1 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: This is Frosted Tips with Lance Bass and my Heart 2 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: Radio podcast. Hello, my Little Peanuts, it's me your host, 3 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: Lance Bass. This is Frosted Tips with Me and my 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: co host, The Lovely Turkey Turk Chang. Oh why thank 5 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: you Lance Bass. Um Easter is on its way. We 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: got to plan our Easter egg hunts. So we always 7 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: throw an Easter egg hunt for all our friends kids. 8 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: But now that we have kids, they get to participate. 9 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 1: They didn't last year because they couldn't hold a basket. No, 10 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: they were just nuggets last year. But this year they 11 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: can actually hold a basket. And our and Violet, our hoarder. 12 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: She's a good going to hoard these eggs, like, No, 13 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 1: she's gonna be a great she's winning the problem right. 14 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: Oh she's yeah, she's she's built for this. Uh. You 15 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: know one thing that I learned last night that really 16 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: kind of made me very depressed. Oh my god, yes 17 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: you did. Yeah, so I'm I was talking to Giggles 18 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: last night, who has a niece who's sick or seven 19 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: and some around there. I've been excited about. Oh, potty 20 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: training is coming up right in the next couple of months. 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: We get to potty train um, and I you know, 22 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: I want them out of diapers as soon as possible, because, 23 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: let's just face it, the diaper part is just the 24 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: worst part of having babies. It's just and twins, so 25 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: many diapers, so many wiping up the butts. So I 26 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: cannot wait for them to know what a toilet is, 27 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: to be able to use the bathroom, and then just like, Okay, 28 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm done out of diapers. Well I just found out 29 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: that you're still wiping their butt to like they're five, six, 30 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: seven years old, so you're basically not done with the 31 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: changing of the diapers. Yeah, well, use little kids can't 32 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: properly wipe their butt, which I feel like it's even 33 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: worse because if they're sitting on the toilet and other 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: business and then you have to go in, Yeah, they 35 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: get up and then you have to like wipe them 36 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: and then yeah, they're caller calling you. Yeah, like you 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: need to wipe me, and it's obviously bigger poos at 38 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: this point they're like little kids. Well eventually they're gonna 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: do it for you when year old. So it's just 40 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: part of the life. I'm gonna I don't even if 41 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: I don't have to have them do that I'm making 42 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: them do it. Oh just put my pants kids. Yeah, 43 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: but that kind of depressed me a little bit because 44 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: I just thought, oh, you know two and a half, right, 45 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: three years old. I think the three year old is 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: going to properly wipe their butt. I honestly thought that 47 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: they would. I did. Well, welcome to fatherhood. This is gross. 48 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: Let's not talk about this anybody. This is hey, this 49 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: is what the people want. This is this is the 50 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: people deal with lant um. All right, let's get onto 51 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: what we're really here for, mister Gary Barlow. So when 52 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 1: we come back, we have the man, myth, the legend. 53 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: Take that Gary freaking Barlow, Please, welcome to the show. 54 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: Gary Barlow was English singer, songwriter, record producer, television personality, 55 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: kind of does everything under the sun, lead singer of 56 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: the British group of Course Take that. Barlow is one 57 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: of the United Kingdom's most successful songwriters, having written thirteen 58 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: number one singles Yeah and twenty four top ten hits 59 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: Busy Man, Busy Man. As a solo artist, he has 60 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: had three number one singles, six top ten singles, three 61 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 1: number one albums, and has additionally had seventeen top five 62 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: hits twelve number one singles and eight number one albums 63 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: would take that. That is crazy. And not only that. 64 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: He was appointed as Officer of the Order of the 65 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: British Empire at the twenty twelve Queen's Birthday Honors for 66 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: his services to the entertainment industry and charity that I 67 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: cannot wait to talk about because as Americans we have 68 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: no idea what we're talking about when we come to 69 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: the royal family. So Gary Barlow, welcome to Frosted Tips, 70 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: my friend. So lovely to be here. Thank you, thank you. 71 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: Nice to see about you too. I know we were 72 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: just saying that we ran into in the airport in 73 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: Vegas not too long ago, but right, but we didn't 74 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: get to catch up too much. We get it was 75 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: a flyby. It was a flyby. But now we get 76 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: to really catch up and I get to know you because, 77 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: especially sitting next to my young husband here than he 78 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: missed the take that era, which was very sad, very sad, 79 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: and you know, I got the tail end of it, 80 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: especially when y'all came to America, because you were so 81 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: huge all over the world and then you finally come 82 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: to America and we're all dying for you guys, and 83 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: then you you ended up breaking up at that point, 84 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: and then it just kind of stopped, Like, oh my goodness. 85 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: Do you ever wish that y'all could have spent a 86 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: little more time in America to like take over. Yeah, 87 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: it's a funny one America because Mark Mark lives in 88 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: Los Angeles now and I've we've lived down in Santa 89 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: Monica about twenty years, so we are no strangers to 90 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: the US. I'm not very big on regrets regrets of 91 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: something I don't I don't. I don't give them any 92 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: energy at all. I think how it worked out, as 93 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 1: you know, we're all here now, we're healthy, was still working, 94 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: we're still making albums, so you know, regrets aren't big. However, 95 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: we do talk about the States a lot um, and 96 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: you know, maybe one day coming and doing a show 97 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: in Vegas or doing something. Oh my god, because it 98 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 1: is a shame that we never really got to share 99 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 1: our music. Yeah, we do have some American fans about 100 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: three I think, nah, no, trust me way more than that. 101 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: Well there, y'all were such a big influence on us 102 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: because when we started. We started in the nineteen ninety five, 103 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,559 Speaker 1: right when y'all were just kind of finishing your run. Um. 104 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: But you were such a big influence because it was 105 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 1: the first time that we could see a group that week. 106 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: It felt like us right, We're like, oh, that's that's 107 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: the type of group we would like to be. The harmonies, everything, 108 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: and just