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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: For years, I would always get the best office gossip

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Speaker 3: from the head of our HR department. She would tell

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Speaker 3: me all of the dirt about everybody here.

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Speaker 1: You know exactly what you're talking about. I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: why they let her go.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, dirt.

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Speaker 1: Oh she's me, dirt too, about.

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Speaker 2: Best But apparently she was talking about me.

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Speaker 3: I know some stuff about you, but look, certain work

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Speaker 3: issues are too awkward to bring to HR. Then you

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Speaker 3: got to take the elevator all the way down to

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Speaker 3: the basement of morality and you can.

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Speaker 4: See, honest, HR is only there to protect the company,

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Speaker 4: not protecting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're unable to protect anybody.

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Speaker 3: That's why you can always tell us whatever's going on

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Speaker 3: on your life, which is why our listener, Dave has

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Speaker 3: reached out with a work problem too scandalous for HR.

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Speaker 1: Dave walking of the show, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Are you second guessing your decision after that intro?

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Speaker 5: Well, I have a really awkward situation and I really

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Speaker 5: didn't want to do on the radio, but I don't

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Speaker 5: know what else to do.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, whatever dirt that you want to share,

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Speaker 3: We promise we won't share it with anybody else.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm telling everybody, but I don't know where

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Speaker 4: your office is, so it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well what's going on?

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Speaker 6: So? Uh?

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Speaker 5: Not too long ago, I was at a company and

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Speaker 5: I ended up having a fling with one of my

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Speaker 5: younger coworkers.

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Speaker 2: Co workers is Key. It wasn't like somebody you were

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Speaker 5: Boss that I was her boss.

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Speaker 2: That's an important detail. It's like a power dynamic you

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Speaker 2: can't do you know.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly what Brooke tried to do with me when

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Speaker 3: I first started working here on the show as a

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Speaker 4: I never tried to hook up with you, and I

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Speaker 4: still just did have zero interview.

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Speaker 1: Remember HR told me everything you were taking advantage of.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, that's an awkward situation for you to be

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Speaker 3: in Dave with one of your subordinates, but you.

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Speaker 2: Did it to yourself.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and unlike Brook, she liked me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, listen, buddy, just because she likes it, you

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Speaker 4: still can't do it.

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Speaker 2: You're the boss, I know.

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Speaker 7: So.

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Speaker 5: Yes, So we were keeping everything on the d l

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Speaker 5: keeping everything on the down low, because, like you guys

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, but then we got to.

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Speaker 5: The point where we wanted to bring it out into

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Speaker 5: felt that way, she felt that way.

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Speaker 8: Wait, so you were both on the same page about.

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Speaker 1: This, yes, oh yeah, okay, okay, that's good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but we felt like if we did that, our

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Speaker 5: coworkers would be really weirded out by it, especially if

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Speaker 5: they find out how long it was going on before

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Speaker 8: You gotta be honest about all.

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Speaker 6: So we were talking. She gave me this idea.

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Speaker 5: It's like, if we didn't work together, we would never problem.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean that's true.

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Speaker 5: So I thought, yeah, she's right, and I thought, Okay,

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Speaker 5: what I'm going to do is I have more job experience.

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Speaker 5: I could get a job more easily.

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Speaker 6: Than she could. So I put in my notice and.

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Speaker 8: Should have inspired her.

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Speaker 4: You guys, he should have gotten another job before you

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Speaker 2: Anybody knows, anybody.

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Speaker 5: I was able to get another job less money, but

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Speaker 2: So worth it what you're.

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Speaker 5: Saying, Well, so this is the part where it might

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Speaker 5: not have been worth it, because ever since I quit.

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Speaker 5: The relationships gone kind of cold. I mean, it was

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Speaker 2: Wait, how long were you dating before you quit your job?

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Speaker 6: A month?

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Speaker 2: That's wow?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Could it be that forbidden fruit thing where it's like,

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Speaker 5: I have no idea because she won't respond to my text,

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Speaker 5: she won't respond to my call, no explanation, and meanwhile,

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Speaker 5: I'm over here, like, what the hell I went and

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Speaker 5: quit my job for you, and now I'm out.

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Speaker 2: I hate to say it, but it sounds kind of

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Speaker 2: she probably feels bad. It's not like she wanted you

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Speaker 5: But the thing was, she was all for it when

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Speaker 5: I said I was going to do it, I.

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Speaker 4: Know, but like that's a lot of pressure on her

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Speaker 5: You know, like, well that was to quote Adam Sandler,

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Speaker 5: that's information I needed to know yesterday.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe it's sail.

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Speaker 1: I see, you're just looking for an explanation.

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Speaker 6: You want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

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Speaker 3: And it says in your email here that you're only

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Speaker 1: That's I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 5: I'm just.

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Speaker 1: You, guys, it's not like that. It's not like they

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Speaker 6: I don't have dementia.

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Speaker 1: I know what's going on now.

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Speaker 2: I worried. Is there a huge age gap between you

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Speaker 2: two twelve years?

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Speaker 6: She's twelve years younger than I'm crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's not crazy.

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Speaker 3: It is crazy that she agreed to like tell him, hey,

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Speaker 3: then a month later she's out crazy.

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Speaker 4: That after a month he's like, I'm gonna quit my job. Like,

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Speaker 4: what is she supposed to say? I would feel backed

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Speaker 3: We weren't there, Brooke. I don't know if she reacted

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Speaker 2: That would just be my reaction.

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Speaker 3: Yes, let's come back. We're gonna let Dave call his ex.

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't know for sure. I was gonna say

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Speaker 3: And we'll see if she picks up and has an

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Speaker 1: Ghost it again.

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Speaker 2: Not on her, You can't put that on her.

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Speaker 1: The facts are she's ghosting, that's true. Yeah, so let's

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Speaker 3: She has anything to say about it when we come

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Speaker 3: back and do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: We always ask the question, what are you willing to

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, our listener Dave was willing to quit his

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Speaker 3: job for it. Literally, he was dating one of his

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Speaker 3: the best bet is for Dave to leave the company

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Speaker 8: It's funny, how normal you read that? But yeah, someone

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't be that crazy if it wasn't after a month

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Speaker 1: They say, what you know you know.

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Speaker 3: But the weird part is a month after he quit,

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Speaker 3: where she's gone. So understandably, Dave is feeling confused and

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Speaker 3: he wants our help to call her. Now we need

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Speaker 3: to give him some advice, Jose, what do you think

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Speaker 3: Dave needs to keep in mind saying goodbye?

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Speaker 2: Oh, like you're gonna be the one that is okay

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Speaker 8: You tell her you haven't talked to me for months,

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Speaker 2: Are you just saying this from personal experience that they

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Speaker 2: all come crawling? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well wait a minute, Okay, take back the power by

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Speaker 3: saying goodbye first.

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't want to say goodbye without knowing what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you risky?

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Speaker 3: Because he does want an explanation, So maybe Brooke you

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Speaker 2: I mean, closure is always hard to come by, Dave.

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Speaker 4: I really think that no matter what you do to

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Speaker 4: get someone to open up, you need to go in

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Speaker 4: with compliments. You need to say how you felt about

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Speaker 4: her and what a great time you had together, not that,

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Speaker 4: and then maybe just say you know, I was hoping

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Speaker 4: for more time with you. Is there something I can

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Speaker 3: I think Brooke is wanting a compliment from you, Dad,

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Speaker 3: So can you just practice on her first?

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Speaker 6: You have a lovely voice, Brooke, Wow, almost believed it.

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Speaker 3: So use some compliments to soften her up a little

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Speaker 3: bit and say goodbye before she can say goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Take back the power.

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Speaker 5: You're really pretty by.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully that helps. But I'm gonna dial your ex co worker.

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Speaker 3: What's her name, by the way, Oh yeah, that's right, Nicole. Okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, me write that down, Nicole. I'm dialing Nicole's

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Speaker 3: awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 9: Hello, Hey, Hey, it's me. Oh I'm sorry, what who says?

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Speaker 6: It's Dave? It's me Dave?

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Speaker 10: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Uh? Well, wow, I.

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Speaker 5: Wish you were I wish you were a little more

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Speaker 5: excited to hear from me, because I haven't heard from

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Speaker 5: you in a while.

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Speaker 6: You know, I missed talking to you.

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Speaker 5: I miss hearing your lovely voice.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, how are you doing.

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: How funny you should ask.

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Speaker 5: That's why I'm calling to see how we're doing, because

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Speaker 5: you haven't answered my calls, you haven't answered my text

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Speaker 5: and I literally quit my job so we could be together.

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Speaker 5: So I just I just want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, And thank you so much for doing that.

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Speaker 10: By the way, that was really sweet, and I promise

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I did it because you are the

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Speaker 7: Well, thank you so much for Okay, I mean, you know.

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Speaker 10: No, I wouldn't do that, and I don't think the

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Speaker 10: What do you mean.

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Speaker 6: The supervisor won't let me?

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Speaker 5: I mean I was pretty well.

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Speaker 10: I think there have been some changes and staff here

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Speaker 5: What kind of changes are you talking about? You're being

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Speaker 6: What's going on over there?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 10: Well, I didn't know how to tell you this, but

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Speaker 7: Oh we.

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Speaker 6: Wait, what.

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Speaker 5: You took my old job?

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Speaker 10: I mean, I make a lot more money now.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, I'm sure you would because I know how

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Speaker 10: I mean, so it was a bit hard for me

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Speaker 10: to say no. And you weren't there, so I I.

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Speaker 5: Of course I wasn't there. We agreed that I quit.

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Speaker 7: Who is this? What's going on? I'm not understand what's

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like a conference call.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, with a conference call with a whole morning show

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Speaker 10: I'm I'm feeling a bit ambushed for you.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to, by the way, congrats on your promotion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's good news.

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Speaker 5: But I don't congratulate her.

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Speaker 9: I'm taking my job.

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Speaker 4: Well, did you plan on this?

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Speaker 5: Is this why you got me to quit so you

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Speaker 7: No, I'm sorry. I am just so shocked. I didn't

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Speaker 2: No, totally.

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Speaker 10: It was a great opportunity to pass it up, and

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Speaker 5: But you were the one who told me to leave.

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Speaker 5: You said it wouldn't be better for both of us if.

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Speaker 6: I did that.

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Speaker 2: It was it was better for her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he brought that up to me. I never went

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Speaker 7: to him and said you should quit your job.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, you brought that up.

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Speaker 6: To me and I agreed.

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Speaker 7: No, I told you that I was just as shocked

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Speaker 7: to them and ask for years.

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Speaker 5: Really, I'm going to take your word now what.

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Speaker 2: She didn't lie him about. It doesn't sound like she

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Speaker 5: No, that she shocked. I find it hard to believe

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Speaker 10: You know, Dave, I really don't want to be rude,

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Speaker 10: but everyone at work really likes me more than you.

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Speaker 10: I reinated fun Fridays. You took that away, and everyone's

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Speaker 10: really happy with the job that I'm doing right now,

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Speaker 10: So I don't need you to yell at me, and especially.

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Speaker 7: On a radio show. I'm sorry that that happened.

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Speaker 10: But from my perspective, you decided to quit and they

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, I mean it does kind of sound like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and she dug it for me?

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Speaker 2: Did she like there was no job before you left.

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Speaker 2: It's not like she knew that that was going to happen.

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Speaker 1: The cemetery.

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Speaker 4: He went to the boss and quit and he was

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Speaker 4: dating someone that was you know, you can't do that

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Speaker 3: Okay, But here's the question that we don't have that

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Speaker 3: I think Dave wants from Nicole, is that why did

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: Why did you break off the romantic relationship with no explanation?

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Speaker 10: So I would say the majority of the things that

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Speaker 10: was something that I couldn't talk to him about anymore.

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Speaker 3: Work is what bonded you together, So once that was

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Speaker 3: taken away, there was nothing left to keep the relationship going.

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Speaker 4: You don't have faith that he would have celebrated your

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Speaker 4: big job promotion to this job.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, maybe you could have taken me out to

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Speaker 6: Your big race.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of.

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Speaker 11: Money, yeah, look, I feel really bad and maybe if

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Speaker 11: you're up for it, we could get together and have

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Speaker 11: a coffee and you could give me some tips on

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Speaker 7: Since you've done it before.

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Speaker 5: I would love to come in and help you get

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Speaker 5: more ahead.

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Speaker 4: Oh you said you cared about her. Someone had to

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Speaker 4: take your job. Might as well be somebody that you

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Speaker 4: cared about.

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Speaker 5: For her, somebody who puts the knife in my back?

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Speaker 10: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Okay on your big promotions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and cool on fun fridays too.

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Speaker 6: Really good idea.

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Speaker 7: Thank you. I don't know what else to say.

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Speaker 5: This has been an you know what, Maybe I should

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Speaker 5: go in and talk to HR. You know, maybe what

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Speaker 2: You're sounding kind of petty, my friend.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yes, you can call me Tom.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh Tom petty? Okay, you're old.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry this played out how it did. And Nicole,

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Speaker 3: I know you're a supervisor now and you probably know this,

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Speaker 3: but one rule is do not date any of your subordinates.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she's going to make you.

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Speaker 7: She doesn't work out very well, and you know what,

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Speaker 7: trust me, I will not.

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Speaker 10: I have a really hard job now with extra responsibilities,

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Speaker 10: and I really need to focus on that.

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Speaker 1: Date to see Yona.

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Speaker 4: Yeah always YOA freaking Jeffrey in the morning,