WEBVTT - Mother’s Day with Amara and Mami Ana La Mama

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<v Speaker 2>really gonna be fun and important. Uh, It's gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>important to me because I always like to bring you

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<v Speaker 2>into my rold, into my life, be as honest and

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<v Speaker 2>as open as possible. And we're gonna be talking a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit about a special day that should be celebrated

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<v Speaker 2>every day, which is Mother's Day. Betty ye as madst

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<v Speaker 2>for all the mothers out there listening, for.

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<v Speaker 3>The mothers, the future mothers, the ones that are expecting,

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<v Speaker 3>the ones who have adopted, the ones who have puppies

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<v Speaker 3>and cats and animals, and are you know whatever it

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<v Speaker 3>is if you are nurturing soul and you're out here

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<v Speaker 3>being the best mother.

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<v Speaker 1>You can be or plan on being a mother. Happy

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's Days to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Mother's Days doesn't necessarily have to be about you know,

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<v Speaker 3>your biological mother.

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<v Speaker 1>I know amazing grandmothers.

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<v Speaker 2>There are great mothers and aunts who are great you

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<v Speaker 2>know moms, and and.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many people out here raising these children and

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<v Speaker 1>being uh, you know, being an.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing nurture that I feel is important to celebrate those

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<v Speaker 2>people doing that job as well. Let's celebrate the day together.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wouldn't be able to do this without. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm older than maybe either the person who raised me

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<v Speaker 2>and has been my support system since day one, the

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<v Speaker 2>person who created me, who is my mother. And now

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<v Speaker 2>Tambing is abuda with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Today we have mommy and my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Mom, Hi, telling the prama the exactly madre intu

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<v Speaker 2>gas Mammy is to Premier, I'm your office. You know

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<v Speaker 2>a girl canky Yeah, Losentinos, we feel it now officially

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<v Speaker 2>that you are a grandmother. Means when Premiers so exactly

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<v Speaker 2>came theself to Mather.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's right. Hey, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Congos dire for losses mia a two ways I'll want

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<v Speaker 3>to see me to the Negas condo.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, getting dad, get didn't when when you see my babies?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, for example, sum his dad, what do you see

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<v Speaker 2>in her that you saw in me when I was little?

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<v Speaker 1>So pick up? Yes, okay, it's very artistic.

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<v Speaker 3>And okay a your highness you Hynes Soesa.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, come one, yes for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, but me, I really enjoy seeing you

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<v Speaker 2>as a mother as well obviously as my mother, but

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoy seeing you as another version of a mother

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<v Speaker 2>for my daughters.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're a grandmother, but I see you reliving

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>Then do you feel and now you will have a

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<v Speaker 2>second opportunity to do things right?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Then a couple so yeah, so you feel that my

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<v Speaker 3>daughters give you life like the babies give you life.

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<v Speaker 3>They make you want to live. So I love that,

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<v Speaker 3>I really do. And that's such a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that sometimes as new you know, new mom's,

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<v Speaker 2>first time moms, we're so caught up and like not

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<v Speaker 2>knowing what we're doing, being excited as a mom, but

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<v Speaker 2>still trying to figure things out. The don't realize how

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<v Speaker 2>us bringing new life into the family really does give

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<v Speaker 2>life to the family overall, especially our mothers our grandmothers.

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<v Speaker 1>And the fathers too, you know, new life.

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<v Speaker 2>Just learning how to raise a child and and showing

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<v Speaker 2>them how to talk, how to walk, how to eat,

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<v Speaker 2>just the process of it all.

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<v Speaker 3>It really does give life to the whole family out.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there any advice that you can pass down to me?

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<v Speaker 1>Then, Madre.

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<v Speaker 3>Is me primer avese and sindo mare.

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<v Speaker 1>What advice can you give me? Why?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I see say yo to create yes, right the vaara

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<v Speaker 1>and when they yes they were they yes.

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<v Speaker 3>La comnicas for lamentaaaaa.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, different the animals to sell the converts I alg.

