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Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are a hot base.

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Speaker 2: How low can you go? Death row? What a brother?

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Speaker 4: Once again, back in there is the incredible rhyme animal,

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Speaker 5: Hey, welcome to the Black Guy Tips Podcast. Your host

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Speaker 5: Rod ed Hearing, and we're in the house on a

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Speaker 5: very special Sunday edition of the black Out Tubs Podcast

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Speaker 5: Father's Day edition. Man, it's a coming tradition around here

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Speaker 5: that my dad comes through and does the show with us.

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Speaker 5: So everybody should recognize the public Enemy lyrics to start

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Speaker 6: How loo can you go? So it's it's my dad,

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Speaker 6: Say what's up everybody? Dad?

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's up everybody out there?

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Speaker 6: No doubt man, Thanks for having me. Happy Father's Day.

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Speaker 4: Thank you very much much. I appreciate that. It's the

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Speaker 4: best fathers get every year. I love it.

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Speaker 5: Well, Happy Father's Day to all the real dads to

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Speaker 5: take care of their thing and all that, you know,

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Speaker 5: stuff that people say on the internet.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I hit you up a few days of a project.

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Speaker 8: I said, extra, daddy, and then I hit you up too,

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Speaker 8: because I didn't know Roger hit you up because I

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Speaker 8: was like, baby, you know your daddy.

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Speaker 7: He'll be out.

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Speaker 8: Chopping cheese and burners IRUs somewhere talking about I got

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Speaker 8: work to do on Father's Day.

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Speaker 7: So it's like, we better catch him when we can.

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Speaker 2: I do have something to do too, but I'm holding off.

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Speaker 6: All right. We got all kinds of news stuff.

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Speaker 5: Of course, Like I said, if you guys have a questions,

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Speaker 5: you can put him in the chat for my dad

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Speaker 5: or whatever.

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Speaker 6: But let's talk about all the important stuff that's going

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Speaker 6: on in the world's.

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Speaker 5: Father's Day, So that means it's time for the annual

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Speaker 5: President Barack Obama to remind people they need to be dads.

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Speaker 6: Were in that lord situation.

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Speaker 5: President Barack Obama's urging fathers to get more involved in

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Speaker 5: their kids' lives and the service mentors for children who

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Speaker 5: don't have fathers around. Obama is reflecting on Father's Day

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Speaker 5: in his weekly radio Internet address. He says he knows

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Speaker 5: how important dads are because his own father was absent.

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Speaker 5: Obama says he tries to be the father and the

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Speaker 5: husband his family didn't have. He says being able to

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Speaker 5: have a child doesn't make you a man by having

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Speaker 5: a courage to raise.

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Speaker 6: One, does.

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Speaker 2: That's right, that's deep.

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Speaker 6: A lot of people get mad because they don't like

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Speaker 6: that he use the word courage. But I don't mind.

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Speaker 8: It because it is courage, because I don't we live

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Speaker 8: in a society where people look at men as you're

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Speaker 8: supposed to have it all together all the time, Like

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Speaker 8: once you get a certain age, you're supposed to be

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Speaker 8: one of those things where it does take courage because

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Speaker 8: think a lot of times men get pushed to the

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Speaker 7: Know, burst the child.

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Speaker 8: So society just disregards men out of the whole process.

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Speaker 7: But if you're a man and you want to be there.

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Speaker 8: It's a scary moment for you because all of a sudden,

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Speaker 8: you got to take care of another human being also.

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Speaker 6: Well also, I mean it is kind of courageous.

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Speaker 6: We were in Cadova the other.

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Speaker 5: Day eating, yes, and it's a couples out having like

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Speaker 5: talking and the little boy was just chilling. He started

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Speaker 5: it got all on his dad's shirt and all over Cadova.

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Speaker 7: He took it like a chimp man. He felt so bad.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I could not have h I didn't even look

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Speaker 5: I felt bad, And I said that took courage for

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Speaker 5: up everything, apologize to the manager. And he never threw

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Speaker 6: So I was like, it does take a bit of courage,

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Speaker 6: because I probably would have been like, oh, what the hell, man,

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Speaker 6: what did you throw the baby across the room.

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Speaker 7: With you kids like that? They can't control that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what that kid is. I didn't look

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I was like, no, no thanks, So, yeah, it

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Speaker 5: does take courage, man, he says.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 5: Obama recorded the address at the White House before the

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Speaker 5: parting Friday for North Dakota and California, where he was

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Speaker 5: talking to some Native Americans about you know, how American

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Speaker 6: Funny how we got out of black man do that?

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Speaker 5: Because it's like I kind of want him to be like, well,

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Speaker 5: In the Republican address Senator Tom Coburn of Oklahoma, so

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Speaker 6: Uh, he says, sat again.

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Speaker 2: How you shoot down Father's Day? Man? You know they

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Speaker 4: Obama says, I know, man, He said something like my

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Speaker 4: shoelace broke, Like, well you had nobody getting animal skins

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: The President was like he made an initiative again to

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Speaker 5: start awareareness on college campuses about sexual assault. In the

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Speaker 6: To be for sexual assault. It's like it ain't even

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Speaker 5: Yeah, y'all need to stop listening to this nigga. Obviously

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Speaker 5: he's a liar. It's okay to rating a right. Stop drinking,

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Speaker 5: what's wrong with these They'll do anything to be against him,

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Speaker 5: but this dude. Tom Coburn said that Obama must nominate

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Speaker 5: a K boy experience secretary to clean up the Veteran

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Speaker 5: Affairs Department because you know, fuck Father's Day. Apparently Republicans

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Speaker 6: Just gripes. Oh man.

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Speaker 4: I like the way he has to clean up something

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Speaker 5: There's like apparently the troops went home from Iraq and

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Speaker 5: just completely skipping over the We told y'all if we

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Speaker 6: But hey, you know, we Republicans, so we got you know.

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Speaker 5: Here's another crazy person named brad Bradford Wilcox. W Bradford

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Speaker 5: Wilcox and Robin Fredill Wilson. They wrote an article Washington Post,

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Speaker 5: So if you think about this, guys, what he's saying is,

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Speaker 5: Get them papers, get get married to your abuser, and

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Speaker 5: if these two things exist, married people in married households

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Speaker 6: It's obviously, it's true.

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Speaker 8: No abuses abuse across the board, married and unmarried. A

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Speaker 7: Fool or not.

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Speaker 8: And it's one of those things where we live in

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Speaker 8: She has to have a man that can claim her

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Speaker 5: According to this, Karen, married biological parents two point five

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Speaker 5: point five, so that's still a lot. Twenty six point

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Speaker 7: And that's my thing.

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Speaker 8: Across the board is one of those things almost like

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Speaker 7: I don't quote a woman's issue.

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Speaker 8: You know, you're not talking about being because men get

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Speaker 8: I see she gets mad, take that hot comb and.

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Speaker 6: Some of these people, maybe some of these.

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Speaker 5: Like there's a ton of just variables that just can't

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Speaker 7: That and also something that people have a tendency to.

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Speaker 8: Neglect too, is that when it comes to abuse, this

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Speaker 7: Something else they don't talk about.

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Speaker 8: Too, because a lot of abusers won't actually do anything.

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Speaker 8: You know, now you're mine. Now you're my property.

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Speaker 6: Now I have the.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, even the framing of the title like one way

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Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, like married biological fathers with children like that

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Speaker 8: Lead to let you go that and also and it's

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Speaker 7: It's like nobody really does. The studies are really acts men,

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Speaker 7: To just say I'm not gonna beat people no more.

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Speaker 8: But it's just one of those things where it starts

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Speaker 7: You don't have no friends, you can't contact nobody.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, And that's how it starts. I don't like your friends,

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Speaker 5: But you know, also like because I think there's some

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Speaker 6: That's not necessarily the truth.

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Speaker 5: But it's like if you just look at those two

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Speaker 8: Yep, because it's like you said, society. We live in

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Speaker 8: the culture where it's like, get married, it is a.

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Speaker 7: Solve all your problems. Have a baby in it. This

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Speaker 8: Know. It just amplifies the issues and the problems that

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Speaker 7: On top of whatever else happens to be happening.

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Speaker 8: And you're not also taken into consideration, like you said,

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Speaker 5: the original title it's the best way to end violence

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Speaker 5: against women, stop taking lovers and get married. Oh that's

445
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 5: like I said, it's always some woman. This your fault

446
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 5: that you getting beat stuff, you know what I mean?

447
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 5: Instead of the best way to stop the best way

448
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 5: that inviolence against women is for men to stop beating them. Yeah, yeah,

449
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 5: chatter it's funny, but yeah, so I just think that

450
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 5: that's crazy the way that they put it.

451
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Speaker 6: And like I said, if you're only going to measure

452
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Speaker 6: for those couple of things. That's what you're gonna find.

453
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Speaker 5: But just you know, in reality, man, I think the

454
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 5: bigger thing that all these statistics and all this stuff

455
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 5: normally pretty much says to me is less people need

456
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 5: to get married and less people need to have kids,

457
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 5: right because most people.

458
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 6: Do it kind of it's like we're programmed to do it.

459
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,199
Speaker 5: Like it's just hey, this is the thing that you

460
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 5: should do by this age. Like you talk to people

461
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 5: sometimes and be like, you know, I just won't be

462
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 5: married by I talking about thirty, Like do you have

463
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 5: a are you dating somebody?

464
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Speaker 6: No? Well, then how can that's a weird goal to have, Like, you.

465
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 5: Know, like you should it should be like anything in life,

466
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 5: it should be something you're building towards.

467
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 6: It's a process. It's not a overnight thing.

468
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 5: And I think a lot of people look at, you know,

469
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Speaker 5: everything that way, like I want to have kids by

470
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Speaker 5: this age.

471
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 6: I want to have.

472
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, I want to buy a car.

473
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Speaker 8: And also it's one of those things to me, even

474
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 8: when it comes to getting married and and another thing

475
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 8: is having children. Society pushes and promotes children, but society

476
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 8: really doesn't talk about the costs that are associated with children,

477
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 8: society is taught.

478
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 7: Oh, have a baby, Fuck the fuck it. Where about money? Later?

479
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 7: You can't be like that.

480
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Speaker 8: And then you have a child and you can't get

481
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Speaker 8: in a daycare because daycare is a thousand dollars a week,

482
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 8: because newbores are expensive. You know, they don't talk about

483
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 8: how you know, maternity leave in our country, for industrialized

484
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 8: nations is the worst in the world, you know. And

485
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,360
Speaker 8: for most women, you don't get maternity leave. And then

486
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 8: if you do have a job, you know, four to

487
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 8: six weeks you to have your ass back in the

488
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 8: eight weeks max.

489
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 7: You better have your ass back in there.

490
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 8: Versus other countries, they have eighteen months that a woman

491
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 8: can have for maternal leave in some countries longer. And

492
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 8: then it's some countries to actually even encourage dads to

493
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 8: take maternity leave. In our country, dads can take maternity leave,

494
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 8: but it's not encouraged in our country to take maternity leave.

495
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 8: You can use your FMLA and take that time off

496
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Speaker 8: and spend time with your wife, but it's not pushed

497
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 8: in the or your significant other or whoever has your child.

498
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 7: And it's just weird when it comes to this.

499
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 8: A lot of times people talk about get married, have children,

500
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 8: have a house. What people tail to realize these these

501
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 8: are goals to have, but I think some people treat

502
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 8: them like business.

503
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 7: Goals, like cross cross cross cross and not realizing.

504
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,959
Speaker 5: Well, even with a business goal, they know that's the problem.

505
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 5: They don't treat it like a business goal. Oh, with

506
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 5: a business goal, you work towards that.

507
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 6: Shit, yes you do.

508
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 5: You don't just say it. You don't just I won't

509
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 5: be a CEO by the time I'm thirty. Okay, I'm

510
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 5: gonna drop out of high school, start selling these drugs.

511
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 6: Like with those are the wrong steps. Yeah, you're gonna

512
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 6: lack what like with with marriage and having kids and stuff.

513
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 5: A lot of times people aren't even looking at well,

514
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 5: here's the environment I like to do this, and here's.

515
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 6: The kind of person I want to be with.

516
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 5: This is the kind of steps I want to take,

517
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 5: you know, And especially for something like marriage where you

518
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 5: want to be with one person for the rest of

519
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 5: your life, ideally you really should have the person first, right,

520
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 5: you know, because it's so like the percentage of relationship

521
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 5: that work out is so low. And I'm not talking

522
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 5: about marriages, some about relationships. I bet you if Jesus

523
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 5: looked at how many relationships last for their entire life.

524
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 5: If that's the measurement that people are going to use

525
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 5: for success, which obviously is debatable, But if you're gonna

526
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 5: use that as your measurement for success, it's got to

527
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 5: be like one.

528
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 6: To ten percent. It can't be high, you.

529
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 5: Know, so you're betting, Like who would bet everything on

530
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 5: ten percent? Not most of you would not bet anything.

531
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Speaker 5: But when it comes to marriage, we've been trained like

532
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 5: you should do that, like find a person, wipe them up,

533
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 5: husband up or whatever, and that's the end. Have some

534
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 5: kids and it's like yeah, and then beat them and uh,

535
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 5: that'll be their fault.

536
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 6: You know.

537
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 5: I think when I read the study the title, I

538
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 5: just thought, one way to end the violence against women

539
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 5: married dads means a lot of more women just need

540
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 5: to start finding men that cheat on their wives.

541
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Speaker 6: You know, he's a married dad. He won't have time

542
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 6: to beat you.

543
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 5: He's gonna be over his wife house with his heads, yeah,

544
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 5: beating her.

545
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 6: So you know, there's only so much possessive that you

546
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 6: can have.

547
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 7: He has less energy to whip on you.

548
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 5: Right, the more to marry, apparently, or the more to

549
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 5: marry her. I guess speaking of marriage, I don't think

550
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 5: we covered this. I forgot one in three people cheat

551
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 5: at bachelor slash bachelorette parties.

552
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 6: One in three stop getting married. What's wrong with y'all?

553
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 5: I could agree people don't really think that marriage is

554
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 5: the reset, but like, well, hey, this this happened on Tuesday.

555
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 6: It is different.

556
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: What was that dude sitting around keeping the statistics?

557
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 6: He hit it? Yeah, that's one check that down.

558
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 5: You know, it's eping statistics your friends and your bachelorette party.

559
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 5: Like he did have I throw out hired her, but

560
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 5: he didn't have to have sex with her.

561
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Speaker 8: And on top of that, if you was lacking them

562
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 8: holes before that don't stop. Like like a lot of times,

563
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 8: these people cheat pribor to getting married and this is

564
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 8: just that one last hurrah. But for most people it

565
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 8: don't stop after that.

566
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,719
Speaker 5: It's like an addict, one last hit, no more, no more,

567
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 5: it's just you put on after this night. What happens

568
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 5: when during bachelor parties, a bachelorette party stayed there, stays there.

569
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 5: New research reveals that people really stretch the limit when

570
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 5: it comes to taking advantage of their last night of

571
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 5: freedom before everlasting commitment.

572
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 6: The latest study reveals.

573
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Speaker 5: That one in three bachelors and bachelorettes cheat on their

574
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 5: parents part during their freedom parties.

575
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's the thing, is the way it's pushing our society.

576
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 7: Your last night a free right.

577
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 8: You know, after this, dog, you ain't gonna be able

578
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 8: to do a goddamn thing. You know, they act like

579
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 8: for men especially, it's one of those things where it's

580
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 8: like dog.

581
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 7: It's almost like a funeral self.

582
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 8: It's like dog, you know, let's go party one more

583
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 8: time before we got to put you in the grave.

584
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 5: What is this idea in our society that women are

585
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 5: the uh, you know, the disciplinarians, the ones who take

586
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 5: away all the fun and make you grow up.

587
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 6: And you know, dudes are you know, eternally immature. We

588
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 6: just want to party. Man want to hang.

589
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 5: Out with a friends and play video games and that's it,

590
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 5: and women of course hate that.

591
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 6: So that's you.

592
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,239
Speaker 5: Know every I mean, I'm guarantee you right now, it's

593
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 5: probably four sitcoms on with the woman is the iron fisted,

594
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 5: you know, angry person, and the dude is the Oh,

595
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 5: I just want to do some funny things, right, And

596
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 5: it's been going on our whole society. I think people

597
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 5: adopt that into their real relationships where they and it's

598
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 5: really bad because honestly, it's opposite is getting married and they.

