WEBVTT - Say Yes To The Ex: Exes Have Layers 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.599 Hey, it's a Sunday edition, of course, of your Second 0:00:02.680 --> 0:00:03.760 Date Update podcast. 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:05.120 It's Bricka Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:08.440 I tell you, I am freaking out a little bit 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:10.360 right now because I was just eating a salad out 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:13.080 in the hallway, not standing in the hallway eating it. 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:15.240 I was at my desk, okay, but I bit off 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:16.440 part of the plastic fork. 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.279 Oh no, I like it. Well, I spit out what 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:21.280 it was in my mouth, but I still now, I'm 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:22.560 like paranoid. It's in my throat. 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:24.480 That happened to me the other day, but it wasn't 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:26.400 in my mouth. I actually like part of it. I 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.920 heard it break. I was missing one of the times 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:29.520 and I was looking. 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:31.000 I could never find it in myself. 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.800 I broke a fork here today too. I'm not even kidding. Yeah, 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.080 the sporks are cheap. Yeah, I'm an. 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:39.480 We demand silver forces, right only. 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.800 I was just gonna go metal. But I like your idea, okay, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:44.400 all right? 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:47.480 So today is always a little special feature, a little 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:50.159 something different that we do on our full show, and 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.479 we want to bring it over here and see what 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:52.000 you guys think. 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.040 It's definitely relationship drama. 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:56.640 If you've heard the say yes to the X segment 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.240 that we've done before. That's where we just try and 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.320 help someone get back together with their ex. And I'm 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.959 just gonna tell you today today, celebrity impressions play a 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:05.760 major role. 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:10.000 Yes, it brought me a lot of delight. Jose was 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:14.280 really on points impression. So I think you're really gonna 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:14.760 enjoy this. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.600 Sit back and I'll let you know how the fork 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:21.200 turns out later say yes to the acts only on 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:23.039 the Home with the second Date update, it's Brook and 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:23.880 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.959 If there's one thing that we know about seduction, it's 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:32.880 guys who do character impressions get all the ladies. Yeah, 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:33.760 am I right? 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:34.280 Jose? 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:35.160 It's true. 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:38.560 You just can't tell everyone on social rejected a lie. 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:42.200 That's why we were baffled, wondering how on earth does 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:46.360 our listener who does a flawless Shrek voice get dumped 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:49.120 by the love of his life over it. Yeah, Yeah, 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:52.400 we won't stand for that, will we. 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:52.800 Team. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:55.760 That's rally. 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:00.160 We're going to grab our torch and pitch forks and 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.440 peel back the layers of this. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:06.800 Onion as we chest down. He's happily ever after. Ain't 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:10.160 a brown new say yes to the act. Oh my God, 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:11.720 tell her when we're gonna do it? 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:12.280 Don't care? 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:14.040 Wait what time is it next? 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:15.200 Don't kyd coming up? 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.280 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.200 Alexis, when you look back at your dating life, who 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.200 would you say is the one that got away? 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:30.400 Big question? 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:32.840 And by god away, I mean he ditched you in 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:36.040 the subway tunnels below London after you puked on his arsenal. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.800 Probably the one who hadn't the visa expired. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.680 Because for a lot of people, there is that one person, 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:49.320 that one old flame from your past that just didn't 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:52.800 work out back then for whatever reason. But you've always thought, 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:56.800 maybe there's a chance that we've both matured enough where 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:58.160 we could be great together. 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.760 Now. I love those rose colored glass let's go. 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:04.600 Just need the chance, And today we're giving that opportunity 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.640 to someone to find out with another addition of say 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:12.520 yes to the X Yes. One of our listeners reached 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.119 out for help today. His name is Art, so Art 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.000 Welcome to the show. 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:21.160 Hey guys, I'm so excited to hear what made you write. 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:25.920 In Well, me and my ext Lisa. We broke up 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:26.960 about six months ago. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:30.760 That is too long, Okay, you're doing okay. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.680 I mean it hasn't been great since then, if I'm 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:38.400 being honest. Okay, you know we were together for like 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:39.680 almost two years, so. 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:43.920 Okay, yeah, you know I haven't been there art, but 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:45.839 I can understand what you're going through. 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.760 God, is this the Jeff I've never been done before 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:49.200 a moment. 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:56.800 I mean, those are just facts, brocap with their facts. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:58.240 You can't be mad at truth. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:01.240 So most people, I mean I think everybody else could 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:02.600 we have a lot of empathy for you. 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.920 We've been in this place before. It's hard. It takes 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:05.920 longer than six months. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.120 It's been six months, because usually it's like six years 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:12.559 and you're like, now I have clarity. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:17.120 Yeah, yeah, Well tell us more about Lisa and your guys' relationship. 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:23.280 Well, you know how long relationships are. Sometimes after a while, 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:25.480 you kind of get on each other's nerves and oh. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.560 Yeah, I mean I think anybody, Yeah, after a year 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.320 it's like can't I stand them? 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.080 Or not? No? 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.040 Years seems kind of short, but yeah, well, I mean that's. 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:36.760 When you really know, like if you're going to keep going. 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.640 So okay, so when did that happen for you and Lisa? 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.760 I mean it's like kind of near the end. Maybe 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.400 it's in the last like two three months, and you know, 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.279 I felt like I was really getting on her nerves 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:50.360 near the end there. For example, like she got mad 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:53.480 at me because like I couldn't spell the word definitely 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:54.159 in the text. 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.920 Oh definitely. That's a tough one. 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:57.279 Yeah. 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:59.160 I always rely on her correct for that. 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:01.400 But I I mean, she just like laid into me, 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.640 and then like when I got home, she like was 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:07.280 quizzing me, quizzing you. It was like a spelling bee. 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:09.920 What was she like an English teacher or something. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.400 No, that's like the whole thing. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.760 I mean, that couldn't have felt good. 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:18.160 That would feel like your partner's like trying to make 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.000 you feel stupid. I feel like it's like she's already 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:23.400 annoyed everything he doesn't like, she's trying to prove to 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.040 herself how dumby is something. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.440 I mean, you're not dumb or I'm not saying that. 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:29.640 I'm just saying that's not what I meant. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:31.440 But seriously, if a girl gets it in her head, 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:32.560 they'll be on edge like it. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:35.120 They'll be anybody, Yeah, anybody. 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:38.440 So was it just the misspelled words that caused the tension? 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:39.640 Or was there other stuff? 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.000 I mean there was like other stuff like inside jokes 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.360 and stuff we had, Like she used to like always 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:46.520 laugh at my Shrek. 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:48.839 Voice and you can do a Shrek voice. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:53.799 Oh I retired it. I don't do it anymore. Reminds 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:54.200 you of her. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:06:04.719 It's just a bedroom thing. That's fine, bedroom everybody. We 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:06.120 don't judge. That's great. 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:07.520 It's really funny. 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.560 Cute, is what you mean. It's really cute. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:14.320 Did she change? Did she not enjoy your Shrek voice anymore? 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.840 No? She just like stopped laughing every time I did it, 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:19.719 and then I just stopped doing it. 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:21.200 Oh okay. 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:23.120 I fast forward, Like, are we gonna call her try 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:25.520 to get her back? Like, what makes you think six 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.560 months has passed and now she's ready? 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:28.360 She misses Shrek. 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:28.720 I mean. 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:33.280 The trailer for the new one, Like it is usually 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:36.320 about six months between every new Shrek film, so that's 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:40.120 about the amount of time it takes to recess. But seriously, like, 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.400 what makes you think you're ready? 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:45.560 I'm just so bombed, man, I'm just like so bombed 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.600 without her. And you know, my mom keeps like harping 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.080 on me, and she's like, aren't you gonna like at 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:55.560 least try to fight for your relationship. Well, I don't know. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:58.160 I mean, she wasn't very kind to you at the end, 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.159 Like obviously it sounds like she was no. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:03.840 Bawling And honestly, we are only hearing one side of 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:07.839 the story. This is this is what Art thinks broke 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.440 them up. There may be something totally different that his 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:11.760 girlfriend Lisa would have. 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:12.920 Said that's actually true. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:15.680 I mean, honestly, she may have loved the Shrek and 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.240 just used it as an excuse. She's like, it's his donkey, 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:19.160 I couldn't. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:24.120 Stay as an excuse. Jeff, I don't know about that, 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:25.720 but I just we don't know. 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:27.880 I know, it just sounds like all I'm saying is 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.840 it sounds like she was not as nice as she 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:31.200 could have. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.640 Been towards the end, like just making fun of them 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:34.640 for not being able to spell. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:36.920 For God's sakes, well, now are you in a better place? 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:37.440 Can you spell? 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:37.960 Definitely? 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:39.160 Yeah? 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.320 Uh, he's putting me on the spot. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.720 Call this woman and she's like, this is the defining moment, 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:51.000 whether or not go write it down somewhere. 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.840 She wants to see that you've changed enough. Probably if 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:55.160 you wanted to take you. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:08:01.040 Back the only thing that's changed isable. 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:02.920 Okay, but maybe someone else is gonna be like the 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:04.080 reason for your happiness. 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:07.520 But listen, maybe she's miserable too. Maybe she's sitting back 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.800 there and regretting being so hard on you for all 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:11.320 this stuff. 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:14.400 Yes, miserables do make it happy in. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.320 The math work, yeah, I think that's the math. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.280 I think so couple's math. 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.280 And we should find out what she's going to say, because, 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:25.040 as you know, Art, you gave Lisa's number to our producer. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.360 He got her on the phone and she just doesn't 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.600 know that it's you waiting on the other line. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.720 Oh my god, when was the last time you talked 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:33.240 to her? 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:37.880 So it's a dog park, like maybe like four months ago, 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:43.360 and she kind of just ignored me. Oh maybe it's 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:46.679 because I didn't like have a dog just to see her. 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:49.680 Oh yeah, that's different, okay. 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:50.520 Which I kind of was. 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.679 But maybe she was. 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.920 Fighting her own feelings because they were so strong. But 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.439 so she's there, she doesn't know who's on the other line. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.440 It's a mystery person to her. But I'm gonna tell 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:04.720 you some new information here. Apparently she has been dating. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:06.240 Our producer found that out. 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:07.720 Oh my gosh. 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:09.400 She's dating other people, but. 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:12.959 I don't know. 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:16.280 Again, they're not you, you know, in. 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.800 His trek voice, I'm sure is nowhere near as immaculate 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:19.960 as yours, whoever they are. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:24.680 But it doesn't matter. We're going to see what happens. Yeah, 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.120 we're going to see what. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:29.040 Happens when we connect you with your ex girlfriend Lisa 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.280 when we do say yes to the X coming up 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:32.840 right after this. 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.000 I don't want to do it if she's like dating 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.720 another dude. 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:36.199 No. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:39.480 No, in a relationship. 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:40.240 It's like a multitude of duke. 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:42.400 Yes. 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.280 We're supposed to make him feel better worse. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.560 All right, we'll say something nice during the break, and 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:50.160 then when we come back we'll continue say yes. 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:50.480 To the X. 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:51.400 Right, I got your back. 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:54.200 Art, it's happening right after this. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.680 If you're just joining us, we're in the middle of 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:59.360 say yes to the X with our listener. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:09:59.880 Art. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.920 Yes, these are like kind of I wouldn't say, Tanseman, 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:03.959 there's something going on. 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:05.120 I know. I'm a little worried. 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:06.599 Yeah, maybe it is. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:07.280 Well. 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:10.360 Art's been missing his ex girlfriend Lisa after they split 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:13.480 up about six months ago, hasn't fully gotten over it, 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:16.800 and feels like he was a better happier person when 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:20.679 they were together, when she wasn't criticizing his spelling areas. 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:23.920 So do they say some people make you a better person, right? 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.960 They compliment you. Yeah, at least they think they're trying 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:27.640 to make you better. 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:31.640 So he gave us Lisa's number, and our producer has 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.480 reached out to her. She's agreed to be on the 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.360 show with us. She's waiting on hold right. 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.520 Now, but she has no idea. It's to talk to art. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.800 No, she just knows somebody is wanting to reach her 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:44.559 and speak to her about something. 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:46.280 Doesn't know who yet. 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:46.880 So it could be hurt. 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.200 She thinks it's her favorite artist, Taylor Swift wants to 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:50.840 talk to her, and she's gonna end up talking to her. 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.320 Maybe. I mean it's kind of a. 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:58.400 High high right yeah, hell yeah, I'm just worried about art. Art. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:10:59.240 How are you feeling? 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.920 I don't know, kind of nervous. And I just have 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.760 one question for you guys. Yeah, should I do the 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:08.679 Shrek course for her? 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.600 You think or considering she said she didn't like it? 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:12.080 Probably not. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.400 That's where she literally said she didn't like it. 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:17.120 No, she didn't say she didn't like it. You just 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:18.240 stopped laughing at it. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:20.360 Yeah, well, does she have to say? It could be 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.160 it could be worth a shot, like I might bring 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:24.800 her back to that mental place in her life where. 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:27.800 She's like, oh yeah, I love you. 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.640 Can we just say maybe you can use it as 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:33.520 a last resort, because that's how reliable it is. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.920 If she if we need a quick laugh, keep that 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:37.640 in your pocket, brother, because that's going to crack the 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:38.040 room up. 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.120 Okay, done and done. 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.960 Yeah, all right, Actually I haven't heard in this succession 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:43.640 about anything. 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:49.600 We finally have some upward momentum. Okay, let's get Lisa 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.280 on the phone here, stay quiet until we call you on. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:55.320 All right, Okay, okay, okay, here we go. Let's punch 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:55.640 her up. 0:11:56.600 --> 0:12:02.360 Hey is this Lisa, Hey, Lisa, Lisa, welcome to the show. 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.680 Good morning, Good morning. 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:07.640 Yeah, so obviously you know you're on Brook and Jeffrey 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:09.800 in the morning, and just want to thank you for 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:10.760 being with us today. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:11.720 Yeah. 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:12.880 Absolutely, Oh my god. 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:15.560 What do you think when our producer reached out to you. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:19.559 I was a little throne, but I'm kind of excited. 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.200 Yeah you should be. 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:24.000 That's the right emotion because I don't know if you're 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.160 familiar with us but we do a lot of dating 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:30.240 segments on this show, and we've got somebody very very 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:34.600 special waiting on the other line hoping to talk to you. Okay, 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:38.440 do you have any guesses about who that might be? 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:42.400 Is it Luke? 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:44.319 No? 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:49.319 Keep going, maybe guess again now it's not Luke. 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.800 Luke would never do anything this brave. 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:56.120 Oh my gosh, is it Andrew? 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:57.920 Okay? 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.119 Right, we're dating more people. 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:00.439 Than I thought. 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:01.959 We're getting farther away from this. 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.600 Okay, we'll give you a max of thirty more guesses. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:06.839 Let's keep going. O. 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:08.599 Yeah, No, I'm just gonna tell you this. It's a 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.840 guy that you dated for a few years. Actually, his 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:13.319 name's Art. 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:17.120 Oh, I'm okay. I thought this was like a new 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.000 dating Okay. 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:19.840 That's a positive response. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.839 That could be a newer dating thing in a way. 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:27.040 He is kind of new and improved since six months ago. Yeah, 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.240 and more mature. Since you're already on the phone, maybe 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.240 you should just talk to him because he is waiting 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:33.040 on the other line. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.600 Seriously, very serious. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:38.480 Art, are you there? 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:43.480 Yeah, haleus. Sorry, this is a little awkward. I just 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:44.640 didn't know how to talk. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:49.520 To you, right, Okay, I mean, I guess like stalking 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:51.840 me at the dog park wasn't the best option a 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.040 few months back. But let's try this. 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.240 No, No, I mean I was there. I was just 0:13:58.440 --> 0:13:59.520 I was meeting a friend there. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.719 Okay, what do you need? What's going on? 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.080 Well, I mean it's just like you know, I mean, 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:09.800 I guess it sounds like you're dating a lot of 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:15.120 guys and it's probably gotta suck, like dating is a bummer, right, Like, No, it's. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.280 Actually really great. I'm having a fantastic time. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:21.120 Yeah, I mean everyone says that, but I'm sure like 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.320 on the inside you're kind of sad and maybe you 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:28.240 like missed the stability of being in around relationship. 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:31.320 Is that something your mom told you to tell me? 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:38.600 No, No, I mean, look, I just I want to 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.080 let you know that, like I've had a lot of 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:44.280 growth since we broke up, and it's like I know 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:46.240 that like there was some things that I did that 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.760 annoyed you, but like I've really worked on that and 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.360 like I even like took a class online on how 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:52.200 to be less annoying. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:53.960 Okay, this one. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:58.800 Smells of your mom. She was always in her business. 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:01.760 She's sign you up for the class. 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:03.520 No, I sign myself. 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:03.840 Do it. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:06.600 My mom was like the rock in our relationship, Like, yeah, 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.800 he gives me good advice. She gave you great advice. 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:11.320 You know, between the three of us, she gave us 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:12.480 both a lot of great advice. 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:18.360 Art, that's part of the problem. I'm not in a relationship, 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:19.880 nor do I want to be in a relationship with 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:20.360 your mom. 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.080 Is that what's happening? 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.000 Are you saying that if he is willing to ditch 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:28.960 his mom. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.920 Again, Art, did you hear that? 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:32.120 Well? 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.440 Yeah, I mean I guess I just feel like we 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:37.040 were probably better together than we were apart. We were 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:37.760 a really good champ. 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.480 I mean, if his mom stepped back from the relationship, 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.400 I mean maybe maybe that was actually the problem, which 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.280 isn't necessarily Art's fault. 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.360 I mean, that's part of his fault because he's allowing 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.400 his mom to be in the relationship. There was just 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.720 so many other issues that I mean, I don't have 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:56.960 time to get into it on a radio show right now, man, Okay. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.000 No, that Art needs to hear them all again. 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.080 Yeah, this might be them to bust out the Shrek. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.760 Oh my god, he told you that. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:06.600 Yeah, we love it. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.920 You know, I didn't mind it until he farted at 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.800 a work event that I had, and then, in his 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:13.520 Shrek voice, said better out than in. 0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:23.920 I always thought, well, I mean, that's like really good 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:24.920 Shrek impression. 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.640 That is not That's not going to prove your maturity. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:27.960 Man. 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:32.440 Consumer is the thing that brings everybody together. So look, Lisa, 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.120 the name of this segment is called say Yes to 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.400 the X. And now that you've had a couple of 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:40.920 minutes to get reacquainted with your ex, we're just wondering, 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.200 would you be willing to take a chance, a leap 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:47.120 of faith and at least meet up with Art one 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:49.560 more time? Maybe grab some coffee and hear him out, 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:52.640 because I'm sure it's fun to be single and dating 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:55.840 and hooking up with all these random hot guys having 0:16:55.880 --> 0:17:00.800 no responsibilities and just pour seven you could have just well, 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.960 Art is the steady old wooden ship in the stormy 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:04.720 seas of love. 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:05.320 Nobody. 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:07.399 Yeah, okay, you know. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:09.800 What, forget it, Art, I'm gonna step away and let 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:10.520 you take over. 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:12.479