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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, Everybody's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne

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Speaker 2: the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club law La Ross

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Speaker 2: here as well. We got a special guest in the building.

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Speaker 2: We have Tamar Braxton.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back.

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Speaker 3: I thanks.

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Speaker 1: How you feel?

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Speaker 3: I feel great?

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Speaker 1: How you feeling, friends, I'm good. I can't complain. You

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Speaker 1: got a lot going on, I do. Let's start. Let's

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Speaker 1: start first with the cooking show. Cooking Show Positivity. How

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Speaker 1: it's so positive?

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Speaker 3: Oh, here we go. You know where you're at.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you know I have a cooking show with

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Speaker 4: my mom and this has been a lifelong dream for her.

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Speaker 4: And it's been ten years in the making, and everybody knows.

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Speaker 4: I've been very open and honest about our situations at

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Speaker 4: we TV, like years ago while we couldn't do other things,

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Speaker 4: and so the opportunity presented itself again ten years later,

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Speaker 4: and here we are, and now it's under my own

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Speaker 4: production company.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know that part of it, your own production company,

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Speaker 5: because every when I when I saw the announcement, I

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Speaker 5: was like, every time y'all do like reality TV or

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Speaker 5: family related TV stuff, you always have to come out

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Speaker 5: like I don't want to do this anymore, like you

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Speaker 5: upset about I'm like, why would she go.

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Speaker 3: Back all the time?

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Speaker 4: It's just that ones particular, same people?

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Speaker 5: Okay, but I just felt I felt like you you've

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Speaker 5: been a lot better at protecting your space, and I'm like,

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Speaker 5: why would she throw herself back into that?

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Speaker 3: But now it makes sense because you have more control.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is not a reality show. This is a

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Speaker 4: cooking show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And this is a cooking show that I'm sharing with

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Speaker 4: my mother and it's probably one of my favorite projects

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Speaker 4: that I've put out since the Bracts.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are y'all cooking on the show? What kind

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Speaker 1: of food?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: So this show is really about people who want to cook,

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Speaker 4: who are intimidated about cooking, and so we're making it

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Speaker 4: easier for you all to not, you know, feel so

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Speaker 4: intimidated about cooking because it's really.

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Speaker 1: Not that serious, like what type of meals?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So last night's episode that came on, I made

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Speaker 4: like rostapasta.

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Speaker 7: Oh it's easy stuff, right? Who tastes it and says

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Speaker 7: it's good?

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Speaker 3: Do you have any judges? Well?

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Speaker 4: I do have different people. My sister came on there.

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Speaker 4: My son comes on here.

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Speaker 3: He's very honest like me and Mitch.

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Speaker 4: He's on there too, Like I mean, we have real

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Speaker 4: people on the show, like just behind the scenes people

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Speaker 4: who's honest. But my food is always good though, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I sing and I.

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Speaker 2: Cooking on the show.

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Speaker 3: In my life. What's your go to dish? Like, what's

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Speaker 3: your favorite? What you want? Oh?

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Speaker 7: Wow, that it gives that what's your what's your go

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Speaker 7: to dish? Or a man like what is the man?

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Speaker 3: What are you gonna cook for the man?

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Speaker 4: So if he likes cheese, this is what I say.

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Speaker 4: Always go to alfredo, Yeah, alfredo or some type of

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Speaker 4: salmon and spinach. Yeah, because it looks like you put

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Speaker 4: a lot of effort into it, but it's really no effort.

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Speaker 5: I feel like sometimes the guys be coming at like

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Speaker 5: they make alfredo and salmon seem like if you cook that,

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Speaker 5: come at those meals sometimes.

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Speaker 4: Well, I won't even single for a little while. So

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Speaker 5: That I've been out here. I've been out here, don't

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Speaker 4: No, I forget if we go to a restaurant, right yeah,

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Speaker 4: nine times out of ten and you don't know the food,

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Speaker 4: You're going to pick something safe and what to safe?

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Speaker 3: A salmon dish with spinach or some type.

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Speaker 4: Of greens, some like mass potatoes, right yeah, and you're

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Speaker 3: So why not do that at home? It's easy way?

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Speaker 2: Ye Now, you look, you look very glowy right now? Yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Off blue liner. Look it's a little vibe, a little

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Speaker 2: So what changed because I know sometimes you didn't seem

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Speaker 1: What got you to a place where you look happy? Like?

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Speaker 1: You look very you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean I am happy.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm always happy.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I took a year off to be by myself and

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Speaker 4: to really heal and to really figure out, you know,

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Speaker 4: what I wanted in my life and where I wanted

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Speaker 3: That's what that is.

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Speaker 1: You love? Love?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready to get back into love and back

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Speaker 2: into dating. I've seen you post something about you got

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Speaker 2: to make sure peoplen't have HIV, which was just.

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Speaker 4: Said I'm on prep. It's true though, you know, I

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Speaker 4: don't know if I'm ready for love. I know that

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Speaker 4: I'm ready to, you know, put myself back out there.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So what happened in the last relationship, I don't

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Speaker 4: And the reason why I don't want to talk about

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Speaker 4: that is because I don't want to be disrespectful, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean. I want to stay on this

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Speaker 4: and it was my favorite relationship until it wasn't. And

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Speaker 4: that's that on that And there's children involved, and I

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Speaker 4: definitely don't want to offend them, and I don't want

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Speaker 4: you know, me saying things about him that they feel

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Speaker 4: that it's derogatory, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean? Well, what is your type? I

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Speaker 3: don't know if I have like a real.

