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Speaker 1: survive for the first couple of weeks because there's so

430
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Speaker 1: much going on around you, and there's so many beautiful

431
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: people around you, and there's so many people wanting your attention,

432
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 1: and there's so many different conversations having that you're having

433
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Speaker 1: that Ben's going, okay, I need to step away. To

434
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Speaker 1: spend time with any person gets really difficult because you're

435
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 1: just trying to get through yourself. Yeah. Does that make sense?

436
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah it does. I mean I think it's a weird

437
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: balance for both parties. Like, for example, on my thought,

438
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: you know, I could have thought harder. But at the

439
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Speaker 1: same time, I'm living with all the other girls, and

440
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Speaker 1: you don't you really don't want to like rub anyone

441
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Speaker 1: the wrong lampissed everyone off because he's spent a ton

442
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: of time with them too. So it's like if you're

443
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Speaker 1: constantly fighting for his attention and like trying to be

444
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Speaker 1: number one and be at the front, Yeah, you might

445
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Speaker 1: be getting his eye, but when you know, as soon

446
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 1: as you go back to the mansion, there's a bunch

447
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Speaker 1: of girls that don't like you. So it's it's hard.

448
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: It's hard to do, it really is. Yeah, but you know, Corney,

449
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: so you've left. Uh if you know, if it's the

450
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Speaker 1: best decision or not. You you were sent home. You

451
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 1: didn't got did not get to spend a lot of

452
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: time with Colton. Uh. And everybody out there is asking,

453
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: We're going a lot of emails about it. What is

454
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Speaker 1: the overall feeling of the women in the house about

455
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 1: Colton to this point, at the point that I think

456
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: everyone was at the point in the relationship where you know,

457
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: feelings were established, connections were established, and they were trying to,

458
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Speaker 1: you know, all just get to that next level. Regardless

459
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: of what point that they were at and so I

460
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Speaker 1: think sport to us when you don't know what the

461
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: next step is for your relationship. But what I mean

462
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 1: the women in the house are just totally smitten with them.

463
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Speaker 1: They're they're all in, yeah, everybody, everybody you know, he

464
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: knows that you like him by now, an idea that

465
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Speaker 1: you know Heath and he by now. But it's it's

466
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Speaker 1: where to go from that? So what is going on

467
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Speaker 1: with the least then? So let's bring it back to

468
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Speaker 1: what we're talking about before you came on and we

469
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Speaker 1: need your expertise. You're now like the host seat if

470
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Speaker 1: you can and sit down beside me, just like Ashley Wood,

471
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Speaker 1: why go home? If you're interested in Colton, you're trying

472
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Speaker 1: to progress your relationship, Ord, and you weren't sit home

473
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Speaker 1: by Colton. You're doing it on your own Accord. What

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Speaker 1: is she thinking? You just get in your head. There's

475
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: a factors going on in that moment, and it's like,

476
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Speaker 1: I really like this guy and I really think this

477
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Speaker 1: could work. But at the same time, I'm watching him

478
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Speaker 1: with I think they were at this point the goal,

479
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Speaker 1: So I'm watching him with twelve other goals experienced the

480
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Speaker 1: exact same thing. And it's like she had her one

481
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Speaker 1: on one earlier in the season and so she had

482
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Speaker 1: an amazing nothing time with him, and now you just

483
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Speaker 1: have to sit back and you're part of the group experience,

484
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 1: and you know, watch other people really gets developed. When

485
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Speaker 1: you get in your head and you're like, well, I

486
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Speaker 1: think he kind of likes her more. You know, maybe

487
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Speaker 1: he's been so this time for why am I even here?

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Speaker 1: You know, it just actually work and you just it's

489
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Speaker 1: a spiral down the rabbit hole. At that point you

490
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: maybe you just said it best. You get in your

491
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Speaker 1: own head and you start the question everything because Corney

492
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Speaker 1: listeners out there don't know, uh, is that this show?

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Speaker 1: I would explain it is this, and again, please disagree

494
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Speaker 1: with me. Actually always does and she's usually right. Um,

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Speaker 1: It's not what I would describe as fun to do.

496
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Speaker 1: It's not like there's moments of fun. It's enjoyable at times,

497
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Speaker 1: there's cool memories and experiences made, but for for a

498
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Speaker 1: lot of the first couple of weeks, it's tiring. It's hard,

499
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Speaker 1: and you're trying to build this relationship and maybe a

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Speaker 1: future with somebody that you don't really know where they

501
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Speaker 1: stand with anybody else. Exactly. Yeah, it's emotionally taxing and

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Speaker 1: for me, basically tracking we had a lot of very

503
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Speaker 1: physical dates, so most of the time I was just tired.

504
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Speaker 1: It was extremely fun but also so exhausting, and so

505
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Speaker 1: it's like at that point you're working off of like

506
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Speaker 1: three brain cells and you're like, oh my goodness, what

507
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Speaker 1: am I doing? I like this guy, but a bunch

508
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Speaker 1: of other women like Cato when you just went on

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Speaker 1: the s one with her, and he's like her more

510
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Speaker 1: than it's Tracy. It his crazy Courtney. Uh, you said

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Speaker 1: something best and and it's exhausting both physically, emotionally and mentally.

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Speaker 1: That sounds amazing. What do you study? You hate traveling

546
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Speaker 1: because you loved about at home like I loved. What

547
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: was the very first thing, Courtney, you did when you

548
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: got back home off the show? Oh? I slept for

549
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: like two weeks. It's it's it's really is crazy. Okay.

550
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: We've asked every person this who has been released from

551
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: Colton's season of the Bachelor and then came on the

552
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: almost famous podcast Are you interested at all in Bachelor

553
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: in Paradise? Okay? The crazy thing is before going on

554
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: the show, I've seen maybe twenty minutes total of you know,

555
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, and i'd heard of Paradise, but I still

556
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: don't understand what it is the once. Yeah, I be

557
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: down so far. It sounds pretty cool, but you know,

558
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it yet, so I don't know. I'm

559
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: telling you, Courtney, and from what I understand, if you

560
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: struggle with not enough time during the Bachelor Bachelorette pared

561
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: ice is the answer to it. Everybody's together all the

562
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: time on a beach, eating, drinking, hanging out, relaxing and

563
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: trying to build relationships. Corney, I think you'd be the

564
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: best person to do that, right Um, Cordney, I really

565
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: appreciate you coming on. I know it was short notice

566
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: and you dig gree Thanks for giving me some insight

567
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: into a lease and where the women are out on

568
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: the show. Honestly, we'll miss you during the season of

569
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, but we appreciate you coming on almost for

570
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: this podcast, no problem. Thank you so much for having

571
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: me talk all right. The group data this week was

572
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: a date in the jungle, which I thought was incredible.

573
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: There's nothing I like more during this show is than

574
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: when people have to kind of get dirty or they

575
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: have to get out their comfort zones. They have to

576
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: sweat a bit. They can't just look beautiful all the time,

577
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: except all of them still did. I mean that Colton

578
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: is very lucky man, just a very lucky man. But

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00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: they're lucky people as well, because Colton looked good also,

580
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: and they go into the jungle to try to survive.

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00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: You see personalities come out. Hannah By shows up and

582
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Speaker 1: she eats a worm or whatever that was to impress Colton.

583
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: He throws it over his shoulder. I do have one

584
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Speaker 1: comment about all of this. I'm not throwed with cold

585
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: nighting in the worm. It adds the Bachelor. If you're

586
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Speaker 1: gonna ask a contestant to do something, you've got to

587
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: be willing and able and ready to do it yourself.

588
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: The best thing Coldon could have done there. Since she

589
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: ate it, we're to say, well, I have to eat

590
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: it too. Now, if you're gonna do that for me,

591
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that for you. I wonder if Colton

592
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: would have done that for some of the other girls. Maybe,

593
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Speaker 1: I don't know, just maybe a sign. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: maybe he's not as in the Hannah by, but I

595
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: doubt that is the case. It kind of got weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't love that the girls left

597
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: the day and went to the hotel to get burgers

598
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: and and and fries and drinks. I just I don't know.

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00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: I thought it was like funny. It was a good joke,

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Speaker 1: but I think I would have been frustrated if I

601
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: was colding and he didn't show frustration. He's a lot

602
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: better guy than I am, but I would have been

603
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: frustrating because you ask these women to do a date,

604
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: you want to have a shared experience with them. You

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00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: don't want them to take the easy way out, because

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00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: this is kind of like a sign for life. That's

607
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: what I'm seeing. This is these group dates, you know,

608
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: are weird and there's a lot of people and it's

609
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: sometimes confusing, But these dates, you're always looking, as the

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Speaker 1: bachelor bachelotte for those little things that kind of will

611
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: point to you on how they'll deal with real life.

612
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: And yes, you know it's funny. I'm taking a huge

613
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: stretch here. But for them to leave and just go

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00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: to the hotel and get burgers and fries, I thought

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00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: that was a cop out. I'll say I thought it

616
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: was a cop out. I did not think it was fair.

617
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't fair to the other women who who dug

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00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: deep and tried to make this date the best thing possible.

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Speaker 1: I also will say this and tell me that I'm wrong.

620
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Speaker 1: I would love to not be wrong on this though.

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Speaker 1: When you dive deep into experiences, the memories are made

622
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: in those moments. When you walk away from those moments

623
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Speaker 1: to take the easy ways out, you'll never remember those time.

