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Speaker 1: Wind down with Jane Kramer. Did I heart radio podcast?

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Speaker 1: I feel like Mike is about to beat up some

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Speaker 1: of the bachelors, Like I'm feeling this energy that he

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Speaker 1: just wants to legit, like punch a few bachelor's. Getting

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Speaker 1: the recap of y'all strip in Vegas. Yes, Um, me

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Speaker 1: and my girlfriend Sarah John was there too. You were

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Speaker 1: looking gorgeous and we're like you were working though, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then Easton was there. I didn't see you, Mark,

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Speaker 1: but Easton was there. Um. You were doing podcasts with

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Speaker 1: Becca and Dean and all them, and so we were

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Speaker 1: just kind of recapping about the bachelor's and Mike said that,

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Speaker 1: did I I didn't come home with a big head.

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Speaker 1: You came home feeling very good about yourself. Well, it's

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Speaker 1: I think they were just trying to make me feel

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Speaker 1: because you know, I'm pregnant. I'm seven months pregnant, I'm

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Speaker 1: in Vegas, and you know they were like, wow, like

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Speaker 1: you're an attractive pregnant person. I think they were just

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Speaker 1: trying to be nice. No, I think that's where you're

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Speaker 1: selling yourself short, and especially when a group of boys

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Speaker 1: like that get around a beautiful woman like woman like

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Speaker 1: you you're like, oh my god, Like they're like, I

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Speaker 1: can't handle how beautiful you really are and stunning. Oh.

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Speaker 1: As a witness, the boys were drooling. Stop you know this.

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Speaker 1: I was a witness. I would be in the green

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Speaker 1: room and I'm like, Janna, never mind. The boys were

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Speaker 1: just like I couldn't even get through to her. She

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Speaker 1: was such a hot commodity. But can I say she's

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Speaker 1: most humble human being though, because all throughout the night,

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Speaker 1: she would check in on everybody that was working the event,

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Speaker 1: would ask how everyone's doing, would like literally ask me

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Speaker 1: if I needed water, and I'm like, do you do

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Speaker 1: you need water? You're the ones and heels like what's happening?

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Speaker 1: That sounds like, well, I just well, let me just

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Speaker 1: say this. There were a lot of attitudes with from

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Speaker 1: some of the celebrities that came to the festival, and

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Speaker 1: I saw firsthand that some of them were not treating

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Speaker 1: some of the I heart people. Were they that we're

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Speaker 1: helping them, like Tori, And it was just I felt

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Speaker 1: bad because I'm like, I don't care who you are.

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Speaker 1: If you were Maria carry which by the way, she

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Speaker 1: wasn't at all. I didn't meet I didn't get to

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Speaker 1: meet Maria. But I mean, Paula Abduel was the nicest

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Speaker 1: person the whole entire planet. Like I freaked out when

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Speaker 1: I met her. She likes amazing by the way amazing

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Speaker 1: she was. She's fantastic, but she like she was so sweet,

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Speaker 1: but there was people underneath her that we're being so

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Speaker 1: I was just like, you're being rude and I didn't

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Speaker 1: even care. I don't care who you are if you

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Speaker 1: mean to the people that are helping you, Like, that's

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Speaker 1: just not nice. No, I don't like it. So that's

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Speaker 1: I was like to need Mama Bear came out for

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Speaker 1: but it was much appreciated because it's in like the

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Speaker 1: most delicate and gentle way, and she just has a cute,

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Speaker 1: I mean, we're obsessed. Well I just again, I think

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Speaker 1: they were just trying to be nice. But I mean

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Speaker 1: I still got every she I appreciate the compliment of

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Speaker 1: them drooling all over you because you're my wife, my

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Speaker 1: all over that. Did you get that? Guys? You guys

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Speaker 1: want to come and talking abou podcast about it? We can.

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Speaker 1: But I think what's funny is is Mike said something

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Speaker 1: to me the other night that kind of like it

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Speaker 1: was kind of a dig it? What did you say?

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Speaker 1: So I went to Dancing with the Stars to support

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bones. We might be on the show today, We're

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Speaker 1: support him, and I my old partner, was dancing with

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Speaker 1: Nicky Glazer, who's a comedian. She's really sweet. I've never

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Speaker 1: talk to her. So I tapped her on the shoulder,

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Speaker 1: you know, back in the red room, and I was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know that I think you

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Speaker 1: did a really great job. And I think you're so sweet.

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Speaker 1: And you know, if Gleb's hard on you, like you know,

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Speaker 1: and she was so nice, like so so so nice

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Speaker 1: cut too. I come home, bib and no, and Janna

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Speaker 1: of Nikki's and I've listened to her Comedy Central show

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Speaker 1: didn't mean it like that. I was like, what do

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Speaker 1: Point was she has this uncanny ability to meet people

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Speaker 1: But it's just it's just she comes home and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: ten people fell in love with you tonight? Like job

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Speaker 1: to keep us humble? But what do people see in? Like?

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Speaker 1: What do people? And today, like, we're coming back from

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Speaker 1: bring up to because it kind of hurt my feelings,

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Speaker 1: like what do people see in me? Like? What do

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Speaker 1: not see in me? That I'm a nice person? But

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Speaker 1: what do people see in me? I see all those things. Honey,

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Speaker 1: I phrased it the wrong way I meant. I meant

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Speaker 1: do people see in you? For the record, in sixty years,

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Speaker 1: you're still going to be having this kind I just

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Speaker 1: like to talk to people, and I like people to

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Speaker 1: For example, this one girl and followed me on Instagram

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Speaker 1: in the country world, and it really hurt my feelings

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Speaker 1: because I was like, just why that the bad energy?

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Speaker 1: it is very refreshing to see someone so rigorously honest

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Speaker 1: can can you You brought up something to me the

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Speaker 1: other day that thought was kind of interesting. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it was very random, but I thought about it.

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Speaker 1: So I was getting a coffee in the morning out

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Speaker 1: like I would like coffee, which surprises me. It's almost

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Speaker 1: I don't even know brick and mortar me because everything

425
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Speaker 1: that's like a brick building, like a Baltimore building, Well,

426
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Speaker 1: it just means, um, she's not going to be online anymore.

427
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Speaker 1: Store a store up, whatever materials it's made of, it

428
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Speaker 1: is irrelevant. That's I mean, that's online story, brick and mortar. Okay, yeah,

429
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Speaker 1: what's din? What's her face? Maker? Famous from not Paris Hilton,

430
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Speaker 1: where I think I know it is also my spirit animals.

431
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Speaker 1: So I feel like one time I saw Nicole Rich

432
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Speaker 1: and I ran a red leg cause I was like,

433
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Speaker 1: it's still Rich And I was like I just ran

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Speaker 1: a red light because I was so star starting. I

435
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Speaker 1: was like, would do that? Yeah, it's like simple life,

436
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Speaker 1: Well you do that now? Okay? Do we have so? Um?

