1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm never told you production of I Heart Radio. Yes, 3 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: and welcome to episode three of our very very very 4 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: very long segment sub segment of watching Sex in the City. Yes, 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: and for any first time viewings. Yes, Yes, I excited 6 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: for number three. I am excited. Um. Also, Samantha and 7 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: I are in the same space again, which is exciting 8 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: but very close for very so close. But yeah, when 9 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: I was typing up the description for the first one, 10 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: which if you've missed it, we're doing for some happy hours, 11 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: we're doing a watch along of Sex in the City 12 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: from the beginning. There's ninety four episodes and two movies 13 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: and now a new series, so a lot. Yeah, I 14 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: was like, I can't say mini series. I don't know 15 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 1: what to call. I'm just calling it a sub series. 16 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: And just because technically it's a sub sub series is 17 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: how we're gonna put it. Because we're not doing all 18 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: the happy hours like this, but exactly we've been wanting 19 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: to and it's gonna get grow. Like I said, we 20 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: wanted to make it bigger and and maybe just have 21 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: a whole big ordeal allow you guys to have an 22 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: episode where you can watch along with us, even though 23 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: these are very condensed us talking about it. But as 24 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: per usual, I do have some questions for us. It's 25 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: going to begin with you trying to guess what this 26 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: episode is about by me giving you a title. Okay, name. 27 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: So the title is a bay of married Pigs. What 28 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: do you think is going to happen? Okay, So we 29 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: last left off. I've been introduced to Mr big Um. 30 00:01:56,240 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: There's a discussion of models. I think they have married pigs. 31 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: That's a good title because it's playing on you know, 32 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: calling men pigs married pigs makes me think there's a 33 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: dude who's married, who's like a jerk and cheating. Um 34 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: involved in this one, and for some reason, I think 35 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: Charlotte has to do Okay, I don't know why. Well, 36 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: you know, there's also a bay of pigs, which is 37 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: a we're on the same note on this one, thank you? Right? 38 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: They happening? Yes, yes, but I I the history of that. 39 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: Yes I know, um, but I was just thinking that's 40 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: a good play on that. Yes, you know. I love 41 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: a good word pun word play, word pun play. Yes, 42 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: it's my favorite. I like it. All right, So we 43 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,399 Speaker 1: are going to jump in with your predictions. I don't 44 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: think there's a new major characters, but that's going to 45 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: be introduced, so we're not going to do that one 46 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: for today. But I'm pretty sure I did mentioned this 47 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: episode for something that we talked about. As many times 48 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: as I've brought up sex in the City, I'm pretty 49 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: sure this is one of those episodes. So okay, are 50 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: you ready? I'm so ready. Here we go. Okay boarding, 51 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: no shot of a naked but should be right back 52 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: with Will Forte look alike. Frontal friends, full frontal friend. 53 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever want to know that 54 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: title for a friend hanging out. I didn't know what 55 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: to do. Do you see? This is a plot I've 56 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: seen sitcoms to right, and it's like, hey, Peter Coffee 57 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: getting a full frontal picture of a guy sexual harassment 58 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: and as I'm not good face it. Ladies, if you're 59 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: still single, you are not to be trusted. Come on, 60 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: not all married women feel that way. So again we're 61 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: kind of back to the women against women situation, and 62 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: except this time it's not models. It's married women versus 63 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: single women. Yes, so if we could talk about the 64 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: fact that we did talk about that we are very 65 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: limited in how we have, how many married male friends 66 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: and how those relationships look as single women. So there 67 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: is something to be said to that. Is it this 68 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: that there are they think that we want to have 69 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: sex with their husbands. I don't know about that. What well, 70 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: Lou and I are interested in having a child. We 71 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: already have a surrogate, but we need a time. They're 72 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: talking out surrogate, so they're touched. Got a lot of 73 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: things we've talked about. I see why you bring it 74 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:10,239 Speaker 1: up all the time. So you think it's just because 75 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: they think that you're in a couple. I know, I've 76 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: been with the firm for two years. He's barely been 77 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: spoken to me. All of a sudden it's chipped. So 78 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 1: there actually has been some research about this about being 79 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: single at work, um, But what I'm more familiar with 80 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: is it means that a lot of times single people 81 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: will get asked stay later and come earlier because it's 82 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: assumed they have no life, less family exactly which was 83 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: the while you were sleeping trope? Oh you haven't watched 84 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: that yet, but I know that's one of your holiday 85 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: film it's December. But I think there have been there's 86 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: been some reachers to that people who get married or 87 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: is more trustworthy than they can hold something down. Perhaps 88 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: perhaps hey, John, what a surprise this is our friend? 