1 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: What's up Y'all's your girl lex Pe? And is your 2 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: girl Tree? 3 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 2: In the call and you are tuned in to another 4 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: episode of Poor. 5 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks for birth. 6 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 2: We got some guests, saday, We got a guess saday. 7 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 2: Y'all all be so excited when like people come on 8 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: the show to be on TV for real, because that 9 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 2: lets you know, like we're not playing. 10 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 1: Like we do this for real. Were not a little 11 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: he ain't the little dogs were the big dogs. 12 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Okay, put some respect on our name here one and 13 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: the only. 14 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: Alex and Woody from Power but two ghosting up your. 15 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 16 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 4: We're so glad to have y'all on the college. I 17 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 4: feel like this has been a long time coming. 18 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, feel as you should be jealous. I'm in a great. 19 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: Position about somebody hit. 20 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: Me in the group chat. 21 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: You got gonna hit me, yes, So let me just 22 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 2: sort of would say you are gorgeous in person? 23 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: Yes you are. 24 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: I always got to let the girls know because they 25 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 2: be one of the people look the same in person. 26 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: She passed attention in person, give it, I'll take it. 27 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: Crazy. 28 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 2: I mean, y'all know we're in a day and age 29 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: of like a lot of filter, a lot of people, 30 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: you know, just trying to put on a facade of 31 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 2: things that's not really going on what it is. I 32 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: appreciate you know, the people who really give that realness 33 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:50,919 Speaker 2: in person. 34 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I'm saying, that real beauty. Yeah, 35 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We bringing it back to. 36 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: The real beauty because the thing about being on the 37 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: show is like we can't fake it. 38 00:01:58,480 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 39 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: So it's like no matter what I post on my Instagram, 40 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: they can tune in these cameras is four k oh, yeah. 41 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Like tell about it, Hey, cameras don't lie. 42 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 2: I do want to ask y'all that, So, like, how 43 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 2: do y'all feel being on camera? Because you're not showing 44 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 2: up as yourself. You're a character. So some days they 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: might have your hair all over your head, no makeup, 46 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: no lashes, you may have to have, you know, something 47 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: going on with your hair, not a fresh line up. 48 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: So how does that feel seeing y'allself on screen not 49 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: looking your base? 50 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: Vulnerable? 51 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 5: For me at least, like cause you know, with with girls, 52 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 5: like especially like with social media and things like that, 53 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 5: like it is like a pressure to be perfect or 54 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 5: to be skinny. That's you know, my weight fluctuates entirely 55 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 5: too often, liking and then you know your skin when 56 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 5: you're in New York the air, that's something in my skin. 57 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, so but you know it's part of it. 58 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 59 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 5: I used to kind of just be like the thing 60 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 5: is is like when I put on those closes FI, 61 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 5: I do like feel different, Like I don't even think 62 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 5: about like the way that I look okay, because I'm 63 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 5: just so like into. 64 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: You feeling an actor actor Yeah, I mean yeah. 65 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it's just it's it's hard to explain because 66 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 5: it's almost like not even like something that you try 67 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 5: to do, it's like turns on you. Sorry, No, I 68 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 5: was just saying, like wearing the clothes and different, how 69 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 5: do you feel about it? 70 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 3: I like it? 71 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 6: You like this is fun? Yeah, having so much fun. 72 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 6: I'll never wear half of them clothes. Yeah you know 73 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 6: what I mean, Like it's way out of my price range. 74 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 6: Having cane fly, I know, the whole for everybody. Frank 75 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 6: is so amazing that all that stuff together, But I 76 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 6: don't be knowing what I'm wearing, Like I'm not really 77 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 6: a brand. 78 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: Junkie, like. 79 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 6: About to make that fired. I make on crazy with 80 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 6: the drinks. Yeah, but no, it's great though. I mean, 81 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 6: I just I remember the first season. I didn't like 82 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 6: the barber like that. I was like, y'all gotta wear 83 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 6: a do rag because y'all you know what I mean. 84 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 6: And it was like against the do rag thing because 85 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 6: it was like, we don't have that in this world. 86 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 6: But Frank shout out to frame man, thank you so much, 87 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 6: let me do the do rag, and he was like, 88 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 6: I actually liked that. 89 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 3: For king? 90 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: Is that like y'all said, costume person. Yeah. 91 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 92 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 6: He wanted to create this whole like high fashion thing 93 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 6: and he thought do rags brought it to the real world. 94 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 3: He didn't wanted to feel like the real war. 95 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 6: He wanted to feel like an elevated world. So he 96 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 6: let me do my do rag and they actually liked it. 97 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: For king, Yeah, I think it works. 98 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 4: I mean, everybody on the show be putting it because 99 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 4: you do too. 100 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: Yeah your character. 101 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's messed up though. 102 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 6: We as much as we put it on, we don't 103 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 6: get invited to no fashion weeks. 104 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: We don't get invited to. 105 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 6: That's why I'd be like, yo, like could we start 106 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 6: wearing more black owned businesses? 107 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: Right? 108 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 6: Because I'm tired of putting on Rick Owens and whatever'll 109 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 6: the show. 110 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: It's crazy that you said that, because before the cameras 111 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 2: started rolling, we were talking about invest fests and we 112 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 2: were talking about essence saying the only way that we 113 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: can be put on these larger platforms where you know, 114 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 2: y'all are getting roles that are paying fifty million dollars 115 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 2: and we're getting these deals at one hundred million dollars. Yeah, 116 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 2: we have to build ourselves up. We have to create 117 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,239 Speaker 2: our community, right having to be on these cameras wearing 118 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 2: black designers, you know, using black products and things like that. 119 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: So it really starts with us. Yeah, that's a good short. 120 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: He definitely does. So I was gonna ask y'all, do 121 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: y'all feel like y'all had to like step a lot 122 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: outside of y'allselves for the characters on the show. Or 123 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: do y'all see similarities that y'all have in real life 124 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: to y'all characters on the show. What do you think? 125 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 3: Nothing like King? I think everything he does is like horrible. 126 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 1: He kind of a terrible person. 127 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, don't that Ain is the guy? 128 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean? 129 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 6: I think anybody would want to Cane for them, Like 130 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 6: he's protecting the family. 131 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: That's true. 132 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: And I also feel like he's just a victim of. 133 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: His circum exactly exactly. I think is such a horrible mother. Yeah, 134 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: now that she is the worst. 135 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 6: So he's only doing what he's brought up, you know 136 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 6: what I mean. Like Caine is just a broken you 137 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 6: know what I mean. I go in there, my heart 138 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 6: is broken every time of me. I'm just trying to 139 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 6: put the pieces together and trying to make it work 140 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 6: every time I'm on screen, you know what I mean. So, yeah, 141 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 6: shout out to Monee for being a terrible mother. 142 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: Okay, she really does how you feel, I think, Like 143 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: so everyone. 144 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 5: They always joke online and they say like if he's 145 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 5: a scorpio scorpio and like. 146 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: That is funny. 147 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 5: So like the hell on Wheel situation, I'm very accustomed 148 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 5: to that. Like I feel like she reminds me of 149 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 5: my younger self before I was like I had some sense. Okay, 150 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,479 Speaker 5: it's it's not too hard, but it's definitely different than 151 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 5: who I am, Like I'm so soft. Yeah, I'm such 152 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 5: a softie. I could never i could never do what 153 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 5: she does. 154 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: So you know, what's interesting about her though. 155 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 4: I feel like she's very soft too, though that's not 156 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 4: a lot of the time after she does stuff she 157 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 4: feels horrible about. 158 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: Ye. 159 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like that hard show but the marshmallow and 160 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 5: especially for him, right, you're ready to full like launch hair, which. 161 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: I don't even know anymore. I couldn't even Yeah, So 162 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: how do y'all feel though? 163 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: Because I know a lot of times people see y'all 164 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: on TV and they fall in love with your character 165 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: and they expect you to be like, you know, Effie, 166 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 2: or they expect you to be like Kine. So do 167 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 2: y'all feel like? That's kind of weird When people are 168 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: attracted to the character and they meet y'all, you feel 169 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: like you may be not meeting their expectations and you're like, Okay, 170 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: I'm a human, I'm not this character. 171 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 5: I think it's kind of like a It's kind of 172 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 5: like having a favorite song and something. Right, Like, these 173 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 5: people let us into their houses every single week to 174 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 5: watch the show, so I get it, like they feel 175 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 5: like they know the person. 176 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: I think, what what was it? 177 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 5: Will Smith was talking about that in his book, kind 178 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 5: of like how they feel like they know you because 179 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 5: of the character, which is completely fine as long as 180 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 5: they know that that's not actually that person is so like, 181 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 5: I don't know, what do you? 182 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it's confusing. I grew up 183 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: knowing TV was TV. 184 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, but now it's like the lines is so blurred 185 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 6: to where nobody knows if it's real or not. 186 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 187 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 6: I was out here at one of the Hookah lounges 188 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 6: and I was like, it was some girl over she was. 189 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, you can come from. She was like, oh, 190 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 3: you're so nice. I thought she was gonna be mean, 191 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: like cane Yeah here. 192 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 6: I'm like, I was so disappointed. I'm like, so I'm 193 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:54,599 Speaker 6: not supposed to be like, it don't matter. But I 194 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 6: left her with the bill, left with the bill, just 195 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 6: like I left. 196 00:08:58,640 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: Her with it. 197 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 3: You wanted, yes, yes, I was like, I go to 198 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 3: the bathroom. I'll be right back. Yeah, yeah, there you go. 199 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: You got your cane one of them. 200 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: Oh man, it's so big. 201 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 2: So let me ask y'all these though y'all are on 202 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: the last season of Power Yeah and working you know, 203 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: closely with fifty cent, and y'all have been doing this 204 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 2: show for a while now and have a relationship with him. 205 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 2: I think in the media, everybody kind of sees fifty 206 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 2: cent as like, Lord, he terrorizing somebody again. Yeah, you know, 207 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 2: he goes back and forth, but we cannot deny that 208 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: he's an amazing businessman. He's a legend none, he's a 209 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 2: legend legendary with the things that he's done. So how 210 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: is it really working with fifty cent? Like, don't give 211 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 2: me no pr answer, Like, what is it really like 212 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 2: like working under him and being in this Power universe? 213 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's it's I would compare it to 214 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 5: like real life, just like getting game from og Like 215 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 5: in any any circumstance with you from the hood, you know, 216 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 5: you know you got your own random and like that's 217 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 5: exactly how it is for me because I was with 218 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 5: him in season six of the original Power and I 219 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 5: think he directed my second episode and that was just incredible. 220 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 5: The way his mind works is just it's crazy, but 221 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 5: it's also real, Like it's never something like I don't know, 222 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 5: if you've ever gotten advice from someone and they speak 223 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 5: in a way that you can't even understand, it's just 224 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 5: like I think. 225 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: I got it. 226 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 5: I don't know, but he makes it so easy to 227 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 5: die Jet. Yeah, and he really cares about like putting 228 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 5: people on. 229 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: I really loved that about it. 230 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing he put people on. 231 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 6: I remember after the Bobby Brown movie, I was doing 232 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 6: promo with Ef Rivera. 233 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 3: He directed some episodes on Power. 234 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 235 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 6: He was like, Yo, I'm hitting fifty tiling, I'm working 236 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 6: with you. He was like, yo, fifty said he gonna 237 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 6: work with you in the future. He's gonna put you on. 238 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: Something yeah, curse. 239 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, he said, you're gonna put you on some money. 240 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 2: Nah. 241 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 3: So but fifty Yeah, like he's been doing dope. 242 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 4: I mean the whole Power you vers is super dope. 243 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 4: I'm like a Superstan of Power. So I was gonna 244 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 4: say that with being like a super fan. I was 245 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 4: so devastating when I found out that this was gonna. 246 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: Be the last season. 247 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 4: So I feel like if it was a bit devastating 248 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 4: for me and all of the other people that watched 249 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 4: the show, Like how did y'all feel actually being a 250 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 4: part of the cast, Because obviously all good things have 251 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 4: to come to an end, but it just always sucks when. 252 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: A really good show has to end. 253 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was definitely like bittersweet because I think what 254 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 5: I'll miss most is like, yeah, the show is cool, 255 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 5: Like fan base is incredible, but the fan base will 256 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 5: always be with us, Like I'm sure they're going to 257 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 5: go on to follow everyone's careers out right. It's more 258 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 5: so like I feel like my co stars because it 259 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 5: really became like a family, Like I. 260 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 1: See these people every day. Yeah, and we. 261 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 5: Don't just like work and go home. It's like it's like, 262 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 5: what are you doing tonight? Yeah, you're doing like let's 263 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 5: go out and have a good time. And I feel 264 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 5: like that's not always the case, especially because in a 265 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 5: lot of these shows there's like huge age gaps, where like. 266 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:00,079 Speaker 1: With us, it's like. 267 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: We're all around relative the same age, the same age, 268 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: and everyone really likes each other, like nobody. 269 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 4: People and everybody absolutely. 270 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 2: I like that, But because I'll be ready for some 271 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 2: tea now, because i'd be like, I'll be seeing it 272 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: on scrime, Like you know, she low key don't like 273 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 2: that in that scene when they had the hug, she 274 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 2: was kind I've been watching stuff that I got. 275 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: Nothing to do with. I'll be watching something got something Yeah, Yeah. 276 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: But I do want to ask you a question that's 277 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: outside of power, because you did bring up your Bobby 278 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 2: Brown role, and I feel like that is that was 279 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 2: such a big role to do, and that's so much pressure. 280 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 2: So whenever you initially like auditioned for the role, where 281 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 2: you like, I know, I'm finna nail this, or were 282 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 2: you just kind of like, you know what, let me 283 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 2: just shoot for the stars and hopefully I'll get it. 284 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 6: I had no idea. I really didn't know too much 285 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 6: about Bobby until they showed me the video. They showed 286 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 6: me for teams, showed me the video like him dancing. 287 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 6: I only knew being Bobby Brown that serious. 288 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 3: Were you born. 289 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: You've been just like two thousand and three? 290 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: With that, I'm like, what ninety two? 291 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that's fair, Okay, that's fair. 292 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 6: Two thousand I didn't know what was Tori, I said, okay, yeah, yeah, no, 293 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 6: I'm an eighties baby, But I really did. 294 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 3: I didn't know too much about it, that's fair. 295 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 6: But I was on tour with CB for like five years, 296 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 6: and I feel like they had similarities. 