Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sellers podcast with your host. Now funk that with your
Speaker 1: low blasses Malone. Puff people, what are you walking? I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's like the toughest dude on earth,
Speaker 1: but he's still a man and he with the hell
Speaker 1: like So Puff is tough. I had never said he
Speaker 1: was puffed. I didn't say Puff was tough. I said
Speaker 1: Puff works out. That's what I said. She said Puff
Speaker 1: is tough. What I mean? I think you know he'd
Speaker 1: been checking foods. Who Look, he didn't got it. Okay,
Speaker 1: Look he just got into it on Halloween with old
Speaker 1: from you took that serious he was. He wasn't here
Speaker 1: to slap the makeup off that nigga face. He was
Speaker 1: because it's an actor. It's an actor and the nick
Speaker 1: it's pub like this, that's New York man. They just
Speaker 1: talked rude. Anyway. He didn't say nothing, no talking about
Speaker 1: he wasn't he empowering one of them where they act
Speaker 1: like real ship. Oh my god, no, nothing, No, I
Speaker 1: think that go to the man shot too. I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you that. Shout out to my boy Bisi Hanni.
Speaker 1: So look we have came into such a weird place
Speaker 1: in hip hop where you guys are saying puffs. I
Speaker 1: did not say puff. Whatever Rare said Puff, you know,
Speaker 1: apparently he is. Apparently Puff is tough. Why you ain't
Speaker 1: nobody messing? Not even simple want to listen. I think Puffy,
Speaker 1: no one's gonna step to him. Who's gonna step to him?
Speaker 1: Nigg has been stepped between my whole life like Shook
Speaker 1: step twin Pox. Everybody talked Picked, that's what that was.
Speaker 1: I don't see that, Like we didn't know that Park
Speaker 1: was talking about all this crazy you Puff didn't say nothing. Okay,
Speaker 1: but he's not really a rapper either, Like I mean,
Speaker 1: I know he didn't was an artist or whatnot. But
Speaker 1: he wouldn't you know, what was he gonna say to Supo?
Speaker 1: You see what he said to Drake? You see what
Speaker 1: he did to Jacole? Didn't he answer his face? Though?
Speaker 1: Then they had an alteration time. They don't want to,
Speaker 1: you know, disrespect like the elders like he older Puffed.
Speaker 1: I thought that nigga a bit and said he would
Speaker 1: do something to that actor. Man he did. He really
Speaker 1: did break character at all. I don't think Rapp is
Speaker 1: at a weird place. Think about it, right, you got
Speaker 1: all of hip hop right, like niggas is talking about
Speaker 1: the baby. The baby is the realist, letting nigg out
Speaker 1: of all the rappers the baby. I think so he
Speaker 1: shot he killed the nigga a Walmart. Yeah, man, you boy,
Speaker 1: young boy did not. That's not going to put young
Speaker 1: young boy'll be talking country and crazy. That's all talk
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. The baby is the real deal because
Speaker 1: he shot somebody in Walmart. He killed the name Walmart.
Speaker 1: Shot the nigga told the police, come get this nigg
Speaker 1: in his yard. This nigga leaning in my yard. He
Speaker 1: beat up about three niggas him and his boys. That
Speaker 1: nigga is a modern day motherfucker. Now he really don't
Speaker 1: give ant And then all the modern hip hop hayt
Speaker 1: the baby. The baby. I'm like, so y'all hate it.
Speaker 1: I think what it is in modern hip hop you
Speaker 1: have to seem tough, but not like a nigga was
Speaker 1: arguing about Drake On. Now the baby was cool, I
Speaker 1: think like a lot. Just all that ship that happened
Speaker 1: with his baby mama. I mean, his baby mama was like, no,
Speaker 1: it wasn't. That was just the fact that he was
Speaker 1: like a player. He was just doing too much. He
Speaker 1: was sitting over here talking about okay, you could get
Speaker 1: out the same my girl, this and that whatever. I
Speaker 1: get it. That's fine. You know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: already we heard the song. We know. But all this
Speaker 1: is you're doing, this is your the mother of your child.
Speaker 1: Now this is a public He was just doing too much.
Speaker 1: He was just trying to claim because and he's saying
Speaker 1: I'm a player for real, But that's not what he said.
Speaker 1: That's not what he said. I want to have respected that.
Speaker 1: When then him he wasn't cleaning her. He's saying, this
Speaker 1: ain't my bro, I don't under That's not how it starts,
Speaker 1: not how when it started from this are from now?
Speaker 1: What was? It helped me? Please? It wasn't. It was
Speaker 1: something like I don't know. They was on live and
Speaker 1: once they started arguing, then he came and was just like,
Speaker 1: you know, that wasn't my girl. That wasn't like yeah.
Speaker 1: She tried to throw him out there like she was
Speaker 1: acting like he was doing her bad, and he was like, man,
Speaker 1: you're not. We're not like that, and she got an
Speaker 1: attitude because we're not like that Okay, Look, regardless of
Speaker 1: however it happened, and whatever happened, I still feel like
Speaker 1: whatever whatever transpired with that kind of yeah with his
Speaker 1: you know why because I'm telling you it's the same
Speaker 1: bitch nigga ever ship. Y'all literally are fucked up socide
Speaker 1: this at a fucked up place. It was a nigga
Speaker 1: argue with me on Twitter, and I wouldn't argue with him.
Speaker 1: He was arguing with me. He was like, you need
Speaker 1: to tell me you think Drake got all that money
Speaker 1: he won't get something done to a nigga. I'm like,
Speaker 1: so he got money and he's a gangster. Now, I
Speaker 1: don't agree with that. I do not see Drake as
Speaker 1: nowhere near as against it. He literally just has a
Speaker 1: song right now where he's singing to a dude like
Speaker 1: his homie, saying like, uh I would kill for Nick
Speaker 1: or whatever. I don't know his lyrics, but literally I
Speaker 1: was listening to that up here, like what the fun
Speaker 1: is going on? So there's no way I would believe
Speaker 1: that he was. I think Drake really got on explaining
Speaker 1: y'all sentiments, black women's sentiments. He became like y'all Mary
Speaker 1: J Block, no, no, like he really became. And then
Speaker 1: I was like dad with the white woman that ship,
Speaker 1: I was like that kind of that was just like
Speaker 1: he used all the game. Now he wouldn't even to
Speaker 1: the man telling you all this ship for everybody, not
Speaker 1: even from he like I an't even from United States.
Speaker 1: I'm not even that nigger got a knife the dadder
Speaker 1: in his face because in England ain't no gun. They
Speaker 1: they stabbed each other all the time. That's why you
Speaker 1: got that knife right there, stablished it out of each other.