437
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: Nicole has the House of Parlow jewelry. I love. Then

438
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 1: Rachel Zoe is the fashion queen. I mean she has

439
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: styled the wide range of celebrities on and off the

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Speaker 1: red carpet, including Jennifer Lawrence Kiera Knightley, and Kate Hudson.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if she did she do guys, I don't know. Well,

442
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 1: you know what, I'll check her Instagram because I follow

443
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Speaker 1: her and we'll see what she's doing. Oh so I

444
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Speaker 1: really like this one. It's talk Space, Um we Are.

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Speaker 1: your innermous thoughts or digging into childhood memories. It's also

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Speaker 1: I really like that. Maybe I should get a second

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Speaker 1: job on there. No, you should, I mean your license.

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Speaker 1: You can be helping people and making money. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what a win win. Okay, here's here's the one and

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Speaker 1: only Rachel's Oh I can't wait. Rachel. Hi, Oh my goodness,

474
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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in, because my husband

475
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Speaker 1: just started talking about fantasy football and I was about

476
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Speaker 1: to lose my mind. I was like, fashion, please, not football.

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Speaker 1: I'm totally with you. Does your husband do all that too?

478
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: He does the fantasy football and everything? Yeah, he does

479
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: all of that. I mean he only started caring about

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00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: the sports when he started betting on the sports. Right motivation,

481
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Speaker 1: Where are you at right now? I hear sorry, right,

482
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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely in my very peaceful and serene office that

483
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: is currently not peaceful in serene because there is a

484
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Speaker 1: protest going on outside my office, not because of anything

485
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Speaker 1: in my office. It's like a stag protest. Oh are

486
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Speaker 1: you in l A. Yeah, I'm in l A on

487
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Speaker 1: my roads and say it's crazy. It literally sounds like

488
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Speaker 1: a parade. Um, it's insane. Are testing. I don't know xactly,

489
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Speaker 1: but sad. Something to do with sag right, actors rights,

490
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Speaker 1: commercial rights? Interesting? Yeah, go go us, go go sack.

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Speaker 1: Rachel who is the very first celebrity you ever styled? Um?

492
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Speaker 1: The very first celebrity I ever styled? UM was a hole? No, no, no,

493
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 1: um no it was It was pop stars. So well, okay,

494
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Speaker 1: let me rephrase that. I had one job in my

495
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Speaker 1: life before I went freelance when I was twenty five,

496
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,959
Speaker 1: and I worked at YAM magazine UM and I styled

497
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Speaker 1: a lot of celebrities while I was there. But in

498
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Speaker 1: my career as a stylist UM, my first celebrity client

499
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: was UM Factory Boys, Brittain Spears, then UM all kind

500
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Speaker 1: of at the same time, and then I shifted into

501
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Speaker 1: doing actors UM in about two thousand and to two

502
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: thousand three at my first big red carpet moment in

503
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Speaker 1: Hollywood with Jennifer Garner and then Cameron Diaz and kid

504
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Speaker 1: husband and talmahiok and Turn Nightly and and all these

505
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Speaker 1: other amazing women. Who's the biggest diva? And I'm kidding

506
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Speaker 1: And you can't tell I know, you can't tell me that.

507
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 1: I really wish you good, but I have to kill you. No.

508
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: I know, well, because I am my style every time,

509
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: I like, I always try to get stuff out of her,

510
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 1: and you know she can't. But it's like, you know,

511
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 1: she's kind of giving me like a look and I'm like, okay, okay,

512
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: but I mean that's gonna be hard to like such

513
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: big personalities and you, you know, you just but you

514
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,719
Speaker 1: you're obviously like so confident in what you do. And

515
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Speaker 1: I think it's great because obviously you're like, I know,

516
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Speaker 1: I'm the best of the best. No, I actually never

517
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Speaker 1: had that kind of confidence. I think you just I no,

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Speaker 1: I mean no, I just not really built that way.

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Speaker 1: I think you just I always felt like I could

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Speaker 1: do better and be better, and I think when I

521
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Speaker 1: was with my clients, I just always approach it though

522
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: it was a service I was providing because it is

523
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Speaker 1: really a service business, and you know, really trying to

524
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Speaker 1: crack the code on you know, what my client wanted

525
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Speaker 1: and sort of how they can absolutely look and feel

526
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Speaker 1: their best and have that moment you know, every time

527
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: they go out there in the public. Is there one

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00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: disaster that you can like it was a total disaster.

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Speaker 1: I mean I've had a few. Really, I would say, well,

530
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Speaker 1: there are more technical difficulties, meaning you know, a closure

531
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Speaker 1: on a picture down, you know, busted right as you

532
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: got in the car to go to the Ascars after

533
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: the dress was made. Course of two months and like

534
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: ten fittings, and then another one someone was performing on

535
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Speaker 1: stage in put some leather pants uh at not a

536
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: Sin Square Garden and they ripped right down the middle. Um,

537
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: you know things like that. Lots lots of those moments.

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Speaker 1: That's fantastic. Rachel, your son's always look I follow you

539
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 1: on Instagram and I'm always on your Instagram watching. I

540
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Speaker 1: love your clothes, but your sons are always dressed so cute.

541
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Speaker 1: Thank you. And I have a six year old son

542
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Speaker 1: and I buy him the cutest clothes and all he

543
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: wants to wear our basketball shorts in tight eye t

544
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Speaker 1: shirts and I cannot get him into anything else. How

545
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: do you do it? Um? You know it's interesting. Um,

546
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: A friend of mine taught me when my when my

547
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: first son was born, and see a great sape and style.

548
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Speaker 1: And you know, I had all these beautiful clothes for

549
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Speaker 1: first guy, and I said, God, I feel like as

550
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 1: soon as you too, free's gonna want to start taking

551
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: on his own instead of what am I gonna do

552
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: when he starts putting on all these like nylon shorts

553
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And my girlfriend was like, do you

554
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: know what your soil? If you only get good things,

555
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: they don't have to be expensive. But if you only

556
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: find like things you love that you're happy that you

557
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: wear it and not what he picked from. And I

558
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: was like, God, that seems so simple but true. It

559
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: seems so obvious, but it's so true. So that's kind

560
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: what it did. And then I think, you know, once

561
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: guy started like kindergarten and first grade, he obviously started

562
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: some more of an opinion, and um, now we kind

563
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: of do trade out like as long as it's comfortable,

564
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: keep happy, Okay, you know what I mean? And it

565
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: would happened was there was a moment where he was like, Mom,

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Speaker 1: I just want to wear like, you know, sports shorts,

567
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: and you know, he was like. I was like, first

568
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: of all, you don't have to dress like everyone else.

569
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: You're your own person. And then I said and and

570
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: second I was like, honey, mom, you've built her whole

571
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: career and was paid to actually tell people decide what

572
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: to wear. So I know that's confusing, but but let's

573
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: plea just try and text me on this a little bit.

