WEBVTT - Here Scrubs the Bride 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.720 Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:17.960 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Screbb scrub scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:23.479 Scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub scrub scrub scrub 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:25.360 scrub crub scrub. 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:27.480 Wow. 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:29.920 Although that will not be part of the wedding. 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.199 That's why I did it here. Yeah, I needed it 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:36.680 somewhere in the journey. Yeah, yeah, yeah, this is Friday 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.879 before the wedding. We're a week out. Yes, how are 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:45.160 we doing? Uh, you know, where's the bride chill a level? 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:49.360 I'm very bride chill up. But I have this level 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.840 of stress that's just been on me for the past 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:53.480 like I'd say the past like week and a half. 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:58.040 And I can't quite pinpoint like why or where. 0:00:58.880 --> 0:00:59.960 Oh my god, I hate that. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.520 Yeah, it feels like there's just a chemical in your 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:05.479 brain just kind of dripping right, like, yeah, it's. 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:09.800 Like a stress literally, and and like Robbie can really 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:12.600 bring me back back, like he's like he's not stressed 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:14.880 at all, and he has to do the same amount 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:16.680 of stuff that I have to do, and he's like 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.360 we're totally fine, And he's like, if we didn't do 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:22.039 anything from now until our wedding, it would also be fine. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:25.040 Mmmm hmmm. Yeah, it's all it's like detail stuff eight 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:26.319 from what you've told me. 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.160 Yeah, and also stuff that like I guess I don't 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:31.880 really need to think about, like it'll get done. 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.400 Like what give the give the brides to be something 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:36.720 to be prepared about. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.679 Well, like, okay, so yesterday I like totally didn't realize 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.360 I probably need like a ton of mirrors in my 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.680 room for my bridesmaids to get ready with. So that 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:46.319 like stressed me out because I was like I didn't 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.000 request that from the hotel. Is it too late? Do 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:50.120 they have extra mirrors? Like we need extra mirrors? 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:55.520 Where where does one Where does a hotel howl's extra mirror? 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:58.640 I don't know. I have no idea, but like you 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:02.480 know those vanities like a vanity, Yeah, they just have those. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:05.920 We'll see my wedding planner checking. But she did say 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.560 she's like if they can't do it, I'm gonna be 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.760 there and I can go get some you know. Like 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.680 so she kind of calmed me off that like I 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.360 haven't created my playlist for getting ready, like my getting 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:18.760 ready playlist, which feels like really important I didn't even 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:19.240 think about. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.320 Okay, I can help with that, yes, the vibes of that. 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.000 I just want to have it be like calm or 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:28.800 like gurly fun girly, like maybe like throw in like 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.520 a going to the chapel, but with like some fun 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:32.760 current like you know. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.839 Yeah, I can. I can source like some already made 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.320 playlist and pick from there some of the popular ones. 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.400 Yeah, and then like throw in like a saprind of. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:46.399 Carpenter, Oh, Ariana Grande, Yes, Taylor Swift, yes, exactly, the girls, Yeah, 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:47.840 the girls, okay, easy? 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:48.360 Yeah? 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:48.920 What else? 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:55.000 I also, when I got my Boudoir album back, I 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:57.720 wrapped it in like wrapping paper, and I hit it 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:59.840 somewhere and I don't remember where I hit it hit 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:04.480 it no, So I'm stressed about that. But I know, 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:08.080 like basically I put I put everything wedding in my office, 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.600 so my office just looks like a total tornado went 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:13.560 off in there. But I know it's somewhere in there, Okay, 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.360 I just don't remember where. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.960 I'm thinking of the boys being like, oh my god, 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:19.160 a birthday present early. 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.920 Oh my god, they're not gonna be they don't put 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.519 rummaging in there. And it's like wrapped in like heart paper, 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:26.200 so it's like not like birthday. 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:32.960 Yeah, that turned out great, turned out so good. Let 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:35.840 me tell you something. I have a new found appreciation 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.400 and respect for photographers. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.360 I think you could like literally do this for. 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:46.040 Aside the pressure and like making sure. I like editing 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.240 each because in my mind I thought, oh, I'll just 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:50.960 I'll create a preset and then I'll just put that 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:53.920 edit on every photo. But they all had different lighting 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:57.160 and different they were just all different. So I was 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.400 like trying to figure out how to edit each one, 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:01.560 and it took so long, and I was like, gosh, 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.440 if I had to do like a whole wedding album. 