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Speaker 2: Tell us all about it. We scared her? Was it fine?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: Porn? Do you need to ride? Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 2: Do you need to ride? Do your need ride?

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Speaker 5: Ride with Karen and Chris? Mhm, welcome? Do you need

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Speaker 5: a ride? This is Chris.

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Speaker 2: Fairbanks, This is Karen Kilga.

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Speaker 6: We are in beautiful Burbank, the city that Leo built,

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Speaker 6: right j Leno?

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Speaker 5: Kind of? I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Anytime I hear Burbank, I think of the area you live, though.

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Speaker 5: Should I have not said that?

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Speaker 2: You know they're all going to come, all the.

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Speaker 6: People that are well, they're probably already perched outside Jay

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's the most murderable.

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Speaker 1: But I believe that you say Burbank is the city

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Speaker 1: that Jay Leno built because of the acid washdown of

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, the acid it's acid washed on the top

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Speaker 6: Okay to do denim on denim.

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Speaker 2: It's always been okay for old j you.

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Speaker 6: Know what, I've heard that it is okay to do

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Speaker 6: denim on denim these days, I think you can.

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Speaker 6: Right, it depends on it's it's nice to do it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't.

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Speaker 6: You're right, he dresses like he's he works at some

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Speaker 1: I mean, we are talking about something that happened in

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Speaker 5: Let's talk about the future.

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Speaker 5: Let's talk about jay Leno's future.

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Speaker 2: He's going to go to Mars. I volunteered him to

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Speaker 5: We can only we can only hope. Oh why am

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Speaker 2: We're bandwagoneering about hating jay.

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Speaker 5: Len What else could we say?

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Speaker 6: Burbank is well known for new wave entertainment, where We're

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Speaker 6: about to pick up our next guest, Sarah Shaeffer.

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Speaker 2: So exciting, Yeah, very exciting.

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Speaker 5: So we know Sarah of course from her podcast.

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Speaker 6: Nikki and Sarah and the show they had on MTV

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Speaker 6: Sarah was the second name in the title of that project.

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Speaker 5: That's amazing. Well, we're gonna have a nice full Is

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Speaker 5: It's hard digitizing those platforms.

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Speaker 4: Of pupil it is. It's my favorite stage too. It's

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Speaker 6: So I always think of the song by crazy Town

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Speaker 6: Most people hate women. Most women hate women. That bothers

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Speaker 6: I really don't read comments anymore. Just wait for a

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Speaker 4: See, if you take this is what I've been thinking

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Speaker 1: It's like it invokes all the demons of the worst

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Speaker 1: Yes, And I did the one where I did that,

450
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 1: so it was like a four paragraph email and then

451
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: my computer, my Gmail said it didn't send, so I

452
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: immediately rewrote it and resent it. And then in the

453
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 1: afternoon that day, he sent me an email that.

454
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: Said those were two of the nicest.

455
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: Emails, and I thought I was going to die, Like

456
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 1: I was like sitting there just going like oh my god, like.

457
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no no.

458
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 5: If it were.

459
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 6: Different enough that you know that he was like, oh,

460
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 6: there's a nice second email.

461
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: But also I think he is the kind of person

462
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: that got the general is like we weren't we didn't

463
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: know each other that well and now we're really good friends.

464
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 1: Where he kind of gave me the benefit of the

465
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: doubt of it like duplicate sentences.

466
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, I know right.

467
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,239
Speaker 1: It was like I basically might as well sentiment an

468
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: email that said I'm deeply in love with you because

469
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: it was that, but it was more of like because

470
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: he it was I had just done a big show

471
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: and it meant a lot to me, and it was

472
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 1: like one of those things and we.

473
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 2: Kind of had had a deep conversation.

474
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,439
Speaker 1: It was all these layers of shit that then just

475
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,479
Speaker 1: turned into like a Jane Austin level humiliation where I

476
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe that's like and so from

477
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: like since that day, I never said if something like

478
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 1: doesn't send or there's any problem, all, I just shut

479
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: my computer and like walk away from it, like I'm

480
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: not nothing's going to happen for at least week.

481
00:23:55,080 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 4: I have a rule about emotional emails that I write

482
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 4: them without the person's email address in the two sections.

483
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 4: I can't accidentally send it. And then I close it

484
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 4: and I force myself to wait twenty four hours and

485
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 4: then I reread it, and usually I don't even send it,

486
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 4: or if I do, it's like two sentences as opposed

487
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 4: to like eighteen paragraphs.

488
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 5: Literally wait till the next day.

489
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 4: Yes, I started doing this in my.

490
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 5: I regret ninety percent of my emails.

491
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 4: Yeah no, well these are like angry, usually confrontational, which

492
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 4: I shouldn't even be sending an email. I should be

493
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 4: talking to the person.

494
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 5: In right, That's what I'm saying. Pick them up like

495
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 5: my dad's office phone.

496
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 6: Up.

497
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think. But I think even worse than like

498
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 4: because those you don't want to say something you regret,

499
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 4: and you know, you don't want to like cause a

500
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 4: fight that isn't necessary or whatever. But my thing that

501
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 4: I do that I regret is I'll send like what

502
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 4: you did, Karen. I'll send a gushy, spilling my it's

503
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 4: like you know, just you know, really emotional email to someone,

504
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 4: and then like they don't respond with the long response.

505
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 4: I'll just be like, oh my god, thank you. I'll

506
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 4: respond to this later. And then they never do, and

507
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 4: I'm just like, fuck, why did I just spill my

508
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 4: guts to you? And then you're like not giving it?

