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Speaker 1: It's time for big Facts, Big Bank Baby J d
Speaker 1: J Screen Welcoming today. The creator of the J Hill Podcast,
Speaker 1: J Hill himself is here. What's up? What's up? What's up?
Speaker 1: My brother?
Speaker 2: You know, man, I'm just blessed to be here with
Speaker 2: the fan. Man. I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the one of the one of the
Speaker 1: hottest up and coming young podcasts. You touch on so
Speaker 1: many topics. You know what I'm saying. You're definitely unapologetic.
Speaker 1: You definitely speak your mind. I think you've all had
Speaker 1: each of us on your podcast too, so it was
Speaker 1: only right we brought you to our humble bowl and
Speaker 1: chop it with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, since we're here, man, I want to let you
Speaker 4: all know I appreciate y'all, man, because a lot of
Speaker 4: niggas be fake.
Speaker 2: That's how we're gonna start. I appreciate that. That me
Speaker 2: and fuck the ones who don't.
Speaker 4: So I just want to let y'all know again and
Speaker 4: again that man, when I first got here, you was
Speaker 4: like the first then Ja pulled up you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying, and then you know, like, but.
Speaker 1: We had we had a one hour conversation about this.
Speaker 1: I was like, bro, you got it time and is everything?
Speaker 1: So sometimes people don't meet it that way. I was like,
Speaker 1: you really even with me, it was just the right time.
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I don't really know who he is,
Speaker 1: but I like this ship.
Speaker 4: Let me go three y'all we had this like even
Speaker 4: because bank like, I feel like all three of us
Speaker 4: had probably had a similar conversation.
Speaker 2: I can't see too, you can't sick.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but what I will say is Jay gave me
Speaker 4: a nugget that's forever going to live in my head.
Speaker 2: It was something about timing. But how she broke it
Speaker 2: down was crazy.
Speaker 4: She was like, yo, a lot of times you really
Speaker 4: just kind of like sowing the seed, Like you might
Speaker 4: see somebody, they might see your face.
Speaker 2: Cool, you might get their number right, and then the
Speaker 2: next time. That don't mean that you're gonna probably get
Speaker 2: it anything.
Speaker 4: Y'all gonna work the next time, But that's just so
Speaker 4: on the small seed. Then you might see him again.
Speaker 4: It don't mean you might but you just you continue
Speaker 4: to seed. So by the time that fifth time, I'm
Speaker 4: a full time, I'm familiar.
Speaker 2: Right, let's do this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so that was I never heard nobody put
Speaker 4: it like that, so I was like, man, it definitely
Speaker 4: helped me out a lot.
Speaker 2: Just understand it like that. So yeah, because I'll be
Speaker 2: I'll be pissed. I go, I meet you, give me
Speaker 2: a Number'm thinking like we locked in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just know how dope you is, bro, And
Speaker 3: so so when when a person don't recognize it or
Speaker 3: see it off the rip, it kind of get me.
Speaker 4: You.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because you know how
Speaker 3: dope you. You know you coming Jamie. Yeah, but like
Speaker 3: she said, most motherfucker we want to get for me,
Speaker 3: You're like, okay, I have seen this nigga two three times.
Speaker 2: Yeah, now I fuck with you. Yeah, it ain't how
Speaker 2: we we meet.
Speaker 3: Motherfucker the first time and be like I fuck with
Speaker 3: you the first time.
Speaker 2: Fuck with you, but not even that. It's just if
Speaker 2: I tell you something, I'm gonna do it right.
Speaker 4: Like there's been times where like my podcast and can't
Speaker 4: growing astronomical you feel me, but it's still a nigga
Speaker 4: somewhere that was, like I told him I was gonna
Speaker 4: do it.
Speaker 2: It could be two years ago. I'm like, ship, I
Speaker 2: gotta do it.
Speaker 5: But but see that, let me let me tell you
Speaker 5: about that. The thing is with that, it is that's
Speaker 5: also like another version of timing because even like with
Speaker 5: me and you, like I told you I was gonna
Speaker 5: do it, but when you were hitting me about doing it,
Speaker 5: I had every intention on doing it, but some shit
Speaker 5: came up and I wasn't able to do it. And
Speaker 5: it took us a couple of times, you know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying, to.
Speaker 6: Get it together. But we got it right.
Speaker 5: But that's that's another thing that I had to learn too,
Speaker 5: Like sometimes people aren't bullshitting you, Like people aren't bullshitting
Speaker 5: you all the time. Like sometimes shit does come up,
Speaker 5: and you know, shit happens to prevent people from carrying
Speaker 5: through with what they had like really meant to do.
Speaker 5: But the same at the same time, like if they're
Speaker 5: communicating and if they're telling you what's going on or whatever,
Speaker 5: like you can't necessarily like hold it against them until
Speaker 5: it just gets egregious, don't.
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: That's the thing communication though, Yeah, a lot of times,
Speaker 4: like I was meeting niggs niggas, give me that number
Speaker 4: and just leave.
Speaker 2: Me or red or delivered, Like, bro, why do you
Speaker 2: give me a number? Just keep number? I don't. You
Speaker 2: don't have to give me a number. You could just
Speaker 2: be like, bro, not right now, or yeah, follow me
Speaker 2: on the ground. You could do whatever, like you give
Speaker 2: me a number, like we're gonna lock in, like let's
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 4: I hit you a hundred times. It's like, bro, look man,
Speaker 4: I'm off that. I'm not even knowing that no more.
Speaker 4: Though so right he grew. I ain't knowing that no more.
Speaker 4: Niggas a bullshit. You just see if you're gonna get
Speaker 4: in your feeling too mm.
Speaker 2: Hmm congratulations because I don't give a.
Speaker 4: You know, like to like, go ahead, that's what you
Speaker 4: want to do. Ain't with none of that cause I
Speaker 4: don't know, Like I'm just not gonna tell you. I'll
Speaker 4: be like, all right, we're locking you feel me? Like
Speaker 4: I be like, yeah, I do it and then don't
Speaker 4: do it. It's just I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, but like I said, I ain't this.
Speaker 1: Is an industry ween, man, This ain't this ain't it
Speaker 1: ain't black and white. There's a lot of gray areas.
Speaker 1: That's that's is where we are with that's what we
Speaker 1: chose to do. You can go a lot of places
Speaker 1: where no gray areas, but you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah where you're at.
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 2: Are you comfortable in your slaves? Now? Bro? I feel amazing.
Speaker 4: And a lot of it got to do with running,
Speaker 4: Like they don't have nothing to do with the space
Speaker 4: i'm and it's really about everything I'm going outside of
Speaker 4: the space. I feel like before I started running, I
Speaker 4: didn't really know, you know what, I feel like, this
Speaker 4: is all I have real like this in my family
Speaker 4: and a lot of times I was looking for validation
Speaker 4: within the platform itself. And it's just the game. You know,
Speaker 4: it's up and down, it's peaks and valleys.
Speaker 2: You feel me. So it's like when when it was
Speaker 2: down that dictated my mood. You feel me?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 4: But now I run and like I found something that
Speaker 4: I enjoyed. People ask me, like what I do for fun?
Speaker 4: I'm like, run, like you crazy? I'm like, yeah, I
Speaker 4: like it, it's fun. So like now I find I
Speaker 4: found out I like, I accomplished goals with running, right,
Speaker 4: I accomplished goals in my in my life outside of
Speaker 4: podcasts and so now it's really just second nature. It's
Speaker 4: just like it's just what I do. It just it
Speaker 4: just is what it is, something that I gotta do.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. I say so like my
Speaker 4: my mental man, it's a million, I know a lot.
Speaker 4: We comeing to each other all the time. How like
Speaker 4: you look at you so I look good. But like
Speaker 4: if people think my body look good, I wish they
Speaker 4: could see my mind.
Speaker 2: Pause. In my mind it feels ten times better than
Speaker 2: my body. Look. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Another thing you've been preaching a lot on your platform
Speaker 1: is uh faithfulness. You know what I'm saying, Like just
Speaker 1: being faithful and stuff like that. What's what's your I'm
Speaker 1: just saying you preach it, do so let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: It's big facts. What's your perspective on that?
Speaker 2: I think being faithful is.
Speaker 4: It means a lot, bro, because outside of the person
Speaker 4: that you're with, it's about you. It's about how much
Speaker 4: discipline do you haven't within yourself? Now, if you put
Speaker 4: look atmis then you're still faithful in my opinion, right
Speaker 4: for you? Right, But if you choose to be monogamous,
Speaker 4: and that's what you say you want to be committed
Speaker 4: to and be committed to that, just like if you
Speaker 4: want to if you committed to losing fifty pounds, if
Speaker 4: you committed to anything, if you committed to do a podcast.
Speaker 4: You should be committed to whatever you put your mind to,
Speaker 4: because that's the only way.
Speaker 2: You won't get it.
Speaker 4: Like when it come to like a relationship, I've learned
Speaker 4: that as a as a young man coming from the
Speaker 4: inner City of Baltimore where I come from, that we
Speaker 4: was taught a bunch of just ship we shouldn't you
Speaker 4: feel me, like fucking all type of holes and shit
Speaker 4: like that, like just just shit that really don't make
Speaker 4: your man. And I had to learn that, like being
Speaker 4: taking care of your family is will make you a man.
