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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, Welcome back to bet Your Happy Hour. I'm

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Speaker 1: Joe and I am here with a special co host today,

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Speaker 1: Charity Charity. Welcome to betcher Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: Thank you Joe. This is crazy that we're co hosting together.

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Speaker 2: Who would have ever thought.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know, well you've you've probably been on

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Speaker 1: this podcast more than anyone. I would think a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had my fair turns of interviewing with you all,

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Speaker 3: but this is a different this is a different side.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: You know, you have to show up now, you really

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Speaker 1: really Yeah, Actually that's not true. I would say there's

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Speaker 1: probably there's probably more pressure being the one that's being interviewed.

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Speaker 2: You think, yeah, yeah, I don't. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: a loose cannon. So when I'm interviewing, I'm just like

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Speaker 2: or being interviewed. I don't really care. I don't think

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Speaker 2: too much.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like yeah, but like when I could

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Speaker 1: just like, since I'm doing the interview, I could just

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Speaker 1: badger you with questions. If like somebody's like very like

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Speaker 1: you know, they answer you know, very quickly, I could

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Speaker 1: just keep going with question. Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Fin it depends, It depends on the person.

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Speaker 1: It really does. I don't know what I'm saying. This

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Speaker 1: is starting off starting off from Okay, let's let's get

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Speaker 1: into it. So we have hometowns, and the first hometown

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Speaker 1: is Juliana in Newton, Massachusetts. I will say, Grant is

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Speaker 1: giving me like I'm tired energy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I was.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was just like I was like, okay,

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Speaker 3: this is the first but like first hometown episode. What

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Speaker 3: is my thoughts of Grant? But like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like his energy was. I'm sorry, I love Grant.

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Speaker 2: But I'm like it was giving nothing.

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Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, this poor man is probably exhausted,

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Speaker 3: and like rightfully so his season is going by truly

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Speaker 3: so fast. So I could only like I think I

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Speaker 3: was on the same like recording or filming schedule as him,

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Speaker 3: maybe one week longer. But it's just like I know

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Speaker 3: at this point, you were like he's beat tired. So

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Speaker 3: I saw it all over his face, his mannerisms, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, is it just Juliana. But I think

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Speaker 3: he was like that probably with everyone, which was like okay, every.

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Speaker 1: Every single every single hometown. I was like, this guy, either,

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Speaker 1: this guy is really exhausted or he's just.

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Speaker 2: Like completely.

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Speaker 1: So we go, we go to a pizza place. It's

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Speaker 1: really like your stereotypical Italian neighborhood by the being about

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Speaker 1: the boom, you know, the fucking pizza. Come, let's make

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Speaker 1: a pizza. Yeah, they went. They they got Canole's. I

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Speaker 1: don't like Connole's personally, never had.

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Speaker 2: We Actually I've had one. I don't think I'm a

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Speaker 1: To be honest, what's your favorite dessert?

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Speaker 2: Italian dessert or in.

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Speaker 1: General, let's do Italian dessert?

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Speaker 2: Is cheesecake Italian? Right?

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Speaker 1: No, does it sound Italian? Cheesecake? Couldn't be more American cheesecake.

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Speaker 1: That is that cheesecake is America. That is what we

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Speaker 1: would think that I.

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Speaker 2: Said out with the most confidence ever, is a cheesecake.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know if I've had an Italian desert,

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Speaker 3: that's crazy, don't have.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had Tara Massu?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not my favorite though, Okay, that's feah fair

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Speaker 3: like my mine's panacatta that's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: It's just like heavy cream.

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Speaker 3: Really literally not do that would do not wonders on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's how Serena is too okay, So we go,

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Speaker 1: we go to her hometown. We go to a family party.

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Speaker 1: There's like a thousand people there.

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Speaker 2: I literally was like, this is the biggest home.

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know, maybe because I'm used to just

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Speaker 3: poor grand.

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Speaker 1: And Latia's I mean, we'll talk about Latia's hometown, yes,

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Speaker 1: but that also no insane.

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Speaker 2: That's an I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: As a lead, that is a nightmare, like walking in

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Speaker 3: knowing that you have to make your rounds to that

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Speaker 3: many people. And keep in mind, we're we just got

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Speaker 2: He's probably like, fuck.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but Harry, you were you were a lead, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for your first hometown. Ever, would you rather walk into

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Speaker 2: Intimate any day?

