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So this is someone you met in 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened? 22 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 3: Wow? So we hung out like the whole night when 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 3: we met in the bar, we even ended up back 24 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: at his place. And I don't know, like I really 25 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 3: don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our 27 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 3: future kids, Like oh. 28 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 2: Wow, So it was like that, like you you went 29 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: on this date and you could envision the future. 30 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole 31 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: entire night together. 32 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date? 33 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you 34 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: didn't talk about the kids. You're going to have stuff 35 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: on the first date? Okay, all right, So you went 36 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 2: on this great date and you liked him obviously, and 37 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 2: you were hoping to see him again and see where 38 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: things went. But you haven't heard from him since the date, 39 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: and I have you reached out to him? Have you 40 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: texted or called him at all? 41 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I 42 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 3: just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know 43 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 3: what happened. 44 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: Well, as Tolina would say on Waiting, might the thought, 45 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: it's the tail so old as time, because you know, 46 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: you go out with somebody dating is tough. 47 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: Everyone who's dating right now knows that. 48 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: And then you finally connect with somebody and you're thinking, 49 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: this is great, finally we finally, you know, all my 50 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: hard work is paid off and all the bad dates 51 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: I've been on, and then and then you go out 52 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: with someone you like and they don't call you back. 53 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: So let's let's call this guy Direic. Hey, Kaylin. 54 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: And by the way, she spells a k A y 55 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 2: l y n n, which is one of the many 56 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 2: spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what 57 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 2: seven eight years? 58 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: Kaylen? 59 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: Yes, in addition to Caitlin and Courtney and Steve and 60 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 2: Bob and everything else, they call you. 61 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, they called me Bob. I was going to ask, 62 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: so thank you for asking. 63 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: How she supposed to Yeah, yeah, she's Caitlin. Is a 64 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 2: k A E l I n for real? 65 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 4: Uh? 66 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: But then k A y l y n Anyway, I 67 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 2: just wanted to specify because you don't see that name 68 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You met 69 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: at a bar, you went out, you had a great time. 70 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: You were hoping to see him again, except he's ghosted you, 71 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: it appears, and you want to know why, right. 72 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: Kayln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's 73 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: call him now? Good luck? 74 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 5: Hello? 75 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: Hi is this Derek, Hey Derey, good morning. My name 76 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: is Fred. 77 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,839 Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show, 78 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 2: and I do have to tell you that we are 79 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: on the radio right now and I would need your 80 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call. Can which yet for 81 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: just a second on the show? Would you mind? 82 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 5: It was just like a gotcha thing or something. 83 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: Don't I wouldn't say that necessarily, doesn't have to be 84 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: I got you a thing, But I'm gonna take that 85 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 2: as a yes. So we're calling on behalf of someone 86 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,119 Speaker 2: named Kaylin, who I guess you met recently. 87 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: He went on a date. Do you remember her? 88 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 5: Yeah? 89 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. 90 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: And by the way, you can hang up anytime. If 91 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: you're uncomfortable, you can hang up any time. But so 92 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: she called us and told us about you. I had 93 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: a lot of nice things to say about you and 94 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: the date. It was really optimistic about the future. Except 95 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 2: for whatever reason, she says, you're not calling her back, 96 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: So what's up with that? 97 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry. It was just a 98 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 6: really bad night and I don't know what she said, 99 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 6: but she let's just say, she got really drunk, really sloppy, 100 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 6: and she threw up all over me in my house, 101 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 6: and like I, I was just it was a mess, 102 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 6: and honestly I had to pay for it. She didn't 103 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 6: even a she didn't even offer to pay for it. 104 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 6: She was too drunk for that. I sent her home 105 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 6: on a cab. I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll 106 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 6: talk to you later, but I wasn't planning to ever. 107 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 5: Hear, talk or see her again. 108 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 6: So she needs to learn how to use a toilet 109 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 6: and be properly toilet trained. 