574
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 1: You know, if what I would give to have that freestyling. Well,

575
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: I was funny because then at that point, people like

576
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: he would put on these co opsits and everywhere we

577
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: went strangers and be like cool outfit, dude, Oh you

578
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: look so good. And I think he started to really

579
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: like the feedback, so now he doesn't really question it

580
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: too much. That's really cute. Cool, That's kind of what

581
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm afraid of. Yeah, that's really good. It's almost like

582
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: because our daughter, she every single morning, before she even

583
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: says good morning to us, she's about to be three,

584
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: she says dress, dress, dress, and sometimes like we I

585
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: love putting her in dresses, but sometimes, you know, like

586
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: she has to wear pants to school and like, I mean,

587
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: it is. It is like tackling an alligator to put

588
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: on leggings. It's it's so I'm like, do I just

589
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: take all the dresses out so she doesn't even see them? Well,

590
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: do you want me to make you feel better? Yeah?

591
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: I have a friend that he a daughter at that

592
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: age would only go to school in a bathing suit.

593
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Speaker 1: And thank you. Actually in Manhattan, so had to wear

594
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Speaker 1: a coat and a bathing suit. But I feel better,

595
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: I mean I do feel better because I mean, it's

596
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: it's to the point where I mean, she is. I

597
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: mean I had to have my father in law helped

598
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: me hold her down to put because she will just

599
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: I mean scream bloody murder. Yeah, this morning, this morning,

600
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Speaker 1: I even put her in like a skirt, like a

601
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: cute golf outfit that I just shot. It's great, but

602
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 1: it was. It was a skirt and like a little

603
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: collared shirt and that's not the one she wanted to wear.

604
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: But I had to hold her down and yeah, let

605
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Speaker 1: her have it. Well, and now I'm afraid of because

606
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: we're we have a boy on the way. We're seven

607
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: months pregnant, and oh my god, congratulated, thank you and

608
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm so excited because boy clothes are so cute. I've

609
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: got something drop crotches and stuff. And Michael is like, honey,

610
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: he's just gonna want to wear like the basketball shorts.

611
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, like not happening. Like he's going to

612
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: be styled to the team. But it's just not number three.

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Speaker 1: No to to Oh, I thought you said you had

614
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Speaker 1: a boy and a girl. No, we have just a

615
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Speaker 1: girl and then we have a boy on the way.

616
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Speaker 1: Oh got it? Good for you, that's like the dream. Congratulate,

617
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Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah? Are you going to try again for

618
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Speaker 1: a girl? I would dream every dream I could ever

619
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Speaker 1: dream of a girl. I'm not just thought my boys

620
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: won't so badly they do. They don't want to boy.

621
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: They only want a baby sister, So maybe a third

622
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: then maybe. I mean, you never know what will happen.

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Speaker 1: I mean I would, I would. I mean look at

624
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: Kate Hudson. You know your client. I mean, and I bonded,

625
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: we've bonded over, we've known each other forever. But she

626
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: um the fact that she sent me a girl. I

627
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: literally cried, Oh I did too, and I don't even

628
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: know where, but I was like, it's just you know,

629
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Speaker 1: like the relationship she has with her mom and like

630
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: she needs a girl. You know, I know it's amazing

631
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Speaker 1: often that gold do you choose some must us the human? Wow?

632
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Speaker 1: Do you style men? I started my career styling men

633
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Speaker 1: for the very beginning. For many years I sailed men.

634
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Speaker 1: And it's not that I don't, it's that it's just

635
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Speaker 1: not as interesting. Mike's like, thanks, what I mean is

636
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Speaker 1: what I mean? It's like, yes, I do, and I

637
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Speaker 1: love doing it. But after a while you're like you're

638
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Speaker 1: a little creatively, you know, he's a kind of the

639
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Speaker 1: same thing over and over again and jeans bla blah blah. Okay,

640
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Speaker 1: So you have a new story that just opened in

641
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Speaker 1: the Pacific Palisades in Los Angeles. Yeah, I do. Can

642
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Speaker 1: you tell me as please? It's so exciting. It's um

643
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Speaker 1: at the new Palace Sates village, you know, the new career.

644
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Speaker 1: So I cannot tell you. How have you done yet? Yeah?

645
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Speaker 1: It's stunning, Like it's so beautiful. Yes, oh my god,

646
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Speaker 1: it's like everything you ever wanted all in one village.

647
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Speaker 1: It's so beautiful. Um. I will be there over the

648
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Speaker 1: next level days quite a lot. But I'm like a

649
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Speaker 1: Dick that I can't stop going, and um, my store

650
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Speaker 1: is there, and it's just it's a footer down from

651
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Speaker 1: Jennifer Meyer and right across from the movie theater and

652
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Speaker 1: all the restaurants. It's honestly this magic. I mean I

653
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Speaker 1: created this store to kind of feel like, you know,

654
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Speaker 1: the customers sort of coming in to get staled and

655
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Speaker 1: have that great stop the experience, and also feel like

656
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Speaker 1: they were sort of walking into my living room a

657
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Speaker 1: little bit. You know that they could be very kind

658
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Speaker 1: of comfortable and lounge you but still feel like they're

659
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Speaker 1: in this sort of easy, glamorous kind of place. I

660
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Speaker 1: love that. I feel like that makes it like very

661
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Speaker 1: you know, just really fatable. And yeah, you got to

662
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: make easy for people that and people who aren't listening

663
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Speaker 1: or who don't live in Los Angeles. Um, you can

664
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Speaker 1: always go on her website, which we should louch will

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Speaker 1: plug and you can buy listen your fall line. I

666
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Speaker 1: always buy suits every year from here. You have the

667
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Speaker 1: best suits every season, and this these velvet suits this season.

668
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Speaker 1: I'm going to own all of them. And there's a

669
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Speaker 1: sequen one. My god, if it doesn't stretch, I can't

670
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Speaker 1: wear it yet. But next year I'm going to have

671
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Speaker 1: a whole like wardrobe. I told you that, Michael, remember said,

672
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Speaker 1: I'm getting I did show much online shopping when I

673
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Speaker 1: was pregnanty so like I but in vomnia and I

674
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Speaker 1: was like, and as I have this baby, I'm jumping

675
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Speaker 1: right back into these clothes. Yeah, I'm gonna because I've

676
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Speaker 1: had some of my clothes for for years and years,

677
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Speaker 1: and so I'm gonna just I'm gonna have I told

678
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Speaker 1: my lesson after this baby, I'm getting my body back.

679
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Speaker 1: I'm going to just I'm going to buy finally clothes

680
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Speaker 1: that are you know, not just the things that one

681
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to buy nice clothes that are

682
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Speaker 1: gonna last me and that I compare with other things

683
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Speaker 1: and totally you know, because I'm a leg But that's

684
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Speaker 1: why I love to more of them separate together during dual.

685
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Speaker 1: And you really have the bus cuts so much. That

686
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Speaker 1: makes me so happy. Think, Hey, what is um screen

687
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Speaker 1: responsibly dot com? So I mean, listen, I think all

688
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Speaker 1: of us. I think admittedly, we all sit on our screens,

689
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Speaker 1: whether it's our phone or wrap bo iPad um way

690
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: too many hours. I mean one and three adults say

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Speaker 1: they they screens more than ten hours a day, and

692
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Speaker 1: when you even ten hours a day. Yeah, but there's

693
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Speaker 1: the thing. I was like, oh my god, crazy. And

694
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: then I think about it and I'm like, okay, I

695
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: got up. It took the clocome morning. You know, I'm

696
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Speaker 1: honest screen by right, and then I get home and

697
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: then I'm back online again, like even like after I

698
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: got the kids down, and after I'm honest screen all

699
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Speaker 1: day at work, and all day work I am, and

700
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Speaker 1: then I wanted again to return on the emails at night.

