Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio
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Speaker 1: And just like that, we're back on the air. What's up, y'all.
Speaker 1: It's just hilarious and welcome back to yet another Carefully
Speaker 1: Reckless episode with me. Listen. So, I know I took
Speaker 1: like a week off your girl been busier ship. You know,
Speaker 1: I got Reckless Discussions that um premieres every Wednesday on
Speaker 1: YouTube at seven pm, So just make sure you check
Speaker 1: that out. That actually will be airing tonight tonight. And
Speaker 1: we got a whole new set up, whole new scenery. UM,
Speaker 1: this time, it will be only four of us, and
Speaker 1: that's just what it's gonna be. Look. So I know
Speaker 1: I just recently went viral, Yes I did. I almost
Speaker 1: got hit by a bus and I could be r
Speaker 1: I P right now, you know, I really could. And
Speaker 1: I don't take anything away from that, the fact that
Speaker 1: it was a serious incident that could have been even
Speaker 1: more serious fatal if you will. And this is what happened. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I was in l A for a series of
Speaker 1: five days, uh well six days, and um, of course
Speaker 1: I'm drinking I'm getting caught up with what my friends.
Speaker 1: I was with my best friend, my brother, and my
Speaker 1: friend Quay. I'm name dropping because these people were influences
Speaker 1: as well. And yes, if you haven't um been able
Speaker 1: to figure out yet, yes, I am a snitch. So
Speaker 1: I was with Prince who is my brother. Um. I
Speaker 1: was with joe Lanna. Her name is um Joela Nia
Speaker 1: on Instagram. That's my best friend. Joey is what we
Speaker 1: call her. And uh Quay Qualin better known as t
Speaker 1: T blame it on Quay on Instagram is this Instagram handle.
Speaker 1: I love all three of these motherfucking people. I was
Speaker 1: dream Yes, we just got finished turning up having fun eating.
Speaker 1: We pull up to a light. There was a bus
Speaker 1: on the right of me. Now I need you to
Speaker 1: understand something. We were listening to Mario at first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Baltimore is on Mario. I want to know an a man.
Speaker 1: I want enough he got a man Elana were listening
Speaker 1: to that. We was vibing and ship. We was getting
Speaker 1: um like we was going in right and do you
Speaker 1: know that part they'd be like you can't come in anytime.
Speaker 1: You're like, like, you know, that's everybody's part, right When
Speaker 1: the beat, the breakdown of the beating ship. But then
Speaker 1: my best friend Joey, she turned on the song Berserk.
Speaker 1: Now that is by Big Sean and a Sadford one
Speaker 1: of oh my god, one of the most dopest collapse
Speaker 1: that you may not even know you need. But I
Speaker 1: need you all to listen to this fucking song. Like
Speaker 1: stream that ship. I don't give a fuck who is
Speaker 1: making all the money off this ship. That ship is brilliant.
Speaker 1: The song buzz Jerk by Big Sean featuring as at Ferd.
Speaker 1: That is my whole entire ship right there. It's not
Speaker 1: my favorite song, but that's my ship. Okay, my favorite
Speaker 1: song is busting rhyms put your hands with my eyes
Speaker 1: to see, but that is my ship. Now, you gotta
Speaker 1: understand there are different levels of HI. I was not
Speaker 1: like only intoxicated. I was intoxicated. I was high and
Speaker 1: shipped from edibles and I might even smoked the blunders
Speaker 1: to who the funk knows. Right now, she played that
Speaker 1: song and when that fucking hook just come on that ship?
Speaker 1: What drop down you are afraid bend that over? Touch
Speaker 1: your cheeks, chicken booty. I know what's little, but you
Speaker 1: neique that's my ship right there, right, So I get
Speaker 1: out when I started boom boom. Now we're at a light.
Speaker 1: I get out. I started shaking my ass. I boom
Speaker 1: but I boom but I boom boom boom, like shaking
Speaker 1: it for the night of nine and the two housands down.
