WEBVTT - Ella Dijo Is Back ! 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:03.720 This is he said, A yeah d Ho with Eric 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:05.680 Winter and Rodlin Fantag. 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:11.160 Hello, Hello, welcome back to another he said, he yet 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:16.320 deal started already. Yeah who Hi, yeah d Ho back. 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:21.360 Hey, I am back. I am bringing Sexy back. 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:23.120 Yes you are, Yes you are. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.000 What is happening? I've missed you, I have missed you, 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:30.000 I have missed the audience or he said, a yadehoe 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:33.240 listeners miss me very much. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:35.080 There's always that. I wonder a lot of parents can 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.640 relate to this. Right when you come home and then 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.920 you see the kids and it's like, oh my god, 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:40.960 you see your spouse and you're like hi. 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:48.040 Every single family. It's absolutely normal that you are actually 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:52.400 more excited to see your children your spouse. And I 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:54.639 was very happy to see everybody. I'm the doggies. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:56.960 It was great having you back. And also how was 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:58.240 filming overall? Tell us about the. 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:01.360 Experience, So, guys, I went tobill BA went to Spain 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:07.640 for a month by Basco. I learned it was it's 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:12.080 very interesting history, like the Basque country. They considered themselves past. 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:14.440 They don't want to be called Spaniards. It's really interesting. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:20.480 In marm it was lovely. The crew was so fantastic, Hardivigen, 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.400 Chris Gear, Chris. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.720 Hoole, did you t I was like nerding out that 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:25.320 you were in a movie? 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:29.679 Yeah, he loves he loves. No, he's awesome. He's awesome, 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:33.200 and it was amazing. It's called Spicy Whale. Comes out 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:37.440 next year. And in the middle of still editing my 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:40.679 movie thee I'm going back to Puerto Rico in what 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:41.360 next week? 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.280 How did the I don't think we talked about this 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.120 at all, definitely on the podcast. How did the Latin 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:46.680 Grammys go? Cause you look fantastic? 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:49.480 Oh my god, oh my god, thank you? What did 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:49.800 you say? 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:50.560 Fantastic? 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:55.240 Fantastical, FANTASTICA the Latin Grammy is It was incredible. Seventh 0:01:55.280 --> 0:02:00.080 time doing this. I went there for less than forty hours. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:03.200 That people might find interesting. 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:06.240 No, I think everything ran amazing. The show was incredible. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:11.960 Was for me, it was like like a moss. It 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:15.080 was like silk. I had a blast. I feel like 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.720 I enjoy it. Every year. I get to be better, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.600 you know, because I'm more experienced and I just love 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:25.280 hosting the Latin Grammys, And yeah, it was an incredible experience. 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:26.640 We finally got our home and then we ended up 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:30.960 having our anniversary right after she got home, which was amazing, 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.920 and Thanksgivings, we were able to actually do you know, 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.000 I guess we were forced into doing a date night 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:38.560 because we haven't done date nights and like I'm forced, 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:41.480 we haven't done date nights on a regular basis because 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:43.200 it was our anniversary, so we. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:47.840 Had to come anniversary forced for you. 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:50.359 No, forced us to have a date night? Are we 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.080 We talked about on the podcast before that we got 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:53.480 to do better at date nights. We have to plan 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:55.760 date nights. And then she was gone for like forever 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.320 and she came back, so that was something fun to celebrate. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:02:59.960 We had nice dinner out one of our favorite places, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.560 Stake forty eight us. We've both been shopping for each 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.519 other at the same place for our gifts, which was 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:06.400 pretty funny. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:07.880 I know, and then we both forgot the gifts. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:09.280 We both forgot the gift, so we drive. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:10.799 Into the restaurant. He goes, oh my god, the gift. 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.880 I'm going, oh my god, your gift. And then we 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:15.560 can back home and then we give each other the gifts. 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:16.320 It was so nice. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:18.280 It was nice, it was it was eating and again 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:19.840 we got to start doing date nights more on a 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.640 regular basis. Then you leave again for two weeks, so 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:23.160 ear a week. 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:25.000 I just leave from nine days and then we go 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:25.480 to New York. 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.799 We're gonna that's going to be fun. I'm actually looking 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:31.200 forward to this, taking the kids, planning a trip to 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:33.400 take the kids for the first time to New York. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:34.600 I hope it snows. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.640 I'll be nice to get a little bit. I think 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.560 it'd be fun. We're going to do see the Rockets 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.720 Radio City Music Hall, which I think the girls will love. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.840 Dylan may or may not. He might find it interesting. 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.440 I want to all the twist stuff that your liberty. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:48.520 I want to do that. I'm trying to. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:49.640 Work, what do you want to do this? Why do 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:51.160 you want to do this liberty? 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.680 They should see it's a story we can. 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:53.320 See from the distance. 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:55.080 I don't know what I think that's what I'm changing to. 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:56.920 That's that I'm I'm changing to. I think I want 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.480 to we just like what Dominique my pub as I said, 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.600 is that you just drive down to Dumbo. I guess 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.280 it is New York and you can see it from 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:05.880 you know, the other side of the bridge instead of 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.000 going over. I'm fine with that. I think I might 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.160 be fine. I just want them to see it and 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.200 experience what that is in person, because they've learned, you know, 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:15.120 Sebbius in particular, learn so much about it. 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.320 What is a history of this touch of liberty was. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:20.520 Given by the French. Why I have to go back 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:21.760 after a war. 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.760 It was so like I really wanted to say, the 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.360 kids to this touch of Liberty because of the history. 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:30.960 For I learned I learned, I don't know, I learned 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:32.520 it at one point in school. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:35.960 And then you want to go. You want to go 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.520 to the Empire State Building, which I know that I. 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:40.240 Won't be able to go on, but they can see it. 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.000 It'd be very fun to see that. I think it's 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.440 these are like, you know, major landmarks. 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:46.280 I want to go to Burgdorf and I just want 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:49.200 to go a shop, brought away shows and hour. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:53.839 The Statue Liberty was dedicated on October of eighteen eighty six. 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:59.240 It was designated as a National Monument in nineteen twenty four. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.760 And I know it came from France. The friendship between 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.120 the people. It was a gift of friendship from the 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:08.040 people of France to the United States and is recognized 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:11.200 as a universal symbol of freedom of democracy and democracy? 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:15.719 See interesting it was a piece right, I wasn't really 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:16.400 following a war. 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:19.080 Okay, So what is the one thing you do not agree? Well? 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:21.800 Thanksgiving pastor. I thinks even was amazing. Guys, I cooked 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:28.680 the most amazing tricky started with mofongo and I think 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:29.280 it was a hit. 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:35.640 It was friend's house and some great bartending was done, 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.440 sipped on. It was a really nice things. 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.360 So what do you both do for each other when 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:43.159 you are reunited after a while? 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:49.440 You know the truth is probably not enough. That's probably 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:52.440 the truth. Don't you think very good of this morning? 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:53.320 This is funny. 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.760 So hones sleeping. My alarm goes off, his alarm goes off. 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.240 I'm not even like fully awake. And he crossed just 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:03.000 to get the dogs out of the crate to take 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.880 them party, and he goes, we're doing terrible. That was 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:09.200 my good morning, No good morning money. He was like, 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:10.760 we're doing We're doing terrible. And I. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.320 Said, you realize you've been home for a week and 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:15.839 we're already old habits. 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:22.400 No, we're doing terrible. That's exactly what terrible. And I 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:24.039 was like, wow, what are you talking about. It's always 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.640 doing terrible three times, and. 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:31.040 Then you said, maybe we're doing terrible again. She came 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:36.160 back such a loving affectionate, just like there for each 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:39.039 other present week since you were back. And then it 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.800 was all of a sudden, like I got o from work, 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.000 I said, I said hello, give her kiss. There was 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:46.480 like no hugs, there was no conversation. She went in bed, 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:47.960 she started doing a bunch of work. I was dealing 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.520 with the kids. I go to bed. She's still doing 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:53.120 her own thing, starts watching her own Netflix show. I 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:57.680 fell asleep asleep. But I'm like, we're doing bad. We 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.600 just in a week we went back to a bad habit. 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:01.479 We didn't say final thoughts to go to bed, We 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:06.000 didn't share any kind of like just conversations throughout the night. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.359 You just did your thing. I didn't. I think in 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.840 a week you were gone for over a monthent okay. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:12.080 And then after you said that, what was my response, 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:17.480 Let's fix it exactly, Let's fix it practical to the point. 