your personalities. It was a huge influence. I remember, gosh, 109 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: when we first started. Uh. So, you know, we had 110 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: a manager, lou Perlman, who you know is Louke Proman 111 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: just took advance of everyone. But I remember one of 112 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: the first songs we ever recorded was a song called 113 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 1: I'll Be Back for More, which he wrote, and he's like, guys, 114 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: I got this. I got this song. It's called I'll 115 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: be Back for More. It's gonna be great. We recorded 116 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: it for our demo, UM, and it goes a little 117 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: bit like, uh, be back for more. Um. We didn't 118 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: realize that it was a take that song called Love 119 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: Ain't Here Anymore and lou was just totally lying and 120 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: took your song and just rewrote some of the words 121 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: that he wrote that song. Classic, yes, classic. So that 122 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: was my first introduction to your group, was this song. 123 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: Because we found out that this is all a lie. 124 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, well you should have. That should have 125 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: been your first. Did you write that song by the way, yes, 126 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: oh yeah, you should go ahead in the ninth. In 127 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: the nineties, we were we were, you know, kind of 128 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: put together by a manager. We didn't know one another 129 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: before it. And it's crazy now because we we sit 130 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: together often backstage or in hotels and we're like, we'd 131 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: have never have met if that guy would never have 132 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: put us together. And look out happy we've been. I mean, 133 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: we've had thirty two amazing years in our band, and 134 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: thank god he did. We had the opposite experience. Actually, 135 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: our manager was I mean, you know, he never cheated 136 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: us out of anything. Maybe a few lions, but but 137 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: he was very much believed in us, especially me, from 138 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: from very early on when I first went into his office. 139 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: He really believed in me as a songwriter. Even when 140 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: all the labels were saying, you know, this music's dated, 141 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: nobody wants to hear this anymore. He really supported me 142 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: and forced the labels to to to go down the 143 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: route we went down with our music. And so we 144 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: have actually the opposite experience. That is that's nice and 145 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: refreshing to hear because it's what we all I mean, 146 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: did you just hear all the horse stories. Even to day, 147 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: even all the lessons we've all learned, there's still groups 148 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: and soul artists out there. They're like, well, I'm signing 149 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: this horrible contract. Yeah exactly. Well let's go back to 150 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: how it did form um. So it really started with you, 151 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: um and this manager and being a songwriter. So kind 152 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: of group was developed around you. So how did that 153 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: go down? How did you meet all the other guys? 154 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: So I went into Nigel's office and he said, I 155 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: want to make a group. And I said, oh, I 156 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: don't want to be in a group. No, I don't 157 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: want to be carrying drums and guitar amps and stuff. 158 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: But and he said, no, no, it's not it's not 159 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: that kind of group. And he had a video machine 160 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: and pressed play on it and oncome hanging tough, new 161 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: kids on the block. So I watched that and I thought, okay, 162 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: so like like a harmony group like the Jackson five 163 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: or you know, the Assoman. He's like, yeah, exactly that. 164 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: No instruments want you to do small route scenes as 165 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: a as a like a choreograph thing. You know. Funny 166 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: at that point he didn't know I was a songwriter. 167 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: As I left the meeting, I gave him a cassette 168 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: in an envelope and I said, will you listen to that? Please? 169 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: And I said goodbye and hoped i'd hear from him, 170 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: get a phone call, And by the time I'd driven home, 171 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: he'd left about five messages on my answer phone like 172 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: who's written all these songs? Who's done the lyrics, Who's 173 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: done the music? And it was I mean, at that 174 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: point it was just me in my bedroom with a 175 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: track and a computer, and you know it was it 176 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: was literally by myself. And that's when he was can 177 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: you come back tomorrow? And that's when he started starting 178 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: to put the pieces together. That's crazy. Now, where were 179 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: you born? Let's go back to the very beginning. Sure, 180 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 1: so you will know where I was born because I'm 181 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm born in a shire. We call them shy as here. 182 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: You know, you have your states in the US, we 183 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: have shires here and I was born in Cheshire, which 184 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: is between Liverpool and Manchester, so we you know, musically, 185 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: if you think about that, that time of being in 186 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: Liverpool with the peoples, with some some some of the 187 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: most amazing groups came through the sixties came from up 188 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: north in the UK. A lot of the working class 189 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: towns were really producing some of the best artists even 190 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: through the eighties. A lot of the groups, like you know, 191 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: I mean there's so many of the of the electro 192 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: groups of that time that were from Sheffield and from 193 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: up north. It was very much a scene at that point, 194 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: so lots of music oasis. Well that's why his mother 195 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: in League. His mother's from Manchester and she spent the 196 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: same thing. She was like, it was the best era 197 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: to grow up in right there, because all the bands 198 00:10:54,440 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: sixties were just incredible, so true. And my mum she 199 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: used to go to a little place in Liverpool when 200 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 1: she was small called the Cavern, and she went one 201 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: day to see her favorite pop star, who was Lonnie Donegan. 202 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: And supporting Lonnie Doneghan was a group called the Beatles, 203 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: and at that point they were doing cover versions. Yeah, 204 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: they weren't even writing their own songs. So my music, 205 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: you know, started at home with the with the songs 206 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: my parents were playing. That's really how I ended up 207 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: getting into pop music. That's all I listened to at home. 208 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: Abba the Beg's Elton John Billy, Joel, the Beatles, a 209 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: great catalog to grow. I mean, what a foundation to 210 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: be able to, you know, start your creativity, you know 211 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: with um, you know Michael here, his aunt dated Ringo. Yes, 212 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: and she did. Yeah, is that right. That's that's our 213 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: claim to fame in the family. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 214 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: that's my clean fame. Yeah. Well I'm part of the family. Yeah, 215 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: you're part of the family now. Yeah. No, we have 216 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: a great photo of Yeah, he came to make Grandma's house. 