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Speaker 1: The second date update. Whenever you ask people what's your

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Speaker 1: idea of the perfect first date, by far, the most

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Speaker 1: cliche answer is a long romantic walk along the beach

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Speaker 1: at sunset. That's what everybody says, but who actually does.

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Speaker 2: That, really, especially on a first date.

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Speaker 1: The closest thing we get normally is a long, stumbly

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Speaker 1: walk home from a dive bar at one am, and

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Speaker 1: the closest body of water is the puddle of urine

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Speaker 1: outside your apartment.

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Speaker 3: You create it.

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Speaker 1: But one of our listeners, believe it or not, actually

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Speaker 1: did the cliche thing and did a date at the beach,

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Speaker 1: walk on the beach andrew you in love yet? Or what?

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Speaker 1: Was it as perfect as we all imagine it would be.

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Speaker 4: Well, it was. I enjoyed it, but it was also

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Speaker 4: kind of weird because it was it was the first date.

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Speaker 4: I think maybe maybe a long walk the beach.

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Speaker 1: Could have just said no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's interesting, like a beach day can get

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Speaker 2: pretty intimate, right, like you're rubbing suntan lotion on each other,

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Speaker 2: you're wearing you're wearing bathing suits.

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Speaker 1: Kids everywhere. No, hope, we're back to the ideal version,

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Speaker 1: the real version, is going to look a lot different.

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Speaker 1: But Andrew, tell us how it went. Who did you

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Speaker 1: go there with?

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Speaker 4: Well? I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met

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Speaker 4: through a friend of a friend on Facebook, okay, and

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Speaker 4: we just sort of started talking, and you know, she

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Speaker 4: seemed very nice and attractive. She had tattoos, and she

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Speaker 4: was outdoorsy, which is what kind of you know. I

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Speaker 4: saw pictures of her hiking and other things. I figured

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Speaker 2: Okay, So the beach was your idea? Was it like

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Speaker 2: a day at the beach type of thing?

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Speaker 4: It was an evening walk?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: It was the most cliche you could possibly How long

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Speaker 1: was the walk? We see a long walk? I mean,

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Speaker 1: are we talking like a two three hour event?

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Speaker 2: Are you tired? Jose?

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Speaker 1: If it's over one hundred feet?

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Speaker 2: There is no sters forum, let's just say, yeah, did

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Speaker 2: you like pack a picnic?

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Speaker 4: Well? It was. It was really just it was a

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Speaker 4: walk and we were We did end up building a fire,

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Speaker 4: so there was stuff to do that committed a crime.

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Speaker 2: In the legal area, like one of the places that allows.

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Speaker 1: You to build a fire. Like, what was it? What

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Tell us, Andrew, we're just guessing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, we we went up and the

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Speaker 4: thing was on the whole walk. She was very quiet,

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Speaker 4: so I ended up doing all the talking and I

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Speaker 1: I can.

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Speaker 2: Is she just like a more reserved person? Do you think,

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Speaker 2: I mean, since she's a friend of a friend.

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Speaker 4: Well that's the thing. Like, you know, we built a

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Speaker 4: fire and we're sitting there. I didn't see any of

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Speaker 4: the signals, and then out of blue she kisses me.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 1: Must have been doing something right.

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Speaker 2: She's a wild card man.

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Speaker 4: When it happened, I was like, okay, and that was real

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Speaker 4: fun and enjoyable that that moment. But then all of

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Speaker 4: a sudden, all these bats started flying above our heads

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Speaker 4: and she starts freaking out because she doesn't know anything

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Speaker 4: so she starts waving her hands and flailing her heads

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Speaker 4: trying to get the bats way. I was like, don't worry.

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Speaker 4: These are Eastern red bats because I could tell by

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Speaker 4: the sounds that they were making.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you really know you didn't just make that up.

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Speaker 4: I'm a batman and I oh wow. She didn't laugh

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Speaker 1: Was just more turned on by that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you want the bats or eating the mosquitos

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. Bats are way better than mosquitoes. And wanted

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Speaker 4: her to stop waving her hands about because provoked they

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Speaker 4: could attack. But if they're not provoked, I'll just keep

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Speaker 2: So wow, did she listen to you or did she continue?

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Speaker 4: She did calm down. I played her some sounds of

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Speaker 1: This is where I think we're finding out why she's

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, as we were walking back to the car,

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Speaker 4: I stopped talking about bath, but I again, she wasn't

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Speaker 4: about wolves. And I'm not sure if that was the

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Speaker 4: right choice. I mean, it's the things that I'm interested in,

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Speaker 4: and I knew she was out doorsy, and I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, they say don't hide your passions on a first day.

