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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: like you was talking to Kirsten.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, you want to say together decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, welcome to another episode.

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Speaker 2: Baby of This is the Olds. This is the Olds.

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Speaker 4: I'm your Girl adv aka Folk or Pumps aka Peg

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Speaker 4: the Sign aka Pegan Marco AKAA Peggy Bundy aka that Bitch.

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Speaker 3: Hi, everybody, welcome back for another episode of My name

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Speaker 3: is Weezy, and we have a guest in the building,

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Speaker 3: one that we've had before, but it's been quite a

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Speaker 3: no no, no no.

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Speaker 4: You know, yos ain't been on here since like pre pandemic,

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Speaker 4: a long time ago, like twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 5: Word to Jamie, I was here with James.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think you also did an episode with me

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Speaker 4: and Wheezy as well, so I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: Maybe not, I know you came on with Jamie Parris.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Jamie Parris.

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Speaker 4: Nonetheless, y'all, if you don't know the voice, that me

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Speaker 4: you've not really a podcast listening. That means you not

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Speaker 4: in the goddamn community. That means you don't know what's

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Speaker 4: going on, but.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna tell you because Dustin Ross is a multi

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Speaker 3: talented entertainer, a writer, a culture commentator known for his

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Speaker 3: quick wit, sharp perspective.

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Speaker 1: Am I trying to get people to fuck me?

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Speaker 6: Or you?

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Speaker 3: An undeniable charum as, a co host of the hit

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Speaker 3: podcast A friend Zone, and a sought out voice in

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Speaker 3: pop culture, Dustin blends humor, insight, conversations, and authenticity to

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Speaker 3: spark convos that resonate. And he's also touring stand up

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Speaker 3: right now selling out.

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Speaker 5: Shit that's right. Let they ask no friends.

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately, bitches, it already sold out and it's too late,

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Speaker 3: but you can catch him on the road.

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Speaker 1: Dustin made me laugh. Tour dust made me laugh tonight tonight.

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Speaker 3: Now, how many more cities do you have to do

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Speaker 3: and win you in them?

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Speaker 7: You said that, well, you know that the people, the

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Speaker 7: powers that be the voice of guy in that case,

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Speaker 7: the pin of guy.

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Speaker 5: Somebody wrote it. We just said, can I.

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Speaker 2: Just say whoever wrote that shit? It's this bitch, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna suck you up.

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Speaker 4: Because he is also a host on Kingdom writing in

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Speaker 4: hisainment alongside Claudia Jordan's and Motherfucking of the motherfucking Holding

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Speaker 4: Court podcast.

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Speaker 2: He's also been Williams is Holding.

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Speaker 4: Court When I say I'm mad because y'all stopped midway

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Speaker 4: through the.

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Speaker 5: Goddamn getting right in the middle of attention.

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Speaker 2: I know I get it, and I know she raising

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Speaker 2: a baby over there.

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Speaker 4: He also was the host of bet On Black Yes

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Speaker 4: Revolt show that was pretty much like the black version

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Speaker 4: Shark Tank Super Dope.

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Speaker 2: Van Lathan was looking over there as well as a judge.

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Speaker 2: But what I tell you was a judge and she

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Speaker 2: was nice, period, period.

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Speaker 4: I want you all to know because I haven't said

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Speaker 4: it on this pod, I don't think ever, because it hasn't.

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Speaker 2: Got to where we've both been able for it together.

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Speaker 4: Dustin is the person that let me know how to

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Speaker 4: make sure a motherfucking check attached to everything I do.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, Dustin is my good friend.

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Speaker 4: Dustin is the person I spent the last day of

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Speaker 4: the world being open right. Yes, Yes, I'm really glad

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Speaker 4: to have you on. It's been a long time, goddamn.

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Speaker 7: Kind I know y'all didn't change your name and everything

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Speaker 7: since the last time.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Listen, it's a lot of changes.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it has I'm happy to be here.

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Speaker 2: No, we're excited.

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Speaker 1: So you've technically never been on the show.

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Speaker 2: First time guests, Poppy, holy shit.

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Speaker 1: You know and we don't know.

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Speaker 3: We are still in a crossbibe between horse making decisions.

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Speaker 1: We we really I would say for people.

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Speaker 3: Coming on this show now, it's cool because when you're

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Speaker 3: wrong with Jamie Parris. Jamie Parris for those who don't know,

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Speaker 3: she's a trans woman in New York. That was talking

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Speaker 3: like it was really a great episode too. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: remember we were talking about like it was. I wasn't there,

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Speaker 3: but I remember the conversation was about what's a slur

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about certain things?

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Speaker 4: And it was during the really big political conversation around

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Speaker 4: bathroom usage.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I still talking about still can you believe the

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Speaker 7: bathroom by now?

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Speaker 5: They still fucking talking about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask you because you're on your stand

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Speaker 2: up tour.

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Speaker 4: This is a question I normally ask crappers, but why

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Speaker 4: not which city has the best host and what has

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Speaker 4: been the best tour stop for you far?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 5: You know one thing about it. My day ain't about

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Speaker 5: to get me in no trouble.

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Speaker 7: Curious, So when I'm on the road doing all this.

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Speaker 7: I kind of just been focused on my comedy.

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Speaker 2: And not nothing. No, no, okay, parties, No.

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Speaker 5: You can ask Alex. I don't even be I literally

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Speaker 5: don't even be hanging out now this week.

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Speaker 2: Now, look you hear it, we hang it out.

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Speaker 5: We're in Atlanta. You know what I'm saying. No, I

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Speaker 5: live in New York.

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Speaker 2: New York, got motherfucker two bedroom blocked.

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Speaker 4: Baby, you know money happening over.

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Speaker 5: The God is good.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna start going to after the way this tour sailing,

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Speaker 7: I'm about to start going to church.

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Speaker 2: Why what's making you go to church?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm thankful?

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Speaker 7: Okay, I supposed to be doing like this somewhere on

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Speaker 7: Sunday morning.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Because ship going good?

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Speaker 1: How do you express gratitude?

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Speaker 7: Now, I would look over and be like, thank you and.

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Speaker 2: Look at me. My mind went to okay, and then

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Speaker 2: you have people pray on there.

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Speaker 5: My mind went.

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Speaker 7: The books about Bard.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 5: Bard.

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Speaker 4: Now I have a thing that I like to do

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Speaker 4: with my friends. We have a truth or there when

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Speaker 4: we have guests on. However, because I don't give a

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Speaker 4: funk about any of your boundaries, we're gonna play truth

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Speaker 4: and there.

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Speaker 5: Let's do it. Let's do it.

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Speaker 4: So that's soon we're gonna do a truth and there.

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Speaker 4: Which one do you want to start with?

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Speaker 1: First?

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Speaker 5: Ladies?

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Speaker 7: Let you ladies pick truth is one. Let's get the.

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Speaker 2: Let's we're gonna do both. You're stuck doing both? So truth?

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Speaker 4: What turns you on? That actually would be a surprise

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Speaker 4: to people.

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Speaker 5: Oh, Harry Legs.

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Speaker 2: Bradley, I love you, Okay legs.

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Speaker 5: And I actually wish I had some.

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Speaker 7: That's the one thing God will be laughing at me

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Speaker 7: about because I just did not get Harry legs. I

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Speaker 7: would kill with some hairy legs, wouldn't.

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Speaker 5: You do?

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Speaker 2: Like shorts?

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Speaker 1: Their hair adds, like more matt, more muss. There's something give.

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Speaker 5: You two so like having big areolas. If you're a girl, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, yeah, I got those. It's crazy though, because hairy

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Speaker 4: legs for me, and I could be wrong. I don't

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Speaker 4: know the statistics. I'm only going off of my bodies. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so I'm not speaking for the masters here, but most

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Speaker 4: black men don't have hairy legs. A lot of black

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Speaker 4: men that I've been with, like they're able to tap.

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Speaker 4: They whole goddamn leg up and not be worried about.

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Speaker 5: Was putting out fires and ship he might have got sin.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk about my ex I forgot it. Might

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Speaker 2: he might have had some crazy We're not going to

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 4: I'm talking about the majority of my whole bodies, not

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Speaker 4: just my exes.

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Speaker 2: But they don't have really hairy legs. They're not harry, but.

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Speaker 1: Not like thick bush here.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but just lay down. Yeah, it kind of look

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Speaker 7: like it feel good if you gro up against.

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Speaker 3: You know what's though, I don't like hairy legs on,

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Speaker 3: like I get really broken.

