Speaker 1: I'm a little nosy, A look curious. I really want
Speaker 1: to know what did Charrell do for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 2: I get in my way, never out of my name.
Speaker 3: It's been like you one in the morn one.
Speaker 2: So what is gonna be? Maybe squadam, We've been to
Speaker 2: good issues running on us. What you need? Baby? Won't
Speaker 2: you give me company? Give me something to do?
Speaker 3: And I get I'm just someone with you when we
Speaker 3: get home, if you let me.
Speaker 2: Put it when I at the town, Hey, I like that.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, welcome back to the Humble Baddies Podcast. I
Speaker 1: am Ashley Nicole.
Speaker 2: I'm Alexis Welch out of my iron, and I am
Speaker 2: Charrell Risotto and we are what's up, y'all?
Speaker 1: We're back after Valentine's Day, and I'm a little nosy,
Speaker 1: a look curious. I really want to know what did
Speaker 1: Charrell do for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3: M I thought it was gonna be a little spicy,
Speaker 3: but it wasn't. I actually it was.
Speaker 2: It was a good thing. I spent Valentine's Day with serenity,
Speaker 2: oh everything.
Speaker 1: Okay, So so that means Chad didn't do anything special.
Speaker 1: He didn't send you no gifts. He didn't send you
Speaker 1: no flowers.
Speaker 3: I don't like flowers. But okay, we are we we coher.
Speaker 3: We're not together, so.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, I guess that's cute. I'm single.
Speaker 3: I had to book my I had to buy my
Speaker 3: own gift, and it's okay to do. I booked my
Speaker 3: spot day the next day after.
Speaker 2: That's healthy.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the massage was amazing.
Speaker 1: I think it's best that y'all keep it, you know,
Speaker 1: very separate. Yeah, Like you know, I feel like when
Speaker 1: you start confusing lines and blarn lines, it can get
Speaker 1: a little tricky anyway, So I respect that.
Speaker 2: I think it's cute though, that you spend time with
Speaker 2: your baby girl too, because we are very active, we're
Speaker 2: very busy, and to have just a little love day
Speaker 2: and give a little love to her, it makes us
Speaker 2: feel good as parents, you know, and really just the
Speaker 2: fact that you can really pour into yourself too, even
Speaker 2: the next day, because we can get caught up on
Speaker 2: one day of love, like Valentine's Day. You walk in
Speaker 2: the Walgreen CVS. It's like scream at hearts and red everywhere,
Speaker 2: and then you can feel some kind of way. It
Speaker 2: makes you feel like you needed and I feel like
Speaker 2: it's great when you're able to like spend time with
Speaker 2: people you love or you love your I felt so
Speaker 2: good because I ordered.
Speaker 3: I knew I wanted to put something for Serenity for
Speaker 3: Valentine's I order her three American girl dolls.
Speaker 2: Now she have like seven of them. I thought they
Speaker 2: was Kenya dolls. No, Kenya dolls, that's from back and
Speaker 2: that's no, they don't have a door.
Speaker 3: That's what I had. But now they have the American
Speaker 3: girl dolls. I know I don't know that, and I
Speaker 3: got boys.
Speaker 2: But see this, this is what.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that Serenity keep, keep them up because you know,
Speaker 3: with the American girl dolls, you can send them off
Speaker 3: if if they like, if they hair man, the leg
Speaker 3: break off or anything for you, you send it off
Speaker 3: and they'll bring it back in like a hospital gown.
Speaker 2: You know, you need to take her. You need to
Speaker 2: take the Serenity and the whichever American dolls you have
Speaker 2: to go to New York you have to go to.
Speaker 2: You can make one look like her. They go to
Speaker 2: the salon, you eat with them at the cafe. Is
Speaker 2: so cute.
Speaker 1: The whole address a lie boys because I am not interested.
Speaker 2: Might have retired from that, and like we used to,
Speaker 2: they used to be everywhere around the house. So enjoy
Speaker 2: I know, because.
Speaker 3: That's age of the American girl.
Speaker 2: You're doing it all over again.
Speaker 1: I was made to be a boy mom. But anyway,
Speaker 1: it's like what you do for Valentine's. People want to
Speaker 1: know the people want to know.
Speaker 2: People don't want to know.
Speaker 1: They don't want to know what was like doing? Who
Speaker 1: who is your Valentine's?
Speaker 2: Like I went to go see your friend? It was
Speaker 2: very much. It's just a very much.
Speaker 1: So you went to go see like this was a trip.
Speaker 1: You flew Yeah, I flew out.
Speaker 2: I flew out the mouse. It was just great to
Speaker 2: have some some good times with a good friend and
Speaker 2: you bring out the pop rocks. No pop rocks because
Speaker 2: it wasn't just the fourteen. We we wanted to. We
Speaker 2: wanted to like state that it was just basically just
Speaker 2: hanging out. It was just a weekend away. What y'all
Speaker 2: was doing on that we can't await like we were
Speaker 2: relaxing and and I did. I had my own space,
Speaker 2: which is awesome to have. I would say that if
Speaker 2: you're gonna go away ladies and gents cash you make
Speaker 2: sure the lady is comfortable, has her space for those
Speaker 2: times going. Okay, I need the details. I'm sorry. I
Speaker 2: just got back yesterday. That's the this is. It was
Speaker 2: President didn't stay guys, so my children were no school
Speaker 2: and Friday was Valentine's so blowing too late. Thank you,
Speaker 2: you know they say that anyway.
Speaker 1: I try to get more details offline.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good to be off grid. We were
Speaker 2: in the mountains away and just very much just unplugging.
Speaker 2: There was no TV on the whole weekend that was
Speaker 2: plugging something else. I got to take it there. It
Speaker 2: was at least somebody had some fun. I did have
Speaker 2: you even got me in a hot seat over here. No,
Speaker 2: it was a great time. And it's just really refreshing
Speaker 2: to know when people that are you spend time with
Speaker 2: know what you need. And you know, it's been a
Speaker 2: lot going on with all of us, a lot. We've
Speaker 2: been busy, we've been traveling, we've been active, and so
Speaker 2: the fact that my friend was like, you know what,
Speaker 2: pull up, like, relax, don't do any very thought it
Speaker 2: was beyond thoughtful and intentional, and that's just all I needed,
Speaker 2: so very that's great. Sounds good.
Speaker 1: Well, well, I have been booked and busy. Okay, had
Speaker 1: to catch a flight early in the morning to San Francisco.
Speaker 1: I was there with AT and T at All Star Weekends.
Speaker 1: And this actually was a very special booking to me
Speaker 1: because I was there with AT and T. But they
Speaker 1: were there for the HBCU Classic, and so every year,
Speaker 1: now this is the fourth year that they've had this.
Speaker 1: They bring out two HBCU schools and they have a
Speaker 1: basketball game, and they also they have this scholarship program
Speaker 1: where they pick three students and it's basically like they
Speaker 1: helping them, you know, get their career started and everything.