509
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 4: Because all I want is like intimacy with people like

510
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 4: that is my I'm addicted to it. I want to

511
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 4: be close to people. I want I want best friends,

512
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 4: I want you know, I want to be just like

513
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 4: in you like as a friend.

514
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 5: Which is really I want to wear your skin.

515
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 4: I want to wear your skin, and I want to

516
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 4: live in your bed with you.

517
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,719
Speaker 5: I want out of your face and put it on

518
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 5: my face.

519
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 2: I don't understand what you RESI is a problem.

520
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 6: I'm afraid I'm the I am the person that says, oh,

521
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 6: I'll get back to this because I'm overwhelmed.

522
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 5: If there's a long email.

523
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 4: I know, I'm like too much. Yeah, I get too much.

524
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 6: I got to get back to this, and I take

525
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 6: an app and then I never Part.

526
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: Of my thing, too is I love writing so much

527
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 1: that I love figuring out exactly.

528
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 2: How I want to say something.

529
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: It's so satisfying to be like, I'm going to tell

530
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: you how much you mean to me in a way

531
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: that's and then exactly do the thing I want to

532
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: do to you, like it's gonna endear me to you,

533
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: but then it's also gonna like make you feel good and.

534
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 4: Like I like writing. That's why I like email, and

535
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 4: sometimes in that way because you can be so clear

536
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 4: with your feelings.

537
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 6: Yep, I like to be nice in an email and

538
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 6: every other sentence nag.

539
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 1: Somebody, which makes them fall in love with you, right,

540
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: that's a good trick. My worst is when people want

541
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 1: and this is kind of my dating problem life. Still

542
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: it's taken me forever to learn of, like if someone texts.

543
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: You, the whole politic of texting back and waiting and

544
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 2: not or.

545
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: Whatever, because I'll totally be like, if it's if you

546
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: have a jokey reallyationship, I just want to get a

547
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: good joke in, so I'll totally sacrifice like seeming alluring

548
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: or mysterious.

549
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 5: Or waiting two days or whatever that I'll be.

550
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: Like, here's the hilarious thing now, And I've driven away

551
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: scores of people by doing that. You're not really like

552
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: three but still horrifying, Like you just can't learn the

553
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 1: lesson because it seems so funny to me. Or also,

554
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: same thing with emailing early in the morning.

555
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 4: I have to force myself not to do that.

556
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 2: An eight am email can freak the ship out of people.

557
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they're like, what has she fucking been doing?

558
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, just been up looking at your picture.

559
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 5: You to a picture of you and me and a

560
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 5: cup of coffee.

561
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 4: Just woke up thinking about you every day near these

562
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 4: knives that I drop a line and now living in

563
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 4: La now I've become acquainted with the like when you're

564
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 4: in it with someone, when you're in some sort of

565
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 4: like argument or drama, is someone the having to pull

566
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 4: the car over to text or write something because you're

567
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 4: just like you've got to fucking say it now, you know,

568
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 4: Like yeah, which I'm like, this is defying my rule.

569
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 4: But I'm like, I'm so mad I need to pull over.

570
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 4: And you'd like, but then this, what about this?

571
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 6: That's just one time I fevershally pulled over and uh

572
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 6: and then I just typed you made me pop my

573
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 6: tire because I hit the curb and my tire went

574
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 6: flat and then I and I blame the person and

575
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 6: that's not.

576
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 5: Why I pulled over to that's so hard.

577
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's I do a lot of that, but it's

578
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 6: also you're just being safe when you do that.

579
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's okay to No, I don't do I don't

580
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 4: fight while driving. No, I do like I do, like

581
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 4: really enjoy the car now being a place where I

582
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,479
Speaker 4: can talk out my feelings to myself and just scream

583
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 4: at someone that's pissing me. I'm just be like, you knew,

584
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 4: you knew that would hurt my feeling, just like having

585
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 4: a fucking meltdown in the car. Yes, and it's really good.

586
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 4: I mean it's very therapeutic. You can't do that in

587
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 4: New York or you're a crazy person.

588
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

589
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 5: No, we do a podcast in our car, did you know?

590
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 4: I love it.

591
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: I love I'll do some interviews in the car if

592
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: it's like a long ride.

593
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 2: I practice what my stances on things.

594
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I do that too.

595
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: Like professional stance practice in a way that never comes.

596
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: Into play in my real life, like in no way.

597
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: But I'll be like, you know, I think it's just

598
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: really important to communicate like things like that that like

599
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: do not apply to my real life at all, like

600
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: almost like practicing Ted talks.

601
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 2: Yes, that you'll never give.

602
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 5: I can't go you guys. I have stance practice.

603
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 1: Guys, I gotta I gotta nail my stance down pretty

604
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: hard before I go.

605
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 2: What's your stance?

606
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 4: You gotta know your stance. Yeah, it's very important.

607
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 5: I know that. I talk to myself in my car.

608
00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 5: I yell angry.

609
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 6: I get angry in my my car is where I

610
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 6: get my angriest. I'm afraid so or just yeah, I

611
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 6: get you know how anxious I am. There's a reason

612
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 6: Karen's driving I get and people have commented on it.

613
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 6: Apparently I have a surreal vehicular temper explosive. Yeah, it's

614
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 6: and it makes people scared and takes.

615
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 5: Away from comedy. Yeah. So Karen operates the motor vehicle

616
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 5: and I but I, you know it's good. That to

617
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 5: me is therapeutic.

618
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 6: You don't make that way outside your car where there's

619
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 6: people and ears. Well.

620
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: Also, you may have noticed this.

621
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: One of the great things about LA is probably eighty

622
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: percent of the drivers here are the worst drivers on

623
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: the planet.

624
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've noticed that. I don't.