89 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: H I was for a while going to a bunch 90 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: of a good friend of mine broke up, and he 91 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: was getting invited to these parties with kind of friends 92 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: that they were sharing, and I would go as his 93 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: kind of like date not date, because he didn't want 94 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: to go. Right, I will say I did have a 95 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: good guy friend of mine, and he and I would 96 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: do things together and we would be lumped in together, 97 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: right kind of how you and I are now? What 98 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: things for sure? Um? But then like he started dating 99 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: somebody and so I got excluded completely and he got 100 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: in my with his girlfriend. I was like whatll wow, 101 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: damn yes, have you ever had a surprise fixed up? 102 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: Like you didn't know you were being fixed up? What happened? 103 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: It was incredibly awkward because it became very clear, like 104 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: I would stay within two or three minutes because they 105 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: were telling me like, oh, he's so amazing, here's his life, 106 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: it's so cool, and like telling me all these facts, 107 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: and he was right there. And then they were like, 108 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: and she's so good because she did it, and I 109 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: was like, we're not talking to each other, just talking 110 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: about us to each other. It was incredibly awkward. And 111 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: then it started to pour rain and I refused to 112 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: go up because I'm just a strange person, and he 113 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: refused to go up and get undercover as well. Then 114 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: he held his coat over my head. I was like, oh, no, 115 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: we made it worse. I definitely had tried to be 116 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: set up one time that I knew of, like ned 117 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: they would never tell me. But the one time was 118 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: when I actually had a boyfriend and he was there, 119 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: and he was there, and the girl knew it, but 120 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: she still wanted to try to set me up with 121 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: a friend. And like was telling Caroline, who was actually present, 122 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: who was sitting next to my then boyfriend, and was like, 123 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: that girl's tell her. I'm so excited for Smith to 124 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: meet this person. And Caroline looks at her, looks down 125 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: at the guy, and looks back at her and goes, 126 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: this is Sam's boyfriend. And the awkwardness He's like, oh, 127 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: I walked off. So that was the only time that 128 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: I actually knew about. That's rough. Oh this is Samantha Smith. 129 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: This is a link his wife. I don't know. I 130 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: don't think I'm very protective of my partner. Like right 131 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: now we're watching say I'm trying to just talk to 132 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: someone about advice. Wife comes up very defensively pulls him away. 133 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: That's not I think I think I would do. I 134 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: think I would just laugh and we'll move on. Yeah, 135 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, look at that computer. I'm sorry, Um, 136 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: it's a huge computer. You guys, uh with the tiniest screen. Yeah, 137 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: the speakers are big on the side. Yes. I was 138 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: thinking about this the other day when I said I'm 139 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: not jealous, was like, I wonder impact that statement. But 140 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: my ex, who had a very jealous X before me, 141 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: once he was like, I'm gonna, um my ex girlfriends 142 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: in town. I'm gonna hang out with her. So sorry, 143 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, why it did not occur to me. 144 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: I was just like, that's fine. He talked about her before. 145 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: She seemed cool, right, But I think he was weirded 146 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: out that I wasn't weirded out by it. But I 147 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, that's fine, hang out. You don't have 148 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: to get I'm glad you told maybe you have to 149 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 1: get my provision or anything. I mean, yes, you need 150 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: to tell but outside of that, for sure, I definitely 151 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: I will say that again. I don't know that I'm 152 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 1: not jealous. I probably know I've never been into that. 153 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: I'm insecure. I think you said that about the Trouble 154 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: Happy Hour episode, like, yeah, I definitely insecure something in 155 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: my head. You found something better or you like something better. 156 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: Not necessarily that I'm jealous. I don't know if that's 157 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: interchangeable or not. But as long as communications are open, 158 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: I hyblically don't care. I think that partner is pretty 159 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: good about that, because I've literally been hit on in 160 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: front of him. You were there, what is happening? And 161 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: he just started laughing. Was I guess I don't exist? 162 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't understand. Meanwhile, across town things 163 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: are winding down. Thank you so much. We really had 164 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: a great time. She is a real find. I'm not 165 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: gonna lie. So when I see this plot line which 166 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: Miranda brings the woman as her date, yes, after already 167 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: saying she's not a lesbian, and she pretends like they 168 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: are couples, and then she lets the firm know we're 169 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: not actually a couple, that she's not a lesbian, But 170 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: in real life she actually is a lesbian. Yeah, And 171 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know why. That just makes me 172 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: google a little bit. At that point in time, I 173 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: think she was married to a man and her wife 174 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 1: at that point it still like that's not true. Yeah, yep, 175 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: definitely straight. Yeah you are, but she's not straight. I 176 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: was thinking about this other day, and I want to 177 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: do an episode on this. I don't know if this 178 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: is common, but I went through like a phase where 179 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: like all of my girlfriends kissed, like I've kissed a 180 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: lot of women, and it was just kind of a thing. 