Speaker 1: And no sooner than I moved my hand, the bus
Speaker 1: was taking the goddamn door. Now. Look, it was the
Speaker 1: bus driver spat all day. Let me tell you why,
Speaker 1: because if you go and actually look at the fucking video,
Speaker 1: you can see that the bus wasn't even moving. At
Speaker 1: the beginning of the video, the light turned green as
Speaker 1: I was in mid twerk. Okay, so I'm looking up
Speaker 1: at the light. I see it turn green. I'm about
Speaker 1: to get my ass back in the car. The bus
Speaker 1: started driving, Yes he did. Now he was already a
Speaker 1: little bit of feet past my car. However, if I
Speaker 1: would have opened the door and seeing that I could
Speaker 1: touch the bus with my car door, I would not
Speaker 1: have tworked. And I'm saying that to say he was
Speaker 1: not close to me. He merged over like he moved over,
Speaker 1: love bad, love bad, love bad, and probably didn't notice.
Speaker 1: He's probably looking in that in that um and the
Speaker 1: driver mirror. You know, I'm saying he was probably looking
Speaker 1: in the mirror. But one thing for sure, two things
Speaker 1: for certain, it was not my fault. I'm not justifying
Speaker 1: what the funk I did because you're never supposed to
Speaker 1: hop out of a car and talk at a light
Speaker 1: in the middle of the road. I don't give you
Speaker 1: in the middle of a desert and ain't no cause coming, bitch,
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. So that is not
Speaker 1: what I am influencing anybody to do. And nor am
Speaker 1: I trying to justify my reckless endangerment, because that's exactly
Speaker 1: what it was. I was in the street talking drunk
Speaker 1: as a motherfucker. That's what it is, all right, But
Speaker 1: that motherfucking drivers saw me. He saw me, and even
Speaker 1: if he didn't see me, he merged over and that's
Speaker 1: just what it is. He just in and took my
Speaker 1: goddamn door. That's what it wasn't. Yes, that was a
Speaker 1: one maserati suv. I was pissed about it, but it
Speaker 1: was like, alright, cool fucking I got two options. I
Speaker 1: can act like I was driving, or I can just
Speaker 1: tell the truth about it. Either way, it wasn't my
Speaker 1: motherfucking fault. Right Listen, this is gonna be a very
Speaker 1: expensive mistake on my end, and I mean mistake because
Speaker 1: I didn't mean for that to happen. I knew exactly
Speaker 1: what the funk I was doing, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I knew exactly what I was doing. That's not my
Speaker 1: first time hopping out of a car at a light
Speaker 1: to berserk. Hence my best friend Joey for playing it
Speaker 1: every single time I've done that. But like I've jumped
Speaker 1: on car roofs before and dance to the song, that's
Speaker 1: just what the song does to me. So big Sean,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna be in the goddamn comments shaking your
Speaker 1: head and putting your hand over your fucking face, nigga,
Speaker 1: also thank yourself for such a banger that it got
Speaker 1: bitches out here doing this ship all right, because that's
Speaker 1: influenced all right, shout out to Asta Firk as well.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people were worried about me.
Speaker 1: I do know that, so for those people, I want
Speaker 1: to say I am sorry, because then the very next
Speaker 1: day I may adjust with the mess. And YO know,
Speaker 1: I don't never feel like I'm too good to be
Speaker 1: talked about ship. I'm going if something happened, something in
Speaker 1: the blogs about me, or if it's any type of
Speaker 1: controversial trouble, I'm gonna let y'all know what it is
Speaker 1: right then there, Like I don't give a funk. I
Speaker 1: may take a few hours and I have to think
Speaker 1: about the dudes and the don'ts of my actions and
Speaker 1: all the consequences and ship. But I always can admit
Speaker 1: when I was wrong, and I definitely was wrong along
Speaker 1: with the bus driver. But I can definitely um take accountability. No,
Speaker 1: You're never supposed to be to the point of drunkenness
Speaker 1: where you do things uncontrollably, you know, And I knew
Speaker 1: exactly what the funk I was doing. But what I
Speaker 1: have done that sober? What I've done that without liquor, No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have. Honestly, I wouldn't have. Or maybe I
Speaker 1: would have, but just maybe in like a parking lot
Speaker 1: or some ship like that. Last time I jumped out
Speaker 1: of a car responsibly is when I was doing the
Speaker 1: Go Crazy challenge uh by Chris Brown or what I
Speaker 1: remember that ship? That ship the Go Crazy would they
Speaker 1: had you jumping out the car and ship? Um that
Speaker 1: I did that. I didn't do the the Drake one,
Speaker 1: the Kiki do you love Me? Eat like Na? No,
Speaker 1: I'm I wan't re curse on that one. I'm saying
Speaker 1: all this to say, just be very careful. Be careful.