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Speaker 3: Give me intimately, Like I'd rather have like substantial like

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just not I'm good at small talk.

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Speaker 3: But I don't, like, it's not something I want to

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Speaker 3: do with like thirty plus people, not at all, Like

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Speaker 3: that's so exhausting. I'm so sorry, And I feel like people,

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Speaker 3: at least for me, it's like once you have those

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Speaker 3: that's not how I want someone to like read me,

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Speaker 3: if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's fair. I prefer to the other way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I prefer to be thrown in the lions. Then I

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Speaker 1: then I'll just feel good, like and then I'll feel

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Speaker 1: like like I know what I'm doing after because then

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Speaker 1: everything will be easier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, you think, but it doesn't always go

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Speaker 1: I would just I don't know, I just I you know,

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Speaker 1: I feel like talking to parents is just awkward in general,

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Speaker 1: like that first meaning and then like having to do it.

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Speaker 1: It is setting where like you're dating other people and

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Speaker 1: they know and they know you're on a show, and

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Speaker 1: they're like is this even real? And you're like, I

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Speaker 1: think I'm in love, but I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 1: in love. It's just like it's like what are we

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Speaker 1: what are we supposed to say? Here? What did you?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about this hometown in general?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I like, obviously I think like Grant and

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Speaker 3: Juliana are like compatible to a certain extent, but I

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Speaker 3: feel like and they're very they're very cute together, so

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Speaker 3: like I love them together. I just feel like, at

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Speaker 3: how it's progressed up until this point. Like I feel

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Speaker 3: like they're each other's like safe space, but I don't

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Speaker 3: that makes sense. I feel like it's like the safe

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Speaker 1: Interesting, so you think you think this is they're like

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Speaker 1: this would be like a settle, like they're settling.

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Speaker 3: I don't like using that word because it sounds so

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Speaker 3: bad when you say it out loud, like.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying it does, but that's really what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: That's what you're saying saying.

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Speaker 3: I think it's like and you know, we still have

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Speaker 3: what I'm waiting for. Like obviously their their last one

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Speaker 3: on one date was like they you know, Juliana shared

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Speaker 3: like what she went through like as a child and

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Speaker 3: growing up, like things that were really impactful and it

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Speaker 3: really aligned like very similarly with Grant, and I thought

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Speaker 3: that was like, Okay, this is really great for them

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Speaker 3: because they can definitely like resonate on that together. But

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Speaker 3: to me, I still feel like I'm like I'm waiting

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Speaker 2: Just a spark, you don't, yeah, Like I feel I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, Okay, it's like it's cute, but I'm like I

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Speaker 3: want to feel like, Okay, this is like hobby.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I will. I will say that was one thing we

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Speaker 1: we always when we were watching the show always said

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Speaker 1: about you and Dotton was there was there was that

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Speaker 1: initial spark there yeah, and it progressed as the season

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Speaker 1: I feel like I think Grant really likes Juliana and

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Speaker 1: I think she really likes him. Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 1: they really like each other.

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Speaker 3: No, it's it's without liking. No, it's they definitely like

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Speaker 3: each other. I am not like discounting that at.

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Speaker 1: All, No, but that's what I'm That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: When you were when you were talking to Dotton, I

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Speaker 1: remember Serena and I were like, oh, Charity's like in

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Speaker 1: love with this guy. Literally, yeah, but it could also

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Speaker 1: be it could also be both of their personalities too, right,

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Speaker 1: And that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like I don't really know.

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Speaker 3: Like, well what we see from Juliana, but like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: so I'm like she seems like she's someone who is,

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Speaker 2: It's just like it becomes very like cute. See.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I sound really bad saying this, And

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Speaker 3: I'm not like they're so cute.

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Speaker 2: And I like they I love them together, but I'm

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Speaker 1: Like it's like, yeah, something's missing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Basically, Juliana talks about like being hurt in her past.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to discredit that at all, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like every season we have someone.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: You did you you were someone that's been hurt in

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Speaker 1: your past, like everyone.

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Speaker 2: I was like I watched her package and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, everybody that goes out the Bachelor, for the

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Speaker 1: most part, has been hurt in the past.