625
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 4: I don't have much to compare it to because I

626
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 4: lived in New York for so long and didn't have

627
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 4: a car, or that I lived in Virginia. It's like,

628
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 4: I don't know. It was like in college. I didn't

629
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 4: really know what driving.

630
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 6: Honestly, when I moved here, I was relieved that people

631
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 6: didn't drive as crazy as they did in Austin, Texas,

632
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:06,719
Speaker 6: where people go one hundred. People go so fast, like

633
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 6: we're the biggest state fast, Like there's a pride in

634
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 6: speed that is equivalent.

635
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 5: I do.

636
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 4: I do drive. I drive like an old woman. I'm

637
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 4: extremely caut to me, but I don't get mad. I

638
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 4: get I go, oh, you're gonna come right in front

639
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 4: of me, are you. I'll be like well, and I'll

640
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 4: be fucking douchebag, and I'll just be really calm about it.

641
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 4: But the the thing that I noticed here is, and

642
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 4: this is more just where I live. I hear car

643
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 4: accidents or near car accidents every day where I live,

644
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 4: and just you know, it's and I'm like, it shouldn't

645
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 4: be this much like I've.

646
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 5: Become very alert.

647
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 6: I am up front, I almost have my forehead touching

648
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 6: my windshield like this. But I really do think that

649
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 6: in La people are all, for the most part, driving

650
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 6: with the frantic fear, fear of each other.

651
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 5: And I think that's, well.

652
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 4: There's fear, and then there's people who are just distracted

653
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 4: on their phones doing whatever. And that's what you know.

654
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 4: Like cause where I live, I live right on not

655
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 4: on Silver Lake Boulevard, but like I can see it

656
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 4: from my apartment. I live on a different road that's

657
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 4: next to it, and it's just the curvy road and

658
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 4: people go too fast on it, but you can't get

659
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 4: up that much speed on it. It's just that people

660
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 4: aren't paying attention coming around a curve and they hit.

661
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: People like people really do look at their phones when

662
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: they drive, though, it's crazy.

663
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 5: Yeah I do.

664
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 2: It's so bad.

665
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 4: You really try not to.

666
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 2: I do it.

667
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 5: We both do it.

668
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 4: Just stoplights, and you shouldn't even do that because it's not.

669
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: I've been trying to save it for stoplights.

670
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: But my probable is I will get this sense that

671
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: people are going without looking up.

672
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 4: Yet, and then you start to accelerate. Yeah, that's why

673
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 4: I stop.

674
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: Whit is bad idea, it's bad, like it's that kind

675
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: of thing of just being an adult. For me, I

676
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 1: should just put my phone away, right, there's nothing going on.

677
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: That's that I'm afraid.

678
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 6: That's that's when I have my thoughts to myself. That's

679
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 6: when I want to address things. I'm driving, I'm thinking.

680
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 6: That's where I do most of my business.

681
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 5: But I use the voice command. I go and like

682
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 5: just say what I want.

683
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 6: I think that we should meet later, kamma, we have

684
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 6: to talk about this other stuff period. Furthermore, Comma again,

685
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 6: I don't say again that word.

686
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 5: Yeah.

687
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 6: Therefore, I've gotten very good at dictating with punctuation.

688
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 5: That's that's good. I think it's meanwhile my eyes are

689
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 5: on the road safely. Yeah, so I don't know.

690
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 4: It isoth like for the phone, but I've never done

691
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 4: voice command it really you do audio texting now too,

692
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 4: where you can just record a message and text it

693
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 4: to someone.

694
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 5: If that's ogain.

695
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 2: Have you ever accidentally done that, because I've accidentally friend.

696
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 4: Of I just did it to me and it was

697
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 4: just all I heard was her dog barking and her

698
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 4: going no.

699
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 2: It's a little snippets of people's lives.

700
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,959
Speaker 4: I do it all the time.

701
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: I'll just look down and I'll have sent someone the

702
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: past five seconds and I like panic of like what

703
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: the fuck was I just doing or saying?

704
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: But it's usually like walking in a parking lot or something.

705
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 5: I have not pocket done that yet.

706
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: It's pretty great. I need to gotta do it.

707
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 5: Get in I'm going to get in on it doing it,

708
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 5: get down on it.

709
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: So, Sarah, what being in Los Angeles? What is the

710
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: most fun thing you've done?

711
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 5: Compare contrast New York?

712
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 2: No, do you think that pizza is as good here?

713
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 2: It spread out?

714
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 5: Is it really in the water?

715
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 4: The most fun thing I've done here, just other than

716
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 4: experiencing a new part of the country, in great Weather. Yes,

717
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: I'm trying to think ship.

718
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 2: Have you seen a celebrity yet?

719
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 4: I saw Miles Teller.

720
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: Best Bye and Best Buy?

721
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, and he was picking something up. And he's the

722
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 4: kid in Whipblash that plays the drums and I had

723
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 4: never really seen him in anything before, and I fell

724
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 4: in love in the movie. Like I just I think

725
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 4: he's very attractive. He's just my He's like a young

726
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 4: Richard Gear and Richard Gere is like my favorite. I

727
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 4: would fuck him into next week. My first sex dream

728
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: ever was about Richard Gear. I don't know what it

729
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 4: is about him. He doesn't He's not even conventionally like

730
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 4: as attractive as many other actors.

731
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 2: I think it is.

732
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: It's squinty, alpha swagger. It's like he's saying you all

733
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, And so it's kind of like if

734
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: he liked me, What if the asshole liked me?

735
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, and they never do, but uh yeah, I.

736
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 6: Want I'm gonna fuck you in the next week as

737
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 6: a tattoo.

