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Speaker 1: Big Bank. You don't be on nothing.

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Speaker 2: I be on okay, So let me ask you bring

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Speaker 2: you big big Fact.

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Speaker 2: Alive from the Culture Lab.

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Speaker 1: It's time for big Facts, Big Bank Baby J d

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Speaker 1: J Screen Welcoming today. The creator of the J Hill Podcast,

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Speaker 1: J Hill himself is here. What's up? What's up? What's up?

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Speaker 1: My brother?

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Speaker 2: You know, man, I'm just blessed to be here with

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Speaker 2: the fan. Man. I appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the one of the one of the

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Speaker 1: hottest up and coming young podcasts. You touch on so

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Speaker 1: many topics. You know what I'm saying. You're definitely unapologetic.

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Speaker 1: You definitely speak your mind. I think you've all had

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Speaker 1: each of us on your podcast too, so it was

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Speaker 1: only right we brought you to our humble bowl and

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Speaker 1: chop it with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, since we're here, man, I want to let you

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Speaker 4: all know I appreciate y'all, man, because a lot of

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Speaker 4: niggas be fake.

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Speaker 2: That's how we're gonna start. I appreciate that. That me

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Speaker 2: and fuck the ones who don't.

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Speaker 4: So I just want to let y'all know again and

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Speaker 4: again that man, when I first got here, you was

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Speaker 4: like the first then Ja pulled up you know what

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Speaker 4: I'm saying, and then you know, like, but.

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Speaker 1: We had we had a one hour conversation about this.

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Speaker 1: I was like, bro, you got it time and is everything?

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Speaker 1: So sometimes people don't meet it that way. I was like,

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Speaker 1: you really even with me, it was just the right time.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I don't really know who he is,

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Speaker 1: but I like this ship.

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Speaker 4: Let me go three y'all we had this like even

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Speaker 4: because bank like, I feel like all three of us

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Speaker 4: had probably had a similar conversation.

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Speaker 2: I can't see too, you can't sick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but what I will say is Jay gave me

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Speaker 4: a nugget that's forever going to live in my head.

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Speaker 2: It was something about timing. But how she broke it

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Speaker 2: down was crazy.

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Speaker 4: She was like, yo, a lot of times you really

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Speaker 4: just kind of like sowing the seed, Like you might

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Speaker 4: see somebody, they might see your face.

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Speaker 2: Cool, you might get their number right, and then the

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Speaker 2: next time. That don't mean that you're gonna probably get

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Speaker 4: Y'all gonna work the next time, But that's just so

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Speaker 4: on the small seed. Then you might see him again.

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Speaker 4: It don't mean you might but you just you continue

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Speaker 4: to seed. So by the time that fifth time, I'm

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Speaker 4: a full time, I'm familiar.

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Speaker 2: Right, let's do this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so that was I never heard nobody put

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Speaker 4: it like that, so I was like, man, it definitely

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Speaker 2: Just understand it like that. So yeah, because I'll be

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Speaker 2: I'll be pissed. I go, I meet you, give me

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Speaker 2: a Number'm thinking like we locked in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just know how dope you is, bro, And

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Speaker 3: so so when when a person don't recognize it or

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Speaker 3: see it off the rip, it kind of get me.

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Speaker 4: You.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because you know how

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Speaker 3: dope you. You know you coming Jamie. Yeah, but like

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Speaker 3: she said, most motherfucker we want to get for me,

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Speaker 3: You're like, okay, I have seen this nigga two three times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now I fuck with you. Yeah, it ain't how

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Speaker 2: we we meet.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucker the first time and be like I fuck with

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Speaker 2: Fuck with you, but not even that. It's just if

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Speaker 2: I tell you something, I'm gonna do it right.

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Speaker 4: Like there's been times where like my podcast and can't

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Speaker 4: growing astronomical you feel me, but it's still a nigga

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Speaker 4: somewhere that was, like I told him I was gonna

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Speaker 2: It could be two years ago. I'm like, ship, I

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Speaker 5: But but see that, let me let me tell you

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Speaker 5: also like another version of timing because even like with

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Speaker 5: I had every intention on doing it, but some shit

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Speaker 5: it took us a couple of times, you know what

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Speaker 5: But that's that's another thing that I had to learn too,

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Speaker 5: Like sometimes people aren't bullshitting you, Like people aren't bullshitting

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Speaker 5: you all the time. Like sometimes shit does come up,

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Speaker 5: But the same at the same time, like if they're

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Speaker 5: like you can't necessarily like hold it against them until

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Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing communication though, Yeah, a lot of times,

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Speaker 4: like I was meeting niggs niggas, give me that number

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Speaker 2: Me or red or delivered, Like, bro, why do you

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Speaker 2: give me a number? Just keep number? I don't. You

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Speaker 2: don't have to give me a number. You could just

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Speaker 2: be like, bro, not right now, or yeah, follow me

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Speaker 2: on the ground. You could do whatever, like you give

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Speaker 4: I hit you a hundred times. It's like, bro, look man,

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Speaker 4: I'm off that. I'm not even knowing that no more.

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Speaker 4: Though so right he grew. I ain't knowing that no more.

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Speaker 4: Niggas a bullshit. You just see if you're gonna get

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Speaker 2: Hmm congratulations because I don't give a.

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Speaker 4: You know, like to like, go ahead, that's what you

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Speaker 4: be like, all right, we're locking you feel me? Like

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Speaker 4: I be like, yeah, I do it and then don't

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Speaker 2: I mean, but like I said, I ain't this.

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Speaker 1: Is an industry ween, man, This ain't this ain't it

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Speaker 1: ain't black and white. There's a lot of gray areas.

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Speaker 1: That's that's is where we are with that's what we

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Speaker 2: Yeah where you're at.

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Are you comfortable in your slaves? Now? Bro? I feel amazing.

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Speaker 4: And a lot of it got to do with running,

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Speaker 4: Like they don't have nothing to do with the space

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Speaker 4: and a lot of times I was looking for validation

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Speaker 4: it's up and down, it's peaks and valleys.

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Speaker 2: You feel me. So it's like when when it was

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Speaker 4: But now I run and like I found something that

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Speaker 4: I enjoyed. People ask me, like what I do for fun?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, run, like you crazy? I'm like, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: found out I like, I accomplished goals with running, right,

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Speaker 4: just like it's just what I do. It just it

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Speaker 4: just is what it is, something that I gotta do.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. I say so like my

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Speaker 4: my mental man, it's a million, I know a lot.

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Speaker 4: We comeing to each other all the time. How like

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Speaker 4: you look at you so I look good. But like

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Speaker 4: if people think my body look good, I wish they

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Speaker 4: could see my mind.

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Speaker 2: Pause. In my mind it feels ten times better than

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Speaker 2: my body. Look. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Another thing you've been preaching a lot on your platform

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Speaker 1: is uh faithfulness. You know what I'm saying, Like just

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Speaker 1: being faithful and stuff like that. What's what's your I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying you preach it, do so let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: It's big facts. What's your perspective on that?

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Speaker 2: I think being faithful is.

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Speaker 4: It means a lot, bro, because outside of the person

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Speaker 4: that you're with, it's about you. It's about how much

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Speaker 4: discipline do you haven't within yourself? Now, if you put

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Speaker 4: look atmis then you're still faithful in my opinion, right

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Speaker 4: for you? Right, But if you choose to be monogamous,

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Speaker 4: and that's what you say you want to be committed

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Speaker 4: to and be committed to that, just like if you

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Speaker 4: want to if you committed to losing fifty pounds, if

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Speaker 4: you committed to anything, if you committed to do a podcast.

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Speaker 4: You should be committed to whatever you put your mind to,

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Speaker 4: because that's the only way.

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Speaker 2: You won't get it.

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Speaker 4: Like when it come to like a relationship, I've learned

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Speaker 4: taking care of your family is will make you a man.

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Speaker 4: I think Fat Trill said it before, Like taking care

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Speaker 2: Family is gangster. Like all this other shit running.

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Speaker 4: Down on a nigga, beating a nigga ass because he

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Speaker 4: being a coward. That's being pussy if anything, like what's

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Speaker 4: being gangster is taking care of your family and being

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Speaker 4: faithful is a part of it. You feel me like

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Speaker 4: me being committed to what I I my vows, or

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Speaker 4: we open the shore up, like that's how big one

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Speaker 4: your word? You feel me so like that's a part

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Speaker 4: a woman, it's like, yah, I choose to be with you.

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Speaker 4: And if I'm monogamous and I choose to be with

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Speaker 4: you and only you in the times where it get hard, though,

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Speaker 4: And I think that's the most important.

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Speaker 2: I think that says a lot about a person's character.

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Speaker 2: Character ain't what you do when it's easy. It is

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Speaker 2: what you do when it's hard. So I ain't saying.

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Speaker 4: That like bitches don't be girls, don't be throwing themselves

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Speaker 4: you feel me, or like it don't get hard.

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Speaker 2: As a man, temptation ain't dead.

