WEBVTT - | Ep 154 | Cuss Her Out!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am

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<v Speaker 2>Jazelle Bryanton.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being here with us once again.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And it's like kind of chilly outside. Well, thank goodness,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like October decent. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually this is how I know I'm getting old

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<v Speaker 1>when like I actually am enjoying the fall because like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like always like a summer girl. I would

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<v Speaker 1>be outside in the summer my swimsuit and get in

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<v Speaker 1>the pool.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't go in.

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<v Speaker 1>A pool one time this summer. Wow, And I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>bring on the fall.

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<v Speaker 3>Bring on the fall. So do your cause your parents

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<v Speaker 3>have a pool? Uh huh do you I didn't go?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you normally go? Do you normally go like just

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<v Speaker 3>hang out one or to want to tice with the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>When the kids were younger, we would go a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But even as they got older, they weren't really

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<v Speaker 1>interested in like going like because they would want to

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<v Speaker 1>go wherever their friends were, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So like if we were to go to my parents' house,

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<v Speaker 1>then we would have to like probably invite a handful

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<v Speaker 1>of friends over, and I just never I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like turn it into that, so they would end

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<v Speaker 1>up wherever their friends were instead of at my parents' house. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Plus, you know, leave Gladys alone. I leave alone, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But I still want a pool in my back or

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. It's like I haven't been in a pool

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<v Speaker 1>this summer. But that's because I don't like to leave

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<v Speaker 1>my house.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just want to make note. We were both

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<v Speaker 1>wearing skinny jeans. Did you know the skinny jeans are out?

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<v Speaker 3>We're not supposed to wear skinny jeans anymore. No, what

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<v Speaker 3>am I going to do with all my skinny jeans?

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<v Speaker 3>I know? And I have some baggy ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but I just feel like I don't do

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<v Speaker 1>we have to abide by that rule now? We do not,

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<v Speaker 1>because skinny jeans are like sometimes certain things don't go

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<v Speaker 1>with baggy or jeans.

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<v Speaker 2>No, right, And sometimes if you have like a baggy top,

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<v Speaker 2>then the skinny jeans are perfect, right, baggy baggy I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, but now it's like, you know, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to wear like skinny jeans at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever, So what kind of jeans are we wearing these days?

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<v Speaker 1>Straight leg okay, I have some of those wide legs,

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<v Speaker 1>wieleg okay, I have that once to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wearing my skinny jeans. I know that I think

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<v Speaker 2>we should wear stuff that looks good on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>skinny jeans look good on me, my back, my booty

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<v Speaker 2>bee popping.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree. And then maybe it's just like of course,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the younger people are like no skinny jeans,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe us oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, because the kids wear Yeah, the kids wear straight

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<v Speaker 2>leg and wide leg.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, it's so weird. It's so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so like interesting to see like fashions.

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<v Speaker 3>Just come and go. Yeah, it's weird because I I have.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny because I bought like maybe three pairs

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<v Speaker 2>of jeans. One had like it was like a cargo

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<v Speaker 2>and had like big pockets on it because bothers, and

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<v Speaker 2>they've been snatched by my children. Really, yes, they will

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<v Speaker 2>snatch my stuff. They'll be like mom, I thinking ahead,

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<v Speaker 2>uh huh. And I know if I just don't give

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<v Speaker 2>it to them, they're gonna just take it. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 2>I just give Okay, yeah, but now I didn't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay they're in.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the cargoes are in, the god legs, the bit,

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<v Speaker 1>all of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they were stealing my stuff. Yes, okay, you have

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<v Speaker 3>a shady moment. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was put through the wringer this week with vehicles.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything vehicle related. Oh lord, okay. So first it started

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<v Speaker 1>off with my car. I was driving in this beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood looking at these humongous houses, and I hit a

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<v Speaker 1>huge pothole like so it was like one was on

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<v Speaker 1>the on the phone with me and he was like damn,

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<v Speaker 1>like he could hear how loud that pothole was. So

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<v Speaker 1>my tired didn't go flat. But as I'm driving, like

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<v Speaker 1>my car shaking right, So I call the dealer. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh it's it sounds like it's a bent rim.

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<v Speaker 3>Come in. So I go.

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<v Speaker 1>So I go into the dealer. So get to the dealer.

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<v Speaker 1>They give me a loaner car. It's an electric vehicle.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love those.

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<v Speaker 3>Go ahead right, I was like, oh cool, you know

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<v Speaker 3>I've never driven one, Like yes, I'll have so quiet right.

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<v Speaker 1>So quiet, so like fast you know, And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, yes, like taking off so a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days go by and my car is still at the dealer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then one day I'm driving Corey to school and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh shit, I have twenty miles left on

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<v Speaker 1>this car. Yeah, and I have to get to Corey school.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like seventeen miles away from my house I get home. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So I tried to like stop somewhere and charge it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like you need an app and an

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<v Speaker 1>account and I'm like, what the so I make it home.

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<v Speaker 1>I have like three miles left anyway, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>end up having to like charge it at my neighbor's house. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>they have a slow ash chargers, like took an hour

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<v Speaker 1>just to give me twenty miles blah blah blah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So that was like second, I was so stressed over

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<v Speaker 1>this damn electric vehicle.

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<v Speaker 3>But they're amazing. They're amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, if you have a charger, but I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 1>probably should not let people. You probably shouldn't loan them

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<v Speaker 1>out to people who don't have a charger at home.

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<v Speaker 3>True, but but I want the one that I had.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally was like I might trade my car in right,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to keep it right, And.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people probably end up. That's

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<v Speaker 1>probably why they do it, because they want people to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, Ooh, I like this, I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>me one. But yeah, so, yeah, you should not have

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<v Speaker 1>given me an electric vehicle because I had three miles left.

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<v Speaker 3>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was stressing out, So then get my car back.

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<v Speaker 1>Next day, I'm I have an appointment. Okay, disappointment. I

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<v Speaker 1>have rescheduled twice so and it's appointment to meet with

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<v Speaker 1>my estate lawyer.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's important, yes, very important.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, yes, I'm about to go

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<v Speaker 1>go to the lawyer's office.

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<v Speaker 3>I hit my garage.

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<v Speaker 1>Butt in the garage won't go up.

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<v Speaker 3>What I suck in the garage? What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a spring broke on my garage door. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I could not leave the house. I couldn't put

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<v Speaker 1>the garage up. I couldn't even do the pull thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It wouldn't go up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was completely stuck. So I was like, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a nightmare of a week. The pothole, the electric vehicle,

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<v Speaker 1>the garage not opening.

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<v Speaker 3>And then so finally someone came, thank.

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<v Speaker 1>God, later that evening and fix the garage, the spring,

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<v Speaker 1>the door. He said, yeah, these springs should have like

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<v Speaker 1>a seven to ten year lifespan. My house is three

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<v Speaker 1>years old.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just so it was just like that was

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<v Speaker 3>that was the was the moon in Mercury Grade?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, it was just one thing after the other

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<v Speaker 1>with these damn like just I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it rains, it pours, that's yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>There was an eclipse recently, by the way, was it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Where and on my work vacation. I saw it. Oh yeah, oho, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>cause I was here. It was here, but you couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>see it. Oh yeah, so you could see it better.