738
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I was quoting fifty Shades of Gray.

739
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 2: No, oh God, did you see that money? I did.

740
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 4: I saw it in Miami. I was just there.

741
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 5: That's where you go.

742
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 4: I flew to Miami to see it. No, I was

743
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 4: in Miami and I had to go see it because

744
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 4: I was it was filming something that I had to

745
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 4: talk about it and and I went to like a cinebistro,

746
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 4: which is like you're you eat and drink while you're

747
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 4: watching the movie with those big, yes, big chairs like

748
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,280
Speaker 4: so I went and it was all these Miami women,

749
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 4: like middle aged housewives, drunk off their asses. I didn't

750
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 4: even hear most of the funny commentary because it was

751
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 4: in Spanish that people were yelling out at the screen,

752
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: like big laughs would happen after a lady would say something.

753
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I don't know what she said, but

754
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 4: it would be so funny because anytime anything hot would happen,

755
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 4: which wasn't often, a woman would not need to be

756
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 4: like I me, it was so fun. But the movie

757
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 4: was just a hot pilot trash.

758
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 5: Was so bad.

759
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 4: It was so fucked up and weird. There was only

760
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 4: one sex scene that actually like turned me on, and

761
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 4: it could have been a sex scene between any great lovers,

762
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 4: you know, like.

763
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 5: It wasn't it wasn't even that.

764
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 4: It wasn't even really b DSM, like I mean, and

765
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 4: this is the part and I'm it is a little

766
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 4: Kara's having an orgasm just hearing about but yeah, she

767
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 4: uh okay, So this is a little it's not much

768
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 4: of a spoiler because you find out very quickly in

769
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 4: the movie. And I didn't know this because I didn't

770
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 4: read the book or anything. He's rudis virgin. She meets him,

771
00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 4: and no joke. The second time she has sex, she's

772
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 4: tied up to the bed, blindfolded and doing it doggy

773
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 4: style and gets spanked, And I'm like, you just went

774
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 4: from zero to like your second time having sex, it

775
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 4: was like more advanced. And then this is a tweet

776
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,240
Speaker 4: I'm quoting, but that I did, it's like more advanced

777
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 4: than my like five hundred times.

778
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 5: I don't think I've had sex.

779
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 2: That that's hilarious. I was thinking, because I've had.

780
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: A couple of people that talked about what the sex

781
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: was in that movie, and to me, it's so hilarious.

782
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: Like there's shit on Tumblr like if those people.

783
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: Knew what real real beds, real BDSM and like the

784
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 1: stuff that's becoming very common to people.

785
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it felt almost like like too tame, like it

786
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 4: was you know, and she gets beaten at the end

787
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 4: of the movie, and it's like, like beaten up. He like,

788
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 4: whips are really hard, and because she goes, it's like

789
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: the worst fucking dialogue. She's like, she's like, do your worst.

790
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 4: I want to know why you do this, and he's

791
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 4: She's like, show me the worst you can do, and

792
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 4: the worst is him whipping her with a belt really hard,

793
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 4: and then she she lets him do it and then

794
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 4: it finishes. I'm giving away the end of the movie,

795
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 4: so oh yeah, and she's like, pause, she's she finished,

796
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 4: She's crying. She finishes getting whipped with a belt, and

797
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 4: then she gets up and he tries to touch her.

798
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 4: She's like, no, touch me, and then leaves.

799
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 5: What are you kidding?

800
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,240
Speaker 2: Don't get married?

801
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 4: That would don't get married because there's gonna be a

802
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 4: sequel you know where they where they you know, pokes

803
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 4: her mouth and stuff like that. I mean, but that's

804
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,439
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, is like she goes from so much

805
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 4: of it is so unbelievable and weird, and like his

806
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 4: behavior at the beginning of the movie, if he wasn't

807
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 4: rich and attractive, would be literal like stalker, serial killer behavior.

808
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 5: Either of you read this book that was sweeping the nation.

809
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 2: Of course I can't read.

810
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 5: It's Yeah, I'm not a member of the b D

811
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 5: s M.

812
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 4: I recommend the movie Secretary if you want to see that.

813
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 5: It's a good one.

814
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's hot and it's a love story, Yes, exactly,

815
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 4: like a true like they're both they both awakened to

816
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 4: their who they are together.

817
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: Yes, and it's so consensual.

818
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,280
Speaker 4: She's like, oh, she's so it's.

819
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 2: Almost like therapy for her. I love that movie. That's

820
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: a really great movie.

821
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, that is what is BDS. But I don't even

822
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 6: know what it stands for.

823
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 4: Dominant submissive. No, I don't know what D is, dominant dais.

824
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 5: There's a lot of flowers. I haven't seen the movie.

825
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 4: I'm really into a flower play.

826
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 2: I just you stick a daisy and a gun.

827
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 6: I like when a girl comes up to me, it

828
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 6: looks like she's gonna kiss, and then she just blows

829
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 6: a bunch of pollen into my face starts.

830
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 5: I mean, it doesn't turn me on so much. Its

831
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 5: cause a horrible allergic reaction.

832
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 4: Is allergic, which is part of the pain of what

833
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 4: a What are your depths that you're willing to get?

834
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,959
Speaker 6: Nothing turns me on more than when I get because

835
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 6: I'm allergic to almost everything. One of them is the ocean.

836
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,760
Speaker 6: If I I'm getting down with and just my nose

837
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 6: is just draining and I'm sneezing and I'm coughing, and I.

838
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 5: Get, it's like just one of the God turns me on. Yeah,

839
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 5: I currently have bronchitis. I really do. That's okay. I'm

840
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 5: on antibiotics. But bodics is a biotics or beonyx biotics.