217 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: I think a few of the Beatles did for dinner 218 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: when they it's my Dad's like sitting on Ringo's lap. 219 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: He's a little boy at that time. And yeah, yeah yeah. 220 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: And they were ended as quickly as it began. Yeah. Well. 221 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: And and speaking of the Beatles dramas dramas, Yeah, the 222 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 1: Beatles obviously a huge influence for you, but also us. 223 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: And I remember you guys on one of your tours 224 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: did the Beatles medley, you know, and we loved it 225 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: so much that we did the same exact medley on 226 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: one of our tours I think over in Europe or 227 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: maybe in America, but it was just it was one 228 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: of my favorite things to perform. And it was all 229 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: because you guys really taught us. That's great. Yeah, and 230 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: you know, many years later, I think it was about 231 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: twenty uh maybe twenty two thousand and nine, we finally 232 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: got on stage with Paul McCartney at the Royal Albert 233 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: Hall and we sang like a four piece harmony to 234 00:12:56,240 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: hat Jude. So our Dreams came to room, I mean, 235 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: and it is one of the best endings to a concert, 236 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: that song. Have you met did you have you ever 237 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 1: like met any other Beatles or is it I've met 238 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: Ringo a couple of times down in Monaco whenever we're 239 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: doing you probably know all these shows like San Ramo. 240 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: Do you remember doing San Ramo? Yeah, So whenever we 241 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: play San Ramo, we'd stay in Monaco and we'd often 242 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: see Shirley Bassi or Ringo there or the other one 243 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: was the James Bond what was his name? Oh goodness, 244 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: I can't remember his name. He was often there eating dinner. 245 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: There's you know, there's a there's a lot of the 246 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: English actually moved to Monica. Shirley how is Shirley Bassi? 247 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 1: A story about her? You know, I wrote I wrote 248 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: a song for her on she did She did an 249 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: album in about two thousand and twelvesh where she listed 250 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: all her favorite songwriters and went to them and asked 251 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: them to write her a song. So she went to 252 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: like Rufus Waynewright, the Pet Shop Boys, David Arnold, lots 253 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: of songwriters, and she came to me and asked for 254 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: a song. And I had to go up to Abbey 255 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: Road and sing it live in front of them. You 256 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: don't want to sing and got to play the song. 257 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: And actually the same night that we sang with McCartney, 258 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: I actually played piano for Shirley Bassey on that same 259 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: concept when she sang my song. So I was very 260 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: very honest. Yeah, that is a day looking back at So. 261 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: I mean you your career has been so amazing. Is 262 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: there like that moment right there? Is there a moment 263 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: that you're like, ah, this is my favorite moment I've 264 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: ever had? Well, you know what we are, We've been 265 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: very lucky because we are a very happy band. There 266 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: has been times when we've not been happy, but we 267 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: are real brothers, um and and you know we we've 268 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: all we look out for each other as adults now 269 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: and as father as we we look out for each 270 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: other and happiest times are always. We can be on 271 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: stage in the middle of thousands of people and I'll 272 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: just catch everybody's eye for a moment and all the 273 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: chaos is going on around them, and I just think 274 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: it's just unbelievable that we get to do what we 275 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: do and we're healthy and we can still sing, and 276 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: you know, it's just lovely and so those rather than 277 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: awards or you know, capacity crowds, when I catch the 278 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: eyes of my brothers and we're on stage, it's really 279 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: it really is. And you're right, I mean, it is 280 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: a brothership, you know. It's it's you go through something 281 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: like this, and especially at a young age, you're bonded 282 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: for life. I mean, it really is. And every emotion 283 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: comes out. And I tell everyone this, They're like, oh, 284 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: do y'all get along? Like, yeah, we love each other, 285 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: we hate each other, every emotion comes out. I mean, 286 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: just like a family member, you know, but you always 287 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: get together. It is with love. And I know during 288 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: your you know, I know, Robbie and you had a 289 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: public I don't know if there's the public putting it on, 290 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: but you know, they really pit you against each other. 291 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: When you both went solo, it was kind of like 292 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: a Backstreet in sync type moment in history. Um, but 293 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: then you end up doing songs together. So obviously you 294 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: kind of you know, put that fire out. But during 295 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: that time were you were you upset that people thought 296 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: that y'all might have like hated each other more than 297 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: you did, Like, how did that all go down? Oh? 298 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, we hated each other, definitely did. Yeah, it's 299 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: exactly like you said. They are like families. There are 300 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: extensions to families, and so you know there's a there's 301 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: a family pyramid within that that that it seems great 302 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: when you're in it. You know, there's a leader, there's 303 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: there's certain followers, there's people who add um intellect to it. 304 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: There's people that add a great vibe to it. You know, 305 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: we we have that pyramid, and I think that what 306 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: happens is you end up actually hating your position in 307 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: that pyramid and you want to reshuffle the pyramid, and 308 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: when you do, then someone else has to go down 309 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 1: or And it's very complicated. But we we definitely had 310 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: our years where we hated each other, but especially robbing 311 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: me because you know, Robbie is um out of I 312 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,159 Speaker 1: think out of everybody. I always say I have to 313 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: apologize for myself. I am. I'm just super ambitious. I 314 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 1: just I'm always wanting better, always striving. But you know, 315 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: and Robbie's like me, He's the most like me, where 316 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,959 Speaker 1: like you know, he will you know, he will spend 317 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: so long. You know, it's it's like we've got that 318 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: gene in us. And so we're quite similar, which which 319 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: kind of explains why when we didn't get on, we 320 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: really didn't get on. And when we do get on, 321 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: we absolutely love each other. So it's complex, but it 322 00:17:51,800 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: but it works. How old were you when you started 323 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 