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Speaker 1: Hey fam, Hello Sunshine.

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Speaker 2: Today on the bright Side, we're diving headfirst into the

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Speaker 2: biggest pop culture moments of the week, and who better

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Speaker 2: to help us break it all down than the dynamic

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Speaker 2: duo behind the podcast. Hold on, I'm calling my mom,

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Speaker 2: Paul Reutston and his fabulous mom Barb.

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Speaker 3: We'll dig into this year's history making Golden Globe nominations,

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Speaker 3: share how a TikTok trend is sparking less judgment in

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Speaker 3: our relationships supposedly. Plus why everyone's talking about a new

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Speaker 3: dating show produced by Michelle Obama. It's Friday, December thirteenth.

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Speaker 2: I'm Simone Boyce, I'm Danielle Robe and this is The

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Speaker 2: bright Side from Hello Sunshine, a daily show where we

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Speaker 2: come together to share women's stories, laugh, learn and brighten

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Speaker 2: your day. Okay, December is flying by. I am not

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Speaker 2: ready for the new year yet. Well, Danielle, I'm actually

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Speaker 2: really grateful for our show. I'm always grateful for our show,

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Speaker 2: but particularly during this time of year, because I've gotten

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Speaker 2: so many great ideas from some of our experts that

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Speaker 2: we've had on recently, people like Micah Myers. She's an

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Speaker 2: etiquette expert, and her tips and advice have really helped

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Speaker 2: me navigate the holiday party season with a lot more ease.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Her idea to send flowers to the host of the

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Speaker 2: party you're attending the morning of the party instead of

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Speaker 2: just bringing a gift when you arrive is something I

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Speaker 2: am totally implementing.

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Speaker 1: We also talked a lot about habit forming.

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Speaker 4: This week.

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Speaker 3: You made a promise to keep your phone out of

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Speaker 3: your room at night. How's that going?

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Speaker 1: Was that a statement or a promise?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I was a promise. It was a guarantee some

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Speaker 2: more of a statement, simon. But that's not going well

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Speaker 2: for me. I like my phone.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe listen.

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Speaker 2: I can hear Wendy Wood's voice saying that if you

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Speaker 2: want to change a habit, you just have to change

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Speaker 2: your environment. And I was inspired by that. So I'm

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Speaker 2: still gonna try. We'll see how it goes in twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five. For the rest of twenty twenty four, the

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Speaker 2: phone is staying on my nightstand.

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Speaker 1: Yeah sure sure.

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Speaker 3: It's also not every day that we have a Tony

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Speaker 3: Award winner on the show.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what an honor to have Stuff's writer, creator,

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Speaker 3: and star Shanna Tobb here to tell us about the

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Speaker 3: incredible origin story behind this show. I mean, this is

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Speaker 3: a story that she's had in her body for decades. Yes,

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Speaker 3: and it's been such a huge year for her.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Also, if you are a fan of Shanna Tabb like

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Speaker 3: we are, she is working on the Devilwar's Product musical

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Speaker 3: which just opened up in London.

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Speaker 1: Working on that alongside Elton John. Pretty big deal.

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking we have to take the bright Side on location.

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Speaker 2: We need to go see that show. I have to

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Speaker 2: see that show.

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Speaker 3: So we just have to go to London. We just

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Speaker 3: have to go. We also we have friends in London

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Speaker 3: that we have to see. Ozma Khan is in London.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we have to go to Dargeeling Darjeeling Express. We've

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Speaker 1: got to get a meal there.

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Speaker 4: We need to go.