841
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 4: Beonics is definitely an old person way I'm saying antibiotics.

842
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 5: I'm an antibiotics. I have a horrible case of bronchitis.

843
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 5: Thank god it wasn't pending on you. Yeah, I'm done.

844
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 2: I'm done antibiotics.

845
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 5: You guys, take it away. We're here, We're here about them.

846
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 5: We're just kind of chilling.

847
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 4: I saw Miles Teller that the Best buye.

848
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 6: That's the moral of that long And he's an actor

849
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 6: and also a real life drummer, right, I think that

850
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 6: he's a drummer turned actor.

851
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: Is he? Oh?

852
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 4: That makes it even better.

853
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 2: I heard that he was a drummer.

854
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: But not to that level, and that he basically studied

855
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: to be that good for that movie.

856
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's what makes it even hotter.

857
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: I found him very appealing in that movie and then

858
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: did a little research, And by research I mean watched

859
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: a zach Efron movie that.

860
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: He was in.

861
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 4: I've heard, yeah he's in some other ship that's and

862
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 4: ship being the operative word.

863
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 5: Good.

864
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 6: I need to see that Whiplash ship though.

865
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 4: Oh you haven't seen it.

866
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 5: It's good. It's great that JK. Simmons guy's from Missoula.

867
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 5: He spoke at my graduation.

868
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 2: Oh you then you absolutely must see it.

869
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's a great guy.

870
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 2: Yeah it's a it's a good.

871
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 5: But in that movie it's super mean, right, super stern.

872
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 4: I have a sexual fantasy, Whiplash fantasy that is Miles

873
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 4: Teller fingering me and then me going not my tempo

874
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 4: after the line from the movie do.

875
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: You have huge guns and a black rolled up?

876
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 4: And I keep like smacking him in the face, speed

877
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 4: it up.

878
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: I kind of loved that, Like people were so outraged

879
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: by how.

880
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 4: Mean he was, and he was very homophobic, like in

881
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 4: his insults, which made me prickle a little bit sometimes.

882
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 4: But I was like, no, I mean that is if

883
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 4: you're going to do your worst, you know, like that's

884
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 4: what you do.

885
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I feel like that's the That kind of

886
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: pressure is good, but negative things when you're trying to

887
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: learn the thing you want to do, having like.

888
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 2: Having it be really hard is really good. In my opinion.

889
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 4: I liked what his character said about like you know

890
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 4: that if I told you you were good, you would

891
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 4: never have been great.

892
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 6: I saw that in the trailer and I agreed with it.

893
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 6: But he was yelling and it seemed like he was

894
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 6: about to choke him when he said that.

895
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 5: He's just very aggressive. A lot of people don't know.

896
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 5: He's kind of a big goes to the gymnasium.

897
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 2: It seems like, oh JK.

898
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 5: Simmons, Yeah, tosses around the medicine ball.

899
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 6: He's just got like one of those old jack He's

900
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 6: got old muscle on him.

901
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I used to be jacked, but now I'm.

902
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 4: Just He comes off pretty jacked in the movie.

903
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 5: Really Yeah.

904
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 4: We wears a tight T shirt and you can see that.

905
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 6: Well now you know, Hi, sorry, Oh we're gonna have

906
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 6: to move, aren't we.

907
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 5: No, we'll see We're gonna wait it out.

908
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 6: Well I happen in that movie is that like a

909
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 6: teaching is a high school teacher. He's at like a

910
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 6: special music.

911
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 4: School, Juilliard type situation.

912
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, because my my sister is a teacher and she

913
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 6: just got fired for saying bullshit in front of some kids.

914
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 5: She was I don't fourth grade. I'm not sure I

915
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 5: should know that she should be teaching high school. That's

916
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 5: what the union. She got fired.

917
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 6: There was one other strike that was a Facebook post

918
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 6: she made a year ago, and they kept that in

919
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 6: mind too, because she said something about now I know

920
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 6: why they hit their knuckles with rulers. It was a

921
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 6: comedic blog like post where she said that, and the

922
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 6: principle happened to be your Facebook friend. Oh you never,

923
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 6: So she got fire and I'm like, my point is

924
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 6: my music teacher in high school when I played trombone

925
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 6: and a bunch.

926
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 5: Of teachers were so abusive.

927
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 6: He threw a pencil at my face and it whizzed

928
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 6: past my eye and I remember saying, wow, what if

929
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 6: that had gone in my eye and blinded me? And

930
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 6: he got frustrated and left the room.

931
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 5: That guy worked at that high school. He worked there.

932
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 1: That My high school were fucking lunatics. There was a

933
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: lot of them, were drunks. We had a priest that

934
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: was literally schizophrenic. He would the entire theology class. He

935
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: would draw maps on the board of how the Communists

936
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: were taking over San Francisco, and none of it, we

937
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: none of us said anything because we didn't have to

938
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: study the Bible as long as he was doing that.

939
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 2: So we all just like everyone just kept the lid

940
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 2: on it.

941
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: And we just knew if we sat there and listened

942
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: to him talk about the Communists taking over that we

943
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: could just hang out and not have to worry about

944
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: like memorizing stuff.

945
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 5: Wow.

946
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: And that was just like I've actually written out some

947
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: of it because it was so crazy, the amount of

948
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: like kids getting screamed at and all of it.

949
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 2: That like these days.

950
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 4: Catholic school, yes, yeah, yeah, that's even more extreme.

951
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 2: It's crazy. It's like its own little world.

952
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: But I mean these days, it's like I think about

953
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: that all the time, like kids, I think it's good,

954
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: but at the same time, it's like can be so extreme,

955
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: Like they can hear the word bullshit.