624
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: Then you just get a good giggle and the laugh.

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00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: That's all. You're good at that. But the woman that stayed,

626
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: the woman that got their hands dirty, the woman that

627
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: held the snakes, and that that stuck their hands in holes,

628
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: and that tried to find food. They're gonna be talking

629
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Speaker 1: about that for years to come. You know, they're gonna

630
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: be doing the Remember when we were in the jungle

631
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,239
Speaker 1: and I touched a snake. The girls that went back

632
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: to the hotel, they don't have those memories, they don't

633
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: have at all, And I think that's sad. We need

634
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: to dive deep a little bit, get of our comfort zones,

635
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,959
Speaker 1: take some experiences and make memories out of them. So

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00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: I was I was not a fan. Was not a

637
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: fan of them doing the cop out. So that's my take.

638
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Speaker 1: Do you agree or disagree? Let me know. I would

639
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: love for you to argue with me on this, but

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00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: please tell me what you think. The night portion the

641
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: group dates always get interesting. There's emotion, uh, there's drama involved.

642
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: It's it's always crazy to me that all these women

643
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: can spend all day together and all these man can

644
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: spend all day together doing something wild and weird, and

645
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: then it gets the night portion, the cocktail portion, when

646
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: things are supposed to be relaxed and beautiful and fun,

647
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: and that's where the drama comes out. And it looks

648
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 1: like the drama did not go away. During this evening

649
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: of the group date, the girls are all about calling

650
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: out in Nicole. Is she there for the wrong reasons?

651
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: Did she really say what the girls said that she said?

652
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it's always amazing to me that anybody

653
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: would ever lie on this show. Why would you ever lie?

654
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: There's cameras around all the time. At some point, either

655
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: the Bachelor Bachelor It's going to see it, or all

656
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: the viewers are going to see it. They're gonna see

657
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: right through the whole thing. It's wild to me that

658
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: you would even try to stretch a true So who

659
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: do we believe here? I mean, it just seems like

660
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: that game of telephone, right when when one girl tells somebody,

661
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: one guy sells somebody, and they tell the next, and

662
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: the next, and next, and then before it gets the

663
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: very end, the whole story has changed. Try it at

664
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: your next Bachelor viewing party. Try this. Get all twenty

665
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: in a room after a glass of wine. If you're

666
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: over one and then you tell one person a secret

667
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: or a story, and have them tell the next person,

668
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 1: and then have them tell the next person. Then when

669
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: it gets to the end, hear what the story was.

670
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: When it's told, it will be completely different. Names will change,

671
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: events will change. The whole story won't even you won't

672
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: even recognize it. And this is what's happening here, it feels.

673
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: And so here's a piece of advice, because I know

674
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: we have somebody out there listening to this podcast who

675
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: will go on this next season of The Bachelorette. I

676
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: just know it. Guys love this podcast, love it. They

677
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: lit'ten do it all the time. Gentlemen, don't lie. If

678
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 1: you're gonna do some weird and sketchy stuff, just say

679
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: you've done some weird and sketchy stuff. It comes off

680
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,479
Speaker 1: a lot better and it makes it a lot easier

681
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: to watch. And I don't have to sit here and

682
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,839
Speaker 1: be so confused at every cocktail party because this game

683
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: of telephone continues to be played. Uh, you know, other

684
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: than the coold situation that that evening portion didn't stand

685
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 1: out to me much. But Hannah b got the rose,

686
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: so you get for eating the worms. Just telling you

687
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: what you get for eating the worms and going deep

688
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: and making those memories. Somebody's gonna notice. Colton did, and

689
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: he gave Miss Alabama the she's around for another week,

690
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: and you know what, it's The Hannab storyline has been

691
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: kind of quiet since Kaylan and in the Hannab situation

692
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: has been resolved. I mean now it just feels like

693
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: she's trying to build a relationship with Colton, but it's not.

694
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: There isn't This undertone of of angst or jealousy will

695
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: be interesting to the playout because now it's getting very serious.

696
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 1: The women are getting down to the final couple of

697
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: numbers and emotions are going to continue to build, relationship,

698
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 1: going to continue build. Feelings are Gonnatine build. I would

699
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: say this, I honestly had strong feelings for my last

700
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: six people. Yeah, I mean beck At Tilly was in

701
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: that group, Amanda Standing, Emily Ferguson, uh, Kayla, Lauren, and Jojo.

702
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: I mean those women mean a lot to me. Even

703
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: some women passed that, but those women are women. I

704
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 1: really thought I knew. So as we start really breaking

705
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: down to just the final few people here, just know

706
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: that the those relationships are very serious. Beck and I

707
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: to this day are still friends because of the show,

708
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: because of what we shared during this experience. Then, if

709
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: you haven't yet listened to Becca's podcast with Tanya scrubbing in,

710
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: it's really good. Award winning, they say, People's Choice award

711
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 1: this year, So make sure you listen to that. So

712
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: I heard radio podcast. Well, but anyways, moving on to

713
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: the final one on one date, the one we've all

714
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: been waiting for, the one we've all talked about, the

715
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: one on one date with Cassie. They went out on

716
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: a boat. He says the commonly used phrase on the show,

717
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: he wants to take their relationship to the next level.

718
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: My question for you all what does that mean? What

719
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: is that Colton? What does that mean? What do you

720
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,360
Speaker 1: want to take the next level? Do you want to

721
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: get to know her better? Uh? Do you want to

722
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 1: spend more time with her? Do you see this being

723
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: something that's uh, you know, gonna be a solid foundation

724
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 1: for the future. Do you see her potentially being your wife?

725
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: Which I think walking out of the state we all

726
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: felt like it could be. He did something pretty cool.

727
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: He took her to her own private island. It was

728
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: like a sampile in the middle of the o and

729
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: the boat left, and here's the truth. At that moment,

730
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: it made me really anxious. There's very few things in

731
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 1: life to get me more nervous than being in the

732
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 1: middle of the ocean with nobody else around. There's movies

733
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: made about that, right, the storms come in, the waves hit,

734
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: you get lost at sea. I mean this was obviously

735
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: a little more romatic. Um very well done, but it

736
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: made me very anxious. I would say, Okay, if there

737
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: was one common word I would use for this this episode,

738
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: it was anxiety. I had anxiety about a least leaving hiding,

739
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: anxiety over the telephone game on the group day. I

740
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: have anxiety over people stick in their hands and holes

741
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: in the middle of the jungle and pulling out twelve

742
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: foot snakes of that were slimy, it's weird. And then

743
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: I have anxiety about them getting stuck on an island together. However,

744
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 1: I think it's a little foreshadowing about what's to come.

745
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: Colt and Cassie are going to be on their own

746
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: little island together for a long time. Who knows, just

747
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 1: my guess, walth Wayne see talk about it next week.

748
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: With that, I gotta throw this over to Ashley I've

749
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 1: taken up way too much of her time. She's anxious

750
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,720
Speaker 1: and ready to speak to you all. A well. Everything

751
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: good in Bachelor Nation. I love you, I care about y'all.

752
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: Keep listening, appreciate you for the best week so far

753
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 1: in the almost famous history. I'm out and I've been been. Okay, Hi, guys,

754
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: welcome to Ashley's half of the almost famous Week five

755
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: of Colton Season. I am here with my friends Jane Tanner,

756
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 1: who took the trip up from San Juan Capistrado, California,

757
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 1: the home of Janner Manner Part. How's the new house, guys,

758
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been there. It's lovely beautiful. You've seen it. Yeah, No,

759
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: it's we're starting to get unpacked. We're mostly impact. It's

760
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: still boxed as we've lived there for like a month

761
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 1: and a half. You had the most amazing couch the

762
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: entire world. That was our splurge. Yeah. We spend most

763
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: of you know, once you have a kid, you spend

764
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: most of your time on a couch, just kind of

765
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 1: lounding ground. So we figured it was a sound investment.

766
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: We don't need fancy cars anymore, none of that couch. No,

767
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: although it's a white couch, and Tanner's very like freaked

768
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: out in particular about it. So if like Emmy eats

769
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: she has these little kid cheetos, if he eats, if

770
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: she eats one, he's like freaking out. He's like, oh

771
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 1: my god, the couch. I'm like, she's a child like

772
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 1: you know that, right? Yeah, And you're also not okay

773
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: with the dogs being on there and that can't stick

774
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: and you gotta let the puppy snuggle on the couch

775
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: a different couch. Well, you say that it has that

776
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: technology where it doesn't stain. Yeah, but I don't want

777
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: to test it little test it. It's okay, you have

778
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: to live on it. He's so o c d about it.

779
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 1: It's driving me crazy. Is that What's like the thing

780
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: that you've bickered about the most since moving into this

781
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 1: new house? Yeah? I feel like moving is up time

782
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: where couples bigger. Yeah, just it's in real messiness. That's

783
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: what drives me the most crazy. But I've tried to

784
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: be more lenient, you know, given Jade's current state. Yeah,

785
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: so you're pregnant. You talked about it, like, where is

786
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: this len he's talking about? I can't yell mean when

787
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: you're pregnant. You have to be nice. Although I was

788
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,959
Speaker 1: so sick like the last two months, and Tanner would

789
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,479
Speaker 1: be like, I know you're sick, but what about me,

790
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm dealing with us and I'm like, this isn't

791
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: how it works. It probably it was a bad time

792
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 1: for having to move in. It was also go through

793
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: the worst part of mornings. It was so hard. I

794
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: think that was what it was most frustrating for him

795
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: is because we haven't been settled quite into our house yet.