701
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, okay, you are on way more

702
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: than you think you are. Um. And I think sort

703
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Speaker 1: of changing your behavior a little bit by doing these

704
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: like very little changes in your life, like just literally

705
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Speaker 1: taking times to look away from the screen for periods

706
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Speaker 1: of time to give your eyes a little break, um,

707
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Speaker 1: or even something like keeping your laptop or your screen

708
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: inches away from you actually makes a huge difference. And

709
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Speaker 1: then something that seems obvious but isn't. It's geeming your

710
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Speaker 1: screens um, geeming the brightness. Because that changed my life.

711
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: When I did that, that was like, oh my god,

712
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Speaker 1: how have I been staring at it like this for

713
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: so long? You know, It's funny it's all makes fun

714
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: of me. He's like, you had your screen is so dark,

715
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: and I'm like, your screen is so bright. Yeah, I

716
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 1: just it's just how I guess we view things differently.

717
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Speaker 1: I just didn't find down. Yeah, but no, I think

718
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Speaker 1: that's like, so, well, what made you you just was

719
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 1: it you just realized you were on your phone too much?

720
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Speaker 1: Or um? No? I just you know, I have really

721
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Speaker 1: sensitiviz and they think doing these things just it was

722
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Speaker 1: such they were still life changing and they were so

723
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Speaker 1: easy to do. And then you know, I just really

724
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Speaker 1: think that it's important that people kind of learn and

725
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: understand more about screening screening responsibly, quite honestly, because I

726
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: think it's really important because we live on our screens,

727
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: Our kids live on their screens. You know. I try

728
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Speaker 1: and limit my kids time too. You know, they say

729
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Speaker 1: two hours or less. Um, Obviously I think those words

730
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Speaker 1: changed on travel days. Um, travel days. I have no

731
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Speaker 1: idea how long my kids on I don't even want

732
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Speaker 1: to know, um. But you know, I'm constantly moving the

733
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Speaker 1: iPad further away from them, you know, because if you

734
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: think about it, you know, it's just we're older, so

735
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Speaker 1: we kind of are more aware and more sensitive to.

736
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Speaker 1: But younger kids don't know, you know, right, it could

737
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Speaker 1: be too great, or could be too close or just

738
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Speaker 1: you know. So I just think it's important to understand, um,

739
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Speaker 1: you know what you can do to sort of help

740
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Speaker 1: you your eyes and just sort of scream more responsively. Honestly,

741
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: our daughter likes to. She challenges us all right already

742
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: and wants to put her face right next to her

743
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: iPad fust entire time, in which we rarely give it

744
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: to her. But if we're having dinner whatever, she'll she'll

745
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Speaker 1: like push it forward and with no push it back,

746
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: like it's I mean, it's a constant battle. It's so frustrating.

747
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Speaker 1: I mean, you're really just taken over. I'm a huge fan.

748
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Speaker 1: Jen's a huge fan. Michael Will will be a huge fan.

749
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Speaker 1: Once I start buying your clothes, I'm going to have

750
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Speaker 1: to actually, I don't know, you probably won't. I'm going

751
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: to have to get married again just to be involved

752
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Speaker 1: in the new Bridle collection. I know money, you want

753
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Speaker 1: to get married in? Um where can my listeners find

754
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Speaker 1: you out? Um? Stop rates? But well, uh, Instagram is

755
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Speaker 1: at rachels though shopping a stop rail dot com And

756
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Speaker 1: then of course my store Policade Village. Um. And then

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Speaker 1: I all work, well, I love you, thank you for

760
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Speaker 1: coming on the show. We appreci I'm gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go to that screen responsibly dot Com because I think

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Speaker 1: that's kind of I think that's awesome. I'm gonna take

763
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764
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Speaker 1: your hair is looking pretty good today. Thanks babe. Do

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Speaker 1: while we wait for our surprise visitors, a surprise. You

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Speaker 1: haven't said his name yet, and his name I said

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Speaker 1: he might come on the show. Oh yeah, you did,

812
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: Bobby Bones might come on the show. But already said

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Speaker 1: it in the beginning of the show. All right, this

814
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Speaker 1: is an anonymous emailer. She needs some advice. One of

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Speaker 1: her mom's friends a lawyer in February of legal questions,

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Speaker 1: so she asked about them. Similar you know anonymous as

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Speaker 1: a banker, people come to her for a financing questions,

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Speaker 1: the same sort of idea. Well, she had an attorney,

819
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Speaker 1: but when with somebody else because she didn't feel like

820
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Speaker 1: it was appropriate to hire a family friend to be

821
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Speaker 1: her attorney. She felt like it could be a conflict

822
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Speaker 1: of interest. Well, she ran into this woman in court,

823
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Speaker 1: and that lawyer is very upset that she did not

824
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Speaker 1: hire her. What she called me out, She blocked me

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Speaker 1: from everything, didn't give the mom group is included from

826
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Speaker 1: mom group chats. And now I feel like everyone's knowing

827
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Speaker 1: my business and I'm being punished for trying to keep private.

828
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Speaker 1: What did I do wrong? Did I do anything wrong?

829
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Speaker 1: I can't stand confrontation between things. She did nothing wrong.

830
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Speaker 1: We talked about this. I think that you have strong ethics.

831
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Speaker 1: I think it's actually unethical you work in the capacity

832
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Speaker 1: with a friend in that manner. Absolutely, And I was

833
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: telling Michael this too. I had a court case situation

834
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Speaker 1: and the defendant had the lawyer. You know, some sometimes

835
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: it's okay if it's the friend. But I just think

836
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: that's some cases courts won't even allow that. It's too

837
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: close to the person of interest. Even when you're a therapist,

838
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Speaker 1: it's unethical to work with someone that you're even an

839
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: acquaintance with. It's you just can't do it. It's wrong.

840
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Speaker 1: The boundaries are too muddy. It's just so muddy. The

841
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Speaker 1: only thing, the only thing, just to play Devil's advocate

842
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Speaker 1: is I don't know, I know you love that. I

843
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Speaker 1: don't know how she handled the situation where she could

844
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: have gone to her and been like, look, I would

845
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: love to hire you as my attorney. But here's my

846
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 1: feeling around it is that we're just too close of friends.

847
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: Would just be uncomfortable for me, and so I would

848
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: just I just want to let you know that I'm

849
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: probably gonna go with somebody else. It's nothing personal. It's

850
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: just I don't want it to get in the way

851
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: of our friendship or it just seems to also the

852
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: privacy issue when you're dealing with something in the court,

853
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: there could be some serious private legal what this whole

854
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: situation is about. And you don't want your friend to

855
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: be that right, But if she didn't handle it the

856
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: right way, you're absolutely right we would be like, whoa,

857
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: you didn't even like you asked me, you asked me

858
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: for advice, and now all of a sudden, you show

859
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: up the courthouse with someone else. It's like I could

860
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: see why the lady's like, wait what, And maybe she

861
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: probably didn't because she says she doesn't like confrontations, so

862
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: I doubt that she actually didn't tell her friend, which

863
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: you know which too. If you want to unmuddy it,

864
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: I would just be like, you know what, I'm so sorry.

