WEBVTT - Ep. 21 Paying it Forward 0:00:01.639 --> 0:00:05.080 Wind down with Jane Kramer. Did I heart radio podcast? 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:09.639 I feel like Mike is about to beat up some 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:13.480 of the bachelors, Like I'm feeling this energy that he 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:17.160 just wants to legit, like punch a few bachelor's. Getting 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:20.040 the recap of y'all strip in Vegas. Yes, Um, me 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:22.040 and my girlfriend Sarah John was there too. You were 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:25.599 looking gorgeous and we're like you were working though, yeah, 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:27.720 and then Easton was there. I didn't see you, Mark, 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:30.560 but Easton was there. Um. You were doing podcasts with 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:33.760 Becca and Dean and all them, and so we were 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.199 just kind of recapping about the bachelor's and Mike said that, 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:39.280 did I I didn't come home with a big head. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:45.360 You came home feeling very good about yourself. Well, it's 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.760 I think they were just trying to make me feel 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:51.680 because you know, I'm pregnant. I'm seven months pregnant, I'm 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:54.840 in Vegas, and you know they were like, wow, like 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:56.640 you're an attractive pregnant person. I think they were just 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:58.880 trying to be nice. No, I think that's where you're 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:02.400 selling yourself short, and especially when a group of boys 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:05.360 like that get around a beautiful woman like woman like 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:08.320 you you're like, oh my god, Like they're like, I 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:12.160 can't handle how beautiful you really are and stunning. Oh. 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:16.520 As a witness, the boys were drooling. Stop you know this. 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.240 I was a witness. I would be in the green 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:22.160 room and I'm like, Janna, never mind. The boys were 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.360 just like I couldn't even get through to her. She 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:26.840 was such a hot commodity. But can I say she's 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.520 most humble human being though, because all throughout the night, 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:32.240 she would check in on everybody that was working the event, 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:34.840 would ask how everyone's doing, would like literally ask me 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.160 if I needed water, and I'm like, do you do 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:40.200 you need water? You're the ones and heels like what's happening? 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.200 That sounds like, well, I just well, let me just 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:47.200 say this. There were a lot of attitudes with from 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:55.320 some of the celebrities that came to the festival, and 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.960 I saw firsthand that some of them were not treating 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.840 some of the I heart people. Were they that we're 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.440 helping them, like Tori, And it was just I felt 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.240 bad because I'm like, I don't care who you are. 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:10.040 If you were Maria carry which by the way, she 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.280 wasn't at all. I didn't meet I didn't get to 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.640 meet Maria. But I mean, Paula Abduel was the nicest 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.760 person the whole entire planet. Like I freaked out when 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:20.200 I met her. She likes amazing by the way amazing 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:23.720 she was. She's fantastic, but she like she was so sweet, 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.800 but there was people underneath her that we're being so 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:30.000 rude and so nasty. I even stuck up for Tori, 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.519 stood up for Tori because she was being so mean. 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.280 I was just like, you're being rude and I didn't 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:36.000 even care. I don't care who you are if you 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:37.960 mean to the people that are helping you, Like, that's 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:40.360 just not nice. No, I don't like it. So that's 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.800 I was like to need Mama Bear came out for 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.200 but it was much appreciated because it's in like the 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.160 most delicate and gentle way, and she just has a cute, 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:50.520 litt pregnant belly where like anything goes very sweet. But 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.359 I mean, we're obsessed. Well I just again, I think 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.720 they were just trying to be nice. But I mean 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:02.960 I still got every she I appreciate the compliment of 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:05.240 them drooling all over you because you're my wife, my 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:09.520 pregnant wife with a second child. So ownership has written 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:13.000 all over that. Did you get that? Guys? You guys 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:14.760 want to come and talking abou podcast about it? We can. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.280 But I think what's funny is is Mike said something 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:20.280 to me the other night that kind of like it 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:23.800 was kind of a dig it? What did you say? 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:26.239 So I went to Dancing with the Stars to support 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.400 Bobby Bones. We might be on the show today, We're 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.560 not sure yet, but um so I went to go 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:35.320 support him, and I my old partner, was dancing with 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.520 Nicky Glazer, who's a comedian. She's really sweet. I've never 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:40.120 met her before, so I wanted to kind of go 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.520 talk to her. So I tapped her on the shoulder, 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:45.320 you know, back in the red room, and I was like, hey, 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:46.240 I just want you to know that I think you 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.200 did a really great job. And I think you're so sweet. 