297 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so you know what I mean. 298 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 6: Like I was ready to dance then, yeah, I I 299 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 6: love dancing back then. As soon as I got into 300 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 6: the acting and we drive, we're flying first class, you. 301 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 2: Know what I mean? 302 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 3: Like I was like, yeah, I would never go back 303 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 3: to dancing. 304 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, Well what was the question that it was? 305 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 3: It was the drink. The drinks, right, we don't get. 306 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: No better because I don't keep sipping. 307 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 4: And we already talking about the dream right. 308 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Today. 309 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 4: Time whatever you need, you put your cause we a 310 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 4: little team C already. So this one is called the 311 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 4: Power Book, okay. And so we have a little bit 312 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 4: of tequila repissodo or vodka because we have a split, 313 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 4: and then we have some apple schnops, We have a 314 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 4: little bit of lemon juice, and then we have some 315 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 4: desert pear syrup. So that's what's kind of giving it 316 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 4: that little funky taste on the end. And then we 317 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 4: are going to top it with a little bit of 318 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 4: Topo Chico and of course garnish it with a beautiful pair. 319 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 4: So it's giving end of summer, beginning of fall as 320 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 4: we transitioned through this season. So glad y'all like it. 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Because like when you had 368 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: not at time? 369 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 3: No, no, no, okay, because I feel like. 370 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: Whenever you recorded the movie, like you probably didn't know it, 371 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: like you probably like, oh, I'm killing it. 372 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: I didn't know how big new edition was. 373 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you just did. No, you was just like 374 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: let me. 375 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 3: We just having fun. We was doing it, but we 376 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 3: straight out of comptent. 377 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 6: Okay, so that was our comp We was like, nah, 378 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 6: we can't do like worse than like they were so great. 379 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: We got it. 380 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 3: We gotta do that are better Okay. 381 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 382 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 6: We had the pressure of that and we was always 383 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 6: with each other every day and it wasn't until we 384 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 6: had the actual first premiere of it and feeling the 385 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 6: audience out there, you know what I mean, their energy. 386 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 6: I was like, neudition is a big deal. That was 387 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 6: I had my first panic attack. The producers showed us 388 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 6: the first episode and little top shots to Tyler, you 389 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 6: want to be a met right now? He played Bobby. 390 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 6: He did such a great job as Little Bobby. I 391 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 6: was like, Yo, he's killing it this first row. I 392 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 6: think they're gonna hate me when I come on scool. Yeah, 393 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 6: Like I was in my head I was talking to 394 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 6: my acting coach Layla. 395 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 3: I was like, Yo, it's gonna be bad. And I 396 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: ended up passing up. 397 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 2: And then when you get in that when you get 398 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 2: in that headspace, like it almost becomes like. 399 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 3: A it's a spiral effect. 400 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 5: It's a spiral literally, It's like, I don't know if 401 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 5: this happens to you. But the way that it happens 402 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 5: to me is like I'm panicking and I'm like, no, 403 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 5: we got this, We're calm, We're calm. But as soon 404 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 5: as I do that, it's almost like no, no, no, 405 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 5: but I'm not like it. 406 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: And then that. 407 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 5: Pressure of I can only imagine, like with that being 408 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 5: your first one to be in such a major role in. 409 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 1: The project, it was crazy. 410 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 6: But after like the first couple of tweeks, it was like, oh, 411 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 6: the older Bobby's fire. 412 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 413 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like then I was like did. 414 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 2: I was like, then I saw what was about that 415 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: role that you did. Everybody got so attached to you 416 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: playing that Bobby role. When they dropped the Whitney movie, 417 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: the guy who played by I can't think of his 418 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 2: name right now. I'm drinking some like yeah, but he 419 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: did an amazing job, but everybody was like, why didn't 420 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 2: they just use Woodie like we got so I mean, 421 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 2: everybody was saying that because they got so attached to 422 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: you doing you know, that Bobby character. I always just 423 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 2: be interested when people play because that's such a big thing. 424 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 5: To do, and when you see him work on set, 425 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 5: like it makes so much sense, like yeah, you're so good, 426 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 5: you know, like he's. 427 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 3: Like he's like, you make work easy. 428 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you you too. I learned, like I know, 429 00:18:55,280 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 1: I like mass Man, so I have and goll be 430 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: Gon and this some fun. Okay. 431 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 4: So I wanted to know with the show inning, what 432 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 4: would y'all like to do going forward? Like what would 433 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 4: you like for your Nick's character to be or your 434 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 4: nick froll to be? 435 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: Ideally? 436 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 2: Okay, So what is a movie called? I Love Margot Robbie. 437 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: I love Robbie. 438 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 5: She's one of my favorite She's done so many of 439 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 5: my dream roles, like Harley Quinn. I literally like that's 440 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 5: like my bowling name when I go bowling, like anything 441 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 5: is Harley, because like that was that was my dream role. 442 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 2: But she did a movie called Focus with Will Smith. 443 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 2: I would love to do something like like a pickpocket 444 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 2: like spy type of situation. 445 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what? 446 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 5: Okay, like yeah, yeah, if you do have oh listen, 447 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 5: it's it's I don't know how I'm able to go 448 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,919 Speaker 5: so far beyond myself, but that is kind of scary. 449 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 2: Actually, I'd lose all of my mannerisms. 450 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: Really, but that's dope. 451 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 2: I feel like that's the makings of like a great 452 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 2: actor able to step out audio. 453 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: So we always talk about these. 454 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 4: I feel like I would be a terrible actor because 455 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 4: I just feel like I'm gonna be myself. 456 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 5: And sometimes like when you change your your mannerisms too, 457 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 5: like no, like they're gonna know like someone has never 458 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 5: met you before. It doesn't know that that's but it 459 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 5: feels so weird. Like girl, we're doing a lot. 460 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 2: Right now, and that's how I be on that, like 461 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: we're doing at So do y'all come like understand though, 462 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 2: because I know a lot of actors, like say they 463 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: take a role, it kind of makes them kind of 464 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 2: like lose it a little bit, like they kind of 465 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: lose touch with reality because they're so deep in the character. Yeah, 466 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: that kind of makes sense for y'all how people can 467 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: do that, Like what's it called like method acting or something? 468 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, for me, no, just because so I'm actually not 469 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 5: an actor that can like activate my tears and my 470 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 5: anger through like thinking of trauma. 471 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: So I literally have to I'll be like. 472 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 2: Bitch you finnack right right now. I'll be like this 473 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: is crazy. 474 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: It's more like if I if I. 475 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 5: Go to because my response to trauma is to shut down, 476 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 5: Like I'm just like, Okay, that's why. 477 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: I think about it, like make yourself do it. 478 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, you know, we're about to cry right 479 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 5: now or but or even not, like we're gonna try 480 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 5: not to cry right now. And I feel like that's 481 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 5: a more powerful reaction than like trying to make yourself cry, 482 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 5: if you try to force yourself not to, Like holding 483 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 5: back tears to me is so much more powerful than 484 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:32,439 Speaker 5: letting them spill like on camera, because it's just like 485 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 5: it's some depth. 486 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 4: I agree, Yeah, I feel like they in real life. 487 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, tears. I don't think. 488 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 6: I don't think like black people have the luxury of 489 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 6: being method acted because then after that it's like you difficult. 490 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 3: Oh I don't I think. I don't know. 491 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 6: I just think it's just like they don't see it 492 00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 6: as an art form with us. 493 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so much. Yeah you know what I mean. 494 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 6: So for me personally, when I come into it, it's 495 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 6: like I'm not like a talkative person. 496 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 3: I'm like super like quiet. I keep all my feelings inside. 497 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 6: So acting has been like a great outlet for me 498 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,719 Speaker 6: because I've been able to like speak the things that 499 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 6: I'm going through, Like in my personal life through the character. 500 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 6: If I'm struggling with something, I can bring that to 501 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 6: kinge Okay, you know what I mean. If I don't 502 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 6: like something that somebody did in my family, I can 503 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 6: just bring that to King. I won't say it in 504 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 6: person to my family, I'll hold that in yeah, but 505 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 6: I can let it out, you know what I mean. 506 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 3: Through the character. 507 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, that does make it. And it's crazy. 508 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 2: I didn't think of it that way because like when 509 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 2: you're a method acting like you're in character twenty four 510 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,439 Speaker 2: to seven. Yeah, walking on set, you're acting like whatever 511 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 2: character you are. I didn't even think of it from 512 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: that perspective. So that's definitely interesting. 513 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 5: They always tell people to like leave it at the door, 514 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 5: That's what I hear it. Like, so like whether it's 515 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 5: with love scenes, like leave it at the door, like anger, 516 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 5: like especially like I've never had to do anything like this, 517 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 5: but like you know, sexual abuse, Yeah, and like that's 518 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 5: something that would It's just like has to be extremely 519 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 5: hard right portray on television. I agree, And it can 520 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 5: follow you home if you don't leave it right because 521 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 5: it's just like it's so intense, it's. 522 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: Very very it's so dark. You have to go to 523 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: a very dark place. Yeah, like pool. 524 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 5: Because I know, and it's a lot of women's biggest 525 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 5: fear as well, So like to be facing your fears 526 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 5: twenty four to seven. It's crazy because your body doesn't 527 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 5: know it's fake, Like you know you're acting, but you 528 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 5: still get the same stress responses and it makes your 529 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 5: like your nervous system go into like panic mode. 530 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 2: I don't even think about that either. That's crazy. I 531 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 2: do have one more question. I know we keep saying 532 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 2: one more question, So I want to talk about like 533 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 2: dating in real life and then you're dealing with your 534 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 2: partner or whoever. If you're in a relationship, you're casually 535 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 2: seeing someone, but you got to go on six and 536 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 2: you got to be having sex with somebody. You gotta 537 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 2: be kissing somebody, because we all see what happened with 538 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 2: uh Brad and Angelina. They started dating for real. Smith, 539 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: Maybe don't be on set making love to my man. 540 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 4: For real, but hard that they don't really be making 541 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 4: love for reals. 542 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 5: A lot of right, it's actually like really awkward because 543 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,719 Speaker 5: you guys see it with like music and like magical 544 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:28,120 Speaker 5: effects and light, but in reality, it's like dead silence, 545 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 5: just like this and it's all same light, so many people, 546 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:39,360 Speaker 5: and all you hear is like, that's not sexy, it's. 547 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 6: It's really awkward, and it'd be so much going through 548 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 6: our heads at the time. I be thinking, like, it's 549 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 6: my it's my like, you know what I mean, my 550 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 6: muscles pop, it's my stroke. 551 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: Right, we need to the next day, Like we got 552 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 2: a weak ass stroke, a weak ass mom. 553 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: I told him. I was like, I'm not moaning, y'all. 554 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: I don't care what y'all saw. I mean, I'm not 555 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: doing it. 556 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not. 557 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. 558 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 3: Then anybody else to do it. 559 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 1: Get somebody else to do it. I'm good at it. 560 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 6: A job, but it goes into sex. I think we're 561 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 6: in a moment not thinking about sex at all. For 562 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 6: me personally, I'm thinking about making sure my scene partner 563 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 6: is comfortable, making sure she understands I'm not a weirdo, 564 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 6: I'm not a Berbert. 565 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 3: Like I'm here for you, you know what I mean, 566 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 3: Like I want to make. 567 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 5: Sure you good, Like yeah, you're really good about asking Yeah, 568 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 5: like you know what I mean. Like, because it's choreographed, 569 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 5: if that's the word for it, Like you literally have 570 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 5: to go over everything, like is it okay if he 571 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 5: touches here and then we're going to move here and 572 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 5: then we'll do here. 573 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: Are you okay? 574 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 5: Like everything is extremely choreographed, so you can't even think 575 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 5: about being sexy because like you have so many other things. 576 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 5: It's like trying to play chess while like riding a bike. Yeah, 577 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 5: but it's like two different functions have to work the 578 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 5: same time, but also make it look naturally realistic. 579 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that like when y'all, if y'all are dating somebody, 580 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 2: it's not like they feel some type of way or I. 581 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: Mean, I'm sure some people would. 582 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 5: It's never fun to like watch your partner get like 583 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,159 Speaker 5: into the wall and drilled like yeah, that's. 584 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: I don't know that, but it's work. Yeah, it's like, yeah, 585 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: that's all I feel like. 586 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 5: Actually, those scenes are the ones that people like to 587 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 5: be done with the quickest out of any of them. Like, 588 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 5: let's just because it's annoying, like to have to kiss 589 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:40,360 Speaker 5: someone that is not your partner like twenty five times 590 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 5: with the same intensity each time, and then have people 591 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 5: like on the other side of the camera like no, 592 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,479 Speaker 5: we need more, like we need, we need, we just 593 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 5: need more, like it's annoying. 594 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 2: I guess too, because I feel like sometimes like co 595 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 2: stars like y'all obviously will have like chemistry, like you see, 596 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,239 Speaker 2: like you know how people were like I always use 597 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 2: this as an example, like on Martin, Martin and Gina 598 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 2: had good chemistry, but on My Wife and Kids, Michael 599 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: cow and her had way better chemistry. Like even though 600 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 2: I feel like Martin is a better show, they just 601 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,239 Speaker 2: had better chemistry together, Like it really felt like a 602 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 2: married couple. So the reason I wanted to ask that 603 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 2: because like, sometimes it's like. 604 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: Some people might not be acting like you ain't gonna 605 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: need no. For sure. If I got a kiss injuries, 606 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: you don't need no. I'm passionate the first need a 607 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: second take home. 608 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,479 Speaker 5: With anything, Like even friends, like you know, when you 609 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 5: just meet someone off tops, you're just like their vibe 610 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 5: is just yeah for me. But then some people you 611 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 5: meet for the first time, it's like, oh, this is 612 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 5: my bitch Friday. It's kind of like the same the 613 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 5: same deal because some people are like because even though 614 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 5: you are acting, you are still touching this person and 615 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 5: interacting with this person. So when someone's just already like 616 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 5: weird off top, yeah, it makes it like hard. Yeah, 617 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 5: we actors be rich, you have to be weird to 618 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like doing what we do, there 619 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 5: has to be something about you, like. 620 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, because people be enjoying it too much. 621 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 4: So like you, I had a six things with somebody 622 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 4: who was like. 623 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 6: It's always been uncomfortable, always been You got you got 624 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 6: to two people on a camera, like right there, you 625 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 6: got a sound guy, you got a whole village of 626 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,880 Speaker 6: people watching the screen is never porn, yeah, probably for them, but. 627 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 3: For us, we're not here to do. 628 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 5: I have got stuck in a crying scene before, like 629 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 5: because you know how sometimes like you can always like 630 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 5: you make yourself cry, but then sometimes it's like actually 631 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 5: like you get into it. It's like it's like that 632 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 5: real crying. Like I was just stuck like and I 633 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 5: just kept crying, like even though because you know, you 634 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 5: work yourself up and you're doing all this yelling mm hmm. 635 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 5: Then I was just like I couldn't stop. Like I 636 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 5: guess it depends on where you are, yeah, not around 637 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 5: you were like over I wouldn't even necessarily say sad, 638 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 5: but like sometimes in like filming in New York, it's 639 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 5: really really overwhelming for me because like it's it's over stimulation, 640 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 5: like car horns honking twenty four to seven. There is 641 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 5: ten people within your square foot all times, like very overwhelming. 