WEBVTT - Making the Rounds: “Annual Check-up” (October 2017) 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:04.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:14.160 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We are going back 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:15.440 to twenty seventeen. 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:18.960 Yes, we are a what a what a year to 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.720 be alive? Yeah, twenty seventeen. I think we like had 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:23.320 good mojo. 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.920 Well it's interesting you say that because we are doing 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:33.199 a re Listen today to episode seven, which was titled 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:38.240 Annual Checkup, and in speaking about mojo, you were talking 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.720 about how you just got your mojo back. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.320 In this episode because I was getting hit on and 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:43.800 I was listening to it and I was like, wow, 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.120 what a time to be me, because I remember I 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:48.120 was getting hit on left and right, Like these hot 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:51.239 guys that I wouldn't even think would ever hit on 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:53.080 me were like hitting on me. I went to a 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.280 baby shower, which was it was a co ed baby shower, 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:57.440 and I got hit on at the baby shower. 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:02.480 I was like thriving, I'm your advice on Like what 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:05.039 there was an email? Okay, First of all, it made 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.800 me realize that we get so many emails we have 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:11.199 to like through them and pick the ones we wanted. 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.039 So like, we need y'all to get back into the 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.040 routine of sending emails because that was fun. 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:16.000 Yeah, it was fun. 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.640 Not fun that y'all are struggling or need advice on things, 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.679 but fun for us to read. 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:22.040 I don't remember that at all. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:27.399 So I was reading Yeah, yeah, I don't know when 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:30.520 we made that switch, but I I was reading the email. 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.480 It's wordy. It's a lot of work you do. Yeah, 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:37.640 but it was funny because your advice to someone on 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.560 like I don't know if the question was like how 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:41.679 to get my mojor or whatever, but you're like, just 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:45.160 look up and say hi or smile, Just look up 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:48.160 and smile. Well, great advice. 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:52.720 No, I still stand by that advice. Actually, it's so funny. 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:55.120 On Sofia, when it was Sofia's birthday a couple of 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.400 weeks ago, I posted this like video of her right, 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:00.240 and the still photo that I chose of the two 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:01.720 of us was this photo that I had on my 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:06.480 hinge profile and Robbie screenshoted it and he said it 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.120 to me, and he goes, this was the picture on 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:11.200 your hinge profile that made me really like like you 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:13.480 because I could tell your personality from this photo. You 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:18.280 seem so such a happy go lucky, like fun loving girl. 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.120 And I was like, yeah, and I'm in this photo, 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:23.600 I'm smiling. I'm not smising or like you know, posing 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.079 like trying to be all hot. I'm just enjoying my life. 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:27.120 There's a lesson there. 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.000 Yeah, isn't that a lesson to be learned? 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.240 I try I tell that to my kids because they're like, oh, 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:34.240 I hate that photo. Oh my gosh, that's you being real, 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:36.800 that's you being natural, that's your actual smile like I 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:37.079 was doing. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:38.280 I had my hand up and I was kind of 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:40.520 going like you know, like a like a thing, and 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.600 I just was like having a good time. And that's 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:45.160 the photo that like He's like, I could feel your energy. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:48.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, that's what we're looking for as 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:50.959 as people, not even as guys looking for women. And 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.680 then goes the other way too. We want to know 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:55.120 who you actually are, not who you want the world 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:55.799 to think you are. 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:56.200 Yeah. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.440 So I still stand by that advice. I gave Tim 0:02:58.440 --> 0:02:59.320 a look up and smile. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.320 Great, great to hear it. Yeah. Well. The air day 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:06.560 was October thirty first, twenty seventeen. I had just gotten 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:10.400 back from Nashville for my birthday, where Klein was born, yes, 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:14.520 and so there was a lot of like Klin content 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:16.720 being talked about, and you were just like are you? 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:20.400 And Amy were like horrified over the Kline costume. Who 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.360 knew that that would still be around all these years later? 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:24.040 Who knew? 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:24.760 Not mean? 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.000 Kind interesting that you were talking about hitting on some 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:28.160 girl at the party. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:31.240 No, that was not I kind of laughed at that too. 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.960 She was so mean. I'm still traumatized from that girl. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.480 Oh really, her name was Mary Margaret or something. She's 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.680 so scary. She got kicked out the party. I can't 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:41.240 remember what she there was like a fight. I was 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.240 so drunk. I don't know what happened, but she ended 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:46.520 up leaving. She was like, They're like, they kicked me 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:50.520 out because of you, And I was just gonna like, sorry, no, no, no, 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.160 I'm outside because I'm wasted. I don't know what happened 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.680 in there. Oh wow, But yeah, I was like, Now 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:57.720 that I think about it, I think I was very annoying. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.320 But it was not hitting on a girl a way 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.960 that now you would be like, oh, Becca was hitting 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.080 on a girl. Not like that. Okay, I would have 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:08.520 had more swag than that. Oh that's right. But the 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:14.520 episode description doctor beca doctor Doctor Becat checks the vital 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:18.000 signs on Whole Foods Guy and Instagram Guy. Then it's 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.159 trick or treat time in the o R as Becka 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.560 dresses like a man and introduces her alter ego Cline. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:27.560 The search for cures continues for the long distance relationship 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:31.840 and the epidemic over of over analyzing text messages, and 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:34.880 finally old wounds reopen as Becca has dinner with her 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:40.880 ex Robert. That was when Robert and I went and 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:43.760 had dinner and he got pants made. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.880 For me, remember all the cozy one. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:51.080 He got them made like cozy, like he sourced the 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.960 material because I talked about I couldn't find these pants 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.479 they did. I had gotten these pants that my mom 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:58.480 got me for Christmas the year before and they were 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.479 my favorite pants and they didn't sell them anymore. So 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.360 I was like they were so ugly. They're really ugly, yeah, 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:05.719 but like the coziest material. And so he went to 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.520 downtown LA and had two pairs made for me and 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.720 they said Becca's pants on the time. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.400 He's the best, the best. 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:17.760 But like we I was kind of in a place 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:22.599 where I think we were still had the connection, but 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:24.920 it was like, is this really going to go anywhere? 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.640 I was kind of in this like in between place, 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.400 and you had just gone on a date with Whole 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:30.000 Foods guy. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:31.440 Yeah, and. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:35.880 What was the story? You met him at a Whole Foods. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.400 No, So we made eyes with each other, like a 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:41.160 look up and smiled yes, exactly like that. But we 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.520 had like kind of had this eye thing going on 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:46.600 for quite a while, Like we'd see each other Whole 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:48.240 Foods all the time and we'd make eyes at each other, 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:50.120 you know, like you see someone you're like, you know, hey, 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:54.039 like the heye. So we were doing that for weeks, 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.520 and I was like, what am I doing? I'm just 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.839 making eyes with this guy. I'm going to just do 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:02.479 it one day. And actually I was sitting outside of 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.160 Whole Foods and eating my soup. I was waiting for 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.480 you to pick me up to go to the Hollywood 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.679 Bowl for some concert or something, okay, And he sat 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.040 down at a table not next to me, but like 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.520 two down for me, and I was like, you know what, 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:16.320 now is my time? I have an out? Beck is 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:19.040 coming to pick me up shortly in an uber, I'm 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.880 just gonna do it. And so I, instead of making eyes, 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.320 I talked to him, and I gave him my number 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.600 right then and there, and then no went on a date, 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:28.400 and then we went on a date. But it was 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:30.840 nothing you were like. 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.200 We there was not a single thing that we had 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:34.040 in commonly. 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:34.880 Was like single thing. 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:38.039 Stayed up late and this was the time where you 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:39.360 were going to bed like seven. 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.520 Yeah, and he I remember, I remember he didn't own 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:45.120 a television. Yeah, that was pretty interesting, which is not 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:46.960 a deal breaker. But I was like okay. And then 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.320 on the weekends all he did was like swim. He's like, yeah, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.200 I get it. He would like go to like this wherever. 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:53.440 That was his workout. 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:54.880 No, that was like his thing, Like he was like 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.359 swim all day, like he like loved swimming. And I 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:00.880 was like, okay, I mean not getting these were deal breakers, 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.360 but like Adam and then he was like atheist. Yeah, 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.120 it's one thing to be different religions. It's another thing 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:10.880 to be atheist. So it's just kind of that's interesting 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.280 to me. No judgement that is trying to date you. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.160 But I do find that interesting that why that is 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:19.080 different to you because it's still not the same thing 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:19.760 you believe. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:24.160 Yeah, I agree, I don't. It was it was very jarring. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:25.640 I don't know, I feel like at the time it 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.920 was very I feel like to use the word atheist 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:33.400 seems very like like I don't believe in God and 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:35.000 I don't believe in any of that. Like it just 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.440 seems very like abrasive in a way. 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:40.200 Yeah, looking for faith of some kind in a higher right. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:44.080 Right, Yeah, Yeah, it just felt very like jarring. 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:48.440 Yeah. And then, uh, what some of the other things 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:51.520 we talked about. Yeah, there was a guy that I 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.360 went on a What did I say about the guy 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:56.240 who was nicknamed Arnold Schwartzinger. 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:57.840 I don't know. You were gonna get into it the 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:01.520 next podcast, so Cliffhanger, but you were talking about someone. 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:03.720 That was like stay duned for re listened to episode 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.080 eight five years. 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.440 Are you talking about Arnold Swarzenegger? And I was like, 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:08.840 I don't even remember who that was. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:10.920 I think he was the personal trainer guy that I 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:11.800 dated a little bit. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:16.400 I don't even remember his name. Oh wait, do you 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:19.880 remember his name? No, that's a no. 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:24.240 Wait, there's two people now that I feel like I 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.160 thought it was one guy, and now I'm thinking it's 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:28.840 another guy. He's not married and stuff. So the guy 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.880 I think it is. He was like, this guy did 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:35.440 this Tarzan thing with this like mud run thing. It 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:40.040 was like a brand, right. He was like so big, 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.400 he was like a bodybuilder right right, and he was 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:45.280 so nice and really cute. But I think I said 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:46.880 that he liked that I dressed this klin or some 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:48.360 like he thought it was funny that I dressed as 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:51.840 a dude. Uh huh, and uh. I was kind of like, yeah, 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.080 we were like chit chatting again, he texted me, but 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:58.400 clearly it didn't go anywhere. Yeah, I know. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.640 I also think it's funny to kind of like, obviously 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:03.560 there's those people that we remember from our past, but 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.800 there's gonna be the tons of ones that like we're 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.040 such flash in the pans that we don't even remember. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:14.240 Yeah, but the fact that we gave him a nickname. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:18.360 Normally we didn't do nicknames for people unless they had any. 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:20.360 But but I don't really mister whole Food just like 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:21.680 a month, but we went. 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:23.040 On a date with him. I guess I went on 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:26.040 a date with this guy. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, I 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.480 think I think a lot of it was what really 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:31.199 struck me was we were talking about I was saying, 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:35.400 like I just want someone that is long distance, Like 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.280 I need a relationships that is long distance. 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:40.520 Yeah, that's the only way that were to be in 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:43.840 a relationship that was long distance. And cut to you're 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.199 in a somewhat of a long distance relationship now and 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:47.839 you hate it. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:53.360 Yeah, so careful what you wish for, because you'd never 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:57.320 know what you really want. So true, No, it's so true. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:10:01.040 Like it was so I think what I was so 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:04.400 scared of, Like I don't even know if I was 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:06.480 scared of, like giving my heart to someone. I just 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:10.560 hadn't experienced it. So it felt so unfamiliar that I thought, oh, 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.360 it'll be so nice to have my space. I don't 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:16.400 want to feel like smothered or you know, like I 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.600 have to give my time to someone else. Yeah, but 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:22.880 then it happens. Then you're so happy to give your 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:28.000 time to someone else, but they're gone. I did. 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:29.800 I really picked up on that because it was like 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:35.240 such a drastic proclamation. Yeah, another big word. Thank you 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.280 on the podcast about wanting to be in a long 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:40.960 distance relationship and now you. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:42.920 Like, actually are I manifested it? 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:43.480 You did? 