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Speaker 4: Like aesthetic type, but I do know I like nice guys,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean? I like respectful men. I

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Speaker 4: like men who want to be where are they?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 4: But yeah, that's that's my starter kit and somebody that

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Speaker 3: So I feel not just nice a lot of I

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Speaker 3: don't feel like I'm a lot in a relationship, you know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like when it comes to my job, I

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Speaker 4: am very like into it and demanding about that.

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Speaker 2: But in relationships, I'm like everybody everybody behind your laughing

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Speaker 2: when you said that, but you said.

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Speaker 7: I am not a lot of I'm a lot.

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Speaker 4: I'm alive. Yes, I don't think I'm a lot. I

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Speaker 4: feel like I'm very submissive.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, So when.

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Speaker 2: It comes to dating, have you thought about with your son, like,

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Speaker 2: how is that gonna work? When are you going to

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Speaker 2: you thought about that component?

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Speaker 3: Just like you very honest. It's like me and my mother,

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Speaker 7: Yes, okay, you know how you get around Baltimore people

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Speaker 3: So okay. So here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: That's why I say I'm not gonna, you know, date

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Speaker 4: want to keep introducing him to the wrong people.

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Speaker 1: I mean serious, Mama, need I do.

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Speaker 7: But you know, it's not really fair to him that

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Speaker 7: these relationships keep going sour, you know, But you don't

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Speaker 4: That's what I don't know. I definitely didn't this last time.

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Speaker 4: But the truth of the matter is is that it

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Speaker 3: And they let him down. You know, do you think

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Speaker 3: social media plays a big part? And break up? Social

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Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, I wish I could have

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Speaker 4: been or had the opportunity to have been more private.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I know the next go rounde it will

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Speaker 4: definitely be private.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Did you and your son have a conversation about like

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Speaker 5: he like, hey, Mom, what if we just kind of like.

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Speaker 3: It's not like that.

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Speaker 4: That was the decision that I made because I'm a

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Speaker 3: Mode all the time of mars. So yeah, So.

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Speaker 2: What happens if you do date somebody and they get

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Speaker 2: still allow and when they break up to still speak

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Speaker 4: Rag.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I feel like the relationship that he

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Speaker 3: I can't involve myself in that. What has your I

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Speaker 3: know you were celibate for some time.

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Speaker 4: I'm still celibating, Okay.

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Speaker 5: Is there like a time period that you're doing or

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Speaker 5: is it just like when you get to a place

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Speaker 5: spiritual a.

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Speaker 7: Year Jesus, Like not even a kiss, whoa or.

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Speaker 3: Nothing.

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Speaker 4: I'm not really a touchy philly kind of person on

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Speaker 5: But like you're still meeting guys though, and kind of like,

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Speaker 5: can you have friends? I'm sure casual.

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Speaker 4: Conversation friends, casual conversations, but I'm not interested. It's the

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Speaker 4: one that I've been interested in.

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, you don't earn earn for that feeling that

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Speaker 2: touched that?

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Speaker 3: Of course I do, But you know where does that

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Speaker 3: lead to? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: If they're not like minded and we're not on the

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Speaker 4: same page, It's like I'm dating for intent, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean, and nobody.

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Speaker 3: Is dating to it for intendity anymore. It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: What's so long as you've ever been celebated? Is this it?

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Speaker 6: This?

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Speaker 7: Is it?

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Speaker 1: You hurt right now?

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Speaker 3: I'm actually not. I'm okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm super crazy busy and I've done.

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Speaker 1: A lot of healing and you've been doing as far

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Speaker 1: as healing, well, you know.

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Speaker 3: I believe in therapy.

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Speaker 6: Good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I really believe in therapy, and I've just been

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Speaker 4: taking out time for myself to get to know me.

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Speaker 7: You know, what's your celibacy journey? Hard in the beginning? No, no, no, oh, tam,

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Speaker 7: I was fed up, fed up because I said a

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Speaker 7: few times that I was gonna be telling me and then.

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Speaker 1: Got pregnant.

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Speaker 3: he love. Yeah, so you recently reconciled with Tony? What

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Speaker 3: She don't even have social media on her phone. That

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Speaker 7: You said she be antagonist sometimes, Yes, that's what happens.

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Speaker 3: But it's just like regular life stuff.

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Speaker 1: It just blows up.

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Speaker 3: It just blows who you are.

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Speaker 4: I'm not a bad I'm not. What makes me a bread.

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Speaker 3: Younger siblings just get away with a lot and just

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Speaker 3: You know, you're a brain.

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Speaker 3: Yes, also you's the oldest.

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Speaker 5: Brother, it's even worse with a younger brother, because what

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Speaker 4: That's why y'all antagonistic, because y'all throw our names and

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Speaker 7: And then we were in y'all shoes before, like I

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Speaker 7: And and you weren't gay, and I'm like.

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Speaker 1: All right, a little bit a little bit I was.

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Speaker 3: I'm like a little bit over there before and then

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Speaker 7: She calls me exactly when it comes to the coat

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Speaker 3: You're a brad that's not loved exactly.

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Speaker 4: You know what it is, y'all got a chance to

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Speaker 3: And so that's what that is. That doesn't make us

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Speaker 7: You're younger, We tell you don't step in the power,

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Speaker 1: But I get it.

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Speaker 3: I get it. Yeah, what it was.

