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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey, guys, guess what. Ben's not here today.

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Speaker 1: But I have somebody else who I have also really

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Speaker 1: good on air chemistry with. His name is Jared and

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Speaker 1: he is my fiance. Hello. Thank you for having me

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Speaker 1: this week. Jared, I am. I want to here every

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Speaker 1: week because we talk so well together. We do talk

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Speaker 1: so well together. It's almost like we have great chemistry. Yeah. Almost.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy enough to get engaged and stuff. Yeah, to

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Speaker 1: do that little thing when I get on one name

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Speaker 1: asked for your hand in marriage? Is that small part.

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Speaker 1: Jared and I are in d C right now. We

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Speaker 1: are home in Virginia at my home from now until Monday.

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Speaker 1: And then Jared we were at his place in Rhode

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Speaker 1: Island from last Thursday to Wednesday. Yeah. Well we ken

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Speaker 1: of Virginia because we heard Virginia is for lovers where

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Speaker 1: I heard that from. So we had to come home

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Speaker 1: because we're in love and Virginia for lovers, right. Actually, um,

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Speaker 1: we were asked to go down to Richmond and kind

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Speaker 1: of like recreate Becca's date, but then we were like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, we only have a certain amount of

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Speaker 1: time with family, which date the Richmond dates. I'll go

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Speaker 1: to some of the spots on the Richmond dates. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we would have kind of did a little sight

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Speaker 1: seeing from the Bachelor dates Bachelorette dates. Yeah, but I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know what I want there with their grade field trip.

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Speaker 1: It's not good for to clarify with you, guys. Everybody's

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Speaker 1: very confused where I'm from. Where are you from? Actually

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Speaker 1: from you're from Venus, That's where you're from. I was

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Speaker 1: born in New Jersey, guys, so that all the Jersey

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Speaker 1: girls who are obsessed with the fact that, like, I'm

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Speaker 1: from Jersey. I was born there, lived there till I

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Speaker 1: was too, moved to Massachusetts until I was five, and

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Speaker 1: then I've grown up in Virginia like plus twenty years,

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Speaker 1: so from kindergarten through college and beyond. And then I

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Speaker 1: did live in Jersey the year before being on the Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: which is why they said I was from Wayne, New Jersey.

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Speaker 1: But I was only living there for a year and

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Speaker 1: a half my sister was in school. But you're also

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Speaker 1: technically born in Jersey, so year that they put that no, no,

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Speaker 1: but you know that they wanted me to have the

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Speaker 1: Jersey girl rep because, of course, because you look like

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Speaker 1: a Jersey girl, like there's not a part of me

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Speaker 1: on the on Christmas season, looked like I was from Virginia.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely no. I saw you and immediately thought Jersey. That's

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Speaker 1: all I could take. But it's pretty cool that you

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Speaker 1: were from Boston, from Massachusetts for a couple of years

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Speaker 1: that you lived there, because I'm from Rhode Island. So

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Speaker 1: Ashley and I always like to think that maybe we

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Speaker 1: crossed paths when we were both three years old, you know,

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Speaker 1: like we met, not in a previous life, but as

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Speaker 1: a young toddler, we passed our our cross we crossed

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Speaker 1: paths cross past a couple of times. I really like

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Speaker 1: to think that we did. Because he goes to Newport,

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Speaker 1: Rhode Island a lot. It's actually one of the spots

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Speaker 1: that we are contemplating getting married in, and that was

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Speaker 1: Newport was a place that my parents would go to

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Speaker 1: on the weekends when we were living in Massachusetts when

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Speaker 1: they wanted to treat themselves because it's just such a

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Speaker 1: cute little town with cute restaurants and shops and boats.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, shops and boats. I just thought

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Speaker 1: that was so funny. It was such a departure from

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Speaker 1: what I thought you were gonna either You're gonna be

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Speaker 1: like shops and restaurants and bars, and you're like, you know,

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Speaker 1: shops and boats. I don't know. I think of Newport

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Speaker 1: and I think of sail boats. Yeah, I think of

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Speaker 1: the same thing. Anyway, Jared was sweet enough to as

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Speaker 1: from the ages of two to five, where my sister

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Speaker 1: got to see where you were living in Boston all

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Speaker 1: those years, all those years ago when I when I

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Speaker 1: first discovered Jasmine and Aladdin. That's where I had my

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Speaker 1: birthday party where I had a face painter come and

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Speaker 1: they she painted the Genie and Jasmine on everybody's cheek.

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Speaker 1: What were you, Well, I actually had the Genie on

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Speaker 1: He probably was able to really nail the Genie face

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Speaker 1: paint totally. And you didn't want to be that girl

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Speaker 1: with the Jasmine face paint. You were like, I want

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Speaker 1: would I need her on my face? Okay, well, Mr

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Speaker 1: mya Addin, There's two things I wanted to say before

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Speaker 1: moving on to beyond Jared in my life, so I'm sorry. Um. First,

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Speaker 1: Jared's friend Crystal was the one who signed him up

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Speaker 1: for the show, and I, of course, because so Ashley,

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Speaker 1: I have me applied myself and of course made the

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Speaker 1: most elaborate audition tape of all life. And yes, I

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Speaker 1: know I've promised you guys that you're gonna see it

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Speaker 1: at some point, but honestly, every time I rewatch it,

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Speaker 1: I cringe too hard that I can't even show you, guys, like,

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Speaker 1: I don't even think you really would want to see it.

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Speaker 1: It's so cringeworthy. I just rewatched my Bachelor audition tape

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Speaker 1: and it's so cringe worth is pretty darn cringe work.

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Speaker 1: It's so bad. I'm not even sure how I got

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Speaker 1: put so much effort into it and edited it at

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Speaker 1: now I look back and watch it and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: actually put that together. So you were like the perfect

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Speaker 1: American man, you know, That's what I was going for.

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Speaker 1: Crystal said that when when my friend Crystal who signed

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Speaker 1: me up, she was like, you don't understand you're the

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Speaker 1: all American Like, that's what you need to go for it.

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Speaker 1: That's who you are. So just put yourself in that

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Speaker 1: video and you'll get on the show. You're a small

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Speaker 1: town guy that was throwing a football with his dog

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Speaker 1: like it was well to be fair, I was drowing

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Speaker 1: a football with my dad and my dog was in

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Speaker 1: not what I meant. I mean, you were with your dog.

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Speaker 1: you hit balls? Were you like in a baseball field?

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Speaker 1: the bat and gages. I was like, hey, baseballs, And

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Speaker 1: then I was hitting golf balls, and then I was

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Speaker 1: playing catch with my dad a lot more vanilla than

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Speaker 1: you actually are. Video. Yeah, I didn't know what else

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Speaker 1: daily life. And so what is my daily life? I

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Speaker 1: I I go golfing sometimes I play sports. When else

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Speaker 1: am I gonna put this video? And so that's exactly

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Speaker 1: what I did, But it was you could have been

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Speaker 1: this is my first one on one. Is my fantasy

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Speaker 1: Sue date. Actually, up to that point when I made

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Speaker 1: the video, I've never seen the show. And so once

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Speaker 1: real potential of me being on here. And then that's

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Speaker 1: when I started watching Chris Soul season. And then I

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Speaker 1: which ironically enough, is when I got first introduced to

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Speaker 1: That guy seems difficult to live with that forward four

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Speaker 1: years I live with them. I was like, what a

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Speaker 1: He's one of my close friends. Um well, I brought

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Speaker 1: been thinking a lot over the past couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: about just these little things that have led to us meeting,

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Speaker 1: the time that she did, and if it didn't catch

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Speaker 1: the eye of the casting producers, and you know, same

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Speaker 1: in my situation, And if I were casting on one

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Speaker 1: met you? Yeah? No, it's crazy to think. What if

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Speaker 1: they held me out to JoJo's season? I know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess we would have um cross paths in some

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Speaker 1: and said, hey, this is you know, ABC is the

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Speaker 1: Bachelorette casting to poor MC calling reaching out to Jared,

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Speaker 1: see if we can talk to you for a few minutes.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is going on right now?

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Speaker 1: And then you know, four years later, here I am

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Speaker 1: on the grandest ship in the world engage the most

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Speaker 1: beautiful woman in the world. Oh my goodness, gracious, you

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Speaker 1: love me. I do love you. I love you so much.

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Speaker 1: I'm a luckiest man alive. I really am. He just

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Speaker 1: spoils me with words. I'm very touchy. If he doesn't

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Speaker 1: touch me for like five minutes, get separation anxiety, Well,

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Speaker 1: he says, he gets separation anxiety. But like it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be bad because like in a year, if it's not

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Speaker 1: like a gradual decrease of touch, I'm gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it's been ten minutes. This relationship is over.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like me anymore, because that's how touchy he is.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you don't understand. Like, if he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: a bad mood. That's a that's a tell tale sign

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Speaker 1: right there. I'm not touching him in a bad mood. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty transparent, But you're not usually at a bad

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Speaker 1: mood towards me. No, of course not. Um okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: maybe we should talk about this episode now. I was

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Speaker 1: totally going to talk about the episode, but I was

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Speaker 1: going to say one more thing beforehand. Okay, one more thing.