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<v Speaker 3>It was completely okay, most beautiful thing. Okay, anyway, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it was. It was annoying. Yeah, it was a

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<v Speaker 3>hell of a week. Okay, but do you want to

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<v Speaker 3>get in like your car now? I do? Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I do. Yeah, that's how I feel. So you had

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<v Speaker 3>it was what it was this ratro overhaf It was

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<v Speaker 3>a Jaguar.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know how Jaguar and land Rover are like,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah brothers or whatever. So it was a Jaguar eye

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<v Speaker 1>pace and it was like it was it was cool looking.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all blacked out, you know, I like my

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<v Speaker 1>cars to be black on black on black. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was like just it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it looked like my car, you know. Yeah, so it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it was it was nice, it ran, it was

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<v Speaker 1>so fast.

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<v Speaker 3>They gave me a white which would be my car.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Mercedes something something something, and it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my gosh, I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like you don't even know it's on. You just

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<v Speaker 1>like press the button.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, it's this thing on That's what I said,

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<v Speaker 3>because you can't even hear it, right, And then I

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<v Speaker 3>was scared I would leave it on. It was supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to turn it off. Yeah, anyway, I love it. So

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. That might be my next car I

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<v Speaker 3>do have.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like, should black people be buying

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<v Speaker 1>Tesla's though, because Elon Musk is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I'm not buying a Messa. Oh yeah you should not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, black and white and purple people should not buy

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<v Speaker 2>a Tesla, right, And I'm like I can't support Elon

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<v Speaker 2>Musk no in the Twitter of it all, like boy,

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<v Speaker 2>good night, right, Okay, Okay, So I want to give

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<v Speaker 2>my shady moment, but before I do that, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to remind people I'm going to be in Chicago. At

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<v Speaker 2>the City Winery doing something called a live show. We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to laugh, we're gonna cry, We're going to do

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<v Speaker 2>all the things. So come out and see me City

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<v Speaker 2>Winery October twenty first at seven thirty right, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing our little meet and greet too, so fun. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be taking pictures and all the things. So get your

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<v Speaker 2>tickets all right now. You know, I was at my

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<v Speaker 2>work conference for a very long time. And apparently while

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<v Speaker 2>I was there, and I know I said last episode

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<v Speaker 2>that like my kids were calling me in the morning

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<v Speaker 2>and waking me up, but apparently other people were calling

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<v Speaker 2>me too.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently.

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<v Speaker 2>I the other day went to my esthetician. I walk

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<v Speaker 2>in the door and they're like, just SA, what are

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<v Speaker 2>you doing? And I was like, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>And they were like, we talked and we canceled this,

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<v Speaker 2>we moved you, we moved you.

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<v Speaker 3>To another day.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, and then it all came flooding

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<v Speaker 2>back that we I talked to the front desk lady.

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<v Speaker 2>She told me that my asthetition had to take the

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<v Speaker 2>day off, and she said, you told me you were

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<v Speaker 2>going to call back to reschedule.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, oh my god, because I remember the

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<v Speaker 3>conversation as soon as she said it, but I totally forgot.

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<v Speaker 3>There's so many things.

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<v Speaker 1>Did take it off your calendar.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had major conversations with people I don't remember, so

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know who's shady here my brain, yeah, or

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<v Speaker 3>people that continue to call me when it was four

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<v Speaker 3>o'clock in the morning where I was, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's your brain. Is it my brain? Your

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<v Speaker 3>brain shady? Yeah? Were you like I was eating my blueberries? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, clearly it don't work. Well, you know, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny that you say that, because I have a.

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<v Speaker 2>A letter, so seeing my blueberries every day blueber Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so my brain is very shady.

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<v Speaker 3>You might not have been doing enough. Okay, why what

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<v Speaker 3>they say?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I have a little article. Yeah, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to share this anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>This is so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I was going to share this anyway because

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<v Speaker 1>as we get older, you know, there's just certain things

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<v Speaker 1>we start to be more aware of.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, right, but side note, if you are sleeping and

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<v Speaker 2>having a conversation, yeah, you're not supposed to remember.

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<v Speaker 1>So you were sleeping when you had this conversation, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was early, because it was early. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was sleep Oh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I still have remembered when I woke up,

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<v Speaker 2>not necessarily, but why are you.

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<v Speaker 3>Able to have a full conversation while you're sleep right

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<v Speaker 3>and then and then hang on, I go right back

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<v Speaker 3>and then go right back to sleep and then no recollection. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was like, kind of scary. Well, I said

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<v Speaker 3>to her. I was like, did I sound sleep? She

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<v Speaker 3>was like, no, you sound of great. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I had a full conversation while I was sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happened with that is so funny. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of scary.

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<v Speaker 3>A little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it happened several times I was there, people

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<v Speaker 2>called me. It was late at night, I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>my shit, talking all kinds of craziness.

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<v Speaker 3>I fell in love with it bunch of times. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>go ahead, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So now that we're talking about our brains, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I came across this article. I say, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>share this with the people. So these are six common

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<v Speaker 1>habits that are prematurely aging your brain.

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<v Speaker 3>And I really worry.

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<v Speaker 1>About, you know, just living long and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have all of my facultackle teas and so this is

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that I'm like, Okay, let me start preparing for that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for my long life. So number one, you over indulge

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<v Speaker 1>in alcohol.

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<v Speaker 3>I do not. You do not anymore anymore, yes, starting yesterday. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Well me neither.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've said this recently, like I've just totally pulled

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<v Speaker 1>back on alcohol. But alcohol is one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>significant components of premium short aging of the brain.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, yes, So okay, what about weed?

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<v Speaker 1>That's well weed smoking weed is bad for your heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I thought I was. I thought I killed

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<v Speaker 1>your brain, so that too.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so well yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So I wouldn't do that either. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>stay in all the time, Robin, I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>So.

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<v Speaker 1>The Frontiers and Aging Neuroscience Journal found that social isolation

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<v Speaker 1>and loneliness were associated with poor cognitive aging.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you're not lonely and you're not isolating yourself, right,

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<v Speaker 2>You just inside, right?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right, But they need to get outside. I need

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<v Speaker 3>to be more social.

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<v Speaker 1>So whether it's a game night at a friend's house,

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<v Speaker 1>a family dinner, or a big event, push yourself to

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<v Speaker 1>say yes to spending time with loved ones. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that You'll have fun, and these social interactions will also

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<v Speaker 1>benefit your brain. Okay, Okay, you love junk food, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>rob junk? I don't, not really, I kind of yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like junk food, like I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I like sugar, like sugar.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was on by the way, when I was

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<v Speaker 2>on my work conference for almost thirty days, I decided

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<v Speaker 2>not to like eat what I normally eat, which is

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<v Speaker 2>like a bunch of sugar and obviously junk food, and

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<v Speaker 2>it did change my body.

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<v Speaker 1>You felt good, Yeah, I felt good. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think it definitely makes a difference. So

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<v Speaker 1>neuroscience neuroscientist doctor Amy Richolt explains that junk food is

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<v Speaker 1>addictive because it activates the rewards system in our brains

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<v Speaker 1>and releases dopamine, making us feel good. However, overly sweetened

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<v Speaker 1>and fatty foods are bad for the brain. Toldally, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so they can inflame the brain, damaging brain cells. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's get back on our sugar. Okay, on our junk food.

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<v Speaker 1>I will do that, our fry, fatty food, our junk food.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Another way we prematurely ate our brain is by skipping

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<v Speaker 1>the gem.