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Speaker 2: Does it bother you that your whole life is so

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Speaker 1: That doesn't matter who you're dating. It, if you unblock

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Speaker 1: But you guys kind of did it because you did that.

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Speaker 1: But that's bother you.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: It's irritating now because I can't really get away from

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Speaker 4: But I think that is something we signed up for

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Speaker 5: So yeah, does it affect you business wise, like as

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Speaker 3: Is that five TV shows that I shot? Period? So

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Speaker 3: what is this? March March seven? Five? And can love

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Speaker 3: that for you? Congratulations? Thank you at an album.

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Speaker 2: All and back making music?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, back making put in space? Is that your your

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You know I usually put out of a single on

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Speaker 4: But and I told you guys, it was an EP

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Speaker 4: Your best because I am just putting myself out there

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Speaker 2: You know, I just talk about your relationship and how

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Speaker 1: It was the most difficult thing to do.

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Speaker 3: I say it was it triggering for you?

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Speaker 4: No, it wasn't triggering with therapeutic because I'm in therapy,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and then you have October Nights. You will be

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Speaker 3: We will be joining each other. Okay, y'all joining each other?

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Speaker 4: Or the October Nights Calling All Lovers tour, I don't

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys remember that. It was

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Speaker 4: And so now that I'm not sick, and you know,

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Speaker 4: I decided to go back and kind of showcase that

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Speaker 3: I love the fact that the special guest is Roe James.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that spectacle year?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: I can't wait? The tour starts on April.

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to say, but I'm gonna because

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Speaker 1: That might sound a little gay, Okay?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 2: Ro James came up here one time, right, and Charlemagne

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Speaker 2: looked at Roe James and he was like, he has

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Speaker 7: Charlamage, Charlemagne taking an ass he had, he was.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm gonna tell you something.

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Speaker 6: When he was over there doing drops and he looked

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Speaker 3: He did say, believe, I definitely say that.

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Speaker 2: Who was the guy that came up here from Queens

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Speaker 2: that you complimented his ass and he got to touch

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Speaker 1: I can't remember his name, complimented that. I ain't never

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Speaker 6: I said, God, damn, he got a fat ass right away.

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Speaker 1: No, let's be for real for a second.

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Speaker 6: You know how fat man that ask got to be

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Speaker 6: I'm a heterosexual man. I am assist gendered male. Okay,

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 6: Come on, man, that man got some hips in the ass. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: Some man right with Rod James's. He's abnormally built for

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Speaker 3: That have hips. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we like the hip Committee.

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00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,160
Speaker 3: Yah know y'all do you don't like the hip Committee?

453
00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,320
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I'm dating. I don't want to

454
00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,600
Speaker 3: look at your wis and be like not not you.

455
00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,919
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't mind if somebody's sick, but not

456
00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:28,440
Speaker 7: my man. I just you know, I don't want to

457
00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,720
Speaker 7: be like no, I like.

458
00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:32,479
Speaker 5: You like a thing on thing because you know, I

459
00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,520
Speaker 5: like the like the muscle and all that, but just

460
00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,359
Speaker 5: like the booty in the you know how sometimes you

461
00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,320
Speaker 5: see a man be.

462
00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:41,280
Speaker 3: Like like, yeah, like I'm a little jet well mind is,

463
00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:46,200
Speaker 3: but I'm not a hip committee. Yeah.

464
00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:50,360
Speaker 7: But it's kicking off April seventeen in Virginia and Virginia.

465
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Speaker 3: Yeah, go to d C. I'm excited.

466
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm excited. What's again?

467
00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,640
Speaker 3: Okay? So I have been pondering in my head started it.

468
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,840
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm not going to really get into it

469
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:08,480
Speaker 4: because I don't want to muster up the situation.

470
00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:09,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

471
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:16,280
Speaker 4: So we really basically wouldn't be here if I wasn't

472
00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,200
Speaker 4: lied on. And that's my thing, Like I can deal

473
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,159
Speaker 4: with anything, but don't lie on me, you know, what

474
00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 4: I mean.

475
00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:23,400
Speaker 3: So that's my thing.

476
00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,399
Speaker 5: And so wait, when you say lie, you're talking about

477
00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 5: when Candy said Todd did not come for you or

478
00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,399
Speaker 5: threaten you, but you said he did when y'all had

479
00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 5: that backstage moment.

480
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:37,679
Speaker 4: So that clip came up. That was three years ago,

481
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 4: and it really did something to me because she didn't

482
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,159
Speaker 4: choose to kind of like divert from the situation. She

483
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 4: chose to call me a clown, and that pissed me

484
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,120
Speaker 4: off because we wouldn't be here had it not been

485
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:53,919
Speaker 4: for the lies.

486
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 3: You get what I'm saying.

487
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,919
Speaker 4: But what I don't want to do is continue that

488
00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 4: conversation until take away from all the hard work that

489
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 4: I have been doing these past couple of years and

490
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,040
Speaker 4: make it about a beef that I actually don't have

491
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,280
Speaker 4: a person currently.

492
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

493
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:10,440
Speaker 6: Yeah?

494
00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, have a cool No, oh my god, yes, are

495
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:14,480
Speaker 3: you kidding me?