Speaker 1: So shout out to a T and T. I mean,
Speaker 1: Tuskegee University was in the house. It felt like I
Speaker 1: was in Tuskegee, Alabama. They had the house brocking like.
Speaker 1: I had so much fun. It didn't feel like I
Speaker 1: was I was like, Okay, guy had a blast. I
Speaker 1: got to interview a lot of alumni. I got to
Speaker 1: interview the president of TU University.
Speaker 2: Yes, and I was so nervous, but you did it,
Speaker 2: but I did it.
Speaker 1: So it was a great weekend.
Speaker 2: You had your dad and your best friend.
Speaker 1: My dad actually met me out there and my best
Speaker 1: friend came to help me out. So we had a ball,
Speaker 1: we really did. It was a good, you know, weekend away.
Speaker 1: You know, if I have to be away from my family,
Speaker 1: I always want to make sure that it's worth it.
Speaker 2: You know, that's right. It hadn't absolutely was so but
Speaker 2: what did you did?
Speaker 3: You in field playing something before? I know, y'all playing
Speaker 3: something before.
Speaker 1: I seen the sure, So he had to take me
Speaker 1: out on National side chick Day, which is which day
Speaker 1: is that that? That's February thirteenth.
Speaker 3: I thought, yeah, the side check don't come for the
Speaker 3: main Well whatever, bitch, it.
Speaker 2: Wasn't on to day.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 2: It was we married, and you already got this soul
Speaker 2: and I got to work exactly.
Speaker 3: I got your ego came out, she did, she's outside.
Speaker 2: We had a good time. No, I don't have a name.
Speaker 1: I've got to think of a good name because I
Speaker 1: feel like she changes up to it just depends on
Speaker 1: the night.
Speaker 2: Amber.
Speaker 1: No, it's always like a super black name like Banquisha Shakita,
Speaker 1: you know, like something like that. Anyway, but we went
Speaker 1: out to dinner to one of these restaurants that I've
Speaker 1: been dying to go to and I keep trying to
Speaker 1: get a reservation. I could never get one, but feel
Speaker 1: got one.
Speaker 2: Of course she did. So he's a food Yeah, he
Speaker 2: is that part hen make sure we eat.
Speaker 1: He's gonna make sure we eat.
Speaker 2: So we had a good time.
Speaker 1: We just went to dinner and we hung out and
Speaker 1: then I you know, I took care of him before
Speaker 1: I left. Yeah, you know, absolutely, So it was a
Speaker 1: good It was a good Valentine's Day weekend, President's Day weekend.
Speaker 1: I feel like All Star was like pretty dope, Like
Speaker 1: it was just the All Star they have, like what
Speaker 1: is it, the the celebrity game. Then they had the
Speaker 1: HBCU Games and Stars where they just dunk contests.
Speaker 2: Saturday and Sunday, they.
Speaker 1: Brought all the basketball stars out.
Speaker 2: Girl, I'm retired from All Star weekend and used to
Speaker 2: always coincide with Valentine's Day, so the guys were always working.
Speaker 2: They would always have to be on and it was
Speaker 2: a lot Like it was fun. You get to see
Speaker 2: everybody you haven't seen it in a while, Like all
Speaker 2: the different ladies and the families come out and support
Speaker 2: the celebrities, the stars. It's a good time. I know
Speaker 2: they've changed up. The dynamics of it was like a
Speaker 2: different type. It was different.
Speaker 1: It was different, like they had different like celebrities where
Speaker 1: the coaches and they were like different teams.
Speaker 2: I kept seeing Kevin Hart coming when they had to
Speaker 2: take their pictures with Kevin Hart. Goodness, just all of that.
Speaker 2: That was funny. Yeah, yeah, it's just I think it's
Speaker 2: a good break. I feel like, like long long time ago,
Speaker 2: they would it would you get chosen to do All
Speaker 2: Star and then you would literally leave a game, go
Speaker 2: fly land in that city, and then that next morning
Speaker 2: you're on it. Whereas now they've extended it to where
Speaker 2: you everyone has a break. So even if you got
Speaker 2: chosen and you're the star of the team or whatever
Speaker 2: the case may be, and got voted in, now you
Speaker 2: have some rest.
Speaker 1: So is this like the equivalent of like the Pro
Speaker 1: Bowl or no?
Speaker 2: Yes, and no Pro Bowl is at the end of
Speaker 2: the season for football, whereas All Star is right in
Speaker 2: the middle, so you just had trade deadlines. But I mean,
Speaker 2: is it like it's right in the middle. But it's good.
Speaker 1: I know the timing is different, but is it like,
Speaker 1: because you know, the Pro Bowl is like for the
Speaker 1: best players, is that the same for you.
Speaker 2: Get voted in, and I think I was looking at
Speaker 2: something where Yanni's was saying that they want they you know,
Speaker 2: they want to keep the fans involved, and they're thinking
Speaker 2: of doing USA versus the World because it's a lot
Speaker 2: of international players and you know, we got excited during
Speaker 2: the Olympics of seeing these NBA players play for their
Speaker 2: perspective countries. I think it could be pretty cool, you know,
Speaker 2: just to kind of keep that momentum going.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. That HBCU game was turned.
Speaker 2: I love that though.
Speaker 1: I feel like it was a lot more than the
Speaker 1: actual All Star game.
Speaker 2: You know that school pride.
Speaker 1: It's deep and when you get in company of like
Speaker 1: other alumni and stuff, it just brings you back to college.
Speaker 2: Really, I have a little HBCU like NB I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie, girl come back to come.
Speaker 1: In with me year this year coming, yeah right, our
Speaker 1: homecoming is lit every year.
Speaker 2: It's I need to take a trip they I'm sure
Speaker 2: they want to see the Humble Batty too.
Speaker 1: Like anyway, show up and they'll show up for us too.
Speaker 2: We need to go to that.
Speaker 1: We can do a mentorship program. So I mentored too.
Speaker 1: So while I was there, I got the opportunity to
Speaker 1: mentor some HBC to you students, and yeah, so we
Speaker 1: had a whole little piano. It was really really nice.
Speaker 1: So we can definitely do like a humble Baddy's mentorship.
Speaker 3: We can do a whole We can set it up
Speaker 3: and do a live show too.
Speaker 2: We can definitely, y'all let that idea using right now.
Speaker 1: Yes, that looks simply I would love. I love y'all
Speaker 1: to Tuskegee and you know, mentor the kids. You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of women look up to us, so I
Speaker 1: feel like they would really get something out of it.
Speaker 2: Beautiful. Sure, will y'all let us know where y'all want
Speaker 2: to see us? Okay, speaking to All Star, everyone was
Speaker 2: talking about what's his name? One of the ball brothers.