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Speaker 4: Temptation is there every day, especially as you calim the

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Speaker 4: letter to success. But it means it says a lot

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Speaker 4: about you as a man, as a person when you

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Speaker 4: full of votes and you know what I'm saying, and

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Speaker 4: I have to budge I walk in there with my

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Speaker 4: haird like nah, yeah, they look good.

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Speaker 2: It's cool. I would, but now I'm good because I

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Speaker 4: So I mean, I think that's like it's about character,

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Speaker 1: I don't believe this, but there's a narrative going around

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Speaker 6: No, I disagree.

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Speaker 3: I can agree because I ain't gonna say all of them,

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Speaker 3: most of them they Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 2: I can agree on you because you can catch you

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Speaker 6: But I disagree. I think I think most niggas cheat.

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Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna lie about that.

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Speaker 5: But I feel like, because you gotta, you gotta think

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Speaker 5: since the beginning of time. Like for men, most infidelity

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Speaker 5: So it's not as serious to a guy to cheat

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Speaker 6: A woman or a female.

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Speaker 5: A female is gonna be it's gonna be the most

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Speaker 5: So when a female does actually build her nuts up

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Speaker 5: to go out and step out on her man or whatever,

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Speaker 5: then it's so much other shit that has taken place

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Speaker 2: You do it, it's.

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Speaker 6: Like, Okay, that was your last straw before a guy.

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Speaker 6: Guys get a lot of guys.

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Speaker 5: Get tempted, and then they just do it and don't

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Speaker 5: then go back to being regular. Yeah, every hole is

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Speaker 5: just a whole, but all women aren't holes.

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Speaker 1: For sure.

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Speaker 4: I feel like even with your question though, I think

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Speaker 4: every relationship, somebody is a cheater.

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Speaker 1: That what you said it was a narrative on social media.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean just because who says sheating gotta

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Speaker 4: be just uh sexually right, Like you don't have to

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Speaker 4: your partner that you wouldn't want done it, you know

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like, that's that's.

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Speaker 2: What cheating is.

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Speaker 4: So it's like, if you're willing to entertain a conversation

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Speaker 4: where you know you shouldn't be, you got to look

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: It's just because you're a CHEATERD don't doesn't mean that

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Speaker 4: you're always going to be a cheated Do that mean

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Speaker 4: that you can't grow?

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Speaker 2: Right? I feel like that's the thing we need to

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Speaker 2: look at. I think.

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Speaker 4: But back to the conversation to what you were saying, Jade,

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Speaker 4: I feel like MH is how we how he's brought

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Speaker 4: up when we're taught. I feel like men was taught

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Speaker 4: the inception, Like we see rappers talking about getting all

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Speaker 4: these girls like nigga's on the street, Like.

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Speaker 2: That's what we've grown up to, right especially, And.

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Speaker 5: So do you think that in a lot of cases,

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Speaker 5: men equate their value to how many women they can get.

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent even?

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Speaker 7: And I'm gonna be sure that with you because I'm

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Speaker 7: not no God, no saint, but even the most faithful

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Speaker 7: nigga sometimes just like I remember seeing steph carry wife

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Speaker 7: say like she just wanted to feel like tractive something

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Speaker 7: like that.

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Speaker 4: We're a human bro like we want we want to

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Speaker 4: feel validated, if it's in work or outside of work. Right.

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Speaker 4: So like a lot of times a man's success is

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Speaker 4: measured by the money that he gets and how many women.

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Speaker 2: He can pull, Right, But it's how disciplined can you

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Speaker 2: be in that environment when you.

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Speaker 6: Have it all?

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Speaker 4: Right, it might be easy for you to say no

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Speaker 4: because you're used to it, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 4: I'm used to it.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, And that's some people not used to it

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Speaker 2: and they got indulged more than others. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it be kind of harged me to have these

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Speaker 8: on just D one hundred with these kind of conversations,

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Speaker 8: people say what they suppold to say because people are watching.

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Speaker 2: I'm the type of nigga gonna say what it is.

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Speaker 2: That's just what it. That's just what it is, like

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Speaker 2: saying women do this, women do that? What women?

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Speaker 3: Most women are on this side. Now on what's it's

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Speaker 3: very I'm saying most women are on fuck these nigga side. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: even in relationships you got rare. It's not I'm not

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Speaker 3: putting them all. I'm not speaking on all but most

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Speaker 3: women or on the other side these days in twenty

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Speaker 3: twenty four, it's very rare that it's probably ten percent

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Speaker 3: of women that's.

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Speaker 2: Being one hundred percent faithful. And I ain't to my

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Speaker 2: sex one hundred percent faithful. I only have eyes for you.

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Speaker 2: I don't speak to my friends like I got urges.

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Speaker 2: They don't have urgent that's rare for a woman to

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Speaker 2: not have urges. But the way I got, we got,

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Speaker 2: I got urges I got.

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Speaker 6: How is that cheating?

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Speaker 2: So if you if you entertain the urge, that's not cheating,

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Speaker 2: entertaining and it's just swing your fuck.

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Speaker 3: That's the same ship which you smile level man that

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Speaker 3: says you're pretty in front of your husband.

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Speaker 1: No, that.

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Speaker 2: I ain't mad at that. But I'm saying having an

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Speaker 2: urge and entertaining urges two different things. But is that

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Speaker 2: if I flatter you and it tickles you, is that

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Speaker 2: is that not cheating on your men?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: And to you, to you, I'll break y'all my home

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Speaker 2: phrase that feels like you don't want you looking at

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Speaker 2: no woman? To me, I'm gonna say no. Only because

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Speaker 2: I'll kirkmam so we can have a But.

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Speaker 6: I feel like this.

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Speaker 5: I feel like if I'm flattered, me being flattered and

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Speaker 5: me responding to that flattery is two different things.

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Speaker 2: I ain't saying I'm saying the response of it.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, if you show your teeth to a nigga

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Speaker 3: that's have said something to you in a way that

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Speaker 3: he wants you, that is cheating to me cool, And.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying to me, I argue that you're gonna be

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Speaker 2: so you you're not showing your teath and no chick

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Speaker 2: that I don't smiling like a motherfucker did everybody. That's

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Speaker 2: why I ask you.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like when it comes to the cheat

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Speaker 4: and I said, it's doing one thing to somebody knowing

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Speaker 4: that you, you wouldn't want it done to you. So

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Speaker 4: if y'all got that agreement right, if it's like Yo,

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Speaker 4: you don't smile that, no nigga, that if that's flattering you,

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Speaker 4: I ain't smiling that, No chicks, that's flattering me.

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 4: But if I have an agreement on my chick, like YO,

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Speaker 4: you could smile, you could, you can laugh at all

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Speaker 4: you want, you feel, you can say thank you, and

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Speaker 4: I can.

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Speaker 2: Do the same. All of that gateway though, it's all

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Speaker 2: of that gate was entertaining. Entertaining. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Does entertainment leads to gateway? I can't say that, bro,

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Speaker 2: because it's like a contract. Bro. If our contract says

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Speaker 2: you can.

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Speaker 4: Go to all the podcasts you want, but you can't

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Speaker 4: appear on the podcast, it can be a gateway. But

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Speaker 4: as long as your wives don't get on front of

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Speaker 4: that camera and record that podcast, then you follow in

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Speaker 4: the contracts and say with relationships you feel me, So

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Speaker 4: it could be the gateway.

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Speaker 1: You said, everybody's situation is gonna have a different understanding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as you stay understanding through the rules of.

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Speaker 3: Who's gonna do that, who's gonna break down everything I

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Speaker 3: want you to do and I don't want you to do.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of you do that in front of her

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Speaker 1: So I'm saying, but I think, I think, I think

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Speaker 1: it's understood in your particular relationship with can't go I

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Speaker 1: like that though.

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Speaker 4: I like that we gotta be able to but we

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Speaker 2: So, for example, I had one of my homies. We

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Speaker 4: I sent them the message telling him the ship that

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Speaker 4: he did, and I think I told my man, I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 4: we're gonna see how you're scaring. Nigga said, you know,

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Speaker 4: my bad. If you took it that way, I.

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Speaker 2: Ain't mean no harm. Cool, the relationship got strong. If anything,

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Speaker 2: same thing.

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Speaker 4: If no, it's the same if the chick. If some

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Speaker 4: things like we know, we know that we think cheating

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Speaker 4: is just sex, right, that's what we think.

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Speaker 2: I give what you saying. Let me break this now.

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Speaker 3: If she won't do it in front of you, she

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Speaker 3: know it's wrong, oh for sure. If she won't do

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Speaker 3: it in one of you, she knows whatever. But we

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Speaker 3: don't know what she would do. It wouldn't do in

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Speaker 3: it's presented. That's all I'm saying now. She if she

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Speaker 3: smile if she was in front of me, I'm in time,

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Speaker 3: you don't be with your wife. She'd be like, why

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Speaker 3: that nigga looking at me like that? She wouldn't even

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Speaker 3: ask that she would see why he's looking like what.

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Speaker 2: She wanted? Did that if you was there, She's.