Speaker 4: I think Fat Trill said it before, Like taking care
Speaker 4: of your.
Speaker 2: Family is gangster. Like all this other shit running.
Speaker 4: Down on a nigga, beating a nigga ass because he
Speaker 4: calls you a bitch. That ain't gangster. That shit gonna
Speaker 4: leave you in jail or leave your family behind. That's
Speaker 4: being a coward. That's being pussy if anything, like what's
Speaker 4: being gangster is taking care of your family and being
Speaker 4: faithful is a part of it. You feel me like
Speaker 4: me being committed to what I I my vows, or
Speaker 4: me being committed to my word, like that's all shit,
Speaker 4: we open the shore up, like that's how big one
Speaker 4: your word? You feel me so like that's a part
Speaker 4: of my word. So if I choose to be with
Speaker 4: a woman, it's like, yah, I choose to be with you.
Speaker 4: And if I'm monogamous and I choose to be with
Speaker 4: you and only you in the times where it get hard, though,
Speaker 4: And I think that's the most important.
Speaker 2: I think that says a lot about a person's character.
Speaker 2: Character ain't what you do when it's easy. It is
Speaker 2: what you do when it's hard. So I ain't saying.
Speaker 4: That like bitches don't be girls, don't be throwing themselves
Speaker 4: you feel me, or like it don't get hard.
Speaker 2: As a man, temptation ain't dead.
Speaker 4: Temptation is there every day, especially as you calim the
Speaker 4: letter to success. But it means it says a lot
Speaker 4: about you as a man, as a person when you
Speaker 4: can walk in the room what they say, a room
Speaker 4: full of votes and you know what I'm saying, and
Speaker 4: I have to budge I walk in there with my
Speaker 4: haird like nah, yeah, they look good.
Speaker 2: It's cool. I would, but now I'm good because I
Speaker 2: chose to be thinking for this one person.
Speaker 4: So I mean, I think that's like it's about character,
Speaker 4: bro all this is about character who you as a
Speaker 4: person for.
Speaker 1: I don't believe this, but there's a narrative going around
Speaker 1: that in every relationship there's one unfaithful person. I don't
Speaker 1: personally believe that. I'm just for conversation. How does everyone
Speaker 1: feel about that?
Speaker 6: No, I disagree.
Speaker 3: I can agree because I ain't gonna say all of them,
Speaker 3: most of them they Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2: I can agree on you because you can catch you
Speaker 2: a good one.
Speaker 6: But I disagree. I think I think most niggas cheat.
Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna lie about that.
Speaker 5: But I feel like, because you gotta, you gotta think
Speaker 5: about it, like you gotta think about where the cheating
Speaker 5: comes from, like for and they've been having this discussion
Speaker 5: since the beginning of time. Like for men, most infidelity
Speaker 5: is a material thing, is a material thing of the flesh.
Speaker 5: So it's not as serious to a guy to cheat
Speaker 5: as it is to.
Speaker 6: A woman or a female.
Speaker 5: A female is gonna be it's gonna be the most
Speaker 5: likely to be loyal, and the male is going to
Speaker 5: be the least likely to be loyal in most instances.
Speaker 5: So when a female does actually build her nuts up
Speaker 5: to go out and step out on her man or whatever,
Speaker 5: then it's so much other shit that has taken place
Speaker 5: that has pushed her to that point to it's almost
Speaker 5: like the point of no return, because once.
Speaker 2: You do it, it's.
Speaker 6: Like, Okay, that was your last straw before a guy.
Speaker 6: Guys get a lot of guys.
Speaker 5: Get tempted, and then they just do it and don't
Speaker 5: even think about it and then forget about it and
Speaker 5: then go back to being regular. Yeah, every hole is
Speaker 5: just a whole, but all women aren't holes.
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 4: I feel like even with your question though, I think
Speaker 4: like the first thing I thought about is like, yeah,
Speaker 4: every relationship, somebody is a cheater.
Speaker 1: That what you said it was a narrative on social media.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean just because who says sheating gotta
Speaker 4: be just uh sexually right, Like you don't have to
Speaker 4: be physical, Like what you do on the day to
Speaker 4: day could be cheating. Like anything that you do to
Speaker 4: your partner that you wouldn't want done it, you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like, that's that's.
Speaker 2: What cheating is.
Speaker 4: So it's like, if you're willing to entertain a conversation
Speaker 4: where you know you shouldn't be, you got to look
Speaker 4: at yourself in the mirror.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 4: It's just because you're a CHEATERD don't doesn't mean that
Speaker 4: you're always going to be a cheated Do that mean
Speaker 4: that you can't grow?
Speaker 2: Right? I feel like that's the thing we need to
Speaker 2: look at. I think.
Speaker 4: But back to the conversation to what you were saying, Jade,
Speaker 4: I feel like MH is how we how he's brought
Speaker 4: up when we're taught. I feel like men was taught
Speaker 4: to be a player, Like that's what we talk from
Speaker 4: the inception, Like we see rappers talking about getting all
Speaker 4: these girls like nigga's on the street, Like.
Speaker 2: That's what we've grown up to, right especially, And.
Speaker 5: So do you think that in a lot of cases,
Speaker 5: men equate their value to how many women they can get.
Speaker 2: One hundred percent even?
Speaker 7: And I'm gonna be sure that with you because I'm
Speaker 7: not no God, no saint, but even the most faithful
Speaker 7: nigga sometimes just like I remember seeing steph carry wife
Speaker 7: say like she just wanted to feel like tractive something
Speaker 7: like that.
Speaker 4: We're a human bro like we want we want to
Speaker 4: feel validated, if it's in work or outside of work. Right.
Speaker 4: So like a lot of times a man's success is
Speaker 4: measured by the money that he gets and how many women.
Speaker 2: He can pull, Right, But it's how disciplined can you
Speaker 2: be in that environment when you.
Speaker 6: Have it all?
Speaker 4: Right, it might be easy for you to say no
Speaker 4: because you're used to it, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 4: I'm used to it.
Speaker 2: I'm good, And that's some people not used to it
Speaker 2: and they got indulged more than others. Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it be kind of harged me to have these
Speaker 8: kind of conversations because I just be feeling like everybody
Speaker 8: on just D one hundred with these kind of conversations,
Speaker 8: people say what they suppold to say because people are watching.
Speaker 2: I'm the type of nigga gonna say what it is.
Speaker 2: That's just what it. That's just what it is, like
Speaker 2: saying women do this, women do that? What women?
Speaker 3: Most women are on this side. Now on what's it's
Speaker 3: very I'm saying most women are on fuck these nigga side. Yeah,
Speaker 3: even in relationships you got rare. It's not I'm not
Speaker 3: putting them all. I'm not speaking on all but most
Speaker 3: women or on the other side these days in twenty
Speaker 3: twenty four, it's very rare that it's probably ten percent
Speaker 3: of women that's.
Speaker 2: Being one hundred percent faithful. And I ain't to my
Speaker 2: sex one hundred percent faithful. I only have eyes for you.
Speaker 2: I don't speak to my friends like I got urges.
Speaker 2: They don't have urgent that's rare for a woman to
Speaker 2: not have urges. But the way I got, we got,
Speaker 2: I got urges I got.
Speaker 6: How is that cheating?
Speaker 2: So if you if you entertain the urge, that's not cheating,
Speaker 2: entertaining and it's just swing your fuck.
Speaker 3: That's the same ship which you smile level man that
Speaker 3: says you're pretty in front of your husband.
Speaker 1: No, that.
Speaker 2: I ain't mad at that. But I'm saying having an
Speaker 2: urge and entertaining urges two different things. But is that
Speaker 2: entertaining urge? If I if I stopped flattery, he said,
Speaker 2: if I flatter you and it tickles you, is that
Speaker 2: is that not cheating on your men?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: And to you, to you, I'll break y'all my home
Speaker 2: phrase that feels like you don't want you looking at
Speaker 2: no woman? To me, I'm gonna say no. Only because
Speaker 2: I'll kirkmam so we can have a But.
Speaker 6: I feel like this.
Speaker 5: I feel like if I'm flattered, me being flattered and
Speaker 5: me responding to that flattery is two different things.
Speaker 2: I ain't saying I'm saying the response of it.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, if you show your teeth to a nigga
Speaker 3: that's have said something to you in a way that
Speaker 3: he wants you, that is cheating to me cool, And.
Speaker 2: I'm saying to me, I argue that you're gonna be
Speaker 2: so you you're not showing your teath and no chick
Speaker 2: that I don't smiling like a motherfucker did everybody. That's
Speaker 2: why I ask you.
Speaker 4: So I feel like when it comes to the cheat
Speaker 4: and I said, it's doing one thing to somebody knowing
Speaker 4: that you, you wouldn't want it done to you. So
Speaker 4: if y'all got that agreement right, if it's like Yo,
Speaker 4: you don't smile that, no nigga, that if that's flattering you,
Speaker 4: I ain't smiling that, No chicks, that's flattering me.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 4: But if I have an agreement on my chick, like YO,
Speaker 4: you could smile, you could, you can laugh at all
Speaker 4: you want, you feel, you can say thank you, and
Speaker 4: I can.
