Speaker 1: Just a little hit of that Second Date today. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it's brigand Jeffrey and you've found the podcast. Thanks so
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Speaker 1: an amazing cause. You really appreciate it. And let's get
Speaker 1: you that second.
Speaker 2: Date, Second Date up date. We got an email from
Speaker 2: a listener and I'll just read the subject line. Okay,
Speaker 2: it says there's a scamming coward on the dating apps
Speaker 2: and you need to help me expose him Jesse and
Speaker 2: his name is Scotty. Don't but it is not. I'm
Speaker 2: just kidding. It's an inside joke on the show right now.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna put that aside with the bottle of
Speaker 2: peach snaps and everything else. That's waiting up in his
Speaker 2: hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here, because she
Speaker 2: did seem pretty heated in her email. Just on the
Speaker 2: subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk to Lindsay. Lindsey,
Speaker 2: welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi already coming in hot, just with that high. I
Speaker 1: love it, Lindsay, what's going on?
Speaker 3: I did, and I want to call him. I want
Speaker 3: to call him.
Speaker 1: Let's take a deep breath.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll get into him. Can we know what's this
Speaker 2: guy's name?
Speaker 3: His name is Alex and honestly, don't even call him
Speaker 3: a guy. He's a boy. Wowward, what happens?
Speaker 1: Okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.
Speaker 2: But I appreciate the passion that you have.
Speaker 3: What happened, Well, we got dinner and it was going great.
Speaker 3: I felt like we were really connecting, having a good time.
Speaker 3: He seems more into me than I was into him.
Speaker 3: And towards the end of the meal, he gets up
Speaker 3: to go to the bathroom and never comes back.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: No, we have talked to people that have done this
Speaker 1: or had it done to them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really extreme.
Speaker 3: I've heard of this happening online. I never thought this
Speaker 3: would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt
Speaker 3: like an idiot.
Speaker 1: Oh God, how long did you sit there? Did you
Speaker 1: get the waiter to like go check on him or what?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,
Speaker 3: maybe we can check the bathroom. Is he okay? I
Speaker 3: actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.
Speaker 2: He was gone, oh well, oh yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: I hate to ask, but usually the people that do
Speaker 1: this aren't enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've
Speaker 1: done this before?
Speaker 2: Strong he did something?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he usually did it have a really good reason.
Speaker 2: I come, he doesn't like you so much? Left right?
Speaker 3: As I said, he seemed more into me than I
Speaker 3: was into him.
Speaker 1: He was so.
Speaker 3: Slurty and funny and like, who does this? What kind
Speaker 3: of garbage piece of craft hymn? And leave their dates
Speaker 3: at the end, the dates all by yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's going don't.
Speaker 4: Call her back.
Speaker 1: You have a lot of reason to be upset. But
Speaker 1: I don't know that he is going to hear you
Speaker 1: if we're coming in at that level, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, what do you want out of this.
Speaker 1: You want to call him out and then what I.
Speaker 3: Want to know what made him do that?
Speaker 5: So you want to know what's good that we're going
Speaker 5: to talk and not you because it sounds like you're
Speaker 5: just gonna yell.
Speaker 2: This is definitely different because most of the people that
Speaker 2: reach out to us want another date with the person
Speaker 2: that we're about to call. Lindsey, you have no interest whatsoever.
Speaker 3: No, I want you to call him and then I'm
Speaker 3: going to come on the phone and leave him out.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like
Speaker 1: what if he has a good reason, but.
Speaker 2: There isn't there. There is no good reason a man
Speaker 2: should ever do that to a woman.
Speaker 1: We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergedencies
Speaker 1: where they can't go back to the table.
Speaker 2: He could have texted her and said something to her
Speaker 2: like exactly have you reached out to him since that?
Speaker 2: Since that happened.
Speaker 3: Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of
Speaker 3: opportunities to write me back and let me know if
Speaker 3: something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like
Speaker 2: mean names in the text message I.
Speaker 3: Mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,
Speaker 3: so he didn't deserve me being nice. He didn't get that.
Speaker 3: He does not get that.
Speaker 1: What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this
Speaker 1: guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up
Speaker 1: on us. Why because he knows he knows how mad
Speaker 1: she is. She's already been texting us.
Speaker 2: Well, he won't know that she's on the line until
Speaker 2: we surprise her with that.
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this
Speaker 1: is his chance, right if it's something he thinks she did,
Speaker 1: not that I support.
Speaker 2: That women don't do things wrong in the dating world.
Speaker 2: So the only.
Speaker 3: May's done this, I bet he's done this to like
Speaker 3: a hundred women, so he can't get away with it,
Speaker 3: and he has to defend himself or say something.
Speaker 2: Oh you think he does this like all the time
Speaker 2: he gets out is nothing to do he does?
Speaker 3: Okay, because he was acting so smooth and funny, flurry,
Speaker 3: I can read these guys like a book.