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Speaker 1: Having twenty twenty five to us.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, today we're popping off with Paul Ruston and

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Speaker 2: his mom Barb. But before we talk pop culture and

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Speaker 2: really get into it, it's time to spotlight our favorite

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Speaker 2: moment of the week. So for this week's spotlight, we

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Speaker 2: want to highlight the legacy of renowned poet, author, and

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Speaker 2: educator Nikki Giovanni. She passed away this week at age

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Speaker 2: eighty one, but her contributions to the black art movement

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Speaker 3: Nicki was best known for writing the poem Nicki Rosa

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Speaker 3: more than twenty five books, not to mention her multiple

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Speaker 3: Black Talk, where she wrote about the intersections of love, loneliness,

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Speaker 3: her life, it's no surprise that she can count James

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Speaker 3: Baldwin and Oprah Winfrey among her fans. And she really

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Speaker 3: Okay, Danielle, I think it's sound to pop off all.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, joining us today is the mother and son

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Speaker 1: Hold on, Paul and Barbe, Welcome to the bright Side.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, we're so happy to be here.

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Speaker 2: It's so fun when we have more than one person

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Speaker 2: popping off with us. We've never had a mother son duo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is our first mother son doing.

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Speaker 4: We have big shoes to fill then, So I'm excited

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Speaker 2: I think everyone's going to have big shoes to fill

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Speaker 4: That's a lot of pressure, Danielle. I'm like, jeez, ever

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Speaker 4: starting off the morning, ready to go then?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I hear that this podcast started because your

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Speaker 3: friends would make fun of you, Paul, for being on

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Speaker 3: the phone with your mom all the time.

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Speaker 4: Literally, anybody who knows me knows that if I'm out,

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Speaker 4: whatever the situation is, we could be like out and

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Speaker 4: who at the gay bars and it's like midnight. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I got to call my mom. I got to tell

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Speaker 5: This is happening midnight. His time, three am, my time,

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Speaker 4: But you know she's a real one because she'll pick

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Speaker 4: not know what's happening. She's dishoveled, She's going to answer

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Speaker 2: Yeah, three am, Jersey times, nothing for you nothing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, it's kind of always I said, It's

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Speaker 4: always kind of been like that, Like, you know, Mom's

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Speaker 4: always been like the one I just go to. She

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Speaker 4: probably knows more than she would, like, you know, from hookups,

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Speaker 3: So what's the most awkward time you've called your mom?

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Speaker 4: Most awkward time? Well, there was one time where my

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Speaker 4: used to just walking around with her, like just talking

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Speaker 5: Just walking around. We're just talking and he's just walking

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Speaker 4: And I put the phone down and I'm but Askniki

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Speaker 5: Sitting there in the mirror, and then next thing, you know,

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Speaker 4: Like, oh my god, Mom. I was like, Okay, this

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Speaker 2: There's a reality show called I Love a Mama's Boy.

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Speaker 2: It's a dating show. Okay, And I know, Paul, you're

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Speaker 2: a reality TV show producer, so this is right up

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Speaker 2: But it was I think it's on TLC or something,

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Speaker 2: and it was on one day and my mom and

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Speaker 1: Mom brother look at all of us and are like,

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Speaker 1: I think that's us. I feel like this is your life.

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Speaker 4: Yes, a Mama's Boy. I always say, I'm like self, proclean,

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Speaker 4: proud mama's boy. I don't know if my boyfriend likes that,

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Speaker 4: but that's something I.

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Speaker 5: Probably he came in through the relationship. But pretty much

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Speaker 5: pretty much know like, these are the rules. You're going

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Speaker 2: Paul. Yes, I heard that the TV show Making a

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Speaker 2: Murderer played a role in this show and creating this show.

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous to ask how that inspired you.

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Speaker 4: I know. I was, like I said to my mom,

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Speaker 4: I was like, that kind of sounds like psychotic. If

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Speaker 4: let me get into it. And I loved that Brandon Dacy,

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Speaker 4: in jail and he was talking to his mom and

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Speaker 4: they had all these amazing conversations cataloged, and I was like,

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Speaker 4: how beautiful. Like he's up for conviction of murder, but

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Speaker 6: I think they're quiet.

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Speaker 1: So you're saying, she does know where the bodies are buried,

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Speaker 4: Where she might be out there throwing the dirt on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have any hesitation in agreeing to this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he was just and I was like, yeah, because

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Speaker 5: and then FaceTime on certain days.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so we have a schedule. Now, I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 4: now because we can't start talking like.