599
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 6: Really don't need to be together, No they don't.

600
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 5: It's a lot of people where it's like, she hates

601
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 5: fun and you think that that's what you're supposed to

602
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 5: do for the next rest of your life. So you

603
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 5: get with that, and in ten years later you're like,

604
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 5: this is the I'm miserable. I don't we can't be together.

605
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, because this is not what I wanted. This was

606
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,959
Speaker 7: not what I uh desired.

607
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 8: And it's just one of those things where it's funny though,

608
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 8: especially in a straight relationship, the girl that the dude

609
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 8: should marry.

610
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 7: A lot of times he won't marry her because well.

611
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 6: I don't even want us go there, because a lot

612
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 6: of people just shouldn't be getting married.

613
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 7: And that's true too.

614
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 6: A lot of just not that mature.

615
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 5: They just not like you and most and a lot

616
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 5: of people aren't ever gonna reach that level of maturity.

617
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 5: Like you know, I think people just do it because

618
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 5: they've been programmed to do it, you know, like.

619
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 6: You just shouldn't. You're messed up.

620
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 5: Like if people could accept their I messed up and

621
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 5: have a little self awareness, then maybe. But most of

622
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 5: the time people just seem not really very self aware,

623
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 5: and then you just watch them get into these predictable pitfalls.

624
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 5: The average American marriage last eight years. Wow, you know

625
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 5: that that's not a lot of time.

626
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: Really, Man, I'm overdue. Man, I've been married thirty three years.

627
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 7: Man, break dog, good you to get free.

628
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Speaker 6: You should be on like your fifth or sixth one

629
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 6: right now.

630
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 5: The survey also revealed ninety two percent of people who

631
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 5: cheated said they kept they keep their secret affairs from

632
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 5: their betrothal. So ninety two percent of people don't tell

633
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 5: don't tell what that they've been cheating. They don't tell

634
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 5: that their wife or husband that they cheated on them.

635
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 2: Well, that's probably the truth about the truest statistics. They

636
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 2: didn't come from the Washington Post.

637
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 6: This is a council.

638
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 7: Hell, that's probably one of the true statistics, because most

639
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 7: people looking like I ain't telling you sit.

640
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 5: However, seventy four percent of the respondence, Oh, I just TYPEO.

641
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 6: Maybe this isn't a good source anyway.

642
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 5: Seventy four percent of the respondents who wanted to hide

643
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 5: their indiscretion. Said they are worried that their friends or

644
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 5: family would expose their low prenuptial behaviors, which is another

645
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 5: reason I don't think sex and a bachelor party even

646
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 5: makes sense, because now you're just cheating in front of

647
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 5: a bunch of witnesses, right like, oh, you went back

648
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 5: to that room with the stripper like some Now everybody

649
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 5: at your bachelor party knows that you cheated. It won't like,

650
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 5: does it really take that much for somebody to tell

651
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 5: or mess up or something, tell their wives when they

652
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 5: go back home, Oh, you won't believe what Randy did.

653
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 5: He slept with their stripper, you know, just I don't know,

654
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 5: but they still do it. So seventy six percent of

655
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 5: people are like, ed, I was, you know, I mean

656
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 5: not seventy four percent of people was like, uh, you know,

657
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 5: I want to hide my indiscretions, but they're still word

658
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 5: that friends of family will tell them.

659
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

660
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 5: Drunkenness was the top reason for infidelity lord seventy six

661
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 5: percent of respondents is always a Seventy six of responders

662
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 5: reported they were too drunk to handle the situations.

663
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: I was sexually around.

664
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 6: I was too drunk.

665
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 5: I mean, I handled the situation several times that night,

666
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 5: but other than that, it was very, very drunk.

667
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 6: I regretted it.

668
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 5: Other reasons of infidelity include having cold feet, feeling stretched,

669
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 5: enjoying the free all past or relenting to peer pressure.

670
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 7: I wondered, was drugs in there too?

671
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 6: Well? Alcohol is a drugs, so I y, yeah.

672
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 7: But I was just thinking.

673
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 8: I mean because most people when they look at alcohol,

674
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 8: they don't it's a drug. But most people go, okay,

675
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 8: you drinking, and then they go the other drugs per se.

676
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 8: So you know, I wondered, like weed and marijuana and

677
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 8: ecstasy and you know all that stuff.

678
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, and they said and then relenting the peer pressure.

679
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 5: That's also the funniest thing about bachelor parties is you

680
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: hear my closest friends that want to see me in

681
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 5: wedded bliss and they've been rooting for me, but in the.

682
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 6: Bachelor party, that's the one night when they're like, fuck.

683
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 5: Up your life, man, start off with something bad, you know,

684
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 5: like just just mess it up immediately.

685
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

686
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 5: I think it's no secret that when full of alcohol

687
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 5: and banter, things can get out of hand on these events.

688
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 5: And one of these things is the issue achieving said

689
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 5: a spokesperson for Voucher Cloud, who sponsored the survey. Many

690
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 5: people see this as their chance for a final flame

691
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 5: before finally set only down. We were surprised to see

692
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 5: that a good two thirds of the country remain faithful,

693
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 5: even in the excitement of the celebration.

694
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 6: I guess that is a positive way to look at it.

695
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 8: That's because you know, some people, some dudes are like, hey,

696
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 8: Yacadama basht party, but they probably have rules and regulations.

697
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 8: They was like, and you know your friends, like, you know,

698
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 8: if Roger was to have something like that, it probably

699
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 8: certain things wouldn't happen because he just don't. He's not

700
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 8: He don't live certain that lifestyle as far as you know.

701
00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 6: Well, I don't have one.

702
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 5: I don't have that many bad influence friends and too,

703
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 5: I don't really succumb to prey pressure that often, so

704
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 5: I don't know that i'd be a good like example.

705
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 5: But I also think the reason that number is high

706
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 5: is because, like, if they had a way to cheat privately,

707
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 5: I think that number would be higher. But it's like

708
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 5: it is kind of performance anxiety built with can you

709
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 5: trust these people?

710
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 6: And all this because all your boys.

711
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 4: Say, all right, man, we're gonna leave the script in

712
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 4: here and we're gonna leave.

713
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 5: Right, So it's like right, So obviously you know that

714
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 5: that's a little different, you know, because you're basically saying

715
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 5: everyone's gonna know I'm cheating, So you know, the number

716
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 5: being that high might not be that you know, uh,

717
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 5: it might not be that much to brag about because like, well,

718
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 5: I would love to cheat in secret, but not with

719
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:51,439
Speaker 5: y'all knowing.

720
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 8: Yeah, they got common senses, like I'm not doing this

721
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 8: in front of y'all.

722
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

723
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 5: Concerning the findings on strip clubs, it seems that those

724
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 5: are taking the these are obviously well paid to manage

725
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 5: their finances pretty well.

726
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, that's another thing.

727
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 5: This is probably a class thing too, because not everybody

728
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 5: can afford the big bang bachelor party.

729
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,280
Speaker 8: Right, No, everybody can't go to Vegas, the King kun

730
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 8: the web wells they.

731
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 7: Having a rent out the club for their friends.

732
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 5: An average spend of one hundred and twenty yearrols per person.

733
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 5: There's a large chunk of the money for the prenuptial

734
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 5: party budget.

735
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 6: He concluded.

736
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 5: Less hope Is was worth it and not something they regretted.

737
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 5: The next morning when they woke up with the sore head. Yeah.

738
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 5: So yeah, man, one in three cheat at the bachelor party. Man,

739
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 5: that's a lot of people, man, a lot of people.

740
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 5: The thing that's funny is one hundred percent of these

741
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 5: people think they need to get married.

742
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 4: Yeah they are they talking about the guy who's getting married.

743
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 4: They're just talking about the other people who are attending.

744
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 6: The party, just a bachelor and bachelorette.

745
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 8: Yeah. I guess the other people don't count because they

746
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 8: ain't getting married.

747
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, how would you know what that cheating?

748
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 2: They're gonna tell it right that.

749
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 5: I think it's I think the people that probably the

750
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 5: worst at bachelor parties are mary dudes, because now it's

751
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 5: like their turn to like, yeah, like they the one

752
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 5: that got tricked into their miserable marriage, and now you

753
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 5: that get out of jail free card for a while.

754
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 8: Treat you that like that? When it because the kids

755
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 8: like they want to trick your navigate. Why don't you

756
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 8: have some notes?

757
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 7: I could be miserable like you. I'm good.

758
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 6: All right, it's time for an unpopular opinion on the show. Oh,

759
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 6: Louis c k comedian? Who uh are we calling them

760
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 6: comedian anymore? I don't know.

761
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 5: I've been watching this show and this whole season, it's

762
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 5: like he's just been like, I'm not even gonna be funny,

763
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 5: like it's just gonna be serious. And it's been ten episodes.

764
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 5: I don't even know what happened that show, but anyway,

765
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:44,839
Speaker 5: he tweeted out something because Tracy Morgan and several other

766
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 5: stand up comedians got into uh they got hit by

767
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 5: a trucker who's driving Walmart truck and it destroyed their van.

768
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 5: One comedian died, Jimmy Mack and a couple others were injured.

769
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 5: Tracy Moore broke his leg in three places. Artie fu

770
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 5: Qua was heart like, I believe me. They say, they

771
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 5: say these guys are gonna be okay. You know, obviously

772
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 5: they're not up walking and talking.

773
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 6: Yet, so who knows.

774
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 7: Some time will right.

775
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 5: But the daughter of artifu Quah wrote TMZ and said

776
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 5: please take down this video, which was a video of

777
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 5: her father being dragged from the wreckage. Obviously he's alive

778
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 5: or whatever, but still, you know, she's like, it hurts

779
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 5: to see my father this way, right. So Luis c

780
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 5: k retweeted that and said, don't watch this video from

781
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 5: TMZ at you, and then tweeted the link to it

782
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 5: and then later said please don't go to TMZ to

783
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 5: watch the video, please ask him to take it down

784
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 5: at TMZ on Twitter. And I gotta say, man, it's

785
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 5: kind of bullshit because like comedians will go in about

786
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 5: like someone in if it's a celebrity, comedians will you know,

787
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 5: put it in their act, like make all these snarky

788
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 5: comments on Facebook and Twitter and all this stuff. And

789
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 5: it's like they're only saying something because this dude's a comic, right,

790
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 5: you know, because I mean they there was an explosion

791
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 5: when when Paul Walker died, there was literally a video

792
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 5: of the explosion when his car collided. I didn't Yeah,

793
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 5: I didn't watch it either, But this is the thing

794
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 5: they're fighting against humanity.

795
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 7: Yeah.

796
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 6: The reason that it takes longer on forty five to

797
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 6: get home is because when there is.

798
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 5: A bumper, a bump up or a rec or something,

799
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 5: everybody wants to stop.

800
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 6: And look, that's not TMZ's fault, that's us, right, you know.

801
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 5: People want to see this shit and because that it's

802
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 5: marketable and they're going to someone is going to make

803
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 5: money off of it, and they don't care. And like

804
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 5: in a strange way, TMZ has more integrity than the

805
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 5: people who want to take this video down just this time,

806
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 5: but not other times.

807
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, that's why people go to races, man,

808
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 4: go to car races, stock car races.

809
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,439
Speaker 2: I mean, got cars going around and around and around

810
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 2: for three, four or five hundred miles. You're waiting for

811
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,479
Speaker 2: somebody to get the ass run over, you know. Yeah.

812
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 5: Like, my thing is these guys should be against this

813
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 5: stuff all the time, not just when a friend's involved, right,

814
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 5: Like why Like, and the thing is, I didn't click

815
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 5: on this video. Why because I'm a human person that

816
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 5: has a little bit of self discipline and I don't

817
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 5: want to see the shit the end, you know, you

818
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 5: don't have to click on it.

819
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 6: Not to mention how many people.

820
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 5: Weren't even aware of it till he clicked, till he

821
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 5: said something, and then people are articles about what he said.

822
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 5: It's too much, man, Like you're actually helping them out

823
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 5: at this point.

824
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,359
Speaker 8: And my thing is, like, I think it's weird how

825
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 8: you go, well, don't watch this? And did you re

826
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 8: send the actual link the link?

827
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 2: Yeah?

828
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 8: Yeah, it was like, well you don't want people to

829
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 8: watch it, talk about it, but don't attach the link

830
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 8: because you attached the link. Of course, don't click on

831
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 8: the link because they want to see what you're talking about.

832
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, And like I said, man, it's it's weird to

833
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,760
Speaker 5: me that you want to speak up now only because

834
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 5: it involves a friend or whatever.

835
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 6: I remember like.

836
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 5: When when Tracy Morgan said his joke about stabbing his

837
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 5: gay son to death if his son turned out to

838
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 5: be gay, and he had to apologize even though he

839
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 5: was on stage making a joke, you know, Luis c k.

840
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 5: You know, was like he was on comedy stage, not

841
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 5: a poor pit.

842
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 6: You know. So like, okay, so citizenship it's not.

843
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 5: Cool because when it's a comedian, but when it's this ship,

844
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 5: it's got to stop.

845
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 10: You know.

846
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 5: It's just I mean, I get that it's not the

847
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 5: most obviously it's a messed up thing for Timz to do.

848
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 6: But Tims is the people that do messed up things.

849
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 5: It's not this is not like in a way they

850
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 5: have integrity because it's not specific to anyone.

851
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 7: Yeah, they have no loyalty to anybody. It is happen here,

852
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 7: you go.

853
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's other people's biases being exposed.

854
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 10: You know.

855
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 5: It's like if this happened to someone I like, I'm

856
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 5: sure I would be like, damn, they really had to

857
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 5: put this on TMZ, But I understand that's that's what

858
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 5: TMS does at the bottom feeders. I definitely wouldn't be like, hey,

859
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 5: here's a link to what everybody don't go that. That's

860
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 5: just dumb. You know, I don't even think I honestly

861
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 5: real talk, I don't even think I was asking to

862
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 5: take it down, Like I just look at as part

863
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 5: of the game, you know, like this is what they do.

864
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 6: What are you gonna do? They're not gonna take it down,

865
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 6: by the way, of course, more likely, you know.

866
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 7: So TMZ and WorldStar Hip Hop are like in the same.

867
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, so yeah. I just thought that was kind of.

868
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 5: Weird, you know, a little bit hypocritical, but just kind

869
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 5: of weird to be like, take it down because I

870
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 5: know this person is funny. Speaking of humor and morbid humor,

871
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 5: there's a family that, uh this new Trens we're going

872
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 5: around where people have funerals for their loved ones and

873
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 5: they take the corpse and set it up into whatever

874
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 5: the that person used to love to do.

875
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 2: Oh my, I could do a shooting pool. They put

876
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: the up at the pool table.

877
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 5: Well, Miriam may Mae Burbanks two daughters uh told w

878
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 5: g n O in New Orleans that their mother was

879
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 5: full of life. They wanted her funeral to be just

880
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 5: as lively, a last party, if you will, So they

881
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 5: set her up in front of the TV bush, gave

882
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 5: a Menthol cigarette, not a bush, lights around, said let's

883
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 5: remember may May in the way that she lived her life.

884
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 9: New Orleans woman remembered as a party girl, is receiving

885
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 9: a send off that captures her zest for life.

886
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 5: Darien Trotter takes your to a non traditional visitation.

887
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 11: In life, Miriam Burbank loved a cold beer and an

888
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 11: occasional scotch. She loved the New Orleans Saints, and if

889
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 11: she wasn't on her porch, the party girl, affectionately called

890
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 11: may Mae, would frequent the city's neighborhood bars.

891
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 7: She gets down fifty three. She's not a normal fifty.

892
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 11: Three, so it's only fitting that all of it be

893
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 11: captured as part of her homegoing.

894
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 12: I didn't want to just go, just go, so I

895
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 12: had to do something amazing. So she's never forgotten.

896
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 11: Burbank's daughters had a vision and presented it to funeral

897
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 11: directors at Charbonnay.

898
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 13: They said that you know, they didn't want a traditional

899
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 13: religious type service, that she was just one of those

900
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 13: people that just enjoyed life, enjoyed living, just enjoyed people.

901
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 11: Burbank is sitting at a table wearing Saints colors. Her

902
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 11: fingernails are even painted black and gold. She's got her

903
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 11: Bush beer and Menthol cigarettes. The arrangement has been well

904
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 11: received by friends and family.