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<v Speaker 3>And yes, yes, and I know you have some problems

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<v Speaker 3>over kip the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, and I know that doesn't apply to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but that does apply to me, even though. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like working out consistently with my boys and they

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<v Speaker 1>went back to school and I haven't worked out since.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've not worked out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I worked out one day. I've not worked

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<v Speaker 1>out one day since. I mean I only worked out

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<v Speaker 1>one day since my boys have been back to school. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>physical exercise promotes learning, planning, concentrating, and maintaining a clear

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<v Speaker 1>active mind. It also counteracts the effects of cognitive agent.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, yes, I got Are you done? I have

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<v Speaker 3>one more for you? No, okay, two more? Okay, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't switch up your routine, so they say, doing

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing every day, having a fixed schedule, the

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<v Speaker 1>mundaneness of that can can cause premature brain agent.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so that that would that could be me because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I there, I thrive off of a schedule. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I need to switch it out. Yeah, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>that means different. Men, I'm with you too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I need to switch it up, switch it up.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess. Yes, it's time to take a break.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to take a little me time, grab my

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<v Speaker 1>this is my taste. So it said, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>like block off a few hours once or twice a

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<v Speaker 1>week for free time to spontaneously decide what you'll do.

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<v Speaker 1>This keeps your brain excited and motivated.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep. Challenging your brain with new mental exercises helped maintain

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<v Speaker 1>the health of brain cells and stimulates connection among them.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the last one on this list is you

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<v Speaker 1>sacrifice sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I know you don't do that. No, no, no, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>sleep is very important.

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<v Speaker 1>Sleep is very important. Seven hours a day keeps aging

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<v Speaker 1>at bay. So getting the doctor recommended amount of sleeper

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<v Speaker 1>night works wonders on your mental and physical health, and

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<v Speaker 1>it bodes well for long term brain health. Yes, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>get your sleep, eat healthy, get your exercise.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop drinking alcohol. So I'm being a drunkard. Yes, what

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<v Speaker 3>else I don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So there's a new study that reveals that traveling

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<v Speaker 2>robin this is for you, is healthy and slows the

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<v Speaker 2>aging process.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I like that, and I think that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>corresponds with it totally do this, yeah, yes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>like that and that and that is actually one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, especially like once my kids get out of

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<v Speaker 1>high school. Yeah, like that's going to be on my

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<v Speaker 1>priority lists. I'm not just things to do, but my

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<v Speaker 1>priority list.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're gonna so every time you go on

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<v Speaker 2>a vacation, you're going to have booked another one.

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<v Speaker 3>Because that's how I do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, yeah, Like if I go, like right now,

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<v Speaker 2>I have too many things planned, but I know that,

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<v Speaker 2>like my big vacation that I'll do at the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the year, I know as soon as I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>getting ready to do that, I need to plan my

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<v Speaker 2>next one.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I like that. Okay, I like that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a planner. I will I take like spontaneous. I'm you're spontaneous, spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 3>But you have to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And they say that a part of it is you

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<v Speaker 2>always should be looking forward to a trip or something

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<v Speaker 2>exciting happening for whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like that. I'm gonna do better at that.

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<v Speaker 1>But right now, like with the kids, I mean I shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I should be able to make time for it. But

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<v Speaker 1>with them and their sports schedules, it's just like it's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy saying because you know I've talked about this. The

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<v Speaker 1>basketball schedule alone takes us all over the country, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's just trying to balance that. It becomes like too

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<v Speaker 1>much for me to think about. Oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta plan this. I gotta plan that for basketball, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I gotta plan a trip playing something for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>But you do, you got to plan these trips.

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<v Speaker 1>I should. I guess that's what travel agents are for, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if I know, you kind of do it yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to do it myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you feel about beggars on the street

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<v Speaker 1>wearing Louis Baton shoes.

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<v Speaker 3>What? Like? Are they real? I don't I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>but is that is that happening right now? Yes? Okay

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<v Speaker 3>in this area? Yes, okay, And they have on like

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<v Speaker 3>some Louis Slide some loafers like Louis Vuitton sneakers. They

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<v Speaker 3>have on Louisvuittan's. Yes, So like just I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>bad for business, you know what I'm saying? Like, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>if your business is asking for money, yes, you should

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<v Speaker 3>not have on designer sneakers, whether they're real or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, my guess is that they're probably fake, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>or okay, they're the fake hand me down. I mean shit,

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<v Speaker 1>if they are real, I don't know, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>But let's say they're fake. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Even still, let's say they're fake and a hand me down. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad for business, It totally bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I see you on the street.

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<v Speaker 1>With Louis Vuitton shoes and you're asking me for a dollar.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not giving it to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm they supposed to be shoeless. Are they supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>be barefoot? No?

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<v Speaker 2>But you shouldn't be wearing Louis Vuitton. Louisat is just

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<v Speaker 2>the optics of it. Yes, it's just bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Either.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, that's bad because I'm like, okay, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>I give you this dollar, you're gonna go buy now,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna buy some Gucci sunglasses with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what I'm moving on? I can't, I can't you

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<v Speaker 3>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's this video in China that sewage erupts and

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<v Speaker 2>sprays poop on cars all over. Okay, So it erupts

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<v Speaker 2>from underneath the ground, right, and it's like sprunk. So

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<v Speaker 2>imagine you know how we hit those water hydrants and

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<v Speaker 2>like water's just like just it's like that, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>poop and it's huge. Oh my, So it sent poop

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<v Speaker 2>way up into the air. And it was going off

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<v Speaker 2>for a very long time in China.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you imagine no, I mean, can you imagine even

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<v Speaker 2>like the smell. No, and then it's just spraying and

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<v Speaker 2>then it gets on you and it sprang out from

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<v Speaker 2>the ground.

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<v Speaker 3>No, let's say you're driving by and it's on your car.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be sick for months, like.

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<v Speaker 3>For weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Weeks. Oh my gosh, yesterday, Yeah, my trash can. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess when we put the trash out and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like raining, so there's like a bunch of water in

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom of the garbage can. Yeah, okay, Well because

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<v Speaker 1>it's open, I guess it ended up being open.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>The trash people, they just throw them all around, So

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<v Speaker 1>the lid must have been opened. It must have been

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<v Speaker 1>water all in the bottom of it. So I go

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<v Speaker 1>to put something in the trash can. I open it

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<v Speaker 1>and it's the smell is rancid. And I look and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my gosh, like this is disgusting. So

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<v Speaker 1>I pull it out, I dump it out, I sprayed

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<v Speaker 1>it out. I felt sick just.

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<v Speaker 3>From that smell for hours. It's like three days.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, I was like my I thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to throw up. It was rancid smell I ever smelled.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's getting sprayed with poop.

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<v Speaker 3>And huge, Oh my god God, And I'm trying to think, like,

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<v Speaker 3>how did this happen? Take me away, how did this happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is it spraying? Why is it spraying?

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<v Speaker 4>A septic tank pipe burst during road construction in Wonxi, China,

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<v Speaker 4>causing a massive eruption of waste. The explosion sends sewage

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<v Speaker 4>shooting over ten meters into the air, covering nearby vehicles

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<v Speaker 4>in waste. It is reported that the explosion was caused

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<v Speaker 4>by a pressure test on a newly installed sewage pipe,

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<v Speaker 4>not accidental damage during construction.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was done on purpose, just to see

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<v Speaker 2>if they but you know, they probably it is a

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<v Speaker 2>terrorist attack.

