. Do that?

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Speaker 1: Come have for twenty minutes after the hour, man, you

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Speaker 1: can't do that? I did. Can we have a twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour? President Biden caught sleeping on the job.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. Get some sleep.

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00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show, So Steve, President Biden

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Speaker 1: is just being dragged right now in social media. They're

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Speaker 1: dragging him because he fell asleep. And I'm talking to

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Speaker 1: you directly because you can relate to this. But President

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Speaker 1: Biden fell asleep during the opening speeches of the COP

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Speaker 1: twenty six Climate Summit. One of the staffers woke him up,

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Speaker 1: and the President then uncrossed his arms and listened to

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Speaker 1: what the staff member was telling him before applauding the

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Speaker 1: opening speaker. Medical experts said, when you are bored, there

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Speaker 1: is no motivational stimuli getting into your brain, no dopamine

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Speaker 1: and is being released, and you therefore tend to feel

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Speaker 1: tired and sleepy. Unto understood. Yeah, okay, the times I've

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Speaker 1: done a Joe Biden Lais I had was at the

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Speaker 1: LAIS headquarters in Dallas. A fella sleep. They was talking.

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00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: I was at a chip because they put a graph up.

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Speaker 1: They turned the lights off talking about Cheeto sales and

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Speaker 1: all this hit like, I give a damn with sleeper that.

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Speaker 1: Then I was at a pitch meeting one time and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't my turn to talk, and the dude I

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00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,240
Speaker 1: wanted to pitch me anymore, he was pitching this project

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00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: so wrong. I knew he wasn't getting the TV show.

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Speaker 1: So I went on went to Sleeping Now church. I've

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Speaker 1: been to church. We had a minister one time and

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Speaker 1: he didn't have no volume. His whole sermon was a talk.

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Speaker 1: You know, God so loved the world that he gave

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Speaker 1: his only be gotten, the son. Hey man, we all

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Speaker 1: know this verse. Pick it up, you know, give me something.

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Speaker 1: Hit a tambourine, you need a drummer, you need something.

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Speaker 1: I've fallen sleeping Now. I went to court with a

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Speaker 1: friend of mine and uh it wasn't looking good, and uh,

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Speaker 1: you wasn't. I wasn't on trial, So hell, yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: the attitude. Crazy. You don't try your ass be paying

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Speaker 1: attention better. Yeah, yeah, that's been And I'm okay with

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Speaker 1: Joe Biden going to sleep at the summit. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: probably is boring. You shouldn't go to sleep You're not

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about the most infamous time you went to

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Speaker 1: Sleeping Bay. Boy. I know you ain't leaving that one out.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to talk about that. Well, we was

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Speaker 1: interviewing some people at the MGM Grand and they were

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Speaker 1: special guests this morning. But I've been gambling all night.

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Speaker 1: We was on the ass at three am in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I left a casino at two thirty and we're sitting

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Speaker 1: there in the interview was at Fox fifteen and at

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Speaker 1: FHO fifteen. My whole brain had shut off. And so

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Speaker 1: while that two white dudes was talking, I dropped the mic.

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Speaker 1: It hit the flow. Sherley says Steve. I turned a

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Speaker 1: right away. What I looked at them two white people.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who they were. I thought they was fed,

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Speaker 1: and I thought my ass was gone. All right, we'll

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Speaker 1: take your phone calls. Check Steve's voicemail at eight seven

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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time to check Steve's voicemail eight seven

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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine, Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve

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Speaker 1: is the number. All right, Steve, let's go to the phones.

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Speaker 1: We got line one Carlton in Chicago. Hte Harvey a family,

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Speaker 1: Carl to Murray, loving you in Chicago. Man, it's cold,

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Speaker 1: it okay, hang up, we gotta go. I've lived in

633
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 1: Chicago twice in the early nineties, and I lived there

634
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: again from two thousand and five to two thousand and twelve.

635
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: Thirty fifteen. I lived seventy five years in Cago and

636
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: it is cold. It is the coldest place in the

637
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: United States I've ever lived. And it's cold. Beautiful city

638
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: in the summer. But the crazy thing was, I was

639
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: never there in the summer. Always had to be to

640
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: go tape shows somewhere. And then when I came back,

641
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: I came back in October, September October, so all I

642
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: saw was a couple of nice little days and they

643
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 1: weren't million nine. And then after that it comes held

644
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: in the form of Frosty vishes in Chicago. But great city, man,

645
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: great people, great radio station there V one oh three.

646
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: I'm talking about some real smart people in radio up there,

647
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: man been I've been fans of Chicago radio for a

648
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,439
Speaker 1: long time. But no one does radio the way Chicago does.

649
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: No one. Chicago was a radio city, you know, and

650
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: the dude feeder that used to report on radio. He

651
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: jacked me one time. He jacked me one time. But

652
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: that's neither here nor there. But you know, you can't

653
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: stop it because we've got good ass ratings up there,

654
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:32,919
Speaker 1: so or whatever, right, you know? All right, Carlton, thank you? Yeah,

655
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: all right, let's go to line too, Steve. This caller

656
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: just has a question about comedy. Hey, Steve O Bick,

657
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: fan of yours happen for a long time. I have

658
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: one question. If you were going to pass off your

659
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: keen comedy clown, who would you pass it to? Well?