496
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:19,120
Speaker 4: Like like the whole Escape group, Like I am Eiriss's

497
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 4: godmother and Tiny is Logan's godmother. So we have been

498
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 4: around each other for like twenty thirty years, and so

499
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 4: it was really a lot for us to have that

500
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 4: kind of a fallen out because of a lie when

501
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 4: you just should have told the public you did what

502
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 4: you did and it was what it was, and everybody

503
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 4: moves on, but continuing to stick by the narrative that, oh,

504
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,719
Speaker 4: it has to be Tamar because Tamar has it's an

505
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 4: easy target.

506
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 3: To me, it was wrong, and That's where I'm at

507
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 3: with it. Is there any chance to reconcile, Like if

508
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 3: somebody put you on, I have to ask her that,

509
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 3: you know.

510
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 4: I just feel like when you lie on a person publicly,

511
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 4: then it's your responsibility.

512
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 3: To make that right.

513
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you're the easy target when it

514
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 2: comes to a lot of things because of the show

515
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 2: and your personality and the things that you've been through,

516
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: you feel.

517
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 1: Like you are the easy target?

518
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 3: WHA, the Bractes have been on for twelve years.

519
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 5: That's kind of what I meant earlier too, because I

520
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,239
Speaker 5: feel like a lot of stuff gets thrown on you

521
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 5: all the time. Yeah, because it's easy, because it's easy

522
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 5: for people to believe because everyone grew up watching that

523
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 5: show and all of these instances with my family. Now,

524
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 5: I'm not saying I am I'm never wrong or I

525
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 5: am the victim.

526
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that.

527
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that it's easy to attach myself to

528
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 4: things and for people to believe it off the bat.

529
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you do that type of show again?

530
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 4: What show? I'm doing the same thing. I'm not a

531
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,639
Speaker 4: friend to the show anymore. I am on the show,

532
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 4: and you know, so far, so good.

533
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 5: I haven't seen this yet, but I know that there

534
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 5: was like the conversation about you not going to your

535
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 5: sister's wedding to on his wedding?

536
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 3: Are you guys going to address that at all? And

537
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,200
Speaker 3: it's like new write I think that's for her to discuss.

538
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 1: You didn't write you.

539
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 3: I think that's for her to discuss I do.

540
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 2: I'm a holy child, so I don't know how your

541
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 2: sisters and brother be playing.

542
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 5: I'm not a child, but I know when I watched

543
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 5: this because I've been watching y'all show for a long time,

544
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 5: and I think I think a lot of us too,

545
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,239
Speaker 5: even outside the show, we feel like we've grown up

546
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 5: on your family because you guys have just been famous forever.

547
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was for me watching it.

548
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 5: I know y'all go through things, but I like to

549
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 5: see y'all like especially when your mom gets involved and

550
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 5: she makes y'all make up, because I'm like, that's how

551
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 5: it really be in family. But I think for a

552
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 5: lot of people, when we heard the thing about the wedding,

553
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 5: it was like, dang, a wedding is so like that,

554
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 5: that's so serious, Like I know it had to hurt

555
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,119
Speaker 5: you if it did happen. And then I'm like, what

556
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 5: happened to even make it get there? So I think

557
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 5: that's why everybody still wants to know, like what the heck?

558
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 4: Like, all I know is that I'm the maid of honor,

559
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 4: and that's I'm going to leave that at that, and

560
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 4: I'm going to let her tell the rest of her story.

561
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: You were or you was were means you were supposed

562
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 1: to be and didn't happen.

563
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,959
Speaker 7: I'm just saying that I got the invitation that you

564
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 7: are the maid of honor.

565
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 3: Okay, bless the Lord.

566
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: You speak to all you and your sister's cool, Like y'all.

567
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 3: Like chat right, Yeah, there's a group chat.

568
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody speaks.

569
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 2: Everybody speaks a group chat with us. Sometimes when we

570
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: be upset, we all be speaking to each.

571
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 1: Other all the time.

572
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 4: I got to keep it gangster for a second. You know,

573
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 4: like your family is your family, but I feel like

574
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 4: after you, after you have like life experiences and you

575
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 4: become a certain age, you start to choose your family,

576
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. And that's just what it is.

577
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 4: I don't think that I made that rule up. I

578
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 4: think that that's something that I had to learn along

579
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 4: the way and become comfortable with. And I'm comfortable with it.

580
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 7: And is life, you know what I mean, Because like

581
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 7: you said, it happens in families everybody. And you got

582
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 7: families that that's torn apart, that don't even speak at all,

583
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 7: the goals gears without speaking, and people make their friends

584
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 7: their family, and you know you, like you said, you

585
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 7: create your family. I think what I didn't like was

586
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 7: after how many people like formed like that, that notion

587
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 7: of Tamar being a problem was after the Iona sit down,

588
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 7: that like went four years, Oh, this must who this

589
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,479
Speaker 7: is who she must be like at all times, and

590
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 7: it kind of like put a bad It just put

591
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 7: a bad like stigma around it, did you know what

592
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 7: I mean? Like there's always a problem nowhere you go,

593
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 7: like you always a problem even in your family, you

594
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. And then nobody like cleared that

595
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 7: up for you, and the.

596
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 4: No, they didn't, they didn't, and I think that they

597
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 4: were apprehensive to do so because what happened before, what

598
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 4: you didn't what you all didn't see, is that she

599
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 4: outed my sexual abuse and that was a problem that

600
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 4: it would have been a problem for anybody, you know,

601
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 4: and anybody would have had an attitude, anybody would be

602
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 4: ready to fight and be on defense mode. And that's

603
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 4: what happened. And so I felt like they didn't want

604
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 4: to further that conversation because it would have been uncomfortable

605
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 4: for me because here I have of.