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Speaker 3: Bring it to your attention to let you know she

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Speaker 3: knows that this is wrong for me to even look

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Speaker 3: at this guy. I'm just keeping it real, bro, wife

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Speaker 3: right now would not have the same conversation with you that.

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Speaker 2: She would have with her friends. It's impossible. But that's

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Speaker 2: are you saying her female her female friends. She wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have the same conversation when you.

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Speaker 3: When you're in a relationship with a person, brother, they

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Speaker 4: But what you expect though, I wore her to, yes,

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Speaker 4: have her different conversation with your friends that you have

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Speaker 7: For sure.

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Speaker 2: But that's that's real. If you you you you hold up?

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Speaker 2: Hold up now, I don't I think you go through phases.

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Speaker 1: I'm about ninety plus percent there with my wife when

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Speaker 1: we have conversations now now, not at the beginning, but

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Speaker 1: we almost dare like that's my POTU.

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Speaker 2: Bro, some conversation. I think that's respect. Like, yo, if

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Speaker 2: you want to talk to your homegirls, talk to your homegirls,

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Speaker 2: that's a Daryl conversation. But hold a different person. Not No,

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Speaker 2: I'm not not.

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Speaker 4: Not not totally different. I'm saying, like some conversations, I

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Speaker 4: don't need to be a part of it. I don't

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Speaker 4: want to be a part of rum.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying, I know that you're able to

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Speaker 2: have those conversations because I know your characters. That's what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about those women that has a totally different

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Speaker 2: Okay, not with you, man, that's fast. Cheating, you just

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Speaker 2: fake you the fass the same family. That's fast.

441
00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,200
Speaker 3: Once you draw those lines and tell a person what

442
00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,760
Speaker 3: you don't like, what else is there to do if

443
00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:54,560
Speaker 3: that's who they are?

444
00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:55,760
Speaker 1: Leave?

445
00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,359
Speaker 2: Hold up, No, I ain't saying leave. I love you,

446
00:17:58,359 --> 00:17:58,920
Speaker 2: you love me.

447
00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,280
Speaker 3: We're in a relationship, but you're a different type of

448
00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:02,760
Speaker 3: person when you're not around me, because you know, I

449
00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,640
Speaker 3: don't like that type of ship that goes on one

450
00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:10,720
Speaker 3: billion percent in relationships. Your wife is not gonna be

451
00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,960
Speaker 3: exactly who she are around you because she's protecting your feelings.

452
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:19,159
Speaker 2: Don't the fuck what y'all niggas saying you want to

453
00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,880
Speaker 2: have it another way? Would you having another way?

454
00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:22,000
Speaker 4: No?

455
00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,639
Speaker 2: I respect that I'm not saying because I'm cool with that.

456
00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,880
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But so so it's still there's

457
00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,320
Speaker 2: still the same thing you said. Everybody has a mask

458
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,960
Speaker 2: off to a certain extent. So that's cheating to me.

459
00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,440
Speaker 2: So you cool with your woman cheating decently? How do

460
00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:36,760
Speaker 2: I know?

461
00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:41,800
Speaker 3: I take respect over everything. Respect is something different. You

462
00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,639
Speaker 3: can't one thing about bruh. Y'all niggas better understand. But

463
00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,160
Speaker 3: you can't control no woman pussy. Then you can't control

464
00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,000
Speaker 3: her thoughts or pussy. You can never control that fact.

465
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,359
Speaker 3: The only thing you control is the way she respects you.

466
00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:56,480
Speaker 2: She respects you. That that that that that super seeds

467
00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:59,400
Speaker 2: and trump everything to me, you know what I'm saying.

468
00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:01,359
Speaker 2: So other than that, I don't know. I don't know

469
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,080
Speaker 2: how to put it.

470
00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,560
Speaker 3: Like we can live in this world and thinking our

471
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,040
Speaker 3: ego make us think that we're the only nigga that

472
00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:08,040
Speaker 3: our wives look at.

473
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,960
Speaker 2: That's ego. That's ego.

474
00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,000
Speaker 3: Make you feel like you're the only woman that you

475
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,800
Speaker 3: I got, that you got hots for I'm the only

476
00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:17,879
Speaker 3: that's ego.

477
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,359
Speaker 2: It's something in enough that God.

478
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,960
Speaker 3: Put on us that we see our type every day,

479
00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 3: So you don't feel like every day she's like, man,

480
00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:27,760
Speaker 3: that's a nice woman. You think your wife don't see

481
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,760
Speaker 3: this A nigga the same way for sure. I'm with

482
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:37,800
Speaker 3: you on that, though they said anything else. Lust is

483
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 3: the same thing as cheating, right.

484
00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 5: Man.

485
00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 2: Lust, that's a that's that's tricky.

486
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:46,679
Speaker 4: Bro.

487
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm talking to you specifically, nigga like

488
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 2: that's tricky. I'm saying we was on Cavira Care like

489
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm saying that's streaky. Let me let me, let me,

490
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:56,880
Speaker 2: let me say something.

491
00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:01,200
Speaker 5: So basically, what you're saying is that you're you're okay

492
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,040
Speaker 5: with it as long as you don't know and it's

493
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:03,840
Speaker 5: not brought to your.

494
00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,639
Speaker 2: Front door with any But I agree with that.

495
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 3: I'm okay with anything with anybody that's with my friend's

496
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:09,800
Speaker 3: with anything.

497
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,280
Speaker 2: I can't say you're being fake. I can say you

498
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 2: respect me.

499
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 4: Well, what I would say is no, No, I don't

500
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 4: agree with that, because no, I don't agree if you

501
00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 4: being sneaky, it is not brought to my No, I'm

502
00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 4: just I'm being more specific in it. I'm because Jay

503
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 4: said you're okay with it as long as I brought

504
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,440
Speaker 4: to be into your door, I'm diving deeper in it.

505
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 2: No, I'm not okay because you could be just a

506
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 2: good ass liar. I'm not okay with that.

507
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm not.

508
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not boudy even siting here at like

509
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm okay with it. But yeah, if I'm okay, if anything,

510
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be real with you.

511
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 4: Grow we talk about ego, like these niggas need more,

512
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,680
Speaker 4: y'all niggas need more ego because to be real, like

513
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,680
Speaker 4: the fact that I know that I ain't the only

514
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 4: nigga looking at that's more player for me because she

515
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 4: wouldn't me if anything, Yeah, she.

516
00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,920
Speaker 2: Sees a bunch of niggas because's agree. I choose to

517
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: be monogamous to you.

518
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, is bad.

519
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 2: They got fake asses and fake tities everywhere. Make up

520
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 2: look good, they look good.

521
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,159
Speaker 6: Yeah, I want to like three D.

522
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 2: Miss, but I'm not.

523
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 3: Do you agree that when you first Yeah, that's not

524
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 3: a period though. Hold on, let me let me tell

525
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 3: you here that that's not pure bro a pure nigga.

526
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 3: Don't even want to funk the.

527
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 2: Guess what I'm hearing. That's what you want to say.

528
00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 2: I ain't God as well. No, no, no worry like

529
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:33,239
Speaker 2: ibout stealing you might wis what if I go if

530
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 2: I go in the Rolex. Of course in my mind

531
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 2: I was like, man.

532
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 1: I was, but I ain't gonna do that.

533
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 2: No cameras in there, you would get it.

534
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 9: Ho ho ho, I went risk, I don't want to

535
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 9: come cover. Am I stealing that roll neck? If that

536
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 9: man walk out the rolls store and drop.

537
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 2: It, are you gonna pick it up or leave it?

538
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, I don't want to come. That's the same

539
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 2: I want to comel maybe maybe cama. Yes, yes, in

540
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 2: the same common for having those thoughts.

541
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 6: No, you don't, you don't know, you don't to me,

542
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 6: No to me.

543
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 2: But what I'm trying to tell y'all, how many times?

544
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 2: How many times have you thought about slapping the ship

545
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 2: out of the nigga?

546
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 1: Slap the out You.

547
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 2: Ain't about to get fired or slap it like in

548
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 2: your mind thinking about slapping.

549
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 3: That? Why you have to rebuke thoughts, buke it. I

550
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 3: ain't gonna say I want to steal some that, don't

551
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 3: steal it. If I think about still being like bro

552
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 3: hell no, ain't no thief. But no, you know, people,

553
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 3: if you if you walk away thinking I should have

554
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 3: stole that, you should.

555
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 4: Say that we said, and you said, if you think

556
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 4: about something, hold up think about your talking about because

557
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 4: you said if you think about about okay, cool, I'm

558
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 4: not I'm not. I'm not arguing that you said, if

559
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 4: I know something, you might as go do it.

560
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 2: Bro.

561
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 4: You can think about shooting nigga, you ain't gona shoot

562
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 4: a nigga like you can think about you can think

563
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 4: about getting get back, but you don't get to get back.

564
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 1: Yo.

565
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 2: That's not as that's not as.