1: with this group? So I was nineteen when I joined 324 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 1: the group, and Robbie was was was actually two weeks 325 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: away from turning sixteen. Really he was so and he 326 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 1: really was young. He wasn't like an old sixteen. He 327 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 1: was a young sixteen and you know, and he had 328 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: so I'm I'm the middle one, as Jason who was 329 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: above me, he was a year older than me, and 330 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: then Howard was two old years older than me, and 331 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: so we were like the three old guys who drive 332 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: the van, and then you've got the young. We used 333 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 1: to call them the pups, Mark and Robbie. They were 334 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: always the naughty ones. They were always you know, late, 335 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 1: we'd make them fill the van up and then they'd 336 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: sleep all the way there while we would driving. You know, 337 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: they were the naughty ones. So they had a great 338 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: bond that those two did. Yeah, and you know, being 339 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 1: so young, do you feel like you were protected? Do 340 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: you have a good circle around you family management? You know, 341 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: did you feel like they were really looking after you guys? No, 342 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: I didn't. And and I go back to this, I 343 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 1: think some of our members recognized it. And there was 344 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: a day that I think we were in Japan or somewhere, 345 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: there was definitely a day where we sat in the 346 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: back of the bat and we just we said we 347 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: we didn't get to bed till one am last night, 348 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: we've been doing interviews since half past six this morning. 349 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: You haven't given us any food yet. And it felt strong. 350 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: All of a sudden, we spoke up for ourselves, and 351 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 1: we've never done that before. It was always like whatever, 352 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: you know, oh yeah, we'll meet those guys we've got 353 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: ut for dinner with. We just said yes, yes, yes, 354 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: so long and one day we just went, hey, you 355 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: know what, no, we want this, and from that day 356 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 1: on we kind of built this little wall around ourselves 357 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: and it kept us, it kept us safe. For a 358 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: few years. We started to do things on our terms UM, 359 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: and it was kind of nice. It was kind of nice. 360 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: Our managing actually never traveled with us, so it give 361 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: us the freedom to just sort of take the reins 362 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 1: a little bit more. And it felt strong that day 363 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: when that happened. I remember, there's a very much a switch, 364 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: UM and from that day on we kind of looked 365 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 1: after ourselves. Yeah, and that's uh, it's great. They all 366 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: had that realization. It's kind of opposite with my group. 367 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: I think towards the end of en Sync, we started 368 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: getting more of a voice, right, you know, we went 369 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: through the whole loop proment thing and we were like, yes, 370 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: we're now in control of everything, which we weren't UM, 371 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: and then we started noticing like, well, we're tired, we 372 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: need we need a break every once in a while, 373 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: like you know. And so once we started saying no 374 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: to things, that's when I felt like that everything was 375 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,479 Speaker 1: breaking down. Like I felt like the record label management 376 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: it was kind of like, oh, they're they're getting wint 377 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: to this. They're you know, they're they're asking for breaks now, 378 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 1: saying no to things, and I think that's when everything 379 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: just started crumbling, is when we really wanted to start 380 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: to just take care of ourselves more, which is really sad, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 381 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: it is, it is. It's it's a funny thing if 382 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: you if you take our situations from those days, groups nowadays, 383 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: would they'd never allow people to treat them the way 384 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: people treated us about them. It's a very different you know, 385 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: we're getting to a good place in this world, but 386 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: it's definitely a much kinder place than it was back then. 387 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: We we we found it quite tough a lot of 388 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: the you know, the criticism and the you know, I think, 389 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: I think one of the things I often talk about 390 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,959 Speaker 1: when I when I meet people who are from the 391 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: pop world is how much we're looked down upon within 392 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: our industry. Yeah, you know, it's just a pop band. 393 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: It's just and we always felt for years and years 394 00:21:55,960 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: that we weren't we weren't worthy of anything. And only 395 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: after you know, years of doing it, you actually go, no, no, 396 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: this is good. We are good. Well, you know, look 397 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: at those people out there that aren't. We're doing our job. 398 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: We're doing our bit for music here. Yeah, it's so strange. 399 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 1: It is weird. Yeah, it's like and we felt the 400 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 1: same thing. You know, it was always we were looked 401 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: down upon, right, It's like, oh, boy band, which, by 402 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: the way, when you started, did was there even the 403 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 1: term boy band? When did this boy band words start? 404 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: Because you were definitely there before that because we didn't 405 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: know what the word was to, like, yeah, night boys 406 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: came along. It's when I was first away it's a 407 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 1: German thing. Yeah, I think it's a German thing, but 408 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: I don't know where. When was the first time someone 409 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:44,359 Speaker 1: called a vocal group a boy band? Because that word 410 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: really stung back in those days, because you know, they 411 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: just labeled you that and just you were nothing. You're 412 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: oh you lip singing, you can't sing, you're put together 413 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: by a record label. I can't take you serious. It 414 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: kind of instantly like makes you into it like a 415 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: juvenile group, like oh, you're for kids or a boy 416 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: but like, at the end of the day, you guys 417 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: are the ones selling the most albums and reaching the 418 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: biggest audience. So it's just it's crazy though, how then 419 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: you were still looked down upon within the industry, and 420 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure you went through this too, where the industry 421 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: uses you too, like, I mean, how many Grammy nominations 422 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: did we get? But do you think they gave us one? No? 423 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: But did we perform every single Grammy's Yes, because they 424 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 1: wanted the ratings, but they didn't want to give us 425 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: the respect. Sure, sure, you know I had had a 426 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 1: lovely you'll enjoy this. Peter Gabriel brought his daughter to 427 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: one of our shows. Now, I'm a massive Peter Gabriel fan, 428 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: you know a lot. I mean that anything. I just 429 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: love his bought, I love