606
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 3: Talking about it ten years later. You get what I'm saying.

607
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: So I have you dealt with that and.

608
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,640
Speaker 3: Deal with it?

609
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: You know?

610
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 4: I think that's a lifelong thing, you know, because you know,

611
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 4: there's so many things that comes up after your abuse,

612
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So, yeah, that's something that

613
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 4: I constantly deal with. But I think today now I'm

614
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 4: my best self.

615
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 1: How does that affect you with raising your son? Right?

616
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: Because it has to put you in a spot where

617
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 2: it's like I want to be on top of them

618
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven to make sure nothing like that

619
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 2: happens to him.

620
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: So how is that as well?

621
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 7: Well?

622
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 3: You are?

623
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 7: You are?

624
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,360
Speaker 4: He don't go on play there as at other people house.

625
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 4: They got to come to my house. That's what that

626
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 4: gives you the same way. Yeah, and you know he's

627
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 4: in therapy because I want him to be open and

628
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 4: honest about his feelings. And yeah, you just got to

629
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 4: take it one day at a time because I can't

630
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 4: impose what happened to me on him.

631
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

632
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 2: Now, you have so many sisters, and this is just

633
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: a because I have a big family, and I'm just curious,

634
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 2: where does it get to the point where y'all don't

635
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: f with each other all the time?

636
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 7: Right?

637
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 2: And the reason I say that as parents and you

638
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 2: have six kids, that's the one thing.

639
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: That you push, right, you have your sisters back, I

640
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: don't care what happens.

641
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: And it's sad because as close as I seen y'all,

642
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 2: sometimes you don't have for each other. Yeah, So what

643
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: what makes y'all drift apart? Is it the communication?

644
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,959
Speaker 1: Is it? Mom's not doing it?

645
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 6: Like?

646
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 1: What makes their family not with each other? At times?

647
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 4: I feel like it's life, and I feel like we're

648
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 4: a bunch of women, and as women, we have different

649
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 4: opinions about things, you know what I mean, And you

650
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 4: take breaks like you do your homegirls, you know what

651
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 4: I mean, take breaks and then you come back. Just

652
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 4: because I don't talk to you every single day. Don't

653
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 4: don't mean I don't have your bag. You know I

654
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 4: have your bag, but I just don't mess with you

655
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 4: right now.

656
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying is that weird.

657
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 5: I think we get it because we have siblings maybe

658
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 5: heat and also two we girls too, so it's like,

659
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 5: you know, sometimes you just need to like love you

660
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 5: to death, but not today.

661
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 3: Today and not next week.

662
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, because y'all all grew up in the same house

663
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 7: and all y'all still got sick.

664
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 3: Y'all got a lot of different personalities. It's different.

665
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 7: Everybody's personality is different. I don't feel like none of

666
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 7: the brags and sisters are the same exact.

667
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 3: No, we're not. We're not. You know, there is a Libra,

668
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 3: which is a lot, there is.

669
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 4: There is a Virgo, which is too, and yeah, there's

670
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 4: a Sagittarius, and there's a Pisces.

671
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 3: My sister was the Ares. So yeah, we're all totally different.

672
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know, you figure out a way to

673
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 4: deal with each other because you love each other, which

674
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 4: I feel like in any relationships.

675
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 3: Even with a man or a woman, you figure out

676
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 3: how to deal with each other.

677
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 4: And love each other throughout all the bs and you know,

678
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 4: you just move on and live life, but you don't

679
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 4: hold onto yesterday.

680
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, Now, we were talking about dating this week and

681
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: you said that you're you're actively dating when it comes

682
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: to dating.

683
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,719
Speaker 1: Does your man get a cheating past? Right?

684
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: And this comes from Young Miami. Young Miami said that

685
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 2: she would give her man three cheating passes. The fourth

686
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: one she's outcuse she feels like every man cheats. Would

687
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 2: you give your man a cheating past? Or have you

688
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: given your man a cheating past?

689
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 3: That's a trick question.

690
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like it's a truck question because if

691
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 1: you say, yeah, one past.

692
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 3: That a cheating past.

693
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 4: Okay, I wouldn't say a pasty, but if he cheated,

694
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 4: I do feel like that they.

695
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 7: Deserve a conversation. I don't feel like in life that

696
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 7: that is.

697
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: God I'm gonna get.

698
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 4: I don't feel like that's a total deal breaker, especially

699
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 4: when you have life together, assets together, children together. It

700
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 4: is a conversation because there is a breakdown somewhere, you

701
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 4: know what I mean?

702
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 3: I don't know.

703
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,959
Speaker 4: I just feel like when you cheat, you not ready.

704
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, have you ever been a Cheatah? I have? And

705
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 3: what's the worst thing I've ever done?

706
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: What got you to that point? Was it a drunk night?

707
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 3: Or cheated back? I cheated first. I cheated first because

708
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 3: I felt like I'm in trouble. In trouble because you

709
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: are single, you don't have nobody else.

710
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 4: Want to be cheated first because a relationship was not resolved.

711
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 4: And you know, I started talking back to that person

712
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 4: and I was confused. I spun the block and I

713
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 4: was just confused. And that's just the real truth. And

714
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 4: it was a mistake.

715
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: You get caught, No, I got caught bad cheatering.

716
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: No, I wasn't a bad cheatering. I got caught.

717
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: A cell phone.

718
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 3: It was in my phone. It was in my phone,

719
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 3: and it was bad.

