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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Nice aspect, nice little aspect, steel aspected. Nice,

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Speaker 1: And just like that, we're back on the air. What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It's just hilarious and welcome back to yet another Carefully

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Speaker 1: Reckless episode with me. Listen. So, I know I took

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Speaker 1: like a week off your girl been busier ship. You know,

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Speaker 1: I got Reckless Discussions that um premieres every Wednesday on

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Speaker 1: YouTube at seven pm, So just make sure you check

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Speaker 1: that out. That actually will be airing tonight tonight. And

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Speaker 1: we got a whole new set up, whole new scenery. UM,

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Speaker 1: this time, it will be only four of us, and

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Speaker 1: that's just what it's gonna be. Look. So I know

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Speaker 1: I just recently went viral, Yes I did. I almost

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Speaker 1: got hit by a bus and I could be r

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Speaker 1: I P right now, you know, I really could. And

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Speaker 1: I don't take anything away from that, the fact that

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Speaker 1: it was a serious incident that could have been even

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Speaker 1: more serious fatal if you will. And this is what happened. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I was in l A for a series of

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Speaker 1: five days, uh well six days, and um, of course

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Speaker 1: I'm drinking I'm getting caught up with what my friends.

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Speaker 1: I was with my best friend, my brother, and my

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Speaker 1: friend Quay. I'm name dropping because these people were influences

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Speaker 1: as well. And yes, if you haven't um been able

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Speaker 1: to figure out yet, yes, I am a snitch. So

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Speaker 1: I was with Prince who is my brother. Um. I

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Speaker 1: was with joe Lanna. Her name is um Joela Nia

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Speaker 1: on Instagram. That's my best friend. Joey is what we

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Speaker 1: call her. And uh Quay Qualin better known as t

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Speaker 1: T blame it on Quay on Instagram is this Instagram handle.

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Speaker 1: I love all three of these motherfucking people. I was

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Speaker 1: dream Yes, we just got finished turning up having fun eating.

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Speaker 1: We pull up to a light. There was a bus

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Speaker 1: on the right of me. Now I need you to

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Speaker 1: understand something. We were listening to Mario at first. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Baltimore is on Mario. I want to know an a man.

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Speaker 1: I want enough he got a man Elana were listening

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Speaker 1: to that. We was vibing and ship. We was getting

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Speaker 1: um like we was going in right and do you

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Speaker 1: know that part they'd be like you can't come in anytime.

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Speaker 1: You're like, like, you know, that's everybody's part, right When

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Speaker 1: the beat, the breakdown of the beating ship. But then

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Speaker 1: my best friend Joey, she turned on the song Berserk.

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Speaker 1: Now that is by Big Sean and a Sadford one

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Speaker 1: of oh my god, one of the most dopest collapse

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Speaker 1: that you may not even know you need. But I

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Speaker 1: need you all to listen to this fucking song. Like

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Speaker 1: stream that ship. I don't give a fuck who is

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Speaker 1: making all the money off this ship. That ship is brilliant.

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Speaker 1: The song buzz Jerk by Big Sean featuring as at Ferd.

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Speaker 1: That is my whole entire ship right there. It's not

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Speaker 1: my favorite song, but that's my ship. Okay, my favorite

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Speaker 1: song is busting rhyms put your hands with my eyes

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Speaker 1: to see, but that is my ship. Now, you gotta

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Speaker 1: understand there are different levels of HI. I was not

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Speaker 1: like only intoxicated. I was intoxicated. I was high and

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Speaker 1: shipped from edibles and I might even smoked the blunders

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Speaker 1: to who the funk knows. Right now, she played that

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Speaker 1: song and when that fucking hook just come on that ship?

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Speaker 1: What drop down you are afraid bend that over? Touch

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Speaker 1: your cheeks, chicken booty. I know what's little, but you

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Speaker 1: neique that's my ship right there, right, So I get

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Speaker 1: out when I started boom boom. Now we're at a light.

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Speaker 1: I get out. I started shaking my ass. I boom

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Speaker 1: but I boom but I boom boom boom, like shaking

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Speaker 1: it for the night of nine and the two housands down.

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Speaker 1: And no sooner than I moved my hand, the bus

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Speaker 1: bus driver spat all day. Let me tell you why,

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Speaker 1: because if you go and actually look at the fucking video,

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Speaker 1: you can see that the bus wasn't even moving. At

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Speaker 1: the beginning of the video, the light turned green as

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Speaker 1: I was in mid twerk. Okay, so I'm looking up

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Speaker 1: at the light. I see it turn green. I'm about

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Speaker 1: started driving, Yes he did. Now he was already a

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Speaker 1: little bit of feet past my car. However, if I

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Speaker 1: love bad, love bad, love bad, and probably didn't notice.