642 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 5: So it's kind of like a release, kind of like 643 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 5: what you were saying, it's like a nice release or 644 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 5: to do that. 645 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. 646 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 2: I learned some good information to that make so so 647 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: top for this game. 648 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: Were don't have to pour on some shots. You don't 649 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 1: have to like a shot period. We haven't even got 650 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 1: to the topic. 651 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 2: We have. 652 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: The ice workers. 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So basically what we're gonna do is We're 686 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 2: gonna read us line from a movie and you have 687 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 2: to name the movie and or the character. 688 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay each other. Yeah. 689 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 4: And it's also scenarios too, So some of them are 690 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 4: gonna be lines from a movie or a TV show, 691 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 4: and then some of them are gonna be like scenarios, 692 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 4: so you could guess what TV show or movie it was. 693 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: I feel like mine are pretty easy. I didn't want 694 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: to take it me either. I didn't want to I 695 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: didn't want to go too hard. Okay, okay, okay, So. 696 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go first. So should we do it like 697 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 2: they take turns or they can like raise it what 698 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 2: we want to do it? 699 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 4: I feel like whoevery think they got the right end, 700 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 4: so should raise their hand first real quick. 701 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: And then if you get it wrong in the other person. 702 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 2: Kids in the winter at the end, the loser gott 703 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 2: to take their shot, right all right, I mean we're 704 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 2: all gonna. 705 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 6: Take the shot anyway. 706 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: Y'all can play at home along with us. 707 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll go first. Okay, so if you know the answer, 708 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 2: this one's really easy. Y'all should know this. 709 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 1: Who drank my goddamn apple juice? Oh? Hold on? Wait, no, 710 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: you got it. 711 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 4: I don't like you know what it is though, that's 712 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 4: why you was like your reflex. 713 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, do you do it, Barber? Yeah, I'll be 714 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: with myself. 715 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 2: I want to know we got Okay, go ahead, dragon, 716 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 2: go ahead. 717 00:32:44,520 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody coming to see you? Otis? Wrap it up? Okay, 718 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: this is a theme song, vocals. Are you going? 719 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't worry opportunity to sing. That's why I 720 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 2: had to pick this car and let me show. 721 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 1: Him what I got. Let's see. Okay. Oh what a 722 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: nineties kind of world. I'm glad I got. Oh yeah, 723 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: I don't know this one. Then I'm trying. I was 724 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: giving it easy. Okay, he got it right, give it up? 725 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: And what I know that one? You don't the first two? 726 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: But I I love you girl up, but you get 727 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 1: smoked all right now? 728 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 2: I believe it helps you help me. Well, I don't 729 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 2: know for any nick ship. 730 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: The setup is crazy. 731 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 4: I don't understand how a woman that fine can have 732 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 4: hammerton feet. 733 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: Oh I don't know this one. Hold on, you know 734 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: what I mean? I know it, I know it? What 735 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 1: is it? 736 00:33:58,440 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 3: I know? 737 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 2: Because I'm no? No, because that's how he be. You 738 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 2: be acting like you don't know, you don't know, but. 739 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 3: The only thing I can think about, what feet was 740 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 3: when he. 741 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 2: Was like, it's okay, So that was good. 742 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,839 Speaker 1: Okay, now this one is easy, but we got four more, 743 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: so y'all got to. 744 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 2: Get I gotta get every Okay, this one. 745 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: Is super easy. We reptatus status datus, I know boom did. 746 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 2: Come. 747 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that. 748 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 2: Was like bring it on for one. 749 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okay, So this one is a scenario. 750 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 4: A comedian steps into the role of appearing when his 751 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 4: sister drops off her three kids. His views on child 752 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 4: rearing are hardly police correct, but he tries his bess, 753 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 4: I don't even know that one. A comedian takes the 754 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 4: role of a parent, uh huh when his sister drops 755 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 4: off her three kids. His views on child rearing are 756 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 4: hardly politically correct, but he tries his bess. 757 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 1: I'll see you over there, mouth and it's all just 758 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 1: go ahead and with you, no, go ahead. 759 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 2: Girl, by cheating because I've been cheating, like I'm over. 760 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: Here trying to read his lips. 761 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 3: Kids one. 762 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 2: For real. 763 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 4: Okay, first of all, no, you could have at least 764 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 4: gave her the right, oh ship, you gotta. 765 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:50,399 Speaker 2: Put a little record stratch down right there maybe, but 766 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 2: it was the girl should have gave. That was a 767 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 2: girlfriend's kids. That's the only difference it was. 768 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,439 Speaker 1: I know because he was like me and the father. Yeah, kids, 769 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 1: he was a comedian. It is the Burne. Okay, all right, 770 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 1: nobody gets it, that's all right. 771 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 3: I was messing folks up in school. 772 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 1: I was I was like, okay, this is my last one. 773 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:12,759 Speaker 1: Now this one. 774 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:17,240 Speaker 2: I think it could be tough, but it could be easy. Okay, 775 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 2: it ain't your booty, it's your beauty. 776 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 777 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 2: I don't know where that's from, but I heard it before. 778 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:33,839 Speaker 1: Somebody probably told you that it ain't. Now nobody got 779 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 1: an answer, and hold on, hold on, hold on. 780 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:41,319 Speaker 2: This is think of like a super black class, like 781 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 2: the first of like comedy, like in. 782 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: The in the nineties. In the nineties it was a 783 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: nineties it was Chris Tuer. 784 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,240 Speaker 6: Okay, hold on, it's like the club. 785 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 2: Hold on, it's coming to me. 786 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 6: What's that movie Cuban Bernie MCing them in it and 787 00:36:58,719 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 6: Jamie Foxx. 788 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: That's at the Players Friday Wait you come on, now, 789 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,400 Speaker 2: come on now, you are there. 790 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: Friday after next? 791 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, yes, yes, yeah. 792 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 4: The first Friday said, christ Sucker, it was my I 793 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 4: love myah my gosh. All right now, all right, y'all, 794 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 4: it's the last one, Okay, Julia, you know I never 795 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 4: make a fool of you. 796 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: Oh it sucks so bad. 797 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,240 Speaker 5: It's like i'd be knowing them, but I don't know then, 798 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 5: Like I'm seeing it right now. 799 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,959 Speaker 1: It's a movie. So it's Haller Perry movies. 800 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 2: Gabriel think about Gabrielle Union being on the day, this one. 801 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: She was on the day. 802 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 3: Oh, Daddy's little girl. 803 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:43,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's okay. 804 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I gave it away. Well, what do y'all 805 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: giving up the wedding? 806 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in a close, very close second. 807 00:37:55,120 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 5: Absolutely, Yes, Alex start happy to be here, my girl. 808 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 1: You're good. 809 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,879 Speaker 2: But we're gonna take a shot. Everybody gonna take a shot, 810 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 2: all right, if y'all at home, take a shot. Y'all 811 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,399 Speaker 2: just got dumb playing the game. 812 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,919 Speaker 1: We drinking, well, I'm drinking teremonia. I'm a vodka girl. 813 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:20,839 Speaker 1: I'm a bodka girl. Yeah, Harley Quinn, I love you. Oh, 814 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:28,399 Speaker 1: I love Harley Quinn. Yeah, okay, y'all, what's up? Y'all? 815 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 1: Is your girl Lexpe And it's sugarl tray and a call. 816 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 2: And we are back with another live show, poor soul karaoke. 817 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 4: It's it's back, y'all, and y'all know we doing it 818 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 4: again here in Atlanta at City Winery and we have 819 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,399 Speaker 4: a special guest host. But we also have Nab with it. 820 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 4: Oh we know y'all love nap and poor minds to get. 821 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 2: There, we're gonna have a time. So September twenty first 822 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 2: at City Winery. Go get your tickets right now, Citywinery 823 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 2: dot com. Y'all are not gonna want to miss this 824 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 2: September twenty first. 825 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: We outside pull up on us. Period. 826 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 4: Let's get into this first ship, all right, you want 827 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 4: to introduce a dryer? 828 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 1: Sure? 829 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 6: So for the first topic, wait, wait, can I say 830 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 6: shout out to y'all this is beautiful, like very professional. 831 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 2: I appreciate you amazing Yeah, there. 832 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 1: Are a great time. Okay, good, yes on the break 833 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 1: talk about again amazing energy. Well, thank y'all. 834 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 2: Yes, y'all have great energy too, so that makes it 835 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 2: even more easy. 836 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 1: You know the poor crew. 837 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,399 Speaker 2: Come y'all follow y'all every time. All right, go ahead 838 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: with the first topic. 839 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:49,920 Speaker 1: D okay. 840 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 4: So for the first topic, I wanted to talk about 841 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 4: men wanting to leave you alone but you won't let them. 842 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: So on the internet. 843 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 4: Lately it has been this couple that has been going 844 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:08,720 Speaker 4: viral a lot lately. 845 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 1: They're on the reality show. I don't want to say. 846 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 4: Who it is, but the man had a baby on 847 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 4: his wife and she chose to stay with him. 848 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: And because what is what I want? 849 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 3: I want to do more out what you. 850 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,479 Speaker 1: Meant was that's love? 851 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:38,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, so she chose to stay with him, right, And 852 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 4: so now the baby mother is saying that he's trying 853 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 4: to still have sex with you know, with her, and 854 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:51,080 Speaker 4: so she's refusing kinda to like just leave the nigga. 855 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 4: So at this point, everybody on the internet is just saying, 856 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 4: like this nigga is trying to find it out and 857 00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 4: she won't let him. 858 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,399 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, okay. 859 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 4: So I just you know what y'all think of what 860 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:06,880 Speaker 4: you think at least, well, not about that particular situation. 861 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: I was just asking that as an example. 862 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 2: But let me not talk about nobody. 863 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: We don't have to talk about. 864 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 5: Just hypothetically speaking, if there was a guy that had 865 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 5: a baby on a girl. Hypothetically yeah, no, you know, 866 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 5: it's not something that I believe in or like this, but. 867 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:37,360 Speaker 1: Each yeah, I just feel like if Anita had a 868 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: baby on me, I would have to leave. Okay, But. 869 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 5: In a man's defense, yes, the union makes it wrong. 870 00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 1: But in a man's defense. 871 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 2: The baby part, it's a baby, so it makes it worse. 872 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 5: But we also don't like make the babies if women 873 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 5: were the ones making the babies, like like projecting their 874 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 5: right right, right, that's the only one. 875 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,800 Speaker 1: That's the only way one can get made right. It's 876 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's really that. 877 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you know, it's not necessarily that he didn't 878 00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 2: love her. 879 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 1: It's just he might. 880 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 5: He might have slipped up and because he's the one 881 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 5: that's able to produce children, he just stayed in it 882 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 5: a little too long. But this is how do y'all 883 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,839 Speaker 5: not I'm going to reach back that from the But. 884 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 4: Do y'all not feel like if a man had a 885 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,840 Speaker 4: baby on you he would cheat? Again, I feel like 886 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 4: if he had a baby, I think, yeah, I think 887 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 4: people could change. 888 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 2: Maybe some issues need to be a baby. It is 889 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 2: just but yeah, to be cheating and you're not even 890 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 2: strapping it up. 891 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I realized you're putting my health. You think it 892 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: was like. 893 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 5: An old friend or something like noot, that's crazy. What Yeah, 894 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 5: what's even scarier than the baby is my health. 895 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: Yeah. 896 00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 2: And that's so I feel like this, This is how 897 00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 2: I feel. Not about that situation particular, but I have 898 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 2: personally been in a situation because. 899 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 1: We all have been young and behind men. 900 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I have never been afraid or scared to 901 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 2: admit that. But I look at back at some situations 902 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,800 Speaker 2: where I'm like, this man wanted me to walk away 903 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 2: so bad because he didn't have the guts to do it. 904 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:23,919 Speaker 2: He was just doing me so bad. 905 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, girl, when something because they. 906 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 2: Know you're a good woman, they know you're a good person, 907 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 2: You're just not the person for them. They'd be like, 908 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,359 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, like they just be they can't get 909 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 2: right because you're not their person. And they like, you 910 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 2: know what, she's gonna she's gonna have some pride about herself. 911 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,239 Speaker 1: She's gonna pick it up. And I'm like, no, I'm 912 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 1: a hold of die baby. Yeah, I love you. Yeah. 913 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,839 Speaker 4: But do you think it's a not their person thing 914 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 4: or do you think it's like a character flaw? 915 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:54,919 Speaker 1: A little bit of both. 916 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little bit of both with me as 917 00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 2: a woman, right, that has nothing to do with my Yeah, 918 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 2: I am still an amazing woman. 919 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 1: I'm just not the. 920 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 2: Person for that for him maybe or just be a 921 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:08,720 Speaker 2: person that he just can't get oil. 922 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: But either way, wait, wait, but who's to I think? 923 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:20,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So with with cheating, I think that right, do it? 924 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: Listen? I feel like this is a safe space. 925 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 2: I think with cheating, you know, it's it's two things, right. 926 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 5: One, there is a conversation that needs to be had 927 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,400 Speaker 5: between them, because I think a lot of the miscommunication 928 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 5: comes from no communication. 929 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,560 Speaker 1: Right. So like I feel like. 930 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,479 Speaker 5: Sometimes people need to be a little bit more real 931 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 5: with themselves and if they're missing something at home, maybe 932 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 5: have the conversation. 933 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 1: But they won't, right because a lot of people are 934 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 1: scared to say that. Yeah, and. 935 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 2: I yeah, they're just not real enough ourselves. I also 936 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 2: don't realize is when you have those uncomfortable conversations with somebody. 937 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,920 Speaker 1: That's when you all are. Yeah. 938 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 2: If you are in a conversation with somebody and it's 939 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 2: so awkward and it's so uncomfortable, yeah, that's good. 940 00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:07,839 Speaker 1: That's who all are growing and that. 941 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 2: Means this may be something that's worth it. But we 942 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,799 Speaker 2: also cannot misconstrue an uncomfortable conversation with somebody that wants 943 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,279 Speaker 2: to be with you, because I still may be uncomfortable, 944 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 2: but you, yeah, you may be showing me signs that 945 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 2: you don't want to be here. It's all about discernment, 946 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 2: and that's what Yeah, yeah, discernment self people, if you 947 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 2: doing it, you had a if you have You're not 948 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 2: just talking about cheating, No, I'm just saying we're talking 949 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 2: about like anything, if you continuously do something, even as 950 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 2: a friend a family member. If I say, hey, Alex, 951 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 2: I don't like when you do X, y Z, and 952 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 2: then two months later you're doing it again, it's all 953 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,440 Speaker 2: my discernment to be like, she really don't here. 954 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 5: That's where the lack of self control. I feel like 955 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,799 Speaker 5: I'm in the person, because I do believe that just 956 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 5: because you're you're unhappy with someone does not give you 957 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 5: the right to hurt them that way. Because and a 958 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 5: lot of people like cheating and can really mess someone 959 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 5: up for a very long time, especially someone that already 960 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 5: may have abandonment issues or you know, self esteem. 