his songwright. I'm just a 430 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 1: massive fan of hiss It. It It was a really big 431 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: moment for me, and so of course I was doing 432 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: what we were just talking about. Oh you know, it's 433 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 1: just pop music, you know, and he said, hang on 434 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: a minute, No, no, no, said these kids in here, 435 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: this is their first concert and that's the night they've 436 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: just had. There going to be coming back for the 437 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: rest of their life. As an all of a sudden, 438 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: I thought, yeah, that's so true. It really gave us 439 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: a bit of validation. I went straight to the bus 440 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: to tell the lads. Everyone couldn't believe it, and it 441 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 1: was like, that's fantastic. So yeah, nice moment. I love 442 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: that so you have a super fan in the Netherlands 443 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 1: named Corey. I don't know if you have met this girl, 444 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: but my friend Christina sent over some questions because she 445 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: is so excited that you're on the show. And she 446 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,439 Speaker 1: has a good question right here, because we were just 447 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: talking about being so young. She asked, do you have 448 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 1: any advice on how artists can cope with mega stardom 449 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: at such a young age? Since you were a judge 450 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: on X Factor the year after One Direction formed on 451 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: the show, So do you have any good advice for 452 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 1: a young artist that is just about to explode? Well, 453 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: you know one thing I hate giving advice, Boots. There's 454 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: one thing that I always try. And you know, if 455 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: people come up to you on an aeroplane or something 456 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 1: and they want some advice for their kids, I always say, 457 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: learn an instrument. And if your instruments singing, like really, 458 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: learn how to don't just you know, guess and chance it. 459 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 1: Learn about it. Study here, you know it, be professional, 460 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 1: go out there and do exams. And because you know, 461 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: if you could learn to play something or you learn 462 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: to sing really well, you've got a job forever. You know, 463 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: you'll make people feel something. So I always say, you know, 464 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: go back to basics and I you know, we're signed 465 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 1: to a Universal Records here. And the one thing I 466 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 1: always hear from record labels this, no one plays instruments anymore, 467 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: you know, because people want things now. They don't they 468 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 1: don't want to have to practice something for two years. 469 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 1: They want to learn how to play it now, right now. 470 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: And so they're they're seeing there's the latest artists who 471 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 1: are coming through. They're just not learning instruments anymore. And 472 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,479 Speaker 1: that's that's a real worry. It's true. It's that instant 473 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: gratification that everyone has to have right now, social media everything. 474 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, back in our day, you had 475 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: to go to every single radio station in the world 476 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: to get your song played. Now it's like boop three seconds, 477 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: it's out there in the world and go ahead, radio play, 478 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: which you just put it on TikTok and there you go. 479 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's nice. Kids have it so easier these days. 480 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: But it's true, like learn one thing that I wish 481 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: I would have done as a kid, because I you know, 482 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: I took piano lessons. But you know, as a kid 483 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: from Mississippi, you know, people start making fun of you 484 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: and they start saying you're gay and all that. So 485 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: you know, you stop and you're like, oh, I can't 486 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: play piano because of course I was a closet a 487 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 1: little kid, so I didn't want people to think that 488 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 1: I was gay because I played the piano. That is 489 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 1: my one regret was not to keep that up and 490 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: that my play. I can tinkle around, I can write, 491 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: you know, on piano, but I really wanted to be 492 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,199 Speaker 1: masterful and being able to play piano. And I if 493 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: I could just go back and just keep up with lesson, 494 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 1: I know, I took the same thing. My parents said, listen, 495 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: you could quit af you on. We're not going to 496 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: force you, but you're going to regret it when you're older. Yeah, 497 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: and yeah, I regret it. Yeah, you know. I have 498 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 1: to say it's it's having real roots in music for 499 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 1: me has saved me, you know in the times when 500 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: you're thinking, you know, because there's a whole period of 501 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: like a nine ten year period in the middle for 502 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: me where I didn't do a lot of music. I 503 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 1: couldn't work out where I was going. I didn't have 504 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: a record deal, and and but music, it's it taps 505 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: you on the shoulder and you need it, you know. 506 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: And and whenever I've whenever I've been in a mess, 507 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 1: Music's always got me out of the mess. You know. 508 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: If ever I've not been able to think straight, music 509 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: helps you to. Is there a particular style that you 510 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: gravitate towards. Um, you know, it's folky. I think my 511 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 1: my my voice is sort of folky, and I love 512 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: guitars and I love piano and um yeah, so so 513 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 1: anything that's sort of acoustic, I think is is my 514 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: sort of start. I don't really do beat so, you know, 515 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,439 Speaker 1: back in the nineties we had a little moment with 516 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: beats and things, but it's not doesn't come natural to 517 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: me that. Yes, I know, we tried the techno thing 518 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: for good, maybe two months when we lived in Germany. 519 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,479 Speaker 1: It did not suit us. Oh god, it was horrible. 520 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: It's like forcing yourself to do something that you just 521 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: and I absolutely hated that style back then. Now it's 522 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 1: all about dance music, but then it was just like 523 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 1: the I'm like, oh god, right, but yeah, we were 524 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: we were not doing that. Um here's a question also 525 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 1: from Corey. I don't even know who this is, but 526 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 1: I want to know. Now, do you still talk to 527 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: Jason Orange, how is he? Do you know what now? 528 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: And again we do. So we we had a band 529 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: member who oh he was in the band, you know 530 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: we oh yeah, so so so we we were a 531 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: five piece all the way through the nineties, okay, And 532 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: then Robbie left and I left and we had this 533 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: this this period where we went together. But then when 534 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: we came back in two thousand and five, we came 535 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: back as a four piece, so it was the four 536 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: of us guys without Robbie, and so weird. I mean, 537 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: we had more success second time around than we did 538 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: the first time. Our records were bigger, they were on 539 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: the radio for longer, we were playing stadiums instead of arenas. 