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, le Angelo? Yes, okay, Now the song is fire.
Speaker 1: We can't take that away from him, I agree, okay,
Speaker 1: but he's in the blocks for leaving Miss Nikky Baby finance, Like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't like that because I like Miss Nicky Baby.
Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, she she settled down, she
Speaker 3: started having kids and it was just a beautiful family.
Speaker 2: Even his dad was.
Speaker 1: Given her props. Like, I really like her because she
Speaker 1: has her own money, she has she brings something to
Speaker 1: the table like his own father was given her props
Speaker 1: so to see like maybe a month later that he
Speaker 1: basically left her for another woman allegedly. I think she
Speaker 1: just had right after she had her second.
Speaker 2: Baby's is definitely odd.
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, if things, if you're not happy. That's
Speaker 3: why I feel like communication, communicator, don't publicly embarrass me
Speaker 3: on the internet and then like, Okay, this woman is
Speaker 3: posting stuff, and then after everything is out, you posting
Speaker 3: pictures with the new chick.
Speaker 1: And also you have to remember that this is the
Speaker 1: mother of your child. She's going through Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, children exactly. So it's just like whatever
Speaker 1: y'all have going on, I feel like you're adding fuel
Speaker 1: to the fire by taking it to social media, by
Speaker 1: being extra you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I don't think men know what women deal with, like
Speaker 3: understand how postpartum me is, like how bad it can
Speaker 3: affect us. They don't understand that. And for him to
Speaker 3: stoop that loa, to even go to the internet to
Speaker 3: entertain that ship, I didn't.
Speaker 2: I didn't like that. Yeah, yeah, you know, it's it's
Speaker 2: horrible timing. We we obviously don't know what's going on
Speaker 2: in their households, you know, But to include us in
Speaker 2: the group chat and to bring everyone involved with it,
Speaker 2: I think it's really petty because we are forgetting the
Speaker 2: children right in a way your kids, yeah, kids, and
Speaker 2: then how do you move on that fast?
Speaker 3: I mean, I just again, we don't know what I mean, true,
Speaker 3: but I mean it's not about we don't know what's
Speaker 3: going on, the fact is at the end of the day,
Speaker 3: that was they have children involved. To stoop that load,
Speaker 3: to go on social media and entertain it, it's very disrespected.
Speaker 2: Especially I don't care they have going on, like you
Speaker 2: don't stoop that low.
Speaker 1: As a man, I agree, But I think also the
Speaker 1: other lady involved would I would never like if I
Speaker 1: was in her shoes. I don't think I could be
Speaker 1: interested in a man who just had two children, like
Speaker 1: you have a newborn baby, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like as a woman, I would, you know,
Speaker 1: extend some grace, like even though y'all might not be
Speaker 1: together anymore, y'all are going through y'all issues. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be the reason or the issue or at
Speaker 1: confusion to whatever y'all have going on, Like I feel
Speaker 1: like as a woman, you should give them the respect
Speaker 1: to try to figure things out. But I don't want
Speaker 1: to be involved in your figuring out your situation with
Speaker 1: your family and your kids.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. Well, the old saying is
Speaker 2: you're gonna lose them how you got them? So, and
Speaker 2: that's what she said. I think that's you know, So,
Speaker 2: I'm a firm believer in karma. I'm a firm believer
Speaker 2: in you know what you put out in the universe,
Speaker 2: and therefore you know, you playing with fire. And that's
Speaker 2: coming from a woman who's been married, who's been divorced,
Speaker 2: who's been blogs, who's been in people's group chats unbeknownst
Speaker 2: to her. So it's like, you know, I get it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: It's it's very it's embarrassing, it's lonely, it's sad, it's
Speaker 2: it's you know, I look out for our women who
Speaker 2: are in these positions, especially when you're put out there
Speaker 2: in the public rim. But like, you have to be.
Speaker 1: Careful even even be dating right now, that's not attractive
Speaker 1: to me if a man.
Speaker 2: If a man is not involved with his children, I
Speaker 2: don't care if you have children or not. I mean,
Speaker 2: I come with the whole tribe. If I see how
Speaker 2: you moving funny with not just how you're moving with
Speaker 2: the children, but how you're moving with the lady that's
Speaker 2: holding down your children, you're attractive.
Speaker 1: It turns me off so and I feel like that
Speaker 1: shows what kind of woman he's with, Like it's only
Speaker 1: a certain type of woman, temporary, and I'm.
Speaker 2: Sure if we do some a little research, you know,
Speaker 2: you know, it's just it's very much giving amo, very
Speaker 2: much like this is what you you.
Speaker 1: Do well, Nikki baby, We hope that you're keeping your
Speaker 1: head up. You know, you got to stay strong for
Speaker 1: them babies, you know.
Speaker 3: So, girl, I'm about to I need some more of
Speaker 3: them clothes because miss NICKI had them clothes, she had
Speaker 3: the clothes. I ordered a few little birthday outfits. Girl,
Speaker 3: get back, stay on your ground. Ain't gonna say get back,
Speaker 3: stay on your ground.
Speaker 2: You got this your amazing mother, amazing woman. Yes, and
Speaker 2: you can move on and people come and go, okay,
Speaker 2: and let them go, y'all, y'all be together forever just
Speaker 2: because you'll have the children. But other than that, let
Speaker 2: them go. You don't want that. Never out of my name.
Speaker 2: You like you won and the more one.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, So All Star was amazing. We've been
Speaker 1: doing so much traveling and we're not finished yet. This
Speaker 1: weekend we are headed to Lay y'all. I'm really excited.
Speaker 1: This is my first time going to Africa. I'm going
Speaker 1: to the mother listen.
Speaker 2: I want to Yes, it's my first time Africa. Girl,
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: Like y'all know, I've been talking about how most of
Speaker 1: my following is from Africa.
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know what y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all be speaking in French and some other languages. I
Speaker 1: don't know what y'all be saying.
Speaker 2: We have a lot of Africa.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of African followers, and I love y'allreiate y'all,
Speaker 1: and I'm coming to see y'all finally turn up. We're
Speaker 1: gonna have fun. We're gonna ball out. Y'all gotta come
Speaker 1: out to the clubs. Me and Cheriell are gonna be
Speaker 1: hosting a few night clubs out there. We're gonna post
Speaker 1: it on our pages so y'all can come and find
Speaker 1: us and come say hello, Come hang out, come have
Speaker 1: a drink.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can't wait. I can't wait either I might No, no, no,
Speaker 2: go on right now.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say I might learn how to dance. Okay,
Speaker 1: they do have some. I need you to find it
Speaker 1: for great music.
Speaker 2: We love the Afro Afro beats.
Speaker 3: And I do hear theys out there, y'all see me.
Speaker 2: They don't wine and dine.
Speaker 1: They heard that the African Prince is out there be
Speaker 1: dropping bands.