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Speaker 1: Videos and editing and stuff. Um, I found out the

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Speaker 1: sweetest thing this week. So Jared went and he bought

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Speaker 1: his first Mac computer. Yes, Apple, And I'm staying proud

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Speaker 1: of him. Yes, I'm an adult now, I'm so adulting.

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Speaker 1: I got my Mac. Yeah. And he responds to emails quickly.

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Speaker 1: guys would really appreciate if you check it out. Um.

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Speaker 1: But in terms of the Taylor and Derek situation, UM,

425
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Speaker 1: I don't want to sound like a jerk by saying this,

426
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Speaker 1: but I just I honestly forgot that they were engaged.

427
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: But I also think that a lot of people did

428
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 1: for the simple fact they didn't get engaged on the

429
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Speaker 1: actual show of Paradise. They got engaged on the reunion

430
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Speaker 1: the after show. And so that's why I kind of forgot,

431
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: because I was like, wait, there was an engagement last year.

432
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's right, Derek proposed on the

433
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: after show. I knew they left together. Remember that. Um,

434
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,239
Speaker 1: but you know they were together for a year and

435
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: we're trying to figure it out. Apparently they were long

436
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 1: distance the entire time. Did you know this? Yes? I

437
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,880
Speaker 1: didn't know this because we had Derek on the podcast

438
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: about six weeks ago. What did he say about it?

439
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 1: He was just like, yeah, we're a long distance Uh,

440
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 1: we're just making at work right now. That's so interesting.

441
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 1: I wonder if they had a plan not to like

442
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: dive into like a long distance like New York to Boston.

443
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: That's like long distance across the country. She was in

444
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: Seattle and he was in New York, right, Um, yeah,

445
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 1: that's a huge distance to travel. But you know, my

446
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: my thing, it's like, if you're meant to be and

447
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: you want to be together, then you will be together.

448
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: Distance it's never going to be the sole reason for

449
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: a breakup. And anybody who just blames distance or just

450
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: blames their schedules is masking something like yeah. Um. But

451
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: having said that, if you are doing long distance, I

452
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: think that you have to just have some sort of plan, right.

453
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: So if you're doing long distance, you just have to say, Okay,

454
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Speaker 1: we're gonna do a long distance right now, But you know,

455
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 1: in eight months from now, we're gonna be planning to

456
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: live together. I'm going to plan to move to you.

457
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 1: You're going to plan to move to me something. Right,

458
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 1: You can't just be like, hey, we're gonna do a

459
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: long distance and we're just gonna play it by ear

460
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: and figure it out specifically when you're engaged. I think

461
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,719
Speaker 1: you really have to put effort in to say, hey,

462
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 1: if we're gonna do this long distance thing, for it now,

463
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: but we're planning on getting married. We just have to

464
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: have some sort of tentative plan to say, hey, within

465
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: the next year, I'm either moving to Seattle or you're

466
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: moving to New York. Because it's really difficult to make

467
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: a long distance relationship work now. I don't think that's

468
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: why you break up. I completely agree with you. Where

469
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: if it's you know, I don't. I'm not a believer

470
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 1: of like everything happens for a reason, or if it's

471
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: meant to be, it's meant to be, Like it's more

472
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: it's more so for me, Like you have to put

473
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: effort to it, right, Like if you just a combination

474
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: to me, yeah, but like for example, if you say, well,

475
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: if it's meant to be it's meant to be, so

476
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna stay long distance. But if it's meant to be,

477
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: it's meant to be, it's like, no, you have to

478
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: put you have to put effort into it. So if

479
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: you guys are a long distance and you are wanting

480
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: to be with each other, then somebody's gonna have to

481
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: budge and somebody's gonna have to move where they're living. So,

482
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: having said that, like it had been a year, apparently

483
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: it had been a years since they've been engaged, been

484
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: together left the show, um, and so the idea that

485
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: they still had not moved at least in the same

486
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: as each other obviously some sort of red flag and

487
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: not surprising that they broke up. That wasn't the red

488
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: flag to me. Um, we can't really reveal too much,

489
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: but there are a lot of Bachelor cameos in Paradise

490
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: this year, a lot, and we heard that they were

491
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 1: not one of them. And that's when Jared I were like,

492
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: red flag, Well we knew something was up, obviously, yeah,

493
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, our schedules won't allow and

494
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: it's like you you come on, you make your schedule

495
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: around the Bachelor. Yeah, of course if you have an

496
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 1: opportunity to make a cameo on a show, you're going

497
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: to revolve your schedule or on that, because how many

498
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: opportunities do you have that in life? Not many. Now

499
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: we know that Karin and Taylor had quite an infamous

500
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: yeah for each other, which is crazy to think that

501
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: Nick was on the two on one as the Bachelor.

502
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 1: For some reason, that's still is weird for me to

503
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: think about Jared sees Nick as his roommate, not as

504
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. Well, I think it's also different for us

505
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: because you know, for me, I was on the bachelorret

506
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: with Nick and then we on Paradise together, and so

507
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: I it's just still like, obviously, no, he was the Bachelor,

508
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: but it's like, oh, that's right, use the Bachelor too,

509
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 1: that's right, Holy moly. And he had a two on

510
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: one and he had a to one with Karn and Taylor.

511
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: That was his two on one. It's just I was

512
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: I don't forget that, but I just have to remind myself.

513
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't imagine having him having patience and

514
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: tolerance for that too on one specifically, who has a

515
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: patience talents for any two on one? Wait, speaking of

516
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: moving in and living together. I think a lot of

517
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: people are like, wait, does Jared live in l A now? Yes,

518
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: Jared lives in l A now, and Jared does live

519
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: with Nick now, but um, we are going to be

520
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:43,479
Speaker 1: figuring out the living situation. He'll probably move in fall. Okay.

521
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: So I have a new apartment. As we all know,

522
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: we made sure that it didn't have any ghosts or

523
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: deaths that happened in it. Yeah, you got to make sure. Yeah.

524
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: So I'm still settling that in and I didn't want

525
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: Jared to move in while I'm still like in the

526
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: mess of all the moving and settling because I like

527
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: one thing done and then you introduce another thing. Perfect.

528
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 1: Jared stays there like a four or five days and yeah,

529
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: it's fine. We don't really have to talk about this.

530
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: I just realized that my pants are inside out. Oh

531
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: that's all right, they still feel good. Um okay. So

532
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: so anyway, the two one one with Karen and Taylor.

533
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: Karin had something to say about the Derek and Taylor

534
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: breaking up. Karin uh savagely apparently said good. Uh he

535
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: as in, Derek actually lasted longer than I thought. Taylor

536
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: is a nightmare. Is anybody surprised by this. Of course,

537
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: Karan's gonna talk crap about it. She doesn't like Taylor.

538
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: Karan likes making a splash. Yeah, let's move on, Nick File,

539
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: do you want to do it? A little news alert,

540
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: breaking news, breaking news. We have a breaking news alert, guys, everybody,

541
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: we have big news, world world news. Nick File is

542
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: still single. No, apparently one of our news things is

543
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: Nick File is not dating Rumor. Willis Rumor is one

544
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: of Nick's really good friends has become friends with her. Yeah,

545
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,959
Speaker 1: Rumors the sweetest girl. He seems really cool. Never met her,

546
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 1: but all the stories they tell of her just I

547
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: really like her vibes through stories. Oh it's just great.

548
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: And uh, there have been rumors out there. There have

549
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: been rumors of us of him and Rumor dating because

550
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: they posted a couple of pictures together. Um obviously Rumor

551
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: one Dancing with the Stars a few years ago. And

552
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: Nick is a public figure for himself. He was also

553
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: on Dancing with the Stars, who I thought should have

554
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: went further. Him and Peter were really good. I was surprised,

555
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: I think something like that, and I thought he was

556
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: gonna make top five. I thought he was pretty good.

557
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: He was getting better as the season one along, but

558
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: unfortunately he did not win. But they were spotted together.

559
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: They've posted pictures together online. So now their rumor mill

560
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: is circling saying or Nick and Rumor willis dating breaking news.

561
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: They are not dating um and so Nick. You know

562
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: Nick's doing his thing in Los Angeles right now and

563
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: and so. But no, I can tell you he's not

564
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: dating rumors alright, So Nick and Rumor are not in

565
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Speaker 1: All right, now, guys, now we're going to jump into

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Speaker 1: the recap of last night's episode. I don't think Jared

601
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: and I could have pressed pause any more times to discuss.

602
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: So I thought it was a great episode for Jared

603
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: and I to be doing this podcast together because we

604
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: debated naturally so much throughout it. So now we can

605
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: just debate on the podcast. All right. We actually tried

606
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: not to go like thoroughly into the conversations last night

607
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: because we're like it for the podcast. Yeah, I get

608
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: our initial reaction on air. Okay, well, I mean let's

609
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: start with the first one I got. I got fired

610
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: up over the Calton thing because Jared and my mom

611
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: were like, I don't know if I buy this guy,

612
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it like that. Okay, fine, you clarify,

613
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: you make it all like Jared PC, I mean, well,

614
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: I think you're getting hyped up because you were notoriously

615
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: known for being a virgin on Christill season. Because but

616
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: the difference was you kind of said it earlier on

617
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: where Colin was waiting until the final six. They know that, like,

618
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: oh he's gonna get really far we'll save it till then,

619
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Speaker 1: because with Grecia they saved it in so like fantasy suite.