905
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 14: When I walked in, I feel like I was in

906
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 14: the house and I don't hurt so much because it's

907
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 14: more and it's like she's not dead. It's not like

908
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 14: a funeral home. It's like cause she just en room

909
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 14: with us.

910
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 11: Charbonnet Funeral Home is leading the charge and non traditional

911
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:26,240
Speaker 11: sind offs from a brass band. Drummer Lionel Bautiste stood

912
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 11: in the funeral chapel. Another funeral home placed socialite Mickey

913
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 11: Easterling on a bench with a glass of champagne.

914
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 13: You know, we celebrate life, we celebrate the pasting, we

915
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 13: celebrate the homegoing of people.

916
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 11: Initially, there was some resistance in the Burdbank camp.

917
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 12: A lot of people didn't accept what I was doing.

918
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 12: I ain't let that stop me. And I know she's

919
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 12: happy with how she's looking. Everybody else say that's hard, mean.

920
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 6: In the end, it's pleased.

921
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 8: I think it's amazing for him to capture someone's actual life,

922
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 8: their lifestyle they lived.

923
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 11: It was a celebration of life, just the way Birthfank

924
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 11: would have wanted it.

925
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 3: I think that's something new and trending, and I think

926
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 3: it's a good way.

927
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 11: To cross over Darian Trotter double g n O News.

928
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 6: And like she wasn't in the strippers or something like that.

929
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 2: They're gonna put a weedy in my hand.

930
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 7: And you know what to me, I want to lap dad,

931
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 7: I don't. I don't have a problem with it. I

932
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,399
Speaker 7: know a lot of people do.

933
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 8: I don't have a problem with it because for the

934
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 8: simple fact that if you are in this business, you

935
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 8: about to make money because a lot of people that's.

936
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 6: Why you don't have a problem. I thought you were

937
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 6: gonna go and entrepreneurs stuff.

938
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought you were gonna say something about how

939
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 5: this is how people lived and.

940
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 6: Family.

941
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 5: No, no, you can make money off these food These suckers.

942
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: Forget this podcast.

943
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 8: If this is something that people want to spend their

944
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 8: money on.

945
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 7: Go make that money.

946
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,919
Speaker 8: You know, people spend thousands of dollars and to put

947
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 8: people in wooden boxes and to put them in the ground.

948
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 8: This is something that's very non traditional and a lot

949
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 8: of people have fears with shit this non traditional. People

950
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 8: have problems with cremations when they first came up. So

951
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 8: it's just one of those things that this is a

952
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 8: non traditional way of a funeral service. You know, people

953
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 8: have caskets with their favorite basketball team, football team.

954
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 7: Like people are willing to spend this money.

955
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 8: I don't have a problem with it at all because

956
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 8: it's the family's choicing, just the family decision.

957
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 7: I ain't got to spend no money.

958
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 8: I'm not bearing this person. It's not my family member.

959
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 8: Do what y'all want to do. I think a lot

960
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 8: of people just have issues because it's quote unquote non traditional,

961
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 8: and I think a lot of people have an issue

962
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 8: with it because it's black folks and anything to make

963
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 8: black folks look bad, Black fos other black folks gotta

964
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 8: say what y'all and nere GROW's doing over there. So

965
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 8: but I don't have a I know, I don't have

966
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 8: problem with your all. And on top of that, if

967
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 8: they want to spend the money on it.

968
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 6: That got the right dude, h d.

969
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 2: Uh, don't let Karen help play in my funeral?

970
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 6: Okay, no, no, no.

971
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 7: No, no no, I'm not saying that.

972
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:16,320
Speaker 5: But but I have them riding a lawnmower or something

973
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 5: in the front yard, people driving by, Like.

974
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 8: I said, I don't have a problem with it, but

975
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 8: my thing, but like I know that, But like this,

976
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 8: you gotta know your family members too. Most of my

977
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 8: family is probably want to have a very traditional funeral. Ships,

978
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 8: no problem with that, cremation bariser, no problem with that.

979
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,760
Speaker 8: But if you have somebody and these are their wishes,

980
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 8: like like, let's say they say this is what I want,

981
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 8: I don't have a problem with that.

982
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 5: Do you even know that this is her wishes? This

983
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 5: is what her daughter wished. Her daughter said this is

984
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 5: what she was into. And people tried to stop me,

985
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 5: but I would not be stopped at Karen.

986
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 4: That's a great business model. We go ahead and talk

987
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 4: to people before they crash. Right, you said, look at

988
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 4: your dog, look a here, we can put you up

989
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 4: on you know boom, you track the trailer driver, we

990
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,760
Speaker 4: can rent the thing, bam, put you behind the wheel.

991
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, put you on the c B.

992
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 6: This is quick quickly to become out of control.

993
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 7: Oh you're talking about youre talking about the strip club.

994
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 8: Could you have them with a strip on the con

995
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 8: and her like stretched out across the.

996
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 6: Pole, gonna it's gonna a strip of hill. Yes, it's

997
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 6: gonna quickly out of control.

998
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 7: Yes it is.

999
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 6: Somebody gonna die like he loved on you love watching.

1000
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 5: Put put some napkins on top of his laptop and

1001
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 5: set him.

1002
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 7: Up ky jelly on the side with.

1003
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 2: His hands his pants.

1004
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 6: Yep, he died at off out a right asphixiation. Look,

1005
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 6: get a rope.

1006
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 5: It's time up, It's time. If you do make that money,

1007
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 5: I don't think so, man.

1008
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 4: Karen, Karen, you make a good point, though, you know,

1009
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 4: if it's not too far out there, you know, somebody

1010
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 4: wants to go like that. They want to pay for it. Hey, man,

1011
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 4: that's gonna be the last little show they're gonna get.

1012
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,959
Speaker 5: You know, I want to see somebody what happens when

1013
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 5: somebody hates somebody like, oh, yeah, you know, he died,

1014
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 5: Uh loving to suck dick. Just get him, Let's set

1015
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 5: him up, set his ass up.

1016
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 2: He liked to beat his wife.

1017
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 5: Yeah he was your pastor. Yeah, he liked to beat

1018
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 5: his wife. He was secretly gay.

1019
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 7: He did a lot of drugs and he was the

1020
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 7: bottom too.

1021
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, set him up. Set him up snorting cocaine, you.

1022
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 2: Know, sugar on the table, some straws.

1023
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 5: It's gonna get vindictive. Then people are gonna be like

1024
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 5: it's too far. But remember I told you first here

1025
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 5: people if they can make money, just do it. That's

1026
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 5: how That's how Tyler Perry moves getting made.

1027
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 6: It is every week.

1028
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 14: Uh.

1029
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 5: The Pope says he's ditching his bulletprop bulletproof Pope ovill lord,

1030
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,720
Speaker 5: he says in Theresa interview, which I always thought was funny,

1031
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 5: right because of post like I am a descended, not descended,

1032
00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:00,240
Speaker 5: but I'm the direct communicated to God on earth.

1033
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 6: You know he protects me and everybody. But I'm gonna

1034
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 6: need this bulletproof glass cause you know, you just never know.

1035
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 5: I'm not in a rush to see him, you know,

1036
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 5: are you would you would think if you, if you

1037
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 5: his right hand man, you would think you would be like, oh, ship,

1038
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 5: then cool.

1039
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 6: I get to see him a few years earlier than

1040
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 6: our plan.

1041
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 2: I think he got a death wish man.

1042
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, he hates his new job.

1043
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 2: Hate his job.

1044
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,800
Speaker 6: Man. Plus he's a quote unquote controversial pope.

1045
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 5: So maybe it's a conspiracy down to earth Pope and

1046
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 5: the reset.

1047
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 4: You think somebody sitting around the next guy, why don't

1048
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 4: you get rid of that?

1049
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 2: You say you trust the Lord, you say you.

1050
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 4: Trust, you get rid of the saying that you said

1051
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 4: you're man.

1052
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 7: Come on now, he's gonna be shot pretty soon.

1053
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 5: In a recent interview is Fanish newspaper La Vangardiape Pope

1054
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 5: Francis spoke about why he prefers not to use the

1055
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 5: bulletproof Pope Mobile. Explained that as at his age, he

1056
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 5: doesn't have much to lose.

1057
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 4: Hey, man, I read the Washington Posts. He said, I

1058
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 4: want to go express.

1059
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 6: Right right, let's get out of here.

1060
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 7: Bullied this process up.

1061
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 5: The bulletproof popemobile was introduced after the attempted assassination of

1062
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 5: John Paul Second in nineteen eighty one, and favored by

1063
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 5: Francis's predecessor, Benedict The something I can't read numerals is x.

1064
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 6: X v I sixteenth or fourteenth. Okay.

1065
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 5: A cool pope, however, does not have time for that bullshit.

1066
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:34,280
Speaker 5: He told Lave Anguardia, I remember in Brazil they provided

1067
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 5: for me and then closed popemobile. But I cannot greet

1068
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 5: people and tell them I loved him inside of sardine can,

1069
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 5: even if it is made from glass. For me, it

1070
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 5: is a wall. So he said, he about to get

1071
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 5: in these streets. He continued, it is true something could

1072
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 5: happen to me, but let's be realistic. At my age,

1073
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 5: I do not have much to lose. I know what

1074
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 5: could happen, but it's in God's hands.

1075
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 6: So there you go.

1076
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 5: Man, finally a pope that ain't scared of getting out

1077
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 5: in these streets and getting shot.

1078
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, finally a po pool. The people go good. I

1079
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 7: can finally start my assassination process again.

1080
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: M send him up a shot rack.

1081
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 5: Speaking of speaking of pretending to be religious figures, a

1082
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 5: woman tells a scary story of how a man used

1083
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 5: Bishop TD Jake's likeness in order to swindle her out

1084
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 5: of quite a bit of money.

1085
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 6: Walk Claudette Woodley Guess the Race.

1086
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 5: Says that someone friended her on Facebook claiming to be

1087
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 5: Bishop Jakes. The man also said he would have given

1088
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 5: her thousands of dollars in order.

1089
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 6: To fix her furnace.

1090
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 5: What give me some money and then I'll give you

1091
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 5: money to fix your furnace.

1092
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 6: I'm TDS.

1093
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: That's the old time.

1094
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 8: And my thing is this you some random woman? How

1095
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,399
Speaker 8: does he just gonna find you and friend you out

1096
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 8: the blue, trying to.

1097
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 7: Run the Maga church, trying to write books right and plays.

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00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 5: Then he probably didn't pull up in a limo. Probably

1099
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 5: just walked up to the door. Wow, you look just

1100
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 5: like Bischel td Jakes. Well, just so happy.

1101
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 6: As I am. Actually, uh, you got any money for

1102
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 6: the Lord? I mean for the Lord?

1103
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 8: You know?

1104
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 7: She she seen about that church life where you're a'mabarrassed.

1105
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 7: Where your where your people? You know, where's the logo

1106
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 7: from your church?

1107
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 5: I felt it felt so good because it said Bishop

1108
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 5: James invited me as a friend. And that's when I

1109
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 5: told him, I said, I love you, said Woodley. The

1110
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 5: man then told the woman to wire the money to

1111
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 5: a location in Africa. She did so because she loves

1112
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 5: and trusts Bishop Jakes. Yeah, it probably was probably all caps.

1113
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 5: This is this is Drakes Like what that's not how

1114
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,280
Speaker 5: he talks? No, this how I talk off the screen?

1115
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 5: Send him money to Africa?

1116
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 2: So when so when they have her funeral. How they're

1117
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 2: gonna set.

1118
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 6: Up here.

1119
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 7: Somebody digging in her pockets.

1120
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it turns out to be a complete scam.

1121
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 5: Now Willie is going around telling others to be careful

1122
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 5: about giving away money.

1123
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 6: In the same way. You don't got to warry nobody else.

1124
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 7: Know, you're the only ones to get if.

1125
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 5: This is Darwinism at work. We all know about the internet.

1126
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 5: The man is going to pray on a whole lot

1127
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 5: of older people. And see that's what hurt me so bad,

1128
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,720
Speaker 5: she said. News Channel three and half. The Rose Virginia

1129
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,879
Speaker 5: did the woman the favor and said they hoped.

1130
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 7: They hoped, Virginia, you ain't no where close than this man.

1131
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 6: Halfton, Rose, Virginia. Yeah, yeah, yell.

1132
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 7: In two separate states. The house wrong with this lady.

1133
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 8: He got him fifteen minutes worth, fifteen minutes out thousands

1134
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 8: of house apart.

1135
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's work for the Lord, they said. She hoped

1136
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 5: that would make her They did her favor. That hope

1137
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 5: they make her feel better. They actually helped her to

1138
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 5: arrange a meeting with the real Bishop Jakes. She was

1139
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 5: also given front row tickets to the Megafest event held

1140
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 5: by Jakes every year they just seem, oh, come on

1141
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 5: down to Mega Fest.

1142
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 6: Uh huh, we're gonna have a team has some old

1143
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 6: school acts.

1144
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 2: This ship.

1145
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 6: It was super.

1146
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,359
Speaker 5: I never dreamed the day would come while I would

1147
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 5: meet him in person.

1148
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,439
Speaker 6: He still looks the same way he do on TV.

1149
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 7: He said, Woodley, you can't tell the difference.

1150
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 5: Lady, I don't know, caring claw at Woodley. Maybe she

1151
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 5: just didn't have her glasses on or something.

1152
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 7: Her cataracts was cutting up.

1153
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 2: How old was she?

1154
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 14: She?

1155
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1156
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 5: Let me see if I can look her up. They

1157
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 5: didn't have her agent and she just said.

1158
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 2: Oh, beyond seventy or something like that.

1159
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's probably pretty old. Man, she said, she probably

1160
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 5: don't know that about the internet. Why is Bishop Jakes

1161
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 5: typing in all caps? He sure us have bad grandma.

1162
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 5: I guess I guess he does yell a lot when

1163
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 5: he gives his Uh, yeah, I guess he does.

1164
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 6: I guess he does. Uh, he does yell a lot

1165
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 6: when he gets is a sermon.

1166
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 5: So maybe this is the TD Jakes that I know.

1167
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 6: Mister Jakes, you know you spell your name wrong.

1168
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:13,280
Speaker 5: Oh well, here's a column I thought was quite interesting

1169
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,919
Speaker 5: for married people. And this was written just four days ago.

1170
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 5: Ladies blog called Apples and band Aid's blog dot com. Okay,

1171
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:29,879
Speaker 5: and it's a kind of a religious blog. Uh wow,

1172
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 5: my husband h doesn't need to see your boobs. Hm hmm.

1173
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 5: I cannot believe I'm writing it. I'm writing this. I

1174
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 5: can't believe I'm writing this. I can't believe I used

1175
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 5: the words boobs in my title of this post.

1176
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 7: Are you saying it your own boobs letter?

1177
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,240
Speaker 5: I got enough purity lessons in high school to invoke

1178
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 5: gag reflects. Any time I heard the word modesty, I

1179
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 5: remember wanting to crawl out of my skin.

1180
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 6: And when my Bible.

1181
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 5: School teachers discussed appropriate touching, Uh, that still makes me

1182
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 5: want to throw up in my mouth a little. Growing up,

1183
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,240
Speaker 5: my father carefully examined everything I wore out of the house.

1184
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 5: There was a stack of clothes in his closet that

1185
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 5: I was never allowed to wear, even if I had

1186
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 5: just ripped the fifty five dollars price tag off of

1187
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 5: it was too short, too tight, too low cut to

1188
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 5: anything that it went in a pile in his closet.

1189
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 5: Once I came home with this beautiful pair of khaki

1190
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 5: colored stretch pass to making up such a thing should

1191
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 5: be a sin to begin with, but I looked I

1192
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 5: loved them all the same. I wore them out the

1193
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 5: house one time, felt super hot. Yes that's too Tea's

1194
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 5: on hot, and I and into my dad's closet. I went,

1195
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 5: being insightful teenager I was. I decided my father clearly

1196
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 5: didn't want me to be happy, especially snugg in the

1197
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 5: air she puts she double. She covered up her clothes

1198
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 5: until she got to school, and then she took the

1199
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 5: pants like they were underneath her regular clothes. So then

1200
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 5: she got to school and changed on my way to class.