796
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: But I was like, I was like in zombie life,

797
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm finally feeling better. So okay, well

798
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: that's really good. Yeah, so, uh, the elephant in the room.

799
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: There's no elephant in our room right now, but people

800
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: think that there might be because like the big I

801
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: had no idea that Bachelor Nation was going to pick

802
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: up on the fact that our wedding is in August

803
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: and that your guys, baby number two is do in August.

804
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: I thought nobody was going to put les together. It

805
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: was like immediately, I know, how do people know this

806
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: stuff that they keep notes? Like do they have chalkboards

807
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: in their house that keeps I don't know. But our

808
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: wedding isn't in California. So basically, Jade, you would need

809
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: to deliver early in order for you to you probably

810
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: can't go. That's really the bottom line. Jade has to

811
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: be so early, so early. We've talked about scenarios, so

812
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: I think I would be comfortable, Like if I gave birth,

813
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: say two weeks before your wedding, then I think I

814
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: would go. But anything after that, like if it was

815
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: like the week before, I'd let Tanner go. If it's

816
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: the week of yeah, I know, like sorry, I feel

817
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: so bad. We know. The minute we found out we

818
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 1: were pregnant, that was like one of the first things

819
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: that came out of my mouth was like, but Astley

820
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: and Jared's wedding, It's funny because I we've joked about

821
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: you guys trying not to conceive during a certain period

822
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 1: of time. It was all honestly jokes. Some people took

823
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: them a little bit too far. Of course, it was

824
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: like would we have preferred, Sure, we want you guys

825
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: at the wedding, But it's not as if we were like,

826
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: don't you dare do any funny business during those months.

827
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: You know, I wasn't like checking in on you on

828
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: the right. Hey, I've got to take it when I

829
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: can get it. So tell us about the moment when

830
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 1: you found out you were pregnant and when you started

831
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: to suspect that you were. Um. Well, I had an idea,

832
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: and it was actually when Tanner and I were moving

833
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: across country and we were on our road trip. It

834
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: was like a ten day road trip, and I had

835
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: these pregnancy tests, and he knew what I was supposed to, like,

836
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: maybe you know it would be at the time where

837
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: I would get a positive pregnancy test, and he kept

838
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: asking me and asking me and asking me. But this

839
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: time around, I wanted to do something really special and

840
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: surprise him. You'll get this actuley. So I wanted to

841
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 1: do like a reenactment of the Full House scene. We're

842
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: Becky has all the baby food on the little tiny

843
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: carrots and little tiny potatoes and was trying to tell

844
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: him at dinner that she's pregnant with a baby. Tanner

845
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: way over his head. He's like, I don't even understand

846
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: that reference. Would you have known, um, you didn't Watchfull

847
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: House that intently. So I wanted to do something cute

848
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: like that, but he was so impatient and he was

849
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: like on me and on me and on me. Well,

850
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: I knew she was late at the stage of the game,

851
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: did Yeah, after trying for ten months. I mean, you

852
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,879
Speaker 1: know your wife's populations, utility schedule, you know, let's get

853
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: get reminders on your phone. You had all kinds of

854
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: stuff like that. So yeah, I knew we were like

855
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: you were like two days late. I just wanted to

856
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,479
Speaker 1: know the test. Let's do the damn thing. Let's figure

857
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: it out, you know, said this box had three tests

858
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 1: in it. So one day we were I don't know,

859
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: we were an aspen at a hotel, and I woke

860
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: up in the morning early before he did, and I

861
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: snuck into his bathroom and I pet on the test

862
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: and it was positive. And I wanted to surprise him,

863
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: so I took an other test out and I ran

864
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: it under the sink, so it was negative. And then

865
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: I put the positive test back in the wrapper and

866
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: flips it upside down, so it only looked like I

867
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: had taken one test, because I knew he was going

868
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: to look, and sure enough he did, and because I

869
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: showed him the negative because like this bies me time,

870
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: I can plan a surprise. Yeah, but I thought she

871
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: was like lying. I just had a gut feeling, so

872
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: I went and checked the box, but there was like

873
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: the appropriate amount of rappers and test there. Maybe maybe

874
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: not moved on. So the next day he's asking me

875
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: again to take another test, and he's like stalking me,

876
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: like literally behind me, like asking me. And finally I

877
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: just got so mad because he's ruining my surprise, and

878
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: I take out the positive test and I like slap

879
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: it on his chest. I was like, fine, I'm pregnant

880
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: and started bawling and he starts laughing and just like

881
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: what said. I don't remember. I think you grabbed me

882
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 1: and I'm crying and you're laughing, and that's pretty much

883
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 1: what happened. That's so funny. That's classic Tanner's classic Jade

884
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: and Tanner just like you can't let her dude like patience. Yeah,

885
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 1: I wanted to do one of those cute little like

886
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: you to be pinterest e mom surprises. I ruined a

887
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: great content, cost us a lot of life, Jade. I

888
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 1: love the full house idea, Jared down the mic. How

889
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: do you want to find out when we're pregnant? Do

890
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: you want? That's a that's a loaded question just to

891
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: come into creative. Want to do it together. I want

892
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: to find out together our firstborn. Yeah, I definitely want

893
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,240
Speaker 1: to find out together. Is that what you guys did together?

894
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: Right now, buddy, because that's why I'm here right now

895
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: talk about a rating, scrap breaking mirrors on the podcast,

896
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: we get pregnant before the wedding? Goodness, Ashley, it will be. Yeah.

897
00:45:55,920 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: Could you imagine being pregnant during the wedding? Were you? No,

898
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:06,399
Speaker 1: Harley was? She was like three weeks pregnant. She didn't

899
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: even know. She took a pregnancy test in Mexico after

900
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: they got married. Yeah, I know, that's so crazy. They

901
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:16,439
Speaker 1: found out basically on their honeymoon. Yeah. Aren't you guys

902
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: doing a YouTube channel two? Yeah, we just started now

903
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: that we have all this free time on our hands, Like,

904
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: put my job and I moved out here, so I'm

905
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: like an official Instagram husband. Now, welcome to the life.

906
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I have to tone in my camera skills,

907
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: YouTube editing skills, all that. So we're gonna start doing

908
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: weekly videos just random stuff. Yeah. I saw that. You

909
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: guys just posted one about was it about the story

910
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: how you tried to surprise him? Yeah, that's what I

911
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: saw that. Yeah, so we'll get the full disclosure on that.

912
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: We just got a tease today. Huh. People are gonna

913
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: want to know what Instagram husband means out there. They're

914
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna say a job. So explain what your

915
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: job is, Hanner. So in Kansas City, I was the

916
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: GM of a car dealership, but I just did to

917
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: move out here just to spend more time with my girls.

918
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: And my new job is an Instagram husband. And if

919
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: you guys, you guys are obviously all Bachelor fans out there,

920
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: you may have noticed. I know that we we do

921
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: a few ads here and there, and you know that

922
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:17,919
Speaker 1: that pays the bills a little bit. Um. So thank

923
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: you all for clicking, liking, and swiping up um. And

924
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: with that comes the responsibility of taking all these other

925
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: photos of your wife basically in pretty outfits, and taking photos,

926
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: taking photos of your kids and just that kind of stuff.

927
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: You're constantly creative, though, like you're always coming up with

928
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: something funny and out of the box to put emmy

929
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: into a funny situation. How how do you make the

930
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 1: wheels turn so much? The job? You gotta get those likes, baby.

931
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: He takes it very seriously, like he so we made

932
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: this YouTube video and he like sent me little notes

933
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: of like what he wanted me to cover. He's like,

934
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: make sure you take some of this and take film

935
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: some of that, and like he's already like a director

936
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: in his head. That's awesome. Tanner is the Steven Spielberg

937
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor Family. So is that the only thing

938
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: you guys doing on YouTube? Well, I mean you you

939
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: may have seen us recently do some other things. Okay, Well,

940
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 1: there may or may not be a uh something dropping

941
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: pretty soon that includes all four of us that may

942
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: or may not be on YouTube, that may or may

943
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: not be uh some production behind it, something to do

944
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 1: with our lives usably a little show about our lives,

945
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: keeping up with the Janner and Ashley, keeping up with

946
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: the Janner and Joshually, I don't think it's called that.

947
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: We don't know what it's called yet. Well, we don't

948
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: know what it is yet, but just a little tease,

949
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: let's pay attention. It's a lot of fun. Yeah, it

950
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: has been a lot of fun. So we're excited. We've

951
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: put Jared in a lot of uncomfortable situations. I'm pretty

952
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: much the guinea pig of the entire thing. Thus far,

953
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: It's like, Hey, who would be dumb enough to want

954
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: to do this? Jared? Hey, Jared, what are you doing tomorrow? Yeah? Sure,

955
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: why not, let's do it. I know a lot of

956
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 1: you guys probably you probably never thought twice about it,

957
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: But you probably also didn't see enough footage from Jared

958
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: performing in Chippendales. And there's a reason for that, because

959
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: you're going to see a lot more. Oh that's exactly

960
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: what the people want to see me with my shirt off.