620
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: I think with Colton, up to this point, listen, Colton,

621
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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a very nice human being. I think

622
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: up to this point, at least through the viewing of

623
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: The Bachelor Rette, he has come across a little bit

624
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: as playing it by the book. Uh, you know, the

625
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: whole tea situation. Everything he's been saying to Becca, Like,

626
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: I hated the conversation that they had a couple of

627
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: weeks ago with Becca confronting him about the tea situation.

628
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: Nothing was resolved and she's like, okay, perfect, here's a rose.

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Speaker 1: But you know I felt the same way. I was like,

630
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: wait a second, and then um, you know he's very

631
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Speaker 1: uh like we're talking about it, he's just very charming,

632
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: very smooth, knows what he's doing. Last night was literally like,

633
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: we'll see the difference between Colton and you being virgins,

634
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: is that like you looked like a virgin? No, why

635
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: if you did not look like a virgins? Saying that

636
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: you you're a little bit more curious. I looked nervous,

637
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,959
Speaker 1: I wasn't smooth. I looked like I really didn't know

638
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: what the heck I was doing. You came across a

639
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: little bit more awkward colin comings across, looks across like

640
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: he could take your clothes off with his eyes. Yeah,

641
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: and so now listen, it's personal choice. He might be

642
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: a virgin. Um, I believe him when he says he's

643
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: a virgin. I have no idea why he'd lie. Um.

644
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: But you know when he was talking to Becca, Um, listen,

645
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,479
Speaker 1: I you can speak upon it better than I can

646
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: about how difficult it is telling the bachelor bachelorette that

647
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: you are inexperience in that department. Um. So basically my

648
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: mom was like, he's not. I don't believe him, and

649
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, so many people came at me, like

650
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: all the tweets and Instagram comments were like, this girl's lying.

651
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: She's way too like sexy, she doesn't handle herself, her

652
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: like tongues in his mouth. That's not a virgin. And

653
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, why can't you be a virgin who like

654
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: is a little bit sultry or like kind of knows

655
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: what they're doing up into the point of m pants off,

656
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, just because I haven't

657
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: had sex doesn't mean that I don't like I don't

658
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: know how to kiss, or I don't know how to

659
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: like grace somebody's butteh. So I'm like, mom, come on,

660
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: that's so frustrating. You can't say that just because he's

661
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: hot means that he hasn't had sex at the age.

662
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: And like I said, I don't think it's the fact

663
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: that Colton saying he's a virgin is is the factor

664
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: in which your mom may not believe him. I think

665
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: it's up to this point, everything that's happened with Colton,

666
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: it's like, hmm, I've already felt I've already felt this

667
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: side of doubt with Colton, and now he's saying he's

668
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: a virgin. It's just it's like, m that's very convenient.

669
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: And then you know, listen, I believe that he's a virgin.

670
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: I think it's very difficult to, you know, tell somebody,

671
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: especially in the national TV, that you are a virgin.

672
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: We talked about that, if you want. I had so

673
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: much sympathy for Colton in that moment because I know

674
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: how awkward it is. It is such a weird thing

675
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: to talk about. And he even said, like, I don't

676
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: think my dad knows this, and I don't. I think

677
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: my dad probably had an inkling, but I don't think

678
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: my dad knew it either. And I'm just like, and

679
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: here I am on national TV telling my love interest this.

680
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: This is so awkward. And of course, you guys, if

681
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: I I told everybody in my audition tape in my

682
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: first round of auditions, I was like, this is a

683
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: nice way of having an interesting part of me that

684
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: people wouldn't expect. That's going to help me get on

685
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: the show. So I revealed it. And then of course,

686
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 1: if you're reveal it and casting, they're not gonna make

687
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: you talk about it because obviously they can't make you

688
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: do anything, but they will strongly, strongly encourage you to

689
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: do so. And I just knew it was time that

690
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: up Colton was strongly suggested to do so. And it

691
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,959
Speaker 1: is the most awkward conversation to come out of your mouth,

692
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: because I don't know, it's like even it's even more

693
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 1: awkward than a SOB story. And I also think, honestly

694
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: more what I hated more about that entire situation wasn't

695
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: so much the Colton part, but the backup part about

696
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: how she had to get up and walk away from

697
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: the other conversation than I have to have. Well, whatever

698
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: the reason that was why she ended up getting away

699
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: from the table and having to take a breather and

700
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 1: really make Colton sweat out, whatever the reason that happened,

701
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: I hated every second of it because the idea that

702
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: she needed to really reevaluate whether Colton was staying or

703
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: not solely based on the idea that he was a

704
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: virgin is absurd and really, um disrespectful. I think he

705
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: was super disrespectful. It is such a nervous thing. And

706
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: I always felt like Chris Souls when I told him,

707
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: he looked at me like as in a sexual way.

708
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: I always believed before then. And then I told him

709
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: in week four, and then I felt immediately like he

710
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 1: was turned off by me because I was like, Oh,

711
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: she's not like that fun girl that I feel like

712
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: I can just bang now. Yeah, well, listen, it's a

713
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: conversation you need to have because being physical as a

714
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: part of being in a relationship, and you can't really

715
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: understate the physical part of being a relationship, right, Like,

716
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what Garrett and um whoever was talking

717
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: about back in the house. But what did I in

718
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: the closet, and I got so angry because you're going

719
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: to say that his him being a virgin is a skeleton,

720
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: like a bad thing, that is insinuating that is a

721
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 1: bad thing attractive quality. I can only imagine that they

722
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: were there. It was almost semantics at that point, and

723
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: they didn't really mean it in a negative way. They

724
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: were just trying. They were blabbing, and they said that

725
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 1: because I don't think any would really infer someone being

726
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: a virgin as being a terrible thing or or a

727
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: skeleton in the closet. If they are, then they're not

728
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 1: that smart. But between the skeleton comment being part of

729
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: the episode as well as Becca's dramatic exit from the

730
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 1: dinner table, this show and you guys know, I never

731
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: speak badly about it, but I don't like the way

732
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: that they always have to make the virgin revealing their

733
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: virginity as like this dark thing that is a turn

734
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 1: off for people. They always make it seem like it

735
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: should be a turn off, like, oh, I may not

736
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: want to be with you anymore because you're a virgin.

737
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 1: Between mine and scallop fingers and now Colton, Becca got

738
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: away with it. I don't know why they never like

739
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: they never made Becca's a virginity look like a reason

740
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: that Chris wouldn't want to be with her, But for

741
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: all the other three of modern Bachelor history, it just

742
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: seems like, oh, it's a roadblock. Why is it a roadblock?

743
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: It's definitely a factor, though I don't think you can

744
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,720
Speaker 1: disagree with that. Like, for example, even I can speak

745
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: for experience. When we went on our fantasy suitet date

746
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: the first season, obviously I knew that you were not

747
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: tortusly known as a virgin, and everybody's gonna be like,

748
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: did you did you take a virginity? Did you take

749
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: your virginity? And it's like, well, that's it's not like,

750
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: because it's a public relationship that you're gonna have to

751
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,320
Speaker 1: be pestered with that question, and that's why it's annoying.

752
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: But like if it were in a public relationship, then

753
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: you would be like, I don't care. I completely agree,

754
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: but you can't underestimate the public aspect of being on

755
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: a television show with somebody that is known to be

756
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: a virgin that you might take into the fantasy suitet date.

757
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 1: Because it was like there were articles written, did Jared

758
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: take Ashley's virginity. It's like just something that you have

759
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: to think about, and if you don't, then I think

760
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 1: you're being a little ignorant. It's definitely a factor. It's

761
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 1: not a negative factor. I'm not saying that. What I'm

762
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: saying is it's a conversation that needs to have. So

763
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't mind Colin talking about. What I did mind

764
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 1: was the fact that Becca got up for whatever reason

765
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: and had to let Colin sweat it out instead of

766
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: just having an adult conversation in the moment, like that's okay,

767
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: we can like, you know, that's great. You know, I

768
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: think it's great that you are very selective about you know,

769
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: who you're sleeping within the fact that you want to wait.

770
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: The only question I had for Colin was when he

771
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 1: said I'm not waiting for marriage. I'm just waiting for

772
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: the right heart. But I always said, um, yes, um,

773
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: But wasn't he in like a long term relationship. I

774
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: don't think it was a long term Okay, Well, obviously

775
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: then he knew that it wasn't the right girl. Yeah.

776
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: He also said something that resignated strongly with me. He

777
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: was like, I would well, he said that he would

778
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: lie in the locker room, or like he said, he

779
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: lied in the locker room, which makes me think that

780
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: he was lying to other guys about him having sex

781
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: to like, you know, to be because it opens up

782
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: to a lot of mockery in a situation like that,

783
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: if like here in the locker room and he was like, oh,

784
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: it's the game of virgin I can't talk about this stuff. Yeah,

785
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: of course, listen, I've been um. But it resonnated with

786
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: me because there was a time, like in my mid

787
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: early twenties where whenever sex would come up, like in

788
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: grad school or something like, girls will be like, you know,

789
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: talking about their experiences in their first times and all

790
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: of that, and I'd be like, who wants cookies. I

791
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: would always change the subject, and I'd always like try

792
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: to look distracted during the conversations. I'd do anything. So

793
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: like you immediately became Steve Curl from the forty O Virgin. Ever,

794
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 1: in the beginning at the pope table, they're like all

795
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 1: talking about sex, and then it comes to him He's like, yeah,

796
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: you know, boobs, they're like sand bags, and they're like

797
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: sand bags. Oh my gosh, I so me. So I

798
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: just felt a lot of sympathy for Colton, whether in

799
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: those situations in the locker room or just having to

800
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: tell Becca about this. I felt close to Colton that moment.