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<v Speaker 3>Ohod that it's a terrorist attack. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Kim Kardashian is reportedly fuming. She's so upset Kanye

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<v Speaker 2>because his wife, Bianca is wearing all this provocative clothes

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<v Speaker 2>around the children.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, that's what this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuming and she wants to take this to court, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's in a terrible spot because Bianca has completely won

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<v Speaker 2>over the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>They love her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, AND's gonna be like, bitch, if you looked at.

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<v Speaker 2>Yourself lately, That's what I'm getting to. Ye, we we

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<v Speaker 2>can never It's like it's good for the goose, it's

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<v Speaker 2>good for the gander. No, it's like it's not like

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<v Speaker 2>what you can't do if it's like you had a

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<v Speaker 2>sex tape. It's like it's so many things. It's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what so what so where do we draw the line?

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<v Speaker 2>Where do we draw the line?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Where where did Bianca overstep? I mean, yes, when we

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<v Speaker 1>see her, we're like, okay, put on, yes, but but

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<v Speaker 1>we've all had.

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<v Speaker 3>To endure her sex tape. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's kind of like you can't win this fight. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this fight, said, Kim can win. But that isn't one

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<v Speaker 2>of them.

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<v Speaker 1>That woman does walk around with like no clothes on zero,

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<v Speaker 1>like a string simples popping, a string over her nipple,

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<v Speaker 1>nipple popping. So I can imagine, you know, if they

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<v Speaker 1>if young children. Yeah, we're walking around or around her

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<v Speaker 1>and she's walking around with a string over her nipples. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and her problematic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's it's it's bothersome, no question.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but Kim, like I don't think you have

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<v Speaker 2>any room, not that Kim does that nowadays, but you

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<v Speaker 2>know there was once upon a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we always have to we can't, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we gotta keep in mind where we come from, right,

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<v Speaker 2>very true. Cannot forget where we come from.

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<v Speaker 3>So anyway, we you had to read something to read.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've got we have tons tons to read,

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<v Speaker 1>tons tons to read, so I do want to. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a more recent one. So I recently talked about

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<v Speaker 1>Game of Thrones.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, honey, where are you now? I have not picked

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<v Speaker 3>it back up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, Rob, and I was thinking about you

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.199
<v Speaker 2>because I was like, Robin, it's got to be on

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<v Speaker 2>like season four, season five.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I haven't picked up. You know why because I started.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched the second half of the season of Power.

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<v Speaker 1>Season you don't watch Power? No? And is the Power

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<v Speaker 1>with Ghost no, with the Sun whatever? His name is,

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<v Speaker 1>Tarik Tarik and I really I actually lost me. Did

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<v Speaker 1>not watch it before, but like, I just ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of things to watch, so I started watching it.

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<v Speaker 3>So they had a You didn't run out of things.

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<v Speaker 3>You could have finished Game of Thrones.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's true. So anyway, I don't know somehow I.

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<v Speaker 1>Just decided to watch the rest of power. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of where I'm where my attention was. Ok So,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get back to Game of Thrones. But go ahead,

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<v Speaker 1>Game of Thrones. So we have a couple of letters.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is from Alexandra Franch.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, she's hike girlies.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say I love your podcast last

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<v Speaker 1>so hard. When Robin was talking about Game of Thrones,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel exactly the same. Tried to watch it so

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<v Speaker 1>many times and I go to sleep. So I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even seen the first season. What, yes, Gazelle, Robin is

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<v Speaker 1>not the only one that hasn't watched it.

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<v Speaker 3>Did.

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<v Speaker 1>She sends us a video, this conspiracy theory video on Beyonce. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it, and I'm like, it's nonsense.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, good nonsensical.

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<v Speaker 1>Nonsense, just people trying to talk about Jay has control

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:12.920
<v Speaker 1>over Beyonce and Dre is drugged up Beyonce, And yes, nonsense,

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<v Speaker 1>stop y'all. So she said, I would love to hear

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:18.399
<v Speaker 1>what you think about this theory. I think it's nonsense. Okay,

0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 1>Alexandra sending loads of hugs to you both from a

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<v Speaker 1>virgo in Miyorca.

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<v Speaker 3>Who spain Burg goes into house yes. Burg goes into

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<v Speaker 3>house mayorca.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and she said, ps, you can do more episodes

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<v Speaker 1>a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we can't.

0:26:35.440 --> 0:26:39.400
<v Speaker 2>We sure can't, but yeah, we're not contractually obligated too,

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<v Speaker 2>so this is what we do.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So on the flip side, yeah, okay, go ahead, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Another Game of Thrones? Hi, Robin, I work from home

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<v Speaker 1>and listen to y'all religiously. This is from Kia Cannon.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe are you listening to us while you're working from home?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course she is. And I'm not mad at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Not trying to get you in trouble, Kiya, but Kia,

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to get you in trou Okay, thank you

0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:05.960
<v Speaker 1>for keeping me awake during the workday.

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<v Speaker 3>Key, I'm got mad at you. I'm not mad at

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<v Speaker 3>This is for Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>I have started watching Game of Thrones too. I love

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>period pieces and fantasy, so I am enjoying it. I

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>want you to push through your boredom and keep watching.

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 1>It's a slow burn, but will get interesting. I can't

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 1>believe they keep it. It's like spoiler. I can't believe

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:30.880
<v Speaker 1>they keep killing off the main characters that you think

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:34.160
<v Speaker 1>will last through the entire show. But apparently that's their thing.

0:27:34.240 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh not really really okay, I think I am almost

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<v Speaker 1>finished Season four. Giselle is correct about Denaris Targarian, Mother

0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of Dragons, better known as Kalisi Bad. She is shaping

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:48.360
<v Speaker 1>up to be a cool character.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay tuned. She is love you all.

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:53.040
<v Speaker 1>You get back to work.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, stop stop listening to us and not doing

0:27:57.400 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 3>your job. So I'm gonna try.

0:27:59.000 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give it another crack, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, if it.

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<v Speaker 1>Continues to put me to sleep, yeah, I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>to turn seeing In back on.

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:08.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, as you should.

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 2>But you know, seeing In right now is a lot

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:13.640
<v Speaker 2>of like political stuff, and sometimes I could just get over.

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:14.399
<v Speaker 3>It, I know.

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sometimes I like to laugh though, Yeah I did.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very It's comedy, okay, So I am. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to read about Angel, who I've told you guys is

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<v Speaker 2>at She does go to Spilman, yes, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>see her leave her alone, is she still hot? I

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 2>asked her yesterday how what the degrees of her room was?

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 2>She said eighty five her room is and she said

0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:39.360
<v Speaker 2>she got used to it. Really, I said that sounds

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<v Speaker 2>Lord Chris. Oh okay, anyway, this is from Tasha Nicole

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<v Speaker 2>High High Ladies, I'm a longtime listener, well pretty much

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 2>from the beginning, because I'm a big podcast lover. Also,

0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 2>RHP is the only franchise I will watch because well,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all are the best. Lol as straight up no chaser

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:02.360
<v Speaker 2>kind of gal myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that you that's both of us. That's both of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you two have always been fased. So now to

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<v Speaker 2>the bulk of it all. This weekend, I'm home actually

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<v Speaker 2>waiting to hear from my son how the sibling exchange

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:20.920
<v Speaker 2>went a morehouse tradition and she sent a picture and

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<v Speaker 2>find out all the things. Imagine my surprise when my

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 2>son finally sends a picture of his new Spellhouse sibling

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<v Speaker 2>and it's little Miss Angel Bryant.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so this is this is actually a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna keep reading it and I'll come back.

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<v Speaker 2>I respond back to him, William, I've watched her grow up.