961
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 1: I'm sure they'd love every second of that. And all

962
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: the prepping Jared did. I know then? Pretty much. My

963
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 1: prep was not eating for about two weeks and working out.

964
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: It was it was stupid because well one day he

965
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: got really lightheaded. Well what happened was I procrastinated. I

966
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: told myself I was gonna work out, you know, I

967
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: was gonna eat healthy and work out consistently for about

968
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: two months leading up to the show. So I felt

969
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 1: confident enough to be up there with the rest of

970
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: the Chippendales. Right, they have the what is that the

971
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: wax board abs all that good stuff. They're they're very

972
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,760
Speaker 1: much in shape, and I didn't want to stand out,

973
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,319
Speaker 1: So you stood out buddy. What happened was the show

974
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: was in early December. Of course November comes around, It's

975
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: my birthday, I mean, cake, I'm having a good time,

976
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving roles around. All of a sudden, I noticed that

977
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: it's the end of November and my show is in

978
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 1: two weeks, and I've gained five pounds at this point

979
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 1: instead of losing any weight. So what I did was,

980
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 1: you know what you're supposed to do, which is not

981
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: eat for about two weeks, work out every day. I

982
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: remember the day of the show, I was in the

983
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: green room and there was weights and I hadn't eaten

984
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,439
Speaker 1: all day and I'm just you know, curling or doing

985
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,439
Speaker 1: push ups, trying to get that last pump in there.

986
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: And I stood up and I the room started circling

987
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 1: a little bit, and I thought to myself, I'm gonna

988
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: pass out five minutes before the show because I was

989
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: an idiot and procrastinated and didn't work out for this

990
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 1: stupid thing. It wasn't stupid, it was fantastic, actually, but

991
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: it well worked out. I went on the show, the

992
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: adrenaline kicked in and I ate shake shack afterwards. So

993
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: everything we had no idea. I'm not gonna tell you

994
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: that I know, but it was talking because you killed

995
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: it up there. Anyway, We've gotten so off topic, so

996
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: we have to get back on topic and talk about

997
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: this week's episode of The Bachelor. UM lots to say.

998
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: It was a great episode. It was my favorite so far.

999
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: My standout moment was how weird at Lease was it was?

1000
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: It was weird. I didn't even understand. It was just

1001
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,439
Speaker 1: out of left field. All of a sudden. She was like,

1002
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: I can't date you when you're dating other women. And

1003
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 1: it's just like that moment where you're like, show are

1004
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,479
Speaker 1: you on? Have you never watched before? The entire ten

1005
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,720
Speaker 1: minutes of that that part was like this woman obviously

1006
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 1: has never watched the show before. Because she was expecting

1007
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: to get a one on one day two weeks after

1008
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 1: she got her other one on one. I was like,

1009
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 1: at least there are ten other girls in the house.

1010
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 1: I haven't had a know you got two at this

1011
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 1: at this point, to be insane, that was shocked. I

1012
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,439
Speaker 1: thought at least was in the top six. Me too,

1013
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: I thought she could be Bachelor at material, especially since

1014
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: she was one of the front runners who was also older.

1015
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: She was so cool on that day where they had

1016
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: to talk about their first like, she was just so

1017
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: confident and she killed it on her one on one

1018
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I like she was

1019
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,760
Speaker 1: going to lose it. Give us some I'm losing it.

1020
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: I feel I feel personal personally hurt from what at

1021
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: least did by leaving the show, because I wanted her

1022
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 1: to become bachelorette if she didn't, if Colton didn't pick her,

1023
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: obviously because she was, She's elegant, she's beautiful, she would

1024
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: have made a great lead. Also, she would have been

1025
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: would she have been the first redhead? Not to like

1026
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: bring that up, but just random tead. But the whole

1027
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: thing is that she lost all that eloquence in this scene.

1028
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 1: She just looks seemed frazzled, and she like she was

1029
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: actually about to have a mental like she was going

1030
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: to have a pain. Well, the reason I feel personally

1031
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: hurt is because I know that she couldn't handle the show.

1032
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: She couldn't handle the situation she was being thrown into.

1033
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: But the problem becomes, she knew exactly situation she was

1034
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 1: getting herself into. Now here's the she had never seen

1035
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: the show before, which is fine and I'm but This

1036
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 1: is why I feel personally hurt about it, because I

1037
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: liked her so much that I wanted her to be

1038
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 1: the next lead. Now she's not gonna be the next lead,

1039
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 1: and she's definitely not gonna be on Paradise. I mean,

1040
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: could you imagine going back if she couldn't handle the

1041
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: Bachelor of the way it was, could you imagine her

1042
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: be on Paradise. She's gonna be like with Paradise doesn't come,

1043
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: you know, the the force to get engaged at the

1044
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: end of it. You don't need to feel like you

1045
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: have to get engaged and just date around, date one

1046
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 1: person the whole time. Theoretically then too, yeah, and spend

1047
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: seven with that person that's going to be rarely ever

1048
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: works out that way. I mean, you guys know Paradise,

1049
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: it's it's you guys got lucky. But it's ever changing

1050
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: and there's always something to Oh. I talk about it

1051
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: all the time. Like the show has changed so much

1052
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 1: since our season compared to how the show is now,

1053
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: Like it's way more about dating and like shifting who

1054
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 1: you're dating, And it wasn't like that on our season.

1055
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: It was very much like you look down on people

1056
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: if they were like Oh, I'm going to go on

1057
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: a date with this person and this person. Remember Joe

1058
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: got roasted. Yeah, Joe did is nothing today that's encouraged. Yes,

1059
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: everybody talks before the show now, and this poor guy

1060
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,959
Speaker 1: was just poor Joe Bailey because it was the first

1061
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: time anybody did it. You know, he's a trendsetter. You know,

1062
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: we have a segment here called who the heck are You?

1063
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: And we've never had Joe Bailey on the podcast, and

1064
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: I think we need to bring him back. Give me

1065
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 1: that Rose hey Rose before bros. You know what I mean? Uh, Well,

1066
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 1: I think you guys should definitely have Joe Bailey to

1067
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: do this entire podcast because he's a fascinating man, to

1068
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: the point where I want to see him on this

1069
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 1: season of Paradise. I want a redemption story for Joe Bailey.

1070
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: I want him and Cupcake to make reappearances. It's so

1071
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: weird they haven't had both of them back. Well, Cupcake

1072
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: may or may not be taken right now now, but

1073
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: if he's not this summer. Agreed, But I think there's

1074
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: so many quote unquote random contestants come on Paradise. Bring

1075
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,919
Speaker 1: back Joe Bailey. Let's get let's get this Kentucky boy

1076
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 1: back in here. You know, the original Bachelor in Paradise villain. Yeah,

1077
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 1: he was the phrase. Like Stanner said, he he set

1078
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: that trend. He talked to the girl before Paradise. He

1079
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: went on there, he lied about talking to her, and

1080
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: then he tried to fool everybody got villainized, and it

1081
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: really was the first of his kind. And now it's

1082
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 1: like it's like a guy getting thrown in jail in

1083
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,959
Speaker 1: Colorado for smoking pot and then still sitting there today

1084
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: as everyone does it legally. Yeah, that is the best

1085
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: analogy I've ever heard. Okay, let's get back to a

1086
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: lease now for a second. What I was so confused

1087
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:42,280
Speaker 1: is that the initial point of her conversation was I can't.

1088
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I need more time with you. I

1089
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: am so falling for you, and I'm like freaking out

1090
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: that I have to share you. That was the initial conversation, right,

1091
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: and then it's somehow evolved into I must leave, Like

1092
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: do you think she was looking for us answer from Colton?

1093
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: And then when she didn't get it, she's like, I'm

1094
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 1: out Or it was her intention going into this to

1095
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: bounce like a Caitlin Shawn Booth thing where it's like,

1096
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: either tell me you're the one and if I'm not

1097
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 1: the one, that I'm going to go home if you

1098
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: don't say that out loud. Possibly, do you guys think

1099
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: it was a little premature to ask Colton to do that.

1100
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: There's still a lot of tell her that she's the one. Yeah,

1101
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: there's still lots of people left there. I mean, let's

1102
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 1: slow your role, wait till at least it's like seven

1103
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 1: or eight before we start getting like ultimatum, Like yeah, yeah,

1104
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: why didn't she wait until like six? I can see

1105
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 1: her being like, I can't take you home to my

1106
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: family until I like and unless I really know that

1107
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: there's a possibility here. But it was just like a

1108
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: very weird um. It went from one topic I thought

1109
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: to another zero real quickly. Yeah. I just think there

1110
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: was something way deeper that we didn't get to see

1111
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: that was happening within her because it made it made

1112
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 1: zero sense. No, yeah, unless we there was something cut

1113
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: out significantly, there could have something cut out. But I

1114
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: also feel like perhaps Alicea is just that kind of

1115
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: girl who flees when she's feeling good about a guy.

1116
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? I feel like maybe

1117
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 1: she self sabotages. Self sabotage is a good relationship. Here's

1118
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: the thing. Her whole thing was that she is Did

1119
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: she say she was in love with him? Okay, but

1120
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 1: she liked him to the point couldn't find a flaw

1121
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,439
Speaker 1: in their relationship. She wished that there was a flaw,

1122
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: that she could blame the flaw for her leaving, so

1123
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: it was so good she had to leave. Yes, exactly.