660
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: Living today right now is Dave Chappelle. This is this

661
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: is my personal Mount Rushmore of comedy, excluding Richard Pryor,

662
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: because he's a plaque by himself. Richard Pryor is a

663
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: monument himself. My Mount Rushmore of comedy outside of Richard Pryor.

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Speaker 1: For me, now keep in mind, I'm sixty four, it's

665
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, Cedric the entertainer, because I just

666
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: I just know comedy man, And what do you how

667
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: these dudes right and and and and how they are

668
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: on stage when they in the best element. I got Rock,

669
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: I got Chappelle, I got cedric uh, I'm I'm I'm

670
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: gonna just be honest with you. Man. If if if

671
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: I looked at my body of work and what I did,

672
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: I would put myself on that wall because when I

673
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 1: was doing it, I was I was that to me

674
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: and I'm just being real with you. But then I'm

675
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: just impartial. Man. Bernie. Bernie would be on that because

676
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 1: of the way he worked. I don't people don't really

677
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: understand comedy, and then I would have to say, after

678
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: saying myself, Bernie has said, I have to include d

679
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: l hugely because the Kings of Comedy was an event

680
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: that's never been done prior and never been duplicated after

681
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: the Kings of Comedy. Man was the four of us

682
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: as a unit, It's undeniable in history of comedy. I

683
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: don't kill who you are now, if you're being honest,

684
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm talking about that collective group of dudes did something

685
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: that had never been done before and has never been

686
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: done since period. For me, Man, my dollars in terms

687
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: of dudes that's on stage, that's really vicious. Earthquake, Hankis

688
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: Quake is a letter now in that in that level

689
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: right there. But they've taken it to another level. He

690
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: gets a huge monument. Is Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart gets

691
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: he gets a plaque for the way he's diversified his

692
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 1: stand up. Now Eddie, Eddie and Richard. That's that's somewhere else.

693
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: We're talking about them here. All right, all right, thank

694
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: you Steve. Coming up next, it is a nephew with

695
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. Right after this you're listening Steve

696
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,919
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.

697
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: Write about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

698
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: The subject my ex husband wants me to be his side.

699
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: Check right now the nephews here with today's prank phone call.

700
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: What you got for his naugh This right here is

701
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: pecan tree. Pea can not pecan, but pekan cancan. My

702
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: granddad called peak peaking, and the peaks peakn try Okay,

703
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: my grandmother called it pecan yeah, my grandma okay, okay,

704
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna say it again. My granddaddy called everybody

705
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: everybody on my granddadd of Porch called it peakneverybody in

706
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 1: the neighborhood in South Park said the country not gonna

707
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: get Everybody in Study Wood in Houston, Texas called it

708
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: peakan where everybody below I ten said, the country where

709
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: everybody north the forty five calls it peakn. So that's

710
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 1: South Dallas, Okay, cool, North Houston whatever anyway, PEAKN. Let's

711
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: go care dog. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh

712
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:51,760
Speaker 1: LC hey, let me let me Hey. My name is Marcus.

713
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 1: Uh My mama named little next dough to you, mister

714
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 1: and missus my mom and daddy little next dough to you.

715
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: And I was calling called, y'all got a pecan try

716
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: in y'all backyard, I mean right on the fish line,

717
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: and it keeps, you know, pecan and stuff keep falling

718
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: over into my mam and them yard. So I tall

719
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: to see if y'all can do something man, where y'all

720
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: can pick up I mean, my mama and them got

721
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: a little older. You know, we've been picking them up

722
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: for a long time. But I need somebody to, like,

723
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: maybe you can cut the limbs back that's hanging over

724
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: so that they won't, you know, the pecans won't be

725
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: falling over into my mom and them yard because you know,

726
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: for them to be bending over like they're picking up

727
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: them pacan and it's a lot of them. So, you know, mister,

728
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 1: I just wanted to haul at you and see if

729
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 1: you don't mind maybe cutting the limbs back, because even

730
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: when we turn the lamo on and stuff, man, it

731
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: just you know, the pecans and stuff be coming out

732
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 1: of the lamo just shooting all over the place. Well,

733
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: first of all, Mama con tres an old coon tree,

734
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: and uh it's fall well and I can't see me

735
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: cutting it. Well, I mean, I'm what I'm saying, you

736
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: can't have nobody to maintain your yard. But I mean

737
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: you it's your mother. You can maintain your mother's yard. Sir.

738
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: I go by my mother's house, you know, every other

739
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: day and check on them. But I don't have time

740
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: to go on the back and pick up pecans and stuff.

741
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I mean, if you just

742
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: it don't seem no more than like maybe four or

743
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 1: five limbs that's hanging over there. But them four or

744
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: five limbs, I mean they they there's a lot of

745
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: pecans falling off of that. So if you lady my

746
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: bacon tree to shady, I go back there. There's no

747
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: kind of nothing back the okay whatever, sir, I'm not

748
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: cutting my tree for a little like that. Sir, Listen,

749
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: what I'm what I'm trying to get you to do

750
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: is I'm not I want you cutting your entire tree down.

751
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: I just want you to cut a few limbs, sir,

752
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: so you know those that way that those are the

753
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: ones that are hanging over it won't be you know,

754
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: the pecans won't be falling over into my mom's them yard.

755
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: And and and you know, like I say, they're older now, man,

756
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: they can't be bending over like that. So you know,

757
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just coming to you as a man right

758
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: now and asking you when you please cut this down

759
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: through these pecans and quit falling over my mama them

760
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 1: yard almost and you all you can do is hard

761
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: from one someone I know your mother. Don't cut your yard.

