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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We are going back

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Speaker 2: to twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we are a what a what a year to

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Speaker 3: be alive? Yeah, twenty seventeen. I think we like had

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Speaker 3: good mojo.

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Speaker 2: Well it's interesting you say that because we are doing

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Speaker 2: a re Listen today to episode seven, which was titled

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Speaker 2: Annual Checkup, and in speaking about mojo, you were talking

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Speaker 2: about how you just got your mojo back.

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Speaker 3: In this episode because I was getting hit on and

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Speaker 3: I was listening to it and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 3: what a time to be me, because I remember I

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Speaker 3: was getting hit on left and right, Like these hot

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Speaker 3: guys that I wouldn't even think would ever hit on

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Speaker 3: me were like hitting on me. I went to a

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Speaker 3: baby shower, which was it was a co ed baby shower,

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Speaker 3: and I got hit on at the baby shower.

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Speaker 2: I was like thriving, I'm your advice on Like what

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Speaker 2: there was an email? Okay, First of all, it made

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Speaker 2: me realize that we get so many emails we have

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Speaker 2: to like through them and pick the ones we wanted.

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Speaker 2: So like, we need y'all to get back into the

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Speaker 2: routine of sending emails because that was fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was fun.

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Speaker 2: Not fun that y'all are struggling or need advice on things,

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Speaker 2: but fun for us to read.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember that at all.

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Speaker 2: So I was reading Yeah, yeah, I don't know when

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Speaker 2: we made that switch, but I I was reading the email.

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Speaker 2: It's wordy. It's a lot of work you do. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but it was funny because your advice to someone on

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Speaker 2: like I don't know if the question was like how

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Speaker 2: to get my mojor or whatever, but you're like, just

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Speaker 2: look up and say hi or smile, Just look up

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Speaker 2: and smile. Well, great advice.

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Speaker 3: No, I still stand by that advice. Actually, it's so funny.

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Speaker 3: On Sofia, when it was Sofia's birthday a couple of

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Speaker 3: weeks ago, I posted this like video of her right,

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Speaker 3: and the still photo that I chose of the two

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Speaker 3: hinge profile and Robbie screenshoted it and he said it

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Speaker 3: to me, and he goes, this was the picture on

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Speaker 3: your hinge profile that made me really like like you

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Speaker 3: because I could tell your personality from this photo. You

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Speaker 3: seem so such a happy go lucky, like fun loving girl.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, and I'm in this photo,

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Speaker 3: I'm smiling. I'm not smising or like you know, posing

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Speaker 3: like trying to be all hot. I'm just enjoying my life.

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Speaker 1: There's a lesson there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't that a lesson to be learned?

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Speaker 1: I try I tell that to my kids because they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I hate that photo. Oh my gosh, that's you being real,

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Speaker 1: that's you being natural, that's your actual smile like I

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Speaker 1: was doing.

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Speaker 3: I had my hand up and I was kind of

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Speaker 3: I just was like having a good time. And that's

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Speaker 3: the photo that like He's like, I could feel your energy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, that's what we're looking for as

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Speaker 1: as people, not even as guys looking for women. And

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Speaker 1: then goes the other way too. We want to know

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Speaker 1: who you actually are, not who you want the world

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Speaker 1: to think you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I still stand by that advice. I gave Tim

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Speaker 3: a look up and smile.

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Speaker 2: Great, great to hear it. Yeah. Well. The air day

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Speaker 2: was October thirty first, twenty seventeen. I had just gotten

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Speaker 2: back from Nashville for my birthday, where Klein was born, yes,

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Speaker 2: and so there was a lot of like Klin content

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Speaker 2: being talked about, and you were just like are you?

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Speaker 2: And Amy were like horrified over the Kline costume. Who

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Speaker 2: knew that that would still be around all these years later?

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Speaker 3: Who knew?

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Speaker 2: Not mean?

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Speaker 3: Kind interesting that you were talking about hitting on some

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Speaker 2: No, that was not I kind of laughed at that too.

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Speaker 2: She was so mean. I'm still traumatized from that girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, her name was Mary Margaret or something. She's

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Speaker 2: so scary. She got kicked out the party. I can't

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Speaker 2: remember what she there was like a fight. I was

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Speaker 2: so drunk. I don't know what happened, but she ended

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Speaker 2: out because of you, And I was just gonna like, sorry, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm outside because I'm wasted. I don't know what happened

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Speaker 2: in there. Oh wow, But yeah, I was like, Now

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Speaker 2: that I think about it, I think I was very annoying.