1124
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: Girls needs to tell me that all the time. Interesting? Wait,

1125
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: did they really, Tanner? There's nothing wrong with you? Jade

1126
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: can attest to that, right, Jane, He's perfect. Can we

1127
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: take a minute and talk about my favorite topic of

1128
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: the episode? Pa and her band aid on her chin?

1129
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: What happened? Ever? Addressed it? I need to know more.

1130
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: Did did she get into a fight with someone in

1131
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 1: the house? Did she develop a random rash? What happened?

1132
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: He's been fick faded on this, By the way, It's

1133
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 1: weird of them not to bring up in just a

1134
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: joking sense, to be like, can you believe this happened

1135
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: in our last group day? Or can you believe I

1136
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: made such a stupid decision in Singapore and jumped off

1137
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: that deck? Yeah? Not even a mention. Week four, no

1138
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: band aid? Week five, band aids all over the place.

1139
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm starting to wonder if I'm seeing things. Did she

1140
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: shove the cocktail party with a band? That's weird? It

1141
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: must have been bad gash okay, um, let's move on

1142
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: to Heather because Heather was my other favorite part of

1143
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: the episode. Girl Never Been Kissed totally rocked her first kiss.

1144
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: That was the greatest first kiss of all time. I

1145
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 1: felt butterflies and fireworks for her. She's been practicing on

1146
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: her arm or something. Did you guys practice on your

1147
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: arm the mirror? Never my arm? I used to do

1148
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: my arm all the time, my arm in my hand.

1149
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: No Tanner was like nope. I started so young I

1150
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: couldn't even get time to practice on my arm. I

1151
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 1: don't think I practiced either. Straight to the game. When

1152
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: was your first kiss? I don't know, Like, are we

1153
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: talking like a like a no kiss, A real kiss,

1154
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: not like like not a peck? Um? Sixth grade? Really

1155
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: like where you locked lips? We've talked about this on

1156
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 1: this podcast so many times first kisses, but I don't care.

1157
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: I love these stories. They're so great. So sixth grade

1158
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: anything monumental nothing. No, do you remember her name? Mary?

1159
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: How innocent? Did? I was a sophomore in high school?

1160
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: Remember that we were late? And yeah, I was. I

1161
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: was sixteen and I was so determined not to be

1162
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 1: sixteen and never been kissed. But it happened. But I

1163
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: still I still remember the feeling of how it felt

1164
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: the very first time someone else's lips touched my lips.

1165
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, it was very special for me. Colton

1166
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: did a really good job leading her. First, did the

1167
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: hand the hands to the face thing, which he doesn't

1168
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 1: do a ton, but it really worked here because it

1169
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: kind of led and guided her. And plus if it

1170
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: looked bad, then it was kind of a coverage. But

1171
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: it didn't look bad, not like ari Ari at his hands,

1172
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: like all everyone's faces. Um. I felt like the intensity

1173
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: and the nervousness, like that heart pounding feeling you get

1174
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: when you know it's about to happen, that you're going

1175
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: to kiss somebody for the first time, but you don't

1176
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 1: know exactly like when to do it. I felt that

1177
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 1: between them too. I was like, my heart is pounding too.

1178
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: It was so it was so exciting for me to watch.

1179
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: Could you imagine how can you react on the plane.

1180
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: I was so excited, you were beyond excited. I thought

1181
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: they brought food back on the plane. Um, could you

1182
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: imagine having your first kiss on national television. It's the greatest.

1183
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: It is the greatest thing because you can never be like, man,

1184
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 1: I really regret that first kisse. It was with the Bachelor. Okay,

1185
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. What if they made that

1186
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: what if they made that kiss look awful? They would

1187
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: do that to me and I they did or that

1188
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: was my own bad. Well I'm saying is could you

1189
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: imagine this, this moment that it's been like kind of

1190
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: not haunting you, but it's been a cloud over your

1191
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: head your entire life. You've never kissed anybody? How old

1192
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: does she twenty three? Twenty three years of life never kissing?

1193
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: Anivity all eats this moment, I'm kissing the Bachelor on TV?

1194
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: And could you imagine if it came out awful, you'd

1195
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: regret it? Then? Well, Evan and Carly's first kiss it

1196
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: wasn't hurt their very first kiss. I don't mean first

1197
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: kiss as a couple. I mean that in your life

1198
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:29,959
Speaker 1: stream I remember that. Imagine if that was her first kiss,

1199
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: is something like that That's that's what would make me

1200
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: nervous about doing it, because it's just you never know.

1201
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 1: Can I just say that my first kiss was at

1202
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: nineteen His name was Johnny. I met him an hour

1203
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: and a half before it, and I was I was

1204
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: illegally at nineteen years old in a burlesque club in

1205
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 1: New York City. And then he shoved his lips didn't

1206
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: touch mine, He just shoved his tongue right in my mouth.

1207
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: So you know how I gotta go kick Johnny's ass.

1208
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: That was I would much rather look bad with the

1209
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: Bachelor and have quite a story to tell then be

1210
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 1: like a guy named Johnny in a burlesque club underage.

1211
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: So you waited nineteen years, It couldn't last another hour

1212
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: and a half. I didn't. It wasn't not my plan,

1213
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: not my plan. The man just grabbed my face and

1214
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 1: did it, and then I cried afterwards and legitimately like

1215
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: hugged my zac Efron link Larkin doll afterwards, Like that's

1216
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: how young that was? You had a zac Efron link? Yeah? Yeah,

1217
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: do you still have this doll? It's probably in that

1218
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: I at home every time we go back to her

1219
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: house in Virginia, her bed still has seventeen stuffed animals

1220
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: on there because I am also O c D and like,

1221
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: if I don't sleep with them there, I will die

1222
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 1: or you will die. That's horrible thought. Let's move on. Okay, Well, Jared,

1223
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 1: you can tell your first kids story is actually pretty cute. No,

1224
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: it's the same thing as Jade. I was sophomore in

1225
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: high school. Uh, the girl had to make the move.

1226
01:02:53,280 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: Oh shocking. Anyway, it was uh not prom but what

1227
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: are you? What are the dances you go to homecoming?

1228
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: It was homecoming at a different school. So I met

1229
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: her through my cousin. We hung out during the summer.

1230
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: She invited me to go to her home homecoming dance

1231
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 1: that fall, and we were dancing and it was slow dancing,

1232
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 1: but it wasn't face to face. Her back was to me,

1233
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: and my hands were around her, you knowding was slow dancing,

1234
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 1: So it was you've never done that, Tanner. We had

1235
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: different high school experiences. Didn't wait, um, so my my

1236
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: hands were around her. And then it was towards the

1237
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: end of the night and I still had not made

1238
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: a move to this point because I was terrified, and

1239
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: she just turned around and looked at me and there

1240
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: was a moment there and I didn't take advantage of

1241
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: it because I was a baby about it and afraid

1242
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: to make a move. So she leaned in and kissed me,

1243
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: and it was my first kissed ever. And I remember

1244
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: she turned around and I started giggling to myself because

1245
01:03:57,040 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: it was my first kiss, and it was it's a

1246
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 1: monumental and it really is. It's like, man, this is

1247
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: my first kiss. Her name is Lauren. I won't say

1248
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 1: her last name for privacy sake, but it was it

1249
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: was Lauren. You guys are a bunch of late bloomers.

1250
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 1: Here would you expect for me and Jared Heather's kiss,

1251
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 1: You know, it was warm and fuzzy, But we talked

1252
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 1: about the real hero in the story that we haven't

1253
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 1: talked about. Heather. No, Heather's boyfriend that she dated for

1254
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: eight months without kissing. That's what I wanted to talk about.

1255
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:28,840
Speaker 1: This is a I don't want to say it's a

1256
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: fake relationship, but that was like the boyfriends that I

1257
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: would have, they weren't boyfriends. There were guys that I

1258
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: would see and talk to you on occasion, like they

1259
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: check in every month or so, and then you'd like

1260
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: see them once and then you'd have a great date,

1261
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 1: but then you wouldn't hear from them for another month.

1262
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: Or I'd be in college and I go on a

1263
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: date whenever I was home for a break, and then

1264
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: he'd go away and we wouldn't talk. But the next

1265
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: time he would go on a break, we go. You know,

1266
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Speaker 1: we would have. She said she wasn't into him. It

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Speaker 1: was all her friends who wanted her to date him,

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Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, he was perfect on paper,

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01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,959
Speaker 1: but I just didn't feel it. So she was, I think,

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Speaker 1: like going on dates but didn't. Really they're not at

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Speaker 1: a certain point if you're not you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: They're like, you're just going out with a guy friend

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Speaker 1: and that's it, saying my friend. Or was he going

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Speaker 1: on dates with her and hanging out with other girls

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Speaker 1: at the same time? They were not exclusive. Now I'm

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01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: not doing anything wrong, but I doubt he was a

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Speaker 1: committed boyfriend. They were in a boyfriend, They were a

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Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend. This is a classic like producers saying you

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Speaker 1: have to have some sort of experience, right, so why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell him about that experience that it seems

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Speaker 1: like there was somebody in your life, you know, well, buddy,

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Speaker 1: if you're out there listening, please slide in my D

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Speaker 1: my D M S. I would love to hear your

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01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 1: side of the story. Were you dating Heather? Were you not?