Speaker 1: They gangster on another level. That's why I won't never
Speaker 1: say nothing about twenty one and them gangster them they
Speaker 1: could be stabbing each other. You're a different nigga. If
Speaker 1: you're stabbing, Shooting the nigga is easy, Like it's only
Speaker 1: tough the first two times. Stabbing the nigga, that's tough.
Speaker 1: That's personal and ship everything. You know. I'm generation the
Speaker 1: old nigga stabbing in your eyes. It shouldn't be looking
Speaker 1: in your eyes while that's a nigge the see, that's
Speaker 1: what I was thinking. That's why I didn't want that
Speaker 1: guy to get close to me, because I was thinking
Speaker 1: he can stab me. But that's what I'll be worried
Speaker 1: about whack whack, be fu get your ass. Stabbed one
Speaker 1: for sure, stabbing nigg He looked like his that haircut.
Speaker 1: He ain't no joke, no sailings classes malon, what's handing?
Speaker 1: What's going on? What's handing? Kind of bird don't fly,
Speaker 1: brick kind of bird, don't fly jail bird. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: bread fresh out? Hey, I'm fresh out man. I don't
Speaker 1: never first out of jail California dreaming. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: how was that when you start? We ain't for to
Speaker 1: keep talking about this, but how was the first step
Speaker 1: side of jail? I ain't never going back. You step
Speaker 1: up like your chests out like I was cold as
Speaker 1: fucking I was like my girl too. I'm sure. I'm
Speaker 1: for sure you were throwing the women were women cold?
Speaker 1: For sure? They rubbed their arms. What are you warming up?
Speaker 1: Because for sure our body are warming orange up all
Speaker 1: on your body because they don't feel that colde at
Speaker 1: the bottom. It's right, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: that's nothing like watching the woman go through something because
Speaker 1: it don't matter if it's hot the cold outside's gonna
Speaker 1: rub her arms. Yeah, I was doing that's comfort. Hurry up.
Speaker 1: It took that uber longest time to come to man
Speaker 1: as the longest wait in my mind. I just wanted
Speaker 1: to get away. Ober. Just think before Uber, I started
Speaker 1: to walk down the street because I didn't even want
Speaker 1: to be right there. Yeah, like they might come back
Speaker 1: and get me, give me my I d back going
Speaker 1: there for ship. Wait right, Wait, so you left your
Speaker 1: ID they take it from you? They took it. Oh
Speaker 1: so you didn't get she was gonna slit your wrist
Speaker 1: with it. No, they know this. The straps on my
Speaker 1: legs to take your ship because they know nigga's like,
Speaker 1: you're gonna hang there still out. Yeah, she was gonna
Speaker 1: get gangster British gangster. Nick. I just don't let people
Speaker 1: fuck with me. But so back to the point I
Speaker 1: was saying, I digress right, like black women being used consistently,
Speaker 1: and I noticed that's becoming like the game plan all
Speaker 1: the time everybody uses black women. I'll be seeing niggas
Speaker 1: who I know for sure don't with black women, be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta stand up for our black women.
Speaker 1: Like how do y'all even buy that? Who do y'all
Speaker 1: really think is for black women? Like as two sisters
Speaker 1: like like everybody uses y'all this marketing, right, y'all just
Speaker 1: become marketing targets, right. Uh. The Democrats use y'all like
Speaker 1: that white lady said she had hot sauce in their bag.
Speaker 1: Like I didn't even say. Nobody ever taught the black men,
Speaker 1: but they taught the black women. I just wanted to
Speaker 1: know how y'all feel about that, like Drake pretty much y'all.
Speaker 1: Kanye and Drake, y'all built both of them up. Makes
Speaker 1: that both of y'all lass in the back at the end. Damn,
Speaker 1: Kanye told you all to hold It wasn't really like
Speaker 1: like that's what I was going to say, Like I
Speaker 1: really think that for sure. I was. I was, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like he's saying to me like he just understood, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like he understood as a rapper like who I would think.
Speaker 1: But later he started hear me it. I mean just
Speaker 1: just just even as a rapper, like somebody like Drake
Speaker 1: who pretty much dated like black women. And now you
Speaker 1: wouldn't catch him dead with his sister over the day
Speaker 1: like old tennis player. It is, though I've seen him,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen him with no Nick used to be
Speaker 1: he said, what's your name? You'll be talking about Drake,
Speaker 1: right yeah? Um, I no, no, Serena, but he haven't
Speaker 1: known Serena. Husband called Serena's roupy me because I remember
Speaker 1: because used to be at her tennis match. I remember
Speaker 1: that he called. Yeah he did, he'd be real messy.
Speaker 1: I just said he was bored. See y'all and this
Speaker 1: is your problem, y'all thought Drake spoke for y'all. I
Speaker 1: don't think we talked. No spoke for us. Well, she's
Speaker 1: a fan, because he didn't. He didn't speak to you.
Speaker 1: He spoke for you. He pretty much all his sentiments y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all feel like those were y'all sentiments. Even if you
Speaker 1: listen to that new song where he'd be like, I'm
Speaker 1: losing friends finding piece. That's some that's some woman. It
Speaker 1: was when we were kidding called bitches and hose and ship.
Speaker 1: He slid in there and started singing to us and ship.
Speaker 1: We was getting called every other thing in the around
Speaker 1: the way, in around the corner. So he slid in
Speaker 1: with that like this is what y'all need. And that's
Speaker 1: y'all problem, because y'all could be so manipulation, but the
Speaker 1: build us up, and that's the problem. You don't deserve
Speaker 1: to be built. That's why we queens around here. You
Speaker 1: gotta better recognize. So let me tell you why that
Speaker 1: came across crazy. So I'm gonna break down. You stop
Speaker 1: putting yourself on pedestals. You cannot stand up there. You
Speaker 1: don't have the balance. That's the problem. You should start
Speaker 1: down here with the rest of us. Because when you
Speaker 1: put yourself on a pedestal, that's why you get a
Speaker 1: nigga like Drake, because you, right, Drake slid in like
Speaker 1: that nigga. Right, So when you and your you and
Speaker 1: your nigga be going through something, right, that one nigga
Speaker 1: who'll be sliding in. That nigga is never a good
Speaker 1: think about Adam and even fit Adam and Eve. Adam
Speaker 1: and Eve like God. Adam and Eve is like God,
Speaker 1: like his bit right his old lady. So he tell
Speaker 1: him like they don't funk with the food on this tree.