865
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: I just I'm really bad. I should have done this

866
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: and I didn't. So if I hurt your feelings, I

867
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: really do truly apologize to I think you can try

868
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: to make it right again. But she does have a

869
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: slight point, if you if if she didn't handle it first, yeah,

870
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: but if she asked, it's almost like, for example, we

871
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: have a friend, Nick Wotter. He's our um, he's our realtor,

872
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: and you know my um her his wife is my

873
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: best friend, and also I work with her as well,

874
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: and so um if we were to ask Nick a

875
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: question about a home, but then we didn't use him

876
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: as a realtor when we've used him before, he would

877
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: be and she would too, rightfully, so be upset to

878
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: be like you didn't even like you've you asked us,

879
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: and now then you just didn't use us, but then

880
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 1: you use somebody else. I could see why they do

881
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: not true. You know, I feel like the attorney should

882
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: have just said, I'm going to give you this advice.

883
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: But I you know, it's an ethical for me to

884
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: work with you since we're in a mom group together,

885
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: we're friends. Were this were that, I suggest that you

886
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,479
Speaker 1: find an attorney that you feel comfortable working with. That's

887
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: that's asking a lot. That just seems too conscious of

888
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,879
Speaker 1: the whole professional and you have to be when you're

889
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: profession that kind of profession. I agree, I agree. I

890
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: think you have to look at it from a work

891
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 1: perspective as opposed to a friend person. That's like, if

892
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: an e R doctor someone in his family comes in

893
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: to the e R, he shouldn't be working on that person, right,

894
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 1: And I've asked my and my my cousin Rachel is

895
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: a doctor, and so I asked her. I'm like, oh,

896
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: if anything ever happens, you can do my surgery. Right.

897
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: She's like, no, I'm not allowed to m HM, which

898
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: is like a total bummer because if she went into plastics,

899
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, can you hook a sister up? Well,

900
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: that might be different, right, No, No, it's the same thing,

901
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: can't We could do it, yeah, but same thing, you

902
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: can't do it. So yeah, ethics, this is a bigger question.

903
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: We might have to come back to it if Mr

904
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 1: Bones shows up here. Alicia has a quick question. It's

905
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: two sentences sex postpartum. Do some woman want to do

906
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: it right away? Are they disgusted by the thought of

907
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: it for a while? That is the extent of her email. Um, well, uh, professionally,

908
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: not professionally. What's the medically you're not allowed to do it?

909
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: Six weeks? Is oh? I think if it's vaginal, if

910
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: you have vaginal birth, you can't do it six weeks.

911
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. You all can google it. Because I'm

912
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,479
Speaker 1: not a doctor. I think it's but then it's less

913
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,479
Speaker 1: for a se section. Maybe I think it was six

914
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: even for after Joey. Yeah, I mean I would want

915
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: to do it. I mean again, I want to do

916
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: it a lot, but I would I would want to

917
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: do it like a couple of weeks after. I don't know,

918
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: as a as a man, are you grossed up? Because

919
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: now I wouldn't have my belly anymore. It's like when

920
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: she just want to get back to it because now

921
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: it's like we got a bump in the way. Yeah,

922
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys, you're having it. I can't wait

923
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: to take you home right now, honey. No, but since

924
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,439
Speaker 1: you're having a C section, I mean, I don't think

925
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:41,479
Speaker 1: it affects. I don't know. I think your recovery time

926
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: with the c section. It's if you feel more well.

927
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: That's the thing I would be more afraid to, like

928
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: hurt because you I mean, you hit, you're open, you

929
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: have to heal major major j. Yeah, we're gonna chill off.

930
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: We should we tell them what we're doing though, What

931
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: are we doing? Remember that thing that you said you're

932
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: gonna get me for Christmas? Oh my God, to help

933
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: work on intimacy? Mm? Do I tell? Well? Now, you

934
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 1: guys have to so through. Buddy came up with this idea,

935
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: which I think is really sweet. And since intimacy is

936
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: something that I'm trying to work on and get better at,

937
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate that you even are wanting to

938
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: try and perfect timing Ladies and gentlemen. Bobby Buddy Podcast,

939
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: What's up. Okay, so you texted me this morning. Hi,

940
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: who you texted me this morning saying that you hurt

941
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: your rotator cuff. I did not say that the publicly.

942
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the guy in the show

943
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: that's injured. I was injured the second week. Yeah, but

944
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to be that guy. Okay, fine, so

945
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: you're not that guy. But do you know why Michael goes?

946
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: Probably because he was the russ celebrating. Yeah, I think

947
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: it's part of it him. Yeah, I mean, and then

948
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,919
Speaker 1: did you see did you watch Bobby on the show

949
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: and then his after apart, like with his celebrating the

950
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: celebratory dance. I mean I think you, I mean, you

951
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 1: literally pumped your arms so much that you probably tore

952
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: your arm out. Well, I don't know about my arm out.

953
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: It's still a real arm. But my thing is, and

954
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: I think as an athlete, Mike you'll know this, because

955
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: I'm not not that I'm an athlete, but you you

956
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: probably do the same thing, is that you don't want

957
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: to always be injured because then when you're really injured,

958
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: they're going, oh, come on, you're the injured guy. So

959
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: I had a tooth knock loosen practice, and now I

960
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: have a slight, a little we'll just call it a

961
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: little gibil rotator cove. And I don't want them. I

962
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: don't want him to know that because I can't be

963
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: the guy that's hurt, because if I do hurt myself,

964
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: then it's oh, Bobby's hurt again. So and I and

965
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: I went to the doctor, and I can manage this

966
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: because it's not something that I just do some pain,

967
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 1: pain work and then it's over. I'll get it fixed.

968
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: Much like a football season, there are things that you

969
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: don't have to fix it at the end of the season.

970
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: Because I'm comparing me to the NFL player right now,

971
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: because anyone wanted will I will say, after winning sing

972
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: what Janna went through? What two years ago in the schedule.

973
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: I have a new found respect for dancers in general,

974
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: and you guys on that show. So don't shortside yourself

975
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: because I've done one episode. Mike, it's not well, that's

976
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: the thing. He's You've been practicing for about three weeks

977
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: how many hours a day? A lot of hours? Yeah,

978
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: I mean all of a sudden. I mean because that's

979
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: like when I tore my intercostal muscles. The second week,

980
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: you're not. You're doing moves your body doesn't even know,

981
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: like how to move this way and that way, and

982
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: all of a sudden you're being thrust into being a

983
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: professional dancer. Yeah, it's not like jazzer sides where they're

984
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: slowly going side to side. It's like, okay, welcome to it.