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.640 So the truth is when when when we usually come 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.640 back from long trips, I think the truth is we 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.800 don't do enough, Like we should probably do more of 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.640 a celebration, we should always but this, like I said, 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.600 we were forced in a great way into a date 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:29.920 night because of our anniversary. But if we didn't have 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.000 our anniversary, I bet you wouldn't have planned dinner right away. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.240 You'd have been like, oh, I don't want to go 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:34.280 out to dinner. I just got home. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:37.720 Really yea, I was very happy to go to dinner 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:39.200 with you that night because it was our anniversary. 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.440 But I don't think you would have naturally said, like, 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.080 let's go out to dinner. I just got home. You'd 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:45.640 have been like, oh, I think. 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.160 Well, Jed lag is a real thing. 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:49.040 Well, there was that time change. 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:50.760 So what do you do with the kids when one 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.000 of you are away for a long time? 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:57.000 Well, that's usually me because she's usually the one that's 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:58.840 been gone for the post thank you true, when's the 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:00.680 last time I was gone for a law long time? 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:07.520 A long time ago. I haven't been gone. It was 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.040 just a lot of keeping them busy with their with 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.360 their activities and all that, and trying to find fun 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.360 things to do on the weekend. During the week, Like 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.280 I said, we have amazing support with my mom and 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.320 our nanny, and it's been It was great. They had fun, 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.560 but they missed mom. So it's awesome to have ros back, 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:26.360 and now we had a fun family weekend the weekend 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.560 after Thanksgiving, and then this coming weekend we're going to 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:31.800 take them to see Mawana too and have a nice 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.600 dinner the place we went to, because they were very 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.280 sad that they didn't go to our anniversary dinner, so 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.600 we're gonna try and do some famili stuff. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:39.280 They get really upset when we go and do things 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.480 by ourselves and they're not invited. I'm going to share 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:43.720 something with you guys. It's this Billboo trip. I was 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:47.880 in Spain. I was working, which is an incredible blessing 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.920 I had. I was working with the most fantastic group 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:53.120 of people, but it was hard for me this time. 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:58.960 I think I'm going through a midlife crisis because I 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.680 just think everything is at the same time, like I'm 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.720 there by myself. I'm right in front of the Goggenheim. 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:07.280 How do you say that? Then of the museum, there's 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:09.560 Bill Bowie's to gorgeous and there's so many things to do, 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:13.680 but I didn't have anybody to do it with kind 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.880 of so it was it was a little bit deflating 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.160 because I was like, oh, I miss my husband. I 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.200 miss my kids. What am I doing? I think my 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:26.480 nephew's passing has changed everything in my perspective in life 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:31.640 because my brother only had nineteen years with this wonderful kid, 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:35.360 and Sabella is about to turn thirteen. I don't know 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.440 when she graduates from high school. She's going to probably 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:40.160 go overseas or go away for college, and that's going 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.840 to happen so fast. We have five more years with Sabella, 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.400 and I'm going, why am I away? 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:48.240 It's going to go so so fast? 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:53.400 Why am I away when I barely see Sabella as 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.960 it is, because she's always from school to tennis, tennis, 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:59.680 back home to go to bed, and I travel so 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:03.960 much and it's been I cried so many times while 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:08.440 in Bilbao because of my nephew, because of missing my children, 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:10.760 because my dad is very sick, and I was like, 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:16.200 my life is evolving so fast and it's crazy. I 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.360 came back. I had this great opportunity for this show 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:23.320 with two actors that I love, a list incredible actress, 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:28.720 but it means relocating six months to Texas, and I 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.760 was very shocked. Number One, I'm very proud of myself 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:36.080 for saying, you know what, I'm going to pass. I 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.079 don't think I can look to my family and that 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:40.480 I was saying, guys, guess what. I just came back 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:42.360 home and I'm going to leave again for six months, 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:44.920 and it kills me because you know how ambitious I am, 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.440 and you know how work is so important to me. 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:49.160 Work makes me happy. 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:53.000 But I sounds like your family makes you happy more. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.840 I guess, yeah, it sounds like very much. 