1201
00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,919
Speaker 5: After three dang girl comments from fine up and young men,

1202
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 5: I realized why Daddy hitting those suckers away. I'm not

1203
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 5: sure if I ever confessed this to him. Hey Daddy, sorry,

1204
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 5: So there you go. Guys shouldn't award that stuff. Apparently,

1205
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 5: I'm not writing to tell all teenage girls to respect

1206
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 5: their bodies.

1207
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 6: It's a must.

1208
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 5: But plenty of people are saying that I'm not writing

1209
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 5: a chastise you for posting your bikini picks for your

1210
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 5: lake outing. I suppose we all have enough criticism via

1211
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 5: block spaces. But I am writing to share the perspective

1212
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 5: of a woman who is fighting for her marriage, and

1213
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 5: for that reason, I want to tell you that I

1214
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 5: don't need my husband to see your boobs.

1215
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 6: If I was skinny with rock hard abs.

1216
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 5: And legs from here to Mexico, I want to take

1217
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 5: lots of pictures of myself, mostly naked. I would want

1218
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 5: to post them with a nice filter on Instagram and

1219
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 5: share them with whoever might see. By the grace of God,

1220
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 5: I'm forever bound to the granny tikini tankini with a

1221
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 5: built in skirt fouled that away for things I never

1222
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:55,959
Speaker 5: thought i'd say.

1223
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 6: Anyways, what I'm saying is I don't fault you.

1224
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 5: I don't blame you for being confident enough to let

1225
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 5: the world see how good you look in front of

1226
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 5: the waves with your koozie and ball cap and barely

1227
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 5: anything else. But I want to tell you that it's

1228
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 5: a stumbling block in our marriage. Yeah, the marriage to

1229
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 5: these teenage girls are responsible for. When I scroll through

1230
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 5: my newsfeed, my thumb moves in a continuous circle of

1231
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 5: motion until something catches my eye and I want to

1232
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 5: look closer. Then I tap on the picture and make

1233
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 5: that little swipe with my thumb pointed finger so I

1234
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 5: can zoom in just as close as I can to

1235
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 5: catch all the details. I'm especially bad about this when

1236
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 5: there's a line of bathing suits in the pic and

1237
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 5: I'm a girl. Mostly I'm looking at your legs, asking myself,

1238
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 5: how are they are?

1239
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 6: Seriously people without cell you like?

1240
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 5: Then I continue scrolling through my feet until something else

1241
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 5: seems interesting.

1242
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 6: I doubt my husband is so lucky.

1243
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 5: Actually, I know it's next thing impossible to take in

1244
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 5: images like those and erase them from his mind. Because

1245
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 5: I'm in I'm much less emotional about and are much

1246
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 5: more visual, And as quickly as I I can forget

1247
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 5: this picture, it is filed away his mind, ready to

1248
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 5: be pulled out whenever he so chooses. Maybe that means

1249
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:14,760
Speaker 5: during sex with her. Again, I'm not faulting you. It's

1250
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 5: not your fault, ladies, and by no means it's my fault.

1251
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 5: To him, it ain't his fault either, Guys. It's nobody's fault.

1252
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 6: This man of mine.

1253
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 5: Diverts his eyes from whatever questionable images flashed on the

1254
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 5: screen before him, but sometimes.

1255
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 6: The temptation is too much.

1256
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 5: After Memorial Day, I noticed so much skin on social

1257
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 5: media that I have yelled at warning to him as

1258
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 5: I ran out the door one morning.

1259
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 6: What is that? Don't be on.

1260
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 7: Instagram only creaking out him to this on Facebook.

1261
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 5: It's summertime, honey. Beware of the beach pics at half

1262
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 5: New Girls on Instagram.

1263
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 6: That's what she said.

1264
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 5: He probably was warming up the lotion that she left. Okay,

1265
01:00:55,640 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 5: I'll be careful. Where was I and like that he

1266
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 5: was in solitary confinement from all virtual community for the

1267
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 5: next two days.

1268
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 6: Wow.

1269
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 5: She wouldn't let him go on in andet for two days.

1270
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 5: That's crazy. Protecting his eyes, protecting his heart. I know

1271
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 5: you don't mean anything by it, but I need to

1272
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 5: share one more thing with you. When your bare shoulders

1273
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 5: and stretch markless bellies and tan legs pop up. I'm

1274
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 5: not only worry if my husband will linger over your picture.

1275
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 5: I worry how he will compare me to you. She

1276
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 5: got insecurities as I wrapped myself in his arms at night.

1277
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 5: I wonder if he is seeing you there instead of

1278
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 5: my mess of a body left.

1279
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 6: Over from pregnancy.

1280
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 5: I wonder if he thinks I'm lazy and that I

1281
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 5: don't take good care of myself. I wonder if he

1282
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 5: wishes I look more like you than who I really am.

1283
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 5: And then the insecurity monster comes back to bite at

1284
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 5: our relationship again, me begging for information to him tiring

1285
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 5: from saying the same thing over and over. So he's

1286
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 5: the dude that's like, no, baby, I want you. I

1287
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 5: don't care about them, and she's like.

1288
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 6: I don't. You zoomed in?

1289
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 7: You zoomed in.

1290
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 6: So I get it.

1291
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 5: You're on vacation and you want people to know you're

1292
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 5: hanging out with your girlfriends and want to remember the

1293
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 5: moment you had so much fun at the lake and

1294
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 5: you you love your new modest bathing suit.

1295
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 6: Can I say one more time, I'm not judging you? Yes,

1296
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 6: you are right at this point.

1297
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 5: I remember reading this earlier and at that point when

1298
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 5: she said, I was like, bitch, she was definitely judging

1299
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 5: like you, it's not no.

1300
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 6: It's nobody responsibility but your own to have a happy marriage.

1301
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 5: And definitely nobody can take care of the insecurity in

1302
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 5: your brain. Yes, I'm gonna not post these pictures because

1303
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 5: your brain might freak out. Get your ass off the

1304
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 5: internet then, period, But would you could you keep your

1305
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 5: boobs out of my marriage?

1306
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 6: She's not judging you.

1307
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 7: What does my boobs got to do with your marriage.

1308
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 5: You can have your memories caring damn, and we can

1309
01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 5: have our sacred hearts.

1310
01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 6: We can all get along in beautiful harmony. Thanks love.

1311
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 6: I think we'll all be better for it.

1312
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 7: You can't legislate the internet. M h and what grown there?

1313
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 7: As man is gonna like his wife to tell him

1314
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Speaker 7: he can't be in it for two days? What are

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Speaker 7: you ten?

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01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 6: So I feel partially responsible for.

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01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 5: I feel partially responsible for this because I don't know

1318
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 5: how popular this blog is, but I definitely was tweeting

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01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 5: our links to it and quotes from this.

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01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 6: Ship, like what what is wrong with this woman?

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01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 5: And uh she put addendum on here that wasn't here

1322
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:41,479
Speaker 5: before I did that, so I'm assuming it got around. Yeah,

1323
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 5: the comment space has quickly become a source of debate, hatred,

1324
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 5: and discouragement. Somehow people missed the part where I said

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01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 5: this is a perspective and not the Bible. I never

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01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 5: suggested my husband isn't responsible for his own eyes and heart.

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01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 6: Actually, I say he.

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Speaker 5: Works his butt off to protect those, and I agree

1329
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 5: that us women are not in control of any man's thoughts.

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01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 5: All I hope for is a world where we accept

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01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 5: the responsibility of our actions affecting others.

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01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 6: However unfair it feels to those.

1333
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 5: Who have shared with me how our visually stimulated culture

1334
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 5: has waged war on your marriages.

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01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 6: Thank you for bearing your souls to me.

1336
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 5: Y'all got issues to I have prayed over your pain

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01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 5: and hope for complete healing those who have attacked my

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01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 5: image of my marriagement.

1339
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 6: You find peace in your endeavors. So there you go.

1340
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 5: Care And she's the same thing about the shirtless men

1341
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 5: in them pictures with them.

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Speaker 8: Come on now, Like I said, at the end of

1343
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 8: the day, this talks about your securities and your issues,

1344
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 8: and you're not feeling comfortable in your own skin. And

1345
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 8: there are a lot of women that feels the same

1346
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 8: way she does. They feel like that about porn, they

1347
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 8: feel like that about classing that a woman. They have

1348
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 8: a lot of whole hell of a lot of insecurity.

1349
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 8: I don't care who you are as a woman. Somebody's

1350
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 8: gonna always have big ass, somebody's always gonna have bigger titties,

1351
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 8: somebody's always gonna have pretty face, Somebody always gonna have

1352
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 8: longer hell. Somebody's always gonna be more fit, somebody's always

1353
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 8: gonna be more cut.

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01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 7: It don't matter what you do.

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01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 8: Somebody's gonna be better at you, better than you at it,

1356
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 8: so you might as well be.

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01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 7: Confident in your awn goddamn skin and call it a day.

1358
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I want to win. The last time she masturbated.

1359
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 2: Never just send her a machine.

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01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, somebody just send her that Adam and Eve cold. Yeah.

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01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, be comfortment in your own skin.

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01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 5: I feel bad for a husband, me too, because I

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01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,439
Speaker 5: am not consoling your ass every night.

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01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 8: Nope, because as a man, it has to wear you out,

1365
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,680
Speaker 8: especially if you're doing the right thing and you're saying

1366
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 8: it's not a promise, it's not an issue.

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01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 7: But in her mind, every other woman you look at

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01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 7: you on a.

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01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 5: Fuck yeah, I'll be like, you know what, this ain't

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01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 5: gonna work. I don't know if you know this, but

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Speaker 5: after we got married, there was still other women in

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01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 5: the world, Like, you know, unless we're gonna move to

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01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:54,919
Speaker 5: a remote island disconnected from everybody and anybody else, you're

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01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 5: gonna always feel insecure.

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01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 6: So you know, you gotta step that up, you know.

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01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 2: I don't think it. I don't think it'd be safe

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01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 2: for him to leave though at this.

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01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 6: Point, oh well, obviously not kill him.

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01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 5: Was John Wayne a serial cheating, low down, dirty dog

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Speaker 5: from the National Inquiry.

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01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 2: Oh well there's a news source.

1382
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 6: I think he was out there getting on these these hose.

1383
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 5: I guess so, yeah, Horse bringing over listened up Pilgrim.

1384
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 6: The Duke was no quiet man in real life.

1385
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 5: He cheated on his wives with co stars Mariene O'Hara,

1386
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 5: Marlene Dietrick, and Moore, says a book movie legend, John

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01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 5: Wayne was famous as a two fisted cowboy, where his

1388
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 5: he man character preferred knock down bar fights to babes,

1389
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 5: But in real life he was a serial womanizer who

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01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 5: cheated on his wives with stunning screen sirens, including Marlene

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01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 5: Dietrich and his greatest love Mariene O'Hara. Still, he made

1392
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Speaker 5: no excuses, saying the guy you see on the screen

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01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 5: isn't really me. I'm Duke Morrison and I never was

1394
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 5: and never will be film personality, a film personality.

1395
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 2: Like John Wayne, and I will get some.

1396
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 6: Take off them underwear.

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01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 5: The form the former the former college football star and

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01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 5: father of seven kids with three wives.

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01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 6: Look at this before the internet?

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01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 5: Ain't that the truth didn't have to chase gals, though

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01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 5: they hunted him a heavy boozer and smoker of four

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01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 5: to five packs of Unfelt the cigarettes daily.

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01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 6: Four to five packs is like one hundred cigarettes cigarettes

1404
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 6: in the pack, like twenty. I think, oh my.

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01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 5: He he'd already been cheating on his first wife, Josie

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01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 5: when he plunged into an affair with the sultry Dietrich.

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01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 5: Author Scott Ivan wrote in John Wayne, The Life and Legend.

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01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 5: Wayne tried to be a better husband, but that attempt

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 5: felled when Maureene sauntered into his life. Writes to author,

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01:07:56,160 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 5: when the German born sex pot known for her lesbian affairs.

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01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 2: Brought him a pack of cigarettes, and.

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01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 5: It was on those Marlboro lights first by the six

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Speaker 5: foot four Hanks strolling into Universal Versus Studios commisaries. She

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01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 5: turned to her director, Tate Garnet and purred Daddy by

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01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 5: me that.

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01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 6: People were so much sassin than the forties.

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01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 5: Wayne was cast as her leading man in the nineteen

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Speaker 5: forty Flix seven centers, and Dietrich invited him into her

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01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:30,759
Speaker 5: dressing room, where he asked her for the time time

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01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 5: to take off their drawers. Dietrich lifted her skirt to

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01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 5: reveal a garter with a watch attached.

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01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:40,839
Speaker 2: A bit maybe a cigarette now, yeah, yeah.

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01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 6: Cigarette, Well that's for after that was in the bra.

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01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 6: Dietrich lifted her skirt to reveal yes.

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01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:50,639
Speaker 5: So she looked at the watch and then moved toward Wayne, saying,

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01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 5: it's very early, darling.

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01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 4: We have plenty of time, and I don't have any

1428
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 4: filters on this cigarette.

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01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:58,679
Speaker 7: Smoke them all you want.

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01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 5: This sounds like something out of a nineteen forties Uh,

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01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 5: one of those nah, one of those Pope Pope fiction

1432
01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 5: type novels. Oh, the like the La Confidential type shit.

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01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 5: She was hot, so hot for Wayne, She like, it

1434
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 5: feels like so hot. You ever watched those You ever

1435
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 5: watched those movies where the detective is also the narrator.

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01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 6: That's how it sounds. She walked into my office.

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01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 7: And they had that slow music in the background.

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01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, with gam for days. I said, do you have

1439
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 6: the time?

1440
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 5: And then she pulled out her pulled on her daughter

1441
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 5: and said, we have plenty.

1442
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 7: Of time, and then it phased the black.

1443
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was looking for a man that killed her husband.

1444
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 6: You know, all that kind of.

1445
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 5: Stuff is her walking around in the kitchen with shirt, Yeah,

1446
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 5: with his shirt, scraping up some eggs and stuff like that.

1447
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,720
Speaker 8: I never thought it would be like this. She's my

1448
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 8: sh she's my customer. But I couldn't help it. I

1449
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,120
Speaker 8: fell in love with her baby blue eyes.

1450
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 5: She had legs that went on like an Oklahoma sun

1451
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 5: set currs more dangerous than the La Coast. Oh lord,

1452
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 5: uh so, yeah, she was so hot for Wayne she

1453
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 5: leaped onto him, wrapping her legs around the actor when

1454
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 5: he walked on the set.

1455
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,440
Speaker 6: He later confided that the hottest sex romp in his life.

1456
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:26,000
Speaker 5: Was was with Dietrich at the Excelsior Hotel in Rome,

1457
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:30,919
Speaker 5: where I took her on the staircase. Perhaps his greatest

1458
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:34,559
Speaker 5: love of hers, too, was Mariene O'Hare, his leading lady

1459
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,880
Speaker 5: in five flicks, including nineteen fifty two's Quiet Man, Big

1460
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 5: Jake in nineteen seventy one Hacking Man.

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01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 7: Never seen none of these movies. Oh this she hadn't

1462
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 7: for I was born.

1463
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, by time in nineteen seventy one, the five packs

1464
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 5: a daydn't catch up to.

1465
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 4: Him, right, Like, like Rob said, he's probably hacking and

1466
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 4: calling them.

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01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, well listening here, pill pill, pil grium, oh man students.

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01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 7: To gain Try that again. Wait a minute, I think

1469
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:02,599
Speaker 7: I lost the loan.

1470
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 6: Give you back to me that affair was no secret.

1471
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 5: During that time, he was weard The Esperanza from nineteen

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01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,759
Speaker 5: forty six to nineteen fifty four and Pillar from nineteen

1473
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:13,280
Speaker 5: fifty four to nineteen seventy three.

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01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 6: He never married at the side check, though.

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01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 5: Robert Mitchum's actor's son Christopher recalled working with them on

1476
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 5: Big Jake, revealing Duke was truly in love with that

1477
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:25,799
Speaker 5: woman Big Jake. Mitchell believed he didn't marry because Maureene

1478
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 5: was strong and tough, and John probably didn't think he

1479
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 5: could control her. Wayne battle lung cancer nineteen sixty four

1480
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 5: and died for stomach cancer at age seventy two in

1481
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 5: June eleven, nineteen seventy nine, weeks before Marine visited him

1482
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 5: for two days. At one point during this chemo therapy,

1483
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 5: Wayne ordered his son Patrick to get his thirty eight

1484
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 5: revolver so he could end his agony. Patrick and the

1485
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:49,040
Speaker 5: other son, Stacy, refused, and the suicide of Wayne raised

1486
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 5: it them. When it came to other actors, Wayne had

1487
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:56,479
Speaker 5: a favorite, James Garner. They rave about Marlon Brando and

1488
01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 5: George C. Scott, said Wayne, but they couldn't hold a

1489
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:00,719
Speaker 5: candle to him.