762
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: It's it's a guy that it's a guy that cuts

763
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: the yard. But even when he cutting the yard, these

764
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: pecans is flying out from underneath the yard. The law

765
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: more they sooner, lady, we're gonna be breaking windows over that.

766
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: What kind of lord person you have that don't pick

767
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: up before they cut? That's food? Why am I arguing

768
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: with you about picking up stuff? And all of this?

769
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm asking you to cut a funking left five limbs,

770
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: so these dog gonna pecans ain't a falling over my

771
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 1: mama yard. You you want to cut, you're gonna make

772
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: me come over here and cut the old I would

773
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: come cut the whole damn tree down. You ain't gonna

774
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: put my tree. I brew that tree from when I

775
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: was a kid, and that tree gonna say that York long.

776
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: I stayed though, sir, Look, I didn't ask you like

777
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: a man to cut your little fun get for corn

778
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: tree down. Now. I ain't in the hat. No what

779
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: you know what? Guess what you you you you bad enough,

780
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: you can't cut it. I've been look sir, tonight today,

781
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: ruther this evening. It's either gonna be two things happening.

782
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: Either you're gonna cut the five limbs that I won't cut.

783
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut, cut the whole damn or corn tree down.

784
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: That's my tree in any game. Nobody gonna with my

785
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm here right now. I'm you don't hear them the

786
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: yard right now? Come on? Is you over that right now?

787
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: Right now? I will bring my right home back. You

788
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 1: know what I'm you get my numb in the way,

789
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: got your mother. I got it because it's the same.

790
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: It is one that dress left than my mama's. You're

791
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: gonna cut this damn tree down. I'm waiting on them.

792
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: But anyway, man, I ain't us my prep and sething

793
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: in a long time. Any wait, I've been waiting on

794
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: them like you. You didn't lost your damn mind. You live,

795
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: yall cook. I told you once and I told you twice.

796
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm old you younger, gonna do that. See that's what's right. Then.

797
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: You know what you can do? Tell your mom to

798
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: make up a corn pie. What you say by my mama,

799
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: Tell her to make a pacorn pop and come for me.

800
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: Tell my mama, what make a corn pot with make

801
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 1: up pecoran pie? I don't want no pecoran pop. We

802
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: don't even eat pocan pie. We're so sick. And he's down, Pecun.

803
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: You got following over in the backyard. You got to

804
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 1: do something about this. Man. Now, I'm trying to I'm

805
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: trying not to hurt you. Oh man, I really am

806
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: hurt me. Hurt me, Come on, hurt me pretty for me.

807
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: I'm on my I'm on my way. It's your side side,

808
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: it's you outside, you know how you know stay. You

809
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: know what. I'm here. I'm here, I'm I'm I'm gonna

810
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 1: be in your mamaway. Dude, you get out. You get

811
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: out my mama driveway right now, get out my mama driveway.

812
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 1: I won't up putting me out. I'm God. You get

813
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: your you get back in your drive when you get

814
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: out my mama, John w get out of you. Get

815
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: out of my mama John Way, no crime for now.

816
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: Tell you I'm here waiting on you. You get out

817
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: of my mamma. Get out of my mama. Joe Way,

818
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: better go cook me some me because I'm gonna sit here.

819
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to

820
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: you with you listen. You know I'm wanna try to

821
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: say I'm waiting at you at your mama house. This

822
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: is Nephew tim Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

823
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your brother. Man, I don't

824
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: say this, sun Man. I'm gonna put my seat. Man,

825
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm anna, but I don't play. I'm too old. Elcie.

826
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,839
Speaker 1: Do me a favor. First of all, get out till

827
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: people yard. Go back to your yard. You gave me

828
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: half blood pressure. Ain't nobody mad about your pecuns. Treat

829
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: none of that. Ain't nobody fing to cut it down.

830
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:08,760
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody tripping you. Right now, man, I've been carrying

831
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: my grandkids school. Listen to this man. Y'all boy, y'all, y'all,

832
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: y'all boy, y'all. So man, I got one more question

833
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 1: for you. Tell me what is the baddest radio station

834
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: in the land? L C, Come on, el C. I

835
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: was wrong, was wrong, but you said pecan for the record,

836
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837
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846
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847
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: up next Strawberry Letters subject my ex husband wants me

848
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: to be his side check. We'll get into that right

849
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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862
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863
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:27,839
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864
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865
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,840
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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

867
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

868
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: never know it could be yours. I'd rather i'd rather

869
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: you buckle up, buckle up at hold long time we

870
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,719
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871
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Speaker 1: you buckle up and hold on type before I'll let

872
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:07,640
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873
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: Good morning. And the subject is my ex husband wants

874
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: me to be his side chick. All right, here we go, Steve.

875
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,919
Speaker 1: You're Stephen Shirley. I was married for almost fifteen years

876
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: and my husband cheated on me several times. He eventually

877
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: got tired of hurting me, or so he said, and

878
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: he divorced me. I was depressed at first, but in

879
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,919
Speaker 1: the past two years I've started getting my mojo back,

880
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: and although I'm not dating, I want desperately to have sex.

881
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: I've been able to forgive my ex husband, and that's

882
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: how i know I'm in a better place mentally and emotionally.