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Speaker 3: Or its almost like it's a pre work. You cannot

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Speaker 3: get on this show without being hurt.

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Speaker 1: So for sure, what did you think the parents? I

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Speaker 1: feel I felt like the parents conversation was pretty solid.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I feel like Grant knew how to

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Speaker 1: talk to her father and like they were kind.

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Speaker 2: Of a really good job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they were kind of on the same page. I

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Speaker 1: think he like, like the Italian father really wanted. I

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Speaker 1: feel like he knew like how to talk to him

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Speaker 1: and he did a really good job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It worked definitely, Like yeah, set in that role like

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent, Like he was like a little like

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Speaker 3: you know very much, dad. But I think as a lead,

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Speaker 3: I feel like it can sway either way with like

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Speaker 3: I think Granted like a phenomenal job, Like he was

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Speaker 3: not backing out. I think he was very like transparent

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Speaker 2: Of the hometowns in that way, it'll make more sense.

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Speaker 3: But like I think I still stand by what I

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Speaker 2: Like he feels safe with her, she feels safe with him.

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Speaker 3: It like full confirmation that this, without a doubt is

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Speaker 1: Overnights, I mean overnights could change that in.

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Speaker 2: One thousand perc and we know we truly know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a soft spot for Zoe. I'm not

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Speaker 1: I like Zoe. I like Zoe. I thought, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I literally wrote, I was like, bad luck. This is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bad luck for sure. And it felt like it

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Speaker 3: No, literally, I was like, this is like a copy

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Speaker 3: that they emphasized and they focused on like what Zoe

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know if brands really like

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Speaker 1: Well, I think I think Grant. I think Grant. I

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he chooses Zoe. But I don't

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Speaker 2: You say that just because okay I say it.

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Speaker 1: No, No, No, I just think I don't. I just

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Speaker 1: don't think he's picking her. I I think I just

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Speaker 2: Not like like that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: He also had Alex and Serafina, So I'm like he

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Speaker 1: Yeah he did, Yeah, he did have options. Maybe I

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No.

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Speaker 3: And I could only imagine from his standpoint too, like

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Speaker 2: Was his choice. Like I said, like obviously he sat.

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Speaker 3: There at the Row ceremony and he had to make

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Speaker 3: because like Zoe's gray and she also deserves like you

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Speaker 3: But I'm in my head and just from what we've seen,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm not taking I could have

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Speaker 2: never been. But let's let's be real. It could have

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, I was trying to give everyone a chance,

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Speaker 2: So I was like, you're not, Like it's just not

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Speaker 3: You're not coming to hometown without a one on one

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Speaker 3: and so like to see Grant handle this, like I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't think you're wrong at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He Zoe's stepparents. She said she cut ties with them

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Speaker 1: a year ago. She was adopted, but I have a question,

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Speaker 1: is her sister was there? Is that her real sister

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Speaker 2: I want to say, her real sister? I believe so Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think she mentioned it earlier on in this season.

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Speaker 1: So the one thing that really stuck out to me

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Speaker 1: I'm not choosing, I'm not choosing.

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Speaker 2: So oh wait, okay did I wait? I need to

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Speaker 2: know how did you pick up on that?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm like, I'm looking at my notes and I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 3: I said they were both voting back. Yeah, the parent

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Speaker 2: Wait, tell me.

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Speaker 1: Well, because he said he's falling for Juliana and he

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Speaker 1: looked I think he really respects Zoe and I think

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Speaker 1: he really likes Zoe, and he emphasized like he told

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Speaker 2: That's a good catch because I also like.

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Speaker 1: So I and I think she read it as well

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Speaker 1: just not going to choose my sister, but he respects her,

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Speaker 1: and that's kind of That's how I read it.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the sister seemed she's somewhat seemed oddly at peace

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, watch it again, watch it again.

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Speaker 2: I will have to go back. Oh like not the

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Speaker 1: Overall, What do you think about this hometown?

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Speaker 2: I thought it was good. I mean it was it

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Speaker 3: I think it you know, I really do like how

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Speaker 2: And I think she does like.

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Speaker 3: Carry herself well and like her aunt said, just as

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Speaker 2: So you definitely see that.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, like I think it was definitely a little

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Speaker 2: But their little conversations.