1490
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 6: So there you go.

1491
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 8: Guys.

1492
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 6: John Wayne was a dirty, filthy, low down cheetah.

1493
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 5: Sure, m uh, let's talk about our games, guys.

1494
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 6: Time to play games, game time, first game play here.

1495
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,559
Speaker 6: It's a little game we like to call fucking with

1496
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 6: black people.

1497
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 5: Just fucking with those black people. Was just fucking with

1498
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 5: those blacks.

1499
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 6: We're just fucking with fucking with black people. That's right, guys,

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01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 6: Time for fucking with black people. The game that we

1501
01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:39,680
Speaker 6: all love to hate.

1502
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 5: To play, but we grade different levels of ray system

1503
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 5: from zero to one hundred and uh it was twenty five.

1504
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:54,640
Speaker 5: Today's contestants are our teacher and a Texas Democrat. Uh,

1505
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 5: there's a Texas Democrat on the Edge Show. Let me

1506
01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 5: see if I can play right clip.

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01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 6: Welcome back to the Edge Show. Last week, Wait, Michael

1508
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:08,839
Speaker 6: er Dyson was on the head show. Good for him.

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01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 9: Texas Republicans unveiled their temporary twenty fourteen platform.

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01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 6: In it, they had urged that quote.

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01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:17,559
Speaker 5: What if he start making references to Tupac and Wrap

1512
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 5: like you always.

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01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 7: Do ahead, that's his thing, ain't it.

1514
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 5: Well, it's like that literary poet Tupac's report said, if

1515
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 5: it ain't no hoes, then it ain't no shows.

1516
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:31,760
Speaker 6: Let's see what else.

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01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 9: President said, The Voter Rights Act of nineteen sixty five,

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01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:39,680
Speaker 9: codified and updated in nineteen seventy three, be repealed and

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01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 9: not reauthorized. They meant to reference the Voting Rights Act.

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01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 9: The Texas GOP can't even correctly identify one of the

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 9: most important pieces of legislation to come out of the

1522
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 9: civil rights movement. That's because the Texas GOP doesn't believe

1523
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 9: we need protections against racial discrimination and voting. The reality

1524
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 9: is racism is alive and well in Texas. Just listen

1525
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 9: to this recording made a two term Lamark City council

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01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 9: member Connie True, discussing problems with the local school district.

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01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 7: I mean, she used to be everyone.

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01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 6: She said, you could barely make it out. She said,

1529
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 6: she really turned black.

1530
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 4: She used to be sociable and m wine and had

1531
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 4: a level head.

1532
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 12: And she got a school boards blacks and they just.

1533
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 7: They all just gaged up.

1534
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 5: And she got on the school board with the rest

1535
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 5: of the blacks and they all just ganged up. And

1536
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 5: that's why the school system has gone to hell. You're

1537
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 5: you're not gonna it's not gonna get you better til

1538
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:44,599
Speaker 5: you get those blacks off the school board.

1539
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 6: It's not gonna get you better.

1540
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 7: You can get those plans school.

1541
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:52,559
Speaker 9: When the audio leak, city officials launched an investigation, but

1542
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 9: Trube only doubled down.

1543
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 15: Those are your words, if they are and all you

1544
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 15: have to do is see the condition the school district

1545
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 15: is in right now.

1546
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:03,640
Speaker 2: Is that a black white issue?

1547
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 7: I think so?

1548
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 14: True?

1549
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:06,719
Speaker 8: Wow.

1550
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,759
Speaker 9: Censured by the city council. The council also approved city

1551
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:13,640
Speaker 9: funding for an investigation by an outside law firm. But

1552
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,640
Speaker 9: Truth still doesn't see the problem.

1553
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:18,840
Speaker 7: What is on the tape. It's nothing more than me

1554
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 7: setting my honest opinion.

1555
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 6: And I don't back down.

1556
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 7: No, I never took nine vocals on the tape.

1557
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 6: Troops common that by the way, that is the new thing.

1558
01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 5: And I absolutely hate when black people give cover for that,

1559
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 5: where it's like, hey, they honest about the racism.

1560
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 7: So it's still racist.

1561
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 5: You like you start grading that on a curve like, oh,

1562
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 5: oh it was honest racism. Well then fine, no problem,

1563
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 5: My bad. I didn't you know what. I just hate

1564
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 5: when people live out bigotry. But I'm a big fan.

1565
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,680
Speaker 5: You know who else is honest about racism? All the

1566
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 5: people in the sixties, slave owners, the people that killed

1567
01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 5: the Native American like, hey, at least we upfront about it. Well,

1568
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 5: we appreciate John Is. You go ahead and enslavers and serve.

1569
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 9: To illustrate just how out of touch the Texas GOP is.

1570
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 9: Trub's refusal to resign is simply unacceptable. Joining me now

1571
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 9: is Sarah slavean fil director for the Fort Benn County

1572
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 9: Democratic Party in Texas. Miss Layman True doesn't deny she

1573
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:25,680
Speaker 9: made the comments. She's unapologetic. What purpose does an investigation

1574
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 9: serve into her comments?

1575
01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 15: You know it's stage dressing to protect all the racists

1576
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 15: that are around her. I think everyone can look at

1577
01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 15: this situation and see that Connie Trube needs to be

1578
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 15: out on her butt immediately that you know, thirteen thousand

1579
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 15: people are so living in Lamark deserve better than Connie True.

1580
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 15: Texas deserves better than a GOP who can't even name

1581
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 15: the historic legislation that's seeking to correct the structural racism

1582
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:53,799
Speaker 15: that people like Connie True represent.

1583
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, to twist Jack Nicholson.

1584
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:57,679
Speaker 6: Trube, you can't take the truth.

1585
01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 9: So what actions could the Department of Justice you think

1586
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 9: take against her and bring some sense of balance to

1587
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 9: the situation.

1588
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 15: I think the DOJ is going to find here like

1589
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 15: they're finding in our voter id case, the clear violations

1590
01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 15: that you know, Texas legislators are trying to impose on

1591
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:16,759
Speaker 15: minority voters, and that there's no way that Connie Trube

1592
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:20,600
Speaker 15: and District CE can adequately or with honor represent the

1593
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:23,640
Speaker 15: some thirty five percent of people that live overall and

1594
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 15: who are African American in La Mark. She can't serve

1595
01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 15: those people, and she certainly can't help the city address

1596
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 15: the problems that they are having with their school district.

1597
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 15: You know, in that tape and that racist tape that

1598
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 15: Mistrube made, she tries to delineate the domstry being stupid

1599
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,720
Speaker 15: and ignorant. Here's the difference. The difference is blaming the

1600
01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:42,760
Speaker 15: failure in our Texas schools on melanin in people's skin.

1601
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 7: The failure in people's schools due to.

1602
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 15: Education reformers, and that's usually people with white skin, like

1603
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 15: Bill and Melinda Gates and our even Senator John Cornyan

1604
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:53,639
Speaker 15: who came up with the efficiency outcomes. The melanin people's

1605
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,840
Speaker 15: skin has nothing to do with why our schools are

1606
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 15: failing the structuring of how we fund our schools and

1607
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 15: how Republican statewide leadership has able to adequately fund those schools,

1608
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 15: like when they cut five billion dollars from the school

1609
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 15: budgets in twenty eleven.

1610
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:11,000
Speaker 7: That is why lamark isd is failing. She who snaps

1611
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 7: in the road.

1612
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 6: I also like that.

1613
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 5: You know that that she was like she has thirty

1614
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:19,639
Speaker 5: five percent black people in her district.

1615
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:22,920
Speaker 7: Like, yeah, so you're representing black people, right.

1616
01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:26,840
Speaker 5: And then it's funny because whenever voter ID laws and

1617
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:29,680
Speaker 5: stuff get passed, or whenever people try to push you know,

1618
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 5: fights against you know, people were it's like, well, look,

1619
01:18:33,600 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 5: we don't have to enforce these laws anymore because obviously

1620
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 5: there's no racism in the South anymore, and the Supreme

1621
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 5: Court degrees that it's time to just people can all

1622
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 5: go vote.

1623
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 6: It's not a problem.

1624
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,559
Speaker 5: It's so funny because this is how people feel about

1625
01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:50,360
Speaker 5: black people. And then when you make that, you know

1626
01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:54,400
Speaker 5: that that small leaping logic of yeah, and this is

1627
01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:57,719
Speaker 5: why we have these new restricted voter ID laws passing

1628
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 5: in all these Southern states. Once you know, Obama started

1629
01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:04,559
Speaker 5: winning some of them in two thousand and eight, all

1630
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 5: of a sudden, it's like, yeah, because they don't want

1631
01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 5: black people coming. Well, no, it's not that just everyone

1632
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 5: should have a license, you know, it's like it's weird,

1633
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 5: like we should make it as hard as possible for

1634
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:15,759
Speaker 5: poor people with black people to vote.

1635
01:19:15,840 --> 01:19:18,920
Speaker 8: So yeah, because to me, I personally think the way

1636
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 8: our voting system is screwed up. Voting should be on

1637
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 8: the weekend or either voting should be a national holiday.

1638
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 8: In my personal opinion, if you really wanted everybody to vote,

1639
01:19:30,520 --> 01:19:33,000
Speaker 8: voting is Tuesday, in the middle of the week, and

1640
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 8: it's restricted hours from like six m to like seven pm.

1641
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 4: They've cut out some early voting.

1642
01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:43,679
Speaker 8: And yes, so many states passed laws once they came

1643
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 8: out and tried to act like.

1644
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 7: I think that when Obama won the second.

1645
01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:52,759
Speaker 8: Time, actually when he won the first time they actually started,

1646
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 8: but especially when he won the second time.

1647
01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 7: They are really not about everybody voting.

1648
01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 8: They are like, as long as our people vote to

1649
01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:04,839
Speaker 8: get us in because obviously if we go by votes, we're.

1650
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 7: Gonna lose because more people actually believe what this nigga

1651
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 7: is saying.

1652
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 8: So we have to make it very hard and very

1653
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:14,520
Speaker 8: restrictive and try to eliminate as many people as possible.

1654
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 5: Well, I have to get this one hundred guys. Oh, Yeah,

1655
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 5: feel pretty fucked with and especially with her tripling down.

1656
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 5: That is just the first ever we have never had.

1657
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 5: That is the rare you might get bonus points, there's

1658
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 5: the red no bonus points, there's the rare triple down

1659
01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:35,120
Speaker 5: on racism when you hit that no blacks on the

1660
01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:35,719
Speaker 5: school board.

1661
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:39,360
Speaker 6: I was just being honest and if you look at it,

1662
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:41,679
Speaker 6: that's what it comes down to. That is a rare

1663
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:44,559
Speaker 6: triple down. So one hundred for her. Let's go to

1664
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 6: the next week.

1665
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 7: Here she can.

1666
01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:51,920
Speaker 5: An Iowa teacher asked the black student to address him

1667
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:56,360
Speaker 5: as Master Mouse, an Iowa teacher who told the high

1668
01:20:56,360 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 5: school see to call him master.

1669
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 6: Maybe he met it like master and commander.

1670
01:21:02,600 --> 01:21:05,480
Speaker 2: You know, maybe met like Master Bates.

1671
01:21:05,840 --> 01:21:12,719
Speaker 5: Master, Master Chief, Masterpiece theater, maybe even masterpiece barbecue, something

1672
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 5: like that.

1673
01:21:13,600 --> 01:21:13,840
Speaker 2: Master.

1674
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, it could be a lot of things, but uh,

1675
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 6: we do have a new Well.

1676
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:25,599
Speaker 10: Mister McCurtain was taking the class downstairs for Senior Senior

1677
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:31,559
Speaker 10: Finals and I went to went to stop on the

1678
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 10: second floor and he said class were going downstairs, all

1679
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:36,559
Speaker 10: the way downstairs to take the test.

1680
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 6: I said, okay, yes sir.

1681
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 10: He said, say yes, Master, And I said, who the

1682
01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:45,479
Speaker 10: effort you talking to you're nobody's massa.

1683
01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 6: Oh he took the t out too mass up.

1684
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 5: Mm hmm, ain't nothing but racist American't make that argument,

1685
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 5: Mississippi master.

1686
01:21:54,320 --> 01:21:55,879
Speaker 2: The same days.

1687
01:21:56,000 --> 01:22:01,439
Speaker 10: If you thought it was funny, it's not. And another

1688
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 10: student was with me, but she's shy, so she.

1689
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 2: Didn't say nothing.

1690
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 10: She was just staring another And another student was walking

1691
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 10: up to the situation, and he was laughing because his

1692
01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 10: face turned red, but he was smirking at the same time.

1693
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:21,640
Speaker 10: And I'm as I was going off. But and after that,

1694
01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 10: we went and took the test, and I went to

1695
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 10: go tell the administrative staff about what was going on,

1696
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,640
Speaker 10: but everyone was busy, so I I came up the

1697
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 10: next morning and I told him about it. How oh,

1698
01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 10: my face went from a smile to a frown real quick.

1699
01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 10: I was shocked. I was appalled. I was hurt, like

1700
01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:45,200
Speaker 10: I w it surprised me more though it took like

1701
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:50,120
Speaker 10: usually I'm quick with saying coming up and saying something back,

1702
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:54,600
Speaker 10: but after that, it took me about five seconds to like,

1703
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 10: I know, he did not just say that. Like when

1704
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:02,200
Speaker 10: I reported to the other staff, I felt like nobody

1705
01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 10: believed me. When I told mister Blazovich about it. He

1706
01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 10: didn't seem surprised about what the teacher said. He was

1707
01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 10: more interested about what I said. He was upset that

1708
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 10: I dropped the F phone. He said, you're brave for real,

1709
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,120
Speaker 10: you did. And I said, yes, sir, but I was

1710
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 10: mad in that moment. I'm pretty sure you would be too.

1711
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:28,600
Speaker 10: He said, no, that's not how Roosevelt students act.

1712
01:23:29,800 --> 01:23:31,880
Speaker 6: God damn it. I hate when people do that.

1713
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 4: When a man calls you massa, you just sit there

1714
01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:36,960
Speaker 4: and you go tell somebody.

1715
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:39,640
Speaker 5: You said the F word. Boy, you address me as

1716
01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 5: mass as well. Now gonna get my whip call you mama.

1717
01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:50,639
Speaker 10: I said, okay. I said, well, I apologize about that,

1718
01:23:51,320 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 10: but I was really upset in the moment. He said, well,

1719
01:23:54,479 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 10: I'll investigate into it more. But I'm just letting you

1720
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:04,200
Speaker 10: know now, that's not how That's not the language we use.

1721
01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 10: And I said okay, yes, sir, and I went on

1722
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 10: with the rest of my day. I've had trouble with

1723
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 10: him from freshman year all the way up to the

1724
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:17,800
Speaker 10: end of my senior well to the last day of

1725
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 10: my senior day.

1726
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 6: He had his favorite seen.

1727
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:22,400
Speaker 7: He didn't you know there was others He didn't.

1728
01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 10: There was some there were some kids he'd be all

1729
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:30,280
Speaker 10: buddy buddy with, and then there was some kids he'd

1730
01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:33,519
Speaker 10: be like, Okay, you're gonna do this. You're gonna do this,

1731
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 10: like giving more directions instead of teaching what we had

1732
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 10: to do. And sad to say, I was one of

1733
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:47,679
Speaker 10: those students. It's not like I'm saying nothing to offend nobody,

1734
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:51,479
Speaker 10: or if it's something small like Ms mccurrin, can I

1735
01:24:51,479 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 10: get a pencil? Well, it's not my fault. You didn't

1736
01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:57,559
Speaker 10: go get a pencil. You should have brought your own pencil.

1737
01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 10: Somebody ask somebody else asked, can I have a mental please?

1738
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,840
Speaker 2: Uh, sure you go, and I'll be like, okay, fine.

1739
01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 9: Man.

1740
01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 10: I always felt.