801
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: Fair enough absolutely, um. And then so moving on, Colon

802
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: comes back, and then Garrett has his one on one. Right.

803
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: But but before it's time for Garrett to have his

804
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: one on one, he needed to use his his movement watch.

805
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: His movement watch of course. Um, you guys have heard

806
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: about movement before. Jared wears his movement watch every single day.

807
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: I really do need to change a little bit he does. Um.

808
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: The company has grown like crazy, and Jared has been

809
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: part of it because he has like five, I have

810
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 1: more than five movement watches. But they're great. Why would

811
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: I not wear him? I don't know. I have I

812
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 1: have a black band, I have a brown band, I

813
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 1: have a gray band. Um, so I can literally wear

814
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: them with any shoe. It's nice. They've sold almost two

815
00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: million watches in over a hundred and sixty countries. Two

816
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: million watches sold in over a hundred sixty countries, and

817
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,320
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818
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,640
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819
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: checked out the sit lately, but they've doubled the number

820
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,799
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821
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: I have about fifty two thou watches myself. A summer

822
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 1: band it's like it's like a teal and then there's

823
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: a pink one. Oh I like that, I mean, I like,

824
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 1: I like teal feels great field the color of gang green.

825
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 1: That's just a quote from the wedding planner. Obviously, who

826
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,640
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827
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830
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831
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:54,600
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832
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,719
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833
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 1: They're all about looking good and keeping it bull. Moving

834
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,640
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835
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,600
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836
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839
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,319
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840
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,839
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Speaker 1: your returns. All right now, Now it's time to talk

851
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: about Garrett State. Okay cool? Uh? Jared and I like

852
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: weren't impressed by Garrett State. No, not at all. Fast,

853
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: I don't know him yet. You know what's so funny

854
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: is that I feel like his most prominent episode personality wise,

855
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: was the first episode. I feel like I really knew

856
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: Garrett in the first episode between his package. That's what

857
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: really made everybody loved his minivan thing. Right. Yeah, but

858
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 1: I haven't felt connected to him ever since. No, he's

859
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: very boring. He's probably very nice, but good God in heaven.

860
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: Everything that just I feel like comes out of his

861
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:33,359
Speaker 1: mouth is very um formulaic. You know, it's like, this

862
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: is great, this is amazing, I'm having so much fun,

863
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: and so can we have something else, something else besides

864
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: you being a positive person. Listen, I'm all about positivity.

865
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: But at the same time, if you're like, I'm a

866
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 1: positive person, I never get down. It's like, can I

867
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 1: even trust you? Like it never gets sad even in

868
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: a moment. You're just always positive. Everything is positive. Well,

869
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: it's like one of those self describing things that we

870
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: all know Ben hates, and now I've learned to hate

871
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 1: them too. I've always hated that, Like I can't stand

872
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: when somebody says I'm a good person. I'm a honest person,

873
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: I'm a trustworthy person. You don't say that. You just

874
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: say I'm doing the best I can, or like I

875
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: really try to be a good person. Yeah, instead of

876
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: being like I am a good person, like somebody I

877
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: don't want to go back in the season, but somebody

878
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 1: said that in the moment, was like I'm a good person.

879
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: He's not, And it's like, oh God, I'm gonna throw up. Right.

880
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever said anything along those lines.

881
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: Except for like I say something like I got I'm

882
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: really relatable, or people people say I go, I'm relatable,

883
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: or like people find me relatable. I don't say I'm

884
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: a relatable person. I kept saying to Jared yesterday, there's

885
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: something really weird by saying I am, because that is declarative.

886
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: I think that makes it seem like it's a fact,

887
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: non opinion on yourself. It is a fact I am

888
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: a good person. That you can't You can't declare yourself something.

889
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: You can't say that you are by fact. I think

890
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: it's a balance, right, because you have to know who

891
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: you are. And I sometimes find difficulty to do that

892
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: when people are like, describe yourself, and like I don't

893
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: want to because I don't want to make conversation of

894
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: time doing our bachelor things. And it was like describe

895
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: yourself in five adjectives. I'm like, oh god, yeah, can

896
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: we skip this part please? Um? But with Garrett, yeah,

897
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 1: and then his whole thing, he throws his ex wife

898
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: under the bus again. What did he say about her

899
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: at the dinner? She was because she was hot headed

900
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 1: and always yelling. I was like, good God, Garrett, let

901
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: it go, just like hey, it didn't work out. We

902
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: both are issues, but it's okay. It's ambilical. Instead of

903
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: him being like she was emotionally abusive, she's hot headed.

904
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: She was yelling at me, and it's like, Garrett, holy moly,

905
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: we get it. You apparently think that you were in

906
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: the right on everything in this relationship and she was

907
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: completely wrong and ruined everything. But you tried and he

908
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: said it again, yes, that is like we really, you know,

909
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 1: in irreconcilable differences. Oh god. He was like, I tried

910
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: everything I could to save the marriage, but that's okay.

911
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: So that's where Becca gets concerned. She goes, you were

912
00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 1: in a bad situation and yet you're always trying to

913
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: make it work. And then she said are you always

914
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: going to be like stubborn like that and trying to

915
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 1: make something happen that really shouldn't be happening. And then

916
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: he said this really awkward thing where he was like,

917
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: I take action. Well, yeah, he didn't even explain it.

918
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: He was like, he's like, you know, because I think

919
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: it was more specifically a question asked like do you

920
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: are you into this? Are you into the idea of this?

921
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: And he was like, you would know that you know

922
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: if there's any red flakes, because I'm a guy that

923
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: takes action, so you know. And then they just and

924
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: then she was like, I love our conversations, and I

925
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: was like, what I think there was a lot chopped

926
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 1: out of there. The conversations truly last about an hour

927
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: and they knock them down to two minutes. But that

928
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: was just something that was really hard for me to

929
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: get over the fact that he was like, you know,

930
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: I'm a guy that takes action. I want to be like,

931
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,280
Speaker 1: what the hell does that mean? Can you please explain

932
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: this further because I have no idea where you're trying

933
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: to articulate. I'm you'll know, I'm a guy that takes action.

934
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: Uh Okay, cool, bro, here's the rose. Yeah, I know

935
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: he says that. And then she was like, he's like,

936
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 1: I love us. We're so much fun. Oh, Jared, I

937
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,399
Speaker 1: feel so horrible making fun of bachelor conversations and when

938
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: people have totally made fun of our Bachelor conversation. But

939
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: that's the whole point. People have made fun of our conversations.

940
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: Now it's our turn to make fun of other people's conversations.

941
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: Like we are in the position of power right now,

942
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 1: let's take advantage of it. I just need to say

943
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: that now I know why I was really bad at

944
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: job interviews because I was like, describe yourself, what are

945
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: your strengths? And then you're like, I'm creative, really creative person,

946
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: and just like comes out with so much doubt because

947
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: I don't feel natural self, natural self describing what did

948
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: you describe when somebody asked, what's your one of your

949
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: one of your weaknesses? That was difficult. I hated when

950
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 1: interviewing people. I hate it when people are like, I

951
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: don't really have any weaknesses. I can't think of anything

952
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: that you always have to come up with, always always

953
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: come up with the weakness. Then you don't seem humble,

954
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't think, you know, you have

955
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: an ego issue exactly, Like no, I've really thought about it.

956
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,399
Speaker 1: Think about anybody who's applying for a job that's listening

957
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: to this podcast right now. Think of one weakness, but

958
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: think of a weakness that you can spin into a

959
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 1: positive thing. That's what I always say. For example, if

960
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, well you know I steal, sometimes it's like,

961
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: don't say that as a weakness, But if you say

962
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I think I can do too much

963
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: and I take too many things on my plate and

964
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,720
Speaker 1: I get a little overwhelmed. Okay, this was my weakness. Weakness,

965
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, take on too much. I take on too much.

966
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: Because it was a way to show people that, like,

967
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: sometimes I think I can, you know, um do too

968
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: much and I take too much on my plate. But

969
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,919
Speaker 1: at the same time, that means I just really want

970
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: to be the best and work hard. You're an eager worker.

971
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: My thing was that I would when I take on

972
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: a project, I find it hard to deviate from that project.

973
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: I put all of my focus and energy on the

974
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 1: one thing, and I can't get other side things done

975
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: until the one, the main thing is done. Yeah, you choose.

976
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: You can't chew gum and walk at the same time,

977
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: But you know that. That's how I've been, Like with

978
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: my apartment, It's like, oh, I I don't want to

979
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: do this thing because I have to finish this. And

980
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: I've been I've been doing such a good job, and

981
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: I've been really proud of myself for like actually focusing

982
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: on other things. That's why I had to hand it

983
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: off to like a decorator, because I was like, if

984
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: I make this a focus I will never get work. Now,

985
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: I'll take four years to get it done. Well, I

986
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: will be able to do other things while doing it,

987
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 1: because in the past, when I move into a new place,

988
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm like doing notework for the next two weeks. All

989
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do is put all my energy into this.

