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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan.

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Speaker 2: Part one.

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Speaker 1: I hang a scene with a member of the show.

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Speaker 2: Well, what's up everybody? Happy weekend? Eddie is joining me.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Eddie? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Morgan?

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Speaker 2: You excited to chat?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Always all the things.

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Speaker 1: I saw it on my calendar. It popped up. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, there's a problem with the calendar.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy. I tried to implement new some guys, so

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Speaker 2: they stopped giving me crap for ask you know.

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Speaker 1: So Morgan was like, all right, I get I got Finally.

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Speaker 1: I'm tired of going up to you guys and be like,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing this week? It's your week to

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Speaker 1: do this, Bits says. She was like, I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: a calendar invite and that's gonna be your week that

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do it. So you're not surprised, not.

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Speaker 2: Even just like not going up. I wanted to be

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Speaker 2: more organized for you guys, So you guys had heads up.

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Speaker 1: I get it totally. It makes sense, right, but the

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Speaker 1: calendar is for today. I need it for the week.

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Speaker 2: You just wanted to show up the whole week.

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Speaker 1: Just tell me it's whole week because we don't know

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Speaker 1: what day we're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: It, right, That's true.

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Speaker 1: It justpens on what happened, Morgan. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: I'm doing tomorrow, like, so I need to know. Like

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Speaker 1: on Sundays, I'll look at the calendar. I'm like, oh cool,

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Speaker 1: tomorrow we have this, okay. So if I see that,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, this week is Morgan's best bit week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, then I will change yours just.

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Speaker 1: A little bit week suggestion box. That's it.

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Speaker 2: I like suggestion boshes. We can change them.

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Speaker 1: It's brand new, so you're open to suggestions.

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Speaker 2: Of course, I am. Well, Eddie. The biggest question I

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Speaker 2: have to start this is did you book a trip?

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Speaker 2: The trip?

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Speaker 1: Oh shoot, Eddie, I was supposed to do that.

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Speaker 2: For like like seven weeks.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't book a trip. But here's what I did. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So this is this totally goes with what we were

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Speaker 1: talking about on the podcast. Yes, I signed up further

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Speaker 1: the men's group you did, I did? Okay, we meet

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Speaker 1: on Saturday mornings.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so not the trip, but you are joining a

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Speaker 2: dude's group.

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Speaker 1: You did? You said do something out of your comfort zone,

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Speaker 1: and like, yes, there was a buddy of mine and

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Speaker 1: in Wyoming and I'm like, I'd love to go visit him.

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Speaker 1: So that didn't happen because really, realistically, I just can't

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Speaker 1: leave for a week. And so I settled for men's

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Speaker 1: group at my church on Saturday mornings. And it was

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Speaker 1: not my idea. It's almost like this is kind of

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Speaker 1: like from above Morgan because one of my old neighbors

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Speaker 1: who we's been neighbors like two years ago, he moved

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Speaker 1: away with his wife just to another part of town,

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Speaker 1: like him and his family got a house on the

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Speaker 1: other side of town. Yeah, and we go to the

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Speaker 1: same church though, and he was like, hey, have you

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Speaker 1: thought about doing this men's group? And I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it, Like I remember when I talked

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Speaker 1: to you about this. Yeah, I'm like, it's just not

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Speaker 1: my thing, not my thing to do it. And I said,

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Speaker 1: are you doing it? He said, only have you do it?

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Speaker 1: And I go, oh my gosh. And that's kind of

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Speaker 1: cool that he wants to go, like and he will

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Speaker 1: only do it if I go. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: let's get it a shot.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we don't we have you yet?

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Speaker 1: You no, no, no, it starts in like two weeks okay,

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Speaker 1: and it's like maybe five saturdays in a row, which

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can't make that saturday, like

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Speaker 1: if we're traveling, I'll have to just kind of not

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Speaker 1: do it that week. But there's like donuts and breakfasts

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Speaker 1: and coffee and.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're getting free food.

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Speaker 1: No, you have to pay. You have a favorite the

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Speaker 1: food it's fifty dollars for It's fifty dollars for five weeks,

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Speaker 2: Girl math says, that's for food? Is it ten dollars?

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Speaker 1: Kind of paying for the coffee and the donut?

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Speaker 2: Herney just let it roll. That's how that's how girl

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Speaker 2: mouth works. Okay, you're just like to have free food.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Girl mouth is when like something's on sale and it's

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Speaker 2: It's like fifty percent off.

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Speaker 1: You all are so ridiculous. My wife does this crap

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Speaker 1: all the time. She goes, you know our wife does.

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Speaker 1: She says, she goes, uh, like we'll cut something right.

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Speaker 1: We'll be like, hey, let we're spending too much money

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Speaker 1: instead of like buying food at school. She's like, okay, well,

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Speaker 1: just I'll do groceries and we'll just I'll make their

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Speaker 1: lunches in the morning. So cool. We'll save like two

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month, right, three hundred dollars a month.

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Speaker 1: And she was like, look what I bought because we

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Speaker 1: saved on that three hundred dollars. And I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: that's not how saving works. You saved. You don't spend

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Speaker 1: the three hundred dollars, and that is money that you save.

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Speaker 1: You don't look at that as like that's three hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars now that I can spend on something else. Like,

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Speaker 1: that's not saving. You guys are out of your mind.

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Speaker 2: Understand your point, because I do very much. I'm very

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Speaker 2: good at saving. I always pay myself first. It's a

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Speaker 2: strategy my dad instilled to me very early off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you pay yourself first.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you audio paycheck basically goes into your savings. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: right away, like immediately as soon as you get paid,

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Speaker 2: you pay yourself first.

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Speaker 1: You say, that's your money that you put away. I

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Speaker 2: Good. Yeah, so before you spend money, you're putting something away,

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Speaker 2: like it's depending on you know, however, your paycheck shows it.

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Speaker 1: Roughly the percentage of your paycheck.

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Speaker 2: Well, at first it was like five dollars. Does that

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Speaker 1: Now about like the percentage?

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Speaker 2: Don't give me like that now, I'm but like, when

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Speaker 2: it first started, it was like five dollars.

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Speaker 1: That's probably because you were making ten dollars basically, you know,

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Speaker 2: Now i'd probably say, like twenty five is when I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm talking away.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not possible for me, but that's a good

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Speaker 1: If I were single totally, I would probably do that too.

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Speaker 2: Well, you were single once upon a time, you didn't

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Speaker 1: No, that was my beer drinking money for sure. It's

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Speaker 1: like every every every two weeks, I'm like, god, dang man,

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Speaker 1: have any money? Like wires are getting expensive?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you weren't paying yourself first? Ass all? Okay, so

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Speaker 2: how do we even get on the topic of paying first?

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Speaker 2: Talk about your wife and buying something breakfast? Got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So anyways, it is girl math because technically you're

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Speaker 2: getting something out of it that was free that you

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Speaker 2: would have paid had to pay money for on different things.

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Speaker 2: It's interesting logical.

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Speaker 1: It's so weird. That you are so responsible with paying

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Speaker 1: yourself first and putting twenty five percent percent away, Like

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Speaker 1: that's that's great, that's good. But then you lose all credibility.

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Speaker 1: Credibility when you say.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, girl, Math, it's curious. It's just fun to like,

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Speaker 2: you know, when you spend money, especially now, like you

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Speaker 2: It just kind of makes you feel a little bit

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Speaker 2: better when you're like, girl, Math, I save some money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, spending money sucks, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So like it just kind of makes us feel better.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I get that. It's kind of like you're just

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Speaker 2: You know. But what it's a placebo effect. You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: girl Math, they're somewhere in there. I save some money.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it didn't cost so much.

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Speaker 1: I'll say that next time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it just helps you ease the pain of spinning money.

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Speaker 2: I really think it's truly where it comes from. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's funny. I'm proud of you. I'm glad that you

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Speaker 2: did this.

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Speaker 1: We're going to do it, and we're signed up. We're

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Speaker 1: going to do it, which is I don't know how

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming we talk about God, but I think there's

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Speaker 1: more of just like a catchup of like from what

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Speaker 1: I understand, maybe you split up in like groups of

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Speaker 1: five you sit around a campfire and you just kind

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Speaker 1: of chat it up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it's in evenings. I was picturing in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Seven in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Why are you seeing campfire?

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Speaker 1: They do a little fire outside.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you are really around Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And you sit around the campfire while you drink coffee

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Speaker 1: your donut. Okay, I guess the mornings are kind of cool.

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Speaker 2: Donuts with dad but no kids.

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Speaker 2: Back in school, and oh I do it all the

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Speaker 2: time still, Yeah, doughnuts with dad.

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Speaker 1: I haven't done it in a while, but donuts with dad.

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Speaker 1: Donuts with dad is fun, and.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't it like muffins with moms.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they still do. Yeah. And my kid's school is

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Speaker 1: cool too because we can do lunches with them like

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Speaker 2: Really, I love that.

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Speaker 1: But we only do like birthdays or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you this because on my birthday,

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Speaker 2: my mom used to always bring Christie's cookies. This is

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Speaker 2: really good sugar cookies. Every birthday she would show up

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Speaker 2: Christie's cookies or cookie cake and we'd always like celebrate.

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Speaker 2: Do you do that for your kids on the birthdays?

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Speaker 1: Totally?

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Speaker 2: Is that a common thing that a lot of parents

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Speaker 2: do or do you feel like it's some do it,

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Speaker 2: some don't.

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Speaker 1: I think that I probably wouldn't do it, but I

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Speaker 1: think everyone does it, Okay, So you kind of feel

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Speaker 1: forced as a parent to be like, well, our kid

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Speaker 1: can't be the only one that doesn't get the cookies

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Speaker 1: or like the cupcakes or whatever, you know. But what's

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Speaker 1: really challenging though nowadays, is like everyone has allergies of something, yeah,

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Speaker 1: make sure that the cupcakes don't have pistachios in them

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Speaker 1: or whatever, because we have a pistacio allergy. So the

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Speaker 2: Oh no, everybody had the same We all ate the

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Speaker 2: same Christy cookie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and little Tommy if he got a rash, you

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Speaker 2: And that's like coming from someone who does have allergies.

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Speaker 2: I can't eat, but like, yeah, that's that's crazy too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've come a long way to understanding and learning.

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Speaker 2: I'm so curious about this. When did you know? Your

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Speaker 2: about marriage, wanting to have kids.

441
00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we would talk about like what what would we

442
00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,639
Speaker 1: name our kids? Like what are your top ten kids' names? Yeah,

443
00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,879
Speaker 1: like where where should we go? Like if we were

444
00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,919
Speaker 1: to ever get married. Sure we talked about that, but

445
00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,720
Speaker 1: like it was always it wasn't when we were going

446
00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:43,439
Speaker 1: to get married or like it was just like if

447
00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,560
Speaker 1: we ever get married, or like I'm telling you, in

448
00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:52,679
Speaker 1: my mind, my career, my job at the time, my music,

449
00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:57,520
Speaker 1: like me playing music, writing music, me having my hot girlfriend,

450
00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,640
Speaker 1: like that was my life. I never thought like oh yeah,

451
00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,879
Speaker 1: like eventually you and I were gonna have kids and

452
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,240
Speaker 1: get married. Like no, never thought of it until she said,

453
00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,520
Speaker 1: are you gonna ask me to marry you? And then

454
00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,439
Speaker 1: I remember specifically going on a I think me and

455
00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,280
Speaker 1: my dad and my brother were on a fishing trip,

456
00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,439
Speaker 1: like in South Padre or like I don't know, somewhere

457
00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,400
Speaker 1: in Texas. And I talked to my brother. I'm like, yeah, man,

458
00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,040
Speaker 1: like you know, my wife gave me the my wife,

459
00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,440
Speaker 1: my girlfriend gave me the ultimatum kind of thing, and

460
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,879
Speaker 1: and he was just like, well, yeah, idiot, like are

461
00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,800
Speaker 1: you gonna do it? And I was like, I mean,

462
00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,680
Speaker 1: this is the first time I've really been thinking about it,

463
00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,879
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I think I'm gonna do it, like

464
00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,200
Speaker 1: of course because it made so much sense, Like I

465
00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,600
Speaker 1: don't want to live this life without her. Yeah, Like

466
00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,400
Speaker 1: not once did I ever think like, yeah, I like you,

467
00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:45,560
Speaker 1: but I'm going to try to see if I can

468
00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:46,880
Speaker 1: date someone else, see if it.

469
00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,280
Speaker 2: Never that's crazy, Like it was just like a there,

470
00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:52,560
Speaker 2: it was just there, and it was there, good and.

471
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,880
Speaker 1: Happy and comfortable, which is kind of my life. Yeah,

472
00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,200
Speaker 1: and I realized, like that's just how I live my life.

473
00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,080
Speaker 2: That is true. Well you didn't you don't help me

474
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,000
Speaker 2: much here than Eddie.

475
00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:01,920
Speaker 1: Why what are you thinking?

476
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 2: I just like, I feel like I'm having a lot

477
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,760
Speaker 2: of big feelings that I don't I don't quite think

478
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:13,119
Speaker 2: i've ever experienced before ever. Yeah, something feels different and

479
00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,640
Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain it, and I don't

480
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,480
Speaker 2: know what it is. That's why I'm asking trying to

481
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:20,119
Speaker 2: get information to like process, So like.

482
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,320
Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this because I think, like,

483
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:26,119
Speaker 1: all right, if I wouldn't have married my wife, which

484
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,840
Speaker 1: you know, like I could have, I could have just

485
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,440
Speaker 1: said no, I don't want to get married right now,

486
00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,840
Speaker 1: and then just prolonged it and then met someone in

487
00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,720
Speaker 1: my forties or like late thirties and then be like,

488
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 1: all right, you're the one I'm going to marry just

489
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,479
Speaker 1: because like dang, we're almost forty, like we should get

490
00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,760
Speaker 1: married right, like uh huh. And I could have had

491
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:46,879
Speaker 1: a completely different life. I probably wouldn't have four kids.

492
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,200
Speaker 2: This is also true.

493
00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 1: Who knows what would have happened.

494
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 2: So like.

495
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:58,399
Speaker 1: When you say different feeling, could it be anything about

496
00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 1: just gone through the grinder of dating and like being

497
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: cheated on and you name it right, Yeah, but now

498
00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 1: you're not dealing with all that deceit. Yeah right, you're

499
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,520
Speaker 1: not dealing with that right now, so it feels good.

500
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I well, like, here's a different distinction than

501
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 2: I'm having where like in the beginning of all of

502
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,360
Speaker 2: my relationships, and of course, hindsight is always twenty twenty, right,

503
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 2: you look back on something like, yeah, that made sense.

504
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 2: I definitely skated over that, or I didn't look into

505
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 2: that too hard or you know whatever. Yeah, you got

506
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,879
Speaker 2: to do that. And I can genuinely do that for

507
00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,680
Speaker 2: all of my relationships now, even like the recent one,

508
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 2: like I had a really big breakthrough where it was

509
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 2: like a we're.

510
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: Talking about the uniform rests, yeah, man inform where.

511
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 2: I was just like that would have never worked, and

512
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,120
Speaker 2: I just ignored it because I think for the first

513
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,159
Speaker 2: time in my life, I was in a safe and

514
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: healthy relationship.

515
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so there we go. So that was that time.

516
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 1: So all the deceit lies, whatever, being cheated on, whatever,

517
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 1: bad dude, whatever, all that's out right. So you've got

518
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: a really good dude and you've checked that that that

519
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: box has been checked. Good dude. Yeah, not gonna cheat

520
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 1: on me, not gonna lie to me, not gonna do

521
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: bad things. To me like check, yeah, so now is

522
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 1: he the dude, because because just because the bat he's

523
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 1: a good guy doesn't mean he's the guy for you, right, but.

524
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 2: This is this is the last guy, right, And like

525
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: obviously I realized and I was like, Okay, well, I

526
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 2: need to be having some very intense conversations pretty early

527
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 2: on to make sure I'm weeding through all of the

528
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 2: very specific things. If we don't have in comments, that's.

529
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 1: Gonna be weird for him just to get all those

530
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: questions because I don't that's not normal to be interrogated.

531
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 2: But but I understand what he loved it. Really, he

532
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 2: was just like, yeah, like this is because.

533
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:49,959
Speaker 1: This is man uniform.

534
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 2: No, okay, now we're on new guys, got it. Sorry,

535
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: It was just more I learned the lesson with man

536
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 2: in Uniform that like, I had the breakthrough when I

537
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 2: was like kind of sitting there and journaling and working

538
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 2: through my stuff where I was like, I think the

539
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 2: reason I really cared and that that relationship was so

540
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 2: hard on me is because it was truly the first

541
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: time that I felt not hurt, like I was dealing

542
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: with someone who actually cared and genuinely wanted to see

543
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,439
Speaker 2: me happy. It just didn't work out. It wasn't my person,

544
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 2: and I think that was such a different hurt than

545
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 2: I'd ever experienced because of that, So then like coming

546
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,919
Speaker 2: into this new relationship and meeting him, how I met him,

547
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 2: the whole experience and everything has been vastly different than

548
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 2: anything I've ever experienced. So now that's why I'm trying

549
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 2: to Like, I'm like, Okay, is it just another new

550
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,399
Speaker 2: different and I'm learning a lot of things or is

551
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: this like a different different different and it's gonna be

552
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 2: something that really matters and I don't know how to

553
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: deal with it.

554
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: I can answer your question, Yeah, what do you want? Like,

555
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 1: what do you want out of a guy? Like it

556
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 1: sounds like you're looking for the perfect man? No, not perfect,

557
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: So what do you want?

558
00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 2: I want a consistent, loyal, and compassionate human being. Those

559
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 2: are like my three very Like I had just got

560
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 2: done telling my friends that I needed an EmPATH, Like

561
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: I needed somebody who had a heart like mine, because

562
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 2: so so much I was recognizing, like as especially as

563
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: I went through back a lot of my relationships, that

564
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 2: I just had this this heart that couldn't be matched,

565
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 2: Like I cared so deeply, and I would, I would

566
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 2: fight so hard for things, and I just I was

567
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 2: not matching with somebody in the heart category. And I

568
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 2: was like, it's gonna matter when I meet someone who

569
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: like has this heart that I have. And that was

570
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 2: like the first thing that I connected on with IRL

571
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 2: guy because it's kind of the nickname that's been given

572
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: to him. Was like, holy crap, we feel and see

573
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 2: life and experience life in the same way in that

574
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: capacity and that I've never felt before.

575
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, check that, boss. That was what else?

576
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 2: The consistency is there on every life? At first?

577
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: You behind that because like consistency, like he shows up

578
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: when he does, like when he tells you he's going

579
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,360
Speaker 1: to be there, Like what what's what do you mean?

580
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 2: The words align with the actions?

581
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: But for how long?

582
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 2: I know we're still early on. Well, we're you know,

583
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 2: over a month, right that at this point is over

584
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: a month.

585
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 1: Okay, just let's just say five weeks.

586
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, so far, five weeks.

587
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 1: So far he's acting a certain way and he is

588
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: that that way.

589
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: He said, like he walks the talk, talks the walk,

590
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 2: he does that he's going to do.

591
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: There's lines, but but can you give me like smallest

592
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 1: example to a big example. Smallest example he says, isn't

593
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: going to take remy for a walk, and he takes

594
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 1: it ready for a while. Big example he says he's

595
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: going to I don't know, never drive drunk. He doesn't

596
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: drive drunk, you know what I mean?

597
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, no, he okay. Small example is he will

598
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 2: like he's like, I'm always here to support you, to help,

599
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 2: like make your life easier. That's the purpose of a partnership.

600
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 2: And he's done that, Like he's he saw I got

601
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: really stressed and my house is kind of messing and

602
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: it was really stressing me out. He's like he just

603
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,479
Speaker 2: kind of started picking up. I damn to tell him.

604
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: He just kind of started like helping me in ways

605
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 2: that would ease my stress. And that has been consistent

606
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 2: because I have a pretty high tense job. Sometimes there's

607
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: just a lot going on all the time.

608
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: There's a lot of I'm aware.

609
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 2: Yeah that's just what it is, and so some things

610
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: get pushed to the side and then I get stressed out.

611
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: It's a whole thing. And like he has eased a

612
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 2: lot of that stress that I have because I just

613
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 2: felt like I was taking on the world in a

614
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 2: way I wasn't. But you know what that feeling is

615
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 2: like that's like a small one. Big one is like

616
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 2: him like reassuring me, just like I'm here and I'm

617
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: in this, and I like, I want this to work

618
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 2: and it's consistent and he's showing that through actions.

619
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 1: Okay, good examples, good examples.

620
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

621
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: You know when there's something that I remember that my

622
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: wife and I.

623
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, we're gonna take a break, and I

624
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: want to come right back to this talking. Okay, and

625
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 2: go tell us start your wife.

626
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: And you So when we were dating, I'll never forget

627
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: like I had a problem with I don't know, some

628
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: friends or maybe my family. Maybe I think it was

629
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: family family issues, And we were talking on the phone

630
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: and I wanted to talk about it and I wanted

631
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: her to kind of help me deal with it. And

632
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: I remember specifically that like all I wanted was for

633
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: her to tell me what I wanted to hear, you know,

634
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: just tell me like that it's not me, it's them,

635
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: it's whatever, Like they're wrong, you're right, right, That's all

636
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: I wanted. And she was like and it happened like

637
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: five six different times where she was just like, well,

638
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: did you ever think about like what they're going through?

639
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: Like what is she?

640
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 2: Like?

641
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: What's your mom thinking about like when she says this

642
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: or like and it was always like no, what about me?

643
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: You know? And he was like no, no, you're right too,

644
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: but like what about your dad or what about your

645
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: friend that? What's he like? Wow? Why is he so upset?

646
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 2: Yeah?

647
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 1: And I was like this is so cool because like

648
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: she that to me meant she truly cared about the

649
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: issue and whatever it was doing to me. She knew

650
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 1: that I would be better at resolving it if I

651
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: understood the whole picture other than like, yeah, you're right,

652
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: like see, because that to me, like yeah, you're right,

653
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: they're wrong, screw them, like they don't need you. You're

654
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: better than all of them. Like that that would just

655
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: do nothing for me other than just.

656
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: Like yeah, it doesn't. It supports you, sure, but it

657
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 2: doesn't challenge you. And like a partner truly should challenge

658
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: and support you. Yeah, in both ways.

659
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not just like supporting me just to get

660
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: a good version of me. Mm hmm, would you like?

661
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: I love you?

662
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 2: She wants the actual best for you, even if you

663
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 2: can't see it.

664
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: She's always been like that. She's always been like authentic, real,

665
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna shoots you straight. You're kind of being

666
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: an a hole, like you know what I mean. Like,

667
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: she's not scared of me. She's never she was never

668
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 1: scared of how I was going to react towards something.

669
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: She's just like you asked me, I'm going to tell

670
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: you how it is, and she wasn't mean about it.

671
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: But to me, that was such a strong indication that

672
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: she really cared about me. Yeah, you know, so like

673
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: that was really cool.

674
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: So when you look back on that now, is that like, oh, yeah,

675
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: that for sure played a role in the fact that,

676
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,199
Speaker 2: like I didn't want to lose her.

677
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: Probably, you know, I never thought about it again, but yeah,

678
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: when I look back at it, Yeah, it's little things

679
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: like that where I'm I'm thinking like, yeah, those are

680
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: all little bricks in the wall.

681
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: You know, it's like building a foundation, and every time

682
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 2: you start dating somebody new, you're building the foundation for

683
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: what that relationship is going to look like.

684
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, So at what point, like how much longer are

685
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: you going to kind of go before you Because I'm shocked.

686
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm a little shocked that like five weeks in we're

687
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: calling it five weeks. Yeah, five weeks in you're already

688
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: feeling like this, where I thought I thought that maybe

689
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: you would be a little more reserved and more protected.

690
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and standoffish because of what you've been through.

691
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So this is interesting you say that because I

692
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 2: am to him like he's definitely like he's like he's

693
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: he's the more like he he doesn't have any walls up.

694
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 2: I have all the walls and they're still there. But

695
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: that's also why I'm asking this question, just to understand

696
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: whether it's him or you know, later down. Like, I

697
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: don't think I've ever truly considered that question of like, well,

698
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: why is it them? You know, you kind of look

699
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: at people you're like, okay, well why them? Why did

700
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: you choose them? How did this happen?

701
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that simple, right, Like, I don't

702
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: think it's like I think it could have been someone else.

703
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: I really do think it could have been someone else,

704
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: you know, like I could have easily told my wife, no,

705
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: I'm not ready, and then I would have dated someone else,

706
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: and then would have dated someone else after that, and

707
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: then we dated somewhere up that and then maybe find

708
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: someone else down down the line, and my life would

709
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: have been completely different. But at the same time, that's

710
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: not what happened. That's not what happened. And I decided

711
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: to I don't think you're ever going to find anyone perfect,

712
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: not that you're looking for anyone perfect. I think a

713
00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: lot of people try to find someone like example, and

714
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: I got my foster kids and the caseworker came to

715
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 1: my house. I said, I want the easiest kid, no trauma,

716
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: I want a baby. I remember. The caseworker is just like, Okay,

717
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: that will never happen. But okay, I'll write all that

718
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: down anyway. But like, cause that's what we want, right,

719
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: I want if I'm going to change, if I'm going

720
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: to commit to something, I want to be easy. But

721
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: marriage isn't easy. Being in a relationship isn't easy. Kid

722
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: isn't easy. Life is not easy. Yeah, So like, if

723
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: you like it, Morgan, if it feels right, if you

724
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: trust him, I wouldn't go that quick, right, like obviously

725
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: five weeks it's not a lot of time, but like,

726
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: just be open, I know, and open, and don't let

727
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: your age even make it a factor. Don't make your

728
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 1: age a factor. Don't think like, cause, like you know, yes,

729
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: there is pressure when you get older. We're just like, man,

730
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: everyone's being taken. I win a lot of weddings, everyone's

731
00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 1: got boyfriends, everyone's married, and I'm not. Don't let that

732
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: affect you, Like, that's not your life, that's.

733
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: All, And I don't. I don't think I would ever settle.

734
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: I think I have been through enough experiences that settling

735
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: is just not an option for me. As far as like,

736
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: you know, just dating somebody or marrying to get married,

737
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 2: I will That'll never be me.

738
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: I will tell you, though, I think you are at

739
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: a good age for dudes, because at this point, how

740
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: old are you? Thirty one, thirty one? Maybe you're not,

741
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: maybe you're not, maybe you're not at that point.

742
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: Well, he's older than me.

743
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: How old is he?

744
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: He's thirty four?

745
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: I was going to say, I think thirty five is

746
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: a perfect age for a man to finally realize that

747
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: he's ready to settle down and be with someone for

748
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: the rest of his life.

749
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all. I mean. The age is also getting

750
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: older for women too, so it doesn't surprise me, Like, yeah,

751
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: early middle thirties is being becoming the normal age for

752
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: people to actually get married. That's just what it is.

753
00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: It used to not be obviously, but.

754
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: You start looking at leagues in like bars and like

755
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 1: what single people do when you start realizing like, all right,

756
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm kind of at the high I'm at the older

757
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: range of this. I don't belong here anymore. Yeah, like

758
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: I belong maybe at home and then that let life

759
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: of starting with like finding a house with someone and

760
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: getting married, and then like shopping for a child and

761
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: getting a room ready for your first baby. All that

762
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: is like it's all, you know, planned for us. It's

763
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: all there for us. But like for guys, we don't

764
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: even think of that until there's a certain point where

765
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: that hits, where like all our friends are kind of

766
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: gone and be like, oh, maybe it's time for me

767
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: to kind of do what they're doing too.

768
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 2: Yeah that is true. I mean you're influenced by what's

769
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: around you. Yeah, that's very true.

770
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: So you're dating these younger guys and they're like, nah, man,

771
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm I like her and I'm having fun with her.

772
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 2: But what's crazy about age? So Eddie is like I

773
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 2: would date guys for like thirty seven thirty eight, and

774
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: they were be more immature than the dudes are all

775
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: like twenty seven and I'm like, I don't. That's why

776
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 2: i stopped. I was like, I'm yang, You're right.

777
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: And there is there's a personality.

778
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 2: It really depends on your experiences, what you've been through,

779
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: where you're at in your life. Yeah, that really plays

780
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: such a core part of that.

781
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: But I will say thirty five, thirty four to thirty

782
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: five is kind of that age where like people start,

783
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: guys start thinking differently.

784
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't listen, I don't know, I don't,

785
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 2: I don't have anything. I think my logic in my

786
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 2: brain and my heart are playing two different fields right

787
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: now and they're trying to catch up to each other

788
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: one way or another. And that's because of what I've

789
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: been through.

790
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: And try writing it out, just try writing it out

791
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: and not expecting too much, and like, if it's right,

792
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: it's right, I know.

793
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: But I think what scares me, Eddie is that it

794
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: really could be. And I think that it's not scary,

795
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: terrifies the living Piat what you want, it is, of

796
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: course what I want, and I'm not going to push

797
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 2: it away. Don't get me wrong.

798
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: I'm not like, you know, don't look at your trauma

799
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: room on that.

800
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: No, but there is this like there's like this little

801
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: Morgan inside of me who's just like, oh my gosh,

802
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 2: what is happening? Like yes, you wait for a moment

803
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 2: like this your entire life, and hopefully it is that moment.

804
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 2: But then you're like, oh, this is this is also

805
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: kind of scary and I wasn't prepared for the other

806
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 2: side of that, Like I was prepared for it to happen, yeah,

807
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 2: but not prepared for all the feelings that come around it.

808
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

809
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's just where I'm at. I just have

810
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 2: lots of feelings to do it.

811
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: You got this, do it?

812
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 2: I needed I needed Eddie the day to come in.

813
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: Like that was a long time ago. Yeah, but still.

814
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: But that's why I think the logic side of my

815
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,959
Speaker 2: brain is like coming to people and be like, okay,

816
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: so how did you because my brain is trying to

817
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: make sense of something that's really hard to make sense of.

818
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: Are you asking a lot of people this question?

819
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,439
Speaker 2: No, you're my first one.

820
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: Really. You don't ask your girlfriends or anything.

821
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: No, it's different. We have different types of conversations. You

822
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,359
Speaker 2: have kind of like a biased but unbiased right, like

823
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: you just want to see me happy, do but you're

824
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 2: also going to tell me the truth. I don't know him, Yeah,

825
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: you haven't met I met him, so like my friends

826
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 2: on the other side are like they really just want

827
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: me to be happy no matter what, and they might

828
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: just kind of be like no, like push, like do

829
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 2: I just need unbiased kind of leveling brain. It's all

830
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 2: things happening.

831
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: He's the dude that your friends kind of sought.

832
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: The bar and like go talk to This is the

833
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: in real life, like played out, like stars had to

834
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 2: align perfectly for this us to meet. Happening in a

835
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 2: lot of ways, like when we talk about back to

836
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 2: that night, we're like we almost did not meet.

837
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna speak for Bobby Amy and Lunchbox, but

838
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: I think there is an undertone of we're happy for you,

839
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: but we'll see yeah, because you know, it's kind of

840
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: like we'll see.

841
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: Well because I've been through so much, right, Like, no,

842
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 2: it is weird too. I look at my life, Eddie,

843
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: and my whole twenties imagine this, like you, my entire

844
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: twenties have been on the show. I was twenty three

845
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 2: years old when I joined this show, so my entire

846
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 2: like adult right, that's crazy. Like my experiences of dating

847
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: in life have just been a part of this show.

848
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 2: So people are like, oh, well, yeah, it's another one.

849
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, no crap, a normal person dates this

850
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 2: much in their twenties. Yeah, you know what I mean,

851
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 2: Like this is real life. It's just I happened to

852
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 2: share it.

853
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 1: But there was but there was kind of a time limit, right,

854
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: It was like a certain time when you would like,

855
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: when am I going to talk about this on air?

856
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

857
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: Like how serious am I with this guy? Serious enough

858
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: to talk about him on air? So there were a

859
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: lot of them were just like, all right, seriously, and

860
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: this is serious enough for me to talk about it

861
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: on air. And then you'll be like, oh, Morgan's looks

862
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: sad crying.

863
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 2: Oh you know, I think it's I think it's also

864
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: because you guys are just like friends to me, and

865
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: so it was like.

866
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: I was we see each other every day, well yeah.

867
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 2: And like having like somebody part of your life. I'm

868
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 2: not good at hiding things. I'm not good at lying, Like,

869
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 2: so if I'm having something really good happen to me,

870
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: I can't like for four months sit there and be

871
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: like this is happening.

872
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: Right now, You're right, You're right. I think it's all

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Speaker 1: with all of us, right, Yeah, it's kind of what's

874
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: so cool about us, Like in there, we all know

875
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: when someone's going through something. Yeah, even Bobby. We'll be like, oh, something.

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00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: Right and bad, you know, or like, yeah.

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Speaker 1: He's in a good mood or I'm in a good

878
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:10,959
Speaker 1: mood or.

879
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: So that's why I think so much of just when,

880
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 2: how and what I share. It's changed so much every

881
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 2: time I got you. It just depends on like how

882
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: excited I am, how I feel, what's going through my

883
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,439
Speaker 2: body and the experiences I'm having, and I'm just trying

884
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 2: to be as real as it as I can.

885
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm happy for you, and I hope that he's the one.

886
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 1: If he is the one.

887
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: And been awesome and if I'll be okay.

888
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll be fine. Yeah, and you'll be ready for

889
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: the next one. Yeah, and maybe he'll be the right one.

890
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: I have good feelings. Good, it's awesome. It's awesome.

891
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 2: That's where we are right now. We were supposed to

892
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: talk this long about it, but you like went dad

893
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 2: round and then I was just like, we're.

894
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,439
Speaker 1: Just going to be on her and I'm like, okay,

895
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: we're just gonna talk about what like how I knew

896
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: my wife was the one?

897
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I loved that story, Like I love hearing

898
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 2: about your wife and how you feel and as a dad.

899
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Speaker 1: And it's cool for me too because we don't I mean,

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00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 1: I don't think that much about that. Yeah, I'm telling

901
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: you we're such a survivor mode every day of our

902
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: life that like we don't talk about you know, us

903
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: meeting or like when I knew she was the one.

904
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: So that's school. Thank you for asking that. I made

905
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Speaker 1: me feel good good.

906
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Speaker 2: I'm glad you got to talk about it. Okay, Well

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Speaker 2: we do have listener questions. Yes, so we're gonna jump

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Speaker 2: out of here, go check out part three here in

909
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Speaker 2: a little bit. It'll go up. But ednything's for being here.

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Speaker 2: We're where to follow you.

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00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty is already all the things.

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00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 2: See all the dad stuff, all the dad's.

913
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: Although I will say my seventeen year old son, he

914
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: said that one of his buddies at school said, your

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00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: dad's Instagram, like is is it has aura?

916
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:41,240
Speaker 2: You have an aura?

917
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's what I'm talking about. I don't

918
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: know what that means, but I'm here for it.

919
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 2: Okay, I will tell you.

920
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: Well, my son kind of told me what it meant.

921
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 2: Well, it could be good or bad.

922
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: No, he says good, Okay. He said basically, you it

923
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: looks like you live a cool life.

924
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 2: Okay. I was gonna say, if you just had aura,

925
00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: then aura different directors.

926
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Speaker 1: This is like my life too. When my kids talk

927
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, I don't know what you're saying. Yeah, like,

928
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: just tell me in regular language.

929
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 2: I know, but that we were the same way.

930
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Speaker 1: So what's aura?

931
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: Your aura is like your vibe. Yeah, same, same, same.

932
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: So when it has aura, it's got a it's got

933
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 1: a vibe.

934
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: It's got a vibe. But that's why I say, like,

935
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: it could be good or bad depending if you just said,

936
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 2: like it's got an aura, yeah, that could be.

937
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: Like yeah yeah, like if I was just flashing money

938
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 1: and like had a ski mask on, like okay, he's

939
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:26,240
Speaker 1: a criminal aura.

940
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you gotta have a cool aura.

941
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: Yeah vibe producer.

942
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: Ready, Yeah, go follow it all right and go subscribe

943
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: to our YouTube page at Bobby Bone Show.

944
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Speaker 1: That's the best Bits of the week with Morgan.

945
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:40,720
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening.

946
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Speaker 1: Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend. Go,

947
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Speaker 1: follow the show on all social platforms. Show and followed

948
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949
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Speaker 1: week's episode.