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:57.960 But it used to be for sure. She was definitely 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:01.520 a work horse, like you work hungry. Everything had to 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:04.400 be work, work, work, So maybe, yeah, maybe you were 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.880 maturing in that in that regard. I mean, but the 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:08.760 work is important to get you gotta pay for your building. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:09.760 I pay life and you know. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.720 No, I want to work, but I just told my 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:13.520 team guys, I need to work in ideal. 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:15.960 You want to find the right gig and if you're 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.920 going to do it, not back to back right away, 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:21.520 maybe a movie, yeah, series. You never know how long 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:23.600 it go. You could be gone six months every year 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.280 for the next it could be the next five years. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.800 Like you said, you have five years left, and then 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.640 you'd be gone the next six months, six months at 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.120 a time for the next five years. That means you'd 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:34.280 only have six months a year with your kid who's 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:37.760 going to go off to college. That's crazy when you 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:40.840 put in perspective, but it's also. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:42.600 Lucky for you because you have a job in la. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.600 It's anomally, it's super easy for me to say, but 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:49.200 you know for a fact, I like manifested that for years. 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:50.920 And I'm not a big manifest you know all that, 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:54.440 But I turned down gigs when we first got When 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.600 we first got married, you threw a fit. You were 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.280 doing without a Trace in l A. And I had 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:01.400 offered a pilot to shoot in Rhode Island, and you 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:02.760 were like, Eric, how are you going to leave? We 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.120 just got married, that's crazy? And I passed. Yeah, it 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.680 was a Mark Gordon show, didn't go to series. And 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.240 You're like, how are you going to do this? You 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.079 just got married. And I passed on it never and 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.959 didn't didn't do it. And then for years I would 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:17.480 always walk away from stuff that didn't shoot in l A. 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:19.000 And I'd always struggle with that and I was like, 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:21.199 I can't relocate, I can't do this. Always. 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:23.440 Well, I'm struggling. I'm struggling with this one because this 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.679 one is a huge opportunity, but I was like, what 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.280 is going to make me happier? And I don't want 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.160 to do things that will make me happy, so I 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.679 just want to see my kids grow makes me happy. 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:35.280 Coming home and moving everything around that I've set up 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:38.320 so neatly, all my Palmer public stuff gone and everything 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.959 being moved everywhere. Yes, shifting things all around the kitchen 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:43.880 and the house. Wants to get rid of the rug 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:45.720 in the bedroom right away. Wants to paint a wall right. 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:52.440 On the dining tables. Bedroom is going to be painted a. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.079 Game go home? How can I spend money and change things? 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:55.600 Yeah? 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.440 It was everything was going great and. 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:02.560 That wasn'tie anyways. Are you happy that I'm home? Of course, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:07.880 you're happy your wife is back, very ringing sexy back 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:09.000 into your life. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.440 When you were watching Speed on your on your netbreaks 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:17.679 or Sprint and Mouthguard and I was bringing sexy ship Tooth. 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:20.560 I went to the dentist and thank you doctor Bieber, 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:24.439 Thank you Ivy for accommodating me. Immediately. We we did 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:24.959 the talk. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:27.320 Tooth more than any person I've ever known. 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:30.200 I do because I clenched, because I'm always because you 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:34.240 stress me out, and stress causes my TMJ and causes 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:36.839 me to go to bed and clench and I break 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:41.280 my teeth. Wow, that's what's happening. Anyways, So we're taping. 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.960 We just came from taping the Talk, the CBS Talk Show. 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:48.000 We had a great time. And yesterday afternoon, I have 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:51.480 to take my car to Firestone or whatever, which is 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.280 actually one of my pet peeves. Like I I take 0:13:54.520 --> 0:13:57.760 a picture of the dashboard to show Eric that the 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:58.199 car is. 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:00.800 Telling me, which is basically saying Eric, fixing, You'll do it. 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.960 You know, even at work, she knows that the tire 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.359 is low. It says on the thing tire. 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:09.400 To go to a place. 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:13.360 Picture and it's like like like what Like, I'm like 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.760 what I'm I'm working all day long. If you have 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.920 a nail in your tire, you need to fix now. 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.120 Did you stop? No? I didn't. I just went home. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.240 I had to drop stuff off. You realize you could 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:24.520 just run out of air and bede your house. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:28.480 I rather flat than coming up. Yeah, they can fix 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:31.200 it in no way. They can go and fix the car. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:33.960 Drive not like that. I had to drive to Oh 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:35.840 my god, two seconds away. 