985
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: Go Yeah. And so yeah, he's partner Sharna, and so

986
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: she's like, now, go go go, and she's she's hard

987
00:50:56,719 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 1: right Yeah. Day one she actually pulled my score them

988
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: completely off. So it's a whole I know. Yeah, it's tough.

989
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: It's a tough, tough life of a dancer. But I

990
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: believe they're all scrow them us. I'm just the group. Now.

991
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 1: Just what happens. Yeah, then a blister just goes over

992
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it's there's a new scrowed them perfect. Yeah,

993
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: it's all just one. I mean, wow, we really do

994
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: have two athletes in this room right now. We have

995
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: one athlete and one that tried. But do you have

996
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: to say to the athlete, I mean, like, because you

997
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: saw that. Because when I came home, Michael was his

998
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: father in law wasn't town, so he didn't come to

999
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: show with me, but I went to support Bobby, even

1000
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: a friend for a long time, and I'm very appreciative

1001
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: who came to the trailers that hello, you and your friend.

1002
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: It's awesome really because nobody can see. Yeah, I really

1003
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Yeah, well, I just I'm I felt like

1004
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: I was a proud mom. I mean, I was just

1005
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,959
Speaker 1: so excited and he yes, no, I'm sorry, this is sorry.

1006
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 1: I'm doing how we do on our show. That doesn't

1007
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: mean stop. What happens on our show is when someone's

1008
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: talking and someone has something they want to say, they

1009
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: just go a hand, come over to me. Neck. I

1010
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: do mean to interrupt you, but that's what that mail like,

1011
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: I have something to say when you're done, okay. I

1012
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: just like, I'm just like the proudest mom ever. And

1013
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: I was so excited. So when I came home, I

1014
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: was like, honey, you have to see Bobby's dance. And

1015
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: I was like, and wait for the end. It's the

1016
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 1: best part. And you were like like, so like wow,

1017
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 1: oh I was impressed. Yeah, I was thoroughly impressed. First,

1018
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: I wonder you're watching, and I knew that you had

1019
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: done the show, so to you, it's still kind of cool.

1020
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: To go back, and then you're there because you know me,

1021
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: and I'm very supportive. I'm very happy that you were

1022
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 1: supportive of me. Were you nervous before I went on?

1023
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: Because one it was me and two you had been

1024
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: in that situation. I was nervous because I knew you

1025
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: were nervous, and I was nervous because I remember the nerves,

1026
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: So yes, it was. It was definitely both of those things.

1027
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 1: But I was more nervous because you were my friend.

1028
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: So I've never been nervous like that watching anybody else

1029
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: person I was personally nervous for someone else. I was like, I,

1030
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: please don't fall, Please don't fall, Bobby, Please, they don't

1031
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: don't mess up because I'm like, because I wanted you

1032
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: to feel how you fell at the end. That's where

1033
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: it was like that proud moment where I was like

1034
00:52:56,080 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: I got tearyot, I was like, yes, like there's because

1035
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: I genuinely care about you and I wanted it was

1036
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: like really rooting for someone and being like, God, you

1037
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 1: can do this. And then when you had that moment

1038
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: at the end, that's exact moment that I wanted you

1039
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 1: to have. Was that excitement and that that thrill. It's

1040
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: like you just did the coolest freaking thing in your life.

1041
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: And like you said, you you grew up in a

1042
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: town of seven people, like you don't get to do

1043
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: these people get to get to do this. I feel

1044
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: like I'm there, and I feel like that my whole career,

1045
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: Like I'm representing people that were never told they could

1046
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: do things. We were never told we couldn't do things.

1047
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: But it just wasn't in our dna that you could

1048
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 1: leave the small town or the mill. You know, that's

1049
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: what everybody did. And so now no one said how

1050
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: you can't, but it was just never a thing that

1051
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 1: you could do. So, you know, with kids and people

1052
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: in high school and college, it's like, man, if I

1053
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: can do it, like I grew up a food stamp

1054
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: kid and seven people. If I can do it, anybody

1055
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: can do it. Because my only talent is showing up

1056
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,919
Speaker 1: like that's but that is a talent. And I don't

1057
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 1: say that as someone who's like, oh what was me?

1058
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: Like that's really a big thing to show up consistently.

1059
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: And when lou was tide draw hurt, you know, as

1060
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: long as I'm not injured, I'm there. And so it

1061
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 1: was really cool for me to finish that dance, because

1062
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: but I think people felt that though that's that's there's

1063
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: a lot of hate. But but what would people say, Hey,

1064
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: it was too much, and it's fair because it was

1065
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: too much. But I'm okay being always too much because

1066
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: that means at least you're a blip into the radar

1067
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: of everything's trying to matter at once. And if you

1068
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: can matter in any way, as long as I'm hurting

1069
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: a kid or animal, put put me in the news.

1070
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: And I'm trying to be seen on this show, right,

1071
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: So I think it's people. People might hate on you

1072
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: and say it was too much or you're you know,

1073
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: overacting or something like that, but no one knows how

1074
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 1: they would feel, like with your backstory, like you're just

1075
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: talking about how they would feel on that national stage,

1076
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: being able to do something that your body has never

1077
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: physically done ever in its life, and you did it

1078
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: and you finished, well, it wasn't seamless, but everyone else

1079
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: you didn't miss a beat. I didn't. I didn't see

1080
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 1: a missbeat at all. But you also know, if you

1081
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: do it, you realize all the beats you missed, all

1082
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: the small I'm like, I've never did a perfect between ever,

1083
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: but there was no overacting because that was all legitimate

1084
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: because I fell down like if I were really controlled.

1085
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: And also she was bent over. I started celebrating one

1086
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: step too early and so she was still bent over

1087
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: backward the whole thing. By the way, there's like a

1088
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: gift going around that's fantastic at her face, being like whoa.

1089
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: And this week I have to really keep it together

1090
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 1: to show that I'm not just I am an idiot,

1091
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 1: but I'm not just the idiot. And that's kind of

1092
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: what it is. It's the people that said it's too

1093
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: much if you did it again like that, and then

1094
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: they would be like, yeah, maybe that's a little like

1095
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,839
Speaker 1: even again, it's that pure excitement, but you can't do that,

1096
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: and that's a high energy dance. My next dance is

1097
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: like it's called the fox hoop or something. Yeah, it's

1098
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 1: They asked me, they said, hey, what's your favorite style

1099
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: of dance? And I said, this is before one on

1100
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: the show. I said I prefer line. I said, yeah,

1101
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: we don't we do that on this show. I was like, oh, well,

1102
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: so I'm doing the fox trot. Yeah, that's very like happy.

1103
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: You're never like smooth yeah, smooth and happy. So it's

1104
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: like the Fredish Stair Jeane Kelly type stuff. And and

1105
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: I know you look at me and go, man, Bobby's

1106
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: so smooth all the time. It's not true dorky, tall,

1107
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: goofy dude. And so you know, I think for me,

1108
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: it's just going to be a struggle every week. And

1109
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 1: I've now accepted that, now that I know it's always

1110
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: a struggle. And what I strive for in my life period,

1111
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: not just in this because this is going to come

1112
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: and go in a matter of weeks, but what I

1113
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: strive for in my life all the time. It's consistency.