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Speaker 6: What days do you have off? I'm like, he's like,

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Speaker 1: Now, is that the only boundary that you have?

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Speaker 4: To be honest? That might be the only body that

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Speaker 4: we have. I was like, you know, as a grown adult,

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Speaker 4: I've been like, you know, when I tell people, I'm like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I told my you know, when I was sayingle I'd

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Speaker 4: be like, oh, I call my mom after a hookup,

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Speaker 4: or I call my mom like after a bad first date,

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Speaker 4: or I call my mom after god knows what, getting

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Speaker 4: into some trouble in our younger years, right.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, or I'll call and I'll say

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Speaker 5: you didn't pick up? And he said yeah, because I

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Speaker 5: was having sex.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, you guys, I

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Speaker 3: am No one else is blushing, but I'm blushing.

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Speaker 1: I'll blush for everyone else. I have to know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what is your what is like your family ethnicity

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Speaker 4: Family ethnicity background? Yeah, like you We're from Jersey and

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Speaker 4: my nickname was Pollie growing up. Okay, and I love

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Speaker 4: chicken cutlets. So I should be Italian by proxy just

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Speaker 4: for that fact. But we're just basic white people, Okay.

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Speaker 3: The reason why I ask is because I was raised

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Speaker 1: So the idea of me.

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Speaker 3: Ever talking to her about sex ever was like, so,

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Speaker 4: No, one of my girlfriends that I've grown up with

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Speaker 3: I'm clemmed. I'm clemmed right now that what you just said,

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Speaker 4: She's only been with one person her whole life. Not

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Speaker 1: I did that on the Tamerin Hall Show.

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Speaker 3: Well, I know we're all joking here, but I truly

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Speaker 1: Oh, how things have changed?

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Speaker 6: How things have changed. That was probably maybe the icebreaker.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's what started. That was the revolution into

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Speaker 2: I know we're joking about the closeness of your relationship,

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Speaker 6: Yes, I'm very blused that I have.

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Speaker 2: And I think it's cool that you're putting it on

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Speaker 2: for them. We have to hit pause on Popping Off,

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Speaker 3: I could honestly blow out the rest of the show

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Speaker 4: Your dynamic for this entire episode.

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Speaker 1: But we do have a lot to get to today.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I was gobsmacked.

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Speaker 5: I was like, Michelle signed up to do this? Like,

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Speaker 5: I like, so, we're Claire. I let him know that

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Speaker 4: She checked me on it. She's like, did you know?

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Speaker 3: Well, this show is called The Later Daters, And what's

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Speaker 6: I like the child parent relationship, of course.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I felt very it resonated very much

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Speaker 4: it's been a little rusty.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and they also check the parents.

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Speaker 4: Yes, which yeah, we do over here very much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing about this, I obviously think about my

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I feel like you would probably pick up

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Speaker 1: That's such a great compliment.

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Speaker 4: See, if we're going back to that slutty error, it

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Speaker 4: depends which is it changes given Barb, I'm like, uh,

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Speaker 4: he's got some tattoos. He looks like you knows how

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Speaker 1: But no, Yeah, I got everyone in the studio dying.

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Speaker 3: Overall, do we feel like shows like The Golden Bachelor

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Speaker 5: I like the one last night, the later dater. I

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Speaker 2: Okay, wow, Paul, do you think your mom is judgmental

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Speaker 4: I I feel, and I.

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Speaker 4: I think my mom definitely would be like I need

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, Paul, are you talking about.

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Speaker 4: This episode? We had the dating coach on her podcast,

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Speaker 5: I literally said that at the said Paul, I just

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Speaker 2: I asked because there's this new TikTok trend that is

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Speaker 1: I was in a real mind anyway, it's not about me.

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Speaker 2: So someone else confess to ignoring dog poop on the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think they're going to start by thinking it's

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Speaker 4: Like sometimes, as we know, people love the shock value

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I definitely think that they're going to start

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Speaker 4: how does this listen? But we don't judge?