883
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: We don't have children together, but I'm very close to

884
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: his teenage daughter. She lives with her mom, but she

885
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: spends some weekends with me. The last time she spent

886
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 1: the night with me, her father popped up and asked

887
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:57,800
Speaker 1: if we could all have a movie night, just like

888
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: old times. I couldn't say no because she was so

889
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: glad to see her daddy. Halfway through the movie, she

890
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: fell asleep on the couch and he made her go

891
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: to bed. I started to clean up, hoping he'd leave,

892
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: but he didn't. He started to beg and plead for

893
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: one more night with me. He said he craves my

894
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: body and he just wanted to spoon with me all night.

895
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,879
Speaker 1: He is by far the best lover I've ever had,

896
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: but I couldn't let him know how badly I wanted

897
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 1: to make love to him. It would it would just

898
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 1: make me miserable all over again because I'd be his

899
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: side piece. I told him to go home to his Beyonce.

900
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: This will be his third wife, and he's already out

901
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: trying to cheat. Since that night, he's been begging me

902
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 1: to let him spend time with me. I told him

903
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 1: there's no way in hell I'd ever be his side piece.

904
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: He swore he'd leave his Beyonce if I'd let him

905
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: hold me for one more night. I will admit that

906
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: I am enjoying all of the attention for him, and

907
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: I want to believe that he truly misses me and

908
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: he's ready to come home. Is that what it is?

909
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: Or does he just want to have sex? All right?

910
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: Come on for you to even have to ask us

911
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 1: you already know. Yes, it's just the sex. He just

912
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: wants to have sex, don't do it is just about

913
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: the sex. I mean, what else has he done to

914
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 1: even make you think that he wants more than that? Nothing?

915
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: Because if it were so, you would have put that

916
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: in the letter. He swore he'd leave his fiance if

917
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: you would let him hold you for one more night.

918
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: What that sounds like a line from a song or something.

919
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: Get out of here. That right there should tell you

920
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: that he's no good. He hasn't changed. Okay, you said

921
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: it yourself. He wants to cheat on his new girl,

922
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: so please don't let him back in your life. You're

923
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 1: doing well now mentally and emotionally, you said, don't let

924
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: your situation about being desperate to have sex. Don't let

925
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: it cloud your judgment. Please, lying and cheating or apparently

926
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 1: what he does, so don't get caught up again. Can

927
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: people change, Yes, absolutely they can change, But he hasn't changed.

928
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: So don't start all over with him. Just start preparing

929
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: yourself for your new man, all right, Steve, this letter

930
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: is interesting because this letter is interesting because it's it's

931
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: just full of stuff that that's obvious to me. And

932
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: I don't know how you don't see this. The subject

933
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: is my ex husband wants me to be his side chick.

934
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: She was married for almost fifteen years, and my husband

935
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: cheated on me several times because he likes side chicks.

936
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 1: He eventually got tired of hurting me, or so he said.

937
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: And so you've been depressed at first, and he divorced you.

938
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: And now you say you're starting to get your mojo back.

939
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: And although you're not dating, I want desperately to have sex.

940
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 1: So that means you're not dating anybody. You're not having sex,

941
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: you just but you do feel better about yourself. You've

942
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: been able to forgive my ex husband, and that's how

943
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: I know him in a better place. Okay, that's a

944
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: good place to be it now, I want you to

945
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: remember this for later on in the letter. I've been

946
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: able to forgive my ex husband, and that's how I

947
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: know him in a better place. Now, you all don't

948
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: have children, but you're close to his teenage daughter, and

949
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: she lives with a mom, and she spends nights with

950
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: you on the weekend sometime, and the last time she

951
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: spent the night with me, her dad, your ex popped

952
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: up and ask if y'all can have a movie night

953
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: just like old times, and you couldn't say no because

954
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: she was glad to see her daddy. Halfway through the movie,

955
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: she fell asleep on the couch and he made her

956
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 1: go to bed. You started clean up, hoping he leave,

957
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 1: but he didn't. He started to beg and plead for

958
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: one more night with me. He said, he crazed my

959
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: body and he just wants to spoon with me all night.

960
00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: So here's a line. Here's my father best I've ever had.

961
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 1: Went excuse me, you just said, y'all was married for

962
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 1: fifteen years, he cheated on your several times. You've been

963
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: divorced for two years, and even though you're not dating,

964
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: you want to have sex. The reason he's the best

965
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: you ever had is cause you ain't had nobody else.

966
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: Oh that thought, Steve. We're gonna come back and recap

967
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject my ex husband wants me

968
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: to be a sidekick. Heard two of Steve's response coming

969
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after. Right after this, you're

970
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,

971
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject my ex husband

972
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: wants me me to be his side chick. Well, that's

973
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: interesting because you were married for fifteen years and you

974
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: husband cheated on you several times. Like I said, that's

975
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 1: cause he lights side chicks. You've gotten your mojo back.

976
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: You're still not having sex, but you and you're not dating,

977
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: but you do want to desperately have sex, So that's

978
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: why you're considering this. I've been able to forgive my

979
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 1: husband and now that I know, and that's how I

980
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 1: know I'm in a better place. Okay, Like I said,

981
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: remember that because I'm gonna use that line later. I've

982
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: been able to forgive max husband. That's how I know

983
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: him in a better place. She's having a movie night

984
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: with the man's daughter. Uh, and he pops up and

985
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: just like old times, after he could watch a movie,

986
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: you couldn't say no because the little girl was happy

987
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 1: to see her daddy. She fell asleep halfway through the movie.