990
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: So that's just an example. So I think that is

991
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 1: a weakness. I need to be able to multitask better.

992
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: There you go show the way back to Garrett. So

993
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: that was the one on one right there. It was

994
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: pretty boring. It was fine, whatever, and then Blake is

995
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: losing his mind at this point. This was the first

996
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: episode where I actually kind of didn't like Blake, which

997
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: was so weird because at the at the beginning of

998
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 1: the episode before we saw Blake freaking out here and

999
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: are like, Blake needs to win, Blake needs to win,

1000
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: Blake is the person for her. I still think Blake

1001
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: might be the person for her, but the one on

1002
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: one day in his actions beforehand caused some hesitation for me.

1003
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: Now what about you, Yeah, I don't know. He just

1004
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: seems obsessive. He seems like the guy that might just

1005
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: be obsessed with the process, obsessed with making this work.

1006
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: Even though is it Becca he's obsessed with or is

1007
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: it just the idea of Becca at the idea you

1008
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: could love with the idea of Becca. Possibly, And I'm

1009
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: not even sure this is a show thing. I think

1010
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 1: this might be just a Blake thing because he seems

1011
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: like somebody who falls very hard, very quickly, and so

1012
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: because of that, he is infatuated with the person he's

1013
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: with instead of falling in love with them. So he'll

1014
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,240
Speaker 1: be like, I'm in love with you, it's so great,

1015
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: let's do this. I want to spend the rest of

1016
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 1: my life with you. When actuality, it might be more

1017
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:36,359
Speaker 1: of an infatuation than actual love feelings. Um. But the

1018
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: thing that bothered me about Blake in this episode was

1019
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 1: before he got his one on one, he kept saying,

1020
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: I can't believe she's doing this to me. She has

1021
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: to know what I'm going through right now. It's like, bro,

1022
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: she has five over the dudes right now, she has

1023
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: a great connection with you. And listen, everybody's entitled to

1024
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,439
Speaker 1: moving and weakness. We all have them on the show,

1025
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: right So in that moment, if you if he said

1026
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: at once it was like, I can't believe she's doing

1027
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: this to me. This is ridiculous. She should be she

1028
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: should giving giving me a one on one because of

1029
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: our connection. Totally get it. But the fact that he

1030
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 1: said it twice in two I t n s before

1031
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: he got it once when Colton got the one on

1032
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: one and then another, and then he said it again

1033
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: when Garrett got the one on one. It was like

1034
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: Blakes loses his mind a little bit. I hated that

1035
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: because what you should be saying is like, I'm I'm

1036
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: losing it. I can't see what the other guys. My

1037
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: my feelings are too strong, like this is really I'm

1038
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: getting to a point where I don't know if I

1039
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: can do this anymore, because it is very challenging. Having

1040
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: said that, to blame it on her really made me mad,

1041
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: like she has to know I'm going through this terrible time, Like,

1042
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: why would she be doing this to me? Bro, She's

1043
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: the bachelorette. There's five other guys, Like, there's three one

1044
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: on ones to have already gone. You're probably getting in

1045
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,319
Speaker 1: third one. Just calm down, have a moment, but don't

1046
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: blame it on her. That was the only thing. Okay, Well,

1047
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,959
Speaker 1: the funny thing is the more he's freaking out about

1048
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: the order of these dates and like them dwindling down

1049
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: the more, they're gonna make sure that he is the

1050
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: last guy to get a date. So he continues to

1051
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: freak out, I know. And then he got on the date,

1052
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: which was great, and he was super happy and they

1053
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: were super fun loving and Blake is madling love even

1054
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: apparently so is Becca. She was saying how she wanted

1055
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: to tell him that she's in love with him, and

1056
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: how she was going to pick him pretty much at

1057
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: the end of the day, She's like, he's the guy,

1058
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: like I can't tell him this, but I see him

1059
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,359
Speaker 1: as my husband, I see him in my future. So

1060
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: that's obviously very telling that they do have a very

1061
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: strong connection. Having you said that it does. Blake hasn't

1062
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: had a one on one since the first week, so

1063
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,919
Speaker 1: both their feelings are growing very fast when they haven't

1064
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: really spent a lot of time together as of you

1065
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: need to understand how little time they've had together. Jared,

1066
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 1: you were fourth, which means that you are now at

1067
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: the point that these guys are at right. You do

1068
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,880
Speaker 1: on a hometown you had two on on ones, like

1069
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 1: two and a half one on ones, right, because I

1070
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: got a group day Rose that turned into on one right,

1071
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: So how much time do you think you had with

1072
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: Caitlin at this point? Total? Yeah? Hours was uh, no

1073
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 1: more than that because loan hours, No twelve a loane hours?

1074
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: How many a lone hours? Like not as part of

1075
00:52:55,080 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: a group. Yeah, yeah, I'd probably say like probably like fifteen.

1076
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: Our road trip date was pretty long. That that was

1077
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: an exception. That was like a seven hourly. I probably

1078
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: had like seven hours worth her that day. Um, and

1079
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: then New York probably was Like New York was probably

1080
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: like five or six at least, So I probably had

1081
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: maybe like a lone hours like fifth fifteen, seventeen, but

1082
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: opportuned maybe something. I can't judge him falling in love

1083
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: in fifteen hours because I was in love with Jared

1084
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: at the very first sight. You're the light of my life,

1085
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: you know that. Thank you, my angel, my person. Anyway,

1086
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 1: moving on, so Blake, we don't talk about us, uh,

1087
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: but with Blake, Yeah, I think he's he's It was

1088
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: the one time where I'm like, is he that in

1089
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: Rebecca or is he just a little obsessed right now?

1090
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: I just I'm gonna probably switch back next week when

1091
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: I say him with the family, because he just needs

1092
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: to calm down. And when he calms down, then like

1093
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: all I come again exactly. Okay. Well, the hometowns were

1094
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: kind of be absolutely fab. They're gonna be fun. I

1095
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: don't know if they're going to be fit though. But

1096
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: the Fab Fit Fun Box, you guys, I found a

1097
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: different thing in here every season that I'm obsessed with.

1098
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 1: I I know that last year I told you that

1099
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: I found my favorite sunscreen through it. But guess what,

1100
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: I found a new favorite sunscreen through it. It's the

1101
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: coolest sunscreen in the summer Box. I'm obsessed with it

1102
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: because it doesn't pill. Jared and I were on the

1103
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: way to the beach the other day and I had

1104
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: like my sea RUMs on and then I put my

1105
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: sunscreen on over it, and I was like, why is

1106
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: it all flaking off? I can't put makeup on top

1107
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: of this? And then I opened my new sunscreen from

1108
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: the Fab Fit Fun Box, the cooler sunscreen, and I

1109
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: was like, this doesn't pill. It smells delicious, it's light

1110
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: absorbs and it was like the pearly gates of Heaven

1111
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: opening up for Ashley. I was so happy because I

1112
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: can put makeup over it and it looks so good

1113
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: or it just looks good without makeup anyway. The fab

1114
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 1: Fit Fun Box, as you guys know, it's a seasonal

1115
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 1: box that comes with the full size beauty, fitness, fashion

1116
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: and lifestyle products. It usually retails for forty cents, but

1117
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: it always has a value of over two hundred and

1118
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: like this season, I think it's over three. All you

1119
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 1: gotta do to get your first box for ten dollars off, though,

1120
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: to make it is to go to fab fit fund

1121
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: dot com and use our coupon code which is almost famous.

1122
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: It's four times a year. It's like Christmas at your door.

1123
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: The summer boxes out now, these things sell out like crazy,

1124
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 1: so you actually have to be ahead of the game.

1125
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: This season summer box includes skin care from Kate's Summerville

1126
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: um Dr Brandt, some fashion items from Rachel Pali. It's

1127
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: a I think it's a clutch. It's super cute, it

1128
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: fits a lot. Then there's some beauty products from Chart

1129
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: and Oscar BLANDI check out fabfit fund dot com and

1130
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: use the code almost famous and save ten dollars off

1131
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: your first box, making only again the value of it

1132
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 1: is over three dollars. This is not a scam, it's

1133
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: just your life. I don't know why it works like this,

1134
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: but it does, and it's absolutely fabulous. Fund dot com

1135
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:09,720
Speaker 1: almost famous. You deserve to treat yourself. Treat yourself, girl.

1136
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: Do you have anything else to talk about about? We

1137
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: got to talk about the three one just quickly. Will's,

1138
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: Jason and Leo go on a three on one obvious,

1139
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,919
Speaker 1: so she's going to have to take Leo like send

1140
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 1: him home. Not just sweetness though, and he handled it

1141
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,479
Speaker 1: like a gentleman. And Jared, it's been three years as

1142
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: of today, I believe that you were eliminated from Caitlin season.

1143
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: You were the ultimate gentleman baby. Thank you. You asked

1144
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: if she could if she wanted your coat because it

1145
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,760
Speaker 1: was cold. Well, it's also very easy being nice to Caitlin.