540 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: It really went great for us. And you know, and 541 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 1: one of our members, Jason, after our we did an album, 542 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 1: we did two albums by ourselves or four of us, 543 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: and then our third album we did it with Robbie. 544 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: So it was like this massive reunion. Everyone's going crazy, 545 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: including us. It was just such an amazing full circle. 546 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: And Jason just turned up after that and he went, 547 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: that's it. We can't that's the end. It's done. I'm done. 548 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to do anymore. And It's funny if 549 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: if it was if we were all nineteen, we'd have 550 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: all sat and begged him and talked him back in. 551 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 1: But there's something about being an adult. It's like, you've 552 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 1: this comes a point where you've just got to respect 553 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: somebod his choice. Yeah, and we could tell he was 554 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: serious because he was really enjoying, like saying goodbye to us. 555 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: You know, you've got to carry on. And we were like, God, 556 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: he really is going, and that was it. He's never 557 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 1: come back, he's never recorded with us again. He speaks 558 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 1: to us now and again, but he's very much turned 559 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 1: his back on the limelight. Doesn't want to be that 560 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 1: guy anymore. Yeah, and we all look, the older you get, 561 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: the more you just you know, change and want to 562 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: do the things that you want to do. And if 563 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: it's not being in one of the biggest bands in 564 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: the world, it you just don't want to do it. Fine, 565 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad that y'all you know, left in good terms. 566 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 1: For sure. Absolutely say I'm not a fan club because 567 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: I didn't know who Jason was. I know it's been 568 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: a while, Okay, I got to brush up, all right, 569 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: Let's get to a few fan questions now. Because I 570 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: don't want to keep you too long. I could talk 571 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: to you for that's okay, two days here, Oh, I 572 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: could say it all days all right? So what is 573 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 1: this is from Jessica el Milo? What is the best 574 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: lesson you have learned so far in life? Let's get deep. 575 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 1: What's the best lesson they've learned the best lesson? Yeah? 576 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: So so um so me and my wife, So we've 577 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: been married. I say that I shouldn't say that I'm 578 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 1: her husband. She's not my wife and her husband. We've 579 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: been together for twenty eight years. Oh my gosh, how 580 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: we met? We met on tour. Yeah, we actually met. 581 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: You know, it's funny. We actually met in the eighties. 582 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: I did this really terrible video in nineteen eighty eight 583 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: before I joined the band, and she was one of 584 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: the two dances in the video. So we met there 585 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: and then she was she We did the Brits one 586 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: year and she was on that. We actually did the 587 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: Beatles Medley and she was on that show. We said 588 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: helow again. And then when we went out on a 589 00:31:55,840 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: tour in ninety five, we needed twenty two dancers and 590 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: she was one of them, and we just got together 591 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 1: on that tour. We literally from that day on have 592 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 1: never been a part since. Wow, yeah, that is so well. 593 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: It's great to be able to meet the love of 594 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: your life, you know, especially in the height of your career. Um, 595 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: because I couldn't imagine, I mean, as a gay guy. 596 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: I didn't really get to date on the road. I 597 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: didn't get to really experience the road life of meeting 598 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: a girl and taking her back. But to be able 599 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: to have that love your life already kind of set 600 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: with you so you didn't have to worry about meeting 601 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 1: other people, that must have felt amazing. And also, you know, 602 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I still look around me now, 603 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: and you know, our business it attracts all the wrong people, 604 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 1: you know, really does. And I was so lucky that 605 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: I found someone who who who loves me, and he 606 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: is a great person and an amazing bomb and just 607 00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: a great partner, you know, because of course she doesn't. 608 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: She's not in the spotlight at all anymore. But it's 609 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: happy for me to be and knows that how much 610 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: I love what I do, and she respects and loves 611 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 1: what I do so much. So I feel, you know, 612 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: if you were asking me about what I've I learned 613 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: it's to appreciate when you've got amazing people around you. 614 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: And for me that it starts with with with Dawn. 615 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: For me, how many kids do you have? We have 616 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: three kids? Three kids? Yeah? Did when you finally had kids? 617 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: I mean, because we just had kids ourselves, and you 618 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: do look at the world much differently totally. You know, 619 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: it's no longer you're not selfish anymore. You're just like, oh, 620 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: this is what a selfless thing? It feels like. Um 621 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: with your with your writing, Did your writing change once 622 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: you had a family? Oh? I think so. I'm I 623 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: write songs every day. Every single day, I will write 624 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: something or something it could be a boos, So I 625 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 1: write a lot. And I think that being parents and 626 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 1: having partners, the love is a different love than anything 627 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:16,319 Speaker 1: else you can experience and sow the volume of it 628 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: and the way it affects you emotionally and physically. It 629 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: just ends up in songs. It just does. It has to, 630 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 1: because it's just such a past of you. But for 631 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: you guys, we're actually coming out the other side of 632 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: parenthood now because we're starting to get our life back 633 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 1: after all these years. So we're kind of starting to 634 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 1: rediscover each other. Again, which is actually quite beautiful too. 635 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: So we're getting our nights back in the week where 636 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: we go out, and you know, we get the odd 637 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: weekend away when they're away. It's very, very nice. The 638 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: next stage of being parents, you've got to look forward 639 00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 1: to that. Well, I'm looking for that. You know. We 640 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: start a little late time, so I hope when they're 641 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 1: getting out of the house that I am young enough 642 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 1: to actually enjoy life again. Who we're still enjoying you now? Yeah? 643 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,399 Speaker 1: We are. We yeah, we you know, we we mean 644 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: it to go out and yeah, all right, I have 645 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: a Bop magazine article from the early nineteen nineties. I 646 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: want to see if your answers still match them today. Okay, 647 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: so first question, how would you describe yourself? Extremely shy? 648 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: Yeah yep, quiet shy, yes, quiet shy? Oh and romantic 649 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: really oh? Hello? So how do you? Oh hobbies? What 650 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: were your hobbies in the early nineties? What was my 651 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: hobbies back then? Let me think about that. It's my 652 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: hobby now. I never really two stories. Yeah, uh, you're 653 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,319 Speaker 1: gonna have to tell me hobbies. I don't remember an 654 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: abby watching movies and playing with dogs. Okay, we've always 655 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: had dogs. Yeah, there you got dogs, Um, romantic match? 