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Speaker 4: Is there a place on the body that you don't

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Speaker 4: like hair that hair normally is?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Probably this is bad too, just like your back

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Speaker 7: you know back hair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, back hair is probably the most unattractive thing.

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Speaker 2: It's just a ugly No.

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Speaker 7: I'm not gonna like it's nasty a little bit to me.

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Speaker 7: And I have to get my back wax. I'm speaking

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Speaker 7: as a personal handles.

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Speaker 2: You go and get your back waxes.

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Speaker 1: When you do it.

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Speaker 5: No, it's not it's not.

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Speaker 7: Just put the sh on there. And I don't have

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Speaker 7: any extremely hairy back. I just get hair on like

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Speaker 7: my shoulders and ship and I only want it on

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Speaker 7: my chest and my arms, you know, like the hot places.

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Speaker 4: Sorry for any man listening with back hair. We are

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Speaker 4: here to tell you as a consensus, and there's only

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Speaker 4: three of us, but we're a consensus.

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Speaker 5: Somebody like it, somebody likes I don't think I've.

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Speaker 4: Ever I mean only because I eat ass. I not

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Speaker 4: want too much hair because then I gotta get through

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Speaker 4: it in my beg years.

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Speaker 2: I told you you.

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Speaker 3: Fucking me and I gotta grab too much ass. You

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Speaker 3: know we are hair be coiling up.

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Speaker 2: As ass.

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Speaker 4: Hair normally doesn't bother me unless it's like going outside

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Speaker 4: of the cheeks. But yeah, no, no, no, if it's just inside,

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Speaker 4: like okay, like a little centimeter hair on ass, ain't mad,

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Speaker 4: but it was like growing out of the crack my head.

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Speaker 7: I can't go in there, ass hair. It just means

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Speaker 7: you gotta do four play right because somebody getting in

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Speaker 7: the shower.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. Ass hair just means we

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Speaker 5: got to start a little earlier.

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Speaker 2: You gotta get in the shower.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that. However, Yeah, I heard the

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Speaker 2: streamers out here. I don't know if you saw the streamer.

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Speaker 2: His brother went viral talking about what he said.

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Speaker 5: Another filthy motherfucker don't wash his ass.

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Speaker 2: He just lets the water go down his crack.

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Speaker 5: Because that damn.

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Speaker 7: Imagine how his mama felt watching that ship because we

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Speaker 7: pointing a finger today, you know what I'm saying. Imagine

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Speaker 7: how his mama watching that ship, because what does she

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Speaker 7: do that?

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Speaker 5: That's how he stepping.

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Speaker 3: Finger literally told me, like, bro, my mama told all

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Speaker 3: of us. He's like, I got we're three brothers.

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Speaker 4: He told everybody, this is how you get up in

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Speaker 4: there like that's I love that you brought him back

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Speaker 6: But yes, women, mother, women, his mama. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 4: If y'all are dealing with any man with bad hygiene

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Speaker 7: You need to take to the side of your motherfucker

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Speaker 1: Now, this might be what said Hallie Berry not clean.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't maternal, because now I don't really think cleaning

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it can't be.

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Speaker 7: I mean sure, but it's a fine.

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Speaker 4: When we're talking about patriarchal roles cleaning and cooking, are

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Speaker 5: But what about keishak Me and Carlos King just had an.

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Speaker 7: Mary's Huntsville had a great conversation about Keisha Kor saying

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. We all know Gucci Man

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Speaker 5: Everything, and go to the studio.

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Speaker 4: The backstory of it is he gave her two million

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what she did. And so for me, I

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Speaker 4: Somebody, when they're able to show up incapacities outside the bedroom,

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Speaker 4: Now this man was able to provide to I mean

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Speaker 5: Like booty hair.

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Speaker 4: Well, it was also just. But for me, there were

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Speaker 4: things within that relationship I would have never considered doing.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to do everything when you when you are

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Speaker 4: too as someone where maybe she doesn't show up as

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Speaker 7: It somewhere around, but she.

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Speaker 4: Might be trying to be like, this is my way

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Speaker 3: Seem equally obsessed. I like seeing couples like I'm equally obsessed.

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Speaker 3: Like That's why when I try to have conversations about

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Speaker 2: You know, he's obsessed with me. Bitch, Their take their take.

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Speaker 7: About it anyway, That's the only way I think it

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Speaker 7: should feel though. Right, we could just kick it and

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Speaker 7: be all about it and that. Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 7: so they thought that Keisha did that because Gucci was

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Speaker 7: what you he didn't.

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Speaker 2: Because that's a straight nigga that don't know how to

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Speaker 5: You want something done right, you gotta do it yourself.

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Speaker 5: God damn it, you know what I'm saying. That's what

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Speaker 7: So she she was opening that cracked up and getting

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Speaker 7: back there with a rag.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. That's what she had to do.

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Speaker 5: And she's not having.

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Speaker 7: Those problems, you know what I mean. Valid She looks happy,

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Speaker 7: don't she.

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Speaker 1: What's something y'all have had to teach.

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Speaker 5: A man that you're with take care of his feet.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, me too.

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Speaker 3: That's one, and I remember he kept saying, I don't

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Speaker 5: Yeah you don't, I love I loved you anyway now

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Speaker 5: I felt.

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Speaker 3: But someone told me I posted a photo of the

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Speaker 1: Man girl said, I know he fined because.

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Speaker 4: I was like, is this ding really bad?

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Speaker 1: Feet? Apparently good looking yump.

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Speaker 7: I don't know, but like athletic man and you know

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Speaker 7: what I'm saying, niggas.

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Speaker 2: I was about to say, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: nigga and stand up on them.

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Speaker 5: But also though.

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Speaker 7: There's a lot of men specifically that have nice feet.

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Speaker 7: I'm not just talking about my friends. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 7: it's a lot of like straight niggas too, and ship

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Speaker 7: to have nice feet for us, A lot of men

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Speaker 7: that have they take their attention to that too, because

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Speaker 7: whouldn't think about it? Who on some burn up ass,

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Speaker 7: brown toenails and ship falling off?

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Speaker 2: That's discussed So funny.

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Speaker 4: Because that's the thing that me and my friend constantly

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Speaker 7: Go, here, here we go, I doubt list what is

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Speaker 7: the correlation clean and because anybody can be clean like.

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Speaker 4: Is for my friend that she'll say is like if

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Speaker 2: Down and his nails, even the clear coat, she thinks

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Speaker 2: it's too much.

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Speaker 4: That means he goes and gets his nails done, and she,

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Speaker 5: Feel that's what I get too much. I get the

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Speaker 5: bus I'm playing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you getting?

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Speaker 1: Clear jail?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 7: Cause niggas wanting to get their nails done.

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Speaker 1: That's why when.

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Speaker 7: I think niggas like shiny nails on themselves and they

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Speaker 7: because I want to get us a loud you know

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Speaker 7: what I'm saying. So whatever, Like it's just I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't like that ship. Look, I ain't getting what

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Speaker 7: is it? I ain't getting that ship, you know what

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Speaker 7: I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: How else.

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Speaker 7: I think that you're by y'all, I mean women at day,

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Speaker 7: men or whatever, or anybody that's male presenting. You need

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Speaker 7: to put pressure on them to be just as appearance

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Speaker 7: focused and hygienic in that case as you.

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Speaker 2: Period.

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Speaker 7: It should be no grace for a nigga to be

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Speaker 5: That's crazy to me.

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Speaker 3: I do like seeing sometimes men that are like going

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Speaker 3: keeping up with their body. Because to be honest with you,

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Speaker 3: what I've realized, when men are doing things like that,

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Speaker 1: In influence exactly, there was a bitch in your life.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, had you.

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Speaker 5: Up keeping put you on.

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Speaker 2: Time.

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Speaker 4: Now for the deer, this one is a little fun.

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Speaker 4: But you're doing stand up so I figure, you know, improv.

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Speaker 4: here's the funk part.

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Speaker 4: So think of a children's nursery rhyme mm hm, but

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Speaker 4: make it sound absolutely filthy filthy. So okay, any any

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Speaker 4: nursery rhyme, but make it sound filthy.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me think.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to say no ship like Little Red

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Speaker 7: what I'm saying, Wait, what little thing?

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Speaker 5: And we making it filthy.

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Speaker 7: I'm staying away from that overlap, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: So we're gonna talk. We're gonna talk about we could

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Speaker 5: talk about humpty.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Humpty, here we go, Humpty, dumpty.