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:08.080 Wow, yeah, how was it? Editing my bare ass? 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:12.000 I stared at her bear ass for like hours for 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.720 a few days, and I was just in Haley walking. 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:18.200 Me'd be like whoa, and I'm like I'm sorry because 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.000 I had it on my computer. 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.040 Up on her TV and get in her house and. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.520 I mean I was just like sitting at the kitchen counter, 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:31.080 so she'd like come out from the hallway. Who But yeah, 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:33.280 I just I got to where I was numb to it. 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:33.800 A little bit. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:38.159 Yeah, but it was good. I mean they came was gorgeous. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:39.800 Yes, and like I swear, I think that maybe it 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:41.440 was like a lot of pressure because it was like me. 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.960 But I think if you started doing it for other 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.760 people and it became more like your side job, I 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:51.320 don't know if you'd be so emotionally invested. Oh yeah, Becca, 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.320 I was about to pay five thousand dollars to get 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:54.800 one of those done three to five. 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:56.680 I bet it would have been a little bit better 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:58.280 than whatever. 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:04.640 What I got is amazing and I paid nothing. Yeah, no, 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.000 I pay the book. Yeah, but I think it was 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:08.520 like fifty bucks. 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:11.760 A steal steel. Yeah, No, it was good. I was 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.240 it was I was glad that I was able to 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:16.840 get this to you and and be a part of 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:17.800 staring at you. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:20.640 I cannot wait to give him that. 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:22.040 I think he's gonna love it. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.240 I think he's gonna love it. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:25.760 I think he'll look at it fondly. 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:27.680 And like, we didn't discuss getting each other gifts, so 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:30.880 I don't think he's gonna expect a gift. And then 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:32.040 I'm just gonna like lay this on. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.560 Him when you give it to him again. 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:34.520 The morning of the wedding. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:38.440 Oh wow, will you be sad if he doesn't give 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:39.040 you a gift? 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.279 I don't think he's going to give me a gift? 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:42.320 Will you be sad? 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.240 No, because like there's no way he's going to give 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.000 me a gift. Like there's just no way. 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:53.480 He's all this this wedding this Yeah, because we've talked 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.039 about it a while ago, Like I was like, do 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:57.120 we because it's like tradition to give each other gifts. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:01.360 But I was just like, we've gone so far over 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.200 our budget that I'm like, what's what? What am I 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:05.839 gonna you know? But I really wanted to do the 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:06.839 Boudoor photo shoot. 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:09.240 I saw this really funny video of this couple and 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:12.479 they're like when you get fully delusional right before a 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:16.080 week before your wedding like things, and the girls like, okay, 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.440 I'm able to get one of the chainsmokers for three 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:21.680 hundred thousand dollars and he's like great, and then she's 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:25.159 like they just keep doing things in it. They look 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.240 at the budget and they're like, Okay, we're three hundred 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:31.000 percent over our budget. It's like that's Tanya right now, 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.560 just like at it. Yeah, add it to the list. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:33.919 Why not? 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:38.440 Why not. Sure. Yes, there's some other things too that 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:39.920 I'm like, I think we need to add a bar, 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.840 like a full bar for this, and they're like an 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.479 extra whatever. I'm like, do it a full bar for what? 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:50.520 So for cocktail hour? I think I don't know. I 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:52.320 have to like look into the details. I think it's 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.120 just like wine and like sh it's like that type 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.719 of stuff like wine champagne. I think we need a 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:58.120 full bar. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:02.240 Can but are you saying like you like it would 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:03.000 be an open bar. 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:04.960 Yeah, but but. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:07.280 Could people still just go and get their own drink? 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:11.840 What do you mean that they pay for? No? No, no, no, no, oh, 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:13.040 it's just they're. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:16.760 Only serving baron one Yeah, I think. I mean, I 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:18.880 think that's fine. I don't know how much more it is. 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.880 It's like no, no no. To me, that was like 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.160 the food and the alcohol was like number one priority. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.080 We were like we need all the we need all 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.480 the food and all the alcohol, like period. 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:28.760 Yeah. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.360 That was like, but I didn't think about the cocktailer 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.960 because it's just one hour, you know what I mean. 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:37.280 That's what I'm saying. I think people can survive one hour. 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:39.840 Without hard liquor. I think so, I don't know. I 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:40.560 don't know about that. 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:44.120 Yeah, we have some problems that we need to address. 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:49.120 Any update on your ovulation cycle as we have. 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.800 I think I'm gonna get my period the day after my. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:58.640 Wedding, the Kabana pool day, Yes, which is perfect convenient. 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:00.960 I don't know though, because I feel like people say 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:02.920 stress delays. 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:06.160 The period might just not come. 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.280 But also I heard lymphatic we're getting lymphatic massage, beck 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.120 and I and I heard that that stimulates it to 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.000 come sooner. So who knows. I could get it on 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:15.720 my I could get it on my Oh. Actually, I 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:16.840 need to add that to my list. I need to 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:18.120 get like jumbo tampons. 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:19.480 Should we not do jumbo? 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.840 Should we not do the lymphatic massage, then no, we 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:23.280 need it? 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.000 Okay, okay, I hear those things are great. Yeah, I 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:27.120 don't think it's those all the time. 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:31.400 Yeah, No, they're amazing. It's the must. I have to 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:33.959 get jumbo tampons. I want to be like fully prepared, 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.040 big thicker, jumbo size. 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:38.120 It's called jumbo. 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:43.560 It's like bigger than super plus. It goes like it 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:50.880 goes what's the skinniest one light light light regular, super, super, 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:52.360 super plus and Jumbo. 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:56.240 Oh my gosh, I've never delved into the Jumbo land. 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.960 I don't think I have either, but it feels the safest. 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:04.800 Tam PACs uses Ultra as they're sizing, but it looks like. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.600 Yeah, Ultra ultra um. 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.000 There's Jumbo, there's other jumbo ones, but. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:16.760 Something about Ultra sounds a little nicer than jump bo. Yeah, 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:22.560 Jumbo's giving Alci. What's been the most emotional moment so 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.760 far leading up to this? Because I feel like there's 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:29.560 been lots of emotions, as we would expect from the 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:30.600 cancer Queen herself. 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:35.319 Honestly, I think the most emotional part was like when 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.360 we picked our venue and we picked where we were 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.240 going to do the ceremony and I walked down the aisle, 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:44.520 that was like really emotional. Yeah that makes sense as 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:45.559 it's like falling. 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.680 What's your plan? Are we gonna who's going to see 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.839 you before you walk down the aisle anyone? Because you're 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:54.480 doing a first look ye know, but Robbie's going to 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:54.800 see you? 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.440 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. I want to go 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:59.600 to the cocktail hour, but all my bridesmaids were like, 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:01.600 you can not go to the cocktail hour, Like nobody 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:03.320 can see the bride until the ceremony. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:06.360 This is so funny that you which I'm my whole 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:10.959 thing is whatever you want. It's your wedding, so however 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:12.920 you want to do it is how you should do it. 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.400 I've always been like, the reveal of the bride is 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:19.640 just like the best part of the wedding. And so 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:22.600 Ali did this too at her wedding, where she just 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:24.760 wanted to get out there and mingle with people, and 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:26.560 we were just like, okay, she was. 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:29.080 So I wouldn't go in my dress. I wouldn't go 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:30.559 in my wedding dress. I would go in like a 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:35.240 little like robe or something I haven't thought through, but 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:36.360 I would go in something like. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:40.280 Your hair and makeup would be done. Yeah, I mean, yeah, 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:44.680 do what you want. I personally, I would prefer everyone 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:47.120 to see you like the grand reveal. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:50.360 And then the other topic of conversation last night was 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.600 because I did my hair and makeup trial the blusher, 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.560 which is like the veil that goes like over your head, 0:10:56.440 --> 0:11:00.520 you know, it goes like over I do that. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:04.680 I'm curious about did Alison do this, like when she 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:07.040 walked down the aisle, did she have the veil covering 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:08.640 her No, okay. 