1741
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:13,360
Speaker 7: Different, outcasted, and he felt well.

1742
01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 3: To me, what he's saying is like if they made

1743
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 3: him like an outcast from and like I told him myself.

1744
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 3: You know, I even asked him, like, what do you

1745
01:25:21,800 --> 01:25:24,480
Speaker 3: have against my child? Is it because he's dark complexed

1746
01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:25,720
Speaker 3: or you know, what is it?

1747
01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 14: You know?

1748
01:25:26,160 --> 01:25:28,920
Speaker 3: And I told I think I spoke to mister Bogovich

1749
01:25:28,920 --> 01:25:31,639
Speaker 3: and I told him, you know, my child already has

1750
01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:35,680
Speaker 3: his own things with his inner self as far as

1751
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 3: his complexion and everything else. So that didn't make you

1752
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:40,800
Speaker 3: That doesn't make it no better. When you have a

1753
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:42,680
Speaker 3: teach I'm not saying that you have to be a

1754
01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:46,000
Speaker 3: friend to my child, but be that teacher, you know,

1755
01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 3: treat people how you wish to be treated. And that's

1756
01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:52,320
Speaker 3: all I That's basically all I asked.

1757
01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:55,640
Speaker 6: At these millennials at the internet and their parents.

1758
01:25:56,080 --> 01:25:58,840
Speaker 5: The world is changing like that used to just be

1759
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:01,000
Speaker 5: something you told your parents and maybe they called the

1760
01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:04,719
Speaker 5: school or maybe they was like, well, look, life is crazy.

1761
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:07,679
Speaker 6: Just you know, I'll talk to them or something.

1762
01:26:07,920 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 5: But now it's like, call the news, get two cameras.

1763
01:26:12,479 --> 01:26:14,480
Speaker 6: Were about to put this food on blast.

1764
01:26:15,520 --> 01:26:18,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, and this is after the school supposedly quote unquote

1765
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 5: handled it, and they was like it wasn't good enough.

1766
01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:22,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, nothing happened.

1767
01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:25,519
Speaker 5: So we calling the news ourselves and we're gonna get

1768
01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:28,479
Speaker 5: this story out there until they do something about it.

1769
01:26:28,520 --> 01:26:30,000
Speaker 6: Man, it's amazing.

1770
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 8: Nowadays you almost have to do it, and to an

1771
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:38,000
Speaker 8: instant it's good and bad is good because I think

1772
01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:42,840
Speaker 8: back in the day, more people were more acceptable of it,

1773
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 8: and they set that child down and was like, hey,

1774
01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 8: this is life.

1775
01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:47,360
Speaker 7: You know, you just have to deal with it. But

1776
01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 7: now you live in society. Well, I ain't got to

1777
01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:50,400
Speaker 7: deal with not the goddamn thing.

1778
01:26:51,040 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 8: So you come at me. I can blast you, I

1779
01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:55,599
Speaker 8: can cause you to lose your job. I'm not going

1780
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 8: to sit here and just let you do this stuff

1781
01:26:58,080 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 8: because that's quote unquote the way it is.

1782
01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 5: Be it.

1783
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 8: The are consequences of repercussions to that and all that

1784
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:07,880
Speaker 8: stuff too, But at the same time, it's also one

1785
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 8: of those things where you would get exhausted if every

1786
01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 8: time something racial happens to you, a racist happens to you,

1787
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:16,479
Speaker 8: if you're brown a skin tone, you constantly run to

1788
01:27:16,520 --> 01:27:16,960
Speaker 8: the news.

1789
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,160
Speaker 6: Yeah I give it one hundred though, because I.

1790
01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 7: Mean, oh yeah, I get a hundred.

1791
01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:23,520
Speaker 5: That's the most racist of racism going back to slavery.

1792
01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 8: And I think he handed it very well because he

1793
01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:27,760
Speaker 8: didn't put no hands on that man.

1794
01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 5: Well, he cussed at the dude, But I don't have

1795
01:27:30,439 --> 01:27:32,120
Speaker 5: a problem with that. And I hate when people do

1796
01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:35,080
Speaker 5: this thing where they don't prioritize the right and the

1797
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,960
Speaker 5: wrong when you're telling them something like in.

1798
01:27:37,920 --> 01:27:40,639
Speaker 2: A civil way while they disrespect you.

1799
01:27:40,640 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 6: You know, yeah, I'm not into that.

1800
01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:44,080
Speaker 5: Like I was playing ball the other day, at the

1801
01:27:44,120 --> 01:27:46,960
Speaker 5: WY and this dude was like just being an overall.

1802
01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 6: Dip towards specifically towards me for some reason.

1803
01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:51,840
Speaker 5: We're on the same team and everything, and he like

1804
01:27:51,920 --> 01:27:55,040
Speaker 5: tried to single me out and he custed me, and

1805
01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:58,280
Speaker 5: I cussed back at him, you know, and it was

1806
01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 5: you know, nobody got violent. Nobody was, you know, no

1807
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:02,600
Speaker 5: threatening to fight, nothing like that. But it was like,

1808
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:06,160
Speaker 5: you know, two people can cuss at each other. You know,

1809
01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:09,120
Speaker 5: you're gonna play that game. And after the game was over,

1810
01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:10,960
Speaker 5: this dude was like, Ron, can I ask you to

1811
01:28:11,120 --> 01:28:13,519
Speaker 5: respect the YMCA signed about no cussing?

1812
01:28:14,120 --> 01:28:15,760
Speaker 6: And I was like, why are you just talking to

1813
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 6: me right?

1814
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,920
Speaker 5: And he was like, well you I was like, he

1815
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:21,640
Speaker 5: was like, well, you know, I just think that we

1816
01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:22,479
Speaker 5: shouldn't be cussing.

1817
01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:24,160
Speaker 6: I said, okay, that's cool, but did you talk to

1818
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 6: the other dude?

1819
01:28:26,000 --> 01:28:29,200
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I mean you can control your Actually,

1820
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:30,960
Speaker 5: I said, right, you can control yours. You can go

1821
01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 5: over there and talk to him as well, because I

1822
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:39,000
Speaker 5: have Yeah, I have no problem you know, adjusting my behavior.

1823
01:28:39,040 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 5: But we're not gonna let this dude get away with it.

1824
01:28:41,520 --> 01:28:43,479
Speaker 5: And if you want to be taking the position of

1825
01:28:44,040 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 5: you know, moral authority. Then it needs to be even

1826
01:28:47,080 --> 01:28:50,800
Speaker 5: don't just talk to me, Yeah, don't just talk to me.

1827
01:28:51,600 --> 01:28:54,720
Speaker 5: It was just funny, man, how because people do that,

1828
01:28:54,800 --> 01:28:58,599
Speaker 5: they they rather they were rather confront the person that's

1829
01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 5: reasonable than the other person who calls the problem like

1830
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:03,519
Speaker 5: as much easidence.

1831
01:29:03,760 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 7: That's work. Don't want to do that.

1832
01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:07,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's much easy. Boy. You shouldn't have said their work.

1833
01:29:07,880 --> 01:29:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1834
01:29:08,080 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 6: What about that master thing though? Can we talk about that? Well?

1835
01:29:11,200 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 5: You know, cussing is wrong. Uh, I mean he's a

1836
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 5: tall teacher. I don't want to get into it with him.

1837
01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:18,599
Speaker 5: I mean he's kind of big, works out. I don't

1838
01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:19,639
Speaker 5: really work out that much.

1839
01:29:20,760 --> 01:29:23,680
Speaker 6: I'll see if I can ask him to stop. All right,

1840
01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:27,960
Speaker 6: the next game, Now, that is time for some guests.

1841
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:28,759
Speaker 14: The race.

1842
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:31,920
Speaker 5: That's right, this guest the race time.

1843
01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:35,599
Speaker 6: Now, that is time for some guests.

1844
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 2: The race.

1845
01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:42,040
Speaker 6: That's right, this guest the race time. That's right. It's

1846
01:29:42,080 --> 01:29:43,160
Speaker 6: time for guests.

1847
01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:43,759
Speaker 2: The race.

1848
01:29:44,040 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 5: The number one game show going across all the podcasts

1849
01:29:46,320 --> 01:29:48,880
Speaker 5: land where we read or play news articles from all

1850
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:51,960
Speaker 5: over the globe, and we asked our contestant today, my father,

1851
01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:55,080
Speaker 5: to guess the race.

1852
01:29:55,479 --> 01:29:57,679
Speaker 6: And the chat room plays along in the chat room's races.

1853
01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:08,400
Speaker 5: All right, let's go Nashville, Tennessee, Tennessee, Tennessee, Tennessee.

1854
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:11,640
Speaker 6: That was my song back in the day. Lord, I

1855
01:30:11,760 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 6: really feel real stress. Down duds and rest. Whatever happened

1856
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 6: to them dudes?

1857
01:30:18,040 --> 01:30:19,160
Speaker 7: About forty five of them?

1858
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:24,840
Speaker 5: Well, Nashville Man, Tennessee, has been charged with dismembering the

1859
01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:28,280
Speaker 5: body of a woman and eating part of her corpse.

1860
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 5: Oh my, Gregory saint Hell, I mean Gregory as Hell.

1861
01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:37,760
Speaker 5: I guess he was Hell. Gregory g R E G

1862
01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 5: O R Y s like that's his middle initial and

1863
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:46,439
Speaker 5: Hell H A L E. Thirty seven was arrested at

1864
01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:50,160
Speaker 5: his home Sunday and his charge with premeditated first degree

1865
01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 5: murder and the abuse of a corpse. Coffee County District

1866
01:30:53,960 --> 01:31:00,240
Speaker 5: Attorney Mike Mickey Lane told the Associated Press if he

1867
01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:03,479
Speaker 5: had some father beans.

1868
01:31:02,280 --> 01:31:05,440
Speaker 2: Called culinary recycling. I think he's just recycling.

1869
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:08,599
Speaker 6: Hell confessed to killing the woman.

1870
01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 5: According to the arrest warrant, which identified the woman as

1871
01:31:11,320 --> 01:31:15,160
Speaker 5: Lisa Marie Hider, Hell told authorities he'd be headed higher

1872
01:31:15,200 --> 01:31:17,320
Speaker 5: and cut off her hands and feet and placed the

1873
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:19,240
Speaker 5: body parts in plastic buckets.

1874
01:31:19,520 --> 01:31:21,360
Speaker 6: Fuck it, According to.

1875
01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:26,000
Speaker 5: It, says Hell buried the torso in a burn pile

1876
01:31:26,080 --> 01:31:28,439
Speaker 5: of the residents. Hell also admitted to eating part of

1877
01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:33,080
Speaker 5: the victim. Hell also said a neighbor told police he

1878
01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:35,920
Speaker 5: had a conversation with Hell and had reasonab believe a

1879
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:37,240
Speaker 5: homicide of being committed.

1880
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:39,000
Speaker 6: What was that conversation?

1881
01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:41,479
Speaker 2: Hey, man? Where's what's her name?

1882
01:31:41,560 --> 01:31:44,080
Speaker 6: Lisa Marie Man?

1883
01:31:44,120 --> 01:31:45,280
Speaker 2: That bit was good?

1884
01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:47,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, man, I'll tell you where she at. Just pad

1885
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:50,360
Speaker 6: his stomach. Uh, you want some?

1886
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:53,120
Speaker 7: I had some barbecue sauce was delicious.

1887
01:31:53,360 --> 01:31:53,800
Speaker 6: Well, I was.

1888
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:55,720
Speaker 5: I was inviting you over to eat my wife, and

1889
01:31:56,000 --> 01:31:57,840
Speaker 5: I don't know why you brought I don't know why

1890
01:31:57,720 --> 01:31:59,639
Speaker 5: it made you bring all that sex stuff with you.

1891
01:32:00,920 --> 01:32:04,040
Speaker 5: We should have brought a plate, Lane said. A neighbor

1892
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:06,360
Speaker 5: told police he that conversation with Hell to have reason

1893
01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:08,840
Speaker 5: to believe a homicibing committee Hell. It's being held on

1894
01:32:08,840 --> 01:32:12,040
Speaker 5: one point five million dollars bond. His attorney did not

1895
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 5: immediately return calls. Coffee County Sheriff Steve Graves told the

1896
01:32:17,320 --> 01:32:20,400
Speaker 5: newspaper that Hier has an ex husband and children living

1897
01:32:20,439 --> 01:32:20,960
Speaker 5: in the area.

1898
01:32:21,240 --> 01:32:23,200
Speaker 6: Gray said she apparently became acquainted with.

1899
01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 5: Hell, but there's no evidence that they were in a

1900
01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:27,679
Speaker 5: relationship or that she was living with them. Well, obviously

1901
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:29,759
Speaker 5: if she had been married to him, she'd be alive

1902
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:33,439
Speaker 5: according to the survey we did earlier. I guess the

1903
01:32:33,520 --> 01:32:35,000
Speaker 5: race of Gregory as hell.

1904
01:32:35,280 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 2: Dad, I'm gonna say.

1905
01:32:39,720 --> 01:32:40,000
Speaker 6: Quite.

1906
01:32:40,560 --> 01:32:45,920
Speaker 5: Let's check the chat room as the oh newborn snow

1907
01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:51,759
Speaker 5: all right? Hannibal Jeffrey Dahmer lector Oh my one who

1908
01:32:51,840 --> 01:32:55,439
Speaker 5: is racist? But hey, Atlasi's honest about his racism a

1909
01:32:55,600 --> 01:32:58,040
Speaker 5: since his taker once tried to test me.

1910
01:32:58,200 --> 01:32:59,280
Speaker 6: I ate his living with some.

1911
01:32:59,240 --> 01:33:03,879
Speaker 5: Father beans and nice yanti Cannibal elector white, says JDT.

1912
01:33:04,800 --> 01:33:07,600
Speaker 5: The correct answer is it was like that's all the

1913
01:33:07,640 --> 01:33:08,599
Speaker 5: guess is we got today?

1914
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:09,720
Speaker 14: Ah?

1915
01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:12,160
Speaker 5: Wait, we got one more hold on one who thinks

1916
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:15,679
Speaker 5: human should be sold in whole foods but thinks people

1917
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:18,920
Speaker 5: with food steps can't buy them.

1918
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:27,720
Speaker 6: Correct answer is white. Everyone got it. Number two.

1919
01:33:29,880 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 5: San Marino mayor caught on camera throwing doll feces on

1920
01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 5: the neighbor's walkway.

1921
01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:38,400
Speaker 2: He's a mayor may.

1922
01:33:40,040 --> 01:33:40,680
Speaker 6: California.

1923
01:33:40,720 --> 01:33:45,439
Speaker 5: I believe sam Marino, Los Angeles is where support Hell's from.

1924
01:33:45,800 --> 01:33:48,040
Speaker 5: The mayor of San Marino was caught on camera throwing

1925
01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:53,479
Speaker 5: dollheces in his neighbor's yard. The video shows Mayor Dennis

1926
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:57,519
Speaker 5: Near tossing the bag of dogways into phillip Lous walkway.

1927
01:33:58,400 --> 01:34:02,479
Speaker 6: That's what I call a smear campaign, a serious one.

1928
01:34:04,680 --> 01:34:07,000
Speaker 8: I'm the kind of docs campaign must be shitty because

1929
01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 8: it smells like he's not run of office.

1930
01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:11,720
Speaker 5: Again that I'm kind of the I'm the kind of

1931
01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 5: guy that always picks up trash, and I reached down

1932
01:34:15,040 --> 01:34:16,759
Speaker 5: to pick it up, and I'm walking down the street

1933
01:34:17,120 --> 01:34:19,000
Speaker 5: and in a moment of stupidity, I guess I was

1934
01:34:19,040 --> 01:34:21,240
Speaker 5: trying to carry it and dispose of it on his

1935
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:25,280
Speaker 5: walkway and it was a mistake, That's what he says. Loud,

1936
01:34:25,320 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 5: who captured the incident on his home surveillance camera, told

1937
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:30,960
Speaker 5: CBS two that he thinks it was retaliation because he

1938
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:34,200
Speaker 5: opposes a neighborhood dog park in nearby Lacy Park.

1939
01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:37,080
Speaker 6: The mayor said he's.