Speaker 1: This is not cool. And then that side nigga come
Speaker 1: in and be like, man, that nigga just really hay
Speaker 1: want you to taste them. If you was with me,
Speaker 1: I'll let you, man, and then we bring every time
Speaker 1: and then suck because then right after it's like you
Speaker 1: look at him like, damn, you are the devil because
Speaker 1: it's the smooth devil. Bro No, not like that, but
Speaker 1: he really is a savage. And it's funny because the
Speaker 1: niggas who you think like that called you bitches. Them
Speaker 1: niggas is all married like snoop, This nigg had been
Speaker 1: married for like fifty years, right, nigga Like Drake ain't
Speaker 1: gonna do nothing with no sister. He ain't getting none
Speaker 1: of y'all. We was talking about. Dad said wow, this
Speaker 1: is I mean, once he had the baby, and I'm
Speaker 1: like okay, wow, like wow, Sargana was just like okay,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm good on Drake. I really was just like
Speaker 1: not because it was just like I just was really
Speaker 1: like what no, you did because you would have thought
Speaker 1: it was like dang, really think about it. Think about
Speaker 1: it though. She wasn't she like a porn start to yeah,
Speaker 1: like a horn a white hole. I'm like, wow, that's so.
Speaker 1: I'm now I'm not saying nothing bad about Drake. See
Speaker 1: the thing is when y'all look at the rough edges
Speaker 1: of black men and the men that come from your communities,
Speaker 1: they just be rough on the outside because they've been
Speaker 1: through something with treacherous women. Y'all know how some girls get.
Speaker 1: So that'll make me and it's like scrappy, y'all. He
Speaker 1: was crying talking about what he had went through and
Speaker 1: everything look scrappy from up scrap. He was talking to
Speaker 1: his mom, mamadeed talking about how he grew up in
Speaker 1: the um, in the crack. His mama was a pimp,
Speaker 1: and he was saying, so I had to deal with um,
Speaker 1: watching people do dope, people coming in and out of
Speaker 1: the house, Like I can't even sleep in another room.
Speaker 1: I sleep with my mom because somebody else in there,
Speaker 1: like you know. And it was really like damn, you know,
Speaker 1: because like he said, he said, I can't go to
Speaker 1: band because shell hard. I can't go to you because
Speaker 1: you hard. But you but when you've been raising ship
Speaker 1: like that, you be hard, and then it sucks because
Speaker 1: niggas be like why are you so? Like I didn't
Speaker 1: been through a lot. But so he was really just
Speaker 1: breaking down like I never like he was breaking down
Speaker 1: what he has to deal with from his childhood and
Speaker 1: his experience, and he was really he was emotional about it,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, but but but yeah, that's my point.
Speaker 1: So y'all be mad because somebody says the word bitch
Speaker 1: or they feel like they talk crazy. Right, So you
Speaker 1: look at that and you'd be like, oh, they mistreat
Speaker 1: us and were queens, and how dare you eat not
Speaker 1: knowing Kings really mistreat queens historically, like they have concubines
Speaker 1: and all kind of ships. Don't Nobody sunk with the queens.
Speaker 1: Kings don't fuck with queens. So being a queen is
Speaker 1: really a waste of time because don't nobody respect the queen,
Speaker 1: not even the king. Remember the king always has side
Speaker 1: os every one of them, stories about them, crack ass kings. Everyone,
Speaker 1: they had concubines, they would sleep with slave, They were
Speaker 1: choosing everybody over you, Right, So you mistake that roughness
Speaker 1: right of of of that black rapper and then a
Speaker 1: guy like Drizzy slides in, Drake slides in, and you
Speaker 1: like he's seeing all the right things, girl, Because that's
Speaker 1: what I said, that's what we need. That, that's what
Speaker 1: we need. Sound it really good because when you're so
Speaker 1: used to be whether it's right or wrong, Like if
Speaker 1: you're so used to hearing this all the time, what
Speaker 1: about maybe the fact that you were being possibly a
Speaker 1: bit he came in. I mean, if he was you was,
Speaker 1: why would you be mad at the rappers saying but
Speaker 1: I mean even if he say that time, we still
Speaker 1: gonna be where there wasn't a lot of that going on,
Speaker 1: and never caught a woman a bitch. I love that
Speaker 1: he had this time. Everybody, all the ladies love Yeah.
Speaker 1: But my point is I'm saying, so he came at
Speaker 1: a time, right, just like in your real relationship where
Speaker 1: you feel like it's tough, and he sled up in
Speaker 1: there with that bullshit and he ruined your life. Now
Speaker 1: he won't even look at you now. He really gonna
Speaker 1: make you don't even like yourself. He talked, and what's crazy?
Speaker 1: Is he talking bad right now on a new album
Speaker 1: that the honey tell me? He talking crazy to the host?
Speaker 1: Oh no, he really don't care. That's why I saw
Speaker 1: text her like, hey, what's up? What's up with your boy?
Speaker 1: She said, how he bored? He ain't bored the real him. See,
Speaker 1: the reality is all of us is like that. The
Speaker 1: niggas who acted like they're not like that, that's not real.
Speaker 1: If you came from our background, even Drake, right, Drake
Speaker 1: and came from our background. But Drake Drake is to me,
Speaker 1: this is how I look at Drake right shout out
Speaker 1: of Drinkey. Drake is a nigga who got the pretty
Speaker 1: girls at school the whole time. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: the girls with the nice hair. Yeah, the pretty girl
Speaker 1: that you know when he was in high school to
Speaker 1: be the thin girl with the nice hair. She was
Speaker 1: a pretty cute girl. He ain't none of the sisters,
Speaker 1: the one that was stick that everybody wanted. So when
Speaker 1: he started rhyming, he started just running through them. Johnny
Speaker 1: Blaze is the all the girls that is popular in
Speaker 1: high school, that stick that was kind of probably fast whatever.
Speaker 1: He just started running through them, and he realized he
Speaker 1: wasn't cut out for it, but he understood that he
Speaker 1: had that appeal to them because he was speaking their language.
Speaker 1: He studied them so bad and wanted y'all so bad
Speaker 1: for me that he studied y'all and it was so
Speaker 1: easy to manipulate y'all and mock y'all. He did, and
Speaker 1: it got him into this business billions of dollars billions
Speaker 1: because y'all are so predictable. It sounds funked up. And
Speaker 1: I don't mean it in a negative way, but everything
Speaker 1: you'll do become so trendy, y'all following each other, you'll
Speaker 1: do the exact same thing all the time. If one
Speaker 1: start wearing our lashes, all start wearing out lashes. If
Speaker 1: one start making baby here, all start making baby here.
Speaker 1: So he could literally say one rap. Probably he could
Speaker 1: literally say one rap and and fit y'all and y'all
Speaker 1: fight your whole life to be different. It's like y'all
Speaker 1: all want to be like, oh I'm different. It's like
Speaker 1: you all do the same exact thing. I mean, he
Speaker 1: just came through with that like thing you are not
Speaker 1: ever wanted to. Yeah, it was going the best I've
Speaker 1: ever had knowing that's a lie. That was And it
Speaker 1: was dope though with like because when he was in
Speaker 1: a relationship with couples, everything like it wasn't just women
Speaker 1: like we were singing it, but it was like it
Speaker 1: was very like sentiment. There's no niggas that love Drake.