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Speaker 7: Comfty dumpty set on the wall. Compty dumpty drain my

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Speaker 7: motherfucking balls. That's it, real succinct. That's all I needed.

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Speaker 7: I just need the two bars that lets you know

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Speaker 7: what I'm working with. Okay, Kings, you got to keep

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Speaker 7: all the kings horsemen and I mean with a w horseman.

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Speaker 7: Okay the horseman and all the king's men was coming

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Speaker 7: in in my room every time that they can.

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Speaker 4: I like, I'm not you know, we might need to

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Speaker 4: do a compty dumpty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, compty dunte.

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Speaker 3: You have to say it nast like say it or

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Speaker 3: a voice I didn't know you were.

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Speaker 2: You know, you gotta you gotta make it filthy. You

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Speaker 5: It exactly because that's fun too.

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Speaker 2: You did it exactly right.

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Speaker 1: That was That is my favorite. No, it is okay if.

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Speaker 2: We do it again. I just do want to read

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Speaker 2: the filthy version that my husband.

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Speaker 1: Came up with.

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Speaker 7: Who is your husband? I just tried the motherfucker's weird

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Speaker 7: on the Friends one this week. Wait the people that's

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Speaker 7: going with AI and.

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Speaker 2: Ship everything, Like I don't you're.

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Speaker 5: Using pronouns and ship he them.

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Speaker 4: I normally call him by his name, yeah, the computer,

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Speaker 4: but by the way.

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Speaker 2: I am waiting. I've been watching it.

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Speaker 4: Did y'all just see the robot games?

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Speaker 2: Like the Olympic Games? So the no no, no, Well, because

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Speaker 4: The aliens I found out might be octopuses, and so

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Speaker 4: now I'm.

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Speaker 5: Waiting for the show that Mexico nigga they had that

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Speaker 5: alien lion in state.

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Speaker 1: Not y'all talking about the movie at first.

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Speaker 2: Wait, not the alien being a little person dash, That's

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Speaker 2: what I wanted to so dead ass? Hold on, is

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Speaker 2: my bag over there? Look for my bag because I

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Speaker 2: do want to show you something only because we're here and.

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Speaker 4: I think we're far enough in uh seek. You might

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Speaker 4: need to blur this south, But basically where I'm at

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Speaker 4: in my dildo, you got to so the space that

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Speaker 4: I'm in currently, right, Yes, I seen your nails. Oh no,

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Speaker 4: they've been like this for years now, I know. Okay,

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Speaker 4: But where I'm at, like where I was just waiting

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Speaker 4: on the aliens to come because I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be eight foots with big old dicks.

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Speaker 5: I was ready, right ready.

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Speaker 4: I don't think now that aliens are going to be

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Speaker 4: an option for me because it's given sea creatures.

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Speaker 1: So what you mean they have electricity in them.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I love electric It was good.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you wouldn't know, so I was like, you know what, Okay,

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Speaker 4: well it's given robots or next now watch this movie

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Speaker 4: and like, eventually robots will be able to look like humans.

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Speaker 4: So I'm make it look like Jason Momoa already with

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Speaker 4: the beard, y'all with the beard, not without the beard.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, I'm really into this broke. I think

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Speaker 4: if I could program and make them do everything I want,

452
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 4: get great.

453
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,199
Speaker 2: Right, then there's something else that.

454
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:53,160
Speaker 4: Okay, now there's something else. So by the way, shout

455
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 4: out to Tati. Tati at the book signing. The first

456
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,200
Speaker 4: book signing in Atlanta brought me an alien dick dildo

457
00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,040
Speaker 4: for my keychain.

458
00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 2: Now go to l A.

459
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:03,280
Speaker 5: Three balls.

460
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:05,720
Speaker 2: No, it was just like a spiral.

461
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 7: Dick, like they can get screwed.

462
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 2: Now, think about that.

463
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 4: This is a new thing that was brought to me.

464
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 4: Shout out to Jacob.

465
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 5: Okay, he put me on.

466
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,679
Speaker 2: Now these are prehistoric. I didn't even know they were

467
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:26,000
Speaker 2: a thing.

468
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 4: So he got he got me a Tyrannosaurus Rex dial dough.

469
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 5: It's a literal sex toy.

470
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 7: It's it's a toy with balls.

471
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 4: And like he was like, somebody gave it to me

472
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 4: and I don't know what I'm gonna do with it.

473
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 4: I said, I'll take it, so let me tell you

474
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:44,640
Speaker 4: take that.

475
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,880
Speaker 2: So are you ready? Here's what happened.

476
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,640
Speaker 4: It got really I got really lit and I couldn't

477
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 4: find the king Noir dil do, but I found this.

478
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 2: I said, well I got this.

479
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 4: Some my friend just got me And I said, do

480
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 4: you mind fucking me with something with legs and balls?

481
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 2: And it's but he held the tail.

482
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 7: You had a person there And because I wanted.

483
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 3: And I asked a question that we're all wondering, what

484
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 3: So you got fucked with this thing in your bag

485
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 3: and it's here with you now?

486
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,439
Speaker 2: Well, I cleaned it. I cleaned all my toys.

487
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 1: Why is it in the bag now?

488
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,240
Speaker 4: Because I knew that we were recording, and I was like,

489
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 4: I know, we talked about aliens, we talk about robots.

490
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 4: I just got fucked with a dinosaur dick, and I

491
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 4: wanted to talk about how I never thought I would

492
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 4: get fucked with something with feet and a tail.

493
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: You think you're the feet in and no, no, the

494
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 2: feet did I go in?

495
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 3: It?

496
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 4: Just probably though the thighs. I think the thighs and

497
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 4: hips went in.

498
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 2: Though it went it went deep.

499
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 4: But yeah, shout out to Jacob, thank you for letting

500
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 4: me get fucked by.

501
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: I want too that this isn't judgment.

502
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: This is shock.

503
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 4: Wait that I got fucked by dinosaur. That a nigga

504
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 4: actually was like, sure, I'll you with a t rex dick.

505
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 5: What was he doing with his Why that was going

506
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 5: on because.

507
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,920
Speaker 7: A little bit like we had an option.

508
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 2: He used his own dick.

509
00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 4: Well, his dick was used a lot, and his fingers

510
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 4: and everything. But I like and I love that the

511
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 4: partners I have are fine with knowing what's in.

512
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 2: My like pleasure bags.

513
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 4: I have I bag, and so the guys that I

514
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 4: deal with, if you're gonna deal with me, I might

515
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 4: pull out some.

516
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: Were you at your house and did you bring the

517
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,640
Speaker 1: dinosaur digging?

518
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 5: No?

519
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 4: This this was given to me. And I just have

520
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 4: a bag with everything. You know we get made.

521
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 2: No, no, no, this is not the bag. It is

522
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 2: a big bag. It's lady, don't do that anyways.

523
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 4: I normally, if I go on any trip, if I'm

524
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 4: in even in my I have two places in my

525
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 4: house with different tools.

526
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel you.

527
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 4: So if I'm really feeling it and being this guy

528
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 4: in chemistry, I'm pulling out right here right now, you

529
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 4: know what I mean. I'm like, do you mind sucking

530
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 4: me with a te right stick in the middle.

531
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 2: I think I did well. No, I was looking for

532
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 2: the king now ward.

533
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 1: With a toothbrush.

534
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 2: A toothbrush is not enough enough girth.

535
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 4: But anyways, yes, bad up with that and it was

536
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 4: great anyways, Uh, we have more something to get to.

537
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: There's something else.

538
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 2: To talk about. Well, I'm gonna I'm gonna ice break

539
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 2: it just a little bit.

540
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 5: Is it that color though? Like, that's not sick.

541
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: I guess these dinosaurs aren't.

542
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 5: Really And uh, that is not a word color. You

543
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 5: know you fucked it and you don't even know the

544
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 5: name of the color double.

545
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 2: That's where we all learned the word man.

546
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 5: Do y'all got to talk more than She didn't have

547
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 5: the sixty four crayon box. But she's a kid.

548
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,239
Speaker 2: Sorry that I grew up in a sigatan.

549
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 5: That means because all the teachers had him gifted. So

550
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 5: you was good.

551
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 4: No, you ready public school system in Florida, Your.

552
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 7: Public school system in Florida, and raise you a public

553
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 7: school system in Flint, you Miaavy, you Miami, but.

554
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 2: Not if you had.