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Speaker 3: I guess leading up is why Brant said he like

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was like it didn't really.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, same, I agree. So you put Juliana

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Speaker 1: Where's Zoey?

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Speaker 2: She's below that? But like so safe?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get right.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying not to use like in correct words, but like, okay,

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Speaker 3: Grant respects her. So I think to that if you

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Speaker 3: I respect you, I have a lot of respect for you,

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Speaker 3: and I I like you, But like I don't think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, No, that's how I feel too.

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Speaker 2: I would feel like, yeah, I think I would be

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Speaker 1: So, okay, so now we're going into Mormon country. We're

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Speaker 1: we're going We're going no, no, no, okay, So Letia is Mormon.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Do you think she should have shared that information with

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So the thing is is like part of me

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Speaker 2: You know how that happens.

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Speaker 3: It's like okay, like I bring up something or you

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Speaker 2: To like draw on him.

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Speaker 3: But I think she they probably had like a mutual

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Speaker 3: So like she probably thought not much about it, if

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Speaker 3: don't think obviously is not Mormon, it could be a

442
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 3: bit of a life adjustment.

443
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 2: And I think when he well.

444
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 1: I guess, but I guess only if if she like

445
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 1: wanted him to convert to Mormonism, which it doesn't seem

446
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 1: like she does, doesn't seem like that.

447
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, did she.

448
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,159
Speaker 3: Even mention that. I don't think she did. She just

449
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 3: like I'm from, like you know, I am of Mormon faith.

450
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 3: I gree at Mormon religion. So it's like I don't

451
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 3: think she ever mentioned like I need this, like this

452
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,479
Speaker 3: is going to be a part of my life with

453
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 3: you in it. I think she just was sharing, like

454
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 3: this is how I have been raised. And so I

455
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 3: think that's like a different lens that people should like

456
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 3: consider because I think, like, obviously they're two grown adults,

457
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 3: like she's going to make the best decision in him too.

458
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,640
Speaker 3: For their lives together if Yeah, and she.

459
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,679
Speaker 1: Did mention when she wants her kids to grow up

460
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 1: in the church, so that's also that's also like his

461
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 1: because he might be like, no, like I don't want that,

462
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 1: and that that could be a deal breaker.

463
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, so yeah, it's it's interesting, but I

464
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 3: definitely do think that she could have or should have

465
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 3: said it a little bit earlier.

466
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 1: Are you are you religious?

467
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm Christian?

468
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 1: So you're Christian? Now? Is that now? It's none of

469
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: my business what what you and Dalton want to do.

470
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 1: But like if Donton was like, no, I don't want

471
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 1: to raise my kids with the Christian faith, would that

472
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: have been a deal breaker for you? Oh really? Okay?

473
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:57,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay yeah.

474
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 3: And the thing is it's like I'm like, I take

475
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 3: like my relationship with or my faith like as a

476
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 3: personal relationship with God, and like so does so does Dawan,

477
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 3: which is like where there is an alignment, like I

478
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,439
Speaker 3: try not to get to like caught up on just

479
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: like you know, religion and like the code of all

480
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 3: of that, because I think that's where a lot of

481
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 3: people like it can get very tricky. But like ask me,

482
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 3: I will talk about my relationship with God, I will

483
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 3: talk about my faith and that's where it is, and

484
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 3: I plan to do that for my kids. So I

485
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 3: think that's where like the alignment happens.

486
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, like it would.

487
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 3: Be a deal break if he was like absolutely not

488
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 3: my kids that.

489
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, absolutely that Okay. So we get we

490
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: go to Wyoming, beautiful, beautiful house. Another another like we're

491
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,119
Speaker 1: not it's not intimate. There is one hundred people on

492
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: the front lawn.

493
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 2: No, it's insane. I was like, what is this acation?

494
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was. It was wild. And they're

495
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: doing like the Mormon thing where they make they make sodas,

496
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 1: you know that's a big thing.

497
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't even know. This is what I'm saying.

498
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: I'm reading up on a lot of things. I'm like,

499
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 3: SODA's a big deal.

500
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, ye Grant. Grant was. He was definitely panicking prior.

501
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 1: This was the date. I thought he was the most

502
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:15,959
Speaker 1: nervous going into it.