Speaker 2: Do the same. All of that gateway though, it's all
Speaker 2: of that gate was entertaining. Entertaining. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Does entertainment leads to gateway? I can't say that, bro,
Speaker 2: because it's like a contract. Bro. If our contract says
Speaker 2: you can.
Speaker 4: Go to all the podcasts you want, but you can't
Speaker 4: appear on the podcast, it can be a gateway. But
Speaker 4: as long as your wives don't get on front of
Speaker 4: that camera and record that podcast, then you follow in
Speaker 4: the contracts and say with relationships you feel me, So
Speaker 4: it could be the gateway.
Speaker 1: You said, everybody's situation is gonna have a different understanding.
Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as you stay understanding through the rules of.
Speaker 3: Who's gonna do that, who's gonna break down everything I
Speaker 3: want you to do and I don't want you to do.
Speaker 2: It's kind of you do that in front of her
Speaker 2: or him.
Speaker 1: So I'm saying, but I think, I think, I think
Speaker 1: it's understood in your particular relationship with can't go I
Speaker 1: like that though.
Speaker 4: I like that we gotta be able to but we
Speaker 4: gotta be able to understand the situation and communicate to it.
Speaker 2: So, for example, I had one of my homies. We
Speaker 2: went out right and he did some ship. I ain't like.
Speaker 4: I sent them the message telling him the ship that
Speaker 4: he did, and I think I told my man, I'm like, bro,
Speaker 4: we're gonna see how you're scaring. Nigga said, you know,
Speaker 4: my bad. If you took it that way, I.
Speaker 2: Ain't mean no harm. Cool, the relationship got strong. If anything,
Speaker 2: same thing.
Speaker 4: If no, it's the same if the chick. If some
Speaker 4: things like we know, we know that we think cheating
Speaker 4: is just sex, right, that's what we think.
Speaker 2: I give what you saying. Let me break this now.
Speaker 3: If she won't do it in front of you, she
Speaker 3: know it's wrong, oh for sure. If she won't do
Speaker 3: it in one of you, she knows whatever. But we
Speaker 3: don't know what she would do. It wouldn't do in
Speaker 3: front of me, in front of us too. That until
Speaker 3: it's presented. That's all I'm saying now. She if she
Speaker 3: smiled at a nigga, I don't know if she would
Speaker 3: smile if she was in front of me, I'm in time,
Speaker 3: you don't be with your wife. She'd be like, why
Speaker 3: that nigga looking at me like that? She wouldn't even
Speaker 3: ask that she would see why he's looking like what.
Speaker 2: She wanted? Did that if you was there, She's.
Speaker 3: Bring it to your attention to let you know she
Speaker 3: knows that this is wrong for me to even look
Speaker 3: at this guy. I'm just keeping it real, bro, wife
Speaker 3: right now would not have the same conversation with you that.
Speaker 2: She would have with her friends. It's impossible. But that's
Speaker 2: are you saying her female her female friends. She wouldn't
Speaker 2: have the same conversation when you.
Speaker 3: When you're in a relationship with a person, brother, they
Speaker 3: some somewhat put on an act for you.
Speaker 4: But what you expect though, I wore her to, yes,
Speaker 4: have her different conversation with your friends that you have
Speaker 4: with me.
Speaker 7: For sure.
Speaker 2: But that's that's real. If you you you you hold up?
Speaker 2: Hold up now, I don't I think you go through phases.
Speaker 1: I'm about ninety plus percent there with my wife when
Speaker 1: we have conversations now now, not at the beginning, but
Speaker 1: we almost dare like that's my POTU.
Speaker 2: Bro, some conversation. I think that's respect. Like, yo, if
Speaker 2: you want to talk to your homegirls, talk to your homegirls,
Speaker 2: that's a Daryl conversation. But hold a different person. Not No,
Speaker 2: I'm not not.
Speaker 4: Not not totally different. I'm saying, like some conversations, I
Speaker 4: don't need to be a part of it. I don't
Speaker 4: want to be a part of rum.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying, I know that you're able to
Speaker 2: have those conversations because I know your characters. That's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about those women that has a totally different
Speaker 3: character outside of herself than she'd be.
Speaker 2: Okay, not with you, man, that's fast. Cheating, you just
Speaker 2: fake you the fass the same family. That's fast.
Speaker 3: Once you draw those lines and tell a person what
Speaker 3: you don't like, what else is there to do if
Speaker 3: that's who they are?
Speaker 1: Leave?
Speaker 2: Hold up, No, I ain't saying leave. I love you,
Speaker 2: you love me.
Speaker 3: We're in a relationship, but you're a different type of
Speaker 3: person when you're not around me, because you know, I
Speaker 3: don't like that type of ship that goes on one
Speaker 3: billion percent in relationships. Your wife is not gonna be
Speaker 3: exactly who she are around you because she's protecting your feelings.
Speaker 2: Don't the fuck what y'all niggas saying you want to
Speaker 2: have it another way? Would you having another way?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: I respect that I'm not saying because I'm cool with that.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But so so it's still there's
Speaker 2: still the same thing you said. Everybody has a mask
Speaker 2: off to a certain extent. So that's cheating to me.
Speaker 2: So you cool with your woman cheating decently? How do
Speaker 2: I know?
Speaker 3: I take respect over everything. Respect is something different. You
Speaker 3: can't one thing about bruh. Y'all niggas better understand. But
Speaker 3: you can't control no woman pussy. Then you can't control
Speaker 3: her thoughts or pussy. You can never control that fact.
Speaker 3: The only thing you control is the way she respects you.
Speaker 2: She respects you. That that that that that super seeds
Speaker 2: and trump everything to me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So other than that, I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 2: how to put it.
Speaker 3: Like we can live in this world and thinking our
Speaker 3: ego make us think that we're the only nigga that
Speaker 3: our wives look at.
Speaker 2: That's ego. That's ego.
Speaker 3: Make you feel like you're the only woman that you
Speaker 3: I got, that you got hots for I'm the only
Speaker 3: that's ego.
Speaker 2: It's something in enough that God.
Speaker 3: Put on us that we see our type every day,
Speaker 3: So you don't feel like every day she's like, man,
Speaker 3: that's a nice woman. You think your wife don't see
Speaker 3: this A nigga the same way for sure. I'm with
Speaker 3: you on that, though they said anything else. Lust is
Speaker 3: the same thing as cheating, right.
Speaker 5: Man.
Speaker 2: Lust, that's a that's that's tricky.
Speaker 4: Bro.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm talking to you specifically, nigga like
Speaker 2: that's tricky. I'm saying we was on Cavira Care like
Speaker 2: I'm saying that's streaky. Let me let me, let me,
Speaker 2: let me say something.
Speaker 5: So basically, what you're saying is that you're you're okay
Speaker 5: with it as long as you don't know and it's
Speaker 5: not brought to your.
Speaker 2: Front door with any But I agree with that.
Speaker 3: I'm okay with anything with anybody that's with my friend's
Speaker 3: with anything.
Speaker 2: I can't say you're being fake. I can say you
Speaker 2: respect me.
Speaker 4: Well, what I would say is no, No, I don't
Speaker 4: agree with that, because no, I don't agree if you
Speaker 4: being sneaky, it is not brought to my No, I'm
Speaker 4: just I'm being more specific in it. I'm because Jay
Speaker 4: said you're okay with it as long as I brought
Speaker 4: to be into your door, I'm diving deeper in it.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not okay because you could be just a
Speaker 2: good ass liar. I'm not okay with that.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not boudy even siting here at like
Speaker 2: I'm okay with it. But yeah, if I'm okay, if anything,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be real with you.
Speaker 4: Grow we talk about ego, like these niggas need more,
Speaker 4: y'all niggas need more ego because to be real, like
Speaker 4: the fact that I know that I ain't the only
Speaker 4: nigga looking at that's more player for me because she
Speaker 4: wouldn't me if anything, Yeah, she.
Speaker 2: Sees a bunch of niggas because's agree. I choose to
Speaker 2: be monogamous to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, is bad.
Speaker 2: They got fake asses and fake tities everywhere. Make up
Speaker 2: look good, they look good.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I want to like three D.
Speaker 2: Miss, but I'm not.
Speaker 3: Do you agree that when you first Yeah, that's not
Speaker 3: a period though. Hold on, let me let me tell
Speaker 3: you here that that's not pure bro a pure nigga.
Speaker 3: Don't even want to funk the.
Speaker 2: Guess what I'm hearing. That's what you want to say.
Speaker 2: I ain't God as well. No, no, no worry like
Speaker 2: ibout stealing you might wis what if I go if
Speaker 2: I go in the Rolex. Of course in my mind
Speaker 2: I was like, man.
Speaker 1: I was, but I ain't gonna do that.
Speaker 2: No cameras in there, you would get it.
Speaker 9: Ho ho ho, I went risk, I don't want to
Speaker 9: come cover. Am I stealing that roll neck? If that
Speaker 9: man walk out the rolls store and drop.
Speaker 2: It, are you gonna pick it up or leave it?
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, I don't want to come. That's the same
Speaker 2: I want to comel maybe maybe cama. Yes, yes, in
Speaker 2: the same common for having those thoughts.