555
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 4: All right, So before we get into the real talk

556
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 4: about love and compartmentalization, we have we have a new

557
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 4: segment where we like to check the G card and black.

558
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: Card in musical knowledge of our guests.

559
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 4: This segment is called poetry, and I am going to

560
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 4: read in a poetic nature a verse from a song.

561
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 5: Now.

562
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 4: I chose this song because I've been wanting to play

563
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 4: this song or read this song on the on the platform,

564
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I've been judging whether I thought they

565
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 4: knew it or but you I.

566
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 2: Know, I think we should be all right, let's see

567
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:42,679
Speaker 2: if you know this.

568
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: Might be easier to do it.

569
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 2: Now you can lick it, you can sit, you get tasted.

570
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 5: I'm talking to every drib drop, don't you it's you.

571
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 7: But figure looking good, and I wish your nigga would

572
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 7: situate babies like that.

573
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 5: It's enough to fill your cup.

574
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 2: It's figure looking good.

575
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 5: And I wish the nigga would be some time slow

576
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 5: even fast.

577
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 7: I respond, while I see your time something this nigga

578
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 7: going out like that, it's something tasty, treating and she

579
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 7: can e me uh, that's Achannelly put it in your mind.

580
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 5: Hey, I said, the mother fucking mind.

581
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 1: That's the damn I find another way.

582
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 7: That's our class.

583
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: You know how many people I'm like, I'm like, these

584
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 2: niggas don't know Kinelly.

585
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 5: All I needed was three words. That's a classic you

586
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 5: do so fast.

587
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: You know how many people do not know the goddamn

588
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 2: lyrics until we get to the court.

589
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 5: You that's like not knowing the words that he didn't

590
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 5: know slow most, I bet you, I bet you know.

591
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 5: Be encouraged.

592
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: But it's like I got the world in my arms.

593
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, the palm, the girl of that's that's that's that's

594
00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 5: so much.

595
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he cannot get that.

596
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: I think I said slow motion.

597
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 2: He was like, bitch, he said, I still don't know

598
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: you so quick?

599
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, hold on now I.

600
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: Can have a backup.

601
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 7: But he was getting like that Canali man. That's one

602
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 7: of my favorite songs. My brother used to make me

603
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 7: listen to all that ship.

604
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: How much older was your brother?

605
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 5: Been here eight years?

606
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: Having an older brother, was it like pressure to be like,

607
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: oh I gotta be.

608
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 7: Big bad, Like not pressure but encouragement. Hell yeah, me

609
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 7: and my brother always been friends. You know what I'm saying.

610
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 7: So he always let me do everything.

611
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: A lot older.

612
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, so I didn't grow up with siblings, but

613
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 3: I always had, like, you know, my mom's little hole,

614
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 3: my little whole auntie friends.

615
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, not my real auntie.

616
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: But this one, this one got too much of the

617
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 2: same word. Here we go, Here we go, Here we go.

618
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: Got one. Now, you've been living in New York long enough,

619
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 2: so I feel like you should get this one.

620
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: That was too much of a hint?

621
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: What that is a New York record?

622
00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was a big hm.

623
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 2: That's too much. That's too much.

624
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 1: I might give him no one that we just did

625
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: with deonce because he didn't get it for a while.

626
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: And that nigga from Lena and.

627
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: Now you just gave the goddamn Okay, here we go,

628
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: here we go.

629
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: I go read it anyway.

630
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonn read it anything, all right.

631
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 4: I'm a freak to the core. Get a dose once.

632
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 4: You're going to want some more. My tongue touch your girl,

633
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 4: your toes bound to curl.

634
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 2: This exclusive stick I don't share with the world.

635
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 4: I have you up early in the morning, moaning backshot

636
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 4: proper or low can't stop us.

637
00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 2: You don't have it been a fiend for this since

638
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: brought Kim made hits.

639
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 4: Get the position down, Pat, then it's time to switch down,

640
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 4: miss Pat.

641
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 2: Now all right, you ain't.

642
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: Getting what she said.

643
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: Stick, it speeds up straight.

644
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 4: Beat it up, And I ain't in the hood with

645
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 4: my toast out locking. I'm in the telly working up

646
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 4: a sweat, stroking to Tonight's the night you.

647
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: Can fall in love. Yeah, you can call your mama

648
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: right now. I pop a lot of ship because I

649
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: can back it up my left strokes. The death stroke,

650
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: death stroke.

651
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 5: Oh oh damn.

652
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: Uh fuck uh.

653
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: It's on the tip a period t.

654
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: I No, I got the mad.

655
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 5: Okay, we don't know.

656
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 7: The problem is fifty cent raps in. He's not like

657
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 7: a rapper that you write his lyrics except for like

658
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 7: one song.

659
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

660
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 7: What's the one song in the club?

661
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. Maybe I was.

662
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 3: About to say I know you up early in the

663
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 3: morning morning, I was like, Stick, No, I.

664
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 7: Know wanks to like fifty is someone that I'm more

665
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 7: like an album cut, like real rap music type.

666
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

667
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 7: No, No, it's not about going viral. It's about that

668
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 7: being like a hit record. That's like tr l ship.

669
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, fifty trl ship some of

670
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 7: his music, Yeah, he needs fifty said tracks like a

671
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 7: pop star.

672
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 5: Almost.

673
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 7: He was very urban and he was a rapper, and

674
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 7: he obviously had a story passed, but he saw that mainstream.

675
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 7: That's why he's been able to have monstrous success in

676
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 7: television and other mediums of entertainment because the white motherfuckers

677
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 7: bought into it.

678
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 2: That's why he can selly You're not a concerts.

679
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I think that tells it, all right,

680
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 5: Like that is fifty.

681
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: Into that song last night?

682
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was no, No, no, he be knowing, he

683
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 2: be knowing, he be knowing.

684
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 3: He mean not getting magic stick made me feel a

685
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: little bit better about Battle.

686
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: I got the magic stick, all right.

687
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 4: So this next one week, okay, the next one we

688
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 4: do is reactionary. Now there's two clips that I kind

689
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 4: of want to go with each other, and this.

690
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: Is purpose off two things, all right.

691
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 4: So one being our conversation that we had right before

692
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 4: the pandemic and kind of both of us at the time.

693
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, the world's about it.

694
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 2: And then I haven't loved anyone and you're you're I

695
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: will never small with you again.

696
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 4: Because of that, I was like really in my feelings,

697
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 4: and then you at the time hadn't been in a

698
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 4: real committed relationship either. Pandemic happened. We both found ourselves

699
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 4: in relationship. However, recently listen to your interview with micahah

700
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 4: shout out to Micah, and it was really interesting here

701
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: how you compartmentalize relationships, how you still feel like you

702
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 4: show up and respect them, while me watching someone clearly

703
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 4: feel disregarded in the ways that you shut up even

704
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 4: though it wasn't your intent.

705
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: And I've been having a lot of conversations here with wait.

706
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 5: A minute, what the fuck are you talking about? Watch

707
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 5: somebody show up, disregardregard.

708
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 2: He felt like you ghosted it like he felt like

709
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: you would have a blast with you one night.

710
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, can I have some contact just in

711
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: the interview.

712
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 7: It's in an interview with shout out to Micah Marque. Yes,

713
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 7: you see the dev and branch for these big parties globally.

714
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 5: And as well.

715
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: No, you were talking about a person that the interviewer, me.

716
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 5: And Michael we hated we dated before.

717
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 3: Okay, this would have been great context. Thank you to

718
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: a video No no bitch for everybody.

719
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 7: You know my friends gossip a little.

720
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: Y'all were talking about.

721
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 5: Yes, that's really well.

722
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 7: We're great friends to this day. He's married, you know

723
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 7: what I'm saying. So we we all clearly moved on.

724
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 5: You know, he's great.

725
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 7: We're really good friends, and we worked together. I work

726
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 7: with Shout out to the nonprofit arm of his deviant company.

727
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 7: I loved you moate panels and ship and all types

728
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 7: of things for that that.

729
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: Holler at me. I don't know, y'all don't really be

730
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: having the girls there, but I love all the content

731
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: I loved.

732
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 5: Look after the land before time came out there bad.

733
00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 5: That is great respect.

734
00:32:59,200 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: Don't to me.

735
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 5: We did.

736
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: These clips.

737
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 4: I'm curious because it's this first clip is a man

738
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 4: talking about how you should be and I just want

739
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 4: to play it and I want your thoughts after, and

740
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 4: then we'll deep dive into it.