566
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 4: It's not as bad, bro, because at the end of

567
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 4: the day, what makes you a good person, what makes

568
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 4: you a good person is your actions.

569
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 5: You could think about what, yeah, the ship that you decide,

570
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 5: the thought, the thoughts that you decide to act upon that.

571
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to take a point.

572
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 3: It didn't work out people when I'm trying to know

573
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 3: what I'm trying to tell y'all these women and men.

574
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 3: If you're perier of your period all the way, you

575
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 3: don't think of another person. You think if you're not

576
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 3: a chieved, you think when it start off. Though that's

577
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 3: not true the male female interaction when it started off.

578
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 6: But that's but to my opinion, to my opinion me,

579
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 6: to me, that's not that's not that's not it.

580
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 2: So if you thought about sucking a nigga. If you

581
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: had to say, how do.

582
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 6: We get the fucking know that even thinking about the nigga?

583
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: And so I don't bang it. Bank saying this because

584
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: because from from.

585
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 4: His last point, when it sounds like it's past, start

586
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 4: thinking about fucking a nigga. If you think about fucking nigga,

587
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 4: but then like women or it's always in your mind,

588
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 4: that could be cheating.

589
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: I get that.

590
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 4: That's that's I get what he's saying. But we're talking

591
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 4: about specifically what you're saying. If you think about sucking

592
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 4: a nigga, no, that's not cheating. But if you have

593
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 4: continuous thoughts about sucking the same nigga, okay, okay, okay,

594
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 4: all right, let me ask you this. If your wife

595
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 4: came and told you she thought about sucking a nigga.

596
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 2: She should have.

597
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 3: How you gonna come tell me you thought about sucking

598
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 3: a nigga's pride?

599
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 2: No, that's not pride, that's that's being real. Bank.

600
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 4: I'm telling you think about it as a man, as

601
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 4: somebody to respect you. I'm telling you that's pride. And

602
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 4: you need to leave that sit alone in a while,

603
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 4: because if your woman tells you it's a reason for everything.

604
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 4: If your woman tell you say yo, bab, hopefully she

605
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 4: don't say like, don't. But I'm just if she said some.

606
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 2: Ship right and she trying to communicate to you, and

607
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: she trying to communicate to you, and you get.

608
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 3: Me, don't tell me because at the end of the day,

609
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna have a certain insecurity.

610
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna have a certain insecurity over you. On

611
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: the fuck Hey, that's something you got. You might wing

612
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 2: the fucking don't tell me.

613
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: You're right, that's what we gotta thinking about it.

614
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: He's right, right, he's right.

615
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: If he if you left some money right there, walked up,

616
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: he came back and bank was love. Man, I was

617
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: thinking about still your money.

618
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 2: You're gonna Yo, thank you, bro. I appreciate you. But

619
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: you make sure you don't leave that money the next time.

620
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 2: He might get it right, Okay, Yeah, I'm just saying

621
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 2: being real.

622
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 3: So if my wife come telling me I've been thinking about,

623
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 3: I want to know that's different.

624
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: Sooner, lady, I'm gonna piss you off. And you're going No,

625
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 2: you keep saying thinking that.

626
00:25:58,720 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 6: That's different.

627
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: No, because no, that's different, celebrity. No, No, listen, Listen. Listen.

628
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 4: If you said my wife, if my wife feels that

629
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 4: I've been thinking about, that's different than I had a thought.

630
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 3: I'm saying those are two year over day. You have

631
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 3: a premonition of that, don't bitch. You better keep that

632
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 3: to yourself better.

633
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that. Keep that to yourself, because

634
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 2: once you split it out there, what does that leave me?

635
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: That's a man in my ego out of that shadowack. So,

636
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 2: so all, okay, you can't say that you're right. Don't

637
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 2: think that I agree with so every one hit I

638
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 2: agree with you.

639
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is this ain't a case for this

640
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 4: ain't the case for what's one size fital.

641
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 2: Man.

642
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is this ain't one sizpital because just

643
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 4: in that scenario, I get that as a man. I'm

644
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 4: not even about to try to fink I understand that.

645
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 4: But the way you're making it seems as if like

646
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 4: if somebody comes to me and say, Yo, I've been

647
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 4: thinking about shooting somebody.

648
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 2: It's not the same, bro, you it's not the same.

649
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 2: It's not the same.

650
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 3: I'm talking about a person you love in a relationship, bro,

651
00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 3: Certain things is just true.

652
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: If your wife if you had But my bad, my bad,

653
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 2: you said, who would come say that? Right? Okay? But

654
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: has she had that thought? Is the question?

655
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 5: But why come and say you're gonna drive yourself crazy

656
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 5: trying to think about what she could have possibly thought.

657
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 6: You gotta lose your mind.

658
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 2: Unless I'm making that point to make a point.

659
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 6: But what's what's the point?

660
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 3: The point is everyone has a different alter ego when

661
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: they're not with their mate that you will never know.

662
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 2: That's my opinion. That's my opinion. That's my opinion.

663
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 3: Your wife would tell one of her girlfriends like, I

664
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 3: would deal with such and such girl, I went, he

665
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 3: could get it.

666
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: She wouldn't tell you that.

667
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: True, true, true, But don't tell.

668
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 3: Me that the man.

669
00:27:58,960 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: But that's cool.

670
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 6: What's wrong with that?

671
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: Though?

672
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 3: When I just said that, said, well, your wife, anybody

673
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: wife will have a friend, and she say, girl, if

674
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 3: I went in love and in this monogy.

675
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 2: Relationship, he could get it. So what Women say that

676
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 2: all the time?

677
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 1: So what.

678
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: Okay?

679
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 3: But so what?

680
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 2: But yes? No?

681
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 3: What?

682
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 2: So what is?

683
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: Man?

684
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: It's a thin line? So what is? If you're prior

685
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 2: to me, you don't even think like that? To me?

686
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 2: That's what I feel like purim is Okay, yeah, I

687
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: mean I'm not if that's what you think cool to me.

688
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: I feel like purimice is I'm blind when it comes

689
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: to that.

690
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: I only see this person, and you're saying that that's

691
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: very rare, that's very very very very very o woman.

692
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 3: So so at the end of the day, you're still

693
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: putting on a facade, because if if it was us,

694
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 3: if we tied to the hill, you should tell me

695
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 3: that we weren't married.

696
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: I give such such a plus. We're going to be

697
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 2: that cool, but if we will never be that cool? Right,

698
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 2: So that means you're putting on them.

699
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 6: We're supposed to be that cool, but we will never

700
00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 6: be that cool.

701
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: Like because you don't have enough to be that. Everybody

702
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: has those.

703
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it real.

704
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 2: I'm just keeping it real every.

705
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 5: But okay, but what I'm saying is, how are we

706
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 5: supposed to be that cool when you said when you

707
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 5: just said that, if I have that conversation with you

708
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 5: and I'm trusting you enough to happen.

709
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 4: Scar you, That's why that's why I say that it's

710
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 4: more for you than the other person, because you said

711
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 4: we would never had that conversation.

712
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: But you're the one that's that can't take that. No,

713
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 2: that's not fair. But you don't know if I can

714
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: take it or not. You just said it. Holdo, I

715
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: know I can't, but you don't know. Yo, you don't know.

716
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 3: Hold On, that's not one we'll communicate. Well, we have

717
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 3: to know what that feeling that I have a partner,

718
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 3: my rep that tells me everything. She will not tell

719
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: you that because she knows the pride of a man.

720
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with what you told. You'll

721
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: go for another that she knows. That's the wrong thing

722
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 3: to say.

723
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 2: She knows that. So how how are you.

724
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 3: Gonna say you're one hundred A motherfucker that's one hundred

725
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 3: is gonna say whatever, no matter.

726
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 2: How you take it. I disagree, you don't disagree.

727
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, a motherfucker that's one hundred is gonna

728
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: tell you the bold truth no matter how you take it.

729
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: And that's rare, so you know.

730
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 5: No, So you're saying that that a person that's one

731
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 5: hundred percent is gonna tell you the truth no matter

732
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 5: how You're gonna take it at the expense of your feelings,

733
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 5: and they love you that much.

734
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: No, it's the truth. That's one hundred. That's the truth.

735
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: Am I tripping?

736
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: Nah?

737
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 2: This is my felers, you and my husband. I share

738
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: everything with you. This is my truth. Baby. I saw

739
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 2: John at work. I seen him in a gray sweatpan.

740
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 2: I won't, I really won't. I ain't gonna tell you that.

741
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 3: But I'm trying to erase that out of my eve.

742
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: But I had no thoughts. You're not finna ever come

743
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 3: home and say that. That don't even come with it.

744
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: So some what, everybody somewhat have a mass on to

745
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: protect the person they love. And I take that, Yeah,

746
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: you that don't. Yeah, I'll take that to you that

747
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: I thought, I thought that's what I've been said. I

748
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 2: would take that. I don't want to know everything you

749
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: said your friends. I don't want to know all of

750
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to tell you is everybody have a

751
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: different side. Like everybody think for sure, like I hate

752
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: what I know my wife.