1940
01:34:36,400 --> 01:34:40,400
Speaker 5: Written an apology to Loud, who was also published which

1941
01:34:40,439 --> 01:34:43,040
Speaker 5: was also published in the local newspaper. To think that

1942
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:45,560
Speaker 5: what that what I did, which again I say was

1943
01:34:45,560 --> 01:34:47,720
Speaker 5: a laughter judgment, had anything to do with how I

1944
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:50,519
Speaker 5: feel or may feel in the future about how he

1945
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:52,960
Speaker 5: feels about a dog park is just so far from

1946
01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:55,720
Speaker 5: the truth. I can't believe it. The videos handed over

1947
01:34:55,760 --> 01:34:59,559
Speaker 5: the police, but loud to climb to file charges. So

1948
01:34:59,640 --> 01:35:04,320
Speaker 5: guess race of Mayor Dennis near.

1949
01:35:05,400 --> 01:35:08,759
Speaker 2: I'm going with the lastly white?

1950
01:35:09,160 --> 01:35:09,719
Speaker 6: All right?

1951
01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:15,960
Speaker 5: The chat room, says people seller. Oh, my man, guess

1952
01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 5: is in chat room and slow today. I don't know

1953
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:19,440
Speaker 5: my stuff behind artists.

1954
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:21,040
Speaker 7: No, I guess. I guess we're getting a delay.

1955
01:35:21,240 --> 01:35:23,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, he was just going in for ships and giggles.

1956
01:35:23,760 --> 01:35:26,599
Speaker 5: Cloudy one who would kiss the dog in the mouth

1957
01:35:26,640 --> 01:35:28,200
Speaker 5: but won't probably clean up behind it.

1958
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:30,839
Speaker 6: Oh, this is the only brown thing.

1959
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:33,680
Speaker 5: The mayor touches, except for when he passes landscape on

1960
01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 5: the back.

1961
01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:38,759
Speaker 6: White. Everybody went white, and everyone's correct again.

1962
01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:47,720
Speaker 4: All right, I'm guessing he's a conservative too, just the

1963
01:35:47,720 --> 01:35:51,160
Speaker 4: top of my head, just by the look on his face.

1964
01:35:52,840 --> 01:36:07,960
Speaker 6: Uh, let's get to the bonus round the race, double

1965
01:36:08,080 --> 01:36:10,599
Speaker 6: the points and the race.

1966
01:36:11,320 --> 01:36:13,320
Speaker 5: That's right, it's double the points, double the race, and

1967
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 5: the bonus round of guess the race. Everybody's two for

1968
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:18,880
Speaker 5: two so far. Well, let's see if they get a

1969
01:36:18,920 --> 01:36:24,400
Speaker 5: little nervous going into the extra round. Yep, here would

1970
01:36:24,439 --> 01:36:25,719
Speaker 5: go around two?

1971
01:36:27,520 --> 01:36:28,920
Speaker 10: Uh on.

1972
01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:32,120
Speaker 5: We covered the Waffa house story the other day. It

1973
01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:35,720
Speaker 5: was about one thousand dollars tip. Oh yeah, and the

1974
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 5: woman couldn't get get up money and it was messed up.

1975
01:36:39,600 --> 01:36:39,880
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1976
01:36:39,920 --> 01:36:42,840
Speaker 5: But now we have another waffer House story. This time

1977
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:46,479
Speaker 5: it's more typical waffle house fair. A man was shot

1978
01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:49,920
Speaker 5: at waffle house. So now this is the kind of

1979
01:36:49,920 --> 01:36:53,960
Speaker 5: service I expect, Yeah, from your local house service with

1980
01:36:54,040 --> 01:36:55,400
Speaker 5: a bullet tip.

1981
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:58,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, don't come back in here.

1982
01:36:58,360 --> 01:36:58,960
Speaker 2: There is your tip.

1983
01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:03,799
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have you scattered, smothered in your own blood, chumped,

1984
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:05,320
Speaker 5: covered in your own blood.

1985
01:37:05,640 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, chunks of you all over the place.

1986
01:37:08,080 --> 01:37:09,880
Speaker 2: Yes, and take this to go.

1987
01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:10,639
Speaker 14: Wow.

1988
01:37:13,479 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 6: The Atlanta Journal, Oh, this is the raw video. I

1989
01:37:18,200 --> 01:37:19,519
Speaker 6: hey when they do that, I thought it was a

1990
01:37:19,560 --> 01:37:20,400
Speaker 6: news article anyway.

1991
01:37:22,040 --> 01:37:28,560
Speaker 5: Quentavious Martin Quinnavias in the house, Quentavious Martin, the wildile's

1992
01:37:28,560 --> 01:37:30,920
Speaker 5: employee charged with shooting and killing the customer during an

1993
01:37:30,960 --> 01:37:34,920
Speaker 5: argument Friday morning, waved his first quarter appearance Saturdays, said

1994
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:39,479
Speaker 5: Fulton County Shares Office spokesman Tracy Flanagan. Felton County Police

1995
01:37:39,479 --> 01:37:43,960
Speaker 5: Corporal Kay Lester said Martin, twenty five, has been charged

1996
01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:46,240
Speaker 5: with the murder, possession of a firearm during the commission

1997
01:37:46,280 --> 01:37:48,880
Speaker 5: of a crime, and carrying a concealed weapon without a permit.

1998
01:37:49,120 --> 01:37:51,639
Speaker 6: He is being held at the Fulton County Jail without bond.

1999
01:37:52,160 --> 01:37:55,320
Speaker 5: The short the shooting happened at four thirty am Friday

2000
01:37:55,400 --> 01:37:58,240
Speaker 5: at the twenty four Hour restaurant on Fulton Industrial Boulevard

2001
01:37:58,520 --> 01:38:01,960
Speaker 5: at Shirley Drive, just south of By twenty. The preliminary

2002
01:38:02,000 --> 01:38:05,160
Speaker 5: investigation has determined that a verbal altercation occurred between the

2003
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:08,799
Speaker 5: employee and a customer. At some point, the male employee

2004
01:38:08,840 --> 01:38:11,679
Speaker 5: retrieved the weapon and fired upon the customer. That male

2005
01:38:11,760 --> 01:38:14,920
Speaker 5: customer was deceased at the scene. Feel bad for the

2006
01:38:14,920 --> 01:38:15,960
Speaker 5: other people in the Waffa house.

2007
01:38:16,840 --> 01:38:19,160
Speaker 7: This came for some breakfast at two am.

2008
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:21,800
Speaker 6: I feel like after drinking, feel like at four thirty

2009
01:38:21,800 --> 01:38:24,120
Speaker 6: am when this happens, and you in waffle house would

2010
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:25,559
Speaker 6: just go. This is what I was risking.

2011
01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:28,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm saying most of the time it's not

2012
01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:29,280
Speaker 7: an issue.

2013
01:38:29,360 --> 01:38:31,400
Speaker 8: You know, they might get rowdy, but you know, every

2014
01:38:31,400 --> 01:38:32,800
Speaker 8: and I did, somebody got to die.

2015
01:38:33,320 --> 01:38:36,400
Speaker 4: My wife said, she saying nothing good happened after ten thirty.

2016
01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:37,360
Speaker 2: Have your asshole.

2017
01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:41,200
Speaker 5: The Fulton County Medicals Examiner Office late Friday identified the

2018
01:38:41,280 --> 01:38:45,160
Speaker 5: dead man as Adrian Mosley, thirty three, of Atlanta. Andre

2019
01:38:45,479 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 5: Halley said he was eating in the waffle house when

2020
01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:51,560
Speaker 5: two men and a woman came in the restaurant.

2021
01:38:51,800 --> 01:38:55,559
Speaker 6: I wonder what Entre Andre was eating. Who knows, maybe

2022
01:38:55,600 --> 01:38:58,400
Speaker 6: the waffles. The girl got into it first with the

2023
01:38:58,400 --> 01:38:59,240
Speaker 6: security guard.

2024
01:38:59,080 --> 01:39:00,799
Speaker 5: And they told her she had to lead the property,

2025
01:39:01,280 --> 01:39:04,240
Speaker 5: Haley told the Atlanta Journal Constitution. So she left, but

2026
01:39:04,280 --> 01:39:07,320
Speaker 5: the other two guys hung around and they took them

2027
01:39:07,640 --> 01:39:08,120
Speaker 5: their time.

2028
01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 6: Oh wait, they told them they had to leave.

2029
01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:12,559
Speaker 5: The cook refused to serve them because they were getting

2030
01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:15,120
Speaker 5: none ruly. After that, Hayley said, the two men got

2031
01:39:15,120 --> 01:39:16,800
Speaker 5: into it with the cook and the guy that got shot.

2032
01:39:16,840 --> 01:39:19,040
Speaker 5: He threatened the cook. He told him, you come outside,

2033
01:39:19,080 --> 01:39:21,120
Speaker 5: I'm gonna fire you up, which basically men he wanted

2034
01:39:21,120 --> 01:39:24,360
Speaker 5: to shoot him. Haley said, that's when gunfire broke out.

2035
01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:27,439
Speaker 5: Now you can't blame him. He just took to John Wayne.

2036
01:39:27,200 --> 01:39:27,880
Speaker 6: Approach to it.

2037
01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:29,639
Speaker 7: Of course, you know.

2038
01:39:29,840 --> 01:39:31,320
Speaker 6: Shoot first, ask questions later.

2039
01:39:31,360 --> 01:39:34,080
Speaker 5: You can't even You definitely don't want to wait till

2040
01:39:34,080 --> 01:39:35,320
Speaker 5: you get off your ship to find out.

2041
01:39:35,240 --> 01:39:36,040
Speaker 6: The dude was serious.

2042
01:39:36,160 --> 01:39:37,040
Speaker 7: Ain't that the truth?

2043
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:39,639
Speaker 5: And a current right at the counter, it was just chaos.

2044
01:39:39,680 --> 01:39:42,519
Speaker 5: I was ducking for cover like everybody else. I looked

2045
01:39:42,600 --> 01:39:43,960
Speaker 5: up and I saw the guy in the front of

2046
01:39:44,040 --> 01:39:47,439
Speaker 5: the floor dead. I finished eating my eggs and then.

2047
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 9: I just.

2048
01:39:49,600 --> 01:39:50,880
Speaker 7: He's asked his two damn good.

2049
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:54,439
Speaker 5: Sorry, I asked for a box to go. Haley guessed

2050
01:39:54,479 --> 01:39:56,719
Speaker 5: he heard three or four shots. I was too busy ducking.

2051
01:39:56,960 --> 01:39:59,160
Speaker 5: The incident was a second fatal shooter at the area

2052
01:39:59,200 --> 01:39:59,960
Speaker 5: wild I was in the past.

2053
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:04,360
Speaker 6: That's two weeks. Guess the race of Quentavious marching.

2054
01:40:05,640 --> 01:40:08,280
Speaker 4: Let's see I think I said he was a gravy

2055
01:40:09,240 --> 01:40:14,519
Speaker 4: making biscuits, sopping sausage, eating plate licking nine millimeter caring, tired.

2056
01:40:14,400 --> 01:40:15,080
Speaker 6: Of his job.

2057
01:40:15,200 --> 01:40:15,559
Speaker 7: Brother.

2058
01:40:16,080 --> 01:40:19,439
Speaker 5: All right, the chat room says Crown Royal sipping sperm

2059
01:40:19,479 --> 01:40:24,800
Speaker 5: donor whose kids brought brought their single mother's Father's Day cards. Oh,

2060
01:40:25,240 --> 01:40:28,360
Speaker 5: oh damn, that one hurts because it's real one who

2061
01:40:28,360 --> 01:40:31,080
Speaker 5: should have known better but had learning problems due to melanin.

2062
01:40:34,760 --> 01:40:38,360
Speaker 5: Oh this is the only brown Wait, hold on, wait,

2063
01:40:38,360 --> 01:40:41,120
Speaker 5: where am I I'm down here? Sorry, gravy. Oh that's

2064
01:40:41,120 --> 01:40:43,559
Speaker 5: my dad I was. If he was white, he would

2065
01:40:43,560 --> 01:40:46,840
Speaker 5: have been haled as a hero, got a gun endorsement deal,

2066
01:40:46,920 --> 01:40:48,520
Speaker 5: and be the new NRA spokesman.

2067
01:40:49,520 --> 01:40:51,160
Speaker 6: But he's black. So it's life in prison.

2068
01:40:51,200 --> 01:40:52,839
Speaker 7: Did you miss the one from black rob.

2069
01:40:53,560 --> 01:40:55,200
Speaker 5: One who does not spend any time with his kids

2070
01:40:55,200 --> 01:40:56,880
Speaker 5: all year long, didn gets upset when he gets no

2071
01:40:56,960 --> 01:41:00,519
Speaker 5: loves on Father's Day and blacker than the next gen console.

2072
01:41:00,600 --> 01:41:06,559
Speaker 5: The correct answer is and everyone got it. His name

2073
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:07,320
Speaker 5: was Quentavious.

2074
01:41:07,520 --> 01:41:17,400
Speaker 6: Quintavious was black y'all last one. Gainesville, Florida, Oh, Florida.

2075
01:41:18,560 --> 01:41:21,360
Speaker 5: A Florida man is accused of keeping three women trapped

2076
01:41:21,400 --> 01:41:24,839
Speaker 5: in his home as sex slaves for months.

2077
01:41:25,439 --> 01:41:28,840
Speaker 2: Oh my, that could go either way. Right there, you

2078
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:30,439
Speaker 2: can stop right there. That could go either way.

2079
01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:35,800
Speaker 6: Made them call him master probably sex slave man.

2080
01:41:37,000 --> 01:41:37,120
Speaker 9: Uh.

2081
01:41:37,800 --> 01:41:41,799
Speaker 5: Timothy Digan, fifty three, is facing three counts of human trafficking,

2082
01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:44,799
Speaker 5: and debuties say they were made aware of the well

2083
01:41:44,840 --> 01:41:50,040
Speaker 5: known Alachoa County accountants alleged crimes back in December when

2084
01:41:50,080 --> 01:41:56,200
Speaker 5: deputies arrested the suspect on sexual battery charges damn sexual batteries,

2085
01:41:56,920 --> 01:42:02,240
Speaker 5: double A, triple A. The Gainesville Sun reports Degan was

2086
01:42:02,320 --> 01:42:06,760
Speaker 5: arrested last Friday. According to the Alachoy County Sheriff's Office,

2087
01:42:06,800 --> 01:42:09,040
Speaker 5: the insident in December led to further restigation with your

2088
01:42:09,040 --> 01:42:12,920
Speaker 5: cover the evidence of drugs prostitution and human trafficking. Deagan

2089
01:42:13,160 --> 01:42:17,960
Speaker 5: has been having females living his residence. Sergeant Becky Butcher

2090
01:42:18,800 --> 01:42:23,160
Speaker 5: what a Name, told the station he has been providing

2091
01:42:23,200 --> 01:42:25,920
Speaker 5: them drugs in exchange for sex. He has also been

2092
01:42:25,960 --> 01:42:28,919
Speaker 5: providing transportation hotel rooms in order for them to participate

2093
01:42:28,920 --> 01:42:30,040
Speaker 5: in prostitution activity.

2094
01:42:30,600 --> 01:42:32,760
Speaker 6: Here's a pimp, he was.

2095
01:42:33,320 --> 01:42:37,559
Speaker 5: Butcher said the suspect kept tabs on the unidentified victims

2096
01:42:37,880 --> 01:42:40,800
Speaker 5: using video surveillance and would track them with GPS on.

2097
01:42:40,760 --> 01:42:44,559
Speaker 6: Their cell phones. He has recorded the sex acts.

2098
01:42:44,600 --> 01:42:46,840
Speaker 5: He has controlled the females by providing drugs to them

2099
01:42:47,080 --> 01:42:51,320
Speaker 5: by creating traps inside the residents. Cindy Shermer, Degan's neighbor,

2100
01:42:51,360 --> 01:42:57,439
Speaker 5: told w g FL that their small quad neighborhood of

2101
01:42:57,560 --> 01:43:02,120
Speaker 5: Meadowbrook Ridge in Gainesville has been rocked by the news.

2102
01:43:02,720 --> 01:43:08,519
Speaker 5: We felt we felt like this was just the safest,

2103
01:43:08,640 --> 01:43:12,680
Speaker 5: nicest neighborhood. It's just really hard for our neighbors to

2104
01:43:12,760 --> 01:43:14,120
Speaker 5: feel safe having him here.