Speaker 1: There's lots of no no nigga love Drake. Hey, they
Speaker 1: was on Drake at that time when he had came
Speaker 1: out like y'all, y you're a man, where I said,
Speaker 1: y'all black men was never on that. Only niggas who
Speaker 1: were squares Drake. It's a lot of squares because point,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, because they the same dude. These
Speaker 1: dudes in real life, y'all wouldn't even give no play
Speaker 1: too in real life is a corn ball. I think
Speaker 1: if Asia meant real life, zero zero play, and she
Speaker 1: would have talked to that nigga two days, she would
Speaker 1: have gave some play. Though that's not the point she
Speaker 1: would give anybody playing theory. That's not in theory. I
Speaker 1: would not give anybody. So what's the corn is? Maybe
Speaker 1: you ever dated um corny ship, a nigger who make
Speaker 1: bad white jokes, because that's Drake, a white guy, oh,
Speaker 1: a corny nigga. Okay, not a white white guy. White
Speaker 1: people can't be corny because they white people. White people
Speaker 1: cannot be corny because the white white people are corny.
Speaker 1: They on colde. I yes, I dated he was the
Speaker 1: corny ist, and you just loved him to death. No
Speaker 1: you didn't. I didn't. I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: We but I date Actually I dated him for a while,
Speaker 1: but I really was like doing all kinds of ship.
Speaker 1: You did not it drove me crazy. I don't believe
Speaker 1: most of these sisters with David person like Drake Nigga.
Speaker 1: Drake was wrapping his first album with a glove on
Speaker 1: us to be on stage with a glove one glove
Speaker 1: like this is my point, Like, I'm not This is
Speaker 1: not an anti trade conversation. This is a really worried
Speaker 1: about black women conversations and their ability to be not
Speaker 1: everybody is going to talk to somebody like Drake, like
Speaker 1: you know what, most people not Serena like yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean because it would be hard for Drake to put
Speaker 1: you on your place. You probably think you could be
Speaker 1: Drake up. I don't know. Drake got like could you
Speaker 1: know he comes through like he something? If you was
Speaker 1: dating Drake and y'all got some argument, you think this
Speaker 1: NI gonna turn around and be like get you or
Speaker 1: something like that or something crazy the way this album
Speaker 1: is going. Yeah, I think that he probably would. I
Speaker 1: was about to say you like, fuck you glasses think
Speaker 1: square up? What on up? No? That ain't his down,
Speaker 1: damn Okay, See, I don't know. I I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I'm thinking. I just think that y'all flying situations where
Speaker 1: y'all play the victim all the time. And then like
Speaker 1: your favorite entertainers are always people that make y'all the victim,
Speaker 1: Like Mary J. Blige, she always is the victim. I
Speaker 1: was just bumping her on the way over here. Didn't
Speaker 1: been through a lot exactly. And it's never at fault.
Speaker 1: You don't have one song typ about how she's a
Speaker 1: raggedy woman. Wow, why would she? Why would she have
Speaker 1: a song saying she's a raggedy woman? So you can't
Speaker 1: go and not be raggedy. Eventually, some eventually some of
Speaker 1: the blame to you be something else but not raggedy,
Speaker 1: broky doctors, singers, singers, dancers, everything. I just knew about it. Eventually,
Speaker 1: it ain't her fault, like you don't have no accountability.
Speaker 1: She might you don't know what she says behind because
Speaker 1: why she don't sing the songs? But I did that
Speaker 1: nigga bad, I cheated only I wasn't. I didn't cook.
Speaker 1: Why you don't never have women that I should? Well you,
Speaker 1: I would you want me do a song? My point is,
Speaker 1: are you raggedy? No? But do you want me to
Speaker 1: do a song? Is there a celebrity woman that's raggedy
Speaker 1: that y'all know the celebrity woman that's ragged women. We're
Speaker 1: just not gonna say nothing negative about women, don't you
Speaker 1: do to it? But I could think of a raggedy
Speaker 1: um man. I bet you could. And he has a penis.
Speaker 1: I bet you can. Sure you can think of that nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm actually think of somebody raggedy would have vagina that
Speaker 1: you could feel honest, you'd like, you know what that
Speaker 1: motherfucker is raggedy? Like, why is it? Mary J Blige
Speaker 1: could sing a thousand songs about niggas doing something wrong
Speaker 1: and she ain't got one song about her doing her
Speaker 1: doing some ship. Then I could say, yeah, she was raggedy.
Speaker 1: But I'm just going if I'm going off for just
Speaker 1: some songs and I don't know as a victim, maybe
Speaker 1: she's going to victim on her life. How you know?
Speaker 1: Come on now, you don't know that, Come on now,
Speaker 1: you don't know that it's Mary Jacky J blu Let's
Speaker 1: keep it to being. Mary J. Blige looked way better
Speaker 1: now that she ever did. I said, Mary, Mary did
Speaker 1: not look like super shop. When I was young, Mary
Speaker 1: was like super rough, Like I thought, you fight Mary J.
Speaker 1: Blige when I was younger now, Mary J. Blige, Like
Speaker 1: she didn't. She actually is getting cute, like she aging
Speaker 1: like wine, her ship getting better and better. So you
Speaker 1: mean to tell me, ain't no nigga sticking around? Maybe
Speaker 1: she don't want it? I mean relationships? How long she
Speaker 1: was married for a while, like two days? Now she
Speaker 1: was married for three days. That was not three days.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that much time she was with that man
Speaker 1: for a minute. Come on now, Mary J. Blige, I'm
Speaker 1: just asking you a question. When do you ever start
Speaker 1: to analyze maybe the pedestal you're asking for is not
Speaker 1: one worthy of you? Like what if I told you
Speaker 1: that no woman is worthy of a pedestal? Do you
Speaker 1: think that I'm sure, no pedestal? Wow? Really yeah, no
Speaker 1: human being is worthy of a pedestal. But sure you
Speaker 1: because you're black woman, you put us up there. You
Speaker 1: don't have to be because you understand what the pedestal
Speaker 1: really looked like, and like figuratively speaking, like it's up there,
Speaker 1: it's very little you know, error, there's very little you know,
Speaker 1: ship for mistakes, like it's really close so soon as
Speaker 1: I mean, no one, Yeah, nobody's perfect, and why would
Speaker 1: you want to be on the pedestal, things that belong
Speaker 1: on the pedestal, things that don't come down highly. Why
Speaker 1: should a motherfucker think highly of you because I would
Speaker 1: love for you to. Why not? Why? Why do you
Speaker 1: want those expectations? Do you want to walk around and say,
Speaker 1: I want you to think I'm raggy? You know what?
Speaker 1: You know, it's a huge spectrum, it's a huge, great area.