961 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 2: Issues, Like it's a it's a lack of self control. 962 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,960 Speaker 5: Right because like my boyfriend always says, like when you 963 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 5: control yourself sexually, you grow in all other aspects of life. 964 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: You gain a lot more. 965 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 5: Money, you your business gets stronger, like your family gets stronger. 966 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 5: And I think that a lot of people like sex 967 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,040 Speaker 5: is so prominent these days, right, Like it's in literally 968 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 5: everything we consume. It's in the books now, it's on 969 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,480 Speaker 5: the apps, it's in the movies, like it's it's so 970 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,319 Speaker 5: prominent these days that it's almost like normalized to be 971 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 5: hyper sexual, it's to be addicted to a lot of 972 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 5: people have sex addictions. Because if you can't walk past 973 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 5: a fat ass, or if you can't walk past a 974 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 5: handsome man and be able to have just a little 975 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,839 Speaker 5: bit of self control, you're weak. 976 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 1: It's a weakness. 977 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:57,280 Speaker 6: But because that's what would you say. 978 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 2: He said, like when you when you discipline, like when 979 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 2: you show discipline sexually, like when you show some self control, 980 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 2: you grow in all other aspects of all of that. 981 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 2: You can't control yourself, Yeah, if you have. 982 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,880 Speaker 5: Ever like like abstinate or celibate or like whatever the case, 983 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 5: and then like you start feeling like just fucking like awesome, 984 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 5: like on top of the world. Like because when you're 985 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 5: not thinking about First of all, I know that you've 986 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,600 Speaker 5: seen a lot of women completely deplete their money on 987 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 5: a man or like or their business goes downhill because 988 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 5: they're spending all of their attention on a hand and 989 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:37,240 Speaker 5: vice versa. Like it's because you're depleting, Like sexual energy 990 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 5: is extremely strong. 991 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:39,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're. 992 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 2: Depleting it, especially on an unhealthy person, like it's bad and. 993 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 1: You're you're bleeding in your builings. 994 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, Fie hundred percent believe that because I don't know, 995 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:53,320 Speaker 4: Like extremely successful men have one woman. 996 00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 1: They're in marriage. 997 00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,800 Speaker 3: They're married, like like married Mary. 998 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: Yes, they're married, they have are not No, Yeah, they're married. 999 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: That was about the law, but you know about that. 1000 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: Businessmen feel too, But it's a lot. 1001 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 4: Of people are married because it's I don't know, I 1002 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 4: just feel like it's easier to focus when you are 1003 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,280 Speaker 4: dedicating your time your family. 1004 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is kind of like what I was saying meeting. 1005 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: But a lot of businessmen feel too. 1006 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 5: When you have a wife, you're seeing it's more trustworthy 1007 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 5: in business. True, though, a lot of them keep a 1008 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 5: wife because they know that, like if you do business 1009 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 5: with another powerful man, he's automatically going to trust you. 1010 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: When he sees that you can take care of a woman. Yeah, 1011 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:32,759 Speaker 1: and having a family. I mean you got to think. 1012 00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 4: About it too, even if it's about the city, it really. 1013 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 2: Is because think about the presidential rights that we always had. 1014 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 2: It's like a thing like you can you really cannot 1015 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 2: run for president if you're not married. 1016 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's a whole thing. 1017 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,799 Speaker 2: They will tell you, like, if you're not married and 1018 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 2: you don't have a family, why are you trying to 1019 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,720 Speaker 2: even get in this arena they want you to because 1020 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,800 Speaker 2: it's a whole it's a whole nother responsibility. 1021 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you're shown that you could take care 1022 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: of a spouse. 1023 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 5: A relationship is a lot of work, but it's very 1024 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,680 Speaker 5: easy with the right one, Like I'm blessed to be 1025 00:48:58,719 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 5: it's just so easy. 1026 00:48:59,719 --> 00:48:59,839 Speaker 1: Oh. 1027 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 2: I love to see women glowing because I always a 1028 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 2: love properly, do not stop loving, because when you are 1029 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:14,279 Speaker 2: a valuable person, a valuable a high value woman. I 1030 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 2: hate that word, but I like to use it though. 1031 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 2: I do like to use it because I think it's 1032 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 2: a thing. When you're a high value woman, you will 1033 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 2: attract a high value man and you can't just like 1034 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,759 Speaker 2: throw in the towel because dating is hard, and you 1035 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 2: will it is hard, especially as a person who has 1036 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:35,319 Speaker 2: done this to myself. If a man doesn't treat you right, 1037 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 2: like I said, a man will be doing all these 1038 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,919 Speaker 2: things to make you leave, and then you'll be like, oh, 1039 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,919 Speaker 2: I wasn't good enough. Why am I not skinny enough? 1040 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 2: It's my ass not fat enough? Am I'm not funny enough? 1041 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,319 Speaker 2: Am I not like skin enough? My curl, my hair 1042 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 2: too nappy, whatever the case may be. But then it's like, 1043 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 2: then you'll get into a situation with somebody who just you. 1044 00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:57,919 Speaker 1: Are perfect, no wrong, y'all. 1045 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:04,760 Speaker 6: Y'all still mess that up every time. 1046 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:00,760 Speaker 1: I can't. 1047 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 6: Because I say, head, what I said that in my head? 1048 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 1: Let me thoughtful, He'll say. 1049 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,239 Speaker 3: But I don't mean it. Though I don't mean it, 1050 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,399 Speaker 3: you can keep be popping out. Stop okay, I'm just playing. 1051 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 2: But what about you're a high value man? 1052 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know that is what is that? 1053 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 1: A high value man is? 1054 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 2: Like like she was saying, I feel like a high 1055 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 2: value man is somebody who their sexuality and them being 1056 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,520 Speaker 2: sexual does not control them. Sure, they take care of home, 1057 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 2: they have loyalty, you know, they're a gentleman. Bare minimum. 1058 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 2: You know, they're open minded. 1059 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 1: They're just emotionally and emotionally intelligent. 1060 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:52,320 Speaker 2: They have bit the number one for me, like there 1061 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 2: if they do have children, they take care of their 1062 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 2: responsibilities like it has nothing to do. That's why we 1063 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 2: said this on an episode that we did. People misconstrued 1064 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:03,640 Speaker 2: having finances with being. 1065 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,360 Speaker 1: A high value met and it's not. And that do 1066 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:07,400 Speaker 1: not make you nothing. 1067 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 5: That'll like that and a lot of NFL players like 1068 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:17,240 Speaker 5: because I have, you know, dated NFL players in the past, 1069 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,839 Speaker 5: and I feel like it's it's very very like it's 1070 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,439 Speaker 5: something that I always notice, like they have so much 1071 00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,440 Speaker 5: money and it's just like we're having a conversation like 1072 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:27,880 Speaker 5: mm hmmm. 1073 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 1: Surface level. 1074 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 6: But sometimes we have a lot of us haven't been 1075 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 6: taught to love, Like we don't know how to we 1076 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:33,440 Speaker 6: don't know. 1077 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 3: How to properly do that. 1078 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 5: And that's you know what I mean, Like I hate 1079 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 5: that I'm still learning that. 1080 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: How a lot of men are yet Yeah, we don't know. 1081 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 3: Like so it's like do you faulter us for it? 1082 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 3: But we just got to learn it, that's all. 1083 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 1: And that's why. But you're willing to learn too. 1084 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, it happens to all of us right, kind of 1085 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 5: like what you were saying, we've all been there, like 1086 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,120 Speaker 5: because some of us are purpose in in men like 1087 00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 5: that that may not know to love yet, because I 1088 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 5: do believe that most men get there. 1089 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 2: You're just a step to make to prepare him for 1090 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 2: his woman. But I feel like we have to excite. 1091 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 6: I think it's not it's not enough platonic relationships. 1092 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 1: Maybe. 1093 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,239 Speaker 3: I feel like if you have like because I got 1094 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:20,480 Speaker 3: like a. 1095 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 6: Lot of homegirls with it, it ain't know nothing about sex. 1096 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,239 Speaker 6: That's just like legit my homegirl, Like we can go 1097 00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 6: out get drunk and it ain't none of that. That's 1098 00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 6: just like legit my homegirl. 1099 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 1: Which also teaching. 1100 00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,719 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, yeah, exactly. So hearing y'all talk is like, 1101 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 3: I always take this in. 1102 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 2: But I think important too that you said that, because 1103 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 2: you know, I meet a lot of men that like, oh, 1104 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 2: an attractive man an attractive woman cannot be friends like 1105 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 2: they truly believe. 1106 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:45,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1107 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 2: So the fact that you even have, like you can 1108 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:49,319 Speaker 2: even say like I have a lot of homegirls and 1109 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 2: I like that. I think that that, truly that maybe 1110 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 2: is the first step to maybe learning how to love, 1111 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 2: because you have to be somebody's friend before you do 1112 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 2: anything romance and. 1113 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 5: Everyone skips the friends stays YouTube. Yeah, a lot of 1114 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,320 Speaker 5: girls especially I will say, like us girls be ready 1115 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 5: to hop into something. And I will say a lot 1116 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 5: of women, I think pressure men like it's it's like, hey, 1117 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 5: nice to meet you, like hang out, relationship, and then 1118 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,320 Speaker 5: the whole like timeline, Well I'm going to be married 1119 00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:28,600 Speaker 5: in two years, so which is yes, like you you 1120 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 5: have a. 1121 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,319 Speaker 1: Right to have your timeline. 1122 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 5: But I feel like what switches when the pressure comes 1123 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 5: in or if they meet a man and he's not 1124 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 5: necessarily ready for marriage, but they are like they disrespect 1125 00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 5: his boundaries and like, well they pressure him all the 1126 00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,360 Speaker 5: time because you know, especially black men, they already have 1127 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,400 Speaker 5: so much pressure on a day to day basis to 1128 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,359 Speaker 5: be strong consistently. You can never have a bad day 1129 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,200 Speaker 5: because you're a bad day. Like once I see you 1130 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 5: have a bad day, that's all you are. Like, I 1131 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,239 Speaker 5: feel like they already have so much pressure in the 1132 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 5: first place, that a relationship is the one place that 1133 00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 5: they want to have like some softness and a peace. 1134 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,319 Speaker 1: I have a lot of male friends. 1135 00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,440 Speaker 5: My best friend is a male, One of my best 1136 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,879 Speaker 5: friends is a male, and like just hearing it from 1137 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,680 Speaker 5: like my boyfriend and his friends is like they just 1138 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 5: want peace, Like that's all they want of their relationship 1139 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,040 Speaker 5: is peace, because that you black men really get peace 1140 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 5: on a day to day basis, even dealing. 1141 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 2: With their white counterparts. 1142 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,200 Speaker 5: They're always made to feel like less than and smaller 1143 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,480 Speaker 5: in a lot of these areas. So like all they 1144 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 5: want is to come home and to just like be 1145 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,919 Speaker 5: free and to have peace. And I think that's why 1146 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:34,040 Speaker 5: a lot of men, especially black men, are quiet too, 1147 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,440 Speaker 5: because every time they do talk and they do like 1148 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,720 Speaker 5: emote like it's like, oh you soft. 1149 00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:46,359 Speaker 1: But I do think that it goes both ways as well. 1150 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 2: Yes, I think as a black woman, we're expected we 1151 00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,800 Speaker 2: got to be strong. We gotta take care of the house. Yes, 1152 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,279 Speaker 2: we have to do everything. When he's breaking down, we can't. 1153 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 2: We can't shed a teer. We think black women anymore, 1154 00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,560 Speaker 2: we ask, And I think that's what they do. They though, 1155 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,279 Speaker 2: because it's like they need peace and we need Black women. 1156 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,280 Speaker 1: Are so conditioned to be strong. 1157 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:10,600 Speaker 2: Yes, everybody, if a woman ask for like can I 1158 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 2: have something? Can I have a romantic man? You would 1159 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 2: think we asking for I wanted some flower? 1160 00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,480 Speaker 6: If I have y'all be wanting twelve hours out the day. No, no, 1161 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:22,359 Speaker 6: no trying. 1162 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:23,879 Speaker 3: You're trying to get to the bag. 1163 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:27,040 Speaker 2: That's not what I said. Romance don't take twelve hours 1164 00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,920 Speaker 2: in the day. Romance is literally they have bouquets of 1165 00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,439 Speaker 2: flowers that you can sit on Uber eats. Okay, Because 1166 00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 2: it's like I thought of yeah, I'm thinking of you. 1167 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 2: I'm at work, I'm on set. Some flowers pop up 1168 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 2: at her door and she's like, damn, he's really fi 1169 00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 2: you go you on an hour? 1170 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:46,359 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 1171 00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I we're having this conversation the other day, like, Okay, 1172 00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,000 Speaker 4: men a lot of the time think that they're high 1173 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:57,160 Speaker 4: value because they're high earning. But then if you ask 1174 00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:01,720 Speaker 4: them outside of provision, outside of what you provide, what else, 1175 00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 4: A lot of the time men cannot answer that. 1176 00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:08,320 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. 1177 00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 4: So it's like, just because you're high earning, that does 1178 00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,880 Speaker 4: not make you high value because if you're not providing 1179 00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:18,920 Speaker 4: like comfortability, if you're not providing emotional support, if you're 1180 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 4: not actually physically there, it doesn't matter the things that 1181 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,239 Speaker 4: you do monetarily. And I think a lot of men 1182 00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 4: just that because they're so focused on Okay, I got 1183 00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 4: to make sure everybody's straight financially, But what about emotionally? 1184 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,120 Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, I don't think we know that. I remember 1185 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 6: growing up my grandfather was that for sure, and. 1186 00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 1: I think that's the problem. 1187 00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 3: A lot of our older. 1188 00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 4: Father figures and male figures in our life were that. 1189 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 3: I think we just got to learn how to open 1190 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 3: up more. 1191 00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 2: What kind of lover are you, Woodie, Like, how are 1192 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 2: you in a relationship? 1193 00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. I couldn't tell you. 1194 00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,960 Speaker 2: You have to ask mine you're But like if you, 1195 00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,120 Speaker 2: like if I had a conversation with like an ex 1196 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,000 Speaker 2: of yours, Like, what would they say about you? 1197 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, that's a good question. 1198 00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:08,359 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're a good lover? 1199 00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,879 Speaker 2: And we're not talking about physically, We're talking about, you know, 1200 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,600 Speaker 2: like how you treat her, how you court her, you know, 1201 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:15,480 Speaker 2: how you make her. 1202 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,200 Speaker 1: Being emotionally prisony. Yeah, things like that. 1203 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1204 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:23,280 Speaker 1: But see, but. 1205 00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 2: That's all I got to answering right now. But that's 1206 00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 2: a question that you should ask. Yeah, because like. 1207 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 6: She would be so locked in on work exactly because 1208 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:31,720 Speaker 6: I can be all I can be I can be 1209 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 6: so emotional, yeah, baby, but then we homeless. I'm locked 1210 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,160 Speaker 6: in on like yo, I gotta That's how I feel. 1211 00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 6: I got to keep providing, you know what I mean. 1212 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 6: So I'm not really I'm a lover. I'm like, man, too, 1213 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,200 Speaker 6: what do you ask me? You said, what are you 1214 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 6: a good lover? 1215 00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 3: Are a good lover to the work, to the craft 1216 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 3: that I do? You know what I mean? But I 1217 00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 3: don't know. As a partner, I don't know. Yeah, I'll 1218 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:54,520 Speaker 3: ask that question. 