Speaker 1: Even if you have friends around you that are doing shit.
Speaker 1: You know that you don't approve of that. Don't mean
Speaker 1: you gotta do it, you know what I'm saying. Even
Speaker 1: if you are easily influenced while under influence, then maybe
Speaker 1: you don't need to be drinking or you don't need
Speaker 1: to be doing any type of drugs. Hold up, Hold up,
Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, but listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen. Okay, let's show euphoria, guys. Guys, let's show
Speaker 1: you for you. I want to talk about that for
Speaker 1: a second. And I know this is very random, but
Speaker 1: it goes hand in hand. Okay, So first of all,
Speaker 1: shout out to Zenda. She is absolutely killing this fucking role.
Speaker 1: She kills everything she touches in a good way. I
Speaker 1: love it. She's just amazing actress. If you will, And
Speaker 1: then shout out also to Drake. Um, I was just
Speaker 1: I just recently learned that Drake is actually one of
Speaker 1: the producers on the show Euphoria. So that's actually great.
Speaker 1: That's something that I did not even know. My thing
Speaker 1: is it's a it's a great show, not taking anything
Speaker 1: away from it, it's also a very vivid reality of
Speaker 1: what millennials experience, you know, um, with going to school
Speaker 1: and uh, with peer pressure and just trying to find
Speaker 1: who they are, you know what I mean. So I
Speaker 1: definitely do want to pinpoint that. However, I feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of the scenes and a lot of the
Speaker 1: ship that they go through and as much drugs as
Speaker 1: they take, and all the ship that be happening on there,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't really put that ship in high school. I
Speaker 1: would say that's like college campus type ship. That's not
Speaker 1: even like, oh my god, like that's the only That's
Speaker 1: the only problem I have with the show is that
Speaker 1: it definitely don't describe high school. That's not high school.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like you got all types of sex,
Speaker 1: which is in high school. You've got all types of
Speaker 1: drugs and ship that is in high school. But the
Speaker 1: day in and died like four times, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I'm talking about O D on top
Speaker 1: of O D on top of O D, you know,
Speaker 1: and then you got like all these real life situations
Speaker 1: with these kids telling drugs, and then you got these
Speaker 1: fucking underaged, fucking girls looking grown and Ship. Now, listen,
Speaker 1: it may seem like I'm describing real life as it
Speaker 1: is right now in high school. But no, you gotta
Speaker 1: watch the show. So I'm gonna ask you, guys, And
Speaker 1: it's on demand. If you've got cable, it's on demand.
Speaker 1: If not, go over your friend's house and watch this Ship.
Speaker 1: It's a really good show. I just don't think it
Speaker 1: should take place in a high school. Now. Look, when
Speaker 1: I was in high school, I tried all types of drugs.
Speaker 1: But that's what it was. I was trying it. These
Speaker 1: are already fucking dope things on the show. In high school. Now,
Speaker 1: it was a lot of things out kids would never
Speaker 1: mind you. I remind you, guys, I went to a
Speaker 1: predominantly white high school, um as I've spoken about previously. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course there were you know, some cracked out kids
Speaker 1: or you know, some junkie kids or whatever. You but like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, that Ship is way different. It's way different,
Speaker 1: you know, in high school and my days. I can
Speaker 1: only speak from my experience because I've only lived in
Speaker 1: my life. I tried drugs there. I had fun with it.
Speaker 1: Some things I tried, Some things I didn't. Some things
Speaker 1: I've seen other people try and I've seen them react
Speaker 1: a certain way, and I didn't want to try it.
Speaker 1: I partied. I didn't have sex until later, but you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like my friends were having sex whatever,
Speaker 1: it didn't make me curious enough to want to do that,
Speaker 1: so I didn't right away, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I I actually lost my virginity at eighteen, so it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I wasn't really hot in
Speaker 1: my ass until I was like a senior for sure.
Speaker 1: But I have no fucking idea why the show has
Speaker 1: to be so directly centered around what high school students do.