956
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 2: If a teachers a good.

957
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 5: Teacher, that's crazy. Yeah, I can't believe she got she

958
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,919
Speaker 5: just got that job too. No, that's crazy, that's why

959
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 5: they let her.

960
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 6: Oh she hasn't Adam and eve Leaf when the kind

961
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,760
Speaker 6: you cover your green adals with Sarah.

962
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 5: Did you go to public.

963
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 4: School or do you I went to public schools. I

964
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 4: lived in an area of Virginia that had really good

965
00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 4: public schools. And then in high school, I went to

966
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 4: one of the first magnet schools charter schools in the country,

967
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 4: and it was in my city, and it was a

968
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 4: new trend.

969
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 5: It's not a sorry for older kids.

970
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 4: I don't know it kind of, but it's a yeah.

971
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 4: It was a school like you had to apply to

972
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 4: get into it. It was for like I hate the

973
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 4: term gifted because it's needlessly.

974
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 5: Like I was from calling it gifted.

975
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 4: I am gifted.

976
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 5: Gifted.

977
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 4: It was like a gifted thing. And it was really

978
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 4: great for me because I went from a huge county

979
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 4: school where I felt alone to like a smaller nerd

980
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 4: school where I felt way more comfortable, like I could

981
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 4: be myself. And I loved it. I loved my high school.

982
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 6: I'm jealous of anyone that went to that school Emerson

983
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 6: that I only know of in stories.

984
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 2: It's like a school.

985
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like a school for artists and creative people,

986
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 6: but it's a regular You just a degree and you

987
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 6: draw and paint and make music and comedy and oh man.

988
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 2: You yourself?

989
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 5: What was Yeah, well, anytime.

990
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 6: I took a college course with the football team, they

991
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 6: did have us come up and say what do you

992
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 6: think you earned? And it would just be football players

993
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,959
Speaker 6: going a and they go all right, all right, hey,

994
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 6: nice catch the other night.

995
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 2: Wow.

996
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't like that.

997
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

998
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I get crazy.

999
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 4: I got really I I was very hard on myself academically,

1000
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 4: Like I just wanted to be good, like at things

1001
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 4: and would try to be not the It wasn't like

1002
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 4: I want to be the best. I've never really had

1003
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 4: that in me, but I wanted to just do my

1004
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 4: best and like I had And I always thought was

1005
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 4: that my parents that did that to me, But they've

1006
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 4: always been like you were just always like that. Just

1007
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 4: your standard for yourself was so high that you would

1008
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 4: just be in constant pain. Yeah, because I and I'm

1009
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,240
Speaker 4: still like that. I'm like always like it's not good enough.

1010
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 4: I have to work harder, I have to do that.

1011
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 4: That was a mistake, you know, I'm really harder on myself.

1012
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 4: So it was in one way I loved my high school.

1013
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 4: In other ways, I just fed into what I already.

1014
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 4: You know, my college was like that or it was

1015
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 4: just I put myself in situations where it's it's probably

1016
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 4: too hard for me. And now if if I think

1017
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 4: about if I ever have kids, I already have this

1018
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 4: like gut feeling that I just don't want them to

1019
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 4: have to worry about any of it. I just would

1020
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 4: be like, let's just let them go to whatever's school.

1021
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 4: Like I'm like people when they're like, we got to

1022
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 4: live in the right neighborhood with the good schools. I'm like, nah,

1023
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 4: let's just live in the shitty neighborhood where it's more

1024
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 4: affordable and we can have like a nicer house and

1025
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 4: the kid, the kid'll be fine. But I don't know,

1026
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 4: I have this like I don't want my kid to

1027
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:53,879
Speaker 4: suffer the way I have.

1028
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, I wonder if parents can control that.

1029
00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 6: I always had their support and everything, but I anguished

1030
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 6: over I was so timid and scared as a kid,

1031
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 6: and it wasn't anything they did.

1032
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 5: I was just a little it was different. I didn't

1033
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 5: I wasn't motivated to do well. I did horrible in school,

1034
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 5: but I did worry about it, though not enough to

1035
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 5: change things.

1036
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 6: But I wonder, Yeah, I always think that if my

1037
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 6: parents were, like, were they yelling at me and disappointed

1038
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 6: with me?

1039
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 5: Would it have lit a fire under my ass? I

1040
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 5: don't know.

1041
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 4: My dad was pretty hard on me about stuff. I

1042
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 4: said some of it came from him.

1043
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 5: But.

1044
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 4: Well it was it was a lot of it was

1045
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 4: within me.

1046
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 5: My dad was JK. Simmons.

1047
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 6: I said he was just from my town, but god,

1048
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 6: his shirts were tight and his punches were hard.

1049
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: I literally figured out that everyone at my high school

1050
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: was crazy and never did homework the entire time. I

1051
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: don't know how I graduated from high school, and it's

1052
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: the reason I ended up getting kicked out of college

1053
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: because I just never went to class.

1054
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 2: You never did anything kills.

1055
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:56,959
Speaker 4: I just didn't.

1056
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know how.

1057
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: And our high schools college prep, but I just got

1058
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: around everything, or.

1059
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 2: Like would I would. It was actually twice as hard

1060
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 2: because I was just.

1061
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 1: Figuring out, like I would just sit there and put

1062
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: it together in my mind of like, well, here's the

1063
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: test about the book, and this is a question being asked,

1064
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: so this.

1065
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 2: Is this is probably the answer. There was a lot

1066
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 2: of that I did that.