988
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: He made her go to bed. You started cleaning up,

989
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: hoping he would just lead. Uh he didn't, so he

990
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: started to beg and plead for one more night with you.

991
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: He told you he craves your body and he just

992
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 1: wanted to spoon with you all night. Man on a

993
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: spoon with no damn body with a spooning anyway, I know.

994
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: But we spooned so we can get the fuck out

995
01:01:56,000 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: one more time. We spooned so we can get the

996
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 1: fuck out. I'm just telling you that was really good.

997
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: That was really good. Yes, to get the fuck out now. Uh,

998
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: he said he crazed my body. He just wanted to

999
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: spoon with me or not. Now, you said he is

1000
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: my father, best love I've ever had, but I couldn't

1001
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: let him know how bad I wanted to make love

1002
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: to him. Well, he's the best love you ever had.

1003
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 1: You married fifteen years, you didn't cheat on him, you've

1004
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: been divorced two you ain't dating nobody, but you despinitely

1005
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: want to have sex. So you hain't had sex in

1006
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: seventeen years with no damn body but him. That's why

1007
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 1: he the best. He had nothing else. That's easy to

1008
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: beat them best when you're the only one. Okay, Now,

1009
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: I told him to go home to his fiance. This

1010
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 1: will be his third wife, and he's already out trying

1011
01:02:56,680 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 1: to cheat. Well since that night, he'd been egging to

1012
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: let you spend time with him. All right, Now, here's

1013
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 1: the whole letter. I told him there's no where in

1014
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: hell I'd ever be his side piece. He swore he

1015
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: leave his fiance if I let him hold me for

1016
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: one more night. Shirley said it best to sound like

1017
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: a damn soul fly for one nine. But even after

1018
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: that song? Do you know the song right after that

1019
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: on loop this album? If only for one night, it

1020
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 1: rolls right into creep. Yes, So all he wanna do

1021
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: is creep with you? Now? How that hell that sound?

1022
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: If you let me hold you one more time? I

1023
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: leave my fiance? What for one more time? I'm fin

1024
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: to give up some steady at the house for just

1025
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: one more damn time, and then I'll leave my fiance.

1026
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: How that sound to you? Nice? Then she's I will

1027
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: admit that I'm enjoying all the attention from him. That's

1028
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: because you ain't getting it from nobody else. You said

1029
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: you ain't dating, lady. Let's go back up to the top.

1030
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 1: You said I've been able to forgive my ex husband.

1031
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: And that's how I know I'm in a better place.

1032
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: If you're in a better place, why would you leave

1033
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: being in a better place to go back to the

1034
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: other place where you weren't better. It don't make no sense. Now,

1035
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: she says, I want to believe that he truly misses

1036
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: me and he's ready to come home. Let's stop this.

1037
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: He's ready to come home, he already at home with

1038
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: his fiance. And then, you know, listen to me. You're

1039
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: not understanding what's really happening here. Here's a deal. Does

1040
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 1: he want to have does he is it that? Is

1041
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 1: that what it is he wants to come home? Or

1042
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: does he just want to have sex. Here's a deal, lady,

1043
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: he wants to play you, because that's what he does.

1044
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: You don't think he said this before. If you just

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Speaker 1: let me hold you one more time alive, he'd have

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Speaker 1: left this his third wife. I know this hill third wife.

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Speaker 1: This what he hadn't told you this before? He said

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Speaker 1: this before, He tells this to everybody. Now here's the

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01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:43,439
Speaker 1: problem you got. Here's what you need to understand. It's

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01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: the same. He still cheats. Of course, he wants you

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Speaker 1: to be the side chick, because that's what he do.

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01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: He still cheats. You will be letting the same behavior

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Speaker 1: back into your life. He's cheating on his fiance. Say

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01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: right now, he has not changed any of his behavior.

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01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: He's just offering you the side check position. And if

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Speaker 1: you let him hold you, you gonna be this. You

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01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: just told him, yes, I'll be the side check. And

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Speaker 1: yes he misses you. Yes he misses you because he

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01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: misses cheating with you. So now he missed cheating on you,

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01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: and now he's ready to cheat with you. All right,

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Speaker 1: go back to him, you food, Yeah, don't do it.

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Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve HARVEFM

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: podcast on demand coming up at forty six minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, Junior and Sports Talk right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Junior,

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01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: it is your time. Sports Talk. What you got? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: once again, we wanted to say congratulations to the Atlanta

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Speaker 1: Braids went in the World Series the second one, uh

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Speaker 1: seven nothing. They defeat the Astros in Houston, so that

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Speaker 1: game is over with you. We have to congratulations, man,

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Speaker 1: they earned it. Also. Yeah, ex Denver Broncos linebacker Varn

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Speaker 1: Miller was traded to the Los Angeles Rams to strippen

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Speaker 1: their defense alongside Aaron Donald at the NFL trade dead

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Speaker 1: line on Tuesday. Man, Yeah, did you see varn Miller's reaction?

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01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 1: He was hurt. Man, it felt yeah, and he was hurt.

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Speaker 1: Put a lot of time in Denver. Man, you know,

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Speaker 1: so you know that, but hey, they gotta he went

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Speaker 1: from one team to a first plate team. You might

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Speaker 1: well go ahead and look at the bright side. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: playing also man in football, Man, this is a sad story. UH.