Speaker 1: And I've seen Zendaya put out, uh sort of like
Speaker 1: a disclaimer like guys that don't um pretty much, like
Speaker 1: although I'm doing this show just doesn't mean that drugs
Speaker 1: is cool and then that it, uh, this is what
Speaker 1: you need to do to fit in in high school
Speaker 1: and all that ship. But honestly, if you watch that ship,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna wanna what if you're a parent, But honestly,
Speaker 1: if you wash that ship and you're a parent of
Speaker 1: a teenager in high school, even the middle school, you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna wanna. You ain't really gonna appreciate that ship
Speaker 1: too much. You're not going to want your children to
Speaker 1: watch that ship, your teenagers, especially if it's already one
Speaker 1: that's sucking up or one that ain't any type of
Speaker 1: predicament that you are in as a teenager. If your
Speaker 1: parents watching that ship, you ain't post. They ain't gonna
Speaker 1: have you watching that ship. And that's really what it
Speaker 1: is because on the show, it's making it seem like
Speaker 1: this ship is cool, this ship is fucking cool. We
Speaker 1: can get away with this, you know, and kids are
Speaker 1: so impressionable nowadays more than ever that I think shows
Speaker 1: like that, like, honestly, I'm surprised that in today's world
Speaker 1: they actually canceled comedians for certain jokes, but they got
Speaker 1: shows like this, you know what I'm saying, not saying
Speaker 1: it should be taken off of TV, but I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: y'all want us to limit the ship that we make
Speaker 1: fun of. But you got shows like that on TV,
Speaker 1: Like what huh, y'all actually got a grown ass woman
Speaker 1: to play Maddie on the show. She looks like a
Speaker 1: grown woman, easily, nice figure, beautiful girl like I'm talking about,
Speaker 1: but looks like she got a couple of kids of
Speaker 1: her own and they are actual men who fantasize over
Speaker 1: this character. Like, but what does that make him? Does
Speaker 1: that make him a pedophile? Or does that because she's
Speaker 1: playing the role of a high school girl or what? Like?
Speaker 1: What does that? You know what I'm saying, like all
Speaker 1: types of ship. Maybe I'm just looking too deep into it,
Speaker 1: but that's why this is carefully reckless and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do that and I don't give a fuck, but I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I'm a I'm a personal fan of
Speaker 1: the show, and I do funk with it. I just
Speaker 1: if I could change anything, would change the fact that
Speaker 1: they're in high school, I will put their ass in college.
Speaker 1: I would make everybody over eighteen, honestly, And if you
Speaker 1: are an avid ephor your watcher and you feel like
Speaker 1: you can relate to a lot of this ship and
Speaker 1: you are a teenager, I'm not taking anything away from
Speaker 1: your life. I'm really not. I'm not taking anything away
Speaker 1: from your experiences in your life. But you need to
Speaker 1: go get help. If you are in any of these
Speaker 1: predicaments that are in the show, please go get help now. Seriously,
Speaker 1: a lot of teenagers can feel lost these days trying
Speaker 1: to find yourself, and with the um internet being is
Speaker 1: influencing as it's ever been in life over our babies
Speaker 1: and our kids and ship like that, I really feel
Speaker 1: like parents need to step in more. Me as a parent,
Speaker 1: my son is nine, I'm still stepping in more. I
Speaker 1: don't care. This ship starts early. They have access to
Speaker 1: everything now, you know, even with parental locks and all
Speaker 1: that ship like, kids got access to every single thing now.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that when I was growing up, and
Speaker 1: we honestly can't stop it. You know, these kids got laptops.
Speaker 1: Even if you got a phone that you're paying for
Speaker 1: as a parent and you take that ship away, they
Speaker 1: got laptops in school. They are more on the Internet
Speaker 1: now surfing the web than we've ever have, you know,
Speaker 1: than they ever been able to so then they've ever
Speaker 1: been able to do as well. Everything is like Internet generated,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like my son can literally
Speaker 1: if I let him watch TikTok all day, watching YouTube
Speaker 1: all day. You think they're not on there looking at
Speaker 1: ship that we don't permit them to look at, you know,
Speaker 1: and whatever they don't see in our presence, they're gonna
Speaker 1: see in somebody else's, you know, when they're away from us.