181 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: We were like, okay and just try it. So the 182 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: only time that really happened to me was when I 183 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: was a nanny and I would hang out with the 184 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: mom and all her friends, and in her friend group 185 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: was like this one woman who just loved kissing women 186 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: just went round did this. I was very uncomfortable, not 187 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: just because a I'm not necessarily a lesbian, but more 188 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: so that I wasn't kissing anybody like I was very 189 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: like not tushy feeley whatever, and so I wish she 190 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: would do that. I would literally lean away and they've 191 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: got offended. She's like, do I just kissing you? I'm like, 192 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: but I don't want to kiss you. I don't know 193 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: anything about you. Why would I kiss you. They seemed 194 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:16,719 Speaker 1: really offended by this, but they're like come on, and 195 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, thank you. Yeah, yeah, always consent. And 196 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: it does kind of squick me out because I feel 197 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: like if for a woman, if you say you're bisexual 198 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: or lesbian, then suddenly like you're willing to kiss any 199 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: woman ever, which is kind of what happened here, and 200 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: it's not the case at all. Right, there's a poster 201 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: for Godzilla. Was Sarah Jessica Parker married to him at 202 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: this point? Yeah, they were for a very long time. 203 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: I've never noticed that, you know, I'm always on the 204 00:12:52,760 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: lookout for Godzilla. Well not me. Okay, so Annie, you're 205 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: Charlotte did have something to do with this. It was 206 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 1: very vague level that you thought, Um, it wasn't necessarily 207 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: about men being pigs though, yes, which is kind of 208 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: what I was like, It's not exactly what you think. 209 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: It's more like a battle more so than and it's 210 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: women against women, singles versus non singles type of situation. 211 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: So you know, I'll give you half a point, like 212 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm always going to get Yeah, overall, so not as bad. 213 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: Of course, again not a fan of women versus women, 214 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: but there is this big conversation of what does it 215 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: look like for married women versus as friendships with single women, 216 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: And this could be the conversation about of people with 217 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: children and single people and what that looks like and 218 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: how often you can hang out and and just by 219 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: schedules alone and and like life plans in general, you 220 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: automatically become a little more distant because you don't get 221 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: to do all these things. I will say so again, 222 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: one of my good friends, they just had a baby 223 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: last year, and I probably have seen them more, not 224 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: because of the baby per se, but because the previous 225 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: times we were in quarantine, so I just didn't see them. 226 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: So now that I am seeing them a little more, 227 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: not you know, of course I want to see the 228 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: cute little baby, but I get to see them too, 229 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: and it's like okay, okay. And then also there is 230 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: that the whole level of like the attitude. So when 231 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: we have the one woman who's like, I don't want 232 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: to be around my single friends, it's just sad. Of 233 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: course you don't want to be around her. Why would 234 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: you be your friends for the first place, she sounds 235 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: like an awful person. Yeah, and it's interesting to me 236 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: because you know, again, I haven't seen this, but I 237 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: did watch sitcoms UM in the nineties. And we're still 238 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: having these conversations now, like you and I are still 239 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: having them, I'm having them with other friends, UM, and 240 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: I think that's really really interesting. And then like just 241 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: growing up, I remember and we talked about this too, 242 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: like I thought I was gonna get married and have 243 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: kids and that was gonna be my life. And I've 244 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: had friends that did that right from my small town 245 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: and they seem totally happy with it. But it is 246 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: I guess I feel like in their mind and this 247 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: is me projecting and on these specific people. I don't think. 