Speaker 2: Okay, So the only reason that you reached out to
Speaker 2: us here is just because the idea of not knowing
Speaker 2: why he left that night is probably just killing you
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 3: And if he's gonna humiliate me. I'm gonna humiliate him
Speaker 3: on the radio.
Speaker 2: Okay, We're not just doing this for Lindsay today, We're
Speaker 2: doing this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up
Speaker 2: and walked out of in the middle of dinner.
Speaker 1: Let's get him, ladies, come on, I don't even know
Speaker 1: if he's a scammer.
Speaker 2: We are gonna merciless when we come back and do
Speaker 2: the most brutal second Date Part two we've ever done.
Speaker 1: If you're a guy, I would.
Speaker 2: Not answer your phone in the next five minutes, Well
Speaker 2: please answer so that we can have something to air.
Speaker 2: But we're gonna do it right after this second date update.
Speaker 2: This is a little tense because there's a woman listener
Speaker 2: of ours on the phone right now who is out
Speaker 2: for blood.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, she is.
Speaker 5: Claws are out because in her mind and I do
Speaker 5: kind of agree with her here, there's no reason for
Speaker 5: a guy to get up and leave a table at
Speaker 5: the end of the date, sneak out of the restaurant
Speaker 5: and stick her with the entire bill.
Speaker 1: And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not
Speaker 1: like he left in the middle and like some emergency.
Speaker 1: But that's what that's a good point, Joe.
Speaker 2: That's what happened to Lindsay, or I mean, at least
Speaker 2: I think she got stuck with the bill. What happened
Speaker 2: with the bill, Lindsay? Did you pay it? Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's another thing. He left me to cover
Speaker 3: the bill. The waiter saw me sitting there for a
Speaker 3: half hour and somehow up said he was and he
Speaker 3: generously covered my bill, which was so nice.
Speaker 2: Told the manager to take it off the bill.
Speaker 3: You didn't have to pay, Yeah, I didn't have to pay.
Speaker 3: But the humiliation of being left alone there was the
Speaker 3: worst part of it.
Speaker 1: Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone under desk. Sometimes
Speaker 1: even if it stood up, I can't shameful.
Speaker 2: But Brooke, I think we need a game plan so
Speaker 2: we all don't jump on alex and like get angry
Speaker 2: right off the back.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think first of all, we shouldn't accuse
Speaker 1: him of anything we don't know from his side what happened.
Speaker 2: You liar, you would say that there.
Speaker 1: Could be a reason, even if his reason sucks. You
Speaker 1: want to hear it. That's the whole point of you
Speaker 1: calling in, right, You want to hear it.
Speaker 2: He better be in the hospital when we call him.
Speaker 2: I won't forgive him.
Speaker 1: The only way we're going to hear it is if
Speaker 1: we come in not accusatory.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.
Speaker 1: Yes, well the girls do not see I mean right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't heard the other side of the story yet.
Speaker 2: I don't care what the other side of the story
Speaker 2: is personally, but you know what, I'm going to dial
Speaker 2: Alex and we're going to be on our best behavior.
Speaker 2: Hopefully he picks up up.
Speaker 3: Here we go, let's see what he says.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I.
Speaker 2: Kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're
Speaker 2: looking to speak with Alex.
Speaker 4: UT's see.
Speaker 2: Hey Alex, hope you're having a good day.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hello, Sorry Alex, I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.
Speaker 4: Hi, I know past Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: That's me. I'm a radio host on the show Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Hey Alex, Wait, what.
Speaker 1: The whole show's here?
Speaker 2: Man? Yeah, you're on the radio right now. We're just
Speaker 2: hoping to have a nice, calm, pleasant conversation with you
Speaker 2: today about what a date you went on recently with
Speaker 2: one of our listeners. Her name is Lindsey. Please don't
Speaker 2: hang up.
Speaker 4: O my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you remember lindsay, huh yeah.
Speaker 2: So we heard from her that you two went out
Speaker 2: to dinner recently.
Speaker 1: Which she thought was going great. She really was enjoying
Speaker 1: her time with you.
Speaker 2: And then there was the bad part of dinner, which
Speaker 2: happened when you went missing from the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Like, yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna apologize immediately.
Speaker 2: So you admit that, you admit that happened, you walked out.
Speaker 4: I take full credit for that.
Speaker 2: What credit's got?
Speaker 1: That's like a pride thing when you take credit or something.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 4: Because she probably didn't share with you, But I saw
Speaker 4: her and her little friend before the date.
Speaker 1: What little friendend?
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know her little friend's name, her little girlfriend.
Speaker 4: They were about a block away from the restaurant. Her
Speaker 4: and her friend were involved in something else, so they
Speaker 4: didn't notice me.
Speaker 1: What do you see them do? That's so terrible.
Speaker 4: Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.
Speaker 4: So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app
Speaker 4: is not working, can you pay for me? And she
Speaker 4: like backed her eyes and working, and her friend said no,
Speaker 4: just say a little more believably, she's coaching her.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly so she would have to pay for an
Speaker 1: uber home.