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Speaker 2: So you kind of admit something, yes, and then you

445
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Speaker 2: say we listen and we don't.

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Speaker 5: Judge, but we kind of we listen, but we kind

447
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Speaker 5: of judge sometimes, So I don't know if we can

448
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Speaker 5: do well, but well, go ahead, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well there was one time I was going to say,

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Speaker 4: that is very true, like Barb does judge a lot

451
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Speaker 4: when I tell her something, but we go through it together.

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Speaker 4: But one thing if I if I were to do

453
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Speaker 4: one for Barb, I was thinking about it, I would say,

454
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Speaker 4: we listen, but we don't judge. And when I was younger,

455
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Speaker 4: my mom graduated college and I was so proud of

456
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Speaker 4: her that I took her graduation photo that was at

457
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Speaker 4: like the mantle of our piano, and I helped put

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Speaker 4: it in my room on one of my shelves. Well,

459
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Speaker 4: one of my friends when I came over, made fun

460
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Speaker 4: of me for having it so I hit it and

461
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Speaker 4: I never told my mom that I had it up

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Speaker 4: there in my room because I.

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Speaker 2: Was so, oh god, so sweet. That's how do you

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Speaker 2: feel hearing that?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: That's so beautiful.

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Speaker 4: If you guys ever got a tear on the bright

468
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Speaker 4: Side podcast, you might bark, we'll give it to you.

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Speaker 1: That is really sweet.

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Speaker 6: That's sweet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 6: Where is it now?

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Speaker 4: Good question?

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Speaker 6: That's well, put it right in your apartment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll hang it off there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was like, is that too far? I don't know.

478
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Speaker 4: It's other people could look a little crazy, but you

479
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Speaker 4: have one for me.

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Speaker 5: I thought, yes, I listen, but I don't judge. But

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Speaker 5: I know you always tried a lot of sports in

482
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Speaker 5: school and stuff, and I always told you how good

483
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Speaker 5: you did, But you really weren't that good in sports.

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Speaker 4: That's fair. That's fair.

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Speaker 1: That's such a good one.

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Speaker 4: That is really fair. Well done no matter what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well done you. This is my favorite version of

488
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Speaker 3: this trend yet by far.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well what was it football?

490
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Speaker 2: Well?

491
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Speaker 5: I mean you did football, you did soccer, you did basketball.

492
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Speaker 4: I was like, she shouldn't know. Right then and there,

493
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Speaker 4: this gay boy just wanted to sit at home when

494
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Speaker 4: he did the basketball. It's a little link with the breast.

495
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Speaker 4: But it's okay, It's okay. We tried, we tried, we tried.

496
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Speaker 4: They're hilarious.

497
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Speaker 3: We've got to take a quick break, but we'll be

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Speaker 3: right back to popping off with Paul and Barb Roysden.

499
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Speaker 3: And we're back with Paul and Barb Roysden. You found

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Speaker 3: your true calling, Paul, because you are now here in Hollywood,

501
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Speaker 3: the home of the Golden Globes. The Golden Globes nominations

502
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Speaker 3: were announced this week ahead of the awards ceremony, which

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Speaker 3: is coming up on January fifth. So let's talk about

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Speaker 3: who got nominated this year. So Amelia Perez and the

505
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Speaker 3: Brutalists really cleaned up. Amelia Perez scored ten nominations, including

506
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Speaker 3: Best Supporting Actress for Selena Gomez. Wicked Anra and the

507
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Speaker 3: Substance also got some love. Also, a crowd favorite, Nobody

508
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Speaker 3: Wants This, got two nominations for Best Actor Adam Brody

509
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Speaker 3: and Best Actress for Kristen Bell. Did you guys watch

510
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Speaker 3: that show? I was, yeah, there were some funny mother

511
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Speaker 3: dynamics in there.