1067
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 4: I did that a little bit too, because I would

1068
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 4: just be overwhelmed. I would sign up for too much shit, yeah,

1069
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 4: and I would be too busy, and I got I

1070
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 4: was an English major in college, and I got really

1071
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 4: good at writing an essay about a book I hadn't read, yeah,

1072
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 4: the whole I just read enough. I just knew how

1073
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 4: to do it, and I could skate by because I

1074
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 4: just had too much going on. It wasn't that I

1075
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 4: didn't like that. I was like, fuck this. I was

1076
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 4: like just constantly being economical with my time, you know,

1077
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,720
Speaker 4: like so that I could go do the fun things

1078
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 4: like being in the comedy group and doing theater and

1079
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 4: stuff like that.

1080
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 6: We didn't have a comedy group where I'm from, so

1081
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 6: I anxiously. I just wanted to get college over with.

1082
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 6: And I took the exact amount of credits to fill

1083
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 6: my major and to graduate, not one more. I had

1084
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:05,919
Speaker 6: it all mapped out by this guy's like, do you

1085
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 6: you need to.

1086
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 5: Take a structural system or what? I just and I

1087
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 5: graduated right on. I just want to end it. I

1088
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 5: just want to get it out of the way.

1089
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 6: But I'm glad I did it in retrospect. I mean, look,

1090
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 6: I've never shown my degree to a single human.

1091
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 2: You should start showing it on stage.

1092
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 5: It's a nice.

1093
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 4: Before I begin, I just want to show you.

1094
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: I need you to put your eyes on this.

1095
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: He called to a bachelor of five arts, and it

1096
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: is fine.

1097
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 5: It is fine. And I'm a bachelor ladies one piece

1098
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 5: just with a zipper on the side.

1099
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 6: It's gonna be a hot summer.

1100
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 2: In the back. You always have to talk about Howard.

1101
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Howard Kramer. Admiration hour him.

1102
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,760
Speaker 1: We don't you do, Sara, do have anything to plug

1103
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: besides Chrysalist? The new album coming to you in June.

1104
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 4: No, March seventeenth.

1105
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,399
Speaker 2: March seventeenth is Saint Patrick's Day.

1106
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, nice, celebrate with my album. Uh uh no, I

1107
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 4: mean I around town. I would say, go to my website,

1108
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 4: Sarah Shaper dot com and check out the calendar. I'm

1109
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 4: doing a lot of colleges, so if you're in college,

1110
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 4: look to see if I'm coming to your college.

1111
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh nice, that's fine.

1112
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, good way to make money.

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Speaker 6: I'll just that as a little industry side note, folks,

1114
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:40,320
Speaker 6: Sarah's doing.

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00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm killing it. That's it.

1116
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 5: You're not podcasting anymore?

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00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 4: No, not not. I had a podcast with Nikki Glazer

1118
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 4: were it's kind of dormant. We're both just been too

1119
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 4: busy and in different places in the New York person. Yeah.

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00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 4: And then I had a podcasts come out last year

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00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 4: on w n y C and Nervous, like they partnered

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00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 4: up for it, and it was like a season thing,

1123
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 4: like wny C does seasons of things, and they are

1124
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 4: very slow to make decisions. So I don't know if

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00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 4: I'll keep doing it, but you can go look it up.

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00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 4: It's called Lies and I just interview someone and everything

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00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 4: they say has.

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00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 5: To be a lie. Oh that's terrific. That's a great

1129
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 5: and it sounds fun.

1130
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 4: I'm really proud of how it came out. It's really fun.

1131
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,280
Speaker 4: So go listen to those episodes.

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00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,280
Speaker 5: I really like that concept.

1133
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 4: And they're short, they're like fifteen minutes.

1134
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,760
Speaker 5: I was going to say, it's not a long one. No,

1135
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 5: it's definitely.

1136
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 2: It's called Hours of Lives.

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00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 6: Liars is exactly an hour long. We have seven more

1138
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 6: minutes left of that.

1139
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 4: I love it.

1140
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 5: We are going to do a.

1141
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 6: Comedy concert here and meltdown. Sarah and I are both

1142
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 6: on the show.

1143
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to stand in the back knowingly well, I

1144
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 2: love it.

1145
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 4: Judge, Yeah, be judging it please judging.

1146
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 5: And I don't want to discourage you, Sarah.

1147
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 6: Did you see on the thing that they it's like

1148
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 6: an audience participation what?

1149
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why I don't take at I don't.

1150
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 6: I hope that's not what I think it means that

1151
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 6: the audience will be participating.

1152
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 5: Do you think that's what it means? Those were the

1153
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 5: two words.

1154
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 4: Sometimes there's it's fun when you show up to a

1155
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 4: show and they're like, okay, so this is a high

1156
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,839
Speaker 4: concept show and you just go out there and then

1157
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,439
Speaker 4: you don't have to do any stand up and it's

1158
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 4: just like its different. But then sometimes the concept's not

1159
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 4: good and then you end up being like why did

1160
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 4: I fucking waste money? But I don't remember.

1161
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 5: That's the thing. I trust the emails. I trust Daniel

1162
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 5: and Aaron. Yeah, I'm sure it'll be fun. Hopefully it

1163
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 5: doesn't mean it's not free for all of friendly heckling.

1164
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 5: That's saying the economy what like suggestions, I don't know

1165
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 5: what it means.

1166
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: So it's almost like it's only the only half of

1167
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: improv is that there's suggestions, but then suggestions to stand

1168
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: ups who don't take suggestions.

1169
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 5: Or you do a joke and then they pause and

1170
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 5: just give you tip. I would end it with that.

1171
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 5: I would tag it first of all, and just the audience.

1172
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 2: Torture time.

1173
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 4: Talk about Okay, I'll tell you about a show that's

1174
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 4: torture for the comedian but really fun for the audience.