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.320 And you know, if Gleb's hard on you, like you know, 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:53.040 that's just how he is. And he's very Russian and dada, 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:56.440 and she was so nice, like so so so nice 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.640 cut too. I come home, bib and no, and Janna 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.040 is telling me about this and her Nikki already texting 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.280 and and I told Janna I was I'm a fan 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.520 of Nikki's and I've listened to her Comedy Central show 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.040 you Up on you know, serious ex Salm and stuff, 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:13.720 and I've always liked her stuff. And Jane's just reading 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:16.880 me some of their conversation back and forth, and just 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:19.520 Nikki was just like, you're awesome, Like I'm blessed to 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:22.240 know you already. Janna like it's amazing, and yeah, it's 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:26.760 super cute, but the and I was just like, what 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:32.120 do all these people seeing you? But I didn't. I 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:36.000 didn't mean it like that. I was like, what do 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:40.080 people see in me? I was like, oh wow, I 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.720 didn't mean it like that. My whole what did you mean? 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:47.200 Point was she has this uncanny ability to meet people 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:50.720 and in five minutes people love her and she's the 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:57.279 best person in the world and people that's how I feel. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.960 But it's just it's just she comes home and I'm like, 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.000 how many new best friends do you have now? Because 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.680 ten people fell in love with you tonight? Like job 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:08.920 to keep us humble? But what do people see in? Like? 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.240 What do people? And today, like, we're coming back from 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.360 our ultrasound appointment and I was like, I'm going to 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.120 bring up to because it kind of hurt my feelings, 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:17.640 like what do people see in me? Like? What do 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.680 not see in me? That I'm a nice person? But 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:23.120 what do people see in me? I see all those things. Honey, 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:25.080 I phrased it the wrong way I meant. I meant 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:27.280 to say. I meant to give you the explanation of 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.520 you have this ability just for people to fall in 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:34.080 love with you and a snap, but instead it's what 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:39.120 do people see in you? For the record, in sixty years, 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:43.280 you're still going to be having this kind I just 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.000 like to talk to people, and I like people to 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:48.080 For example, this one girl and followed me on Instagram 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:51.200 in the country world, and it really hurt my feelings 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.960 because I was like, just why that the bad energy? 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.120 Why do you follow me? Do not like me? And 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.760 so I get really upset if someone doesn't like me. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:01.159 And so I I texted her and was like, Hey, 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:05.520 all good. I just like, uh, I hope I didn't. 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.000 I never said anything bad about you. I hope that 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:10.200 you like. So like she's like, oh my god, I'm 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.960 so sorry. I just kind of like cleared through whatever, 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:14.640 blah blah blah. It's fine, but I hate like bad 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:17.119 energy out there. So that's why I am always trying 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:20.279 to be very nice to people, and I do understand 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.880 why people do, because, especially in the kind of entertainment 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.520 world and the world that Jan is in a lot, 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:31.080 it is very refreshing to see someone so rigorously honest 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:35.120 and someone who's so genuine as her and so people 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.599 in that business, you know, probably don't see that a lot. 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:41.520 So when someone sees such honesty and such you know, 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:46.280 genuine attitude and just personality, people probably are drawn to that. 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.400 But then the question lies, what do people see? You know, 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.400 I'm gonna be I'm gonna eat that one for a 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:55.920 while for a minute. Um, hey, so I'm not on 0:06:56.000 --> 0:07:01.160 my period right now. But you love Lola. 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Oh yeah, 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:09.120 you know, it was very random, but I thought about it. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.880 So I was getting a coffee in the morning out 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.040 of Starbucks on the West Side and you know, this 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:18.320 home with me and outside asked me very nicely, He's like, hey, man, 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:19.960 you know, do you get a cup of coffee? And 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:21.080 I just kind of like looked down. I was like, 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:23.600 not today, right, But I was like, man, he asked 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.080 so nicely, and I was in there waiting in line 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:26.720 I was kind of looking outside at him. I was like, 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:29.600 you know what, he's very respectful and when I said no, 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:32.000 he was like, oh, it's okay, thanks though, like you know, 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.560 he wasn't didn't say anything else, like he's very nice 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:37.320 and even was okay with me saying no. And so 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:39.280 I got him one and handed it to him, and 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.440 he was very grateful and you know, thank you so much. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:43.320 You gotta bless you all that stuff. And so I 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:44.760 got in the car and was driving to where I 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:47.440 had to go, and but I started thinking. I was like, 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.720 maybe this is too introspective, but it's like, did I 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.720 do it to really help him or because you know, 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.920 you feel good about yourself after you do something like that, 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:59.600 or I was like, did I do it too for myself? 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:01.160 Is do I do it in a selfish way to 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.880 make myself feel good about myself or is it a 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.559 little bit of both or so I just thought it 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:08.320 was interesting because you know, some people help out, some 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:14.160 people don't, And what's the true motivation behind doing that? Jen, 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:16.559 I think you only have the answer for that because 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.480 was it because you were walking away feeling guilty and 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:21.440 you wanted that feeling to go away? And you didn't 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.000 want to think about it the rest of the day. 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:26.040 It was truly because he was very kind, He was 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.120 very appreciative, he was very accepting of even when I 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:32.959 said no then for him. Yeah, I like the fact 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:34.840 that he actually asked you for what he wanted to 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.760 save money, Like, hey, it wasn't like money. It was 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:38.720 like I would like coffee, which surprises me. It's almost 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:40.360 like the girl Scout that showed up at your door 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:44.040 at one time. I'll never forget that. You want to 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.560 talk about that one because that just on a complete 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:50.080 side note, when I was playing in Buffalo, so usually 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:52.560 we'd have teammates kids or some of our trainers, some 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.400 of this coach's staff, like basically their daughters would get 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:57.560 hooked up because the girl Scout cookie thing would go 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:00.240 around the locker room and I mean every a guy 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.640 with this girl would clean up right, and she was 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:08.160 winning free summer camp out something. Yeah, get the whole 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:10.480 Buffalo Bills football team to buy all of her cookies. 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:14.880 So it was like the day I did that, Like 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:16.760 I bought these cookies and I think I had just 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:20.920 gotten them. And it was raining a gray, rainy day 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:24.560 in Buffalo as it normally is, and this hear knock 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.040 on my apartment door. I go to the door and 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.040 it's this little girl standing out in the rain like 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:32.600 her dad's kind of like ten feet behind her, staying there. 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.960 It's like, would you like to buy some girl scout cookies? 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:39.880 And I was just like, uh no, And it started 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:45.520 slowly closing. I was like I just like slowly closed 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:49.080 the door and she's just standing there with guys. I'm like, no, sorry, sorry, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.520 and I just got something. They closed the door, and 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.800 like two minutes later, I'm like, I'm the worst human 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.240 being in the world that has haunted me to this day. 0:10:56.240 --> 0:11:01.760 I'm like, to this day, like exactly one box that 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.360 was just so busy I can buy one. It's just 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:09.440 because I just bought like ten doesn't matter like rain. 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:12.480 Her poor dad has to explain to her why I'm 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:17.480 such a karma. Yeah, I wonder what I see in you. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:25.520 That's a great question. I'm opposite though. I buy like 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:28.320 twelve packages because I look at like all these cheapos 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.400 are just getting one box. Well for the twelve. When 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.640 Rocco comes home with the sheet of something to self 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:39.760 for school, I just buy the whole thing because I 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:43.200 just can't. It's just too much. Or I'll call my 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.640 mom and say, oh, can you mau a hundred dollars 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:50.240 worth of whatever? Po in a bind here, We've got 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.600 to build a self esteem a little bit, yes, But 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.079 to get back to the pay it forward stock and 0:11:55.320 --> 0:12:00.120 helping out. Have you ever paid for somebody's meal or 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.880 anything like that? I love that. I do too. I 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.520 love I love I love it. I love playing pain. 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:09.200 Remember we paid for someone's drinks one time. Yeah, I 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.240 like that, just being like, hey, don't tell them, but 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:14.119 we'd like to buy their drinks. You walk out feeling selfishly, 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:17.040 selfishly do it? You walk up. But then I feel 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.720 like that encourages people to do it, to do it forward. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.160 Even more so, when I get coffee in the morning 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.280 about once or twice a week, I will give an 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:29.960 extra ten and just say, however, Lily, however Lily wants 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:33.960 to distribute it with coffee or a pastry or whatever, 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:39.120 then she can do that straight Lily's pocket. No, we 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:41.520 should challenge people to do a pay it forward. So 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:43.720 I think everyone should try and pay it forward this 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:45.840 week and then let us know how it made you 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:47.959 feel what you did, and email us at Janet Kramert 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.160 I heart media dot com. It can be as small 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:54.480 as filling someone's meter. Yeah, and all of us need 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.480 to do it too, So let's all let's all challenge. 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:04.440 I love it good. It's making me already feel good. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:06.480 All right, we'll come back next week and we'll all 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:08.400 say what we did to pay for word like I 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:13.840 gave Oh my god, speaking of a bachelor person. Sorry, 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:18.480 we're all over the place. Amanda Danton, did you guys 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.560 see what she did on e or she beat she 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.760 beat up her boyfriend, like domestic violence or whatever. And 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.720 then she goes on record saying, because I take it 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:34.080 very seriously, I'm going to donate three hundred dollars. Don't 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.319 if you're only going to donate three dollars, don't say 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:38.880 the amount. It's great that you're donating, but don't save 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:42.480 you You your post alone is like five grand on Instagram. 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:46.120 You know what I mean? Don't that's offensive to someone 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:48.719 that's been in a domestic abuse Thank thank you for 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:52.320 your three Like when you're an actual like person that 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:56.480 gets paid way more for social ads. So they with 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.960 a kid, yeah, they I mean they flattered her, which 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.559 I mean again, if if you're not. I think it's 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:04.840 great that she gave money, But at the same time, 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:08.079 if you're going to just say, I'm going to donate 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:11.040 money to domestic Violence Aware, you know, to awareness, not 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:15.800 I'm giving three hundred dollars disclaimer disclaimer when you guys 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.439 pay listeners pay for it this week, you know, no, 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.560 but it's not No, I'm not about that because of 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.440 her social media, because she, according to this article, she 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.280 gets between five and fifteen thousand dollars per social post 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:29.320 thank you well, she could donate a social post. She 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.520 could have said that, like even when we like, you know, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.720 I agree. I mean I didn't even say how much 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:37.840 we won for family feud. It was thousand, but you know, regardless, like, wait, 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:41.080 are you allowed to say that, yeah we won? It 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:47.120 just aired, Yeah, I saw it was fun. But anyways, 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.440 I just think if like again, it could be five dollars, 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.560 you could buy someone's coffee. But it's the fact that 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.760 she said that's how much she was donating. That was 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.600 I think that was super techy. Yeah, that's brutal. One 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.800 more little fun since we're all over the place, I know, 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.800 but I like, yeah, it's great. So Jane and I 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.160 had another scenario come up in the car actually this morning, 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:09.080 would you like, would you like to bring this up 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:11.560 to me? Go ahead? Well, yeah, because I we kind 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:12.880 of started getting into it and I was like, no, 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:16.520 let's just table it for the podcast because I will 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.640 say this. Let me first off by saying this. Michael 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:24.600 drives ninety five percent of time, nine percent of the 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:29.400 time for his choice, because he's large, he's got a truck. 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:31.880 He doesn't like fitting into my car. He doesn't like 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.080 being the passenger in my car. So he likes to drive. 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.080 And Janna doesn't drive on expressways. So we have done 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.800 in combat. But whatever, it's not like we really have 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:41.840 to take the expressway a lot of places anyways. But 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.800 irregardless and even know if that's a word, but regardless 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:51.480 or irregardless, um he I always make sure that I 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:53.600 am not on my phone the entire time that he 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:55.840 is driving. If I go on, it's to be like, oh, 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.680 I gotta I gotta text um Nick to see if 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:00.200 you can play, or I gotta I gotta do that's 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:03.160 really fast. But I am not on my phone a 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.720 lot of the times because I think it's rude. I 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:07.080 just don't want to be like on my phone while 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.280 he's driving, but when he is in my car and 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.040 I drive. For example, this morning to our ultrasound appointment, 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.920 he was on his phone the entire time, and I 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:18.560 was like, would you like some mints? I feel like 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:20.760 you're uper driver, Like you know what I mean, Like 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:22.840 I think it's I just feel like it's rude and 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.680 he's and he's just and then what we'll go ahead, 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.560 Tommy to feel because he started to get a little 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:29.320 for me, I was like, first of all, she is 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.120 on her phone quite a lot in the car. I 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:33.440 understand that not all the time, and I do appreciate that. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:36.480 I acknowledge your side of that. But what's even worse 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:39.000 for me is she'll get on phone calls, which that's 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:41.040 my number one thing. If your passenger gets on the 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:42.760 phone call, if they're on the phone, okay, you can 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:44.600 still talk to them. And many times so I get 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.520 on the phone in the phone call. Not not many, okay, 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:51.240 I always ask I get on the phone really quick, right, 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:55.680 that's that's very nice. But so again I drive nine 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:59.720 we'll call it percent the time. So Janna gets that 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.000 time to whether she's on her phone a lot or not, 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.399 she's able to do. You're still on it at some 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:06.760 point during every drive, so she's able to take care 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:09.240 of emails or things or look at stuff about a minute. 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:11.120 So she drives today and I'm like, man, this is great. 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:13.080 I can like stuff. I wanted to catch up on 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.280 stuff I want to do. Got a big fancy football 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.960 week coming this week? Do I pick up Baker Mayfield? 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:19.600 Is it worth it? I don't know, a lot of 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:23.240 people are streaming him. Put him on my bench and 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.119 I kept the lancing over and you know, okay, and 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:28.320 in my league with my buddies back home, there's it's 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.280 a fourteen team league. All you fancy football ballers out there. No, 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:34.680 that's a very hard league for switch sides. Because I 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.119 thought you were catching up on work. Thank you. I 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:41.120 was doing some of that too, some emails. But still 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.680 this was my time to do it. So I didn't 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:44.280 do it at the Ultra sound. So I'm sitting there. 0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:47.160 Why can't you do it when you're on the when 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:49.760 you spend your time, you spend ten minutes taking a 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:52.760 crap on the toilet, do it then, or do you know, 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:55.199 do it when Joel is napping? Why do you have 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:56.000 to do it? Why do you have to look at 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:59.040 the fantasy football the entire time I'm driving. It takes time, 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:02.840 does in dedication and when you're undefeated like me, yeah, 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:04.520 you have to put in the work. Okay, Well, I 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:05.879 just felt like I was an uber driver and I 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:07.600 just think it's I just I don't know, I for 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:09.359 some reason just rubs me wrong. I just feel like 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.280 you should put the phone down. And even if we 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:12.880 don't have a conversation, because we don't talk a lot 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:15.040 in the car, we don't have to have a conversation, 0:18:15.119 --> 0:18:17.480 just be respectful that you're not just like like literally, 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:19.920 I felt like I was like driving this daisy and 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:21.320 I don't like it because I know that I make 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.560 a conscious effort to not well now, I know in 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:29.159 six months from now when drives again that I will do. 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:34.720 You guys have a rule while you're eating our phones away. Yes, yeah, 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:36.960 no phone's away. But there is a real big one 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:40.200 that I'm still stickler on with him when he has 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:43.040 when Jolie is asking for for something and he's on 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:46.440 his phone, it drives me. It's a trigger from my childhood. 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:51.439 I feel ignored and I'm like I do certain things 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:53.720 and now in my adult life, because I was ignored 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:56.040 as a kid and my dad was on his freaking 0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:58.840 computer and I asked him a question ten minutes later, 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:02.800 one of those inclusion it's like no, Dad, like you know, 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:04.720 you know. So it's like when I see her being 0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:08.560 like like, uncle, put your phone around, like it's just 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:12.160 like it burns me inside, which she will look over 0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:14.440 for the split second I have it, and it's every 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:19.879 time I look, which we jan and I both know 0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:23.879 that me giving Jolie attention, there's no I give her 0:19:23.880 --> 0:19:26.040 way more. He's a great dad. He's a great dad. 0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:28.800 It's just unfortunate whenever that I do look, it's always 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:30.720 the times when she's like grabbing for him and he's 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:33.080 like she just started grabbing for me, and she's like 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:35.280 I found out. I'm like really I was that. I 0:19:35.280 --> 0:19:37.879 could be finishing email or finished typing something, and I'm like, 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:40.520 she can hang on for two seconds. I also don't 0:19:40.560 --> 0:19:41.720 want to be like, oh, what do you need? What 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:43.800 do you need? What do you I mean, like Kaddy's 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:46.879 doing something right. So it's it's a healthy balance too. 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:49.920 Where As she gets older, it's like I'm finishing something, Jolie, 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:52.280 let Daddy finish this and then I'm all yours. But 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:54.359