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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Spencer is on the phone today for to catch cheeter.

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Speaker 1: He's been married to his wife Lauren for three years,

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Speaker 1: but now he thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help him out. Spencer, Sorry

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Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way, but

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, because I'm a really big fan. I

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Speaker 2: listen to your show all the time. Man. The problem

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Speaker 2: I'm having right now, I kind of recognize from listening

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Speaker 2: to your show so often the red flags and such.

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Speaker 2: So I've noticed a few of those recently and it's

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Speaker 2: really thrown me for a loop, and I'm hoping maybe

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Speaker 2: you guys can help me figure this out. We've always

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Speaker 2: been really close to my wife and I, like you said,

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Speaker 2: we've been together for three years. Red slag number one,

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Speaker 2: I guess wasn't really a red flag until the second

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Speaker 2: one came, and that is that our intimacy has really

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Speaker 2: just kind of fallen off. He've always had a really

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Speaker 2: healthy physical relationship, but lately it's just kind of been

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Speaker 2: non existence. And I know sometimes people go through phases,

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Speaker 2: and that's what I thought it was until red flag.

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Speaker 2: Number two. He has been staying up, like texting at

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Speaker 2: night on her phone with someone who she says is

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Speaker 2: her friend, which you know might be the case, but

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Speaker 2: it's weird because like when she gets a text message,

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Speaker 2: she responds with one or two words, puts the phone down.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't like to text. Now she's like on the

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Speaker 2: couch and night, sitting next to me, not paying attention

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Speaker 2: to anything that happened in the room, looking at her phone,

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Speaker 2: texting long conversations and smiling about it.

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Speaker 3: It just it feels weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's making.

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Speaker 2: Me a little crazy. I gotta be honest. But she

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Speaker 2: says that she's talking to her friend Caitlin. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: that was Right's likely for two more Number three. My

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Speaker 2: wife doesn't really like to go out very often. She's

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Speaker 2: not into like the clubs in that scene. But last

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Speaker 2: week she went out with the girlfriends she says, which

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Speaker 2: you know, I wouldn't have any problem with what she

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Speaker 2: wanted to do. It's just really strange because she doesn't

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Speaker 2: do that sort of thing. She went out all night

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Speaker 2: and like when drinking and stuff, which is great, But

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Speaker 2: when I asked her what she did or where she

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Speaker 2: was going. It was just going out. We went out

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Speaker 2: and that was like the end of it, which is

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Speaker 2: super weird. And then red light flag number four is

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Speaker 2: what made me have to call you, guys. When she

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Speaker 2: came home from that night out, she smelled like a

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Speaker 2: man's cologne. It wasn't mine. When I asked her about it,

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Speaker 2: she said that one of her friends she was out

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Speaker 2: with meta guy and he sat next to her at

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Speaker 2: a bar. I'm buying that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, usually don't get you don't get smelling like

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Speaker 1: their cologne, usually for them sitting next to you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, unless he's one of the most super obnoxious sprayers,

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Speaker 4: then there is a good chance you leave smelling like it.

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Speaker 4: But I think the texting and giggling while sitting on

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Speaker 4: most to me because that was just But isn't that

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Speaker 4: also kind of negligent if you're cheating?

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Speaker 1: That's so I think some people just open Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think someone was right next to me. I feel like

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Speaker 1: some people just assume, like, oh, they'll never guess if

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Speaker 1: I do it right here, you know, get caught.

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Speaker 4: In plain sight sort of thing. Yeah, maybe did you

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Speaker 4: happen to ask her? What was going on with her

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Speaker 4: friend Caitlin, Like, is she in some type of situation,

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Speaker 4: a breakup drama?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did, she said the seed and moral support,

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Speaker 2: which I didn't get any more information than that. She

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Speaker 2: I guess that's why I'm calling you guys, because I

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Speaker 2: want to believe my wife. I will, but I've got

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Speaker 2: this feeling in the pit of my stomach and I

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Speaker 1: Well, so you said that you have a different way

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Speaker 1: to try to catch her than the flower thing that

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, she knows that. I have really had

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Speaker 2: my eye on some gym equipment because you know, it's

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Speaker 2: a new year and all that stuff. And I think

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Speaker 2: it'd be a really great idea if maybe because at

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Speaker 2: her job, she has like bonuses, and her next bonus

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Speaker 2: is coming up very soon, and they usually give away

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Speaker 2: these big Amazon gift packages, like like a five hundred

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Speaker 2: we could call her up and say, yay, get in

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Speaker 2: the gift card. Who do you want to send it to?