2105
01:43:14,439 --> 01:43:17,200
Speaker 6: He's not welcome here, and his prostitutes need to keep

2106
01:43:17,200 --> 01:43:18,559
Speaker 6: their boobs out of our marriages.

2107
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:21,880
Speaker 7: Enough Instagram and Facebook.

2108
01:43:22,200 --> 01:43:26,280
Speaker 5: Degan is currently behind being behind wait. I think they

2109
01:43:26,400 --> 01:43:31,280
Speaker 5: meant being held is currently behind held at Alachua County

2110
01:43:31,400 --> 01:43:35,360
Speaker 5: Jail three hundred thousand dollars bond. The stage reports in

2111
01:43:35,360 --> 01:43:39,000
Speaker 5: addition to the human trafficking charges, Butscher says the suspect

2112
01:43:39,040 --> 01:43:42,120
Speaker 5: could face charges for drugs and video recordings of sexual activity.

2113
01:43:42,439 --> 01:43:45,799
Speaker 6: Guess the race of Timothy Degan man.

2114
01:43:46,160 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 1: That's a tough one. Man, that's a tough one. Oh,

2115
01:43:48,760 --> 01:43:51,800
Speaker 1: I lost something here, hold on, let me get back here.

2116
01:43:53,160 --> 01:44:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say, uh, lock down that

2117
01:44:00,439 --> 01:44:05,240
Speaker 1: pooty tang tied of handling's own business, mulatto.

2118
01:44:05,760 --> 01:44:06,799
Speaker 2: But I think he's white.

2119
01:44:06,880 --> 01:44:09,479
Speaker 5: All right, Let's take the chat room one whose home

2120
01:44:09,560 --> 01:44:13,439
Speaker 5: smells like cheese meth and butdissy, oh my, one who

2121
01:44:13,479 --> 01:44:17,080
Speaker 5: pays no head, no heed to the mess page of proclamation.

2122
01:44:18,320 --> 01:44:20,400
Speaker 5: It puts the lotion on the skin or else against

2123
01:44:20,400 --> 01:44:26,000
Speaker 5: the hose. Again white law enforcement back talker. The correct

2124
01:44:26,000 --> 01:44:34,320
Speaker 5: answer is everybody got it white. First time we had four.

2125
01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:38,920
Speaker 6: Four in a while. He's yeah, counter, you know that

2126
01:44:39,360 --> 01:44:40,439
Speaker 6: was the clue to give him way.

2127
01:44:41,960 --> 01:44:44,479
Speaker 5: Can't get out of here without talking about sword ratchet this, guys,

2128
01:44:44,479 --> 01:44:48,120
Speaker 5: before we leave. A Grandville man was detained after he

2129
01:44:48,240 --> 01:44:50,719
Speaker 5: was found standing in the roadway and toxicated and holding

2130
01:44:50,720 --> 01:44:54,839
Speaker 5: the sword. According to Acon County Sheriff's Office, Christopher DeShawn Elmore,

2131
01:44:54,920 --> 01:44:58,360
Speaker 5: Guess the race twenty six of Aching Road was charged

2132
01:44:58,400 --> 01:45:01,559
Speaker 5: with third degree of salt and battery disorderly conduct. He

2133
01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:03,800
Speaker 5: was placed in the Aikin County Detention Center, where he

2134
01:45:03,880 --> 01:45:07,479
Speaker 5: remained on Tuesday morning. Officers were called to Elmore's home

2135
01:45:07,920 --> 01:45:10,559
Speaker 5: on Aken Road about two forty five am on Tuesday,

2136
01:45:10,600 --> 01:45:12,120
Speaker 5: where they found him standing in the middle of the

2137
01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:17,840
Speaker 5: World Road, same thing, and he had a sword.

2138
01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:19,880
Speaker 6: He appeared to be grossly intoxicated.

2139
01:45:20,280 --> 01:45:23,120
Speaker 5: A thirty year old female victim toed officers Elmore said

2140
01:45:23,360 --> 01:45:25,840
Speaker 5: was calling her names, threatened to cut off her head

2141
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:26,479
Speaker 5: with a sword.

2142
01:45:27,160 --> 01:45:32,599
Speaker 6: Should have married him when had these problems? Right? Well, no,

2143
01:45:32,720 --> 01:45:33,760
Speaker 6: that then it wouldn't happen.

2144
01:45:34,120 --> 01:45:36,800
Speaker 2: Beat us once you get the papers, the reports.

2145
01:45:36,400 --> 01:45:37,520
Speaker 6: Of beating stops.

2146
01:45:38,479 --> 01:45:42,240
Speaker 5: Who knows how, but somehow when you married, magically marry

2147
01:45:42,280 --> 01:45:46,599
Speaker 5: a man, the reports of you know what, when you

2148
01:45:46,640 --> 01:45:49,920
Speaker 5: get married, you signed away the rights to complain when

2149
01:45:49,960 --> 01:45:52,679
Speaker 5: you getting beatn I guess the victim indicated she wanted

2150
01:45:52,680 --> 01:45:54,920
Speaker 5: to press charges. The report did not indicated Elmore and

2151
01:45:54,920 --> 01:45:58,680
Speaker 5: the victim knew each other. Man was attacked with a

2152
01:45:58,720 --> 01:46:00,559
Speaker 5: wooden sword and a chest to post of a salt.

2153
01:46:02,120 --> 01:46:04,800
Speaker 5: They count all of them can hurt. We have people

2154
01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:06,120
Speaker 5: die from wooden swords on him.

2155
01:46:07,640 --> 01:46:07,840
Speaker 10: Uh.

2156
01:46:07,920 --> 01:46:11,120
Speaker 5: Yes, they get stabbed with that. It's a sword shape.

2157
01:46:11,120 --> 01:46:12,840
Speaker 5: It can still go through you if the woods strong.

2158
01:46:15,000 --> 01:46:18,200
Speaker 5: A man beat a friends love rival with an ornamental

2159
01:46:18,360 --> 01:46:21,720
Speaker 5: wood sword in front of a shock dinner at a

2160
01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:26,400
Speaker 5: chest in front of shock diners at a Chester pub hose.

2161
01:46:29,240 --> 01:46:31,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think this is overseas. Maybe they have a

2162
01:46:31,560 --> 01:46:38,720
Speaker 6: waffle show. Yeah.

2163
01:46:39,040 --> 01:46:43,240
Speaker 5: Jane James Swindles claimed he left it to action at

2164
01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:47,400
Speaker 5: the wheat Sheet End in Parksgate Road, Mollington to defend

2165
01:46:47,680 --> 01:46:51,600
Speaker 5: Dylan Sanger, who became involved in a scuffle.

2166
01:46:52,920 --> 01:46:53,120
Speaker 8: Uh.

2167
01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:55,240
Speaker 6: Twenty one year old.

2168
01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:56,960
Speaker 5: Said The twenty one year old say initially thought the

2169
01:46:57,000 --> 01:46:59,519
Speaker 5: object was an umbrella, but later admitted brandishing it as

2170
01:46:59,560 --> 01:47:01,719
Speaker 5: a weapon and pleaded guilty to a fray.

2171
01:47:02,479 --> 01:47:04,400
Speaker 6: So that was his excuse. I thought I was beating

2172
01:47:04,520 --> 01:47:06,320
Speaker 6: with an umbrella, and I looked up and said, damn,

2173
01:47:06,360 --> 01:47:10,680
Speaker 6: this is a sword. Oh man, my bad.

2174
01:47:10,520 --> 01:47:12,679
Speaker 7: Dog, bad, This don't protect you, gets no rain.

2175
01:47:12,760 --> 01:47:17,120
Speaker 6: They're gonna put me on Yeah, oh man, dog, you

2176
01:47:17,200 --> 01:47:18,599
Speaker 6: know what this is? My bad bro.

2177
01:47:20,200 --> 01:47:22,400
Speaker 5: You put this one on its boys and egg on

2178
01:47:22,439 --> 01:47:26,320
Speaker 5: my face and blood on your face. Chester Crown Court

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Speaker 5: heard that yesterday that dozens of people, including families and children,

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Speaker 5: have been enjoying Sunday cavalry when violence broke out around

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Speaker 5: four thirty p m.

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Speaker 6: On October twentieth, last year of the day.

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Speaker 5: Some terrified witnesses told police they mistook the wooden sword for.

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Speaker 7: Why that must have been bigg then.

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Speaker 5: Swindles of Cavendish Close. Warrington was sentenced to six months

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Speaker 5: in prison for a fray and three months for possessing

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Speaker 5: an offensive weapon.

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Speaker 6: With the turns to run concurrently.

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Speaker 5: So this niggall be back on the streets in six months.

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Speaker 5: The Recorder Elgan Edwards also ordered him to serve six

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Speaker 5: months of a previously suspended eight month sentence. So Ben

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Speaker 5: f for a year, father of one singer twenty seven

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Speaker 5: of Joseph Groome Towers, Elsmere Port.

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Speaker 6: This sounds like places in Lord and Rings.

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01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 5: Yes, and Harry Potter came and said he was handed

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Speaker 5: a six month prison term for afraid. Mister Edwards told

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Speaker 5: the pair is disgraceful that you've got yourselves involved in

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Speaker 5: this offense of violence. When people were there having a

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Speaker 5: pleasant time in a public house in the city.

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Speaker 6: This kind of conduct would not be tolerated.

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Speaker 5: The court heard that the two men had turned up

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Speaker 5: to the pub, turn up to the pub for a

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Speaker 5: Sunday Rose without knowing Sanger's rival, with whom he had

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Speaker 5: a young lady in common would be there. Oh, or

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01:48:51,640 --> 01:48:57,320
Speaker 5: they call him in the old country a whole. This

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Speaker 5: is like a duel or something. And he's smacking with

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Speaker 5: a glove. First, I would fight you for the for

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Speaker 5: Miss Elizabeth's honor.

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Speaker 6: Meet me outside, choose weapons of your choice.

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Speaker 14: Uh.

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Speaker 6: They exchanged Yeah, ornamental swords, the umbrellas. Then he put

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Speaker 6: our swords.

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Speaker 5: They exchanged words and took their argument outside. But CCTV

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01:49:22,200 --> 01:49:25,320
Speaker 5: footage played in court showed the brass field back inside

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01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:27,120
Speaker 5: the reception and down in the area of the pub.

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Speaker 7: Oh, so we went outside and went back.

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Speaker 6: In CCTV is Uh they record everything.

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Speaker 8: Everything inside outside, like if anywhere, if you outside of

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Speaker 8: your own personal premises, you're getting recorded.

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Speaker 6: Swindles.

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Speaker 5: Swindles had was seen brandishing the ornamental sword and striking

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01:49:44,680 --> 01:49:48,839
Speaker 5: their victim with it several times. Defending Swindow, Adrian Evans

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01:49:48,840 --> 01:49:51,439
Speaker 5: said he saw the Code, defending Singer in a fight

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01:49:51,960 --> 01:49:55,160
Speaker 5: and reacted instinctively to protect his friend from the rather

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Speaker 5: large man he attempted. He accepts his he went too

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01:49:58,439 --> 01:50:00,800
Speaker 5: far and then he put other members of the public

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Speaker 5: and join their mills in fear.

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Speaker 6: And he apologizes for that, and it's remorse.

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Speaker 5: Swindles has been in custody since February eighteen and they've

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01:50:08,640 --> 01:50:11,799
Speaker 5: been taking anger management classes and other activities in a bed.

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Speaker 6: To turn his life around.

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Speaker 5: Didn't work to Christopher Hunt, Defending Singer, said no one

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01:50:17,240 --> 01:50:18,840
Speaker 5: was hurt in the fight, describing it as more of

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Speaker 5: a scuffle. Well, I'm pretty sure the dude that got

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01:50:21,439 --> 01:50:25,000
Speaker 5: beat the fuck up might have some different words about that.

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Speaker 6: Yes, like that.

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Speaker 5: That's why I never say it is just a wooden sword,

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Speaker 5: because that shit probably hurts. You beat me down with

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01:50:31,760 --> 01:50:33,479
Speaker 5: a wooden sword, it's probably I mean a bat is

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Speaker 5: made of wood, that would hurt. He added he very

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01:50:37,040 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 5: much regrets his involvement as ashamed of his behavior. Both

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01:50:40,240 --> 01:50:42,600
Speaker 5: have a string of previous convictions, including possession of it

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01:50:42,720 --> 01:50:48,519
Speaker 5: in imitation firearm. They only have imitation weapons. I got

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01:50:48,520 --> 01:50:49,799
Speaker 5: a fake I got wood guns.

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Speaker 6: What you need, dog? What we do? What we do?

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01:50:51,640 --> 01:50:55,120
Speaker 6: We're voted on these food Look, I got plastic nunschucks.

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Speaker 8: Yep, because I think I think in like certain places

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01:50:56,680 --> 01:50:59,040
Speaker 8: they like take everybody guns away here, man, you.

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Speaker 6: Take this silly pudding nun were about to go on

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Speaker 6: these food.

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Speaker 5: Resistant police officer for swindows and robbery and burglary, possession

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01:51:06,200 --> 01:51:07,519
Speaker 5: of a stun gun for singer.

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Speaker 7: They looked like penguin.

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Speaker 14: Uh.

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Speaker 7: They said that that dude was attacking. Thought he was

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01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:15,839
Speaker 7: fat and brown. Thought he thought umbrella.

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01:51:16,320 --> 01:51:18,719
Speaker 6: Yes, a batman.

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01:51:19,200 --> 01:51:25,559
Speaker 5: Listen, you'll never catch Oswald cobble Potts anyway.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 5: There's been another episode of the black Out Tells Father's

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Speaker 5: Day edition. Make sure you support our sponsors, shadowed our

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Speaker 5: productions and did you check questions?

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Speaker 6: I did not let me check the questions.

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Speaker 10: Uh.

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Speaker 6: Just one from.

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Speaker 5: Lennard Brothers says happy Father's Day, pops. Lots of people

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Speaker 5: use this date event about bad dads instead of celebrating

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Speaker 5: fathers in general, the good ones in particular. How do

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Speaker 5: you feel about the negativity that comes along with Father's Day?

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Speaker 4: I'm so blessed to have such a great family that

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01:51:54,040 --> 01:51:56,680
Speaker 4: the negativity just bounce off me and comes back as

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Speaker 4: another blessing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and my dad's not on social media really, so

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01:52:00,360 --> 01:52:01,799
Speaker 5: you don't get all.

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Speaker 7: That every everything in your virus. We ain't got to

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01:52:04,600 --> 01:52:05,960
Speaker 7: worry about him going on the internet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I got.

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Speaker 2: I read news, but you know, I hear a lot

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Speaker 2: of it, you know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I got back from uh what was it.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, before we did the show this morning, I

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Speaker 5: saw someone posted a card that said Happy Father's Day,

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01:52:18,960 --> 01:52:22,320
Speaker 5: quote unquote dad who was who was never there?

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Speaker 6: And I did it on my own.

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Speaker 9: Oh.

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01:52:24,640 --> 01:52:27,519
Speaker 6: I was like, damn man, just angry card. Just sit

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Speaker 6: this one out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just you know, it's it's like if I came

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01:52:30,760 --> 01:52:33,680
Speaker 5: to your birthday party every year. Every year, it was

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01:52:33,720 --> 01:52:36,720
Speaker 5: just like I never got a birthday, your son of

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Speaker 5: a bitch, and.

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Speaker 8: Kick your cake, pop all your balloons, and kick everybody

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Speaker 8: out your party.

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Speaker 6: Happy birthday to me.

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01:52:43,680 --> 01:52:47,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you're saying it's your birthday.

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Speaker 7: I know this motherfucker down.

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Speaker 5: Yeah all right, man, rest in peace to Casey case

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Speaker 5: And by the way, he just passed away to yeah

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Speaker 5: black Robs. It's a good thing you're not on social

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01:53:01,479 --> 01:53:03,880
Speaker 5: media because you can get a lot of thirsty deep

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01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:08,000
Speaker 5: ladies in your d M. S Uh, well, thanks for

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01:53:08,000 --> 01:53:09,840
Speaker 5: telling them what is that supposed to do? Black Rod

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Speaker 5: stay out of this, but yeah man. Make sure you

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Speaker 5: guys check out the Blackout Tips and check out our

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Speaker 5: tbg w T. We'll be back tomorrow. Until then, peace

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Speaker 5: uh and Karen.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I love you. I love you.