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Speaker 1: How do you convince someone to break up with a

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Speaker 1: toxic partner?

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Speaker 2: Sot it is. It's its circle, man, it's a vicious cycle.

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Speaker 3: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: We all know that breakups can be hard, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: they're necessary in order to make your life better. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you agree, because Brooke, we have your

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Speaker 1: husband on the phone with us right now and he

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Speaker 1: wants to talk with you about something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what. That is not funny? Michael, Hello,

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Speaker 3: you there? What's up? Michael? Are we going party later?

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Speaker 3: Single boy? Oh? Did he hang up? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Because he loves to Jeffrey relationships.

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Speaker 3: Maybe got nervous or something. I'm sure it was nothing.

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Speaker 3: In case he wants to go.

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Speaker 1: It just goes to show dumping someone not as easy

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Speaker 1: as it sounds.

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Speaker 3: I would be.

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Speaker 2: So crushed on.

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Speaker 1: Man in China actually specializes in them.

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Speaker 2: Really.

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Speaker 1: His name is Xiao Cheng and he's thirty one years old,

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Speaker 1: and he's a self proclaimed emotional counselor for hire.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his specialty is helping married men break up with

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Speaker 1: their mistresses and return back to their wives.

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Speaker 2: Woo wow, that sounds like a messy situation. I never

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Speaker 2: want to insert myself in. That sounds like a terrible job.

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Speaker 1: Now, it's not like he's some therapist who sits you

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Speaker 1: down in a chair and talks you through all the

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Speaker 1: positives and negatives of an affair.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Now, Jao's methods are a little more unconventional, a little

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Speaker 1: more extreme. Okay, But that's why he's been so effective,

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Speaker 1: and now he's getting international fame for his work. Really.

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Speaker 1: In fact, the other week he did an interview and

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Speaker 1: shared some of his most recent cases. For example, last fall,

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Speaker 1: he was hired by a married woman who found out

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Speaker 1: her husband had been cheating with a younger girl.

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Speaker 2: So I could totally see where a married woman would

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Speaker 2: want to hire him make sure that the husband breaks

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Speaker 2: up with a mistress.

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Speaker 1: Now to help her, Jao's first step was to hire

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Speaker 1: an actor to take some compromising pictures with the married woman.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So now he's taking risk photos with the woman

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Speaker 2: that hired him.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay.

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Speaker 1: Then Jao posed as a vacation planner and sent the

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Speaker 1: married couple on a romantic getaway, and during their vacation,

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Speaker 1: he made sure the husband got an anonymous letter from

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Speaker 1: a stranger warning him to break up with his young

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Speaker 1: mistress as soon as possible because his wife quote had

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Speaker 1: a new boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, so it's like a little fight fire with fire

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Speaker 2: type of situation.

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Speaker 1: And inside the envelope were the photos of his wife

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Speaker 1: with the staged actor as the evidence of the affair.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, and you're just like maybe hugging or

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Speaker 2: kissing on the cheek.

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Speaker 3: You're not cheating in the pictures, but it's enough to be.

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Speaker 2: Like, well, it's an actor cheating. I'm just saying, he's

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Speaker 2: so it would be too bad if you had to

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Speaker 2: do something a little bit more risk game.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't count if you pay for it, that's what.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. So the husband finds this out. He sees

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Speaker 1: these pictures during their ten day vacation, so we can't

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Speaker 1: go anywhere.

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Speaker 2: Okay, And he's like, hell no, I mean I can cheat,

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Speaker 2: but she can't cheat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But since he's on vacation, it gives him plenty

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Speaker 1: of time to actually sit down and assess the situation

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Speaker 1: and fix his relationship with his wife. And then when

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Speaker 1: they returned home, he voluntarily broke off the relationship with

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Speaker 1: the mistress, never realizing that Jao set up the entire

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Speaker 1: thing game.

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Speaker 2: Do you think the wife feels so powerful.

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Speaker 3: Cheated on? I mean, I'd never take anyone back, but

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Speaker 3: that's cool. If you're willing to, they can feel guilty

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us. We're talking about a guy

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Speaker 1: in China who helps married men break up with their mistresses,

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Speaker 1: and that particular case costs the wife thirty thousand dollars. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you can just hook up with somebody record it yourself.

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Speaker 1: She says she was totally cool paying it given the

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Speaker 1: successful outcome.

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Speaker 2: Alessis has a point. She could have just had a

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Speaker 2: free affair on the side and done the whole thing

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Speaker 2: instead of faking.

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Speaker 3: But this guy is an expert.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna make it seem very very anonymous.

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Speaker 2: And it's a good point, you know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if you try to do it yourself,

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Speaker 1: you're not going to do it quite as well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, very true.

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Speaker 1: Now, not all the cases are as simple as the

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Speaker 1: one that we just talked about either. Sometimes Jao and

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Speaker 1: his team will take the opposite approach and actually confront

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Speaker 1: the mistress to try and to convince her to dump

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Speaker 1: the married boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, side piece, you got to get the

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Speaker 2: side piece to drop the guy right.

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Speaker 1: Joo admits that strategy can be difficult and extra time consuming.

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Speaker 2: I just heard him say more money.

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Speaker 3: He says.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes he'll hire an attractive actor to seduce the mistress

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Speaker 1: and secretly photographed the two of them together so he

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Speaker 1: can send the photos to the married man. Is this

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Speaker 1: guy must not be attractive because I would want to

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Speaker 1: do all that work myself.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna hunter down and I'm going to make out

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Speaker 3: with her so much bro.

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Speaker 1: Other times, they'll follow the mistress around to see if

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Speaker 1: she has any unsettling secrets that can be exploited to

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Speaker 1: scare the married.

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Speaker 2: Dan away a blackmailer. I mean, isn't the secret that

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Speaker 2: she's sleeping with a married dan?

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Speaker 1: That?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Jao has been in business for about six years now,

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Speaker 1: and the demand for his services has gotten so high

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Speaker 1: that he actually had to hire a full time eight

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Speaker 1: person staff to work alongside him so they can handle

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Speaker 1: all the cases day.

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Speaker 2: What a strange thing to put on your resume for

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Speaker 2: the next job you get.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what does that job title even look like? I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mistress, breaker up Earth mistress.

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Speaker 1: Aside from helping to end marital affairs. Joo's company does

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Speaker 1: offer other services to including relationships stress tests.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: Where you can actually.

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Speaker 1: Rent out love testers who will do their best to

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Speaker 1: try and seduce your significant other to see how faithful

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Speaker 1: they really are.

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Speaker 2: To you like that, Alexis No, no, you mean that

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Speaker 2: is playing with fire exactly. That is not gonna work

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Speaker 2: out well for you.

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Speaker 1: See, as soon as you get to that point in

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Speaker 1: your relationship, take it off where you are suspicious and

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Speaker 1: you're hiring other people to maybe seduce your partner, that's

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Speaker 1: when you know this relationship isn't working.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Jeffrey. That is absolutely right.

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Speaker 1: A little fun you guys, Okay, well text in the

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Speaker 1: seven eighty five nine two what do you think should

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Speaker 1: we start our own version of this business locally?

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Speaker 3: Yes, the moment.

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Speaker 1: Jose, the unfaithful Lise Alexis can seduce the husband's brookly

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Speaker 1: dig up dirt online and I'll be the secret camera

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Speaker 1: guy disguised as a dog in the corner, Large dogicious.

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Speaker 3: They'll never know, Huge dog. Your phone taps coming up

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Speaker 3: right after this