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Speaker 1: We could do a double gift card she gets one,

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Speaker 1: and then also this year we're giving to somewhere. You

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Speaker 1: can send it to somebody special. Okay, keep it if

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Speaker 1: it's just one. Yeah, I don't want her to be

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Speaker 1: like no, I'll take it. Okay, we'll do that. Then

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her, and then

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Speaker 1: see if we can catch her cheating. And hopefully she's not,

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Speaker 1: all right, by so I'll come back. You're to Catch

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Speaker 1: a Cheater next if you're just joining us for Today's

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Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater. Spencer is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: Spencer thinks that his wife, Lauren of three years, might

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Speaker 1: be cheating on him. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 1: do that, Spencer, why don't you catch everybody up on

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Speaker 1: your situation?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess real short, I've noticed some really weird

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Speaker 2: behavior lately. She is like texting and doing like weird

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Speaker 2: giggles and stuff while she's texting, but she's not a

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Speaker 2: text so that's strange. He's going out on like girls'

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Speaker 2: nights and drinking and stuff, and that's really outside of

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Speaker 2: her character. And then one night she came home smelling

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Speaker 2: like some other guys colone, which kind of like made

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Speaker 2: me lose it a little bit, and I had to

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Speaker 2: call you guys understand.

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Speaker 1: And help me get to the bottom definitely.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I thought it might be a good

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Speaker 2: idea if you guys called her and maybe said that

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Speaker 2: it's you work her job, giving her her bonus and

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Speaker 2: this year it's two five hundred dollars Amazon gift cards

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Speaker 2: kind of things. Who should get them too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see if she sends one to you or

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Speaker 1: to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is this Lauren?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey Lauren, this is Pete up here in HR. How

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Speaker 3: Oh good, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: How are you great? Really good day to be in HR,

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Speaker 1: because all I'm doing is calling up people and saying

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Speaker 1: we got the yearly Amazon gift card bonus is in

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Speaker 1: and they're five hundred bucks this year. Congrats. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a nice day for an HR person when you don't

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Speaker 1: have to call people and be like, hey, you're fired,

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Speaker 1: you know exactly?

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Speaker 3: Nice? Sweet, that's awesome. I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and this year is actually cool because what they've

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Speaker 1: done is we're doing five hundred dollars Amazon gift card

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Speaker 1: for you, and then also another five hundred dollars gift

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Speaker 1: card from Amazon that you can send to somebody special

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Speaker 3: Well, that's awesome, that's the nice you guys.

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Speaker 1: We will obviously get you yours. And then do you

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Speaker 1: want to send your other gift card to somebody?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Do you know who? Or do you want me to

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Speaker 1: you know, you want to send me an email or

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Speaker 1: I call you back or something.

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Speaker 3: No, I can you just type it in now and

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Speaker 3: like if you have it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can just take the down the info now

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Speaker 1: and I'll say I'll send you all the stuff to

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Speaker 1: let you know. You send it out, it will be

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Speaker 1: still like a week or so.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, cool?

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Speaker 1: Well, then who would you like to send it to?

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Speaker 3: I'm going to send it to Gavin, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, and yeah, last name on that Gavin?

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Speaker 2: Uh got I can't say why? Who the Gavin? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Who?

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Speaker 1: Go Lauren? This is actually the Jubil show. That's your husband,

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Speaker 1: Spencer on the phone.

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Speaker 2: This isn't funny, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I know, I absolutely no. I planned that's whether

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Speaker 3: you guys know it or not. I set this whole

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Speaker 2: Are you're talking about? Who is Gavin?

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to tell you Gavin is.

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you serious?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Who are you?

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Speaker 2: What is this? Is this funny to you? I don't

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Speaker 2: like you're my wife? Well, I don't understand what is happening.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think this is funny? You're growing some

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Speaker 2: guy named Gavin and you're laughing in my face about it.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I'm not trying to think guy? Is it

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Speaker 5: for you?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: Who is Gravin?

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Speaker 1: Did you have some cocktails this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Gavin is the name of your child.

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Speaker 3: You're a student to be born styled. Yeah, that's right,

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Speaker 3: that's right. Uh huh.

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Speaker 5: We both listened to the show. I know that Spencer

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Speaker 5: loves it. He also loves the segment to talk to

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Speaker 5: talk about it all the time. So I kind of

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Speaker 5: set this up and planned it so that he would

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Speaker 5: think I was cheating. I put all the pieces in

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Speaker 5: a play, and it felt it literally felt exactly like

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Speaker 5: I wanted it to. I. I mean, now, some guy

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Speaker 5: bought cheap gas station cologne.

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Speaker 2: Ye are?

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Speaker 5: I wanted to frank you right away? But yes, I'm

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Speaker 5: pregnant and this is what I wanted to tell you amazing.

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Speaker 2: She's an evil super genius.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations, that's amazing. So did you really need baby Gavin?

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Speaker 4: Without talking to.

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Speaker 3: It was something we talked about.

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Speaker 5: You knew exactly what I was talking about when I said, well,

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Speaker 5: when he got it into.

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Speaker 2: Contact, my head was so clouded. I didn't even think

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Speaker 2: about that. Oh my god, this has made my day.

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Speaker 2: I cannot wait to see you. I love you so much.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you, thank you. Yeah, you did lie to us,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not that mad about it. He didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I think payback's fair too. That's cool.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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