753
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 3: No, you don't, buddy, everybody you know you know the

754
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 3: person that that she's presenting that she knows to be

755
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: she and that probably could be her one.

756
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 2: Hundred for the relationship. But everybody has that side of

757
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: them that you will never know, bro. Yeah, for sure

758
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 2: that's just them and that ain't no fake shit, it's

759
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 2: just respect cerch shit. I don't need to know. I

760
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 2: don't even know the conversation you have so sister, your mama,

761
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: I don't need to know that. I don't need to

762
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 2: know the shot, the shot conversations when y'all taking shots.

763
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: I don't need to know that. Yeah, but niggas is

764
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: acting like I'm saying, But niggas be acting like I

765
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 2: know everything you don't, buddy, I don't know everything. I think.

766
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: It's I think for some of them, type is their

767
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: own comfort, like that feed themself. They feed themself something

768
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: in their mind for their own Let me.

769
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 6: Let me, let me, let me, let me say this.

770
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 5: I got something, I got something to say, I got

771
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 5: something to say about that. So are we okay with

772
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 5: that being said? With all of that being said, are

773
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 5: we saying that because there is a certain there is

774
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 5: a level of utmost respect to where certain things won't

775
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 5: be disclosed.

776
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 6: Are we saying that there's something wrong with that? Or

777
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 6: are we saying that.

778
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 3: In the beginning, we said, cheating is anything that you

779
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 3: wouldn't do in front of your husband or your wife.

780
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: That's what we said.

781
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: Cheating is that's what don't want down to yourself, that

782
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 3: you don't want down to yourself and that you wouldn't

783
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 3: do or in front of them, or you don't want

784
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 3: them to find out. That's cheating basically, right, you don't

785
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 3: have to be said, you don't have to be nothing anything.

786
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 3: You don't want your husband or your wife to find out.

787
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: That's deceit and cheat cheating, Am I right around?

788
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: Yes, no, anybody is cheating because it's.

789
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 5: Let me ask you this, And I'm speaking from a

790
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 5: relationship standpoint because I've never been married.

791
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 3: But relationship, Huh, relationship that thing that you want to

792
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: tell dude or you don't want dude to find out because.

793
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 2: You love him.

794
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, But what I'm saying is I've been in a

795
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 5: relationship where we've openly discussed some ship like that, Like

796
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 5: we might be at the strip club or something and

797
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 5: we might discuss like a girl that might be doable,

798
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 5: that has some things that make her doable or whatever

799
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 5: I'm trying to say.

800
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 6: But like, oh yeah, like you like you.

801
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: Hit that mano. A man will before a woman will.

802
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: A man will.

803
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: A woman has this certain lock on their heart and

804
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 2: their mouth.

805
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 3: Bros In impenetrable, impenetrable, bro. They know they have more

806
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 3: discipline than me to know not to do certain and

807
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 3: say certain ship a nigga be like that shit fact

808
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 3: babe and forget this is bitch.

809
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 2: That's just how niggas feel like a nigga would do that.

810
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 3: The more they are more even though we tell more lies,

811
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 3: we're more honest when it comes down to ship we

812
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: shouldn't do.

813
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:11,720
Speaker 5: But isn't that impenetrable lock something to love even more because.

814
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 6: They have you on that pedestal to where they respects

815
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 6: you that much.

816
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 2: It's a thing line to me. It's a thing line

817
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, it's really like,

818
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 2: I don't know you, bitch. You know, ain't shit.

819
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 5: I know you you're too good, but you don't think

820
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,919
Speaker 5: that it's possible for some people to actually be that good.

821
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 9: It is.

822
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 2: I said that, I said, but it's rare. It's very rare.

823
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 3: Those type of women don't be nowhere around nothing.

824
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 6: That's CAP's being real.

825
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 2: Ain't on social media, you know, like.

826
00:34:55,760 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 3: It's being real, like why are why are you listen?

827
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 3: And I ain't trying ain't get the fun out of here?

828
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 3: Everything really trying to be no massages and none of this. Okay,

829
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 3: why are you posting sexy pictures if you're in the.

830
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: Who do you want to like them? I don't understand this,

831
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 2: Like you got hold up. If you're married and you're

832
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: in a Nazis relationship with your husband, this is the

833
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 2: only man you want.

834
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 6: What the fuck are we see marriage is?

835
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 3: If you're in a relationship, If you're in a committed relationship,

836
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: why are you being Who are you being sexy for?

837
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 2: If you're not being sexy at home? That's why in

838
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 2: a lot of country they got the mother.

839
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: If you're going with.

840
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 2: Picture. But I'm saying if you if you go out

841
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: with a picture and your suit just clean, you just

842
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 2: might want be clean because I won't be hold and

843
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: say I'm clean too. Man out of here.

844
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 3: I putting that ship on. I tell them all holes

845
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 3: on my dip. Baby, you know what I'm saying, Like

846
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 3: for real, that's just that's why we do this ship

847
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 3: Like me, it's just not being Hey, baby, I just

848
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 3: felt sexy that day.

849
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: No bit you want? You all won't like that.

850
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 3: She who's gonna be on the other side of the

851
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 3: DM the jing gonna open? Let's be really for validation

852
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 3: like the girl curve and white.

853
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 2: That's why the other coman that got wrapped up. You

854
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 2: didn't even see what she looked like. What gotta fallow low.

855
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 6: The eye.

856
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 2: Got some big bag and ship on the head wrapped up.

857
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 2: You don't even know what the health color look like.

858
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: You folks. That's about that which is only for me

859
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 2: in my household to me.

860
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to tell them, I'm keeping it real, bro,

861
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: validated by other men too.

862
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 2: That's cheating, damn is it cheating?

863
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: But what is it?

864
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: Then?

865
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 2: I'm just curious?

866
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: What is it?

867
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: If you're seeking attention? What what is it?

868
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: What is it?

869
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 2: Here? Security? Your team making security day every day? I

870
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 2: wake on your beautiful baby. That's not for you to do, bro,

871
00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,479
Speaker 2: But I have a question.

872
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 5: I was so so so a woman can't want to

873
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 5: be sexy and look good for herself.

874
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 2: You sexy? What are we posting it for? You? Look good? Baby?

875
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: You look good? You're sexy? Well, what are we hold up?

876
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: It's Instagram of any and those social media sites. Is

877
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: that attention seeking or what?

878
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, for sure, tell you.

879
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: I'm telling my wife, man, you look good. Put that

880
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 2: ship on. Make sure woo woo.

881
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: I want you to look good listen because it validates

882
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 3: me too, Like, don't get it fucked up, Like when

883
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 3: my wife look good and we out together, that validates

884
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 3: me too, like and bad like I'm a nigga like that.

885
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: My ego is that too. I want a nigga be

886
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 2: like I want your flag. Still you still represent me.

887
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 2: Didn't mind regardless, huh.

888
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 10: That you know what I'm saying, that's contradicting that God

889
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 10: not getting when you're said defining and chating the way

890
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 10: you look, I'm saying when you seeking validation and attention.

891
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 2: Bro to me, that's somewhat. That's not all the way

892
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: one hundred.

893
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 5: But you're saying basically sexy sexy. Getting sexy is.

894
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: Basically saying just getting.

895
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 3: I'm saying, when you're hosting sexy pictures and you're in

896
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 3: a relationship, why okay.

897
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,720
Speaker 5: So if you if you if you the sexy picture,

898
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 5: that's in question, right, if you got sexy to go

899
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 5: out with your friends, you're not supposed to be able

900
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 5: to take a picture of it, yes, I'm saying, But

901
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 5: so going out in public and letting niggas see you

902
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 5: in the sexiness, it's different from letting social media see.

903
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 2: I guess she's not comprehend what I'm saying.

904
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 3: Okay, social media pages and you can't tell if they're

905
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 3: in a relationship or not.

906
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: Those type of women I'm saying in a relationship, okay,

907
00:38:58,640 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: But what's different?

908
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 5: What's different from a bitch on social media posting a

909
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 5: sexy a picture in some sexy clothes, then the bitch

910
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 5: that doesn't have social media that gets sexy and goes

911
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 5: out every night.

912
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 6: What's the difference.

913
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 3: I can't say it's no difference. But the difference is

914
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 3: I ain't promoting this. That's just how I look. I

915
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 3: can't help that.

916
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 6: I'm sexy, So I can't have a Facebook.

917
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 3: I'm saying, I can't help that I'm sexy. Facebook comes

918
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: with likes and comments, all that shit called with lights

919
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 3: are coming. Hey, I'm out about I can just keep

920
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 3: walking if you just and I can feel the validaces.

921
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: But I can keep walking.

922
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 3: But I'm engaging in these lights and in the other

923
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: side of my fucking DM.

924
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 2: How How do you?

925
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,240
Speaker 5: How are you engaging just because they like her comments?

926
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 5: If you don't reply, bags, I'm.

927
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 3: Made a profile if I'm not selling nothing with If

928
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 3: I don't have anything on this thing for sale?