Speaker 2: Y'all see me pull up in maja business. No, just
Speaker 2: come pick me up.
Speaker 1: Come pick me up, all right, don't leave me out,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm joking. I'm joking anyway, Gotta be careful
Speaker 1: because I heard they be having like five wives and stuff.
Speaker 1: You okay with that. I'm not getting married, okay, but
Speaker 1: if you African Prince, he's gonna he's gonna want to
Speaker 1: make you his wife. You would say, yeah, he would.
Speaker 1: I'm promising you the world and love and happiness.
Speaker 3: You can say, no, you can't promise me happiness with
Speaker 3: five wives.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So you're saying you don't believe in.
Speaker 2: What is it poly that's not different. It's not polygamy. Well,
Speaker 2: there is different because they feel like they can take
Speaker 2: care of if they can take care of a woman
Speaker 2: and the household and if you can afford it, then
Speaker 2: you can just have it.
Speaker 1: It's just very much polygamy, right, No, polygamy is when
Speaker 1: they I don't know the correct everybody can date. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: well whatever they call it. You saying you're not okay
Speaker 1: with oh no, okay, PM, Yeah, no, I'm not okay
Speaker 1: with polyamorous.
Speaker 2: You like monogamy? I love what about you?
Speaker 1: You will go down there and get you an African print?
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. I'm not shareable either.
Speaker 1: Well, if me and Bill don't work out, it's not.
Speaker 2: I don't like dating and being I'm not I'm not
Speaker 2: Tuesday okay, No, I'm not Tuesday on Friday. I'm not
Speaker 2: with that. Give me a Tuesday Thursday situation. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I'm just like, I have been approached
Speaker 2: to be in a polyamorous situation. I have, No, he wasn't.
Speaker 1: That's the only kind we want, though I don't understand,
Speaker 1: but like we don't want the you know.
Speaker 2: Does okay, he does, but because they want to try
Speaker 2: it out that life my I like my pH balance
Speaker 2: the way it needs to be. Period. What I'm saying,
Speaker 2: it's just not for me. It's just not for me,
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm more than enough woman and I
Speaker 2: don't like to share. I don't like to watch. I
Speaker 2: don't want to be a part of that. I think
Speaker 2: it's a lot of extranists going on and really.
Speaker 3: Ego, I never say, I don't even know how how
Speaker 3: it works a polyamorous.
Speaker 2: It's about communication, Like that's what was told to me,
Speaker 2: Like you have the two main like you know, the
Speaker 2: two main two that are like, okay, this is what
Speaker 2: I feel and say. Maybe the lady was like you
Speaker 2: know what, I kind of go both ways. I like
Speaker 2: ladies or like a guy, but I'm going to tell
Speaker 2: you everything that I do with the main partner, meaning
Speaker 2: like okay, if I have a lady, friend, a girlfriend
Speaker 2: or whatever, we're hanging out, well, if I say, hey,
Speaker 2: we're going away for the week or whatever, it's very
Speaker 2: much understood. It's all about communication. So it's almost to
Speaker 2: me it's like an open relationship, like you know how
Speaker 2: most of us what they said I had me and
Speaker 2: Chad and I had Yeah, so it's open, open dialogue.
Speaker 2: I feel like the main two are the main ones
Speaker 2: that are like saying what they want to do, what
Speaker 2: they don't want to do, but even like the guy,
Speaker 2: for example, he's attracted to me and was very much like,
Speaker 2: you know, she's cool with that. If I'm like, yo, Lex,
Speaker 2: let's let's let's dip, you know, for whatever. So I'm
Speaker 2: too territorial. I can't a lot of share a man.
Speaker 1: I can't like if I think a lot of women
Speaker 1: are open to it now, and I think they are
Speaker 1: because well, I don't know why they are, but I
Speaker 1: will say. I just saw a show Harlem, the new season.
Speaker 1: It's good, okay, so you know the character, the characters
Speaker 1: what's his name, Sophie kofee very He's fine to heal
Speaker 1: nice chocolate. Fine, that's him right there. But on his
Speaker 1: character on the show is ethically non monogamous, like that's
Speaker 1: the term that they call it. But in real life
Speaker 1: I guess he is too. He says that he's ethically
Speaker 1: non monogamous in real life, so so he don't.
Speaker 2: Have serious relationships. He's just I think he is. He
Speaker 2: has had serious relationships in the past, but he's saying
Speaker 2: it becomes really redundant, very much traditional, very much like
Speaker 2: matter of fact, this is the that's restricted, restricting.
Speaker 3: I respect people who can keep it real like a
Speaker 3: ma or a woman that can keep it real. Hey,
Speaker 3: I cannot be.
Speaker 2: Most of us are in poly relationships and we don't
Speaker 2: and don't even know where. Okay, I don't even know what.
Speaker 1: So what he said is monogamy is restrict role playing
Speaker 1: and performative, and everybody else said it's always the fine ones.
Speaker 2: But he's just being honest.
Speaker 3: He can't commit to one woman, and I feel like
Speaker 3: women people respect you more when you keep it real
Speaker 3: than trying to play this role like, oh I can
Speaker 3: be faithful or I can be with you, and you
Speaker 3: really can't.
Speaker 2: So theyship, I think he can be committed. I think
Speaker 2: that's the thing that's the difference. He can be committed.
Speaker 2: I just think he feels like he can be in
Speaker 2: love with more than one person at the same time.
Speaker 2: But you can control the emotion. You can control because
Speaker 2: you're communicating what you feel.
Speaker 3: But if you're committed to one person and you're committed,
Speaker 3: you're not in love with multiple people because you're not
Speaker 3: giving yourself but you're not giving the opportunity to well.
Speaker 1: On the show, he was saying that he was explaining
Speaker 1: to his love interest on the show that each person
Speaker 1: plays a different role in his life like some like
Speaker 1: one of the women was able to be more available
Speaker 1: because she didn't have a lot of commitments. She didn't
Speaker 1: have any like a job or a career. Yeah, whereas
Speaker 1: the other lady, she had a career, she had things
Speaker 1: going on, so she served a different purpose. And so
Speaker 1: I guess you know, he feels like he can separate
Speaker 1: it because they're all serving different purposes in his life.
Speaker 2: Well to each your song.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I feel like the more women are I
Speaker 1: feel like, accept this type of stuff, the more it's
Speaker 1: gonna know about it.
Speaker 3: But men can't accept it when a woman does it.
Speaker 2: They can't. I agree with that.
Speaker 3: They want to lay all these rules out, but when
Speaker 3: a woman, woman is like, Okay, you do this for me,
Speaker 3: I want a man to do this for me. I
Speaker 3: want a man to sexually satisfy me, because you can't,
Speaker 3: but you're financially sat you financially satisfy me.
Speaker 2: I want to make what y'all try it?