1114
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: I think that's currency. If you can get consistency from

1115
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:50,240
Speaker 1: anyone like that's valuable. Because even with my training partner,

1116
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: and I'll use that as a metaphor for for life

1117
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: and for the session, she's consistently hard on me. So

1118
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: I know that you know what to expect, and I

1119
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 1: know that if she says I'm doing something right, I

1120
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: can believe her. And I know if she sayn't doing

1121
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: something wrong, which is most of the time because I

1122
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: am doing something wrong, I believe her. But she's consistent

1123
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: with it. And people said, what do you want to

1124
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: partner that would cadd on you, sure if they caught

1125
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: on me consistently. And I really know because again in relationships,

1126
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: in professional really, if you can get consistency from someone,

1127
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 1: that is so valuable because there becomes a point where

1128
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 1: you have too somewhat uh not let the good or

1129
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: the bad influence how you feel, but the data that

1130
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: you take in and if you can get to that

1131
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: point with someone else, there's real value in that relationship,

1132
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: whatever it is. And so I have that relationship now.

1133
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: I have that relationship with my co host on my

1134
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: radio show. I have that relationsip in my book editor

1135
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: where it was just like, just be for real with me.

1136
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: Whatever you're for real is, but if you're the same

1137
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: for real with me, and when you go one way

1138
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: or the other, I know that you mean that good

1139
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: or bad. And so that's what I strive for in life.

1140
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: That's what I strive for on this show, and I'm

1141
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: getting it now. That's kind of for both of you guys.

1142
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: How do you feel like and how did you feel

1143
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: every week knowing that you did the previous week? Okay,

1144
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: hey I made it through. I did. Yeah, it wasn't perfect,

1145
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: but I did a good job. Were you more confident

1146
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: and Bobby, do you feel more confident going to the foxtrot?

1147
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: Or is it because it's completely different dance. It's like

1148
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 1: from square one all over again. For me personally, it

1149
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: was square one. I sucked every every new dance that

1150
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: I learned. I was like, I suck, this sucks. And

1151
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: it wasn't until you know, and as some of them

1152
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: did suck. But and that's the thing, Like some dances,

1153
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: like the jive, he had the drive lot. I was

1154
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: terrible at the Drive, but the next week I had

1155
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: something that was better. But I mean, you start from

1156
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: square one learning a dance that you don't even you

1157
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: don't know, like he doesn't, we don't even know the

1158
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 1: name of it, how Viennese waltz or it's like the

1159
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: moves that you don't know. So it's literally starting from scratch,

1160
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: is what I think. But yeah, I think it's the

1161
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 1: comparison that I would make is let's say I took

1162
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: Rosetta Stone and I learned Spanish and trying to learn Spanish,

1163
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, the Spanish sucks, and I'm trying

1164
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: to learn it, and I kind of get enough to

1165
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: get by because I did learn Spanish Rotta Stone anyway,

1166
00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: so um, I was, Yeah, I learned Spanish, and then

1167
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: it would be okay, well, now I'm gonna try to

1168
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: learn Mandarin. Now I just went through the process of

1169
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: learning Kanish, but now I'm going to try to learn

1170
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: a different language. I remember the struggle of Spanish, so

1171
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel so foreign to struggle, but there's still

1172
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: an intense struggle there. So the struggle is the same.

1173
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: But you know you could do one. Maybe you're like, Okay,

1174
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 1: maybe I can do this too, because I was able

1175
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 1: to learn Spanish. Yeah, And maybe it's the the not

1176
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: succeeding doesn't feel so unfamiliar. It's kind of the if

1177
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: you fail and you keep trying and you fail again,

1178
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: that failure doesn't hurt so much because you've already done it,

1179
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: and eventually it gets a little more comfortable failing, to

1180
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:42,919
Speaker 1: the point where you're so comfortable that you can kind

1181
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 1: of get it. At least that's what I hope. I'm

1182
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: not there yet, but I'm failing miserably this week training.

1183
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: But I'm not as down on myself because I trust

1184
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: the process that happened last the last So but we

1185
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 1: had two and a half weeks to learn the first

1186
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 1: dance though, and we have five days learned two other days.

1187
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: How do you feel right now? How do you feel

1188
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: about like where you are with those two dances? Well,

1189
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: we have something called it um quick Step that this week.

1190
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: I haven't even started on it, so I don't know

1191
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen there and so I don't know. I

1192
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 1: don't know about that one. So I guess you step

1193
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: in a quick way. I don't know, um And that's

1194
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: next week. The fox thought. It's tough because my whole

1195
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 1: life I've been a sloucher from my shoulders and your posture,

1196
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: especially as the dude, it has to stay perfect through

1197
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: all of these front backside moves um and and it's

1198
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: a struggle. But I and it's harder to me than Jib,

1199
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: but you have Len on your side. I trust the process.

1200
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: I do. Once the process proves that it can be

1201
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: done in any situation, then I trust the process very

1202
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: on side of you. Yeah, yeah, no. Do you have

1203
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: any regrets though, I mean from all the conversations we've

1204
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: had about should I do the show, should I not

1205
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 1: do the show? Because we we went back and forth

1206
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: a lot. But I'm not really a regret guy for

1207
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: anything ever, um, just because I feel like even the

1208
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: things that screw up I learned a lot from and

1209
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: as long as I'm taking something from it, I don't

1210
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: think there's a reason to regret it. Because let's say

1211
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 1: I would have taken it, I got offered another show

1212
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: at the same time, right, and I would say about

1213
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: taking that show. It could be something as sense less

1214
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: as what if I was driving to that show I

1215
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: get hit by a car, Like, I don't know what's

1216
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: gonna happen. We don't know the minor situational things that

1217
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: happened around the bigger situational things or um. And so

1218
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: when I commit to something that's it, I try to

1219
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: do the best in that situation, and I can always

1220
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: look back at it and go ahead. I wonder what

1221
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 1: would happened here and there, but we can wonder about everything.

1222
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: What do you do with the comments. I have a

1223
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 1: job where I'm constantly critiqued on everything that I do,

1224
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: so at times I just it's it's water off a

1225
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: duck's back. However, I've never danced before, so this is

1226
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 1: new to me. It would be like you're reading comments

1227
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 1: about your podcast when you started um, so you're used

1228
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 1: to be slammed. In other places, they slam because people

1229
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: in the just slam, and I don't mean that in

1230
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: a bad way. But what happens with well but what

1231
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: but why they do it is I believe And and

1232
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: this is the part of our culture that makes me

1233
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:12,440
Speaker 1: kind of sad and I wish we could help improve.

1234
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: Is that people don't have a voice, so when they

1235
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: finally do have one, they feel like they have to

1236
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 1: have one that is so strong that it gets noticed.

1237
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: And the only way to get noticed is to not

1238
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: even be super positive about something, is to be super

1239
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: negative about something. So I don't even feel they I

1240
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 1: don't even think they really feel what they're writing. But people,

1241
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: including myself, not in comments, but in other ways, we

1242
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: want to be noticed. You know, we have this we're

1243
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 1: striving for love in some way, and when we're not

1244
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: getting it, we're trying to find it in other places.