929
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: Whatever?

930
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: What else am myself?

931
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 6: Listen to what I'm saying.

932
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 5: If I have a page and I'm posting pictures and

933
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 5: people are liking or commenting and I'm not responding, that's

934
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,720
Speaker 5: the same thing as me walking away in public.

935
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 2: Not really.

936
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 3: That shit, right though, you can go back to because

937
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 3: you got I consisted nigga for ten years high beautiful

938
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 3: your bitch forever. She'd even say you look beautiful for

939
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 3: seven in months straight. He yeah, she done checked him

940
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 3: out the whole pro SWE's way not sing. But I'm

941
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 3: married though, But he girl, Look he be on me, girl,

942
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 3: He be on me girl.

943
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 2: I see you, but I ain't responding yet. That's still

944
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: a response.

945
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: See. That's why some people be jumping to the next

946
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: situation so fast, when when it don't.

947
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: You bro, thank you brother. It be already right there,

948
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 2: that ship be already right there. Bro. Like, I'm just

949
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: keeping it real. I'm not tripping. You don't got quiet?

950
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: What's that?

951
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 3: Bro? Yeah?

952
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 2: I mean niggas do that.

953
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 3: Say anything else, But let me tell you somethingro I'm

954
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 3: gonna tell you the different women that I'm gonna tell

955
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 3: you different women.

956
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: You can see that you can see the different in

957
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 2: the one percent. Lookat Savana James, mm hmmm mmmm.

958
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 6: She probably plenty of sexy pictures because I'm sexy.

959
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for Vala. No, you're not getting what

960
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Have you ever seen her? An average bitch?

961
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: Have you never seen her? And not one ballad?

962
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 3: Go check her followers if you're big, following all the

963
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 3: top RAPPERD twenty one, the Schnipfel Game twenty one, Future seven.

964
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 2: But she ready to pew.

965
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 6: You can't say that.

966
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: Because she's probably twenty twenty four.

967
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 6: Because she's got bro. That's that's That's how I'm mean.

968
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 6: I'm saying there. That's a mean double standard.

969
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 4: Bro.

970
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 6: I'm just being real, so.

971
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 2: So not understandings.

972
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 3: Bro, It's it's attention seeking, Like I'm saying, these these

973
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 3: other women, you don't even like who I'm saying the

974
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 3: one percent percent. You know she feels as if dope.

975
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 3: She has her team. You can already tell the aural.

976
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 3: I don't know how to explain what I'm saying.

977
00:41:59,640 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: Bro.

978
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 2: Think that check helped with that? I can't say that, bro.

979
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 2: Keeping it one hundred bro and a lot of these women, bro,

980
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 2: and this ship crazy I'll.

981
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 1: Be seeing that huh to the high Schoolah.

982
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 2: Current, I could sound like a god damn food, but

983
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: it's just my perspective.

984
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and make sure you check out perspectives. We're back.

985
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 2: Check that out. Like I'm times, big fact, what I'm

986
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: saying is the truth about You can't say that, bro.

987
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: Bro listen ship too. It's all ship. And you know

988
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is y'all be what I'm trying to

989
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 2: say is uncle ship.

990
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 3: If we break it all the way down to a

991
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: science of things, Bro, everyone is doing something that they

992
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 3: know they make one respect and they don't do it

993
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 3: in front of them, even if it's conversation.

994
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 5: That's cool. But the only point I'm trying to get across,

995
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 5: not trying to overtalk, is the average bitch can validate herself.

996
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 5: That's possible.

997
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 2: That's why you see that.

998
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 3: You don't really even see them the one that validating themself.

999
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 3: You don't see them seeking validation. Like I just said

1000
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,320
Speaker 3: to Bela James, I've never seen that woman seek validation.

1001
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 2: I've never seen it.

1002
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 3: I'm talking for me watching from the outside. I've never

1003
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 3: seen her beat nothing but but a mom and a wife.

1004
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 2: It depels you. It don't go good with a Capricorn

1005
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: trying to do all that.

1006
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 3: And I'm all I see her is being a wife,

1007
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 3: like and I'm just putting it out there like all

1008
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 3: I've seen I hate to use as a jumper.

1009
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 2: That's all I've seen.

1010
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 3: I don't know about the rooms. I don't know about

1011
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: the inside. But yeah, no, So all I've seen this

1012
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: woman would be was a wife.

1013
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is her being a wife and

1014
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 5: her being an excellent, amazing mother, is her validation when

1015
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 5: she wants to look good and when she wants when

1016
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 5: she when they get ready to go out or whatever,

1017
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 5: and or if she goes out with her friends or whatever.

1018
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 5: And she posted She's not posting it to seek attention.

1019
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 5: She's posting it because Hey, I look good and I

1020
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 5: want to post this on my page.

1021
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: Correct, I guess.

1022
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 6: But the average bitch can do the same thing though.

1023
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 6: That's what I'm telling you.

1024
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: Where our town hall on loving relationships with Jay Hull continues.

1025
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 2: Sh what's get touching, bro, Because people don't be being real.

1026
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: That's the problem. That's the problem with relationships. For sure.

1027
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta find that space. I was gonna

1028
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: say a little earlier, Like it always starts with running game,

1029
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: right when you first met Shante. There's a little bit

1030
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: of game there, like you just you know, you're kicking

1031
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: it to them, trying to get them to like you.

1032
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: Whatever the case is, it starts with game. But at

1033
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: what point does it go from game to genuine? I

1034
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: think some people situations don't never go from running game

1035
00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: to genuine.

1036
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 2: But what's jenu?

1037
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: When it is when you start telling the truth about

1038
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: mostly everything, mostly everything? It's more than it.

1039
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 2: Can you tell the truth about every single thing? When

1040
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: you're in a relationship, yes or no? Please answer that somebody?

1041
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: You can't?

1042
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: You can?

1043
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 2: You can, you can't, you can't do you can do?

1044
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: You is a different conversation.

1045
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 2: Do you.

1046
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: I've arrived at that point. I'm not saying day one.

1047
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: I don't think it just happened day one.

1048
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 3: You get this cat, you get there, certain ship You

1049
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 3: just if your wife asked you, some ask you so

1050
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 3: simple ship?

1051
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 2: You okay? You like, yeah, you ain't gonna say hell,

1052
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 2: think about the motherfucker bills that you not don't tell

1053
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 2: the truth about every.

1054
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: Right?

1055
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 2: Right, that's just blank Pard.

1056
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, You're right. I can Yeah, I can't.

1057
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 2: I can't argue with that. You snapped, man, you're not feeling.

1058
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: Just be one thousand percent truthful, bro, with no one.

1059
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 3: If a nigga asked me all right the day, I'm

1060
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: gonna say yeah, because I look, I try every day

1061
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 3: by day Still I'm not alright. But why would I

1062
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 3: keep saying Hell no, Bro, I'm been trying to come

1063
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 3: that ship up right. You just don't tell the truth

1064
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 3: about everything.

1065
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: Now, what you're saying, we as people, bro, we got

1066
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,360
Speaker 1: our own issues that we choose to deal with them alone,

1067
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: no matter how close our personal is to us.

1068
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 2: BRO.

1069
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 6: But I don't. But my thing is, I don't feel

1070
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 6: like anything is wrong with that.

1071
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 2: No, it's nothing wrong with that.

1072
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 3: But when you go to speaking on being in a

1073
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 3: relationship and get to the root of it, you can't tell.

1074
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 2: But there's no way you can tell me you're one

1075
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 2: million percent truth with me. I can't believe that.

1076
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 3: Because there's no way I can do that without hurting

1077
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: your feelings or compromising the relationship.

1078
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 5: So I think it's so what I'm saying is okay

1079
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 5: is and I'm finna end it with this. What I'm

1080
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 5: saying is okay, me telling you that I'm not a

1081
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 5: million percent truthful with you about everything. But my reason

1082
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 5: for not being a million percent truthful with you about

1083
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 5: everything is because of how much I love you and

1084
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 5: the height of the pedestal that I have you on.

1085
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 5: Basically is meaning that I'm not gonna lie to you

1086
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 5: about some some fucking some ship that could be detrimental.

1087
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 3: If you capable of you capable, if you capable of

1088
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 3: living with the seat, You're cabable of living with some

1089
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 3: bad seat.

1090
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: That's just what it is.

1091
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 3: You're cable of lying on my face. You're capable, you

1092
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 3: know how to lie? M What about capable?

1093
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: Bro?

1094
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: What about everybody is one hundred to they proven that

1095
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: they're What about intent though?

1096
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 6: That's what That's all I'm saying this.

1097
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: Malicious intent and there's non malicious intent and lie.

1098
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: Like again, back to the white and the hair thing.

1099
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 6: I feel like lying, lying and not telling me the truth.

1100
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 6: I feel like lying and not telling the truth is

1101
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 6: two different things.

1102
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 2: To place you're lying right along.

1103
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,959
Speaker 5: Lying and not disclosing some things is two different things.

1104
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,919
Speaker 5: If lying is volunteering and untruth not disclosing something.