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:46.920 But in like the it was like a horrible manifestation 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:53.760 for myself. But it was just funny listening to all 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:58.320 the things that I was so certain that I wanted 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.760 and who I was at that time, and like it 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:03.720 was like weird was listening to I felt like I 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:06.480 was listening to a different person when I was relistening 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:09.240 to it a little bit. Really, yeah, just like I mean, 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.520 that's that was almost six years ago. Like that's so 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.200 much happened has happened in those six years, and it's 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:17.840 like crazy to think. And it's also weird to think 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:21.360 that I just met Haley less than a year later, Right, 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.319 It wasn't like that long after, because that was October 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:28.280 twenty seventeen. I met Haley April twenty eighteen. So it's 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.760 just kind of weird how like quickly that turned. That 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:33.320 was right before I got Phoebe, Like I didn't have 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.680 Phoebe yet. It was just like my life has changed 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.960 so much since then, and it was funny listening to 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:40.640 me just be like the man I wanted. 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.679 Okay, I have a question, Okay, we should take a 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:46.120 break first. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:12:02.960 Oh, let's take a break, all right. 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.800 So you listening to you from six years ago, it 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.559 seemed like it was a different person. Yes, if there 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.400 was a way to swap that if Becca from twenty 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.800 seventeen could listen to a podcast from twenty twenty three, 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:19.240 uh and hear that you are now not only dating 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:22.199 a woman named Haley, but so hung up on her 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:23.760 that you don't know what to do with yourself because 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:26.000 she's out of town for a month. How would she 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:28.160 feel shook? 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:29.800 Like? 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:35.120 Literally, I don't think that that person would believe that, Like, 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:40.760 I don't think that that was ever gonna be a possibility. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:44.520 I literally for many years thought Becca just like didn't 0:12:44.559 --> 0:12:45.960 have the love chip in her. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:47.120 Like, I literally that's true. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:50.439 You did, no, Because I was like, I was explaining 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.760 this like feeling of love and you were like, yeah, no, 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:54.520 I just I don't think I can. I'm not gonna 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.200 guess we were going through the whole Robert thing, yeah, 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:58.880 and you were like, but it's just and I go, 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:03.079 maybe you just don't have that chip. Just turns out 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:03.880 it was just not the. 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:08.119 Yeah, the chip had to be activated by the right person. Yeah, 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.120 but yeah, I don't think that. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:14.440 But that's it. That was until you, until you met Hayley, 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:17.480 that never would have even occurred to you that in 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.280 six years you could be dating a woman. 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.840 Right that in six years, I would have been with 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:23.960 a woman for five years. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:28.880 Yeah, that's incredible, that's crazy, but it is. 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:32.959 I I do think it's nice to listen to that 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:36.040 with the perspective not saying that if you're if you 0:13:36.080 --> 0:13:38.600 haven't met, like, if you haven't fallen in love with 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.320 a man, that like it must be that you're gonna 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:42.200 end up with a woman, That's what I'm saying, but 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:47.600 that once you meet the person, yes, yes, it can 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:49.360 change everything. Well. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:52.440 It was also darring for me too because at first, 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:54.640 and I didn't necessarily say in this episode, but the 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:59.240 fact that he was atheist what was such a deal breaker? 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:03.200 And for so long not being Christian was also the 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:06.320 same deal breaker. And now I'm like dating a Persian 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:08.480 Jewish guy. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.680 Did he use the word atheist that guy? Yeah? Yeah, 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:15.640 that word is very off putting. It is that word. 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.040 It is the word. It's not even so much what 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.520 it I mean. I think, if if you want to 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:22.440 date someone that believes in a higher power and that's 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:22.880 important to. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.720 You, whatever other ways to say it, like I don't 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:26.920 really have faith or I don't really believe in anything, like, 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:28.800 there's different ways to say. And I think when you 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:30.800 say like I'm an atheist. Like it's like. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:34.040 It's like you're looking for an argument. 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.600 Yeah, God does feel that way. I will. Yeah, yeah, 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:40.720 not that that's the meaning of it. But that's I 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.600 think how it's taken a lot of times. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.840 I was raised without religion, and that's what I would say. 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.640 To people, so you wouldn't say you're agnostic. 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:50.880 I don't like any of those you used to No, 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.360 I only because we'd bring it up around the staff 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:54.880 or whatever. But I don't like to use that. I've 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:56.920 never liked to use that word because people associated with 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:57.720 like Satan. 