110 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 4: Oh tole not on the floor. That's funny. Oh oh 111 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 4: kayln Kaylen, Derek, there's the gotchi part. Sorry about that. 112 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 4: I just get into these stories I forget. I have 113 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 4: two things. 114 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,239 Speaker 2: First of all, Derek, about twenty minutes ago, you said, 115 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: let's just say and then you told the whole story. 116 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 2: Not only people wouldn't let's just let's just say they abbreviate. 117 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 2: But I'm glad you told us everything. And the second 118 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 2: thing is I've been there. I've had someone throw up 119 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: in my home and then so so now I'm hungover 120 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: going to the store to buy the carpet cleaner, and 121 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,679 Speaker 2: now my homeover at is trying to clean the nasty puke, 122 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 2: and then I don't feel good and it's really grows 123 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 2: and it's really disgusting to have to clean up somebody 124 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 2: else's we'll call it excrement or you know, like whatever 125 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 2: it comes out of their body. It's gross if you 126 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 2: know the person in love them. It's especially gross if 127 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: you don't. 128 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there. 129 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 5: I was just like, I'll never I never want to. 130 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 5: I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me, 131 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 5: and I'm just. 132 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: Like that, Yeah, that's that's the whole thing. It's very hard. 133 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: It's very hard to klin what happened. I mean, I 134 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: obviously you got too drunk, but like why didn't how 135 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: were you not able to make it to the bathroom? 136 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what 137 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: are we doing here? 138 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 3: You know, like it happened, It wasn't on purpose, Like 139 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 3: nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean 140 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: it up. 141 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 5: You did not you you thought you did, but you're 142 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 5: too drunk to remember. I sent you home. 143 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 6: You tried to clean it up by taking out a 144 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 6: tissue in your person, let me clean this up. 145 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: See this is what you needed to do. 146 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: What she needed to do is uh attempt to clean 147 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 2: it up as best you can all by yourself. And 148 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 2: that well, what you needed to do is get to 149 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 2: the bathroom. But that's okay, so you didn't. So then 150 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: you got to clean it up. And that what you 151 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: gotta do is the next day you got to send 152 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 2: somebody over there to clean it, you know what I mean, 153 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 2: Like you gotta if you really like this guy and 154 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 2: that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen. 155 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: You got to go over the top to make this better. 156 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 2: And it sounds like you just kind of did it 157 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 2: and then and then last and then wonder why he 158 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: and then tried to kiss him and then wondered why 159 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: he didn't call you, Like you got. 160 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: To fix it. 161 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 3: I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands 162 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 3: and knees like I was cleaning it up. 163 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: I think something. You think I had somebody throw up 164 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: in my bed once. 165 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: That was a gross Its fairness to that woman, she 166 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: cleaned everything like she she said, get out of the bed, 167 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: and then she like took all the sheets and she'd 168 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: like found my dryer and wash and dryer, and she 169 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: cleaned it and then she offered to have somebody come over, 170 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: and then she stepped a bunch of cleaning supplies and 171 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: a cookie basket. 172 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: Did you ever see her again? 173 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but not in that capacity, so yeah no. 174 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: But anyway, I mean what I'm saying is I felt 175 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: bad for her the way that I would feel bad 176 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: for Kaylen and obviously for Derek. But like she went 177 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: over the top to make it right, like in a 178 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: very cute way because she felt bad. And that's the 179 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: part that I think you needed to do here, Kaylen, 180 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: if you really like this. 181 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 3: Guy, I just feel like I tried my best for 182 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 3: what I had at the moment. 183 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 5: Like next day, no drinks. 184 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 2: Okay, there you go, So how about that? How about 185 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: that next date? No drinks? Would you give her another 186 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: chance because it sounded like everything was going well? I 187 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 2: mean she did wind it back at your place in fairness, no, 188 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 2: of course not. 189 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go. 190 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: You know there's a no go. 191 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 5: Okay, I tried. 192 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: I don't think you didn't. I don't think you tried 193 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 2: hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted 194 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with 195 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: this bad taste in his mouth, pun intended, and he's 196 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 2: not going to forget it. 197 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 3: So