656 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 1: What is your romantic match? Well, I know the answer now, 657 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 1: don't know. I was probably looking for the answer back then. True, Yeah, yeah, 658 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:19,320 Speaker 1: so well, yes I would. Yeah. I think I found 659 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 1: my matches so well. I'm sure your match matched with 660 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: someone with a nice smile and eyes, confidence, and I'm 661 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: attracted to happy people. There you go, There you go. 662 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: That describes describes doing perfect. I love it. I love it. 663 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 1: Um again. I think we're gonna have to do a 664 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,360 Speaker 1: two parter with this because I know you have to 665 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: leave pretty soon, but I would love to have you 666 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: back on the show at some point in the future 667 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: because you've had so much we haven't been able to 668 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,839 Speaker 1: talk about. Well, do you know what? Can I ask 669 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 1: you a last question? Yes, you did that amazing song 670 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:56,640 Speaker 1: with Bat Yeah. And I've never met him, and I 671 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: always wondered what it must be like to work. Is 672 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: he like a professor? He looks like a science he 673 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 1: doesn't like a scientist. No, bt is awesome, really fun 674 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 1: to work with it. I'm surprised that y'all haven't gotten 675 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,439 Speaker 1: together because I think you and Hill together would make 676 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 1: magic Wow. Wow. I love that record so much. I 677 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 1: remember it coming on and I actually thought it was 678 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,760 Speaker 1: Max Martin and I thought, oh my god, that guy's 679 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,359 Speaker 1: done it again. He's done it. I couldn't believe it. 680 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: And then I read the credits, like, oh, it's not Yeah, 681 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 1: you know this bat guy. Yeah, And I've been a 682 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: fan of his ever since, so I've always listened to 683 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 1: his albums. All right, we gotta get you guys together. 684 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: That would be Make it happen, Make it happen. I 685 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: know that you are also met JC not too long ago. 686 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: I heard that y'all had a really nice time in England. 687 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 1: Do you have any stories with seeing any of fun? Guy? 688 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: He's so talented. Do you know what absolutely love we love? 689 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: We had a he came to our show and he 690 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: came to see me before and then he enjoyed it 691 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: so much. He said what are you doing? And I said, well, 692 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm at this hotel. It was about five minutes and 693 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 1: where he was. So he ended up coming over and 694 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 1: we sat up till four o'clock in the morning drinking. 695 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,240 Speaker 1: So we had a great time time talking about music. Yeah, 696 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: or you're both musical genjuries, Yeah, so I know that 697 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: must have been fun. All right, Gary? Oh, one last 698 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 1: thing we forged to talk about. The Officer of the 699 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: Order of British Empire. Please explain that to us dumb 700 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: Americans and you basically you planned the Queen's jubilee. I 701 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: mean that's crazy. We I mean, I'll tweat to myself 702 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,320 Speaker 1: rather than for everyone else. Loved the world, very proud 703 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: to have a royal family, and we're asked about it 704 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 1: wherever we go in the world, and we're very proud 705 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: of them. And I absolutely loved the Queen. Met the 706 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,360 Speaker 1: Queen many times, especially in the preparation for the jubilee. 707 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 1: We used to meet her every couple of months to 708 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 1: talk about plans and things. An amazing human being was 709 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 1: she very heavily involved with the planning too, or she's 710 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, it sounds to it. Well, my my 711 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: meetings were always four minutes long. Oh well, so they 712 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: said you've got four minutes. My joke used to be, 713 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: I can be done in two minutes if we if 714 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,839 Speaker 1: you can answer this, and and I'd always been out, 715 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: I'd always be out before two minutes. She was very 716 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,760 Speaker 1: knew exactly what she wanted, and she was so sharp 717 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: and with it. So I had many beautiful meetings with her, 718 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 1: and I've met the King many times as well, and 719 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: just very proud, um and so my, my, my, that 720 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 1: kind of I don't usually talk about these things, but 721 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: I am very proud to have an obie. It's it's 722 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: it's you know, my mom came down the day I 723 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: was given it by the Queen, and it's for moms 724 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 1: to see their children. Of course, I realized it's not 725 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 1: about me getting this, it was my mom was so 726 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: proud of thought, oh, what a brilliant thing. But say 727 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 1: history and the life that the Queen had from such 728 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 1: an early age. I mean, even us in America, if 729 00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 1: we just admire what she did and being the face 730 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,279 Speaker 1: of that country, she did as good as she could do, right, 731 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 1: I mean it's just like, yeah, and you know what 732 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: if you if you if you're ever around a lot 733 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 1: of those events that the royals, um, you know, have 734 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: to attend. It's their job, isn't it. The amount of 735 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 1: shit chat and handshaking, it must just be exhausted. They 736 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: do it every day every day. Respect to you. That's 737 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 1: their life, you know that, that's what they took on. 738 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 1: And I just admire them so much. Yeah, I mean, 739 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 1: it's true. It's like we get a little taste of 740 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: that with meet and greets, right, but nothing like the 741 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 1: family has, nothing like twenty four or seven. Must be crazy. 742 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: And there's definitely a song in there two minutes with 743 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 1: the Queen. I don't know, there's just work with that. 744 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: Maybe that could be the song you write today. Yeah, 745 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: Gary Varley, thank you so much for joining us some procestives. 746 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 1: It's been a pleasure getting to know, fascinating and again 747 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: we'll have you back, you know, months from now, so 748 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 1: we can do it nice. Follow up. Are you in California? 