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Speaker 1: Wide receiver Henry Henry Ruggs, the third Laws Vegas, played

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Speaker 1: for Las Vegas Raiders. He was released on filling the

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Speaker 1: charges after a fatal DUI crash killed the woman, and

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Speaker 1: he was released by the Raiders. Man, twenty two years old. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's the second year of the league. Man, just mistakes

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Speaker 1: second year. Man, he was drafted. So he hit the

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Speaker 1: car from behind, from behind, It burst into flames and

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Speaker 1: killed the woman. So but but but he was driving

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Speaker 1: under the influence. I just just hate hen stories like that. Man,

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Speaker 1: such a young don't listens to that family, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's all too many options for you not to be

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Speaker 1: drinking and driving. Too many options. Yeah, got uber cars,

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Speaker 1: got Ryan Sham, Yeah drivers, Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: We all have with people we know if we see

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Speaker 1: somebody drinking. I was at a meeting recently. Somebody I

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Speaker 1: know was drinking a lot, and we were sitting at

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Speaker 1: the table talking in the meeting and he went to

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Speaker 1: the bathroom. I just took his keys off the table,

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Speaker 1: put him in my pocket so I wouldn't get it.

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Speaker 1: He came back and drank some more, speech slurred and everything.

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Speaker 1: So people came to the table it was time to go.

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Speaker 1: He said, I can't find my keys. I said, that's

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Speaker 1: because you can't drive home. Though. There you go, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can't drive home. Partner, I'm good man. No, no

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Speaker 1: you're not. Now you're not because my name is that's sentence.

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Speaker 1: That's sentence right there. I'm not T. Once he kept

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Speaker 1: calling me t T and I knew he couldn't say

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Speaker 1: that s. I knew that's how drunk he was. TU.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, T Okay, no, you don't do it. Man.

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Speaker 1: Let's close out like this man, h how about the braids? Okay,

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Speaker 1: let Junior do it. The Philadelphia is seventy six to

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01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 1: have a problem with being Simmons. He won't meet with

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Speaker 1: team doctors to discuss mental readiness for the season. He

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Speaker 1: just refused. He's making it worse, all right, Thank you, Junior.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to show. So we all know that Jay Z

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Speaker 1: and his former business partner Damon Dame Dash have been

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Speaker 1: beefing for a while. Now that's not news, but jay

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Speaker 1: Z showed Dame some love during his Rock and Roll

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Speaker 1: Hall of Fame speech. Shout out to damee, I know

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Speaker 1: we don't see eye to eye, but I can never

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Speaker 1: erase your accomplishments. And I appreciate you and I thank

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Speaker 1: you for that. That was nice. That was yeah. Damon

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Speaker 1: Dash said he appreciated the olive branch that Jay extended

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Speaker 1: and he will spend one back. And they have no

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Speaker 1: feat love that. So, Steve, you are a business owner,

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Speaker 1: and experts say, here are just a few signs of

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Speaker 1: a partnership break, all right. They include someone isn't carrying

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01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 1: their weight. True agree always the case. A lot of times,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's an unbalanced share of responsibility. Also, disagreements

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Speaker 1: on personnel, on finances, customer service can be a problem

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Speaker 1: between partners. Yep, that's a problem. I have another one,

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Speaker 1: go ahead credit credit. One of the partner expects to

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Speaker 1: receive undue unmerited credit. See the problem you run into

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01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: what your partner a lot of time is you want

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Speaker 1: to share in the same results without the same amount

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01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 1: of work, but you want the credit though. Now that

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01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: relates back to the first thing you said, But I

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01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 1: got you. We don't do the same thing. But the

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Speaker 1: other part of it is when you want the credit

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Speaker 1: for it though, that's a dangous person. Go ahead anything else, surely? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Different different working styles, you know, that can cause daily strength.

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01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: You know, you could be professional, your your partner can

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01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: be you know, very unprofessional, very uncond That leads to

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Speaker 1: some problems of management. Leadership skills vary in that arena.

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Speaker 1: You know, I like a soft approach, you like a

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Speaker 1: hard approach. I like the more of a people person.

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Speaker 1: You go strictly by the lawd what's in the book

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01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: that creates a problem? Okay, And then they say, part

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Speaker 1: of the solution, Steve, is to communicate when you feel calm. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to stay out of this, stay out of this. It's

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01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: not what you do though. You don't have no don't

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01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 1: even ask no question about calm, hot head head. But

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Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a crisis. Hind the hell

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Speaker 1: as I'm supposed to become. Not your tone right now,

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01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 1: your tone right now. It's why you don't have a

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Speaker 1: business partner right there. See right there, it's very hard

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Speaker 1: to make it in this world without some type of partnerships.

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Speaker 1: Tommy has decided that got to be another way. I'm partner,

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Speaker 1: I am partnered with me. Okay, I have meetings with me,

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Speaker 1: and if the meeting don't go right, I just stopped

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Speaker 1: the damn meeting right there. That right there an emotion

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Speaker 1: that you got another to make the list. But well,

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Speaker 1: it just says, you know, communicate Steve, when you feel calm,

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Speaker 1: give yourself time. It's okay to feel frustrated, hurt or betrayed,

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Speaker 1: but when you're when you're feeling that way, avoid communicating

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Speaker 1: with your partner or anyone in the business. That's really

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Speaker 1: when it's time for me to share what I'm feeling

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Speaker 1: this way about. And that's one that's that's when you

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Speaker 1: really got to know how I feel when I got

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Speaker 1: to share this with you. But I have another one

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Speaker 1: for you though. Okay, let's hear it. Steal it stealing.