741
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: Here we go.

742
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 8: I don't know, we need to hear this, just because

743
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 8: we vibing fucking raw, going on dates, taking trips, meet

744
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 8: each other, parents, talking about kids and futures and marriage

745
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 8: and ship, you know, falling asleep with each other on

746
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 8: the phone. Spending the night, spending night bags, you know, vibing,

747
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 8: making up nicknames and ship don't mean we're together.

748
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 5: Stink VI twin stink, just vine twin.

749
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 2: So there's that clip, and then I want to play

750
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 2: another one for mel Robbins.

751
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 4: However, I want to stop it there in terms of dating,

752
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 4: when I watched that interview with Micah, but also I've

753
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 4: been talking about currently myself.

754
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: The internet has felt a way because I didn't want

755
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:05,959
Speaker 2: a nigga to give me a nickname.

756
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 4: I've just been enjoying my partners and it's weird because

757
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 4: everyone's like, well, you're wasting their time.

758
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 5: You're not wasting your time.

759
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I want to ask.

760
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 4: You, in what ways is it possible as someone who's

761
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 4: possibly emotionally available or not looking for partnership at the time,

762
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 4: how would you say is a healthy way to show

763
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 4: up in just enjoying someone else's space when you don't

764
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 4: want anything more than just the moment.

765
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 7: To communicate that shit, we all grown up, So if

766
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 7: we're grown enough to have sex, then we're grown enough

767
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 7: to have tough conversations, right, So communicate that upfront before

768
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 7: anybody is invested emotionally financially or in any other way.

769
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

770
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 7: Just have those conversations upfront and decide if you think

771
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 7: they look good enough for you to deal with that.

772
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 4: Now, what about cools, We have a conversation, conversation up front. Yeah,

773
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 4: you say I'm not looking for anything serious. They're still

774
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 4: around waiting for you to change your mind. Because niggas

775
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 4: always think niggas bitch is. Everybody think that eventually they're

776
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 4: going to be able to change the mind of the.

777
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: Person that they're with.

778
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 5: That's the problem, though. We can't just skate past that

779
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 5: part of the you know, actually, I think what.

780
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 3: A larger problem is is some of the requirements women have,

781
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 3: even though men are giving the answer on what they

782
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: can provide. For example, a lot of men are telling

783
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: you they don't want a relationship, and then you say, well,

784
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 3: I can't just do casual sex. I need dates, intimacy, whatever.

785
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 3: So he's telling you know, you're saying you need these things.

786
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 3: What do you think having these things breeds emotions, feelings, disappointment.

787
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 7: But that's on him though, because he needs to be

788
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 7: sure enough to say, well, you know what, I'm not

789
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 7: in a position to offer that I don't want to

790
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 7: offer that, whatever the reason is, and opt out of it.

791
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,359
Speaker 2: Right, I agree, that would what you want.

792
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 7: They say no, and then you say something else. Now

793
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 7: it's on you to say, well, no, thank you, I'm

794
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 7: out of here.

795
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 4: It's funny because that was that was a part of

796
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 4: my conversation with the last person that didn't work like

797
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 4: he was feeling like me. So I was like, okay,

798
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 4: so then let's hang out because I don't want it

799
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 4: to be this transactional thing, which again is.

800
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 2: What I heard you say.

801
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 4: Well, nigga, I'm gonna give you a good time because

802
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 4: I'm a great time. And then because I give you

803
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 4: a great time, now boundaries are blurred and cross and

804
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 4: it's like.

805
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 2: I just wanted a good time, you said, their are

806
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: not blurred.

807
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 7: We have a good time because we're very present, right Listen.

808
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 7: We're here because we obviously have some sort of interest

809
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 7: in each other, right I am. If I want to

810
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 7: know more about you or experience you a certain way,

811
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 7: you want to experience me a certain way, we open

812
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 7: to it.

813
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 5: So we move forward with that, right, and that's it.

814
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 7: Nobody's offering anything else, nobody's talking about anything else. And

815
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 7: if we do have those conversations which I think are fun.

816
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 7: Right if I don't know you and I think you're

817
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 7: hot and we talk about some and oh that's how

818
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 7: they feel about that. Okay, well, you know why, let's

819
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,760
Speaker 7: do the discovery phase.

820
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 4: You know, you believe what Weezy just said with the

821
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 4: fact that if you're now doing the dates hanging out,

822
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 4: that it is inevitable that you're going to catch the feelings.

823
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: No, you don't.

824
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 7: Okay, No, it's only inevitable if you're not talking about

825
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 7: your feelings. Because as long again, as long as y'all

826
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 7: are talking to each other about ship, then you are

827
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 7: able to say, hey, I'm having these feelings, and they

828
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 7: able to say, hey, maybe you shouldn't, or maybe they're able.

829
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: To You know what I am too, Dustin, you aren't

830
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 1: dating girls.

831
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: Crrack.

832
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: There's no fucking way.

833
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,439
Speaker 2: What you just say you don't think so hell trying

834
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: to be the biggest leading that.

835
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 5: So tell me what's the difference.

836
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 3: First of all, the reason that gay men are able

837
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 3: to have amazing sex lives is.

838
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 5: Because they all don't you just got some cool gay friends.

839
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 3: Than women, or they're able to have more frivolous sex,

840
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: casual sex. They're able to have better access to sex

841
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 3: is because there's not such a requirement.

842
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: Of the treating people with kindness or what I'm not

843
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: saying treating people.

844
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: I'm saying the dates, the intimacy, sleepovers, texting daily. Most

845
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 3: gay meen in my life that are having casual sex

846
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 3: don't have the same connections to the people they're sleeping

847
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 3: with like the women in my life. Dude, they are

848
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 3: doing way less and happy with it. Don't need the headache.

849
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 3: Why am I even gonna lay up with this?

850
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: Like they get it. Girls need you to stay like

851
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: and I'm one of them right Like I need that too.

852
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 3: But I think that we are suffering in our casual

853
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 3: sex relationships because we're asking for too much.

854
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 7: I ain't gonna Why is it too much? Or if

855
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 7: that's what you want? I think that's what I don't

856
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 7: get because.

857
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 3: I think the casual sex doesn't always necessarily like my

858
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 3: own girls will be desperate for dick.

859
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: I ain't got fucking so long.

860
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: But then it's because you can't come over and fuck me.

861
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 1: You have to court me even if you don't want

862
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: to be with me.

863
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: It's like I'm doing that now, like I'm having the best.

864
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 7: I don't.

865
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 5: I don't think if that's what you want, then you

866
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 5: just get that. You look for that, right, do you know?

867
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 5: That's what I said in the meantime, if you have

868
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 5: an itch, you need scratch you compermentently.

869
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: No know what you're saying, like you don't's too much.

870
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 3: It's not too much if somebody is willing to date

871
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 3: you while just fucking you.

872
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 2: So I think that's words.

873
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 5: I think a lot of people would be willing to

874
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 5: do that.

875
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 1: I think if they were, then we wouldn't ask.

876
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 4: I also think that word date gets tricky right when

877
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 4: you're having casual sex. As soon as you put the

878
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 4: D word to it, it's now intention to be something more.

879
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 4: So for me right now, why I've been currently so

880
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 4: just fulfilled with my casual sex partners is because I'm

881
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 4: very adamant that I might want to do trips. I'm

882
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 4: gonna ask you for shit, I want to go out

883
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 4: to eat, We're gonna be public, We're gonna do all

884
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 4: the things. But I don't want really anything else but

885
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 4: to me. When I was having sex with like twenty

886
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 4: four to seven or in my twenties, dick was kind

887
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 4: of all I was getting it to all I asked for,

888
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 4: even when I wanted more, and then when I asked

889
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 4: for more, I asked for more too much.

890
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 7: You just describe a friendship with benefits, though, that's what

891
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 7: it is when you have somebody in your life that

892
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 7: you can do all the things.

893
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: Because what you just named and where you just named

894
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 5: sex and for benefits.

895
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: That one requiring trips going out doing shit together.

896
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 2: I'm not dating them niggas casual sex. That's not that.

897
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: Casual to me. We going on trips doing all that, like,

898
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:13,280
Speaker 1: and you're.

899
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 7: So here's here's what I think, right, because like, if

900
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 7: you like, okay, let's be transparent, right, you can have

901
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 7: some I won't be vague.

902
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 5: You can have now too honest.