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:02.640 Worship, but Satan worship is still believing. 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:06.880 That opposite them, Satan worship. But yeah, they do associated 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:09.920 with like evil. Yeah, and so I tried not to us. 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:13.280 Not knowing like that's an agnostic way. 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:14.000 Yeah, I don't know. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:18.560 I don't thinks like I just don't know science or something. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:20.960 Label stuff. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.560 Yeah, we don't need labels. We don't need labels for everything. 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.920 I did find that interesting, like back then it was 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.800 so he has to be Christian er, that's it. 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:34.480 Believe me. I found an old prayer journal the other 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:42.360 day and it was my list of non negotiables. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.160 You should find that yeah, what do you. 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:50.680 Mean, she's it's like what is it like fit man 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:57.440 or something like muscle man and like tall tall guy. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:58.400 I don't know. 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:00.960 No musical talent. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:06.160 Yeah no, I've always never okay, yeah, sure, always liked musicians. 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:09.680 So that's been consistent. I've been very consistent with that. 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:13.480 All right, Well, let's play a game. Okay, that was 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:18.440 six years ago, So let's make some predictions for twenty 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:22.000 twenty nine. Oh my gosh, so when we do this 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.160 relive in twenty twenty nine, Han, I write that down? 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:24.600 Old? 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:26.840 Will I be in twenty twenty nine? If I'm thirty five? 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.640 Now, you were born in eighty four years forty. 0:16:29.400 --> 0:16:30.680 One, so I'll be forty one. 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:34.760 Okay, No, six years from now, So were you born 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.760 in eighty seven? Yeah, so you'll be forty two. 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:41.720 I'll be forty two, and you'll be forty one or 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:45.320 forty forty thirty. Yeah, that took us way too long. 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.880 Well, you know, we even said on this podcast there's 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:51.400 a conversation about math, that we were not good at it. 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:53.640 So we've stayed consistent there. 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:57.000 Okay, one of the predictions. 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:59.280 Well I guess, I guess, So I just just make 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:01.720 a couple of states about your life in the year 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:06.560 twenty twenty nine, and but the world in general, if 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:07.000 you'd like. 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:07.800 Kind of scared too? 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:14.720 Yeah, me too? Like, what do I not want to happen? 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:15.480 Right right? 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:23.120 I'm gonna be miserable, Tanya. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.439 Are you married in twenty twenty nine for sure? Are 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:28.479 you married to Robbie in twenty twenty nine four? Are 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:31.080 you married to Robbie in twenty twenty nine? Great? Do 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.800 you have kids of your own in twenty twenty nine? Yes, 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:34.800 more than one? 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:36.439 I don't know. 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:40.919 I don't know about that. I'm going to see, Well. 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:43.240 If she's married to Robbie, she'll have three kids. If 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:45.879 that's the case, well, right, I'm true, okay. 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.880 True, But I think whether I'll have more than one 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:51.440 of my own is up to it's in biology. Yeah, 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:54.040 about God's hands, Like, I don't know. I mean I 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:56.440 would think people are having babies in their forties now, 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:57.280 Oh yeah? 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:59.959 Sure. Are you still living in Los Angeles? 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:00.760 Yes? 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:03.200 Are you still working for iHeartRadio? 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:05.760 Yes? 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:07.399 If you're not, then we won't be able to look 0:18:07.440 --> 0:18:11.560 back on these predictions. Yeah, scrubbing in yeah, okay, what else? 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:12.719 Anything else we need to ask you? 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:14.720 My hashimotos is gone. 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:16.840 Gone, breath completely gone. 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:18.280 Yeah, reverse naturally. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.560 So what are your issues? It's like what we're painting 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:24.359 is kind of a utopia. It's like perfect twenty twenty nine, 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:28.080 happily married, kid's job, everything's great. But what are your concerns? 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:29.600 What are your problems in twenty twenty nine? 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:32.080 You know, it's interesting as I have the more conversations 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:34.680 and we're talking more about the kid conversation, I do 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:36.719 like I'm looking at people with kids and I'm like, oh, 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:38.880 they make it look so easy. Like, look, I do 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.320 feel like I'm I'm going to have a hard time 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:43.359 just because of how attached I am to my dog, 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:49.159 balancing a baby and like anything else. Well, because I 0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:50.240 feel like I'm going to be buried. 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:51.680 You won't be so tested to your dog once the 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:53.119 baby comes from No, I'm not saying that. 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:54.840