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Speaker 1: I also think they don't say, like, say, all of

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Speaker 1: your passions all at once to break the silence on

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Speaker 1: a first day. But it could be wrong. How did

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Speaker 1: this end? How did the night end, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean the night and did fine? I guess, I mean

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Speaker 4: we survived the night.

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Speaker 2: Did you have another kiss thankfully?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there was a There was a small kiss, but

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Speaker 4: it was inappropriate goodbye kiss.

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Speaker 2: Okay, nothing like a big makeout session. I'm wondering, like,

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you were uncomfortable with her silence. Did

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Speaker 2: you ever ask her any questions other than yes or

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, I wasn't trying to do all the talking. It

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Speaker 4: just it was It was certainly weird because I did

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Speaker 4: want to get to know her, and I don't feel

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Speaker 4: like I got to know her. It's other than she

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Speaker 4: wanted to kiss me for a moment, which was cool.

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Speaker 2: But weird is the one positive sign?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's what I was trying to figure out,

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Speaker 1: Like why do you want this date? If if there

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Speaker 1: were so many things that went wrong and things that

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Speaker 1: you know, you guys were barely even talking, right, Maybe.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's more bid curiosity.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Or maybe it's just that she's hot and it

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Speaker 2: was a really good kiss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you know, maybe she's more comfortable with kissing than talking,

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Speaker 4: but maybe she would get more comfortable with talking as

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Speaker 4: we go. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: No, dude, then keep her. There's maybe we should just

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Speaker 1: call her and see what she has to say about

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Speaker 1: she doesn't talked to us, Jeff, then maybe this we.

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Speaker 2: Need to kiss her, need to kiss her on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Jeff. Let's not do that.

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Speaker 1: We'll just call her and see what happens. But first

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Speaker 1: we got to play a song. We'll come back at

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Speaker 1: your second date update right after this. All right, all right, but.

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Speaker 4: You better not kiss my woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll make sure that doesn't happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think we.

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Speaker 1: Go second date update. Maybe I'm jumping too far ahead here,

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Speaker 1: Yeah you are, But Andrew down the road, when you

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Speaker 1: and Tabitha get married, instead of releasing doves at the wedding,

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Speaker 1: you should release a cage of bats. And maybe before that.

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Speaker 1: The biggest challenge is going to be getting her to

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Speaker 1: actually say I do, because she hardly even speaks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and if you're just joining us, probably none of this

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Speaker 1: is making any sense to you. But I say she

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Speaker 1: wasn't talking a lot because she was super quiet during

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Speaker 1: their date. And I bring up bats because Andrew's a

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Speaker 1: bat aficionado and knows all about bats and their histories

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Speaker 1: and their diets, and there were bats there flying above

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Speaker 1: apparently the Eastern red bat only attacks when provoked. That's

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Speaker 1: what we learned from Andrew.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like I need to look up that fact.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I just believed. Of course you do.

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Speaker 1: We've heard stranger things happen on this show. But I'm

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Speaker 1: just praying that Andrew didn't set up the bad attack.

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Speaker 1: To look Jeff, he's probably a bad whisperer. He can

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Speaker 1: you confirm that you didn't set up the attack, Andrew, I.

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Speaker 4: Can confirm that I had nothing to do with releasing

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Speaker 4: bats around my date. Like I could orchestrate something like that.

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Speaker 4: I don't think i'd be single.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he was a plan to run into bats on

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Speaker 1: the beach that.

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Speaker 2: Night, Andrew. I'm just wondering, what are you like looking

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Speaker 2: for out of this? What do you want?

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I just want to know what I

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Speaker 4: did or what happened, Like I just I mean, another

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Speaker 4: date would be nice, but I want to know so

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Speaker 4: I can adjust for future follies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it makes sense a lot of mixed

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Speaker 2: signals from her yep.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well let's call and try and figure that

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Speaker 1: out for you. We're going to die the number right

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Speaker 1: now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Tabitha?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Who is this?

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Speaker 1: Oh? You don't know that's uh. My name is jeff

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Speaker 1: and I'm from a morning radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Oh we're all here. Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi, I've

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Speaker 3: heard you guys before. But why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, we're calling you at the request of

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Andrew, who you went out with

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Speaker 1: the other night.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm guessing Andrew put you up to this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think it's a good thing. Like he

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Speaker 2: seemed to really like you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he did like me. You know. I

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Speaker 3: just I really wasn't ready for that date. You know,

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Speaker 3: it was really unexpected how I would feel about Andrew.

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Speaker 1: Oh interesting, okay, because we heard a little bit about

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Speaker 1: the date, and from the sounds of it, you kissed him.

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Speaker 3: Oh heh. He told you that.

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Speaker 2: Well, it sounded like a really romantic setting. I could

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Speaker 2: see why. I mean, you're having a fire on the beach,

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Speaker 2: like sounds beautiful.