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Speaker 2: But it was not hitting on a girl a way

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Speaker 2: that now you would be like, oh, Becca was hitting

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Speaker 2: on a girl. Not like that. Okay, I would have

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Speaker 2: had more swag than that. Oh that's right. But the

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Speaker 2: episode description doctor beca doctor Doctor Becat checks the vital

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Speaker 2: signs on Whole Foods Guy and Instagram Guy. Then it's

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Speaker 2: trick or treat time in the o R as Becka

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Speaker 2: dresses like a man and introduces her alter ego Cline.

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Speaker 2: The search for cures continues for the long distance relationship

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Speaker 2: and the epidemic over of over analyzing text messages, and

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Speaker 2: finally old wounds reopen as Becca has dinner with her

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Speaker 2: ex Robert. That was when Robert and I went and

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Speaker 2: had dinner and he got pants made.

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Speaker 3: For me, remember all the cozy one.

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Speaker 2: He got them made like cozy, like he sourced the

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Speaker 2: material because I talked about I couldn't find these pants

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Speaker 2: they did. I had gotten these pants that my mom

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Speaker 2: got me for Christmas the year before and they were

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Speaker 2: my favorite pants and they didn't sell them anymore. So

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Speaker 2: I was like they were so ugly. They're really ugly, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but like the coziest material. And so he went to

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Speaker 2: they said Becca's pants on the time.

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Speaker 3: He's the best, the best.

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Speaker 2: But like we I was kind of in a place

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Speaker 2: it was like, is this really going to go anywhere?

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Speaker 2: I was kind of in this like in between place,

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Speaker 2: and you had just gone on a date with Whole

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: What was the story? You met him at a Whole Foods.

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Speaker 3: No, So we made eyes with each other, like a

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Speaker 3: look up and smiled yes, exactly like that. But we

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Speaker 3: like the heye. So we were doing that for weeks,

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Speaker 3: it one day. And actually I was sitting outside of

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Speaker 3: just gonna do it. And so I, instead of making eyes,

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Speaker 3: I talked to him, and I gave him my number

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Speaker 3: right then and there, and then no went on a date,

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Speaker 3: and then we went on a date. But it was

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Speaker 3: nothing you were like.

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Speaker 2: We there was not a single thing that we had

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Speaker 2: Stayed up late and this was the time where you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he I remember, I remember he didn't own

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Speaker 3: a television. Yeah, that was pretty interesting, which is not

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Speaker 3: a deal breaker. But I was like okay. And then

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Speaker 3: on the weekends all he did was like swim. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I get it. He would like go to like this wherever.

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Speaker 2: That was his workout.

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Speaker 3: No, that was like his thing, Like he was like

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Speaker 3: was like, okay, I mean not getting these were deal breakers,

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Speaker 3: it's one thing to be different religions. It's another thing

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Speaker 3: to be atheist. So it's just kind of that's interesting

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Speaker 3: to me. No judgement that is trying to date you.

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Speaker 2: But I do find that interesting that why that is

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Speaker 2: you believe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, I don't. It was it was very jarring.

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Speaker 3: seems very like like I don't believe in God and

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Speaker 3: I don't believe in any of that. Like it just

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Speaker 3: seems very like abrasive in a way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, looking for faith of some kind in a higher right.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, Yeah, it just felt very like jarring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And then, uh, what some of the other things

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You were gonna get into it the

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Speaker 3: next podcast, so Cliffhanger, but you were talking about someone.

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Speaker 2: That was like stay duned for re listened to episode

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about Arnold Swarzenegger? And I was like,

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Speaker 2: clearly it didn't go anywhere. Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: I also think it's funny to kind of like, obviously

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Speaker 3: there's those people that we remember from our past, but

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Speaker 3: there's gonna be the tons of ones that like we're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but the fact that we gave him a nickname.

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Speaker 2: Normally we didn't do nicknames for people unless they had any.

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Speaker 3: But but I don't really mister whole Food just like

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Speaker 3: a month, but we went.

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Speaker 2: On a date with him. I guess I went on

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Speaker 2: a date with this guy. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, I

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Speaker 2: think I think a lot of it was what really

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Speaker 2: struck me was we were talking about I was saying,

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Speaker 2: like I just want someone that is long distance, Like

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Speaker 2: I need a relationships that is long distance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the only way that were to be in

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Speaker 3: a relationship that was long distance. And cut to you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so careful what you wish for, because you'd never

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Speaker 3: You, whatever other ways to say it, like I don't

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Speaker 1: I was raised without religion, and that's what I would say.