Speaker 4: She was like, my uber apps not working?
Speaker 3: Did you pay for me?
Speaker 4: It was like sociopathic the way she did it.
Speaker 3: So you pathic the way I did it.
Speaker 2: We have to let Alex know that that is Lindsay
Speaker 2: on the line, would never.
Speaker 3: What I'm hearing. What I'm hearing Alex is that you're
Speaker 3: so so guys aren't supposed to help a girl get
Speaker 3: home safely after.
Speaker 2: Lindsay, you jumped in too soon, so we couldn't get
Speaker 2: to what Alex was thinking. What was going through your mind?
Speaker 4: Alex, I was thinking, and I feel like I have
Speaker 4: proof because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting
Speaker 4: me to like pay for your uber and you playing
Speaker 4: this like Damsel in distress act just to get free
Speaker 4: stuff out of me.
Speaker 1: Do you know what he's talking about, Lindsay.
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 3: I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.
Speaker 3: I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
Speaker 3: and so you were Your answer to that was a
Speaker 3: get up and just leave dinner at the end and
Speaker 3: leave me the bill, like I don't know, like an
Speaker 3: immature loser.
Speaker 1: Well the help, I mean, I want to know, like,
Speaker 1: if you heard it before the date even started, why
Speaker 1: did you do the date?
Speaker 4: Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her
Speaker 4: planning to do that, I already knew she was going
Speaker 4: to manipulate me.
Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm going to be manipulate you.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, God forbid a guy helps a girl
Speaker 3: get home. You know, usually people do that.
Speaker 4: But you were practicing over and over again, you twine
Speaker 4: laughing about it, you ask for helps.
Speaker 3: And we think, like, I was like, huge, So what
Speaker 3: do you not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus, you
Speaker 3: made this evil plan and response to leave me and
Speaker 3: like an idiot in the middle of the restaurant all alone,
Speaker 3: like oh god, no.
Speaker 4: One, I ordered the most expensive thing on the men.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are.
Speaker 2: Just a little Oh well, if anything, you guys are
Speaker 2: both a little bit of manipulators.
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no no, I only scam the scammer.
Speaker 4: I was ready to have a genuine date with her.
Speaker 3: Shut up, I get hold after a few drinks safely,
Speaker 3: and you decided up on a plan. I'm just I
Speaker 3: don't know make you just want to make someone feel small.
Speaker 3: You want to make women feel small.
Speaker 4: You are not women, You are one person.
Speaker 3: Great, So now I'm not a woman who deserves to
Speaker 3: be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.
Speaker 1: Why can't you afford your own uber?
Speaker 4: Yes? Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was
Speaker 4: practicing that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.
Speaker 4: She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.
Speaker 3: Okay, so chivalry is dead.
Speaker 1: Thank you, chiv.
Speaker 2: Lindy. It is a little bit sus that you're practicing
Speaker 2: the line to say to like be like, can you
Speaker 2: pay for my broken app? Owhn?
Speaker 1: No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,
Speaker 1: You got caught scamming him for an uber ride.
Speaker 3: I was not scamming.
Speaker 1: You're not scamming. You're lying. You're lying to get what
Speaker 1: you need.
Speaker 2: I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's
Speaker 2: side this entire time. This is what happens.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.
Speaker 4: I think first sounds like a genuine individual who could
Speaker 4: totally afford her own over right home.
Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly, Brooke. There's always two sides to every story,
Speaker 2: and you're on the wrong one every time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never heard anyone in that room say that
Speaker 1: before that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at all,
Speaker 1: so weird.
Speaker 2: Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,
Speaker 2: so I just have to ask we would.
Speaker 1: I know there could be a lot of hot passion there.
Speaker 2: Because we always offer to send you guys out on
Speaker 2: another date, a date that we would pay for if
Speaker 2: you're both willing to agree to it.
Speaker 3: Just don't no, I can find a man who doesn't
Speaker 3: mind getting me home after a few drinks.
Speaker 2: I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm offering to pay.
Speaker 4: I mean, Lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.
Speaker 2: Don't fall for Lindsay. He's luring you in for another track.
Speaker 3: One.
Speaker 4: Oh what could I possibly weave this time?
Speaker 1: Dude? And in the end, Alex, I don't know if
Speaker 1: you know this, but she never even paid for the dinner. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: waiter co.
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 4: You know what? That makes me even happier that this
Speaker 4: is all happening. On the radio.
Speaker 2: What's happening on the radio.
Speaker 4: That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar
Speaker 4: manipulator that she is.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god,
Speaker 3: stove it around.
Speaker 4: Takes one to know one, babe.
Speaker 2: I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.
Speaker 2: We finally reached common ground.
Speaker 1: Thank god, you are such a champion of women, Jeffary.
Speaker 2: That's right, I fixed all the problems.
Speaker 1: I knew you was freaking Jeffrey in the morning.