1219 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 2: And that's that's a big problem too, because going into 1220 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,360 Speaker 2: what you said of how like you know, they be 1221 00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,000 Speaker 2: working all these long days. They want to come home 1222 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 2: home to peace. But you're not gonna come home to 1223 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 2: peace if you don't fine. 1224 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 5: And I was going to say too, yes, because men 1225 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 5: also to flip it on the same side, the same 1226 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 5: way that women sometimes can pressure men. 1227 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:13,960 Speaker 1: I feel like I've had a whole lot. 1228 00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:18,480 Speaker 5: Of men that show no grace to women, like if 1229 00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,520 Speaker 5: he comes home and you know, because women have that days. 1230 00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 5: But like you said, we are the house need to 1231 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 5: be clean, There need to be some food on the 1232 00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:28,280 Speaker 5: table when I get home. 1233 00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 1: There needs to be all of this. 1234 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 5: But let there be a day like that she doesn't 1235 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 5: have that done, and then it's it's like a it's 1236 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 5: like a big, big thing. 1237 00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:38,439 Speaker 1: So I think you just you know both sides. 1238 00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:41,439 Speaker 5: But I think I love to have these uncomfortable like 1239 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 5: conversations with people, Like I have so many married friends 1240 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 5: and so many people in like committed relationships, and I 1241 00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 5: think that's just like a common theme that I've seen 1242 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,920 Speaker 5: is like these conversations don't happen. 1243 00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,640 Speaker 1: That's like because it's a cycle as well. 1244 00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,600 Speaker 2: Like I said, if he comes home he wants peace, 1245 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 2: you're gonna get peace because she knows that she's loved. 1246 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:05,520 Speaker 2: If she's if you're coming home and she doesn't feel loved, 1247 00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,080 Speaker 2: it's hey, can we talk. You don't want to talk 1248 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,280 Speaker 2: because you're tired, right, she don't know what's going on, 1249 00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:13,959 Speaker 2: because we need her in four days because you're at work. 1250 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 2: That's why it's important to have that work life balance. 1251 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,400 Speaker 2: If you don't figure out that work life balance, you're 1252 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 2: gonna be rich as hell in the efty ass house. 1253 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1254 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just think both people have to create an 1255 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:27,000 Speaker 4: environment for each other. 1256 00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 1257 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,480 Speaker 4: A lot of the time, it feels like men feel 1258 00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 4: like women are supposed to be soft and sweet and 1259 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 4: submissive no matter what. But it's like, are you creating 1260 00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 4: that space? And I don't know as both of y'all 1261 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 4: as other women as well, do y'all feel like femininity 1262 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,960 Speaker 4: and softness is something that's just supposed to come natural 1263 00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:48,640 Speaker 4: to you and you're supposed to be that way no 1264 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 4: matter what, or is a man supposed to create the 1265 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:52,680 Speaker 4: space for you to be that way. 1266 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,080 Speaker 5: I was just having this conversation. Actually, yes, I think 1267 00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 5: I was just having this conversation because I was saying that, like, 1268 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 5: you know, a lot of my background was abandonment. So 1269 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:04,800 Speaker 5: that's all I've known, which is like I'm very proud 1270 01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:07,280 Speaker 5: of myself for still being able to you know, be 1271 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 5: and like, you know, trusting of the right people. But 1272 01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 5: like a lot of my background was abandonment, And so 1273 01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 5: I was if you've ever met me, I have a 1274 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 5: really tough shell like inside, like I'm soft as hell, 1275 01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:26,280 Speaker 5: like something I got it for you, like if I 1276 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,000 Speaker 5: care about you, there's nothing you can ask for this 1277 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:28,439 Speaker 5: too much. 1278 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,280 Speaker 1: But I was there. 1279 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,360 Speaker 5: Was a harshness that came from me because I was 1280 01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 5: so used to providing for myself. I come from a 1281 01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:38,520 Speaker 5: long line of like broken relationships and single women and 1282 01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 5: abandoned women. 1283 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:40,880 Speaker 1: So it's like. 1284 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 5: All I know is that I always have to take 1285 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 5: care of myself because somebody's I have to take care 1286 01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 5: of myself. 1287 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:50,320 Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna leave me. 1288 01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 5: And if somebody leaves me and I've trusted them with 1289 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,560 Speaker 5: everything I have then and I was soft and I 1290 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 5: was feminine then like now I have nothing. So like 1291 01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 5: I was always like had to be like that strong 1292 01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 5: even I'm like they all call me the protector of 1293 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 5: the family because I've always been that backbone, which is 1294 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,720 Speaker 5: hard and so like it's fair. 1295 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:10,160 Speaker 1: Some women they don't have. 1296 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,160 Speaker 5: The opportunity, like where you come from and how you 1297 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,480 Speaker 5: grew up, they don't have the opportunity to be like 1298 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 5: soft all the time because it's like I'm busy protecting 1299 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,320 Speaker 5: people and like wearing a cape my damn self, you know, 1300 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 5: like and you're. 1301 01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 2: Not going to show up. And I'm glad that you 1302 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:28,240 Speaker 2: said that too, because anybody if people ask me about 1303 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 2: my relationship now, like if you ask my exes, oh 1304 01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:34,240 Speaker 2: is she feelin's, they'd be like, hell no, I just 1305 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:34,840 Speaker 2: wake up and. 1306 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 1: Pushed me in my chest. Wake up. 1307 01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 2: But that's because that's I was thinking I'm waking up 1308 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 2: mad at you because I don't low key like you 1309 01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,440 Speaker 2: and I don't trust you. 1310 01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 1311 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 2: Nothing about this makes me feel good? Yeah yeah, relationship 1312 01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:54,720 Speaker 2: now Yeah, as soon as he wake up the kid, Yes, sir, 1313 01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 2: I'm finna put this rope on. 1314 01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 1: What but I snaked up? Who I be ordering lingerie? Okay? 1315 01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 1: Am I craving out? Loation? It up from Usually I 1316 01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:12,440 Speaker 1: just jump in the bag up ashy. Yeah, I'm joking. 1317 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:17,440 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying about start a fighting. I'm just 1318 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 1: in a somewhere rub together. 1319 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, you cooking. 1320 01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,720 Speaker 1: That's how the conversation was though for real. But I 1321 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:34,720 Speaker 1: think now I'm in. 1322 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:38,320 Speaker 2: A situation to where it's a safe space for me 1323 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:42,919 Speaker 2: to feel vulnerable, to feel like I can do that because, 1324 01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 2: like I said, I show up at work, I am 1325 01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,320 Speaker 2: lex P, I'm this character. I gotta, you know, do 1326 01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 2: this and do that. So it's like when I go 1327 01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:52,320 Speaker 2: home too, just as like y'all want to go men, 1328 01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,040 Speaker 2: go home, I want to go home to and relax. 1329 01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,200 Speaker 2: But I'm going to go home and I might start 1330 01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,640 Speaker 2: just doing stuff for you because what you have provided 1331 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,560 Speaker 2: for me, how you make me feel, you know what 1332 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, want to nurture. 1333 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 1: You want to do this? Yeah, that's that, That that 1334 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:14,160 Speaker 1: natural what you was calling it fine that it's gonna 1335 01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:17,760 Speaker 1: kick in. It's gonna kick in because they have pushed 1336 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 1: that right. I agree. Yeah, if you don't create the environment, hey. 1337 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 2: With me, if you don't push that buty, you finna 1338 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:25,400 Speaker 2: get Hogan brother. 1339 01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:29,920 Speaker 3: Nuts. 1340 01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:34,680 Speaker 1: It's the truth wrong with a lot of a lot 1341 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 1: of us. 1342 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 6: A lot of us don't throw up with like expressing 1343 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 6: our feelings. Like for me, I'm just talking for myself. 1344 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,040 Speaker 6: I grew up both parents and my sister. But we 1345 01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,040 Speaker 6: just did the thing, like you know what I mean. 1346 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 6: We never really sat down and like expressed how we 1347 01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,000 Speaker 6: felt about certain things and that we just kind of 1348 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 6: live life. That makes sense, you know what I mean? 1349 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 6: We never really talked deeply. 1350 01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:59,240 Speaker 1: This show is sponsored by Better Hill. What's up, y'all? 1351 01:03:59,280 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 1: Iss your girl? 1352 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,560 Speaker 4: Like Andy Schugars in the call, and y'all know we 1353 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,040 Speaker 4: are here to tell y'all about Betterhelp dot com. 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So now as a man, 1380 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 6: I don't know how to do that Yeah, you know 1381 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:16,920 Speaker 6: what I'm saying, Like, I'm not a bad person, but 1382 01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 6: I just don't understand what you want me to say 1383 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 6: to you right now. 1384 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:20,480 Speaker 1: I don't. 1385 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:22,920 Speaker 3: I've never done that in life. Yeah, you know what 1386 01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:23,280 Speaker 3: I mean. 1387 01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:26,240 Speaker 6: So it's like you gotta find a like men, we 1388 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,840 Speaker 6: gotta find a partner that that understand. That's why I 1389 01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:31,800 Speaker 6: think the feminine part is very important. We need you'all 1390 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 6: to be soft because we don't know how to like 1391 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:35,840 Speaker 6: you know what I mean. So if you be like like, 1392 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,280 Speaker 6: I can't, I can't talk to who Cogan like that? 1393 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:42,240 Speaker 3: Yeah I can't exactly. 1394 01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,200 Speaker 5: But the beautiful part about that too, some people don't 1395 01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 5: even know that, Like say that about myself, like, yeah, 1396 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:48,760 Speaker 5: I don't know how to do that, Like some people 1397 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,840 Speaker 5: don't even they don't even know that they that they 1398 01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 5: don't even know. 1399 01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:52,880 Speaker 3: But I live. 1400 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,680 Speaker 6: I live in my head so much like I don't 1401 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 6: be knowing what's going on. And I hate that for 1402 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 6: myself because I don't understand. I was just talking about 1403 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:03,920 Speaker 6: it earlier. I don't understand the political stuff. I don't understand, 1404 01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,520 Speaker 6: Like it's a lot of stuff that I don't understand, 1405 01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:08,800 Speaker 6: and I hate that because I live so much in 1406 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 6: my head, so I'm trying to learn how to get 1407 01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 6: outside of my head. I'm so happy for my female 1408 01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 6: friends my homeboys because I can have these conversations and 1409 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,640 Speaker 6: not feel stupid because I don't know it right now. 1410 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,439 Speaker 6: And I can hit my homegirls up like yo, should 1411 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:21,680 Speaker 6: I send flowers or some of it? 1412 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:23,400 Speaker 3: And it's like you know what I mean? And they 1413 01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 3: giving me that advice. 1414 01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you understand that that's a thing that 1415 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,480 Speaker 2: you can even admit that because I will say that 1416 01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 2: that's how. That's how my man is. He has like 1417 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,680 Speaker 2: sisters and homegirls. He didn't know what to do with 1418 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,320 Speaker 2: it we first got together. Yeah, and like once I 1419 01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:40,520 Speaker 2: came cool with his sister. But like girl, he trying trying, 1420 01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:43,480 Speaker 2: and I see that effort like one thing, Like I 1421 01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:44,640 Speaker 2: know that he makes the effort. 1422 01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:46,800 Speaker 6: So do you get mad when he asks like females 1423 01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 6: like his homegirls or something like have time. 1424 01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:53,080 Speaker 1: Me and his sisters be talking about him to girls. 1425 01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:55,760 Speaker 2: I'd be like, I get it, But like I said, 1426 01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:58,120 Speaker 2: it's it's a work in progress. And I have patience 1427 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:01,240 Speaker 2: because I know what his intentions are. YEA rather worry 1428 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,120 Speaker 2: about a man trying to figure out how to love 1429 01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,920 Speaker 2: me then worry about a man who out here outside. 1430 01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:06,040 Speaker 1: On the street. 1431 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:10,760 Speaker 2: Shot, right, I can work through and we can figure 1432 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:11,080 Speaker 2: it out. 1433 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think that comes with a healthy relationship too, 1434 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,720 Speaker 4: because if you're in a healthy relationship, your partner isn't 1435 01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,640 Speaker 4: necessarily focused on who you're getting the information from. 1436 01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:26,200 Speaker 2: Get it from somebody, somebody. 1437 01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,080 Speaker 4: And so that's what I was going to ask you, like, 1438 01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:31,120 Speaker 4: are you open to therapy because I understand what you 1439 01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,240 Speaker 4: were saying about always being in your head, because I 1440 01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:34,880 Speaker 4: feel like I'm kind of like that as well, Like 1441 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:36,600 Speaker 4: I'm just always in my own head. 1442 01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,360 Speaker 1: But I think therapy helps a lot with it. 1443 01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:41,960 Speaker 4: Like what you're saying that you don't really know how 1444 01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 4: to communicate and love your feelings a lot of the. 1445 01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:45,360 Speaker 3: Time, for sure. 1446 01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:46,960 Speaker 6: For sure, I feel like it's a lot of stuff 1447 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:48,920 Speaker 6: out there that we don't do because I feel like 1448 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:51,280 Speaker 6: they put like a bad name on it. 1449 01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:54,600 Speaker 3: I think anything that's good for us, they be like, that's. 1450 01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,480 Speaker 1: That's why we thought therapy. It was such a bad thing. 1451 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,120 Speaker 2: Crazy, or like you go to therapy, Oh you crazy? 1452 01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not. 1453 01:08:04,760 --> 01:08:07,240 Speaker 1: I want to fix this. Everyone should. 1454 01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 5: I feel like everyone should have some outside source to 1455 01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:15,920 Speaker 5: talk to. It's just like unbiased, yes, like and unjudging, 1456 01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:20,479 Speaker 5: Like I feel like, you know whoever you feel comfortable with, 1457 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,000 Speaker 5: like whether it be because I know a lot of 1458 01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:27,160 Speaker 5: a lot of black women like myself, like find it 1459 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,840 Speaker 5: hard to talk to someone that can't relate to what 1460 01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:30,320 Speaker 5: they've been through or. 1461 01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:32,400 Speaker 1: Things like that. 1462 01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 2: Find you somebody that you're comfortable with and go get 1463 01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:36,680 Speaker 2: some therapy because it feels great and it's a lot 1464 01:08:37,200 --> 01:08:40,479 Speaker 2: tell people finding a therapist is like finding a man. Yeah, 1465 01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 2: you do have to choose and all the same. 1466 01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:44,599 Speaker 1: Though, like you may try therapy once and it don't 1467 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:45,080 Speaker 1: work out for you. 1468 01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,360 Speaker 7: Got to keep keep going because I don't have like 1469 01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:51,559 Speaker 7: four Yeah, it's a lot of other stuff that's like 1470 01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 7: outside of our culture that is really do I've done, 1471 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:58,880 Speaker 7: like ayahuasca, that was the best thing I've ever done 1472 01:08:58,880 --> 01:08:59,639 Speaker 7: in my entire life. 1473 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:03,000 Speaker 6: Tappen into something you know what I'm saying the culture 1474 01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:06,320 Speaker 6: because and the culture what they say is oh that 1475 01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:08,920 Speaker 6: you're doing that voodoo? Yeah, yeah, anything. 1476 01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:09,360 Speaker 3: Like That's what I'm saying. 1477 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,120 Speaker 6: Like, you got to really like search these things up 1478 01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,439 Speaker 6: because they put a bad name on it to keep 1479 01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,000 Speaker 6: it out of the community. You see what I'm saying, like, 1480 01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:18,839 Speaker 6: go go just do research. 1481 01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 3: Research to your research. 1482 01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:22,840 Speaker 5: That's It's good that we're talking about it, though, because 1483 01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:24,680 Speaker 5: now a bunch of people are gonna know because you 1484 01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:25,679 Speaker 5: said it, like. 1485 01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,040 Speaker 1: You know exactly people. 1486 01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:28,640 Speaker 2: I want the DR to do it too, That's all 1487 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:29,760 Speaker 2: I was about to ask, what did you go to do? 1488 01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:34,040 Speaker 2: Thinking about I haven't done it, but it's been like years. 1489 01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,120 Speaker 1: I've been like debating back and forth. I want to 1490 01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:37,360 Speaker 1: do it. 1491 01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:38,760 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, yeah. 1492 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,120 Speaker 2: She went to the Honduras and did it and she 1493 01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:42,759 Speaker 2: was like it was life changing. 1494 01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,840 Speaker 1: It was amazing for her. So I'm still back and forth. 1495 01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,559 Speaker 3: I want to do it. Do it, dude, I talked. 1496 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:50,680 Speaker 6: I was the same way, like it just it just 1497 01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 6: kept like coming up. And then I think the final 1498 01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,200 Speaker 6: moment was when I seen the homie T Grizzly. We 1499 01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:58,280 Speaker 6: did a breakfast interview and he was talking about I was. 1500 01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,640 Speaker 6: I hit him immediately, like, bro, I need to. So 1501 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:04,840 Speaker 6: he ended up connecting me to my big sister, tier Teia, 1502 01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:06,519 Speaker 6: and then we ended up going out the d R 1503 01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 6: and we did the whole ceremony. We did like a 1504 01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:13,200 Speaker 6: whole bunch of different medicines, spiritual medicine, and ayahuasca was 1505 01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:16,439 Speaker 6: the best thing ever, Like you take the drink. And 1506 01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:20,240 Speaker 6: my shaman was like, yo, just sit here. He was like, 1507 01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 6: don't even think about anything, and I was like. 1508 01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:24,040 Speaker 3: I got a little tired. I was like, can I 1509 01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:24,519 Speaker 3: lay down? 1510 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:29,280 Speaker 4: I said, meditating. I try to meditate every day, y'all. 1511 01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:31,880 Speaker 4: And I just be having so many thoughts running through 1512 01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 4: my mind. 1513 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:36,240 Speaker 1: I'd be like thinking about loving. Yeah, yeah, so how 1514 01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: was you said whenever he told you? 1515 01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,200 Speaker 3: He told me to just relax like it's going to happen. 