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:11.400 Because that's technically what it's for. Yeah, otherwise it's just 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:13.199 like a hair piece. Who wants a hair piece? The 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.840 veil Huh, it's no, it's so beautiful. It's like such 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.360 a part. Like the whole point of the veil is 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:21.160 to like like like. 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:22.080 I get it. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.720 Yeah, so the groom doesn't see you until that very 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:25.760 moment when like in. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:30.400 Theory traditional yeah, but my thing is it's just the 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.520 you walking down the aisle. Every single photo will be 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:36.080 the veil covering your face, so you won't see like 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:39.120 your emotion as much as you would see it without 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:39.559 the veil. 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.200 So that's my whole thing is I'm like I feel 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:46.920 like it's going to take away from that. But like 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.680 my hair and my makeup and Robbie all last night 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:52.079 were like it's so powerful that you just like you're 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.439 just like this vision standing there with like the veil 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.480 over your face and then like I like pull and 0:11:57.520 --> 0:11:58.679 I was like, well, what if like my lips it 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:00.440 gets all messed up? And then I'm like all my 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.440 photos are with like my makeup all whack. I'm gonna 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:02.920 be pissed. 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:06.840 Well, I think that it's not gonna be like up 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.360 against your face? Is it isn't it off your face? 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:12.280 I mean in theory, but it's like such a little 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:14.080 piece of fabric. You're just the one swoop of the 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:14.640 wind and it's. 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:17.719 Like yeah, it's like you're sweating and it's like. 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:22.600 Fly favor we did because we did a first look. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.200 So we did photos with the veil down and it 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.360 looks cool, but then we walked when she walked down 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:28.840 the aisle, no veil. 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:33.679 Maybe just take some photos with it, yeah, over your face. 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.640 Yeah, and then when you're walking. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.680 I don't I get their v I get what they're 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.560 saying is like the power of it of being. 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:44.480 Covered and is like on I'm like gonna come to 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.959 the top of a staircase, so it's like on top 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:48.960 of the staircase with like the thing. 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:52.040 Okay, I have an idea, tell me because your dad's 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:56.240 walking you, right, I think so like down the stairs 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.400 or he could meet you at the bottom. 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:03.079 Of this That's what I don't know. I don't know 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:04.280 if he's gonna meet me at the bottom of the 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:06.800 stairs or if he's gonna start with me at the 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:07.360 top of the sto. 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:10.840 Okay, either way, you start with the veil over you. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.480 You walk down the stairs with the veil and then 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:14.800 when you get to your dad, he lifts it and 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:20.400 then you walk down the aisle. Huh, because then you 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.840 could get the photos of you walking down the stairs 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:26.400 with the veil covering you, right, and then you when 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:27.640 Robbie sees you. 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:31.040 If her dad does it, though, is that going to 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.800 give the illusion that he's the groom? 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.400 Yeah, like people are going to be lifted, I. 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.559 Think traditionally, like you walk down, then the groom lifts 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:41.200 it up to present his new bride. 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:46.360 Do some trial runs with Robbie lifting that if you're 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:49.079 gonna do it, because that feels like a very tedious, 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:50.679 delicate process. 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:54.960 Yeah, I know, it's like all these for all these 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.719 little things like I just didn't think about, you know 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:59.280 what I mean, Like I just didn't think about. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.000 I haven't seen anyone walk down the aisle with the 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:03.520 veil over those, so I don't. 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:06.040 It's very traditional. I know I'm very traditional weddings. 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.280 Well, I haven't seen it, so I don't know if 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:10.520 i'm I don't know where I stand on it because 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:13.679 I get both sides of the reveal being so cool, 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:15.880 but then it's like your make hair and makeup is 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:19.080 gonna be so beautiful, and like your photos of walking 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:20.600 down the aisle, are you going to be covered the 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:21.600 whole time? Right? 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.320 I don't want to add to your list of stresses. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.720 But the thing that went wrong, no, I don't didn't 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.080 go wrong, but like the thing I wish we could 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.920 do over in our ceremony is a yours. 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:35.480 You know, you hand the bouquet to your maid. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:39.200 Of honor right when you get up there, and like Allison, 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.760 my sister was Allison's maid of honor, and like she 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:43.400 she didn't give it back to her at the end. 