503
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 2: Seemed like absolutely absolutely his energy really off that day.

504
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: But I thought, I mean, the family like they seem

505
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: to be fully acceptant of him, and we're totally like, hey,

506
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: like we're Mormon, this is what we believe. You don't

507
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: need to do that. We're we accept you either way,

508
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 1: just as long as you're a man of.

509
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 3: Faith faith, which I like. I think that was the

510
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 3: point in the episode. I was like, I really do

511
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 3: admire them vocalizing that and verbalizing that to him. It

512
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 3: was really important because I think in his mind that

513
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 3: like definitely lifted a weight off his shoulders. He probably

514
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 3: was like oh my god the whole time. But he's

515
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 3: like okay, and like you can even tell that like his.

516
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 2: Interview after Yeah, yeah, his energy.

517
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 3: Definitely like it was a lot like looser and happier

518
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 3: after having that conversation with the parents.

519
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: And I really like, I love that. I just loved it.

520
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 2: And her family is very sweet.

521
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 1: Very yeah. I mean I would have walk in. I

522
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: would have been like, all right, I guess fuck it,

523
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: I'm lying, I'll be a Mormon, let's go, let's go people.

524
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: But I really, I really, I really like Letilla. I

525
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: think she's got a great personality. I I think they

526
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: to me, I feel like they're the strongest, like they

527
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: have the strongest connection. I agree for sure.

528
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 2: Right one thousand percent.

529
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 3: And I say this because I'm like, this is in

530
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 3: comparison to everyone else. I feel like the conversation like substance,

531
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: like the depth of it, it goes beyond surface level,

532
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 3: and like that is what I'm looking for as a

533
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 3: you were watching this like Okay, how can I like

534
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: distinguish between who potentially is going to like possibly be

535
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 3: or become the fiance the wife later down the road.

536
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: And it's like I feel like they are conversations of

537
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 3: what is shown at least is telling us like Okay,

538
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 3: this is like solid material, like this is a strong relationship.

539
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, he really like opened up to her.

540
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: I thought every time they're talking.

541
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: I mean, he's shown up to everybody else's house half tired,

542
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 1: and then letia, he's opening up his heart. So I'm

543
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,479
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, like this, this to me is a

544
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 1: no brainer. And I and I felt I was like, Okay,

545
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: she dropped you know, Mormon. I don't want to be like, oh,

546
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: she dropped the Mormon bomb on him, because it's not

547
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: that big of a deal, but she essentially opened up

548
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: about about being Mormon.

549
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

550
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: And I could sense like some hesitation, like Grant worrying

551
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: if they were going to accept him or not. But

552
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: then after the date, they were so good at being

553
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 1: like we fully accept you regardless to me, I'm kind

554
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: of like, oh, then, how do you not like Letia

555
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: is who you're choosing exactly?

556
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 3: And that's exactly how I felt, I will say, and

557
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: I wanted to see if you closed this when watching

558
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: that episode when he sat down with I don't know

559
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 3: if it was Litia's mom or.

560
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 2: Her stepdad when they were mentioning.

561
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 3: Like her timeline of like how quickly she wanted to

562
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: have kids?

563
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: Did you did you mint? Like did you peep that?

564
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 2: And I kind of yeah, so I made a note.

565
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 3: It was like they had a conversation to where Again,

566
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: we don't know if Lytia talked about it or I

567
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 3: don't know, maybe I missed it if she talked about

568
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 3: this with Grant, but like basically her timeline of wanting

569
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 3: to have kids like very very soon, and I wonder

570
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 3: like too, And he didn't seem like it was like

571
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: off putting, but I could tell he was like a

572
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 3: little like, okay, like this.

573
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 2: Is possibly new information in me.

574
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 3: I could be wrong, but like seeing him take that in,

575
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, really interesting to have her parents

576
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 3: kind of introduce that new concept to him about like

577
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 3: where she was at in her life of like Okay,

578
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 3: she's gonna want to have kids like in the next

579
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 3: year or two.

580
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah that could be. You know. The

581
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: truth is now that you mentioned that Grant hasn't really

582
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: vocalized much about wanting to like start a family and

583
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: have kids on this in this entire season, and I

584
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: feel like the most leads usually talk about that.