1516 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,000 Speaker 6: When it happened, so I asked him cauld I lay down, 1517 01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:47,560 Speaker 6: ended up laying down, and I ended up getting cold. 1518 01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:50,439 Speaker 6: So I just remember myself holding myself like you know 1519 01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:52,720 Speaker 6: what I mean, trying to warm myself up. And then 1520 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 6: all of a sudden, I heard this this voice say, okay, 1521 01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:58,519 Speaker 6: you can stop, and I want you to sit here, 1522 01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 6: and I want you to hold yourself because I don't 1523 01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:03,120 Speaker 6: think you've ever hugged or loved yourself enough. 1524 01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,080 Speaker 3: And I just started balling, crying. 1525 01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:06,160 Speaker 1: Wow. 1526 01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:07,840 Speaker 3: And then from there it's like we just went on 1527 01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:08,599 Speaker 3: this whole journey. 1528 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,559 Speaker 6: I just remember seeing my ancestors walking up this hill 1529 01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:14,200 Speaker 6: and I remember somebody coming stopping on the side and 1530 01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:16,200 Speaker 6: putting their hand on my shoulder and be like, it's 1531 01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,479 Speaker 6: okay for you to talk. You can talk your voice 1532 01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:20,880 Speaker 6: of opinion, you know what I mean. It was just 1533 01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:22,640 Speaker 6: like a whole like a whole bunch of like a 1534 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:25,120 Speaker 6: whole journey that we went through. I remember being in 1535 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,200 Speaker 6: this this this dark room with a whole bunch of 1536 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:30,439 Speaker 6: chains connected to me, and I was able to unlock 1537 01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 6: those chains of people that's connected to me that's no 1538 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 6: longer in my life. I was able to let go 1539 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,200 Speaker 6: of them, you know what I mean. So it's just 1540 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,880 Speaker 6: stuff like that. I feel like it'll be dope to 1541 01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:41,520 Speaker 6: introduce to our community. 1542 01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:43,240 Speaker 3: It'll do a lot of dealing. 1543 01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:47,439 Speaker 1: Everybody do think everything is voodooed or weird? 1544 01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:49,880 Speaker 6: Like somebody gonna talk about it in the comy. 1545 01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,160 Speaker 1: It's like a tea that you drink. 1546 01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:01,719 Speaker 2: And let me also say, all black, whenever you're feeling 1547 01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 2: sick or whenever you're feeling down, listen to your body. 1548 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:05,800 Speaker 1: Your body is gonna tell you what's wrong. 1549 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:10,160 Speaker 2: I always feel like that's what the ayahuasca does before 1550 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,720 Speaker 2: your mind, whatever's going on wrong with your mind, is 1551 01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,559 Speaker 2: going to open that up and let you know what's 1552 01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:16,680 Speaker 2: going on and what you need to tackle whatever is 1553 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:19,320 Speaker 2: going on, you open that up and deal with it. 1554 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:21,360 Speaker 6: But so dope about it is like because we go 1555 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:24,799 Speaker 6: through life and we just learn stuff from other people 1556 01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 6: and from other habits that might not even be the 1557 01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:28,479 Speaker 6: right habit, but we learn it. 1558 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,160 Speaker 3: What aya does. It takes away, It's stripped it all 1559 01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:31,719 Speaker 3: the way down. 1560 01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1561 01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:34,360 Speaker 6: So like now you come back into the world like 1562 01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,280 Speaker 6: you just open to everything. 1563 01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 3: It's so dope. But you got to keep doing. 1564 01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:45,120 Speaker 1: You gotta keeps. 1565 01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,320 Speaker 3: Because if not, you'll get those old habits. 1566 01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:49,919 Speaker 4: Do you feel like it makes didn't make meditating easier 1567 01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:50,800 Speaker 4: for you after you did that? 1568 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,519 Speaker 1: Sure, that's what I say. It's hard for me. I 1569 01:12:54,600 --> 01:13:07,480 Speaker 1: be sitting there like god breathing. Yeah. 1570 01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'm always open to like finding like the 1571 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 6: deeper meanings in life and just how to be a 1572 01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:17,120 Speaker 6: better person. 1573 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:18,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like, that's like. 1574 01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,519 Speaker 2: You don't even probably realize it, but that's the first 1575 01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 2: step exactly. You know, a healthy relationship, a healthier relationship 1576 01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 2: even within yourself to be capable of being that that partner. 1577 01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:31,760 Speaker 3: Absolutely no possibly want to. 1578 01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:33,759 Speaker 1: Y'all. 1579 01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:35,920 Speaker 2: We we got to move on to the next time. 1580 01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 1: All day I want to know about the ayahwas you 1581 01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:41,920 Speaker 1: gotta give us yours? 1582 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 2: What's up y'all is your girl xp Andy, Schugarl Dre 1583 01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:47,920 Speaker 2: and the Call And we are here to tell y'all 1584 01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:51,040 Speaker 2: about our brand new ebook and e course a bundle 1585 01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 2: or into your pod. 1586 01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:55,519 Speaker 4: Yes, y'all, we have been working on this for a 1587 01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:58,120 Speaker 4: while and we're so excited to put it out and 1588 01:13:58,200 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 4: give it to y'all because we know so many people 1589 01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:02,719 Speaker 4: have been asking us for such a long time about 1590 01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:04,960 Speaker 4: how to start a successful podcast. 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So our bed topic is when we 1613 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,719 Speaker 2: talk about six topics. So I wanted to talk about 1614 01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,040 Speaker 2: this because I haven't done this in a really long time. 1615 01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 2: But I was just curious, like if this happens, how. 1616 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,200 Speaker 1: What people feel? I wonder? It's so basic, it's. 1617 01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,840 Speaker 2: So simple, it's not nothing too deep and intrusive. Yeah. 1618 01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 1: So, because I know y'all got an image to old, 1619 01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:29,000 Speaker 1: but okay, to have sex with clothes on. 1620 01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:32,320 Speaker 2: I'm talking about a man just underp his pants and 1621 01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:35,120 Speaker 2: let that little wee wee out and go to workers 1622 01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:36,000 Speaker 2: to ass. 1623 01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 1: Little wee wee is insane. How I'm saying. 1624 01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,400 Speaker 2: You know, you let that junior out and do what 1625 01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:44,519 Speaker 2: he gotta do. When is that acceptable? Because I'm a 1626 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,360 Speaker 2: little older, I've always felt like if a man doesn't 1627 01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:51,240 Speaker 2: take his clothes off, that's like a sign of disrespect. Really, 1628 01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:54,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying to see that booty. I need to see 1629 01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:57,760 Speaker 2: them nipples, fee, belly button, hum, feet. 1630 01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:00,320 Speaker 3: Clothes off with that. 1631 01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:06,880 Speaker 1: Everything. Yeah, I means you bucket nikka. Niggas will keep. 1632 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:08,960 Speaker 6: Them so because we don't get the what's it called 1633 01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:12,320 Speaker 6: is a manicure of pedicure. I always get that confused, 1634 01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:13,800 Speaker 6: but a lot of us don't get that. I grew 1635 01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:16,000 Speaker 6: up with men black tonails. I thought that was like 1636 01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:16,599 Speaker 6: a normal thing. 1637 01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:19,679 Speaker 1: It is for the nigga, you know what I mean, Like, Nah. 1638 01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:21,160 Speaker 6: We gotta get that. We gotta get that done. So 1639 01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:22,200 Speaker 6: we got we keep the socks on. 1640 01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:22,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1641 01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 4: I the story one time on the shower, my ex 1642 01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,639 Speaker 4: woyfriend took a shower and he stocks he didn't want 1643 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:31,519 Speaker 4: me for sure, he didn't want me to see his 1644 01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,840 Speaker 4: feet that bad. And I was like and we broke 1645 01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:36,839 Speaker 4: up right after that because I was like that fucking 1646 01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:39,639 Speaker 4: bad where you gotta take a shower in the house. 1647 01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,679 Speaker 1: You cannot be my nigga. You're not about to pass 1648 01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:43,720 Speaker 1: down to my child. That's heart. 1649 01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:46,479 Speaker 3: What that's crazy? You did? That is it? 1650 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:48,360 Speaker 1: I don't know? 1651 01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,160 Speaker 6: And then like like baby, it's okay, Like it don't 1652 01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:54,000 Speaker 6: matter what your feet. I've seen the worst of him, 1653 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:58,240 Speaker 6: and then he would have not opened, he would have 1654 01:16:58,240 --> 01:16:59,240 Speaker 6: took that off. 1655 01:16:59,320 --> 01:16:59,920 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. 1656 01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:02,880 Speaker 5: Think I've ever actually experienced this phenomenon that we're talking 1657 01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:03,880 Speaker 5: about me now, like. 1658 01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:07,640 Speaker 1: His clothes on, his clothes on. 1659 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,599 Speaker 2: I've definitely experienced that, like in college days, like. 1660 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:11,719 Speaker 1: We're trying to get a little quickie. 1661 01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, you know, bend it over us, show 1662 01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:15,840 Speaker 2: that fat nappy. 1663 01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:18,640 Speaker 1: Let me get in that room, y'all know what I mean. 1664 01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:23,800 Speaker 1: Might mean to get that nappy sounds so okay, but 1665 01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,600 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. What I mean is like 1666 01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:30,519 Speaker 1: I used it nappy between waxes. 1667 01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:37,040 Speaker 2: Okay, But I do feel like sex with your clothes 1668 01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,760 Speaker 2: on is like, I don't know, I just feel like 1669 01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:42,040 Speaker 2: it's a little it's kind of like disrespectful a little bit. 1670 01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:44,719 Speaker 2: It's given like you don't trust me and you're just trying. 1671 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:46,600 Speaker 1: To give your nut off, get your nut off. Yeah, 1672 01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:50,880 Speaker 1: I can see that. Yeah, I'm the same way. I 1673 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:52,000 Speaker 1: got to see every I'm trying to. 1674 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I need you to be walking to the bathroom 1675 01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:55,559 Speaker 2: to go get that towel when I need to see 1676 01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:56,840 Speaker 2: that ass jiggling when you walk. 1677 01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 1: You know. 1678 01:17:57,080 --> 01:17:59,600 Speaker 5: But I don't think that men know the girls like 1679 01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,839 Speaker 5: ass we do. I'm trying to see something. 1680 01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:03,200 Speaker 1: I need to see. 1681 01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:12,000 Speaker 2: I like a little stretch mark on that booty. They'd 1682 01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:15,000 Speaker 2: be clenching, exam. I want you to see into a 1683 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:15,639 Speaker 2: little triangles. 1684 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:19,559 Speaker 6: Okay, sorry, it's okay, Yeah, yeah, y'all was reminiscent ahead. 1685 01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 1: Okay. 1686 01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:22,479 Speaker 2: Have you had sex with your clothes on? Though, like 1687 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:25,040 Speaker 2: fully closed shirt on? Yeah? 1688 01:18:25,320 --> 01:18:28,400 Speaker 1: Like but as an adult, no, not that I recall. Okay, 1689 01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:29,559 Speaker 1: but that naked. 1690 01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, socks on are off? 1691 01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:35,040 Speaker 1: I got that black toe. Don't play with me? 1692 01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:37,640 Speaker 6: Well, no, I keep I used to keep socks on 1693 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:39,880 Speaker 6: the long like my feet are light lighter than my 1694 01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:40,719 Speaker 6: whole entire body. 1695 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 4: I feel like that's a normal thing with Yeah, because yeah, 1696 01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:47,439 Speaker 4: because a lot of y'all skiing being the sun, your 1697 01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:49,840 Speaker 4: feet are always. 1698 01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:51,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, usually y'all air force one. 1699 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:55,160 Speaker 3: I was definitely at the beach with my socks on. 1700 01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:58,559 Speaker 3: It used to be I used to be in the water. 1701 01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, what you mean, why was that shock? What I said? 1702 01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 3: It wasn't shocked. 1703 01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:08,479 Speaker 6: I was like, he said, the fun. 1704 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:10,480 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly exactly. 1705 01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:17,120 Speaker 4: To wash up, right, and you didn't washphe nah, Come on, man. 1706 01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:20,880 Speaker 1: That's why they're so light. You don't never take the. 1707 01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:22,559 Speaker 3: Damn sick take them off now though. 1708 01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,240 Speaker 2: Okay, how you feel about a man having sex with 1709 01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:26,120 Speaker 2: you with his clothes on? 1710 01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:28,400 Speaker 1: I do? I agree with you. 1711 01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,800 Speaker 4: I feel like in a normal setting, like if we're 1712 01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:34,960 Speaker 4: in the house and you're keeping your clothes on, that's disrespectful. 1713 01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:39,360 Speaker 4: But like a quickie scenario in public, like if y'all 1714 01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:40,559 Speaker 4: are like, oh, let me run. 1715 01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:43,519 Speaker 1: Yes, because I ain't getting naked either. What the fuck 1716 01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:45,559 Speaker 1: I looked like in the bathroom with my top off? 1717 01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:53,880 Speaker 1: Crazy room one. 1718 01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 3: In a dress room going crazy right day? 1719 01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:02,760 Speaker 1: What the I look like but ass naked in a 1720 01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:09,320 Speaker 1: public place in addressing room? But no, I'm glad we. 1721 01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:10,760 Speaker 2: Could agree on that because that's how I feel. I 1722 01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,519 Speaker 2: feel like if you're in the house and the man 1723 01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:15,800 Speaker 2: he's not taking his clothes off, like like like that 1724 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 2: not comfortable, it's just giving like real quick, let me 1725 01:20:21,520 --> 01:20:24,320 Speaker 2: he's not okay, he ain't playing on staying. 1726 01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:26,200 Speaker 1: Week because I'm sorry, y'all. 1727 01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:28,599 Speaker 4: I mean like I'm wonder them people like I'll laugh 1728 01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:30,679 Speaker 4: and if they needn't to just keep making me laugh. 1729 01:20:35,040 --> 01:20:37,520 Speaker 1: So that's what I be playing. 1730 01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:49,160 Speaker 2: Smith's song y'all remember this it's you in Yeah. 1731 01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:53,679 Speaker 5: You know music directly affects my Oh my god, there's. 1732 01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:56,320 Speaker 1: Something like I can't. 1733 01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 2: I can't work myself up. Like maybe it's because I'm 1734 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:03,759 Speaker 2: a music person. 1735 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,439 Speaker 5: If I hear a song like, it'll put me out 1736 01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:06,840 Speaker 5: of it. 1737 01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:10,400 Speaker 2: I can't do you know? Okay, you want to like that? 1738 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:14,200 Speaker 2: I hate like old school. 1739 01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:21,000 Speaker 1: R and B. Really, yes, we need to know that. 1740 01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:23,840 Speaker 5: No first, because it makes me feel like I'm in 1741 01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:28,960 Speaker 5: a movie and I have to like, I just can't 1742 01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:30,679 Speaker 5: something I can't. 1743 01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,000 Speaker 1: She don't like to make sweet sweet. You ain't listening 1744 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:33,760 Speaker 1: to know John B. 1745 01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:38,200 Speaker 2: No, God, it makes me feel so inseexy. 1746 01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. What? 1747 01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:46,880 Speaker 5: Yes, you know like I like Pretty next Door, I 1748 01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:47,759 Speaker 5: like Party next. 1749 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:49,519 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1750 01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:56,880 Speaker 5: Yeah Alex Eisley shout out to Alex only for the 1751 01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,480 Speaker 5: Elite because I feel like she's still very slept. 1752 01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:05,600 Speaker 1: On l A show. Yeah she's super dope. Yeah, I 1753 01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:09,880 Speaker 1: hear her in my dreams stuff like that. 1754 01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:14,439 Speaker 5: I can't get it some walker, okay, okay, yeah, because 1755 01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:19,479 Speaker 5: it's it doesn't give me like sex. She doesn't sell 1756 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:19,960 Speaker 5: sex for me. 1757 01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:22,040 Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I can see that though, if you don't 1758 01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:23,840 Speaker 4: like nineties R and B, because I don't like a 1759 01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:25,440 Speaker 4: lot of her music is reminiscent. 1760 01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:29,439 Speaker 1: But in the choir listening almost summer all day. Yeah, yeah, 1761 01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,200 Speaker 1: that's how I know I'm old school. I want to 1762 01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:36,479 Speaker 1: listen to listen to people say, yeah, so is that like, 1763 01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:37,960 Speaker 1: what's your go to? What's on your plate? 1764 01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 2: Man? Look, I'm I'm older than y'all. Okay, turn that 1765 01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:43,400 Speaker 2: Petty Teddy Pendergrass. 1766 01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: Was coming on. I think I better let it go. 1767 01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, look like another little. 1768 01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:54,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the today. You're gonna do a 1769 01:22:54,880 --> 01:22:59,840 Speaker 1: little dancing. I'm gonna break your glass. Oh real, Bay, 1770 01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:02,840 Speaker 1: you put on the Iley Brothers. 1771 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:08,120 Speaker 2: Atlantterns as Atlantic, I'm gonna break you. 1772 01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:09,080 Speaker 1: Off real bad. 1773 01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:11,240 Speaker 3: You think people still do cans? 1774 01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:14,120 Speaker 1: I'll say this, I like camp. I like a camp. 1775 01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:17,000 Speaker 1: I like candles in my home anyway. So but I'm 1776 01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:18,880 Speaker 1: not like, I don't like to force the move. 1777 01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,240 Speaker 2: So a lot of times like yeah, like so it's 1778 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,400 Speaker 2: like if it's after like we done went out or 1779 01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:27,639 Speaker 2: I don't cooked dinner or whatever, and we just like drinking, 1780 01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:28,840 Speaker 2: and you know what I'm saying, We just like to 1781 01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:29,479 Speaker 2: listen to music. 1782 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:30,880 Speaker 1: Put on a little music, and so. 1783 01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:32,360 Speaker 3: The music is already playing. 1784 01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:34,560 Speaker 2: It might be or it might be like we just 1785 01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:36,840 Speaker 2: want to listen to some music and we just turn 1786 01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:38,839 Speaker 2: it on and the next thing you know, I'm making sweet. 1787 01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:43,000 Speaker 1: So we love absolutely. I liked all school nineties music, 1788 01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:46,280 Speaker 1: but also like a little reggae. 