1105
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 2: Like these shoes and you say they cool, but I

1106
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 2: like the other one.

1107
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 6: That's lying. You're lying, that's lying.

1108
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 3: That's saying that's a lie. Yeah, no matter if you

1109
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 3: said it not to hurt my finish, still told me

1110
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 3: a lie. And some niggas is pet enough to be like,

1111
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 3: I know they been on like the shoes, She'll like,

1112
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 3: I don't try whole say you.

1113
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 5: But if you never asked me about the if you

1114
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 5: never asked me about the shoes and I never give

1115
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 5: you my opinion, I don't.

1116
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 6: Feel like that's the same thing.

1117
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 5: Is you asking me and me telling you that I

1118
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 5: like them, and I don't see no, I said if

1119
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 5: he never asked me and I never volunteered that, I don't.

1120
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 3: Like if I asked you, and you because I asked you.

1121
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: So if I asked you, have you for somebody that

1122
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: you say no, that's cool because.

1123
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: I asked you.

1124
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 5: Know what I'm saying that you just said that as

1125
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 5: long as it doesn't come to your door, you're okay

1126
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 5: with it.

1127
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1128
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 6: But if I asked you, if you ask me, if.

1129
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: You lie feelings, that's a lie, that's okay. No, what

1130
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying, it's the same thing.

1131
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 5: Lie is a lie, A lie is a lie, but

1132
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 5: not l A lie is volunteering information. If you're not,

1133
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 5: if you're not disclosing because you haven't been asked, that's

1134
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 5: two different things broke out of that recently.

1135
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: If I call you and say, baby, did you did you?

1136
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 2: Did you? Did you?

1137
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 3: Did you go pick up my shoes from the dray

1138
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 3: hon be like big, I was only way to get it.

1139
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 3: Don't say that because you're lying. Just say I forgot.

1140
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:44,439
Speaker 3: I'm glad you mine of Finna.

1141
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 2: Go get it out because that likit a lie. It's

1142
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 2: you a TM me in it.

1143
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: That's that's that's that's healthy. Now, that's a health that's

1144
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: a healthy way to I'll deal with that because people

1145
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: that me.

1146
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 3: Good but put a lie in there because they meant good. M.

1147
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,839
Speaker 3: I really forgot for real. But I don't know how

1148
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 3: to tell you I forgot because that gonna make you

1149
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 3: feel less important, like I'm not remembering you.

1150
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 2: No, just tell me you forgot. The road to the

1151
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 2: road to Hell is paid and good intention. M. The

1152
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 2: road to hell was paid with good intention, That's what

1153
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So trust.

1154
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 3: Trust can be broken, especially when you deal with the

1155
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 3: things we deal with as black people. Bannmin issue trauma

1156
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 3: and all that shit. Trust has a very very good line.

1157
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 3: So you could tell me I'm the type of person

1158
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 3: you can tell me a lie about some shit, or

1159
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 3: I could see you lie to another motherfucker and how

1160
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 3: good that lie was, Like I would believe that if I.

1161
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: Ain't know the truth. So now you're just a liar.

1162
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 2: It's hard to get easy to lose.

1163
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: Man.

1164
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:49,959
Speaker 2: Trust is a motherfucker for sure.

1165
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 3: Like it could be simple ship that goes on in

1166
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 3: the house, like should take a talk with her friends

1167
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 3: and hain' gonna be like, man, that bes And I

1168
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 3: was like, man, tell her that, don't hang up with

1169
00:50:58,719 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 3: her and do.

1170
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: That cause I don't feel like that's how you do me.

1171
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 3: You yeah yeah, yeah yeah me heah yeah yeah yeah,

1172
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 3: then hang up the phone tail live when I'm stupid?

1173
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 2: Can't you prush your hand? Hmm? Characters a motherfucker, bro

1174
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 2: just because but our ego tells us they wouldn't do me.

1175
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 2: But you're so good at it.

1176
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: So what you think, what you think a realistic way

1177
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: to move in that space is because the realistic way

1178
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: respect I got you, because the realistic way.

1179
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 6: But respect also warrants.

1180
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 5: Not necessarily saying exactly how you feel at the expense

1181
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 5: of someone's feeling right, But then.

1182
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 3: If it blow up to be a lot, then then

1183
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 3: we deal with that. Then no matter if you respect

1184
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: me or not, I got to deal with how I

1185
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 3: take it in that moment. Like if you come to me,

1186
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 3: if you say, well, baby, ain't tell you this because

1187
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 3: I respect you enough that I ain't want you to

1188
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 3: know that. Hey, well I can't deal with that. I

1189
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 3: appreciate the respect a bit your own with you know,

1190
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 3: you're giving me a choice at the end of the

1191
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 3: day if it blows up. But if it never blows up,

1192
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 3: I gotta take the respect because I.

1193
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: Don't know shoes you say.

1194
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 3: That's in any relationship, bro, that's anything you do. Nothing

1195
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 3: is bad until the person find out. Bro, nobody is

1196
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 3: like a nigga can get caught she he ain't sorry,

1197
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 3: he's sorry you found out anytime somebody get caught doing

1198
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 3: some ship, brother, unless they because because Joel, if you're

1199
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 3: really sorry for it to eat your so bad, you'll

1200
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 3: tell that.

1201
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 2: Person and to deal with the consequence.

1202
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 3: On my trip, I told my short because in you

1203
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 3: you want to be real, I'm just gonna comeut on

1204
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 3: that baby that I'm gonna take my consequences. But a

1205
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 3: nigga holds some ship till she find out. Bro, you

1206
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 3: ain't sorry, Bro, You just sorry you got caught and

1207
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: you're sorry that she's hurt.

1208
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm you will it. Don't give a fuck because

1209
00:52:54,040 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 2: you'll do it again, shikier, the sneakiest man. I'm just

1210
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 2: keeping it real, bro. Like I don't know, Bro, I

1211
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 2: don't know. I guess.

1212
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 3: I guess I just look at ship too deep into ship,

1213
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 3: too petty or whatever. But I haven't seen it, Bro,

1214
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 3: I haven't seen.

1215
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 2: Too many women got there cry like you did do

1216
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 2: me wrong. Hang up the phone and suck a nigga dick.

1217
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 3: That sh happened, Bro, in real life, it's be dass

1218
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 3: crying for real life. Hang on the phone in two

1219
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 3: an twist, let's be here.

1220
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 2: No one has seen that you know on a receiver

1221
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 2: end of it too, that ship will scar you.

1222
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: So is their hope?

1223
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 2: Man? Scar you?

1224
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 3: Man?

1225
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 1: Is there hope?

1226
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 2: General question?

1227
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 3: There's hope because if you find somebody that love you

1228
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 3: enough to respect you, you got your good one.

1229
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 6: And might But how how enough fuck is respecting you enough?

1230
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 2: Brou But do if you think about him.

1231
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 5: Tell you if you find someone that loves you enough

1232
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 5: to respect you for you not to find out, how

1233
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 5: in the fun is that any different from the the

1234
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 5: the person that doesn't give a fuck because either why

1235
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 5: you're getting fucked over it. Either way, you just don't

1236
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 5: know about it.

1237
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 2: Disrespects me. I want you to disrespect you, man, that's

1238
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 2: the one thing that trying to disrespect me. Bro. I can't.

1239
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,319
Speaker 2: I can't worry about something. Them even check your phone,

1240
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 2: inf and and they're gonna have to hit me in

1241
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 2: the faith. And when they do, I'm gonna deal with it.

1242
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 2: I think it's it's levels to it.

1243
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 4: But of course I don't want nobody just fucking off

1244
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 4: on me because they're good at being a liar the sat.

1245
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 3: But you can feel that though, Like if it's something listen,

1246
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 3: if it's something that's telling you something is true, hmm.

1247
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 3: If you have the feeling around a person, bro, and

1248
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 3: you just can't put your hand on it, what it is, Bro,

1249
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 3: You're right, please know that because God.

1250
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 2: Send us signals, our energy send us signals. That's just

1251
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 2: what it is. Bro.

1252
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 3: So if you if if our energy is aligned and

1253
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 3: I'm being respected, I can't be mad at you.

1254
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 2: I can't even guess.

1255
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 3: I can't wonder, I can't do none of that because

1256
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 3: it's all a line. Now if I feel funny and

1257
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 3: your shit feel efficient, Hey, something up. Now we're starting

1258
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 3: to investigate and problem. When you start investigate, you gonna

1259
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 3: find something.

1260
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 4: No, I take the respect her percent because even what

1261
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 4: we're cheating. If feel like, if you respecting me, ain't

1262
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 4: on fucking up a nigga. That's how I look at it.

1263
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 4: But I don't even think about that. Yeah, if you

1264
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 4: respecting me, you're not gonna sucking up a nigga.

1265
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 2: I would hope not. I mean unless you respect me

1266
00:55:58,520 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 2: and fucking over that. I always respect.

1267
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: You say that think about it, but they won't actually

1268
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 1: do it because of the respect.