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 2>And he says, oh yeah, her dad is a big

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:50.040
<v Speaker 2>time preacher here and I saw no no, yeah, yeah,

0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 2>yeah that too, she says.

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 3>She says, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no.

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 2>No, whatever whatever about her dand but her mom is

0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 2>an rho err And his reaction was like, oh okay,

0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:06.960
<v Speaker 2>like he doesn't here anyway, I figured I would finally

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 2>drop an email and say hey, because the last time

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 2>I was going to send one was an episode topic.

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<v Speaker 2>I waited and then couldn't recall what in the world

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to email about anyway, So figured out

0:30:17.680 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 2>that you'd already seen the picture of Angel and William.

0:30:20.600 --> 0:30:23.720
<v Speaker 2>You probably got it way before I did, because these

0:30:23.760 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 2>boys they don't cooperate, you know, they do not, but

0:30:28.040 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 2>they're special. Love them, Love Robin So And this is

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<v Speaker 2>from Tasha. T Hey, Tasha, So you know I told

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<v Speaker 2>you how the hurricane was happening in Atlanta. Yeah, And

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:42.440
<v Speaker 2>I said, Angel, I'm gonna fly you to Hampton where

0:30:42.440 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 2>Grace was.

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<v Speaker 3>Angel said no, I'm like why. She's like, this is this.

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<v Speaker 2>Big ceremony on Sunday and I don't want to miss it.

0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what the hell is the ceremony? Who gives

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 2>a damn? It's you don't have no power right down there.

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 2>And she was like, oh, we know we get our

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<v Speaker 2>more House brothers. Oh, And I was like that sounds dumb.

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 2>So her dad was like her dad, who went to Morehouse,

0:31:04.160 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 2>was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, this is very important, it's very especial. And she

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 3>cannot miss it, just out and I was like whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So she said in a hotel, her and her friends,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because they didn't have any power anyway, she

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 2>got to go back to the dorm, change up.

0:31:20.760 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 3>And then go to the ceremony. Okay.

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 2>She goes to the ceremony and she's like, I don't

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 2>know how they pair them up, but apparently when you

0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 2>get your brother, it's like your brother, right, and you

0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:35.400
<v Speaker 2>can't like date them. Oh really yeah, and it's like

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:38.920
<v Speaker 2>a thing like you cannot date your your more morehouse

0:31:38.960 --> 0:31:42.120
<v Speaker 2>brother what. So she gets Will. She told me his

0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:45.560
<v Speaker 2>name is Will, and she sends a picture and.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, he's kind of cute. Yeah. I

0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 3>was like date him Angel. Oh. She was like, by me,

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 3>I cannot. And I was like, what brother, it's incessay

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 3>he kind of cute, Like, yeah, you can.

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 2>She was like that's my brother. I said, no, you're

0:31:57.320 --> 0:32:00.320
<v Speaker 2>not right. Okay, you just met this man and he's

0:32:00.360 --> 0:32:01.480
<v Speaker 2>cute and he's.

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:04.000
<v Speaker 3>Smart and he brought her flowers. Oh that's so nice.

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:05.880
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, so, Tasha, you have a very

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:09.240
<v Speaker 2>well respected son and I'm trying to hook up Angel

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 2>and Will.

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<v Speaker 3>Just for the record, right, Yes, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how many sibling spell House siblings have actually dated?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, or even Mary got married?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, send us letters, let us know, because I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>it's happened. Yes, Yes, And she's picture. I saw the

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<v Speaker 2>picture of Ya Tasha and her son.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's handsome. She was raving about how nice he

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<v Speaker 3>is and how smart he is and blah blah blah. Angel,

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<v Speaker 3>you about to get your man's what get? Will lock

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<v Speaker 3>that thing down.

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<v Speaker 1>She might need to like not be his sibling anymore

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 1>because she can date them.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I said to her, I said, pass

0:32:45.120 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 3>him off to one of your friends so that you

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<v Speaker 3>can't date him. She's like, that's not how it works.

0:32:50.400 --> 0:32:53.040
<v Speaker 3>I was trying to break the real rule follower. Oh,

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 3>she definitely is a rule follower. Yes, the worst. But

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<v Speaker 3>I love her. But like I'm trying to it's Angel

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<v Speaker 3>and Will to the end. Oh that's nice. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>love that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is one of like the beautiful things about going

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<v Speaker 1>to an HBCU, a black school, like all of the

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:10.959
<v Speaker 1>traditions and the stuff that stays with you for your

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<v Speaker 1>for life. Like, so Angel and Will are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be connected for life. I have a when I went

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<v Speaker 1>to Maryland, you know the that's a predominantly white school,

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>and so the Black student Union they pair black people

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<v Speaker 1>up with like a brother, a big right. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even remember my big name.

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I know it was a guy. He

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:34.320
<v Speaker 3>was short, I don't he was not big, No, he

0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 3>was short.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, yeah, I was not dating my big I

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<v Speaker 1>mean so, I'm just but it's like you don't get

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<v Speaker 1>those experiences at a predominantly white school that you do

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<v Speaker 1>at a black school. So I think that is a beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's totally beautiful and hopefully so. Then she said, well,

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:52.000
<v Speaker 2>maybe Will has friends and I can date his friends.

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 2>I said, no, just date well right the end. Right,

0:33:55.040 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 2>she's not listening to me.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we've been vetted, he's been vetted, and I

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<v Speaker 3>know his angel, I know his mama. His mama is

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<v Speaker 3>Tasha se Yes, okay, all right, So this is from Fessica.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that right for Socca Forska Fasika. Hey, Robin and joseetlle.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you're both doing well. I'm a college student

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:20.960
<v Speaker 3>in Chicago.

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh, she got to come to my show in Chicago,

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 2>and I would love to attend yourself. Oh, and I

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 2>would love to attend. Robin sent me up because I

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:33.760
<v Speaker 2>did not know I was reading this, and so Robin

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:36.919
<v Speaker 2>be is getting me okay. Pasika said she would love

0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:40.960
<v Speaker 2>to attend Gazelle's twenty one Shady Question show. Is there

0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:43.799
<v Speaker 2>a chance you can give a broke college student some

0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 2>free tickets?

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<v Speaker 3>I know this thing right? If not, Gizelle, I hope

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 3>you have an amazing show and enjoy your time in Chicago.

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:56.719
<v Speaker 2>Love you both so much. Forsika, you can definitely have

0:34:56.960 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 2>because you're a broke college student.

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:00.840
<v Speaker 3>And I have three that I think they not broke.

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 3>By the way, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can definitely have a ticket. Please come to the show.

0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:06.280
<v Speaker 2>I would like to meet you.

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<v Speaker 3>Pasika. You can bring because you know you got to

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 3>be specific with these kids. You can bring one friend.

0:35:12.320 --> 0:35:15.759
<v Speaker 2>Don't bring your five friends because y'all five friends gotta pay, Okay,

0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 2>but you and one friend can come.

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:20.800
<v Speaker 3>I love that. Yes, I'll put your name on the list, ma'am,

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 3>I save this yes over, email us back, No, I

0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 3>put it just if your name is not Aska, Halleu HALLEYU.

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:31.520
<v Speaker 3>Just email us and confirm, Yes, email and confirm and

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:32.239
<v Speaker 3>yet come through.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, all right, Robin, if you set me up like

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 2>that again. Rob was like, I'm a getter.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, we have a little advice question from Amy.