Speaker 1: You know, you got strict mom households, and then you
Speaker 1: got the household of lenient dad's. Then you got two
Speaker 1: parent homes where one parent is more lenient than the other. Wherever,
Speaker 1: however your your your kid is raised, they're going to
Speaker 1: be preview too, so much more than we were growing up,
Speaker 1: and we can't stop it. Sadly, and on that note,
Speaker 1: I want to take a moment of silence for Regina
Speaker 1: King's baby boy who just took his own life and
Speaker 1: he is now deceased, and the amount of pain I
Speaker 1: know that comes out of that for her, it's just unbearable,
Speaker 1: you know, losing a child it's hard. Losing a parent
Speaker 1: it's hard. I've never lost either, so I could never
Speaker 1: imagine or understand how she feels. You understand, I just
Speaker 1: respect and um I give my condolences. So let's just
Speaker 1: really really give five to ten seconds to Regina King
Speaker 1: and anyone else's child who has taken their lives. And
Speaker 1: that was the moment of silence for all the moms,
Speaker 1: all the dads who have lost their child suicide. And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave it on this note. Be involved, Be involved.
Speaker 1: I myself wasn't even as involved as I should have
Speaker 1: been in my nine year olds life a year ago.
Speaker 1: You know, That's what this pandemic has also taught me.
Speaker 1: Get to know your children because the cell phone and
Speaker 1: the internet is their new teacher now, seriously, they spend more.
Speaker 1: It used to be that your kids would spend more
Speaker 1: time with their teacher than you. Now it's the kids
Speaker 1: spend more time on the internet than with their teacher.
Speaker 1: And you you understand. So be more involved, even if
Speaker 1: it gets on your kid's nerves, like especially these teenagers.
Speaker 1: These babies are just trying to find their way. If
Speaker 1: if you have a team that's too quiet, that that
Speaker 1: gives you one word answers all the time, sit their
Speaker 1: asses down. Tell me what can I do to make
Speaker 1: you talk to me? Even if you are, you know,
Speaker 1: just an introvert kid. Whatever, you're my kid. You came
Speaker 1: for me. What can I do to get through to you?
Speaker 1: What do I have to do. I need to talk
Speaker 1: to you, you know, provide your kid with examples like
Speaker 1: Regina King's son taking his own life. Talk to your
Speaker 1: kids about that. That could be them. You know, it's
Speaker 1: a lot more kids anticipating suicide than ever before. Nowadays.
Speaker 1: The Internet has a lot to do with that. Influence
Speaker 1: has a lot to do with that. Peer pressure has
Speaker 1: a lot to do with that. Drug have a lot
Speaker 1: to do with that. This music has a lot to
Speaker 1: do with that. What they see on TV a lot
Speaker 1: to do with that. You can be a lot to
Speaker 1: do with that too. You can have a lot to
Speaker 1: do with that as well. Step in get them therapy,
Speaker 1: but it starts with you. Don't just go, oh, I
Speaker 1: think my kid needs to go to therapy. No, you
Speaker 1: try to get through to them first, and then if
Speaker 1: you if it's not successfully executed, then you go try
Speaker 1: to find a therapist. Please, because we need these babies,
Speaker 1: because we need more generations after them, and I feel
Speaker 1: like they're dying off and killing themselves off more than
Speaker 1: other generations that are dying from like COVID and other
Speaker 1: health issues or whatever. I always say, it's worse if
Speaker 1: you take your own life. It means you didn't think
Speaker 1: about what you meant to other people, and you definitely
Speaker 1: the value yourself. So that's very important for us to
Speaker 1: do as a community, as parents, as friends, check on people.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna end that with I'm thanking y'all for
Speaker 1: checking on me, the people who are seriously worried about me.
Speaker 1: I am okay. I don't have whiplash. I don't know nothing.
Speaker 1: I know I was moving a little stiff in the
Speaker 1: video the next day after almost being hit by the bus,
Speaker 1: But that's because this goddamn girl in l a braid
Speaker 1: and my goddamn neck up in these braves. My ship
Speaker 1: hurting like a motherfucker still to this day. But I
Speaker 1: love y'all and I know y'all love me, and I
Speaker 1: know that's why you're gonna always make short just the
Speaker 1: mess is good so my news can stay real. And
Speaker 1: that brings us to the end of yet another Carefully
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