Speaker 6: No, you don't, you don't know, you don't to me,
Speaker 6: No to me.
Speaker 2: But what I'm trying to tell y'all, how many times?
Speaker 2: How many times have you thought about slapping the ship
Speaker 2: out of the nigga?
Speaker 1: Slap the out You.
Speaker 2: Ain't about to get fired or slap it like in
Speaker 2: your mind thinking about slapping.
Speaker 3: That? Why you have to rebuke thoughts, buke it. I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna say I want to steal some that, don't
Speaker 3: steal it. If I think about still being like bro
Speaker 3: hell no, ain't no thief. But no, you know, people,
Speaker 3: if you if you walk away thinking I should have
Speaker 3: stole that, you should.
Speaker 4: Say that we said, and you said, if you think
Speaker 4: about something, hold up think about your talking about because
Speaker 4: you said if you think about about okay, cool, I'm
Speaker 4: not I'm not. I'm not arguing that you said, if
Speaker 4: I know something, you might as go do it.
Speaker 2: Bro.
Speaker 4: You can think about shooting nigga, you ain't gona shoot
Speaker 4: a nigga like you can think about you can think
Speaker 4: about getting get back, but you don't get to get back.
Speaker 1: Yo.
Speaker 2: That's not as that's not as.
Speaker 4: It's not as bad, bro, because at the end of
Speaker 4: the day, what makes you a good person, what makes
Speaker 4: you a good person is your actions.
Speaker 5: You could think about what, yeah, the ship that you decide,
Speaker 5: the thought, the thoughts that you decide to act upon that.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to take a point.
Speaker 3: It didn't work out people when I'm trying to know
Speaker 3: what I'm trying to tell y'all these women and men.
Speaker 3: If you're perier of your period all the way, you
Speaker 3: don't think of another person. You think if you're not
Speaker 3: a chieved, you think when it start off. Though that's
Speaker 3: not true the male female interaction when it started off.
Speaker 6: But that's but to my opinion, to my opinion me,
Speaker 6: to me, that's not that's not that's not it.
Speaker 2: So if you thought about sucking a nigga. If you
Speaker 2: had to say, how do.
Speaker 6: We get the fucking know that even thinking about the nigga?
Speaker 2: And so I don't bang it. Bank saying this because
Speaker 2: because from from.
Speaker 4: His last point, when it sounds like it's past, start
Speaker 4: thinking about fucking a nigga. If you think about fucking nigga,
Speaker 4: but then like women or it's always in your mind,
Speaker 4: that could be cheating.
Speaker 2: I get that.
Speaker 4: That's that's I get what he's saying. But we're talking
Speaker 4: about specifically what you're saying. If you think about sucking
Speaker 4: a nigga, no, that's not cheating. But if you have
Speaker 4: continuous thoughts about sucking the same nigga, okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 4: all right, let me ask you this. If your wife
Speaker 4: came and told you she thought about sucking a nigga.
Speaker 2: She should have.
Speaker 3: How you gonna come tell me you thought about sucking
Speaker 3: a nigga's pride?
Speaker 2: No, that's not pride, that's that's being real. Bank.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you think about it as a man, as
Speaker 4: somebody to respect you. I'm telling you that's pride. And
Speaker 4: you need to leave that sit alone in a while,
Speaker 4: because if your woman tells you it's a reason for everything.
Speaker 4: If your woman tell you say yo, bab, hopefully she
Speaker 4: don't say like, don't. But I'm just if she said some.
Speaker 2: Ship right and she trying to communicate to you, and
Speaker 2: she trying to communicate to you, and you get.
Speaker 3: Me, don't tell me because at the end of the day,
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna have a certain insecurity.
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna have a certain insecurity over you. On
Speaker 2: the fuck Hey, that's something you got. You might wing
Speaker 2: the fucking don't tell me.
Speaker 1: You're right, that's what we gotta thinking about it.
Speaker 2: He's right, right, he's right.
Speaker 1: If he if you left some money right there, walked up,
Speaker 1: he came back and bank was love. Man, I was
Speaker 1: thinking about still your money.
Speaker 2: You're gonna Yo, thank you, bro. I appreciate you. But
Speaker 2: you make sure you don't leave that money the next time.
Speaker 2: He might get it right, Okay, Yeah, I'm just saying
Speaker 2: being real.
Speaker 3: So if my wife come telling me I've been thinking about,
Speaker 3: I want to know that's different.
Speaker 2: Sooner, lady, I'm gonna piss you off. And you're going No,
Speaker 2: you keep saying thinking that.
Speaker 6: That's different.
Speaker 2: No, because no, that's different, celebrity. No, No, listen, Listen. Listen.
Speaker 4: If you said my wife, if my wife feels that
Speaker 4: I've been thinking about, that's different than I had a thought.
Speaker 3: I'm saying those are two year over day. You have
Speaker 3: a premonition of that, don't bitch. You better keep that
Speaker 3: to yourself better.
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that. Keep that to yourself, because
Speaker 2: once you split it out there, what does that leave me?
Speaker 2: That's a man in my ego out of that shadowack. So,
Speaker 2: so all, okay, you can't say that you're right. Don't
Speaker 2: think that I agree with so every one hit I
Speaker 2: agree with you.
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is this ain't a case for this
Speaker 4: ain't the case for what's one size fital.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is this ain't one sizpital because just
Speaker 4: in that scenario, I get that as a man. I'm
Speaker 4: not even about to try to fink I understand that.
Speaker 4: But the way you're making it seems as if like
Speaker 4: if somebody comes to me and say, Yo, I've been
Speaker 4: thinking about shooting somebody.
Speaker 2: It's not the same, bro, you it's not the same.
Speaker 2: It's not the same.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about a person you love in a relationship, bro,
Speaker 3: Certain things is just true.
Speaker 2: If your wife if you had But my bad, my bad,
Speaker 2: you said, who would come say that? Right? Okay? But
Speaker 2: has she had that thought? Is the question?
Speaker 5: But why come and say you're gonna drive yourself crazy
Speaker 5: trying to think about what she could have possibly thought.
Speaker 6: You gotta lose your mind.
Speaker 2: Unless I'm making that point to make a point.
Speaker 6: But what's what's the point?
Speaker 3: The point is everyone has a different alter ego when
Speaker 3: they're not with their mate that you will never know.
Speaker 2: That's my opinion. That's my opinion. That's my opinion.
Speaker 3: Your wife would tell one of her girlfriends like, I
Speaker 3: would deal with such and such girl, I went, he
Speaker 3: could get it.
Speaker 2: She wouldn't tell you that.
Speaker 1: True, true, true, But don't tell.
Speaker 3: Me that the man.
Speaker 2: But that's cool.
Speaker 6: What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 3: When I just said that, said, well, your wife, anybody
Speaker 3: wife will have a friend, and she say, girl, if
Speaker 3: I went in love and in this monogy.
Speaker 2: Relationship, he could get it. So what Women say that
Speaker 2: all the time?
Speaker 1: So what.
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: But so what?
Speaker 2: But yes? No?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: So what is?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 2: It's a thin line? So what is? If you're prior
Speaker 2: to me, you don't even think like that? To me?
Speaker 2: That's what I feel like purim is Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean I'm not if that's what you think cool to me.
Speaker 2: I feel like purimice is I'm blind when it comes
Speaker 2: to that.
Speaker 1: I only see this person, and you're saying that that's
Speaker 1: very rare, that's very very very very very o woman.
Speaker 3: So so at the end of the day, you're still
Speaker 3: putting on a facade, because if if it was us,
Speaker 3: if we tied to the hill, you should tell me
Speaker 3: that we weren't married.
Speaker 2: I give such such a plus. We're going to be
Speaker 2: that cool, but if we will never be that cool? Right,
Speaker 2: So that means you're putting on them.
Speaker 6: We're supposed to be that cool, but we will never
Speaker 6: be that cool.
Speaker 2: Like because you don't have enough to be that. Everybody
Speaker 2: has those.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it real.
Speaker 2: I'm just keeping it real every.
Speaker 5: But okay, but what I'm saying is, how are we
Speaker 5: supposed to be that cool when you said when you
Speaker 5: just said that, if I have that conversation with you
Speaker 5: and I'm trusting you enough to happen.
Speaker 4: Scar you, That's why that's why I say that it's
Speaker 4: more for you than the other person, because you said
Speaker 4: we would never had that conversation.
Speaker 2: But you're the one that's that can't take that. No,
Speaker 2: that's not fair. But you don't know if I can
Speaker 2: take it or not. You just said it. Holdo, I
Speaker 2: know I can't, but you don't know. Yo, you don't know.
Speaker 3: Hold On, that's not one we'll communicate. Well, we have
Speaker 3: to know what that feeling that I have a partner,
Speaker 3: my rep that tells me everything. She will not tell
Speaker 3: you that because she knows the pride of a man.
Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with what you told. You'll
Speaker 3: go for another that she knows. That's the wrong thing
Speaker 3: to say.
Speaker 2: She knows that. So how how are you.
Speaker 3: Gonna say you're one hundred A motherfucker that's one hundred
Speaker 3: is gonna say whatever, no matter.