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Speaker 3: I don't thinks like I just don't know science or something.

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Speaker 1: You should find that yeah, what do you.

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Speaker 1: No musical talent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, I've always never okay, yeah, sure, always liked musicians.

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Speaker 2: So that's been consistent. I've been very consistent with that.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's play a game. Okay, that was

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Speaker 1: six years ago, So let's make some predictions for twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty nine. Oh my gosh, so when we do this

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Speaker 2: Old?

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Speaker 3: Will I be in twenty twenty nine? If I'm thirty five?

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Speaker 1: Now, you were born in eighty four years forty.

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Speaker 3: One, so I'll be forty one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, six years from now, So were you born

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Speaker 3: I'll be forty two, and you'll be forty one or

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, we even said on this podcast there's

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Speaker 1: Well I guess, I guess, So I just just make

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Speaker 3: Kind of scared too?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too? Like, what do I not want to happen?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be miserable, Tanya.

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Speaker 1: Are you married in twenty twenty nine for sure? Are

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Speaker 1: you married to Robbie in twenty twenty nine four? Are

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Speaker 1: you married to Robbie in twenty twenty nine? Great? Do

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Speaker 1: you have kids of your own in twenty twenty nine? Yes,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that. I'm going to see, Well.

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Speaker 2: If she's married to Robbie, she'll have three kids. If

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Speaker 3: True, But I think whether I'll have more than one

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sure. Are you still living in Los Angeles?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Are you still working for iHeartRadio?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: If you're not, then we won't be able to look

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Speaker 1: back on these predictions. Yeah, scrubbing in yeah, okay, what else?

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Speaker 3: My hashimotos is gone.

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Speaker 1: Gone, breath completely gone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, reverse naturally.

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Speaker 1: So what are your issues? It's like what we're painting

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Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting as I have the more conversations

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Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is I think I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Good, all right, your turned Tilly? Are you married in

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Speaker 2: The marriage things.

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Speaker 1: Are tricky for me, though, I mean, this says so

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Speaker 2: Less than yeah, but Tanya wants to get married. It's

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Speaker 3: Okay, do your next question?

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Speaker 1: Well, the next ones would have been are you married

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Speaker 1: So you're still we don't know if you're married.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like, oh, I want to get married and

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Speaker 2: Things no, but I want to be with her, so

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Speaker 1: Have you two discussed this? Yeah, and you're kind of

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Speaker 2: If she was like, that's really important to me, I

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Speaker 1: Why not getting married if you want to spend the

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Speaker 2: What was just like a piece of paper Now, no.

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Speaker 3: It's like a lot of money for a party.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sure, we'll go with yes, yes, married to Haley in

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Speaker 1: twenty nine? Do you have children in twenty nine.

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Speaker 2: As of right now? I hope not. I'm babysitting Tanya's child.

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Speaker 1: Nah you are?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sure? Why not?

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Speaker 1: Oh at the time. Oh, I see what you're saying.

442
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: I see there's nothing wrong with saying no to that.

443
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:52,919
Speaker 1: I don't think no.

444
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I no. I don't think there's anything

445
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 2: wrong with not wanting that. But it could go. I mean,

446
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. A lot has changed since the last

447
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,400
Speaker 2: time we made predictions. So I'm just like, I might

448
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 2: have three kids.

449
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 1: That's the fun part of this, because we.

450
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Speaker 2: Don't think so I don't think.

451
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:18,239
Speaker 1: So Okay, all right, what vocationally speaking, do you have

452
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 1: a job other than what you're doing now?

453
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 2: I hope so. I hope to have like a brand

454
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,160
Speaker 2: or something that i've I hope I have a routine,

455
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 2: you know, like a consistent I mean, I don't know

456
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 2: where social media is going to go by that point.

457
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 1: Like an office to go to. Are you looking for

458
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: or are you looking for.

459
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 2: An office at all? Have a home office, but something

460
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 2: where I'm like consistently working that's not dependent on social media.

461
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 2: I see, but I don't know if a lot of

462
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 2: people get what I do. But I my job is

463
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 2: like technically, I guess the term is influencer, but like

464
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 2: it's working with brands on social media. So that is

465
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 2: how I make a living. And so not knowing at

466
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Speaker 2: any point that what where the direction of is going.