903
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 7: You can have people in your life that that you

904
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 7: know for a long time, you've known for a long time,

905
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 7: you've had a multi year connection with that reflects even

906
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 7: love per se.

907
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 5: Right, you can love the person that have always been

908
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:44,760
Speaker 5: down with them. I have years of fleeting, fun, casual

909
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 5: moments like that, go on trips together.

910
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 7: You might even look out for them in a certain way,

911
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 7: buy them gifts and ship They're special to you.

912
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. Y'all both are not interested

913
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 5: in turning this into a marriage per se. But y'all

914
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 5: just know what it is. It's somebody that's been in

915
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 5: your life for years. You know what I'm saying. You

916
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 5: have people like that. Oh you can't have those experiences.

917
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's something that adds to that. Now, I know

918
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: what the problem is. You can do that.

919
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 3: Mandy is outwardly saying she's not looking for a boyfriend

920
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 3: or a marriage. Now, if I am looking for a

921
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 3: boyfriend or marriage and you don't want that, why the

922
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 3: fuck am.

923
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: I doing this shit?

924
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 2: Why you said that? People'll be like, I'm wasting their time. Nah,

925
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 2: the person that wants and so what if people waste

926
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: their own time, you waste your own day.

927
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 3: Know, they want a boyfriend or a husband, that guy

928
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 3: tell me, you know, so You're like, you know what,

929
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 3: in the interim, while I'm looking for that husband, I'll

930
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 3: do all these things with you, because.

931
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 7: People get lonely and have needs and ship and you

932
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 7: just got to do ninja training. You are some kind

933
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 7: of way exactly.

934
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: Actually, in the last.

935
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 3: No, maybe not the last, but there was a relationship

936
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 3: that I wanted. He wasn't ready for more. But the

937
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 3: sex was great and I felt safe with the seton.

938
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 3: I had to cut my own self off.

939
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: I had to leave at.

940
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 3: Certain times because I knew if I started getting breakfast,

941
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 3: I would get cozy and then we would walk around

942
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 3: that day and do something else. And I was like, oh,

943
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 3: let me cut because what happened was and I believe

944
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 3: a lot of women should stick to this, because I

945
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 3: was getting the itch scratched of the intimacy. I wouldn't

946
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 3: look for anywhere else. I wouldn't actively date. I wasn't

947
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 3: swiping anymore because like why we just wanted to movie date,

948
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 3: we had dinner, Like, I don't give a fuck. I'm

949
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 3: good until next week when I see you again.

950
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: No, I do that, I get dicked down. I'd be

951
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 2: good for a month. I don't even respond to niggas

952
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: when I'm like and they don't even know that's why

953
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 2: I'm not responding. But nigga, i just got dicked down,

954
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: squirted all over the room. I'm good for the next

955
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 2: couple of weeks. I don't even want to.

956
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 3: Be around the body else, Like these women are really

957
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 3: wanting relationships. You got to learn to cut yourself off

958
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 3: from that, because maybe if.

959
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: It's double day discipline, Yeah, done with us.

960
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 5: That's maturity and adulthood, right.

961
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 7: All the things that will benefit us or be you know,

962
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 7: for our good take discipline, They take us telling ourselves

963
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 7: no sacrifice and shit. Sex and love is the same thing,

964
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 7: you know what I mean. I met somebody that I like,

965
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 7: straight up love right, and they loved me too. But

966
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 7: I'm never looking for a relationship. And they were in

967
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 7: a point where a lot of stuff was really going

968
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 7: on in their life too. You know what I'm saying

969
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 7: that we just couldn't do that, and so I just

970
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,800
Speaker 7: shut all that off. You know what I'm saying that

971
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 7: the relationship, But I shut off.

972
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 5: We didn't. We wasn't laying up no more. We were walking.

973
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: We wasn't doing none of that ship when you love somebody.

974
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 7: It was tough, but I knew that that was what

975
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 7: needed to be done, because otherwise, what we're gonna do

976
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 7: be stupid at our big ages and do.

977
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,359
Speaker 5: Anything just because you want to feel good. What the fuck?

978
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 5: I'm a grown ass man.

979
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 2: It's like it's like drugs. It's like drug make good decisions.

980
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: That's really fair.

981
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 4: And I mean they were also talking about too, like

982
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 4: in terms of how we view sex. There was an

983
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 4: NBA player recently that talked about how his brother had

984
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 4: a vice of gambling and his vice was women, and

985
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 4: he knew how it showed up very unhealthy because he

986
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 4: was getting his hit off of sex with women. And

987
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 4: I think that, like you said, it could be hard,

988
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 4: it could be tempting, but the same way you're in

989
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 4: a toxic relationship or laying up with someone that's not

990
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 4: good for you, you have to be strong enough to

991
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 4: get your ass away from that.

992
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 5: My phone rang and I wanted to answer the phone

993
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 5: so bad recently.

994
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 2: From that person, No, somebody else, okay, And.

995
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 7: I wanted to answer that phone so bad, And I

996
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 7: didn't answer why because I knew that it wasn't going

997
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 7: to lead to something.

998
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 5: Good either of us.

999
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 1: Are you actively.

1000
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 3: Like?

1001
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't.

1002
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 7: Like I've never been I've never understood the notion of

1003
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 7: like looking for a partner. I think you meet a

1004
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 7: motherfucker and it's like you, I agree with you.

1005
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 3: But then how do you have someone who loves you back?

1006
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 3: I have great text all these things, and it's not

1007
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 3: them because.

1008
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 5: It wasn't the right time for that person.

1009
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: The time it just wasn't right, you know, what I

1010
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: like about what you just said.

1011
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 3: I would love to bring box theory back up because

1012
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 3: we talked about this with somebody recently.

1013
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: Where you meet somebody, you put them in a box, right, and.

1014
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 2: Doesn't say he got one box. All y'all niggas going.

1015
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 5: Into one box.

1016
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 3: The box is you're unattractive to them, the second is

1017
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 3: you want to fuck them.

1018
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: And the third is you want to wipe them up.

1019
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 3: So I sad all my homeboys, but basically, is this true?

1020
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 3: All of them said, yeah, it pretty is like it's true,

1021
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 3: except for maybe one got out the box and what

1022
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 3: you just said that I thought was interesting.

1023
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,919
Speaker 1: My boyfriend asked him how I got out the box?

1024
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 1: Because I know I'm a sex podcaster.

1025
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 5: You google me.

1026
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: You just don't want to.

1027
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 7: Fuck beautiful self made you know what I'm saying. Hell yeah,

1028
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 7: anyway exactly. Yeah, know how to do that to a

1029
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 7: brass You see how she just did that. That's a skill,

1030
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 7: So yeah, go ahead.

1031
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 3: So he said, the reason that I was able to

1032
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 3: date women for so long and like end up seeing

1033
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 3: that you were right for me is because I haven't

1034
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 3: been looking for a partner this whole time.

1035
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 5: Exactly.

1036
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: I always just thought Okay, she'll come up.

1037
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 3: So because I wasn't obsessive about meeting this wife or

1038
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 3: this woman, I've been able to date figure out what

1039
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 3: I want. And it goes back to something Jody said

1040
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 3: about are we dating for the experience? Like how do

1041
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 3: we like we feel with them, et cetera, Or because

1042
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 3: you're a great Oh no, I think most I think

1043
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 3: most times, yeah, for the person.

1044
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 4: Most most women, as soon as the nigga give them

1045
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: enough attention, they see this as a potential partner.

1046
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 5: And that's a version of checking the box.

1047
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 2: Yes, consistency because everything else nigga can text you every.

1048
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 4: Other day, a nigga context you once a week, Like

1049
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 4: consistency is subjective, but just showing of attention. There's women

1050
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 4: that literally just crave the attention from a man at all,

1051
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 4: and now this is my potential partner.

1052
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 2: Let me cut everyone off and try to real in me.

1053
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: We aren't digging to see what dating looks like.

1054
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,280
Speaker 3: Like, I think meeting people in your thirties and forties,

1055
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 3: like to become real life partners is probably the best

1056
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 3: time because you I.

1057
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 7: Think that is the appropriate time personally based on life experience,

1058
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 7: Like yeah, thirty, when you're supposed to.

1059
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 5: Really your late thirties.

1060
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 7: Your forties, when so I can side, that's when you

1061
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 7: start considering things differently. But your early thirties, your twenties,

1062
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 7: that's the time for having experiences, right, and learning from

1063
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 7: the experiences that you have.