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Speaker 6: Oh I loved it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I wasn't sure at first. If it was gonna

514
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Speaker 5: be my kind of thing to watch. Yeah, but it

515
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Speaker 5: sucked me in. It was so good. Yeah, it was

516
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Speaker 5: so good, so cute.

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Speaker 3: I also think it's really important to celebrate all the

518
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Speaker 3: female directors who are nominated this year, so for the

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Speaker 3: first time ever, this is huge, you guys. The Best

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Speaker 3: Director lineup includes six female directors, which is up from

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Speaker 3: just two the past year.

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Speaker 1: So I mean ever, I remember for years there were zero.

523
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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah we have, and there's been you know, a

524
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Speaker 3: lot of outcry, well justified around that. One of the

525
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Speaker 3: directors that I'm so happy to see nominated is Coraley

526
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Speaker 3: Fargeite for her Fema this body horror comedy of The Substance.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys see that one?

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Speaker 1: I'm dynasy.

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Speaker 2: Everybody at our office has said great things, and also

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Speaker 2: it got the longest standing ovation at the Can Film

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Speaker 2: Festival this past year, which I always think says something, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's all about aging. Yeah, I want to see it

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Speaker 1: wat Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's interesting that you brought up Can, Danielle,

535
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Speaker 3: because there's a really chaotic story behind how this movie

536
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Speaker 3: got made. So The Substance really emerged as one of

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Speaker 3: this year's best indie films.

538
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Speaker 1: But it's really only.

539
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Speaker 3: Because this director, Cora Lee, refused to compromise her vision.

540
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Speaker 3: So her film was originally set up at Universal Studios,

541
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Speaker 3: but she told this French outlet lap Point that at

542
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Speaker 3: least one male executive there hated the ending. They wanted

543
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Speaker 3: her to change the ending. They were like, we're not

544
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Speaker 3: releasing this unless you change the ending. She had final

545
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Speaker 3: cut approval in her contract, so she just said, I refuse.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to.

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Speaker 6: Change the ending.

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Speaker 3: So, just a few weeks before the film was set

549
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Speaker 3: to premiere it can, Universal sells it off to a

550
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Speaker 3: different distributor. It's named Moby. No one's really ever heard

551
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Speaker 3: of it, but her film winds up becoming one of

552
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Speaker 3: the best indie film success stories of the year. I

553
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Speaker 3: just love like hearing a story about an artist like

554
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Speaker 3: listening to her vision in a non dedicating way.

555
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. But I really do feel

556
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Speaker 4: like the women in the industry are being smart. They

557
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Speaker 4: know what they're doing, Like people are putting in contracts

558
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Speaker 4: like I'm doing X y Z, Like I love the

559
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Speaker 4: shift that we're having because I mean, I just feel

560
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Speaker 4: like that is way overdue for that to happen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also, the film has a little bit of a Jersey

563
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Speaker 2: shout out for you guys. Originally, Ray Liota was cast

564
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Speaker 2: in the film, but he passed before filming his scenes,

565
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Speaker 2: so Dennis Quaid replaced him and Leota's he was like

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Speaker 2: acknowledged in the thank you notes during.

567
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Speaker 1: The credits, So he's a he's a Jersey boy.

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Speaker 2: I know. I love.

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Speaker 4: Too. What was the one show with j Low you

570
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Speaker 4: loved with him?

571
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

572
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Speaker 1: The cop Show?

573
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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Oh, yes, one Hard for That Ye Blue Something Blue Blue.

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Speaker 2: I also loved the movie that he did with Jennifer

576
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Speaker 2: love hewittt Heartbreakers.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's an older one, right.

578
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

579
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Speaker 2: She and her mom would like go scam wealthy men

580
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Speaker 2: and Ray Liotta was one of the.

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Speaker 1: Men that they scared. Really yeah, he's amazing. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, uh, rest in peace, right, I love scamming men.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So we're nearing the end of the year, and I

585
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Speaker 2: think one of the fun things about the end of

586
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Speaker 2: the year all the wrap ups. Google does its end

587
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Speaker 2: of the year annual Year in Search report, and it's

588
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Speaker 2: so fun to debrief. So I want to I want

589
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Speaker 2: to go through a few of them with you guys.