1245
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 1: And so I feel like that's why people go to

1246
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:43,959
Speaker 1: Facebook or or pigeon carriers watch Game of Thrones. However,

1247
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: they're sending things around and that's why they're sending those messages.

1248
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 1: And so dancing was new to me, and I wanted

1249
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: to see really what they thought. And I looked and

1250
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: there was a lot of a lot of hate. I'd

1251
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: been down that before, but it was new, So yeah,

1252
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 1: I read it. It sucked. It never doesn't suck. It

1253
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: never doesn't suck. By the way, Yeah, if anyone tells

1254
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 1: you with the comments, and it never we're human beings, well,

1255
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: and we we I know I can't speak for everyone,

1256
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 1: but I know Michael and I and Bobby and we

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Speaker 1: all we we feel like we're not good enough. And

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Speaker 1: so when we read those things, even though we say, oh,

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Speaker 1: they're just the people at home behind their computers, but

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Speaker 1: it still gets to you. There's still words. The words

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01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: still hurts, and unless you not feel good enough, less

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Speaker 1: and less. Yeah, but there's never a time where I

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Speaker 1: read them all and go great, freaking love that even

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01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: feel better about yourself coming out. But I you know,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate all the early advice that you gave me

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01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: because I don't know that I would be here without it.

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Speaker 1: And I love it like I love it well. It shows,

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Speaker 1: it shows that you're having fun. And I want everybody,

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Speaker 1: all my listeners to vote for Bobby. Dancing with the

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Speaker 1: Stars may be kicked off. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you just you just keep being you and you keep

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Speaker 1: you know, being fantastic and humble and screw the haters.

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Speaker 1: And I'm super proud of you. So and um, he's

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01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: got also a podcast art radio called Bobby Cast. There's

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01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: a there's one January hour and I lost my voice

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01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: before I laryngitis. I think we taught myself in laryngitis

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01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: on that show. You know, it totally is. But Bobby Bones,

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01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 1: thank you for coming. And I know you've got to leave.

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Speaker 1: Actually I'm going to dance practice right now. Yeah. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I just love Bobby. He is the sweetest. I spent

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01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: some time with him in the green rooms room at festival.

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01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 1: He's great, he was just great. I'm just really proud

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01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: of him because he's he's really come a long way. Um,

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01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: Michael and I did his podcast like he he actually

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01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 1: went to on site to that place that we talked

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01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: about a lot about, you know, therapy and living centered

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01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 1: kind of self healing. Yeah. Uh, and he's you know,

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01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 1: he's he's had a really hard life and upbringing and

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01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 1: he but he's ready for love and he's ready to

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01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: be loved. And so I'm just like sweet, it's just

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01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: been really nice to see him kind of evolve into this,

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01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: you know, very aware, self aware of person, and I

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01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 1: just I'm so happy that he did dancing. And yeah,

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01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: I mean his reaction where I can see where people

1295
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: are like, oh, it's over the top. At the same time, man,

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01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 1: he like well, he felt like he was proud of himself,

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01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: and he should have been proud of himself, you know.

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01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: And they don't know his background, they don't know where

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01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 1: he was in his head when he completed that. It

1300
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: was authentic. Yeah, I loved it. Do we finish or

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01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: do we leave him hanging him INTI missy thing? Can

1302
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:29,959
Speaker 1: you guys just finish? Like that was like the Fox music?

1303
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: Perfect timing. I know this, Mike's trying to be more

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01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 1: intimate and and so I got this idea from a

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01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 1: buddy of mine because we can't have sex after baby

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01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks, so the pressure is kind

1307
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: of off and kiss on him. That's when he feels pressure.

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01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 1: He has a problem with intimacy when he feels pressured

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01:05:55,880 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 1: to have sex. Okay, so continue, So basically for Christmas,

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01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 1: I told her ahead of time, this is one of

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01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: those like you can't start have an argument about something.

1312
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: The president to be like, well, I've been working on

1313
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: this to fix this back about it. Yeah, So I

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01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 1: kind of told her. I was like, well, I'm gonna

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01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 1: set up appointment with this like Tantra therapist, and we're

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01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: gonna go in for a couple of sessions and kind

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01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: of do that whole gig. And I don't know what

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01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 1: all it entails, but it's gonna be very uncomfortable what

1319
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: but um, hopefully it'll kind of break down something. I

1320
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: don't know much about tantra, but I'm excited to learn.

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01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 1: But I'm also I'm also scared because I don't I

1322
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: don't want us to because I feel like you can

1323
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 1: you can easily laugh when you're staring at each other.

1324
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 1: But it's like I want to be I want to

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01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: take it serious. But I also in the back of mind,

1326
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, is he just going to be so uncomfortable

1327
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: that he's not even present? Do you do things to

1328
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 1: each other in front of the coach therapist person? No,

1329
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't get to like sexual. It's not

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01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: sexually just learning. It's learning to just know like still

1331
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: touch a lot of breathing, yeah, non sexual touch, but

1332
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: touch and just like breathing in each other's souls and

1333
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: whatever all that stuff, which is the most uncomfortable thing

1334
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: for you, which in my back of my mind, I'm like,

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01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: how am I going to be present? Stay present when

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01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: I know that this is You're gonna say, look at

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01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: my husband trying to really work on things that he

1338
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: has character defects, and you're gonna work on being in

1339
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 1: the moment. M Jen is going to be there being

1340
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: like stay in the moment, the moment moment. I think

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01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: it's cool, it's proactive, and it's I have a friend

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01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: who is she's a touch with specialist and she is incredible,

1343
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: um and she helps people immensely, and it is it

1344
01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 1: is uncomfortable, but it'll take two seconds for you guys

1345
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: to snap out of your heads and get into the

1346
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: moment because of the breathwork. Yeah, it's going to be fun.

1347
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to And again there's not the pressure

1348
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: of having sex afterwards, so hopefully that during that time

1349
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: you can really like do like hardcore intimacy work. You

1350
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 1: know what sucks. We talked about all this stuff about

1351
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: you want to have sex more and he's got any issues.

1352
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, we have sex. People like, but it's you know,

1353
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: we want to be more intimate on a more frequent basis. Yes, yes,

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01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 1: we'll keep working at that. All right, Well, thank you

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Speaker 1: too much, guests Rachel, Zoe and Bobby bones Um. A

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Speaker 1: Um today was fun and hey, I'm really excited. I

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01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: know we were all over the place of the show,

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Speaker 1: but I think what I'm taking from the show is

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to see how people give back. You can't

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01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: pay it forward. And again, it's not even about the money.

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01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 1: It's not about how much you spend. I know I

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01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 1: made that one comment earlier, but it's it could be

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01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: a simple gesture of a smile or a wave or

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01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: something like that. So just something to pay it forward,

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Speaker 1: all right. Can't wait to wind down next week. Ye Bye,

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Speaker 1: that was fun. Good job,