Speaker 1: Just to try it, y'all wouldn't try to like be
Speaker 1: in this type of situation, No, Because I mean with
Speaker 1: your date, if you're dating multiple people, technically.
Speaker 2: You can date, but you don't have to have sex
Speaker 2: with it, and you can date and really not say
Speaker 2: you're in a relationship either. You could be dating somebody.
Speaker 2: It's okay to date. That means we're not together.
Speaker 1: We're not just trying to get money out to try
Speaker 1: it so we can. I'm not trying trying to get
Speaker 1: try it. Might be some of our other friends, y'all.
Speaker 2: Y'all try it. I don't want to let me know. No,
Speaker 2: I'm not. We thought.
Speaker 1: I'm finding you an African prince. Listen all of mine.
Speaker 1: I'm finding her an African prince. Okay, I want. I'm
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to Africa at least once a month. Okay, oh,
Speaker 1: once a month. Yeah, I think I get in on
Speaker 1: the next trip. I'll get on the next one you were.
Speaker 2: Supposed to be. I'll find you one that you know,
Speaker 2: it's my birthdays coming out a ditch just because she
Speaker 2: has pay me and Chanel and Burking bags. Period. Thank you.
Speaker 1: As y'all know, y'all know, I'm the matchmaker.
Speaker 2: You are. You're really good at that. Yeah, Chloe's out there, Chloe. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but burn a boy real cute. They're super cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it's great. We'll see how long that lasts.
Speaker 2: Think it's gonna. I think it's cute. I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's weird to me, Like it's cute, but it's weird,
Speaker 2: like we don't need to know about it. I feel
Speaker 2: like the fact that we are like watching it, it's weird.
Speaker 2: I don't know we need to be seeing.
Speaker 1: Like like they just be chilling. But it's I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's a little weird for me.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1: I think it's cute, but it's still cute, strange. I
Speaker 1: think it's cute for now, maybe because I see her
Speaker 1: as like a little girl still in my head, she's
Speaker 1: still like a little girl. And man, yeah, yeah, burnout,
Speaker 1: We're coming. Charrella is available.
Speaker 2: No, I am not Chloe and Berner.
Speaker 1: He wants to see something.
Speaker 2: Is actually speaking for me. She wants to see something. Okay,
Speaker 2: to see that anyway.
Speaker 1: I love you.
Speaker 2: I'm Chloy good sick.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're not going to do anything. We're just
Speaker 1: saying hello, don't mind me, don't mind hey.
Speaker 3: But I'm excited. I'm excited for Africa to have a
Speaker 3: good time. And I'm also excited. Before we leave, we're
Speaker 3: giving away twenty five hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: Yes, Friday, We're going live. Should we go love?
Speaker 1: We should go live? Because that's a big that's that's
Speaker 1: a lot of money. First of all, I want I
Speaker 1: want to see the person's face when they get the money,
Speaker 1: Like I want to say, they're.
Speaker 2: Gonna know, how are we going to do so well?
Speaker 2: Everyone got to tell them they got to go live
Speaker 2: and we're gonna the line. Oh yes, oh that's good,
Speaker 2: that's good. But it's been so many submissions. Guys, listen,
Speaker 2: we're like drowning in that. We're pulling the top ones
Speaker 2: and then we're gonna let all of them.
Speaker 1: You've been looking them up on the Better Business Bureau, Okay,
Speaker 1: and you guys are subscribed.
Speaker 2: You have to be subscribed to subscribe. And you can't
Speaker 2: be hating either talking now you mean, girl, I know
Speaker 2: that man, if they.
Speaker 1: Give it away money.
Speaker 2: I saw those comments. No, you know what I think
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 3: I think people you just got to look at it
Speaker 3: like people only see what they see. Of course, so
Speaker 3: if they really get to know, like they really get
Speaker 3: to know us in real life, Like.
Speaker 2: I don't feed into it because you already like you heard,
Speaker 2: I tell you, you heard what Stony said on the
Speaker 2: Carlos King Show. She was like, tell us what she said.
Speaker 3: She's for those who don't know when the cameras are
Speaker 3: not on. She's such a nice person.
Speaker 2: She's so sweet.
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, Sony, so it was like cameras
Speaker 3: came on.
Speaker 1: Maybe this is a job exactly, this is a Sony
Speaker 1: be all of my d ms liking every single thing
Speaker 1: like post. I get hard eyes the likes I mean
Speaker 1: on every single post, So.
Speaker 2: I mean, can't be that mean.
Speaker 3: But Sony means Tony rock with us in real life.
Speaker 1: She knows that I just hit her up to buy
Speaker 1: one of her pussy Paw Patrol T shirts.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get one. We got to bring Stony on
Speaker 2: the podcast.
Speaker 1: I've been trying to Guy Saw. I asked her to
Speaker 1: come on the podcast. She said, I have to talk
Speaker 1: to her people shut up. She said, I need to
Speaker 1: contact Renee if I want to get her on the podcast.
Speaker 1: If I want to get her on Humble Batties, Renee,
Speaker 1: would you mind? Could you check Stoney's schedule and see
Speaker 1: if we can have Sonny Grace our stage here at
Speaker 1: Humble Batties.
Speaker 2: Please?
Speaker 1: Can we get on ken Stony pencil us in Please?
Speaker 3: You gotta go through by assistant to the assistant and assistant.
Speaker 1: This is crazy, honey, they showing up.
Speaker 3: Moment World tours up in there. None, Okay, I can
Speaker 3: sit back and listen and don't do well. As long
Speaker 3: as y'all watch the show and talk about it, it's
Speaker 3: all good, you know. Everyone make sure y'all support us.
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, it's all love. Like
Speaker 3: I said before, like, yeah, we have our differences, you know.
Speaker 3: We had our Yeah, who doesn't. We didn't know each
Speaker 3: other coming in. That were things said and we talked
Speaker 3: about it as women. Of course everything wasn't captured on camera.
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, we still support
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 2: We all do.
Speaker 1: That's absolutely I think. You know, it's TV, y'all. Don't
Speaker 1: forget it's freaking TV and entertainment.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna add to that, it's we're part of a
Speaker 2: small circle of the sorority of women who've made it
Speaker 2: on to a big stage in a big platform. So
Speaker 2: regardless of what our indifferences are, we're all blessed. We
Speaker 2: were actually chosen to be a part of this moment
Speaker 2: and here.
Speaker 3: We are, and don't nobody want to watch somebody being filmed.
Speaker 2: That's boring. Yeah, of course you're gonna have to amp
Speaker 2: it up a little bit. Everyone's talking about it, y'all.
Speaker 2: Keep talking about it, y'all feeling mean girls? Mean girls? Yeah,
Speaker 2: y'all too, they really are really not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we definitely got to girls for Halloween. Oh yes,
Speaker 1: but you gotta pick, we gotta pick. We got the
Speaker 1: whole mean girl party. What's her name, Regina George.