0:35:43.160 --> 0:35:44.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Amy's from Annapolis, Maryland. She said, Hello, ladies, I have

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:50.959
<v Speaker 1>a friend who just gout got out of an eight

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<v Speaker 1>year relationship with a guy who treated her like absolute garbage,

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where he got her inadvertently addicted to fentanyl.

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Her to go to rehab about six weeks ago. She

0:36:03.320 --> 0:36:05.360
<v Speaker 1>just got out of her treatment facility a couple of

0:36:05.360 --> 0:36:08.400
<v Speaker 1>weeks ago. She has told me she already met a

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>new guy at the facility and has been dating him.

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<v Speaker 1>I instantly started having thoughts about how she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>get hurt again. I don't know what to do or

0:36:16.400 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>what to say to her. I've known her since I

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:20.360
<v Speaker 1>was eight years old. I'm thirty two now, and she

0:36:20.440 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 1>is one of my oldest friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Any advice.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how you get inadvertently hooked on fentanahl

0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:26.439
<v Speaker 2>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're with someone who is not good

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:32.719
<v Speaker 1>for you and they're and they're doing it and they

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 1>give it to you or you know, I don't know, like.

0:36:34.480 --> 0:36:38.319
<v Speaker 3>That's overtly well, it's not inadvertently, that's but I don't

0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:39.040
<v Speaker 3>think so.

0:36:39.040 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 1>So she probably did not have addiction issues before she

0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 1>met and this person, you know, got.

0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:50.279
<v Speaker 3>Her hooked on jobs. Okay, that's horrible and sorry, what's

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.800
<v Speaker 3>her name? Amy? Amy? Sorry? Amy? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So how do we how do you help a friend

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<v Speaker 1>move on?

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 2>But I think there's like some rules like that's supposed

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 2>to date people that you're in the program with, right.

0:37:02.840 --> 0:37:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think it's probably not encouraged.

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you're still going through the process of program, right,

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 2>and the relationship is not good yeah, until you're like healed.

0:37:11.760 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So how do you as a friend like not

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 1>overstep or not insult your friend, but also show them

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 1>like concern you know, and this is like a touchy

0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>subject subject or really touchy subject because you don't I

0:37:26.920 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know, you don't want to like trigger anything.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but you don't want her getting going backsliding and

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:35.680
<v Speaker 2>going back. I don't know, Amy, I think you should

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<v Speaker 2>be a friend by asking the right questions, you know,

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 2>like maybe ask probing questions without with like you don't

0:37:43.080 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 2>want to make her feel like you're judging totally because

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:48.960
<v Speaker 2>she's going to like shut you off, turn away, but

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 2>just ask her, like, you know, how are you doing.

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:53.239
<v Speaker 3>How are you being treated? Like?

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:54.239
<v Speaker 1>How does he treat you? Oh?

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 3>What do you guys? Do you know?

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:58.120
<v Speaker 1>Maybe just ask questions to get a grip on the

0:37:58.200 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 1>relationship and tell her, you know what, I love you

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:04.600
<v Speaker 1>so much, I care about you so much, and I

0:38:04.640 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>don't want to see you get hurt again.

0:38:07.120 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 3>So please, I don't know, like, don't.

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Put yourself in a situation that could make you go backwards,

0:38:15.719 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't.

0:38:16.400 --> 0:38:18.759
<v Speaker 2>Know, And let her know, like it's okay to be

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 2>by yourself and that too. Yeah, it's totally okay to

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:24.520
<v Speaker 2>be by yourself, like you don't have to be in

0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:25.239
<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I could see where that as a friend,

0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 1>like you could really worry about your friends, you know,

0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>like falling into the same traps again, especially if you're

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:37.720
<v Speaker 1>dating someone who's been at a treatment facility with you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't think I know that many people

0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:46.280
<v Speaker 3>that have been and well have gone through rehab. Yeah yeah,

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:49.640
<v Speaker 3>like close close friends, right right, and to know that experience. Yeah,

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 3>one of one of one's cousins who I've you know,

0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 3>known for years, twenty eight years, he recently was at

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<v Speaker 3>a rehab facility and he is like the funniest person alive.

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Like he is like the life of the party.

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:04.799
<v Speaker 3>He comes.

0:39:04.920 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 1>He he loves to like just have an audience and perform,

0:39:08.040 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 1>and he's every time you see Robin, when am I

0:39:11.000 --> 0:39:11.960
<v Speaker 1>coming on the podcast?

0:39:12.719 --> 0:39:14.839
<v Speaker 3>When am I coming on the podcast? What's the same?

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:19.319
<v Speaker 3>Tell him? Come through? Brother? So Brother, okay, And I'm like, well,

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:22.560
<v Speaker 3>what are we talking about doing the podcast? What we're

0:39:22.560 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 3>talking about?

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>So I want to bring brother on the podcast because

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:27.680
<v Speaker 1>he is a mess. Okay, But I'm like, I don't

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:28.680
<v Speaker 1>know what we're talking about.

0:39:28.800 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe we can talk about his journey and like

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 2>him going through rehab and how because I'm sure it's

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:36.520
<v Speaker 2>very difficult to like come get out of rehab and

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:38.960
<v Speaker 2>then come back and start living your life and get triggered.

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure by things like that whole process.

0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:42.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, is that something we want to hear?

0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean I'm sure to help people. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Well I'll see about bringing brother on.

0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:51.319
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you, he's a handful. He's a lot.

0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's he's fun though, it's like good, it's

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:57.719
<v Speaker 1>good handful. But I you know what, Amy, as I

0:39:57.760 --> 0:40:01.400
<v Speaker 1>think about it, I think you should actually maybe call

0:40:01.600 --> 0:40:04.800
<v Speaker 1>someone or talk to someone that works at a treatment

0:40:04.840 --> 0:40:06.040
<v Speaker 1>facility okay.

0:40:06.239 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 3>And ask them their their advice, Yeah, their advice, or

0:40:11.480 --> 0:40:13.759
<v Speaker 3>how you know, so smart their experience, or how you

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:16.799
<v Speaker 3>should handle it, because I'm sure a lot of other

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:19.240
<v Speaker 3>people have gone through this and you have family members

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 3>who are concerned about, you know, their loved ones who

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 3>have gone in.

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Treatment facility and fallen in love.

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 1>No, So I say call someone at a treatment facility

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 1>that works and get there and.

0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Get their advice.

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:33.879
<v Speaker 2>Yes, agreed. Okay, So we have one more. And this

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:37.359
<v Speaker 2>is a cheating scandal. Yes, you have to bear with us.

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 2>It's kind of hard to get through.

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's a lot, it's a lot of

0:40:41.880 --> 0:40:43.759
<v Speaker 1>he he did this, she did this.

0:40:43.840 --> 0:40:45.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we're gonna we're gonna skip around it, all right.

0:40:45.960 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 2>So this is from Angela w and the and the

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<v Speaker 2>subject is should I cuss out my ex BF?

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:56.279
<v Speaker 3>For closure? Ex boyfriend? For closure? I cussed them out?

0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:58.799
<v Speaker 3>Have you ever cussed somebody out for closure? No?

0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I give I'm just like silent treatment. Oh yeah, silent

0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:03.920
<v Speaker 1>treatment is good like you never existed.

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay, but I okay, so me me too. Facts. However,

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 3>there have been situations in.