Speaker 1: But why you gotta be in the great area, just
Speaker 1: like why can't you just say, okay, I think highly
Speaker 1: of you? Why why he just doesn't want? Why not
Speaker 1: do I think highly of any woman highly? Okay? Well
Speaker 1: he said any thing about highly? Yes, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I think highly. I mean I think kyllie of
Speaker 1: no man neither like I think highly of niggas and
Speaker 1: Pacific like dre like if dre engineering, and I'll be like, man,
Speaker 1: nigga cold. But then he might like to slap a
Speaker 1: bit or something. I can't he tripping me. So I
Speaker 1: look at every human being as even the greatest ones.
Speaker 1: Fore me, I'll be like, well, you did do this bullshit,
Speaker 1: so you ain't that special. But that sometimes so what's
Speaker 1: the point of wanting that? Like that's my point? So
Speaker 1: somebody I think it's better to be. I mean, I
Speaker 1: never went into a relationship with expectations, at least I
Speaker 1: didn't think I had, because it's like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just do if I'm doing something for you or
Speaker 1: where I'm doing this because I want to, not because
Speaker 1: I'm expecting it and I don't know. I guess, like
Speaker 1: you said, not having expectations like doesn't um you're not
Speaker 1: let down, you know. So I didn't know. Maybe it
Speaker 1: was because of that, but it was just like ship
Speaker 1: like I'm not expecting you to do this, but then
Speaker 1: then you get oh, you're a hard woman, like you
Speaker 1: want to do everything or you do this. Those two don't.
Speaker 1: That's not what they quite mean. I'm just saying him
Speaker 1: think that, not that the expectations. No, it's like I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like I don't expect Okay, you know how we talk
Speaker 1: about like the trash or things like that. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: I'm in it, nobody's gonna call you a hard woman
Speaker 1: because you take the trash out. No, but they do
Speaker 1: be like you. I can't. I'm use that as an example,
Speaker 1: but say like getting your car repaired or not coming
Speaker 1: to them for certain things or just really. I guess
Speaker 1: they feel like you don't need them. But it's just
Speaker 1: I'm not expecting anything from sure, and that's great, But
Speaker 1: I don't think they would say your hard because you
Speaker 1: do that first, right, they would have no problem with then,
Speaker 1: you know, like, okay, look, if you need this, tell
Speaker 1: me next time. And I got you a real man.
Speaker 1: But I've been with men that really was like, that's
Speaker 1: not that. That's not because they wasn't real man. They
Speaker 1: just wasn't your real man. Okay, somebody real man. They
Speaker 1: changed somebody for you, just not yours. He is he
Speaker 1: he's just so nice to men. You just you are.
Speaker 1: I'm not putting. I'm just telling you women, like all
Speaker 1: women ain't bad, they just might be bad to you.
Speaker 1: Always tell my partners that like some women is bad
Speaker 1: to everybody except that nigger. It's that always that one
Speaker 1: man that he not she not bad too, but she
Speaker 1: might be bad and dispectful to all the rest of them.
Speaker 1: You're just not that guy. That's what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: not I don't put men or women on a pedestal.
Speaker 1: I just think that human beings in general. Thinking highly
Speaker 1: of people is pretty much a horrible idea. Like, if
Speaker 1: you think you know levelheaded of people, you're being a
Speaker 1: much better space. Right, So I spend my time putting
Speaker 1: people in obtainable situations. It's like, okay, what kind of
Speaker 1: obtainable real obtainable realities? And then if they exceed and
Speaker 1: it's like oh wow, you're at that she falls short,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, dare go give it? Expectations are really
Speaker 1: a different kind of burden. So, like, if you want
Speaker 1: somebody to think highly of you, like, what what about
Speaker 1: you is highly to think of? I understand want you
Speaker 1: to think, No, I'm not you mean in a relationship? Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't mean it like that. What I mean is,
Speaker 1: you know, what do you think you as a human being?
Speaker 1: Let me you want to get another answer, okay, let
Speaker 1: me get something better for it. Um, when you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship, right, what do you think you do exceptionally well? Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: that's a good question, cousin, I do exceptionally well, yes,
Speaker 1: that's far is in a relationship would you be like, man,
Speaker 1: you know what? They can't do this like me? And
Speaker 1: most of the time when women think it would be
Speaker 1: something pretty much for sure that I think that there's
Speaker 1: always no first off I don't never not saying I'm
Speaker 1: just saying so, but you're asking me something like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't go into nothing like that because there's always
Speaker 1: somebody that can do those things or maybe even better.
Speaker 1: I think for me, I just I'm a selfless person.
Speaker 1: So for me, like I'm just, I just cater like
Speaker 1: I'm just it's hard to explain, like I'm just I
Speaker 1: just always I always put my due like I don't
Speaker 1: want to say highly because you but I just always
Speaker 1: think of him and the things that will make him
Speaker 1: happy or like um, like the things that I can
Speaker 1: improve on. And only reason why I'm saying this and
Speaker 1: this is not I don't know bullshit. This is real
Speaker 1: ship because I had a problem with conforming and being
Speaker 1: in the relationship for a very long time. You could
Speaker 1: ask her like I just I just this is this
Speaker 1: is a new me. Hey, we're being real, right, So
Speaker 1: this is real me. So for now for me now,
Speaker 1: I'm actually but I'm going all in like I'm it's
Speaker 1: all You're getting all of me like I'm shit. It's
Speaker 1: it's hard. It's hard. It is because I've always had
Speaker 1: always not selfish. It's not selfish. I always did you're
Speaker 1: not understanding what I'm saying. Like I'm always I've always
Speaker 1: done ship. I'nna be real. Yeah, you're right, it is selfish.
Speaker 1: You're right on it. I always said, I know you
Speaker 1: know how you think about it later when somebody say
Speaker 1: some ship like I was, I didn't give a fuck,
Speaker 1: like literally, if you didn't, if you did not, if
Speaker 1: you couldn't get with whatever I was going through at
Speaker 1: that point in time, I was not caring like it
Speaker 1: was just by like I just was. Literally I zoned
Speaker 1: out and I just put my career and my son
Speaker 1: first and above anything, so your feelings did not matter.
Speaker 1: I did not. Okay, well, if I couldn't, if you, hey,
Speaker 1: I can't. I don't even have explain it. That is
Speaker 1: just ran through and ruin. No, I didn't ruin anyone
Speaker 1: with that mentality. You don't think you ruined men. I've
Speaker 1: probably heard of broke a couple hearts, but I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not happy about it. I'm not happy about it.
Speaker 1: I can't get right. That's why I can get ready
Speaker 1: because I'm getting ready. No, not you, that's why they
Speaker 1: can't get ready. Excuse me? No, yeah, right, you know
Speaker 1: what's funny some of the most important people. My dad
Speaker 1: told me a crazy story. My dad explained to me
Speaker 1: the reason he was so tough with women. He felt
Speaker 1: like he needed to be a player. I thought my
Speaker 1: dad was like the super like like just a player.