1146
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: She's the best. You were like, instead of her being

1147
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 1: like can I walk you to the car, you were like,

1148
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: can I walk you through the car? I don't know what.

1149
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything, No, we were just walking out

1150
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: and I offered her my code, which I got a

1151
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: lot of wonderful responses from women and the guys were

1152
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: like I would do the same thing, um, And then yeah,

1153
00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: it was just it was a tough night of stuff

1154
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: exits though a long story short. But the reason we

1155
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: brought that up is because they actually played the same

1156
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 1: music that they played with me on my exit to Leo.

1157
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: And so I was watching Leos and I was like,

1158
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: this music sounds familiar. This is the music they played

1159
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: when I left. Leo seems like a really coolman exit music. Yes, Leo,

1160
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: Leo suns super cool down to earth. I liked him

1161
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: a lot. Obviously, his connection with Becca wasn't that great.

1162
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: We all knew that soul a lovely date last week,

1163
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: but he just knew the date was just too late.

1164
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: It just wasn't gonna happen. She had other stronger relationships,

1165
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: as she said, And even with this week's episode, the

1166
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: three guys that got the one on one, you knew.

1167
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: You know, there are the three strongest connections right now,

1168
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: and the guys who were going to the three on

1169
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: one are lacking a little bit behind. With Jason, Wills

1170
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 1: and Leo, we all knew that Leo was probably the

1171
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: weakest in terms of the connections on that group day.

1172
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't surprised when he left. He had such a

1173
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: sweet eggit. He was kissing her forehead and she even

1174
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: cheered up a little bit because he was so sweet

1175
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: and so understanding. I like Leo a lot. I hope

1176
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: he's in paradise. And then Will's uh, Wills and Jason

1177
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: go to the night portion, they sit down, she talks

1178
00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: to both of them, both of them pretty much. I

1179
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: think I have simler connections. I don't know. Will seems

1180
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: like a little bit further in deep again another thing

1181
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 1: or it's like, are you in love with beggar? You?

1182
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: And I love the idea of Becca because you have

1183
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: had very little time um Jason and her. Jason is

1184
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: such a dark horse, and I've liked Jason's vibe from

1185
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: the very beginning. Yeah, Jason seems like just he's just

1186
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: your dude. He's a dude you'll find in a bar

1187
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: and buffalo and he'll smile at you and you'll be like,

1188
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: I kind of like him. I think that's why Becca

1189
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: likes him. I think Beca is like, I don't see

1190
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 1: marrying him, but like I like hanging out with him.

1191
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 1: He's a fun time. He's a good dude, Like he

1192
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: does like the high fives with their and he's always

1193
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: like joking around and and they're always having a good time.

1194
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: And so like there's not like a lot of depth

1195
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: to their relationship that I haven't seen a lot of physicality. Yeah,

1196
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: and it's a lot of playfulness. And that's the way

1197
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 1: I described Jason's relationship, which isn't bad in a in

1198
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: a situation like this too, like because she has the

1199
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: three one on ones are very in depth and and uh,

1200
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: you know, there's just a lot of feelings there and

1201
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: emotions and like it's not bad to have Jason there

1202
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: to be like, I just really like his playfulness and

1203
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: having fun, you know what he said? Um, well, the

1204
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: other guy guys were like, I'm so so nervous. He said,

1205
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not nervous. I'm just excited. I'm excited to have

1206
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: fun with her today. Yeah, he has Yeah, he just

1207
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: go with the flow. He's a what's that expression, happy,

1208
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: go lucky. Yeah, he's just happy, go lucky. He's happy.

1209
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: He's he's happy that he's here. So I like Jason

1210
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,439
Speaker 1: a lot. Uh. And then she sends Will's home. Will

1211
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: it seems like a sweetheart. I met him a couple

1212
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: of times. Very nice guy. Um, he had a little

1213
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: bit of difficult exit when he was in the car

1214
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: that he had to pull over and cry some out. Um,

1215
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: it's always tough to you know, crying like is he

1216
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: gonna throw up? You have to leave the car to cry.

1217
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: It is tough though you I think a lot of

1218
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: people and I can attest this. You become overwhelmed in

1219
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: the moment and there's cameras on you, and there's you know,

1220
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: people talking to you asking you questions what do you

1221
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: think happen? And you just left this crazy experience and

1222
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: you're like, what the hell has happened in my life?

1223
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: And I'm just saying goodbye to a girl that I

1224
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: really really liked in terms of Will's case, falling in

1225
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: love with. And then you know, you just get overwhelmed

1226
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 1: and you start crying. And as a guy, you don't

1227
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: want to cry. You want to be you know, my

1228
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: show man and be like, no, I'm okay, I can

1229
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: handle this. I'm a tough guy. And then so I

1230
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: think for him, he was like, I just need to

1231
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: get out of this car right now and get some

1232
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: mayor and just maybe have a good cry. Did you

1233
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: hear it? I just said, I go why do you

1234
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: have to get out of the car to cry? Camera?

1235
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: It's like, duh, of course I think a second nature camera.

1236
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: I know, I think it's it's different for a guy.

1237
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: I remember on on my exit I I started crying

1238
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: in the car and you just so your tears were beautiful.

1239
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: Oh thay, Well, it's just it was hard. I remember

1240
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:33,479
Speaker 1: leaving and thinking like, I'm never I mean, at the time,

1241
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: I obviously and madly in love with you, and you're

1242
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: the only girl I want to spend my life with.

1243
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: But at the time I was like, damn, I'm never

1244
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 1: gonna hold I'm never gonna hold Kalen's hand again or

1245
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: kiss her, or like it's over. It is over, and

1246
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: you have no clue to say this. There is a

1247
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: difference between being broken up with on The Bachelor and

1248
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: being broken up with in the real world, because on

1249
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, you're like, wow, there were four other people

1250
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: in this group alone that she liked more than me.

1251
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: That means that we are never ever going to be together,

1252
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 1: and that she's going to hopefully be engaged at the

1253
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 1: end of this, and then we're really never going to

1254
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: be together. I leen have her number, I can't even

1255
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: call her and be like can we meet up for

1256
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: coffee next week and like see if we can reevaluate

1257
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: this situation. No, it's done, done, done, It's done, and

1258
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: there's no closure. It's just like Jared and if Paradise

1259
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: is totally different, you can definitely rekindle things after paradise,

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01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: and it's been done many a time and we are

1261
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: living proof of that. But with the Bachelor of the Bachelorette,

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01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: it is so weird because it's so finite. Like you

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01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: you go into the road ceremony, nervous, but confident in

1264
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: your connection, nervous as nervous a f oh, of course

1265
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: you're so nervous. But I was at least confident in

1266
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: my connection with Kayla, and then it was just like, No,

1267
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: Jared was actually just mind blown when he was that

1268
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 1: was a mind blown. I was more. I was just

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01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 1: trying to stay as confident as like, because I knew

1270
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: we had something really good. And but I remember looking around.

1271
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, Ben and Sean, oh boy, this

1272
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: is this is this is bad because I was like,

1273
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm very confident, but I know they are too, and

1274
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 1: like I'm the shortest one in the room right now

1275
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: to do with it. I mean, Ben's the crazy one

1276
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: for being six four. He's a big boy, tall man

1277
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: tall man that Ben Higgins, um. But and then I

1278
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: just and then all of a sudden, like you know,

1279
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: she doesn't give you a rose, and then you get

1280
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 1: to talk to her for like five minutes where you're

1281
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: just saying you're goodbyes. Like I remember in that moment,

1282
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to ask her questions

1283
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: because I want to leave off on a on a

1284
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: good note with her, and so I just want to

1285
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: be like, I'm you know, our time was so special

1286
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 1: and and I hope you find them in your dreams

1287
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: and like you're always gonna be special to me, and

1288
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. And then all of a sudden,

1289
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: you're in the car and you're like, holy crap. That

1290
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 1: was like I'm I might never talk to her again

1291
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: because like by the time she leaves this thing, she's

1292
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 1: going to be engaged and like moved on with her life.

1293
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 1: Is that crazy to think that, Like in that moment

1294
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: of walking away, you're like, she's already moved on. That's it.

1295
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristo shout out to you, Thank you so much

1296
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 1: for introducing my future husband to a type of woman

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01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: that he never thought he'd be with. To somebody who

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01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: has a huge personality, isn't afraid to be expressive about

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01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 1: her thoughts and feelings because if he weren't for you.

1300
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: And Jared's discovery of like a woman, I think I've

1301
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: been going after the wrong girls all this time. How

1302
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: he had a realization later later delayed, but he was like,

1303
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: that is a kind of girl that I never imagined

1304
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: myself with. But I think I'd like to explore more

1305
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 1: women like that. I remember I remember being intimidated by Caitlin,

1306
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: especially night one, because like I remember, she's just like

1307
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 1: so witty and she has like something to say all

1308
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: the time, and I was like, she's this girl is

1309
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: gonna blow me out of the water. But then I

1310
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: remember our first conversation. It was like this really light

1311
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 1: banter and it was great, and I was like, Okay,

1312
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: maybe I can start to keep up. But I remember

1313
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 1: I I dated a girls. You know, we were like

1314
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: shine and quaint and quiet and blah blah blah. We

1315
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,440
Speaker 1: talked about this, but uh, but yeah, definitely shout out

1316
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: to Caitlin, and you know, I mean yes, at the

1317
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: same time, you're you and Caitlin are very different. I

1318
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,919
Speaker 1: was gonna say not to equip myself to Caitlin, because Kaitlin,

1319
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 1: you're way cooler, prel Actually you're so funny and cool.