720
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: Was it a picture?

721
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 3: It was bad?

722
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: Jesus.

723
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 3: It was the worst mistake I've ever made.

724
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 4: I would never ever, ever ever cheat on anybody ever again,

725
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 4: ever ever ever. Yeah, because how do you recover? I

726
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 4: feel like it's hard for men to recover from. And

727
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 4: what I don't want to do is break someone I love.

728
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Because you realize how.

729
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 4: Much you love that person after you cheated, Yes, and

730
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:54,959
Speaker 4: you can't take it that and that's just the truth, Like,

731
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 4: that's really just the truth.

732
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 7: Sometimes you really don't know what you got until it's

733
00:29:58,880 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 7: about to be out the door.

734
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you got caught before it too. Yeah you

735
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 3: see me overhit my hands again.

736
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 6: Now.

737
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 3: And it's the crazy thing.

738
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 7: I left my I left a good relationship to be

739
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 7: with my first dad and he I got with him,

740
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 7: and not even twenty four hours later, this nigga cheated

741
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 7: on me. And I try to go back to the

742
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 7: guy like this is it too late? Yeah, you know,

743
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 7: so it's too late.

744
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it.

745
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 4: Do you feel like I'm actual a questions? Because okay,

746
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: we have an open conversation.

747
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you feel like a man can.

748
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 4: Ever recover from their woman cheating on them? No, you

749
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 4: think so.

750
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

751
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 2: It's gonna take time, but I think I think they

752
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: could and be Yeah, I think I think you could.

753
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 2: If this is how I look at it, If a

754
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: woman really wants to get back and really wants to

755
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: change and evolve and make a man feel comfortable, it's

756
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 2: the same thing when a man cheats. With a man cheats,

757
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 2: what what makes a woman feel comfortable again is being

758
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: is allowing them to be comfortable.

759
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: Right, I cheated, I talked about it my book.

760
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: But I had to be able to be open with

761
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 2: my wife where I know that I'm not doing no dirt.

762
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: Like I leave my phone here, here's my phone. She

763
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: never takes it, but she knows if she wants to

764
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: she can. Here's access to my social media, his access.

765
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: To anything that you need to make you feel feel comfortable,

766
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 2: to know that I will never do.

767
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: You know, Hey, I'm going on the road, bab you

768
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: want to come with me.

769
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 2: I want her to feel comfortable where she never has

770
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: that doubt in her mind ever again.

771
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: Now I'm not gonna lie. It's not easy. It wasn't easy.

772
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't difficult.

773
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 2: And sometimes, like I tell a story, I went to Vegas.

774
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 2: I walk in the room in Vegas right, and it

775
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: was pennies on the floor. My wife was on FaceTime

776
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: and I went down and I complained, like I got call.

777
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: I said, babe, look I stopped. I went downstairs because

778
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: I was so scared. She was like, YO, calm the

779
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: fuck down, Like I believe it. But I was scared.

780
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: She wasn't even in Vegas.

781
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 2: But that's how I am because I want to show

782
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 2: her like yo, I fucked up, and like you said,

783
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: It was the worst decision in my life because you

784
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: hurt somebody that you love, for you kill the trust

785
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: and you got to try to get that back. And

786
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 2: this is the person I'm been with my wife since

787
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: fifteen and sixteen thirty years, So yes, you can. So

788
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 2: if she can do that, I got to put myself

789
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: in that predicament. If she cheated on me, would I

790
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: be able to take that back? It depends how hard

791
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: it was for her. Now I do see a lot

792
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 2: of men that she and be like, yeah, cheated and

793
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 2: what it's over? Forgive me, that's.

794
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:18,239
Speaker 6: That's right.

795
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: But if you really feel sorry and really try to change,

796
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: and I don't know, sucking, She's like, if you really

797
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 2: say no, I'm.

798
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: A change and changes change behavior, you know, so I could.

799
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 4: So you would give them the opportunity. So what was

800
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 4: your wife? You would give her the opportunity? Well, y'all

801
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 4: got a lot of stuff.

802
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: You're the wrong person, but I would It would be

803
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 2: hard to see because I think for a man mentally, yeah,

804
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: the fact that I got to see you sucking, that

805
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: would be hard.

806
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 3: Crazy, But you know, she might have just climbed on top.

807
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: See I don't want to see.

808
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 3: It's a video. It's over with.

809
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 5: Girls had that say what wasn't a video? It was

810
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 5: a picture and it was Oh my god, it was

811
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 5: so bad. I did it on purpose.

812
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: I forgot it was in my phone. I forgot. No,

813
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: you like it was already over with. You know what

814
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I had nothing to hide and I forgot. Forget.

815
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 3: That's a big forget. I forgot it was in my phone.

816
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 3: That's the whole episode.

817
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I'm just askeding.

818
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 2: So when he approached you, what was the conversation, like, Hey,

819
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: did you just throw it in your.

820
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Face, like look at this right here? Or was it

821
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: like what did you do? January third, I just knew.

822
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,239
Speaker 3: I woke up and he was gone. Oh and I

823
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 3: just knew.

824
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: I saw and I called, didn't answer.

825
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 4: He did, and it was bad and he was crying.

826
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 4: He was yes, it was broken. Yeah, And that hurt

827
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 4: me to this day. That hurts me that I hurt

828
00:33:58,600 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 4: that person.

829
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: That bad week.

830
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 3: No, do you check on this.