467
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 3: I don't see that going anywhere anytime soon.

468
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it might be like just like blogging in

469
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: my forties.

470
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 3: Just just a new set of stuff.

471
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 2: Ye yeah, new new types of new brand right, like

472
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Speaker 2: pre menopausal.

473
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 3: Okay, when do you go through menopause later than forties?

474
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

475
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 2: Late forties, early fifties, fifties, Yeah, no, I think even

476
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 2: like until like sixties.

477
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, really really, I thought most go through it now.

478
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 2: No, I think it's like late fifty I mean, I

479
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 2: think it depends, but I think it's like.

480
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 3: I actually know nothing about menopause, and I love.

481
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 2: Oh, You're going to do a lot of studies and

482
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: by this time that we're talking about, you will know

483
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: every single thing about menopause.

484
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: According to Google, the menopausal transition often begins between ages

485
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 1: forty five and fifty five. It usually lasts about seven years,

486
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: but can last as long as fourteen years.

487
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 3: Wow, damn, it's just not right.

488
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 1: No, right, the average age is fifty one.

489
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: Oh was like late fifties.

490
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 1: Well that's the average fifty one, so it varies. Okay, Wow,

491
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: will you still be living in Los Angeles?

492
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: Interesting question? I'd like to have multiple homes?

493
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, big dreams?

494
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah? What if you're not dreaming big? What are

495
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 2: you doing?

496
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

497
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: All right?

498
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: Well, there we go, Protections for twenty nine.

499
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be in a mansion.

500
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 1: Will the world be in a better place?

501
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 2: And I hope so?

502
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 3: I think so. I think that's hopeful.

503
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 2: I like that.

504
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: I think you're right. I think it's got to bounce

505
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: back back.

506
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 3: I agree.

507
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 2: Should we talk about the rapid fire deal breakers that

508
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 2: that you brought up Mark during this episode?

509
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 1: Sure, but it's time for another break?

510
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 2: All right, we'll be back. All right, we're back. So

511
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: what why this idea came about? To recap This episode

512
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 2: was from an email from Emily Griffin Mark, if you

513
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: want to read that.

514
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I've been listening since about twenty eighteen, and

515
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 1: I missed a lot of episodes in the beginning, so

516
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: I've decided to go back and start, and I'm on

517
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: episode seven right now. Guys, the foreshadowing in this episode.

518
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: Can we talk about this? Tony goes on a date

519
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: with a man who's an atheist and it sparks a

520
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: big conversation about deal breakers. Then you guys do a

521
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: rapid fire deal breaker conversation. I have to say, it

522
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: was just so fun to listen to this knowing what

523
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: is going on in real time and how different things

524
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: can turn out from what you think you want. So

525
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Speaker 1: I'm proposing you guys do a relisten episode. I think

526
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: it would be so cool if you'd live listen to

527
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: this podcast, episode number seven and compare your conversation to

528
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: your lives now. I hope it's possible in some way.

529
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 1: I don't think we could do that like a DVD

530
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 1: commentary track. It'd just be double voices. It'd be kind

531
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 1: of difficult, but yeah, but I like the way you

532
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: did it. You guys listen to it, assign them the

533
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: task of listening to it if they want to on Monday,

534
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: and so you can talk about it together. I have

535
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: a new list here of deal breakers. You want to

536
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: go through it?

537
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: Okay, all right?

538
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: Deal breaker or not selfishness.

539
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 2: Yes, I want to say selfish, yes, but like having

540
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 2: conversations like if there's a reason to be reason to

541
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: be selfish, like a reason to choose yourself. I don't

542
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 2: think like that's a deal breaker. But if it's like constantly,

543
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 2: like the theme of the relationship is one sided selfishness, yes, yeah, okay.

544
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: How about how about anger issues? Someone with anger issues?

545
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, right.

546
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: Long and dirty toe and fingernails.

547
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 3: No, it's not a deal breaker for me, but like

548
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 3: get it together.

549
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 2: You know.

550
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: They're super close with their ex.

551
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, like why yeah sam uh Oh?

552
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: Financial irresponsibility, yes, I I don't think deal breaker.

553
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 2: I think it's something to be worked, like to be

554
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: worked on. But I do think that would get exhausting

555
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 2: if there's no change.