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01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 1: Did you try to kiss or did you not? We

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01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: need more this guy. You're really invested. I keep pleased,

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01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: though it is crazy to think that nobody has kissed her.

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01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: That's what crazy that. That's what keeps going on in

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01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: my mind is that in high school for college, literally

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01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: no guy just went up to you. I mean, I'm

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01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: not saying it's right, no guys should do that, but

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01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: guys are idiots. I you know, all my friends are idiots.

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01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: All of their friends are idiots, and guys just do

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01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: that when they're drunk or at parties, like le let's

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01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: go to a girl and kiss them, because they think

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01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: there's a moment exactly right. They think that the moments

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Speaker 1: there and the girl has no idea what's about to happen.

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Speaker 1: I'm surprised that hasn't happened, because she's a good looking girl,

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Speaker 1: very beautiful. I don't know, guys, I'd liked it. Your right, Tanner,

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01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: we should get that guy on the phone, because I

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01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: really want to know the depth of this eight month friendship.

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Speaker 1: That guy I had my first kiss with, though I

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01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: think he probably waited four or five months of hanging

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01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: out with me before he did it. Yeah, because I

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01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: was terrified that I was not given any signals. There

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01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: was one guy that didn't kiss me for a couple

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Speaker 1: of dates. I think it was like four five dates,

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Speaker 1: and it had been it was just like this. It

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01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: was my high school crush. But I didn't go on

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01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 1: dates with him until college, and then I go on

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01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: a date with him every couple of months, and he

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01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 1: never made a move. He never kissed me until one time.

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Speaker 1: At a point, it gets awkward when the kissing goes

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01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:16,919
Speaker 1: the non kissing goes on for too long. Like you said,

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01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 1: you're on the third or fourth day and you haven't

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01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 1: kissed yet. Then it just becomes the elephant in the room.

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Speaker 1: That sucks. That's the worst feeling I've been there got

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01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 1: high school. Jared never made a move. I would go

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01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 1: on dates with girls like three or four times, and

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01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: it's sweating like she usly sweating, soaked, like my back soaked,

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01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: and I gotta hug this girl because I'm not gonna

1322
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: give her a kiss. Oh my god, this is classic Jared,

1323
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: have a good night with these dates, the taking shopping

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01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 1: and stuff. No, no, no, no, we'd hang out, cod

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01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 1: get food, drive around my car because that's what you

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01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: do in high school because you can't get a bar anywhere. Sorry,

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01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: he's driving me crazy. You need to stop. Yeah, he's

1328
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: swiveling in his chair and its sque keen over here

1329
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 1: because he he can never sit still. The wife is

1330
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 1: nagging me again. It was the lack of use of

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01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: directionals on the way here, and now it's the script. Sorry,

1332
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: but I tried to tell him privately over here, but

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01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: he keeps doing it. So do you get mad when

1334
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,240
Speaker 1: she criticizes you? Not really. I kind of find it funny.

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01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 1: So Jared doesn't find it funny at all. I don't.

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01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 1: It's not like I don't not find it funny. I like, well,

1337
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: give him feedback, you know, feedback like it's best when

1338
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 1: you do it like this. I do all the things

1339
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 1: that Cosmo says. You know. But Jared, if you give

1340
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:39,840
Speaker 1: any little criticism, it's my own personality flaw because I

1341
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:44,559
Speaker 1: don't criticize you as much. So when things bother me, yes,

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01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: So when things bother me, I just kind of let

1343
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: them go, but you know I handle it so well

1344
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: you do. But it's that's why I said it's my

1345
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,800
Speaker 1: personal flaw, because when you do something that bothers me,

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01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:55,439
Speaker 1: I don't really speak up on it. I'm just I

1347
01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: just kind of let it go. But then I know,

1348
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: but then when you criticize me, all of those things

1349
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: that I don't criticize you for, come to the head,

1350
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: come to the don't you don't really say it. No,

1351
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 1: I don't say it, but I become defensive because in

1352
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 1: my mind, I'm like, I let so many things go,

1353
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: and you're going to criticize me about my chapstick being

1354
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 1: on the dresser. I know, but the only thing you

1355
01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 1: ever name is the chapstick. I'll be like, I bother

1356
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,639
Speaker 1: you about so many others. You're just a giant paint

1357
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: in the ask, but you're I'm a painting. I might

1358
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: be a bigger paint in the ask, but you just

1359
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 1: need to tell me when something does bother you, because

1360
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, oh my gosh, really, I'm so sorry.

1361
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,040
Speaker 1: I'll change that, Like, I never get annoyed at you

1362
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, she handles it far better than I do. Tanner,

1363
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 1: And I always say banter is our love language because

1364
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: it's kind of what we do. We're pretty playful most

1365
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:46,639
Speaker 1: of the time until it's not. But this has been healthy. Guys,

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01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 1: Ashley and I have yet to have any type of

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01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 1: blow up fight. I'm I'm assuming they will. What if

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01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:56,439
Speaker 1: you guys have blow up fights over don't give real specifics. No,

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01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 1: it's like the littlest, dumbest things that turn into big

1370
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 1: fights and then it's like, what the heck was that about?

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Speaker 1: It's probably I mean just messes or like, honestly, when

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01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: we like taking content France social media, and that's that's

1373
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: when we get on our biggest tips and I mean

1374
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 1: just like frustrations what he'll like sign and like but

1375
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 1: do it and I'll be like, what do you want

1376
01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 1: for me? We gotta do it. You told me to

1377
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 1: do it now? And then I wonder why that is.

1378
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: I think it might be the pressure of everything, because

1379
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm not tooting our own our horns by saying this,

1380
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: but we do obviously have a pretty decent following and

1381
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: whatever we post for posting to hundreds of thousands of people,

1382
01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: if not millions for Jade and Ashley, and so I

1383
01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 1: think more so it's like I'm I constantly second guess myself.

1384
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:48,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, this sucks. That's terrible. They're going to hate this. Um,

1385
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: everybody's gonna follow me because it's the worst picture of

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Speaker 1: all time. Things like that, And so that's when I

1387
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 1: get mad about defensive ours. Is Tanner is really bossy,

1388
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 1: then sequence is job because he was the boss. Now

1389
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:07,879
Speaker 1: he thinks he's my boss, and so he needs somebody.

1390
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 1: He needs somebody the boss around. And Tanner and I

1391
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Speaker 1: are both the oldest children and are like sibling order,

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Speaker 1: and so we both are very stubborn and both think

1393
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: we're the boss. And that's probably where we butt heads,

1394
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: especially with social media. So that's interesting that you bring

1395
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 1: up the sibling things like the birth orders. I think

1396
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 1: it works with Jared and I had the birth order.

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01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 1: We do. Yeah, the bossy commanding one and he's the

1398
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 1: go with the flow. That's when they say they say

1399
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 1: oldest children should marry the youngest children and like your

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Speaker 1: family birth orders. Oh I've never heard that, but it

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Speaker 1: makes complete sense because in our relationship, I have an

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Speaker 1: older sister, uh, and you have a younger sister, So

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01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:44,880
Speaker 1: you're always the boss in your sibling relationship. And I

1404
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Speaker 1: was always the one going with the flow, and that's

1405
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Speaker 1: exactly what our relationship is. And your sister is actually

1406
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 1: so much more like me than you're like me. But yeah,

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01:11:55,840 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 1: not like, not necessarily interest wise, but like the personality trade. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it kind of tells me what to do sometimes, like, hey, Jared,

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Speaker 1: do this. She's firmer, more decisive. Totally. I only do

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Speaker 1: reader emails here, even though our conversation is so much

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01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 1: fun like this. Okay, um, this is a question from Amy.

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01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 1: She says, how do you guys deal with not wearing sunglasses?

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01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: Sunny beaches, deserts linger by the pool, even just a

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01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 1: day day outside? I find it torturous to have to

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01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,559
Speaker 1: go without eye protection. How do you guys handle it?

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01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:54,000
Speaker 1: A day without diff eyewear? God? No, take my eyes.

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01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 1: Did you guys feel bothered by it? No? I mean

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01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 1: it's annoying because if you're on the beach, you're sweating,

1496
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: your makeup is falling off, you know, so you know

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01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: you're getting a ton of makeup underneath your eyes and

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01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 1: you can't cover that up on camera. Maybe that's the

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01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,840
Speaker 1: most annoying part, but for me it was makeup reason. Yeah,

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01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: But otherwise I think you just you get used to it.

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01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: It's just another I actually had sunglasses on camera one time.

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01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 1: They showed me wearing sunglasses. Yeah, it was very weird.

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01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:24,719
Speaker 1: I remember the day we were sitting by the pool.

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01:17:25,080 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 1: I just I kept wearing sunglasses. It was one of

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01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: those times where I walked into filming and just sat down.

1506
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:33,040
Speaker 1: So I think production just it was probably a good

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01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:35,360
Speaker 1: conversation and I let it go. But they aired that

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01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 1: of me wearing sunglasses. Very interesting conversation. And the only

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01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: time that it ever bothered me was when I was

1510
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 1: watching our show back and I never noticed that I

1511
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:49,360
Speaker 1: do this like this scrunch face that is horrendous to

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01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:53,919
Speaker 1: look at. Well, it's just because the sun is blaring

1513
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 1: into my eyes and we don't have any sunglasses, and

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01:17:56,880 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 1: so my eyes are just squinty, and my my like

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01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:02,560
Speaker 1: everything is just scrunched up, and I just looked. I

1516
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: remember looking at myself saying, wow, that I look different,

1517
01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:06,760
Speaker 1: and then I thought to myself, oh, I'm I'm I'm

1518
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 1: blinded right now, and that's why I look so different.