Speaker 2: I need a dress like that is going down? Yeah,
Speaker 2: she was the mean girl girls. Oh from the from
Speaker 2: the the play in the movie. Yeah, all right, I
Speaker 2: can't wait. I love it. All right, y'all, guess what
Speaker 2: time it is? Time? Is it? Reial? Red flags? All right?
Speaker 1: You need to get some green flags in your life.
Speaker 2: But come on, I need to get the green flag.
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on with the red flags.
Speaker 3: Well, we're going to determine if it's a red flag,
Speaker 3: a green flag, or hall ass.
Speaker 1: I like hauling ass a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I prefer to tall ass. Yeah, I don't got time.
Speaker 3: For Okay, your partner refuses to post you on social media,
Speaker 3: but it's always liking and comment commenting on thirst traps.
Speaker 2: Red flag or green flag? Red flag?
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, it's definitely a red flag because why you're
Speaker 1: so thirsty to let them know that you like them,
Speaker 1: Like because I know you're a man and I know
Speaker 1: you like what you see, but they don't need to
Speaker 1: know that you like it.
Speaker 2: Like what do you know that can be?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: Girl?
Speaker 3: Your yeah?
Speaker 2: Man? All up in my I can't say ammunition. I
Speaker 2: feel like Also even my babies in their teens are
Speaker 2: telling me what that like means that like is that extra?
Speaker 2: Like nudge? What's up? You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Attention, especially if they like more than a couple.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't be liking the other females, pictures.
Speaker 3: Your significant others stills pays their exits phone bill because
Speaker 3: they just want to help them out.
Speaker 1: The coins we fighting our coins, our money on somebody else.
Speaker 2: Those are fighting words. I'm fighting.
Speaker 1: I'm hollered ass, but I'm knocking his ass out first period.
Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta think about that one only because if
Speaker 2: it's the X I'm thinking of, If you you don't
Speaker 2: know the arrangements before you know what he feels like
Speaker 2: he was going to help out with or told them.
Speaker 3: But the phone, know the phone, that's a liar. It's
Speaker 3: a certain amount of money that goes towards.
Speaker 2: Okay, a phone bill, I mean plan, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean I paid my phone bill. It ain't no family,
Speaker 2: no more. Cut the bitch that Obama plan. What's the
Speaker 2: Obama phone? They still got the Obama phone.
Speaker 1: Better get you a metro.
Speaker 2: Healthcare. I don't know phone the phone from the gas station,
Speaker 2: she said, bi minutes five minutes, you had a certain
Speaker 2: about a minute phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, your friend borrows money from you, but when you
Speaker 3: ask for it back, they get defensive or make excuses.
Speaker 2: I'm not hauling ass because coins. Get your coins back
Speaker 2: and just don't loan.
Speaker 1: Any going over to her house and I'm getting out
Speaker 1: of there for collateral.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing. I hate to ask for money.
Speaker 3: If you borrow money from me, I hate to ask
Speaker 3: for it. But I shouldn't have to. You shouldn't have
Speaker 3: to ask for money back that.
Speaker 2: I feel like. If you're already gonna come up to
Speaker 2: someone who can provide the coins to help you out,
Speaker 2: the least you can do is not only be early,
Speaker 2: but definitely be on time.
Speaker 3: Like we have to.
Speaker 2: We have to give our coins back to those who
Speaker 2: can distribute. Yep.
Speaker 3: Oh, you catch your friend flirting with your partner, and
Speaker 3: when you call them out, they say, that's just how
Speaker 3: I joke.
Speaker 1: Mm Mmm, I feel like just how I joke a period.
Speaker 2: I feel like there's always truth in a joke. There's
Speaker 2: always some kind of joke. So if you you got
Speaker 2: the the energy to like put that out there and
Speaker 2: say it and think it's funny and get a reaction
Speaker 2: out of it, then there's some true to it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and that's not your friends. You're flirting with somebody else, man,
Speaker 2: It's never that serious. It's actually way too many other
Speaker 2: ones out here. By the way, gross you're saying.
Speaker 3: Your significant other gets super jealous if you even mentioned
Speaker 3: a coworker of the opposite sex, but swears they're just
Speaker 3: friendly with their own coworkers.
Speaker 2: Red flag or green flag, that's a red flag.
Speaker 1: This is all red flags. You don't got no green flags.
Speaker 1: Youin't got no yellow flas.
Speaker 2: That's a red flag. Because I'm hauling ass and red
Speaker 2: flag and all of these ain't. No green flag. That's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: no green flag, that's toxic.
Speaker 1: I still got that in my head.
Speaker 3: The fans sent these, The fans sent these, y'all ain't
Speaker 3: send no green flags.
Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of toxic shit going on
Speaker 1: in the world these days. People act like they ain't
Speaker 1: got no home training. People act like they ain't got
Speaker 1: no manners, just like common common decency. The bar is
Speaker 1: not common anymore.
Speaker 2: The bars low.
Speaker 3: Well, that is it for real? Red flag? Okay, we
Speaker 3: want some green flags, y'all. Make sure y'all send in
Speaker 3: some green flats so we could talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need some green flags because we need to
Speaker 1: teach people how to act.
Speaker 2: Like you and the mom. What do y'all think of
Speaker 2: another segment? Guys, we have Humble Baddy Mail Takeover. Okay,
Speaker 2: I love the good takeover? You know that's so do
Speaker 2: y'all want me to read them? And then y'all we
Speaker 2: can have die like. What do y'all what y'all thinking? Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: let's do it. Okay, okay, Hey, humble Batties, Hey, I
Speaker 2: need your advice. I just found out my best friend
Speaker 2: husband has been cheating on her with my coworker. Do
Speaker 2: I tell her or risk ruining our friendship? Or stay
Speaker 2: quiet in mind my business help?
Speaker 1: You gotta tell her yes and run up on him.
Speaker 3: That shouldn't be the question, the girl, and yes, that's
Speaker 3: a coworker. Why am I taking up for you? And
Speaker 3: that's your man like you are my best friend. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna let you know, Sis, it ain't right.
Speaker 2: Yes, you have to say something. How could you not?
Speaker 1: How could you live with yourself? How could you keep
Speaker 1: something like that in? That would just having that on
Speaker 1: my chest would just eat meat up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's just an unstable work environment, to say
Speaker 2: the least. It's not cool.
Speaker 1: It's a that's a tough place to be in, it is,
Speaker 1: but sometimes you just.
Speaker 2: Gotta do what you gotta do. All right. We have
Speaker 2: another one, Hey, humble Baddy. Hey, I've been casually dating
Speaker 2: this guy for a few months, but I just found
Speaker 2: out he's also dating one of my close friends. Neither
Speaker 2: of them knows.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: Do I confront them or keep playing the game.