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Speaker 1: That's going overhead romantic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I have an appointment in a little bit,

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Speaker 3: so I don't have a whole lot of time, you know,

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Speaker 3: can can you guys tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah? So, I mean, just real quick, we're doing

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Speaker 1: something called second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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Speaker 1: Andrew figure out why after your romantic beach date, there

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Speaker 1: hasn't been a date number two because he did mention

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Speaker 1: that you were a little bit quiet during the walk

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Speaker 1: along the beach.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason for that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, he didn't do anything wrong, you know, I

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Speaker 3: just I got out of a long term relationship a

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Speaker 3: few years ago.

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Speaker 2: Wait, a few years ago.

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Speaker 3: Well, the guy he we were in love, but he

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Speaker 3: moved out of the country. He had an opportunity to

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Speaker 3: go do something, and you know, it broke my heart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be really hard. Are you not over

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Speaker 2: it still even after years?

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Speaker 3: Well I thought I was over it until I met Andrew,

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Speaker 3: which we started talking on Facebook through text. I had

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Speaker 3: never heard his voice before. Huh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you saying that Andrew was your very first

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Speaker 3: No? No, No, I've dated a few people here or there.

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Speaker 3: But the thing that really just shocked me about Andrew

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Speaker 3: Hearing his voice, he sounds exactly, I mean, identical to

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Speaker 1: Weird.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that makes sense. So you're just like

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Speaker 2: living in this past relationship while you're hanging out with Andrew.

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Speaker 2: That's got to be so hard or awesome.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could relive my I mean, that is

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Speaker 3: Was weird. Like at one point he tried to hold

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Speaker 3: like all the good times they had together, no up until.

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Speaker 1: The bad attack.

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Speaker 3: That was I kind of like brought me back to

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Speaker 2: And it's not like if you were like doing maybe

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Speaker 3: Oh god, you know, even if we were at a

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Speaker 3: with him. It just brought back all these memories, like, oh, and.

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Speaker 2: He kept talking yeah, because, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, telling me about all these weird animals he was

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Speaker 2: Oh girl, I feel for you, I do, and it's

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Speaker 2: nothing he can do anything about unless he can use

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe impressions like a celebrity. Oh my god, let's

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm Andrew. I'm so sorry I ruined our date.

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Speaker 4: Oh I know, I'm I didn't. I had no idea

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Speaker 4: what was going on. Not that I'm happy that that's

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Speaker 2: Is it okay to listen to him? I mean, this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him

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Speaker 1: Are we sure that it's not your ex.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I think is there anything that he needed to

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Speaker 3: Why did he leave me?

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Speaker 2: Maybe Andrew is a better version of your ex, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is such an awkward situation, Like, Brook,

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Speaker 2: My husband's best friend sounds just like him? It's so weird.

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Speaker 2: When I first met them, I was like, it creeped

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Speaker 2: that isn't actually the case.

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Speaker 1: Brook would say yes to pretty much anybody. So Alexis

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Speaker 1: what I let's get someone that might say no.

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Speaker 2: It depends how you ended with your ex. H. Alexis

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Speaker 2: is always hung up on her ex. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: probably liked the voice. Yeah, she's like, close my eyes.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to look at you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Tabitha, where is your head at right now?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: I just don't know how I can be Andrew and

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Speaker 3: that make him feel? Like? I don't want to put

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that must be hard to hear Andrew.

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Speaker 4: No, it's it's hard, but I understand where you're coming from, Tabitha.

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Speaker 4: I feel for your situation, and I'm you know, even

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Speaker 2: Oh he's a good guy too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,

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Speaker 1: would you want to go out with Andrew one more time?

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Speaker 1: We paid for it.

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Speaker 2: I wish you both could get past this, because it

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Speaker 2: seems like you could be a really good couple.

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Speaker 4: We could sip on some helium balloons.

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Speaker 2: Funny, what if you just did a date where you

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Speaker 3: You know, I might be gown to go to like

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Speaker 1: And yeah, is something where Andrew doesn't talk at all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well we could try it, but I don't think

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Speaker 4: know what Tabits is saying. So I, you know, I

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Speaker 4: don't want to ask. I was really just curious about why,

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Speaker 4: and I guess selfishly that it wasn't something that I did.

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Speaker 4: It was just who I am Oh, that.

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Speaker 2: Makes it feel better.

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Speaker 1: It's not something.

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Speaker 2: We're dower.

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Speaker 4: We get it. We get it. I just have one

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Speaker 4: question for you, Tabitha. Did you kiss me because you

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a great question.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to know the answer?

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Speaker 1: I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Why, honestly, I just wanted to know if it was

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Speaker 3: the same or if different.

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Speaker 2: And what's the verdict?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was definitely a lot better than I remember.

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Speaker 1: Is wetter better? I don't know if it really is.

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning