1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Second Date Update. We are in the month of Love 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: right now, and because of that, today we're gonna do 3 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: this entire second date update in the language of love French. Jose, 4 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: take it away. 5 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: Welcome dosey, I'll second date up date known as a 6 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: d English update second Day. 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: I don't know how a French accent could be unsexy. 8 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: We're trying not to scare all of the women off 9 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: from listening to the show, just a couple of the 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: unwonted ones. So sorry, lady. You know what, maybe we 11 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: just stick to American style English for this when we 12 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: talk to our listener Cassie today, Cassie, I'm sorry, are 13 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: you okay if we do this in English? Gussie? 14 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 4: I was loving the French, but you know what, it's okay. 15 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 5: You're gonna already she's started out of the gate line. 16 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: Just for the record, if you have any language request 17 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: or like do you want me to do, just holler 18 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: at me. Seriously, keep talking like that. You're not going 19 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: to be single for long. So tell us about this 20 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: guy that you went out with recently. What's his name? 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, his name is Derek. How'd you guys meet online? 22 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 4: And our first day we went to a super upscale 23 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 4: mall here in this area, we've got like a I 24 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 4: would say fancy mall is because like it's spread out. 25 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: I don't have to tell us about upscale malls. 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 3: Yeah we got there. 27 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: Explain it's like being on Amazon. 28 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 3: But I r L Yeah the stores. That's okay, And 29 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 3: that sounds like it could be nice one. 30 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be fun, some something to do, things 31 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 1: to look at. 32 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 3: And talk about, like shop, you can drink. 33 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,279 Speaker 4: Yes, it's like in public, so if it gets weird, 34 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 4: you're not alone, right. 35 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 3: Yeah safety sure. 36 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 37 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 3: So what was it like when you very first met Derek? 38 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 4: So honestly, I felt like we hit it off, like 39 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 4: right off, that there was chemistry there. We walked around 40 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 4: just like looking at stuff, and we ended up going 41 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 4: to like a nursery, not like the baby contained, like 42 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: the kind of plants plant nursery. 43 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: It was like, okay, sounds like a perfect day to me. 44 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 4: But they don't. 45 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 5: They don't have stores where they sell babies, Jose at 46 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 5: the mall, even a baby watching day. 47 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 4: I know. 48 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: We just got a brilliant business ideas mom sponsored by 49 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Window. 50 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: You better work on your return policy. 51 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to let you know, we've got the discount 52 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: ban over here in the store for too long. We 53 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: have the whole businessman ready but sorry. 54 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 5: Okay, I mean cute plant shops are so fun right now. 55 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 4: I'm not like a super big plant person, but I 56 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 4: really loved looking at all the stuff they had, Like 57 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 4: I'm into it. He was a little bit more into 58 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 4: it than me, but I was really feeling it. Yeah 59 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 4: because traditionally, like I haven't really been a plant person, 60 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: but I had it. I had a lot of fun, 61 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 4: so sweet. 62 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: So he was knowledgeable. He obviously has plans. 63 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he was like, you know what I think 64 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 4: we should do. I think we should pick out a 65 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 4: plant for each other. 66 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 5: Oh and I had a forward thinking like it's like 67 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 5: he wants to see if you could keep it alive, 68 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. Yeah. 69 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 4: I think it's like when you have some like picking 70 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 4: off for you, because it's like, Okay, what do you 71 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 4: really think of me? Let's see what you pick out 72 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 4: based off what you think my personality is. 73 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: That's why you make someone plan in a tree. 74 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 6: That's more of a commitment than Yes. 75 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's an interesting idea. 76 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: I like it. What did you pick out for him. 77 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 4: So the one I picked was super cute. It was 78 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 4: like very whimsical. It was called a figety fig. 79 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 3: Better than a venus fly trap or something, you. 80 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 4: Know, right, Okay, So that's like literally what I'm getting to, 81 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 4: because what he picked for me was a freaking snake 82 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: plant snake flip but. 83 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 3: Average, they live a long time, though hard to kill. 84 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 3: They are very hard to kill. They're sturdy. 85 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 5: They're a good first plant for people who don't have 86 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 5: to their first plant. 87 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so he obviously doesn't trust that you're able to 88 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: maintain it, which is why he bought you a super 89 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: easy plant. 90 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 4: I didn't really think about it that way, Honestly. I 91 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 4: was like, should I be offended as. 92 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: Though because of the snake title? Is that why? 93 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: Yes? 94 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: I was just like surprised, you know what I mean, 95 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 4: because like, the one I picked for him was flirty, 96 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 4: cute or whatever. 97 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: So how did you tell him that you didn't like 98 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:12,839 Speaker 1: the plant that he bought. 99 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 4: I kind of just made a joke of it because 100 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 4: it's like he's still buying me something, right, So I'm 101 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 4: not going to be a jerk. 102 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,239 Speaker 1: You could be a jerk. I'm just saying that's always 103 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: on the table to slap the plant down out of 104 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: his hands and be like try again. 105 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 5: Well then I don't think she'd be calling us and 106 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 5: asking why he's. 107 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: Well, it was like so fun because we acted that 108 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 4: we went out for drinks because there was like a 109 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 4: bar inside the mall, but we brought our plants with 110 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 4: and it was like super cute and like everybody was 111 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 4: like coming by and looking at them and saying like, 112 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 4: what's the story on this? It was funny, and the 113 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 4: whole time I felt super comfortable and like it even 114 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 4: ended with a kiss. So yeah, all. 115 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 5: Right, this all sounds good, Like I mean, I could 116 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 5: totally understand why you're so confused why he's not calling back. 117 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, me, especially since we even named our plants. 118 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 3: Oh they're real plant baby after each. 119 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: Other, Like what you name? 120 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 7: So his plant was Gertrude, yes okay, and my was 121 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 7: Leif Ericson like the explorer. 122 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 5: Yeah all right, have you texted as Leif Ericson? 123 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 3: I mean that's the obvious, like misses you, I can't 124 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: considered it now. 125 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: Is anybody worried here that maybe the plant joke went 126 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: on a little bit too long? 127 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,119 Speaker 3: I think it was the love Forern from the rom com. 128 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: You know, like you killed our love for your plant 129 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 3: is still alive, right? 130 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. You know what's funny is I I did 131 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 4: find out I do have a bit of a green thumb. 132 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 3: To keep alive. 133 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm actually a little bit more concerned about 134 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 1: getting your guys's plants back together because I feel like 135 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 1: maybe they had the real love connection. 136 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 3: You don't want to separated plant family, well. 137 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 1: But also you don't want like plant parents hooking up 138 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: with the plant kids, you know what I mean. 139 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 3: No, I don't think they're the same family. Now you're 140 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 3: making it weird. 141 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm making it weird. Okay, I took it too far. 142 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 5: You know what. 143 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: Fine, We're gonna call plant daddy Derek and see why 144 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: he isn't arranging another date with you when we do 145 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: your second date update. Right after this second date update, 146 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 1: Casson and Derek have been on one date and already 147 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: have two kids together, plant children that they picked out 148 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: for each other at a nursery during their date. They 149 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: even named their plants Gertrude and Leif Ericsson's. 150 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: Solid Solid Day, brought their plants to the restaurant together, 151 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 2: put them in high chairs with little bibs on fed them. 152 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: I mean you can assume, you can assume that their 153 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: good parents like that. 154 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure they ordered a rounded chicken tenders. 155 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: Yes, I mean pretty normal first date as far as 156 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: we've heard. 157 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 5: It's actually an adorable first date, and they bought plants together. 158 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: The crazy thing is most of the plant enthusiasm was 159 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: actually led by Derek, which I didn't expect. So it 160 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: is weird that he is not initiating another meet up. 161 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: The thing is, we never asked Cassie how many days 162 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: has it been since that all happened. 163 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 4: So I haven't seen him five days. 164 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: That's four decades in plant years, so we can only 165 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,239 Speaker 1: imagine how your children. 166 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: I don't know, but. 167 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: Pretty quick. 168 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 3: So have you heard from him at all? 169 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? So there's been taxing, but there's been no initiation 170 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 4: of a second day. 171 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so you're in communication? 172 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it just feels like it fell off a 173 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 3: little bit. 174 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, do you think your help in figuring 175 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 4: this out? 176 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let's call this deadbeat plant dad and figure 177 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: out what. 178 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 3: He's taking care grew trude, Okay, I. 179 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: Mean at least we hope. So I don't like that 180 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: he's not talking you, Cassie, So let's call him. We'll 181 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: see if he picks up. 182 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you. 183 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 6: If he does an answer, can we do textual healing 184 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 6: at least because I really want to do idea? 185 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: Yes? All right, plant therapy maybe too. So here we go. 186 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm calling right now. 187 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 7: Hello. 188 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: Hey is this Derek? 189 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, Irek. 190 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: Sorry to barge into your day here, but you're on 191 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: the radio right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 192 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: Good morning. 193 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 3: Okay, that's weird, you said. Sorry, your phone's a little 194 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 3: hot to hear, Derek. 195 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, this is a little weird. I don't usually get 196 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 6: radio stations call him in the morning. 197 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: I don't think most people do. So you're in the 198 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: general population with that one. That's fine, Derek. 199 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 3: I think we're calling you for a great reason though. 200 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a second we do called second date update. 201 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 6: I don't like that. 202 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: Do you sound like one of our commentors from the podcast? 203 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 204 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you even know anything about it? 205 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I figure it's you're calling me till somebody 206 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 6: wants to reach out. 207 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: Okay, smart, So yeah, you're right. There is a girl 208 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: that listens to our show who said she went out 209 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: with you recently named. 210 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 5: Cassie and it sounded like an adorable date. So just 211 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 5: so you know, she does know that you guys have 212 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 5: been texting a little bit. It just feels like you're 213 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 5: maybe not interested or something. 214 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 6: I mean, I'm I'm kind of interested, but at the moment, 215 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 6: I'm not kind of interested. 216 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: Kind of but not kind of. Okay, you were pretty clear, so. 217 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 3: No, wonder she's so I don't know why I should 218 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 3: be complete. 219 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: Well, I hope you don't mind if we dive a 220 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: little bit deeper into that and ask you why. 221 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 6: I just need some more time. 222 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 1: Oh, what's going on? 223 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 3: Are you in a relationship? 224 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 6: No, I'm single. 225 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: I'm some you're single? Okay? And you and you liked Cassie? 226 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 6: Right, yeah, I mean I like her. I just made 227 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 6: a big mistake. 228 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:08,559 Speaker 3: Mistake. 229 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: What no girlfriend, But you made a mistake. But you 230 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: like her? But you also don't like her yet? 231 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: But a mistake with who? Because she really likes you? 232 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 6: Okay, I'll just tell you, but you can't tell her. 233 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: We won't say we none of us here will say 234 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: anything to her. 235 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 4: Yes, So I. 236 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 6: Don't know if she told you. But we bought each 237 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 6: other plants on our date. 238 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it seemed kind of like cute and movie ish. 239 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: Yeah we even knew Gertrude and Leif Erickson. 240 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: Okay, right right, yeah we named him Okay. 241 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 6: But when we weren't even them all, I didn't realize. 242 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 6: I left Gertrude the roof of my car, so I 243 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 6: drove away. Yeah, I heard her bump. I didn't know 244 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 6: what it was, so I backed up and I ran over. 245 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: Your own plant. 246 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: Dramatic, baby, you killed Trude? 247 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: Hello, yeah, dere she was supposed to wait. But that 248 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: that's Cassie. I wanted to talk to you on the 249 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: other line, okays in Gertrude, Oh god, oh. 250 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 4: My god, didn't you try it to save her? 251 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 6: So, Cassie, I really didn't know you were on the phone. 252 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 6: I didn't know you heard any of that. 253 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 4: I cannot believe that. I can't believe this. She's dead. 254 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: Did you try at least bring her back to life? 255 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: But what what did you do with Gertrude afterwards? 256 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 257 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 4: Where is her body? 258 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 6: I mean, my god, plants just as much as everybody else, 259 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 6: but you guys directly like it's a human being. 260 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 5: But listen, listen, why would you not be calling her back? 261 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 5: Just because the plant fell off the car. 262 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 6: I was gonna go ahead and get a new plant 263 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 6: to trying. 264 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: To take it the second day. 265 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 4: You were going to try and replace. 266 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: Her, You mean with the same exact plan. 267 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I went back the next day to see 268 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 6: if they had the same plant, and they didn't. 269 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: Even went back. Yeah, you're going to pass off the 270 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 1: new planet as Gertrude and try and trick Cassie to 271 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: thinking it was the same one. 272 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 3: Just tell her the truth. Cassie would think it's a 273 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 3: cute story. 274 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 4: I don't know. 275 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: She sounds pretty upset. 276 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 4: I don't even know what to say. I mean, Gertrude, Man, 277 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 4: there's only one girtrue. 278 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 6: Is the only one? 279 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? 280 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, Cassie, you're being like funny right now, right, 281 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 5: you're not being serious. 282 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 2: Kind of my gush. 283 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 4: It's really troubling, though, is it. 284 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 6: Well? 285 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: Because he ran it back over agains, oh, come up, 286 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: and then disposed of the body. 287 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 3: It's not like it says anything about who he is. 288 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 3: You're a good person. 289 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 4: He meant something to you that it just grows back 290 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: sh Obviously did mean something to you, Cassie. 291 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 3: That's why he went back to the store the next day. 292 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: That's a good boy. 293 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 6: See, I'm a good guy. I don't murder plants all 294 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 6: the time. I buy them and keep them alive. 295 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: He tries to keep. 296 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 6: I mean, Cassie, I've never run over one before. 297 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: This was the first, Jimmy. 298 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 3: Technically, if you ever driven on grass, you've ever driven? 299 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we mean that he hasn't been driven 300 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: over his own plant child. Your husband does work, okay, 301 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Cassie, can you see what he's saying? Like 302 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: only a good guy would go through all of that 303 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: effort to hide the evidence of destroying your plant baby 304 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: together and try and cover it up with a different 305 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: plant and then ghost you until the new plant comes in. 306 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 3: H wait, so the new plant is coming. 307 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 6: So, yes, it took five days to get here. It's 308 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 6: coming tomorrow. That's what I've been waiting for. 309 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 7: Okay, So you were. 310 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 3: Gonna one more day, you were gonna just ask her out? Then? 311 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was waiting for tomorrow making sure the plan 312 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 6: got here, so in case she came over and saw 313 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 6: that there was no plant, I wouldn't get in trouble. 314 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: Jess, is a lot for you to process. What are 315 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 1: you thinking right now? 316 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 4: I mean, I am I'm honestly heartbroken. I'm surprised at 317 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 4: how heartbroken I am over her. True, but I can 318 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 4: understand the sentiment. 319 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the good news is it sounds like if 320 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: you guys ever got married, he definitely wouldn't be the 321 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: type of person trying and hide money from you or 322 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: like keep secrets until like they came up years later. 323 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, calm down, Okay, this true. 324 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 3: That was a weird jump there, Jess. 325 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: You want to ask. 326 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 5: I think he is so cute and he's going through 327 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 5: all this effort just to make sure that you feel 328 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 5: good and feel happy. 329 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 3: Cassie. That should be a huge plus for you. 330 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 6: It's not like I goos to you. We've been texting 331 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 6: back and forth. 332 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: That's true. He's been talking, just not committing well. So 333 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: instead of asking him first, I'm gonna ask Cassie, would 334 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: you like to see Derek again despite what you've heard 335 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: here on the show today? 336 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 4: Honestly I would. I think I'd give it another try. 337 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: And you have to talk about a new name for 338 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: that plant. If Derek says yes to the second day, 339 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: because we will pay for it. 340 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: Derek, it's up to you. This is your opportunity to get. 341 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 4: Want any reminder of Gertrude, we have to call her 342 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 4: something out. 343 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: The plant Murderer's Daughter is a good place to start. 344 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: That sounds like a novel. 345 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, three part series coming soon to Amazon and get 346 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: your orders in now. 347 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 6: By the way, By the way, how's Lee Perrickson doing. 348 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 4: Oh, he's thriving. He is thriving, and by driving, has. 349 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: Grown up so fast. You guys, plants and cars do 350 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: not mix. That's the murder mystery. Leaf killed Gertrude insurance 351 00:15:58,680 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: money for himself. 352 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 3: Now, I'm not gonna read it. 353 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning, I think we were all 354 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: kind of leaning heavy into the drama of what happened 355 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: there when Derek's. 356 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 3: Playing Yeah, let's crack that statement real quick. 357 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 5: Well, you and Jose Yeah, you were doing lots of 358 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 5: like whoa, I know. 359 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: We're being dramatic. The good news is that clearer heads 360 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: did prevail in the end, and Cassie was I don't 361 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: want to say like able to get over Gertrude, because 362 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: we never will. She's always going to be in our 363 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: hearts and in our compost bins. But to Gertrude, we 364 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: just want to say you were a bright light in 365 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: this world and in all of our lives and the 366 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: lives of all of our listeners, taken from us far 367 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: too soon. 368 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 5: Can you just start this with maybe we were a 369 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 5: little over dramatic. 370 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but now I'm getting back into it now, just 371 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: because I know, Gertrude you are smiling down at us 372 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: from plant Heaven right now, watching over all of us 373 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: and blessing our show with your good green vibes. 374 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 6: I'm still confident if we bury a plan and it 375 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 6: gets sunlight and water, it will just regrow again. 376 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 377 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 3: Well, you know, Brooke is forgetting her name for sure 378 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 3: in one hour. 379 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: We'll never forget Gertrude, never forget it. We'll never let 380 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: you forget Brooke. 381 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 3: It's not worth it. 382 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: Gerch would be love you, Okay, do well up there 383 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: and texting seven A five nine two email the show 384 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: if you need help for a second date update. We'll 385 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: call that person who's not calling you 386 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 3: Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.