831
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: Instagram a while?

832
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 3: No, we can't check on people. You're not gonna tell

833
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 3: us what ex this was?

834
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 4: No, No, it was.

835
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 3: So long ago.

836
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 7: But the thing is video, the video probably hurt them

837
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 7: so bad because you're doing the.

838
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 3: Things that you do with me with like worse.

839
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 4: Indead, they took it out my phone, set it to

840
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 4: themselves and deleted it out my phone.

841
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, so now you can't even do it like I

842
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 7: would be so Sam, I can't even really practice.

843
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 5: Because on your your podcast that you have like Love

844
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 5: and Beyond, these are the conversations that you're having. That's

845
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 5: like the conversations that we're having because you're you're so vulnerable,

846
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 5: You're so open. It's like having girl talk with you.

847
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 3: It is. Do you ever get nervous though?

848
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 5: When you're having these conversations that like maybe that ex

849
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 5: or like whoever you might have a conversation comes back

850
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 5: up on social media. It's like I want to tell

851
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 5: my side and now it's a whole thing.

852
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 4: That's what I'm very skeptical about talking about people, gotcha,

853
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Because it takes away from

854
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 4: everything that you're doing for a moment and it's a

855
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 4: complete distraction.

856
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 3: So I'm very respectful now.

857
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 4: Right, That's one thing I did learn envy respectful now

858
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:23,280
Speaker 4: of what I say, and I make sure that whoever

859
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 4: I'm talking about, that nobody knows who I'm talking about right, Yeah.

860
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 3: What conversations are you having with your mom while you

861
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 3: guys are cooking?

862
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

863
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: We talk about stuff like that. Yeah.

864
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, we talked about last night on the premiere, like

865
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 4: get them girl, Like, what's what's the things that you

866
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 4: what's the things that you cooked to.

867
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 3: Get them girl?

868
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 4: And we talk about kids, We talk about life, we

869
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:46,720
Speaker 4: talk about we talk about everything.

870
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, my mom is one of my favorite people. Y'all.

871
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 3: Dynamic is dope. That's why.

872
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 7: Actually she's not. She'll get into the things. Yeah, she'll

873
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 7: get into the things.

874
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 3: And she's so.

875
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 4: I don't know, she's just amazing and she just the

876
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 4: best advice about everything.

877
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 7: Listen, you are so right. I sat next to your

878
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 7: mother on a flight before.

879
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 4: Right.

880
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 3: We're in first class, of course, first.

881
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 7: Class, but we said, I said, right next to her, right,

882
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 7: and I was on the phone. I was handling something,

883
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 7: and the we weren't even about to take off yet.

884
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 3: They were about to just do.

885
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 7: That that that man and the white flight attendant. She

886
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 7: was like, you need to get off of your phone.

887
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 7: I don't know, like talking to me crazy, and I

888
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 7: your mother knew I was about to go off, yah,

889
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 7: and she just put her hand on my knee, and

890
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 7: she was like, m M, don't that's her because that's

891
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 7: what they want you to do. They want she wants

892
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 7: you to act up. She was she already wasn't the best.

893
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 7: She didn't greet people. She didn't greet us. It was me,

894
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 7: a mother, maybe one other person of color, and first

895
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 7: class didn't greet us, didn't you know. And when she

896
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 7: did it was very lack of love. So you would

897
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 7: you like something to drink before we go or whatever?

898
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 7: And she was like, that's what she wants you to do.

899
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 3: Do not do it.

900
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 7: Your mother knew I was really going. And then you

901
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 7: know who? She said you, I remind.

902
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 3: Her of absolutely.

903
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 7: Sneaking out the house going to Baltimore every such and such. Oh,

904
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 7: me and your mother got into it or got into

905
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 7: some things about you, and you know, your sister's on

906
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 7: the flight, but she definitely she wasn't there. I probably

907
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 7: would have been on the no fly list. The way

908
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 7: that lady talked to me.

909
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure it's crazy. Yeah, my mother has.

910
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 7: A way of like being honest but giving it to

911
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 7: you in a comforting way.

912
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 4: Yep.

913
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 3: She has a presence, Yes, she does. You know.

914
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 4: We did an interview yesterday and she let me have it,

915
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: and nobody knew she let me have it, but I

916
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: knew she let me have it because she was we

917
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 4: were talking about dating, and she was talking about why

918
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 4: men are the way that they are now, and she

919
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 4: was saying, it's really the boy mom's faults because we

920
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 4: think that they are our kings and we don't have

921
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 4: to make them do things and figure life out and.

922
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 3: Stuff like that.

923
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 4: And so she was like, well, why why wouldn't they

924
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 4: expect for you to pay for a day, Why wouldn't

925
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 4: they expect.

926
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 7: For you to trick on them? Why wouldn't they Like

927
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 7: what do you mean? It's not their fault. That's the

928
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 7: perspective I haven't heard. Oh my mother ate me alive yesterday.

929
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,479
Speaker 5: Oh, because she's seeing your like that with your son. Yes,

930
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 5: I'm like that with my People tell me like if

931
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 5: you if I ever have a boy, I'll understand it.

932
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 5: But I feel like my mom's like that with my

933
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 5: little brother. It's like there's no accountability ever has she has?

934
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 5: Why that's her baby? And I'm like, what the heck? Like,

935
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 5: why is it like that? I don't get it because

936
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 5: I don't have a son, But how old is your brother.

937
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 5: My brother is thirty.