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Speaker 2: Some top trends were completely expected election, of course. One

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Speaker 2: of the most googled things. One I didn't expect mob

592
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Speaker 2: boyf aesthetic. It was a hot search.

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Speaker 1: I am so here for the mob boy pasthetic.

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Speaker 4: But why was that the search ripa big ange. Let's

595
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Speaker 4: give her a round of applause, because that's the real

596
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Speaker 4: mob boy pesthetic right.

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Speaker 1: There, Paul, Can you explain what mob boy paesthetic is here?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm going to do. I don't know

599
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Speaker 4: the exactly. I don't want to get dragged for saying

600
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Speaker 4: the wrong The big hair and I'm taking it as

601
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Speaker 4: like Renee Grasiano, like big ang, like for mob wives

602
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Speaker 4: like that and sopranos. Yes, oh yeah, she knows that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the signature look is like the black

604
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Speaker 3: headband with like the big voluminous hair and then fur

605
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Speaker 3: or fur coat.

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Speaker 4: It's not right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Demure I expected that one.

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Speaker 4: Yes, she was proud of herself when she was Finally

609
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Speaker 4: it was three months.

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Speaker 5: Like inside means that. I was like, I know this

611
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Speaker 5: word and I have to put it out there. And

612
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 5: we were talking about something and I said, oh, yes, Paul,

613
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Speaker 5: that's so demure, and he was like Oh my gosh,

614
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Speaker 5: how long have you been holding?

615
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Speaker 4: Like I know she was waiting to use it. She

616
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Speaker 4: was waiting.

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Speaker 6: It was like, when's that opportune time going to come?

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Speaker 2: Would you be shocked if I told you Roman Empire

619
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Speaker 2: was on the list?

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Speaker 4: Is that because the gladiator?

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Speaker 1: That's such a boy thing?

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Speaker 2: Because that's actually kind of the point of Roman Empire

623
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Speaker 2: is like how many times a year do you think

624
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Speaker 2: about the Roman Empire? And women would ask their husbands

625
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Speaker 2: or their boyfriends, Oh, I think.

626
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Speaker 4: I saw this. Yeah, to me, I can't even tell

627
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Speaker 4: you what the Roman Empire is, so you've got the

628
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Speaker 4: wrong one for that. But I thought it was in

629
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Speaker 4: maybe a relation to a gladiator too.

630
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Speaker 2: I just thought it was pretty good. But then they

631
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Speaker 2: started flipping it. So women would be like, what's your

632
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Speaker 2: Roman Empire? And they'd be like, oh, my friendship breakup

633
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: from sixth grade? I think about it all the time?

634
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Speaker 4: Got it? Oh? Okay? Roman? So it's something that has

635
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 4: laid heavy on you, yes.

636
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Speaker 2: Like throughout, something that lives rent free in your head.

637
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Speaker 2: Something what's your Roman Empire?

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Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, that's a hard one, I know.

639
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Speaker 2: Something do you think about this man from seventh grade?

640
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Speaker 4: That's why he's coming back around.

641
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Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, no, I never thought about it.

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Speaker 4: No, my Roman empire that lives rent free in my

643
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Speaker 4: head is when Oh this is great. Is that as

644
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 4: a closetic gay boy in elementary school, we had to

645
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Speaker 4: go around in third grade and disclose in front of

646
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Speaker 4: the classroom what our favorite singers were. Well, obviously you

647
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 4: can imagine who mine were. I was proudly yeah, I'm

648
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 4: like Britney Stars, Spice.

649
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Speaker 1: Girls and Eleen was Selene in there.

650
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Speaker 4: No, I think she was like I appreciated some of

651
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 4: the songs, but it was Baby Spice, Ginger, Brittany. They

652
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 4: hit different. They were just like those girls in my head.