Speaker 2: How you take it. I disagree, you don't disagree.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, a motherfucker that's one hundred is gonna
Speaker 3: tell you the bold truth no matter how you take it.
Speaker 2: And that's rare, so you know.
Speaker 5: No, So you're saying that that a person that's one
Speaker 5: hundred percent is gonna tell you the truth no matter
Speaker 5: how You're gonna take it at the expense of your feelings,
Speaker 5: and they love you that much.
Speaker 2: No, it's the truth. That's one hundred. That's the truth.
Speaker 2: Am I tripping?
Speaker 1: Nah?
Speaker 2: This is my felers, you and my husband. I share
Speaker 2: everything with you. This is my truth. Baby. I saw
Speaker 2: John at work. I seen him in a gray sweatpan.
Speaker 2: I won't, I really won't. I ain't gonna tell you that.
Speaker 3: But I'm trying to erase that out of my eve.
Speaker 3: But I had no thoughts. You're not finna ever come
Speaker 3: home and say that. That don't even come with it.
Speaker 2: So some what, everybody somewhat have a mass on to
Speaker 2: protect the person they love. And I take that, Yeah,
Speaker 2: you that don't. Yeah, I'll take that to you that
Speaker 2: I thought, I thought that's what I've been said. I
Speaker 2: would take that. I don't want to know everything you
Speaker 2: said your friends. I don't want to know all of
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to tell you is everybody have a
Speaker 2: different side. Like everybody think for sure, like I hate
Speaker 2: what I know my wife.
Speaker 3: No, you don't, buddy, everybody you know you know the
Speaker 3: person that that she's presenting that she knows to be
Speaker 3: she and that probably could be her one.
Speaker 2: Hundred for the relationship. But everybody has that side of
Speaker 2: them that you will never know, bro. Yeah, for sure
Speaker 2: that's just them and that ain't no fake shit, it's
Speaker 2: just respect cerch shit. I don't need to know. I
Speaker 2: don't even know the conversation you have so sister, your mama,
Speaker 2: I don't need to know that. I don't need to
Speaker 2: know the shot, the shot conversations when y'all taking shots.
Speaker 2: I don't need to know that. Yeah, but niggas is
Speaker 2: acting like I'm saying, But niggas be acting like I
Speaker 2: know everything you don't, buddy, I don't know everything. I think.
Speaker 1: It's I think for some of them, type is their
Speaker 1: own comfort, like that feed themself. They feed themself something
Speaker 1: in their mind for their own Let me.
Speaker 6: Let me, let me, let me, let me say this.
Speaker 5: I got something, I got something to say, I got
Speaker 5: something to say about that. So are we okay with
Speaker 5: that being said? With all of that being said, are
Speaker 5: we saying that because there is a certain there is
Speaker 5: a level of utmost respect to where certain things won't
Speaker 5: be disclosed.
Speaker 6: Are we saying that there's something wrong with that? Or
Speaker 6: are we saying that.
Speaker 3: In the beginning, we said, cheating is anything that you
Speaker 3: wouldn't do in front of your husband or your wife.
Speaker 2: That's what we said.
Speaker 3: Cheating is that's what don't want down to yourself, that
Speaker 3: you don't want down to yourself and that you wouldn't
Speaker 3: do or in front of them, or you don't want
Speaker 3: them to find out. That's cheating basically, right, you don't
Speaker 3: have to be said, you don't have to be nothing anything.
Speaker 3: You don't want your husband or your wife to find out.
Speaker 2: That's deceit and cheat cheating, Am I right around?
Speaker 1: Yes, no, anybody is cheating because it's.
Speaker 5: Let me ask you this, And I'm speaking from a
Speaker 5: relationship standpoint because I've never been married.
Speaker 3: But relationship, Huh, relationship that thing that you want to
Speaker 3: tell dude or you don't want dude to find out because.
Speaker 2: You love him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, But what I'm saying is I've been in a
Speaker 5: relationship where we've openly discussed some ship like that, Like
Speaker 5: we might be at the strip club or something and
Speaker 5: we might discuss like a girl that might be doable,
Speaker 5: that has some things that make her doable or whatever
Speaker 5: I'm trying to say.
Speaker 6: But like, oh yeah, like you like you.
Speaker 3: Hit that mano. A man will before a woman will.
Speaker 3: A man will.
Speaker 2: A woman has this certain lock on their heart and
Speaker 2: their mouth.
Speaker 3: Bros In impenetrable, impenetrable, bro. They know they have more
Speaker 3: discipline than me to know not to do certain and
Speaker 3: say certain ship a nigga be like that shit fact
Speaker 3: babe and forget this is bitch.
Speaker 2: That's just how niggas feel like a nigga would do that.
Speaker 3: The more they are more even though we tell more lies,
Speaker 3: we're more honest when it comes down to ship we
Speaker 3: shouldn't do.
Speaker 5: But isn't that impenetrable lock something to love even more because.
Speaker 6: They have you on that pedestal to where they respects
Speaker 6: you that much.
Speaker 2: It's a thing line to me. It's a thing line
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, it's really like,
Speaker 2: I don't know you, bitch. You know, ain't shit.
Speaker 5: I know you you're too good, but you don't think
Speaker 5: that it's possible for some people to actually be that good.
Speaker 9: It is.
Speaker 2: I said that, I said, but it's rare. It's very rare.
Speaker 3: Those type of women don't be nowhere around nothing.
Speaker 6: That's CAP's being real.
Speaker 2: Ain't on social media, you know, like.
Speaker 3: It's being real, like why are why are you listen?
Speaker 3: And I ain't trying ain't get the fun out of here?
Speaker 3: Everything really trying to be no massages and none of this. Okay,
Speaker 3: why are you posting sexy pictures if you're in the.
Speaker 2: Who do you want to like them? I don't understand this,
Speaker 2: Like you got hold up. If you're married and you're
Speaker 2: in a Nazis relationship with your husband, this is the
Speaker 2: only man you want.
Speaker 6: What the fuck are we see marriage is?
Speaker 3: If you're in a relationship, If you're in a committed relationship,
Speaker 3: why are you being Who are you being sexy for?
Speaker 2: If you're not being sexy at home? That's why in
Speaker 2: a lot of country they got the mother.
Speaker 1: If you're going with.
Speaker 2: Picture. But I'm saying if you if you go out
Speaker 2: with a picture and your suit just clean, you just
Speaker 2: might want be clean because I won't be hold and
Speaker 2: say I'm clean too. Man out of here.
Speaker 3: I putting that ship on. I tell them all holes
Speaker 3: on my dip. Baby, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 3: for real, that's just that's why we do this ship
Speaker 3: Like me, it's just not being Hey, baby, I just
Speaker 3: felt sexy that day.
Speaker 2: No bit you want? You all won't like that.
Speaker 3: She who's gonna be on the other side of the
Speaker 3: DM the jing gonna open? Let's be really for validation
Speaker 3: like the girl curve and white.
Speaker 2: That's why the other coman that got wrapped up. You
Speaker 2: didn't even see what she looked like. What gotta fallow low.
Speaker 6: The eye.
Speaker 2: Got some big bag and ship on the head wrapped up.
Speaker 2: You don't even know what the health color look like.
Speaker 2: You folks. That's about that which is only for me
Speaker 2: in my household to me.
Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to tell them, I'm keeping it real, bro,
Speaker 3: validated by other men too.
Speaker 2: That's cheating, damn is it cheating?
Speaker 4: But what is it?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 2: I'm just curious?
Speaker 1: What is it?
Speaker 2: If you're seeking attention? What what is it?
Speaker 1: What is it?
Speaker 2: Here? Security? Your team making security day every day? I
Speaker 2: wake on your beautiful baby. That's not for you to do, bro,
Speaker 2: But I have a question.
Speaker 5: I was so so so a woman can't want to
Speaker 5: be sexy and look good for herself.
Speaker 2: You sexy? What are we posting it for? You? Look good? Baby?
Speaker 2: You look good? You're sexy? Well, what are we hold up?
Speaker 3: It's Instagram of any and those social media sites. Is
Speaker 3: that attention seeking or what?
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, for sure, tell you.
Speaker 2: I'm telling my wife, man, you look good. Put that
Speaker 2: ship on. Make sure woo woo.
Speaker 3: I want you to look good listen because it validates
Speaker 3: me too, Like, don't get it fucked up, Like when
Speaker 3: my wife look good and we out together, that validates
Speaker 3: me too, like and bad like I'm a nigga like that.
Speaker 2: My ego is that too. I want a nigga be
Speaker 2: like I want your flag. Still you still represent me.
Speaker 2: Didn't mind regardless, huh.
Speaker 10: That you know what I'm saying, that's contradicting that God
Speaker 10: not getting when you're said defining and chating the way
Speaker 10: you look, I'm saying when you seeking validation and attention.
Speaker 2: Bro to me, that's somewhat. That's not all the way
Speaker 2: one hundred.
Speaker 5: But you're saying basically sexy sexy. Getting sexy is.
Speaker 2: Basically saying just getting.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, when you're hosting sexy pictures and you're in
Speaker 3: a relationship, why okay.