1320
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: Give yourself credit. Actually you're the coolest girl I know. Baby,

1321
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta bib. So that was a bit

1322
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: for the show, right for the Bachelorette. Yeah, but before

1323
01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: before we move on from the Bachelor and go into emails,

1324
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 1: we do need to talk about the cast of Paradise.

1325
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: Have we not talked about this yet? Are we ready

1326
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 1: to go through the list? Angela M's cool. Um yeah,

1327
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: we all don't know who that is, except we do

1328
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 1: know she's from Nick season. She has long hair and

1329
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: blue eyes. Pretty pretty. Um Analyze. We know that Analyze

1330
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: is scared of dogs and bumper cars. She was the

1331
01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: nervous Nilly from Are season. Asteroid Locke also from Nick season.

1332
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 1: Paul Brunette beauty Um Whitney and her were easily confused.

1333
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 1: Um Bibiana Juliana one of my friends from Winter Games

1334
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 1: Are sassy girl from Ari season who just no holds

1335
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 1: bar with her. Chelsea Roy, the mom from Aris season

1336
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: who we all thought maybe a villain at the beginning,

1337
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 1: but she turned out not to be. Then we got

1338
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: David the Chicken Suit going up against Jordan's the Model

1339
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 1: yet again. That should be fun. Eric Bigger, who was

1340
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: last on the Winter Games, makes his Paradise debut after

1341
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 1: being third on Rachel's season Miracle season. Then we got

1342
01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: Joe the Grocer because you know popular demand. Uh. John

1343
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:57,080
Speaker 1: Graham which is also known as Venmo Guy from Venmo

1344
01:05:57,120 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 1: Guy from Becca season, who who had very little air

1345
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: time on her season, but seemed to be a fan

1346
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: favorite amongst like the Bachelor Underground Um Kendall Long the

1347
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: Taxidermists in third place finisher of Ari season. Then we

1348
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: got Kenny the Wrestler. We don't know why Kenny hasn't

1349
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: been on Winter Game Games or Paradise because he was

1350
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: such a fan favorite back in Rachel's What a sweetness.

1351
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: He's the cutest that we have. Kevin went my ex

1352
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: and Crystal Nielsen the villain of Ari's season, and she's

1353
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 1: really not a villain. Guys. Whenever I see you in

1354
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: her life, I think she's absolutely wonderful. And I met

1355
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: her once. She was very delightful. She's like, I know

1356
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 1: who you are. I was like, oh, you're very sweet,

1357
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: going Yeah. Nick Nick's beatas he's the guy slick black hair. Um,

1358
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: kind of like the lawyer. He's a lawyer but also

1359
01:06:55,200 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 1: a bra. Nisha Norris absolutely no clue. Yes, no, but

1360
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm sure she's very nice. The full full hair, full

1361
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: hair hair on our season. Yeah, that might be her.

1362
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure if we when we see her, like, oh

1363
01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 1: that's that's I think that's her. And then we got

1364
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: Tia Booth, so we got tea there and I just

1365
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 1: got to see if Colton will be there. I guess

1366
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: we'll find out. Drama Central, Drama Central. Okay, Um, we're

1367
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:31,080
Speaker 1: about to dive in to listener emails. But before that,

1368
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: Jared and I need to start wearing contact lenses because

1369
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 1: we both can't see at night, but we use glasses.

1370
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: But I hate using my glasses when we're like we're

1371
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 1: going somewhere because I got that huge indent in my

1372
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: nose and it just ruins my makeup and the whole look.

1373
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 1: And they're bad for pictures because the flash reflects all

1374
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: the lens is. Obviously you look sexy and like Clark

1375
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: Kent and your glass, thank you, but sometimes I worry

1376
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 1: about you driving at night without them. We're gonna need it.

1377
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna need to get you contacts. You're gonna use

1378
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 1: Hubble Contacts because Hubble Contacts is amazing. What if I

1379
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 1: told you that you could get a fresh pair of

1380
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 1: lenses every single day for less. That is sixty contacts

1381
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 1: for thirty three dollars through the math, that is barely

1382
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 1: one dollar a day. I know it's a very affordable

1383
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 1: way of getting your contacts their quality daily lenses for

1384
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 1: a better price. And why are they a better price

1385
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 1: because contacts are normally controlled by four companies. That's of

1386
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 1: the market is controlled by four companies until now. And

1387
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 1: Hubble can send you to an optometrist if you need

1388
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: a prescription. They could do that today. Getting contacts has

1389
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: never been more convenient or affordable. They've been featured in Vogue,

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Speaker 1: g Q, tech Crunch, Mashable. If you overwear your lenses

1391
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 1: to save money, or you're tired of overpaying for uncomfortable

1392
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: contact lessons, you've got to try Hubble. And all you

1393
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: have to do is go to Hubble Contacts dot com

1394
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 1: to get your first two weeks of lenses for free.

1395
01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 1: That's fifteen pairs of lenses for free. So you go

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01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,879
Speaker 1: to Hubble Contacts dot um and you'll see the difference.

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01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,759
Speaker 1: Make sure you select our show Ben and Ashley Almost

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Speaker 1: Contacts dot com. You go to Ben and Ashley Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous at check out, Go today. Okay, this is a

1401
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: great email. It's from Nikki. Jared knows. Jared and I aren't.

1402
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 1: We're not doing hall passes, okay, because a hall pass

1403
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 1: would say that I would be down to hook up

1404
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: with my celebrity crush if you showed interest. I mean,

1405
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 1: never do that. You said, Jason is the mile of

1406
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 1: the man two. Yeah, okay, so, but but if I

1407
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:37,719
Speaker 1: had a hall pass, it would be Milo Venc. You

1408
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 1: do have a pass. You just said if I had

1409
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: all pass and it's fine, you know what I mean.

1410
01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:47,520
Speaker 1: I would never take the hall pass. But my celebrity

1411
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 1: crush besides you, is mylo vent Amelia. I can't be

1412
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: silbody crush. I'm engaged to, is it? Megley Amelia? I

1413
01:09:56,360 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: have no idea Milo vent Amilia Milo to megulaam nas

1414
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: and I have been saying it wrong for so long,

1415
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: but I think it's violent and Amilia and it's just

1416
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, my god, how could

1417
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: I not know how to pronounce my celebrity cross is

1418
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 1: last name. But he looks like Jason is the bottom line,

1419
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 1: And Nikki says, I totally agree that Jason looks like

1420
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: Milo and he looks like a great kisser. What's wrong

1421
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,640
Speaker 1: with self describing yourself? I think it shows self awareness.

1422
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: Oh oh no, no, no, Nikki, You're you're strongly mistaken

1423
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:37,719
Speaker 1: with self awareness? Is then Jared explained, Uh, I think, well, listen,

1424
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: I do like we talked about. I think you have

1425
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 1: to be able to describe yourself a little bit. Right.

1426
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 1: If you're in a job interview and they're like, describe

1427
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:44,599
Speaker 1: yourself and you're like, wow, I don't want to do that,

1428
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: then you're not gonna get hired. So you have to

1429
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 1: have some sort of understanding of who you are as

1430
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: a person and maybe some adjective that's describe you. Having

1431
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: said that, if you simply say I am a good person,

1432
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 1: you're probably a douchebag. Because if you self describe yourself

1433
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: as a good person, then that brings up red flags

1434
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 1: because it's like, I don't know, I just think you're

1435
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 1: overcompensating for something. And I hate when people state that

1436
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: as a fact. Like, I don't know. I think it

1437
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: just lacks a little self awareness when you try to, um,

1438
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: you know, definitively say that you're a great person. Okay, whatever,

1439
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 1: We've talked about this plenty. We've talked about way too much.

1440
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:21,280
Speaker 1: Now we have two great questions that are super interesting

1441
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:25,960
Speaker 1: because we've never answered them before. This is from Shelley.