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:14.879
<v Speaker 2>Which years later, like maybe ten years fifteen years later,

0:41:15.520 --> 0:41:17.840
<v Speaker 2>either I talked to the guy or something happens and

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:20.560
<v Speaker 2>we're just this happened not too long ago, and we're

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:24.400
<v Speaker 2>just talking and kind of like talking about like what happened,

0:41:25.360 --> 0:41:27.480
<v Speaker 2>and I cussed this boy.

0:41:27.920 --> 0:41:29.760
<v Speaker 3>Out, really out.

0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>It felt good.

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:34.239
<v Speaker 3>It felt great because then and it was better this

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:38.160
<v Speaker 3>way because then he could really understand, like he explained

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 3>his perspective, which at the time I probably would not

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:44.800
<v Speaker 3>have been mentally able to hear because I was probably

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:48.920
<v Speaker 3>too angry. And he was able to hear my perspective

0:41:49.320 --> 0:41:51.560
<v Speaker 3>with some good old customers. It was amazing.

0:41:52.239 --> 0:41:55.240
<v Speaker 2>So I encourage it's the way ten years yes, Okay,

0:41:55.600 --> 0:41:58.600
<v Speaker 2>So this is from angela w our friend group was

0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:04.480
<v Speaker 2>completely blown up after a major cheating scandal. Long story short, now,

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:06.680
<v Speaker 2>mind you, She says, long story short, but this is.

0:42:06.600 --> 0:42:10.399
<v Speaker 1>As not a short story.

0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:13.200
<v Speaker 3>This is not a short story. But we're gonna get through,

0:42:13.640 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 3>all right. She seed her glasses for this one. Wow,

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:19.320
<v Speaker 3>I can see yeah, Okay, all right, long story short.

0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:22.080
<v Speaker 2>My sister and I met a few friends from our

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:25.600
<v Speaker 2>job and we've been friends with them over a decade.

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:30.120
<v Speaker 2>Our friends included another pair of sisters five, S and A.

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:33.240
<v Speaker 3>Oh, she's not given names, right initials? Okay?

0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:37.400
<v Speaker 2>S and A and two girls who have been best

0:42:37.440 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 2>friends for ten years, C and Miranda, Well Sea and

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:44.239
<v Speaker 2>Miranda were living together with C's boyfriend of four years.

0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 3>Miranda was having a secret affair with him about a year.

0:42:49.360 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 3>When she confronted her, she was very nonchalant and said, sorry,

0:42:53.200 --> 0:42:55.280
<v Speaker 3>I love him. Can you imagine?

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:42:55.600 --> 0:42:59.919
<v Speaker 2>Okay, This sent C into a major depression in harp

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:05.759
<v Speaker 2>break after her best friend acted like she never existed,

0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 2>but S did not. No, wait a minute, I skipped

0:43:10.680 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 2>a line. Okay, right, okay. This ce into a major

0:43:14.840 --> 0:43:18.800
<v Speaker 2>depression and heartbreak after her best friend that she considered

0:43:18.840 --> 0:43:22.920
<v Speaker 2>a sister would never do this to her, my sister

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 2>and I stopped all communication with Miranda immediately and acted

0:43:26.760 --> 0:43:30.400
<v Speaker 2>like she never existed, but S did not.

0:43:30.920 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 3>Ooh, so are we following this? S is still communicating.

0:43:34.160 --> 0:43:38.799
<v Speaker 1>Friend group Miranda cheated on C's Yeah, S is still

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:41.480
<v Speaker 1>talking to and one of the friends is still talking

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:42.600
<v Speaker 1>to Miranda. Yeah. Okay.

0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 2>And to make things worse, Miranda asked S if C

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:49.839
<v Speaker 2>had moved because she wanted to send flowers for her

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:56.799
<v Speaker 2>mother's death anniversary. Fuel to the fire, yes, but the

0:43:56.920 --> 0:43:59.720
<v Speaker 2>real reason she was trying to find if C moved

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:03.959
<v Speaker 2>was so she could ask for her security deposit back

0:44:04.360 --> 0:44:09.880
<v Speaker 2>from the apartment, the same apartment she was sleeping with

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:11.600
<v Speaker 2>her boyfriend.

0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Bitch, bye, what see? Audacity has me shaking.

0:44:18.400 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 2>No flowers were ever sent, by the way, but what

0:44:22.040 --> 0:44:25.560
<v Speaker 2>was sent was an email to see where she actually

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 2>asked for the deposit back, but she could deduct for

0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:30.879
<v Speaker 2>a cleaning fee.

0:44:31.640 --> 0:44:38.440
<v Speaker 3>Clearly, Miranda has no shame. This is amazing. Okay, do

0:44:38.480 --> 0:44:41.399
<v Speaker 3>we need to continue? I don't know. All you got

0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:47.719
<v Speaker 3>two paragraphs sent fast forward about a year now, as

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:51.880
<v Speaker 3>wants to start hanging out with the adulteress again because

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:55.400
<v Speaker 3>she wants to rekindle her friendship with Miranda. So I

0:44:55.440 --> 0:44:59.839
<v Speaker 3>wonder is Miranda dating the still wait for God? Who knows?

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:00.920
<v Speaker 1>God does she cheated with?

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:01.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:45:02.239 --> 0:45:04.640
<v Speaker 2>As one of her really close friends. She brings this

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:07.640
<v Speaker 2>up to me and I tell her that ultimately it

0:45:07.680 --> 0:45:10.560
<v Speaker 2>will change the dynamic of the group because this girl

0:45:10.760 --> 0:45:13.720
<v Speaker 2>is the devil and she really hurts se.

0:45:14.360 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 3>I told her, we.

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 2>Cannot control what you do, but it will definitely make

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:22.960
<v Speaker 2>me feel some type of way, because why would you

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:26.959
<v Speaker 2>want to keep a friend around like that, right, She said,

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:31.279
<v Speaker 2>Miranda didn't kill anyone, which is really messed up thing

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 2>to say. Because she was so depressed, everyone thought she

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:40.200
<v Speaker 2>was suicidal. I keep defending see, but she would constantly

0:45:40.239 --> 0:45:42.560
<v Speaker 2>try to change my mind. She kept wanting to go

0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:46.200
<v Speaker 2>back and forth with me, but I just stopped responding.

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:51.440
<v Speaker 2>Then s started posting subliminal messages online clearly about me,

0:45:51.800 --> 0:45:53.919
<v Speaker 2>and of course I had to post a few back.

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 1>Oh.

0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:58.320
<v Speaker 2>Then I stopped because, as my daddy from Oppulusis would say,

0:45:58.680 --> 0:46:04.560
<v Speaker 2>you can't argue with stupid mind you you know my

0:46:04.600 --> 0:46:05.760
<v Speaker 2>mama was born to opolution.

0:46:05.960 --> 0:46:10.080
<v Speaker 3>Really, yes, you can't argue with stupid this Okay, I

0:46:10.080 --> 0:46:11.920
<v Speaker 3>didn't really want to read this letter, but I am

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:16.719
<v Speaker 3>so excited on reading this letter. This thing is so good. Okay,

0:46:16.880 --> 0:46:21.359
<v Speaker 3>all right, where are we? Okay, So then you can't

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:22.840
<v Speaker 3>argueliminal message? Okay.

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:27.719
<v Speaker 2>Then she said, Since then she has unfollowed see my

0:46:27.800 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 2>city and myself continued to post subliminal message about us

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:32.960
<v Speaker 2>online for months.

0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:37.839
<v Speaker 3>She also had her family unfollow us and had them

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:42.200
<v Speaker 3>stop talking about us. She has put in more effort

0:46:42.280 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 3>to show hate towards us than the actual adulterous who

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 3>caused the situation. This is getting good, right, okay?