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<v Speaker 2>I comedic commo madri comira. Is there anything that you

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<v Speaker 2>regret that you did as a mother that you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>want me to to do?

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<v Speaker 3>But satam you know you know complete genaro ruse at peto, Madre,

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<v Speaker 3>no order notata dio to puberta.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a primara teenager for this lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Cose know josalian pet so the road. Okay, there's something

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<v Speaker 3>that you did that you're like, you know what now now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I know no.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, that's okay, No locme we make cri and Jeff

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<v Speaker 3>okay or to say form our.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, borno.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, which, by the way, I feel that there's many

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<v Speaker 2>things ka I never thought, Hey, I would do as

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<v Speaker 2>a mother. I come and then I feel how I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I see how I'm copying a lot of the things

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<v Speaker 2>that you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how you raised me. You were very strong

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<v Speaker 1>with me when I was growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>You're very tough on me, which I'm grateful because it

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<v Speaker 2>taught me to be responsible, is be as it made

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<v Speaker 2>me into a professional.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm grateful for all those things. That's my professionality. As

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I might have like.

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<v Speaker 2>These high expectations of what I expect them to be,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to understand that they are going to

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<v Speaker 2>be whoever they're going to be in their time. They're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna pursue whatever it is that they want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you deal with knowing? In your case?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you and I have different experiences that I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be an artist, that I wanted to be payments,

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<v Speaker 2>that I want to do all these great things, and

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<v Speaker 2>financially you couldn't afford it.

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<v Speaker 1>Cours what sort of k S A NBA. That's that? Okay, Ken,

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<v Speaker 1>I go talk to like, ok.

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<v Speaker 3>So, so compact Kenny through Now how about this, let's

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<v Speaker 3>get let's get to it. This is a broo cue conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>but to stop playing because when I was growing up,

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<v Speaker 3>you used that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't use the word beats. I think the American

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<v Speaker 2>version of that would be spank, and you used to spank.

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<v Speaker 1>The hell out of me.

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<v Speaker 3>But I know that that's a cultural thing and it

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<v Speaker 3>all whatever she could find, she would throw it at me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel that the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>From our generation somewhere, how about the generation before us,

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<v Speaker 2>they respected, you know, their elderly and their parents more

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<v Speaker 2>than this generation.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still believe in the spanking.

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<v Speaker 3>One the younsada alos alos majores mask.

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<v Speaker 1>They all? Should I use other methods? Or do you

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<v Speaker 1>still believe in the spanking? And pen yr como? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And this.

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<v Speaker 1>K greg die young moment you appears, okay, girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>lying another girl?

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't you never spend but you know you got

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<v Speaker 3>that belt, that chant, that hangar, that wire, whatever, you

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<v Speaker 3>have a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you spank the hell out of me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that it's not just about the spanking,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's a differently between spanking and abuse discipline. I

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<v Speaker 2>think is important showing your children to respect you as

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<v Speaker 2>a parent, to understand the sacrifices that you do for

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<v Speaker 2>them as a parent, that everything that you're doing, you're

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<v Speaker 2>disciplining them because you mean well for them, because you

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<v Speaker 2>try to protect them, because you can't just raise them

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<v Speaker 2>to be wild. I do understand there's other methods like

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<v Speaker 2>stand in the corner, take away certain toys. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that we've learned throughout, you know, time, there's other ways

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<v Speaker 2>of doing it. But I know, other than the Latino household,

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<v Speaker 2>that is very common. So I really wanted to know

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<v Speaker 2>because in many occasions my mom would be like, you

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<v Speaker 2>better not.

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<v Speaker 1>Put your hands on the baby. And but you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know me anyways. But I mean simple pensel get.

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<v Speaker 3>And doesn't just look at the part it's part the

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<v Speaker 3>THEO and they kind of come out selling.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, that's just me be don't is the

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<v Speaker 1>positive person?