585
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, he says he wants a family, but like that's

586
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 3: as that's as much as we get. We don't go

587
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 3: in specific, so like I want to be like I'm

588
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 3: ready to have like.

589
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 2: Be a dad like soon. It's just like I want

590
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 2: a family.

591
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I want a family in fifteen years. That's

592
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: when I want a family. I also wrote out that

593
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: they played tugle war. I just was like thinking that

594
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: was crazy.

595
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 3: That was a Grant please let go, like he like

596
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 3: did not let go of the rope, and how he

597
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 3: was getting dried.

598
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: If this was my hope toil that I had something

599
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 1: dare were playing tugle war in the front, he would

600
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: lily be like, go fuck yourself. You think I'm getting

601
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: up and playing war war? But yeah, overall, I feel

602
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: like this is the strongest couple. Yeah yeah, okay, now

603
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: now we go to Chicago, Dina, she says that her

604
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: family's not going to be there, which her parents not

605
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: being there. I hate that really bothers me.

606
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 3: No, if I started, like I literally started crying for

607
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 3: her and like also for Grant, but mainly for her,

608
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 3: because you can tell that she was like slightly disappointed.

609
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 3: I don't know if she knew that going into hometown

610
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 3: that her parents weren't going to like show up or

611
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: like be willing to participate, but like hearing her, like

612
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 3: the whole, like the whole tone of the day was

613
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 3: just it.

614
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: Was very like said, it was just sad.

615
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 3: There was nothing I'm sorry, like gorgeous, girl, beautiful, smart,

616
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 3: all the above, but there was nothing that was like

617
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 3: positive about it besides her friends being there and supporting her.

618
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 3: It was really me, really sad because I was like,

619
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 3: I just wonder like if it would have been different,

620
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 3: if that makes sense, and I'm sure it would have.

621
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure would have. But for for me, it's

622
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: like I I could totally get behind and understand you

623
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: not even liking the show and being like somewhat against

624
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: what the show is and what it represents, right, fine,

625
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: but like be there for your kid, like this is

626
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: your kid, like like be there. Like to me, that's

627
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: like that's showing more immaturity than what you think the

628
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: show is, right, right.

629
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: I have to put all things aside truly, because I'm like, yeah,

630
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: like it's your kid exactly. Like I was like, oh,

631
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: like I mean literally same almost same. I was like,

632
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 2: my like we.

633
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 3: Obviously we just got through talking about my religion being

634
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 3: of Christian faith, like we grew up in the church.

635
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: Like obviously none of this the concept of this show

636
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: is probably against everybody's religion, Like no one's supposed to

637
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 3: be dating eighty eight people at.

638
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: The same time, so like everyone loses, but.

639
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 3: Like my parents would have never like just not and like,

640
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: I just feel so much for her because I could

641
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 3: tell like she was probably thinking in that moment, like

642
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: is this going to change the course of our relationship?

643
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 2: Like the whole day, and I wish she.

644
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 3: Could have probably enjoyed it, and she was obviously really

645
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 3: happy to like we see her friends come and support her.

646
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 3: But I don't know, like I feel like in the

647
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 3: back of her mind she was always thinking about.

648
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, yeah, I was nice having your friends there.

649
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: I I actually thought, Grant, that was the most relaxed.

650
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: Grant seemed to.

651
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: Be okay, well, yeah, it was like it was nothing.

652
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll hang I'll just hang out, let's like do whatever. Yeah,

653
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: like zero pressure. I don't think like I don't think.

654
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't think he was picking Dina ever.

655
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: Really well, yeah, I don't really have. I mean, from

656
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: what I saw, like not a whole ton of chemistry.

657
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: No, it just seems more of the it's more of

658
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: the safe friendship.

659
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 2: Like the colleague relationship.

660
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the relations like I trust, like he

661
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Speaker 1: trusts the Dina. Like when Dina said something about Carolina,

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Speaker 1: He's like, Okay, I trust what you're saying. So I

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Speaker 1: think it was definitely more of like a friend zone.

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Speaker 1: So I don't really think the parents being there were

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Speaker 1: was make our break, But I just think for her,

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Speaker 1: like it would have been nice to have that support.