556
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: Someone who is rude to waiters.

557
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely, deal breaker.

558
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

559
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: About negativity, If it's constant, if there's like a time

560
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 2: of life where things are sad or you're not feeling

561
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: your best, then I don't think that's a deal breaker.

562
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: But if it's like constant, like everything's like down in

563
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 2: the dumps, that would wear on me.

564
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: I think it would be a deal breaker if I

565
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: was just constantly with someone that was just negative, especially

566
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 3: for you. I think, yeah, I think it'd be really hard.

567
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: Think it's a brightness any day and they're like, no,

568
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: it's another.

569
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Speaker 3: Okay you later tonight.

570
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: Not funny, no sense of humor.

571
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 2: That would be hard for me.

572
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 3: I don't know if that would be a deal breaker

573
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 3: for me. If he was like everything that was so amazing, men,

574
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 3: he wasn't funny.

575
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: That's so boring.

576
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 3: I don't mind boring. Wow, I don't shout out to Robbie.

577
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 2: We don't think you're boring.

578
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: Robby's funny. The few conversations I have had with him,

579
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: he's very funny.

580
00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 3: He's funny. But if you weren't, I would not be upset.

581
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: Do you guys want to hear Robbie laughing at a

582
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: show called Jury Duty on Amazon? By the way, if

583
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 1: you're not watching Jury Dude Amazon, you used to watch it.

584
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: It's very, very funny. Have we talked about it, Beecca?

585
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: Do you know about it?

586
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: I know about it, but I haven't watched it yet.

587
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 3: But then it is like it has become a part

588
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 3: of our identity, like we are obsessed with the show.

589
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 3: We can't stop watching it. We're watching TikTok's about it now,

590
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 3: like we are obsessed with it.

591
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: This is the show where there's a court case going on.

592
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: Everyone involved as an actor except for one guy who

593
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: thinks this is his actual jury duty and they're just

594
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 1: shooting a documentary and that's why there's cameras there. Yeah,

595
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: and James Marrison's on it playing himself and it's hysterical.

596
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: And this is Robbie's review.

597
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: It.

598
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: Now, that's a guy.

599
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: With a sense of h Yeah, that's a good that's

600
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 2: a funny loss.

601
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 3: That was like after ten minutes of him laughing like that,

602
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 3: I was like, I gotta get this on video.

603
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: I likes funny and just laughs his way through the

604
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: word funny. That makes me happy. Somebody who dislikes your

605
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: friends or family.

606
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a deal breaker.

607
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

608
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: Uh, someone who's a different diet or a lifestyle preference

609
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: than you do.

610
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 2: No, that's not a deal breaker.

611
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not a deal breaker.

612
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: Because your ears especially is a pretty unique diet.

613
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it would be hard, but it wouldn't be a

614
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 3: deal breaker.

615
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: But he also be hard to find someone who fits

616
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: yours to a t.

617
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: I got him.

618
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, he does, he does, he does.

619
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 3: It for her in solidarity. Yeah, I mean he doesn't.

620
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 3: It's not like one like sometimes he doesn't go gluten free,

621
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 3: but i'd say like ninety percent of the time he's

622
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 3: a good guy.

623
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: And difference in sex drive, No, I don't think so

624
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: it way more or less than you do.

625
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: I think if it's never matched up, that would be hard,

626
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't think it's a deal breaker.

627
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: If you can get on the same page. I think

628
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 2: that's something that you can work towards personally.

629
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: If it's that imbalanced, yeah, I'd think it's like if Yeah.

630
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: I mean I think if one person's never getting satisfied,

631
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: that's a problem. But I think if there's conversation and

632
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 2: there's things in life where maybe that's not on the

633
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 2: exact same page. But yeah, I think if you if

634
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: there's like no hope for it and you've tried everything,

635
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: I think that that's something to look into.

636
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 3: We're so balanced now.

637
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: And everything diet, sex drive.

638
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're balanced girls.

639
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 4: You know.

640
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: Oh she's talking about me and you No? Yeah, yeah,

641
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: all right, Well that was so fun. I think it

642
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: went well. I'm proud to see that we have changed

643
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: so much.

644
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:37,959
Speaker 3: Me too, because if you're not growing.

645
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 2: If you're not changing though.

646
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: If you're not growing, I don't know what you were doing.

647
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: So well, have a great weekend. We love you so much.

648
00:29:50,000 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: We'll see you Monday. Love you bye,