Speaker 3: So she's dating Kim, which is a key word, by
Speaker 3: the way, dating, and he's also dating her close friend,
Speaker 3: and she's right in the middle of it, knowing.
Speaker 2: That each of them, she knows that they're dating each other,
Speaker 2: but they don't know that they are dating him. It
Speaker 2: sounds like she came in afa this is too much. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't want that to deal with that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a lot I think dating is dating,
Speaker 3: and you know it comes to like my friends or
Speaker 3: any of that. I don't want nothing to do with that. Like,
Speaker 3: I can't, I can't. I can't even entertain that. Shiit
Speaker 3: It just it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: I can't do it. Because you want the best for
Speaker 2: your friends, you want them to be happy, especially if
Speaker 2: you know their dating history. I feel like it has
Speaker 2: to be dialogue and communication.
Speaker 1: If you like him, you just found out.
Speaker 2: What if someone is like yo, I like like one
Speaker 2: of the girlfriends, it's like my friend. If it's a
Speaker 2: close friend, you're gonna know.
Speaker 1: Not necessarily because some people keep it secret, right, Not.
Speaker 2: If it's your close friend.
Speaker 3: All my close friends if they know every My best
Speaker 3: friend knows everything, so I'm not gonna hide who I'm
Speaker 3: dating from her.
Speaker 2: I agree with that. I feel like our friends friend,
Speaker 2: it's just close. Okay.
Speaker 1: But what if it didn't take close friend. What if
Speaker 1: it was just like a girl you know? Yeah, then
Speaker 1: that's different. Like if it's acquaintance and I don't talk
Speaker 1: to you every.
Speaker 2: Day, there's no strings attached, there's no emotional attached. Totally different. Okay, well,
Speaker 2: all right, that could be tough. That could be a
Speaker 2: tough one.
Speaker 3: It's different because it's like, I don't know you like that,
Speaker 3: but I see you, hey by, and I just found
Speaker 3: out we're dating. Of course I'm gonna say something to
Speaker 3: him like what you know, because I don't want to
Speaker 3: be worse, Like what y'all got going on?
Speaker 2: I'm gonna clear it. You just want to you just
Speaker 2: want to know what's up. Yeah, here we go. There's
Speaker 2: another one, ladies, I need help, but you need help
Speaker 2: with girl. My husband's female best friend calls him every day,
Speaker 2: even late at night. He says it's harmless, but I'm
Speaker 2: not buying it. Am I being insecure? Or should I
Speaker 2: need some boundaries? Boundaries?
Speaker 1: Yeah, the boundary should have been in place before.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Times, I agree with boundaries for sure. And you
Speaker 2: have to communicate with with how you feel.
Speaker 1: But to me, if she feels okay with that kind
Speaker 1: of behavior, she ain't a good best friend and it
Speaker 1: ain't right at this point. Yeah, at this point, I
Speaker 1: would I would have to that friendship might have to
Speaker 1: be dead it because it's like you should know and
Speaker 1: we should know each other enough for you to know
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2: Okay with that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, you know it's like a respect thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: at this point I would be like, na, she gotta go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, agree, I agree, Like it should have been boundaries
Speaker 3: should have been set like as a that's that's not
Speaker 3: just and that's her husband. Yeah, like you have to
Speaker 3: respect this is my husband. You can't call it anytime.
Speaker 2: You boundaries have to be set early, and I feel
Speaker 2: like it's all set.
Speaker 3: If the boundaries ain't set, I'm gonna set on for Yeah,
Speaker 3: and he should.
Speaker 2: Tell her, bitch, don't be calling my phone. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: this is like, this is not appropriate.
Speaker 1: Words can realize that she keeps calling late at night,
Speaker 1: then it's beyond the issue.
Speaker 2: And I got a problem with both of y'all. It
Speaker 2: is because you ain't check her correct and she feels
Speaker 2: like it's okay, so very comfortable. Very what's up, baddies.
Speaker 2: My boyfriend accidentally called me by his ex's name during sex.
Speaker 2: He swears it was a slip up, But now I'm spiraling?
Speaker 2: Am I overacting? Or is this a red flash?
Speaker 1: Just call him by somebody else name is Derek and
Speaker 1: then see, okay, see how that feel?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I would do. I would feel some
Speaker 2: kind of way.
Speaker 1: I would feel you're gonna break over him. No, you're
Speaker 1: not gonna break over him, So I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Okay, its stroke.
Speaker 1: Whoever, I would just call out some random mess and
Speaker 1: now you got now you're gonna be on your head
Speaker 1: to we're just gonna overthinking this.
Speaker 2: And it was his ex. It's like a take the
Speaker 2: knife and twist it, twist again. That's like that. I
Speaker 2: don't know how, but would you would? But what would
Speaker 2: you wouldn't leave him though? Would you you calling me
Speaker 2: your ex?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: During sex? Like you just gotta get the moment of intimacy, y'all.
Speaker 2: He slips up, where's your mind? Because you know.
Speaker 1: That's up my back?
Speaker 2: That's what he's thinking about. I should go for tag
Speaker 2: yeah at this point, and I think I'm thinking, like Schrell, like,
Speaker 2: is that where your mind is? Is that what you're thinking?
Speaker 2: Is that who you're thinking?
Speaker 3: Now? You got my head sucked up because it's like
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna think now that's where it's like security.
Speaker 2: But it's like, damn, like do you really like me?
Speaker 1: Am?
Speaker 2: I just to get over thinking of your ex while
Speaker 2: we know that, well, well, the humble battymail is up
Speaker 2: right now? Okay, real petty tonight you do you paying
Speaker 2: off Valentine's coming off a great weekend? No time for
Speaker 2: no of that.
Speaker 3: Listen, the Humble Baddies has came in hot y'all. Y'all
Speaker 3: have any more Humble baddies?
Speaker 2: Have we still have over? It's a takeover. Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: a takeover. Okay, look so relaxed. Okay, it ain't warm.
Speaker 2: It's it's like, oh, this is what the people want
Speaker 2: to know. They're asking us for their advice. So, I mean,
Speaker 2: this is what happened. Guys. They're they're subscribing, they are
Speaker 2: emailing take a racket, son, and here we are. So
Speaker 2: they want to know.
Speaker 1: I'll may or may not want to take my advice.
Speaker 2: But there is someone who does. And then there's some
Speaker 2: that will.
Speaker 1: Just y'all give great advice.
Speaker 3: You I'm a little young saying no, I don't give
Speaker 3: great advice because I retaliate.
Speaker 1: I want to be petty, petty boots.
Speaker 2: I'm like, can we just all get along? Can we
Speaker 2: all just get along? Can we figure this out? All right? Ladies?
Speaker 2: Can we have we have a couple more, hey batties.
Speaker 2: I just found out my girlfriend has a secret Fensta
Speaker 2: where she talks shit about our relationship. Should I confront
Speaker 2: her or just ghost her and let her figure it out? Wait?