1064
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

1065
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 4: I sat with Ashley Cobb on selective ignorance and I said, well,

1066
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 4: what would be the advice that you give more more women?

1067
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 2: And she was like, ho longer?

1068
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 4: And of course it sounds crazy to say it in

1069
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 4: that sense, but it's literally like you don't know what

1070
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 4: things you truly want from a partner, how you show

1071
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 4: up the things you want in the bedroom if you

1072
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 4: don't have more experiences under your belt.

1073
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,280
Speaker 7: That's what they mean when they go to women's conferences

1074
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 7: and they say stuff like get to know yourself.

1075
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:40,720
Speaker 5: That's what they're talking about.

1076
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: Right, She's in a better, more peeply diet.

1077
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 5: The boy, no, you think the evolution was.

1078
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 4: I literally said that because her versions of her book,

1079
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 4: her book is that she was fucking and got pregnant

1080
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 4: at sixteen. Again, we can't come on her pocket.

1081
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 5: Really, that's what her book is about. She will.

1082
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 4: That's a daughter literally talked about the navigation of her

1083
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 4: own early childhood where she's at now. We don't align

1084
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 4: as a brand, and I wish we could, because I

1085
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 4: think her platform is something.

1086
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 2: That more women who either are ingrained in the church

1087
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: or don't feel safe to to navigate things with people

1088
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 2: like minded people.

1089
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 4: Are they old shame or are too afraid to talk

1090
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 4: about things. This book and our journeys are something that

1091
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 4: I would love to share on the.

1092
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 5: Platform hundred percent.

1093
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 7: But those same sisters, I ahs they buying it book, Yeah,

1094
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 7: they're just not buying it or you're not on the

1095
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 7: stage to say they're the cover.

1096
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 3: Off around with it like buying that we haven't done.

1097
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 3: That makes it harder to realize how much depth is

1098
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 3: in there. We are the comedy podcast, like, we're not

1099
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 3: going to have the MD. We're not sex with Emily

1100
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 3: or even Shamboody, who's like certified in certain therapy. We

1101
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 3: love Shann Yes, So I think when you have people

1102
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 3: that are exploring and more crass up front, that's harder

1103
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: to connect with.

1104
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 1: If shann asked Sarah to go on her broadcast, that.

1105
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 3: Would look differently because oh, certified masterclass. There's something there

1106
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,479
Speaker 3: that makes you trust that person to hear about sex.

1107
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: The great thing we got a master class certified New York.

1108
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 5: I was just about to go there.

1109
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 7: The great thing is there's a room for everybody, right

1110
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 7: and as as a successful person of the cloth, you

1111
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. She has made a name for herself,

1112
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 7: whether you want to call it nepotism or not, which

1113
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 7: I think there's nothing wrong with nepotism.

1114
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 2: More in black community period.

1115
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 7: But y'all are doing y'all's thing. She literally has a

1116
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 7: conference called Women Evolved. Perhaps usually when you have a

1117
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 7: mind that is open to theological concepts and things like that,

1118
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 7: you evolve.

1119
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 5: The more you know, you guys might end up meeting

1120
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 5: each other where you where you do. You know what

1121
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 5: I'm saying, who knows?

1122
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 3: Let go a little bit of the fact that, like

1123
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 3: I don't know, with this book, we've had some things

1124
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 3: that have happened and made us so upset, and I've

1125
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 3: tried to approach it.

1126
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 5: With like you know what, motherfuckers, I want to let

1127
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 5: you in and sh but you see how again New.

1128
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 7: York Times bestseller period.

1129
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 5: They can't stop that, you know what I'm saying.

1130
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 3: So much so many of the people that won't open

1131
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 3: the door and go inside of the doors for the.

1132
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 7: That's why Lunelle was cussing Shannon sharp ass out the

1133
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:31,479
Speaker 7: other day. You've seen that, I think, calling them ugly

1134
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 7: and all kinds.

1135
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 5: Of ship just because she said she said that she

1136
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 5: she Shannon in them told her no about coming on

1137
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 5: club Shason Now.

1138
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 2: Very Nell let her first.

1139
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 5: Janet's from them up. It's lou Nell so like so.

1140
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 7: Lou Neelle said Shannon Sharp was ugly and that that's

1141
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 7: why he wear them tight closing all this other ship

1142
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 7: because she said, now that he's been through this recent

1143
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 7: you know, situation around, they want her on and she

1144
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 7: was like, fuck them. Yeah, that's how I think y'all

1145
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 7: need to be about the people that reject you guys

1146
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 7: when it comes to this credible work that you ladies

1147
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 7: have done. That it's something you should be so proud of. Right,

1148
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 7: fucking people that don't want to, you know, have that conversation.

1149
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 7: It's a lot of other people that are listening more

1150
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 7: importantly reading.

1151
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: I want to know something crazy. Before I got to Atlanta, Oh,

1152
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 1: I had a rough night before I got on that plank.

1153
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 3: Oh, I have this These people reach out to me

1154
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 3: to start making content for them and like putting them

1155
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 3: in their sphere of advertisement. I guess they work with

1156
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 3: influencers whatever sends me a text about why after reaching

1157
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,919
Speaker 3: out to me, why they couldn't work with me, and said,

1158
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 3: we think that there's nothing we can help you do

1159
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 3: because most of our clients need more pr or want

1160
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 3: to make a book or whatever, and you kind of

1161
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 3: already have these things, but maybe a luxury product development

1162
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,240
Speaker 3: like vibrator.

1163
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 2: Situation work for you.

1164
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, what you telling me after hours

1165
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 3: and hours of calls and what are we going to

1166
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 3: do branding in this? And you said, all you can

1167
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 3: make is a fucking vibrator. You want me to sell

1168
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 3: something else besides my New York Times Wrestling book.

1169
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 1: And it's a vibrator. I was, I'm not surprised. I

1170
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: was so gagged.

1171
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 3: I remember calling brook de Bard because she's an influencer

1172
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 3: friend I have that's like constantly working with my brands

1173
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 3: and akin to them.

1174
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: She was like, Alex Cooper is talk about sucking?

1175
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was. You know how the game goes,

1176
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 7: and it's crazy. It's just so crazy when it happens

1177
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 7: right in front of your face like that, and you'd

1178
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 7: be like, Yo.

1179
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: What the fuck dustin? I ain't even ask for any.

1180
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 7: Of that now, mind you. I so love to everybody.

1181
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 7: Y'all got me talking shit today? Please, I so love

1182
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 7: to everybody. I so love to a funky ass know

1183
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 7: nothing as motherfucker that don't deserve it, which you know

1184
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 7: I won't. But it's so many gay organizations, right, big

1185
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 7: name gay organizations who platform and and push forward so

1186
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 7: many voices that I'm personally really happy to see get

1187
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 7: the opportunity, right because I believe it's space for everybody.

1188
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 5: But y'all ain't ringing my bell? Why y'all only want

1189
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 5: a certain type of gay person? You know what I'm saying?

1190
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 5: But well, mind you, I'm openly gay. I don't run

1191
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:16,399
Speaker 5: from that, you know what I'm saying.

1192
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 7: I like to actually talk about it a lot because

1193
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 7: I want people to be used to being around people

1194
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 7: like me, right, But it's so many big names like

1195
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 7: gay organizations that why I ain't been on the why

1196
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 7: I haven't hosted the GLAD Awards, What type of the

1197
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:30,800
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, I don't know.

1198
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 5: You tell me what you see me? So I want

1199
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 5: to know. I mean, I'm just saying because there's a difference.

1200
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 5: There's a lot.

1201
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 7: It's sober most of the time. It's never black. So

1202
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 7: let's even let's go there, right and what it is opportunity.

1203
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 7: Shout out to Glad we've worked together before. Shout out

1204
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 7: to a couple of other organizations, human rights organization, a

1205
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 7: couple of different people. I've worked with Native Son, you

1206
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,919
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, A couple of different organizations.

1207
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 5: But there's a ton more.

1208
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 7: I have a lot of dollars that they put behind,

1209
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 7: work with media personalities and quote unquote influencers and ship

1210
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 7: like that. A lot of opportunities that I just don't get,

1211
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 7: you know. But they'll put another motherfucker that can't even

1212
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 7: read a teleprompter, you know what I'm saying up there,

1213
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,720
Speaker 7: just because they think that they're trending right now or whatever.

1214
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 7: So it's just you know how the game. Don't let

1215
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 7: that shit discourage you. Tell them to take that vibrator.

1216
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 2: And shove it up, shove it up their whole land.