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<v Speaker 2>Savad do incurgass and mean, so, how do you raise

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<v Speaker 2>your daughter specifically or your children a row to have

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<v Speaker 2>that that friendly bond, that relationship with their mother where

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<v Speaker 2>they can feel comfortable enough to be honest with you

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<v Speaker 2>and tell you everything that's going in there in their

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<v Speaker 2>life without feeling necessarily, you know, judge, or feeling like

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<v Speaker 2>I can't come to my mother to my father to

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<v Speaker 2>tell them what's happening in my life. You know the

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<v Speaker 2>passic you got you you see your considerata.

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<v Speaker 1>And because not casa no no I like yay.

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<v Speaker 3>No problema, the local vedia alamo and pante no so

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<v Speaker 3>primri terno it was so it's a it's a part, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so Loyer, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I am curious to.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what are your honest thoughts on me becoming a mother,

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<v Speaker 2>says a Quales son.

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<v Speaker 1>To spend some mien pos okay baillo Marri.

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<v Speaker 3>Chris is in my momentum Chris and Chris there vero

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<v Speaker 3>mask Chris ka very cholantes.

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<v Speaker 1>No look look some perfect in castle to you called

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<v Speaker 1>take thee and didn't do something. And Mom, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Which is closet sipan Samoa Lesa.

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<v Speaker 1>And me via the see the thousand and one after

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<v Speaker 1>I had my daughters.

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<v Speaker 2>Altra foulsa, there was another break in my career where

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<v Speaker 2>I feel that God gave me the opportunity and was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of blessing me with allowing me to enjoy my daughters.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, God was more like, I'm gonna give you

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<v Speaker 2>a different type of momentum that right now, life is

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go a little bit slower for you so that

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<v Speaker 2>you can enjoy being a mother, enjoy getting to know

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<v Speaker 2>your daughter, spending time with them, because life will go

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<v Speaker 2>back into you know, work, work, work, work, work, work, work,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're gonna regret now spending time with your girls.

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<v Speaker 2>So I thank God every day for the opportunity that

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<v Speaker 2>he gave me of at least enjoying my.

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<v Speaker 1>Daughters their first year. I've been there.

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<v Speaker 2>Mammy has to go back to work, Mammy's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be traveling again, Mammy is not going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be home fatal the first year of my daughter's lives.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been here as much as possible to, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>teach him how to eat, teach him how.

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<v Speaker 1>To talk, how to walk. Like that journey. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to lose that.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want to miss out on that, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>grateful that I've been able to be around.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think, mom, that I am a good mother,

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<v Speaker 1>perfect anything? My whole suddenly? What do you be honest

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<v Speaker 1>at that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>See, okay, good be honest because.

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<v Speaker 2>If I need to be better, that's another thing. As

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<v Speaker 2>a new time, first time mom, sometimes we're not perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not perfect and we need help. And if you

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<v Speaker 2>need help, it's okay to ask your mom ya wailita

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I don't know what I'm doing it dependly,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to do is ask for help, Beto.

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to know me and there's something I

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<v Speaker 1>could do better as a mother. I'm never gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>it personal. Teach me.

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<v Speaker 3>So is there anything you think that I need to picture?

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<v Speaker 3>You think I'm doing good? So far perfect, and then

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<v Speaker 3>it takes us attle lot, please the way and.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>That means a lot to me. I'm so grateful for

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<v Speaker 2>your words. I know that we've had this conversation in

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<v Speaker 2>the past about me having more children. Do you think

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<v Speaker 2>that I would be prepared at this moment in life

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<v Speaker 2>to have more children?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you foresee me having more children? Or you think

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<v Speaker 1>that my girls will be it? To get get to

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<v Speaker 1>the fam really whole daycare center, Grey, I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean, you know a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>have questioned me on the reasons why and how I

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<v Speaker 2>decided to be a single mother. I don't think it

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<v Speaker 2>was so much of a decision. I think I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have much of an option, much of a choice. Because

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<v Speaker 2>if you have your child and your significant other, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys break up, divorced, separate, or no longer wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be part of your life, or you know, in many occasions,

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<v Speaker 2>when the male separates from the mother, they kind of

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<v Speaker 2>divorced the children as well. It's like says you and

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<v Speaker 2>not together, will that you take care of that, and

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<v Speaker 2>then they just leave and you have no other option

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<v Speaker 2>but to continue to raise your children. So when I

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<v Speaker 2>said I'm a single mother by toys or whatever, is

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<v Speaker 2>because I guess I wasn't being one hundred percent honest

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<v Speaker 2>because I didn't happen to the choice right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to abandon my children.