653
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: So the classes like going around and everyone's doing it

654
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Speaker 4: and I'm like shit, shit, like it's getting closer. Palms

655
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Speaker 4: are sweaty. And my teacher asked me, and I just

656
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Speaker 4: go Evan Essence and Elvis Presley and I'm like what like?

657
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Speaker 4: And I just said And I remember I was so

658
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 4: distraught all day about that. Yeah, And I came home

659
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Speaker 4: and I told my mom this story. I don't even

660
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Speaker 4: think this place is in business anymore. It was like

661
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 4: called like strawberries, like coconuts. It was like a CD store.

662
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Speaker 4: My mom's like, you said that, and I was like yeah,

663
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Speaker 4: She's like, we're going to the CD store CDs and

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Speaker 4: we're going there. So I like think I got like

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Speaker 4: good Charlotte, you know, simple plan, and we made it

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Speaker 4: a little bit more butch for me. But then like

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Speaker 4: I still slipped in like the Ashley Simpson autobiography, so

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Speaker 4: I was like, whatever, I got this, but that was

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Speaker 4: rent free my head, sweet.

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Speaker 1: And we don't just yeah right, exactly right.

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Speaker 2: She really was.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, evan Essence can stay on that list.

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Speaker 6: Me tell you I got you the CD for for

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Speaker 6: that group.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we rocked with Evanescence for a minute. But it

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Speaker 4: was just like that's what I came up with in

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Speaker 4: the heat of the moment, such a bad pairing, Like

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Speaker 4: I could have came a little.

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Speaker 6: Got them, like a shirt that said like I really

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Speaker 6: went into it for an.

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Speaker 4: Amazing I probably knew one song, which was the one

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Speaker 4: that everybody else knows.

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Speaker 6: So and then I slipped on the Brittany seating.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we have two more terms that I want to

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Speaker 1: go through.

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Speaker 2: One was hear me out, which we've talked about on

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Speaker 2: this show, because to hear me out is like a

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Speaker 2: sort of a crush that's maybe unexpected, and you're like,

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Speaker 2: wha wait hear me out?

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Speaker 1: Let me explain. So, guys, here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I could ask you a bunch of questions about your

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Speaker 2: end Review twenty twenty four wrap up. Really, I just

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Speaker 2: want to hear who you hear me out is? Who's

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Speaker 2: your unexpected crush? Well, you could just share yours, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: don't do this to me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's hear yours.

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Speaker 1: Also happens to occupy a top spot on our Spotify rap.

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Speaker 2: On one of our first shows, we had to do these.

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Speaker 2: You had to share or hear me outs yours.

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Speaker 1: I forgot who yours was. You had a good one.

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Speaker 1: Mine is Adam Driver, which is a great one.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Love that Atom Driver.

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Speaker 3: Even girls era like like toxic Adam. There's something hot

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Speaker 3: about him, insticating about the toxicity.

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Speaker 4: I think it's the I don't know. I kind of

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Speaker 4: like when he was like Kyla Ran from Star warn

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Speaker 4: about him. That gives like a little sex appealing a

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Speaker 4: weird shadow shadowy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, fine, just popped into my head. Could just say

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Speaker 6: that it popped.

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Speaker 5: Into mys yours, what's and I've forgotten his name?

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Speaker 6: The guy from Jurassic Park. He's in Wicked gold Boom, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: That yours?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, another spady daddy. He has like ultimate charisma.

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Speaker 5: Ultimate chrisma and when he talks that distinctive voice that

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Speaker 5: he has.

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Speaker 2: And he dresses cool cool, and also he's weird and

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Speaker 2: I have been finishing each other sentence.

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Speaker 4: Really, you guys have a connection. I'm like me and

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Speaker 4: you were kind of left out or start like rowning.

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Speaker 1: We'll readjust the podcast, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The forum people, the bright Side Twisted.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna have to be part of your family. Okay,

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Speaker 1: who's your hearing me out?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so is it somebody that is like not like

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Speaker 4: universally like you would think?