0:46:51.120 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 2>All in all, Okay, so we're about to We're about

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:55.080
<v Speaker 2>to get this rap this thing up. All in all,

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:59.000
<v Speaker 2>she made this whole mess about herself. Anne has taken

0:46:59.040 --> 0:47:02.799
<v Speaker 2>a lot out, a lot of our energy away from

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:07.840
<v Speaker 2>the true victim. See she has done this for years,

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:11.640
<v Speaker 2>and it's so tiring to have to keep catering to

0:47:11.760 --> 0:47:17.239
<v Speaker 2>such selfish person. She's a Leo by the way. Who

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, who's a Leo out here?

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:20.640
<v Speaker 3>Not me?

0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:25.360
<v Speaker 1>But Leo's are selfish. I don't know any leos.

0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:27.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't think. Oh, leos think the world revolves around

0:47:27.840 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 3>what what month is that?

0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Like?

0:47:30.239 --> 0:47:30.759
<v Speaker 3>August?

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh, upper August? Yeah, early August? So mid I guess

0:47:36.200 --> 0:47:40.240
<v Speaker 1>like late July, mid to mid August. Okay, yes, leo's

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:42.879
<v Speaker 1>think the world revolves around. Who do you know that's

0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>a leo? Actually have a lot of I'm a fire sign,

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 1>so I'm an aries Leo's a fire sign, and so

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 1>nobody that I'm trying to think anyone that you would

0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 1>know Jennifer Lopez.

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 2>And that explains it. Okay, she said she's a Leo

0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:03.279
<v Speaker 2>by the way. Way, real shock her. I'm sure I'm

0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:06.919
<v Speaker 2>very clear that our friendship can't come back from this.

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:09.800
<v Speaker 2>She did a lot of other shady things in the meantime.

0:48:10.160 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 2>But my question is, oh, thank god we.

0:48:12.120 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 3>Got a question.

0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Should I cuss her out for closure and tell her

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 2>about herself okay? Or should I just ignore her and

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:23.480
<v Speaker 2>the nonsense that she posts?

0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 3>Cuss her out?

0:48:26.239 --> 0:48:29.279
<v Speaker 2>Cuss her out, I say, because it's a woman and

0:48:29.320 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 2>this is not like a romantic relationship.

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:33.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, cuss her to filth.

0:48:33.320 --> 0:48:36.799
<v Speaker 1>Cuss her out, yes, tell them herself and keep it moving,

0:48:36.960 --> 0:48:40.200
<v Speaker 1>and then you just ignore all the rest whatever falls

0:48:40.239 --> 0:48:42.319
<v Speaker 1>out from that. Yeah, so be it. Cuss her out,

0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:45.960
<v Speaker 1>cut her off my friend groups. She's no selfish, she

0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:47.520
<v Speaker 1>owned the world revolves around here her.

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:47.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.719
<v Speaker 1>Clearly, you have a friend that was really hurt by

0:48:50.760 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>another friend, and you want to bring that friend around

0:48:53.640 --> 0:48:55.960
<v Speaker 1>the group. No, if you want to spend time with

0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:58.279
<v Speaker 1>the girl, find do it on your own, totally. Don't

0:48:58.320 --> 0:49:03.080
<v Speaker 1>tell anyone. Yeah, don't bring her up like she's off limits,

0:49:03.239 --> 0:49:05.200
<v Speaker 1>but don't put that in people's space and then when

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:07.279
<v Speaker 1>people don't like it, then you get mad.

0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:09.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, No, definitely cuss her out. Yeah.

0:49:09.320 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's and she should be dead to you, like,

0:49:12.000 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 2>why are we even dealing with this woman anymore?

0:49:13.680 --> 0:49:13.879
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:49:14.040 --> 0:49:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Yea? And I think people everyone in this situation like

0:49:18.480 --> 0:49:19.839
<v Speaker 1>the who is it?

0:49:19.880 --> 0:49:19.960
<v Speaker 3>Is?

0:49:19.960 --> 0:49:22.600
<v Speaker 1>It? It's s So that needs to be the cussing

0:49:22.600 --> 0:49:26.400
<v Speaker 1>out s needs to put herself in sea's shoes, you

0:49:26.440 --> 0:49:28.319
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. Like people when it when it's

0:49:28.320 --> 0:49:31.040
<v Speaker 1>something controversial like this, or when stuff goes down and

0:49:31.080 --> 0:49:33.000
<v Speaker 1>someone did something to someone and you're on the outside

0:49:33.000 --> 0:49:34.680
<v Speaker 1>looking and like you gotta say, you know what, how

0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 1>would I feel if that person did that to me?

0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:39.160
<v Speaker 1>How would I want things to be handled? Or how

0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:40.760
<v Speaker 1>would I want my friends to deal with that person?

0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:43.319
<v Speaker 1>And then the girl can understand a little bit more

0:49:43.360 --> 0:49:45.200
<v Speaker 1>so while you're cussing her out, tell her to put

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 1>yourself in sea shoes?

0:49:47.200 --> 0:49:47.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:51.759
<v Speaker 2>Or Miranda, Miranda was the adulteress. Yeah yeah, Like we're

0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:52.680
<v Speaker 2>not talking to her either.

0:49:52.840 --> 0:49:55.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah you're not yeah, talking to rand No, Miranda,

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:57.399
<v Speaker 3>you are dead to us, Okay, but cuss her out,

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.719
<v Speaker 3>cuss her out, and it's like, go ahead.

0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:02.719
<v Speaker 1>Because also, I mean you wrote a very long email, yeah,

0:50:02.800 --> 0:50:05.960
<v Speaker 1>so clearly you have emotions about it. Yes, total, So

0:50:06.080 --> 0:50:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I think ignoring the situation is not gonna bring you resolution. Now,

0:50:10.760 --> 0:50:13.160
<v Speaker 1>it's what's going to bring you resolution is telling that

0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:15.840
<v Speaker 1>person about themselves. So, whether you do it in a

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>text message, in a voice memo, and a phone call,

0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a phone call in an email, however

0:50:21.520 --> 0:50:23.640
<v Speaker 1>you do it, do it, Yes, I think it's definitely

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:25.879
<v Speaker 1>a funt. You're not going to get your satisfaction. Yeah,

0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:26.960
<v Speaker 1>if you just ignore.

0:50:26.719 --> 0:50:29.280
<v Speaker 2>It and and then and but then, don't just cuss

0:50:29.280 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 2>out for cussing out, sake, have like, have like a plan,

0:50:34.120 --> 0:50:36.080
<v Speaker 2>meaning like I don't like X, y Z and a

0:50:36.120 --> 0:50:39.400
<v Speaker 2>third you run it all down and lose my number,

0:50:39.600 --> 0:50:42.400
<v Speaker 2>right and bitch, I better not see you again exactly.

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:44.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's how I do it. Yeah.

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know many people I told lose my number.

0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:48.879
<v Speaker 2>Oh I love saying that, just lose my number. Yeah,

0:50:49.080 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 2>he text me all his bullshit. I'm like, I'm gonna

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 2>lose my number.

0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 3>Right, Yes, Yes, we're good, Yes, yeah, we're go on,

0:50:55.680 --> 0:50:56.439
<v Speaker 3>go on, tell her boy.

0:50:56.360 --> 0:51:00.200
<v Speaker 2>Herself, yes, cuss her tough film, Yes, all right, we're

0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:00.560
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