938
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 3: Is he dating? Yeah? A couple of people. Yeah, yeah,

939
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 3: that's what it is. Oh wait, I don't even he

940
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 3: might have a girlfriend, right, yeah, I don't know.

941
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: Trouble.

942
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 3: He's in trouble anyway, trouble to death. But it happens.

943
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 2: But what did mama and your son say about the

944
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 2: Tamo Braxton fashion overad?

945
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 4: My son is like, oh, that's what you're putting on

946
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 4: the internet. Long it is different, Yeah, logan is different.

947
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 4: My mother didn't really say anything.

948
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 3: My mother know I'm outside for me heavy, but you know,

949
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 3: I didn't see anything wrong with it. Was fashion. I

950
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 3: got it on fashion nove so I took a picture.

951
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 3: They paid me for their clothes. Period. Period.

952
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: How are your d ms after that picture?

953
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 3: Interesting?

954
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: Interesting?

955
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 3: They were very interesting.

956
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: Celebrity celebrities hitting you up all the time recently. It's

957
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: a crazy celebrity.

958
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give names, but they send like athletes, explicit stuff,

959
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 4: explicit stuff like body parts, explicit.

960
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: You can say penis pic.

961
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want you to gross, I want you to

962
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 3: sing on it.

963
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I.

964
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 7: Can only imagine what Corny is coming with it.

965
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

966
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: Just so your d has been popping. Have you anybody

967
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 1: back in the would.

968
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 4: Never know the right person? Yeah, but no, no one

969
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 4: that I'm interested in.

970
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 3: Could you see yourself beating another singer, another art I've

971
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 3: never ever dated. That's why I said, could you ever see?

972
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 3: I think it'd be interesting I could. I think is

973
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 3: it hard? You think? Yeah? It is? Yeah? What makes

974
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 3: it hard?

975
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 7: I dated somebody in my line of work and it's

976
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 7: just like, really, why is the house is competitive at

977
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 7: that point?

978
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: Competitive? Yes?

979
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: Like I think you funny to me.

980
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 3: I mean you ain't funny to me.

981
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 7: We're gonna do it tour together, but I'm gonna get

982
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 7: the split gonna be sixty forty seventy thirty. It's like, no, no,

983
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 7: you ain't that much money, Like, come on, come on now,

984
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 7: so's it can get competitive, you know what I mean?

985
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 7: And I know that there are relationships that work that

986
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 7: do work like that when both people are famous.

987
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 3: But I think dating a regular person is worse. You

988
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 3: think that I do? Damn I don't understand us. Yeah,

989
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 3: regular people you date become famous after Yes, yes, you're

990
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 3: giving people careers you know what? Leave me alone?

991
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 7: Yes, because I'd be like I even know this man

992
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 7: now I'm so invested like now.

993
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 3: And now they have to thank you for putting them on.

994
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 4: I mean, because I'm such in the public eye, you

995
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 4: know what, they can't. I can't help it. It really

996
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 4: wasn't done purposefully right. So that that's what makes it

997
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 4: hard to date a regular person because afterwards they feel

998
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 4: like they're leveling up on you.

999
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 5: Has any of your exes ever leveled up on you?

1000
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: No?

1001
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 7: Baby, that was that was a trick question. That was

1002
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,919
Speaker 7: a question that you didn't take a long time.

1003
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: He was level up on that right period.

1004
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 2: Definitely checked cooking show, cooking sessions with Tamar and miss E.

1005
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: Tamar is forty eight years old, and you when you.

1006
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 2: See pictures of her forty eight birthday, you're like Jesus

1007
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 2: Christ logan, you better check moms.

1008
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 4: He does guys block you that week? You blocked me, friend,

1009
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 4: unblocked me?

1010
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: Now why you blocked me? For you was doing a lot?

1011
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: I was.

1012
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 3: It was birthday.

1013
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: It was soft point. Did you see pictures?

1014
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 3: No ID? And it's not solid point. It's modeling. Why

1015
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 3: can't I be a model? Article in here?

1016
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 4: Oh?

1017
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 3: Talking about gotten people every now and then? And you

1018
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 3: got it? So I did right?

1019
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 1: God all right.

1020
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 2: Well, make sure you check out Tamar Braxton of cooking shows,

1021
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 2: Cooking Sessions with Tamar and Miss Eve, her new project,

1022
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: and of course she's on tour April seventeenth. If you're

1023
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 2: in Virginia, what port of Virginia, Norfolk, if you're in

1024
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: the seven five seven, definitely check out.

1025
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: And we appreciate you for that.

1026
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 4: Thank you, Fred, Thank you guys. My new project comes

1027
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 4: out on April eleventh. I'm gonna tell the people because

1028
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 4: the people be acting like I'm gonna put it. I

1029
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 4: don't put out enough music, and I'm appalled.

1030
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: We're excited that you are. It feels like it's been

1031
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 3: a very long time. It has It has been a

1032
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 3: long time.

1033
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: It has been last long but about a year ago.

1034
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: And I'm number one. Thank you my friends for Perry period.

1035
00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 1: You got a wrecking out of play.

1036
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 3: I don't. That's say can you? Can you get what

1037
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: you know? You don't want to do it yet? I

1038
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 3: don't don't. We're gonna wait till this time April eleventh,

1039
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 3: April eleven. I love y'all so much, your family.

1040
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,439
Speaker 1: It's Tamar Braxton. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Wake

1041
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 1: that ass up in the morning Club, breakfast Club,