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.480 I go on my place and say I'm my own 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.120 firestone firestone. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.320 Which is literally a mile and a half. 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.480 It doesn't I'm there. I'm going this is one of 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.320 my pet pieces. But I'm here. Rose, just breathe. Okay, 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:48.400 So the guy was lovely immediately to care of me. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.560 But while I'm waiting for a second, I'm so stressed 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:55.640 and annoyed. Clack, I hear a crack my front. You're 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.960 right here, chipped, and I'm going. 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:01.040 Flat tire, low air and a chip tee And what. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.000 I have this talk show tomorrow? What am I going 0:15:03.080 --> 0:15:03.240 to do? 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:06.680 Like we were pretty good texting the first part of 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:07.760 the day, and then all of a sudden when I 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:09.280 didn't take the car because I was working, and then 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.840 you chip to tooth, it was like the energy went 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:14.200 downhill for and I received the branch. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:17.600 I'm stressing out then, but I was able to go 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.640 on Ivy and doctor Bieber. Thank you again for fixing me. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:24.360 Look they fixed me and everything is okay. Yeah, but 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:27.120 it's been tricky for me. Like I'm opening up my heart. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:30.760 I'm telling you how how I'm going through a midlife 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:35.440 existential crisis, and you have no compassion and you don't 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:39.120 say anything lifting motivating. 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:42.360 I just said we're so happy you're home. I just 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.720 say that a second. So you're happy I'm home. I said, 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:45.400 so happy you're home. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:49.200 Okay, what else, Like you went to school to study 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.800 psychology like I could. I could use a husband's psychologist 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:54.400 right now and say it. Ross is normal. 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.880 It's definitely, it's definitely normal. Maybe. First of all, I 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:01.360 can't help that if you have low air and you're tired, 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.040 that that's they're going to throw your whole day in. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:04.840 I'm not talking about that. 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.160 I help that. 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:07.200 I'm not talking about that. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.720 But that was what the first was talking about. 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:14.120 Nephew dad. 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:18.040 We talked a lot. We talked about your dad. We've 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.360 talked about your nephew a ton because it affected us 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:23.640 both so deeply. We've talked about all of that stuff. 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:25.640 I know where you lie. I think when you passed 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.240 on that show that was a huge shock to me. 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:29.400 You send it to me on an email, said look 0:16:29.400 --> 0:16:31.800 at this opportunity I just passed. And I was like, 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:37.960 I even said to you, are you sure. I'm also 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:43.200 very careful what I say because I have to reverse passive. 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:47.560 Aggressive no, no, because if I would have emailed you 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.320 or call you saying Eric, I just got this opportunity. 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:53.160 Most likely I'm going to go. You would have flipped. 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:55.920 But because I said, you know what, you're my priority, 0:16:56.640 --> 0:17:01.360 I'm going to pass. Then you guaranteed no. I think 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:02.080 I can. I can. 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:04.040 You had a very good chance. You had a very 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:05.880 good chance, very good chance, but it wasn't a guaranteed. 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:08.520 Gig number one number two. We've been in this position before. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:09.879 You had another show and nobody. 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:11.600 It was really funny because you were like, are you sure? 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.679 I mean, and Austin is not that far away, and I. 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:19.399 Was like, looking into how far away the flight is? 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.760 I said, you'd be flying back every weekend. It would 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.000 be a lot on you. But you have to fly 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:26.399 home as much as you can. But I've learned my lesson. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:28.879 This is what you get after nineteen years. When it 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:31.800 comes to work, I walk on eggshells. I want to 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:33.680 make sure that you're making the decision because I don't 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.760 want you resenting me for I didn't do this job. 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:39.160 I get it, so I have to walk on eggshells. 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:39.880 I have to be supported. 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:41.359 I don't want you to walking on eggshells. I just 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:42.800 want to when it want you to be honest. 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:44.560 I sing on jobs. I tell you all the time. 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:46.600 I've told you before. I said, you're not doing this. 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:48.160 We're trying to develop a show right now. I said, 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:49.800 you're not doing this if it shoots in Vancouver. There's 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:51.680 no way a network show that shoots in Vancouver will 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:54.000 never see you. And you were like, well, I don't know. 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:55.840 And thank god your best friend was in town and 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:59.560 she was like, raws, that's crazy. So you know when 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:02.040 she was here and we were talking about the show 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.399