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01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 1: It was actually a conversation that we were having. It

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01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 1: was the first time I noticed that it was you

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01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 1: and I were talking about Joe Bailey and everything that

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01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,760
Speaker 1: was going on. It was a great, great conversation, great scene.

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01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: The next email comes from Chelsea. She goes, I'm a

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01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 1: speech pathologist and so is Cassie. So I was reaching

1525
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 1: researching her and there was an article saying that she's

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01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 1: actually a speech assistant, someone who assists speech pathologists with

1527
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: their daily scheduling. So the producers changed the professions of

1528
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 1: the contestants often. Actually Cassie clarified this on her own

1529
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:42,600
Speaker 1: Instagram earlier in the season because I don't think she

1530
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,800
Speaker 1: wanted to take credit for being a full speech pathologist yet. Um.

1531
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:49,880
Speaker 1: But lying about careers and producer manipulation with the title

1532
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: what do you guys have to say about that? They

1533
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 1: were spot on with mine. So I don't have any

1534
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: personal experience about them posting and or changing words or

1535
01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: something like that. I mean, they definitely change what was

1536
01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:07,800
Speaker 1: your careers. Mine was cosmetics developer because right at the

1537
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 1: time I was UM. But I think they definitely do

1538
01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 1: when they know what kind of edit that you're getting

1539
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 1: or what they want people to like about you. Because

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01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:20,640
Speaker 1: there's girls that are like, like, I don't know, what

1541
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:22,639
Speaker 1: is the one that the girl that had like the dog,

1542
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:24,719
Speaker 1: you know, she was like a dog owner or whatever.

1543
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:28,320
Speaker 1: It was. This something weird. You know. That's because they

1544
01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 1: know that they're not going to get an edit that's memorable,

1545
01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:34,640
Speaker 1: and so they just make them something weird. Cassie, I

1546
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 1: mean Cassie with a just but what's her name? Heather

1547
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,679
Speaker 1: had never been kissed and now it says has been kissing. Yeah,

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01:19:42,760 --> 01:19:47,240
Speaker 1: speaking of Cassie, though, have you guys heard the gossip? No,

1549
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:53,679
Speaker 1: you know me, I'm very up on my Bachelor. Breaking news,

1550
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:57,719
Speaker 1: no spoilers, just breaking news. It's out there. It's public knowledge.

1551
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 1: Cassie apparently owned a show with her and her on

1552
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: again off boyfriend that rapped two weeks before Bachelor started.

1553
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 1: I watched the trailer. Yea watched. She seems into said

1554
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 1: X I think his name was like Kaylin or I

1555
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 1: don't know, something something like that. A TV show. Yeah,

1556
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:19,680
Speaker 1: it feels it feels very like Laguna Beach. It's highly produced.

1557
01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:23,560
Speaker 1: It feels like the new Laguna Beach on what. I

1558
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:26,600
Speaker 1: don't know. I saw a reality Steve tweeted it and

1559
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:29,599
Speaker 1: I I just went down the rabbit hole. But she

1560
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:32,719
Speaker 1: is one of the main characters in it, and it's

1561
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: it's it's a reality show. But it's about her and

1562
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:38,680
Speaker 1: this guy that they're they're broken up, but there's definitely

1563
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:43,480
Speaker 1: you can tell there's history in the relationship. There's history

1564
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:46,760
Speaker 1: within their relationship. And this was apparently filmed two weeks

1565
01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 1: before she left for Bachelor, and this has not aired yet.

1566
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 1: It's out now you can watch episode one. Oh, it's out. Now.

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01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:57,160
Speaker 1: Do we know how many episodes there are this season?

1568
01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: Because I'm very curious hypothetically, well, I mean, say, like,

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01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: either Colin picks her she's the next Batchelorette, will this

1570
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: show be airing when that whole thing goes down? That's

1571
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:10,559
Speaker 1: juicy Tanner. Thanks for adding that to the pod. That's crazy.

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01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to add that, but

1573
01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:14,600
Speaker 1: I found it interesting. I'm going to come back to

1574
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: these questions because we have two more I want to

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01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:21,639
Speaker 1: talk about. But first we have Catherine on the line. Catherine, Hi,

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01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,479
Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you? You are best

1577
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 1: known as the interrupter on Night one? And you brought

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01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,679
Speaker 1: your dog Lucy. I had a dog named Lucy. Lucy

1579
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,800
Speaker 1: is the best name you could ever name a Dog's high?

1580
01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:40,120
Speaker 1: How's she doing? She's amazing, She's amazing. Where did she act? Lucy.

1581
01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 1: Where did she actually stay when you were still in

1582
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 1: the season? You know, um, I know Chris Harrison had

1583
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:51,200
Speaker 1: her and took her for lovely walks and Colton spent

1584
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:54,160
Speaker 1: a lot of time with her as well. Um. She

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01:21:54,720 --> 01:21:58,679
Speaker 1: given that it was a working set, they she wasn't

1586
01:21:58,680 --> 01:22:01,840
Speaker 1: allowed to stay at the house with us. So, um,

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01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:04,640
Speaker 1: they had many people taken care of her. She was

1588
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: in good hands. That is good to hear. Um. She

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01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 1: didn't get to sleep with you though, and like you're bunk,

1590
01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:17,519
Speaker 1: she didn't. Unfortunately she didn't, So we didn't get to

1591
01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:20,719
Speaker 1: spend as much time together as I would have hoped.

1592
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 1: Originally that was a plan, was for her to be

1593
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 1: at the house with us, but um, it didn't it

1594
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 1: just because of the regulations and the rules. They was

1595
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:33,640
Speaker 1: just too uh not possible for her to be with us.

1596
01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 1: You know why I think that is she beat too

1597
01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 1: much of a therapy dog. She she'd honestly provide too

1598
01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:48,400
Speaker 1: much emotional support. You don't want people, you know, want

1599
01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:51,800
Speaker 1: people being too too normal right No? No, not too

1600
01:22:51,800 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 1: comfortable in the house, not with the one that they love.

1601
01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 1: So what did you feel about Colton? Did you did

1602
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 1: you feel like you had some thing with him and

1603
01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 1: you left you early or did you really feel like

1604
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:05,679
Speaker 1: it was your time to go? You know? I really

1605
01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:09,760
Speaker 1: I think he is. I think he's a genuinely just

1606
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:13,639
Speaker 1: a good person and a kind soul and all around

1607
01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:18,840
Speaker 1: an amazing person. I don't think he was my person though, Um.

1608
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 1: I think that if he was, I would have fought

1609
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:24,639
Speaker 1: for it and I would have felt, um the spark

1610
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 1: for the connection that you would hope to feel with

1611
01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: your significant other, and I didn't really feel that. I

1612
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 1: think that he's just more above like a good friend

1613
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 1: or like a buddy. Like I think I'm a little

1614
01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: bit too much for him to handle. Who was your

1615
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,799
Speaker 1: closest girlfriend in the house. My closest girls would probably

1616
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 1: be Demi and Nicole Um. They're just amazing and unique

1617
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:52,160
Speaker 1: in their own way, and both speak their minds and

1618
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: make me laugh, and they're just such cool girls. Honestly,

1619
01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 1: so is Demi the villain that they try to make

1620
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:06,479
Speaker 1: her out to be, Um, I mean, she's my girl,

1621
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:08,559
Speaker 1: so of course I don't think she's a villain by

1622
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 1: any means that she just speaks freely and speaks her

1623
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:17,880
Speaker 1: mind and is undeniably herself and is unapologetic and she

1624
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: doesn't have any problem saying how she feels. And you know,

1625
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:26,479
Speaker 1: I can mention for that as you just speak freely

1626
01:24:26,479 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 1: about how you go. And then you said Nicole was

1627
01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:32,080
Speaker 1: your other close friend. So what do you think about

1628
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 1: the drama between her and on Yaka? Um? You know,

1629
01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:41,040
Speaker 1: Onyak and I had our fair Sara drama night one. UM,

1630
01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:44,640
Speaker 1: so I can understand. I can understand that Anika is

1631
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:50,679
Speaker 1: a very strong personality and so is Nicole. Um. So,

1632
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 1: I mean I can I can totally see that happening

1633
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:58,280
Speaker 1: and them kind of um budding has a little bit,

1634
01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day when it comes down,

1635
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 1: so it I mean, at least the time that I

1636
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:05,120
Speaker 1: was there, everyone was cool and like okay with each other.