1175
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 4: It's called oh sh that seven minutes in Hell I

1176
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 4: don't know, no, seven minutes in Heaven or something like.

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Speaker 4: You do stand up in a room to a camera

1178
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 4: alone and you have headphones on so you can't hear

1179
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 4: the audience through the wall, and then they pipe it

1180
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:42,720
Speaker 4: into the theater. They do it U see be Franklin.

1181
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 2: And.

1182
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 4: It was I was like I I watched some of

1183
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 4: it from the audience and it was really fun. But

1184
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 4: as a performer, I was like, that is not something

1185
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 4: I ever want to do again. I was like, thank

1186
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 4: you so much for having me, But that was fucking

1187
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 4: awful for me because it was it was the for me.

1188
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 4: It was the thing on my ears that bothered me

1189
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 4: because I couldn't hear my own voice and sound. I

1190
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 4: felt like I was drunk, like because I felt like

1191
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 4: I was slurring my word. It was weird. It was

1192
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 4: just a sensory like deprivation type thing. That's great, and

1193
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 4: you don't know if you're bombing or if you're doing well,

1194
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 4: and to it's like a social experiment type show. Show

1195
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 4: is cool. I highly recommend going to it. But if

1196
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 4: you're a comedian and you get claustrophobic or any kind

1197
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 4: of weird, I don't know. I was like that, I

1198
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 4: never know.

1199
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: If I'm bombing anyway, even if they're right there in

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00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: front of me.

1201
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 2: I'm just like, this is terrible.

1202
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 4: I do that too. I go, that was awful, and

1203
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 4: people go, that was great.

1204
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 2: I loved it.

1205
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 6: I'm very I'm very sensitive to when I'm not doing well.

1206
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 5: I know when it's happening always. You know too, And

1207
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 5: it does set list you guys mentioned it.

1208
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 6: It is horrifying and while you're on stage while when

1209
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 6: I do it, I'm sweating, I feel uncomfortable and I

1210
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 6: feel like I did doing stand up fifteen years ago.

1211
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 5: And but it is it's good afterwards.

1212
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 6: It's like this exhilarating arenaline.

1213
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 5: It's so scary.

1214
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 4: I haven't done it yet. I got it's very booked

1215
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 4: on it. And then I had a migraine that day

1216
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 4: and I emailed him and I was like I really

1217
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 4: don't think I can do this type of show.

1218
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 5: Ye tonight, look to be quick and you have to

1219
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 5: be and he was.

1220
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 4: He was like, absolutely not, do not come.

1221
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: I've been booked on that show and haven't done it

1222
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: four times, and almost every time I would, I think

1223
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: I flaked straight out. Just flake flaked two times, and

1224
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,439
Speaker 1: then I had two very legitimate reasons the other two.

1225
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 2: But I'm scared to death to do it. Yeah, scared

1226
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 2: to death to do it, but I really want to.

1227
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 2: I think it would be fine.

1228
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but around five o'clock every time every day that

1229
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: i'm when and I've booked on it that night, I'm like, oh.

1230
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 2: That's weird. I just don't feel well. This isn't going

1231
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 2: to work out.

1232
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 4: If I gave myself a headache because I was scared,

1233
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 4: you know, my body just like went into like survival.

1234
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 2: You're not doing this.

1235
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 6: I do not enjoy doing set lists, but I do

1236
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 6: ask to do it all the time, if that makes sense.

1237
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 6: I think it's good for me, but it's not enjoyable

1238
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 6: until right when it's done.

1239
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: Yeah that's oh wait, that's how I feel.

1240
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 4: That.

1241
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 5: God, I really don't enjoy it until it's over.

1242
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: I really love watching watching it, and I love watching

1243
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: people suffer through it. It's so funny how nervous people

1244
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: get and how great they do, and how on their

1245
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,439
Speaker 1: side the audiences and it doesn't really matter, like because

1246
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: they're just up.

1247
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think forget how much forgiveness is given when

1248
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 4: you do improv. Yeah, I mean I started out in

1249
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 4: New York trying improv and and did it for many years.

1250
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 4: Well I did it for like five years and it

1251
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 4: was I and I was doing stand up at the

1252
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 4: same time, and I would always be like, oh man,

1253
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 4: improv is like you have so much more forgiveness from

1254
00:59:57,640 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 4: the audience because they know you're making it up on

1255
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 4: the spot. The laughs are coming easier but there. But

1256
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 4: there's a different like when you do stand up. You

1257
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 4: just feel so much more satisfaction when you do get

1258
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 4: the laugh because you're in control and you had to

1259
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 4: force it and you're like getting it out of them

1260
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 4: and bringing it out of them.

1261
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 5: Well, it's a it's a better art.

1262
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 4: In other words, sucks and that's why I.

1263
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 5: Well, let's go do whatever that says. I'm a little

1264
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 5: worried about whatever audience participation means.

1265
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 2: So defin we start getting mad about it.

1266
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 6: Now, I'm gonna I'm not saying I'm going to go

1267
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,439
Speaker 6: in there with a rage and treat it like I'm

1268
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 6: in the inside of my car.

1269
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 5: Just blurt, come out screaming guns blazon.

1270
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 6: I want to just dedicate this episode to Harris Whittles,

1271
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 6: who is a person that I very much loved, and

1272
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 6: he's passed away, and so I just want to say

1273
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 6: that he was great, and I wanted to mention his

1274
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 6: name and just end it that way.

1275
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it.

1276
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 4: I like that too.

1277
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 2: It was.

1278
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 5: You're listening to do you Need a Ride? D y

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Speaker 5: n A R.