1269
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I look at it. But when I

1270
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 2: think of respect, I don't even think about that. I

1271
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 2: don't even think about you fucking somebody else.

1272
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 4: I just think about how you interact with me, Like

1273
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 4: that's how I didn't respect, Like are you respectful to me?

1274
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 4: Like even what Benk said about on the phone, I'm

1275
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 4: believing space. I believe that we all should be able

1276
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 4: to be who we want to be in the absence

1277
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 4: of our partner whatever. Right, So like if you like,

1278
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 4: like you said, if you're on the phone and your

1279
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 4: friend piss you off and you hang up and you

1280
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 4: tell me.

1281
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 2: Like, I've just get on my nerves. Cool, Do I

1282
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 2: think I'm exempt? No?

1283
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 4: But I respect your space. So when I do piss

1284
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 4: you off, tell your friend. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1285
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:45,439
Speaker 4: don't try to come back and tell me that, because

1286
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 4: then you're gonna be respectful. Now, I definitely don't want

1287
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 4: to deal with this is hollok at it.

1288
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 3: It's been since I was seventeen years Hey, go in

1289
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 3: the room and talk. Now, Yeah, when your friends call,

1290
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 3: I leave, my friend comes, you leave.

1291
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 2: This is just that's respect. That's how I don't even

1292
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 2: want to know how you interact.

1293
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 3: I don't want to know the girl, like because I

1294
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 3: don't want to look at you in a way that

1295
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: I don't want to look at it, right, I feel.

1296
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 2: That's all look at it like you won't tell you

1297
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: tell me that we ain't gonna be together. It's like

1298
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 2: I don't funk with that. Like, but that's why I

1299
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: believe in space.

1300
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 4: But that's why I guess I was confused because like

1301
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 4: I understand that I'm not fault with you for that, though,

1302
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 4: Like I want you to have your space and I

1303
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 4: want you to be able to do things in an

1304
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 4: absence of me that you wouldn't do it in front

1305
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 4: of me, because if you did it in front of me,

1306
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 4: you disrespected me. Certain sit you shouldn't do in front

1307
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 4: of me, Like if it's a nigga, you would fuck

1308
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 4: if you wasn't with me.

1309
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell your friends that. I don't need to know that.

1310
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: But is that a mass?

1311
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: Though? Said? Is that a What is that like?

1312
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,479
Speaker 2: A mass? Is that like an ego? Is that a mass?

1313
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 1: Is that? I think?

1314
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 2: I think?

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Speaker 1: I think? I think sometimes too, like a marriage relationships,

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Speaker 1: like people get lost, they forget the word individuality. You

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Speaker 1: still are individuals. You connected, correct, but you have some individuality.

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Speaker 5: But do you think that people are together for like

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Speaker 5: all of those years and all of that stuff and

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Speaker 5: remain together without having some sort of entertainment?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what you mean? What type of entertainment?

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Speaker 5: When when I say entertainment, I mean like, oh girl,

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Speaker 5: he's so fine, or oh girl.

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Speaker 2: He's You have to be delusion and think that though

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Speaker 2: it's different idiots.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is if you have a If I

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Speaker 3: have a conversation with Shan tape today, she's gonna say, Baby.

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Speaker 2: I don't looking know the man with you. I'll call

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Speaker 2: it right now. She just see it right now on

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Speaker 2: the phone. Baby, do you ever see you want the fuck?

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Speaker 4: Come on?

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Speaker 2: They don't have no damba shit like that.

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Speaker 3: You know you lying?

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Speaker 2: How not? It's human nature?

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Speaker 1: Is that lie or respect both?

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You're telling the goddamn lie, but you just knowing like

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Speaker 2: he said, he said because I'm not the same way.

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Speaker 2: He's been particular in his words. Right. So Lion is lying,

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Speaker 2: point point period. Does it mean that it's wrong for

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Speaker 2: me and every single time? Maybe not. But at the

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Speaker 2: end of the day, we got that Lion. But Lion

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Speaker 2: is lying, stealing, is stealing? Yeah, I give you, I ain't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We made the whole episode. We're gonna to do this

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Speaker 3: ship over again. I don't know, man, I just I

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Speaker 3: don't know, Bro.

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Speaker 2: I just haven't seen too much of my four de

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Speaker 2: cs y bro. Like I said, I was born this ship.

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Speaker 2: My name ain't my whole family and another nigga name

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Speaker 2: right now. I was born into a lie this nigga.

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Speaker 2: My daddy signed my participate.

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Speaker 6: Ain't my daddy?

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Speaker 2: That ship brings trauma. I'm gonna say, way, Brom, I'm

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Speaker 2: dam to think that.

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Speaker 3: My daddy, me too, my kids, my grandkids, everybody name

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00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 3: holds that ain't my name.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Jones, like big Shot Jones.

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Speaker 3: So how do I how do I supposed to be

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Speaker 3: oblivious to the fact of people could be this way?

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Speaker 4: Bro?

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Speaker 1: But you do understand get given your circumstances, but you

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01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: understand the trauma. You understand it.

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Speaker 2: But let me ask you all this and.

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Speaker 3: This real ship, where is the person that we see

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01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 3: we make up in our mind. Have we ever seen

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01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 3: that person like to be with no just any any

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01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 3: any way in life? You know the standard that we

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Speaker 3: hold people to like.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't you? Shouldn't that? Have we ever seen that

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01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 2: person in real life? M hmm?

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Speaker 1: I stop a long time. If we stop a long

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Speaker 1: time ago, having people gonna be who they are gonna be,

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Speaker 1: and you accepted for who they are.

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Speaker 2: Thank you make up a person in your mind and

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01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 2: stake for not where a lot of people are. That's

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01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 2: not not where a lot of people are, though, Bro.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the way to fix that if we

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Speaker 2: start being the person that we want everybody else to be.

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Speaker 6: Mm.

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01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 3: If we start being, if we correct, if we look

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01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 3: in the mirror and correct everything that we want other

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01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 3: motherfucker to correct, be.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're correct. Damn they're perfect.

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01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, because all we do, we

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01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 3: can see I see so many motherfuckers see when another

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01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 3: motherfucker do wrong, but they can do the same exact

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01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:17,439
Speaker 3: ship and justify.

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Speaker 2: Big facts.

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Speaker 3: So what I'm saying is basically, there ain't nobody perfect,

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01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 3: but ain't nobody gonna be perfect. You can love a

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Speaker 3: motherfucker because the way we love bro is the way

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01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 3: we see that person, Like I.

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Speaker 2: Can love you so much that I can see you

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Speaker 2: the potential of you being perfect.

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01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not gonna happen, though, You're gonna be upset

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01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 3: and let down because you're putting false expectation on another individual.

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01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:51,479
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. That's all true.

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Speaker 1: These are the conversations you can also heal on the

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01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 1: J Hill podcast.

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01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 2: They would like to say about the J Hill podcast

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01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 2: my brother ship, uh, I mean ship.

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Speaker 4: Tune in for real, subscribe to the audio on the

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01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 4: podcast for Real, I said, I appreciate you guys for

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01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 4: having me.

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01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 2: Man, who's your favorite gift so far? Uh?

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01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 4: Probably just hilarious? Okay, yeah, just hilarious. She's like authentically her.

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01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 4: I love somebody that can come up there and just

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01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 4: like beat him. I like my Zoti episode. I like

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Speaker 4: uh fat trail, but I think larious for sure.

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Speaker 2: Who your dream guests that you want to like? Man,

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Speaker 2: I said, I just want to sit out with this person,

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Speaker 2: probably meek mil uh fifty jay z Yeah and that

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01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 2: probably like that. Yeah, it's close. The man, we can't

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01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 2: get out of here. That you got, you gotta come

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01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: up with and do my ship. Let's do it. Bro

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01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 2: told them you told me before you before you even

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01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 2: set up and ship. Yeah that ship because I had

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01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 2: I wanta try and see what camera you had. You

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01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 2: had me looking Christian and I was sick. But then

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Speaker 2: the same one. We wouldn't have got the same. But

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Speaker 2: it's all about had already. Yeah, it's all about the life.

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Speaker 2: You should look good, you know. Now.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to figure this shit out. Man, I

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Speaker 3: wish we could crack the cold stream. I ain't saying

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Speaker 3: that nobody is married to a bad person. What I'm

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01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 3: just saying is everybody you you said the stream, it's individuality. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and people are gonna be there who they uthentically are

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01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 3: when they're in there where they're in their.

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Speaker 1: Safest space, whether it's five, fifteen, twenty, thirty, forty years,

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01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: this person had a life before you and they started

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01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: to create their individuality before you. You got to accept

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01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: that at some point.

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Speaker 2: That is man.

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Speaker 1: Jay Hill, salute to you. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you check out the j Hill Podcast. Check

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Speaker 1: us out to Triple W dot Big factspod dot com.

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Speaker 1: You know what it is.

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Speaker 2: Salute Nick Brain.

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Speaker 3: Now visit the new website today, Big faxpod dot com,

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