Speaker 1: Like I thought that nigger he got his feelings hurt
Speaker 1: when he was twenty one years old and didn't let
Speaker 1: it go for forty years. And that is really real.
Speaker 1: That happens to a lot of men. Like it's not
Speaker 1: just men, it's women, because that's what happened to me,
Speaker 1: Like he said, somebody came in my whole life, and
Speaker 1: then I was just like, you know what, I don't
Speaker 1: even hear no more. I'm about to do me. And
Speaker 1: it wasn't about dudes. It wasn't about just dating. It
Speaker 1: was just like that dudes in your life and ruin
Speaker 1: their life. No, I didn't know. Now she really wouldn't
Speaker 1: let him in her I wouldn't let them in my life.
Speaker 1: Did you get him some pussy? Then you let him
Speaker 1: in your life? But you know what the hell I
Speaker 1: need that? And that's the thing too, Like it's a
Speaker 1: lack of accountability, Like you don't get it, and that's
Speaker 1: the point, Like how do I say this without sounding up.
Speaker 1: It's just selfish what I'm saying, Like, I know you
Speaker 1: take that pain and then you're like, well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: use this pain and now I'm gonna deal with everybody
Speaker 1: this way. No, it wasn't. I didn't say it. She
Speaker 1: didn't deal with it. I just didn't you with it.
Speaker 1: I just literally she was giving something some pussy. She
Speaker 1: thought she might have liked them, but she always went
Speaker 1: back to that nigger who did that ship to her. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't. Whenever something happened, he went back in your
Speaker 1: head like okay, I liked them, and I can agree
Speaker 1: to that. Like, no, it was it was hard. Like
Speaker 1: you guys understand that ship was fucking hard. Like you
Speaker 1: don't think that nobody else been through that. I never
Speaker 1: said that. I'm talking about myself. I never speak about
Speaker 1: anyone else's ship my own. But that's my point. We
Speaker 1: all go through ship. Okay. I get that, and and
Speaker 1: I had to learn, like, okay, that's it's not okay.
Speaker 1: You need to be, like you said, held yourself accountable
Speaker 1: and just say you know what you want different. So
Speaker 1: because I want different, I am different. So I give
Speaker 1: myself wholeheartedly now to my do like I talked to
Speaker 1: him about a lot of shipping before. I want to
Speaker 1: tell no, a dude, barely nothing. You wouldn't getting too
Speaker 1: much out of me about nothing. I'd be like, I
Speaker 1: just really will just be like, what's wrong with you? Know?
Speaker 1: Nothing about my feelings was hurt? I can I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Man was savage? I remember? But it's not. You know,
Speaker 1: you don't want to live like that. Everybody wants someone
Speaker 1: that they want to grow with or whatever, like you don't.
Speaker 1: Why do you really want somebody to grow? I want
Speaker 1: to compare in I want to. I want to. It
Speaker 1: gets lonely when you get the kids are gonna leave.
Speaker 1: Feel me, it's cold outside right now when I want
Speaker 1: to go home and cut the us to be able
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody and be able to share those
Speaker 1: mon friends. And you think about my grandparents and how
Speaker 1: they just they have their things. That ship was dope, like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I want to be like these bodies.
Speaker 1: So like my grandmother right now, she's not being. No,
Speaker 1: we ain't doing that. I ain't doing that. I'm probably
Speaker 1: gonna play being because that's fun. But two, don't nobody
Speaker 1: want to go what what I don't know, you don't
Speaker 1: nobody want to be that's my thing. Like, but I mean,
Speaker 1: if you got to do what, she ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: single at eighty two. Yeah, but I don't think that
Speaker 1: no one else would do that. But I do, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like there's always someone out there
Speaker 1: trying to take your spot. I don't know if they're
Speaker 1: trying to take your but no, there's something you know
Speaker 1: what you know, you've been talking a lot of ship
Speaker 1: like yeah, like you're trying to do it like nicely
Speaker 1: and kind of like like like iron is. I swear
Speaker 1: to god, I don't know what you're really talking about.
Speaker 1: I really don't talk ship. I'll be there. I'm not
Speaker 1: talking like everything I'm saying is the truth because I
Speaker 1: know Brick. I know. I never had to sit back
Speaker 1: and tell me her life. I could tell Britt was
Speaker 1: a selfish, litle asshole when I met, not to me
Speaker 1: because we wasn't dating guys and I don't even really interact.
Speaker 1: And you don't think that glasses would notice that, like
Speaker 1: she'd been through something like that's why she acts like that.
Speaker 1: So I'm not talking. I've never said a negative about
Speaker 1: Bread never in life. Never said nothing negative about bread
Speaker 1: pretty much no woman like I will inform people of
Speaker 1: the dishes the facts feel me about this person, but
Speaker 1: I will tell you where I went wrong. I won't
Speaker 1: never say, like, if I dated somebody, I won't be like,
Speaker 1: oh it was them, I'd be like, this is where
Speaker 1: I was at in my mind. I don't even talk
Speaker 1: about that person. So what seems like I'm talking ship
Speaker 1: is more or less just showing you a mirror that
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, you don't see this
Speaker 1: right here. You definitely have to lick yourself in. Man,
Speaker 1: he said, don't nobody wants your spot? Nobody wants your spot.
Speaker 1: I don't listen. Don't nobody so like? So right? You
Speaker 1: think ladies want to actually be with me? Man, I
Speaker 1: don't believe that. Yeah, it's ladies that want me. Do
Speaker 1: I think I really believe that? Man, that ship a
Speaker 1: fleeing feeling. I'm not saying, cut your motherfucking ship on
Speaker 1: it off. Man, you can't thank them much. It ain't
Speaker 1: you think it's a dude broad that won't your spot.
Speaker 1: I don't nobody want to be up in that motherfucker
Speaker 1: cooking and cleaning for nobody if they would they be
Speaker 1: in a relationship. No, nobody won't your spot. See the
Speaker 1: reality is they don't they want your spot. People think
Speaker 1: they want your spot, don't. Nobody wanted to deal with
Speaker 1: the ship the nigger deal with a nobody deal with
Speaker 1: a relationship. Come on, man, that ship is fucked up.
Speaker 1: It is not. It's not you know what, You're gonna
Speaker 1: find a lot of ship. It's but it's cool, it's nice.
Speaker 1: It's better. You're not lying. It was rough. It's who
Speaker 1: want to be cooking for somebody every day? If you
Speaker 1: thought it, if another lady looking at you, nigga, you
Speaker 1: think she could be cooking for some other nigga, She
Speaker 1: ain't want to cook for your nigga. People who cook cook,
Speaker 1: So if somebody nine almost wind cook for you and
Speaker 1: she'd be cooking for somebody already, she let her go,
Speaker 1: then she don't want She ain't cooking for this nigga
Speaker 1: and unhappy, and she wants your nigga and cooked folk too.