1217
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 5: Ship. All right.

1218
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 4: Now, before we go out, we do have another segment,

1219
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 4: you know what, let me not go to the real quick.

1220
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 4: Let me ask you you picked do you have We

1221
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 4: have a segment called, uh, what is it? We ask,

1222
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:48,479
Speaker 4: and we do listen.

1223
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 2: We listen and we do judge. Where normally you would

1224
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: come and.

1225
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,359
Speaker 4: Tell us a story about a friend, gossip you've heard,

1226
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 4: where we could sit here and judge them and just

1227
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 4: talk about the or I like to pick like little

1228
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 4: parts from the book. And so I chose to pick

1229
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 4: progression because I know you had that relationship. I wanted

1230
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 4: to dig into what love and relationships currently look like

1231
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 4: for you and what you learned from your last relationship.

1232
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 4: Let's do that, Okay, So in Progression, y'all know in

1233
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 4: the book No Holds Bard Smaller, our New York Times

1234
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 4: bestseller in which we've, uh, we lean into things that

1235
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 4: we've learned about ourselves and in ways that we can

1236
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 4: improve moving forward. And so you, being a person that's

1237
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,879
Speaker 4: not a relationship guy, but that wasn't a pretty long

1238
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 4: standing relationship ended that.

1239
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: I want to know what the most what's the number

1240
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 2: one thing you learned.

1241
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 4: About yourself and what thing you would take in possibly

1242
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 4: a future relationship based on how that relationship ended.

1243
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I love my ex. You know what I'm saying.

1244
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 7: We don't speak, but I loved I love him, and

1245
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 7: I hope he's well, you know what I'm saying, You

1246
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 7: learn a lot of lessons.

1247
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 5: Everything is more clear on the other side of it,

1248
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

1249
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 7: And so I think just showing up in the fullness

1250
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 7: of yourself and not necessarily trying to create or configure

1251
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 7: yourself as the perfect person for them. When you love

1252
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 7: a person, you can identify like their needs and areas

1253
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 7: where some nurturing could like make them even better than

1254
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 7: they already are. And sometimes you can focus on that

1255
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 7: and showing up in those ways for a person as

1256
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,839
Speaker 7: opposed to kind of showing them what you need too,

1257
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 7: you know. And then before you know it, like things

1258
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,720
Speaker 7: have just gotten to a point where you're not because

1259
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 7: you're not showing up as yourself, they don't really even

1260
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 7: know how to be there for you, no matter how much.

1261
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,439
Speaker 7: And then it gets frustrated for everybody because we both

1262
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 7: love each other so much and we can't figure out

1263
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 7: how to do this right. So, you know, hindsight is

1264
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 7: twenty twenty. I think that's something that I would take

1265
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 7: moving forward, not just in romantic shit, but just friendships.

1266
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 7: Friendships are actually way more valuable to me than romantic

1267
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 7: connections because they are just so worthy, yea, They're so valuable,

1268
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 7: you know, And so just showing up that way for

1269
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 7: my friends. I want all my friends to know how

1270
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 7: much I care about them, how important their their happiness

1271
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 7: and their successes are to me. You know, I just

1272
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 7: move forward with that shit, you know, because I actually

1273
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 7: lost two of my best friends, yeah know that, and

1274
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 7: so losing them older in life. You know what I'm saying,

1275
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 7: I'm sensitive. You know what I'm saying. My whole body

1276
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 7: feel like a nipple. You know what I'm saying. I'm

1277
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 7: just out here.

1278
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, I'm sensitive.

1279
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 7: So that being said, I'm aware of the sensitive areas

1280
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 7: that exist in the relationships in my life, and I

1281
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 7: try my best to just supplement those relationships as best

1282
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 7: I can.

1283
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 4: Y'all, if you ever hate how I sound about describing

1284
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 4: my lack of romantic relationships so why I value my friends,

1285
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna get dust In to voice say it

1286
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 4: a lot more eloquently, because when I say this, sound like,

1287
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 4: but you're gonna be lowly father, but you need a nuggery.

1288
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 6: You're a man, You could say it, but that's exactly

1289
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 6: that's the same shit you ain't nothing but to get

1290
00:57:58,920 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 6: the fag hole.

1291
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:04,479
Speaker 5: Just want to that's why they Yeah, you know how.

1292
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 4: You're right, because apparently we're on this planet to be romantically.

1293
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 4: It was another person or two or three or four

1294
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 4: or five, eight or not twenty one.

1295
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 6: You know.

1296
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: That's funny.

1297
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 2: It's a lot of in the middle of your ship.

1298
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:23,960
Speaker 2: I liked it.

1299
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 5: I like y'all.

1300
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 4: Oh, listen, when I get the budget, I don't already

1301
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 4: told that's not I'm working on some stuff.

1302
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 2: And I said, all sluners, check needs you to come

1303
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 2: punch up, need you to be a writer?

1304
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 5: You do that?

1305
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 2: You do that ship?

1306
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 5: Gotcha?

1307
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: Now where can everyone listen to you? Support you, rock

1308
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: with you?

1309
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 7: So we're wrapping up this leg of the show. Shout

1310
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 7: out to everybody. This was a really special section of shows.

1311
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 7: These are my first shows where are presented as a

1312
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 7: stand up comedians. So these people bought tickets with no

1313
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 7: proof of concept, they had never had really no word

1314
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 7: of mouth, and we've had an overwhelming amount of support,

1315
00:58:56,680 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 7: selling out left and right, playing the fucking Imprime. I

1316
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 7: love it, Like just just so many things that are

1317
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 7: milestones for comedians. I've been so blessed and grateful to

1318
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 7: experience this first set out. So we have two more

1319
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 7: shows this weekend here in Atlanta City Winery were about

1320
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,439
Speaker 7: to do that much left to everybody to buy a ticket.

1321
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 5: I'm Finn show my ass.

1322
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 2: I'm excited to see.

1323
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 5: Can't wait.

1324
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 2: Said you have a second leg.

1325
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 7: So then we're gonna release some more days coming soon.

1326
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 7: We got a few other markets that we're gonna hit

1327
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 7: that I'm really excited about, and a whole new show

1328
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 7: that I've worked on. So I'm just really excited to

1329
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,439
Speaker 7: keep doing this telling jokes.

1330
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 5: It's so much fun. You know, I was boring to

1331
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 5: talk shit.

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Speaker 2: But gona lie. I have a lot going on.

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Speaker 4: And when I see how much you talk between all

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Speaker 4: your podcasts now you on tour, I'm was.

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Speaker 2: Like, Okay, I guess I can.

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Speaker 1: I can keep talking.

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Speaker 5: You can keep talking. You gotta keep talking. Man.

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00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: You love that you're talking. I love hearing you your voice.

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Speaker 2: I know everyone listening is like sitting in a puddle

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Speaker 2: right now because your voice just sounds so great. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for rocking with us.

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00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 5: Thank y'all for having me. I love y'all.

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Speaker 8: Proud.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Places on Trap House, Wheezy Dope Ist, Fly Ship, and

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Speaker 7: I'm definitely coming out.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I feel like you know when you're you got

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Speaker 3: a new baby. I love seeing a wove in there.

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Speaker 5: Yes, like.

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Speaker 3: Doing the concept that you really love like just like

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Speaker 3: you said, talking ship. I've always been a fitness, wellness girly,

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Speaker 3: but not like feeling like I had the body types.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're talking about working out a bit,

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Speaker 1: you want to see it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but a bitch, No.

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Speaker 1: I love house and trapped.

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Speaker 5: That's right, so you have the trap house. See how

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Speaker 5: that works. Here's perfect. You know what I'm saying. Shout

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Speaker 5: out to our friend Gabby. I love you Gabby.

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, that's our friend. That's our best friend.

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Speaker 7: And that's my girl. Yeah, canar okay, that's my girl.

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Speaker 2: I see you on the instagramt all right.

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Speaker 4: and Power a People Now wherever you get motherfucking.

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Speaker 5: Books, no buttholes, bring no ball.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's we want.

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Speaker 5: Because it's the front, so's you. I was gonna talk

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01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 5: about the back play y'all talking about.

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Speaker 2: The front, I mean talk about it.

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Speaker 5: I was gonna write this part of the scene.

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Speaker 2: I got a whole chapter called you can put.

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Speaker 1: It back there?

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Speaker 5: Okay, period. I got the.

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Speaker 4: This has been another episode of Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: Bye y'all, Bye,