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<v Speaker 2>I would never leave my children, and it is my

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<v Speaker 2>duty as a mother to always protect my children, and

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<v Speaker 2>I will always do that.

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<v Speaker 1>They will always be my priority.

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<v Speaker 3>But I come from a single mother household as well,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel very guilty for a long time because

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like I was repeating the pattern, not because

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to, when life just made it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel guilty for.

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<v Speaker 2>It because I wanted to have a beautiful household with

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<v Speaker 2>a mother and a father for my children, and I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't get the opportunity of doing that I would have

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<v Speaker 2>done anything to fix it.

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<v Speaker 3>Some things are unfixable and some things you just can't do.

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<v Speaker 3>So in her case, they see things.

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<v Speaker 1>In a moment man no poquet, no corpa, no not all.

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<v Speaker 3>Corona, marimon establis, katerically a lot of correct a convert

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<v Speaker 3>to colinoo, the polar presents and.

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<v Speaker 1>Secan solo No, I see I located poken that could

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<v Speaker 1>you see that?

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<v Speaker 2>Go do as my face was this and when you

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<v Speaker 2>see your majesty in your highness. I know that people

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<v Speaker 2>automatically expect them to be artists or to be in

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<v Speaker 2>the energinment industry because I've exposed them to that industry.

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<v Speaker 1>But what would you like to see your granddaughters become

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<v Speaker 1>Manana and cork a man Jose professional? I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>but but you know what I mean. Honestly, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for being on exactly amount of today.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for being an amazing mother, for being my

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<v Speaker 2>support system, for being my mom, my sister, my doctor,

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<v Speaker 2>my nurse, by everything I am. I am so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>to have such an amazing example of a mother of

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<v Speaker 2>a woman in my life. And obviously now as a grandmother,

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing such a great job with my girls, with

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<v Speaker 2>your babies, last World twins, and I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>have a moment where I could celebrate your publicly because

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<v Speaker 2>I always want publicly for people to know how much

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<v Speaker 2>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I always want to give you your flowers.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to wait till it's too late, because

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<v Speaker 2>God's timing, you know, is always perfect, but we just

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<v Speaker 2>never know. And if you're out there listening, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have your mother, your grandmother, dot Wallia, whoever

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<v Speaker 2>it is that raised you, take this opportunity to say

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<v Speaker 2>thank you, to show them love, to give them their flowers,

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<v Speaker 2>because they're here today and you don't know about tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>It takes a village, it takes a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>to really raise a person. But if there is a

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<v Speaker 2>person alone that does it, they deserve even more credit.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's something you could take home with you. Love

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<v Speaker 1>and embraise your mother.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter what she's been through, it doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 2>what she did regardless, she brought you into this world.

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<v Speaker 2>And if someone else is raising you and is raising

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<v Speaker 2>you or has raised you, or even it is still

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<v Speaker 2>continuing to be a support system for you, be grateful

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<v Speaker 2>for them, show them that you care, show them that

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<v Speaker 2>you love them. It could be the smartest little thing

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<v Speaker 2>just to show gratitude because now as a mother that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going through the process of raising two children, it

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<v Speaker 2>is a sacrifice. You sacrifice your time, your life, your body,

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<v Speaker 2>your mental health, your everything, trying to be the best

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<v Speaker 2>that you can for someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>Mammy, I love you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>I know if you guys want to follow and see

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<v Speaker 3>my mom, you can go see her app mamy Ana

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<v Speaker 3>la mama one on her Instagram accounts and you can

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<v Speaker 3>go follow her.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd be thinking, she things, Anie, who will go follow me?

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<v Speaker 3>At AMaGA aln a'm alen And thank you so much

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<v Speaker 3>once again for being part of Exactly A'mada.

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