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Speaker 2: Mine was Drake, which is embarrassing because people don't like Drake.

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Speaker 2: I think he's corny. But I'm sorry, I love I

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Speaker 2: love Drake.

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Speaker 1: Hear me out?

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Speaker 4: No, Jake Drake Drake is I mean you can't. He's

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Speaker 4: got hits, but like, yeah, he's kind of fallen off

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Speaker 4: a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we listen and we don't judge.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I know I told you. We listen and we Okay,

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Speaker 4: somebody who's hot, and I wouldn't expect it.

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Speaker 1: Barb might have to answer for you.

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Speaker 4: I know I'm going to say.

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Speaker 6: I know, I'm thinking like, who would you?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Oh, oh my gosh, what's his name? Josh Brolin? Okay,

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Speaker 4: is that random?

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Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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Speaker 6: Here's my question, the father or the son?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I like him Boat, there's a father.

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Speaker 6: That's a father's married to Barbara.

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Speaker 1: Who's the young bro Oh James and James and Josh

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Speaker 1: they're both very like brooding our teeth that I like.

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Speaker 4: I think it's because he's just like older, but he's

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Speaker 4: still got a ship together, so he just looks good.

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Speaker 3: Like right, Okay, we're back to the older rich man archie.

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Speaker 3: It's subconsciously.

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Speaker 1: Comes back.

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Speaker 3: We don't know.

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Speaker 1: He's living through you. He's going to set you up

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Speaker 1: with his ideal man.

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Speaker 4: Is safe.

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Speaker 3: Get ready to meet Josh Brolin next week. Well, Paul

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Speaker 3: and Barb, thank you so much for joining us on

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Speaker 3: the bright side that having so much fun.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we love this.

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Speaker 6: Yes, we had such a great time.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: It was so nice to meet in both of you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, guys are so fun.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Gosh. We'll come back whenever you guys want us to

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Speaker 4: whatever this is.

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Speaker 1: I want this with my sons, whatever, whatever is happening here.

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Speaker 2: Paul and Barboydson are the mother son duo behind the

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Speaker 2: new podcast Hold On, I'm Calling My Mom. That's it.

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Speaker 1: For today's show.

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Speaker 3: On Monday, comedian and actor Michelle Buteau is here to

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Speaker 3: talk all about her new Netflix comedy special, A Butteau

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Speaker 3: Full Mind.

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Speaker 2: Listen and follow The bright Side on the iHeartRadio app,

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Speaker 2: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: The bright Side is a production of Hello.

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Speaker 2: Sunshine and iHeart Podcasts and is executive produced by Reese Witherspoon.

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Speaker 3: Production by Arcana Audio. Our producers are Jessica Wank, Krista Ripple,

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Speaker 3: and Amy Padula. Our senior producers IT'SI Kintania, and our

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Speaker 3: engineer is PJ.

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Speaker 1: Shahamat.

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Speaker 2: Arcana's executive producers are Francis Harlowe and Abby Ruska. Arcana's

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Speaker 2: Head of production is Matt Schultz.

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Speaker 3: Natalie Tulluck and Maureen Polo are the executive producers for

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Speaker 3: Hello Sunshine.

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Speaker 2: Julia Weaver is the supervising producer, and Ali Perry is

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Speaker 2: the executive producer for iHeart Podcasts. Tim Palazola is our showrunner.

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Speaker 2: This week's episodes were recorded by Graham Gibson and Joel Morales.

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Speaker 1: Our theme song is by Anna Stump and Hamilton Lighthouser.

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Speaker 2: Special thanks to Connell Byrne and Will Pearson.

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Speaker 3: I'm Simone Boyce. You can find me at Simone Boice

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Speaker 3: on Instagram and TikTok.

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Speaker 1: And I'm Danielle Robey on Instagram and TikTok. That's ro

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Speaker 1: O b A Y. We'll see you Monday. Y'all, keep

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Speaker 1: looking on the bright side.