Speaker 5: So if you if you if you the sexy picture,
Speaker 5: that's in question, right, if you got sexy to go
Speaker 5: out with your friends, you're not supposed to be able
Speaker 5: to take a picture of it, yes, I'm saying, But
Speaker 5: so going out in public and letting niggas see you
Speaker 5: in the sexiness, it's different from letting social media see.
Speaker 2: I guess she's not comprehend what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Okay, social media pages and you can't tell if they're
Speaker 3: in a relationship or not.
Speaker 2: Those type of women I'm saying in a relationship, okay,
Speaker 2: But what's different?
Speaker 5: What's different from a bitch on social media posting a
Speaker 5: sexy a picture in some sexy clothes, then the bitch
Speaker 5: that doesn't have social media that gets sexy and goes
Speaker 5: out every night.
Speaker 6: What's the difference.
Speaker 3: I can't say it's no difference. But the difference is
Speaker 3: I ain't promoting this. That's just how I look. I
Speaker 3: can't help that.
Speaker 6: I'm sexy, So I can't have a Facebook.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, I can't help that I'm sexy. Facebook comes
Speaker 3: with likes and comments, all that shit called with lights
Speaker 3: are coming. Hey, I'm out about I can just keep
Speaker 3: walking if you just and I can feel the validaces.
Speaker 2: But I can keep walking.
Speaker 3: But I'm engaging in these lights and in the other
Speaker 3: side of my fucking DM.
Speaker 2: How How do you?
Speaker 5: How are you engaging just because they like her comments?
Speaker 5: If you don't reply, bags, I'm.
Speaker 3: Made a profile if I'm not selling nothing with If
Speaker 3: I don't have anything on this thing for sale?
Speaker 1: Whatever?
Speaker 2: What else am myself?
Speaker 6: Listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: If I have a page and I'm posting pictures and
Speaker 5: people are liking or commenting and I'm not responding, that's
Speaker 5: the same thing as me walking away in public.
Speaker 2: Not really.
Speaker 3: That shit, right though, you can go back to because
Speaker 3: you got I consisted nigga for ten years high beautiful
Speaker 3: your bitch forever. She'd even say you look beautiful for
Speaker 3: seven in months straight. He yeah, she done checked him
Speaker 3: out the whole pro SWE's way not sing. But I'm
Speaker 3: married though, But he girl, Look he be on me, girl,
Speaker 3: He be on me girl.
Speaker 2: I see you, but I ain't responding yet. That's still
Speaker 2: a response.
Speaker 1: See. That's why some people be jumping to the next
Speaker 1: situation so fast, when when it don't.
Speaker 2: You bro, thank you brother. It be already right there,
Speaker 2: that ship be already right there. Bro. Like, I'm just
Speaker 2: keeping it real. I'm not tripping. You don't got quiet?
Speaker 2: What's that?
Speaker 3: Bro? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean niggas do that.
Speaker 3: Say anything else, But let me tell you somethingro I'm
Speaker 3: gonna tell you the different women that I'm gonna tell
Speaker 3: you different women.
Speaker 2: You can see that you can see the different in
Speaker 2: the one percent. Lookat Savana James, mm hmmm mmmm.
Speaker 6: She probably plenty of sexy pictures because I'm sexy.
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for Vala. No, you're not getting what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Have you ever seen her? An average bitch?
Speaker 2: Have you never seen her? And not one ballad?
Speaker 3: Go check her followers if you're big, following all the
Speaker 3: top RAPPERD twenty one, the Schnipfel Game twenty one, Future seven.
Speaker 2: But she ready to pew.
Speaker 6: You can't say that.
Speaker 2: Because she's probably twenty twenty four.
Speaker 6: Because she's got bro. That's that's That's how I'm mean.
Speaker 6: I'm saying there. That's a mean double standard.
Speaker 4: Bro.
Speaker 6: I'm just being real, so.
Speaker 2: So not understandings.
Speaker 3: Bro, It's it's attention seeking, Like I'm saying, these these
Speaker 3: other women, you don't even like who I'm saying the
Speaker 3: one percent percent. You know she feels as if dope.
Speaker 3: She has her team. You can already tell the aural.
Speaker 3: I don't know how to explain what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: Think that check helped with that? I can't say that, bro.
Speaker 2: Keeping it one hundred bro and a lot of these women, bro,
Speaker 2: and this ship crazy I'll.
Speaker 1: Be seeing that huh to the high Schoolah.
Speaker 2: Current, I could sound like a god damn food, but
Speaker 2: it's just my perspective.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and make sure you check out perspectives. We're back.
Speaker 2: Check that out. Like I'm times, big fact, what I'm
Speaker 2: saying is the truth about You can't say that, bro.
Speaker 2: Bro listen ship too. It's all ship. And you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is y'all be what I'm trying to
Speaker 2: say is uncle ship.
Speaker 3: If we break it all the way down to a
Speaker 3: science of things, Bro, everyone is doing something that they
Speaker 3: know they make one respect and they don't do it
Speaker 3: in front of them, even if it's conversation.
Speaker 5: That's cool. But the only point I'm trying to get across,
Speaker 5: not trying to overtalk, is the average bitch can validate herself.
Speaker 5: That's possible.
Speaker 2: That's why you see that.
Speaker 3: You don't really even see them the one that validating themself.
Speaker 3: You don't see them seeking validation. Like I just said
Speaker 3: to Bela James, I've never seen that woman seek validation.
Speaker 2: I've never seen it.
Speaker 3: I'm talking for me watching from the outside. I've never
Speaker 3: seen her beat nothing but but a mom and a wife.
Speaker 2: It depels you. It don't go good with a Capricorn
Speaker 2: trying to do all that.
Speaker 3: And I'm all I see her is being a wife,
Speaker 3: like and I'm just putting it out there like all
Speaker 3: I've seen I hate to use as a jumper.
Speaker 2: That's all I've seen.
Speaker 3: I don't know about the rooms. I don't know about
Speaker 3: the inside. But yeah, no, So all I've seen this
Speaker 3: woman would be was a wife.
Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is her being a wife and
Speaker 5: her being an excellent, amazing mother, is her validation when
Speaker 5: she wants to look good and when she wants when
Speaker 5: she when they get ready to go out or whatever,
Speaker 5: and or if she goes out with her friends or whatever.
Speaker 5: And she posted She's not posting it to seek attention.
Speaker 5: She's posting it because Hey, I look good and I
Speaker 5: want to post this on my page.
Speaker 2: Correct, I guess.
Speaker 6: But the average bitch can do the same thing though.
Speaker 6: That's what I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: Where our town hall on loving relationships with Jay Hull continues.
Speaker 2: Sh what's get touching, bro, Because people don't be being real.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. That's the problem with relationships. For sure.
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta find that space. I was gonna
Speaker 1: say a little earlier, Like it always starts with running game,
Speaker 1: right when you first met Shante. There's a little bit
Speaker 1: of game there, like you just you know, you're kicking
Speaker 1: it to them, trying to get them to like you.
Speaker 1: Whatever the case is, it starts with game. But at
Speaker 1: what point does it go from game to genuine? I
Speaker 1: think some people situations don't never go from running game
Speaker 1: to genuine.
Speaker 2: But what's jenu?
Speaker 1: When it is when you start telling the truth about
Speaker 1: mostly everything, mostly everything? It's more than it.
Speaker 2: Can you tell the truth about every single thing? When
Speaker 2: you're in a relationship, yes or no? Please answer that somebody?
Speaker 2: You can't?
Speaker 1: You can?
Speaker 2: You can, you can't, you can't do you can do?
Speaker 1: You is a different conversation.
Speaker 2: Do you.
Speaker 1: I've arrived at that point. I'm not saying day one.
Speaker 1: I don't think it just happened day one.
Speaker 3: You get this cat, you get there, certain ship You
Speaker 3: just if your wife asked you, some ask you so
Speaker 3: simple ship?
Speaker 2: You okay? You like, yeah, you ain't gonna say hell,
Speaker 2: think about the motherfucker bills that you not don't tell
Speaker 2: the truth about every.
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Right, that's just blank Pard.
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, You're right. I can Yeah, I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't argue with that. You snapped, man, you're not feeling.
Speaker 2: Just be one thousand percent truthful, bro, with no one.
Speaker 3: If a nigga asked me all right the day, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna say yeah, because I look, I try every day
Speaker 3: by day Still I'm not alright. But why would I
Speaker 3: keep saying Hell no, Bro, I'm been trying to come
Speaker 3: that ship up right. You just don't tell the truth
Speaker 3: about everything.
Speaker 1: Now, what you're saying, we as people, bro, we got
Speaker 1: our own issues that we choose to deal with them alone,
Speaker 1: no matter how close our personal is to us.
Speaker 2: BRO.
Speaker 6: But I don't. But my thing is, I don't feel
Speaker 6: like anything is wrong with that.
Speaker 2: No, it's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 3: But when you go to speaking on being in a
Speaker 3: relationship and get to the root of it, you can't tell.
Speaker 2: But there's no way you can tell me you're one
Speaker 2: million percent truth with me. I can't believe that.
Speaker 3: Because there's no way I can do that without hurting
Speaker 3: your feelings or compromising the relationship.