Speaker 1: That ain't hot work. You usually only start cooking for
Speaker 1: the nigga you fucking with, or the nigga you think
Speaker 1: you like. You're not cooking for all these niggas. You're
Speaker 1: not suing the cooking the phone, you'll give your pussy
Speaker 1: what for? You give? Read your recipe? Now how it
Speaker 1: sounds I'm saying. It sounds like I'm talking like that's
Speaker 1: a woman will give you some pussy for They will
Speaker 1: cook for you. Brother. That's the truth. Because it's crazy
Speaker 1: because every week, right after we get off the podcast,
Speaker 1: like I'll be talking to like the honker or something,
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, Okay, yeah, so you can't you
Speaker 1: can't fuck him, or you can't do this or like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like no, like why are
Speaker 1: you I'll just be like why why are you wasting
Speaker 1: your time? Like for what? So I'd be like, damn,
Speaker 1: you have gave more pussy everybody you might have gave
Speaker 1: pussy too. You wouldn't even kiss you, understand how Like
Speaker 1: think about so it sound sound saying ship, but this
Speaker 1: is think about how fucked up we as? Then that
Speaker 1: too much? But that had happened everybody guys pussy to you,
Speaker 1: kiss you a damn loud no, no, no, I said
Speaker 1: it didn't happen too much. You know, I know I'm
Speaker 1: just saying. I'm saying, for sure, if everybody you knocked
Speaker 1: down your kiss. No, some people you wouldn't even kiss you.
Speaker 1: I ain't kissing her really. Yeah, I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ever outright saying like I it kiss and then gave
Speaker 1: him something. But man, I guess they do that. Nine
Speaker 1: out of ten women I've slept with, I would never kiss.
Speaker 1: Why would I kiss them? That might she might confuse
Speaker 1: and really think I like her. That's why you kiss somebody,
Speaker 1: you probably like them. Okay, that makes sense. Kissing is
Speaker 1: like intimate, like you really gotta funk with somebody to kiss,
Speaker 1: because I was I don't want to kiss everybody. But yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's sound fucked up, but that's just the reality
Speaker 1: of it. So again, sometimes you'll be thinking I'm talking.
Speaker 1: I'm never talking like. I never say something to put
Speaker 1: women or human beings. Damn. I just try to make
Speaker 1: sure you understand where you're at now. At times, if
Speaker 1: you put yourself on the pedestal and I talk, it
Speaker 1: can make you actually come down the pig. But it's
Speaker 1: not that this because you was never up there in
Speaker 1: the first place that Nigga was lying to you. Drake
Speaker 1: was lying to you. You actually is a bit right now.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're a bit like, Oh, your whole life,
Speaker 1: you you'll be doing some bullshit. That's bit ship, so
Speaker 1: use a bit so drake. Putting you up there lining
Speaker 1: to you is not making it better. He's not coming
Speaker 1: through to help you. See, he's actually just saying what
Speaker 1: you want to hear like sounds like that, and that's
Speaker 1: never a good nigga. Historically, that's never a good nigga.
Speaker 1: It's always usually the worst nigga you'll ever come across
Speaker 1: in your fucking life. That nigga that'd be waiting, he
Speaker 1: looking even like I can't wait for that nigga to
Speaker 1: make that mistake shot like he your friend and y'all
Speaker 1: keep that nigga around, you can't cap that he'd be
Speaker 1: trying to judge your whole relationship from the side, waiting
Speaker 1: for his opportunity to slide in. First off, this is
Speaker 1: how I look at it. If that nigga can't make
Speaker 1: it work for you off a show king, that nigga
Speaker 1: that's in it, he with you every day and can't
Speaker 1: make it work because women a lot to you, because
Speaker 1: they will make you feel like, oh, this nigga just
Speaker 1: on some bushes like nah, you know, on some bushing
Speaker 1: you not being honest somewhere, you're not obeying the law,
Speaker 1: the law, whatever that person think is wonderful. You're not doing.
Speaker 1: They're just not seeing no never because it ain't it ainybody,
Speaker 1: because you can't. You really shouldn't see that. I with
Speaker 1: no think in the first place. I mean agree, you know, like,
Speaker 1: should always make a nigga thank you're looking up at him,
Speaker 1: even when you're looking down. Should always make you think.
Speaker 1: Should always make a nigga think you're looking up at
Speaker 1: him even when you're looking down at him. See that's
Speaker 1: where y'all just fall short. Y'all don't get that one
Speaker 1: simple thing to make a man's ego spectacular, regardless even
Speaker 1: if you control it. Women are smarter than me, hands damn.
Speaker 1: But y'all spend so much goddamn time trying to prove
Speaker 1: it or trying to talk to everybody like they stupid.
Speaker 1: That that's the dumbest shit you do. It never works,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Y'all always talk to much
Speaker 1: like they stupid everybody. Yes you do, yes you do,
Speaker 1: Yes you do. I bet you every nigger that you
Speaker 1: And I'm not a mean person, but sometimes the ship
Speaker 1: that comes out of my mouth because you're smarter. Because
Speaker 1: you're smarter than us, that's why. But the part of
Speaker 1: me is a very smart person also understands they can
Speaker 1: read the room. And that's where y'all fall short. That
Speaker 1: y'all the worst at reading the room. Y'all walk in
Speaker 1: and just be like, now, you're actually horrible at it.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good at it now, which means you actually
Speaker 1: have got closer than how far you was in the
Speaker 1: first place. He said, you're still not there yet. I'm
Speaker 1: probably not there yet, but I'm getting away. Because women
Speaker 1: will never be great at reading the room. It's not
Speaker 1: your nature. Like you kind of didn't got consumed believing
Speaker 1: you were the room. No, that's not. Yes, every every
Speaker 1: time something happened, because the first thing you said is
Speaker 1: why did you do this to me? If a nigga cheap,
Speaker 1: why did you do this to me? That's the problem.
Speaker 1: He didn't do this to you. He did that to her.
Speaker 1: Everything about it because about you, because you are the room.
Speaker 1: I don't just say it's nothing, it's him. But my
Speaker 1: question is, like, that's a problem. Example, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1: What would be wrong with puss? Nothing is wrong with him.
Speaker 1: You knew why he did it, So why do y'all
Speaker 1: ask the crazy ass god god like questions? Y'all's questions
Speaker 1: that God would ask a nigga like at the pearly gates?
Speaker 1: Why did you do that? Why are you asking me
Speaker 1: that God? You know I did that? Women ask questions
Speaker 1: because that God will ask you the day you die
Speaker 1: to decide if you're gonna get in heaven, like he
Speaker 1: already know the answer to the question asking you to
Speaker 1: see if like you just gonna like you ask questions
Speaker 1: too bad? No, you don't. You don't really why you
Speaker 1: think that nigga cheated? I mean, just give me idea.