1789 01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:52,439 Speaker 3: Open like some island that's crazy. 1790 01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:58,320 Speaker 1: Can me get my wine on? There's some nice rhythm 1791 01:23:58,400 --> 01:24:00,639 Speaker 1: to it. Is into the rhythm. 1792 01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:05,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, listening to music, listen to Netflix. 1793 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:09,680 Speaker 2: Oh no, no not that's what doing you hear in 1794 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:10,599 Speaker 2: the background is head? 1795 01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:18,759 Speaker 3: Yes, that's a large. 1796 01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:23,040 Speaker 2: Ye. 1797 01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:25,519 Speaker 5: Again if I hear an ad or something or like 1798 01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:28,680 Speaker 5: something like something like in TV in. 1799 01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:35,479 Speaker 2: General, Yeah, I hear like why I don't mind like 1800 01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:37,400 Speaker 2: a little TV in the background, like if it's low. 1801 01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:40,559 Speaker 1: But either I like music complete silence, so we can 1802 01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:43,320 Speaker 1: hear you to see silence on a good night. Hey, 1803 01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:45,559 Speaker 1: I got something the South got something to say. Okay, 1804 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you. 1805 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:53,120 Speaker 3: I'm a talker to come on now, whatever you want 1806 01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:55,080 Speaker 3: to think about, whatever you think it is. It's like 1807 01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:56,360 Speaker 3: we both talking. 1808 01:24:58,640 --> 01:24:59,639 Speaker 1: While y' all lean a little. 1809 01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1810 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:03,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, but sometimes them as be crazy. 1811 01:25:03,560 --> 01:25:09,120 Speaker 5: Yet I will stop everything turned off. 1812 01:25:09,280 --> 01:25:12,160 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, because why are y'all playing it 1813 01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:16,120 Speaker 2: like girls be having to concentrate something we do so 1814 01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 2: an ad is crazy. 1815 01:25:18,520 --> 01:25:20,400 Speaker 1: It's crazy because now. 1816 01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:22,720 Speaker 3: What's going on? 1817 01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:24,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, the comedian add in the bag. 1818 01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,000 Speaker 3: It's crazy. Yeah, they heard. 1819 01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:34,639 Speaker 1: Business like oh speaking of the cloud? Oh my god? Yeah, yeah, 1820 01:25:34,760 --> 01:25:36,240 Speaker 1: I can't do it. Okay. 1821 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:37,720 Speaker 2: I don't know how we got off topic, but I'm 1822 01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:39,960 Speaker 2: glad we're talking about music because we're finn Move on again. 1823 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:44,760 Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl like pee? And it's 1824 01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:46,920 Speaker 1: your girl draining the call? And we have a very 1825 01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:50,839 Speaker 1: exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. 1826 01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:54,160 Speaker 4: Yes, we have a brand new shower dropping y'all on Patrion. 1827 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:57,160 Speaker 4: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Four Chronicles. 1828 01:25:57,280 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 4: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're 1829 01:25:59,240 --> 01:26:02,040 Speaker 4: gonna be doing child geez. If you can't go to 1830 01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:04,280 Speaker 4: Bella Noche, where the hell could you go? 1831 01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:09,439 Speaker 1: If you can't go to Beloanche, what the hell we're 1832 01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:11,960 Speaker 1: gonna be doing? Talk to me, chit chat with me. 1833 01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:15,360 Speaker 1: He's gonna be feeling a little tea. Oh my god, 1834 01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:17,880 Speaker 1: Now you didn't. 1835 01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:22,600 Speaker 4: God, everything y'all been wanting to see. We're gonna be 1836 01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:24,599 Speaker 4: doing it right here on Patreon. 1837 01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:26,680 Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. 1838 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:30,400 Speaker 2: Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday, 1839 01:26:30,479 --> 01:26:31,840 Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a time. 1840 01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 1: Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown into its own little entity. 1841 01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:38,519 Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna have a lot of fun still over 1842 01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:40,160 Speaker 2: here at poor Chronicles. 1843 01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:42,200 Speaker 1: So make sure y'all tune in September. 1844 01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:54,880 Speaker 2: Second, it's going down, says, So now it's time into 1845 01:26:55,280 --> 01:27:01,640 Speaker 2: the about Bowl, about out love, about Bow Bow. So 1846 01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:03,920 Speaker 2: the bop of the week is whatever music that you've 1847 01:27:03,920 --> 01:27:06,120 Speaker 2: been jamming this week, like you've been listening to what 1848 01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:07,000 Speaker 2: you've been turned up to. 1849 01:27:08,200 --> 01:27:11,280 Speaker 1: I'll go first. Let me Oh damn, y'all, you know whatever. 1850 01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:13,519 Speaker 1: If you want to handle her phone, you gotta new. 1851 01:27:14,200 --> 01:27:16,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my first bop of the week because 1852 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:20,040 Speaker 2: I cannot believe three of my favorite artists were on 1853 01:27:20,160 --> 01:27:23,240 Speaker 2: the same track and they made an amazing song. Y'all know, 1854 01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:27,040 Speaker 2: I'm an R and B girly, so three artists. I 1855 01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:28,760 Speaker 2: hope I'm saying this right because I never know how 1856 01:27:28,800 --> 01:27:31,920 Speaker 2: to say his name. Yay Ali Eric Billinger and the 1857 01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:36,800 Speaker 2: Day France. Y'all know how I feel about Hard Yeah, 1858 01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:41,280 Speaker 2: slept On so slept On game is crazy. Yeah, we 1859 01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:44,439 Speaker 2: all know about Eric Billinger, super legend in the game. 1860 01:27:44,960 --> 01:27:47,920 Speaker 2: They them three decided happen to get on the track together. 1861 01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:51,880 Speaker 2: Why the hell would y'all do that? Yeah, artist is 1862 01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:56,960 Speaker 2: called Involved. His whole project is really good. Like I'm 1863 01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,559 Speaker 2: just always impressed with the music that he puts out, 1864 01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:01,080 Speaker 2: and I'm just a prize that this is my first 1865 01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:03,360 Speaker 2: time having him as Bop of the Week. But it's 1866 01:28:03,360 --> 01:28:04,439 Speaker 2: an amazing project. 1867 01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:05,080 Speaker 1: Go listen to it. 1868 01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:08,679 Speaker 2: My favorite song on there is him Eric Billingersey France, 1869 01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:09,759 Speaker 2: and it's called Involved. 1870 01:28:10,080 --> 01:28:13,599 Speaker 1: So y'all go check it out. I would love to hear. 1871 01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:18,080 Speaker 8: Guy. 1872 01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:22,719 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm always in the car listening to the stuff 1873 01:28:22,720 --> 01:28:25,240 Speaker 6: that I produced. Okay, Yeah, So I just got one 1874 01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:26,879 Speaker 6: with Joaqweez. I'm super excited. 1875 01:28:28,120 --> 01:28:30,280 Speaker 3: Yeah that's right. 1876 01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:40,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah my gun safety there, wen period, listen to 1877 01:28:40,280 --> 01:28:41,320 Speaker 4: your stuff right now. 1878 01:28:41,320 --> 01:28:43,880 Speaker 6: I got a song out with Sadie Hendrix called Titty 1879 01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 6: Tuesday's that's really dope. 1880 01:28:45,120 --> 01:28:48,360 Speaker 1: I know that's right. Okay, we're gonna check it out now. 1881 01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you an honest review okay, yeah, give 1882 01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:55,960 Speaker 1: you because we listened to everything. Were donna play, We're 1883 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,240 Speaker 1: gonna play? Yeah, okay, what're you gonna listen to? 1884 01:28:58,360 --> 01:28:58,639 Speaker 3: Elie? 1885 01:29:03,160 --> 01:29:06,519 Speaker 1: I know I'm in love right here. Yes, so good. 1886 01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:09,599 Speaker 1: I feel it. It's that voice, the country, but it's 1887 01:29:09,640 --> 01:29:10,719 Speaker 1: a little soulful. 1888 01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:12,840 Speaker 2: Yes, it's like a little something to it. 1889 01:29:14,720 --> 01:29:15,200 Speaker 1: By Morgan. 1890 01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:18,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to see him in concert. I'm so excited. 1891 01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:22,639 Speaker 1: Oh my god. But honorable mention Julil. Okay, have y'all 1892 01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 1: heard of Julia? I have him? 1893 01:29:24,080 --> 01:29:28,679 Speaker 5: Okay, well, one of my favorites. I like a religious player, 1894 01:29:28,880 --> 01:29:30,879 Speaker 5: like I play him very frequently. 1895 01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:38,800 Speaker 1: Okay that out he's like a rage hip hop not 1896 01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:49,040 Speaker 1: that's crazy, Like yeah, So ask you this though. 1897 01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:51,240 Speaker 2: Do you like Morgan because I feel like they're trying 1898 01:29:51,240 --> 01:29:54,360 Speaker 2: to bring that rap hip hop country being back. 1899 01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:58,040 Speaker 1: Did you like his songe money Bag? I haven't you? 1900 01:29:58,520 --> 01:29:59,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you like it? 1901 01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:00,560 Speaker 2: You know? 1902 01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:02,560 Speaker 5: I love the because you know it's it kind of 1903 01:30:02,600 --> 01:30:07,800 Speaker 5: started with little nods. He popped popularized the whole Old 1904 01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:13,000 Speaker 5: Town Road. Yeah, yeah, rightfully so, and that was like 1905 01:30:13,080 --> 01:30:15,080 Speaker 5: I found it when it wasn't even huge yet. It 1906 01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:18,360 Speaker 5: was like on SoundCloud, still very small, and I heard 1907 01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:20,519 Speaker 5: that song. I was like, oh, this is my vibe 1908 01:30:21,520 --> 01:30:25,879 Speaker 5: to Peka Kansas, so like you really love me some country, 1909 01:30:26,400 --> 01:30:27,320 Speaker 5: I love you some country. 1910 01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:29,160 Speaker 1: So like yeah that. 1911 01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:36,280 Speaker 5: Morgan Wallin, who's the other guy was Chaboozi has a 1912 01:30:36,320 --> 01:30:40,960 Speaker 5: good he's crazy, he's crazy. I feel like I also 1913 01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:46,920 Speaker 5: got him to him really early. Yeah yeah Buckle Bunny Buncle. 1914 01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:50,639 Speaker 1: Yeah you know got some c M A nomination she did. 1915 01:30:52,120 --> 01:30:54,400 Speaker 5: I'm happy they're recognizing it because they didn't want to 1916 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,720 Speaker 5: do that for Little Na right right, I'm happy they're 1917 01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:57,280 Speaker 5: recognizing it. 1918 01:30:57,400 --> 01:31:00,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, you know what's crazy. I feel like Lil 1919 01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,719 Speaker 2: Nas ex definitely like researge that. But yeah, I forget 1920 01:31:03,880 --> 01:31:05,559 Speaker 2: when Nelly and Tim McGrath came. 1921 01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:16,200 Speaker 1: Out and yeah, yeah that was a that was good together. Yeah, 1922 01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:17,960 Speaker 1: Donald Trump didn't know what to do. 1923 01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah they got I mean even Beyonce's doing it now. 1924 01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1925 01:31:21,439 --> 01:31:26,040 Speaker 5: I feel like so many like underground artists or coming 1926 01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:28,479 Speaker 5: up artists, like they've done such a great job with 1927 01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 5: it point where now the mainstreamers are like taking it. 1928 01:31:31,479 --> 01:31:34,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's another thing to say like Kay Michelle 1929 01:31:34,640 --> 01:31:37,679 Speaker 2: has been doing Yes, her voice A lot of people 1930 01:31:37,720 --> 01:31:41,320 Speaker 2: don't know that so perfect for country music, Like so good. 1931 01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:42,920 Speaker 2: So I just hope this is like an era of 1932 01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:45,080 Speaker 2: like black artists taking over. 1933 01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:46,240 Speaker 1: Because we can do everything. 1934 01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:50,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, well Tiger took over golf, Serena to Goman, 1935 01:31:50,560 --> 01:31:53,000 Speaker 2: Tennis Wen, we come up for everything because. 1936 01:31:54,240 --> 01:31:57,240 Speaker 5: It's so they are killing it right now. They are like, 1937 01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,479 Speaker 5: Shaboozi are doing it. 1938 01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,040 Speaker 2: We've seen Tannordal at the BET Awards. It was on 1939 01:32:02,120 --> 01:32:05,240 Speaker 2: the screen, was somewhere else performer, but it was like, damn, 1940 01:32:05,360 --> 01:32:05,840 Speaker 2: she's good. 1941 01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:09,720 Speaker 1: She's really good. He's really really too. So cute. We 1942 01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:14,200 Speaker 1: love a cute country. Yeah, all right, Drew, what you 1943 01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:14,680 Speaker 1: listening to? 1944 01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:18,599 Speaker 4: So I've been trying to get into my afro beats bag, okay, 1945 01:32:19,560 --> 01:32:22,800 Speaker 4: every time I'm out and I'm listening to music in 1946 01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,080 Speaker 4: the club or like at a lounge or whatever. Like 1947 01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:27,160 Speaker 4: I didn't really feel in the afrobeats, but I never 1948 01:32:27,280 --> 01:32:29,639 Speaker 4: had like my own afrobeats play least. 1949 01:32:30,439 --> 01:32:34,559 Speaker 1: So my bop this week is Fuji by Fuji Bye by. 1950 01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:39,840 Speaker 1: He's good, He's really good. You got in your bag? 1951 01:32:40,360 --> 01:32:44,519 Speaker 1: I said, I like that. Do it again. That's what 1952 01:32:44,640 --> 01:32:47,519 Speaker 1: I thought when I heard I don't like this. Let 1953 01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:48,840 Speaker 1: me add that to the play leads. 1954 01:32:49,960 --> 01:32:53,479 Speaker 2: Okay, because you didn't fail me last time when you 1955 01:32:53,600 --> 01:32:57,000 Speaker 2: told me because I didn't hear ruined yet with oh yeah, I. 1956 01:32:57,040 --> 01:32:57,640 Speaker 1: Did put you on. 1957 01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:03,000 Speaker 5: I told you get in my way bad because there's 1958 01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:03,920 Speaker 5: there's one more. 1959 01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:07,400 Speaker 2: There's one more I just thought of. I'm really r 1960 01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:09,040 Speaker 2: D UK artists. 1961 01:33:09,080 --> 01:33:12,639 Speaker 1: Have you heard of him? Mm hmm? Called Flowers saying 1962 01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:14,760 Speaker 1: my name r D r D. He said he a 1963 01:33:14,920 --> 01:33:16,160 Speaker 1: UK artist? Is it like rap? 1964 01:33:16,160 --> 01:33:22,559 Speaker 2: Because sometimes I can't take the hello hell and I'm yeah, 1965 01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:25,559 Speaker 2: sometimes it be hard for me to get into it. Yeah, 1966 01:33:26,920 --> 01:33:29,599 Speaker 2: he has he has the underlying melody. 1967 01:33:29,760 --> 01:33:33,600 Speaker 5: Okay, I can't listen to too many rap artists in 1968 01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:35,240 Speaker 5: general if they have no melody to it, like I 1969 01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:39,200 Speaker 5: need like that. Jack Carlow Drake like melody, you know, 1970 01:33:39,920 --> 01:33:42,360 Speaker 5: and he gives that. Okay, he gives that he has 1971 01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:42,800 Speaker 5: some mos. 1972 01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:44,720 Speaker 1: We don't check it out. We gonna check it out. 1973 01:33:45,080 --> 01:33:47,679 Speaker 4: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment 1974 01:33:47,760 --> 01:33:49,360 Speaker 4: of the show, which is Pour your Heart out. So 1975 01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:52,160 Speaker 4: you know, if you have any questions or testimonials, you 1976 01:33:52,240 --> 01:33:55,320 Speaker 4: can always send them to ask Poor Minds at gmail 1977 01:33:55,400 --> 01:33:57,920 Speaker 4: dot com. That's a s k p O you r 1978 01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:01,519 Speaker 4: in my n d s at Gmail. Now you know 1979 01:34:01,680 --> 01:34:05,400 Speaker 4: we be telling y'all to keep these questions short. 1980 01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:08,519 Speaker 1: And they never do. Y'all, keep it, it's all right, 1981 01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:09,760 Speaker 1: but it's all right now. 1982 01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:17,960 Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, it's Draynakos, CEO of Muse Beauty. 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I've been single for a year after 2003 01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:20,360 Speaker 4: a five year situationship, honestly never been in a real relationship. 2004 01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:22,960 Speaker 4: I decided to dip my toe back into the dating 2005 01:35:23,000 --> 01:35:26,320 Speaker 4: pool this summer and have been striking out bad. I 2006 01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:29,439 Speaker 4: apparently live in a city where everybody black knows everybody, 2007 01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:33,800 Speaker 4: and I exclusively date black men. Recently, I ended up 2008 01:35:33,840 --> 01:35:36,680 Speaker 4: bagging two guys who ended up being best friends and 2009 01:35:36,840 --> 01:35:39,479 Speaker 4: now lost them both because of it. I feel like 2010 01:35:39,600 --> 01:35:41,679 Speaker 4: this is God's way of telling me I'm not ready 2011 01:35:41,800 --> 01:35:45,160 Speaker 4: laughing my ass off. My question to y'all is, have 2012 01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:47,479 Speaker 4: you ever been single for a long period of time 2013 01:35:47,640 --> 01:35:50,479 Speaker 4: and got back in the game. If so, how would 2014 01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:53,439 Speaker 4: you suggest going about doing that? Especially in a city 2015 01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:57,960 Speaker 4: where there is two percent of separation between everybody. It 2016 01:35:58,080 --> 01:36:00,599 Speaker 4: looks so bleak out here and I in my mid 2017 01:36:00,680 --> 01:36:03,960 Speaker 4: thirty's trying not to end up alone. Any advice will 2018 01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:06,120 Speaker 4: be helpful, and thank you for being a part of 2019 01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:07,360 Speaker 4: my weekly rotation. 2020 01:36:07,880 --> 01:36:12,320 Speaker 3: M I mean, I would say focused on work. 2021 01:36:14,320 --> 01:36:18,799 Speaker 2: There was two standouts. First of all, bleak is crazy, 2022 01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:23,240 Speaker 2: But this five year situation ship, Oh that's that's the right, 2023 01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:26,400 Speaker 2: that's what stands out for me. Sorry, let me yeah, 2024 01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:27,640 Speaker 2: because you need to hear this. 2025 01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:30,599 Speaker 1: I don't hear a word. 2026 01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:33,760 Speaker 5: I mean, I just think five year situationship. If that's 2027 01:36:33,760 --> 01:36:36,840 Speaker 5: what you wanted, it's totally fine. But if you let 2028 01:36:36,960 --> 01:36:41,639 Speaker 5: him string you along for five years, you know, probably 2029 01:36:41,760 --> 01:36:44,920 Speaker 5: should take some time to get to know yourself because 2030 01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:46,840 Speaker 5: a lot of people don't like to be by themselves, 2031 01:36:47,439 --> 01:36:49,479 Speaker 5: so they'll let anybody do whatever to them. 2032 01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:51,439 Speaker 6: But I feel like when you go out there and 2033 01:36:51,479 --> 01:36:54,560 Speaker 6: you you really search him to like be ship, you 2034 01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:55,200 Speaker 6: don't find with you. 2035 01:36:55,360 --> 01:36:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always comes when you're not looking for it, 2036 01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:01,720 Speaker 2: for sure. But when you focus on work and you 2037 01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:06,559 Speaker 2: focus on too much fall in your lap, Yeah, you're 2038 01:37:06,560 --> 01:37:07,400 Speaker 2: gonna have options. 2039 01:37:07,800 --> 01:37:09,720 Speaker 5: And I don't think you know, it matters too much, 2040 01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:12,960 Speaker 5: like people knowing each other. I don't think that matters 2041 01:37:12,960 --> 01:37:15,400 Speaker 5: as much because like we're all adults here, Like, yeah, 2042 01:37:15,720 --> 01:37:18,479 Speaker 5: if I know, you know, if you're dating somebody I 2043 01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:19,840 Speaker 5: used to know, I don't care. 2044 01:37:20,280 --> 01:37:22,760 Speaker 2: Right, And I think too because she said she was 2045 01:37:22,800 --> 01:37:24,800 Speaker 2: in her mid thirties, and I think a lot of 2046 01:37:24,840 --> 01:37:26,600 Speaker 2: times when we're in our mid thirties, we feel so 2047 01:37:26,760 --> 01:37:32,400 Speaker 2: much distance you have to value yourself, value yourself, and 2048 01:37:32,720 --> 01:37:35,320 Speaker 2: you know that my person is coming along. And I 2049 01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:37,880 Speaker 2: have so much faith, Like I'm very religious. I have 2050 01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:39,920 Speaker 2: a lot of faith. So I feel like whatever is 2051 01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:41,640 Speaker 2: in my path, God is going to make sure I 2052 01:37:41,760 --> 01:37:44,479 Speaker 2: come across that exact game. Yeah, it's for me. 2053 01:37:44,960 --> 01:37:46,800 Speaker 1: So you know, sometimes you just gotta let go and. 2054 01:37:46,880 --> 01:37:49,800 Speaker 6: Let God, I mean, and stop and stop looking over 2055 01:37:49,840 --> 01:37:52,280 Speaker 6: the nine to five ers too. Hello, come on, I 2056 01:37:52,320 --> 01:37:54,000 Speaker 6: feel like a lot of women look over that, you know. 2057 01:37:55,040 --> 01:37:57,880 Speaker 2: Like I seen something on Instagram that said he paid 2058 01:37:57,920 --> 01:38:00,479 Speaker 2: with a cash apt card, So I'm not. 2059 01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:01,160 Speaker 1: Finna have this day. 2060 01:38:01,360 --> 01:38:01,960 Speaker 3: That's crazy. 2061 01:38:02,880 --> 01:38:04,599 Speaker 1: What's is the money still money? 2062 01:38:06,520 --> 01:38:06,680 Speaker 5: Right? 2063 01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:09,520 Speaker 1: I feel like as long as he not a street pharmacist, 2064 01:38:09,840 --> 01:38:10,719 Speaker 1: we can work together. 2065 01:38:10,920 --> 01:38:15,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I literally we andre 2066 01:38:15,479 --> 01:38:17,320 Speaker 2: talk about this on the show all the time. It 2067 01:38:17,400 --> 01:38:19,280 Speaker 2: was a while I was only dating like nine to 2068 01:38:19,360 --> 01:38:22,360 Speaker 2: five guys. It just so happened the guy that came 2069 01:38:22,400 --> 01:38:24,920 Speaker 2: into my lap now doesn't and you know, he works 2070 01:38:24,960 --> 01:38:27,800 Speaker 2: for himself and he's you know, but before the guy 2071 01:38:27,920 --> 01:38:30,280 Speaker 2: was there before him nine to five and it was 2072 01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:31,879 Speaker 2: a cool, it was an amazing situation. 2073 01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:33,439 Speaker 1: It was what I needed at that time. 2074 01:38:33,920 --> 01:38:36,640 Speaker 2: So I feel like I don't judge a person off 2075 01:38:36,720 --> 01:38:37,800 Speaker 2: of their occupation. 