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Speaker 1: I knew y'all when we started with the Whole Sun,

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01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 1: but there are a lot of people and taught me

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Speaker 1: that our business owners are you know, cook. Cook expound

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Speaker 1: on stealing. Well, stealing this when you take a portion

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01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 1: of the proceeds that you're not supposed to and you

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Speaker 1: trim it off the top. It's a form of embezzlement

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01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:42,360
Speaker 1: and you kind of it's called skimming off the top.

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01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: And then you make all the deductions after that. But

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01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 1: after you've skimmed the money, you already got your cut.

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01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 1: What your hope is that your partner don't find out

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Speaker 1: about it? All right? Well, on that note, we'll be

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Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after right after this. You're listening, She's name

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here's some good news.

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Speaker 1: Civil rights leader Reverend Jesse Jackson was discharged from the

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Speaker 1: hospital on Tuesday, that's one day after he had a fall,

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Speaker 1: and he has returned to Howard University to continue negotiations

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Speaker 1: on campus. According to a statement will expi the Rainbow

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Speaker 1: Push Coalition. According to the statement, Reverend Jackson had been

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Speaker 1: meeting with Howard University President Wayne Frederick and students concerning

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Speaker 1: their complaints about some of the poor living conditions at

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Speaker 1: some of the students residential halls when he fell. After

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Speaker 1: bringing the students and the school administration together, Reverend Jackson

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Speaker 1: said there was much progress made yesterday and that he

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Speaker 1: is going back today to help them resolve their differences. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll bet he agreed with the students. Yeah, pend on

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01:15:56,479 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: what he fell on, you know, agree with him student. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well that's good though. They're talking trying to get it together.

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Speaker 1: But it's such a great university, man, it's such a

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01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: great university. Yeah, they've turned out some great, great people

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Speaker 1: out of that school. Man. I hope they didn't work

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Speaker 1: this out. Say, welcome in our home station, w h

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Speaker 1: U R on the campus now you versity, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that'll work it out. Reverend Jesse Jackson always at the

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Speaker 1: forefront of trying to bring people together. That is his legacy.

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Speaker 1: All Right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show coming up in thirty three minutes. After the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll do a round would you rather right after this

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Speaker 1: you're listening show? All right, guys, here we are. It's

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Speaker 1: time for today's round of would you rather? Here we go?

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01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:59,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a partner who is beautiful but

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01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 1: has an ugly ugly personality? Or would you have a brother?

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01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: Have a partner who's just plane Jane, Plane Jane and

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01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: has just a compatible personality. Everyone loves them, They get

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01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 1: along with everyone. Plane Jane, Blane Jane with a great personality.

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Speaker 1: Definitely Plane Jane Blane Jane. Really yeah, your attitude would

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01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 1: make you ugly anyway? He really yeah, put some new

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01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: realms on it. I've had half of each one of them.

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Speaker 1: So what does that mean. I've had all the combinations

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01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: are going to I've had Plane Jane with a uglass attitude.

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01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 1: Really have us and the nerve of you? How you

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01:17:53,200 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 1: think anybody take this mess? But but I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you what. Marjorie to me, this is just my opinion.

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Speaker 1: It's really really attractive to me. And she has the

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Speaker 1: best personality of any person I've ever met. Marjorie's the

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01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: closest thing to my mother I've ever met in my life.

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Speaker 1: She is Marjorie is a sweetheart of a person man,

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Speaker 1: And I really I had to learn how to live

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Speaker 1: with her, how not to blow out her candle because

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Speaker 1: she's so bubbly so much at the time. You know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I'll be going, hey, pull up a little bit.

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01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:39,680
Speaker 1: What hey, man, stop blowing candles. Boy, don't be stupid. Boy.

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01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: Used to live in the bat cave, remember, all right?

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01:18:48,240 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 1: I couldn't see nothing, just bats going by. You ever

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01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 1: had a back flat about your O? That's what That's

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01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:15,160
Speaker 1: what it felt like. No, but I guess your Are

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01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:23,680
Speaker 1: you saying your lips? What do you say? That's all right?

1242
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 1: Would you would you rather eat a piece of food

1243
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 1: that was really healthy for you but tasted like garbage?

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01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: Or would you rather eat something that tasted great and

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01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 1: that was just horrible for you made you sick? All

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01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 1: of that made you sick? You'd rather eat that something?

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01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:46,640
Speaker 1: I ain't healthy food, that's trifling all the time. It

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Speaker 1: an't work for damn. Rather not eat at all. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what gluen is all gluten free food. Need

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Speaker 1: to put the gluten right back in it. Forty nine

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, it's our last break of the day,

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Speaker 1: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and

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Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey right after this last break you're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, here we are a last

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Speaker 1: break of the day on this Thursday. Mm hmmm. And

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Speaker 1: it's a good day. It's been a good day, Steve

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Speaker 1: was today. I said some brilliant stuff to day. I'm

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Speaker 1: very proud of myself today, very proud, not brilliant, ablute, sheer, brilliant,

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Speaker 1: radioable remarks. Oh I have others, but they're not radioable.