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Speaker 3: And like, yeah, it just was really sad when I think, well,

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Speaker 3: we'll get there when we got back to once we

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Speaker 3: get back to LA.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so okay, so we're there, we go to

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Speaker 1: because we don't really have to talk much more about this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we go to uh, we go to LA and he

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Speaker 1: sends Dina home and she was kind of like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like it makes sense.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't really a very accepting and I will applaug

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Speaker 3: her on that because I was like, we didn't see

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Speaker 3: a whole I mean, like it was sad, but we

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00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,479
Speaker 3: didn't see crocodile tears.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't the dramatic.

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00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: She was just very like practical about it, which I

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00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 3: was like, yes, girl, absolutely like you you had.

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Speaker 2: Your head in the right place this whole time.

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Speaker 3: And the reality of it is like it's probably going

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00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 3: to be very hard for anybody to like considering the

685
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 3: basis of the show is like in two weeks you

686
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 3: were getting engaged, and you would want your parents blessing.

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Speaker 3: That would probably also if they chose to not come again,

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00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: they would never like meet.

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Speaker 2: The guy that you're proposed or who's proposing to you.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: So I I love that she just had a good

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00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: outlook on that and it wasn't like a whole like

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Speaker 3: super sad sad moment for her. It's more like empowering

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Speaker 3: and just like okay, straight to the point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she she just comes up. She seems very

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Speaker 1: intelligent and like pretty socially aware, and I think she

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Speaker 1: just I just think she knew like I didn't like, like,

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Speaker 1: I think like if if he sent Latilla home, I

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00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: think we all would have been like shocked, including her.

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Speaker 2: It would have been like what would have been gagged?

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00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, what the what the fuck? But now, okay, so

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Speaker 1: now we have we have Latia, Zoe, and Juliana mm hmm.

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00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: And to me, yeah, like the front runner right now

704
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: is Latia, and then I would I would I would

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00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: put Juliana ahead of her, and then and then Zobe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean overnights could change things.

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Speaker 2: Overnights can change a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: You think, so like overnight could change your decision, right,

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Speaker 1: it really can.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you the conversations that you have and overnights

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Speaker 3: if you're doing them right, Yes, a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: A lot of things like.

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Speaker 1: Or they don't that's.

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Speaker 2: What they know one of the other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, yeah, I think I think home or

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Speaker 1: overnights could definitely change things. Overall. I think it was

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Speaker 1: pretty pretty standard hometowns. I think this is the first

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Speaker 1: time we got like two houses where we had like

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Speaker 1: eighty five family members there. Yeah, but yeah, pretty pretty straightforward.

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Speaker 3: Any else, I was like shocked at the girls got

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Speaker 3: to see like we did not get to see each

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Speaker 3: other after hometown.

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Speaker 2: Oh really Yeah, I was like not them having.

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Speaker 3: Like Kumbaya moment and like sip in like whatever, like

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Speaker 3: at a bar.

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Speaker 2: I was like, this is crazy. I was like, I

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00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: love that they got to see each other.

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Speaker 3: I would have really loved talking. But that's when I

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00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 3: also knew that. I think Dina was like, yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: not me or it's not going to be me, because

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Speaker 3: the girls were sharing all of their experiences of like

732
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 3: how good their hometowns were, and then she was like, well,

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00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 3: like my parents didn't come, and then you can kind

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00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 3: of see like Drianna's face like it was like she

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Speaker 3: almost all ghost.

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Speaker 2: She was like what, Like I couldn't believe it.

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00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 3: So I think she knew and that that also broke

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00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,720
Speaker 3: my heart for her. But yeah, it was a overall

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Speaker 3: decent hometown.

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Speaker 1: It was a fast season, I it really. I know

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Speaker 1: they said it was shorter, but it really felt shorter.

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Speaker 3: No, it Like I also feel like the length of

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00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 3: the dates were just or like maybe like again substance

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00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 3: of the dates, it just didn't have a whole lot.

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Speaker 3: So like that's also like we'll make it feel a

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Speaker 3: lot faster.

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Speaker 2: So God bless Grant truly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree. All right, that is it for

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Speaker 1: our recap. Anything else you want to say?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm excited for Overnight.

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Speaker 1: Overnight, and thank you guys for tuning into Bachelor Happy Hour.

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