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Speaker 1: He's probably looking in that in that um and the

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Speaker 1: for certain, it was not my fault. I'm not justifying

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Speaker 1: in the middle of a desert and ain't no cause coming, bitch,

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. So that is not

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Speaker 1: what I am influencing anybody to do. And nor am

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Speaker 1: I trying to justify my reckless endangerment, because that's exactly

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Speaker 1: what it was. I was in the street talking drunk

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Speaker 1: as a motherfucker. That's what it is, all right, But

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Speaker 1: that motherfucking drivers saw me. He saw me, and even

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Speaker 1: if he didn't see me, he merged over and that's

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Speaker 1: just what it is. He just in and took my

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Speaker 1: goddamn door. That's what it wasn't. Yes, that was a

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Speaker 1: one maserati suv. I was pissed about it, but it

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Speaker 1: was like, alright, cool fucking I got two options. I

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Speaker 1: tell the truth about it. Either way, it wasn't my

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Speaker 1: motherfucking fault. Right Listen, this is gonna be a very

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Speaker 1: expensive mistake on my end, and I mean mistake because

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean for that to happen. I knew exactly

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Speaker 1: what the funk I was doing, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I knew exactly what I was doing. That's not my

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Speaker 1: first time hopping out of a car at a light

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Speaker 1: to berserk. Hence my best friend Joey for playing it

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Speaker 1: every single time I've done that. But like I've jumped

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Speaker 1: on car roofs before and dance to the song, that's

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Speaker 1: just what the song does to me. So big Sean,

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna be in the goddamn comments shaking your

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Speaker 1: head and putting your hand over your fucking face, nigga,

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Speaker 1: also thank yourself for such a banger that it got

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Speaker 1: bitches out here doing this ship all right, because that's

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Speaker 1: influenced all right, shout out to Asta Firk as well.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of people were worried about me.

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Speaker 1: I do know that, so for those people, I want

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Speaker 1: to say I am sorry, because then the very next

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Speaker 1: day I may adjust with the mess. And YO know,

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Speaker 1: I don't never feel like I'm too good to be

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Speaker 1: talked about ship. I'm going if something happened, something in

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Speaker 1: the blogs about me, or if it's any type of

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Speaker 1: controversial trouble, I'm gonna let y'all know what it is

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Speaker 1: right then there, Like I don't give a funk. I

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Speaker 1: about the dudes and the don'ts of my actions and

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Speaker 1: all the consequences and ship. But I always can admit

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Speaker 1: when I was wrong, and I definitely was wrong along

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Speaker 1: with the bus driver. But I can definitely um take accountability. No,

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Speaker 1: You're never supposed to be to the point of drunkenness

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Speaker 1: where you do things uncontrollably, you know, And I knew

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Speaker 1: Go Crazy challenge uh by Chris Brown or what I

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Speaker 1: remember that ship? That ship the Go Crazy would they

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Speaker 1: had you jumping out the car and ship? Um that

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Speaker 1: I did that. I didn't do the the Drake one,

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Speaker 1: the Kiki do you love Me? Eat like Na? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm I wan't re curse on that one. I'm saying

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Speaker 1: all this to say, just be very careful. Be careful.

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Speaker 1: Even if you have friends around you that are doing shit.

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Speaker 1: You know that you don't approve of that. Don't mean

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Speaker 1: to be doing any type of drugs. Hold up, Hold up,

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Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, but listen to just

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Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,

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Speaker 1: you'll listen. Okay, let's show euphoria, guys. Guys, let's show

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Speaker 1: you for you. I want to talk about that for

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Speaker 1: a second. And I know this is very random, but

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Speaker 1: it goes hand in hand. Okay, So first of all,

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Speaker 1: shout out to Zenda. She is absolutely killing this fucking role.

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Speaker 1: She kills everything she touches in a good way. I

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Speaker 1: love it. She's just amazing actress. If you will, And

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Speaker 1: then shout out also to Drake. Um, I was just

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Speaker 1: I just recently learned that Drake is actually one of

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Speaker 1: the producers on the show Euphoria. So that's actually great.

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Speaker 1: That's something that I did not even know. My thing

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Speaker 1: is it's a it's a great show, not taking anything

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Speaker 1: away from it, it's also a very vivid reality of

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Speaker 1: definitely do want to pinpoint that. However, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't really put that ship in high school. I

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Speaker 1: it definitely don't describe high school. That's not high school.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about like you got all types of sex,

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Speaker 1: which is in high school. You've got all types of

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Speaker 1: is right now in high school. But no, you gotta

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Speaker 1: watch the show. So I'm gonna ask you, guys, And

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Speaker 1: it's on demand. If you've got cable, it's on demand.

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Speaker 1: If not, go over your friend's house and watch this Ship.

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Speaker 1: It's a really good show. I just don't think it

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Speaker 1: should take place in a high school. Now. Look, when

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Speaker 1: But that's what it was. I was trying it. These

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Speaker 1: predominantly white high school, um as I've spoken about previously. Now, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that Ship is way different. It's way different,

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Speaker 1: my life. I tried drugs there. I had fun with it.

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Speaker 1: Some things I tried, Some things I didn't. Some things

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Speaker 1: I've seen other people try and I've seen them react

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