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Speaker 1: Radioable radio. That's another term. All right. Well, on that note,

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Speaker 1: mister brilliant, you can take us out with some closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: All right, let me say something to everybody as a

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Speaker 1: reminder about your current situation and a reminder about your destination.

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Speaker 1: Those two are different things. So what I'm getting at

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Speaker 1: is this, This is how I want you to look

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Speaker 1: at it. It's not how you start. It don't matter

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Speaker 1: what the middle looked like. Your goal and your job

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Speaker 1: is to get to the end. That's your only goal.

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Speaker 1: But here's what hampers people, and the reason I chose

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Speaker 1: this subject today, it's because keep people always refer to

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Speaker 1: how they started and then getting too deep into that

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Speaker 1: conversation and laying there with how you started, you then

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Speaker 1: move up to how it affects you now, and that

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Speaker 1: usually has a negative connotation. Everybody's got something in their

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Speaker 1: past that they've regretted. Everybody got something in they passed

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Speaker 1: that they hope to never repeat. Everybody has something in

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Speaker 1: their past that they sometimes think wish would be different,

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Speaker 1: but it can't be. So See, it don't matter how

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Speaker 1: you start, and it don't really matter about the middle. See,

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Speaker 1: and the reason I chose to call it the middle,

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Speaker 1: the middle is where you are right now. You know

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Speaker 1: why I call it the middle because you're in the

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Speaker 1: middle of a journey. You're in the middle of a process.

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Speaker 1: So where it started and where you are now the

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Speaker 1: middle of it, it don't matter because your goal, remember

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Speaker 1: the goal now, it's for you to get to the end.

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Speaker 1: The end is the destination point. It's to achieve a

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Speaker 1: certain goal or achieve a certain ambition in life. So

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Speaker 1: where you start and when in the middle, it don't matter.

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Speaker 1: You gotta keep your eye on the prize. You gotta

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Speaker 1: keep your eye on the end goal, which is the result,

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Speaker 1: which is the accomplishment, which is the goal, which is

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Speaker 1: the vision, the dream coming true. That's where the victory is.

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Speaker 1: All at the beginning and all in the middle won't

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Speaker 1: mean anything except it will be a part of the

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Speaker 1: story that you tell. Wow, man, do y'all understand what

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Speaker 1: I just told you? Everything that happened to you at

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Speaker 1: the beginning and all this stuff that's going on in

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Speaker 1: the middle won't be nothing except part of the story

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Speaker 1: that you get to tell. But you don't get to

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Speaker 1: tell the story until you finish. But the thing about

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Speaker 1: finishing in life, you got to always draw another finish line.

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Speaker 1: A man without a dream of visions your perish. Once

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Speaker 1: you reach your ambition, once you attain your goal, once

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Speaker 1: you accomplish what you set out to do, there's a

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Speaker 1: new finish line that has to be started. That's got

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Speaker 1: to be another beginning. You got to create another middle,

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Speaker 1: and you got to shoot for another ending. That is

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Speaker 1: the process of life. You are embrace that, enjoy it,

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Speaker 1: take heed to it, embellish it. But it is the

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Speaker 1: way it works for all of us. Bill Gates, with

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Speaker 1: all the money he got, he's getting a divorce, not

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Speaker 1: a story he was hoping for. Probably may not be

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Speaker 1: turning out the way he thought it was gonna be,

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Speaker 1: but it's gonna be a part of his story, and

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Speaker 1: the story you're gonna end up telling. It ain't all

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Speaker 1: roses and sunshine and flowers and lepre cons and full

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Speaker 1: leaf clovers and pots of gold. Your story gonna have

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Speaker 1: some twisting turns in it. There's a stanza in a

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Speaker 1: poem called Don't Quit, and one of the standsas is

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Speaker 1: for life is queer with this twisting turns, as every

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Speaker 1: one of us must sometimes learn. And many a fellow

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Speaker 1: has turned about when he might have won had he

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Speaker 1: stuck it out. That standsa in that poem called don't

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Speaker 1: Quit describes what I'm talking to you about, because life

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Speaker 1: is queer with this twisting turns, and every one of

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Speaker 1: us must sometimes learn. All of us nobody's exempt from this.

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Speaker 1: It is the life we have. It is the process.

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Speaker 1: Quit tripping about how you started, Quit worrying about the

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Speaker 1: middle of the story, and keep your eye on the

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Speaker 1: prize to get to the end, the gold, the ambition.

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Speaker 1: And then when you get there, you're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: set a new story up. Bill Gates has got to

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Speaker 1: write a new portion to this story. You gotta tell

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Speaker 1: some more. Him and Linda didn't make it. He got

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Speaker 1: to tell another part of the story for whatever the reason.

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Speaker 1: But he'll be fine because he ain't gonna get tripped

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Speaker 1: up about the middle, and neither shit you. All that's

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Speaker 1: in the past. All that's in the middle is the present.

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Speaker 1: But keep your eye on the prize, the goal, and

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Speaker 1: the ambition. Those are my closing remarks. Hope you got

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Speaker 1: something from it today. God willing will see y'all again tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Have yourself a great day. I'm gonna go out and

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Speaker 1: make the best of my eighty four thousand, six hundred

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Speaker 1: seconds that God gave me a twelve midnight and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get the smoker For all Steve Harvey contests No

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Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.