Speaker 1: Let's say, any nigga because he was horny wanted to.
Speaker 1: Some people just do it because they want to do it.
Speaker 1: So then why would you ask nigga why did he
Speaker 1: do it? You just want to know? No, you don't
Speaker 1: you know already that's some godship. Oh I just want
Speaker 1: to know. Know you already know, bro? You know you
Speaker 1: know I don't know, So why I asked why did that?
Speaker 1: The first day? Question? Why did you do this? I mean,
Speaker 1: I gott to revisit this now that you know? So
Speaker 1: what if she says, why did you do this to us.
Speaker 1: They didn't do nothing to you or us. He did.
Speaker 1: She might be asking why you us because she's like,
Speaker 1: I'm done. These are all rhetorical questions to create more
Speaker 1: controversy and problems. No question is ever right. No, the
Speaker 1: question is that it's not no question, it's right. I'm
Speaker 1: saying you tend to ask questions that you know gonna
Speaker 1: create more problems. I guess more talking. I guess. I
Speaker 1: want to know. Just tell me what I want to know.
Speaker 1: You know the answer already. M What do you think
Speaker 1: why would the niggas sleep with somebody else? Already? Right?
Speaker 1: I mean it's other situations where it could be something else.
Speaker 1: But for example, maybe they're not getting any at home.
Speaker 1: That's not that's not why you cheat. But it's not
Speaker 1: why you cheat because you're not having sex at home. Okay,
Speaker 1: good's not um and nigga and and see it is
Speaker 1: it's gonna beniggas who listen to podcast. But you know
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not nigging. It's not why you cheat
Speaker 1: nigga because they that's not. Well, it's an outstanding I'm
Speaker 1: being honest, because it's outstanding. You feel so special about
Speaker 1: yourself when someone to give you some pussy, you really
Speaker 1: think you are special, You'll be like, damn, she giveting
Speaker 1: me some pussy, I must be special. It ain't. See
Speaker 1: the way you be yourself from cheating is you realize
Speaker 1: that she ain't special giving you no pussy like you're
Speaker 1: not special. It's just your turn. Once you understand that
Speaker 1: about women, man, I swear to God, you will have
Speaker 1: less problems in life. But if you really think you
Speaker 1: special because she gave you some pussy like ninety nine
Speaker 1: point nine percent of men do for me, You're gonna
Speaker 1: have problems for the rest of your life. I'm not
Speaker 1: special because this girl want to give me some pussy.
Speaker 1: She gave everybody some pussy. What about the last twelve niggas?
Speaker 1: All right special getting lighter and lighter every day. What
Speaker 1: if it's been thirty niggas, I'm especialist. Thirty niggas that's
Speaker 1: not special at all. Feel me like, how special are you?
Speaker 1: I mean you just a step up from a prostitute
Speaker 1: at that point prot to just pa that's who dude,
Speaker 1: because you'll be thinking you special because she gave you
Speaker 1: some pussy. Ship and charge you or you special? Whatever
Speaker 1: you think you think you special when it's like you're
Speaker 1: not special. Bro, Damn you know when you special? You
Speaker 1: when a woman want to cook for you? See the
Speaker 1: white we treat pussy. We need to treat a woman
Speaker 1: cooking for you. That's what I tell niggas all the time.
Speaker 1: She cooked for you. No, she don't really funk with
Speaker 1: you like that where she'll not a funk with a
Speaker 1: man for real. But okay, so what does that mean
Speaker 1: If a guy does it, he's trying to get some
Speaker 1: pussy trying if the guy doesn't cook, if you think
Speaker 1: want to cook for his old lady, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Some people I don't know. I'm asking the question. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that's the point when a woman to the merchandise, right in,
Speaker 1: the merchandise is never the pussy they didn't already get
Speaker 1: that merchant. That merchandise use gift that keep on giving.
Speaker 1: But trust me, most women, No, it's sound funked up,
Speaker 1: but it's real. Most women thirty to forty, they have
Speaker 1: slept with more men than they've cooked for a lot
Speaker 1: more men. Yeah, I can't see that you're gonna be
Speaker 1: at the count on a couple of hands as how
Speaker 1: many niggas you cooked for that nick special. You don't
Speaker 1: sit over the store if they've been in relationships. Oh
Speaker 1: well no, because they weren't. If they were all the niggas.
Speaker 1: I don't know think about that. I mean niggas you
Speaker 1: cooked for, because I was just thinking about the how
Speaker 1: many niggas you actually cook for in your life. You
Speaker 1: ain't cooked for that many niggers. It's gonna get real thin. Well, hold, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be cooking for you. Niggas. Cook niggas,
Speaker 1: all the niggas come through. I'm a cook fan, was
Speaker 1: cooking cod. But that's because very few cooking. But you
Speaker 1: like me saying like, come through, make you a meal.
Speaker 1: You really gotta like a nigga. You really got we
Speaker 1: already done cooks already have my chicken out, nigga. You
Speaker 1: might have came through and got a plate. But I'm
Speaker 1: saying he's saying, like you, I'm cooking for you. Come over.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come cook. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna cook. At least at least four times we got cooked.
Speaker 1: So but that's just because I like to cook. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not saying you cooked in the nigga come
Speaker 1: to get a plate, which that ain't that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She got kids exactly, but that's she's saying she hasn't.
Speaker 1: That don't really count to a flat. He cook for
Speaker 1: your kids and then you get some of that nigga
Speaker 1: food that's actually not cool. That's the wrong. You already
Speaker 1: eat the kids snacks and ship God damn brom. But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, women traditionally have slept with more men
Speaker 1: than they've cooked for from our communities. That's why the
Speaker 1: rappers talk the way they talk. It's not there. It's
Speaker 1: not because they just want to be demeaning to sisters.
Speaker 1: It's not. It's because their experience. It's too traumatized people
Speaker 1: trying to make some kind of thing work. That really
Speaker 1: is tough because for me, they've both been through some ship.
Speaker 1: So you got women trying to use niggas for everything
Speaker 1: they got, and that be nigga's first experience. Some girl
Speaker 1: that's choosing another nigga or trying to get something from you.
Speaker 1: That's why Rapp come with the word bitch early on.
Speaker 1: It ain't because women are these outstanding citizens and nigga's
Speaker 1: just like y'all. Sound like them. People who will be
Speaker 1: talking about gangs rapping, like, oh, you know, gangs wrapped ruined.
Speaker 1: The world's like, not the ship that they're rapping about,
Speaker 1: that's really happened in the rappers men say bitch right
Speaker 1: because they've been through experience with bitches. It ain't like
Speaker 1: they been with amazing women and they just used the
Speaker 1: turn bitch like it was just the most amazing woman,
Speaker 1: like yeah, bitch, yeah, bitch. Good looking out for tuning
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