1637
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:10,160
Speaker 1: Nicole comes across a little uncomfortable on camera for me,

1638
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:13,680
Speaker 1: but I do feel like she's really genuine. I hear

1639
01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:15,280
Speaker 1: that she cried a lot in the house and you

1640
01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 1: haven't really seen much of it. Yes, she did. Um

1641
01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:24,160
Speaker 1: she is. She definitely wears her emotion honorous sleeve. I

1642
01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 1: think that's why I love her so much, is she's

1643
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:31,680
Speaker 1: just um, very open minded, open open heart. She came

1644
01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:35,240
Speaker 1: in the situation of like vulnerable and open. I think

1645
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 1: no one could ask for anything more. And she was

1646
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 1: emotional and to be that way and vulnerable, especially on

1647
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 1: camera and around all these other women and in this

1648
01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:54,120
Speaker 1: unique situation, I think is something very admirable. Hey, Catherine,

1649
01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:57,120
Speaker 1: it's jaredy here. I wasn't supposed to be on here,

1650
01:25:57,160 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 1: but now I'm crashing because I actually have a question

1651
01:25:59,000 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 1: for you. Katherine. You're not toorilously known this season for

1652
01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 1: stealing Colton about eight times on the night one. I'm exaggerating,

1653
01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:12,599
Speaker 1: wasn't eight times four? Who's unting that's true? Who is counting?

1654
01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:14,880
Speaker 1: My question to you is, have did you ever watch

1655
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 1: the show before you went on? I I didn't. I have.

1656
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:22,679
Speaker 1: I've never seen The Bachelor. Um My my highest twin sister,

1657
01:26:22,840 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: and she is a fan of the show, and she's

1658
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 1: the one that nominated me put the show. And I

1659
01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 1: think that maybe if I had seen the show prior,

1660
01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: I kind of would understand the unique dynamic in the situation.

1661
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I was there to

1662
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:41,400
Speaker 1: know to get to know Colton, and I wanted to

1663
01:26:41,439 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 1: know that, you know, me giving up my life back

1664
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 1: home in my career and putting my life on holes

1665
01:26:46,520 --> 01:26:49,479
Speaker 1: it was worthwhile. So I had to have those that

1666
01:26:49,680 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 1: the conversations with him that needed to that needed to happen,

1667
01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:54,920
Speaker 1: and I kept getting interrupted, So the only thing that

1668
01:26:54,960 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 1: I could do was, you know, asked for more times

1669
01:26:57,040 --> 01:26:59,640
Speaker 1: to finish my conversation. Well, that's why I was asking it,

1670
01:26:59,680 --> 01:27:02,720
Speaker 1: because the girl who notoriously steals the guy away on

1671
01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 1: Fortnight one always makes a mistake because as an audience,

1672
01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 1: we're watching it, like, why do you keep stealing this guy?

1673
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 1: He's obviously not like seeing how you never knew that

1674
01:27:11,360 --> 01:27:13,720
Speaker 1: was how the show worked. It makes sense now why

1675
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:15,960
Speaker 1: you would steal him away so many times. Was it

1676
01:27:16,040 --> 01:27:17,519
Speaker 1: just to try to make a better impression. Was the

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Speaker 1: conversation not going well and that's why you're like, Okay,

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01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:21,599
Speaker 1: I need to either talk to him more or make

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01:27:21,640 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 1: a better impression. No, I have, uh not out of

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01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:28,839
Speaker 1: my mind that I didn't make a solid first impression

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01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:31,800
Speaker 1: for the first thirty seconds of our conversation. Um, it

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01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 1: wasn't that. I think it was more to solidify the

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01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:37,720
Speaker 1: fact that you know, I am, that I wanted to

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01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 1: be here to get to know him, and we couldn't

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01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:46,000
Speaker 1: even finish our sentences and we were getting interrupted and Um,

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01:27:46,040 --> 01:27:48,080
Speaker 1: at the end of this day, I mean he commended

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01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:50,800
Speaker 1: me and admire the fact that I was very assertive

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01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:53,840
Speaker 1: and not a phrase to come and say, hey, listen,

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01:27:53,840 --> 01:27:55,600
Speaker 1: like I think we need to finish our conversation. I

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01:27:55,600 --> 01:27:59,760
Speaker 1: mean I had end, he agreed, we got interrupted, and

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Speaker 1: he's time we began to start talking or trying to

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01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:08,040
Speaker 1: finish our sentences. So I don't think that, um, it

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01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:12,559
Speaker 1: was that looked down upon by him by any interesting. Well,

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01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:14,640
Speaker 1: you gave a lot of clarity today. Thank you for

1695
01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:17,360
Speaker 1: coming on our podcast, Katherine, and we hope to see

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Speaker 1: you in Paradise. Thanks, guys, have a good night. Thank

1697
01:28:21,560 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 1: you there, Thank you bye. Al Right, guys, Two quick

1698
01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:31,760
Speaker 1: emails because they're very interesting. UM. One term, Angie, can

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01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 1: you be sent home if there's a live performance on

1700
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:36,559
Speaker 1: a date? What happens if the bachelor's on a one

1701
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:38,479
Speaker 1: one and it is not feeling the date and wants

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01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:41,080
Speaker 1: to send the person home, but there's a live performer planned.

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01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 1: Does the bachelor I have to give the date the

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01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:45,639
Speaker 1: rose just so they make it to the performance. Never

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01:28:45,640 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 1: thought this before. I've always wondered that actually, really yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wonder if they just give those dates to like

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01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:55,559
Speaker 1: because I think if there's a date plan like that,

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01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:58,519
Speaker 1: you're getting the rows. You're not going home when you

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01:28:58,520 --> 01:29:09,920
Speaker 1: know some seiling. That's interesting though, because we never show

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01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 1: I never felt like a shoe in on Caitlyn season

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Speaker 1: and they had the helicopter date. But there was also

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Speaker 1: the day I done like cranberries were there? Weren't it

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01:29:19,200 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 1: was the helicopter was my first one on one was

1714
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Speaker 1: when Nick showed up, because that was kind of little.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised if if Nick came and she

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01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:26,479
Speaker 1: wasn't feeling with me, she would have sent me home

1717
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:29,040
Speaker 1: and the helicopter ride would have been nothing. The helicopter

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01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:30,880
Speaker 1: ride they could have canceled. That wouldn't have been a

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01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 1: big deal. That's what they're not canceled them because they

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01:29:34,360 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 1: have a whole audience waiting and then in performance and

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01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:41,800
Speaker 1: all right, folks didn't get the rose. How great TV

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01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:44,519
Speaker 1: would that be though? If they did? And then he

1723
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 1: just walked in by himself to the concert and thinking

1724
01:29:47,520 --> 01:29:48,680
Speaker 1: this is where I was supposed to be with this

1725
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 1: girl and now I'm alone. I hope this happened someday.

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Speaker 1: That's great TV. I mean, it's it's horrible. I'm gonna

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01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:56,680
Speaker 1: want that, but thanks for the email and it was

1728
01:29:56,720 --> 01:30:00,479
Speaker 1: a good question. Next is from Julia and Allison Faull.

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01:30:00,680 --> 01:30:02,880
Speaker 1: I love this. This is for you, Jared and Tanner.

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01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:07,559
Speaker 1: Ready ready. Following Colton's hot makeout sash on tonight's episode

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01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:11,080
Speaker 1: with Hannah j I have a pressing question. How in

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01:30:11,160 --> 01:30:14,519
Speaker 1: the world does the male lead hide there? I mean,

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Speaker 1: come on, it said Ben? Can you help us with this? Well,

1734
01:30:18,160 --> 01:30:20,880
Speaker 1: we all know Ben couldn't hide his one with Joe Joe.

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Speaker 1: If you guys google it, you'll find it. It's funny.

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Speaker 1: Love you bad, Ja, Ja, Jade? How did you hide her?

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01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:34,519
Speaker 1: Tell us Danner? Jared Um, you know, Jared, you better

1738
01:30:34,600 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 1: not have gone. Yeah, Jared had a raging I see

1739
01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:43,160
Speaker 1: it on his face. He's not making out contact. You

1740
01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:48,800
Speaker 1: gotta tuck it under the belt, you know, tuck the

1741
01:30:48,880 --> 01:30:53,280
Speaker 1: old So is there like a discrete adjustment? Yeah, you

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01:30:53,360 --> 01:30:56,679
Speaker 1: just kind of it's standing up. Yeah, were you worried

1743
01:30:56,680 --> 01:30:58,720
Speaker 1: about that? If you're wearing a belle, it's not to

1744
01:30:58,760 --> 01:31:01,000
Speaker 1: screet because then you get if it's like a baste

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01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:03,760
Speaker 1: band like sweatpants or something. The bathing suits where Ben

1746
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:07,240
Speaker 1: got in trouble. Oh, bathing suits are the worst for guys. Well,

1747
01:31:07,240 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 1: you can't hide it because the shirt go over if

1748
01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:12,080
Speaker 1: you have to put it under the waistbands. Just a

1749
01:31:12,080 --> 01:31:14,760
Speaker 1: little bit too too much for this podcast. I know

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01:31:14,840 --> 01:31:17,519
Speaker 1: we are pretty PG well, Julian Alison, I'm going to

1751
01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:20,360
Speaker 1: go ahead and say I think the producers are. I

1752
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,559
Speaker 1: think it's usually cut out because it is a clean,

1753
01:31:23,880 --> 01:31:28,960
Speaker 1: family oriented show and nobody wants to see that anyone.

1754
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Speaker 1: All right, before we head out, I want to say

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for being here at This is

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Speaker 1: a blast. And I've been Ashley, I've been Jade. I'm

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01:32:25,800 --> 01:32:28,320
Speaker 1: still Tanner. And you can check out Help I Suck

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Speaker 1: at Dating on iHeart Radio because he is Jared Haven.

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Speaker 1: Goodbye bye. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous

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