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.800 So then like my sister walked down with the bouquet 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:49.480 and Alison didn't have anything, and then the officiant getting 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.240 out of the way for the kiss. I think that's 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.160 like like our if she didn't do that, and we 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:57.040 didn't really think about that. But then like I've officiated 0:14:57.080 --> 0:14:59.320 a couple of weddings now and now I know, like 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:01.760 get out of I pronounce you man and wife whatever, 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.800 and then you bolt, So like Ryan has to know 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:05.440 to like tumble out of the first so he's not 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.600 just standing up there like, oh, you know when you 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:08.960 and Robbie are kissing. 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.280 Yeah, we're gonna have multiple kisses. 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:15.640 Oh, multiple kiss Kim for the audience. 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.760 Yeah, there's gonna be a kiss when he when we 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.400 were a man and wife. Then there's gonna be a 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:21.480 kiss before we walk down the aisle. Then we're gonna 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:25.080 go down the middle of the aisle and take another kids. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.840 Make sure we get a good kiss shot. That's all 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:29.280 I want. It is like a good kiss shot with 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:31.480 like all of our friends and like family around. 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:33.320 That's why you're doing this, that's the whole Thing's. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.520 So yeah, a lot of kiss shots. Yeah. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:42.360 When so Allie didn't have her veil on, it wasn't secure. 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.440 So when she walked down the aisle and she had 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:46.320 to kind of like go down this narrow path, it 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:48.400 got stuck and so it was kind of like loose. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.560 So when she got I was already seated because we 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:56.280 didn't stand next to her. So when she got situated, 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:59.480 I went up and I grabbed her bouquet and I 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:01.800 just wrapped her veil as if it was part of 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:03.400 like the plan, Like I was just gonna take the 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:05.520 veil so she didn't have to mess with it because 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:07.160 it was like dangling out of her hair. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:08.320 That's quick. 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:11.040 I had to just like get like think on my 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.840 feet and grab grab the veil with the bouquet, and 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:17.240 then she I had to run up like when when 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:18.720 they announced them and she was about to walk down 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:21.440 to handle the bouquet. Because I think you're so excited 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:23.240 and like you're adrenaline s pumming. 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:24.320 That you don't think of it. So you don't think 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:25.960 of that whoever you. 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.560 Give it to. If it's me or sister Paulina. 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:32.240 I'm gonna give it to you. It seems like you're ready. 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.920 Feels like you're ready and you're on it. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:35.440 She's warmed up. 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:39.160 Yeah, And then also like the vows, like I was 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.360 just like, oh, I'll have them on my phone. But 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:44.160 then I'm like that looks gross to like no offense 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.080 to anybody that's done that to like have them on 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:47.760 my phone. So then I was like, do I need 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.480 like a book, d like a bowe book to like 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:50.560 write my vowels in. 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:54.160 I would just have like or like a little notebook 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:55.200 or a piece of paper. 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:58.120 And tiny notebook. I have those laying around. 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.480 I weirdly do like you just like yeah, just like 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:04.439 either like a small little white one or just like 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:06.560 a lined piece of paper, so you can like keep 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:10.200 track of what you're reading. You know. I was thinking 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:12.719 about my speech and I was like just you know, 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.760 just pondering some ideas, and I was like, I want 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.400 to go go back on my phone and see what 0:17:18.480 --> 0:17:22.440 Tanya said when she first met Robbie, because it's such 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:26.080 a blur in my mind. And I was dying at 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:26.840 the text messages. 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:27.480 I'm going to read. 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:29.920 Messages are so good? Do you have more? 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:33.080 I do, But we'll take a break and then we'll 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:56.080 come back and I'll read them. All right, So we're back. 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.119 So I don't know if y'all know you can do this, 0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:00.720 but if you go to your text messages, yeah, you 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:01.960 have to teach me this. So you go to your 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:04.000 text messages. At the top, it says search. 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:06.159 Yeah, so you just searched blanket hinge. 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:10.520 I just searched. First I searched Robbie, and then I 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:14.000 searched hinge. Just I did a few searches. And so 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:15.840 when you type in that word, so I'm going to 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:18.679 type in hinge, you go to see all next to 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:23.280