Speaker 5: So I think it's so what I'm saying is okay
Speaker 5: is and I'm finna end it with this. What I'm
Speaker 5: saying is okay, me telling you that I'm not a
Speaker 5: million percent truthful with you about everything. But my reason
Speaker 5: for not being a million percent truthful with you about
Speaker 5: everything is because of how much I love you and
Speaker 5: the height of the pedestal that I have you on.
Speaker 5: Basically is meaning that I'm not gonna lie to you
Speaker 5: about some some fucking some ship that could be detrimental.
Speaker 3: If you capable of you capable, if you capable of
Speaker 3: living with the seat, You're cabable of living with some
Speaker 3: bad seat.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is.
Speaker 3: You're cable of lying on my face. You're capable, you
Speaker 3: know how to lie? M What about capable?
Speaker 1: Bro?
Speaker 2: What about everybody is one hundred to they proven that
Speaker 2: they're What about intent though?
Speaker 6: That's what That's all I'm saying this.
Speaker 1: Malicious intent and there's non malicious intent and lie.
Speaker 2: Like again, back to the white and the hair thing.
Speaker 6: I feel like lying, lying and not telling me the truth.
Speaker 6: I feel like lying and not telling the truth is
Speaker 6: two different things.
Speaker 2: To place you're lying right along.
Speaker 5: Lying and not disclosing some things is two different things.
Speaker 5: If lying is volunteering and untruth not disclosing something.
Speaker 2: Like these shoes and you say they cool, but I
Speaker 2: like the other one.
Speaker 6: That's lying. You're lying, that's lying.
Speaker 3: That's saying that's a lie. Yeah, no matter if you
Speaker 3: said it not to hurt my finish, still told me
Speaker 3: a lie. And some niggas is pet enough to be like,
Speaker 3: I know they been on like the shoes, She'll like,
Speaker 3: I don't try whole say you.
Speaker 5: But if you never asked me about the if you
Speaker 5: never asked me about the shoes and I never give
Speaker 5: you my opinion, I don't.
Speaker 6: Feel like that's the same thing.
Speaker 5: Is you asking me and me telling you that I
Speaker 5: like them, and I don't see no, I said if
Speaker 5: he never asked me and I never volunteered that, I don't.
Speaker 3: Like if I asked you, and you because I asked you.
Speaker 3: So if I asked you, have you for somebody that
Speaker 3: you say no, that's cool because.
Speaker 2: I asked you.
Speaker 5: Know what I'm saying that you just said that as
Speaker 5: long as it doesn't come to your door, you're okay
Speaker 5: with it.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: But if I asked you, if you ask me, if.
Speaker 2: You lie feelings, that's a lie, that's okay. No, what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, it's the same thing.
Speaker 5: Lie is a lie, A lie is a lie, but
Speaker 5: not l A lie is volunteering information. If you're not,
Speaker 5: if you're not disclosing because you haven't been asked, that's
Speaker 5: two different things broke out of that recently.
Speaker 2: If I call you and say, baby, did you did you?
Speaker 2: Did you? Did you?
Speaker 3: Did you go pick up my shoes from the dray
Speaker 3: hon be like big, I was only way to get it.
Speaker 3: Don't say that because you're lying. Just say I forgot.
Speaker 3: I'm glad you mine of Finna.
Speaker 2: Go get it out because that likit a lie. It's
Speaker 2: you a TM me in it.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's that's healthy. Now, that's a health that's
Speaker 1: a healthy way to I'll deal with that because people
Speaker 1: that me.
Speaker 3: Good but put a lie in there because they meant good. M.
Speaker 3: I really forgot for real. But I don't know how
Speaker 3: to tell you I forgot because that gonna make you
Speaker 3: feel less important, like I'm not remembering you.
Speaker 2: No, just tell me you forgot. The road to the
Speaker 2: road to Hell is paid and good intention. M. The
Speaker 2: road to hell was paid with good intention, That's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So trust.
Speaker 3: Trust can be broken, especially when you deal with the
Speaker 3: things we deal with as black people. Bannmin issue trauma
Speaker 3: and all that shit. Trust has a very very good line.
Speaker 3: So you could tell me I'm the type of person
Speaker 3: you can tell me a lie about some shit, or
Speaker 3: I could see you lie to another motherfucker and how
Speaker 3: good that lie was, Like I would believe that if I.
Speaker 2: Ain't know the truth. So now you're just a liar.
Speaker 2: It's hard to get easy to lose.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: Trust is a motherfucker for sure.
Speaker 3: Like it could be simple ship that goes on in
Speaker 3: the house, like should take a talk with her friends
Speaker 3: and hain' gonna be like, man, that bes And I
Speaker 3: was like, man, tell her that, don't hang up with
Speaker 3: her and do.
Speaker 2: That cause I don't feel like that's how you do me.
Speaker 3: You yeah yeah, yeah yeah me heah yeah yeah yeah,
Speaker 3: then hang up the phone tail live when I'm stupid?
Speaker 2: Can't you prush your hand? Hmm? Characters a motherfucker, bro
Speaker 2: just because but our ego tells us they wouldn't do me.
Speaker 2: But you're so good at it.
Speaker 1: So what you think, what you think a realistic way
Speaker 1: to move in that space is because the realistic way
Speaker 1: respect I got you, because the realistic way.
Speaker 6: But respect also warrants.
Speaker 5: Not necessarily saying exactly how you feel at the expense
Speaker 5: of someone's feeling right, But then.
Speaker 3: If it blow up to be a lot, then then
Speaker 3: we deal with that. Then no matter if you respect
Speaker 3: me or not, I got to deal with how I
Speaker 3: take it in that moment. Like if you come to me,
Speaker 3: if you say, well, baby, ain't tell you this because
Speaker 3: I respect you enough that I ain't want you to
Speaker 3: know that. Hey, well I can't deal with that. I
Speaker 3: appreciate the respect a bit your own with you know,
Speaker 3: you're giving me a choice at the end of the
Speaker 3: day if it blows up. But if it never blows up,
Speaker 3: I gotta take the respect because I.
Speaker 1: Don't know shoes you say.
Speaker 3: That's in any relationship, bro, that's anything you do. Nothing
Speaker 3: is bad until the person find out. Bro, nobody is
Speaker 3: like a nigga can get caught she he ain't sorry,
Speaker 3: he's sorry you found out anytime somebody get caught doing
Speaker 3: some ship, brother, unless they because because Joel, if you're
Speaker 3: really sorry for it to eat your so bad, you'll
Speaker 3: tell that.
Speaker 2: Person and to deal with the consequence.
Speaker 3: On my trip, I told my short because in you
Speaker 3: you want to be real, I'm just gonna comeut on
Speaker 3: that baby that I'm gonna take my consequences. But a
Speaker 3: nigga holds some ship till she find out. Bro, you
Speaker 3: ain't sorry, Bro, You just sorry you got caught and
Speaker 3: you're sorry that she's hurt.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm you will it. Don't give a fuck because
Speaker 2: you'll do it again, shikier, the sneakiest man. I'm just
Speaker 2: keeping it real, bro. Like I don't know, Bro, I
Speaker 2: don't know. I guess.
Speaker 3: I guess I just look at ship too deep into ship,
Speaker 3: too petty or whatever. But I haven't seen it, Bro,
Speaker 3: I haven't seen.
Speaker 2: Too many women got there cry like you did do
Speaker 2: me wrong. Hang up the phone and suck a nigga dick.
Speaker 3: That sh happened, Bro, in real life, it's be dass
Speaker 3: crying for real life. Hang on the phone in two
Speaker 3: an twist, let's be here.
Speaker 2: No one has seen that you know on a receiver
Speaker 2: end of it too, that ship will scar you.
Speaker 1: So is their hope?
Speaker 2: Man? Scar you?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: Is there hope?
Speaker 2: General question?
Speaker 3: There's hope because if you find somebody that love you
Speaker 3: enough to respect you, you got your good one.
Speaker 6: And might But how how enough fuck is respecting you enough?
Speaker 2: Brou But do if you think about him.
Speaker 5: Tell you if you find someone that loves you enough
Speaker 5: to respect you for you not to find out, how
Speaker 5: in the fun is that any different from the the
Speaker 5: the person that doesn't give a fuck because either why
Speaker 5: you're getting fucked over it. Either way, you just don't
Speaker 5: know about it.
Speaker 2: Disrespects me. I want you to disrespect you, man, that's
Speaker 2: the one thing that trying to disrespect me. Bro. I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't worry about something. Them even check your phone,
Speaker 2: inf and and they're gonna have to hit me in
Speaker 2: the faith. And when they do, I'm gonna deal with it.
Speaker 2: I think it's it's levels to it.
Speaker 4: But of course I don't want nobody just fucking off
Speaker 4: on me because they're good at being a liar the sat.
Speaker 3: But you can feel that though, Like if it's something listen,
Speaker 3: if it's something that's telling you something is true, hmm.
Speaker 3: If you have the feeling around a person, bro, and
Speaker 3: you just can't put your hand on it, what it is, Bro,
Speaker 3: You're right, please know that because God.
Speaker 2: Send us signals, our energy send us signals. That's just
Speaker 2: what it is. Bro.
Speaker 3: So if you if if our energy is aligned and
Speaker 3: I'm being respected, I can't be mad at you.
Speaker 2: I can't even guess.