2076 01:38:38,040 --> 01:38:40,200 Speaker 1: Can we have a good time? Do you make me 2077 01:38:40,280 --> 01:38:41,920 Speaker 1: feel safe? How do you make me feel? 2078 01:38:42,000 --> 01:38:43,559 Speaker 2: So? I think a lot of times y'all are blocking 2079 01:38:43,640 --> 01:38:46,639 Speaker 2: y'all's blessing because y'all are stuck in this mind frame 2080 01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:49,200 Speaker 2: of oh, he gotta be a baller and he gotta 2081 01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:49,880 Speaker 2: do X, y Z. 2082 01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:53,720 Speaker 5: And become influenced. Yeah, if you don't do what makes 2083 01:38:53,760 --> 01:38:56,280 Speaker 5: you happy. I've never cared what anybody had to say. 2084 01:38:56,600 --> 01:38:58,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, my man, I don't care. You can think my 2085 01:38:58,400 --> 01:39:01,080 Speaker 1: man lame ugly because he ain't none of that to me. 2086 01:39:05,600 --> 01:39:09,080 Speaker 2: Yeah say that, girl, Yeah, that's mine. You getting to 2087 01:39:10,120 --> 01:39:17,200 Speaker 2: that's mine? This calm down, that that's mine. You know 2088 01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:20,479 Speaker 2: when people add that at the end, that very because 2089 01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:22,840 Speaker 2: mine is only am I it's mine? 2090 01:39:22,880 --> 01:39:29,360 Speaker 1: But when they business that's why I was mine, because 2091 01:39:29,360 --> 01:39:34,040 Speaker 1: I don't give. Okay, all right, you gotta wrap this 2092 01:39:34,080 --> 01:39:35,519 Speaker 1: ship up. Even take. 2093 01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:40,680 Speaker 2: To be an hour, you know what, it's just out 2094 01:39:40,680 --> 01:39:44,679 Speaker 2: of time will be the new right, all right? Question 2095 01:39:45,160 --> 01:39:47,760 Speaker 2: This one is a little long, haylex Andrea. Okay, so 2096 01:39:47,880 --> 01:39:50,400 Speaker 2: my question is should I tell my friend her man 2097 01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:53,080 Speaker 2: is cheating before y'all quickly answered, I need y'all to 2098 01:39:53,120 --> 01:39:56,200 Speaker 2: know the backstory. Typically I am a snitch on your 2099 01:39:56,280 --> 01:39:58,800 Speaker 2: nigga kind of girl. I even have snitched on this 2100 01:39:59,000 --> 01:40:00,960 Speaker 2: same nigga. The reason I'm. 2101 01:40:02,479 --> 01:40:10,240 Speaker 1: All right the rest of the question. But wait, she 2102 01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:15,360 Speaker 1: just want to side that we was talking about. She 2103 01:40:15,439 --> 01:40:17,200 Speaker 1: ain't gonna leave, but let's keep Yeah. 2104 01:40:18,080 --> 01:40:20,800 Speaker 2: The reason I'm hesitating now is because I've confided in 2105 01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:23,439 Speaker 2: this friend before and she can't hold water. I've come 2106 01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:26,280 Speaker 2: to realize my secrets are not safe with her. We've 2107 01:40:26,280 --> 01:40:28,439 Speaker 2: been friends since middle school, and I still enjoy the 2108 01:40:28,520 --> 01:40:31,839 Speaker 2: other parts of our friendship, like going out talking business, 2109 01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:34,880 Speaker 2: but she's no longer a go to for serious things 2110 01:40:34,960 --> 01:40:37,639 Speaker 2: that happen in my life because the girl spills it all. 2111 01:40:38,080 --> 01:40:39,960 Speaker 2: I found out her man was cheating because he was 2112 01:40:40,000 --> 01:40:42,360 Speaker 2: reaching out to a homegirl of mine that is a 2113 01:40:42,479 --> 01:40:45,080 Speaker 2: mutual friend, and I haven't said anything to her about it. 2114 01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:48,160 Speaker 2: It's been a minute since I found out, and regular 2115 01:40:48,280 --> 01:40:50,800 Speaker 2: me feels like I should tell her, but the been 2116 01:40:50,920 --> 01:40:54,200 Speaker 2: there before me is telling me I should mind my business. 2117 01:40:54,680 --> 01:40:57,560 Speaker 2: What I'm trying to do is avoid saying something, and 2118 01:40:57,640 --> 01:41:00,400 Speaker 2: then she goes back saying I told her and then 2119 01:41:00,400 --> 01:41:03,519 Speaker 2: it gets messy because of how I found out. I 2120 01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:05,400 Speaker 2: want her to know because I know she will want 2121 01:41:05,479 --> 01:41:08,040 Speaker 2: to know, but I don't want no backsplash on me, 2122 01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:11,240 Speaker 2: and knowing she is not the type to keep it private, 2123 01:41:11,360 --> 01:41:13,960 Speaker 2: I haven't said anything, but now I feel like a 2124 01:41:14,040 --> 01:41:16,360 Speaker 2: fake friend because girls is supposed to look out for 2125 01:41:16,479 --> 01:41:19,200 Speaker 2: other girls. At the same time, we are both well 2126 01:41:19,240 --> 01:41:21,400 Speaker 2: into our thirties and she has been with this man 2127 01:41:21,479 --> 01:41:24,800 Speaker 2: for the last twelve years. It's set the it's set 2128 01:41:24,960 --> 01:41:26,519 Speaker 2: in stone that they will be together. 2129 01:41:26,880 --> 01:41:27,720 Speaker 1: So is it so? 2130 01:41:27,960 --> 01:41:30,559 Speaker 2: Is it even worth saying anything? Are we too old 2131 01:41:30,600 --> 01:41:32,840 Speaker 2: for the drama at this point? At one point, do 2132 01:41:32,960 --> 01:41:35,240 Speaker 2: I become a hating ass bitch for always spilling the 2133 01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:35,880 Speaker 2: tea on him? 2134 01:41:36,120 --> 01:41:38,160 Speaker 1: Should I just let them people be and go find 2135 01:41:38,200 --> 01:41:42,160 Speaker 1: me a man? LMAO? Help me? You know, I don't know. 2136 01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:50,040 Speaker 1: It's giving. She raped like shoddy low. Hello, he's giving. 2137 01:41:50,080 --> 01:41:54,040 Speaker 2: You just need to lead at a long She's years 2138 01:41:54,080 --> 01:41:56,559 Speaker 2: and you've told her before. Let me tell you something. 2139 01:41:57,240 --> 01:42:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm a girl, I'm a girl's girl. I am, and 2140 01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:02,320 Speaker 1: I know girls girls get a bad rap. But let 2141 01:42:02,360 --> 01:42:02,840 Speaker 1: me tell you something. 2142 01:42:02,840 --> 01:42:05,080 Speaker 2: If I see your man doing something, I'm telling you 2143 01:42:05,160 --> 01:42:08,839 Speaker 2: and I don't care how you move according to that situation. 2144 01:42:09,360 --> 01:42:11,479 Speaker 2: Let me know how I move forward, because I've been 2145 01:42:11,520 --> 01:42:14,840 Speaker 2: in this situation before and I've had to tell a friend, hey, 2146 01:42:15,720 --> 01:42:18,439 Speaker 2: all right now she didn't do nothing, and he did 2147 01:42:18,479 --> 01:42:18,760 Speaker 2: it again. 2148 01:42:18,840 --> 01:42:20,720 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, she don't care, so neither do 2149 01:42:20,840 --> 01:42:28,400 Speaker 1: all right, And that's after I just don't care to 2150 01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:29,120 Speaker 1: wash it off. 2151 01:42:29,280 --> 01:42:31,600 Speaker 3: Yeahship like that. 2152 01:42:33,280 --> 01:42:40,560 Speaker 1: They should be. Yeah, maybe being a pollygue, but relationships 2153 01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:42,160 Speaker 1: and that girl don't know it, that's the problem. 2154 01:42:42,200 --> 01:42:44,640 Speaker 4: I mean, that's true, but I feel like in that situation, 2155 01:42:44,880 --> 01:42:47,000 Speaker 4: she says, she be telling on niggas, So. 2156 01:42:47,080 --> 01:42:50,600 Speaker 1: I just feel like I feel like that's where she 2157 01:42:50,800 --> 01:42:52,439 Speaker 1: want to be. That's what a friend want to be. 2158 01:42:52,640 --> 01:42:55,320 Speaker 4: And if that's what your friend want to do, you 2159 01:42:55,520 --> 01:42:58,000 Speaker 4: just got to let people do what they want to do, 2160 01:42:58,040 --> 01:42:59,960 Speaker 4: because at the end of the day, when they figure 2161 01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:02,200 Speaker 4: out when they're tired of a situation, people know when 2162 01:43:02,240 --> 01:43:04,360 Speaker 4: they have their breaking point, and they know when they tired. 2163 01:43:04,640 --> 01:43:07,760 Speaker 1: When she's tired, she's gonna leave, yea have y'all y'all 2164 01:43:07,840 --> 01:43:09,640 Speaker 1: be snitching Like if y'all see, y'all mean, like. 2165 01:43:09,720 --> 01:43:12,479 Speaker 2: If you see I'm only saying anything. If you'm one 2166 01:43:12,560 --> 01:43:14,320 Speaker 2: of my two, my sister or my best friend. 2167 01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:19,360 Speaker 1: That's otherwise it's just like as my business. 2168 01:43:19,640 --> 01:43:22,640 Speaker 3: Like it's so what about I'll be telling all I 2169 01:43:22,720 --> 01:43:23,479 Speaker 3: be focused on work. 2170 01:43:26,080 --> 01:43:28,519 Speaker 6: So if you didn't know that outside and outside of work, 2171 01:43:29,200 --> 01:43:30,760 Speaker 6: I don't understand anything. 2172 01:43:30,520 --> 01:43:32,040 Speaker 3: Outside of work. So if I could see it, I 2173 01:43:32,160 --> 01:43:33,240 Speaker 3: just don't understand. 2174 01:43:32,960 --> 01:43:33,400 Speaker 1: What that is. 2175 01:43:33,640 --> 01:43:36,240 Speaker 2: It is before we wrap it up, if you have 2176 01:43:36,360 --> 01:43:38,519 Speaker 2: a homeboy and you know he got a good girl 2177 01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:40,679 Speaker 2: and he dogging her out, are. 2178 01:43:40,600 --> 01:43:42,400 Speaker 1: You gonna be like, come on, bro, like you tripping. 2179 01:43:43,160 --> 01:43:44,600 Speaker 6: That's the thing about me that I don't hang with 2180 01:43:44,680 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 6: niggas like that. So like all my homeboys, like we 2181 01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:49,400 Speaker 6: all like were on the same energy, We on the 2182 01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:50,679 Speaker 6: same same frequency. 2183 01:43:50,920 --> 01:43:52,200 Speaker 1: Would somebody to tell you. 2184 01:43:53,760 --> 01:43:57,000 Speaker 2: If if what like if you if they had like 2185 01:43:57,120 --> 01:43:59,280 Speaker 2: if you had and they seen your girl out like 2186 01:43:59,360 --> 01:44:02,240 Speaker 2: she was with somebody, would you want them to come 2187 01:44:02,280 --> 01:44:05,679 Speaker 2: back and be like, oh my business but nah yeah. 2188 01:44:05,560 --> 01:44:07,639 Speaker 3: Yeah they've done it before. Yeah, yeah for sure. 2189 01:44:08,040 --> 01:44:10,479 Speaker 2: Okay, And what if you had a good girl and 2190 01:44:10,560 --> 01:44:12,519 Speaker 2: you were fum, would you want your homeboys to come. 2191 01:44:12,439 --> 01:44:13,840 Speaker 3: Even tell yeah? 2192 01:44:14,160 --> 01:44:17,360 Speaker 6: Accountable? Absolutely, okay, absolutely, Okay, I'm gonna. 2193 01:44:17,120 --> 01:44:18,599 Speaker 1: Tell my friends every time. 2194 01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:20,880 Speaker 4: But I gotta have confirmation though, like I gotta know 2195 01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:23,719 Speaker 4: for sure, because I'll never forget this story. My mama 2196 01:44:23,800 --> 01:44:25,720 Speaker 4: told me, and she was like, when her and my 2197 01:44:25,800 --> 01:44:28,560 Speaker 4: dad first got together, my one of my uncles was 2198 01:44:28,600 --> 01:44:31,479 Speaker 4: in the military and he was letting her use his 2199 01:44:31,640 --> 01:44:34,680 Speaker 4: car while he was away, and so she picked him 2200 01:44:34,760 --> 01:44:37,000 Speaker 4: up from the airport in his car, and one of 2201 01:44:37,040 --> 01:44:40,640 Speaker 4: my dad's friends seen them in the car together and 2202 01:44:40,800 --> 01:44:42,960 Speaker 4: called my dad and was like, oh, I seen her 2203 01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:45,519 Speaker 4: at the airport with a nigga whole time it was 2204 01:44:45,600 --> 01:44:49,760 Speaker 4: my uncle. And so luckily my dad was the type 2205 01:44:49,800 --> 01:44:51,439 Speaker 4: of man he was like like, I don't want to 2206 01:44:51,439 --> 01:44:53,360 Speaker 4: hear this shit. I trust her, like I don't believe that, 2207 01:44:53,400 --> 01:44:55,560 Speaker 4: And then him and my mom had a conversation and 2208 01:44:55,640 --> 01:44:57,400 Speaker 4: my mom was like, yeah, I was picking my brother 2209 01:44:57,520 --> 01:45:01,519 Speaker 4: up and then the stories matched up. So it's like, 2210 01:45:01,640 --> 01:45:05,240 Speaker 4: I'm only gonna tell somebody something if I have confirmation 2211 01:45:05,360 --> 01:45:07,519 Speaker 4: and I know for sure that you're cheating, because sometimes 2212 01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:11,599 Speaker 4: I feel like people be over zealous to call some drama, 2213 01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:15,240 Speaker 4: yeah some tea and like be messy because they really 2214 01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:19,120 Speaker 4: be wanting that they wanted to be that even if 2215 01:45:19,160 --> 01:45:19,679 Speaker 4: it ain't. 2216 01:45:20,120 --> 01:45:23,479 Speaker 3: No for sure, so you'll talk about how good your 2217 01:45:23,560 --> 01:45:26,080 Speaker 3: man is to your friends. Is that a bad thing? 2218 01:45:26,439 --> 01:45:28,040 Speaker 4: I don't think it's a bad thing because I feel 2219 01:45:28,040 --> 01:45:29,840 Speaker 4: like if you're friends with the right women, they're not 2220 01:45:30,120 --> 01:45:32,960 Speaker 4: gonna try to fuck your men, are still with your men, 2221 01:45:33,200 --> 01:45:35,000 Speaker 4: or even and if you got a good man, you 2222 01:45:35,080 --> 01:45:37,360 Speaker 4: ain't even gotta like, even if your friend. 2223 01:45:37,520 --> 01:45:39,640 Speaker 1: Was grimy and try to make an advance that your 2224 01:45:39,720 --> 01:45:42,240 Speaker 1: man he and he gonna tell you. Yeah, I'm a man. 2225 01:45:42,360 --> 01:45:43,400 Speaker 1: I don't think about. 2226 01:45:45,800 --> 01:45:50,200 Speaker 3: Somebody if somebody was cheating on me, somebody was coming 2227 01:45:50,240 --> 01:45:52,800 Speaker 3: at your dude coming When you. 2228 01:45:52,840 --> 01:45:54,160 Speaker 4: Say coming at him, what do you mean, Like, do 2229 01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:56,040 Speaker 4: you mean him cheating or be just trying to like 2230 01:45:56,240 --> 01:45:59,240 Speaker 4: talk to him. I don't give a fuck about trying 2231 01:45:59,280 --> 01:46:01,880 Speaker 4: to talk about that because I trust my man enough 2232 01:46:02,040 --> 01:46:05,240 Speaker 4: to know, like he's not going, because if you going, 2233 01:46:05,320 --> 01:46:05,679 Speaker 4: you ain't. 2234 01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah for me, yeah, yeah, I mean, and it'd be 2235 01:46:09,800 --> 01:46:12,560 Speaker 2: like the times that we in Now I've had a 2236 01:46:12,640 --> 01:46:15,920 Speaker 2: woman straight up hit on my dude in front of me. 2237 01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:19,000 Speaker 2: Literally was not given the damn that I was there. 2238 01:46:19,040 --> 01:46:22,240 Speaker 2: But I'm just so I'm just like, yeah, I was like, oh, 2239 01:46:22,360 --> 01:46:25,400 Speaker 2: she got the confidence. I like that he pushing keep. 2240 01:46:25,360 --> 01:46:27,000 Speaker 1: Going, just chilling. 2241 01:46:28,240 --> 01:46:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you do? What are you doing that? 2242 01:46:30,200 --> 01:46:33,000 Speaker 1: He just like he don't care because he's just like. 2243 01:46:33,080 --> 01:46:33,920 Speaker 3: Okay, okay. 2244 01:46:34,360 --> 01:46:37,000 Speaker 2: And it's funny because like his like his sister got 2245 01:46:37,080 --> 01:46:40,880 Speaker 2: more like what we're finna do. So I'm like, girl, 2246 01:46:41,560 --> 01:46:43,599 Speaker 2: she's like, you handled that because me, bitch, I would 2247 01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:45,360 Speaker 2: have been. But it's like, at the end of the day, 2248 01:46:45,360 --> 01:46:47,320 Speaker 2: if he would have been going, that just shows me 2249 01:46:47,360 --> 01:46:47,840 Speaker 2: who he is. 2250 01:46:48,360 --> 01:46:51,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'm not what they want to do. Regardless. 2251 01:46:51,280 --> 01:46:55,280 Speaker 1: You don't have no You only have control over who 2252 01:46:55,360 --> 01:46:55,880 Speaker 1: you're dealing with. 2253 01:46:56,000 --> 01:46:57,800 Speaker 4: And if it's the type of person that makes you 2254 01:46:57,960 --> 01:47:00,920 Speaker 4: have to get out of character anymore, like that ain't 2255 01:47:00,960 --> 01:47:01,880 Speaker 4: your person, no way. 2256 01:47:02,080 --> 01:47:04,320 Speaker 2: Because some women and men get off on that. They 2257 01:47:04,360 --> 01:47:06,599 Speaker 2: get off on knowing like you belong to somebody else. 2258 01:47:06,680 --> 01:47:09,360 Speaker 1: But I got you. Yeah, they get off on that 2259 01:47:09,520 --> 01:47:11,519 Speaker 1: for real. But you let me see if I can 2260 01:47:11,560 --> 01:47:13,639 Speaker 1: try to penetrate that, you ain't. 2261 01:47:13,479 --> 01:47:15,960 Speaker 2: Gonna fak nobody like me. You can have it, and 2262 01:47:16,000 --> 01:47:20,360 Speaker 2: then you're gonna be mad trying to send this. Okay, 2263 01:47:20,520 --> 01:47:24,040 Speaker 2: let's wrap this up, y'all. Okay, so let the people. 2264 01:47:23,880 --> 01:47:26,719 Speaker 1: Know where they can find y'all on social media. 2265 01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:30,120 Speaker 2: Everything y'all got coming up and you know, talk about 2266 01:47:30,240 --> 01:47:32,360 Speaker 2: the Power universe all that good stuff. 2267 01:47:32,200 --> 01:47:34,160 Speaker 1: And y'all were great. Yes, I had a great Oh 2268 01:47:34,200 --> 01:47:36,400 Speaker 1: my god, I don't even want to tea. 2269 01:47:41,600 --> 01:47:47,880 Speaker 3: We got time, We got time, we. 2270 01:47:47,960 --> 01:47:53,240 Speaker 1: Got no, we do gotta we got to wrap look, 2271 01:47:53,439 --> 01:47:59,920 Speaker 1: we got to wrap it up. Alex, where can we 2272 01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:01,000 Speaker 1: let you free? 2273 01:48:03,200 --> 01:48:06,200 Speaker 5: Yes, you can find me on Instagram at b Alex 2274 01:48:06,400 --> 01:48:09,400 Speaker 5: Prie t h E l i x l A p 2275 01:48:09,560 --> 01:48:14,840 Speaker 5: R TikTok Alex the Prie. It's more TV what I 2276 01:48:14,920 --> 01:48:16,160 Speaker 5: want to do. So I look forward to being on 2277 01:48:16,200 --> 01:48:17,120 Speaker 5: your screens very soon. 2278 01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:18,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what the great? 2279 01:48:19,960 --> 01:48:23,960 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, working, working, focused. 2280 01:48:23,600 --> 01:48:28,080 Speaker 3: On Yeah, yeah, I appreciate. 2281 01:48:28,120 --> 01:48:32,120 Speaker 1: For though work. Hey I'm not even talking. 2282 01:48:32,360 --> 01:48:35,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, well, we look forward to seeing y'all. Y'all 2283 01:48:35,400 --> 01:48:39,439 Speaker 2: have done an amazing job. Somebody creates a universe. I 2284 01:48:39,520 --> 01:48:41,559 Speaker 2: just want to give y'all y'all's flowers for a moment 2285 01:48:41,640 --> 01:48:44,439 Speaker 2: because Power started off like something that we have never 2286 01:48:44,560 --> 01:48:47,000 Speaker 2: seen before. And the fact that y'all have kept the 2287 01:48:47,080 --> 01:48:49,960 Speaker 2: story going and kept us interesting because some of the 2288 01:48:50,040 --> 01:48:54,120 Speaker 2: spin offs. Yeah yeah, and that's no shade, but that's 2289 01:48:54,160 --> 01:48:56,840 Speaker 2: what happens. I mean, I'm a Grays anatomy staying with 2290 01:48:56,960 --> 01:48:58,200 Speaker 2: some of the greatst anatomies. 2291 01:48:58,200 --> 01:49:01,519 Speaker 1: Things didn't work, That's what happens. You gotta give trial 2292 01:49:01,600 --> 01:49:01,880 Speaker 1: and error. 2293 01:49:01,920 --> 01:49:04,040 Speaker 2: But the fact that y'all had a spin off and 2294 01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:08,960 Speaker 2: it's been entertaining us. We have loved watching y'all on 2295 01:49:09,080 --> 01:49:12,639 Speaker 2: the screen. We cannot wait to see what y'all do next. 2296 01:49:13,160 --> 01:49:14,639 Speaker 2: You know we're gonna see you in them. 2297 01:49:14,560 --> 01:49:17,600 Speaker 1: Action movie roles. We know we gonna see you on 2298 01:49:17,640 --> 01:49:23,080 Speaker 1: the big screen. We know that. But honestly, I just 2299 01:49:23,160 --> 01:49:24,439 Speaker 1: want to give y'all y'all flowers. 2300 01:49:24,560 --> 01:49:26,400 Speaker 2: Thanks y'all so much for taking the time out to 2301 01:49:26,479 --> 01:49:28,760 Speaker 2: join us on this couch. Yes, absolutely one of our 2302 01:49:28,840 --> 01:49:31,120 Speaker 2: favorite interviews. So and I'm a stand. 2303 01:49:31,160 --> 01:49:33,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep watching the rest of the season because 2304 01:49:33,280 --> 01:49:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm tuned in. 2305 01:49:34,360 --> 01:49:36,880 Speaker 2: But Joanne, literally I walked in her house this morning, 2306 01:49:37,000 --> 01:49:39,120 Speaker 2: is no cap. I walked in her room. She was like. 2307 01:49:43,840 --> 01:49:49,720 Speaker 1: You you actually yes? I don't want to remember at 2308 01:49:50,640 --> 01:49:53,040 Speaker 1: people might not have caught up. We can reveal it 2309 01:49:53,120 --> 01:49:55,519 Speaker 1: because at this point I feel like, if you watched 2310 01:49:55,600 --> 01:50:01,280 Speaker 1: the show, you but yeah, she was like, he ship 2311 01:50:01,520 --> 01:50:05,080 Speaker 1: And I said, you ain't ship because you fucking that lady. 2312 01:50:06,479 --> 01:50:09,360 Speaker 1: And then you're trying to tell her character. But you know, 2313 01:50:09,439 --> 01:50:10,439 Speaker 1: I still here about you. 2314 01:50:11,400 --> 01:50:14,519 Speaker 3: This man paid for her. I mean he slunk into jail. 2315 01:50:14,600 --> 01:50:15,160 Speaker 1: What that means? 2316 01:50:15,280 --> 01:50:17,519 Speaker 3: And she was like, get out of here? What you mean? 2317 01:50:17,960 --> 01:50:21,320 Speaker 2: No, because listen, you can still care to talk about. 2318 01:50:24,120 --> 01:50:25,120 Speaker 3: We had a great time. 2319 01:50:26,240 --> 01:50:29,400 Speaker 6: No, No, we gotta do the season finale. We should 2320 01:50:29,400 --> 01:50:34,320 Speaker 6: do like a something like you like if you and 2321 01:50:34,439 --> 01:50:36,000 Speaker 6: like if you and the something like we're gonna do the. 2322 01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:38,600 Speaker 1: Last viewing for the season for that I don't know you. 2323 01:50:40,720 --> 01:50:40,960 Speaker 3: Together. 2324 01:50:41,800 --> 01:50:44,360 Speaker 4: And I was very upset at the end of the episode. 2325 01:50:45,240 --> 01:50:46,400 Speaker 4: I said, niggas, ain't she. 2326 01:50:46,800 --> 01:50:49,040 Speaker 2: She was really, I'm like sitting there in the corner, 2327 01:50:49,040 --> 01:50:53,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, Yeah, what's going on? 2328 01:50:53,800 --> 01:50:54,439 Speaker 1: We need to do that. 2329 01:50:54,600 --> 01:50:55,000 Speaker 3: Let's do it. 2330 01:50:55,080 --> 01:50:59,880 Speaker 1: Let let's do that, like we're gonna host it. Yeah together. Yeah, 2331 01:51:00,040 --> 01:51:02,800 Speaker 1: we definitely gotta put something. Yeah. 2332 01:51:04,479 --> 01:51:08,040 Speaker 4: So make sure y'all follow this on Patreon. Make sure 2333 01:51:08,360 --> 01:51:11,360 Speaker 4: y'all tuny in every Friday. Make sure y'all subscribe, and 2334 01:51:11,520 --> 01:51:14,600 Speaker 4: ye make sure y'all shop mus Beauty collection dot com. 2335 01:51:15,200 --> 01:51:17,519 Speaker 1: Y'all shot that Muse Beauty. We'll see y'all next week 2336 01:51:17,600 --> 01:51:23,000 Speaker 1: by yoll y'all. Make sure y'all share the content like subscribe, 2337 01:51:23,280 --> 01:51:24,519 Speaker 1: follow all that good stuff. 2338 01:51:24,520 --> 01:51:26,719 Speaker 2: And let me say this before we close off, y'all, 2339 01:51:27,200 --> 01:51:30,759 Speaker 2: there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds. 2340 01:51:30,800 --> 01:51:35,000 Speaker 2: It's p oh, you are underscore in my n ds. 2341 01:51:35,200 --> 01:51:38,200 Speaker 2: Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you 2342 01:51:38,320 --> 01:51:40,760 Speaker 2: see at poor minds with no underscore, that is at 2343 01:51:40,800 --> 01:51:43,759 Speaker 2: fake page, do not follow that page. Okay, they block 2344 01:51:43,880 --> 01:51:47,000 Speaker 2: me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both. So 2345 01:51:47,439 --> 01:51:52,800 Speaker 2: we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok. 2346 01:51:53,160 --> 01:51:55,960 Speaker 4: It is p oh you are underscore in my nds, 2347 01:51:56,080 --> 01:51:59,200 Speaker 4: all right, and we got a hell a fake Facebook page. 2348 01:51:59,600 --> 01:52:01,679 Speaker 1: The face book pages it's our face. 2349 01:52:01,880 --> 01:52:04,640 Speaker 4: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the 2350 01:52:04,760 --> 01:52:06,840 Speaker 4: least amount of file sports. So if you're on face 2351 01:52:06,880 --> 01:52:09,639 Speaker 4: the one that's hours got the least amount of file, 2352 01:52:09,720 --> 01:52:12,400 Speaker 4: but one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty. 2353 01:52:13,520 --> 01:52:15,200 Speaker 4: Make if you actually look at the content, because the 2354 01:52:15,280 --> 01:52:18,360 Speaker 4: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because 2355 01:52:18,400 --> 01:52:20,400 Speaker 4: their captains are like bumba claude. 2356 01:52:20,400 --> 01:52:20,880 Speaker 1: Should men? 2357 01:52:21,040 --> 01:52:22,120 Speaker 3: Should men pay bill? 2358 01:52:23,320 --> 01:52:24,800 Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes? No? 2359 01:52:26,120 --> 01:52:28,400 Speaker 6: Check answer below block block. 2360 01:52:29,040 --> 01:52:32,920 Speaker 4: Pull pull pull Like that's literally with the captions, I'm 2361 01:52:32,960 --> 01:52:36,160 Speaker 4: like you what that dg is bumba claude, bumba claude. 2362 01:52:37,439 --> 01:52:40,559 Speaker 8: I just want to and twist a lot catch sons 2363 01:52:40,600 --> 01:52:42,120 Speaker 8: on my seven forty five. 2364 01:52:42,560 --> 01:52:45,720 Speaker 3: You job me crazy, shorty. I need to see you 2365 01:52:45,840 --> 01:52:50,240 Speaker 3: and feel you next to me. Everything you need, like 2366 01:52:50,400 --> 01:52:52,640 Speaker 3: your smile. I don't want to see you cry. I 2367 01:52:52,720 --> 01:52:55,720 Speaker 3: got some questions that I gotta ask and I can 2368 01:52:56,040 --> 01:52:57,240 Speaker 3: come up with the answers. 2369 01:53:01,960 --> 01:53:05,160 Speaker 1: Love me if I was down? And how would you 2370 01:53:06,400 --> 01:53:13,479 Speaker 1: have love for me? YEA love me? If I was down? 2371 01:53:14,160 --> 01:53:17,200 Speaker 1: You see we have love. 2372 01:53:17,840 --> 01:53:20,600 Speaker 2: If I love would you still love me if I 2373 01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:21,680 Speaker 2: didn't smell so good? 2374 01:53:21,920 --> 01:53:22,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? 2375 01:53:22,439 --> 01:53:24,600 Speaker 2: I mean if I got locked up since to a 2376 01:53:24,680 --> 01:53:28,320 Speaker 2: quarter century to beat it disappoint me mentally. 2377 01:53:28,479 --> 01:53:29,639 Speaker 3: Right back to the friends. 2378 01:53:30,280 --> 01:53:33,280 Speaker 1: Would one of my friends if I was hitting. 2379 01:53:33,520 --> 01:53:36,200 Speaker 8: If I was and I was hurt with you, it 2380 01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:38,200 Speaker 8: was trying to put in work with you down to rise, 2381 01:53:38,600 --> 01:53:40,800 Speaker 8: I get out and kill it. Cap the chilling drive. 2382 01:53:41,040 --> 01:53:43,320 Speaker 8: I'm asking questions to find out how you feel inside. 2383 01:53:43,560 --> 01:53:46,280 Speaker 8: If I ain't wrap because I flipped burgers? That would 2384 01:53:46,320 --> 01:53:48,040 Speaker 8: you be ashamed to tell your friends you're. 2385 01:53:47,880 --> 01:53:49,160 Speaker 1: Feeling me in the bed? 2386 01:53:49,240 --> 01:53:50,200 Speaker 2: If I use my phone? 2387 01:53:50,240 --> 01:53:50,960 Speaker 1: Would you like that? 2388 01:53:51,400 --> 01:53:52,720 Speaker 3: If I wrote you a love letter. 2389 01:53:52,840 --> 01:53:58,640 Speaker 1: Would you write back like how you like that? 2390 01:54:01,400 --> 01:54:01,679 Speaker 4: Easily? 2391 01:54:01,920 --> 01:54:06,240 Speaker 1: Love me now? Tell you about it? Down and now 2392 01:54:07,040 --> 01:54:12,320 Speaker 1: you still have love for me? It's either to love 2393 01:54:12,400 --> 01:54:15,439 Speaker 1: me now. Would you love me if I was down 2394 01:54:16,080 --> 01:54:21,600 Speaker 1: and out? Would I love for me? But you love me? 2395 01:54:21,720 --> 01:54:24,479 Speaker 1: You know being what? You love me? 2396 01:54:24,560 --> 01:54:26,040 Speaker 2: You? Yes? 2397 01:54:27,120 --> 01:54:38,800 Speaker 1: One question? They all about you watching you know? Man? 2398 01:54:42,800 --> 01:54:49,160 Speaker 1: What's our group name? We need a group name. Our 2399 01:54:49,200 --> 01:54:50,680 Speaker 1: group name is I focus on work? 2400 01:54:52,400 --> 01:54:59,080 Speaker 3: Focus work. It is the w works is crazy, the works. 2401 01:54:59,440 --> 01:55:10,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god, but it is there. It is there. 2402 01:55:12,840 --> 01:55:13,840 Speaker 1: It is the