749 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 1: I'm in California, Yes, definitely. Oh well, maybe next time 750 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm there we should do on live. I would love 751 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,439 Speaker 1: that because you're Are you here most of the time. No, 752 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm usually there for like a few months per year, okay, 753 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 1: but we we record and often right there as well. 754 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: You know, we'll spend the summer there as a family 755 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 1: and we love being in California. Well, I would love 756 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 1: to see you when you're back because we never leave 757 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,439 Speaker 1: the house now because we do have baby twins, so 758 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: it would be nice to have an excuse to get 759 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 1: out for sure. I'd love that. Let me tell you 760 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: both for dinner, how can everyone stay in touch with 761 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 1: you out there. Well, you know, I'm quite active on 762 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,560 Speaker 1: social media. Yeah, I quite and I quite enjoy you know. 763 00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: I think. I think when you from an era that 764 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: we were from, we always dreamed of a time that 765 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 1: we could directly talk to our audience, right rather than 766 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 1: through TV shows or journalists or whatever. And we can 767 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 1: because you get the truth. To be able to do that, 768 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: it's true, because every single article, even if it's a 769 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: positive article, it's never right. Like I've never read anything 770 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,799 Speaker 1: about me that was one hundred percent true. But with 771 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 1: your own social media, it's like, Okay, well this is 772 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 1: the truth, like you heard it right from the horses. 773 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,440 Speaker 1: That's it. And I like that. I like that. All right, 774 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. We will be 775 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:33,400 Speaker 1: seeing you very soon. I can't wait to meet the 776 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: right to give that family my love. By mister Gary Barlow. 777 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: I knew he was going to be a great interview, 778 00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: but man, oh, he's so friendly. I know, what a 779 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: nice guy. We've run into each other, you know, maybe 780 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 1: three or four times in our lives, and he's always lovely, 781 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: but we never got to really talk talk talk. I 782 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 1: remember when we saw him like a couple of months ago, 783 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: and it was like in the bathroom, it was like 784 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,279 Speaker 1: I think Ry Barlow like we're like, yeah, that is, 785 00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: but uh yeah, we've never been able to like really 786 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 1: have real discussions. Um. I really wanted to ask him, 787 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 1: you know, my main question about the Royals, No, do 788 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: you have any relation to Lisa Barlow? And did you 789 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,920 Speaker 1: prepare her arrangement of a Wayne the Manger? If you 790 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: said that to him, he'd be like, what the hell? 791 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: I really wanted to Lisa bar for anyone else listening 792 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,879 Speaker 1: that has no idea Lisa Barlow well down out under 793 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 1: that rock house, flies of Salt Lake City. Yeah, she 794 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 1: has a beautiful voice. And she serenaded oh a Manger, 795 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:52,879 Speaker 1: No for he's bad the litologies us law his sweethead, 796 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 1: which is like do it? I did it? I did it? 797 00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: Alwayne a Manger. That's not how the melody goes, I know. 798 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 1: But she did her own version. You know what, I 799 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: think that's probably I bet you she was in you know, 800 00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 1: a Mormon choir, right and they you know, seeing tib 801 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 1: tibernacle um and that was her like alto line like 802 00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: she has her mark was on her harmy and that's 803 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,759 Speaker 1: how she learned a way in a a manger. Well, I 804 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: should have asked it next time. I like it. I 805 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,320 Speaker 1: like that version. That's the only way I'm going to 806 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 1: be singing that in the future to our kids, the 807 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 1: only version I know. Happy to you here. Oh my gosh. 808 00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 1: All right, guys, Well that is all the show we 809 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: have for you today. Again, We're going to do a 810 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 1: follow up with Gary because this, I mean, they have 811 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: so many questions, a lot of your fan questions. I 812 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,840 Speaker 1: didn't even get to get to. I know it. Maybe 813 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 1: one day we can get Robbie Williams. Oh, no, Robbie's 814 00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,400 Speaker 1: coming out show. I talked to Robbie. Yeah, I know 815 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 1: him here and there. Yeah. Yeah, he's the one I 816 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 1: actually know from the band. Yeah, because I know his wife. 817 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 1: She was an old friend of mine. She was my 818 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 1: poker buddy. Good friends. They're very good friends. At least 819 00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: they have really close together. All right, that is all 820 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,359 Speaker 1: the show we have for you. Thank you so much, 821 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: my beautiful, lovely husband. Oh you're taking some advice from 822 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 1: Gary Barlow. You know, the truth did inspire me. His 823 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,879 Speaker 1: love for his family inspired me. I'm gonna start loving 824 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,720 Speaker 1: you a little more. Oh, finally it took Gary Barlow 825 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 1: to make him love me. Oh that's a song to 826 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,439 Speaker 1: Lance was coming up with songs before we leave. Lance 827 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:23,880 Speaker 1: is like, you know, I think he has a song 828 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 1: writing bug in him. Well, we were driving quickly, we 829 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: were driving home last night and we're on Moholland and 830 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,240 Speaker 1: like on Mholland Drive, there's like these little overlook areas 831 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:36,759 Speaker 1: where cars parked. Look at the views well background after sunset. Yes, 832 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 1: you're not allowed to park because it's dangerous, right, but 833 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 1: it's been very cold and rainy, and so it's you know, 834 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 1: it's cold, so cool. Yeah, so um. Every time we'd 835 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,839 Speaker 1: passed that, there would be some cards there with like 836 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: foggy windows because it's probably raining and it's foggy because 837 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,439 Speaker 1: it winds. Foggy windows. He's like, oh, I'm gonna write 838 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: that as a song, and he meant it. He made 839 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: me text the phrase five started. I've already started writing 840 00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 1: foggy windows and it was great. You some lyrics in 841 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: the car that really just spoke to me. I know 842 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 1: it's about the sunset. Yeah, it's a special look. I 843 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: can't help it. I'm an incredible writer. Yes, Well, I 844 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: get inspired by people having sex and cars on Mahland Drive, 845 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: Gary Barr who very um. Yeah, I have been just 846 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,879 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've just been very creative lately. Usually 847 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 1: it's television shows, but for some reason it's just songs 848 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 1: right now. So hey, don't go nowhere, but it's fun 849 00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: for me. Everybody's so creative. Everybody's so creative. Again, that 850 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: is all the show I have for you. I'm sure 851 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: you've already stopped listening, but thank you so much for listening. 852 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 1: Be good to each other, don't drink and drive, and 853 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:45,160 Speaker 1: remember stay frosting. 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