248 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: I have plenty of friends who are not single that 249 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: I do not feel like this is how they feel. 250 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: But in their minds, I feel like they think, well, 251 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: she's not this is the goal, right, and she's not 252 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: going for it like it's strange to them or something right, 253 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: because this is their thing and that's what they wanted 254 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: and they achieved it, and more power to you. But 255 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: I guess that's from my hometown. When I'll sup at 256 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: things and they're kind of like you don't have any kids, right, 257 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: so I think I will say I've lost I don't 258 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: have many friends from my hometown anymore. That could be 259 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: a whole big conversation. The ones that I am friends with, um, 260 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: they kind of have a similar mindset as I do, 261 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: so we're okay. So it was like, um, majority of 262 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: my friends. Now, I have so many more single friends 263 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: than most people would have thought, especially at the age 264 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: of forty, and they are closed in age. So it's 265 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: kind of like, Okay, this is interesting. This is a 266 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: whole new thing. But as well as the side, I 267 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: feel like we've gotten really a lot better at finding 268 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: partners that we all like to hang out with, so 269 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like a big deal. I don't know, 270 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: you tell me because you hang out with me and 271 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: my partner a lot, you can tell me now I will. 272 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: I won't kick you out until they according until after 273 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: the fact. But I mean like, for the most part, 274 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: I still like we're really good at not being that 275 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 1: couple of like clinging and making everybody uncomfortable, being odd 276 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: type of thing that's just not how we express everything 277 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 1: for ourselves. Um. As well as again, you do a 278 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: great job in interacting. So I feel like you can 279 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: do well with any group. I hope I would do too. 280 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: But my awkwardness is just my awkwardness in general. So 281 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: it's not just with couples, is it with everybody? Congratulations? 282 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: But you know, like I don't know, maybe with that 283 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: changing as well as the changing of what relationships are 284 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: and types of relationships and being more open about it, 285 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 1: I feel like it's gotten so much better to be 286 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: single today than what had been like ten years ago. Yeah, 287 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. I think obviously they are 288 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 1: still hang ups around it, but I definitely think and 289 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: we've seen you know, articles and reporting on it of 290 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: you know, people are delaying marri's and they're deling having 291 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: kids and all this stuff. So I think when we 292 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 1: compare it to this where they're sort of the outliers 293 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: at their age being single, UM, I do have. I 294 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 1: also have a lot more single friends, and I do 295 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 1: think that I can hang out um with people who 296 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: are in couples and it's not so like why is 297 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: she here, she's single. I don't really get that vibe, 298 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 1: that weird trope of like being the third or fifth 299 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: will um. I will say I've definitely had friends who 300 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: really liked couple groups and then it really threw me 301 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: off and it was so awkward to me. I'm like, 302 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: really now, and it maybe it's because we did weed 303 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:36,199 Speaker 1: out those people for myself per se, like that was 304 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: kind of like that. I'm like, I'm good, I'll find 305 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: another crew, which still hard. You know, making friends as 306 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: an adult is fairly hard. But like being able to 307 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: know whether or not you mesh well and versus like 308 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: whether or not like, oh yeah, you definitely, your ideals 309 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: are so far from mind. This is going to be 310 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: a disaster. Let's just go ahead and nip this in 311 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: the but type of conversation, maybe I'm just to elitist. 312 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, that's interesting because I my not 313 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 1: so great explanation of how I've grown up thinking about 314 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: the Hamptons in this one specific way that actually is 315 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: a piece of this though, is I feel like a 316 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: lot of times historically people get married, have kids, move 317 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: away from the city, and it sounds so like I 318 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 1: don't know, like you don't care, but that our plus 319 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 1: commute baby is not easy for either party, especially if 320 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: you've got kids involved, And so it's usually the single 321 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: person in my specific instances, something of it's a single 322 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: person going out to hang out with you, and it's 323 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 1: just the time and the distance, and then you kind 324 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: of slowly right grow apart. I think it does, but 325 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it's a war or it doesn't mean that. Um, 326 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 1: I don't think we've come a long way. Yes, I 327 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: agree in that, and I hope we continue to keep 328 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: that progress because whether or not you do have children 329 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 1: or not, And I've gotten a lot of good friends 330 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: who do have kids who do really well and being adults. Yeah, 331 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: and having adult friends being adults. That's a weird conversation, 332 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 1: but you know, it's that of being caught up being 333 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 1: being like just the parent, and that's it. They're like, 334 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: you know what, Yes, we love our child. We're gonna 335 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: take them with us and just have adventures with them, 336 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: and it's really fun. And those kids get to see 337 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 1: a whole new perspectives that are just being you know, 338 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 1: coddle to the whole time, which is not a bad thing. 339 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm not a parent, so not not saying that's a 340 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 1: bad thing at all. You do what you need to. Yeah, 341 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: I have a hard friends who have kids, and I've 342 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: actually hung out with your kids and I love their kids. 343 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: So yes, it's not a war, but clearly still sparking 344 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: some conversations to this day. Um. 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