Speaker 3: I can't wonder, I can't do none of that because
Speaker 3: it's all a line. Now if I feel funny and
Speaker 3: your shit feel efficient, Hey, something up. Now we're starting
Speaker 3: to investigate and problem. When you start investigate, you gonna
Speaker 3: find something.
Speaker 4: No, I take the respect her percent because even what
Speaker 4: we're cheating. If feel like, if you respecting me, ain't
Speaker 4: on fucking up a nigga. That's how I look at it.
Speaker 4: But I don't even think about that. Yeah, if you
Speaker 4: respecting me, you're not gonna sucking up a nigga.
Speaker 2: I would hope not. I mean unless you respect me
Speaker 2: and fucking over that. I always respect.
Speaker 1: You say that think about it, but they won't actually
Speaker 1: do it because of the respect.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I look at it. But when I
Speaker 2: think of respect, I don't even think about that. I
Speaker 2: don't even think about you fucking somebody else.
Speaker 4: I just think about how you interact with me, Like
Speaker 4: that's how I didn't respect, Like are you respectful to me?
Speaker 4: Like even what Benk said about on the phone, I'm
Speaker 4: believing space. I believe that we all should be able
Speaker 4: to be who we want to be in the absence
Speaker 4: of our partner whatever. Right, So like if you like,
Speaker 4: like you said, if you're on the phone and your
Speaker 4: friend piss you off and you hang up and you
Speaker 4: tell me.
Speaker 2: Like, I've just get on my nerves. Cool, Do I
Speaker 2: think I'm exempt? No?
Speaker 4: But I respect your space. So when I do piss
Speaker 4: you off, tell your friend. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 4: don't try to come back and tell me that, because
Speaker 4: then you're gonna be respectful. Now, I definitely don't want
Speaker 4: to deal with this is hollok at it.
Speaker 3: It's been since I was seventeen years Hey, go in
Speaker 3: the room and talk. Now, Yeah, when your friends call,
Speaker 3: I leave, my friend comes, you leave.
Speaker 2: This is just that's respect. That's how I don't even
Speaker 2: want to know how you interact.
Speaker 3: I don't want to know the girl, like because I
Speaker 3: don't want to look at you in a way that
Speaker 3: I don't want to look at it, right, I feel.
Speaker 2: That's all look at it like you won't tell you
Speaker 2: tell me that we ain't gonna be together. It's like
Speaker 2: I don't funk with that. Like, but that's why I
Speaker 2: believe in space.
Speaker 4: But that's why I guess I was confused because like
Speaker 4: I understand that I'm not fault with you for that, though,
Speaker 4: Like I want you to have your space and I
Speaker 4: want you to be able to do things in an
Speaker 4: absence of me that you wouldn't do it in front
Speaker 4: of me, because if you did it in front of me,
Speaker 4: you disrespected me. Certain sit you shouldn't do in front
Speaker 4: of me, Like if it's a nigga, you would fuck
Speaker 4: if you wasn't with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell your friends that. I don't need to know that.
Speaker 2: But is that a mass?
Speaker 1: Though? Said? Is that a What is that like?
Speaker 2: A mass? Is that like an ego? Is that a mass?
Speaker 1: Is that? I think?
Speaker 2: I think?
Speaker 1: I think? I think sometimes too, like a marriage relationships,
Speaker 1: like people get lost, they forget the word individuality. You
Speaker 1: still are individuals. You connected, correct, but you have some individuality.
Speaker 5: But do you think that people are together for like
Speaker 5: all of those years and all of that stuff and
Speaker 5: remain together without having some sort of entertainment?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what you mean? What type of entertainment?
Speaker 5: When when I say entertainment, I mean like, oh girl,
Speaker 5: he's so fine, or oh girl.
Speaker 2: He's You have to be delusion and think that though
Speaker 2: it's different idiots.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is if you have a If I
Speaker 3: have a conversation with Shan tape today, she's gonna say, Baby.
Speaker 2: I don't looking know the man with you. I'll call
Speaker 2: it right now. She just see it right now on
Speaker 2: the phone. Baby, do you ever see you want the fuck?
Speaker 4: Come on?
Speaker 2: They don't have no damba shit like that.
Speaker 3: You know you lying?
Speaker 2: How not? It's human nature?
Speaker 1: Is that lie or respect both?
Speaker 6: Okay, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You're telling the goddamn lie, but you just knowing like
Speaker 2: he said, he said because I'm not the same way.
Speaker 2: He's been particular in his words. Right. So Lion is lying,
Speaker 2: point point period. Does it mean that it's wrong for
Speaker 2: me and every single time? Maybe not. But at the
Speaker 2: end of the day, we got that Lion. But Lion
Speaker 2: is lying, stealing, is stealing? Yeah, I give you, I ain't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: We made the whole episode. We're gonna to do this
Speaker 3: ship over again. I don't know, man, I just I
Speaker 3: don't know, Bro.
Speaker 2: I just haven't seen too much of my four de
Speaker 2: cs y bro. Like I said, I was born this ship.
Speaker 2: My name ain't my whole family and another nigga name
Speaker 2: right now. I was born into a lie this nigga.
Speaker 2: My daddy signed my participate.
Speaker 6: Ain't my daddy?
Speaker 2: That ship brings trauma. I'm gonna say, way, Brom, I'm
Speaker 2: dam to think that.
Speaker 3: My daddy, me too, my kids, my grandkids, everybody name
Speaker 3: holds that ain't my name.
Speaker 2: I'm a Jones, like big Shot Jones.
Speaker 3: So how do I how do I supposed to be
Speaker 3: oblivious to the fact of people could be this way?
Speaker 4: Bro?
Speaker 1: But you do understand get given your circumstances, but you
Speaker 1: understand the trauma. You understand it.
Speaker 2: But let me ask you all this and.
Speaker 3: This real ship, where is the person that we see
Speaker 3: we make up in our mind. Have we ever seen
Speaker 3: that person like to be with no just any any
Speaker 3: any way in life? You know the standard that we
Speaker 3: hold people to like.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't you? Shouldn't that? Have we ever seen that
Speaker 2: person in real life? M hmm?
Speaker 1: I stop a long time. If we stop a long
Speaker 1: time ago, having people gonna be who they are gonna be,
Speaker 1: and you accepted for who they are.
Speaker 2: Thank you make up a person in your mind and
Speaker 2: stake for not where a lot of people are. That's
Speaker 2: not not where a lot of people are, though, Bro.
Speaker 2: I feel like the way to fix that if we
Speaker 2: start being the person that we want everybody else to be.
Speaker 6: Mm.
Speaker 3: If we start being, if we correct, if we look
Speaker 3: in the mirror and correct everything that we want other
Speaker 3: motherfucker to correct, be.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're correct. Damn they're perfect.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, because all we do, we
Speaker 3: can see I see so many motherfuckers see when another
Speaker 3: motherfucker do wrong, but they can do the same exact
Speaker 3: ship and justify.
Speaker 2: Big facts.
Speaker 3: So what I'm saying is basically, there ain't nobody perfect,
Speaker 3: but ain't nobody gonna be perfect. You can love a
Speaker 3: motherfucker because the way we love bro is the way
Speaker 3: we see that person, Like I.
Speaker 2: Can love you so much that I can see you
Speaker 2: the potential of you being perfect.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not gonna happen, though, You're gonna be upset
Speaker 3: and let down because you're putting false expectation on another individual.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. That's all true.
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Speaker 4: Tune in for real, subscribe to the audio on the
Speaker 4: podcast for Real, I said, I appreciate you guys for
Speaker 4: having me.
Speaker 2: Man, who's your favorite gift so far? Uh?
Speaker 4: Probably just hilarious? Okay, yeah, just hilarious. She's like authentically her.
Speaker 4: I love somebody that can come up there and just
Speaker 4: like beat him. I like my Zoti episode. I like
Speaker 4: uh fat trail, but I think larious for sure.
Speaker 2: Who your dream guests that you want to like? Man,
Speaker 2: I said, I just want to sit out with this person,
Speaker 2: probably meek mil uh fifty jay z Yeah and that
Speaker 2: probably like that. Yeah, it's close. The man, we can't
Speaker 2: get out of here. That you got, you gotta come
Speaker 2: up with and do my ship. Let's do it. Bro
Speaker 2: told them you told me before you before you even
Speaker 2: set up and ship. Yeah that ship because I had
Speaker 2: I wanta try and see what camera you had. You
Speaker 2: had me looking Christian and I was sick. But then
Speaker 2: the same one. We wouldn't have got the same. But
Speaker 2: it's all about had already. Yeah, it's all about the life.
Speaker 2: You should look good, you know. Now.
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to figure this shit out. Man, I
Speaker 3: wish we could crack the cold stream. I ain't saying
Speaker 3: that nobody is married to a bad person. What I'm
Speaker 3: just saying is everybody you you said the stream, it's individuality. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and people are gonna be there who they uthentically are
Speaker 3: when they're in there where they're in their.
Speaker 1: Safest space, whether it's five, fifteen, twenty, thirty, forty years,
Speaker 1: this person had a life before you and they started
Speaker 1: to create their individuality before you. You got to accept
Speaker 1: that at some point.
Speaker 2: That is man.
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