1442
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 1: Is their plane interaction? Just curious? Do the lead in

1443
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: the group travel together on the same flight when they

1444
01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 1: go to other cities. If so, do they have any

1445
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: chance of interacting with each other in the airport or

1446
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:38,600
Speaker 1: en route to the hotels that we don't get to

1447
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 1: see because they aren't being filmed, or do they fly

1448
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: the lead out earlier than the group. I'm asking because

1449
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 1: on this week's episode, Chris Harrison mentioned that he saw

1450
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: Becca's Becca looking at wedding dresses on the plane, and

1451
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 1: I was honestly shocked that Chris Harrison takes the same

1452
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 1: plate plane And that got me thinking, Okay, well, Chris

1453
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 1: Harrison and the lead probably fly together on I think

1454
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 1: they fly together pretty often, but their first class play

1455
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: first class everywhere. Yeah, and sometimes I feel like they

1456
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 1: might be on the same flight, but they'll always be separated,

1457
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: like the Bachelor at will always be separated from the

1458
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 1: Bachelor boys if they are on this, but not not

1459
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, not the lead and Chris Harris, No, no,

1460
01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: not at all. Yeah, so the leading Chris Horrison usually

1461
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: fly together because the question is but in the midst

1462
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:20,519
Speaker 1: of that you were described, I was like, oh no,

1463
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: obviously probably with her. Yeah, so usually Harris going to

1464
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 1: fly because they're all in first class, but they will

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01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: put the boys or the girls, whoever's the cast on

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01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:31,639
Speaker 1: a different plane, usually on a different plane, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think there was every by a time where

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01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 1: you're on the same plane as the lead. They want

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01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: to keep everything separated because they want everything authentic for camera.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I like within hotel rooms or every

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01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,560
Speaker 1: time you're traveling, you get no off camera time, and

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01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:43,799
Speaker 1: if you do, it is very limited and it's probably

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01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: like a last second thing that production needs to put together,

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01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,599
Speaker 1: and they're like, okay, just separate them and then let

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01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 1: them have five minutes off camera because we don't know

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01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:51,719
Speaker 1: where else to put them. A lot of the times

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01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:53,639
Speaker 1: on the show, they won't even take the same car

1478
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 1: to the date destination. Yeah, that was That was like

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01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: the road trip tid I had. So Caitlyn and I

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01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: were in a road trip in Ireland. We're in the

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01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 1: same car, but they had a and then like we'd

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01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: be in a car for an hour and then take

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01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: us out and then we go in separate cars and

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01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 1: then interviews in the other car. Yes, of course. But

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01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: what happened was, so we were done with the road

1486
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 1: trip day and we're going to select location. So we

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01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 1: were in separate cars. But her car broke down like

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01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: halfway there, and so they had to put her in

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01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 1: my car. So I had liked extra I had like

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01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: an hour and a half time. I had like an

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01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:25,560
Speaker 1: hour and a half off camera time. Granted she was

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01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: passed out, but it was very nice. You slept during

1493
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 1: your A long time. We were cuddling. Okay, it was

1494
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:39,439
Speaker 1: a long time ago. I know, I know, I know, Okay,

1495
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 1: but I was also thinking about like plane travel and stuff. Yeah, together,

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01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: Harrison and Lead are usually together, but the boys and

1497
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 1: the bachelorette are never together. Yeah, okay. Another question, I

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01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 1: feel like along the same lines. It's from Georgia. Is

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01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: there time after the cocktail party? First off, congrats Ashley, yay,

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01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:06,839
Speaker 1: thank you, and congrats to Jared. Congrats, thank you guys.

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01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: Congrats to Ashley and Jared. But again, she didn't know

1502
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 1: that you're going to be here. And Ben, you are

1503
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: amazing and I can't wait for God to place your

1504
01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: person into your life if he hasn't already. I also

1505
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: want to know when Amy finds her person too. Oh

1506
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 1: that's so sweet. All right, to my question, when the

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01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 1: bachelor and bachelorette canceled the cocktail party and go straight

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01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 1: to the rose ceremony, do they remain do the remainding

1509
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 1: contestants who do receive a rose get to spend time

1510
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 1: with the lead after the roses are handed out. I

1511
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 1: feel like that would be super unfortunate not to get

1512
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: any time that night and then have to wait another

1513
01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 1: to another day to get time again. Well, nope, once

1514
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: the roses are handed out, you do the cheers, and

1515
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 1: then once the cheers is done, they legit go good night.

1516
01:14:56,960 --> 01:15:00,080
Speaker 1: Same with with um group dates. It's the weird this

1517
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: thing when the group date is over and then the

1518
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 1: rose is handed out on a group date, then it's done.

1519
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: Then it's awkward as hell. You're like, Okay, I'm gonna

1520
01:15:10,800 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: go to bed now, and then like all the guys

1521
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 1: look at each other and like, Okay, we'll go to

1522
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 1: bed now too. And the reason they probably don't give

1523
01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 1: extra time too because it is awkward. You're in the

1524
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 1: midst of your competition. For example, when you're in a

1525
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 1: group date. That's why they steal her away because you

1526
01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 1: want alone time after the after the rose ceremony, and

1527
01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 1: after group dates you don't get a long time. You

1528
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 1: can't steal anymore, so you're just hanging out other guys

1529
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: that are pining for the same girl. It's it's so awkward.

1530
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,600
Speaker 1: I would got nervous talking to Chris in front of

1531
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: the other girls, Like I just wouldn't do it. Yeah,

1532
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 1: it's just best if everybody leaves and goes or step

1533
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 1: of ways and then wakes up the next morning and

1534
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: whoever has a date gets to see her again, and

1535
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: whoever doesn't has to wait. It's the competition vibe when

1536
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,280
Speaker 1: you're all like trying to make small talk with her

1537
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: for like the two minutes that remains, it's just like,

1538
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:55,640
Speaker 1: don't bother. It's it's those moments when I realized I

1539
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 1: got insecure. But even watching the show back, when I

1540
01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 1: can see like small subtle moments like that, I'm like, yep,

1541
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,799
Speaker 1: you can. I would never go back on this Bachelor

1542
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 1: at again. You're not helping yourself by sticking around and

1543
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 1: trying to make small talk of that moment. That's why

1544
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:10,599
Speaker 1: Paradise is a lot better because you get that alone time.

1545
01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: But here it's just like, oh god, it's it just

1546
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: makes me like sink down into my little hole when

1547
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 1: I watch moments like that, because it's like, oh god,

1548
01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: I remember those feelings. Every show. Jared's like, you couldn't

1549
01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: pay me to go back on the show because it

1550
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 1: just reminds me of all those times when I felt

1551
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 1: so insecure and doubted myself and just was so pent

1552
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 1: up with paranoia and anxiety because you're always on camera

1553
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 1: and you're like, don't say something stupid, don't say something stupid,

1554
01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: and also at the same time like, Okay, well, I

1555
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:39,720
Speaker 1: actually really like this girl, so I'm just trying to

1556
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 1: be funny and witty, and sometimes when I do that,

1557
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 1: I say something really dumb and now concerned about everything

1558
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 1: I say, and it's just like those moments where you're

1559
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: like next to the guy that's also trying to get

1560
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:50,599
Speaker 1: time with her, and then you're like pining for this competition,

1561
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: but at the same time, it's not a competition because

1562
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: it's just about romance and connections, and you're like, what

1563
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:55,719
Speaker 1: the hell is happening in my life? And I'm losing

1564
01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 1: my mind. And I watched back and I remember moments

1565
01:16:57,920 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: like that, and I'm like, oh God, you couldn't pay me.

1566
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: You can not pay me to go back on this show.

1567
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm losing it just watching it. The Bachelor is so funny.

1568
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 1: All those things you just described was me on paradise

1569
01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 1: with you. Okay, maybe that's why. Maybe that's why we

1570
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: had different experiences, because like The Bachelor, I was like,

1571
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:15,559
Speaker 1: I like my friends, they're cool. You weren't eating with them.

1572
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,080
Speaker 1: I look forward to our meals together. I loved having

1573
01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: all the other guys. But at the same time, I

1574
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: was like, I tell this story of the time everybe

1575
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 1: one time. In San Antonio, Ben Higgins got his first

1576
01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 1: one on one with Caitlin, who doesn't love Ben amazing

1577
01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 1: guy became really close with him on the show, and

1578
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 1: he walked out with Caitlin and I was like, I

1579
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 1: hate him. I hate that man, and I'll never forget

1580
01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: that because I was like, I love Ben he's such

1581
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: a good man, he's my friend, and yet at this

1582
01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:41,600
Speaker 1: moment I want him to be sent home. And I'm like,

1583
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:43,679
Speaker 1: why am I feeling like this? And I remember, actually

1584
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 1: I can find in Sean a little bit about this,

1585
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 1: because we were just kind of like talking about this

1586
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:52,360
Speaker 1: weird dynamic where it's like I'm hanging out with all

1587
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:54,559
Speaker 1: my friends and yet I want them all to go home.

1588
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 1: It's like, how is this happening in my brain? If

1589
01:17:57,640 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 1: you guys, call yourself, if you self describe yourself as

1590
01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: a as not a jealous person, go on The Bachelor

1591
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 1: and then come back two months later and tell me

1592
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: all about it. Tell me you're not a jealous person.

1593
01:18:08,200 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 1: Al right, guys, thank you so much for joining us.

1594
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 1: It's been a blast. It's really flown by with you,

1595
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:15,599
Speaker 1: my love. It always flies by with you, my love.

1596
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:18,719
Speaker 1: You guys, let us know all your thoughts on our thoughts,

1597
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 1: and let us know if Jared and I post too

1598
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 1: many musty things on Instagram, we won't stop, but we'd

1599
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 1: like to know, all right, you guys, we love you

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01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 1: so much. Thank you so much for listening, and make

1601
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: sure to listen to Jared and Dean and Vanessa on

1602
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 1: the help I Suck at Dating I heart podcast. It

1603
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 1: comes out every Tuesday, right, every Tuesday. Yeah, just like

1604
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: you guys, every Tuesday. So yep, deing myself Vanessa. We

1605
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 1: talked about all things dating. We'll talk about Bachelor's stuff.

1606
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 1: We talk about just real life dating and make references

1607
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 1: to the Bachelor and other things that are going on

1608
01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 1: in the world. Love you guys, are see you next

1609
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 1: week by follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous

1610
01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:59,640
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