Speaker 1: Like girlfriend like boyfriend girlfriend or like girlfriend like this
Speaker 1: my friend?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I found out my girlfriend has a secret fens stuff.
Speaker 2: This is from a humble daddy or zaddy that's sent
Speaker 2: this in And she's talking about it in like a
Speaker 2: way like she's trying to get advice. Because I could
Speaker 2: see that, like she talk her business out. She's talking
Speaker 2: it's a secret fence to account. So you took the
Speaker 2: time to add another layer of your Instagram already on
Speaker 2: social media to talk shit about your own relationship. That's
Speaker 2: a little weird. Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1: I think you should just hall ass. I think something
Speaker 1: is up with that, hall ass, because why is she
Speaker 1: First of all, why is she taking a secret to
Speaker 1: talk shit about her own relationship? It's to me that's weird.
Speaker 1: She wants to talk ship. I could see if she
Speaker 1: was trying to get quiet too. I can see if
Speaker 1: she was trying to get like relationship advice, because you know,
Speaker 1: you don't want to put your business out there. Maybe
Speaker 1: she needed help or had a question. You could just
Speaker 1: be like, hey, guys, me and my boot you know
Speaker 1: it's talking ship. Well, if she's talking ship, yeah you
Speaker 1: should laugh.
Speaker 2: And it's about their relationships. So obviously if he found
Speaker 2: it out about the fens to and he found out that,
Speaker 2: like it's very you know, it's coinciding with their issues,
Speaker 2: that's a that's the issue. Yeah, I think that's you know,
Speaker 2: their conflicts. Y'all got fenced this. I do that what
Speaker 2: you see is what you get exactly exactly.
Speaker 3: You're gonna you're gonna hear what I gotta say from
Speaker 3: my own page. I ain't got time to make no
Speaker 3: fake page. I ain't got time to do any of that.
Speaker 3: Y'all see it too, great function result on the shore period.
Speaker 2: Here same here. Okay, we do have one more. Okay,
Speaker 2: this is the last one. Thank you. Good. All right, Okay,
Speaker 2: so here's the te Oh there's tea on this one.
Speaker 2: All right. My friend is about to marry a guy
Speaker 2: who hooked up with me years ago. She has no idea.
Speaker 2: Should I tell her before the wedding or take the
Speaker 2: seat to the great.
Speaker 1: Girl, heaven or hell wherever you gonna end up.
Speaker 2: Really, yes, you would tell her?
Speaker 1: Why that's not her business?
Speaker 2: Why for what I mean? Because he hasn't said anything. Yeah,
Speaker 2: for what? Why why do you need Why does she
Speaker 2: feel like?
Speaker 3: I feel like it should have been disclosed earlier, earlier,
Speaker 3: at the beginning of the relationship, Like if you haven't,
Speaker 3: it's too deep in they're about to get married. If
Speaker 3: it wasn't disclosed in the beginning.
Speaker 1: Don't think nobody needs to know anything unless it's like
Speaker 1: my best best friend. If okay, But there has been
Speaker 1: a lot of I'm trying to see if she's going
Speaker 1: to the wedding, like if she's close enough to be
Speaker 1: at their wedding, that she should have told she said, my.
Speaker 2: Friend is about to marry. So she's seen the dynamic
Speaker 2: of the meeting. She should have been seen the progression
Speaker 2: of the relationship. She's seen the engagement, she's seen the intention,
Speaker 2: she's seen.
Speaker 1: It's too late now, I don't think she should say anything. Really,
Speaker 1: it's too late. Yeah, she gotta take that.
Speaker 2: She should have been said something.
Speaker 3: You don't wait to right, they should have been close
Speaker 3: that she's going to hell and she even even before
Speaker 3: he engaged. Something should have been disclosed. But now it's
Speaker 3: to the poblem. It doesn't make sense because now it's
Speaker 3: coming to address it, then you're starting crap.
Speaker 2: You should have been addressed. So is the difference if
Speaker 2: it's a hookup compared to like a little something deeper.
Speaker 2: Because it just said hookup, they probably just me it's
Speaker 2: not that.
Speaker 1: Either way, it still should have been told earlier, like
Speaker 1: especially if you've met the friends. And if she tells
Speaker 1: her now she ain't ship because yeah, because now it's gonna.
Speaker 3: Say stay together, and now it should have caused confusion
Speaker 3: between you'll two.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so got to take that ship to hell?
Speaker 2: What y'all want to know? I think I.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't know if my friend hooked up with someone because
Speaker 3: I just feel like we have that relationship. If it's
Speaker 3: someone that I'm close with and I feel like y'all
Speaker 3: are getting close, I would say something like I just
Speaker 3: want you know this happened. There's nothing like this anymore,
Speaker 3: just out of respect. But if it's not anything seriously.
Speaker 1: I'm not like I would want to know, like truly
Speaker 1: I would want to know, but then I would probably
Speaker 1: not be interested in him anymore once he once she tells.
Speaker 2: But you may be interested.
Speaker 3: But a lot of times people cut off the woman
Speaker 3: like the women should be the woman. And I feel
Speaker 3: like it's going to ruin their friendship. They're still her
Speaker 3: and the man gonna still be together, but it's just
Speaker 3: gonna ruin their friendship because now it's bringing insecurities, like questioning, oh,
Speaker 3: what you're gonna do if I'm not around?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: I don't trust y'all around each other. Right.
Speaker 3: So it's like it should have been disclosed in the beginning,
Speaker 3: and it wasn't disclosed, then just let it be.
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's tricky. I think I would want
Speaker 2: to know, But why because if we're in the room together,
Speaker 2: I just know me. But I'm saying, if I'm very good,
Speaker 2: why would you want to know at that moment, I
Speaker 2: would want to know? So I would hope earlier I would.
Speaker 2: I would have loved to known before.
Speaker 3: Yeah, before, but you don't want to I wouldn't want
Speaker 3: to know right after you write I'm about to get married,
Speaker 3: like walk down the aisle. I wouldn't want to know
Speaker 3: right before I'm about to get married. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it should have been both of them saying something, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: she gotta go to hell. Take that to hell. Y
Speaker 2: mm hmmm mm hmm. Karma is a bitch, But is
Speaker 2: it really karma?
Speaker 3: Though, because if what they just they had a little
Speaker 3: fling before, they.
Speaker 1: Should have just been like, okay, how I feel Actually,
Speaker 1: you know it wasn't at the serious, but we had
Speaker 1: a little thing and then boom.
Speaker 2: That's what it done.
Speaker 1: That's the fact that you didn't say anything then would
Speaker 1: make me feel like, oh you're something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you said it right before the wind and
Speaker 3: then it just makes.
Speaker 2: It look like you're a hater. I get you, I understand. Okay,
Speaker 2: that was the deuicy last one. Guys, that was it? Okay, takeover,
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